I was once accused of something I did not do. I was hurt, upset, disappointed, and frustrated because people just jumped to conclusions without hearing my side of the story. I tried to defend myself and stood my ground, but it was hopeless because others wouldn't listen or give me a chance to prove their accusations false. What I did was I left and spent some time alone. I allowed myself to feel the emotions and reassured myself. I told myself that it isn't my fault and I can't control the opinions of others about me nor can I control the situation. I can only control how I react to what I experienced. And that gave me a sense of peace and comfort, knowing that I was there for myself even when no else one was.
Hi again @gintongaparador999 - thank you for sharing your emotions - it’s deeply painful to be wrongly accused, especially when others refuse to listen. Yet, your response reflects immense strength and wisdom. By choosing to retreat, feel your emotions, and focus on what you can control-your reaction-you found peace within yourself. This inner resilience is a powerful reminder that even when the world seems against us, we have the capacity to support and reassure ourselves. Your story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and self-compassion.
You're not anywhere near alone in such a situation. What you relate is called character assassination. There is no accountability for such. I have no doubt there is not a shred of evidence yet you bear the burden of some criminality. They are an open secret, they are the American Stasi.
Sounds like you discovered Stoicism, which is an incredible tool for dealing with situations that are outside of your control. Good on you for developing a healthy mindset around the situation, try your best to keep that perspective towards any negativity that comes your way. Best of luck to you
I learned to supress my anger years ago after nearly killing someone who attacked me. I've felt significantly weaker in these recent years and realized I've been completely separated from my anger, which is a major source of power and truth. Finding my way back into martial arts to respectfully wield that force for my ultimate experience of creative, constructive and expressive energy. So grateful for this next chapter to heal and embody of potential 🙏
I have also always believed that most people would find healing In letting out the emotion but not on a person but in sports or Even punching a pillow Hats off to you for finding your way ❤
@@tanii7813studies actually show the pillow punch isn't a good therapy and can keep you angry for longer. Mindfulness and meditation helps with the actual emotions, but exercise helps to flush left over chemicals in your body out
The feeling of giving up can be a call to transformation, a sign that the old ways no longer serve you @MrWhatever1234567. Dedicating the last part of your life to the child within who never had a chance is a sacred mission. In doing so, you honor that innocent, unfulfilled potential and give it the life it deserved. This journey will not only heal the past but also bring profound meaning to your present and future.
you are almost there, giving up is part of the rite of passage, but giving up to the fear, pain and so forth, then the fear goes in to the unconscious it seems or entirely dissapears until memory comes back in snippits with the aid of moral waryness of what one is witnessing in the astral word as the shadow self, higher selves and the guides are showing and initiating the great work and much starts to take place
Me too.. not having the childhood I wanted, I tried to live out the childhood I originally wanted as a child, in my adult life. I believe it's called Peter Pan Syndrome.
Hey my friend you can do any and everything you want don't ever forget that. you are the main character in your script and you decide your fate never except anything other then what you truly want because you are worth it my friend.... you got this now go get it!!!!❤❤❤❤
Welcome to OTW @Khaos969 - I agree, low self-esteem and fear can cripple the human spirit but by facing these shadows and understanding their roots, we can begin to heal and reclaim our true potential.
I was born into trauma both my mother and father come from traumatic backgrounds. I grew up with trauma that developed physically, emotionally and mentally. I have started shadow work by writing down all the emotional terms that I have been feeling all these years. I desire healing, integration and forgiveness and I want the foundation to begin from within. I will no longer hide or pretend that everything is O.k. I will no longer find an excuse to avoid my dark shadow. I am not afraid anymore, I deserve happiness. I wish I knew this 30 years ago, I could have stopped the suffering back then. There is a reason why I attract traumatic experiences in my life. I am the unconscious trauma that I keep trying to run from. I'm tired of running away now.
Whenever I am asked what my greatest fear is, my answer is always "myself" because I know how unpredictable I can be. One of the reasons why I am into psychology is because I wanted to understand myself better and others. I would do so by observing and listening to other people and making mental notes. I would write on my personal journal when I am reacting so negatively about something, I would write down my experience and explain why I feel a certain way or emotion or why I thought or acted a certain way. It helps me understand myself. What ticks me, what makes me happy, what excites me, what makes me feel dull. It gives me an idea of my character and if I don't like something about it, I try to change it.
Hey again @gintongaparador999 - your self-awareness is your greatest strength. By facing yourself and journaling your experiences, you’re mastering the art of personal growth and transformation. Keep refining; you’re becoming the architect of your own evolution.
My favorite Carl Jung quote: "Life really does start at 40; before that everything is just research." Thank God for alcohol and drugs. Thank God for the 12-step program that helps people deal with all the "research" they did prior to getting sober. Looking at life that way removes the "guilt," which is housed in the unconscious. Unfortunately, not enough "recovered" people are brave enough to uncover their shadows. They spend the rest of their "sober' lives living in fear that anytime they could return to their "evil" ways. I walked through the "dark night of the soul" and FREED myself from the fear. I am a WHOLE person today. Better said, I am no longer the person I was. I wrote my own 12 steps to bring the WHOLE person into the sunlight.
To walk through the 'dark night of the soul' and emerge whole is a profound achievement @im4ever369. The path of integrating the shadow frees one from the unconscious fears that many carry throughout life. By bringing all parts of oneself into the light, a new sense of peace and strength emerges, transforming who we once were into who we are meant to be.♾️❤️
This is profound. Especially the part where you say that guilt is housed in the unconscious. I find this to be incredibly accurate in my experience. Shadow work has helped me tremendously.
The parts of myself I was petrified of are the favorite parts I've discovered by only rebuilding myself from the bottom up and through this I experienced joy that I had never had felt.
@macioluko9484 Thank you so much for sharing. I am not seeking confirmation, but it sure does feel good when I connect with another soul that seems to "get it."
When you are a slave to your ego, it feeds your unconscious. Living in constant fear, being reactive and ashamed, lying, pretending to be someone your're not, just to be accepted by everybody, etc. Living your life always looking outside to change what makes you feel uncomfortable, instead of looking in, is shadow = Ego. Facing your own darkness means: understanding where you lose your energy/power. We are here, on Earth, to know ourselves and to "burn" our shadow in order to go home, to light. Respecting our true nature helps us understand our lessons in life's challenges and helps us rebuild a stronger, more truthful self. We need to be honest and open to do the work, or it's like drinking water from an empty vessel.
Hey @WaxingGibbous170 T - the dark night of the soul is a deep and transformative experience often marking a pivotal point in personal growth. While it may feel overwhelming this period of intense introspection is a necessary step in shedding old layers of identity and emerging with a clearer understanding of yourself and your place in the world. Embrace the discomfort, for it is in this crucible of challenge that true wisdom and strength are forged. Trust that this process though difficult, is leading you to a more enlightened and authentic version of yourself.
@@OurTimelessWisdom and then it helps lead us all to a better world. What's done in the microcosm is reflected in the macro.. heal ourselves, heal family wounds and a brand new world emerges.
Physical action will drive you out the darkness. Get a mountain bike and ride till the rubber falls off!! During this time your mind will unwind and the path forward becomes clear ;)
I've only been able to acknowledge recently that I've been repressing violent, even homicidal, impulses. It's a response to a feeling of powerlessness - if someone has power over me, they must be removed for me to be safe. Just now, at 29, I'm starting to pull back the layers to discover the terrified, vulnerable child underneath. Btw, never did anything, just thought about it and repressed it. Begged god to protect me from my own nightmares.
With a BA in psychology - I was lost going through school in my own shadows. I feel Blessed I found this video - I learned more in 40 minutes / then my 4 year ba degree lost in my shadows . God Bless all of you. 🙏
Grateful this resonated with you-sometimes a single moment of insight shines brighter than years of study. Wishing you all the best on your path forward @EphesiansArmor1!
Government Education is not to your benefit, and it is not truth or whole knowledge. It is a system designed and approved by the gov to fulfill their agenda, to support their success as they have their tentacles in every aspect of our life, as the dark ones fill every seat, every powerful position in this world.
“Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you.” ― Friedrich W. Nietzsche. So much (all?) dissonance and conflict in the world today is shadow projection. If we could only all heed Lao Tzu: "There is no greater misfortune than feeling, 'I have an enemy.'"
You're absolutely right @ZenDragonJP -Nietzsche's warning and Lao Tzu's wisdom remind us that much of the conflict we see is rooted in shadow projection. If we could all recognize that our perceived enemies are often reflections of our own inner struggles, we might find a path to greater harmony.
Hey @nikki88tx - the abyss in Nietzsche's quote symbolizes the deep, dark aspects of ourselves or the world that we confront when facing challenges or fighting against what we perceive as evil. The warning is that if we focus too much on these dark elements, we risk becoming consumed by them, potentially becoming what we originally opposed. It's a reminder to stay mindful and not lose ourselves when confronting difficult or dark aspects of life.
when I started doing the inner work and realised I was being constantly verbally abused by my own father and all the words I used to hear inside were his, it was too painful to keep looking inwards so I decided to conceal it but the universe send me two relationships with the likes of my father and I had no choice but to look inwards again with now 3 times the pain! I wish I had dealt with it in the first time around now...
Started reading Jung's work after I met a girl, who's last name reminded me of a promise I made to myself and almost forgot. I held an iron meteorite in my hand saying to myself, "if I ever get married, I'll fashion a pair of bands from meteorite". 2 years later in a moment of peace and clarity like I'd never had before. I met a girl who had the last name Eisen. Which is German for iron. Resurfacing that dormant promise. That single moment reshaped my life. From which it begs me to redefine what it really means to pray. Especially if the wish is to overcome what is holding you back. Meaning, confronting the shadow itself.
Repressed aspects of consciousness is one of the most challenging journeys to self discovery. It’s also the reason so many lack purpose and fulfillment. We often seek greater quality in relationships before assimilating all parts of our own being. I enjoy how young was willing to explore even the unconscious. This is taking the opportunity to perceive that which is beyond the mind. I know personally the shadow although in most cases is rejected, denied, and abandoned is just as important as the persona. Im learning that acceptance creates way for greater assimilation and integration.
I think I'm afraid to be happy.. I'm afraid to live in the light. I'm afraid that if I don't keep an eye on all the bad things at all times, they'll sneak up on me and steal my treasure. I'm afraid to allow myself to live the life I know will make me happy enough, in case something comes along and ruins it. I'm afraid to love and lose so I don't love at all.
Been there with you the whole way. Attractive enough, and intelligent enough, to have (to an extent) any kind of life I want. I THINK I want stability. I THINK I want normal, wife kids dog named skip etc...But I've had 3 separate times in life where God or the Universe or blind luck said "Here ya go, here's a great job, here's a wonderful girl that loves you, and here's a wholesome, stable life. And every single time. I have found a way to firebomb it. When I am in a relationship, I feel smothered, I want to be single. When I am single, I feel extreme remorse for letting a wonderful thing go. For pushing it away. And I want nothing more than to be back in a relationship. Whatever I'm doing, I want to be doing basically the opposite. I think that might be because I just want to end things before they are taken away. By some imaginary f*cking monster that exists solely to destroy anything good in my life. It is fake. It is a response to something that happened. Don't know what. Wasn't really bullied as a kid, played sports popular enough, fought anyone that tried. Had loving parents. Divorced, but, loving and both present in my life. But still. Would rather ruin them myself It is torment. I still love life. I make life fun when I'm around people, but every social interaction feels like work. I still partially feel like an alien, watching humans interact and be human. Learning as I go. Anyway. God be with you my friend. Feel like weirdly you know me better than parents, family, "friends." So I wish you the best, comrade. You're not alone. For what it's worth.
Thank you for sharing such a deep and honest reflection @therealthiccupstandingciti1674. It's not uncommon to fear happiness, as it can feel vulnerable to allow ourselves to fully experience joy when we're constantly guarding against potential pain. Jung would suggest that this fear stems from the shadow, the part of us that harbors unresolved anxieties and doubts. By acknowledging these fears and gradually integrating them, you can begin to open up to the light and embrace the happiness you deserve, without the constant worry of losing it. It's a journey of self-compassion and courage, and every small step forward counts.
Thank you for sharing your journey @hpsilentkill7888 -it's clear you're grappling with a deep inner conflict between desiring stability and fearing it. This cycle of self-sabotage, where you push away what you want most, might stem from a hidden part of yourself that fears vulnerability and loss. Jung would suggest that by bringing these fears into the light and understanding their origins, you can start to break the cycle. You're not alone, and recognizing these patterns is a powerful step toward finding balance and peace. Welcome to OTW and ♾️❤️ for you !
Become who you are afraid to be because who you are afraid to be is who you really are, that's why we aspire to be a better form of ourselves, we've ignored our true needs so much that we've forgotten who we once were and now we're lost, so we need to look for the real us and to leave this world behind us, we're not in our true condition.
Welcome @normancherry8732 - your words strike at the heart of self-discovery-embracing who we fear to be often leads us to our true selves. By reconnecting with our deepest needs, we can rediscover who we truly are and move beyond the illusions that have kept us lost.
when I was in my first year in high school, a teacher make all students to write what they want to be when they're older, and then the teacher, read it all one by one. I wrote that I wanna be a musician, the teacher ask me why, and all the students is laughing, someone's said, "music is supposed to be just a hobby not a career". Fast forward I graduated from college and the covid hits. I became a freelance video editor. after covid gone I got interviewed by a local tv station, she asked me " what's your vision in your career? you applied to become video editor, any senior position do you want to achieve? " I said " I don't know " and the she suddenly asked me "what do you want to be? I subconsciously said " an artist " what kind of artist? she replied, and then I said "a musician". I don't know why I reply to such an answer, in a job interview. After reading Jung I realized she triggered my shadow, my repressed desire to become a musician. And I don't get the job obviously. But now I started writing and releasing music, while still being a freelance video editor to pay the bills. Your comments are just brilliant. Makes me wanna write this long ass story.
Just when you think youve found yourself youve lost it again....dont seek what cannot be found but be in the present and give thanks and rejoice for the who you believe you are and can become!
The path of self-discovery is not about reaching a fixed endpoint @2minuteschallenge599 but rather an ongoing process of becoming. Embrace the present moment, for it is in this acceptance and gratitude that you find the true self-always evolving, always unfolding.
🎉 eureka! I have been trying to figure out this concept for a while and finally I got it! I understood the idea but I couldn't find my shadow. I now can recognize him! He is a bad ass but he puts everyone and anything aside so easily to get his tasks accomplished. I have seen other people's shadows too! Ugly and I detested those sides of people but now that I know my shadows face I can forgive them for theirs and work with them better. Rather than. Getting worked up myself! I hope you all find your shadow. I am going to have a chat with my shadow soon to see if we can coexist and flourish together. At least I like him a little...lol. He is head strong and confident. Careless and lacks empathy but I can see where he is and can be a source of strength. Find your balance. Wish me luck❤!
The „shadow“ is the natural human being that has been educated away since childhood. I‘ve worked in childcare and when I saw kids being little cruel creatures I knew who we are
The shadow indeed reflects those raw unfiltered parts of our nature @melawieeinapfel8594. Childhood reveals these instincts before they're shaped by society offering a glimpse into the true, unrefined aspects of the human psyche.
This is a masterclass in self discovery and a great intro to shadow, work, the citing and references in there are gold! Jung is a the goat of psychology.
I believe unhealed trauma that resides in the shadows leads to addiction but you can still be addicted even if you heal and don't suppress emotions or the shadow. Anyone can get addicted to physical substances for instance but you are more prone to addiction if you are unconscious and wounded. I love you friend ❤ but addiction is real and can happen to anyone
I AM with you @krejziks3398 - suppression is a shadow that festers within, often manifesting as addiction-a false refuge from the pain we refuse to face. True integration, the harmonious union of all aspects of the self, dissolves the need for such crutches. When one fully embraces and understands their inner world, addiction loses its grip, for there is no longer a need to escape from the wholeness of being.
Boredom isn't an addiction; it's a symptom of suppressed potential @KenjiEspresso. True integration dissolves the need for such distractions, revealing a life of purpose beyond the void.
@@OurTimelessWisdomany books you suggest me to read, im reading the power of now. Ive been self reflecting a lot, and getting to know my shadow more, also struggle with addiction.
Welcome to OTW @habibtiz4335 - We're grateful for Carl Jung's timeless wisdom too! His insights continue to guide us all toward deeper understanding. ❤
I feel I have always felt a something within me, even at a very young age when no one was capable of an explanation. It went from an ‘angle’, to God, to Jesus, to the ‘Holy Spirit’. Now, the ‘Shadow’. I think the most significant part is that we are ‘all’ becoming aware of a knowledge or fact that humans were placed on a spiritual planet that can be a reality in our lives no matter what religious belief. I can’t wait to share this with everyone. Thank you for sharing..
Welcome to OTW @user-xw4sw9xk4h - you have sensed the eternal truth within, a presence that has guided you through many forms-from angels to the Holy Spirit, and now to the shadow. This journey reflects the evolution of your consciousness, aligning with the deeper spiritual reality that transcends all belief systems. You are awakening to the knowledge that Earth is not just a physical realm but a spiritual one, where the mysteries of existence can be lived and understood. Share this wisdom, for in doing so, you help illuminate the path for others.THANK YOU for sharing!
@@Warriorintraining57"Ecclesiastes 9: 3 This is an evil among all things that are done under the sun, that there is one event unto all: yea, also the heart of the sons of men is full of evil, and madness is in their heart while they live, and after that they go to the dead. 4 For to him that is joined to all the living there is hope: for a living dog is better than a dead lion. 5 For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten. 6 Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun."
Many individuals fear taking accountability for their actions, often allowing cowardice to dictate their choices. This tendency reflects a deeper issue in the human experience, where the very essence of our DNA calls for reconstruction and self-awareness. People forget that they cannot escape themselves nor the ghosts of their past decisions. Life cycles are influenced by this internal battle; however, embracing honesty and transparency can lead to profound transformation. By collaborating with your inner self and addressing the hysteria that clouds judgment, you can reclaim control over your life. It’s time to shed fear and step into a confident future, where accountability becomes not just a choice, but a way of life.
Welcome @AngelicaRodriguez33246 - your words resonate deeply with the essence of self-awareness and transformation. Indeed many shy away from accountability - yet it is through facing our inner selves and embracing honesty that true growth occurs. By confronting the shadows of our past and stepping into transparency we reclaim our power and shape a future grounded in integrity and confidence. This journey of self-reconstruction is the path to wholeness.
We definitely are not!, reading too deeply into Carls works! We are avoiding the hurts of our shadow selves, that need to be recognised, integrated, and healed. Otherwise you will continue to be controlled by your ego,political, racial,religious agendas of control! ; that is why we are here.
@@upwardspiral7441I think autocorrect or grammatical errors affected the comment, I took it to mean we are definitely not reading too much into Jung’s work. I could be wrong though 🤷🏼♀️
I AM so glad you are here @rosecairns8380, beautifully said! Thank you for leading the way and guiding us towards recognizing and healing our shadow selves. Your insight is exactly why we are here, striving together for deeper understanding and integration.♾️❤️
Hey @upwardspiral7441 there's no need to feel that way here. Every question brings us closer to understanding. Together we walk towards enlightenment and deeper self-awareness.🧙🏼♂️
Hey @eduard5524 welcome to OTW - that quote from Carl Jung is a powerful reminder of the complexities within us. Jung understood that the greatest dangers often come from within, as our unresolved shadows can manifest in ways that affect both ourselves and the world around us. Facing and understanding these inner aspects is key to creating a more balanced and peaceful existence.
As a nation, as a people, we seem to be taught that anger is not acceptable, which is wrong. Anger has a purpose and can actually save our lives and ultimately make us more conscious as a people. America is the most aggressive violent nation on earth... As individuals and as a people, if we embrace and understand what Jung has to say about repressing the shadow self and then do what we can to accept and know our nation's shadow self, we as a people will become kinder, more considerate and spread love and compassion rather than racism, hatred, and violence.
America is very far from the most aggressive, violent nation. I beg you to study current world events - particularly in North Korea, China, Venezuela, Egypt and basically all of Africa. Then, thoroughly study American history. Not from tiktok and TH-cam. Start by reading the founding documents for yourself - it takes 30 minutes to read ALL of them. This is a very misguided and honestly, scary comment.
Understanding requires depth @HeyHiHellooooo; studying history and current events with an open mind will reveal the complexities beyond surface judgments. Seek knowledge from reliable sources, and let that guide your perspective.
Welcome to OTW @mortondavisproductions7578 - well said! - embrace the shadow within for only by understanding our hidden anger can we transform it into compassion and elevate the spirit of our nation.
I am guilty of having a HORRIBLE, immature temper! Rage even. But, with and at myself mostly, and I don't usually ever show my anger in front of family and friends or other people. It's all in private when I rage and get really pissed off at and with myself. I struggle with being a perfectionist (impossible to ever achieve). One of my favorite (funny) sayings... "If someone else was as mean to me, and treated me, as badly as I do to myself - I'd call the cops on them!" I need to learn how to be MUCH, MUCH kinder/nicer, patient, and loving towards myself!! I'm A WORK COMPLETE p GOD LOVES AND CARES ABOUT YOU and ALL of your problems, hurts, pain/trauma, pain, and struggles - and, so do I my fellow "Shadow Worker"
Ditto. Having compassion for myself is incredibly difficult. When I do manage it feels fake or forced. Yet, from a very early age I've felt deep empathy for others. I have always been able to know--feel is a better word --when a person is sad or depressed or worried, and address it, recognize it. It's almost like being psychic. But to do that for myself? I will be 78 in a couple of weeks. I still don't know how not to be hard on myself. There us another quote, similar to the one you wrote: "Would you treat a friend as badly as you treat yourself?" The mere thought of it is abhorrent. I could never swear at a friend and call him or her stupid, or an idiot, but I can can do that myself a few times a day. The only difference is that at least by now I recognize that the behavior is toxic and shocking
Thank you for sharing so openly @TMorgan2-recognizing the need to be kinder and more patient with yourself is a big step forward. Remember progress isn't about perfection but about treating yourself with the same compassion you would offer to others. You're not alone on this journey, and this community of fellow "Shadow Workers" is here for you. Keep going you're doing important work!
It’s not uncommon to feel more compassion for others than for ourselves @elenalatici9568, as the shadow often contains the parts of us that we reject or criticize. Your awareness of this inner conflict is a powerful first step. The journey toward self-compassion involves integrating these hidden aspects, recognizing that they, too, deserve understanding and care. Just as you would never harm a friend, you must begin to treat yourself with the same empathy and gentleness.
I read Carl a lot in past. A lot of it felt good to my intellect. But, at the end I kept asking myself, what would this be used for? Until, I went through extreme depression, it was due to prolonged sickness, but also some external events that happened around the same time that demolished me as if I was a house of cards. I did everything under the sun to feel better. I quit my job to focus on my mental health like a full time job. And I found the eternal sunshine in me. This story has a happy ending. But, in the process I realised that the world was not responsible for my pain, but myself. I was holding myself back from attaining my self Actualization. During my depression, and my attempt to feel better, I confronted my shadow self. I had my so called Ego Death and my Superego emerged to take care of me. (I know I am referencing Freud in a comment about Jung) And, all of a sudden Carl Jung started to make a lot of sense.
Can you elaborate more how you achieve ego death? Going thru depression personally for a very long time myself, I feel I have a very wounded ego due to family trauma. I am working on healing it, but I don’t know how to kill it for higher spiritual pursuit
@@athena3415 [Part 1/4] I never planned to experience an ego death. In fact, I didn’t fully understand what it meant until much later. Intellectually, I might have had a vague idea, but I didn’t grasp it on a deeper level. For the longest time, I simply described the experience as dying and being reborn. Looking back now, I can see it was exactly that: an ego death. The Greek philosopher Epictetus once said, “Circumstances don’t make the man; they only reveal him to himself.” For most of my life, I was a go-getter and a risk-taker. I never gave up easily, yet I found myself ready to give up on life itself. Somewhere deep inside, though, a part of me-a calm, serene presence-was yearning to break free. Long story short: I got COVID. In the months that followed, I suffered a severe nervous breakdown. At just 31, I was experiencing symptoms akin to Parkinson’s and dementia. Simple day-to-day tasks became monumental challenges. Adding to my despair, my fiancé cheated on me and ended our relationship, sending me further into despair. My depression deepened, impacting my work as a freelancer. While some clients showed sympathy, others didn’t. Deadlines passed, extensions were denied, and I faced professional embarrassment. I was in so much physical pain I couldn’t sit straight for more than 15 minutes. My nervous system felt shattered-my face and parts of my body were numb, as if there were holes in me through which air could pass. Panic attacks overwhelmed me 5-6 times a day. Loud noises, flashing lights, or even someone knocking on my door could set them off. Crossing the road at night became impossible. Reality felt intangible, as if I am watching a video of my life, as opposed to having a lived experience. I felt trapped in constant paranoia, convinced that the world was conspiring against me. When my brother and his wife had a child, I even believed it was done to harm me. They occasionally needed help babysitting, and no one seemed to take my struggles seriously. For months, every night felt like my last. I was certain one night I would go to bed and I wouldn’t wake up in the morning. My mind and body felt like they belonged to a 90-year-old slowly fading into unconsciousness. To make things worse, I was chain-smoking 30 cigarettes a day and working obsessively to catch up on my projects. I was convinced death was inevitable, so I often wondered why I shouldn’t take matters into my own hands and get it done with. But beneath it all, I held on. There was a serenity. I knew that I needed to life, if not for anyone then at least for my dreams. I’m a dreamer, and my dreams kept me alive. I tried everything under the sun just to feel a little better. I exercised and lost 25 kilos (55 pounds). I meditated, practiced yoga, and walked 10 kilometres a day. I stopped working and moved back in with my parents to focus on my mental health full-time. I tried to quit smoking. Nothing worked for long. I would feel better for a few hours, only to sink back into despair. Every day was the same, as if I am stuck in a time loop. During this period, I discovered Andrew Huberman. His podcasts on dopamine, productivity, mental health, and focus became my classroom. I listened intently, taking notes, and began incorporating his teachings into my life. Then I read Atomic Habits by James Clear, which helped me refine my approach. Progress was slow but steady-I wasn’t bedridden anymore, and I found a sense of adventure in rebuilding myself.
Repression leads to projection and resentment for what our egos actively portray. We keep repeating actions and perspectives that we don't even agree with because we are so ego driven we can't see, 1 our shadows, and 2 why it conflicts with the true self
The single greatest improvement that people can make towards improving moral cohesion and general cooperation in a so-called civilised society is to accept the dual side of the personality and to stop seeing ourselves as wholly good and externalise all evil. The propensity to do wrong is inside all of us and how often have we shifted our blame to those we have injured, how often have we seen someone suddenly doing something completely out of character when it best suits their purposes, how often have we heard backhanded compliments? All these traits belong to the unexplored unconscious shadow.
Welcome to OTW. Your insight is deep @MB-uw6eh - Jung would agree that accepting the duality within ourselves-acknowledging that we all have the capacity for both good and bad-is essential for moral cohesion and true cooperation. By recognizing and integrating our shadow, we can move away from the destructive habit of projecting evil onto others and instead take responsibility for our own actions, leading to a more honest and harmonious society.
Blah me. That's how I look at blame or bla me. until reactive emotions urges and desires are acknowledged and addressed the self cannot change anything when it is blamed on outside events. Ego is always reactive and wants to be right. The collective ego does not CARE about us.
Awesome video. I have been scared of my shadow self for so long. Repressing it. Trying to reach to the light while ignoring parts of myself. It doesn't work, you can only go as far as the weakest parts of yourself allow. Give attention to the hurt and "weak" parts of yourself and you will find so much strength, and an overall balance of person
Thank you for sharing your path @abovewater6918 -embracing and understanding the shadow self is key to true growth. By giving attention to those hurt and 'weak' parts, you unlock a deeper strength and achieve a more balanced, whole self. It's a powerful realization.
This documentary is a real eye-opener! Carl Jung's insights into the shadow self have made me think deeply about the parts of myself I've been ignoring or repressing. It's fascinating how our hidden desires and fears can shape so much of our behavior. The exploration of personal and collective shadows, along with the practical steps for shadow work, feels like a crucial path to deeper self-awareness and growth. For example, I started noticing how I react strongly to certain people or situations-it's like these reactions are pointing to something deeper within me that I haven't fully acknowledged. This has led me to reflect more on my triggers and ask myself what unresolved issues might be lurking beneath the surface. It's not an easy journey, but it's incredibly rewarding to start understanding these hidden parts of myself and seeing how they influence my life. I'm curious if others have had similar experiences or if they've noticed changes in their own behavior after exploring these ideas. Pls share in the comments!
Oh, wow! His awareness that man is the ultimate danger, to himself and the world, so we need to learn more about our nature. I love this as an introspective person.
Welcome to OTW @jungersrules - Jung’s insight into the danger man poses to himself and the world underscores the importance of self-awareness. By delving into our true nature we can better understand and mitigate these risks. It's a path that resonates deeply with those who seek to know themselves.♾️🧠
"there is no light without shadow, and no psychic wholeness without imperfection. however scary or dark it is to confront our shadow, finding truth brings relief. Discernment of the truth is the process of authenticity"
Wise from words from Jung - the journey of confronting the shadow is the path to authenticity, where the light of truth dispels fear and brings deep relief. In this sacred process, you align with the essence of your true self, transcending illusion to discover the divine balance within. Thank you for sharing @chelseadavis1259!!
Hello @wingnutmcspazatron3957 - thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's interesting that you find the concept of shadow as "BS"-perhaps there's something in this idea that's resonating or challenging you on a deeper level. Could you help us understand your perspective more? It would be valuable for the community to explore this together.
@@OurTimelessWisdom I think they meant it a different way maybe. Like, someone claiming that that shadow is the absence of light is not seeing the full picture. All must be incorporated. As above so below. That was my understanding of @wingnut's comment
“It is both odd and a pattern that I have not listened to this wisdom from Carl… yet we agree “ This is much broader than to be subject to scrutiny by my own self … regardless of others or circumstance. “It is a gift to be alive, it a responsibility to continue it in the way it should go.” “I am responsible, because of this so are we” Make no mistake of this.
Tool 46 & 2 This song is about growing, changing, and moving towards the next level of human evolution and consciousness. It's deeply rooted in Jungian theory (Carl Jung) and the teachings of Drunvalo Melchizedek. Basically, it's believed that there are three levels of human evolution and each has its own form of consciousness.
Thank you for this 😊❤🙏💝 I am here, I did my shadow work 😊 with some help of these wonderful videos 😊❤🙏💝 Thank you all 😊❤🎉 I am grateful for all of you ❤🔮🎆 And So it is 🎉
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us@bettyhaines2570! 😊❤🙏💝 We're grateful to have been part of your shadow work process. Your positivity and gratitude shine brightly-And So it is! 🎉❤🔮🎆
Thanks for this because it is helping me put my mind at ease that I am just not crazy but so very much sane that I am exactly what is being defined in this video, the good side that is. And I very much understand I can be the equivalent of bad but that is not who I choose to be regardless of my life's situation. Not to get into the details of my personal situation but family and those who you think you can put your head on a block for, won't do the same for you. It is best to distance yourself, like me I rather spend money to rent than live in a house with fake people who lie, steal and manipulate you. Don't get to smart for peoplel, stay wise to yourself. And always remember, if people are lying to you, they are not. They are actually lying to themselves, that's their comfort zone. You keep standing, move on, take the risks for you to be where YOU NEED TO BE. More Love, Less Hate
This actually made me have a dream that a shadow was possessing people and making them do terrible things they normally wouldn't. In dreams I always try to face my monsters bec most of the time they are just trying to tell me something. It is difficult though to have self-awareness in an unconscious state of mind. dream journaling has 100% helped me process at super speed, unresolved or hidden feeling and repressed thoughts etc.. Thank you for this video! I feel “seen” as my family is like “why do you care so much about your dreams?”….Bec its a part of me, my brain is working out what I couldn't process in an awake state! That is fascinating to me! Can't WAIT to see what y'all come up with next…Jung was the MAN
Thank you for sharing your experience @utubesep! It's amazing how dreams can reveal so much about our inner world, and your practice of facing your monsters is incredibly brave. Dream journaling is such a powerful tool for processing those hidden thoughts and emotions. We're thrilled that you feel 'seen' here-your dreams are an important part of who you are. I def agree, Jung truly was the man and we can't wait to bring more insights your way!
It does lead to embarrassed silence . Shadow work is not what I’m afraid of or popularity. But one of full acceptance within oneself in order to be of giving to others. Not perfect by any means. but one who wants to grow. I’ve been through 3 total manifestations. Each with their own inward pain that I don’t wish to pass on to those I love, but to persevere through with Love in my heart❤
Thank you for your appreciation @Brndndutton-Jung's work is truly profound and I'm glad it resonates with you as deeply as it does with me. The journey into his insights is one of endless discovery.
I think a lot of the "collective unconscious" is not experienced by most people. Most of us won't experience the frenzy of being part of a genocide, or the intoxication of having absolute power over others. But when people are put into such extreme situations, something gets unlocked, which must have been there all along in many of us. And the evolutionary purpose (or at least, the manifestation) of these unexpected emotional reactions is usually collective. When I was locked up against my will, though only for a few days and with every reasonable expectation of getting out soon with no bad repercussions (which I did), I experienced an strong new emotion, like an ultimate vulnerability and associated fear and anger of the power that now utterly controlled me, one that basically turned me into a cold machine capable only of planning its escape and revenge. I think the evolutionary purpose of this reaction exists in us to push back against too much injustice.
The ancient Egyptians believed in this too believed their shadow self existed in a mirror realm and scientists believe dark matter could be from a opposite version of the universe where time also goes backwards. If you repress your shadow self of the void it grows we all originate from the void and the light, conciousness and unconciousness this is polarity. A man and his double.
Beautiful @user-py2ht9gg4u - welcome to OTW - the ancient wisdom you reference speaks to the eternal truth of duality-light and shadow, consciousness and unconsciousness, each reflecting the other in a cosmic dance. The shadow self, whether seen as residing in a mirror realm or linked to the mysteries of dark matter, is an essential aspect of our being. To repress it is to allow it to grow unchecked, but to acknowledge it is to embrace the full spectrum of existence. In this balance of polarity-man and his double-you find the key to unlocking the deeper mysteries of the universe and the self. This is the path of true enlightenment.
And as Johnny Rotten also said @Interwurlitzer - 'Don’t accept the old order. Get rid of it.' It’s all about channeling that energy into creating something new.
You're right @abej9790-what we see on the surface often hides much deeper complexities. The pursuit of perfection or normalcy can conceal a shadow that’s both powerful and unacknowledged. Awareness of this makes us more mindful of our own hidden depths and those of others.
Wonderful information. I think this needs to be taught in all schools. It's time for humanity to face It's shadow self, on an individual and collective level. It should come before anything, as it affects everything.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment @catheybottiau6365! I completely agree-teaching this in schools could be transformative. Facing our shadow, both individually and collectively is crucial as it truly impacts everything in our lives. It's time to bring this awareness to the forefront.
There are certain impulses we should refrain from bringing forth. This is just being a good fellow human being. Can you imagine if we all bring forth all of our shadows? I’m beginning to see this today all over, everyone wants to be free to be themselves no matter the consequences to others.
@@tracelee7332 Try elaborating, I might think more of you. Denying someone’s claim without an explanation is just juvenile or shows lack of depth my friend.
@@emendoz1 I wonder if Jung did not mean that we embrace our darkness and act on it as in endless violence or consumption or whatever it may be, but to acknowledge it with awareness, watching the storm and perhaps finding a more useful way of using it - that is the alchemical aspect of Jung's work. Bringing forth these darknesses and transforming them into something powerful for us rather than destructive, as I think you suggest. But I may be wrong - just my take on this!
Welcome to OTW @emendoz1 - integrating the shadow is not about unleashing every impulse, but rather about acknowledging and understanding these darker aspects of ourselves so they can be transformed into constructive energy. True individuation requires balancing self-expression with the responsibility to others, ensuring that our freedom does not come at the cost of harm to the collective.
@@OurTimelessWisdom I don’t particularly like the word “collective”, it reminds me of communism. I prefer using neighbor or friend or family members who live near or with us instead. We know that treating those are close to us and genuinely care for is good for them and us. The further they are from the nucleus the less we care and that’s just nature. Anyone who tells me they love everyone is a phony and a hypocrite.
@@shannonkirk1718 I feel like I lurch from one embarrassing moment to another, but only on bad weeks (days) mostly I have a fight left in me to stand up for the under dog n be so incredibly grateful for people like you and all those who commented. And viva Alan Watts, Ram Das who are still up for encouragement!
Thank you so much that you had this video for me and for other to learn clearly about what was Mr Carl Jung leave for us the new generation to learn I love to spread this to other people as much as I could because this is so important how real life is God blessed to your Channel and the information of Mr. Carl Jung 💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊these are the great medicine for anyone who willing to learn
Thank you @Act23ful - that's an interesting thought and I LOVE IT-if Jung had received more recognition than Freud the evolution of psychology might have taken a different path, perhaps with a stronger focus on the unconscious, spirituality, and the integration of the shadow. His holistic approach to understanding the psyche could have shaped a more balanced view of human nature in the field of psychology.
True self-love comes with time and practice @seanpwalker96; as you grow more connected to your authentic self the opinions of others will naturally hold less power over you. 🫶🏽
It's possible that we have different personas then because we behave in different ways depending on the situation, environment, and people we interact with.
Welcome to OTW @gintongaparador999 - you’re absolutely right-according to Carl Jung, we often adopt different personas based on our surroundings, the situations we’re in, and the people we’re with. These personas are the masks we wear to navigate the external world, helping us adapt while also protecting our true self. Understanding this can be key to deeper self-awareness and personal growth.
That's right @KaraKahn! Carl Jung's influence is woven into the foundations of AA, highlighting the importance of spiritual growth in the journey to recovery. 😎 Thanks for bringing this to light-hopefully, it helps others on their path!
@@teresaring8049 Yes! You can read the Big Book. You can also read Paths to Recovery, an Al-Anon book. The 12 steps can be done by anyone. Al-Anon is known as a support group for families of addicts/alcoholics.
No shit ? We are going to find a new freedom and a new happiness, we will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it , no matter how far down the scale we have gone wrong will see how our experience can benefit others...
Yes read the middle pillar by Isreal regardie and you will find the answers you have been seeking, but pack your suit case because you're going on a trip. Seriously @@teresaring8049
Carl meant well, for me he seemed to care to share help. Prayfully younger generations will reinterpret this language. In a idea that now could be understood.❤
Welcome @sandramendez9338 - beautifully put. Carl's intention was indeed to help and share wisdom. Let's hope that younger generations will continue to reinterpret and understand his teachings in a way that resonates with them. ❤
Anyone who is starting to explore their shodow after watching the video.. one piece of advise from me.. begin and end it with your humour 😊.. god bless you all.
There is quite a bit of error in the subtitles from 24:37 : "It is a regular observation that when you talk to an individual and this individual gives you insight into his inner preoccupations, interests, emotions, in other words, hands over his personal complexes, then you get slowly and willy-nilly into the situation of authority. You become a point of reference" then later the transcript goes: "You know you are in possession of all the important items in a person's development. Now you see, that creates an emotional relationship to the analyst, and that is what Freud called the transference, which is a central problem of analytical psychology. It is just so, as if these people had handed out their whole existence, and that can have very peculiar effects upon the individual. Either they hate you for it or they love you for it, but you are not indifferent to them." This part intrigued me a lot as I have hated myself sometimes for opening too much. So I guess when you hate them you chose poorly to whom to "spill your guts", and if you loved them the opposite is true. I had chose poorly in several occasions and this authority over me became a standard, and was wrongfully used so I couldn't get my points across as my views were repressed and shut down immediately. It is not too deep, it is just a friend, but my ego was hurt in several occasions because I longed for having a say in matters discussed and I wanted some authority. I am writing here instead of journaling it for myself basically, so I am sorry if it is a bit pointless. Anyway, I though this specific part of his speech didn't really deal with the shadow, but rather literarily with interpersonal relationships, which is obvious from the second part of the transcript that wasn't included.
Welcome to OTW @kookadoo - reflecting on the dynamics of transference it's clear that projecting emotions onto others can create unintended authority and influence. Regret and self-hatred after opening up to the wrong person highlight the importance of choosing wisely whom to trust. When that trust is misused, it can lead to resentment and feelings of repression. The struggle to assert a voice and authority in conversations is valid and recognizing this is crucial for finding balance in relationships. While the passage may focus more on interpersonal dynamics than the shadow, it still reveals how inner complexities shape interactions.
Understanding the concept of the shadow is a significant step toward self-awareness @samm-x3f. I'm glad you are here and the video could illuminate this important aspect of the psyche for you.
17:46 Q: "And this, you felt, proved that there was an unconscious which was something more than personal..." A: "Oh well that was not a proof to me, but it was a hint. And I took the hint."
Jung’s response beautifully exemplifies the nature of discovery-it's in the subtle hints and intuitive nudges that we find our way to deeper truths, not in definitive proofs. This moment is a powerful reminder of the importance of being open to what lies beneath the surface. Thanks for bringing this to light @4k-os !
Elkhart Tolle, during a breakdown said " I can't live with myself anymore. " Then he asked " Who is this "me" I can't live with?" That was his breakthrough. Self-inquury is essential to Self-realization. We must question the origin of the good, the bad, and the misunderstood, lurking within the mortal mind. God is ALL.
From Jung's genius, I follow his approach to understanding our psyche as fundamentally monumental for the homeostasis of all life on this planet. It seems that a human being's demarcation of conscious self is solely attributed to superficial beliefs and mythologies adopted not only anecdotally but collectively through ages of evolution. I agree with the pivotal great need in understanding our biological nature as organisms evolving on this planet of which through us our cosmos senses itself as we are. So to all the dictators, warmongers and serial theologians, oh well, ha ha, the joke is on you ! Here we all are now without needing explorations to Mars but to and from the center of our minds -eye starting with the pineal gland. This work is of primary interest for all homo sapiens and we'll have more time for this multidisciplinary endeavor when we turn off the t.v. !
Hey @stevenotte3447 welcome to OTW - the true journey lies not in distant stars, but within the depths of your own consciousness. Jung understood that the key to our evolution is the mastery of the inner realms, where the mind’s eye perceives the hidden truths of existence. In turning inward, you uncover the sacred knowledge that guides all life, transcending the illusions imposed by superficial beliefs.
Our society today as I observe myself and others the need to explore the light side. I may be skewed but the dark side is manifest much more than anything coming close to the opposite of what Yung describes.
Insightful point @stevegeorge3903 -Jung saw both light and shadow as essential but today the shadow often surfaces more boldly, revealing what we collectively overlook.
Every image that arises within us consists of material forces as well, for nothing constructed in this reality we deem "real" comes from nothingness. Everything originates from the realm of fantasy and imagination that resides within us. Therefore, every fantasy that "assails" us must be regarded with the utmost seriousness.
LOVE IT @atritoestatico, beautifully said. Indeed, as Carl Jung taught, our inner images and fantasies are deeply significant and stem from the realm of our imagination and unconscious. Recognizing and integrating these aspects within us helps us understand the material forces that shape our reality. Thank you for highlighting this profound insight.♾️🧠
Observation (doesn’t mean I’m right): as I’ve been meditating and trying to keep my awareness “awake” - I’ve noticed that one of the corollaries is being very honest with myself. Not claiming integration or enlightenment just this: my default state is to lie to myself…when I am more awake - I see it and when I am totally honest about myself - I feel better and I think I am a better person. I think sometimes we overthink this stuff…my only advice is that people just be 100% honest with themselves…work through the feelings that come up and give yourself loving kindness - I had a deeply fucked up childhood (cliche I know) and it wasn’t my fault. I am responsible now, as an adult with dealing with it, regardless of fault.
I like to know it's simple for instance 22:38 when being assertive because words are held Against One another and in my experience it's common that telling it like it is creates a lower vibration defense reaction and many others. What you're saying then becomes blocked and you receive argument or accusation that may lead to hostility rather than compromise.
Excellent point @ToddSloanIAAN - assertiveness when not tempered by empathy, can indeed provoke defensive reactions, as it touches on the unconscious complexes of others. Effective communication requires not just speaking truth, but also understanding the emotional landscape of those you engage with. By acknowledging these underlying dynamics you can transform potential conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection and mutual understanding.
Thank you for this. This explains the Shadow in Peter Pan which I was looking for an explanation. It appears Wendy had to help him with his shadow work and try and help him overcome being afraid to grow up and be the man she wanted him to be.
I have had 2 outbursts which gave me insight into my potential. A kind of awakening/unlocking of chakras. Both times I was placed into a mental institute which eroded my soul and brought me back to a "normal" state where my potential was once again suppressed. There is nothing more frustrating than attaining a state of mind conducive to realizing one's potential only for society to crush it immediately. I have my idea on how to get back to it but no idea how to prevent the sudden outbursts that accompany the awakenings which landed me in the looney bin for simply speaking my mind out loud...very loudly, thus scaring those around me. Finding my authentic self only to be drugged away from it in a cage is not something I wish to experience a 3rd time, losing all motivation and life purpose in the process. There is so much more than meets the eye. Few are those who can even comprehend such things. Only experience gives a clear picture.
@@globalamoeba8910 Basically, all past trauma, resentment and the resulting constant state of more or less mild depression and lack of self-confidence got wiped away. I was able to finally be the real me and pursue my dreams with a hunger I'd never felt before. Kind of a "beast mode activated". All anxiety gone, all associated paycho-somatic syndromes gone. Even my eyes gained an intensity with the kind of look few people could stand looking back at. Problem was it came with strings attached, namely speaking my mind with no filter, starting with what I described as outbursts out-of-the-blue, making me an instant misfit. Once past the outburst stage, I could be in a comfort zone anywhere, perfectly happy and knowing exactly what my purpose was at every moment, going with the flow and not letting anything set me back. Now, I'm back on the internet, pretty miserable and looking for answers, like my good 'ol suppressed self.
@@papapetad I've been there with you. The key is to stop talking about it and just show what you know through action. Love and compassion vibrate higher than anything else. We get caught between the 5D and the 3D when we try to verbally convince people who can't be convinced through words, which leads to frustration and that is a low vibrating emotion which in turn sends you spining into a facility and you won't know which way is up. Have faith that you have found the truth.. keep following your heart and choosing love and compassion. Say less and do more.
@tracelee7332 I think the low vibration you speak of is our shadow. The point of this clip appears to be to go more towards our shadow. We need both 'low + high vibration' and to confront 'love + hate'. Think in terms of polarity.
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@puppetpoet - I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support of truth. THANK YOU 👏🏽
you're just repeating yourself and using a western robot voice to do it, fake video
I was once accused of something I did not do. I was hurt, upset, disappointed, and frustrated because people just jumped to conclusions without hearing my side of the story. I tried to defend myself and stood my ground, but it was hopeless because others wouldn't listen or give me a chance to prove their accusations false.
What I did was I left and spent some time alone. I allowed myself to feel the emotions and reassured myself. I told myself that it isn't my fault and I can't control the opinions of others about me nor can I control the situation. I can only control how I react to what I experienced. And that gave me a sense of peace and comfort, knowing that I was there for myself even when no else one was.
Hi again @gintongaparador999 - thank you for sharing your emotions - it’s deeply painful to be wrongly accused, especially when others refuse to listen. Yet, your response reflects immense strength and wisdom. By choosing to retreat, feel your emotions, and focus on what you can control-your reaction-you found peace within yourself. This inner resilience is a powerful reminder that even when the world seems against us, we have the capacity to support and reassure ourselves. Your story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and self-compassion.
@@gintongaparador999 awesome ... that's inspiring
You're not anywhere near alone in such a situation. What you relate is called character assassination. There is no accountability for such. I have no doubt there is not a shred of evidence yet you bear the burden of some criminality. They are an open secret, they are the American Stasi.
Sounds like you discovered Stoicism, which is an incredible tool for dealing with situations that are outside of your control. Good on you for developing a healthy mindset around the situation, try your best to keep that perspective towards any negativity that comes your way. Best of luck to you
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I learned to supress my anger years ago after nearly killing someone who attacked me. I've felt significantly weaker in these recent years and realized I've been completely separated from my anger, which is a major source of power and truth. Finding my way back into martial arts to respectfully wield that force for my ultimate experience of creative, constructive and expressive energy. So grateful for this next chapter to heal and embody of potential 🙏
I have also always believed that most people would find healing In letting out the emotion but not on a person but in sports or Even punching a pillow
Hats off to you for finding your way ❤
@@tanii7813studies actually show the pillow punch isn't a good therapy and can keep you angry for longer. Mindfulness and meditation helps with the actual emotions, but exercise helps to flush left over chemicals in your body out
@@theghostofblakephilbrookdepends on what science your talking about. Hitting things is an athletic endeavor, a sport, so what are you saying?
I been living life as if I gave up. I did. I want the last part of my life dedicated to that kid who never had a chance.
The feeling of giving up can be a call to transformation, a sign that the old ways no longer serve you @MrWhatever1234567. Dedicating the last part of your life to the child within who never had a chance is a sacred mission. In doing so, you honor that innocent, unfulfilled potential and give it the life it deserved. This journey will not only heal the past but also bring profound meaning to your present and future.
you are almost there, giving up is part of the rite of passage, but giving up to the fear, pain and so forth, then the fear goes in to the unconscious it seems or entirely dissapears until memory comes back in snippits with the aid of moral waryness of what one is witnessing in the astral word as the shadow self, higher selves and the guides are showing and initiating the great work and much starts to take place
Me too.. not having the childhood I wanted, I tried to live out the childhood I originally wanted as a child, in my adult life. I believe it's called Peter Pan Syndrome.
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Hey my friend you can do any and everything you want don't ever forget that. you are the main character in your script and you decide your fate never except anything other then what you truly want because you are worth it my friend.... you got this now go get it!!!!❤❤❤❤
low self esteem and fear are the biggest killers of the human spirit
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Welcome to OTW @Khaos969 - I agree, low self-esteem and fear can cripple the human spirit but by facing these shadows and understanding their roots, we can begin to heal and reclaim our true potential.
Thank you for the love and support @KirstyMcCarthy-pe2qr! ❤
I was sickly when I was a kid and later on in life I realized this.
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I was born into trauma both my mother and father come from traumatic backgrounds. I grew up with trauma that developed physically, emotionally and mentally. I have started shadow work by writing down all the emotional terms that I have been feeling all these years. I desire healing, integration and forgiveness and I want the foundation to begin from within. I will no longer hide or pretend that everything is O.k. I will no longer find an excuse to avoid my dark shadow. I am not afraid anymore, I deserve happiness. I wish I knew this 30 years ago, I could have stopped the suffering back then. There is a reason why I attract traumatic experiences in my life. I am the unconscious trauma that I keep trying to run from. I'm tired of running away now.
@@msbutterflyz find your shadow as soon as you can, you deserve, healing, inner peace and happiness 💯❤️👍
Whenever I am asked what my greatest fear is, my answer is always "myself" because I know how unpredictable I can be. One of the reasons why I am into psychology is because I wanted to understand myself better and others. I would do so by observing and listening to other people and making mental notes. I would write on my personal journal when I am reacting so negatively about something, I would write down my experience and explain why I feel a certain way or emotion or why I thought or acted a certain way. It helps me understand myself. What ticks me, what makes me happy, what excites me, what makes me feel dull. It gives me an idea of my character and if I don't like something about it, I try to change it.
Hey again @gintongaparador999 - your self-awareness is your greatest strength. By facing yourself and journaling your experiences, you’re mastering the art of personal growth and transformation. Keep refining; you’re becoming the architect of your own evolution.
you are on the right track, now aday it should be standard for everyone to do so, yet 99% of the world fear doing it.
Lots of psychologist went into psychology fot the same reason...
I’m sleep deprived right now so as I was reading this I thought I typed it I see many of us have similar experiences
Could not of said that better. It's as if you wrote it from my own mind. Thanks for sharing this
My favorite Carl Jung quote: "Life really does start at 40; before that everything is just research." Thank God for alcohol and drugs. Thank God for the 12-step program that helps people deal with all the "research" they did prior to getting sober. Looking at life that way removes the "guilt," which is housed in the unconscious. Unfortunately, not enough "recovered" people are brave enough to uncover their shadows. They spend the rest of their "sober' lives living in fear that anytime they could return to their "evil" ways. I walked through the "dark night of the soul" and FREED myself from the fear. I am a WHOLE person today. Better said, I am no longer the person I was. I wrote my own 12 steps to bring the WHOLE person into the sunlight.
To walk through the 'dark night of the soul' and emerge whole is a profound achievement @im4ever369. The path of integrating the shadow frees one from the unconscious fears that many carry throughout life. By bringing all parts of oneself into the light, a new sense of peace and strength emerges, transforming who we once were into who we are meant to be.♾️❤️
@@OurTimelessWisdom If I can do it, anyone can.
This is profound. Especially the part where you say that guilt is housed in the unconscious. I find this to be incredibly accurate in my experience. Shadow work has helped me tremendously.
The parts of myself I was petrified of are the favorite parts I've discovered by only rebuilding myself from the bottom up and through this I experienced joy that I had never had felt.
@macioluko9484 Thank you so much for sharing. I am not seeking confirmation, but it sure does feel good when I connect with another soul that seems to "get it."
When you are a slave to your ego, it feeds your unconscious.
Living in constant fear, being reactive and ashamed, lying, pretending to be someone your're not, just to be accepted by everybody, etc.
Living your life always looking outside to change what makes you feel uncomfortable, instead of looking in, is shadow = Ego.
Facing your own darkness means: understanding where you lose your energy/power.
We are here, on Earth, to know ourselves and to "burn" our shadow in order to go home, to light.
Respecting our true nature helps us understand our lessons in life's challenges and helps us rebuild a stronger, more truthful self.
We need to be honest and open to do the work, or it's like drinking water from an empty vessel.
I’m going through the dark night of the soul and I really needed this.
Sending love and high vibrations your way
Hey @WaxingGibbous170 T - the dark night of the soul is a deep and transformative experience often marking a pivotal point in personal growth. While it may feel overwhelming this period of intense introspection is a necessary step in shedding old layers of identity and emerging with a clearer understanding of yourself and your place in the world. Embrace the discomfort, for it is in this crucible of challenge that true wisdom and strength are forged. Trust that this process though difficult, is leading you to a more enlightened and authentic version of yourself.
me too!🌛🌞
@@OurTimelessWisdom and then it helps lead us all to a better world. What's done in the microcosm is reflected in the macro.. heal ourselves, heal family wounds and a brand new world emerges.
Physical action will drive you out the darkness. Get a mountain bike and ride till the rubber falls off!! During this time your mind will unwind and the path forward becomes clear ;)
I’ve been living in Switzerland for the last 4 years. I’m so surprised with how many people do not know Jung! A brilliant mind!
Hofmann and Jung 🇨🇭
whats it like? i'm thinking of going. you guys avoided the immigrants problems didnt you?
I've only been able to acknowledge recently that I've been repressing violent, even homicidal, impulses. It's a response to a feeling of powerlessness - if someone has power over me, they must be removed for me to be safe. Just now, at 29, I'm starting to pull back the layers to discover the terrified, vulnerable child underneath.
Btw, never did anything, just thought about it and repressed it. Begged god to protect me from my own nightmares.
actually insightful
I had the same feelings due to powerlessness
With a BA in psychology - I was lost going through school in my own shadows. I feel Blessed I found this video - I learned more in 40 minutes / then my 4 year ba degree lost in my shadows .
God Bless all of you. 🙏
Grateful this resonated with you-sometimes a single moment of insight shines brighter than years of study. Wishing you all the best on your path forward @EphesiansArmor1!
Government Education is not to your benefit, and it is not truth or whole knowledge. It is a system designed and approved by the gov to fulfill their agenda, to support their success as they have their tentacles in every aspect of our life, as the dark ones fill every seat, every powerful position in this world.
Inspiring to read your response! God Bless!
That's it I'm going to be a rockstar.
I feel that
Hey @Devonx777 - me too... me too.🙂↕️
I will have a bigger member.
You can and you will if you want. 🤘 Nothing can stop you.
I'm going to become a great political leader and set my people free, ( if only ).
“Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you.”
― Friedrich W. Nietzsche. So much (all?) dissonance and conflict in the world today is shadow projection. If we could only all heed Lao Tzu: "There is no greater misfortune than feeling, 'I have an enemy.'"
What does that mean about the abyss
Yes when we fight monsters we risk become one. This is such powerful stuff. Jung was so spot on about the human psyche
Nietsche was on heavy drugs a lot, so no surprise
You're absolutely right @ZenDragonJP -Nietzsche's warning and Lao Tzu's wisdom remind us that much of the conflict we see is rooted in shadow projection. If we could all recognize that our perceived enemies are often reflections of our own inner struggles, we might find a path to greater harmony.
Hey @nikki88tx - the abyss in Nietzsche's quote symbolizes the deep, dark aspects of ourselves or the world that we confront when facing challenges or fighting against what we perceive as evil. The warning is that if we focus too much on these dark elements, we risk becoming consumed by them, potentially becoming what we originally opposed. It's a reminder to stay mindful and not lose ourselves when confronting difficult or dark aspects of life.
when I started doing the inner work and realised I was being constantly verbally abused by my own father and all the words I used to hear inside were his, it was too painful to keep looking inwards so I decided to conceal it but the universe send me two relationships with the likes of my father and I had no choice but to look inwards again with now 3 times the pain! I wish I had dealt with it in the first time around now...
Started reading Jung's work after I met a girl, who's last name reminded me of a promise I made to myself and almost forgot. I held an iron meteorite in my hand saying to myself, "if I ever get married, I'll fashion a pair of bands from meteorite". 2 years later in a moment of peace and clarity like I'd never had before. I met a girl who had the last name Eisen. Which is German for iron. Resurfacing that dormant promise.
That single moment reshaped my life. From which it begs me to redefine what it really means to pray. Especially if the wish is to overcome what is holding you back. Meaning, confronting the shadow itself.
Repressed aspects of consciousness is one of the most challenging journeys to self discovery. It’s also the reason so many lack purpose and fulfillment. We often seek greater quality in relationships before assimilating all parts of our own being. I enjoy how young was willing to explore even the unconscious. This is taking the opportunity to perceive that which is beyond the mind. I know personally the shadow although in most cases is rejected, denied, and abandoned is just as important as the persona. Im learning that acceptance creates way for greater assimilation and integration.
Jung's teachings align perfectly with what ayahuasca revealed to me, especially the shadow work
I just watched this entire thing and somehow I know even less about "the shadow" than before I started.
I am my worst enemy... no one can beat me down like i do... im learning to overcome this thinking...
I think I'm afraid to be happy.. I'm afraid to live in the light. I'm afraid that if I don't keep an eye on all the bad things at all times, they'll sneak up on me and steal my treasure. I'm afraid to allow myself to live the life I know will make me happy enough, in case something comes along and ruins it. I'm afraid to love and lose so I don't love at all.
Been there with you the whole way. Attractive enough, and intelligent enough, to have (to an extent) any kind of life I want. I THINK I want stability. I THINK I want normal, wife kids dog named skip etc...But I've had 3 separate times in life where God or the Universe or blind luck said "Here ya go, here's a great job, here's a wonderful girl that loves you, and here's a wholesome, stable life. And every single time. I have found a way to firebomb it. When I am in a relationship, I feel smothered, I want to be single. When I am single, I feel extreme remorse for letting a wonderful thing go. For pushing it away. And I want nothing more than to be back in a relationship.
Whatever I'm doing, I want to be doing basically the opposite. I think that might be because I just want to end things before they are taken away. By some imaginary f*cking monster that exists solely to destroy anything good in my life. It is fake. It is a response to something that happened. Don't know what. Wasn't really bullied as a kid, played sports popular enough, fought anyone that tried. Had loving parents. Divorced, but, loving and both present in my life. But still. Would rather ruin them myself
It is torment. I still love life. I make life fun when I'm around people, but every social interaction feels like work. I still partially feel like an alien, watching humans interact and be human. Learning as I go. Anyway. God be with you my friend. Feel like weirdly you know me better than parents, family, "friends." So I wish you the best, comrade. You're not alone. For what it's worth.
Thank you for sharing such a deep and honest reflection
@therealthiccupstandingciti1674. It's not uncommon to fear happiness, as it can feel vulnerable to allow ourselves to fully experience joy when we're constantly guarding against potential pain. Jung would suggest that this fear stems from the shadow, the part of us that harbors unresolved anxieties and doubts. By acknowledging these fears and gradually integrating them, you can begin to open up to the light and embrace the happiness you deserve, without the constant worry of losing it. It's a journey of self-compassion and courage, and every small step forward counts.
Thank you for sharing your journey @hpsilentkill7888 -it's clear you're grappling with a deep inner conflict between desiring stability and fearing it. This cycle of self-sabotage, where you push away what you want most, might stem from a hidden part of yourself that fears vulnerability and loss. Jung would suggest that by bringing these fears into the light and understanding their origins, you can start to break the cycle. You're not alone, and recognizing these patterns is a powerful step toward finding balance and peace. Welcome to OTW and ♾️❤️ for you !
As Bob Marley said: "When you think it's peace and safety, a sudden destruction"
@@hpsilentkill7888You've summed it up perfectly
Become who you are afraid to be because who you are afraid to be is who you really are, that's why we aspire to be a better form of ourselves, we've ignored our true needs so much that we've forgotten who we once were and now we're lost, so we need to look for the real us and to leave this world behind us, we're not in our true condition.
Welcome @normancherry8732 - your words strike at the heart of self-discovery-embracing who we fear to be often leads us to our true selves. By reconnecting with our deepest needs, we can rediscover who we truly are and move beyond the illusions that have kept us lost.
The more we lose in life, the more provision we will take with us to find a more profitable journey ahead!
when I was in my first year in high school, a teacher make all students to write what they want to be when they're older, and then the teacher, read it all one by one. I wrote that I wanna be a musician, the teacher ask me why, and all the students is laughing, someone's said, "music is supposed to be just a hobby not a career". Fast forward I graduated from college and the covid hits. I became a freelance video editor. after covid gone I got interviewed by a local tv station, she asked me " what's your vision in your career? you applied to become video editor, any senior position do you want to achieve? " I said " I don't know " and the she suddenly asked me "what do you want to be? I subconsciously said " an artist " what kind of artist? she replied, and then I said "a musician". I don't know why I reply to such an answer, in a job interview. After reading Jung I realized she triggered my shadow, my repressed desire to become a musician. And I don't get the job obviously. But now I started writing and releasing music, while still being a freelance video editor to pay the bills. Your comments are just brilliant. Makes me wanna write this long ass story.
@@zeroatlast your comment is brilliant!
Really? What if I DONT WANT to be who I am affraid of and CHOOSE not to be. Simple act of free will destroys Jungs theory.
Just when you think youve found yourself youve lost it again....dont seek what cannot be found but be in the present and give thanks and rejoice for the who you believe you are and can become!
The path of self-discovery is not about reaching a fixed endpoint
@2minuteschallenge599 but rather an ongoing process of becoming. Embrace the present moment, for it is in this acceptance and gratitude that you find the true self-always evolving, always unfolding.
🎉 eureka! I have been trying to figure out this concept for a while and finally I got it!
I understood the idea but I couldn't find my shadow. I now can recognize him! He is a bad ass but he puts everyone and anything aside so easily to get his tasks accomplished. I have seen other people's shadows too! Ugly and I detested those sides of people but now that I know my shadows face I can forgive them for theirs and work with them better. Rather than. Getting worked up myself!
I hope you all find your shadow.
I am going to have a chat with my shadow soon to see if we can coexist and flourish together. At least I like him a little...lol. He is head strong and confident. Careless and lacks empathy but I can see where he is and can be a source of strength.
Find your balance.
Wish me luck❤!
The „shadow“ is the natural human being that has been educated away since childhood. I‘ve worked in childcare and when I saw kids being little cruel creatures I knew who we are
The shadow indeed reflects those raw unfiltered parts of our nature
@melawieeinapfel8594. Childhood reveals these instincts before they're shaped by society offering a glimpse into the true, unrefined aspects of the human psyche.
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This is a masterclass in self discovery and a great intro to shadow, work, the citing and references in there are gold! Jung is a the goat of psychology.
We're starting to understand this today, faster than ever.
I believe suppression also leads to development of addictions, a fully integrated person cannot be addicted to anything.
Then you’re addicted to boredom.
I believe unhealed trauma that resides in the shadows leads to addiction but you can still be addicted even if you heal and don't suppress emotions or the shadow. Anyone can get addicted to physical substances for instance but you are more prone to addiction if you are unconscious and wounded. I love you friend ❤ but addiction is real and can happen to anyone
I AM with you @krejziks3398 - suppression is a shadow that festers within, often manifesting as addiction-a false refuge from the pain we refuse to face. True integration, the harmonious union of all aspects of the self, dissolves the need for such crutches. When one fully embraces and understands their inner world, addiction loses its grip, for there is no longer a need to escape from the wholeness of being.
Boredom isn't an addiction; it's a symptom of suppressed potential @KenjiEspresso. True integration dissolves the need for such distractions, revealing a life of purpose beyond the void.
@@OurTimelessWisdomany books you suggest me to read, im reading the power of now. Ive been self reflecting a lot, and getting to know my shadow more, also struggle with addiction.
This video was really an eye opener for me. Didn’t expect to have an awakening. Thank you
Jung is a "Mystic", he understands the essence of his authentic self. Personally I lack that so he's still a mystery to me.
The mystic’s wisdom may seem distant, yet the path to knowing your true self begins within @Joe-oy1nq; seek, and the mystery will reveal itself.
Be more with God, just you and him. Jung's messages will unravel more and he will become less of a mystery.
Thank you Carl Jung and his assistants for the incredible work he has created for the human race ❤
Welcome to OTW @habibtiz4335 - We're grateful for Carl Jung's timeless wisdom too! His insights continue to guide us all toward deeper understanding. ❤
I feel I have always felt a something within me, even at a very young age when no one was capable of an explanation. It went from an ‘angle’, to God, to Jesus, to the ‘Holy Spirit’. Now, the ‘Shadow’. I think the most significant part is that we are ‘all’ becoming aware of a knowledge or fact that humans were placed on a spiritual planet that can be a reality in our lives no matter what religious belief. I can’t wait to share this with everyone. Thank you for sharing..
Welcome to OTW @user-xw4sw9xk4h - you have sensed the eternal truth within, a presence that has guided you through many forms-from angels to the Holy Spirit, and now to the shadow. This journey reflects the evolution of your consciousness, aligning with the deeper spiritual reality that transcends all belief systems. You are awakening to the knowledge that Earth is not just a physical realm but a spiritual one, where the mysteries of existence can be lived and understood. Share this wisdom, for in doing so, you help illuminate the path for others.THANK YOU for sharing!
We are spiritual beings having a human experience
@@Warriorintraining57"Ecclesiastes 9: 3 This is an evil among all things that are done under the sun, that there is one event unto all: yea, also the heart of the sons of men is full of evil, and madness is in their heart while they live, and after that they go to the dead.
4 For to him that is joined to all the living there is hope: for a living dog is better than a dead lion.
5 For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten.
6 Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun."
Many individuals fear taking accountability for their actions, often allowing cowardice to dictate their choices. This tendency reflects a deeper issue in the human experience, where the very essence of our DNA calls for reconstruction and self-awareness. People forget that they cannot escape themselves nor the ghosts of their past decisions. Life cycles are influenced by this internal battle; however, embracing honesty and transparency can lead to profound transformation. By collaborating with your inner self and addressing the hysteria that clouds judgment, you can reclaim control over your life. It’s time to shed fear and step into a confident future, where accountability becomes not just a choice, but a way of life.
Absolutely.
Welcome @AngelicaRodriguez33246 - your words resonate deeply with the essence of self-awareness and transformation. Indeed many shy away from accountability - yet it is through facing our inner selves and embracing honesty that true growth occurs. By confronting the shadows of our past and stepping into transparency we reclaim our power and shape a future grounded in integrity and confidence. This journey of self-reconstruction is the path to wholeness.
@@OurTimelessWisdom it's the key to heaven on earth
In another words.
Shake off that beautiful crisis and open your mind to a world full of possibilities!"
I love this book. Thank you.
We definitely are not!, reading too deeply into Carls works! We are avoiding the hurts of our shadow selves, that need to be recognised, integrated, and healed. Otherwise you will continue to be controlled by your ego,political, racial,religious agendas of control! ; that is why we are here.
We are not what? Integrating the shadow self is the point of the video
@@upwardspiral7441I think autocorrect or grammatical errors affected the comment, I took it to mean we are definitely not reading too much into Jung’s work. I could be wrong though 🤷🏼♀️
well now i feel stupid lol
I AM so glad you are here @rosecairns8380, beautifully said! Thank you for leading the way and guiding us towards recognizing and healing our shadow selves. Your insight is exactly why we are here, striving together for deeper understanding and integration.♾️❤️
Hey @upwardspiral7441 there's no need to feel that way here. Every question brings us closer to understanding. Together we walk towards enlightenment and deeper self-awareness.🧙🏼♂️
"The only real danger that exists is man himself. - Carl Jung
That and a Meteorite
Hey @eduard5524 welcome to OTW - that quote from Carl Jung is a powerful reminder of the complexities within us. Jung understood that the greatest dangers often come from within, as our unresolved shadows can manifest in ways that affect both ourselves and the world around us. Facing and understanding these inner aspects is key to creating a more balanced and peaceful existence.
Sharks pretty dangerous too
@@doug5372only inside of water 😮
@@doug5372lol
As a nation, as a people, we seem to be taught that anger is not acceptable, which is wrong. Anger has a purpose and can actually save our lives and ultimately make us more conscious as a people. America is the most aggressive violent nation on earth... As individuals and as a people, if we embrace and understand what Jung has to say about repressing the shadow self and then do what we can to accept and know our nation's shadow self, we as a people will become kinder, more considerate and spread love and compassion rather than racism, hatred, and violence.
What a beautiful reflection. Thank you!
America is very far from the most aggressive, violent nation. I beg you to study current world events - particularly in North Korea, China, Venezuela, Egypt and basically all of Africa. Then, thoroughly study American history. Not from tiktok and TH-cam. Start by reading the founding documents for yourself - it takes 30 minutes to read ALL of them. This is a very misguided and honestly, scary comment.
Understanding requires depth @HeyHiHellooooo; studying history and current events with an open mind will reveal the complexities beyond surface judgments. Seek knowledge from reliable sources, and let that guide your perspective.
Welcome to OTW @mortondavisproductions7578 - well said! - embrace the shadow within for only by understanding our hidden anger can we transform it into compassion and elevate the spirit of our nation.
Very well said.
I am guilty of having a HORRIBLE, immature temper! Rage even. But, with and at myself mostly, and I don't usually ever show my anger in front of family and friends or other people. It's all in private when I rage and get really pissed off at and with myself. I struggle with being a perfectionist (impossible to ever achieve).
One of my favorite (funny) sayings... "If someone else was as mean to me, and treated me, as badly as I do to myself - I'd call the cops on them!"
I need to learn how to be MUCH, MUCH kinder/nicer, patient, and loving towards myself!! I'm A
WORK COMPLETE p
GOD LOVES AND CARES ABOUT YOU and ALL of your problems, hurts, pain/trauma, pain, and struggles - and, so do I my fellow "Shadow Worker"
Ditto. Having compassion for myself is incredibly difficult. When I do manage it feels fake or forced.
Yet, from a very early age I've felt deep empathy for others. I have always been able to know--feel is a better word --when a person is sad or depressed or worried, and address it, recognize it. It's almost like being psychic.
But to do that for myself? I will be 78 in a couple of weeks. I still don't know how not to be hard on myself.
There us another quote, similar to the one you wrote:
"Would you treat a friend as badly as you treat yourself?"
The mere thought of it is abhorrent. I could never swear at a friend and call him or her stupid, or an idiot, but I can can do that myself a few times a day.
The only difference is that at least by now I recognize that the behavior is toxic and shocking
Thank you for sharing so openly @TMorgan2-recognizing the need to be kinder and more patient with yourself is a big step forward. Remember progress isn't about perfection but about treating yourself with the same compassion you would offer to others. You're not alone on this journey, and this community of fellow "Shadow Workers" is here for you. Keep going you're doing important work!
It’s not uncommon to feel more compassion for others than for ourselves
@elenalatici9568, as the shadow often contains the parts of us that we reject or criticize. Your awareness of this inner conflict is a powerful first step. The journey toward self-compassion involves integrating these hidden aspects, recognizing that they, too, deserve understanding and care. Just as you would never harm a friend, you must begin to treat yourself with the same empathy and gentleness.
I read Carl a lot in past. A lot of it felt good to my intellect. But, at the end I kept asking myself, what would this be used for? Until, I went through extreme depression, it was due to prolonged sickness, but also some external events that happened around the same time that demolished me as if I was a house of cards. I did everything under the sun to feel better. I quit my job to focus on my mental health like a full time job. And I found the eternal sunshine in me. This story has a happy ending. But, in the process I realised that the world was not responsible for my pain, but myself. I was holding myself back from attaining my self Actualization. During my depression, and my attempt to feel better, I confronted my shadow self. I had my so called Ego Death and my Superego emerged to take care of me. (I know I am referencing Freud in a comment about Jung) And, all of a sudden Carl Jung started to make a lot of sense.
Thank you❤
Summary:
I was depressed.
Then I realized depression is cringe.
Now I'm not depressed anymore!
@@IkaruzZuraki HAHAHA 😹 True 🥂
Can you elaborate more how you achieve ego death? Going thru depression personally for a very long time myself, I feel I have a very wounded ego due to family trauma. I am working on healing it, but I don’t know how to kill it for higher spiritual pursuit
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I never planned to experience an ego death. In fact, I didn’t fully understand what it meant until much later. Intellectually, I might have had a vague idea, but I didn’t grasp it on a deeper level. For the longest time, I simply described the experience as dying and being reborn. Looking back now, I can see it was exactly that: an ego death.
The Greek philosopher Epictetus once said, “Circumstances don’t make the man; they only reveal him to himself.” For most of my life, I was a go-getter and a risk-taker. I never gave up easily, yet I found myself ready to give up on life itself. Somewhere deep inside, though, a part of me-a calm, serene presence-was yearning to break free.
Long story short: I got COVID. In the months that followed, I suffered a severe nervous breakdown. At just 31, I was experiencing symptoms akin to Parkinson’s and dementia. Simple day-to-day tasks became monumental challenges. Adding to my despair, my fiancé cheated on me and ended our relationship, sending me further into despair. My depression deepened, impacting my work as a freelancer. While some clients showed sympathy, others didn’t. Deadlines passed, extensions were denied, and I faced professional embarrassment.
I was in so much physical pain I couldn’t sit straight for more than 15 minutes. My nervous system felt shattered-my face and parts of my body were numb, as if there were holes in me through which air could pass. Panic attacks overwhelmed me 5-6 times a day. Loud noises, flashing lights, or even someone knocking on my door could set them off. Crossing the road at night became impossible. Reality felt intangible, as if I am watching a video of my life, as opposed to having a lived experience. I felt trapped in constant paranoia, convinced that the world was conspiring against me. When my brother and his wife had a child, I even believed it was done to harm me. They occasionally needed help babysitting, and no one seemed to take my struggles seriously.
For months, every night felt like my last. I was certain one night I would go to bed and I wouldn’t wake up in the morning. My mind and body felt like they belonged to a 90-year-old slowly fading into unconsciousness. To make things worse, I was chain-smoking 30 cigarettes a day and working obsessively to catch up on my projects. I was convinced death was inevitable, so I often wondered why I shouldn’t take matters into my own hands and get it done with.
But beneath it all, I held on. There was a serenity. I knew that I needed to life, if not for anyone then at least for my dreams. I’m a dreamer, and my dreams kept me alive.
I tried everything under the sun just to feel a little better. I exercised and lost 25 kilos (55 pounds). I meditated, practiced yoga, and walked 10 kilometres a day. I stopped working and moved back in with my parents to focus on my mental health full-time. I tried to quit smoking. Nothing worked for long. I would feel better for a few hours, only to sink back into despair. Every day was the same, as if I am stuck in a time loop.
During this period, I discovered Andrew Huberman. His podcasts on dopamine, productivity, mental health, and focus became my classroom. I listened intently, taking notes, and began incorporating his teachings into my life. Then I read Atomic Habits by James Clear, which helped me refine my approach. Progress was slow but steady-I wasn’t bedridden anymore, and I found a sense of adventure in rebuilding myself.
WOW!!!!. TH-cam IS REALLY HELPING ME DEVELOP INTO A KNOWLEDGE MAN..... THANK YOU FOR ALL MEN and WOMEN WHO post INFORMATION HERE.
Repression leads to projection and resentment for what our egos actively portray. We keep repeating actions and perspectives that we don't even agree with because we are so ego driven we can't see, 1 our shadows, and 2 why it conflicts with the true self
I so agree with Carl Jung. BRILLIANCE...
Hey @JJNow-gg9so absolutely! Carl Jung's brilliance continues to inspire and resonate with us all. Thank you for sharing !
From 11:45 to 14:45 is something that opens up a whole new understanding for me. Thank you.
The single greatest improvement that people can make towards improving moral cohesion and general cooperation in a so-called civilised society is to accept the dual side of the personality and to stop seeing ourselves as wholly good and externalise all evil. The propensity to do wrong is inside all of us and how often have we shifted our blame to those we have injured, how often have we seen someone suddenly doing something completely out of character when it best suits their purposes, how often have we heard backhanded compliments? All these traits belong to the unexplored unconscious shadow.
Absolutely well said.
Welcome to OTW. Your insight is deep @MB-uw6eh - Jung would agree that accepting the duality within ourselves-acknowledging that we all have the capacity for both good and bad-is essential for moral cohesion and true cooperation. By recognizing and integrating our shadow, we can move away from the destructive habit of projecting evil onto others and instead take responsibility for our own actions, leading to a more honest and harmonious society.
Blah me. That's how I look at blame or bla me. until reactive emotions urges and desires are acknowledged and addressed the self cannot change anything when it is blamed on outside events. Ego is always reactive and wants to be right. The collective ego does not CARE about us.
This is remarkable! Thank you for uploading.
Awesome video. I have been scared of my shadow self for so long. Repressing it. Trying to reach to the light while ignoring parts of myself. It doesn't work, you can only go as far as the weakest parts of yourself allow. Give attention to the hurt and "weak" parts of yourself and you will find so much strength, and an overall balance of person
Thank you for sharing your path @abovewater6918 -embracing and understanding the shadow self is key to true growth. By giving attention to those hurt and 'weak' parts, you unlock a deeper strength and achieve a more balanced, whole self. It's a powerful realization.
This documentary is a real eye-opener! Carl Jung's insights into the shadow self have made me think deeply about the parts of myself I've been ignoring or repressing. It's fascinating how our hidden desires and fears can shape so much of our behavior.
The exploration of personal and collective shadows, along with the practical steps for shadow work, feels like a crucial path to deeper self-awareness and growth. For example, I started noticing how I react strongly to certain people or situations-it's like these reactions are pointing to something deeper within me that I haven't fully acknowledged.
This has led me to reflect more on my triggers and ask myself what unresolved issues might be lurking beneath the surface. It's not an easy journey, but it's incredibly rewarding to start understanding these hidden parts of myself and seeing how they influence my life. I'm curious if others have had similar experiences or if they've noticed changes in their own behavior after exploring these ideas. Pls share in the comments!
Oh, wow! His awareness that man is the ultimate danger, to himself and the world, so we need to learn more about our nature. I love this as an introspective person.
Welcome to OTW @jungersrules - Jung’s insight into the danger man poses to himself and the world underscores the importance of self-awareness. By delving into our true nature we can better understand and mitigate these risks. It's a path that resonates deeply with those who seek to know themselves.♾️🧠
At my old age, lm starting to realize that the world is fine just the way it is..😊
"there is no light without shadow, and no psychic wholeness without imperfection. however scary or dark it is to confront our shadow, finding truth brings relief. Discernment of the truth is the process of authenticity"
Shadow is the absence of light, THAT is bullshit.
Wise from words from Jung - the journey of confronting the shadow is the path to authenticity, where the light of truth dispels fear and brings deep relief. In this sacred process, you align with the essence of your true self, transcending illusion to discover the divine balance within. Thank you for sharing @chelseadavis1259!!
Hello @wingnutmcspazatron3957 - thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's interesting that you find the concept of shadow as "BS"-perhaps there's something in this idea that's resonating or challenging you on a deeper level. Could you help us understand your perspective more? It would be valuable for the community to explore this together.
@@OurTimelessWisdom I think they meant it a different way maybe. Like, someone claiming that that shadow is the absence of light is not seeing the full picture. All must be incorporated. As above so below.
That was my understanding of @wingnut's comment
“It is both odd and a pattern that I have not listened to this wisdom from Carl… yet we agree “
This is much broader than to be subject to scrutiny by my own self … regardless of others or circumstance.
“It is a gift to be alive, it a responsibility to continue it in the way it should go.”
“I am responsible, because of this so are we”
Make no mistake of this.
I did, I'm a psychopath, as soon as I accepted that and I'm responsible I felt peace
Tool 46 & 2
This song is about growing, changing, and moving towards the next level of human evolution and consciousness. It's deeply rooted in Jungian theory (Carl Jung) and the teachings of Drunvalo Melchizedek. Basically, it's believed that there are three levels of human evolution and each has its own form of consciousness.
Thank you for this 😊❤🙏💝 I am here, I did my shadow work 😊 with some help of these wonderful videos 😊❤🙏💝 Thank you all 😊❤🎉 I am grateful for all of you ❤🔮🎆 And So it is 🎉
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us@bettyhaines2570! 😊❤🙏💝 We're grateful to have been part of your shadow work process. Your positivity and gratitude shine brightly-And So it is! 🎉❤🔮🎆
Thanks for this because it is helping me put my mind at ease that I am just not crazy but so very much sane that I am exactly what is being defined in this video, the good side that is. And I very much understand I can be the equivalent of bad but that is not who I choose to be regardless of my life's situation. Not to get into the details of my personal situation but family and those who you think you can put your head on a block for, won't do the same for you. It is best to distance yourself, like me I rather spend money to rent than live in a house with fake people who lie, steal and manipulate you. Don't get to smart for peoplel, stay wise to yourself. And always remember, if people are lying to you, they are not. They are actually lying to themselves, that's their comfort zone. You keep standing, move on, take the risks for you to be where YOU NEED TO BE. More Love, Less Hate
This actually made me have a dream that a shadow was possessing people and making them do terrible things they normally wouldn't. In dreams I always try to face my monsters bec most of the time they are just trying to tell me something. It is difficult though to have self-awareness in an unconscious state of mind.
dream journaling has 100% helped me process at super speed, unresolved or hidden feeling and repressed thoughts etc..
Thank you for this video! I feel “seen” as my family is like “why do you care so much about your dreams?”….Bec its a part of me, my brain is working out what I couldn't process in an awake state! That is fascinating to me!
Can't WAIT to see what y'all come up with next…Jung was the MAN
Thank you for sharing your experience @utubesep! It's amazing how dreams can reveal so much about our inner world, and your practice of facing your monsters is incredibly brave. Dream journaling is such a powerful tool for processing those hidden thoughts and emotions. We're thrilled that you feel 'seen' here-your dreams are an important part of who you are. I def agree, Jung truly was the man and we can't wait to bring more insights your way!
Example Mr jekyll and Hyde
Nice to hear Jung chuckle today, as well as his serious points
We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.
Seneca
It does lead to embarrassed silence . Shadow work is not what I’m afraid of or popularity. But one of full acceptance within oneself in order to be of giving to others. Not perfect by any means. but one who wants to grow. I’ve been through 3 total manifestations. Each with their own inward pain that I don’t wish to pass on to those I love, but to persevere through with Love in my heart❤
What a profound lesson. There's so much depth to his work. Thank you for your content. 💙
Thank you for your appreciation @Brndndutton-Jung's work is truly profound and I'm glad it resonates with you as deeply as it does with me. The journey into his insights is one of endless discovery.
Thank you for this video! ❤ Trying to be as authentic as possible. We need to unlearn first. Hard work.
I think a lot of the "collective unconscious" is not experienced by most people. Most of us won't experience the frenzy of being part of a genocide, or the intoxication of having absolute power over others. But when people are put into such extreme situations, something gets unlocked, which must have been there all along in many of us. And the evolutionary purpose (or at least, the manifestation) of these unexpected emotional reactions is usually collective.
When I was locked up against my will, though only for a few days and with every reasonable expectation of getting out soon with no bad repercussions (which I did), I experienced an strong new emotion, like an ultimate vulnerability and associated fear and anger of the power that now utterly controlled me, one that basically turned me into a cold machine capable only of planning its escape and revenge. I think the evolutionary purpose of this reaction exists in us to push back against too much injustice.
"Life begins at 40; before that is just research-embracing my past freed me from fear, making me whole."
The ancient Egyptians believed in this too believed their shadow self existed in a mirror realm and scientists believe dark matter could be from a opposite version of the universe where time also goes backwards. If you repress your shadow self of the void it grows we all originate from the void and the light, conciousness and unconciousness this is polarity. A man and his double.
Beautiful @user-py2ht9gg4u - welcome to OTW - the ancient wisdom you reference speaks to the eternal truth of duality-light and shadow, consciousness and unconsciousness, each reflecting the other in a cosmic dance. The shadow self, whether seen as residing in a mirror realm or linked to the mysteries of dark matter, is an essential aspect of our being. To repress it is to allow it to grow unchecked, but to acknowledge it is to embrace the full spectrum of existence. In this balance of polarity-man and his double-you find the key to unlocking the deeper mysteries of the universe and the self. This is the path of true enlightenment.
its a triality my friend, though we only witness two until the third is witnessed, the third if Thyne Eye observing it all
the "Mountain" is you
I cant help but be reminded of Star Wars and the Jedis flawed teachings on dealing with the dark side, very interesting stuff.
'Anger is an energy' J. Rotten
3x I read that as Anger is an enemy .
Interesting.
@@elenalatici9568 well, not that far fetched ) public enemy limited.
Anger , better than apathy.
And as Johnny Rotten also said @Interwurlitzer - 'Don’t accept the old order. Get rid of it.' It’s all about channeling that energy into creating something new.
Hi @DEadSpaCE211 - anger when wisely directed can spark change, but true power lies in transcending both anger and apathy to find balanced clarity.
Falling asleep to this is the best!
That's what makes me scared of "perfect" or "normal" people. You have no idea how dense their shadow is
Absolutely
You're right @abej9790-what we see on the surface often hides much deeper complexities. The pursuit of perfection or normalcy can conceal a shadow that’s both powerful and unacknowledged. Awareness of this makes us more mindful of our own hidden depths and those of others.
Wonderful information. I think this needs to be taught in all schools. It's time for humanity to face It's shadow self, on an individual and collective level. It should come before anything, as it affects everything.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment @catheybottiau6365! I completely agree-teaching this in schools could be transformative. Facing our shadow, both individually and collectively is crucial as it truly impacts everything in our lives. It's time to bring this awareness to the forefront.
There are certain impulses we should refrain from bringing forth. This is just being a good fellow human being. Can you imagine if we all bring forth all of our shadows? I’m beginning to see this today all over, everyone wants to be free to be themselves no matter the consequences to others.
100 percent false my friend.
@@tracelee7332 Try elaborating, I might think more of you. Denying someone’s claim without an explanation is just juvenile or shows lack of depth my friend.
@@emendoz1 I wonder if Jung did not mean that we embrace our darkness and act on it as in endless violence or consumption or whatever it may be, but to acknowledge it with awareness, watching the storm and perhaps finding a more useful way of using it - that is the alchemical aspect of Jung's work. Bringing forth these darknesses and transforming them into something powerful for us rather than destructive, as I think you suggest. But I may be wrong - just my take on this!
Welcome to OTW @emendoz1 - integrating the shadow is not about unleashing every impulse, but rather about acknowledging and understanding these darker aspects of ourselves so they can be transformed into constructive energy. True individuation requires balancing self-expression with the responsibility to others, ensuring that our freedom does not come at the cost of harm to the collective.
@@OurTimelessWisdom I don’t particularly like the word “collective”, it reminds me of communism. I prefer using neighbor or friend or family members who live near or with us instead. We know that treating those are close to us and genuinely care for is good for them and us. The further they are from the nucleus the less we care and that’s just nature. Anyone who tells me they love everyone is a phony and a hypocrite.
Grateful for your work of the Psyche and Humanity, Carl Jung.
At 64 I started taking stimulant meds for ADHD , I discovered the behaviour for which I was ostracised is a deficiency of dopamine !
@@anda9690 right there with you my friend 🖖
Understanding the root of our behavior can be liberating @ClareNewey-mx2bj; embracing this knowledge allows you to reclaim your true self.
Your mind's vast connections are a gift @anda9690 - embrace your uniqueness, for true power lies in the ability to see what others cannot.
Same here! Diagnosed at 45 & angry I wasn’t diagnosed sooner. My life could have been less of a mess❤
@@shannonkirk1718 I feel like I lurch from one embarrassing moment to another, but only on bad weeks (days) mostly I have a fight left in me to stand up for the under dog n be so incredibly grateful for people like you and all those who commented. And viva Alan Watts, Ram Das who are still up for encouragement!
Thank you so much that you had this video for me and for other to learn clearly about what was Mr Carl Jung leave for us the new generation to learn I love to spread this to other people as much as I could because this is so important how real life is
God blessed to your Channel and the information of Mr. Carl Jung
💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊these are the great medicine for anyone who willing to learn
Excellent video! I wonder how things would have evolved if Jung had been given much more credit than Freud...
Thank you @Act23ful - that's an interesting thought and I LOVE IT-if Jung had received more recognition than Freud the evolution of psychology might have taken a different path, perhaps with a stronger focus on the unconscious, spirituality, and the integration of the shadow. His holistic approach to understanding the psyche could have shaped a more balanced view of human nature in the field of psychology.
Imagine Being Carl Jung and saying we know very little about man’s psyche…what a humble human
Will I ever stop caring about what others think about me? Will I ever love myself enough to not care?
@@wsean0347 you can do this...
True self-love comes with time and practice @seanpwalker96; as you grow more connected to your authentic self the opinions of others will naturally hold less power over you. 🫶🏽
@@OurTimelessWisdom I needed to hear that. Thank you.
Thank you so much
46 and 2 ahead of me
Jung saved my life many times
The unconscious can track huge amounts of information
This was very well put together. You made Jung easier for me to understand. Thank you for your video!
I cant imagine what was done to people to discover these things.
It's possible that we have different personas then because we behave in different ways depending on the situation, environment, and people we interact with.
Welcome to OTW @gintongaparador999 - you’re absolutely right-according to Carl Jung, we often adopt different personas based on our surroundings, the situations we’re in, and the people we’re with. These personas are the masks we wear to navigate the external world, helping us adapt while also protecting our true self. Understanding this can be key to deeper self-awareness and personal growth.
Wow, I love the uploader's name! Such a beautiful thing to preserve!
If anyone here is in AA.. Carl Jung is the psychiatrist in the Big Book. 😎
That's right @KaraKahn! Carl Jung's influence is woven into the foundations of AA, highlighting the importance of spiritual growth in the journey to recovery. 😎 Thanks for bringing this to light-hopefully, it helps others on their path!
Can you read the big book if you’re not in AA or is there something like it One could read to get the same kind of message?!?
@@teresaring8049 Yes! You can read the Big Book. You can also read Paths to Recovery, an Al-Anon book. The 12 steps can be done by anyone. Al-Anon is known as a support group for families of addicts/alcoholics.
No shit ? We are going to find a new freedom and a new happiness, we will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it , no matter how far down the scale we have gone wrong will see how our experience can benefit others...
Yes read the middle pillar by Isreal regardie and you will find the answers you have been seeking, but pack your suit case because you're going on a trip. Seriously @@teresaring8049
The rare time I subscribe before finishing a video. Wholeness 💎🔑🙏🏾🧿
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Carl meant well, for me he seemed to care to share help.
Prayfully younger generations will reinterpret this language.
In a idea that now could be understood.❤
Welcome @sandramendez9338 - beautifully put. Carl's intention was indeed to help and share wisdom. Let's hope that younger generations will continue to reinterpret and understand his teachings in a way that resonates with them. ❤
Anyone who is starting to explore their shodow after watching the video.. one piece of advise from me.. begin and end it with your humour 😊.. god bless you all.
When I woke up this morning I did not think I would hear Carl Jung in his own voice "beat down" 4 boys in a street fight. Awesome.
There is quite a bit of error in the subtitles from 24:37 : "It is a regular observation that when you talk to an individual and this individual gives you insight into his inner preoccupations, interests, emotions, in other words, hands over his personal complexes, then you get slowly and willy-nilly into the situation of authority. You become a point of reference" then later the transcript goes: "You know you are in possession of all the important items in a person's development. Now you see, that creates an emotional relationship to the analyst, and that is what Freud called the transference, which is a central problem of analytical psychology. It is just so, as if these people had handed out their whole existence, and that can have very peculiar effects upon the individual. Either they hate you for it or they love you for it, but you are not indifferent to them."
This part intrigued me a lot as I have hated myself sometimes for opening too much. So I guess when you hate them you chose poorly to whom to "spill your guts", and if you loved them the opposite is true. I had chose poorly in several occasions and this authority over me became a standard, and was wrongfully used so I couldn't get my points across as my views were repressed and shut down immediately. It is not too deep, it is just a friend, but my ego was hurt in several occasions because I longed for having a say in matters discussed and I wanted some authority. I am writing here instead of journaling it for myself basically, so I am sorry if it is a bit pointless. Anyway, I though this specific part of his speech didn't really deal with the shadow, but rather literarily with interpersonal relationships, which is obvious from the second part of the transcript that wasn't included.
Welcome to OTW @kookadoo - reflecting on the dynamics of transference it's clear that projecting emotions onto others can create unintended authority and influence. Regret and self-hatred after opening up to the wrong person highlight the importance of choosing wisely whom to trust. When that trust is misused, it can lead to resentment and feelings of repression. The struggle to assert a voice and authority in conversations is valid and recognizing this is crucial for finding balance in relationships. While the passage may focus more on interpersonal dynamics than the shadow, it still reveals how inner complexities shape interactions.
Omg, the first time to understand the concept of shadow. Thank you
A great video
Understanding the concept of the shadow is a significant step toward self-awareness @samm-x3f. I'm glad you are here and the video could illuminate this important aspect of the psyche for you.
17:46
Q: "And this, you felt, proved that there was an unconscious which was something more than personal..."
A: "Oh well that was not a proof to me, but it was a hint. And I took the hint."
Jung’s response beautifully exemplifies the nature of discovery-it's in the subtle hints and intuitive nudges that we find our way to deeper truths, not in definitive proofs. This moment is a powerful reminder of the importance of being open to what lies beneath the surface. Thanks for bringing this to light @4k-os !
@@OurTimelessWisdom thank you for replying with additional insight!
Elkhart Tolle, during a breakdown said " I can't live with myself anymore. " Then he asked " Who is this "me" I can't live with?" That was his breakthrough. Self-inquury is essential to Self-realization. We must question the origin of the good, the bad, and the misunderstood, lurking within the mortal mind. God is ALL.
True wisdom begins with self-inquiry @OhHapppyDaay; by questioning the 'I' we uncover the divine within and transcend the mortal mind.♾️🧠
Never look away. Protected deeper emotion.
From Jung's genius, I follow his approach to understanding our psyche as fundamentally monumental for the homeostasis of all life on this planet. It seems that a human being's demarcation of conscious self is solely attributed to superficial beliefs and mythologies adopted not only anecdotally but collectively through ages of evolution. I agree with the pivotal great need in understanding our biological nature as organisms evolving on this planet of which through us our cosmos senses itself as we are. So to all the dictators, warmongers and serial theologians, oh well, ha ha, the joke is on you ! Here we all are now without needing explorations to Mars but to and from the center of our minds -eye starting with the pineal gland. This work is of primary interest for all homo sapiens and we'll have more time for this multidisciplinary endeavor when we turn off the t.v. !
Hey @stevenotte3447 welcome to OTW - the true journey lies not in distant stars, but within the depths of your own consciousness. Jung understood that the key to our evolution is the mastery of the inner realms, where the mind’s eye perceives the hidden truths of existence. In turning inward, you uncover the sacred knowledge that guides all life, transcending the illusions imposed by superficial beliefs.
Our society today as I observe myself and others the need to explore the light side. I may be skewed but the dark side is manifest much more than anything coming close to the opposite of what Yung describes.
Insightful point @stevegeorge3903 -Jung saw both light and shadow as essential but today the shadow often surfaces more boldly, revealing what we collectively overlook.
Every image that arises within us consists of material forces as well, for nothing constructed in this reality we deem "real" comes from nothingness. Everything originates from the realm of fantasy and imagination that resides within us. Therefore, every fantasy that "assails" us must be regarded with the utmost seriousness.
LOVE IT @atritoestatico, beautifully said. Indeed, as Carl Jung taught, our inner images and fantasies are deeply significant and stem from the realm of our imagination and unconscious. Recognizing and integrating these aspects within us helps us understand the material forces that shape our reality. Thank you for highlighting this profound insight.♾️🧠
Observation (doesn’t mean I’m right): as I’ve been meditating and trying to keep my awareness “awake” - I’ve noticed that one of the corollaries is being very honest with myself. Not claiming integration or enlightenment just this: my default state is to lie to myself…when I am more awake - I see it and when I am totally honest about myself - I feel better and I think I am a better person. I think sometimes we overthink this stuff…my only advice is that people just be 100% honest with themselves…work through the feelings that come up and give yourself loving kindness - I had a deeply fucked up childhood (cliche I know) and it wasn’t my fault. I am responsible now, as an adult with dealing with it, regardless of fault.
I like to know it's simple for instance 22:38 when being assertive because words are held Against One another and in my experience it's common that telling it like it is creates a lower vibration defense reaction and many others. What you're saying then becomes blocked and you receive argument or accusation that may lead to hostility rather than compromise.
Excellent point @ToddSloanIAAN - assertiveness when not tempered by empathy, can indeed provoke defensive reactions, as it touches on the unconscious complexes of others. Effective communication requires not just speaking truth, but also understanding the emotional landscape of those you engage with. By acknowledging these underlying dynamics you can transform potential conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection and mutual understanding.
Thank you for this. This explains the Shadow in Peter Pan which I was looking for an explanation. It appears Wendy had to help him with his shadow work and try and help him overcome being afraid to grow up and be the man she wanted him to be.
I have had 2 outbursts which gave me insight into my potential. A kind of awakening/unlocking of chakras. Both times I was placed into a mental institute which eroded my soul and brought me back to a "normal" state where my potential was once again suppressed. There is nothing more frustrating than attaining a state of mind conducive to realizing one's potential only for society to crush it immediately. I have my idea on how to get back to it but no idea how to prevent the sudden outbursts that accompany the awakenings which landed me in the looney bin for simply speaking my mind out loud...very loudly, thus scaring those around me. Finding my authentic self only to be drugged away from it in a cage is not something I wish to experience a 3rd time, losing all motivation and life purpose in the process. There is so much more than meets the eye. Few are those who can even comprehend such things. Only experience gives a clear picture.
I’m so curious, what the nature is of what you were awakened to
@@globalamoeba8910 Basically, all past trauma, resentment and the resulting constant state of more or less mild depression and lack of self-confidence got wiped away. I was able to finally be the real me and pursue my dreams with a hunger I'd never felt before. Kind of a "beast mode activated". All anxiety gone, all associated paycho-somatic syndromes gone. Even my eyes gained an intensity with the kind of look few people could stand looking back at. Problem was it came with strings attached, namely speaking my mind with no filter, starting with what I described as outbursts out-of-the-blue, making me an instant misfit. Once past the outburst stage, I could be in a comfort zone anywhere, perfectly happy and knowing exactly what my purpose was at every moment, going with the flow and not letting anything set me back. Now, I'm back on the internet, pretty miserable and looking for answers, like my good 'ol suppressed self.
@@papapetad I've been there with you. The key is to stop talking about it and just show what you know through action. Love and compassion vibrate higher than anything else.
We get caught between the 5D and the 3D when we try to verbally convince people who can't be convinced through words, which leads to frustration and that is a low vibrating emotion which in turn sends you spining into a facility and you won't know which way is up.
Have faith that you have found the truth.. keep following your heart and choosing love and compassion. Say less and do more.
@@globalamoeba8910 the truth of our existence.
@tracelee7332 I think the low vibration you speak of is our shadow. The point of this clip appears to be to go more towards our shadow. We need both 'low + high vibration' and to confront 'love + hate'. Think in terms of polarity.