would love if you did a video on the transition from singleness to dating and what advice you would give a gal that finds so much identity, joy, and fulfillment from singleness
AMEN to this request; I just recently learned to stop anticipating a relationship and am basking in the joys of the single life, and I don't think I'll be able to just willingly jump off that lol
I was 5 years of chronic illness. Semi Housebound, lost my health, job, finances and my fiance left me. I couldn't even look at electronic screen for 5 minutes, or hold a 10-minute conversation. But God did an amazing work. And if he can do this, he can do it in you also. 😇🙏 I now have a Christian Channel where I encourage people and show them what God did in my life and that there is hope for you also. *Keep believing even when it's hard* 🙏❤️🙌 *All things are possible with God*
Hey Kian, very mature in your response to keep your relationship with Christ private and same with Kyle. Not everything needs to be made in public. Really enjoyed the video. God bless you and Kyle in your marriage in October that everything may run smoothly and I'll be praying for you both.
Kian you were such an eye opening window to Christ for me (if that makes sense haha) and your videos really assisted in leading me back to Jesus🤍🤍🤍🤍 love what you do and your love for Christ!
could you make a video talking more about binge eating and spending?? because i am a very material person and sometimes i can feel that the happiness i get from things and buying new things is soooo temporary but i just don’t have self-control 🌸💕 i love your videos!!
Lol I relate on so many levels. I am really loving this season of singleness and growing in it. Also I'm "controlling" in the same way. Not towards people, but about things being the way that I like, like with my home decor, style etc. because I just know what I want! Lol I try to see moments of compromise as opportunities to grow in virtue because it really isn't that big of a deal, it feels like it for me sometimes though haha :)
Thank you so much, Kian! You and Kyle are such a blessing! If anyone reads this please pray for me and my boyfriend to be more like them! Love you all💕
I love how open you are about everything in your videos! So refreshing to watch someone so open and honest! Recently found you and although I am not religious I still find myself relating to you a TON!
Thank you so much for your openness and transparency in regards to your faith- all the struggles and joys! It really has helped me get back in track w my faith as well ♥️ stay safe in arizona
I love you! like seriously I saw some of your videos today and holy spirit spoke to me, ( your modesty video) IS SO GOOD. bless you you told me different way to deal with sin and how to stop it and ur SO SO SO SO pretty
Girlllll im so excited for you and Kyle! I didn't realize you were getting married in October. Im getting married next month on the 26th. Blessing to your marriage 🙏💍🙌
Even if you aren’t making faith related videos, your faith still shines through each of your other videos and it is still uplifting and encouraging! I love your videos :)
CONGRATS ON 60K Kian (and Kyle haha I suspect this will become a joint channel and get a name change once you guys marry lol)! 🎉 I just started following a few weeks ago and your channel was like 20k smaller, haha. All the fast growth is SO deserved and I'm 100% convinced that it is because the Spirit is behind you both- Thank you fof your commitment to being lights for His kingdom! 🙌🏾❤
Kian Tilton Yess always! Thank you for always being so open & honest. I feel the same way, that my past seems so foreign. In fact, I even laugh because the deliverance from God has been soo much.
Lol! In the ending you said "wow, that took a turn," but I actually appreciated, liked and respected that turn you took. I agree, take that time with God. When the time is right He will direct you how and what to share. :)
I understand being particular. I can be that way too sometimes. Also, I just want to encourage you considering how you found your identity in singleness while you were single, and how you had plans in your singleness before you met Kyle. Based on a lot of what you said here, I get the impression that you're the type who likes to plan. But, I just want to encourage you that things happen the way they happen because that's how it was meant to happen. Remember that Isaiah 55:8-9 says that God's thoughts and ways are higher than ours. I think you know that, but, like I said, things were meant to happen exactly how the Father intended them to happen. So trust in Him. Trust He knows what's best even when you're unsure. I know that can be hard to do sometimes. I just know that if I could go back and talk to the version of Valerie that was so awash in disappointed hopes because things weren't going the way I wanted them to (not saying that's you, but it was me), I would go back and tell her, "please, just trust God. He's got this." That can be especially hard when we want things to go a certain way. Or when we think things should go a certain way - at some point we need to learn to humbly surrender to our Father and trust in His way. Just trust God. It is simple, but I know it isn't easy. But, if we could just learn to humbly surrender and trust God, that is where we get our peace that surpasses all understanding.
Giving up my control (which in itself is a weakness, totally false- have none and is basically wanting things my way.... ) Jesus talks to us and says: As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.” John 15:9-11 NIV Amen!
Every time I watch your videos I am so convicted at the fact of how much I need Jesus and your life is such a testimony of faith and peace (from my side) thank you for being that person for me on the other side of the world. Praying for you hon❤️
New viewer here. I just wanted to say I love how honest you are. It is like a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you girl! Praying your channel grow, because you really deserve to be a big TH-camr!
I think wanting someone to "be good for youtube" is not something you should feel guilty about thinking or saying because you want someone who can fit into your life, which youtube is a big part of your life. I think it's totally understandable.
On which video were you referring when you said that Kyle loved the questions you were asking while on a ship? And that you have a video covering that subject? I would love to watch it!
@@luciatarkova5402 Dear Lucia, I am single, I live in India, I haven't been able to go to australia but God has taken to another part of the country where I work as a doctor in a small mission hospital, IAM the only doctor here now so it is beautiful as I get to make a difference, save lives but also filled with a lot of challenges but God helps me through it all..I certainly would love to come to australia someday, Hope and pray you meet the man of your dreams, May you have the favour of God and people wherever you go, You have a knack of making friends wherever you go, I belive you are woman beautiful within and out. You will meet him in the most unexpected place..God bless:-)
Trinity Bell only pay with cash or your debt card .....can’t spend what you don’t have. 😊 Also as you grew in Jesus, he will fill you up! Kian’s mommy ;)
I constantly feel as though my social skills need work & I always think back to how you ask good questions. I listen & share my own stories too, but I want to be interested and care! What kind of questions should I ask or what should I google? Please help😁💕 love your channel and testimony by the way!!
I think she's more of a type 1 or 3. Type 9's can tend to be really selfless and complacent. They would be more easy going. Kyle gives me type 9 energy.
@@leanna_amittai i feel like kyle mentioned that he's a 2 in one of the vlogs. i'm a 9 and just assumed she's one too because i identify a lot with what she's talking about, especially with the procrastination/messy tendencies. 9s can be secretly selfish too but come off as selfless for the sake of keeping the peace, just like how one of the viewers assumed she was rly selfless
Yeah, life is always better when we’re acting like kids! And, childlike faith is also a thing 😍🙌🏻 just reminded me of how much fun I had at summer camp this weekend with scavenger hunts and tipping each other off floaties in the water 😍 (and this is all ppl who are 18+ hhaha)
I met my husband a month or two after I got out of a very serious and yet very emotionally abusive relationship. I wish I was single for a bit longer but God's timing is so beautiful! I am learning to not regret and live in the moment with my soulmate. I think it's important for young wives to see the beauty in themselves as well as being someone's other half.
Do you think that by avoiding All kinds of intimacy (even kissing) with your boyfriend before marriage, could possibly make you see him more as a friend, eventually? I try to do the same as you if I'm in a relationship, but I imagine that after marriage I would find it kind of awkward or difficult being intimate with my partner in any way, as prolonging Non-Intimacy almost makes me process the other person as a friend, rather than partner, as I'm suppressing my intimate thoughts towards them the entire time. Does anyone else go through this as well? I read articles on Christian women getting married & then having real trouble getting intimate with their hubbies as they always grew up looking at sex as 'wrong' or 'dirty' whilst growing up Christian. Clearly God says it's a blessing in marriage but our minds can process things in the wrong way sometimes. God bless you Kian for all the lovely vlogs and keeping strong until marriage xx
I deifinitely feel you and have been concerned about this. Recently I’ve gotten more loose about being more intimate (still waiting for marriage ofc) and atleast for now I haven’t felt my heart heavy about becoming more strict. I feel like me and my boyfriend started off very friendly and learned to surpress our emotions to an extent, but also we were quite young when we first started hanging out.. Now I feel like we’ve cuddled more, kissed more (still trying to find the right balance for this so it wouldnt get too tempting/physical), and had super open conversations about being affectionate and trying to figure out a balance. I feel like saying sweet things and expressing your attraction verbally also will help a lot in not making you two feel like just regular friends.
@@lauraporthan8662 I feel like the subject isn't black & white & what works in one relationship wouldn't for another. Ultimately, we need to try & strive to keep God at the centre of our relationships. I feel the need for some intimacy, like kissing holding etc although I'm also aware things can quickly escalate. I think that when you're in love with someone & attracted to them physically, spiritually & emotionally, it would be difficult for anyone not to think of sex with that partner. We r only human. Some people make it sound very simple & easy with statements like "I don't even think about sex with my boyfriend" which is not realistic, as we r all battling against flesh & spirit & it brings guilt on others who feel shame for even thinking about it. Kian is truly blessed in this area. Boundaries r very necessary & I personally felt very convicted when I used to fall into any kind of sexual sin even though it wasn't sex itself. I wana make sure it's a God given conviction & not one of shame & guilt X
@@lauraporthan8662 the Holy Spirit is the One who righteously convicts. Our own flesh & the enemy is the one who brings shame & guilt. Stay Blessed brothers & sisters
would love if you did a video on the transition from singleness to dating and what advice you would give a gal that finds so much identity, joy, and fulfillment from singleness
Definitely want to make more videos on this! I have one called "preparing for marriage'
@@Kian_Wolfgang so stoked!
AMEN to this request; I just recently learned to stop anticipating a relationship and am basking in the joys of the single life, and I don't think I'll be able to just willingly jump off that lol
I was 5 years of chronic illness. Semi Housebound, lost my health, job, finances and my fiance left me. I couldn't even look at electronic screen for 5 minutes, or hold a 10-minute conversation.
But God did an amazing work. And if he can do this, he can do it in you also. 😇🙏
I now have a Christian Channel where I encourage people and show them what God did in my life and that there is hope for you also.
*Keep believing even when it's hard* 🙏❤️🙌
*All things are possible with God*
Thank you for sharing this! It means a lot!
Beautiful! Thanks for sharing
Thank you I hope God can use this testimony to bless others 😊🙏💕
That was truly amazing thanks for sharing your story !
I love this just subscribed❤️❤️
"I honestly forget about sex". Girl that is a blessing FOR SURE. Haha.
😂 praise
I believe it too. It is the life of God breathing on His beloved children.
I love how any negative seeming qualities you brought up about yourself you ended with "But i am blessed..."
Boast in our weaknesses AM I RIGHT 😅
@@Kian_Wolfgang yes! There is so much beauty and blessings in our weaknesses :)
Hey Kian, very mature in your response to keep your relationship with Christ private and same with Kyle. Not everything needs to be made in public. Really enjoyed the video. God bless you and Kyle in your marriage in October that everything may run smoothly and I'll be praying for you both.
Appreciate the prayers 💛
Would love the Q+A about your testimony!! 💛
Yes!!
Your self control with Kyle is for and from God. Legit a fruit of the Holy Spirit.
Kian you were such an eye opening window to Christ for me (if that makes sense haha) and your videos really assisted in leading me back to Jesus🤍🤍🤍🤍 love what you do and your love for Christ!
I love how honest you are. It's just open and it makes your advice valuable because when you're so honest I feel like it is more trustworthy.
Hey kian just wanted to say I absolutely am so grateful for your life and Kyle. Thank you for your obedience to Jesus ❤️
Thank you so much girl!
could you make a video talking more about binge eating and spending?? because i am a very material person and sometimes i can feel that the happiness i get from things and buying new things is soooo temporary but i just don’t have self-control 🌸💕 i love your videos!!
It's so wise what you said about being in transition and growing with the Lord in private! Love you girl!
It honestly shocked me when you said you’re only 5’3 😳 I could have sworn you were at least 5’7! Hahah
What the heckity heck lol!! Maybe it’s because I have long legs and always take my photos at a slight upwards angle 😂
@@Kian_Wolfgang I'm pretty sure I thought you were way taller too! haha
Aaaah you’re as small as me Kian😍
Would love the questions testimony video. You seem so happy and confident in yourself and your relationship! Love seeing you blossom! 💖
Thank you!
Lol I relate on so many levels. I am really loving this season of singleness and growing in it. Also I'm "controlling" in the same way. Not towards people, but about things being the way that I like, like with my home decor, style etc. because I just know what I want! Lol I try to see moments of compromise as opportunities to grow in virtue because it really isn't that big of a deal, it feels like it for me sometimes though haha :)
I think you are such a good example to young ladies. You're inspiring. I definitely see you becoming a Titus 2 woman. God bless you Sister.
12:30-12:34 Do a video about questions concerning your testimony please!!
The whole being with Jesus in a box analogy makes so much sense to me. I think that sums up this season of life I'm in now too.
Kian I have just started watching you and I appreciate you and your honesty. Keep living for God. Thanks for sharing your ups and downs and life ..
Thank you so much, Kian! You and Kyle are such a blessing! If anyone reads this please pray for me and my boyfriend to be more like them! Love you all💕
God bless you and Kyle! You both are amazing! Your channel means a lot to me! 💓🙏💓🙏
I love how open you are about everything in your videos! So refreshing to watch someone so open and honest! Recently found you and although I am not religious I still find myself relating to you a TON!
Thank you Morgan 💛💛
Awww Australian viewer here!! We would have loved to have you 😀 Maybe you can still come here for a vacation or honeymoon one day 💖
I watched all of the ads this time to hopefully bring you increase. I love you! 😂🧡
Wow so sweet!! Hopefully they were good ones 😅
I do that too for my fav TH-camrs!
I loved this video sm!! Ps: your room looks super aesthetic 😍🤩
Aw thank you!! Been working hard on it 💛
Thank you so much for your openness and transparency in regards to your faith- all the struggles and joys! It really has helped me get back in track w my faith as well ♥️ stay safe in arizona
i love your videos about faith, they really help me with my faith
No wayyyyyyy! I’m from Perth, Australia!! Definitely still come and visit. Most amazing and beautiful place with gods creation on absolute display!
I love you! like seriously
I saw some of your videos today and holy spirit spoke to me, ( your modesty video) IS SO GOOD. bless you you told me different way to deal with sin and how to stop it and ur SO SO SO SO pretty
Your videos are so refreshing. God bless you and your husband xxx
Loved this!! Please keep doing vlogs, it would be so so fun if you did weekly vlogs!!!
Swear we are the same person 😅 I feel you on being messy but also organized 🤪
lol it is definitely a thing 😂
Ahhhhh!!! You were going to be here in Australia! So glad to see God blessing you and Kyle with each other anyway 😊
Girlllll im so excited for you and Kyle! I didn't realize you were getting married in October. Im getting married next month on the 26th. Blessing to your marriage 🙏💍🙌
Thank you so much!! Blessing for your marriage as well!!
I've never been this early! You're such a sweetheart and an inspiration to me 💗 Blessings to you and Kyle!
Thanks Miranda 💛💛
You are awesome! God bless you💓😇😇
Even if you aren’t making faith related videos, your faith still shines through each of your other videos and it is still uplifting and encouraging! I love your videos :)
where... did you get that bottle? that looks pretty
Linked under my amazon page (wellness section) link in the video description ☺️
Yes, a new video!!! Love you and Kyle and God bless you guys!!!
Girl we love the moving vlogs keep them coming. You’re an awesome decorator and diyer. You should do interior decorating
CONGRATS ON 60K Kian (and Kyle haha I suspect this will become a joint channel and get a name change once you guys marry lol)! 🎉 I just started following a few weeks ago and your channel was like 20k smaller, haha. All the fast growth is SO deserved and I'm 100% convinced that it is because the Spirit is behind you both- Thank you fof your commitment to being lights for His kingdom! 🙌🏾❤
This is everything!! We love this video so much :)
We are getting married in October too!!!
Congrats babe
Yay a new video. Excited to watch 💕
Hope you enjoy 💛
Kian Tilton Yess always! Thank you for always being so open & honest. I feel the same way, that my past seems so foreign. In fact, I even laugh because the deliverance from God has been soo much.
Random question but what is the color of your wall?? i’m re-decorating my room and I love that color!
Thank you for being so open & honest Kian!! Love this🖤☺️
Lol! In the ending you said "wow, that took a turn," but I actually appreciated, liked and respected that turn you took. I agree, take that time with God. When the time is right He will direct you how and what to share. :)
I understand being particular. I can be that way too sometimes. Also, I just want to encourage you considering how you found your identity in singleness while you were single, and how you had plans in your singleness before you met Kyle. Based on a lot of what you said here, I get the impression that you're the type who likes to plan. But, I just want to encourage you that things happen the way they happen because that's how it was meant to happen. Remember that Isaiah 55:8-9 says that God's thoughts and ways are higher than ours. I think you know that, but, like I said, things were meant to happen exactly how the Father intended them to happen. So trust in Him. Trust He knows what's best even when you're unsure. I know that can be hard to do sometimes. I just know that if I could go back and talk to the version of Valerie that was so awash in disappointed hopes because things weren't going the way I wanted them to (not saying that's you, but it was me), I would go back and tell her, "please, just trust God. He's got this." That can be especially hard when we want things to go a certain way. Or when we think things should go a certain way - at some point we need to learn to humbly surrender to our Father and trust in His way. Just trust God. It is simple, but I know it isn't easy. But, if we could just learn to humbly surrender and trust God, that is where we get our peace that surpasses all understanding.
thank you for this😍😍😍
Giving up my control (which in itself is a weakness, totally false- have none and is basically wanting things my way.... ) Jesus talks to us and says:
As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”
John 15:9-11 NIV Amen!
Every time I watch your videos I am so convicted at the fact of how much I need Jesus and your life is such a testimony of faith and peace (from my side) thank you for being that person for me on the other side of the world.
Praying for you hon❤️
I love your videos you are so inspiring to me!
Thank you 💛
New viewer here. I just wanted to say I love how honest you are. It is like a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you girl! Praying your channel grow, because you really deserve to be a big TH-camr!
# Notification Gang ✨
Thanks for openly sharing parts of your Life with us🤗
Sending love & peace to the both of you🇳🇦❤️
Thank you Portia 🥰
Heya I love your videos so much, you look so pretty here
Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
love you kian!! thanks for the amazing content! God bless 💓
I think wanting someone to "be good for youtube" is not something you should feel guilty about thinking or saying because you want someone who can fit into your life, which youtube is a big part of your life. I think it's totally understandable.
You are a Breathe of Fresh Air! God Bless your Marriage!
I related so much to the box analogy haha. Love your videos. ❤️
Love the answers! so honest and transparant🤍
On which video were you referring when you said that Kyle loved the questions you were asking while on a ship? And that you have a video covering that subject? I would love to watch it!
I had this the other way around God has sent me to Australia instead of giving a husband :D
Awesome
@@adielegrace5135 have you been as well ?
@@luciatarkova5402 Dear Lucia,
I am single, I live in India, I haven't been able to go to australia but God has taken to another part of the country where I work as a doctor in a small mission hospital, IAM the only doctor here now so it is beautiful as I get to make a difference, save lives but also filled with a lot of challenges but God helps me through it all..I certainly would love to come to australia someday, Hope and pray you meet the man of your dreams, May you have the favour of God and people wherever you go, You have a knack of making friends wherever you go, I belive you are woman beautiful within and out. You will meet him in the most unexpected place..God bless:-)
@@adielegrace5135 may God bless you with a beautiful husband as well will pray for you too ♡♡♡ amen
@@luciatarkova5402 Amen..Tq dear.
Love you Kian! You're so honest!
Yes you need to be discerning as to what is going to be private and what is to be public. Also EDIFY and Build . Guard your marriage .
where’s the cup that’s on your bed side table from? it’s so cute! i need it 😂🙈
I was scrolling and saw this! It’s from amazon :)
After all this time I just realized you look EXACTLY like Elizabeth Olsen!!😱😂 especially at 8:00
Girl same i am in the tunnel of over spending, would you do savings tips or healthy spending video❤
Trinity Bell only pay with cash or your debt card .....can’t spend what you don’t have. 😊 Also as you grew in Jesus, he will fill you up! Kian’s mommy ;)
I constantly feel as though my social skills need work & I always think back to how you ask good questions. I listen & share my own stories too, but I want to be interested and care! What kind of questions should I ask or what should I google? Please help😁💕 love your channel and testimony by the way!!
Loved your intro sis. Be authentic
Can you make a video on binge spending and how you overcame that?
Happy for you.
GREAT!!!! ANOTHER NIKON USERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. Do you have to manual focus?
ur explanations give me big enneagram 9 energy!
I think she's more of a type 1 or 3.
Type 9's can tend to be really selfless and complacent. They would be more easy going.
Kyle gives me type 9 energy.
@@leanna_amittai i feel like kyle mentioned that he's a 2 in one of the vlogs. i'm a 9 and just assumed she's one too because i identify a lot with what she's talking about, especially with the procrastination/messy tendencies. 9s can be secretly selfish too but come off as selfless for the sake of keeping the peace, just like how one of the viewers assumed she was rly selfless
Fair enough. I get that
I'm a 9 too lol 🤦♀️
Such a cute lamp, where is it from?! Would love to see a home decor video in the future :)
I thrifted it, painted the bottom, and lamp shade is ikea :) i vlogged the process! Stay tuned
Kian Tilton so excited for that!!
Film a vid on how to ask good questions!!
You & Kyle should go to a park playground for a date :)
Yeah, life is always better when we’re acting like kids! And, childlike faith is also a thing 😍🙌🏻 just reminded me of how much fun I had at summer camp this weekend with scavenger hunts and tipping each other off floaties in the water 😍 (and this is all ppl who are 18+ hhaha)
Did you make a video about how to have deep conversations?
I met my husband a month or two after I got out of a very serious and yet very emotionally abusive relationship. I wish I was single for a bit longer but God's timing is so beautiful! I am learning to not regret and live in the moment with my soulmate. I think it's important for young wives to see the beauty in themselves as well as being someone's other half.
I also wanted to tell you Kian, embrace your engagement season!!
Love you Kian!
What are the songs used throughout this video?
Greetings, Thanks for the Helpful Video!!
I can't agree on the submissive wife aspect but I'd love to hear your views on that since you didn't elaborate. Love this though!
Yessss me too I thought the same!
Please move to Australia still, we'd love you here, whether it be now or later years
Also do you Bible journal or do you like to write scripture?
Hey Kian, if you guys ever come to Australia. Let us know. I can introduce you to some of my friends here and my boyfriend! :)
You're so beautiful girl😭😭😭❤❤❤
Where is your headboard from? :)
Found it on offer up!
Can you do a video on your christian mingle experience?
where is that cup from beside you?
I believe it’s from Amazon :)
Amazon! I have it linked under my amazon faves (link in description)
@@Kian_Wolfgang thank you! love your videos girl!
@@gabbydobbs thank you!!
oh my goodness i wish you moved to Australia!!!
We have hit 60k wohooooo..I mean you have lol
I am so happy for you Kian. Now let me watch the video lol
Aw thank you so much!! We are definitely a "we" 😉 and all glory to God!
what birth control method did you use in high school since you said you felt depressed? Are you on any type of method now?
I was using pills in high school and i am completely off birth control now 🙏🏼 not good for my body
Can’t what for this!!
Do you think that by avoiding All kinds of intimacy (even kissing) with your boyfriend before marriage, could possibly make you see him more as a friend, eventually?
I try to do the same as you if I'm in a relationship, but I imagine that after marriage I would find it kind of awkward or difficult being intimate with my partner in any way, as prolonging Non-Intimacy almost makes me process the other person as a friend, rather than partner, as I'm suppressing my intimate thoughts towards them the entire time. Does anyone else go through this as well? I read articles on Christian women getting married & then having real trouble getting intimate with their hubbies as they always grew up looking at sex as 'wrong' or 'dirty' whilst growing up Christian. Clearly God says it's a blessing in marriage but our minds can process things in the wrong way sometimes. God bless you Kian for all the lovely vlogs and keeping strong until marriage xx
I deifinitely feel you and have been concerned about this. Recently I’ve gotten more loose about being more intimate (still waiting for marriage ofc) and atleast for now I haven’t felt my heart heavy about becoming more strict. I feel like me and my boyfriend started off very friendly and learned to surpress our emotions to an extent, but also we were quite young when we first started hanging out.. Now I feel like we’ve cuddled more, kissed more (still trying to find the right balance for this so it wouldnt get too tempting/physical), and had super open conversations about being affectionate and trying to figure out a balance. I feel like saying sweet things and expressing your attraction verbally also will help a lot in not making you two feel like just regular friends.
@@lauraporthan8662 I feel like the subject isn't black & white & what works in one relationship wouldn't for another. Ultimately, we need to try & strive to keep God at the centre of our relationships. I feel the need for some intimacy, like kissing holding etc although I'm also aware things can quickly escalate. I think that when you're in love with someone & attracted to them physically, spiritually & emotionally, it would be difficult for anyone not to think of sex with that partner. We r only human. Some people make it sound very simple & easy with statements like "I don't even think about sex with my boyfriend" which is not realistic, as we r all battling against flesh & spirit & it brings guilt on others who feel shame for even thinking about it. Kian is truly blessed in this area. Boundaries r very necessary & I personally felt very convicted when I used to fall into any kind of sexual sin even though it wasn't sex itself. I wana make sure it's a God given conviction & not one of shame & guilt X
Chrisie R yes I 100% agree. Sometimes it’s really hard to decipher whether something solely stems from the church/culture or also from God
@@lauraporthan8662 the Holy Spirit is the One who righteously convicts. Our own flesh & the enemy is the one who brings shame & guilt. Stay Blessed brothers & sisters
Is secular music bad? I heard someone say it is but I have no clue.
Love Ghost in the Graveyard! 😁
"life would be better if people were running around playing tag as adults" HAHAHHA
Oh wow I assumed you were tall also I'm the same way about home decor being a certain way
Ok I need to know. PLS ANSWER. Where do you get all your clothes? I LOVE THEM ALL
Especially your big shirts and loose fitting tops!
These ones are from American eagle!! So comfy 😍 most of my other tees are thrifted
How did you know Kyle was the one??
Im eating dark chocolate. Like this if you like dark chocolate.