You're Not the One - Original Song
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"You're not the one... Because you don't wanna be." Fuck, this line breaks my non-existent heart.
ui nav same
ui nav break hell you have to have one to break 😨
Finally a love song that isn't really a love song but an acceptance of reality. Truly beautiful song.
Pure poetry
Yup
It is important to not delude yourself and go on with reality. Sometimes that’s just the way it is.
Yes love isn't always enough
This song breaks my heart. You can love a person with everything in you but if that person doesn't feel the same way. Then you have broken your own heart. So before you give someone your unconditional love. Remember to make sure both hearts are there. You can't make yourself love someone and you can't make them love you. All you can do is be yourself and figure it all out along the way.
AMEN !!
Ok I love this song.. he's awesome and can sing and he is so talented.....but I don't agree.... you didn't break your own heart..... What if you we're just being used and that person was pretending they liked you the whole time just to use you so it depends on the situation I would guess. You give everything to someone you do everything for that person thinking that you're doing the right thing and thinking that they like it and are enjoying it and feel the same just to find out that they were just using you.... and then you were made to leave. Then you get back with that person... Because what they did it for lasted two days what you ended up doing after being made to leave lasted four months but you ended up leaving that person that you got back with which that other person truly loves you truly care about you truly looked at you and wanted to be with you wonderful sleep with you wonder wake up with you and you're with that other person for on and off for 12 years and you actually which you have never done ever in your whole life left that person to be back with the other person that you thought made a mistake which she did she did what she didn't go left that was her mistake that person didn't want to be back with her they just wanted to cause drama intention for who not you for her and herself that's what she calls for herself you didn't make her leave she made you leave to be used you left and got back with somebody that care about you and loves you just to leave them to be back with the other one to then have a baby with them and be used the whole time whiles she's pregnant your driving back and forth to Connecticut every single day because she's pregnant just to rub lotion on her because you look at her and she's the most beautiful thing ever and she looks at you and sees a sucker just to be told that she was going to do something to you and she did she made you leave again and this time kept the baby from you and the baby wasn't even one years old yet you didn't get to see a picture of her you didn't get to see her talk to her live her hold her get her to sleep make her breakfast kiss her good morning before work after work have dinner with her kids her good night in her crib and tell her daddy loves you my little mookie pants or even see her first walk or be at her first birthday and it's done deliberately an intentionally and maliciously and now the baby's 2 years old and you're still using her as a weapon of mass destruction against that person and it breaks them and breaks them and breaks them and crushes them and crushes them and you're nice when you want something you're nice when you let that person come there and you get to be adults with each other you're there from Christmas time to February for four Christmas just to be used out of 16,000 at least and then told I didn't want to be with you anyway and then you say Well then why would you take all that money from me or even let me spend money on you like I did or give you money all the time like I did and still do when all I have to give you is $300 a month for child support which is absolutely way better than getting used for any amount so that's up to February now being December the baby's birthday was in August 30th you allowed to be there the whole week I slept there every night Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday my birthday was Friday we were adults on either Monday or Tuesday you were nice told me that you were going to cook me birthday dinner on Friday I got to actually be with the baby on her birthday which was really nice you know that's what I need as of dad as a human as a father it's a person that's what makes my insides happy that's what it does to all parents just to be told on Friday at 3:00 in the morning go die go die go die nobody needs you go die that was my birthday I didn't think I got a dinner laugh out loud and in the process or when she wants you're allowed to be there everyday make breakfast make lunch and make dinner do laundry clean the house cuz mom doesn't want to anyway so you do all that because that's just what you love to do anyway love doing dishes I work hard for a living roofing and construction and demo work plus I want to see you relax I want to see you smile I want you to know that somebody cares about you really not just because they want something from you or need something from you or need you there for the moment cuz that's not what it was not at all and I wasn't even in love with her when she first made me leave but after she initially did what she didn't mean to leave the baby and I came back from Christmas time till February for some reason even after doing what she did to me I looked at her and said I love her I think I love her I didn't want the form of her how to make myself love her if anything I should have really really not liked her she ripped my child out of my life and that wasn't all she dud to me . while she was at work before she even had the baby she was saying that well at least I can get child support from him... so you don't know that until it's all said to you you know and then it hurts you when it's told to you because it's told to you before she even had the baby I don't know ..it truely depends on the situation because you don't know what you got until your whole world is ripped apart and you feel worse than you did before you even got with that person cuz you know it might have taken that person or me 36 years just to get through what I went through in life as a child as a person and it wasn't good cuz I wouldn't of had to get through it if it was okay I wouldn't have wanted to get through it I would have enjoyed it so when your having somebody use you and use a child against you after the fact that all that other stuff went on and told well you can go make more money and then the baby sleeps at my house and then because you're upset because I'm not doing for you no more or as much because I'm kind of hurt and fed up about the whole thing you think that I'm wrong and I'm not I didn't do any of this that's what somebody did to me and lied to me and made me feel like they wanted to be back with me from before Christmas to February just to get so much money off of me which she kind of took almost everything I had and or at this point all of it and. Hoping to even have stuff for christmas for the baby and left me in a shamble.... sorry about writing you a book I don't ever do this I just read that comment and said I don't know how you could hurt yourself trying to love somebody if that person's being fake to you you're thinking somebody cares about you....you can either be a lesson in somebody's life or you can be a blessing in somebody's life and I'd like to be a blessing because life was hard and life's going to give you everything like you know maybe watching your mom dying right in front of your face of cancer and gasping and taking seven or nine breaths and dying and she was comatose for like a for like a month and the night that she died you went in her room and said it's okay Mom we're not going to fight meaning me and my brothers and sisters cuz life was sucky and then I said you can go see God and she hadn't moved in a month probably just her eyeballs it was sad and I said you can go see God she reached up and took like seven breathes and died in front of you.. so life's going to do that to you and a whole bunch of other stuff that you going to have to feel and we all have to... So without me causing you any kind of heartache or pain or sadness if you're crying because of me I want to be to because I told you the funniest thing or I was stupidly funny and you are like hes stupid and he's funny and I love him...ok sorry...for rambling
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You Know When You Have Found Your Soulmate You Won't need to Look no Further Just Hope your not like me, I Found & Lost My True Love ❤😭❤ But that Doesn't Stop me Loving Him Every Day ❤👄❤
It's unconditional love...just that. Unconditional. No matter what, never stop loving even if they cant/won't love back.
I've never seen so much connection between song and singer as chester... he really touches my soul
RIGHT???!!!
He touches mine too!
Beautiful song, specifically because the writer realizes that love is something we choose. We don't only just "fall in love", we also choose to love that person. And we should want the best for them, putting them before ourselves because "love is kind and love is not self-seeking".
We don't choose LOVE. LOVE chooses us. First, individually. Second, as a person apart of different types of relationships. As an individual, we all have many and plenty of options and choices. With an individual's interest in hobbies; their likes and dislikes; their values, morals and beliefs; and their character as a person the people they consider friends and the career they seek are the walks of life where an individual comes along with the relationship LOVE puts together through the same path, each on their own journey. Every individual is on their own, but every person in never alone. There's always something right for you, depending on your view. Nothing is never empty handed or with no way through. On the road between Heaven and Earth, the paths are endless that GOD made before he sent us on his way. Maybe so that on our own journey that he already wrote for us, we will see his presence in how much he loves us. Individually or with another, a couple in number or a part of a few. In a community or neighborhood, group, family or crew. Is where the people of THE PEOPLE, reside, work, play, care and accept you. Some day doesn't that sound nice? That many and plenty can live in HARMONY, UNITY and PEACE not just when GOD calls us home to our resting place, but while we are ALIVE in this LIFE. Because we are a part of a Civil Union where we can actually get along and over our likes and dislikes we see in others, where the words assume and presume are not the words to define in a character. Where a person doesn't have to look in a mirror to see themself in the mirror. That mirror is view and perspective the world holds between an individual and any other individual that is a part of HUMANITY. HUMAN, IS WHAT I CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE ALL DAY, EVERYDAY. Each morning I wake up, I see the sun in everything I love. Rven at night when the moon shines, I know the sun is still by my side in everything I do. Having a body makes me a sinner. From the clothes a man's world makes to wear to what I do to my body, how I use my body and what I put in my body: that will always keep me as a sinner and I think that aspect of a sinner is okay. I'd rather sin by those ways, then to be a sinner on how I treat others. The days of the week that include the weekend in the English language can prove my hypothesis to this theory referring to how IN EVERY NIGHT, THERE IS ALSO A DAY. That question WWJD? What would Jesus Do? Can help you get through the night to be able to see a new day... Maybe if we love, honor and respect GOD with all our mind and soul like the first commandment says...Who in my life is Jesus Christ, my GOD, and my LORD and treat others like we want to be treated which the second commandment says.
Amy C. Well put!
@@marivelramirez7611 beautifully written.
Truth…choice that’s thing❤️
The feels ..
Here it is 12:30 in the morning and I'm up watching you tube videos cause I can't sleep. My kidney failure and 42 surgeries make sure of that. I came across this song that really hit me like a ton of bricks. After 20 years of a tuff marriage my wife left me for the dream of what could be. This song told that story for me . This was about 4 years ago but it doesn't hurt any less. She passed away from cancer and I had to watch her leave this earth when she had finally wanted me back. I know what pain is. Stay strong people, life is hard ❤
I am now old ... 55 years .... but now I would finally like to experience the feeling again ... one last time
I wish you all the best...give it a try,why not...55 is only a number dear
seriously omg u say it like that's it, I've got young men chasing me, thank goodness I didn't read yyr comment a few weeks ago, I'd of jumped lol. get out there and find what u want. my son was to young to walk but he did it, my mum was to young to pass away but she did, we shudnt have a pandemic but we have and uve survived that, make that yur reason to get out there and strut yur stuff. shake that booty 😂 yur never to d to find luv I'm telling myself that. coz if u feel this way others must. if u feel like a revamp go for it. good luck xxx don't check out until u check out of it all together. x
My darling, I feel this so much. Im 55 and my husband traded me in for a 30 year younger model. The hurt, the humiliation, the fear. Overwhelming. My lord. If im honest, I dont know how this story ends. The pain can sometimes be too deep. Maybe thats OK though.
I wish the best to all of you wonderful women :)
It's never too late. Good luck
Lyrics for you guys who want them:
I've never been
so sure of anything
When you're next to me
I finally feel complete
I know for sure
you're all I'll ever need
I'll never stop
loving you more with each breath that you take
This promise I never will break
for you
But you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I'll let you go
as hard as it is for me
I'll never know
what this was supposed to be
if you're ever alone
I hope that you think of me
cause I'll never stop
loving you more with each breath that I take
these feelings inside never chnage
for you
But you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
If you ever feel the way that I do
I hope that he feels the same way too
I only want what is best for you
I'll hope that he gets on one knee
but wish it could have been me
You're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
Music and Lyrics by Chester See and Josh Golden 👍 give this thumbs up so everyone can see it
I was the one you. Didn't. See that.
Thanks man
isn't it funny how we bump into these songs when they are so applicable to our lives?!?
Never a coincidence
Chester is so relatable
Seriously man how on earth do every one of your songs so ACCURATELY describe my feelings. It kills me that I could never put my feelings into better words than yours
Actually communicating would help.
This is one of those songs I could listen on repeat for hours and never get tired of. It also makes me cry every time...
Are you an angel? Your voice is like heaven.
When you give your all to someone you believe is your soul mate and that person not share the same feelings after years of commitment. The worst part is to be lead astray and played for a fool!!!
Been there, done that. Been loving him for 5 years, I thought he loved me too but unfortunately he does not. And, I just gave up on him last week.
Erin Jade i know what that feels like
is better to be alone then to be with someone who is fake. you deserve better & now you got a chances for a better future, to find the right one * you are more deserving of being loved, never give up. Just don't rush into a new relationship, take your time & believe in god. I been there myself.
tango Sea i need this RN. thanks
Patience Rosier fo realz
Anyone still listening in 2019?
This song helped me get through a break up in 2016 😊
Still listening 2019. I've gotten over...but I feel like I can't commit anymore 🥺
I’m here 2020
2020
2020. Helped me through a breakup in 2014.
2021 😎
I've never been So sure of anything
When you're next to me I finally feel complete
I know for sure You're all I'll ever need
And I'll never stop Loving you more with each breath that you take
This promise I never will break For you But you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
No, you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
So I'll let you go As hard as it is for me
I'll never know What this was supposed to be
If you're ever alone I hope that you think of me
Cause I'll never stop Loving you more with each breath that I take
These feelings inside never change For you
But you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
No, you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
If you ever feel the way that I do I hope that he feels the same way too
Cause I only want what is best for you
And I hope that he gets on one knee
Just wishing it could have been me
You're not the one cause you don't wanna be
Might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
No, you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
So So True❤️
And why have you tonight,,,,,kuunuuuuumaa uruu biu taai tttrks in a raw...
Weeeee,,weeee,weee
Love this song
Thankyou ✨
James Corden should totally do a Carpool Karaoke with Chester See! He deserves all the attention, such an underrated talent!
Totally agree!
Akshay Dhargave and you're not the only one✋😂
Akshay Dhargave I guess the closest we'll get is his Auto Tunes episode with Flula 😂
My heart aches. This was painfully beautiful. Chester you have so much talent. ♡
This song means so much to me .i was in a 16 year relationship, thought it was going to last. I did love him so much. My heart hurts so much for him . Oh I do know he thinks of me ,but we couldn’t be together,anymore . It was either me or the beer, he chose the beer . It’s ok my heart still thinks of him quite often .
Wow.
I have a friend and she is stunning. Like, gorgeous. She is a hard working woman, got her degree, bought her own home, and is preety much a wonderful woman.
And her husband also left her because he just couldn't stop drinking.
Sad.
Hope you're doing good.
Did that when I was 19. Chose my buds and beer. I made a mistake, she didn't. I would not do that now. A good person is not that easy to find, or have find you. Wishing you well.
I feel your pain!
I wish you the joy, and life is so worth going through these struggles
In a similar situation right now, trying to gain the strength to let go knowing he can't or won't choose his family over the drugs.
You're not the one because you don't want to be. 🖤
"you're not the one, cuz you dont wanna be"
this song is from heaven :'(
There are a lot of people who have experienced this kind of love, but not all of them have realized they should let go or they may just refuse to. It's a difficult love to have for someone, when they don't feel the same for you.
Chester, you have a beautiful voice and you play the piano so well. There are singers and pianists, but then there are true artists. You're an artist. You don't just sing and play, you feel and project the emotion on to those who listen. You're absolutely amazing and I enjoy every one of the songs you sing. Keep inspiring, hun... ^_^
4 years later... still not the one for you :/ i chose you but you chose differently and it kills me every single day. The hardest thing is to watch the love of ur life chose someone else when you know it was supposed to be you. There's no greater pain. And it kills me. Everyday
That feeling when someone gave you blank assurance of what's ahead of you both... When you deeply love someone who is unsure of you. Living together, got pregnant, he's trying to be a better person, but never ever heared a single word from him about commitment or plans about future...
I've never been so sure of anything
When you're next to m, e I finally feel complete
I know for sure, you're all I'll ever need
And I'll never stop
[Pre-Chorus:]
Loving you more with each breath that you take
This promise I never will break for you
Mhhmm
[Chorus:]
But you're not the one
'Cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you
But you chose differently
You might make me feel whole
I don't make you complete
I will grow old with you
But you've grown tired of me
You're not the one
'Cause you don't wanna be
[Verse 2:]
So I'll let you go as hard as it is for me
I'll never know, what this was supposed to be
If you're ever alone, I hope that you think of me
'Cause I'll never stop
[Pre-Chorus:]
Loving you more with each breath that I take
These feelings inside never change for you
[Chorus:]
But you're not the one
'Cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you
But you chose differently
You might make me feel whole
I don't make you complete
I will grow old with you
But you've grown tired of me
You're not the one
'Cause you don't wanna be
[Bridge/Hook:]
If you ever feel, the way that I do
I hope that it feels the same way too
'Cause I only want what is best for you
And I hope that he gets on one knee
Just wishing it could've been me
[Chorus:]
You're not the one
'Cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you
But you chose differently
You might make me feel whole
I don't make you complete
I will grow old with you
But you've grown tired of me
You're not the one
'Cause you don't wanna be
Channel4FUN
thanks for the lyrics 😍
Channel4FUN that first "it" in the bridge is supposed to be "he".
Kun Kodiik no
Channel4FUN thank you so much❤ have a beautiful day, Love💞
I try to get over Chester and move on..and then I somehow find my way back to his channel, hear his voice, and fall in love all over again...
-same.😂💖
+Sha-Mel Bomb.Diggity i accidentally vacuumed up my pet ferret a couple days ago....*sigh* good times smh
WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE TRULY WITH ALL YOUR HEART...YOU GO THROUGH. HARDSHIPS...DISAGREEMENTS...CHAOS...DISAPPOINTMENTS...SADNESS...BUT YOU ENDURE...WORK THROUGH IT ALL BECAUSE OF THE LOVE YOU HAVE EMBEDDED DEEP INTO YOUR HEART ....& WITH TIME ...YOU ARE WALKING THE SAME PATH ...TOGETHER....EVENTUALLY YOU ADOPT EACH OTHERS WAYS...& BECOME BEST FRIENDS....YOU JOIN FORCES AS ONE TOGETHER STRIVING TO BUILD & HOLD EACH OTHER UP THROUGH ALL THE TRIALS...& SHARE THE JOYS...ONCE THE DUST HAS SETTLED....ACTIONS PRODUCE RESULTS....COMMUNICATION...ACTION....LOVE...LOYALTY...& DEDICATION ......WILL A MARRIAGE SURVIVE....THROUGH ALL THE CURVE BALLS....LIFE THROWS YOU...MY LOVE HAS ALWAYS BEEN FAITHFUL.....WHERE ARE YOU NOW...???
Beautiful x
my goodness I love your singing n your voice, BEAUTIFUL!!! 😁🥰😍
Bro, I know CDs are obsolete these days, but hell I'd buy like 20 of your albums if you ever released them in stores.
I would grow old with you, but you've grown tired of me. 😢 After everything, I will never understand how you could just walk away like I meant nothing.
I know that feeling
:'(
Tough life
😞
I’m sorry
This hasn’t been a hit on the radios, but I fondly remember finding this song back when it came out and it is one of my favourite songs of the 2010s, everytime I listen to it, it really touches me.❤
One of the best if not the best voice I've heard so far. The lirycs are really good too. You deserve to be on top.
every time i hear this, i just wanna go man fk this shit, i aint dealing witth these feels, but then i end up hearing it all the way through every time.
+ZDY you can't fight the feels
I'd be him. Every day and twice on Sunday. Such passion. Such talent. Thank you for sharing.
I’ve never been so sure of anything.
When you’re next to me,
I finally feel complete.
I know for sure you’re all I’ll never need.
And I’ll never stop,
Loving you more with each breathe that you take.
This promise I never will break,
For you.
But you’re not the one,
‘Cause you don’t want to be.
I might have chosen you,
But you chose differently.
You might make me feel whole,
I don’t make you complete.
I will grow old with you,
But you’ve grown tired of me.
You’re not the one
‘Cause you don’t want to be.
So I’ll let you go as hard as it is for me.
I’ll never know if this was supposed to be.
If you’re ever alone I hope that you think of me.
Cause I’ll never stop.
Loving you more with each breath that I take.
These feelings inside never change.
For you.
But you’re not the one,
‘Cause you don’t want to be.
I might have chosen you,
But you chose differently.
You might make me feel whole,
I don’t make you complete.
I will grow old with you
But you’ve grown tired of me.
You’re not the one,
Cause you don’t want to be.
If you ever feel the way that I do,
I hope that it feels the same way too.
‘Cause I only want what is best for you.
And I hope that he gets on one knee,
Just wishing it could have been me.
You’re not the one,
‘Cause you don’t want to be.
I might have chosen you,
But you chose differently.
You might make me feel whole,
I don’t make you complete.
I will grow old with you
But you’ve grown tired of me.
You’re not the one
Cause you don’t want to be.
Literally crying my eyes out. Every line hits so close to home. There's nothing more difficult than giving up on someone you feel in your heart you were meant to be with. I'm literally lost without them. AND CHESTER LOOKS RATHER LIKE HIM DAMMIT!!!! Im absolutely broken hearted.
All these people in the comments putting their relationship problems and I'm the only one that's just sad because i'm single...
Faith Bonner A huuug :')
+Faith Bonner same.
I know the feeling
+Faith Bonner Ayo Same
lol what an ironic comment
My brother’s going through this song right now...I feel for him. 😔😭😭😢 such a great song. It hits home for lots of people. Such great sad lyrics.
I dedicated this to my crush when I was 11. I was in love with her until I was 14. And now I sit here. Drunk And miserable at 18 still feeling love for her. Just cuz they say it's Just a crush. It's not always just a crush. It can last for years.....and she won't ever feel the same....
Get out there and find love . It's waiting for you . Xo
Stop drinking while you can. You'll find better more mature love, sober.
This song is literally my life right now... I'm crying.
I bet every time he sings a song like this, he always thinks about someone who is/was very special to him.....
Dear Ryan,
No shit sherlock. If you follow his track history, it's very VERY apparent. As with all musicians, there is a deeper meaning to every song written than the title suggests.
Love,
Every musician ever.
PS: No Disrespect, but C'mon bro, you REALLY think people just write music not thinking/reflecting their heart in it? Chester is one of few you can actually see it...
With love,
Crazy Cat Hair Lady
Shaftygav ha.. love your Dear Ryan
Shaftygav I think he means that Chester See's performance reflects his feelings, rather than just the writing of the music. Which I totally agree with and I don't think that as many musicians are able to perform as well as Chester does. His comment was perfectly valid and I feel like your response was slightly rude :) Have a nice day!
Shaftygav
It's not true about the whole "love thing" for every musician.
Wow...this brought me to tears. Powerful stuff Chester
This song is the beat of my broken heart
Where was this song 4 years ago when I needed these exact words?! Amazing!
Well this song hits me like a sledgehammer. My 5 and a half year relationship ended about a month ago. She told me she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore. Like this song says, shes simply "grown tired of me". I love her with all of my heart and soul, I just hope that things work out for us in the end.
I know where you are coming from. it didn't end well for me, I put on a face in front of everyone to make them think I am over her, but in reality, I still fall asleep praying she comes back. it ended over a year ago, and it still hurts just as much as the day it happened. all I want is for her to come back, so I can embrace her. but deep down i know it will never happen.
same for me. almost 6 years and a beautiful little boy and I'm told he's not 'in love' with me but stays for our son. I tried but it wasn't enough and now I raise my son on my own and try everyday to get past him and what isn't anymore
An update to my situation: She came to me a couple of weeks ago in tears. She claimed that she just hasn't been herself recently and she wants me back. We are currently in the pre-stages of getting back together. Of course i love her, but i have gained a whole new outlook and self respect for myself. She hurt me unnecessarily and i will not be letting her off the hook so easily. She will have to prove herself to me before i make things official again. It is important to not let people walk all over you. If you do not respect yourself, no one else will respect you either.
My 4 year relationship just ended a month ago so, this song speaks to me on so many different levels. Sometimes, love is not enough...Sucks really
Love is a choice we make every day. We will never be enough for the wrong person and will never be too much for the right one. “You made me feel whole , but I make you feel incomplete.” If I’m only an option, don’t choose me. I might’ve chosen you, but you’re choosing differently.
Always keep 1 foot on the ground, listen to your ❤ don't give your all, you will know what he or she is wanting when the time is right, never give 💯 till 💯 is given back keep your ❤ safe always
It expresses all the feelings I've ever had towards someone I like/love.
I don't know why I listen to Chester's original music. It's beautiful but it's too painful for me. Every word is just a knife stabbing itself into the memories of what it felt like.
Wow I know exactly what you mean I started with chester because someone I still love always sang god damn you're beautiful to me. Ironically, every other song is.. well you know
He sang it right out of my heart. Reality of love
Shivers every time
Oh my gosh I found this song by accident but why couldn't I find it sooner?? 😍❤️ So pretty
Lol same to me.
Same here ❤️❤️💔💔
I love everything you do Chester, but this I think, is one of your best songs yet. It is truly beautiful ^_^
there has never been another songwriter that has ever touched my heart like this dude and I'm a dude if u get my meaning holy shit!!! look out women
Cannot stop listening to him! I love watching him sing so passionately. I love his songs. I accidently ran across him and glad I did. Beautiful man singing beautiful music
I can't stop listening to this song. Every note is relatable and your raspy voice is what makes this song so beautiful. Why are you not selling cd after cd? Why are you not making millions of dollars. You are extremely talented. Keep doing what your doing! Your time will come !
It's sad that so many people measure success by fame or money. The richest and most famous people are the most screwed up and can't keep marriages together to save their lives.
Wow! I just discovered you, I know I'm late to the party, but I'm really impressed. I love this. You have an emotion in your music that you don't see in a lot of artists, and I really like that. You just got a new subscriber sir!
Sadly, I‘m the person he sings about in my story. My childhood-friend is in love with me since almost a decade and even he is truly amazing and has the purest heart and loves me more than I could ever ask for... he is not the one. And I will forever hate myself for not being able of choosing him. But what I had to realize the hard way is that you just can‘t decide if you fall in love with someone. I wish I could! But I can‘t. And yeah, sometimes it‘s also very very hard for the „other“ person. Because not to be able to return feelings to someone you still care about and forever will - not easy. Our friendship is over. And it hurts. But you just don’t get to choose love. It chooses you.
Thank you. I am struggling with this. I am in love with my friend of 16 years but she hasn't loved me. I'm still gonna be her friend. But your reply helps me out so so much. Thank you
Why do I not hear this young man on the radio? Beautiful voice.......such emotion.............i'm speechless.
he may not be but it doesn't change the fact that I love you with all my heart
cute :)
best part :
If you ever feel, the way that I do
I hope that it feels the same way too
'Cause I only want what is best for you
And I hope that he gets on one knee
Just wishing it could've been me
Mohamed Sarrar can you explain? I just can’t interpret it.
"I chose you but you chose differently,you are not the one coz you don't wanna be" ...this hits harder than a stepmother 😭
You are amazing!! Real heart and soul songs that keep us hanging on your every word!! Chester you are an amazing artist. I’m positive you have had more heartache than any man deserves because you nail it with every song! Blessed day
Man I wish I couldn't relate to this so much but I can.
Amazing.
I know the feeling...
Jenna Smith Haha actually, since I posted that comment, the guy I thought didn't like me asked me out and we are dating now! So there's always hope :)
owlcraze99 congrats!
Cristian Salinas Thanks man
Are you still dating?
OH MY GOSH! Seriously! If I didn't know any better, I'd say you've read my journal and turned it into a song.
i love it!
I love hearing his voice!! It's like I can feel his hands & fingers as he plays this piano!! Love it💖 talented so much!!
Chester I will never grow tired of you. Love you and miss you.
this song gives me feels i dont want
to love and not to
to love is to look to the one who loved us before the eath knew its name
National anthem of the friendzone.....equals story of my life xD
Holy shit, you just depressed the fuck out of me. :(
lmao xD
Ambra Proietti 😆😆lol NATIONAL Anthem. .really it is
Ambra Proietti truee
Shit who friendzoned u
This Guy❤️... I think I have been through every single tear and every feeling of anger, bitterness & hurt along with the joy, happiness and love that he has brought to us as fans and as someone who has loved his style and his special way of expressing those RAW emotions & being able to put those feelings out there for everyone to see...fighting back tears and his own brokenness.... he connects with his fans, he Has made me a fan for life! I wish so much joy and happiness to you +ChesterSee
Heartbreaking when you feel this love and you are misunderstood due to no real conversation on your feelings. ❤️
There's so much emotion put into this song that my four year old that doesn't understand what it's about cries when she hears it.
I wish I could like this more than once
Make another youtube account.
60 years old ..man in my life just RIP out my heart.sent him this song.even tho he does not care😢
Absolutely love this song, extremely addictive and so beautiful! LOVE IT! GOLD!!
It's 2 a.m and this sing has opened the flood gates to my eyes because... this is my exact predicament at the moment. I found the one....but I'm not enough to be his one...
Then he isn't the one for you, move on. The one for you is still searching for you. If he was the one then he would accept you as you are and you would be just enough as you are.
Thank you. I am trying, trust me, I am. But it's hard because I really cannot imagine anyone else... but I'm trying. Thank you for that.
DesirousMuse You are very welcome and believe me I know its hard been there myself. But it gets better as time goes on.
DesirousMuse I know how you feel Muse... I'm in the same spot you are... I cried to this song too.
His poor face, you can see his pain. Such a beautiful song.
Yeah, he's amazing! Not only does he sing so great, he also always shows emotions while he sings
Larsern09 I've loved Chester for years, his original songs just hit me somewhere, stunning
Gawd, me too! He's just amazing at what he does, his acting is great, too!
His sketches are hilarious, he's just so genuine hard to find with good youtubers
You are so amazing and you should be on the radio. The songs you sing you put so much meaning into them. Every song hits home for me. Keep writing and please never stop singing.
Sometime you don't know what you list until its gone. God has his reasons. All I know is I miss that special love I shared with that special someone.
In case you guys might need the lyrics to go with such beautiful piece, here you go;-
I've never been
so sure of anything
When you're next to me
I finally feel complete
I know for sure
you're all I'll ever need
I'll never stop
loving you more with each breath that you take
This promise I never will break
for you
But you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I'll let you go
as hard as it is for me
I'll never know
what this was supposed to be
if you're ever alone
I hope that you think of me
cause I'll never stop
loving you more with each breath that I take
these feelings inside never change
for you
But you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
If you ever feel the way that I do
I hope that he feels the same way too
I only want what is best for you
I'll hope that he gets on one knee
but wish it could have been me
You're not the one cause you don't wanna be
I might have chosen you but you chose differently
You might make me feel whole but I don't make you complete
I would grow old with you but you have grown tired of me
you're not the one cause you don't wanna be
Music and Lyrics by Chester See and Josh Golden
Enjoy..
How does this guy not have a record deal?
Doesn't want one probably. Record companies *can* destroy a lot of creativity and freedom for artists.
Chester is so talented. I shed tears with almost every video. The woman he chooses to share his life with well be treated like a Queen. I had a love as real as the way he sings about the way love should be. My husband passed on in April and Chester's videos are the only thing that has helped me through pain! Thank you .
I am so thankful to God almighty that God got my ex out of my home and away from me he abaoned us but it was the best thing god almighty could of ever let happen I now have a incredibly amazing chance to have the one God wants to bless me with any keep up with the amazing songs and your gifted voice from God
We can all tell you put your heart into your music. That's why You Are The One and you are my favorite singer. Love You
So sad, and so true. I was tear'n up during this one.
Chester when u sing its as though ur singing the soundtrack to my soul. I've NEVER been so moved by an artist in my life. I just lost someone very special to me & ur music, voice, passion is getting me through some of the toughest days of my life. THANK YOU🙏
Love is someone who will spend the time to work on your head(hair) to get you better even when they don't know what to do. They at the very least tried. I live you forever for being that special someone who cared. Live always, Kimberly Beck
I heard this song on you tube Fri 3/24/17,It was the night I walk away from a man that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him,I felt so complete with you,Your not the one cause you don't want a be. I spent 3 years with him and was so happy I just wanted forever and he chose differently so left and I keep holding on that he would chose different but I don't think so he was the best thing that past in my life I'll always smile when I think of him.cause I love that man.
Chester, I just want to say that you are one of the best musicians I've ever listened too. You always make such beautiful and magnificent music, and I hope that you never feel un-appreciated, because as long as i'm alive, you'll always have a fan. You are so truly amazing and through your music I feel as if you're one of my closest friends. I love you dearly, and i hope that you never lose your desire to make such beautiful music.
I second that.
And I triple that
And I triple that
I have always loved this song so heart wrenching soulful
Never The One💔
I'm crying.
I've been I'm live with this girl for four years. I have done everything for her. Taken her out for dinner and movies and everything. She either cancels or just pushes me aside. everyone encourages us to date but no matter how I feel about her. She will never feel the same about me. I wanted her so badly that I couldn't stand on my own two feet around her because she always swept me away. But now I'm alone and can't handle it. Thank you Chestersee. This song helped me release it out. You are very talented and I respect you so much
Brennan Michener I hope you've found happiness.
I don't know :( It's hard.
Dude me too :'( 2 years tho
We both know how this feels then :'( LeonMarky
Brennan Michener I care so much.
This song must get to the radio!
Another song I love...speaks right to my heart.... Thank for this beautiful song.
love this song......
Zu Tränen gerührt. Spricht mir aus der Seele!
I've listened to this probably 15 times
what a coincidence.. I've listened to it at least 102,000 times.
Leon Goertz Now kiss
ninjabrickmaster234 lol
Leon Goertz 287 seconden x 102.000 = 29 274 000 seconds
= 487900 Minutes
= 8132 Hours
= 339 Days
= 48 Weeks
= 11 Months
= 1 Year
Song was placed March 2014, your comment is invalid bro :)
i am at a awful time n my life n you're songs touch my heart n soul n I am blessed to have come across your beautiful amazing talented voice you truly deeply have a blessed gift from god and one day you will have your prayers answered by the Lord and I am all alone my ex just walked out that one morning and never came back and never told the girls n I have ms and a colon disease and I am a young woman that is blessed no matter how hard my days get with my health my dear mother n children is all the help I have but most of all the Lord is number one with my life n that's why I am still hear i have been to heaven and back n it's so beyond words of the beauty of it n peace and no pain or suffering my mother prayed me back this new years day at dark I passed away n came back after three minutes is what I was told but time there is not mans time of understanding here n this world I hope you have all your dreams come true I believe it will in gods timing and god bless you from the bottom of my heart n soul n keep on with all the beautiful music u do p.s.Elita summerford
Forever love Chester. Love you
Funny, Good looking, charming, sings, plays an instrument AND writes songs... Can you say...perfect?