can you share your story or how can i avoid this? I can’t be rude this is how i am, I CANT steal i can’t harm someone I’m asking you this because i’m in a situation i life where i think if this happens i would not be able to take it anymore
@Jacopino-w7k why do you want to harm others? Just be yourself and if don't take shit. Don't take things as granted and stand up for yourself and people who can't. It's really that simple. Open your mouth and speak. If someone's a bad person, tell them, if someone harms you, tell them. if someone behaves disrespectful, tell them. An eye for an eye, if someone hurts you, hurt them back. You only have this life and you shouldn't let others take it from you. I've eaten shit for many years and eventualy just gave up, from quiet and taking hit after hit I just started to speak up whatever came to my mind. The thing is that most people forget what is being sad to them. It's on you to remind them over and over again until they learn. Instead of being rude, be honest. With yourself and the people around. What do you have to lose anyway? If you get insults thrown at you, laugh it off. People who use insults are simply wrong. Just laugh at them and tell them they are insecure and wrong and can't even say something against you. Prove you're better then them.
@Jacopino-w7k I just didn't know what to say back and never wanted to stoop to their level when they insulted me. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire. They Will probably be shocked if you stand up for yourself. Avoid the idiots and never try to impress them. You have nothing to prove to them.
@@kinghype777 Its so sad my job coach, are not happy for me she have a evil jealous spirits in her saying bad things about me that person Mark telling me from Uwv officer you can t work what happend I m said its not true I m busy find a job its not easy why she do this too me she telling Lies over me again her behavior is so bad she is crazy bad Energy no support me no love me she did t care about me I m a friendely woman i love people I m don t like her but am done with her I m praying for her delverance may she repent for her sins come back to her heavenly Father Yahweh amen Thank you for the video's sr.
I’m in my mid 30’s and I don’t have it in me anymore to be nice or kind. I’m done with people and their clingy needy backstabbing ways. I ignore people now and focus on what I need to do to better myself mentally and physically
I'm one of the kindest and sweetest people of all time! But there is no chance in heck that I'm ever gonna let anyone take advantage of me! Know your worth, people
Also... Dont let anyone harden your heart. Misery loves company at then end of the day. You can keep an open and light heart without giving anything away. I agree with what he said about handshakes, though.
no, you just happened to like his appearence, thats why you left a comment. And he more or less reminds you phisically about those narcissistc guys you had affairs with. Don't bs, lady
kind people are not the ones who done these things, it's the people they want to be like and impress that did it to them.. no reason to lose yourself to get respect in this world. 🙏
💯 Amen 🙏 So True don't be kind to these predators and low lives . I stay to myself I'm 72 yrs old and they try to bully me but I stand up for myself and fight back.
@@ladyree7575 Dont be kind to evil people! Show no mercy to Satan.. They bully, use and abuse others.. You are stronger than them all Lady Ree! Dont take no shit.. Put them in their place where they belong. Stand up and fight 👊👊 God bless you women of GOD 🙏
Thank You SO MUCH for this. This is the exact stage I'm at right now. I'm tired of people and their sh*t!! I know my heart is beautiful and I'm sick of these freaking narcissists and I think they are realizing it. That it's GAME OVER!!
Stay alone, don't give a fuck about anyone, read more books, watch videos like this, be bold and cold because nobody cares about you and your struggles.
People respect you more when you are cold, stern, and serious and not nice, kind, and loving. It’s so weird but true and this is from experience. When you put your foot down and don’t kiss A people know you’re not a person to be tried. I use to be a nice person but after being done wrong by so many people I stay to myself and don’t smile except to people I feel deserve my love and time.
This is the lesson I'm learning. I dedicated my life to compassion and kindness. I identified as an "empath" and now I see it was a trap. Ppl use you until you have NOTHING left, and then they try to squeeze more out of you. I no longer call myself an empath, and I'm okay with "being mean". I paid enough.
@@essencer.9494 Lesson learnt the hard way. They take your kindness for a weakness.. They take everything, then leave you with nothing... Be mean, hard & serious, but not evil. Protect your energy, you dont owe them nothing.
Same here about the empath thing. Load of shit haha. OR, I see it as, 'Empath and narcissit" have the same wound, but have gone to opposite extremes in order to cope. It is why they "attract and feel whole together". Both are in extremes and has what the other needs. Narcissit needs more empathy and the empath more narcissim. BALANCE. Integrating this within ourselves.
@@jokettedj fr. Yea. I'm glad I went that way (of the 'empath') instead, considering. But it's still hell to break. But hey, at least we can decide that.
Me too my jobcoach don t help me, with a new hous my brother in christ can t will not come too me to talken with her if he needed help I m help him but he don t help me so weird i see know love by them thinking by them selfs.
The moment you stop being kind you are the villain. So go in being stern but not an asshole. It’s the switch of choices is what throws people off. So go on being one way is what I’ve learned.
I already learned that lesson a long time ago. I had to develop a cold heart because I started to realize that most of the people that I talked to in school weren’t really my friends. Every time I was nice to people, they would take advantage of me. Now I’m just by and I’m currently focusing on myself.
@ Fo real my guy. You had my attention all the way through. The greatest asset of any leader is their ability to communicate effectively and influence people with their words. You’re an influential speaker my friend. Do not waste your talent. If you marketed yourself correctly, your name would blow up. You should think about branding yourself around a few topics. I’ve had a look at your channel and you touch on real world issues such as Narcissism, Manipulation, Self-Determination, and the pursuit of dreams against all odds.
I always told my kids to be as hard as you are kind, help people that genuinely need it and give people a reason to live. give them a reason to be polite when they are rude. and never believe any authority figure has your interest at heart. I think if we reigned in our governments we would all be fine because the truth is they push us to the brink.
Took me years to know about this because I always been Kind Kind Kind. But the reason I was always kind was because I was afraid of karma and what goes around comes around negative or positive energy. But now I be kind and only smile to people that truly deserves it. Thank you for this amazing video God bless just subscribed ❤🙏🏽
@@koldhearted_ Karma is always going back on the evil.. If you have a good heart and you are kind you will go throught the most but have positive things in the end. You deserve the best! Work on your goals. Surround yourself with the right people.. Thank you for watching and subscribing 🙏♥️
@kinghype777 Thank you, keep it up I'm here because this video is in the TH-cam's algorithm so I decided to watch God has a purpose for you just keep grinding and stay positive. 💯
its not that black and white. I do for sure what he means. and yes that kind of level its better to show them no kindness anmymore. just ignore its kind enough to that trash/ shit who just wnat to distroy
@@flexiveganc7441Bible says “if they don’t accept or welcome you when you enter that house then take back your blessings of peace”shake the dust off your feet and leave”. ( let the dead bury the dead) 😊❤
I know when someone wants to exploit me andact accordingly. but Im not going to let the world harden me. Boundaries and being able to move from kind to opposite is key. Misery loves company.
Thats essentially what he's saying, he's talking about being a good person, but being good to those who are to you, it's wise to only show kindness through discernment this has nothing to do with hardening yourself you're still being true but out of wisdom
I appreciate you bro. I struggle with being too nice all the time because I don't want people to leave my side. But at this point I shouldn't care. You're a life saver.
Amen..im 58 and been alone since forever and love it.. i know me but really can't trust others as they never proved loyal..only Jesus Christ has been there for me.. even raised a son and he just like them ..i hope someday soon my son sees the trees through the clouds ❤
This is Real - I was in a social setting with a guys dinner a few days ago, this one guy was whispering to someone about sitting by me. As he sat by me I felt the negative energy literally draining me. He has a history of talking sh*t so I stood up, moved the chair and talked with the real ones. If you disrespect me or my family, I'm done. Sent that message loud and clear. Interesting how I've never talked about this guy or his family yet he has a problem with me. Then I realized it was never about me, it was his own issue. I don't have patience for fake people
I came to realization that being nice to people doesn't get you anywhere but being taken advantage of--Majority of people have evil intentions---- their mission is to belittle and target people who they think are weak and won't stand up for themselves A person who is solid and get respect, don't need to disrespect others to gain approval or acceptances .
Here in the UK, we have people in need who sell magazines for a living. A portion of the sale goes to them. £4 for a copy, 50% goes to them. Nobody buys them, if lucky, maybe 3-5 magazines a day. There's this guy who I have a bad feeling about. His energy is off compared to the other sellers I've met. I tried to dismiss this thinking I was just being judgmental. Came up to him and bought one copy, I had £10 so change would be £6. He looked at my hand and told me "It's merry christmas to me" (in his broken english considering he's been in the UK for 25 years.) I was shocked, he basically enforced the donation to himself. With £6 change I can buy myself a soda, sandwich and some potato chips. I felt embarrassed to tell him off. My mistake, yes. Never again did I approach this man to help. It changed my view on helping.
Some people literally gossip bad about how weak and giving you are 😢. Lets be honest no one can stand alone and the midst of difficult times we all need someone to lean on it hurts when the people in our circle treat that neediness as some toxic trait
@@kinghype777 The only thing, is I m have a problem with my jobcoach shs don t support me find a new hous for me others neigbors help she still do when I m asking her why its takes it so long she said I m can do antyhing for you that s weird the next day she rolde man from Uwv officier I m not hsve a job telling Lies about me its not true is a lie Of the devil Satan and his demon s When I m needed hier she is not there for me I m explain it too her want s somebody els you are evil wicked person I m saying that to her.
That's the problem, nobody wants to break the ice, everybody is roaming around with a damn attitude because most people been fucked over and nobody trust nobody...When someone is kind to someone, they don't want to believe it because it's rare that people are kind unless it fits their agenda.
I walk around admiring the saints of the past and how they worked on acquiring virtue and connection with God. God is our loophole through the user abusers.
Be kind and do not let other people change you. Is hard to be kind when people are rude but is the way to fix a lot of things. Been kind is not a weakness. To me been weak is letting the opinion of others affect your kindness
@@Jonathanm3050 u miss the point,u cant be nice to everyone and u cant be kind to ppl who dont need or want it. not every situation calls for it. your being stubborn and denying nuance
@ I disagree, you can definitely be kind to everyone. Is it hard? Maybe, but no impossible. Some people may be rude but you don’t have to let that affect you
@@Jonathanm3050 whats the point of being kind to literally everyone? what do you gain from that? and why is it moral, not virtue signal neediiness. sure you oculd but it can make you vulnerable. i dont think u go out of your way to buy strangers random gifts. thats how it can come across.
They are like "haha," but they are not real, I've felt it deeply. Some people enjoy appearing as if they are by your side because, for them, it’s a habit, a form of entertainment, or just a temporary connection or they are really FAKE as you said.. Maybe they like your energy, joy, or presence, but they lack the ability or willingness to build a deep bond. The truth is, not everyone has the same emotional depth or capacity. Some people unconsciously form shallow relationships without even realizing it. The most traumatic truth I felt about my past in 2024 was this. It was exactly as you described. And for the first time, I heard it from someone other than myself, from you. You are not alone at this.
I just made a video yesterday called "Stop Being A "Nice" Christian and said the exact same things you said in this. Amazing Brother, thanks for confirmation.
@@MrBuzzzzz Yes brother, the spirit is working. We cannot be nice no more in this WAR. We need to be STRONG and fight 4 GOD 🙏 Saw your video, keep going! You spoke the thruth!
This happens to me all the time. Im kind to someone, then they think im weak or gullible and the next encounter they try taking advantage. 99% of the time I can refuse in a polite way. But im done at that point. I do believe people can change individually. But as a whole, people suck. Selish, inconsiderate, narcissistic P'sOS. There are still good people in this world. I had something happen to me a few years ago that completely changed my life. From a couple I had known less than a year and they asked for nothing in return. God is geat. Nie video
@@RocKreations I feel you! 💯 Yeah, no love in their hearts ♥️ You let em in, then they stabb you in the back! You cant be kind with those people. You have to be hard with them. Stay away, they only drain your energy Real recognize real 💯 There are good people, God works in misterious ways... A stranger will support you more than someone you know. Your biggest haters are those close to you. Many snakes out there man. Do your own thing and keep your circle small 🔝
Women are more vulnerable to wicked men. Men can build their lives back up a lot easier than women. When I was left stranded no one came to save me. They tried to offer me a ride bc they wanted to “fuck” me, no one offered to truly help me. I had to hurt myself and struggle to get back on my feet.
Needed to see and hear this, thankful and grateful that I have. Continue to uplift encourage and lead my friend, May the creator be with you at all times 🙏💪🏾
Hi! Thanks so much! I just had a homeless narcissist in my home that was using me and it was weird because it seems that there was a bad energy draining my mind to where I couldn't think but thank God for my angel you stepped in and made me to be rude and angry and I kicked him out! There's room at the shelter but he refuse to there because he thinks he deserves entitlement. Thanks again and God bless you always richly!
I was nominated for the yes man award a few years back. Lets just put it that way.... Now, especially in 2025. New Year, New Word! And that word is NO, to everything!! Thats where im at wit it. Its all about me and me alone!!! If you need to talk about your feelings? Depends, I'll still be there for them. Other than that! Im good...
@@mr_noyb You need to be hard now and say NO to them and YES to YOURSELF. When you always say YES and are kind and giving.. Many people out there take advantage of that and use you for their own advantage. They know you will never say NO! We give and get nothing back... Yea man! You right 💯 FOCUS ON YOURSELF THIS YEAR. THE WORLS IS YOURS 🔝 "NO" TO OTHERS, "YES" 2 YOURSELF 👍👍💯💯
It's sad that most people have to act unkind to people, but we live in a cruel, evil, demonic world where kindness is not valued or honored....I been nice on several occasions, and it backfired on me....I'm only nice with people who are on my level...I'm not nice to everyone because they don't my kindness.
Be a monster against a monster
Be loving to someone who truly loves you back
Being kind to the wrong people ruined my life.
can you share your story or how can i avoid this?
I can’t be rude this is how i am, I CANT steal i can’t harm someone
I’m asking you this because i’m in a situation i life where i think if this happens i would not be able to take it anymore
@Jacopino-w7k why do you want to harm others? Just be yourself and if don't take shit. Don't take things as granted and stand up for yourself and people who can't. It's really that simple. Open your mouth and speak. If someone's a bad person, tell them, if someone harms you, tell them. if someone behaves disrespectful, tell them. An eye for an eye, if someone hurts you, hurt them back. You only have this life and you shouldn't let others take it from you.
I've eaten shit for many years and eventualy just gave up, from quiet and taking hit after hit I just started to speak up whatever came to my mind. The thing is that most people forget what is being sad to them. It's on you to remind them over and over again until they learn.
Instead of being rude, be honest. With yourself and the people around. What do you have to lose anyway? If you get insults thrown at you, laugh it off. People who use insults are simply wrong. Just laugh at them and tell them they are insecure and wrong and can't even say something against you.
Prove you're better then them.
@Jacopino-w7k FOCUS ON YOURSELF 💯 IGNORE ALL NEGATIVITY
@Jacopino-w7k I just didn't know what to say back and never wanted to stoop to their level when they insulted me. Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire. They Will probably be shocked if you stand up for yourself. Avoid the idiots and never try to impress them. You have nothing to prove to them.
@@kinghype777 Its so sad my job coach, are not happy for me she have a evil jealous spirits in her saying bad things about me that person Mark telling me from Uwv officer you can t work what happend I m said its not true I m busy find a job its not easy why she do this too me she telling Lies over me again her behavior is so bad she is crazy bad Energy no support me no love me she did t care about me I m a friendely woman i love people I m don t like her but am done with her I m praying for her delverance may she repent for her sins come back to her heavenly Father Yahweh amen Thank you for the video's sr.
I agree completely. I attracted a lot of narcissists into my life by being too kind. Suffered as a result of this, change of mindset now.
No mercy son.
Same here. I finally recognized my worth and not giving myself away anymore.
I spoke to truth finally and now the narcissist is falsely accusing me, but I got people on my side that believe me.
Find like minded people
Me too, yes show no mercy.,💯
By all means be kind, but also have discernment.
Be Cold. Be a savage. Keep your good energy for YOU! You don’t owe them a thing in this life. Understand that.
@@kvibes7714 Yes, i will! I understand 💯
words I’ve always lived by
Thank you
Second message that finds me So is God watching behind the scenes watch them nieghbor begging loser men
10000% correct till the end. Stick to your convictions tolerate no bs.
I’m in my mid 30’s and I don’t have it in me anymore to be nice or kind. I’m done with people and their clingy needy backstabbing ways. I ignore people now and focus on what I need to do to better myself mentally and physically
@@ndg8240 You do the right thing 💯 Fuck them fake people! IGNORE & FOCUS ON YOURSELF 🔝
I'm one of the kindest and sweetest people of all time! But there is no chance in heck that I'm ever gonna let anyone take advantage of me! Know your worth, people
Being too kind in life will definitely do yourself no justice
Also... Dont let anyone harden your heart. Misery loves company at then end of the day. You can keep an open and light heart without giving anything away. I agree with what he said about handshakes, though.
Amen!
Yes ❤
Laying in bed on the 2nd of Jan 2025 and I am so grateful for these wise words. I’m so over people and their narcissistic attitudes
no, you just happened to like his appearence, thats why you left a comment. And he more or less reminds you phisically about those narcissistc guys you had affairs with. Don't bs, lady
Kindness is one of the fruits of the spirit be very cautious on this spiritual walk
So much power being alone, clarity, you can see the snakes even demons coming from A distance among the genuine......👁👁👁
@@theguyonthecouch42024U see everything 💯
kind people are not the ones who done these things, it's the people they want to be like and impress that did it to them.. no reason to lose yourself to get respect in this world. 🙏
💯 Amen 🙏 So True don't be kind to these predators and low lives . I stay to myself I'm 72 yrs old and they try to bully me but I stand up for myself and fight back.
@@ladyree7575 Dont be kind to evil people! Show no mercy to Satan.. They bully, use and abuse others.. You are stronger than them all Lady Ree! Dont take no shit.. Put them in their place where they belong. Stand up and fight 👊👊 God bless you women of GOD 🙏
Who is the Person do so weird too you sister.?
Thank You SO MUCH for this.
This is the exact stage I'm at right now.
I'm tired of people and their sh*t!!
I know my heart is beautiful and I'm sick of these freaking narcissists and I think they are realizing it.
That it's GAME OVER!!
Stay alone, don't give a fuck about anyone, read more books, watch videos like this, be bold and cold because nobody cares about you and your struggles.
💯
People respect you more when you are cold, stern, and serious and not nice, kind, and loving. It’s so weird but true and this is from experience. When you put your foot down and don’t kiss A people know you’re not a person to be tried. I use to be a nice person but after being done wrong by so many people I stay to myself and don’t smile except to people I feel deserve my love and time.
@@702boi You are right! Best to stay to yourself and mind your own business. Less problems and shit..
This is the lesson I'm learning. I dedicated my life to compassion and kindness. I identified as an "empath" and now I see it was a trap. Ppl use you until you have NOTHING left, and then they try to squeeze more out of you. I no longer call myself an empath, and I'm okay with "being mean". I paid enough.
@@essencer.9494 Lesson learnt the hard way. They take your kindness for a weakness.. They take everything, then leave you with nothing... Be mean, hard & serious, but not evil. Protect your energy, you dont owe them nothing.
Same here about the empath thing. Load of shit haha. OR, I see it as, 'Empath and narcissit" have the same wound, but have gone to opposite extremes in order to cope. It is why they "attract and feel whole together". Both are in extremes and has what the other needs. Narcissit needs more empathy and the empath more narcissim. BALANCE. Integrating this within ourselves.
@@jokettedj fr. Yea. I'm glad I went that way (of the 'empath') instead, considering. But it's still hell to break. But hey, at least we can decide that.
True story.... I ruined my life always being nice and helping others move forward and then I'm left behind when I need help.
Me too my jobcoach don t help me, with a new hous my brother in christ can t will not come too me to talken with her if he needed help I m help him but he don t help me so weird i see know love by them thinking by them selfs.
The moment you stop being kind you are the villain. So go in being stern but not an asshole. It’s the switch of choices is what throws people off. So go on being one way is what I’ve learned.
Agreed. Fast way to become what you hate.
I already learned that lesson a long time ago. I had to develop a cold heart because I started to realize that most of the people that I talked to in school weren’t really my friends. Every time I was nice to people, they would take advantage of me. Now I’m just by and I’m currently focusing on myself.
I understand this guy💯..it’s falls under discernment..sometimes it takes experience and it sucks..so people learn early..it’ll save you heartache 😖
This is the most powerful speech I’ve ever heard on the internet 🔥🔥🔥 This guy is legit 😤 WOW!!!
@@MichaelDewar-x9i Fo real?! Thanks dude 🙏 I appreciate it very much!
@ Fo real my guy. You had my attention all the way through. The greatest asset of any leader is their ability to communicate effectively and influence people with their words. You’re an influential speaker my friend. Do not waste your talent.
If you marketed yourself correctly, your name would blow up. You should think about branding yourself around a few topics. I’ve had a look at your channel and you touch on real world issues such as Narcissism, Manipulation, Self-Determination, and the pursuit of dreams against all odds.
Sending virtual hugs 🫂 🤗
Bro looks like an murderer but have definitely an big heart. This helps me with my ex, she took my kindness for granted even after the cirkus was over
I always told my kids to be as hard as you are kind, help people that genuinely need it and give people a reason to live. give them a reason to be polite when they are rude. and never believe any authority figure has your interest at heart.
I think if we reigned in our governments we would all be fine because the truth is they push us to the brink.
Thanks brother I need this man I really did 💯🤟🏾
He is really a big part of a lot of people's lives even mine through the internet
Took me years to know about this because I always been Kind Kind Kind. But the reason I was always kind was because I was afraid of karma and what goes around comes around negative or positive energy. But now I be kind and only smile to people that truly deserves it. Thank you for this amazing video God bless just subscribed ❤🙏🏽
@@koldhearted_ Karma is always going back on the evil.. If you have a good heart and you are kind you will go throught the most but have positive things in the end. You deserve the best! Work on your goals. Surround yourself with the right people.. Thank you for watching and subscribing 🙏♥️
@kinghype777 Thank you, keep it up I'm here because this video is in the TH-cam's algorithm so I decided to watch God has a purpose for you just keep grinding and stay positive. 💯
Of course you should be kind. You just have to be kind with boundaries.
💯 Some people go from one extreme to another. There suppose to be balance in life.
its not that black and white. I do for sure what he means. and yes that kind of level its better to show them no kindness anmymore. just ignore its kind enough to that trash/ shit who just wnat to distroy
@@flexiveganc7441Bible says “if they don’t accept or welcome you when you enter that house then take back your blessings of peace”shake the dust off your feet and leave”. ( let the dead bury the dead) 😊❤
Yeah I can tell this is too deep into the lack of self control category. Though an overall good message.
Or be kind but carry a big stick. Im kind until a person shows me otherwise. You can be both a lover and a fighter.
I know when someone wants to exploit me andact accordingly. but Im not going to let the world harden me. Boundaries and being able to move from kind to opposite is key. Misery loves company.
❤ agree
True ❤
Thats essentially what he's saying, he's talking about being a good person, but being good to those who are to you, it's wise to only show kindness through discernment this has nothing to do with hardening yourself you're still being true but out of wisdom
I appreciate you bro. I struggle with being too nice all the time because I don't want people to leave my side. But at this point I shouldn't care. You're a life saver.
@@DilationZ Dont care, in the beginning and end you are alone. Focus on yourself this year 🔝💯
Amen..im 58 and been alone since forever and love it.. i know me but really can't trust others as they never proved loyal..only Jesus Christ has been there for me.. even raised a son and he just like them ..i hope someday soon my son sees the trees through the clouds ❤
This is Real - I was in a social setting with a guys dinner a few days ago, this one guy was whispering to someone about sitting by me. As he sat by me I felt the negative energy literally draining me. He has a history of talking sh*t so I stood up, moved the chair and talked with the real ones. If you disrespect me or my family, I'm done. Sent that message loud and clear. Interesting how I've never talked about this guy or his family yet he has a problem with me. Then I realized it was never about me, it was his own issue. I don't have patience for fake people
You did the right thing. Energy never lies, trust your intution.. Distance yourself from people like that. Keep it real 💯
You gotta be cruel to be kind in the right manner. The. Electric Light Orchestra.....aka. ELO. Good song. Enjoy life while you can.
I came to realization that being nice to people doesn't get you anywhere but being taken advantage of--Majority of people have evil intentions---- their mission is to belittle and target people who they think are weak and won't stand up for themselves
A person who is solid and get respect, don't need to disrespect others to gain approval or acceptances
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Word! You 💯 right
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Wish i would have found videos like this on youtube many years ago.
Here in the UK, we have people in need who sell magazines for a living. A portion of the sale goes to them. £4 for a copy, 50% goes to them. Nobody buys them, if lucky, maybe 3-5 magazines a day. There's this guy who I have a bad feeling about. His energy is off compared to the other sellers I've met. I tried to dismiss this thinking I was just being judgmental. Came up to him and bought one copy, I had £10 so change would be £6. He looked at my hand and told me "It's merry christmas to me" (in his broken english considering he's been in the UK for 25 years.) I was shocked, he basically enforced the donation to himself. With £6 change I can buy myself a soda, sandwich and some potato chips. I felt embarrassed to tell him off. My mistake, yes. Never again did I approach this man to help. It changed my view on helping.
Be merciful still. That's what god calls us to do. But when the enemy presents itself it can't be spared.
I feel this brother's pain. Every word feels like it's coming from my own heart and experiences. Stay disciplined, determined and stay atrong
Thank you for the truth I needed that thank you so much god bless you this is confession
Thank you
Some people literally gossip bad about how weak and giving you are 😢.
Lets be honest no one can stand alone and the midst of difficult times we all need someone to lean on it hurts when the people in our circle treat that neediness as some toxic trait
@@Repostcontentz Rather walk alone... Fuck all of them evil people! Only GOD 🙏💯
@@kinghype777 The only thing, is I m have a problem with my jobcoach shs don t support me find a new hous for me others neigbors help she still do when I m asking her why its takes it so long she said I m can do antyhing for you that s weird the next day she rolde man from Uwv officier I m not hsve a job telling Lies about me its not true is a lie Of the devil Satan and his demon s
When I m needed hier she is not there for me I m explain it too her want s somebody els you are evil wicked person I m saying that to her.
Young man speaks truth from an old lady took too long to learn this lesson
@@wallflower5701 ♥️
That's the problem, nobody wants to break the ice, everybody is roaming around with a damn attitude because most people been fucked over and nobody trust nobody...When someone is kind to someone, they don't want to believe it because it's rare that people are kind unless it fits their agenda.
Yeah 💯
Amen! Fr!
I walk around admiring the saints of the past and how they worked on acquiring virtue and connection with God. God is our loophole through the user abusers.
I agree thanks for the video. ❤
It's hard to get in my circle now.......i don't trust like i once did.
@@Achilles-m5k TRUST NO ONE, ONLY GOD 🙏 Trust is hard to earn, easy to lose..
One word. Boundaries.
thanks for getting straight to the point
@@sajjadalrubayi3881 👍👍
Thank you for understanding and sharing ❤️
Sounds like 2 out of my 4 neighbours here. Well I set the boundary put it that way, life's been better since.
I'm kind, but my "response" is 100% unkind because that's what people prove they deserve.
Be kind and do not let other people change you. Is hard to be kind when people are rude but is the way to fix a lot of things. Been kind is not a weakness. To me been weak is letting the opinion of others affect your kindness
is nuanced you cant Be Kind in every context
@ I disagree. Self control and kindness are definitely things we have control over. Good night
@@Jonathanm3050 u miss the point,u cant be nice to everyone and u cant be kind to ppl who dont need or want it. not every situation calls for it. your being stubborn and denying nuance
@ I disagree, you can definitely be kind to everyone. Is it hard? Maybe, but no impossible. Some people may be rude but you don’t have to let that affect you
@@Jonathanm3050 whats the point of being kind to literally everyone? what do you gain from that? and why is it moral, not virtue signal neediiness. sure you oculd but it can make you vulnerable. i dont think u go out of your way to buy strangers random gifts. thats how it can come across.
You know what, this guy has a point.
Thank you to help spread the truth and the word of these trolls brother!❤
They are like "haha," but they are not real, I've felt it deeply. Some people enjoy appearing as if they are by your side because, for them, it’s a habit, a form of entertainment, or just a temporary connection or they are really FAKE as you said.. Maybe they like your energy, joy, or presence, but they lack the ability or willingness to build a deep bond. The truth is, not everyone has the same emotional depth or capacity. Some people unconsciously form shallow relationships without even realizing it. The most traumatic truth I felt about my past in 2024 was this. It was exactly as you described. And for the first time, I heard it from someone other than myself, from you. You are not alone at this.
I've been saying this for years but I think people have to learn the hard way, experience is the best teacher.
Thank you bro 💯
keep grinding bro we wanna see u win
@@MallysExpatlifeAbroad You 2 brother 💪💪 WE GONNA WIN 💯💯
Coming to this conclusion is a pretty painful disturbing but least you know where you stand with the majority of folks in this world
Mirror their energy
I'm not kind to anyone so there you have it! I just want to be left alone and with my phone and that's it!
I just made a video yesterday called "Stop Being A "Nice" Christian and said the exact same things you said in this. Amazing Brother, thanks for confirmation.
@@MrBuzzzzz Yes brother, the spirit is working. We cannot be nice no more in this WAR. We need to be STRONG and fight 4 GOD 🙏 Saw your video, keep going! You spoke the thruth!
@@kinghype777 I can see in your eyes that you're a bad one to mess with. I like that a lot.
@@MrBuzzzzzReal eyes realize real lies 👀😉
Ill do what I want, when I want to
You are right bro.
Real Talk 💯👏👏👏
@@sweetsteaa4989 💯💯
This happens to me all the time. Im kind to someone, then they think im weak or gullible and the next encounter they try taking advantage.
99% of the time I can refuse in a polite way. But im done at that point.
I do believe people can change individually. But as a whole, people suck. Selish, inconsiderate, narcissistic P'sOS.
There are still good people in this world. I had something happen to me a few years ago that completely changed my life. From a couple I had known less than a year and they asked for nothing in return.
God is geat.
Nie video
@@RocKreations I feel you! 💯 Yeah, no love in their hearts ♥️ You let em in, then they stabb you in the back! You cant be kind with those people. You have to be hard with them. Stay away, they only drain your energy Real recognize real 💯 There are good people, God works in misterious ways... A stranger will support you more than someone you know. Your biggest haters are those close to you. Many snakes out there man. Do your own thing and keep your circle small 🔝
I understand you totally. You too god bless. Thank yu very much for this reminder and knowing I am not the only one who feels this
@@flexiveganc7441 🙏♥️
thank you brother, i really needed to hear this message.
Glad I could help brother.
I agree completely I attached a lot of in my window in Jesus name amen protect under wise in Jesus name amen
THANKS BROTHER 🙌🏻
No problem 👍
Great vid so true merry christmas to you brother.
@@paulcooper-n2v Thanks 🙏 Merry Christmas bro
Thank you Brother
Especially as a man.
Women are more vulnerable to wicked men. Men can build their lives back up a lot easier than women. When I was left stranded no one came to save me. They tried to offer me a ride bc they wanted to “fuck” me, no one offered to truly help me. I had to hurt myself and struggle to get back on my feet.
Straight up facts brother.
This my attitude toward these snakes at work.
@@realyaknow Snake coworkers! You right sis 👍👍💯
Me too.
Thank you for sharing, sir. ❤
Fight off the horde, and protect the vulnerable.
@@unraveledultimatefate 👊👊
Needed to see and hear this, thankful and grateful that I have. Continue to uplift encourage and lead my friend, May the creator be with you at all times 🙏💪🏾
@@Khar777 Thank u my friend 🙏 I will 💯 God bless!
sad reality. once i went cold i started having better days
I am done being kind with my words
This is a great video 💯
@@nellycontentent2_ Thanks 🙏
Amen!
@@MatthewNelson-i9y 🙏
And as a gay person I am done being kind
Good word. 😎
Great spoken 💝💝💝
Needed to hear this sooooo much thank u
Just the video I needed to see thank you.
@@eyeameye9565 No prob 👍👍
I appreciate your wisdom big bro
I love you. This is so real!!!!
@@dylanflynn1 ❤️💯
Hi! Thanks so much! I just had a homeless narcissist in my home that was using me and it was weird because it seems that there was a bad energy draining my mind to where I couldn't think but thank God for my angel you stepped in and made me to be rude and angry and I kicked him out! There's room at the shelter but he refuse to there because he thinks he deserves entitlement. Thanks again and God bless you always richly!
@@donnakozak6552Glad it went good. Good luck 👍 👍 God bless you! 🙏❤️
@kinghype777 Thanks!
I was nominated for the yes man award a few years back. Lets just put it that way....
Now, especially in 2025. New Year, New Word! And that word is NO, to everything!! Thats where im at wit it. Its all about me and me alone!!! If you need to talk about your feelings? Depends, I'll still be there for them. Other than that! Im good...
@@mr_noyb You need to be hard now and say NO to them and YES to YOURSELF. When you always say YES and are kind and giving.. Many people out there take advantage of that and use you for their own advantage. They know you will never say NO! We give and get nothing back... Yea man! You right 💯 FOCUS ON YOURSELF THIS YEAR. THE WORLS IS YOURS 🔝 "NO" TO OTHERS, "YES" 2 YOURSELF 👍👍💯💯
@kinghype777 absolutely! 🙏🏿🙏🏿
@@mr_noyb 🙏🙏💯💯
True bro ...
.bless
I agree. I stopped being kind in 2024.
Dont let the shitty people of this world make you cold and unable to love.
I agree so true 🔥💯👍
I've been so far I've gotten nothing not bs .
They think because i am outgoing and want everybody getting along that I'm weak, im the opposite .
Dont be nice, but be kind. Theres a difference
@@BosniannMuslim Da brate..
Those demons won't see a difference.
@@Apricot90respect and kindness are different. Respect means you respect people's feelings. Kindness means you do kind gestures.
Hell yeah needed this video.
@@RolandVazquez777 🎰🙏❤️💯
true to the bone
It's sad that most people have to act unkind to people, but we live in a cruel, evil, demonic world where kindness is not valued or honored....I been nice on several occasions, and it backfired on me....I'm only nice with people who are on my level...I'm not nice to everyone because they don't my kindness.