Since there’s been a lot of confusion in the comments section on this topic, I’ll clear a few things: 1- Hijab is a command from Allah and should be taken seriously just like the 5 daily prayers. Just like there’s no choice in salah, they’re no choice in hijab. 2- Some people are taking this video as a justification to not wear the hijab, to those I say, don’t fool yourselves. You know exactly what the video means, don’t try to twist his words to sooth your desires. 3- What the video is preaching is that: Before enforcing the hijab on your daughter or wife or anyone else, first connect them to Allah’s words, make them fall in love with Islam. When they ask you why to wear the hijab, don’t just say, “Because I said so” or “Its Allah’s command”. Give them the wisdom and beauty behind it. And if after providing all the evidences and proofs they’re still rebelling then remember it’s not your job to guide the hearts. You just provide the proof and let Allah do His thing. 4- And finally, to those non-Muslims who’re just hating. If you don’t want to learn about Islam then don’t come here trying to mock it. Just because you can’t prove your religion is the truth, don’t cry about it in our comments section. If you’re sincere, learn about Islam. And anyone with even a single brain cell could tell from all the religions Islam is by far the most logical, factual, preserved, and miraculous. But if you’re here just to play games then you’re just wasting your time if you think that’s gonna slow us down.
Yes but many people got the wrong idea that you are saying “you can’t force your wife or daughters” Which is false, not only you can, if you fear allah you won’t let them leave the house without hijab, anyone who disagrees doesn’t know about islam
Pfff! None sense! Okay, then let's do the same thing for “Zina”. Let’s our daughter be free about it. Let's not force her; instead, let's allow her to explore while we explain Allah's word and guide her towards closeness to Allah. Once we've delivered all of Allah's teachings, we can assess what she might have missed. But let's not overlook the obligations (farz); they're non-negotiable
Well said 😂 mashallah. If a daughter/sister is taught or educated as well as guided in terms of deen & embraces it then she will naturally follow what is sunnah/fardh of her own accord inshallah
@@cyberyousef7519they need to understand AND accept what is fardh or sunnah FIRST before embracing hijab-if they do so then they will do so willingly.
I used to wear hijab since I was a kid until I went to college. then took it off for three years because I used to hate the connections of my “Muslim family” but their actions didn’t represent Islam. but then Allah guided me and showed me how beautiful Islam and I immediately wore it without hesitations. Alhamdulillah..
Yes the impact me deeply as I did just like he said, demanding people doing the 'right' thing immediately. And I always fail. I'm sad and definitely regrets it. However, I grateful I found this advice and I hope to never forget this.
@@RokyBhurr Islam was one of the only things to give rights to women in the middle ages, you talking about women's rights in Islam is like a blind person describing the sky
This is the best way to explain to those people who say "wear the hijab!" Look I am a hijabi and I completely understand the journey of every hijabi. Do not force anyone people, Somethings take time- it is okay. In Sha Allah lots of women will wear hijab just do not force.
Why do You guys believe in God conscious human type but not similar existence? A believe can be True or false both depending on the reality of that matter... How are you so sure that it is not a false belief which encourages you to involve in war and their are violence in Islamic world view. why do you believe so surely then?
Some days I wear it, some days I don’t. I wear it more now than ever before. It takes practice especially when nobody in my family knows I’m Muslim. Allah is helping me grow closer to Islam every day one step at a time.
@@NAZionist666how many people have you converted or pushed away from the religion. Only Allah knows what is in the heart of man. Have you heard the Hadith of the man who went to the prophet asking for permission to commit Z*na?? Please learn how to the prophet s a w spread the teachings of Islam !!
@@NAZionist666 Yes, some will say he is liberal and some will say others are extremist.. this is the problem with the Ummah; instead of encouraging each other, we are engaged in a slagging match!
I'm a 16 year old girl. My parents performed hajj a year ago. After the hajj, I was actually scared that they will force the hijab on me, but guess what? they didn't, not even once. They just encouraged me to wear when I'm ready and ordered that I will never take it off once I start wearing it. Because of this, I never felt pressured but an interest started to grow within me, I started to learn more and gave myself time. And here I am, about 10 months later, wearing the hijab with pride and happiness ❤ I'm eveb starting to think about Niqab! May Allah grant hidayah for all the sisters
There is a confusion about hijab.if I say hijab means a womans or girls hide everything by a hijab. First thing you hide your face this is the first thing where shaitan enter and the 2nd thing an eyes these are attractive after the face. so cover all the things and if you need to go college or market the hijab is your protection
I love how you emphasize that is not easy for a woman. Thank you! People and concretely men critizise us without understanding what is going on inside of out hearts, and how deep we are working to do things in the right way. May Allah guide and forgive all of us.
Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba: `Aisha used to say: "When (the Verse): "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms," was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their heads and faces with those cut pieces of cloth." Sahih al-Bukhari 4759
I converted to Islam just because of interest in Islam and no one forced me - not the Family of my husband not he himself. I just started reading the holy Quran and later learned to pray. It felt like detoxing because it was like something inside me was fighting against praying like a muslim, or even Reading the holy book, and sometimes I still need to force myself to pray especially when I am tired but I try my best. Maybe I would not have converted and instead turned my back to this beautiful Religion if someone had pushed me. Unfortinately I am not wearing a headscarf because of the society I live in and my family is Christian, they are not quite happy about my choice but accept it. My hijab is just like waering no make up, waering wide shirts and wearing a braid when I go oitside. I am glad I found tgis video, it makes me feel a little bit better about this hijab issue.
Agree In subcont if a girl wears hijab she is considerd a good girl in all aspects and the one who doesnt , is considerd a bad one in all aspects i.e people judge a woman by her appearence . May ur words reach to our subcont islamic preachers .
by teaching them the importance and value and meaning behind the reason why we are supposed to wear, we need to peacefully explain to them, make sure they understand and accept it by heart before wearing it, not just go to them and SAY WEAR IT BECAUSE ALLAH SAID TO DO SO, Islam teaches us that we must question things that don't make sense to us until they finally make sense to us, otherwise its useless to have good acts but still doubts in hearts
Learn the basic thing about creed. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him taught creed around 13 years in Mecca. Just look into Makkiyah verses in the Quran, there's no single ayat talks about commands and prohibitions.
@@NAZionist666exactly lol. These woman in comments must be thinking, it would be like 50 years or when they are death time is near 😂 That’s not how it works lol. Allah says submit your soul to the commands of Allah. And since you claim that it’s hard for you, can’t wear it, your iman or knowledge isn’t much, then get educated and know why you should wear hijab. It takes no less than 1 year to know all that, if you need more time sure take it. But when your education on it is done, then submit yourself to Allah and wear the hijab even if it’s hard.
@@NAZionist666 as long as it takes, you can't force them to wear it, in the end only Allah decides, they can only be guided if Allah wills, you should do what you can but do not force them, that will just make it harder for no reason
@@NAZionist666their hijab is not our responsibility. Our responsibility is just remind them what's right and what's wrong. There is no need to force them "By the (passage of) time! Surely humanity is in (grave) loss, except those who have faith, do good, and urge each other to the truth, and urge each other to perseverance" - Quran surah Al-Asr
Being a revert to Islam, while reading Surat Noor, Ayat 31 & 32, I started wearing Hijab and Hijab is thee Best gift for a woman bringing a Glory, a Beauty, a Divine look creating an answer attachment with Allahu Stronger, Stronger and Stronger! Alhamdulillah!
I see a lot of muslims forget the very next verse after Ayatul-Kursi in Surah Al-Baqara. “No compulsion in religion”. Just DON’T make people hate Islam or see it as a chore. You can advise women to wear hijabs, yes.. but forcing it on her will only make her not want to wear it. This is also pointed towards those parents who let their daughters wear hijabs since prepubescence (with strict rules around it). Like just let the juvenile be, but teach her Islam well and she’ll want to wear the hijab by her own decision.
Out of context lines do nothing. Hijab is obligation. If forcing or children not wearing then parents have been too laxadazical and not raised children correctly or have not used wisdom or common sense as to how. Or children watch nonsense on tv, online, tablets, nk idea what chikdren do so spend no time with own children. The religion is perfect and hijab obligation at puberty ages is part of it. Its application by people is the problem. No compulsion.of course there is. Read on from there....he who doesnt pray is out of islam....that's a compulsion. Literal is not correct. Not force people to be muslims...free will to be muslim or not is no compulsion as per verse you mention. It is nothing to do with no compulsion as a muslim.obligations are compulsions.5 pillars are compulsions. Full verse is Let there be no compulsion in religion, for the truth stands out clearly from falsehood.1 So whoever renounces false gods and believes in Allah has certainly grasped the firmest, unfailing hand-hold. And Allah is All-Hearing, All-Knowing Falsehood is not a neutral word. It is clear as muslims this verse is not about our obligations but whether we believe or not being a choice.
yeah, and because many other people are not good at explaining about Islam, so there are so many false stereotypes about Islam in Non muslim communities.. we need more people like Nouman Ali Kahn, May Allh bless him in Jannatul Firdous
Ustdh s explanation is just perfect. For ive seen girls who re foeced by their families to put hijabs on...nnd when their famiky members aren't around they would remove that. Kinda that hijab was jsut to obey their parents not for Almighty and we alll shall consider the fact...that what we actually need is the fear of Allah in our hearts, in their hearts....we need imaan. We have to train thwm so they look for the acceptance by almoghty . Not of people (parents).... Hope ot helps Baarakallah u li wa lakum Lots of prayers for ustaadh ❤
They should make them wear it but explain why in a beautiful way attention is most addictive thing for a woman dificult to give it up later and Allah knows best
Absolutely true what Ustad Norman said. Let the person beautify her heart with Islam before forcing her to wear the hijab. She must want to do that for herself, and not because she was forced to do that. Allah looks at your heart and good character first. ❤❤❤
Hes so right i was abused and harassed into wearing hijab. I hated it so much i cried for months. Every time i saw a hijabi i thought they were stupid and i hated seeing them. But alhamdulillah i wore it by my own choice a few months ago. Im still not okay with all the abuse i went through just for a scarf. Being name called and considered a worthless object if i didnt wear one. May Allah SWT punish my abuser for all the pain and sleepless night they put me through
Respect for the PARENTS 🗿🗿 You h@ted hijab , because you were influenced by the content u consume from movies and dramas. And friend circle. Alhamdulillah you are now on the Right path.
@@NAZionist6661. I never said it was my parents 2. The difference between you and the feminist western liberal blablabla is that at least those people have basic human decency and empathy. They don’t side with an abuser vs you who applauses an abuser “Let there be no compulsion in religion,” [2:256]
Yes it is a nice explanation. Because look at what happened in saudia arabia. It was made an obligation for even non muslims to cover themselves and when suddenly the obligation was lifted off so did the hijab you want your sisters to develop the love for Allah and in sha Allah wearing hijab will not feel that difficult.
As a woman living in Saudi Arabia, the most women now who don’t wear hijab anymore are the ones who have been forced. I know many woman who their family wasn’t strict and allowed them to choose hijab didn’t take it off when it became a trend to do so. NO human wants to feel like they are forced to do something especially when it comes to faith. Yes, it’s haram but people have to be convinced this is the right thing to do in their hearts before it reflects on their appearance.
@@BashaerB-h2c don’t make fatwa yourself, the majority of ulamaa2 agree that a husband and a father must enforce the hijab on his family members else he will also take sin for every strand of hair seen by a non mehrem
@@BashaerB-h2c still it will prevent fitnah between men and women Lets say they took it off when you are not looking?? The answer is, you have done your part, its now her’s
@@cyberyousef7519 Allah has stated that "وَ لَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَيٰ وَ إِنْ تَدْعُ مُثْقَلَةٌ إِلَيٰ حِمْلِهَا لَا يُحْمَلْ مِنْهُ شَيْءٌ وَ لَوْ كَانَ ذَا قُرْبَيٰ" which translates into "Nor can a bearer of burdens bear another's burdens if one heavily laden should call another to (bear) his load. Not the least portion of it can be carried (by the other). Even though he be nearly related"
I don't know how to explain it but I was about 16 to 17 when I started to cover my head, and now after knowing by this video,I am feeling so overwhelming and contentful and I am surprised and it's such an amazing feeling to get to l know that your RABB your ALLAH literally knows every single thing about you and HE also knows when we are ready. ALLAH indeed is amazing and beyond us........
The only problem all along is 'The lack of islamic Knowledge'. If you have knowledge and know that Allah is aware of your sacrifice and every decision you make for the sake of pleasing him and obeying him. You would feel better about wearing it. Allah loves you. Muslim lacks knowledge. Some are just born as Muslim and they just received what you can do and cannot do. They don't even understand their connection between Allah. My explanation is not good but i simply want to say 'Islamic Knowledge is SO IMPORTANT!'
To tell the truth i hated the hijab when i was growing up because my mother and father would always say "you either put the hijab on or go show urself" it made me feel like i was a whore in their eyes if i wanted to NOT wear the hijab when going outside. But as time grew i came to realize that the thinking my father and mother have is 80% "culture" and not much islamic....had they known that forcing their daughters to be the way they want me to is actually much more damaging then "islamic". I thank allah for showing me video's like these. It means im not alone 😊
So when the prophet (saw) said that "those women who go outside, wearing perfumes and letting other man to inhale the fragrance, they are like prostitutes(metaphorically)." so the prophet was wrong cz it was "cultural". And Don't come and say that there are women who go outside without hijab, flowing their hair to let other underserved men to see, but don't wear perfumes.
Amen to this! I was forced into hijab before nikah and taking my shahada. Wore it by force for 7 years then after 9/11, I removed it and never put it back on and don’t plan to again.
So you are not a muslim now? That's reasonable but please research about Islam, don't disbelieve or hate on Islam just because of your past. Also you can't prove 9/11 was caused by muslims(not talking about if they claimed to be muslims)as you don't know what was in the hearts of those people
I know it is tempting to be harsh on non-hijabi sisters because there is something wrong going on, but it is necessary to acknowledge their feelings if you really want them to wear it at all. I like ustadh's point. I'm a hijabi woman and I used to seem very condescending towards other sisters who may not wear it properly or not wear it at all, but you just have to get rid of that mindset and put yourself in their shoes. It is so hard to escape the fashion, makeup and Beauty rat-race, and overcome the racism and islamophobia at the same time, especially when you are just entering Islam. The sweetest words are required, as it is easy to lose their attention if you are just forcing them and shouting at them. Sure, some girls are just defiant and do not care about their obligations, but not all of them are. Sometimes, you don't have a clue what is going on in their head.
@@hilmyakatsuki1665 I do think that so many girls are being defiant and just not listening because they are so lured by liberalism and this false idea of being a “free,” “strong” woman who flaunts herself, and they think more revealing = more attractive. But the approach some people take to advise women does not help, they just get defensive and resort to feminist arguments. For example, if a man commented on a hijabi’s post, “Fear Allah sister, remove your makeup, stop threading your eyebrows and wear hijab properly or don’t wear it at all!” I’m pretty sure they would most likely respond with anger, “Don’t judge me!” and have inner hatred towards Islam and Muslims. Of course, tabarruj is wrong but she is not going to learn it from a mean, barking dog, as she just notices the barking, not the words. If someone wants women to love Islam and its pure teachings, they need to exhibit them as more loving and kind than the hypocritical liberals who have distracted them from what is good for them. Of course they should change their mindset, but the way you facilitate it makes a diffference :)
First of all - Liberal muslims are not our sisters or brothers ! They are منافق Second - The guy in this video is no Sheikh ul islam. We don't listen to interpretation of a R∆ndom guy speaking about our deen twisting according to his logic.
Jazakallah khairan, brother. I am a revert Muslim just last year. I live in a place where very very few are muslims and there is a huge divide between Christians and the Muslim minority. Everyone in my family is a christian. Much as I want to wear a hijab, I know it is not time. Insha'Allah that time will come soon.
In the same Sura (An Nur) Allah talks about obedience to Him and His Messenger: اِنَّمَا كَانَ قَوۡلَ الۡمُؤۡمِنِيۡنَ اِذَا دُعُوۡۤا اِلَى اللّٰهِ وَرَسُوۡلِهٖ لِيَحۡكُمَ بَيۡنَهُمۡ اَنۡ يَّقُوۡلُوۡا سَمِعۡنَا وَاَطَعۡنَاؕ وَاُولٰٓـئِكَ هُمُ الۡمُفۡلِحُوۡنَ (24:51) When those that believe are called to Allah and His Messenger in order that he (that is, the Messenger) may judge their disputes among them, nothing becomes them but to say: "We hear and we obey." Such shall attain true success. وَمَنۡ يُّطِعِ اللّٰهَ وَرَسُوۡلَهٗ وَيَخۡشَ اللّٰهَ وَيَتَّقۡهِ فَاُولٰٓـئِكَ هُمُ الۡفَآئِزُوۡنَ (24:52) Those who obey Allah and His Messenger and fear Him and avoid disobeying Him: such, indeed, shall triumph. How about Sura Ahzab where Allah states the following: وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤۡمِنٍ وَّلَا مُؤۡمِنَةٍ اِذَا قَضَى اللّٰهُ وَرَسُوۡلُهٗۤ اَمۡرًا اَنۡ يَّكُوۡنَ لَهُمُ الۡخِيَرَةُ مِنۡ اَمۡرِهِمۡ ؕ وَمَنۡ يَّعۡصِ اللّٰهَ وَرَسُوۡلَهٗ فَقَدۡ ضَلَّ ضَلٰلًا مُّبِيۡنًا (33:36) It does not behove a believer, male or female, that when Allah and His Messenger have decided an affair they should exercise their choice. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has strayed to manifest error. May Allah guide us all and bless us with the true understanding of his deen. Ameen
Thank you, in whole comment section I was looking for someone to comment on this. Salah and forbidding alcohol did not come immediately either. Can the same concept apply to this as well?
This word ' forced ' is so misused . If someone asks yout to wear hijab . He/dhe is just conveying the message of Islam . It doesnt mean they are forcing you
For Example Drinking Alcohal was also prohibited by Islam after many years, So it means if we are stopping some one from drinking Alcohol is forceful act. And we give them time for years to stop by heart. And if we say them to stop then he will never stop. What a logic
Very true....We as community have lost depth on Quranic teachings and caught ourselves in rituals and customs...forgetting essence is soul not materialisticbody that needs purity...Purity comes from within and never can be forced upon....
Narrated `Umar (bin Al-Khattab): My Lord agreed with me in three things: -1. I said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), I wish we took the station of Abraham as our praying place (for some of our prayers). So came the Divine Inspiration: And take you (people) the station of Abraham as a place of prayer (for some of your prayers e.g. two rak`at of Tawaf of Ka`ba)". (2.125) -2. And as regards the (verse of) the veiling of the women, I said, 'O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! I wish you ordered your wives to cover themselves from the men because good and bad ones talk to them.' So the verse of the veiling of the women was revealed. -3. Once the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) made a united front against the Prophet (ﷺ) and I said to them, 'It may be if he (the Prophet) divorced you, (all) that his Lord (Allah) will give him instead of you wives better than you.' So this verse (the same as I had said) was revealed." (66.5). Sahih al-Bukhari 402
This is soo true, my mother forced me to wear hijab at 10 so does one of my male teacher . He was like now you're grown up you're not allowed to show your hair, while i was at that age a kid really wanna style my hair but as my mom said so i have to put on when i turn 14 she forced me to wear a gown everytime i go out and i feel so insecure about it my self esteem goes down. I had no freedom of expression and clothing. At 16 i started studying islam on my own and i started wearing hijab at weddings which everyone made fun of (its strange in my culture to wore hijab at weddings) at 19 i am DONE with everything about hijab (i'm still a hijabee i love that. I can't take it off) but the reason of starting at first is traumatizing (i wish that i would be able to choose hijab for me, not forced to )
Powerful words, everytime i listen to your talks, it just puts things into prospective. I was always forced to wear hijab, never knew why i was wearing it, i was about 8-9 years old no clue, high-school came, i took it off , most girls and women around me have all removed hijab, most forced after marriage or just wore it for “show”.. May Allah guide us all Ameen and give us the taufeeq
How the hijab verse was revealed? 'A'isha reported that the wives of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to go out in the cover of night when they went to open fields (in the outskirts of Medina) for easing themselves. 'Umar b Khattab used to say: Allah's Messenger, ask your ladies to observe veil, but Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) did not do that. So there went out Sauda, daughter of Zarn'a, the wife of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), during one of the nights when it was dark. She was a tall statured lady. 'Umar called her saying: Sauda, we recognise you. (He did this with the hope that the verses pertaining to veil would be revealed.) 'A'isha said: Allah, the Exalted and Glorious, then revealed the verses pertaining to veil. Sahih Muslim 2170d
Quran says to cover yourself properly that does not mean that one have to wear a hijab and Burqa only, in the old times it was Hoods that women used to wear and they cover the body and head and leave space for air as well and as compared to Burqa and Hijab it also looks cool, this hood can be seen in old Midlevel Movies and even Christian woman used to wear it.
They didn't have umbrellas then and they wore it to protect themselves from the elements like the wind, the heat and cold. Why this obsession about the hijab when what was recommended was to cover the breasts and wear modest clothing. If you live in a hot and humid country it is not a question of religion but comfortable clothing. The hair was not even mentioned, only the breast and to lengthen one's clothing..
@@mariaclaudettecaluban5286 wrong, no one expose them selves where their is excessive heat otherwise you will get a nasty tan and may also hurt your skin. Take an example of Arab countries. And in Quran it is clearly mentioned to cover the head.
Hijab is an obligation from the creator just as prayer, fasting, giving Zakat and so on. This message could easily be misinterpreted by those looking to justify not wearing hijab. Islam is a packaged deal and comes with some obligations towards our creator and Hijab is one of those obligations. May Allah SWT guide us all and make us strong willed and steadfast. Our first goal as Muslims should be to obey our creator and not cave to societal pressures.
Hijab is nothing to do with dressing what you talking about is the headscarf and it’s not act of worship set your priorities straight it’s a Wahhabi crap
Narrated `Aisha: The wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) used to go to Al-Manasi, a vast open place (near Baqi` at Medina) to answer the call of nature at night. `Umar used to say to the Prophet (ﷺ) "Let your wives be veiled," but Allah's Apostle did not do so. One night Sauda bint Zam`a the wife of the Prophet (ﷺ) went out at `Isha' time and she was a tall lady. `Umar addressed her and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda." He said so, as he desired eagerly that the verses of Al-Hijab (the observing of veils by the Muslim women) may be revealed. So Allah revealed the verses of "Al-Hijab" (A complete body cover excluding the eyes). Sahih al-Bukhari 146
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I hav respect for this man Remember islam completed over years In the last speech of nabi karim swa said haven't i conveyed complete deen amongst you That means revelation have stopped nothing will come afte, that's where islam is completed. Yeah it's takes time to follow islam in every aspect in starting.But Allah will guide through
Mashallah the way you explain things❤ Only if people could understand this. And give time, patience and support to their women! May Allah SWT help us all become better muslims, Ameen
Rules on salah being fardh and alcohol being haram did not come with our prophet's first revelation either. Can the same concept be applied ro all fardh rulings?
my uncles used to get hit when they were younger for not praying and guess what happened? they pretended to pray to avoid getting hit. forcing someone into something doesnt work and will never work
Absolutely right . But one must realise that Hijab is mandatory just like Salah . The video could be misinterpreted by those justify it by saying its ok to not wear it . May Allah guide us all
Hijab should be worn for Allah. If you force someone to wear it because “you know better” and the girls heart is not convinced, then it will never work. It will not be sustainable or have real meaning for them. Also when she has troubles regarding hijab she will blame you for them if you pushed too hard. Let there be no compulsion in religion. There are steps in Islam, do not be harsh with people, there are contexts. Develop your heart. Develop your iman. Be encouraging. When your girls are ready they will be ready for Allahs sake and from their own heart ❤️ you don’t control that.
There is no compulsion in the acceptance of the religion but once you accept the religion there are obligations that come with it, the dresscode for both men and women is an obligation just like any other in the religion, but sure it might be difficult at first and it might take time just like it takes time to learn the prayer but for as long as one is sincerely trying, Allah swt sees the effort
Its a command from Allah, so muslims will not have any choice to wear hijab or not. If she accept Islam She must accept it as whole. Not accepting one part and leaving other part for later. Because now the deen has been completed. Wallahu aùlam.
Should I remind you that forcing something on someone is prohibited in islam? You can't force a woman to wear it. Women should wear the hijab for the sake of Allah not because you forced them to do it. However men are not like women. It is in women's nature that they wanna look beautiful and doing something against that is not easy.
@@yakam_dlop. *Every girl should respect the orders and instructions of her father, elder brother and husband. More than that, she must show respect for Sharia law. Women who want to follow their own will, in a word, they are evil women. However, it is true that it cannot be forced.*
@milonrahman2564 yes it is mandatory for a woman to listen to his brother and father and husband but there is something to be considered, just because men has given a degree over women doesn't mean that they can do whatever they want to their women. There has to be respect for the borders of men and women. How can a woman listen to these people if they can not respect her borders and think whatever they say is right regardless of what the woman thinks. Respect is something that most of the time is missing in the relationships, that's why they may not have a healthy relationship because of that.
@@yakam_dlop.*What do you think? A girl's own father, brother and husband want more harm than good for her. Wow! What a logic you have.* *It's evil women's own thoughts. Those who are willing to be puppets of the culture of the West. But they are unwilling to obey Islamic beautiful rules.* *Hey don't show so much logic! Showing too much logic is devilish. At the end of the day, no girl's own father, brother or her husband will wish her harm, that's for sure. Deep down her mind knows exactly this but refuses to accept it.But I say again, it cannot be forced.*
@@yakam_dlop.Please don’t mix up things - no one said, that a male relative can be jaheel and still has the right to give (non Islamic instructions or recommendations) - it’s EVERY Muslims duty to learn and understand Islam and its principles so that one is not insisting on false or bad ideas. So, if the male persons are well educated in the Islamic principles, he will tell her in a gentle way, why it is necessary for her to act like it is expected from her. Nevertheless there is no right to force her - if she’s really rejecting it. If she’s respectful (since you’re talking about respect) she wouldn’t reject (for no good reason) to wear the hijab properly. Look at Iran for example - there you have an example on how they “wear a scarf”, if you let women do what they want without proper education in morals and ethics. Then it becomes a matter of egoistic show-off and the covering becomes a piece of accessory… (generally spoken).
Masha-ALLAH so true. For 13 years, Rasulullah (SAW) preached only Towheed in Mecca before anything else. Can we muslims ever have such patience as Rasulullah (SAW)?
You born with a hair like every non Muslim, no men is born with gold silk tatttoos, you well damn know it’s not the same especially if you’re not in a Muslim country, and tattoos are haram for girls as well I haven’t a seen a girl crying about tattoos either that shows you that hijab and the things you’ve mentioned are not the same
Because it is more easy to took off these things than hijab ...you won't feel suffocated after wearing gold , silk, tattoos but you will feel suffocated after wearing hijab ....and u can't stop those boys who don't lower their gaze ...that's why it is the matter of crying ....
So if your child refuses to pray you should just let him be? because if we use this same logic, the child may get flashbacks of the arguments and the way his parents were strict on him regarding the prayers. covering up isn't a small thing for women yes. if you cover up to pray, you should ask your self why you cant cover up in front of non mahraams
Best explanation. Can some one please explain to my father in law who force us to cook in kitchen with hijaab regardless of all season . Alhamdulillah I have understanding husband who protects me and never force me to wear hijaab and advise me to wear hijaab on my own will. ❤❤
First of all, cooking for in laws is not an obligation on Muslim women. It is just an assimilated culture from those around, mainly in the Indian subcontinent. If he is not comfortable with you not wearing the hijab in the kitchen, let him stay separately. That is better than staying with you and forcing you.
The men should wear the hijab with full hair and see how hot it can get. The khimars worn were for fashion not for modesty and they were used to attract men as they were trailing behind their heads. They were told instead to cover their breasts because it was a more important part to be covered. Can you imagine the veil trailing with the breasts showing?
Wearing hijab is also not just on the head. From my perspective, it is the representation of modesty. Which includes attitude, speech and ofcorse attire. I think this is why teaching the purpose of hijab is crucial. As it will strengthen their connection to the deen and will really construct the character of a person and more importantly they will be the face of a muslimah. And I believe will also be a cause of da'wah. But my sincere advice to parents. Don't delay teaching your kids about the importance of hijab. We never know when is the time of our passing or their passing. May Allah guide us all to the correct path.
This comment section is embarrassing The hijab must be enforced by the husband and father The prophet enforced it Abu baker enforced it, Umar enforced Uthman too Ali too
Bro that is the thing he has explained in the video That enforcing it , will never let your sister or mother to know the beautiful reason behind it . They just gonna be like," Oh man Thank God! My brother has died today. Now there's no one to force hijab on me"....... And she's never ever gonna wear it again
Oh God!You are the best.my parents always force me to wear hijab from my early age but i always envvy the stylish clothes of others .they dont allow me to take time.i just wear hijab in their fear
there is another talk by Nauman A Khan where he talks about the parents having this auto connection with Allah where we as children “fear” it… i too wore hijab out of fear of my parents but it wasnt the right way.
Your parents did their part, even if you were forced, which is the right thing if you didn’t want to do it Why don’t you fear your creator and simply love it
@@cyberyousef7519she wasn’t given the time to fear her creator first.. and she was still a child she didn’t understand everything yet, so how can you ask that?
And why force? Why not teach her how important it is to wear hijab first? Is forcing her to wear it overnight and making her hate hijab more important than letting her slowly love it and hold on to it forever?
Hijab should start at an early age as now it is mandatory in quran . Who said that before surah noor women didn’t wear head covering. All women even non muslims wore it at that time , to make muslim women be known and recognised Allah commanded to pull the veil down to the chest so that everyone knows that this is a muslim woman. Even men are suppose to wear a topi (cap) out of respect when praying. Now a days coz we are raised in an environment where nobody gave us the knowledge of wearing hijab and other bascic knowledge our parents and forefathers read quran without understanding it. For example the word kufr was alwways taken as its for non muslims but its actual meaning is the one who rejects or disobeys Allah ayah ( which are Allah’s words) and so it implies on muslims too as we do kufr as well , whatever is convenient for us we do it whatever is not we don’t. How sad is that. If we give priority to Allah’s words and try to understand what our rabb is asking us to do then life will be so much easier but sadly we don’t want to do that and instead flaunt our beauty. I wish women understand this that for sure it’s hard as we never were educated to wear hijab at an early age but to please Allah and sacrifice something thing dearest to One will give one an immense pleasure and makes one loved more by Allah. It is a struggle for sure but all u women out there are strong! You can do it! 💕you all!
If the muslim women are obliged to be covered to be known and recognised, what is it for? Is disturbing others ok? Muslim women are much more targetted to be disturbed by non muslims this way.
What a poor argument. Salah was also not fard at start of islam and only later after isra was made fard but still we tell reverts to learn to pray straight away. The take your time approach is literally a falesy as we never know when we will die. Muslim should fully submit and if he fall short ask foe forgiveness. Allahumusta3n
Are you a born muslim or a revert?? Because if you are a born muslim then you can not understand the mindset of a revert. Its an ayat which says call them with hikmat. When you leave you previous deen. You are not just leaving it. You are leaving your Loved once. You are leaving your childhood and every thing you learned from your parents. Thats what he is saying that Allah made it easy on muslims to heal and then move on to the next step.
Arab women wore hijab(head cover).. only they showed their chest. I do not recommend this video. I cannot recommand as a Muslima who loves hijab. I cannot imagine our beloved mother Aisha did not wear hijab.. please.. do not negociate with your audiance.. 😢 this will repeat Christians' mistakes Becareful someone who says what you want to hear.. do not follow someone who says hijab is in your heart
Are you trying to misguide people? And let them follow their desires? If people can now make up their own beliefs about religion and act like its something that is correct and spread it, more and more people will become less serious about Islamic rulings. Are we now gonna say oh yeah Mutah was permissible in the beginning so you can do it, oh drinking alchohol was okay in the beginning so you can do it, Ramadhan wasnt obligatory so just ignore it. Akhi what is this, fear Allah, the obligations should not be downplayed, do not make the religion inro something which you are comfortable with and in which you never strive to gain the pleasure of Allah. Who said it is easy? It is not, it will never be easy, learning arabic, leaving alcohol, leaving riba it is all not easy but when you trust in Allah and act so Allah will make it easy on you and let you be of those who were pious.
Oh my, you did not listen to the lecture, and if you did you put your opinions above and did not listen to this lecture with open ears. Everyones journey is different, you do not force anyone. Pray for them yes, do not force. Be an example for them yes, but do not force. Hijab just like any other concept of Islam has to has to come from the heart.
I have utmost respect for him for what he is doing. But this is so misleading.That's why we must obey Allah and the Messenger (SA) without any question and logic. Don't practice your deen as you like it.The deen is completed and perfected by Allah already. We don't discuss how it was. He is saying hijab was made obligatory on 15th year.But didn’t say what the women of that time started doing that after it was made obligatory. How Aisha (RA) used to put hijab in her own home after Umar (RA) was buries inside her home as the man lying in a grave was her non-mahram. Telling one part of the story isn’t a right way to guide people. May Allah guide us all and keep steadfast.
@@99chartered This is so sad and eye-opening at the same time. How does a man who has studied and researched the Quran for 20 years still miss the fundamental principles of being a Muslim.
I know brother it's obligatory but what will you do if your cousin is living in a hindu society with clubs, music, no namaz, no hijab You have to make them a muslim first they will automatically become moddest I am talking about my cousin 😢 I am just 27 days old than her
@@-AMED_on_YT_9211-you can’t make anyone a Muslim even the prophet Muhammad Sallahu Alayahi Wa salaam couldn’t change the heart, it’s not for us to pander to sinful deviants if your cousin lives with filth Hindus your job is to tell them the message clearly and leave it to Allah they accept or reject don’t pander
Why don’t you tell when Allah commanded women have to cover themselves from head to toe. That time Hazrat Fatima (A.S) started weeping with fear of what if she dies and someone will see her body or a single hair which she did not wanted. She asked ladies to show her how they will take to grave and requested them to bring a coffin which was covered from all sides and they did demo to her (that they will take her to grave in that coffin). She smiled and said now Im relieved that no one will be able to see me even after my death.
This kind of thinking is very wrong. You can tell the same thing about 5 Prayers, Fasting Ramadhan etc. What if you take your time adapting Hijab and you die before wearing Hijab? And 23 years of revelations was for the Sahabas and their time, now for us and certainly not for someone who was born a muslim. And Allah Knows best
Easing new Muslims into rules is better than telling them all the rules from the start and expecting them to oblige them all right away. That’s all he’s saying
You don’t get it, even Quran took 23 years to come to us. Taking time to do something from heart is never wrong. What's the point if you wear hijab, do prayers but your heart is not connected to Allah, Not all humans, all muslims are the same, taking time is not bad. If you force someone to do something, he/she will just do it. But there's something called "intention" and "Heartfelt" these will be harder to achieve for this kind of people. Allah knows the best and He knows the best that when to give you chances and when not. If you take time but not working on it thoroughly, slowly that's wrong.
It's very difficult for some people. So it can't be imposed by force.. ultimately it leads to resentful.. so it needs to be slow, gradual and come from the heart..
I agree with him.....in the first place our heart should be connected to Allah...then automatically we live our life according to Allah's rules and regulations I personally started praying since 9 years if i remember correctly....but i prayed my 5 time salah on time properly later ...that's when i felt myself...it's Allah who knows us...and to him we can openly tell and request all our joys, problems confusion etc...and i believed he'll answer my prayers...yes and He does Then i started covering my hair with my scarf by my 9th std (around 14-15 yrs old).....back then i knew we should cover our head...but as a teenager my cousins where all wearing the scarf the way i wore...so i didn't know much importance of it.. Later mom use to say you know what's right and wrong...think , study and do appropriately I reached my college ....one of my best frnd forced me wear hijab properly....i use to tell that frnd...""once if i wear hijab as per ur wish...if in case we get in to a fight future...because of the severity of the fight with i may discontinue wearing hijab properly and may get back to my old self.....BUT...IF I START TO WEAR HIJAB PROPERLY FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH...I WILL NEVER GO BACK TO MY SELF....BECAUSE WHATEVER I DO...ALLAH KNOWS IT ...HE KNOWS I DID IT FOR THE OF ALLAH...SO I'LL ALWAYS LOVE DOING IT"'" yes ..later may in my 20s i started to pin my hijab properly after learning and loving more about Allah and islam.....and so do i now.... Any thing you do.....do it for the Sake of Allah.....not under the pressure from the society or family or friends.....do it ...out of Love....Love for Allah ❤❤
Since there’s been a lot of confusion in the comments section on this topic, I’ll clear a few things:
1- Hijab is a command from Allah and should be taken seriously just like the 5 daily prayers. Just like there’s no choice in salah, they’re no choice in hijab.
2- Some people are taking this video as a justification to not wear the hijab, to those I say, don’t fool yourselves. You know exactly what the video means, don’t try to twist his words to sooth your desires.
3- What the video is preaching is that: Before enforcing the hijab on your daughter or wife or anyone else, first connect them to Allah’s words, make them fall in love with Islam. When they ask you why to wear the hijab, don’t just say, “Because I said so” or “Its Allah’s command”. Give them the wisdom and beauty behind it. And if after providing all the evidences and proofs they’re still rebelling then remember it’s not your job to guide the hearts. You just provide the proof and let Allah do His thing.
4- And finally, to those non-Muslims who’re just hating. If you don’t want to learn about Islam then don’t come here trying to mock it. Just because you can’t prove your religion is the truth, don’t cry about it in our comments section. If you’re sincere, learn about Islam. And anyone with even a single brain cell could tell from all the religions Islam is by far the most logical, factual, preserved, and miraculous. But if you’re here just to play games then you’re just wasting your time if you think that’s gonna slow us down.
JazaqAllahu Khair 🤲🏽
Yes but many people got the wrong idea that you are saying “you can’t force your wife or daughters”
Which is false, not only you can, if you fear allah you won’t let them leave the house without hijab, anyone who disagrees doesn’t know about islam
Pfff! None sense! Okay, then let's do the same thing for “Zina”. Let’s our daughter be free about it. Let's not force her; instead, let's allow her to explore while we explain Allah's word and guide her towards closeness to Allah. Once we've delivered all of Allah's teachings, we can assess what she might have missed. But let's not overlook the obligations (farz); they're non-negotiable
Well said 😂 mashallah. If a daughter/sister is taught or educated as well as guided in terms of deen & embraces it then she will naturally follow what is sunnah/fardh of her own accord inshallah
@@cyberyousef7519they need to understand AND accept what is fardh or sunnah FIRST before embracing hijab-if they do so then they will do so willingly.
I used to wear hijab since I was a kid until I went to college. then took it off for three years because I used to hate the connections of my “Muslim family” but their actions didn’t represent Islam. but then Allah guided me and showed me how beautiful Islam and I immediately wore it without hesitations. Alhamdulillah..
But you should get the photo off with you without hijaab
Indeed Allah find us lost and guided us❤
THANKS TO GOD
❤That's the story of mostly girls
......bad feel for our society 😢
Never enclose your past sin to others, To be forgiven for sins we need to just close our sins from people.
Change hearts before you change their behaviour - great quote
That’s standard practice we should all be doing this
It's so deep
Yes the impact me deeply as I did just like he said, demanding people doing the 'right' thing immediately.
And I always fail.
I'm sad and definitely regrets it.
However, I grateful I found this advice and I hope to never forget this.
@@Usman-ys9tw
You didn't get it bruh
Yeah I agree with totally @@Usman-ys9tw
I have never forced hijab on my daughters.
Now Alhumdulillah they started wearing themselves.
Subhan Allah.
MA SHA ALLAH Blessed Mother 😊
Allah hu akbar
Women defend Islam is like Chicken defending KFC
What if that women already in their 70's but still refused to cover themselves
@@RokyBhurr Islam was one of the only things to give rights to women in the middle ages, you talking about women's rights in Islam is like a blind person describing the sky
This is the best way to explain to those people who say "wear the hijab!" Look I am a hijabi and I completely understand the journey of every hijabi. Do not force anyone people, Somethings take time- it is okay. In Sha Allah lots of women will wear hijab just do not force.
Hijab is not true deen
@@zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 Covering your body and being modest is a part of Deen.
@@yishmoosa1234 I'm boy not girl! 😂🤣
Tell it to the Islamic Republic of Iran- they have a different quaran LOL
Why do You guys believe in God conscious human type but not similar existence? A believe can be True or false both depending on the reality of that matter... How are you so sure that it is not a false belief which encourages you to involve in war and their are violence in Islamic world view. why do you believe so surely then?
Some days I wear it, some days I don’t. I wear it more now than ever before. It takes practice especially when nobody in my family knows I’m Muslim. Allah is helping me grow closer to Islam every day one step at a time.
May allah make it easy for you
May Allah help you to talk to your family. 🤲❤️
Oh my god Allhumdullillah you are doing great girl and every women here is proud of you❤❤💖
Ma Sha Allah. Start from the small
Ma Sha Allah start from small steps. Then Allah helps you. In Sha Allah
I genuinely respect this gentleman for his explanation. He's an excellent speaker.
Spreading Liberal interpretation of Qur'an 😂
Of course an excellent speaker 😂
@@NAZionist666how many people have you converted or pushed away from the religion. Only Allah knows what is in the heart of man. Have you heard the Hadith of the man who went to the prophet asking for permission to commit Z*na?? Please learn how to the prophet s a w spread the teachings of Islam !!
@@NAZionist666sorry i just saw your handle says Zion.... don't bother replying
@@NAZionist666 Yes, some will say he is liberal and some will say others are extremist.. this is the problem with the Ummah; instead of encouraging each other, we are engaged in a slagging match!
"Liberal interpretation" - yet it IS true that Islam clearly prohibits forcing its rules on others. @@NAZionist666
I'm a 16 year old girl. My parents performed hajj a year ago. After the hajj, I was actually scared that they will force the hijab on me, but guess what? they didn't, not even once. They just encouraged me to wear when I'm ready and ordered that I will never take it off once I start wearing it. Because of this, I never felt pressured but an interest started to grow within me, I started to learn more and gave myself time. And here I am, about 10 months later, wearing the hijab with pride and happiness ❤ I'm eveb starting to think about Niqab! May Allah grant hidayah for all the sisters
Niqab is not obligatory. It is purely cultural.
@@TJ-TJ i believe it is obligatory and the evidences lead it to be obligatory tbh. It's the other way around.
Awesome 😊
Aameen ALLAHumma aameen
There is a confusion about hijab.if I say hijab means a womans or girls hide everything by a hijab. First thing you hide your face this is the first thing where shaitan enter and the 2nd thing an eyes these are attractive after the face. so cover all the things and if you need to go college or market the hijab is your protection
I love how you emphasize that is not easy for a woman. Thank you! People and concretely men critizise us without understanding what is going on inside of out hearts, and how deep we are working to do things in the right way. May Allah guide and forgive all of us.
I am trying to understand why is it so hard? Like genuinely what are the difficulties
How is it hard? 😅
@@MahmmadzaidLakhani lackk of interestt in deen and learning the truth of Quranmajeedd.....to battle ignorance with lightt of deen isn't easyy.
As men are created in the way to look at the beauty and struggle to not to look at. Women struggle not to reveal their beauty the same way.
@@MahmmadzaidLakhaniI think if man would have to do the same perhaps they would understand it or something.
The worst part about enforcing hijab is that the men aren't enforced to not to look...
Exactly!!
True. Growing up most boys never bothered to look away (they rather stared)
How do you do that 😂
@@tafis007by being a mature adult and not acting like an animal. Why do you blame women for your own behavior? Are you an animal?
@@Rafat_Fatima How is lowering gaze going to be enforced? Blindfolding men 😂
Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba:
`Aisha used to say: "When (the Verse): "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms," was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their heads and faces with those cut pieces of cloth."
Sahih al-Bukhari 4759
I converted to Islam just because of interest in Islam and no one forced me - not the Family of my husband not he himself. I just started reading the holy Quran and later learned to pray. It felt like detoxing because it was like something inside me was fighting against praying like a muslim, or even Reading the holy book, and sometimes I still need to force myself to pray especially when I am tired but I try my best.
Maybe I would not have converted and instead turned my back to this beautiful Religion if someone had pushed me. Unfortinately I am not wearing a headscarf because of the society I live in and my family is Christian, they are not quite happy about my choice but accept it. My hijab is just like waering no make up, waering wide shirts and wearing a braid when I go oitside.
I am glad I found tgis video, it makes me feel a little bit better about this hijab issue.
God knows ur intentions . u dont have to worry. which country are u from if i may ask ?
@@mumin9436 Germany
Agree
In subcont if a girl wears hijab she is considerd a good girl in all aspects and the one who doesnt , is considerd a bad one in all aspects i.e people judge a woman by her appearence .
May ur words reach to our subcont islamic preachers .
That's true
"How do you put them inside somebody's heart.. not just on their head" 2:13
by teaching them the importance and value and meaning behind the reason why we are supposed to wear, we need to peacefully explain to them, make sure they understand and accept it by heart before wearing it, not just go to them and SAY WEAR IT BECAUSE ALLAH SAID TO DO SO,
Islam teaches us that we must question things that don't make sense to us until they finally make sense to us, otherwise its useless to have good acts but still doubts in hearts
Learn the basic thing about creed. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him taught creed around 13 years in Mecca. Just look into Makkiyah verses in the Quran, there's no single ayat talks about commands and prohibitions.
You explain according to the mental level of a person......appreciateable Allah bless you
I always find a very logical and trustworthy explanation of very critical matters on Deen by Ustadh Noman, Jazak Allahu Khair👍👍👍
😂😂He said "Let them take time"
Million dollar Question comes up , HOW MUCH ?
1 year ? 10 years? 50 years ?
Or 70 years ?😂
@@NAZionist666exactly lol.
These woman in comments must be thinking, it would be like 50 years or when they are death time is near 😂
That’s not how it works lol. Allah says submit your soul to the commands of Allah.
And since you claim that it’s hard for you, can’t wear it, your iman or knowledge isn’t much, then get educated and know why you should wear hijab.
It takes no less than 1 year to know all that, if you need more time sure take it. But when your education on it is done, then submit yourself to Allah and wear the hijab even if it’s hard.
@@NAZionist666as long as it takes you to understand everything in Islam comes with faith and own will not force
@@NAZionist666 as long as it takes, you can't force them to wear it, in the end only Allah decides, they can only be guided if Allah wills, you should do what you can but do not force them, that will just make it harder for no reason
@@NAZionist666their hijab is not our responsibility. Our responsibility is just remind them what's right and what's wrong. There is no need to force them
"By the (passage of) time! Surely humanity is in (grave) loss, except those who have faith, do good, and urge each other to the truth, and urge each other to perseverance"
- Quran surah Al-Asr
Ameen...🤲🏼🤲🏼......i wish the Muslim men would understand such things and refrain from imposing... Its a definite journey for us all. 🤲🏼
Being a revert to Islam, while reading Surat Noor, Ayat 31 & 32, I started wearing Hijab and Hijab is thee Best gift for a woman bringing a Glory, a Beauty, a Divine look creating an answer attachment with Allahu Stronger, Stronger and Stronger!
Alhamdulillah!
I see a lot of muslims forget the very next verse after Ayatul-Kursi in Surah Al-Baqara. “No compulsion in religion”. Just DON’T make people hate Islam or see it as a chore. You can advise women to wear hijabs, yes.. but forcing it on her will only make her not want to wear it.
This is also pointed towards those parents who let their daughters wear hijabs since prepubescence (with strict rules around it). Like just let the juvenile be, but teach her Islam well and she’ll want to wear the hijab by her own decision.
Out of context lines do nothing.
Hijab is obligation. If forcing or children not wearing then parents have been too laxadazical and not raised children correctly or have not used wisdom or common sense as to how. Or children watch nonsense on tv, online, tablets, nk idea what chikdren do so spend no time with own children. The religion is perfect and hijab obligation at puberty ages is part of it. Its application by people is the problem.
No compulsion.of course there is. Read on from there....he who doesnt pray is out of islam....that's a compulsion. Literal is not correct.
Not force people to be muslims...free will to be muslim or not is no compulsion as per verse you mention. It is nothing to do with no compulsion as a muslim.obligations are compulsions.5 pillars are compulsions.
Full verse is
Let there be no compulsion in religion, for the truth stands out clearly from falsehood.1 So whoever renounces false gods and believes in Allah has certainly grasped the firmest, unfailing hand-hold. And Allah is All-Hearing, All-Knowing
Falsehood is not a neutral word. It is clear as muslims this verse is not about our obligations but whether we believe or not being a choice.
Learned something new today! Subahan allah!
Brilliant answer sir. I am very satisfied. May allah give you more knowledge to spread deen.
I can listen to this a hundred times, it never gets old
Wow we really need more this type of guru in Islam… this type of guru make islam easy to reach for the one who not believers
yeah, and because many other people are not good at explaining about Islam, so there are so many false stereotypes about Islam in Non muslim communities..
we need more people like Nouman Ali Kahn, May Allh bless him in Jannatul Firdous
Ustdh s explanation is just perfect. For ive seen girls who re foeced by their families to put hijabs on...nnd when their famiky members aren't around they would remove that. Kinda that hijab was jsut to obey their parents not for Almighty and we alll shall consider the fact...that what we actually need is the fear of Allah in our hearts, in their hearts....we need imaan. We have to train thwm so they look for the acceptance by almoghty . Not of people (parents)....
Hope ot helps
Baarakallah u li wa lakum
Lots of prayers for ustaadh ❤
☪️HAD PARENTS 🗿🗿🔥
They should make them wear it but explain why in a beautiful way attention is most addictive thing for a woman dificult to give it up later and Allah knows best
@@malikboudissa2657 has nothing to do with addiction. It's men like you who say stupid stuff like that, that makes women not want to wear hijab.
May your words reach to those so called Indian and Pakistani Islamic preachers
Excellent explanation, Ma Sha Allah ✨💐 jazakallah Khair
Too right!
Absolutely true what Ustad Norman said. Let the person beautify her heart with Islam before forcing her to wear the hijab. She must want to do that for herself, and not because she was forced to do that. Allah looks at your heart and good character first. ❤❤❤
Hes so right i was abused and harassed into wearing hijab. I hated it so much i cried for months. Every time i saw a hijabi i thought they were stupid and i hated seeing them. But alhamdulillah i wore it by my own choice a few months ago.
Im still not okay with all the abuse i went through just for a scarf. Being name called and considered a worthless object if i didnt wear one. May Allah SWT punish my abuser for all the pain and sleepless night they put me through
There is contradiction in your comments
Think before you comment
Sometimes you thanks and regret at once
Leave Islam and go west
@@ashfaquekhan_2329Why would you say that to her? Are you a servant of the devil?
Respect for the PARENTS 🗿🗿
You h@ted hijab , because you were influenced by the content u consume from movies and dramas.
And friend circle.
Alhamdulillah you are now on the Right path.
@@NAZionist6661. I never said it was my parents
2. The difference between you and the feminist western liberal blablabla is that at least those people have basic human decency and empathy. They don’t side with an abuser vs you who applauses an abuser
“Let there be no compulsion in religion,” [2:256]
@@ashfaquekhan_2329sometimes you think*
Jazakallahu khairan
Subhanallah! Very beautifully explained. May Allah make it easy to practice Islam. Aameen.
Mashallah, this video has truly inspired me to strengthen my faith. Jazakallah khair to the creator!
Subhanallah he’s right, every woman has a unique journey, as parents we should make a lot of duas for our daughters
Yes it is a nice explanation. Because look at what happened in saudia arabia. It was made an obligation for even non muslims to cover themselves and when suddenly the obligation was lifted off so did the hijab you want your sisters to develop the love for Allah and in sha Allah wearing hijab will not feel that difficult.
As a woman living in Saudi Arabia, the most women now who don’t wear hijab anymore are the ones who have been forced. I know many woman who their family wasn’t strict and allowed them to choose hijab didn’t take it off when it became a trend to do so. NO human wants to feel like they are forced to do something especially when it comes to faith. Yes, it’s haram but people have to be convinced this is the right thing to do in their hearts before it reflects on their appearance.
@@BashaerB-h2c still
First you make them love the hijab, if that didn’t work then enforcing it is the only left option
@@BashaerB-h2c don’t make fatwa yourself, the majority of ulamaa2 agree that a husband and a father must enforce the hijab on his family members else he will also take sin for every strand of hair seen by a non mehrem
@@BashaerB-h2c still it will prevent fitnah between men and women
Lets say they took it off when you are not looking??
The answer is, you have done your part, its now her’s
@@cyberyousef7519 Allah has stated that "وَ لَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَيٰ وَ إِنْ تَدْعُ مُثْقَلَةٌ إِلَيٰ حِمْلِهَا لَا يُحْمَلْ مِنْهُ شَيْءٌ وَ لَوْ كَانَ ذَا قُرْبَيٰ" which translates into "Nor can a bearer of burdens bear another's burdens if one heavily laden should call another to (bear) his load. Not the least portion of it can be carried (by the other). Even though he be nearly related"
Yeah i completely agree, why every people can't mind their own business like it is their decision not yours
ALLAH Changed Hearts Way Before He Changed Behavior 🥺
Most Powerful Sentence I Heard in This Month.
I don't know how to explain it but I was about 16 to 17 when I started to cover my head, and now after knowing by this video,I am feeling so overwhelming and contentful and I am surprised and it's such an amazing feeling to get to l know that your RABB your ALLAH literally knows every single thing about you and HE also knows when we are ready. ALLAH indeed is amazing and beyond us........
The only problem all along is 'The lack of islamic Knowledge'.
If you have knowledge and know that Allah is aware of your sacrifice and every decision you make for the sake of pleasing him and obeying him.
You would feel better about wearing it.
Allah loves you.
Muslim lacks knowledge.
Some are just born as Muslim and they just received what you can do and cannot do.
They don't even understand their connection between Allah.
My explanation is not good but i simply want to say 'Islamic Knowledge is SO IMPORTANT!'
Oh you're right sissi😁
No one ever forced me to put Hijab on. Now I am Hijabi, I need my Muslim identity. Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulilah sister may Allah protect you and ur iman
Women defend Islam is like Chicken 🐔 Defending KFC 😮
@@RokyBhurr Islam is the only religion to give women their rights
To tell the truth i hated the hijab when i was growing up because my mother and father would always say "you either put the hijab on or go show urself" it made me feel like i was a whore in their eyes if i wanted to NOT wear the hijab when going outside. But as time grew i came to realize that the thinking my father and mother have is 80% "culture" and not much islamic....had they known that forcing their daughters to be the way they want me to is actually much more damaging then "islamic".
I thank allah for showing me video's like these. It means im not alone 😊
So when the prophet (saw) said that "those women who go outside, wearing perfumes and letting other man to inhale the fragrance, they are like prostitutes(metaphorically)." so the prophet was wrong cz it was "cultural". And Don't come and say that there are women who go outside without hijab, flowing their hair to let other underserved men to see, but don't wear perfumes.
Oh wooooow Subhan’Allah this is the BEST reminders I’ve heard since long. So true dear Ustzda and our beloved brother in Islam
Amen to this! I was forced into hijab before nikah and taking my shahada. Wore it by force for 7 years then after 9/11, I removed it and never put it back on and don’t plan to again.
So sad 😢
Do it for the sake of Allah
Since it’s a commandment
So you are not a muslim now? That's reasonable but please research about Islam, don't disbelieve or hate on Islam just because of your past. Also you can't prove 9/11 was caused by muslims(not talking about if they claimed to be muslims)as you don't know what was in the hearts of those people
what I mean in the last sentence is 9/11 doesn't have any realtion with Islam
"we should change the secular thoughts in society before they change us"
I know it is tempting to be harsh on non-hijabi sisters because there is something wrong going on, but it is necessary to acknowledge their feelings if you really want them to wear it at all.
I like ustadh's point. I'm a hijabi woman and I used to seem very condescending towards other sisters who may not wear it properly or not wear it at all, but you just have to get rid of that mindset and put yourself in their shoes. It is so hard to escape the fashion, makeup and Beauty rat-race, and overcome the racism and islamophobia at the same time, especially when you are just entering Islam.
The sweetest words are required, as it is easy to lose their attention if you are just forcing them and shouting at them. Sure, some girls are just defiant and do not care about their obligations, but not all of them are. Sometimes, you don't have a clue what is going on in their head.
They shouldn't also try to change their view and mindset?
Or let them lose and inspire other women?
@@hilmyakatsuki1665 I do think that so many girls are being defiant and just not listening because they are so lured by liberalism and this false idea of being a “free,” “strong” woman who flaunts herself, and they think more revealing = more attractive. But the approach some people take to advise women does not help, they just get defensive and resort to feminist arguments.
For example, if a man commented on a hijabi’s post, “Fear Allah sister, remove your makeup, stop threading your eyebrows and wear hijab properly or don’t wear it at all!” I’m pretty sure they would most likely respond with anger, “Don’t judge me!” and have inner hatred towards Islam and Muslims. Of course, tabarruj is wrong but she is not going to learn it from a mean, barking dog, as she just notices the barking, not the words.
If someone wants women to love Islam and its pure teachings, they need to exhibit them as more loving and kind than the hypocritical liberals who have distracted them from what is good for them.
Of course they should change their mindset, but the way you facilitate it makes a diffference :)
First of all -
Liberal muslims are not our sisters or brothers !
They are منافق
Second - The guy in this video is no Sheikh ul islam.
We don't listen to interpretation of a R∆ndom guy speaking about our deen twisting according to his logic.
First of All !
Liberal muslims aren't our sisters and brothers !
They're منافق
"Non-hijabi sisters" ??😂
They're not sisters fyi
They are Libëräls
Jazakallah khairan, brother. I am a revert Muslim just last year. I live in a place where very very few are muslims and there is a huge divide between Christians and the Muslim minority. Everyone in my family is a christian. Much as I want to wear a hijab, I know it is not time. Insha'Allah that time will come soon.
In the same Sura (An Nur) Allah talks about obedience to Him and His Messenger:
اِنَّمَا كَانَ قَوۡلَ الۡمُؤۡمِنِيۡنَ اِذَا دُعُوۡۤا اِلَى اللّٰهِ وَرَسُوۡلِهٖ لِيَحۡكُمَ بَيۡنَهُمۡ اَنۡ يَّقُوۡلُوۡا سَمِعۡنَا وَاَطَعۡنَاؕ وَاُولٰٓـئِكَ هُمُ الۡمُفۡلِحُوۡنَ
(24:51) When those that believe are called to Allah and His Messenger in order that he (that is, the Messenger) may judge their disputes among them, nothing becomes them but to say: "We hear and we obey." Such shall attain true success.
وَمَنۡ يُّطِعِ اللّٰهَ وَرَسُوۡلَهٗ وَيَخۡشَ اللّٰهَ وَيَتَّقۡهِ فَاُولٰٓـئِكَ هُمُ الۡفَآئِزُوۡنَ
(24:52) Those who obey Allah and His Messenger and fear Him and avoid disobeying Him: such, indeed, shall triumph.
How about Sura Ahzab where Allah states the following:
وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤۡمِنٍ وَّلَا مُؤۡمِنَةٍ اِذَا قَضَى اللّٰهُ وَرَسُوۡلُهٗۤ اَمۡرًا اَنۡ يَّكُوۡنَ لَهُمُ الۡخِيَرَةُ مِنۡ اَمۡرِهِمۡ ؕ وَمَنۡ يَّعۡصِ اللّٰهَ وَرَسُوۡلَهٗ فَقَدۡ ضَلَّ ضَلٰلًا مُّبِيۡنًا
(33:36) It does not behove a believer, male or female, that when Allah and His Messenger have decided an affair they should exercise their choice. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has strayed to manifest error.
May Allah guide us all and bless us with the true understanding of his deen. Ameen
But i hate to marrying hijabi women! 😣
Thank you, in whole comment section I was looking for someone to comment on this.
Salah and forbidding alcohol did not come immediately either. Can the same concept apply to this as well?
He was only trying to peach patient
Salute to ones who doesn't hesitate regarding Hijab
This word ' forced ' is so misused . If someone asks yout to wear hijab . He/dhe is just conveying the message of Islam . It doesnt mean they are forcing you
For Example
Drinking Alcohal was also prohibited by Islam after many years,
So it means if we are stopping some one from drinking Alcohol is forceful act. And we give them time for years to stop by heart. And if we say them to stop then he will never stop.
What a logic
Very true....We as community have lost depth on Quranic teachings and caught ourselves in rituals and customs...forgetting essence is soul not materialisticbody that needs purity...Purity comes from within and never can be forced upon....
Narrated `Umar (bin Al-Khattab):
My Lord agreed with me in three things: -1. I said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), I wish we took the station of Abraham as our praying place (for some of our prayers). So came the Divine Inspiration: And take you (people) the station of Abraham as a place of prayer (for some of your prayers e.g. two rak`at of Tawaf of Ka`ba)". (2.125) -2. And as regards the (verse of) the veiling of the women, I said, 'O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! I wish you ordered your wives to cover themselves from the men because good and bad ones talk to them.' So the verse of the veiling of the women was revealed. -3. Once the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) made a united front against the Prophet (ﷺ) and I said to them, 'It may be if he (the Prophet) divorced you, (all) that his Lord (Allah) will give him instead of you wives better than you.' So this verse (the same as I had said) was revealed." (66.5).
Sahih al-Bukhari 402
This is an excellent advise for failed parents and Allah swt knows best.
This is soo true, my mother forced me to wear hijab at 10 so does one of my male teacher .
He was like now you're grown up you're not allowed to show your hair,
while i was at that age a kid really wanna style my hair but as my mom said so i have to put on
when i turn 14 she forced me to wear a gown everytime i go out and i feel so insecure about it my self esteem goes down. I had no freedom of expression and clothing.
At 16 i started studying islam on my own and i started wearing hijab at weddings which everyone made fun of (its strange in my culture to wore hijab at weddings)
at 19 i am DONE with everything about hijab (i'm still a hijabee i love that. I can't take it off) but the reason of starting at first is traumatizing (i wish that i would be able to choose hijab for me, not forced to )
Powerful words, everytime i listen to your talks, it just puts things into prospective. I was always forced to wear hijab, never knew why i was wearing it, i was about 8-9 years old no clue, high-school came, i took it off , most girls and women around me have all removed hijab, most forced after marriage or just wore it for “show”.. May Allah guide us all Ameen and give us the taufeeq
Amin
JazakAllahu Khayran❤
Love and prayers from Europe.
This is a very good video for understanding Islam. Short video, but much meaning.
Haram police are going nuts learning this when they meet reverts💀💀💀
Haram police? Are you a muslim? Making fun of the people who forbid what allah forbid and order what allah ordered
The most beautiful way of explaining
Exactly right. Jaisa desh waisa bhesh.. Do not force to wear hijab. Even why black? Multicolor
Libëräls ko yeh video seh justification mil gaya 😂
Hijab Tarq karne ka !
Noman bhi is Ghuna meh shareek hoga
I agree with you don't force let it come with depths of heart
How the hijab verse was revealed?
'A'isha reported that the wives of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to go out in the cover of night when they went to open fields (in the outskirts of Medina) for easing themselves. 'Umar b Khattab used to say:
Allah's Messenger, ask your ladies to observe veil, but Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) did not do that. So there went out Sauda, daughter of Zarn'a, the wife of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), during one of the nights when it was dark. She was a tall statured lady. 'Umar called her saying: Sauda, we recognise you. (He did this with the hope that the verses pertaining to veil would be revealed.) 'A'isha said: Allah, the Exalted and Glorious, then revealed the verses pertaining to veil.
Sahih Muslim 2170d
faith grows.... is the connection with Allah that motivates one to put the hijab on and hear it properly. this makes so much sense.
Quran says to cover yourself properly that does not mean that one have to wear a hijab and Burqa only, in the old times it was Hoods that women used to wear and they cover the body and head and leave space for air as well and as compared to Burqa and Hijab it also looks cool, this hood can be seen in old Midlevel Movies and even Christian woman used to wear it.
They didn't have umbrellas then and they wore it to protect themselves from the elements like the wind, the heat and cold. Why this obsession about the hijab when what was recommended was to cover the breasts and wear modest clothing. If you live in a hot and humid country it is not a question of religion but comfortable clothing. The hair was not even mentioned, only the breast and to lengthen one's clothing..
@@mariaclaudettecaluban5286 wrong, no one expose them selves where their is excessive heat otherwise you will get a nasty tan and may also hurt your skin. Take an example of Arab countries. And in Quran it is clearly mentioned to cover the head.
Thank you for this video. I feel closeness to Allah all the time. This is what I’m after. May Allah guide me always.
Hijab is an obligation from the creator just as prayer, fasting, giving Zakat and so on. This message could easily be misinterpreted by those looking to justify not wearing hijab. Islam is a packaged deal and comes with some obligations towards our creator and Hijab is one of those obligations. May Allah SWT guide us all and make us strong willed and steadfast. Our first goal as Muslims should be to obey our creator and not cave to societal pressures.
He is saying you cannot force anyone to wear it, unless they do it from their heart
Hijab is nothing to do with dressing what you talking about is the headscarf and it’s not act of worship set your priorities straight it’s a Wahhabi crap
Your opinion and interpretation that "hijab is an obligation"..is confronted by another verse in alqur'an.
@@mackbedunduk1305But you should used website on chrome or Google
This is so beautiful. Sabr, time, allah knows it's not easy
Good narration: covering your head differentiates you from others and brings respect in the eyes of those who encounter you
So true ❤ MashaaAllah. The best gift we can give our children is the love of Islam. Everything else good will come, inShaaAllah 🤲
Narrated `Aisha:
The wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) used to go to Al-Manasi, a vast open place (near Baqi` at Medina) to answer the call of nature at night. `Umar used to say to the Prophet (ﷺ) "Let your wives be veiled," but Allah's Apostle did not do so. One night Sauda bint Zam`a the wife of the Prophet (ﷺ) went out at `Isha' time and she was a tall lady. `Umar addressed her and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda." He said so, as he desired eagerly that the verses of Al-Hijab (the observing of veils by the Muslim women) may be revealed. So Allah revealed the verses of "Al-Hijab" (A complete body cover excluding the eyes).
Sahih al-Bukhari 146
Don't lie. Don't be a mouchrik.
Following pagan ahadith books claiming it's from
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The Qoraan is FULLY DETAILED by Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all The Most Just The Most Loving The Most Merciful The Omnicient...
It's enough. It's Time
Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty Will INTERVENE.
Woe to the mouchrekeen.
This is a promise from
Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Creator of all.
Don't believe me...just watch
@@khadijabenassou8996 what lie?
You made the complete body cover up yourself.
Don’t do this to people
I hav respect for this man
Remember islam completed over years
In the last speech of nabi karim swa said haven't i conveyed complete deen amongst you
That means revelation have stopped nothing will come afte, that's where islam is completed. Yeah it's takes time to follow islam in every aspect in starting.But Allah will guide through
I am completely hajibi girl no any one force me i do hajibi only for Allah not for showing others i start hajibi in 15
Yes but actually your parents shouldn’t allow you not to wear it if they didn’t want to also share your sins
Mashallah the way you explain things❤ Only if people could understand this. And give time, patience and support to their women! May Allah SWT help us all become better muslims, Ameen
Don't force please
I really hate hijab because it's not ture like pray salah and faster in Ramadan
Hijab can't fardh because some people said hijab is choice not forcing
I know why people force the hijab just because everyone men have eyes can't see her long hair or jinn attract long hair in night
But i was make dua if she will not go to hell for not wearing hijab, there is no compulsion in Islam
But i don't believe showing hair is haram in public because i believe Muslim women showing long hair in public is halal
This Needs to go viral seriously
Rules on salah being fardh and alcohol being haram did not come with our prophet's first revelation either. Can the same concept be applied ro all fardh rulings?
Hijab by force is meaningless, even Salah by force is meaningless. The point is that you should educate people do not force them.
my uncles used to get hit when they were younger for not praying and guess what happened? they pretended to pray to avoid getting hit.
forcing someone into something doesnt work and will never work
Absolutely right . But one must realise that Hijab is mandatory just like Salah . The video could be misinterpreted by those justify it by saying its ok to not wear it . May Allah guide us all
Hijab should be worn for Allah. If you force someone to wear it because “you know better” and the girls heart is not convinced, then it will never work. It will not be sustainable or have real meaning for them. Also when she has troubles regarding hijab she will blame you for them if you pushed too hard.
Let there be no compulsion in religion. There are steps in Islam, do not be harsh with people, there are contexts.
Develop your heart. Develop your iman. Be encouraging.
When your girls are ready they will be ready for Allahs sake and from their own heart ❤️ you don’t control that.
Not wearing hijab in public is only haram because if everyone have eyes can see her long hair not deen
@@zeeshanbinnaushadnujjoo1389 simply no. Its a direct command from Allah in the Quran as i gave the reference in my other reply
There is no compulsion in the acceptance of the religion but once you accept the religion there are obligations that come with it, the dresscode for both men and women is an obligation just like any other in the religion, but sure it might be difficult at first and it might take time just like it takes time to learn the prayer but for as long as one is sincerely trying, Allah swt sees the effort
@@7SMJD But i hate to marry hijabi women
@@7SMJD I love to marrying non hijabi
Its a command from Allah, so muslims will not have any choice to wear hijab or not. If she accept Islam She must accept it as whole. Not accepting one part and leaving other part for later. Because now the deen has been completed. Wallahu aùlam.
*I am completely disagree with him.Remember that,*
*"If you're tolerance of everything,than you stand for nothing."*
Should I remind you that forcing something on someone is prohibited in islam? You can't force a woman to wear it. Women should wear the hijab for the sake of Allah not because you forced them to do it. However men are not like women. It is in women's nature that they wanna look beautiful and doing something against that is not easy.
@@yakam_dlop. *Every girl should respect the orders and instructions of her father, elder brother and husband. More than that, she must show respect for Sharia law. Women who want to follow their own will, in a word, they are evil women. However, it is true that it cannot be forced.*
@milonrahman2564 yes it is mandatory for a woman to listen to his brother and father and husband but there is something to be considered, just because men has given a degree over women doesn't mean that they can do whatever they want to their women. There has to be respect for the borders of men and women. How can a woman listen to these people if they can not respect her borders and think whatever they say is right regardless of what the woman thinks. Respect is something that most of the time is missing in the relationships, that's why they may not have a healthy relationship because of that.
@@yakam_dlop.*What do you think? A girl's own father, brother and husband want more harm than good for her. Wow! What a logic you have.*
*It's evil women's own thoughts. Those who are willing to be puppets of the culture of the West. But they are unwilling to obey Islamic beautiful rules.*
*Hey don't show so much logic! Showing too much logic is devilish. At the end of the day, no girl's own father, brother or her husband will wish her harm, that's for sure. Deep down her mind knows exactly this but refuses to accept it.But I say again, it cannot be forced.*
@@yakam_dlop.Please don’t mix up things - no one said, that a male relative can be jaheel and still has the right to give (non Islamic instructions or recommendations) - it’s EVERY Muslims duty to learn and understand Islam and its principles so that one is not insisting on false or bad ideas. So, if the male persons are well educated in the Islamic principles, he will tell her in a gentle way, why it is necessary for her to act like it is expected from her. Nevertheless there is no right to force her - if she’s really rejecting it. If she’s respectful (since you’re talking about respect) she wouldn’t reject (for no good reason) to wear the hijab properly. Look at Iran for example - there you have an example on how they “wear a scarf”, if you let women do what they want without proper education in morals and ethics. Then it becomes a matter of egoistic show-off and the covering becomes a piece of accessory… (generally spoken).
Masha-ALLAH so true. For 13 years, Rasulullah (SAW) preached only Towheed in Mecca before anything else. Can we muslims ever have such patience as Rasulullah (SAW)?
Gold , silk , tattoos prohibited for men but never once I seen men crying over it .
you have brain but not heart brother. Dont mind.
You born with a hair like every non Muslim, no men is born with gold silk tatttoos, you well damn know it’s not the same especially if you’re not in a Muslim country, and tattoos are haram for girls as well I haven’t a seen a girl crying about tattoos either that shows you that hijab and the things you’ve mentioned are not the same
Because it is more easy to took off these things than hijab ...you won't feel suffocated after wearing gold , silk, tattoos but you will feel suffocated after wearing hijab ....and u can't stop those boys who don't lower their gaze ...that's why it is the matter of crying ....
So if your child refuses to pray you should just let him be? because if we use this same logic, the child may get flashbacks of the arguments and the way his parents were strict on him regarding the prayers. covering up isn't a small thing for women yes. if you cover up to pray, you should ask your self why you cant cover up in front of non mahraams
Best explanation. Can some one please explain to my father in law who force us to cook in kitchen with hijaab regardless of all season . Alhamdulillah I have understanding husband who protects me and never force me to wear hijaab and advise me to wear hijaab on my own will. ❤❤
First of all, cooking for in laws is not an obligation on Muslim women. It is just an assimilated culture from those around, mainly in the Indian subcontinent. If he is not comfortable with you not wearing the hijab in the kitchen, let him stay separately. That is better than staying with you and forcing you.
The men should wear the hijab with full hair and see how hot it can get. The khimars worn were for fashion not for modesty and they were used to attract men as they were trailing behind their heads. They were told instead to cover their breasts because it was a more important part to be covered. Can you imagine the veil trailing with the breasts showing?
Wearing hijab is also not just on the head. From my perspective, it is the representation of modesty. Which includes attitude, speech and ofcorse attire. I think this is why teaching the purpose of hijab is crucial. As it will strengthen their connection to the deen and will really construct the character of a person and more importantly they will be the face of a muslimah. And I believe will also be a cause of da'wah.
But my sincere advice to parents. Don't delay teaching your kids about the importance of hijab. We never know when is the time of our passing or their passing. May Allah guide us all to the correct path.
This comment section is embarrassing
The hijab must be enforced by the husband and father
The prophet enforced it
Abu baker enforced it,
Umar enforced
Uthman too
Ali too
Bro that is the thing he has explained in the video
That enforcing it , will never let your sister or mother to know the beautiful reason behind it . They just gonna be like," Oh man Thank God! My brother has died today. Now there's no one to force hijab on me"....... And she's never ever gonna wear it again
Not sure why you are not understanding that:
encouragement & requesting is NOT equal to forcing
Oh God!You are the best.my parents always force me to wear hijab from my early age but i always envvy the stylish clothes of others .they dont allow me to take time.i just wear hijab in their fear
there is another talk by Nauman A Khan where he talks about the parents having this auto connection with Allah where we as children “fear” it… i too wore hijab out of fear of my parents but it wasnt the right way.
Your parents did their part, even if you were forced, which is the right thing if you didn’t want to do it
Why don’t you fear your creator and simply love it
@@cyberyousef7519she wasn’t given the time to fear her creator first.. and she was still a child she didn’t understand everything yet, so how can you ask that?
And why force? Why not teach her how important it is to wear hijab first? Is forcing her to wear it overnight and making her hate hijab more important than letting her slowly love it and hold on to it forever?
Hijab should start at an early age as now it is mandatory in quran . Who said that before surah noor women didn’t wear head covering.
All women even non muslims wore it at that time , to make muslim women be known and recognised Allah commanded to pull the veil down to the chest so that everyone knows that this is a muslim woman.
Even men are suppose to wear a topi (cap) out of respect when praying.
Now a days coz we are raised in an environment where nobody gave us the knowledge of wearing hijab and other bascic knowledge our parents and forefathers read quran without understanding it. For example the word kufr was alwways taken as its for non muslims but its actual meaning is the one who rejects or disobeys Allah ayah ( which are Allah’s words) and so it implies on muslims too as we do kufr as well , whatever is convenient for us we do it whatever is not we don’t. How sad is that.
If we give priority to Allah’s words and try to understand what our rabb is asking us to
do then life will be so much easier but sadly we don’t want to do that and instead flaunt our beauty.
I wish women understand this that for sure it’s hard as we never were educated to wear hijab at an early age but to please Allah and sacrifice something thing dearest to
One will give one an immense pleasure and makes one loved more by Allah. It is a struggle for sure but all u women out there are strong! You can do it! 💕you all!
If the muslim women are obliged to be covered to be known and recognised, what is it for? Is disturbing others ok? Muslim women are much more targetted to be disturbed by non muslims this way.
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Very true first imaan comes and then everything will fall in place
What a poor argument. Salah was also not fard at start of islam and only later after isra was made fard but still we tell reverts to learn to pray straight away. The take your time approach is literally a falesy as we never know when we will die. Muslim should fully submit and if he fall short ask foe forgiveness. Allahumusta3n
Are you a born muslim or a revert?? Because if you are a born muslim then you can not understand the mindset of a revert. Its an ayat which says call them with hikmat. When you leave you previous deen. You are not just leaving it. You are leaving your Loved once. You are leaving your childhood and every thing you learned from your parents. Thats what he is saying that Allah made it easy on muslims to heal and then move on to the next step.
Totally agree 👍 While I do respect Dr. Nouman Ali this video was just not okay at all.
I totally agree with you. Now deen is complete. Take it or leave it as whole .There is no pick and choose in islam .
@@dailydoseofsports368 its not about taking and leaving it. Its about giving time to take all. I am a born muslim did we take all the deen??.
@@rjameel. It doesn't matter what I do or we do... It's about what we should do... Obligation is obligation
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Arab women wore hijab(head cover).. only they showed their chest. I do not recommend this video. I cannot recommand as a Muslima who loves hijab. I cannot imagine our beloved mother Aisha did not wear hijab.. please.. do not negociate with your audiance.. 😢 this will repeat Christians' mistakes
Becareful someone who says what you want to hear.. do not follow someone who says hijab is in your heart
masha Allah, very beautifully said ustadh
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Are you trying to misguide people? And let them follow their desires? If people can now make up their own beliefs about religion and act like its something that is correct and spread it, more and more people will become less serious about Islamic rulings. Are we now gonna say oh yeah Mutah was permissible in the beginning so you can do it, oh drinking alchohol was okay in the beginning so you can do it, Ramadhan wasnt obligatory so just ignore it. Akhi what is this, fear Allah, the obligations should not be downplayed, do not make the religion inro something which you are comfortable with and in which you never strive to gain the pleasure of Allah. Who said it is easy? It is not, it will never be easy, learning arabic, leaving alcohol, leaving riba it is all not easy but when you trust in Allah and act so Allah will make it easy on you and let you be of those who were pious.
Ahsant akhi, may Allaah keep us firm upon his religion
Did u even listen to the scholar? Surely if you did you would understand Allahs wisdom in the revelation of the hijab
Oh my, you did not listen to the lecture, and if you did you put your opinions above and did not listen to this lecture with open ears. Everyones journey is different, you do not force anyone. Pray for them yes, do not force. Be an example for them yes, but do not force. Hijab just like any other concept of Islam has to has to come from the heart.
Did you even listen to what he was saying?
Just because you have made the sacrifices doesn't mean that now no one else is allowed to take their time.
For so many years I wanted Express my point of view the way did excellent lecture ❤
I have utmost respect for him for what he is doing.
But this is so misleading.That's why we must obey Allah and the Messenger (SA) without any question and logic.
Don't practice your deen as you like it.The deen is completed and perfected by Allah already.
We don't discuss how it was.
He is saying hijab was made obligatory on 15th year.But didn’t say what the women of that time started doing that after it was made obligatory.
How Aisha (RA) used to put hijab in her own home after Umar (RA) was buries inside her home as the man lying in a grave was her non-mahram.
Telling one part of the story isn’t a right way to guide people.
May Allah guide us all and keep steadfast.
Yes, Nouman is a big misleader
@@99chartered This is so sad and eye-opening at the same time. How does a man who has studied and researched the Quran for 20 years still miss the fundamental principles of being a Muslim.
I know brother it's obligatory but what will you do if your cousin is living in a hindu society with clubs, music, no namaz, no hijab
You have to make them a muslim first they will automatically become moddest
I am talking about my cousin 😢
I am just 27 days old than her
@@-AMED_on_YT_9211-you can’t make anyone a Muslim even the prophet Muhammad Sallahu Alayahi Wa salaam couldn’t change the heart, it’s not for us to pander to sinful deviants if your cousin lives with filth Hindus your job is to tell them the message clearly and leave it to Allah they accept or reject don’t pander
This made me cry
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I have utmost respect for him for what he is doing.
But this is so misleading.That's why we must obey Allah and the Messenger (SA) without any question and logic.
Don't practice your deen as you like it.The deen is completed and perfected by Allah already.
We don't discuss how it was.
He is saying hijab was made obligatory on 15th year.But didn’t say what the women of that time started doing that after it was made obligatory.
How Aisha (RA) used to put hijab in her own home after Umar (RA) was buries inside her home as the man lying in a grave was her non-mahram.
Telling one part of the story isn’t a right way to guide people.
May Allah guide us all and keep steadfast.
Why don’t you tell when Allah commanded women have to cover themselves from head to toe. That time Hazrat Fatima (A.S) started weeping with fear of what if she dies and someone will see her body or a single hair which she did not wanted. She asked ladies to show her how they will take to grave and requested them to bring a coffin which was covered from all sides and they did demo to her (that they will take her to grave in that coffin). She smiled and said now Im relieved that no one will be able to see me even after my death.
This kind of thinking is very wrong. You can tell the same thing about 5 Prayers, Fasting Ramadhan etc. What if you take your time adapting Hijab and you die before wearing Hijab? And 23 years of revelations was for the Sahabas and their time, now for us and certainly not for someone who was born a muslim. And Allah Knows best
Easing new Muslims into rules is better than telling them all the rules from the start and expecting them to oblige them all right away. That’s all he’s saying
You don’t get it, even Quran took 23 years to come to us. Taking time to do something from heart is never wrong. What's the point if you wear hijab, do prayers but your heart is not connected to Allah,
Not all humans, all muslims are the same, taking time is not bad. If you force someone to do something, he/she will just do it. But there's something called "intention" and "Heartfelt" these will be harder to achieve for this kind of people. Allah knows the best and He knows the best that when to give you chances and when not.
If you take time but not working on it thoroughly, slowly that's wrong.
Well said
It's very difficult for some people. So it can't be imposed by force.. ultimately it leads to resentful.. so it needs to be slow, gradual and come from the heart..
I agree with him.....in the first place our heart should be connected to Allah...then automatically we live our life according to Allah's rules and regulations
I personally started praying since 9 years if i remember correctly....but i prayed my 5 time salah on time properly later ...that's when i felt myself...it's Allah who knows us...and to him we can openly tell and request all our joys, problems confusion etc...and i believed he'll answer my prayers...yes and He does
Then i started covering my hair with my scarf by my 9th std (around 14-15 yrs old).....back then i knew we should cover our head...but as a teenager my cousins where all wearing the scarf the way i wore...so i didn't know much importance of it..
Later mom use to say you know what's right and wrong...think , study and do appropriately
I reached my college ....one of my best frnd forced me wear hijab properly....i use to tell that frnd...""once if i wear hijab as per ur wish...if in case we get in to a fight future...because of the severity of the fight with i may discontinue wearing hijab properly and may get back to my old self.....BUT...IF I START TO WEAR HIJAB PROPERLY FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH...I WILL NEVER GO BACK TO MY SELF....BECAUSE WHATEVER I DO...ALLAH KNOWS IT ...HE KNOWS I DID IT FOR THE OF ALLAH...SO I'LL ALWAYS LOVE DOING IT"'" yes ..later may in my 20s i started to pin my hijab properly after learning and loving more about Allah and islam.....and so do i now....
Any thing you do.....do it for the Sake of Allah.....not under the pressure from the society or family or friends.....do it ...out of Love....Love for Allah ❤❤
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Thank you. I wish noman Ali khan lots of peace.