Girl's girl? Is that mating & gender dysphoria? Heard Amber & this little girl seems gender- FUBARED. Love & Lust are not interchangeable but when u find an opposite-sexed lovey & u also lust this natural pairing, that is paradise.
It's really admirable how she conveys her pain in not being accepted by her peers in a really subtle way... She doesn't make it a negative interview. Yet she remains authentic. High emotional intelligence for sure
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Billie, you’re literally a girls girls for the girls who also want to be a girls girls. This is why representation matters and one of the reasons we love you. 🎉
I feel this in my soul. I dont have many girlfriends, and growing up I was bullied by girls.... but I so wanted to be their friend. I wanted those female friendships so badly. I was more intimidated by females than males because it was easier for me to get along with boys. Even though it was harder to be accepted by other girls, I still admired them. We are amazing creatures.
You've just literally explained my experience with girls lol. I was bullied my last year in elementary so in middle school I kept my distance from the girls, afraid I would experience that again, but it just ended up with them not liking me because of it. High school I tried, but it was so much easier getting along with guys. Girls intimidated me. They still do lol
This is such a nice thing to see someone be honest about. I didn’t grow out of my “not like other girls” phase until a few years ago and now, looking back, I can say that I distanced myself from other girls not out of contempt for them, but as a defense mechanism because I felt like I was worth less than them and would eventually be pushed away if I didn’t push them away.
This rings true with me also. I was ostracized and bullied in general growing up and ended up in online historically male dominated spaces My interests mostly overlapped with guys, hobbies, things i liked. I havent had many female friendships since i withdrew indoors, but a few years ago i made a friend and id never felt more understood by anyone other than her til i met my husband. I think having female connections is so important as a female, having someone be there on fewer conditions. Having someone you dont see as a threat, someone who will understand things exclusive to the female experience. Its pretty easy to lose hope in groups of people, or people in general especially when youre isolated. There is health and hope to be found when you connect with others.
I feel like everyone's like that growing up. Not feeling like they fit in but female friendships and relationships are so wonderful. Edit: All your interpretations are great and valid. Thanks for sharing.
Sorry, this is a long one. I was never told that Girls didn’t like me in elementary school, but starting junior high I missed the social cues. I was a late bloomer, I wasn’t crazy about boys, didn’t wear makeup and always wore jeans and Ragged, hand me down t-shirts. My parents were poor and it was not hard to see. All though clean I had clothes you could see were my older brothers clothes. So, one of the first days there my best friend said she had started hanging out with a group of girls who was of the popular ones. So did the other girls in my class, we were only 5, but it was my best friends job to tell me they didn’t want anything to do with me anymore because they were embarrassed.😞 So I stood there. All alone, new school and didn’t know anyone. My heart was broken over something I didn’t understand. We had been friends since preschool and had been with each other every, single day. A group of boys saw the whole thing. One of them came over, dried my tears and said: you can hang with us! These boys are to this day my best friends. I was the only girl for a long time, but after a while there came two more. Great girls! Funny, kind and didn’t give a shit about the popular kids. I talk to them from time to time, but the boys, specifically two of them I talk to every, single day. I am married and have children and those two are my favorite people. They have stuck with me through thick and thin, they have saved me from players, Mended my broken heart, supported me when I met my husband and was there when I got my children and they were my two men of honor when I got married.🥰 The girls from my childhood has turned out to have had their peak in high school. I don’t think about them any more. One of them lives in a house with wheels and have 3 baby daddies, my so called “best friend” is no longer tolerated by anyone. Adults have a tendency to smell bullshit, and she is made from it. But it leaves scars. I have severe trust issues towards woman, even though I am a girls girl. I support woman in every way, I’m just struggling to trust a lot of woman I meet and that’s sad. I miss having female friends sometimes. Anyways, friendship is friendship and I can’t complain. I’m 43 now and I still have “the boys” and I love them dearly. They are married to exceptional woman whom I’ve grown to love and respect and I hope they are married for the rest of their lives. I haven’t thought about this for years. This video made me think of it. The world is filled with mean girls. I’m glad there are some good ones to.
Girls/ women have always snubbed me. At the age of 40 I met a group of women who are twenty years older than me. I’m 42 now and They are dear friends and we laugh so hard with each other. I think women in their 60s have accepted who they are and embrace themselves. They no longer feel the need to snub other women just to feel good about themselves. Go get some “old lady friends”! 😂❤
I've never felt like one of the girls, and I'm 59.😞 I was always a tomboy and could never relate to all the "girly-girl" stuff.. but I used to have a best friend in my cousin, and hang out with her and friends. It was nice, but I still never actually felt like I fit in.🥺 Sometimes no matter how much older you get, that feeling never goes away, and you have to be ok with that and try to become your own best friend.😔❤️
You just havent found the right women unfortunatly. It isnt easy. I have always been fairly girlie..but kind of out there. Other women have seen me as weird competition no matter how much I tried to show them I was anything but. Luckily I still have my elementary school bff. We dont talk much but I know shes there.
Nah girl people suck. I was a tomboy but had a group of female friends in elementary school. In middle school and high schools it all went to shit because one of us met a new friend and tried to bring her into the group. Totally fine if she was a nice girl. That new girl ripped up years of friendships. Now none of us are friends. I tried making new friends but never really fit in with anyone. As a young adult I became more “girlie” and had a couple of female friends but never anyone that felt right. Now I feel like it too much work to maintain a friendship with people especially when they don’t put in the same effort, so I don’t waste my time or energy. I have my husband, family and pets and it’s enough.
With all the variation and complexity in humanity there is nothing strange about some being more different than others, thus having a harder time of finding and feeling companionship. I'm 43, male, with family and friends, but have accepted that this feeling of estrangedness will never go away.
Granted I consider myself nonbinary, I was born female and so I've dealt with that feeling as well. Just. Never quite fitting in. Even my less girly friends are so different from me. I feel like I don't fully relate. I had tons of friends that were girls growing up, but they always considered me to be the "masculine" one. Apparently so did some of their boyfriends, as more than a few have been jealous of me being around their straight girlfriends. 😐 It's not even like I'm super tomboyish or anything -- I still wear makeup and my hair is medium length. I dunno. It's a weird feeling, not really feeling like one of the girls OR one of the boys. Both are so foreign to me, but so cool and beautiful in their own ways.
Awww, she is so amazing all in her own special and unique ways. It breaks my heart that she never seems to feel like she fits a mold or is good enough. Billie is nothing short of a miracle. I wonder if she truly realizes just how loved she really is ❤
That is exactly how I have felt my whole life too. Thank you for having courage to be your most authentic self in a world with so many expectations all of them constricting. We are not meant to fit neatly into any one box and no one needs to apologize or feel Shame because of it. You are awesome
I identify with this soooo hard. My moms not super girly n I’ve always been more of a tomboy or more masculine n I love that part of myself but being able to do girly things with other women brings me soooo much happiness🤩🥰 love you Billie!
It’s so refreshing to see such a beautiful, radiant young lady be so comfortably open about herself … She is a gem that is being dusted off by the winds and rinsed off by rains and dried by the suns warmth til her sparkle from underneath peaks through.
Billie speaks her truth and there’s so much beauty in what she says. She is not afraid of it. No one should be. I get it’s easier when you are a star. She’s just admirable and so talented! Go Billie and love girls all you want. 👏
I think we all feel a bit like this growing up. She’s still so young. I think as we get older, we don’t worry about that kind of stuff so much. I’m 43 and in my “I don’t give a F” era and baby, it’s a beautiful thing! I think the most important thing, is to be your own girls girl. Be comfortable in your own skin, your own heart, and your own everything. If somebody doesn’t like that, then hunnie they just F right off. It’s that simple. 💜💜
@@BrookieMonster1313 Maturity depends on character. There are people with golden character , a combination of nature and nurture. A privileged minority learns from experience. Many people simply repeat eternally the same themes.
You needed Billy to accept your sexuality? Wow😮 isn't sexuality something instinctive. Normally you know when you have a urge what you need or not? Sexuality is not complicated. It's something that you feel and that is personal. You shouldn't need people validation.
@@LAWOODSTORIES if that’s been your experience I’m happy for you. Not everyone experiences life the same way. Please be kind, your comment comes across as judgmental.
@@LAWOODSTORIESha! If only it were that simple! Do you think queer boys being raised in Russia right now feel that way? Or even young lesbians in Russia!? If you honestly believe they could, your empathy needs a tune up and until then you should prob turn down your voice except to ask sincere questions about other’s experiences. It sounds like you are fortunate enough to come from a background of pretty significant acceptance and privilege or enough space and resources to ignore the acceptance you were not granted (a privilege in itself). Most don’t have that and require the resources or love of parents/providers to find their way in life and will stifle themselves to get it and survive. Survival is far superior to sexual expression or experience in adolescence or adulthood and SO many people trade one for the other by either ignoring/lying/whitewashing it or by direct sales to buy their survival. Consider yourself a fortunate minority you if you never had to do either. But don’t throw stones at those who did bc you throw from an ivory tower. To be perfectly blunt, even most cis het folks have a screwed up relationship w their own sexuality bc of their upbringing that they battle to overcome and accept their own body and desires as they try to fully embody their own sexuality as their life (single or married) progresses. So even in a society that supposedly accepts and encourages their “norm” they are messed up about their sexuality. Good luck to a young LGBTQIA+ person! We’re all facing a largely uphill battle here is my only point. Perhaps you may find in time you have self discovery yet to accept also.
I like the fact that her convo she keeps it real so teenage girls growing up can realise they are not any different it's just part in parcel of growing pains as a girl changing into a woman. I love you Billie Elisha! You are so extremely talented.. Society knocks girls confidence down in multiple ways!
i love billie. she’s so honest and just, real. i don’t know why she gets so much kickback. i’ve looked up to her for so long and she lets me know that it’s literally okay to open up.
@@MiaIsOk It may come as a surprise to you, but wise people with great perspectives can be any age. Don't be afraid to consider role models from all walks of life. You'd only be limiting yourself if you put a ceiling on that.
I want to thank you Billie for helping my 12 year old granddaughter through a troubling time in her life and your music helped her through those times. She thinks your amazing. ❤ 😍🤩
I’m from a totally different generation love her and her music but experienced this in my youth so relatable. Such a beautiful human being and so talented ❤.
She’s so pretty. I hate that she doesn’t see herself for what we see her. She’s lovely and beautiful and… touching. We ❤ Billie! And I’m an old lady. 😂
Coming into the comments as a queer woman who is girly yet never really felt like a girl or had girl friends yet was too girly to mesh well with men either, i always wanted to be a girl's girl and so it's nuts how multiple times coming out to people -- my mom many years ago, an acquaintance only recently -- by confessing a crush on someone, the response I've gotten is "are you sure you're not just feeling this way because she was nice to you?" Yeah of course I'm excited a girl I'm into is nice to me, because i have a crush on her smh But to their credit, as they pointed out it's also just so nice to be included, with these "nice" interactions at the outskirts of "girls' girl" fleeting status
@COMPUTER.SCIENCE. chill lol. Means exactly what it says. I'm a woman with a lot of stereotypically female or feminine interests and expressions per western traditions, and as an additional way of describing myself, I'm a woman who loves women. Literally as simple as that lmaooo
She perfectly describes being a girl with brothers rather than being a girl with sisters. As someone who has a brother and no sisters, you just feel different and like you'll never be exactly like the girls who have sisters. I see tiktoks where girls with sisters make fun of girls with brothers calling us "weird" and "different"... doesn't seem very girl-positive to me if you're judging other girls for something that they can't control. If anything, it takes away from someone's femininity to judge them based off of their relations with men rather than seeing them for what they are, which is a girl/woman.
Didn't even know that was an issue. I always loved having a brother. Hearing all these horror stories of sisters being petty to each other, screwing each other, stealing each other's clothes and boyfriends... No thanks 😅 😂 Me and my brother got along extremely well, still do. He's the best sibling I could've asked for.
I have 4 and no sisters. I loved having brothers and never wanted a sister. But I completely relate to what you are saying, and agree. We were too feminine for the boys and too masculine for the girls to play with. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. And after high school or didn't seem to matter quite as much.
@iulia.bianca.b Totally agree. I have 2 older brothers. No sisters and I could not be more happy for the same reasons. I have 4 lifetime best girlfriends and I love it that way. They are my sisters for life. Funny that all of them have sisters and nothing but problems with them. They all wish they had brothers. I feel like I have the best of both worlds.
What you say is very important I think. It's more like you might experience feelings like this because of the fact that you for some reason happen(ed) to be more comfortable around males and realized you are easier around them which doesn't make you a girls girl but just a cool girl how about that ? Later on you might become too feminine for males but still the girls girl feeling stays out 🤷🏽♀️
She is my goal to just be a better version of myself. Her wisdom is astounding for her age. Speaks volumes of how strong we can become when we address what bothers us head on.
she is so real, i love her. and Billie you are a girls girl to me...an older version of what this felt like in my much younger years and coming into myself in my own way eventually. you are also helping save SO many people by being authentically you...keep, keepin' on. ❤
I tried to have a good relationship with my sister but we are so different. We have nothing in common. I try to talk to her about what I like and ask what she likes. But she's not interested. We don't like the same music, films, hobbies. The last time I saw her she yelled at me 3 times in an hour. It makes me feel sad sometimes or jealous when sisters are close, i don't think we ever had that or i don't remember when we were. I understand what Billie meant. I tried to be friends with my sister but we tolerate each other in others company. I see a wordy birthday card going on about close bond stuff with sisters and think i can't buy that because none of it is true. That sounds really sad but I'm a happy person really. 😁
I had the same issue with my only sister. She was 8 years younger than me. She was the youngest of 5 children. I learned we were just both different. I knew she loved me as I did her. She was very protective of me as I was her. Just accept her as she is and show her you care and love her. I’m glad I did. For I lost my sister in 2022 unexpectedly to a heart attack that took my sister instantly. I miss her presence here on earth. I miss her differences. I know she’s with me in spirit all the time. Wishing you all the best with your sister. 🙏🏼🩷
Wow. I wanna give you a hug. Life isn't ideal. Oftentimes, something in our family just keeps on hurting and we learn to live with it. For me, it's my relationship with my parents more than anything. But I also feel it a bit with my sisters now...I still try with both my sisters and my brother but it has gotten harder and harder over the years. Tbh your sister shouldn't be yelling at you. She sounds like she's not being really kind to you. It is just crazy how we just grow and change and sometimes a sibling doesn't...they remain angry when we are trying to heal. It's just so hard to keep that bond strong, especially if it was never fostered much in childhood.
I totally feel you. Ive always tried to be friends with my sister but she just hates me. She's a bully, truth be told. Sad thing is, I'm the older one, by 6 years.
In reply to all 3 of you at the same time. I am the oldest, I have only one sister. We are ok, just not best friends. There was no major fall out, just lots of little differences of opinion. She is a lot closer to my mum and dad. We grew up together and were treated the same, so it's not a case that one of us is jealous of the other. She is married with 2 children and I am single with none, maybe that makes a difference, but before there were still issues. There are plenty of pictures of us happy together, but it doesn't take much for us to fall out. We are just different people. I tried a bunch of times to make things better but she either doesn't notice or isn't interested. I give up. A lot of people have bigger problems than petty fall outs with family members. 😁😆
I think every single woman can relate on how it’s hard to fit in . Most girls /women don’t have many friends at all, we are hateful to each other and just straight cruel to each other. I always wanted more girl friends. Once you find the good ones keep them around ❤ P.S Billie you are a girls girl 🩵 we see you! We love you ❤ keep shining my girl!
I too have always loved girls in all ways, & just now realizing that I've been missing out all these years. I've been reborn just this past year, be yourself Billie and keep being happy.😊
Growing up in the shadow of your big brother does that. They’re our idols, one of the first -if not the first- we look up to. At that age it’s hard to relate to other girls when you’ve only ever related to your brother
I relate to this so hard. I've had a hard time my whole life making friends in general since I'm autistic. Nowadays my group of friends is all guys and enbys just due to happenstance and while I love them I really want a group of girl friends. Just like she said I wanna be a girls girl!
She says"girls are amazing" as if she weren't one. And amazing to boot. Maybe that's why she says she never felt like a girl. But its sad, it's as if she doesn't realize that she, herself, is an amazing girl!
Billie has been secretly longing for a hot, sexy girlfriend for years. But she masked it with her constant talk of a crush on Justin Bieber for some reason.
@@StephenDoty84 yk lesbians have had 'beiber' hair since it was even a thing so maybe it was that? 🤔 im kidding we knew she didnt mask it that well but maybe she was ready to come out yk bc there's a lot of stigma in music industry and there are a lot of stereotypes attached to it look at jojo siwa for example she made her sexuality her entire personality
I love her style, love her voice, love her talent, love her songs, and I’m 63. I’ve never been “girly” either, and I’m getting so sick of the crap about what women are supposed to be.
@@aylapatton2922 and that is a good thing. Girls in general are mean to each other if not to your face behind your back. And sadly it's usually bc of boys.
I wish girls would bound together for something else than their "femininity". More girls would fit in with other girls and there would be less rejection. And it would be more authentic since "femininity" is just a social construct.
Billy, my child noticed you before I did, which was over 4 years ago. Since then you’ve became my hero of personal freedom, though before I used to think our country’s soldiers are. I am a U.S. Army combat veteran, and since my deployment I went through several changes, but I guess the most significant and full-filling is my new gender identity! I can’t say I’m a fully grown girl yet, but I know I’m not a man anymore! If you are reading this I want you to know how much you mean to me, us, and the whole world!!! Keep writing us songs, keep singing them because you are our voice, our heart, our mind & soul!!! Love ya, Gabriell
Omg she describes how I feel my whole life with regards to relationships with women… esp when I was a child. I have no idea how to fit in with the girls
You impressed me the day I realized I liked women. I was 13, ended up crying myself to sleep listening to “Wish U We’re Gay” and will NEVER forget that moment. You were there for my coming out, and I’m beyond proud to be seeing yours now.
Thank you!!!! He was such a misunderstood soul. It’s astounding how many people have tarnished his name, but in good faith I think more people have learned this. Rest easy KING.
@leolifeOriginal this is a video about Billie and meant for the fans and curious people. Obv people will say they love her. Dk why you’d comment on something you hate. Makes zero sense to me…
@leolifeOriginal yes. and I’m okay with that bro 😂 I mean she is attractive but I don’t follow her every move or simp for her now. idc if you dislike her but this person liked her so there no reason to try to twist it and say that we don’t. Could’ve said “I don’t like her” instead of allat and it would’ve made more sense 💀 but tbh you’d never see me stalk or interact with media of someone I dislike 🤷🏾♀️❤️ Edit: Idk if my comment will get deleted for no reason bc of youtube but wtv
My 23 yr. old granddaughter is listening to 'hit me hard and soft' on repeat and I msg'd her because I had heard ' The Greatest' and it resonated so hard for me a 62 year old woman and it made me immediately made me think of her. It was a really good msg convo ( she was at work so couldn't call) it's nice to be able to connect with her over Billie's music.
Always being worried if girls hate me is so damn relatable!! I grew up and spent a lot of time with my boy family members, which also meant I was always spending a lot of time with their friends. I was always around boys, doing “boy” things, and being one of the “boys.” It became part of who I was, so much so that I realized I was uncomfortable around girls or making new friends with girls. Adults always pointed this out about me. I didn’t mind, but I knew it was something different about me. When I got older and puberty hit and all the weird ages started happening, I became so self conscious about it. All of a sudden, I worried so much if girls liked me. Worried if they thought I was being a “pick me girl,” because of how natural I could be around the guys. A lot of girls wanted to date my boy family members and I started to worry if they only were trying to be my friend to get to them. I don’t know, that worry about girls hating me actually has always kind of consumed me from a young age. It’s nice to know that I’m not the only girl who has had those feeling. Billie puts feelings into words so well. I truly admire her for it.
I recently watched a video where Billie Eilish was tearfully expressing her love for Justin Bieber and voicing her worries about never finding someone who measures up to him. Following that, she posted this. In my opinion, social media and the internet have significantly distorted the minds of young people. This phenomenon isn’t limited to the youth; older generations are affected too. However, when young people share what they believe to be profound insights, it often sounds like confusion. I'm not judging; it truly saddens me. No one should have to endure the kind of confusion that young people face today. The need for validation is more rampant than ever, and it contributes to many societal problems. It seems there's nothing that young people aren’t confused or worried about these days, celebrities included. Let’s be honest-many young girls aspire to emulate their idols. While everyone should have the freedom to live as they choose, it’s never wise to have the blind leading the blind.
I COMPLETELY and WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree..she sounds just confused. "I felt at one with the girls " ...next line "i never felt like a girl". What does that feel like? Also wanting to impress other girls is a natural feeling we have when we want another girl to like us and be our friend. I have it even as an adult. But yes..these young people are.exposed to muuuuch more than i ever wa😢s growing up. Especially transgender and non binary content. I believe it exists but in muuuuch smaller numbers than it seems these days. Also what has impacted this is gender ROLES over the years Poeple are confused. Men expect women to ask them out. A lot pd females have expressed more masculine traits bc of high divorcw rates many women have to raise families alone and work and do so much. I believe in general we are so diverse as ppl. There are variety of different kind of men and women in they world. Find what it means to you and find happiness and self acceptance in your skin.
I get it. I love being a girls girl 💕 Its nice to be there for your own. I feel like a girl but its okay that you dont. At one point in my life, i didnt either. We dont hate you billie 🥰
She's so eloquent and expressive with her vulnerabilities and doesn't play the victim. She doesnt seem to have an agenda except to answer the question in the best way she knows how. She's so grounded even through the uncertainties...I hope she remains grounded and genuine always
I think you are one of the best examples of a "girl" that the mainstream media needed to present to the world. Hollyweird took a big breathe of fresh air when you graced them with you're originality and authenticity. I truly mean that with every neuron in my body! You and the integrity you carry with you is just as beautiful as your physical attractiveness Billie. Girls are fucking amazing ❤❤❤ I've never related to something so much!
She speaks for so many of us that were told we arent girly "enough" to be one of the girls. Its heartbreaking.
I see that happening to me in Russia ///
@@MeralEdward and me
Girl's girl? Is that mating & gender dysphoria? Heard Amber & this little girl seems gender- FUBARED. Love & Lust are not interchangeable but when u find an opposite-sexed lovey & u also lust this natural pairing, that is paradise.
She's very true for saying this
Same..
It's really admirable how she conveys her pain in not being accepted by her peers in a really subtle way... She doesn't make it a negative interview. Yet she remains authentic. High emotional intelligence for sure
Au contraire, her mother & her don't get along & she's seeking an unnaturaI sexuaI sinfuI Iust with the same-genitaIs partner as a substitute4 maternaI Iove, appreciation & non-eviI nurture & loved by one's mom, same with alI Iesbian-lust relationships like E.Degenerate & D-list actress "dieke-wifey"Portia- D'Rossi. Now both post-menopausal so no more delicious-menses!😮
I feel this
True words
She also has a PR team
Really? I thought this was something a 12 year old would say. Wasn't very deep.
The way she's blushing when she says "i love girls in so many ways" is so adorable protect her at all costs
That's not adorable.
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@@James-vn8zbWhat do you mean ?
@@ExtremeNowProductionshe’s being a hater. Don’t pay attention
@@8lagarto8he’s being a hater don’t worry
I'm 54 and I wish she'd been around when I was a teenager. Just love her. ❤
Same. Felt like that my whole life she’s amazing
Same here, I’m 57.
Word! ✌🏼
Almost 61 here, musician. I love her and her brother. They are amazing.
We did have Cindy Lauper though 💚
Every girl wants to be part of the girl group. Is so important to who we are
Billie, you’re literally a girls girls for the girls who also want to be a girls girls. This is why representation matters and one of the reasons we love you. 🎉
A girls girls?!? 😂
Billie is a man
I noticed that also lol@@roxanadobre1923
Didn't she date her best friend's ex after they broke up and she comforted her ? ...
@@isabellevelleda3387 idk who was it?
I feel this in my soul. I dont have many girlfriends, and growing up I was bullied by girls.... but I so wanted to be their friend. I wanted those female friendships so badly. I was more intimidated by females than males because it was easier for me to get along with boys. Even though it was harder to be accepted by other girls, I still admired them. We are amazing creatures.
Ditto!
You've just literally explained my experience with girls lol.
I was bullied my last year in elementary so in middle school I kept my distance from the girls, afraid I would experience that again, but it just ended up with them not liking me because of it. High school I tried, but it was so much easier getting along with guys. Girls intimidated me. They still do lol
Ditto
Same
💖🧡🩷
I love watching her talk. She's just lovely.
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Lovely by Billie eilish starts playing (it was the perfect moment)
she's a sexist cow
She's unloved by her maternal unit, hence dating girls confusing unnaturaI lust for maternal love 😢weak female
This is such a nice thing to see someone be honest about. I didn’t grow out of my “not like other girls” phase until a few years ago and now, looking back, I can say that I distanced myself from other girls not out of contempt for them, but as a defense mechanism because I felt like I was worth less than them and would eventually be pushed away if I didn’t push them away.
This rings true with me also. I was ostracized and bullied in general growing up and ended up in online historically male dominated spaces
My interests mostly overlapped with guys, hobbies, things i liked. I havent had many female friendships since i withdrew indoors, but a few years ago i made a friend and id never felt more understood by anyone other than her til i met my husband.
I think having female connections is so important as a female, having someone be there on fewer conditions. Having someone you dont see as a threat, someone who will understand things exclusive to the female experience.
Its pretty easy to lose hope in groups of people, or people in general especially when youre isolated. There is health and hope to be found when you connect with others.
I find it impossible not to adore this woman
I feel like everyone's like that growing up. Not feeling like they fit in but female friendships and relationships are so wonderful.
Edit: All your interpretations are great and valid. Thanks for sharing.
Nah. You've misunderstood. She's talking about her queer experience. It describes so much of what I've experienced.
This is literally me. I feel like i’m too masculine or maybe my interests are rare for a female.
@@sop1710
This is literally a completely normal experience that 99% of women feel. If that means that 99% of women are queer to you, aight I guess
Eilish is a DUDE!!!!!
So every girl grows up feeling to masculine in your opinion? I definitely don't agree bc being this way almost ruined my life.
Sorry, this is a long one.
I was never told that Girls didn’t like me in elementary school, but starting junior high I missed the social cues. I was a late bloomer, I wasn’t crazy about boys, didn’t wear makeup and always wore jeans and Ragged, hand me down t-shirts. My parents were poor and it was not hard to see. All though clean I had clothes you could see were my older brothers clothes.
So, one of the first days there my best friend said she had started hanging out with a group of girls who was of the popular ones.
So did the other girls in my class, we were only 5, but it was my best friends job to tell me they didn’t want anything to do with me anymore because they were embarrassed.😞
So I stood there. All alone, new school and didn’t know anyone. My heart was broken over something I didn’t understand. We had been friends since preschool and had been with each other every, single day.
A group of boys saw the whole thing. One of them came over, dried my tears and said: you can hang with us!
These boys are to this day my best friends. I was the only girl for a long time, but after a while there came two more. Great girls! Funny, kind and didn’t give a shit about the popular kids.
I talk to them from time to time, but the boys, specifically two of them I talk to every, single day. I am married and have children and those two are my favorite people. They have stuck with me through thick and thin, they have saved me from players, Mended my broken heart, supported me when I met my husband and was there when I got my children and they were my two men of honor when I got married.🥰
The girls from my childhood has turned out to have had their peak in high school. I don’t think about them any more. One of them lives in a house with wheels and have 3 baby daddies, my so called “best friend” is no longer tolerated by anyone. Adults have a tendency to smell bullshit, and she is made from it.
But it leaves scars. I have severe trust issues towards woman, even though I am a girls girl. I support woman in every way, I’m just struggling to trust a lot of woman I meet and that’s sad. I miss having female friends sometimes.
Anyways, friendship is friendship and I can’t complain. I’m 43 now and I still have “the boys” and I love them dearly.
They are married to exceptional woman whom I’ve grown to love and respect and I hope they are married for the rest of their lives.
I haven’t thought about this for years. This video made me think of it. The world is filled with mean girls. I’m glad there are some good ones to.
I love this soooo much
This is such a beautiful story 🥹
Girls/ women have always snubbed me. At the age of 40 I met a group of women who are twenty years older than me. I’m 42 now and They are dear friends and we laugh so hard with each other. I think women in their 60s have accepted who they are and embrace themselves. They no longer feel the need to snub other women just to feel good about themselves. Go get some “old lady friends”! 😂❤
🥰🥰🥰
Damn.
‘GIRLS ARE AMAZING, IN SO MANY WAYS’ has me in tears ❤ we love you
It's half the population and most people of either sex are shit.
Same here girl you’re not alone with that feeling 💕
"and being really worried they hate me" nah broo, girls can't hate this gorgeous thing
Billie is so beautiful, like not even just physically it’s like she’s a piece of art walking. Her voice is beautiful. The girl is magic!! I love it
Her music sucks
Would you date her?
She’s genuinely so stunning and I hope she knows that
@@StephenDoty84I would!
She dont like to be beautiful. She is always working against it.
Me too girlie, me too. Nothing more fun than having sincere relationships with other women, it’s freeing
Oow, you discovered friendship! Congrats!👏
I’ll never know
@@gorjessangel What?
@@andersonsantiago1407 I don’t have female friends
@@gorjessangel Ow, i got it.
But way?
I've never felt like one of the girls, and I'm 59.😞 I was always a tomboy and could never relate to all the "girly-girl" stuff.. but I used to have a best friend in my cousin, and hang out with her and friends. It was nice, but I still never actually felt like I fit in.🥺 Sometimes no matter how much older you get, that feeling never goes away, and you have to be ok with that and try to become your own best friend.😔❤️
You just havent found the right women unfortunatly. It isnt easy. I have always been fairly girlie..but kind of out there. Other women have seen me as weird competition no matter how much I tried to show them I was anything but. Luckily I still have my elementary school bff. We dont talk much but I know shes there.
Nah girl people suck. I was a tomboy but had a group of female friends in elementary school. In middle school and high schools it all went to shit because one of us met a new friend and tried to bring her into the group. Totally fine if she was a nice girl. That new girl ripped up years of friendships. Now none of us are friends. I tried making new friends but never really fit in with anyone. As a young adult I became more “girlie” and had a couple of female friends but never anyone that felt right. Now I feel like it too much work to maintain a friendship with people especially when they don’t put in the same effort, so I don’t waste my time or energy. I have my husband, family and pets and it’s enough.
With all the variation and complexity in humanity there is nothing strange about some being more different than others, thus having a harder time of finding and feeling companionship. I'm 43, male, with family and friends, but have accepted that this feeling of estrangedness will never go away.
Being a tomboy shouldn’t matter to anyone who’s a real friend. People don’t have to dress or act the same to be friends.
Granted I consider myself nonbinary, I was born female and so I've dealt with that feeling as well. Just. Never quite fitting in. Even my less girly friends are so different from me. I feel like I don't fully relate. I had tons of friends that were girls growing up, but they always considered me to be the "masculine" one. Apparently so did some of their boyfriends, as more than a few have been jealous of me being around their straight girlfriends. 😐 It's not even like I'm super tomboyish or anything -- I still wear makeup and my hair is medium length. I dunno. It's a weird feeling, not really feeling like one of the girls OR one of the boys. Both are so foreign to me, but so cool and beautiful in their own ways.
Awww, she is so amazing all in her own special and unique ways. It breaks my heart that she never seems to feel like she fits a mold or is good enough. Billie is nothing short of a miracle. I wonder if she truly realizes just how loved she really is ❤
That is exactly how I have felt my whole life too. Thank you for having courage to be your most authentic self in a world with so many expectations all of them constricting. We are not meant to fit neatly into any one box and no one needs to apologize or feel Shame because of it. You are awesome
“in so many ways 👀”
😅
Yeah that’s a very gay statement
@@aribarienuk1378gay statement is killing me 😭
women are hot yes
That coy smile at the end was the perfect finishing touch 😂
I identify with this soooo hard. My moms not super girly n I’ve always been more of a tomboy or more masculine n I love that part of myself but being able to do girly things with other women brings me soooo much happiness🤩🥰 love you Billie!
Just explained my life lol
Same here!🎉❤
Ooh im the 555 like ❤i can also relate to this a bit
There's no such thing as girls' things or boys' things. Those are just sexist stereotypes that society imposes on us
@@Zaory6734Let her express herself however she pleases. She's not hurtying anyone. Get over yourself.
It’s so refreshing to see such a beautiful, radiant young lady be so comfortably open about herself … She is a gem that is being dusted off by the winds and rinsed off by rains and dried by the suns warmth til her sparkle from underneath peaks through.
Get a grip.
Beautifully spoken…
Billie speaks her truth and there’s so much beauty in what she says. She is not afraid of it. No one should be. I get it’s easier when you are a star. She’s just admirable and so talented! Go Billie and love girls all you want. 👏
Billie is so amazing
Really 😂
I think we all feel a bit like this growing up. She’s still so young. I think as we get older, we don’t worry about that kind of stuff so much. I’m 43 and in my “I don’t give a F” era and baby, it’s a beautiful thing! I think the most important thing, is to be your own girls girl. Be comfortable in your own skin, your own heart, and your own everything. If somebody doesn’t like that, then hunnie they just F right off. It’s that simple. 💜💜
So people "f right off" if they don't agree with you 😂 ok Hitler! You should learn to understand people better
Very well said 👏😊
Yes. She will evolve....
I agree completely ❤
@@BrookieMonster1313 Maturity depends on character. There are people with golden character , a combination of nature and nurture. A privileged minority learns from experience. Many people simply repeat eternally the same themes.
Billie's statements about girls being amazing have helped me understand and accept my own sexuality.
🙌🏻🫶🏻 Never Doubt that your sexuality is not a problem. It’s a beautiful expression of you.
@@isabellrc Thank you!
You needed Billy to accept your sexuality? Wow😮 isn't sexuality something instinctive. Normally you know when you have a urge what you need or not? Sexuality is not complicated. It's something that you feel and that is personal. You shouldn't need people validation.
@@LAWOODSTORIES if that’s been your experience I’m happy for you. Not everyone experiences life the same way. Please be kind, your comment comes across as judgmental.
@@LAWOODSTORIESha! If only it were that simple! Do you think queer boys being raised in Russia right now feel that way? Or even young lesbians in Russia!?
If you honestly believe they could, your empathy needs a tune up and until then you should prob turn down your voice except to ask sincere questions about other’s experiences. It sounds like you are fortunate enough to come from a background of pretty significant acceptance and privilege or enough space and resources to ignore the acceptance you were not granted (a privilege in itself). Most don’t have that and require the resources or love of parents/providers to find their way in life and will stifle themselves to get it and survive. Survival is far superior to sexual expression or experience in adolescence or adulthood and SO many people trade one for the other by either ignoring/lying/whitewashing it or by direct sales to buy their survival.
Consider yourself a fortunate minority you if you never had to do either. But don’t throw stones at those who did bc you throw from an ivory tower.
To be perfectly blunt, even most cis het folks have a screwed up relationship w their own sexuality bc of their upbringing that they battle to overcome and accept their own body and desires as they try to fully embody their own sexuality as their life (single or married) progresses. So even in a society that supposedly accepts and encourages their “norm” they are messed up about their sexuality.
Good luck to a young LGBTQIA+ person!
We’re all facing a largely uphill battle here is my only point. Perhaps you may find in time you have self discovery yet to accept also.
I like the fact that her convo she keeps it real so teenage girls growing up can realise they are not any different it's just part in parcel of growing pains as a girl changing into a woman. I love you Billie Elisha! You are so extremely talented.. Society knocks girls confidence down in multiple ways!
*Eilish
I like Billie Eilish not for her songs but for being Billie Eilish. Her Birds Of The Feathers is my new favorite song.❤❤❤
Love yourself girl... you're so worth it. Do you and don't worry about nothing! Love❤
i love billie. she’s so honest and just, real. i don’t know why she gets so much kickback. i’ve looked up to her for so long and she lets me know that it’s literally okay to open up.
Are you 12??
@@Othillde Are you stupid? I'm asking a genuine question, cause how can anyone over the age of 18 look up to her for "so long".
@@MiaIsOk It may come as a surprise to you, but wise people with great perspectives can be any age. Don't be afraid to consider role models from all walks of life. You'd only be limiting yourself if you put a ceiling on that.
@@Trepanation21 Honestly you have to know when you can open up. It's not always advisable to open up.
Love the hair. These colors look really good on her
I agree! My hair color is similar, but not styled the same way and I absolutely love it! ❤
@@SurvivorOfChildhoodTraumame too ❤️
I want to thank you Billie for helping my 12 year old granddaughter through a troubling time in her life and your music helped her through those times. She thinks your amazing. ❤ 😍🤩
She is such a sweetheart ❤
I’m from a totally different generation love her and her music but experienced this in my youth so relatable. Such a beautiful human being and so talented ❤.
She’s so pretty. I hate that she doesn’t see herself for what we see her. She’s lovely and beautiful and… touching. We ❤ Billie! And I’m an old lady. 😂
She's playing a role , she will be just fine
@@dustinirish7hater get outtt LOL
@@Jasminesfrog lol or realistic. Works on people like you to make her more relatable!
@@dustinirish7 empathy looks better on people :)
I feel the exact same way , i just never knew how to put it into words.
Coming into the comments as a queer woman who is girly yet never really felt like a girl or had girl friends yet was too girly to mesh well with men either, i always wanted to be a girl's girl and so it's nuts how multiple times coming out to people -- my mom many years ago, an acquaintance only recently -- by confessing a crush on someone, the response I've gotten is "are you sure you're not just feeling this way because she was nice to you?"
Yeah of course I'm excited a girl I'm into is nice to me, because i have a crush on her smh
But to their credit, as they pointed out it's also just so nice to be included, with these "nice" interactions at the outskirts of "girls' girl" fleeting status
OK, but you really need to research the history of the word "queer". It is loaded with the blood of gay boys from '40s '50s,'60s.
What's "a queer woman who is girly.." supposed to mean????
@COMPUTER.SCIENCE. chill lol. Means exactly what it says. I'm a woman with a lot of stereotypically female or feminine interests and expressions per western traditions, and as an additional way of describing myself, I'm a woman who loves women. Literally as simple as that lmaooo
She is so right, and I love that she is an incredible inspiration and influences on me❤
Omg u love her sm she’s rlly relatable and sweet
She perfectly describes being a girl with brothers rather than being a girl with sisters. As someone who has a brother and no sisters, you just feel different and like you'll never be exactly like the girls who have sisters. I see tiktoks where girls with sisters make fun of girls with brothers calling us "weird" and "different"... doesn't seem very girl-positive to me if you're judging other girls for something that they can't control. If anything, it takes away from someone's femininity to judge them based off of their relations with men rather than seeing them for what they are, which is a girl/woman.
Didn't even know that was an issue. I always loved having a brother. Hearing all these horror stories of sisters being petty to each other, screwing each other, stealing each other's clothes and boyfriends... No thanks 😅 😂 Me and my brother got along extremely well, still do. He's the best sibling I could've asked for.
I have 4 and no sisters. I loved having brothers and never wanted a sister. But I completely relate to what you are saying, and agree. We were too feminine for the boys and too masculine for the girls to play with. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. And after high school or didn't seem to matter quite as much.
@iulia.bianca.b Totally agree. I have 2 older brothers. No sisters and I could not be more happy for the same reasons. I have 4 lifetime best girlfriends and I love it that way. They are my sisters for life. Funny that all of them have sisters and nothing but problems with them. They all wish they had brothers. I feel like I have the best of both worlds.
What you say is very important I think. It's more like you might experience feelings like this because of the fact that you for some reason happen(ed) to be more comfortable around males and realized you are easier around them which doesn't make you a girls girl but just a cool girl how about that ? Later on you might become too feminine for males but still the girls girl feeling stays out 🤷🏽♀️
Me explaining my bisexuality to my husband
oh my god THIS 😭
True 😊
"bisexual" female moment😂😂😂
@Reed5016 because us bisexuals don't actually exist we are a government conspiracy apparently
What if your husband also explains his bisexuality to you? 😂
She's right, girls are amazing!
She is my goal to just be a better version of myself. Her wisdom is astounding for her age. Speaks volumes of how strong we can become when we address what bothers us head on.
I love her, so real and vulnerable!❤👍🏻
She is so beautiful…I love her
Billie’s with us girls 4everrr
I wanna hug her so badd
she is so real, i love her. and Billie you are a girls girl to me...an older version of what this felt like in my much younger years and coming into myself in my own way eventually. you are also helping save SO many people by being authentically you...keep, keepin' on. ❤
Any of us would be lucky to call you a friend 💜 you’re an incredible human being.
Girls are amazing man..in so many ways.. Fr Frrrrr billieee😭💙
I tried to have a good relationship with my sister but we are so different. We have nothing in common. I try to talk to her about what I like and ask what she likes. But she's not interested. We don't like the same music, films, hobbies. The last time I saw her she yelled at me 3 times in an hour.
It makes me feel sad sometimes or jealous when sisters are close, i don't think we ever had that or i don't remember when we were. I understand what Billie meant. I tried to be friends with my sister but we tolerate each other in others company. I see a wordy birthday card going on about close bond stuff with sisters and think i can't buy that because none of it is true.
That sounds really sad but I'm a happy person really. 😁
I had the same issue with my only sister. She was 8 years younger than me. She was the youngest of 5 children. I learned we were just both different. I knew she loved me as I did her. She was very protective of me as I was her. Just accept her as she is and show her you care and love her. I’m glad I did. For I lost my sister in 2022 unexpectedly to a heart attack that took my sister instantly. I miss her presence here on earth. I miss her differences. I know she’s with me in spirit all the time.
Wishing you all the best with your sister. 🙏🏼🩷
Wow. I wanna give you a hug. Life isn't ideal. Oftentimes, something in our family just keeps on hurting and we learn to live with it. For me, it's my relationship with my parents more than anything. But I also feel it a bit with my sisters now...I still try with both my sisters and my brother but it has gotten harder and harder over the years. Tbh your sister shouldn't be yelling at you. She sounds like she's not being really kind to you. It is just crazy how we just grow and change and sometimes a sibling doesn't...they remain angry when we are trying to heal. It's just so hard to keep that bond strong, especially if it was never fostered much in childhood.
I totally feel you. Ive always tried to be friends with my sister but she just hates me. She's a bully, truth be told. Sad thing is, I'm the older one, by 6 years.
@@heatherwoodley8244 same
In reply to all 3 of you at the same time. I am the oldest, I have only one sister. We are ok, just not best friends. There was no major fall out, just lots of little differences of opinion. She is a lot closer to my mum and dad. We grew up together and were treated the same, so it's not a case that one of us is jealous of the other.
She is married with 2 children and I am single with none, maybe that makes a difference, but before there were still issues. There are plenty of pictures of us happy together, but it doesn't take much for us to fall out.
We are just different people. I tried a bunch of times to make things better but she either doesn't notice or isn't interested. I give up.
A lot of people have bigger problems than petty fall outs with family members. 😁😆
WE LOVE U BILLIE, no matter what!! 💗
I think every single woman can relate on how it’s hard to fit in . Most girls /women don’t have many friends at all, we are hateful to each other and just straight cruel to each other. I always wanted more girl friends. Once you find the good ones keep them around ❤ P.S Billie you are a girls girl 🩵 we see you! We love you ❤ keep shining my girl!
I too have always loved girls in all ways, & just now realizing that I've been missing out all these years. I've been reborn just this past year, be yourself Billie and keep being happy.😊
No girl hates you. We all love you
Nah, not EVERY girl likes her. Some girls dislike her, and that's fine. I'm allowed to DISLIKE her. She's not a "girls' girl" to me.
Growing up in the shadow of your big brother does that. They’re our idols, one of the first -if not the first- we look up to. At that age it’s hard to relate to other girls when you’ve only ever related to your brother
I relate to this so hard. I've had a hard time my whole life making friends in general since I'm autistic. Nowadays my group of friends is all guys and enbys just due to happenstance and while I love them I really want a group of girl friends. Just like she said I wanna be a girls girl!
It's just the cheeky smile with the "in so many ways" that pulled me out of the beautiful moment T_T
She says"girls are amazing" as if she weren't one. And amazing to boot. Maybe that's why she says she never felt like a girl. But its sad, it's as if she doesn't realize that she, herself, is an amazing girl!
girls love you back 🫶
Nah. Not every girl likes her, and that's fine. They are allowed not to. She's not a "girls' girl" to me.
Billie has been secretly longing for a hot, sexy girlfriend for years. But she masked it with her constant talk of a crush on Justin Bieber for some reason.
Nah, some girls don't like her, and they have the right not to. She's not a "girls' girl".. or at least not to me. 😒
@@StephenDoty84 yk lesbians have had 'beiber' hair since it was even a thing so maybe it was that? 🤔 im kidding
we knew she didnt mask it that well but maybe she was ready to come out yk bc there's a lot of stigma in music industry and there are a lot of stereotypes attached to it look at jojo siwa for example she made her sexuality her entire personality
Billie is Beautiful inside and out! 🌎 ✌ 💙 Love Wins.
I love her style, love her voice, love her talent, love her songs, and I’m 63. I’ve never been “girly” either, and I’m getting so sick of the crap about what women are supposed to be.
A lot of us dont feel like one of the girls. And then one day you wake up and realize that’s a good thing.
mmmm ur comment doesn’t sit right w me. it’s giving “not like other girls” vibes.
@@aylapatton2922 and that is a good thing. Girls in general are mean to each other if not to your face behind your back. And sadly it's usually bc of boys.
@@dawnolivo9645Maybe that's just the girls you attract? Or a tired stereotype and you have confirmation bias.
@@aylapatton2922nah this is “not one of the girls” instead of “not like other girls” very different
I wish girls would bound together for something else than their "femininity". More girls would fit in with other girls and there would be less rejection. And it would be more authentic since "femininity" is just a social construct.
I feel the exact same way
This made me cry, i love her ❤❤❤
Awwww love this Billie 🫶💕
And you are amazing Billie.
Such a beautiful human being
Billy, my child noticed you before I did, which was over 4 years ago. Since then you’ve became my hero of personal freedom, though before I used to think our country’s soldiers are. I am a U.S. Army combat veteran, and since my deployment I went through several changes, but I guess the most significant and full-filling is my new gender identity! I can’t say I’m a fully grown girl yet, but I know I’m not a man anymore! If you are reading this I want you to know how much you mean to me, us, and the whole world!!!
Keep writing us songs, keep singing them because you are our voice, our heart, our mind & soul!!!
Love ya,
Gabriell
Omg she describes how I feel my whole life with regards to relationships with women… esp when I was a child. I have no idea how to fit in with the girls
LITERALLY
Absolutely no clue
That’s such a vibe holy shit
I am so happy that at some point in my life i learned english because i get to enjoy this, thank you Natalie
You impressed me the day I realized I liked women. I was 13, ended up crying myself to sleep listening to “Wish U We’re Gay” and will NEVER forget that moment. You were there for my coming out, and I’m beyond proud to be seeing yours now.
Thank you!!!! He was such a misunderstood soul. It’s astounding how many people have tarnished his name, but in good faith I think more people have learned this. Rest easy KING.
yes yes yes she describes how i felt at her age
She is so sweet
We love you Billie!!! ❤❤
@leolifeOriginalum… who tf is we? It’s your opinion. Don’t drag us into this 💀
@leolifeOriginal this is a video about Billie and meant for the fans and curious people. Obv people will say they love her. Dk why you’d comment on something you hate. Makes zero sense to me…
@leolifeOriginal yes. and I’m okay with that bro 😂 I mean she is attractive but I don’t follow her every move or simp for her now. idc if you dislike her but this person liked her so there no reason to try to twist it and say that we don’t. Could’ve said “I don’t like her” instead of allat and it would’ve made more sense 💀 but tbh you’d never see me stalk or interact with media of someone I dislike 🤷🏾♀️❤️
Edit: Idk if my comment will get deleted for no reason bc of youtube but wtv
@leolifeOriginalwe don’t like you👹
My 23 yr. old granddaughter is listening to 'hit me hard and soft' on
repeat and I msg'd her because I had heard ' The Greatest' and it resonated so hard for me a 62 year old woman and it made me immediately made me think of her. It was a really good msg convo ( she was at work so couldn't call) it's nice to be able to connect with her over Billie's music.
I personally think that she is one of the most interesting, loveable women I've seen. More power to her ❤
So are you Billie your amazing too!
Don't worry Billie, we all love you ❤
I don't listen to her music but I felt this. I relate to this a lot!
Always being worried if girls hate me is so damn relatable!! I grew up and spent a lot of time with my boy family members, which also meant I was always spending a lot of time with their friends. I was always around boys, doing “boy” things, and being one of the “boys.” It became part of who I was, so much so that I realized I was uncomfortable around girls or making new friends with girls. Adults always pointed this out about me. I didn’t mind, but I knew it was something different about me. When I got older and puberty hit and all the weird ages started happening, I became so self conscious about it. All of a sudden, I worried so much if girls liked me. Worried if they thought I was being a “pick me girl,” because of how natural I could be around the guys. A lot of girls wanted to date my boy family members and I started to worry if they only were trying to be my friend to get to them. I don’t know, that worry about girls hating me actually has always kind of consumed me from a young age. It’s nice to know that I’m not the only girl who has had those feeling. Billie puts feelings into words so well. I truly admire her for it.
I can relate to that so much. Im glad girls of these new generations have people like Billy to relate to❤
❤. I LIKE GIRL WHO LIKE GIRLS. ❤. WE LOVE YOU!!! 🌎☮️
😊girls are so wonderful in so many ways❤❤❤
Billie is a cool person.
Well said! Your work & genuine talent helps girls see how rad they are. Thank You! 💖
I recently watched a video where Billie Eilish was tearfully expressing her love for Justin Bieber and voicing her worries about never finding someone who measures up to him. Following that, she posted this. In my opinion, social media and the internet have significantly distorted the minds of young people. This phenomenon isn’t limited to the youth; older generations are affected too. However, when young people share what they believe to be profound insights, it often sounds like confusion.
I'm not judging; it truly saddens me. No one should have to endure the kind of confusion that young people face today. The need for validation is more rampant than ever, and it contributes to many societal problems. It seems there's nothing that young people aren’t confused or worried about these days, celebrities included.
Let’s be honest-many young girls aspire to emulate their idols. While everyone should have the freedom to live as they choose, it’s never wise to have the blind leading the blind.
I COMPLETELY and WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree..she sounds just confused. "I felt at one with the girls "
...next line "i never felt like a girl".
What does that feel like? Also wanting to impress other girls is a natural feeling we have when we want another girl to like us and be our friend. I have it even as an adult. But yes..these young people are.exposed to muuuuch more than i ever wa😢s growing up. Especially transgender and non binary content. I believe it exists but in muuuuch smaller numbers than it seems these days. Also what has impacted this is gender ROLES over the years
Poeple are confused. Men expect women to ask them out. A lot pd females have expressed more masculine traits bc of high divorcw rates many women have to raise families alone and work and do so much. I believe in general we are so diverse as ppl. There are variety of different kind of men and women in they world. Find what it means to you and find happiness and self acceptance in your skin.
its like shes explaining my life❤
I get it. I love being a girls girl 💕 Its nice to be there for your own. I feel like a girl but its okay that you dont. At one point in my life, i didnt either. We dont hate you billie 🥰
She's so eloquent and expressive with her vulnerabilities and doesn't play the victim. She doesnt seem to have an agenda except to answer the question in the best way she knows how. She's so grounded even through the uncertainties...I hope she remains grounded and genuine always
She’s beautiful inside and out ❤
Im the same, i want friends that are girls so bad,I think it was the women/girls around me that made it hard to be a girls girl
We are BADASSS!! Even the boys want to be girls. Being a girl is amazing even if we overthink things. I would never want to be any but a girl.
I don’t think so. Why would guys want to be girls? No guys want to be girls but good try
You are an Adoreable Soul Billie
She is so genuine in every she does ❤
I think you are one of the best examples of a "girl" that the mainstream media needed to present to the world. Hollyweird took a big breathe of fresh air when you graced them with you're originality and authenticity. I truly mean that with every neuron in my body! You and the integrity you carry with you is just as beautiful as your physical attractiveness Billie. Girls are fucking amazing ❤❤❤
I've never related to something so much!
Wow… I never thought I’d relate so strongly with Billie on anything, but here we are!
she gets me
❤kind hearted, loving u too