Why You Are Addicted To Stuff | Consumerism
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Our lives revolve around stuff. We spend our days working to afford things, our free time buying things, and our weekends organizing things. Stuff creates unnecessary stress, anxiety, and a feeling of being overwhelmed; however, we still seek a life full of stuff because we are addicted to our things. In this video, I talk about why we are addicted to stuff.
"5 Reasons Why You Are Addicted To Stuff"
1. Social Conditioning
Despite what we're told, as humans we do not have complete free will. We do have a choice on how we live our lives; however, a huge part of who we are comes from social conditioning, which is "a set of rules and behaviors dictated by society." From an early age, we are conditioned to seek happiness through stuff. Over time as we make more money, we become addicted to stuff because we have been conditioned by society to seek happiness that way. As you get older and are able to think more critically, it is important to question where your beliefs and values come from.
2. Ego
One of the biggest factors that will determine how you spend your money is "Ego." When someone has a big ego, they are more likely to become addicted to stuff. This is because they want to be noticed as "better" than other people because they have more. Having a big ego will make people buy into this materialistic idea that stuff determines worth in this world. It is important to check your ego every now and then, and understand what your stuff says about you.
3. Filling A Void
Everyone in this world has problems. And most people choose to deal with their problems through eating or buying. We act as if we can buy our way out of problems. As if by spending money on material possessions, we can resolve our problems; however, it doesn't work. Many people become addicted to stuff by trying to use stuff to fill a void in their life. It is important to find internal ways to solve your problems instead of constantly reaching external for solutions.
4. Memories
In the world of minimalism, people often talk about "decluttering." Many people want to live a more minimalist life, but have difficulty due to feeling attachment with their material possessions. The reason that we have trouble with letting go with our things is that we have created memories with our things. So we keep buying new things, but have trouble getting rid of the old things, which creates this addiction we have with stuff. It is important to know that just because you are letting go of an object does not mean that you are also letting go of the memory.
5. Greed
Some people justify living a very materialistic life by saying, "Humans are inherently greedy." That consumerism is who we are and we are destined to live this way. This can cause someone to go down a road of self destruction because it makes them look for answers in places where they cannot be found. Living a life of greed creates this addiction to stuff. It is important to seek a better world by helping others and not being greedy.
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How do you fight the addiction with stuff?
I have to let go. It's just stuff. It's not me. It is so hard to do. Especially the things that have memories attached. But I must!
Live in the forest
By watching your videos and other frugal TH-cam channels!
I live in 150 sq ft! That took care of any addiction to stuff! 🤣 I also don't want to leave a bunch of crap when I leave this world for my family to have to deal with.
Get addicted to accounting if you want to get addicted. Or addicted to thinking. H Ford said thinking is the hardest thing man can do and that’s why so few do it.
Minimalism saved my life. I live with almost no possessions now and just finished paying off all my debt (50 grand or so). Now I have about 7 grand saved up and feel free. Now I work to save instead of spend. I have so much free time I can now read about 15 books a month. I didn’t need any of the junk i bought or collected it only held me back. The debt pay is major benefit.
Fantastic, you should read the book Rich dad poor dad. It will change your thinking about time and money. Enjoy
That’s amazing! Well done to you! I am on a similar path. Targeting paying off my mortgage in the next 5 years (by the time I’m 45) then reducing how much I work to part time so I can spend more time doing what makes me happy :)
wow this is amazing. I need this. i have an addiction to collecting Old toys. Ive tried getting away from it for years. but im addicted!! I keep trying to buy old toys from my childhood and its holding me back.
7k is laughable saving. I have a looot more, but still consider myself broke. You need about $1M per decade of life per person! Are you dying soon? How are you feeling free with almost no savings? (Oh, I've never even had debt. Yes, even on minimum wage! Even disabled with no income! Debt is a terrible idea 😂)
@@dean4125 Are you a bloody child? 😂🤦🏻♀️ Take responsibility for your life, or addiction will do it for you. And you won't like it, none of entitled selfish men-children do. Stop your spoiled behaviour and establish correct habits! No more excuses! Unless you're ok with the price you'll pay.
Letting go of half of the things in my house to donations is the best decision that I have recently made. I don’t miss none of it! I do not go in any store to buy anything unless it’s a necessity and written down on paper. I’m not falling into the trap again of wasting money on nonsense. Starting over with less stuff changed everything for the better. ❤️ this video it’s all so true 👌
But you can make good money buying & selling stuff common go get some more stuff 😂
My friend recently had to deal with emptying his parents house and selling off or disposing of all the stuff collected and accumulated over the years. It took months to deal with it all. It’s an eye opener for myself, since I also have a lifetime of “stuff”.
Is your friend's name Mark or Paul? Paul is my husband. Mark is his brother.
Really enjoying your videos!
I embraced minimalism about 3 years ago. At 52, it was one of my best decisions.
Through being focused and intentional:
We live free of credit card debt.(Although we still use them).
We paid off both of our cars and haven't had a car payment now in years.
We paid off our (massive) student loans.
And now we are steadily building our nest egg/retirement funds. Our monthly cost of living has dropped dramatically...and our peace of mind has greatly increased.
I have become immune to advertising and keeping up with the Joneses.
I deleted Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter years ago, and I am so much happier.
Rejecting consumerism is directly correlated to happiness.
Now, my happiness comes from learning guitar, learning foreign languages, working out, spending time with my wife and dog, hiking, biking, etc.
Thanks for all your great videos. Keep it up!
Thanks!
Same age and u and almost living same life! Except.. I teach guitar. I’m even immune to buying new guitar stuff. Yep live in the moment with your wife and pets. Kudos
I can definitely say that part of my obsession with buying possessions and owning had to do with the fact that I felt like it was a substitute for other things that I was missing in my life such as romantic love, parental approval, or wanting to appear better or more well off!
Why don't you focus on building those relationships, instead of harming yourself financially? Seems weird...
It took me 39 years to realise this (I'm now a 42 year old minimalist). Congrats, you won!
I'm the same,.... I need maximum 50£a week for shopping. 2023 in the UK.
I don't own much (own and old car, rent a small place) and thankfully have no debt. And that is mentally and physically freeing to me. I was diagnosed with ADHD as a child and have learned over the years that living with less helps with anxiety. Where I live, owning fancy cars and big houses is just what you do. And instead of jealousy, I feel pity. What a huge burden that has to be.
AJ I too have ADHD and find that clutter and disorganization causes me stress. I paid my properties and have 0 debt. I live a simple and minimalist life. I am at my happiest with having less. So many people around me are lost in the rat race. It looks sad and stressful from my poverty....no thanks!
I too see ppl who have big cars and houses or 2-3 houses and I’m so not jealous I feel for them because those things take from you! You have the worry of up keep and the things associated and I also feel ppl who need expensive cars houses need them because they lack something 🤷🏼♂️
4:43 "We're more addicted to stuff when we have big egos." Thank you Agustin for this. It's a simple fact, but eye opening for me personally. The more we want to compare favourably to others, the more stuff we buy, so we can shine in comparison to them - and the more debt we accumulate as a result. Wonderful video as always.
It's egocentric entitlement, when a broke person buys things they don't deserve (like a huge tv, Mac everything, car or house.. paid with borrowed $). Earn it, then spend it. Otherwise you definitely do not deserve it! Plus, you're self-enslaving yourself with interest rates etc, which is idiоtic 😂 Why would any sane person get into DEBT?! 😂 That sounds stuрid as fuсk.
I make myself do "no spend" days and weeks. I quit drinking almost two years ago, and need very little as far as daily purchases. I paid off $50,000 in debt, and bought my house. it was not an expensive house. Now I need maybe $1,600-$2,000 a month to exist. That's health insurance, food, utilities, gas, everything. I can spend $100 and eat for two weeks. Yes, two weeks. In 2023.
But u are existing not living
I'm honestly inspired by this to increase my savings.
Well done
@@Matowix He "exist" with a big smile 😃 all the way to the BANK. 💰.....
Curious,,,, what type of groceries do u buy ?? Aldi ??
Buying stuff is a temporary “ fix”…how well I know this. I had $20,00O in credit card debt..it’s all paid off now, but I spent a lifetime of buying “stuff” trying to rationalize reasons for doing so. Now ( and yes, I’m 86, gratefully in good health, still working part time, and hiking weekly with my daughter. Austin..even now you keep me in tow lol. You are so wise, and your videos should be used in schools! Continued blessings! 💕
I agree! Middle and high school kids need to watch his videos!
Thanks!
Wow, so happy I didn't get into debt. Sounds like a horrible idea 😂 I'm 43, disabled for over a decade. No income. I'd never even consider borrowing! I adjust lifestyle instead. Find joy in real things, like creating, connecting, enjoying nature... not buying junk 🤦🏻♀️
Humans are not greedy, they are envious. We want what others have, to make us feel better.
1 thing I discovered (the hard way) many years ago was that stuff often begets more stuff.
That is, we bought the little camper at a great price. But now we need cords and hoses and accessories, cookware and a cover for the camper. Now our older car isn't pulling it quite right and......
It's often not as simple as a single purchase - especially when larger ticket items.
We end up feeding our stuff with more stuff 😵💫😄
Nice discussion Austin. I know a lot of people that are "pack rats." They can't get rid of anything. My brother's wife was like that. She died a couple of years ago and left him a house full of her stuff. She had boxes of stuff she didn't even know what was in there. My brother doesn't know what to do with it so it just sits there taking up all sorts of space in his house. I think people should consider the problems they are leaving behind when they part this Earth and leave their stuff.
Swedish Death Cleaning is exactly that. My friends actually have a business helping people like your brother with the stuff their loved one left behind. It takes a crew of 4-6 a solid week to go through someone's lifetime of "unmade" decisions.
You are right, it is a kindness to consider going through your stuff so you don't further burden your family postmortem.
I hope he gets through it and releases it from his home.
Much love from the Midwest US 💖
@@SdW.8 Thanks for the comment
Absolutely. The best gift you can give your family is to clean out your house of all the junk. Stuff you haven't touched in 5 years either goes in the trash 🗑, recycling center, or donate.
@@SdW.8 I was just about to say "Swedish Death Cleaning." It sounds so grim, but it's as essential as committing to an exercise schedule or a healthier diet. You're not only being kinder to yourself, but to everyone else in your life....in case some unexpected event forces them to deal with your stuff. I like how you called these things "unmade decisions."
I hate stuff, looking after my friends house lately. She's rich and has the best of everything and I find most of the posessions annoying. The car that beeps with too many features, too many knobs, buttons and doors to troubleshoot. Love my little apartment with only what I want.
I'm addicted to stuff because I see everything as something I can make a video about. Before I did that, I had a movie studio so I saw everything as something that can be a prop in a film. If it wasn't for those two things, I want almost nothing whatsoever. I sometimes wonder what it would be like to have only enough to fit into a crate/suitcase or two on the backseat of a car, making me so mobile I could stay in one place for as little as a day. Not as a vacation, but as actually moving into and living in that place for just a day then moving on. Yep, daydream fantasies are nice. Cheers for the video dude!
The stuff you own also owns you
"Filling a void" is such an important point. We tend to believe that buying out things could fill the void, which never happens. I've been guilty of this. Still recovering. Don't really know the way out though. Some swings, some misses.
I had this issue a lot, but I decided to choose ONE incredible item that made me smile and remember the good times with them, put it under a glass cloche and displayed. I let everything else go, and couldn't remember anything else I got rid of, so feel infinitely lighter and happy.
Much love from the Midwest US 💖
@@SdW.8 such a sweet comment! Thank you. Much love to you too ❤️
Nope, only idiоts take on debt. Why would a sane person do that? 😂
And then, at the end of your life, your stuff ends up in landfills 😕
I'm most inclined to buy stuff -- even second-hand, inexpensive stuff -- when I'm looking for a distraction from issues that I'd rather not deal with (or don't know how to deal with in that moment). And even with this awareness, I STILL have to be careful about not falling down a rabbit hole searching for things on Amazon, from running shorts to vitamins -- it's soothing when life feels stressful.. (I recommend giving yourself at least 24-48 hours before actually purchasing what's in your cart -- it's amazing how often I come to my senses and empty my cart.) I don't consider myself especially materialistic but I was born with the collector's gene: I still have my childhood coin collection, more than 20 Ken dolls, and seventeen vintage sewing machines (don't ask). They all bring me (intermittent) pleasure, but sometimes I look at these things and think, Ugh; What is going to become of all this stuff? The answer is inarguable: either I, or somebody else, is going to have to get rid of it. Some of it will be re-homed and the rest will end up in a landfill. And if you've ever had to clear out somebody else's stuff, you know it's a gift to your loved ones to take care of if yourself so they won't have to.
Agustin, your excellent videos are helping me stay on track and be more mindful of when I'm slipping down that online-shopping rabbit hole (on my Mac, don't hate me), and to redirect my energy into something more healthful like going for a walk or talking to a friend. Muchas gracias!
I am trying to do the same. I wait before making a purchase. If I see something when I'm shopping that I think I want, I take a pic of it and then think about it. Lately I don't want anything! I've been decluttering and using up the stuff I already have. Feels good and the bank account is much better off for it!
I’m glad you put, “don’t ask” concerning the sewing machines, because I was going to 😂
Happy to hear you're changing your bad habits!
I don't think I am like most people. I can't stand shopping at all, even online.
I make a list to go grocery shopping and get in and out as fast as I can. Bleh shopping my least favorite thing.
I'm feel exactly the same.
Yeah, I'm not about it either. That's why you see me wearing the same shirts in every video, haha!
Hello Austin! Thank you for this video. I would like to share my experience with stuff.
Since the pandemic(and on going), I realized how quick and easy it is for someone to loose the things they most cherished, even if its just stuff. I recently moved to a new career from making just a little under 32k to 75k within less than a year thanks to doing research. However, I noticed now that I do have a better salary, I'm more afraid to buy anything outside of what I need.
I've seen people when they get the new salary, immediately buy into nice cars and super expensive apartments; stuff basically. And, when the big tech layoff thousands of talent, they all lost it just within a blink of an eye. Now all we see is "I just got layoff" videos scattering the youtube space.
This moment help me understand that the things I do have now from my old salary will still keep me afloat. I don't have the nicest apartment but I do have a cheap rent that I am thankful to have in such a weird time in history. My car is almost paid off and I don't have any kids.
Now that 75k looks like a 6-figure salary because I don't have much debt as much as others who completed 4 years of university or a for-profit school. I have room to clean up my debt and still enjoy my paycheck without worrying about if I can pay the utilities or being evicted.
As of right now, I am working towards building up my savings and making sure I have a nice emergency savings ready for anything. The money I save will hopefully help me retire early so I can finally do what I want to do full-time.
Hello! Thanks for sharing your story!
The Superbowl is the epitome of this, so marketed that they are even spending millions to sell Jesus. The ads, the 10 minute multi million dollar music show, to sports players are paid so much. Buy the jerseys, accessories, food, drinks, bigger, more and on and on
My path to simplicity includes a lot of stuff, but it's all old stuff. I inherited the house I grew up in. I don't need or want new stuff, or a bigger house. I'm not much of a consumer. I have no credit card debt, but I enjoy the comfort of my well made, nostalgic old stuff. You don't have to live a bare bones minimalist existence to follow the well thought out philosophy you explain so well. I do have to struggle to let some things go, but why should i get a new cutting board when the one that I remember my grandmother using in the 1950s is still just as good as it was then & I cherish her memory.
George Carlin spoke the truth in a funny way! Everything he said was true.
Amazing video I subscribed immediately!! sometimes less is more!!
Perfect time I watching this video while I getting ready to move I have been going through stressful days so much stuff to throw and donate feel like things are overwhelming me. I realized we don’t need so much stuff to look and feel happy
I’m trying minimalistic living…so far so good. Great content
Thanks!! I think this is one of the best videos you ever made!!
I love your videos. I like listening to this kind of stuff, minimalism, frugality, not spending, simple life, buy experience rather than stuff.... your videos are motivating! Love it, thanks. I just subscribed your channel after watching 6 videos of yours.
You touched on something quite profound...people fill the void by eating and/or buying. This is deeply ingrained in our way of life in this country. Is the essence of capitalism, which a great economic system but flawed in this way for most folks.
Which country? This is a worldwide channel. Nobody tells you to pig out or be a shopaholic. It's each individual's responsibility to build connections and create joy, nobody forces people into a "system". Earn, then spend. DEBT is bad, very bad, everyone knows that! Like eating beyond your requirements, or getting addicted to smartphones/smoking/drugs. People exercise their freedom of choice, and deserve exactly what they get as a result. Be responsible, not entitled.
One of your better and defining videos, thank you. A must watch video weekly, if not daily, to live a more empowered lifestyle on what really matters. Breaking bad habits a challenge but having videos such as yours a blessing. Gratitude.,
I was a huge freedom of mind when I distanced myself from wanting stuff and money. During the years I've worked to step by step get rid of all stuff that is non-essential to my everyday life or doing my work. If I spend money, I prefer spending it on something that makes it possible to do new things in my work. I do not buy anything that is nice to have or unnecessary. This does not mean one needs to live like a monk though. If something breaks, due to my history in electronics repair, I am capable to fix it, so I fix it until I see fit that the product has given me what it is supposed to give me in a reasonable product lifetime. For example a Philips water heater broke and I noticed it was designed to break from a plastic rod that controls the power switch inside. I fixed it two times until I got an idea how to fix it so that it will never break again. That water heater has been working for me now since for over 8 years (it was already 6 years old) and going strong. If the heating resistor happens to fail one day, then I consider it having given enough service life so that I can replace it and give it a Viking funeral with a hammer. Every time something breaks, I actually get a good feeling because it gives the opportunity to decide whether I want or need that product or can I just be without it. If I can be without, it gives a good feeling as I have one less thing in my life.
I needed to hear this hard to hear. But helpful. Im committed to using this profound heartbreaking information
Amazing again !
Glad to see following grow
Dave Ramsey watch out there’s a new man on the block.
Thanks!
This video is awesome!
We really need s national movemet to stop consuming and shift our economy to only used stuff.
Thank you. Great video to listen to today.
Nailed it once again!!👏👏
I couldn't agree more. I'd also like to recommend reading Gabor Mate's The Myth of Normal. It's such an excellent source of wisdom that shows how all this external conditioning erodes our interior. The ramifications of consumerism are so far reaching that most people can't even see the connections between the omnipresent bling-bling and depression, anxiety, aggression, and other psychological and social problems. As far as I'm concerned, I don't collect stuff. For instance, when I travel - and I travel extensively - I collect experiences, memories, relationships, and photography that reminds me of all that. All my life, I've wanted to reach a stage where I could literally feel like a nomad with little basic but good quality stuff that I could carry with me easily if need be. I'm slowly getting there. Así es, o debería ser, la vida, mi amigo 😊 Thanks for all the great ideas!
Today is the fourth week since I advanced my minimalism to a higher level: investing 75% of my (socially low-average) monthly paycheck (of an office worker) and live modestly with the remaining money. I threw away almost-never-used clothes given to me from relatives, who did not consider my preference. I eat two meals per day, skipping lunch to return my BMI to a normal stat. I stopped daily gaming. In holidays, I cycle around or go on vacation with my siblings on their car, taking turns to drive the vehicle.
I have a six-month worth of emergency fund and have life insurance. I owe nothing. Even in the worst-case scenario that today is the last day I am alive; I would be fine for not causing trouble to the social and the environment.
Absolutely right. Life is a lot better with less stuff ❤. I still love to shop, but only buy when I really need something. Decluttering made me realise how much stuff I used to buy that I never even used. It was still in the original wrapping so I gave it all away to people that loved it or threw it away. And what they do with it....I don’t care as long as it is gone from my house 😂
It always comes down to choices! Everything we do and buy affects options in the future! Thank you for this great video that reminds me to enjoy what i have already! (I have covid and am bedrodden but when this fever breaks, I'll get out my art suplies and do some drawing.)
This is the perfect channel for my new year's resolution: living with less materialistic burden. Thank you Austin for the great content! You think and speak so wisely for your age. And you had me at quoting George Carlin 😁
Wonderful explanation, thank you.
Great ideas as always ❤❤
Gracias por tus videos caballero.. Having a big ego has always been a bad thing
1. Social conditioning. 2. Ego. 3. Filling a void. 4. Memories. 5. Greed. I think #5 is directly related to #1.
I loved the book The Psychology of Money. It's a very good read.
Yeah, a very good book!
The best video I have ever watched in my life on TH-cam! well said.
Thanks!
Totaly agree with that! Money is worth when you have and save him if you spend a lot that means that your money doesnt exist.Only good thing is to buy a realstates not stupid cars!
Hi Austin, that's a good and true video. Thank you!
Thanks for watching!
Thanx for another great one, Agustín! 🙃😊
Great lessons!
That's so true: we see this as a way of life.
You just made me realize that the must important things I can learn my kids are to try to teach them that time and freedom is more valuable than stuff. We do the same thing that you just said, all they wish for is stuff! How can I make them value time and experiences more will be a big task going forward.
Have a great day “Augustin” 🤩🤩
Hello Jon! It's hard to go against culture where everyone thinks similar. It's like swimming upstream. Especially with kids as I know there's only so much parents can do as once they enter school as there is so many other things influencing them. With my niece and nephew who just started school it's interesting to see how much they change as they get embarrassed, say bizarre phrases, and follow trends. Best of luck with your task and I always appreciate you taking the time to comment on my videos!
@@ElAgustin great point. I guess I’ll have to focus on what I can do, and also realize that they have to learn by themselves when they are adults. There’s a lot my mom said when I was a kid I thought made no sense at all, but no it really does 👍🏼
I admire the work you’ve put into building your platform in the timeframe you have. 🥂
Thanks! It ain't easy!
Awesome video !
We work at jobs to afford stuff.
We spend our free time buying stuff.
We spend our weekends organizing stuff.
Our whole life revolves around stuff.
Great video!
As soon as I heard George Carlin i hit like in less then a millionth of a split second of a split second. That's how much I respect his way of thinking, and bombarding in the face through comedy.Nice job Austin.
I think the best comedians are the one who just state facts. Near the end of his career, it didn't even seem like he was trying to be funny! But he's hilarious! Hands down one of the best of all time!
Love you book reviews ❤️
I'm addicted to throwing crap out.
I just came across you..gems of advice .thank you 🌹
I love George Carlin's but stuff. My in laws died and left a houseful of stuff nobody finds valuable. We donated some of it but tossed the rest. We filled at least 6 dumpsters with their stuff. My emergency funds were cleared this year. I'm refilling them. Doing that turned me into a minimalist. I don't want my nieces and nephews to have to spend so much time tossing our stuff.
It's in our DNA to always want. Thusly I'd prefer to always want a better bed or a new food than want a private jet with a private Island to match.
As we age we mellow down a lot.Needs come down drastically .The paradox is that massive savings happen by default if one has built a diversified and income generating portfolio of assets.In my case I am thinning down my vast collection of antiques at every opportunity and have decided not to buy anything other than basic needs from now on.The goal for me is to enjoy every moment of my retirement by engaging in sports and fineart and other hobbies.Cheers from Bangalore.
Yes Yes Yes!!! spot on video.
Gimmeee gimmmeee, more more, more! 😂
Feels great and I love experiencing it from my vantage point.
Greetings from Brazil!! I'm loving your videos.
Sou de SP, 🇧🇷
Greetings!
Awesome video
Awesome video as always. El Augustin, what day you usually post a new video?
Monday and Friday at 7MT. I've managed to not miss a post in the last 3 months!
There are many ways to view having stuff. I believe in having quality possessions and not buying junk. One analogy I liked was from the movie Gran Torino where Clint Eastwood tells Tao that everything in his garage has a purpose and use and was acquired over the course of 45 years. At first glance it looks like a bunch of junk, but everything has to have a place and has a use. I plan on being like that. Getting to a point where everything I own has a purpose and place.
I like your point of view. You're not a consumer for the sake of having more stuff. You plan & focus to make things work for you, managing your life & possessions.
I hope you don't have DEBT. Borrowing is truly idiоtic and preventable self-harm, just like overeating or addiction to internet (social media and streaming) and toxins (smoking, hard drinking, heavy drugs). There's also addiction to complaining and negative thinking patterns.
I just leave my front door unlocked and not surprisingly I now have less stuff lying around in my house. Problem solved!
I loved the ending of your videos
Me gusta tu español, Agustín
this is a great video austin........
Thanks!!
Watching your videos has made me see certain people 9n a different light.
I know lots of milennials and gen y'ers who practice this minimalist philosophy not just in their attics and garages but in their minds as well....
People are absolutely greedy and self centered by default. BUT. We can be taught to improve. All kids need to be taught to share, right? Some are just quicker to pick up on the joy of helping others.
Financial literacy is a personal responsibility of every adult. Each parent is also legally obligated to create basic financial understanding in their children, to ensure correct development, adoption of discipline and delayed gratification principles. No, I don't want teachers brainwash by son to take on DEBT, like losers (aka average individuals). Every person exercises freedom of choice, and will reap the results of the decision (be it good or bad).
@Austin Williams if you ever do a Q & A video, please tell us how did you create your new background?
Noticed you have Shantaram. Fantastic book.
Gracias amigo por incluir algunas palabras en nuestro idioma.
Sigo tus videos y todos ellos me resultan muy útiles e interesantes.
Un saludo 😊
I was so spoiled as a child. My Grandmother bought me everything I wanted and all the best cloths. I don’t know if it was because she was so poor growing up or to make up for an absentee Dad. But it so hard to stop seeking comfort from buying things.
This "unboxing" culture is destroying our brains
Nope. We are destroying our own brains by making a bad choice. It's on us, it's our responsibility to watch or do what is valuable to us, not harmful. Personal responsibility, self-development, delayed gratification and discipline, let's focus guys!
@@mikesamovarov4054 I agree with you
Amen to that.
I'm 73. I've never had or wanted much "stuff". My mom's stuff filled 3 closets and several dressers. She saved papers and trash. My dad used to beg her to throw
stuff out. Tina, Al's wife
When I was 6 i was in a shop with my father and saw a toy helicopter. I asked if i could have it an d he said no. I asked if i could buy it with my own pocket money expecting him to say yes. He said no. I was 6 but i got the subtext even then. I never, ever buy on impulse.
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Smart fellow.
Not smart, as he just stated the obvious. Those concepts aren't new, dear.
Your rat race themed videos are really interesting and make us all think in a good way!
Love George Carland 💙
Hey Austin I’m addicted to anything that’s a “replica” and cheap looking as long as I’m getting it free or getting some type of payment to showcase to people that don’t buy it and I don’t like to spend money and I look it too lol god bless you hence that’s why I’m never showcasing taking my son shopping or shopping as a ‘married’ family my mother said I’m slowly but surely turning him into a female and with his tendencies…do you think this should be a discussion with my husband(he) during our movie time when we’re eating donuts and candy? Thank you
I AGREE !!!!!
Another way of putting it is...... Stuff a life of pursuing stuff!
The point of life is to find a place to put your stuff. This is so true that i can't describe. Still laughing :)
Nice plant.
Emotional attachment but its actually the anger, fear and sadness factors that we accumulated and hold on to this crap.....not happiness......we got it all twisted.
This is a very interesting video, thank-you.
I feel very lucky that, as a non-American, I have more than $1000 US sitting in a bank account I’ve named “USD Vacay” for US and foreign travels.
I am not a wealthy Canadian. I am 29 and have only earned enough to barely be considered “middle class” (2/3 to 2x median income) the past three years, 2020-22.
I do certainly see that many people spend way too much on “stuff”, even if it is nice. Two different former friends really annoyed me when I asked them to go skiing and they replied something along the lines of “I’m not rich”. The implication that I am is what annoyed me. Both of these guys were from more financially prosperous families than me and were personally making more money than me at the time. They both had the newest high-end smartphones and financed late model vehicles that cost more in payments annually than my car was worth. Had they said “I would but I can’t afford to right now” I’d have understood and not felt a little peeved.
How do you clean up after overaccumulation, the elimination process?
Garage sale
Convenience stores are the worst soda's beer energy drink chips cigarettes and the list goes on
You don't have to shop there 😂
Hey Chico!
Most everyone is addicted to stuff. I am. It takes willpower to focus. I try to pinpoint the most important things to spend money on, and save and invest the rest. Thanks.
If you take on an identity of a financially responsible person, no willpower is needed. You'll have a solid HABIT to act in your self-interests, not bank's. Borrowing and getting into debt wouldn't even cross your mind! Become a financially responsible individual. Or pay for your bad decisions, no pitty.