Develop Your Emotional Resilience

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  • @user-sr6rb7tq5y
    @user-sr6rb7tq5y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Radha ji, mother of Riya, odserved change in the behavior of Riya. One day when Riya was studying, she unusually kept her hand on her head with book placed on her lap. Radha approached her and enquired for any trouble, but she denied to have any. Radha continued to enquire indirectly, showing empathy to her and gaining empathy of her, and got to know that she is facing difficulties in academics. She is unable to sustain the studied text in mind and bit confused about which online teacher to follow for specific subject ,in the covid period. Radha assured her that this happen to all and one can overcome it easily. She suggested her not to self doubt herself while reading any subject and ensure to revise it periodically. For the teacher, you need to stick to one that sound understandable to you irrespective of your friends and his followers. Riya followed her mother's words and easily overcame the problem and Radha continued to motivate and help her.

  • @rupendrasharma2965
    @rupendrasharma2965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpfull sir......apne reality bta di h ...thanku sir🙏

  • @praneshwagh8311
    @praneshwagh8311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are really providing QUALITY 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @RaviKumar-dz3bx
    @RaviKumar-dz3bx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir many a times u say that a person with suicidal attempts in the past can never got recommended, but at the same time u have also mentioned about Nick Vijicic who had tried several suicide attempts unsuccessfully, but today he is an inspiration to lots of people, so lively he is and today he, in ur words has Mental Resilience, even in ur one of the past lecture u have discussed about some of the officers who have committed suicide because of certain reasons and one of them was Maj. General.I seek clarity on this,

    • @afosop
      @afosop  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      if SSB detects such tendency in the past, they will not consider you even if you are transformed ...

    • @RaviKumar-dz3bx
      @RaviKumar-dz3bx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If anyone has even one such incident in the past, he/she should stop hoping to join the Indian Armed Forces as an officer?

  • @sajankumar-wd9mr
    @sajankumar-wd9mr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thku You sir you are working on loyality and your thoughts towards armed forces is to be respected . This organisation only need those candidates which deserve to be there
    Jai Hind

  • @pranshuchauhan5988
    @pranshuchauhan5988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir your videos give 500% clarity
    It touched our inner consciousness
    And motivate us to work upon our mistakes

  • @neerajkaprii4334
    @neerajkaprii4334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reena, a 17 year old girl studying in class 12th. Once on her half yearly examination she had got less marks in it, when she was her result she didn't feel well and after coming in home she started crying. She also realised her mistakes that she didn't prepare well and lacked in her preparation . She then told this to her parents , also she told them reasons why she got less marks. Her parents supported her and added not to feel bad about it they advised her to look for her mistakes and fix them. She felt very good as her parents supported her. she assured them she will work hard , score well and do not let them down in future.

  • @Tlf27
    @Tlf27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Informational and Good for self reflection.

  • @thenoobiegamer0924
    @thenoobiegamer0924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    each word of yours is true sir 🇮🇳❤

  • @MonuKumar-hz9gi
    @MonuKumar-hz9gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We indians really don't take mental deseases seriously . After watching this video I also found some traits in me and now I understand why I think and behave in particular manner . Your video are really helpful

  • @gyaniupdategk4337
    @gyaniupdategk4337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir these videos are too much helpful video I think if I guide like this then I recommended in very first attempt

  • @IndieIAS
    @IndieIAS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello sir, i have been your privileged student. Since you are doing so much efforts for us, I would like to point you another major issue that most of the defence aspirants are facing. Most of them are not having a real backup which can give them that level of satisfaction that army/navy/air force gives. Most of the candidates don't even know what career to pursue if ssb doesn't works out. Although they may say some career backup in interview, but their heart knows the reality. They prepare stories, sd, gto etc whole day which leads to wastage of their precious time. Hence they get anxious during the journey of selection. Had they prepare for their backup simultaneously with ssb, i think they would have performed much better.

    • @IndieIAS
      @IndieIAS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Evolver Amit you might have observed.. most of defence aspirants just think and act as if they have removed their deficiencies. They start running, trecking for 5-6 hrs daily then meeting friends for 2-3 hours, watching sir's videos and think that they have resolved everything. But when they get rejected, every activity that they used to do is left. Had they work on plan B, they could have balanced everything and would have seen the holistic picture of their situation in ssb. I too came in this vicious trap but after comming in contact with sir, i realized it although it took some time..

  • @harshdeepsingh5650
    @harshdeepsingh5650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks a lot sir for touching this sensitive topic , this emotional instability is very common nowadays be it teenagers or any other age group also. so thanks a lot for giving us clarity, not only for ssb but also for the smooth conduct of daily life in every dimension.

  • @sunverkumar9510
    @sunverkumar9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jai hind sir
    I watched this video thoroughly .
    The things which makes you different from others that you don't compromise with your value system ...you want to grow but with right value system...
    The topic you discussed here is imp for everyone ...thanks for your efforts

  • @sidharthrana5526
    @sidharthrana5526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou sir for this type of vdo i am also dealing with this type of problem specially social fear thankyou sir

  • @meenakshisharma9461
    @meenakshisharma9461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Meenakshi was crying and feeling devastated. She gave NEET exam a month ago and she had dropped the year for examination. Result came few min. ago and she is not selected. She is devastated and completely blank in the moment. Her mom came and saw her like this and hugged her and tries to make her to stop crying. Her mother asks to calm down and listen to her. She asks may be something was not up to point in your analysis of exam. Now the things have become past you need to accept reality. Let us focus on what we have . You are capable of everything , future awaits for you my child. Analyse the streams in which you are interested and we will fill the forms and get you admission. Best is yet to come my love. Meenakshi feels blessed for such a supporting and understanding family and gets life moving in the new direction.

  • @vinodkamble392
    @vinodkamble392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No word's sir You're awesome sir

  • @user-cn8js4qz9v
    @user-cn8js4qz9v ปีที่แล้ว

    Great one hlps to Cntrl the Emotion

  • @deepakdalal3203
    @deepakdalal3203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir ji dil se salute h aapko ....ur the only Ex_ ssb accessor who give more emphasis on correcting the approch of life ....

  • @rishikeshdevtale3263
    @rishikeshdevtale3263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unfortunately we are not focusing on requirements of stimulus or problems presented not only in ssb but also in life rather than we focus on problems or obstacles and shift our focus from goal to obstacles and cry for situations presented by obstacle. So all we need to understand the requirements for clearing or solving problems in life and act accordingly...this is the prominent thing I have learned from this video sir

  • @ankurt675
    @ankurt675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Plz continue this session

  • @srishtibhardwaj5716
    @srishtibhardwaj5716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir it is nice to know that I can relate to only some of these issues......and at correct time.......
    Thankyou sir...🙏

  • @dineshsingh-ds9dp
    @dineshsingh-ds9dp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely truth revealed today sir thanks alot . I lear that our choices can make us or break us and selection of choices come from emotional resilience thanks alot sir

  • @11sritamdas32
    @11sritamdas32 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hlo sir, myself sritam
    i was relatable all those points which u explained in perfect manner. i was try to rectify all the problems which i faced like overthinking,lack of timemanage ment ,low self esteem
    i found that all those videos of yours are really helpfull for me and ya its long process hope and would takes time, I surely improve myself
    all credit goes to u sir,
    thanku so much

  • @vemuladivya8940
    @vemuladivya8940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Between the age 5-21 years:
    Parents, siblings, relatives, friends, society, social media and yourself. We will not even know how time went and how we are behaving the way we behave. We are not aware and we will not try to become aware of our own self because of the things which are constantly pressurizing us.
    At someday we must question if we don't want to live like this. We must be aware of our own self.
    But We the people who want to lead and join defense - We must be aware.
    When we can't lead ourselves how can we lead an elite organization ?
    I am really very thankful to you sir for bringing this clarity in us for personality development which nobody literally NOBODY will discuss( of course some don't even aware that these things are there).
    I can tell that I am the most benefitted girl by your videos because I took responsibility to lead myself before becoming an officer.
    Thank you very much sir !!!
    JAI HIND.

    • @afosop
      @afosop  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God Bless you Dear Divya ...🙏

    • @vemuladivya8940
      @vemuladivya8940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@afosop Thank you sir!!!

  • @Vijaykumar-dn7kg
    @Vijaykumar-dn7kg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sir
    If we have resiliencethen we can handle every situation in Armd forces as well as in life.

  • @officer_for_life
    @officer_for_life 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anwesha is a student of class 11.she has a large friend circle in school,And many of her friends are in her locality also. Anwesha lives with her mother & maternal grand mother. Her father & mother were divorced at the time of her birth.She didn't like her father & her whole universe was around her mother & grandmonther. One day she had gone to attend one of her friend's birthday party, in the middle of the party all of them were having discussion regarding their father everyone in the party have said how their fathers are hero of their life,But when Anwesha was asked to say something about her father she..was unable to speak a single word..there was a great conflict of thoughts in her mind after listening other...views. Some of them started mocking Anwesha regarding her father ..after a limit she was unable to bear and she slapped one of her friend and went away of the party crying.She reched her home and locked herself in her room crying. But after a while her mother comes to her and she shares her about the party,Her mother explains her about the society,she makes her understand that she will have to bear and counter fight the society....earlier she had also beared a lot of humiliations & overcome it.she explains her the importance of internal strength. She gets motivated by the experiences shared by her mother. It makes her believe that if her mom could be so strong then why not she. In this way she overcame and the very next day she met her friends with a smile on her face.

  • @sunverkumar9510
    @sunverkumar9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Story 1:-
    Shivani was a young girl of 23 yrs old. She completed her studies and selected for a job in MNC Company in Delhi. She is from a small village so his father not allowed her to go to city alone and did job. She felt helpless and start weeping.
    Finally she discussed with his elder brother and asked him to convince father.His elder brother convinced his father that she was talented and independent so she can manage in city. He also assured his father that she would not let your honour tarnished. His father allowed her to did job in Delhi. She thanked her brother for resolving matter

  • @mandeepsinghdhaliwal9041
    @mandeepsinghdhaliwal9041 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice sir g, very informative video

  • @englishforimprovement1706
    @englishforimprovement1706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an incredible video sir. It has brought
    stir inside because truth always makes one think that's why it seems bitter.
    Thanku so much sir for changing the thought. It made me statue for sometime I went so deep in thinking.
    Wish you sir of your good health.🙏🙏🙏

  • @rajyavardhansinghumath4054
    @rajyavardhansinghumath4054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jai hind Sir,
    Character - F, -Ve, 15-20 Y
    F +Ve , 20-25 Y
    Action - Failure in NEET examination and supported by elder sister.
    Story- Neha was preparing for NEET examination form last two year, this year she gave 12 th and NEET examination and cleared 12 th exam but could not clear the NEET exam and because of that she was very upset ,her elder sister understands the situation and supported to Neha and convinced the parents for one more year prepation and then both review the her exam and made list of weak topic of all subjects and also took the guidelines of experts and help of internet. Neha followed her own schedule and also practice the previous year exam papers and slowly 2 Neha increased her knowledge and confidence and next year she gave the exam and cleared it , Neha thanks to her sister for support.

  • @lavanyaraj7955
    @lavanyaraj7955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a useful video. Sir, i couldn't stop laughing when you said 50:08 "dhakka pass, toh baaki sab than than gopal" 😂😂😂😂 I laughed so much it made me write this.

    • @pankajmeel727
      @pankajmeel727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahahaha even others statement was so humorous ... included PINKY 😂😂

  • @meetkumarbhatti5418
    @meetkumarbhatti5418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rani(16) is a school girl of 10th standard. One day after she returned to home from school, she did not talk to her mother and confined herself in her room. Takjng notice of such unusual behaviour of her daughter, Rani's mother went to her room and found that she was crying. She went to her and hugged her. In a very tending and caring way she asked her about such condition, Rani told her that she is not getting any company and cooperation from her peers in the school. All are makinh her fun all the time. Mother understood the problem and let her cry for sometime to take out all the exhaustion. On the lunch table where Rani's favourite food was served her mother talked to her about the matter and she energetically told her to build her own self confidence and that she shoukd not let anyone se affect her state of mind. She told her to be strong and self reliant and also to develop the confidence to face all types of situations, crying is not a solution. Rani was instilled with motivation and became confident to face peers in the class. Soon she was the one who lead her class friends.

  • @shrawanverma94
    @shrawanverma94 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sir it's really very helpful in life also apart from SSB....

  • @waheedakhan9899
    @waheedakhan9899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good guidance given.👍

  • @knotty_veteran9201
    @knotty_veteran9201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Priya a 18 year old girl joined a engineering college in her home town bhopal. Her english was quite weak and she did not use to talk to many peoples. In her college she use to listen that some of the students use to make fun of her. One day the proffessor asked her to explain the topic of diffraction to whole class, but she was not able to do that and hesitated. The students made joke of her. That day she talked about this to her mother and was very upset. Her mother gave her strength and told her to focus on the strong point she has. She told her to read english newspaper daily and watch personality development videos on youtube. Her mother helped her in being more extrovert and taught her life lessons. Day by day with practise priya got strong in both ways emotionally and socially. Now she use to raise her hand and try to answer question she knew. Students also got to know how good and intelligent she was. Soon she made many friends. She thanked her mother.

  • @maniklal7735
    @maniklal7735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u sir !

  • @gyaniupdategk4337
    @gyaniupdategk4337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seema was a 20 year old student of bsc biotechnology during her study she also prepare for cds competition exam both comptition and bsc she prepare togather but unfortunately she fails in her bsc exam in first semester, after this she become sad
    and afraid of her future and too much depressed in this difficulty his mother said that you should not prepare both exam together he suggested seema that now you take again attempt in bsc exam and only prepare this after clearing this you prepared for cds exam, she appreciate meera 'yes you can do this ' by this meera goal became clear and she thanked her mother and done those which her mother said and studied too much for her graduation and and he she become succded in her graduation and she become depressed free.

  • @098pujakushwaha5
    @098pujakushwaha5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GOOD EVENING SIR.
    I AM BLESSED TO FIND UR VIDEOS AT THE RIGHT TIME.
    LIFE OFFERS US ALWAYS CHOICES.THE SHORTER PATH , SEEMS TO BE VERY SIMPLE AND EASY AND ALWAYS ATTRACTS US TOWARDS IT BUT TRAVELLING THROUGH THIS PATH COULD BE A GREAT MISTAKE AS IT WOULD NOT LEAD US TO SUCCESS AND MAKE US REGRET.
    ON THE OTHER HAND THE LONGER PATH SEEMS TO BE VERY MUCH DIFFICULT AND IMPOSSIBLE BUT TRAVELLING THROUGH THIS PATH COULD BE A GREAT CHOICE AS IT WILL LEAD TO TRUE SUCCESS, MIRACLES AND HAPPINESS AND MAKE US FEEL PROUD.
    I HAVE STILL A LOT OF TIME TO GO TO SSB. BUT EARLIER I WAS ALSO OF THE SAME THOUGHT THAT IN ANY CASE IF I DON'"T GET THROUGH IT AT ONCE. THEN I WILL ATTEND COACHING OF 5 DAYS AND WILL RECTIFY MY MISTAKES. HOWEVER NOW I HAVE REALISED THAT IT MAY CAUSE MORE HARM THAN GOOD.
    I AM THANKFUL AND BLESSED THAT AT RIGHT MOMENT I HAVE MADE RIGHT CHOICE AND HAVE TAKEN RIGHT MEANS TO ACHIEVE WHAT I DESIRE.
    I have always grown up listening LIVE YOUR DREAM EVERY SINGLE MOMENT, BUT NEVER TRIED TO UNDERSTAND ITS REAL SENSE.
    BUT NOW I CAN SAY IF U WORK ON YOURSELF EACH DAY , EACH HOUR, EACH SINGLE MOMENT YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE AND WOULD REALLY BE HAPPY AND ENJOY YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS YOUR GOAL. Literally you will enjoy. EACH SINGLE DAY I GO TO BED NOW I AM SATISFIED WITH MYSELF ...
    I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A RESPONSIBLE GIRL BUT NOW I HAVE LEARNT TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF MYSELF AND MY DEEDS ALSO.
    REALLY A POSITIVE EFFECT OF YOUR VIDEOS TO A GREAT EXTENT SIR.
    JAI HIND SIR.

  • @abhijeetsinghparmar6478
    @abhijeetsinghparmar6478 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou sir for providing such useful information....🙏🙏

  • @nihalbhowmick2668
    @nihalbhowmick2668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Riya is currently a student of BE in a good college. There she liked a boy and she thought they could go way along but then she found out that he's already with someone other. Now she started feeling low then her mother intervened and told a similar story of her liking of a boy in her life in her college days. She lastly said that now look at me i am a working women and have a loving a husband and a mother. Life never stops you have to right back.

  • @bhanuday02
    @bhanuday02 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God
    Village life me emotional stability thoda ho jata hai due to interaction;
    Some responsibility, daily life pattern help to overcome many of above symptoms.
    These are real knowledge that helps one to learn art of living life,blessed by your explanation of this most ignored topic.I will defenetly help my freind and sibling to come out of these tendency if anyone have.
    Thank You sir
    Jai Hind !

  • @KaranSahu-tc3yq
    @KaranSahu-tc3yq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks

  • @mukeshmishra4035
    @mukeshmishra4035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks sir. Your videos internally gives change and new way to act on daily routine. Jai hind.

  • @Simple_avnish
    @Simple_avnish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks sir for such a great session
    I directly relate with me🙏🙏

  • @vishalchoudhary3058
    @vishalchoudhary3058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good evening sir .
    Such a insightful things u have taught about this topic . I myself connect with some of your points in the video and need to do required changes

  • @pdsingh5941
    @pdsingh5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you sir , you make us realized abut our life ,to think about our weekness and strength.. it is quite helpful for her, sir , i am thankful to you ...
    Jai hind sir..

  • @thestudypointonlineclasses
    @thestudypointonlineclasses 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    JAY HIND SIR,
    I SALUTE FOR YOUR EFFORTS WHAT YOU ARE DOING FOR US.
    I CAN'T PAY FOR YOUR EFFORTS BUT ,WHAT I AM ABLE TO DO I AM DOING LIKE SHARING AMONG THE FRIENDS, AND IT'S MY DUTY.

  • @akshaytambe2792
    @akshaytambe2792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir, Thank you for this video this is really helping me to understand self (mantel health ). There are some sign which i observed by last overthinking video and this video. i will try to get out of it . and make my thought process clean,clear & Straight ( maan rupee ghode ko lagam lagani hai ). thank you sir.

  • @mohitdiwan1975
    @mohitdiwan1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are working as eye opener for all of us that ssb is not looking superficial but looking the depth of your understanding. I checked my mental health and found very mild symptoms but correlate with my friend who is suffering from this I hope I can better help him. Thank you once again sir cor such informative video that we never learnt about in our school/colleges.

  • @vemuladivya8940
    @vemuladivya8940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Characters
    Female 1: 21 years mood: negative
    Female 2: 26 years mood: Neutral
    Tina a 21 year old girl who is in the final year of her education preparing for the placements. One day when the girl came to home after the college she got to know that her father is fixing match for her as her grand parents are not well. And it is their last wish to see Tina's marriage. She confronts her father that she do not want to get married as she wanted to do job and fill her dreams. But her father did not listen to Tina's words as he respects his parents more than their children opinion, which leads to a very big argument and fight between father and daughter. Tina sister Raji comes from her in laws house by listening this news from her mother. Raji comes and sees Tina crying endlessly . Raji tries to console her sister as her father do not wanted to change the decision, hearing that Tina tells her opinion of doing job and her dreams to her sister Raji with a sad tone. Raji understands her sister's position and talks with her father about the issues she faced after marriage when she did job and also tells that Tina is not mentally prepared for the marriage which is going to create a lot of problems , this complete discussion was heard by her mother. When her father wanted to give objection, her mother comes in between and tells that she will get married when she wanted to, there will be no pressure for her and also asks Raji that why she did not tell when she was facing those issues at that time. Although father shocked by the mother's opinion but later agrees. Tina continued her preparation journey and gets a placement.

    • @karansa707
      @karansa707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wants to get your help mam

    • @vemuladivya8940
      @vemuladivya8940 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karansa707 yes

  • @061_mayanksharma7
    @061_mayanksharma7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much sir definitely going to use in ssb what i just learned in this video

  • @rohitbha113
    @rohitbha113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir you're great !👏❤
    All things are absolutely right 🙏

  • @amitkumarujjain1634
    @amitkumarujjain1634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jai Hind sir Very nys video I mean sbse aacha lga 🙏 reality of life...

  • @Amanpandey-np5cr
    @Amanpandey-np5cr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanku sir.. For such a healthy discussion on mental illness.. Because.. My friend also having such type of problem in social adjustment thinking about birthday party, wear clothes for going to some place, having hesitation in direct contact but having 1k+ followers.. And having self doubt, So thanku so much sir.. As a good friend, I will try to influence him to understand what the life is.. By your self..

  • @goldypatial4770
    @goldypatial4770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rina is a 10 yrs old girl who is studying in class 4th class. Her father is serving in the defense and have got frequent posting in every 3 yrs. Reena was recently shifted to lakhnow from home with her parents. She was admitted to a school. After a week, reena mother realised that reena is not feeling well as she has started school. She thought that reena was entered in school in the mid of session so she is not feeling well and can come in flow when she make some friends.
    One day reena's mother found that reena is weeping in her room after just came from school. Her mother asked her politely. Reena told that her school teacher always scold her for not complete the question in class. They say you are slow and when other children noise mam speak only to her.
    Next day reena's mother went to school with her and asked the teacher. She came to know that reena take everything personally what teacher say for all. Reena's mother told that reena has a shy nature and as she is new comers. Reena's mother understand that she has not to worry about high marks just have to enjoy and make new friends. Reena make 2 good friends and she picked up.

  • @monikavishwakarma4461
    @monikavishwakarma4461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    further discussions are a must👍

  • @praneshwagh8311
    @praneshwagh8311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u sir
    Really help full 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @dineshsaraswat40
    @dineshsaraswat40 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story 1- drug addict
    Rashmi- 23 yrs ,female,highly negative
    Rashmi was not going well these days . As the girl who used tobaupply her with drugs in college was caught by Police. After not getting drugs,even she was a beginner in this addiction. She was feeling palpitations. She then decided to arrange drugs herself. She knew the source person she had seen with her caught friend. She went to his place. Soon after she entered ,there was a police siren. She immediately ran as fast as she could. She came home and was very disappointed. She went to ber room and started thinking how her life had changed in the last 15 days,she was going to become an identified criminal. She was deeply broken on her mistake and couldn't even imagine what could happen to her and her family if she was caught. Soon,she decided to change everything. She decided to talk to her parents that She had taken drugs ,even it is the beginning stage but his body is not feeling well. She prepared herself for the every punishment and solution provided by her parents. She felt light and went to talk to her parents

  • @pushpaksingh5161
    @pushpaksingh5161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir thanks a lot u, Whatever u said is absolutely correct. U are changing the pattern of ssb training and sir this 3.6% will go up sure i am fully confident. Sooner or later candidate will realize that u are the real dronacharya.

  • @RaviKumar-zp9ix
    @RaviKumar-zp9ix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir pls give us the tool as well to improve our life, we want to come to ur coaching to learn how to make our life worthy but cannot afford to do so because of pandemic and also economic constraint. Sir pls make available the course online at a reasonable rate So that we can also afford to join u. And hats off to u sir, for the kind of service u r giving to the youth. U r like James Bond of SSB.

  • @siddheshsawant3688
    @siddheshsawant3688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jai Hind sir
    This video has helped me gain broader understanding of mental issues , and symptoms and idea about ones feeling who is undergoing such turmoil .
    Thank you for creating this video ,
    Going to share this with couple of friends who I think will be really benefitted by watching this video .
    Regards

  • @sutikshansingh1231
    @sutikshansingh1231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Picture 2-
    Riya, 12th Class Science student appearing for her board exams. In her first exam of Physics she was not able to complete the paper on time and left 15 marks unattempted. She came home and starts crying. She told her mother about the exam. Her mother advice her not to cry and also not to bother about the exam as it will effect the remaining papers. She advice her to practice mock papers with same time limits as in examination so that this will enhance efficiency. Riya adopted this method and finish her remaining papers well on time and also save 5-10 minutes to re-check them. So the remaining papers comes out to be satisfactory for her.

  • @gurutwaakarshan1932
    @gurutwaakarshan1932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sir. I always look forward to your videos

  • @sahilkhan2019
    @sahilkhan2019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Useful sir... ❤❤❤✌ thank you for sharing this nowadays no one share this kind of information

  • @spuefire9862
    @spuefire9862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another very powerful and helpful session sir. I could conclude that I was thinking throughout the video that I am suffering from most of the symptoms or as you say indicators sych as : anxiety, sleeplessness, loneliness, fatigue, lack of concentration and focus but i have never had suicidal thoughts. I have tried implementing the critical thinking concept from the 'overthinking' video and it has really been helpful. I would definitely love to see more videos on this topic as you mentioned at 47:57 .
    - NDA aspirant

  • @theemerald8692
    @theemerald8692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much sir for this series it is really very helpful

  • @quickmethodbychiku9003
    @quickmethodbychiku9003 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good evening sir
    In this video you covered very well
    regarding mental illness, emotional, social adaptibility.

  • @harshitmohan7554
    @harshitmohan7554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sir, I really appreciate the efforts you are putting in the youtube videos. going through your videos is helping a lot not only for the preparation but also for life itself. sir I want to ask if being non-religious but (not atheist), how will be I judged in assesment.thankyou for the videos once again :)

  • @pankajmeel727
    @pankajmeel727 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video sir .
    Cricket had taught me many things and never feel emotional resilience..

  • @mirchagalib2388
    @mirchagalib2388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes i connect to it and would request you to discuss it further

  • @aastiksingh6870
    @aastiksingh6870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir Along with whole video i really like that picture that you showed in last of this session that comparision between Coaching & SML . No doubt SML is a full proof Way Of Living and understanding Life .

  • @pdsingh5941
    @pdsingh5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For pic 1.
    Age 22, feemale , -ve
    Riya ,after completing her graduation , join a company for job. The working conditions were good and she was happy with her job. One day head of the office call her in his chamber for some work, after completing work, Head started using bad words and said her to make physical relation, but when Riya atonce denied ,he started forcing her and harassed her physically and mentally also. Riya was disturb ,thaught it was a social stigma but at the same time she thaught its time to take action ,otherwise it could happened with other. So she shared about it to her colleagues , made an FIR in police station. Company workers started strike, after knowing the matter chairman of company remove the head, Court also punished her under the sexual harassment of women at work place (protection, prohibition and prevention ) act. Chaiman of the company ensured the employees for their safety.

  • @chetannehra
    @chetannehra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been watching your videos from a long and now I am familiar with you and your inner voice I understood what you want to tell every student that will help in their life moment or problems with your guidance they can improve their decision as per their knowledge and thank you so much Colonel Ganesh Babu sir 4 providing us knowledge about self management .words fail to express I can say just thank you nd salute u sir Jay Hind.😊👉🌱👌

  • @abhinavdwivedi9584
    @abhinavdwivedi9584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir thanks for guiding us sir nd filling our gap

  • @acyuvrajpundir8373
    @acyuvrajpundir8373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @devjitrudra3697
    @devjitrudra3697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jaihind sir, some day may you focus on EQ-i 2.0 , then we must be benefitted as the topic is very crucial for our day to day life and SSB indeed.

  • @pdsingh5941
    @pdsingh5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Story for pic 2.
    F- 24 year +ve
    M - 18 year -ve
    Kamla, a UPSC CSE aspirant, was living with her brother sonu in Lucknow . Sonu was gating preparation of IIT JEE ,it was his last attempt but he culd not clear the exam. Sonu started weeping and was upset. Kamla was trying to talk him, she said , you are good ,and done your all effort. She also said him ,you have various opportunity to join IIT , you need to work more hard and focus on your study. Sonu give entrance exam for BHU Bsc and cleared it. In his graduation ,choosed math . He started working hard at the same time started focusing on IIT JAM exam ,in last year he gave iit jam entrance exam and got 100th rank , he got IIT kanpur , and completed his Msc and Phd from iit kanpur.kamla was happy with brother action.

  • @dhirendrasingh9907
    @dhirendrasingh9907 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @themonk8548
    @themonk8548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I m also lacking of emotional resilience Sir

    • @pankajmeel727
      @pankajmeel727 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Share your feelings with someone and eventually you will be fine. Believe in your ability

  • @tamilmannan8539
    @tamilmannan8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good Afternoon Sir. This video has shown my personal vulnerable emotional sides clearly. Thank you very much for your valuable video sir.

  • @shivamkumar-xl7yi
    @shivamkumar-xl7yi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gd mrng sir. Jai hind

  • @nihalbhowmick2668
    @nihalbhowmick2668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir pls tell a few points atleast what are the qualities in the military aptitude that u always talk about?

  • @SUNNYKUMAR-oh1wj
    @SUNNYKUMAR-oh1wj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning sir jai hind😊

  • @Sonitsharma44
    @Sonitsharma44 ปีที่แล้ว

    Must video 😢😢

  • @deepakmoar1239
    @deepakmoar1239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jennie was working as designer in bhagwati textile in Ahmadabad. one day she was fired from job with allegation of using forged design. the situation was extremely difficult for her due to job loss and her respect was on stake.she came home and started crying while explaining all this to her mother. her mother consoled her. she asked Jennie to believe in GOD and think the way to prove innocence. Jennie started collecting her rough design from laptop and notebook. she collected evidence for their submission to office and arranged them as per their submission date. With all these she approached director, who with two other senior executives investigated the matter afresh and found Jennie innocent. he directed management to compensate Jennie and re instill her to job with dignity

  • @sidharthrana5526
    @sidharthrana5526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Komal was a 23 years old girl she was good in study after 12th SHE WANT TO CLEAR NEET EXAM AFTER 12 she fill this form but she not serious about this exam as the result she could not clear this exam now she is very upset and realize her mistake she belong from a poor family so her father is not ready to invest her money and time on her he asked her that she do and learn house work she trying to convense her father but father was not ready and seeking mariage proposal for her when komal 14 years old her mother was passed away she has one elder sister and one younger sister her sister get married 4 year ago now komal called her sister and asked him to trying to convence father that she dont want to get marry and want tto studying again then her sister trying to convense father and komal also trying after think some time father ready to gave her another chance komal was very happy and promise herself that now she was not disapoint her father and she studying hard and get admission in a good collage

  • @sachinsharma5697
    @sachinsharma5697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this picture there are two same gender sumita is mother of radha . sumita age is 40 years and her dauther is 18 years old . radha is studying in 12 grade . she goes to school by scooty daily . one day she is coming home by walk . because on the way her scooter has been defected so she went on the mechanic who is her uncle . his shoup was near to her house so uncle was too busy . she decided put scooter on uncle shop and was going to home by walking . on the way some bad person came on the bike
    and snach her golden chain which was weared. she cried but nothing could do came and sitted on the corner was cying during this time her mother came. radha told all story to her mother . mother told then why are crying lets go to police station and do complain of them . finally they went and did complained . police did investiget and captured them finally radha got her golden chain which was given by her mother on her birthday.

  • @neerajkaprii4334
    @neerajkaprii4334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Second
    Madhu a housewife living in bareilly. One day her daughter came home and she was looking very quiet and sad. She asked her the reason of it but her daughter didn't respond. Later her daughter started crying , first she pacified her daughter , calmed her then asked her what happened . Her daughter told that she was teased by her friends ins school and then she had flight with her. She told her not to worry and she asked about that friend , advised her to remain friendly with friends then she contacted her friend akser about incident of school , her friend was also felt bad and apologised about it. She made her daughter talk to her , helped clarifying the situation and then asked not to get bitter in friendship , also advised enjoy and study in school

  • @deepakmoar1239
    @deepakmoar1239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jennie was working as designer in bhagwati textile in Ahmadabad. one day she was fired from job with allegation of using forged design. the situation was extremely difficult for her due to job loss and her respect was on stake.she came home and started crying in her room. but she decided to prove her innocence. Jennie started collecting her rough design from laptop and notebook. she collected evidence for their submission to office and arranged them as per their submission date. With all these she approached director, who with two other senior executives investigated the matter afresh and found Jennie innocent. he directed management to compensate Jennie and re instill her to job with dignity

  • @rohitchahal5525
    @rohitchahal5525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This thought come in my mind when i am doing my schooling that there is something lacking in education this is not right way to educate someone sala kux to gadbad ha samaj m nahi aa raha ratta ki bhe limit hoti ha vaha Tak Jana k baad kya aga kya kux naya sikhaao lakin kux nahi mila m chalta gaya or door open hota gaya or ab aisa ha ki apna ko kya Lana Dana is education system sa apni ho gayi jaisi honi chahiye

  • @thirupathireddy8646
    @thirupathireddy8646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir can you make the videos of GTO section

  • @कुशल-थ6ध
    @कुशल-थ6ध 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir I connect with some of symptoms u said sir mera dimag ka ghoda rukta nhi h raat ko... Muje neend dhng se ni aati... Sir please tell me how can it overcomes these symptoms

  • @kashishchambyal1375
    @kashishchambyal1375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir you said that aise log pehle stage mei nikal jaayenge. But we've seen cases where Nda cadets have committed Suicide inside the academy. So what can be the reason for it? Why weren't they caught in the ssb?

  • @addarshk
    @addarshk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jai Hind sir
    Me Adarsh from Chandauli
    How to develop OLQ in daily life

  • @vivogamer2372
    @vivogamer2372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir, I have known what to change but exactly not getting how to do it.

    • @एकबीज
      @एकबीज 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then join AFOSOP & SML if possible.......

  • @adven203
    @adven203 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir in this video u told the symptoms but where is precautions sir

  • @subham1202-singh
    @subham1202-singh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir in picture 1 is there is need of add person from outside being a Male or just I can put my feeling & experience in that girl.
    Because I haven't added person from outside.

  • @architpandey8247
    @architpandey8247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both are female characters and in negative mood. A girl age about 23 years old. And her mother 40 years old. Sita us working in multinational company. She is a very hardworking girl . One day she is working in her office suddenly her boss call her in his cabin. when she entered in the cabin he asked some irrelevant questions.and tries to do some inappropriate things with her . She slapped him and come out of the cabin. When she reach at home she make shut her in a room and keep crying badly .Her mother comes and asked her about problem. She told all what happened with her. Her mother told her nothing can happen by crying . You should be empower from within only than u can fight and deal with this type of people . You have to take appropriate actions agains him instead of being crying .The girl understood it and try to bounce back. . Because problems comes in every bodies life but if we being stuck in the problem will unable to find solution.we have shift our ways from sarp dristi to garud dristi after analysing our problems. Now shreya lodged complaint against her boss. And police take appropriate actions against him .Now shreya with her courage becomes able to fight with her problem . Now she joined another office. And used to work there happily. Life is not about only favorable situation. But we have a attitude to make unfavorable situation into a favourable.

  • @gyaniupdategk4337
    @gyaniupdategk4337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir how to understand gto process

    • @afosop
      @afosop  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can attend the GTO Online Prepgramme. For details WhatsApp at 8275577650. Regards