My Husband And I Got Divorced

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  • My Husband And I Got Divorced - I meant to post this last year but I kept getting behind on adding closed captions that I got overwhelmed and stopped posting these personal vlogs for almost a year. Anyways, about this vlog- I ended up deciding not to edit out the parts where I was quiet but I did actually edit a few seconds out, one sentence. I said something that I didn’t mean to share, didn’t want to share.
    I debated whether if I should post the raw footage or edit it because it was a bit repetitive but then decided not to because I have been posting the raw footage of my vlogs and I had said in the beginning of the vlogging journey that I wanted to challenge myself to film and post the raw footage all the way through the year.
    And honestly, that’s kind of how I am sometimes... that I sometimes repeat myself- it’s something that I’m already aware of and try to not to repeat myself. But then sometimes when I repeat, I would expand more my thoughts.
    Watching this vlog, I’ve came a long way from week 1 to week 21, to be able to do this... to sign off the cuff especially talking about something that was personal, private, something that I don’t ever talk about.
    I’m so grateful to be making progress with my vlogging journey, to become more comfortable being myself in front of the camera.
    Thanks again for being a part of my personal vlogging journey. I so appreciate it.
    Instagram: @signedwithheart
    _______________________________
    #divorce #signlanguage #asl

ความคิดเห็น • 349

  • @SH-ly2tj
    @SH-ly2tj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    As a divorced woman myself, I know the hurt and disappointment of divorce, even if the decision was the best. It's perfectly okay to keep your private life, private. It's true that time heals all hurt - keep going, keep talking to whomever you need to talk to, and thank you for sharing your story.

  • @shadowlandsfarmandcreamery5400
    @shadowlandsfarmandcreamery5400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I had a feeling that might have been what was going on in your life, and have been praying for your heart throughout. You don't have to share anything about your life that you aren't comfortable sharing, we're here because we love your heart and beautiful spirit and will continue to support you as much as we can from afar❤

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Aw, thanks so much for praying and for your kind words, I appreciate it. 💛

  • @janm.6840
    @janm.6840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I'm just thankful you are still here, willing to teach people ASL, and share with us. Keeping you in my thoughts, and praying your days are bright.

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aw, thanks. I appreciate that. 💛

  • @chrisevelo3313
    @chrisevelo3313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Didn't know you were married. I thought why wouldn't someone want to be with you. I am sorry for the divorce but glad for your faith in God and the determination to press forward. I am just learning ASL and your videos are really helping. Take care!

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Aw, thanks. 💛 And thank you for taking the time to learn basic sign, I appreciate it!

    • @luminatrixfanfiction
      @luminatrixfanfiction 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@signedwithheart I'm glad you didn't edit out the part where you were silent. Whether people are deaf or have normal hearing, they all have something in common and that is human emotions.
      And they can feel your pain or have something in common with you in some way or another. The circumstances might be different, but a lot of people can understand what you're going through. You're not alone.
      *Edit: OMG, I won't delete my original comment but I just want you to know that I saw your "Last Week Was Really Challenging" where you went off on a tangent about Black Lives Matter and I'm disgusted. If you had done your research, George Floyd was someone who had OCD and resisted arrest. If you had done your research, you would have known that the Black Lives Matter was built on a lie, with the Founder of the movement taking advantage and using the money that was donated by gullible people, to buy property for herself. The original founder of the BLM told the world as much that the BLM was built on a lie.
      And here you are propagandizing it. Do your research lady. I was going to show a very _important lady_ your channel but I no longer have any desire to do so. Good luck. But don't expect any sympathy from me for someone who supports targeting police officers built on a lie. GTFO.

    • @lordgallo4213
      @lordgallo4213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@luminatrixfanfiction you gtfo. Bye felicia. We wont miss you 😂😂😂

    • @Mani26031981
      @Mani26031981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@luminatrixfanfiction The fact that YOU would go off on a tangent on this page shows the type of person YOU are. See you, would NOT want to be you!!

    • @luminatrixfanfiction
      @luminatrixfanfiction 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mani26031981 I guess a complete stranger on the internet has to resort to "moral superiority" with nuanced stratagem of: "I'm better than you" shtick then you know the hypocrisy sets in.
      Do you know how many parents who want to get a Cochlear Implant for their child but can't afford one which costs an arm, leg and kidney?
      Because there is not enough supply and demand due to ASL linguists who create a stigma with the technology.
      I don't care about some stranger on the internet verbally flouting their moral superiority, I care about the thousands of children whose futures can't readily obtain a cochlear implant.
      It's always toxic politics with you people. I'm glad to be an advocate for ALL LIVES MATTER. Oh and for the record, the real data statistics show that only around 30 black individuals were shot by police last year for resisting arrest. Not the _"thousands"_ that your "fact checkers" claim.
      Have a nice day.

  • @Michael-en6mz
    @Michael-en6mz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Today, I communicated with a deaf woman using sign language I learned watching your videos. It’s the first time I’ve done this! I was so excited, and she got a kick out of it too. Just some random client. I hope you know how many strangers to whom you’ve brought laughter and happiness. You’re the best. You seem like such a sweetheart. I’m sorry you had to go through a divorce. Or perhaps congratulations? Thank you for all the work you’ve put into your videos, you’re literally bringing people together out here 🙂

  • @GlitchChaos
    @GlitchChaos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Sorry about the divorce. Hopefully you'll now be free to find your true bliss in future days!

  • @justinklemish7894
    @justinklemish7894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    “Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats “
    Thanks for sharing. Takes a lot of strength and a confident, personal sense of acquiescence to move along the path one treads. All of us appreciate the crap out of you!

  • @melissatamer9193
    @melissatamer9193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm sorry you had to go through this. I see and feel your pain. My husband of over 33 years has asked me for a divorce in January. We are walking through the turmoil of divorce. It is painful. God is Faithful and He is a Great God. Keep your Faith, Keep His Word close and He will carry you through. ♥️

  • @edwardcole0711
    @edwardcole0711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You amaze me how much you share of your life with us. Thank you. I started to learned ASL for my grandson who is 5 with less than 100 words in his vocabulary. Not only have I learned from you, but I've gotten to know you. Thank you for that too!
    P.S. your dad is the bomb! 💣

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aw, thank you for that, I appreciate it. 💛 And about my Dad, I will bring him back on soon! :)

  • @tinylions
    @tinylions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You are loved, Ashley. Don’t look back, move forward. ❤️

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you. 💛 "Looking back with gratitude and moving forward with hope." That was the last sentence in my post about the divorce on my personal instagram account (@ashleyclarkfaith). I have faith that everything will work out in the end. 😌 Thanks again for being a part of my personal vlogging journey.

  • @mrsd685
    @mrsd685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every divorced person could feel and see your pain. You are very brave for sharing even this much. We don't need to know the rest to understand that you are hurting. But! Many of us can tell you, my dear, you WILL be okay. God has more for you and you will be amazed how much better life can be. I have every confidence that all is well. I am praying for you.

    • @pwnmeisterage
      @pwnmeisterage 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Divorce is for other people" I said on my wedding day, "I know I'll do whatever it takes to make things work".
      One of the happiest days of my life, unforgettable, exchanging vows, seeing the adoration in my partner's face, surrounded by friends and family, big party to celebrate you starting your new life together.
      But not so much fun 10 years later. You both grow and change in different ways - or perhaps you stagnate instead - and if you don't really share the same interests then you'll follow different paths towards different goals. If you diverge too much then you'll end up being two very different people from the ones who got married years ago. You might find yourself living with a stranger you can't love. If it gets to that point then it's better to choose divorce than to live the rest of your life with somebody you barely know and can hardly tolerate.

  • @tatianac.2787
    @tatianac.2787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Dear Ashley,
    I am so deeply sorry for all you have been through.. it breaks my heart to see in your eyes how hard it must have been.. but you are such a strong and resilient woman and I know that everything will be okay! You are in my prayers and wishing you happiness and all the best in life, you really deserve it!! and always remember that you are soooo loved!

  • @TheKiken
    @TheKiken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i’m sorry you went through this! i hope you can know that you’re special, and you should be valued and love for who you are!

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. It will all work out. 😌 And thanks again for being a part of my personal vlogging journey.

  • @cherylsyring5843
    @cherylsyring5843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was in tears watching you share this news. I remember being in shock during and after my divorce. I did not think I'd survive it. We seemed like the perfect couple, we could not imagine we would ever divorce. But our relationship unraveled and could not be fixed.
    I am sorry this happened to you. I think you are beautiful, smart, caring, and more. It is his loss. And you will not only survive this, you will be stronger. We all love and respect you. Hang in there. ❤

  • @Starcrash6984
    @Starcrash6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you're seeking love and affection, you'll always find it on TH-cam. Obviously we appreciate these videos, or we wouldn't be showing up to watch them. It's certainly not the love you'll get IRL, but we do genuinely care about your well-being.

  • @patrickdemets6018
    @patrickdemets6018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sorry to learn this. I just discovered you recently and I'm going through your videos now, so I'm a bit late to most of it. It's sad, but it's also a relief when you're finally out of a bad situation (having gone through it myself, I know). Regardless of your spirituality and beliefs, remember that those who help themselves are usually more successful; in other words, trust that all will turn out for the best, but work to make sure that they actually do. Your videos will be useful to me - I'm slowly losing the power of speech (hearing is Ok, but not great). I've flirted with ASL, taking several in-person courses, but the lack of someone (ideally d/Deaf/HH) to practice with made me lose a lot of it. I appreciate all you are doing, you seem like such a genuine person. Sending good vibes your way...

  • @AnastasiaBurchick
    @AnastasiaBurchick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If it means anything i had a close family member go through a divorce and it affected me deeply…. It almost felt like i had to go through a grieving process or something… and my heart ached for what was no more… so i send heartfelt love and support for you! And i hope you are ok and find happiness as time moves forward! ❤️

  • @BroncoBillyAW
    @BroncoBillyAW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Firstly, I’m sorry for the struggles you had to go through. Never been married (even though I always thought I’d have a wife by now), but did end a relationship with a woman I dated for 8 years, was bittersweet. God is good and our faith definitely helps us get through the worst of times.
    Never worry about repeating yourself or being “perfect”, the raw you is the real you and we’re all human after all. You’re an awesome young lady and have made some kind of impact in many people. I genuinely care about people and will definitely keep you in my prayers.
    It was very brave to share this and it can be therapeutic. Hang in there and just be yourself. God bless.
    -Billy

  • @kuroneko4454
    @kuroneko4454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I give you all my love and support dear. I know you are strong and you’ll get through this. My heart goes out to you❤️

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you. I'm doing much better now, I'm very thankful to God. Hope all is well for you too.

  • @movetothetriangle6048
    @movetothetriangle6048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am sorry for the loss you feel but it is something beautiful to see how you use your hands not only in a way to communicate via sign language but how real conversation looks when emotion is involved and non signs are used in body language that a non signer would also use. I dont know if I explained myself well but God bless and things will get better with time.

  • @thedarkknight1971
    @thedarkknight1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Having watched a good few of your videos, I've come to learn that you are a thoughtful, caring and delightful person to know, and who is usually happy with a captivating smile and persona. Yes you are going through a troubled time (the past year - even some time before that - even more so), but you're nearly there. Stay true to yourself, know that there are your viewers/subscribers that feel for you (and love you and what you do). Now that the papers have been signed, think, what's done is done, and move on, the future awaits, and I (like many of us) hope and prey that it is a bright, happy, thoroughly enjoyable, and rewarding one for you. You are a beautiful woman, with a significant spark of creativity, a fantastic personality and a charm that captivates. Stay strong, and look forward, not back, and seek out new experiences.... All the very best to you, and your family, from little ole 🇬🇧. 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @AnglinSolaman
    @AnglinSolaman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ❤️from 🇮🇳India.....everything will be fine in the end...if it's not fine its not the end...u are Perfect and marvelous🎊🎉😍

  • @adamholubar6965
    @adamholubar6965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was an interpreter for 8 years before entering the medical field. Now only free lancing part time. I randomly came across your TH-cam channel and I really enjoy all the videos you post. You are in my prayers, things will get better you’ll see! Keep the faith and stay positive!
    -Adam Holubar (Omaha, Nebraska)

  • @kentryan6279
    @kentryan6279 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You take care of YOU! My name is Kent. I am a hearing man new to ASL. You are important to me, to us! I find your style of instruction key to my learning. In my journey of life I learned to NEVER give anyone authority to make you feel bad, sad or less than important. God blessed us with you! Keep your focus you will emerge triumphant! Also...... you are a pretty woman. My wife agrees!

  • @RonHutchCraft2
    @RonHutchCraft2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent video Ashley you did really well, nobody wants to be divorced it's a very difficult time. God bless you Ashley. And I pray that you may someone nice soon.
    Please keep making videos you are always an Encouragement to me and to others. 😇👍🇺🇸

  • @Bimwakian
    @Bimwakian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just wanted to say not to worry about your pauses, your silences, or your repetitions. They are part of you, and at least as part of your vlog, how you communicate. They speak volumes all on their own. How hard this is, and how much you are persevering with a medium you are fighting to be comfortable in. Keep up the good work. And thank you for sharing what you do choose to. I went through the same, around the same time. It's never easy to talk about. Stay strong and know you are supported.

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your words of encouragement, I appreciate it. And I'm sorry you had to go through that too, it is tough. Hope things are better for you too. 💛

  • @richarave6004
    @richarave6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What your going through is hard and so tuff, I'm sorry for the heartache your going through. I've had the same experience and feel for you. All good and better things to come in the future! Hope you go out and enjoy life to the fullest and get this behind you! 👍😎

  • @richtaub
    @richtaub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember a past video that I thought remember seeing you mentioning something and kinda thought something was up previous to that while you were posting some other ones.
    Thanks for sharing your personal experiences here though and of course your privacy is respected and you should never feel you have to share anything you don't feel you want to or is appropriate on a venue like this.
    We go through difficult times and sometimes cannot make sense of why certain things happen. However, we have to look at them as lessons and sometimes just realize that we don't know what the future holds and why certain things happen the way they do.
    The videos you've made after this was all over do show you smiling a lot more and you do seem happier, so as you mentioned it'll all work out and looks like it has.
    I know you've had support from your family and probably close friends to also help you through this.
    Just take it a day at a time and live life, because as you know, life is precious and short, though sometimes doesn't seem like it.
    As bad as somedays get I always make an attempt to enjoy some part of it and try to get in at least 2 good laughs/day. That's a challenge sometimes but who doesn't like to laugh.
    Thanks again for posting this and your previous vlogs, I always look forward to them.
    Looking forward to the next one
    Regards
    Rich
    PS remember, live life and 2 good laughs :D

  • @rustyrelicsfarm2406
    @rustyrelicsfarm2406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I did not know you were married.

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, not a lot of people did, especially those new to Signed With Heart. Thanks again for watching and taking the time to learn some basic signs. 💛

    • @rustyrelicsfarm2406
      @rustyrelicsfarm2406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@signedwithheart I hope that you can find love again.

  • @felixvargas7132
    @felixvargas7132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to be a bartender and my talent was reading peoples expressions and eye movements. Following and learning ASL from you for quite sometimes I knew something was up by how your eyes drifted away thinking of what to say, but a lot of things where on your mind before you can say anything. My mother did the same thing when my parents got divorced. It’s hard I know and I wish you strength.

  • @emmanueljourat2650
    @emmanueljourat2650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry Ashley. It really hurts. Find someone you can share with. You are not alone.

    • @emmanueljourat2650
      @emmanueljourat2650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep your focus on the Lord

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm doing much better now- God is so good, He's faithful. Thanks again for being a part of my personal vlogging journey. 💛

  • @ronrobertson2242
    @ronrobertson2242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am new to your channel, but I think you are a strong women I really am trying to learn ASL and you are big help. Thankyou

  • @noname-bq2km
    @noname-bq2km 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just saw that and by watching I Just wonted to hug you 🥺 (even though obviously we dont know each other) one could really feel, that you where struggling with the words and I think it is really strong, that you shared this with us! Thank you. Stay strong!

  • @WORDversesWORLD
    @WORDversesWORLD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry you're going through this, and I'll add you to my prayer list! But keep in mind your audience here has gone through this fire already, some I'm sure have even tried several times, me, but we all survived, and so will you! Internet hugs!

  • @sorsaria
    @sorsaria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Praying for strength and comfort on this new path.

  • @mustanggarland24
    @mustanggarland24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His loss! Your breath taking beautiful! Inside and out! Hope it's going better for you 🙏

  • @george6048
    @george6048 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best! I have lost 50 % of my hearing and wanted to learn ASL .I enjoy your teaching style. Its real life, like you invite us into your house. I do struggle with ASL, but like you say progress is still progress and that motivates me. You are going through a bad time, but storms cause trees to grow deep roots. Your faith in god, your family and all the people you have touched are all wishing and praying for the best for you. That's a lot of positive energy.

  • @gingergranttech
    @gingergranttech 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ashley you are the best ..and you're dad IS a bomb .. ! I love the videos where you two are together . Feels so warm .heck even I feel like I'm part of your family even though I'm here in south India 🤗 hugs and kisses Ash and Daddy 😘❤

  • @xaxaxaxxx
    @xaxaxaxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I wish you all the best.

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you and also, thanks again for being a part of my personal vlogging journey, I appreciate it.

    • @xaxaxaxxx
      @xaxaxaxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@signedwithheart absolutely, more than happy to support your page, I enjoy the content, and I know you’re going to come out of this stronger and better than ever.

  • @goeshen4359
    @goeshen4359 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It seems that it is still raw for you.
    It's not necessary to share. If you choose to that, it's for you to decide, but people understand and respect your privacy. Life can be like walking on a beach - beautiful but there are times one gets sand in places they never thought they had on their person. Sometimes it can take forever to get rid of that sand too. But when you do, it will be when one isn't trying so hard and then there will come a time when you'll go to another beach and be open for a new experience. Time will help. Time can be slow as a snail or fast as a wink of an eye. Only you will know.
    Sending lots of healing positive thoughts and juju.

  • @theotherwalt
    @theotherwalt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You have a wonderful supporting family, and that is the most important.

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm very thankful. Thanks again for being a part of my personal vlogging journey, I appreciate it.

  • @andrewb.9815
    @andrewb.9815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stop second guessing yourself
    We all love you and what you are doing, teaching us a second language that all of your fans are watching and studying.
    Big loves from all of us.

  • @teamjesus2661
    @teamjesus2661 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Dearest Ashley! I am so sorry for this terrible heartbreak but I know you will be ok because God is with you, you are such a beautiful caring young lady any man would be lucky to have you...remember it is always darkest before the dawn. I pray you are able to find comfort and peace. Just know there are people who wish you the best and hope you are able to find a good man who will know how to appreciate the true gem you truly are! God bless you and the family always!

  • @louietoro5360
    @louietoro5360 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love and watch your channel because of ASL, however, I'm going through divorce too and understand how painful it can be. Thank you for sharing this private side of you. I like that you keep captions on, I follow your signing better with the caption, visually its just good practice and it helps me to recall this or that sign. Gracias!!!

  • @mashae2382
    @mashae2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate how raw this is. Sending you good thoughts.

  • @lisahinton9682
    @lisahinton9682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sending you love. Thank you for being such a kind and wonderful human being, and terrific teacher as well. Sending you love, girl.

  • @AbraCaStabra
    @AbraCaStabra 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found your channel and started watching your videos. I saw your ring in earlier videos and was happy to know you were married. That happiness lasted until I saw this an hour later. Divorce sucks. I obviously know little about you, much less than your regular subscribers/viewers, but from what little I've seen, I'm confident you'll be all right. Stay strong, Ashley.

  • @zoebeauteful344
    @zoebeauteful344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You will get thru it and find something better waiting for you when you are ready. I was divorced, but now have been happily married to my 2nd husband for 22 years last week. Things will get better. ❤🇨🇦

  • @Vintagedad
    @Vintagedad 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I completely understand. Something like that is hard. Much love and respect. I wish we would have met him. Most of your posts were without him. Marriage is the hardest Job to have. My daughter and I watched your videos to learn, but you were inconsistent so she lost interest. I still watch from time to time. I need to start using some signs more often . I hope if you do find a good husband, you guys can do things together

  • @philomenapeterson1790
    @philomenapeterson1790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing. Prayers. I live in 🇲🇾

  • @hardhat7736
    @hardhat7736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the sign lessons, I just decided to learn two days ago or two nights ago out of nowhere and your videos really help. Thank you and you are so beautiful, much prayers and blessings to you.

  • @adoeroftheword
    @adoeroftheword 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugs

  • @jharper34
    @jharper34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just discovered your channel and saw this video. Definitely glad you have made it through what must have been a very difficult time. Hoping for sunnier days ahead!

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much 💛 Definitely believing sunnier days are ahead. One step at a time, one day at a time.

  • @n2035k
    @n2035k 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your honesty in this video is so captivating….felt like I was in the same room….Thank you for sharing…It grounds us on the unpredictability of life…and reminds us that we aren’t alone in all our personal struggles. Like and following you as always.😊

  • @alexandriavega9987
    @alexandriavega9987 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful Ashley, your story continues to be a testimony of faithfulness and obedience to God. While you do not owe any of us an explanation, thank you for sharing this personal piece of your life so that all of us can be praying for you. Our Lord never wastes any pain that we experience in our storms. We are all in different storms and your heart is not alone, my friend! May our Father continue to bless you with clarity, peace, and joy today and everyday. He knows the desires of your heart and He keeps His promises to prosper us and give us hope and a beautiful future. I’ll be keeping you in my prayers. Here’s to a wonderful new season.☺️❤️🤟🏼 - Lexi

  • @sarayparay
    @sarayparay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing what you share. You do not have to go into detail or share everything about your life. Either way, thank you for sharing and for continuing to teach. We appreciate everything you do. Don't ever feel pressured to explain everything because you do not owe us anything! :) God bless you and I will continue praying for you! You are a beautiful soul and thank again!

  • @cassandraclarkmack2105
    @cassandraclarkmack2105 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so very sorry about your divorce.I know what you are going through because I’m walking through a season of separation/divorce it’s devastating , like you my faith in God and the support from family and friends it’s what is sustaining me through this. Things happen for a reason and I believe we are going to be better from it. Thank you for sharing and God bless.

  • @synnfulMe
    @synnfulMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not be hard on yourself, allow yourself for what was and learn to let go of what could have been. Allow yourself to feel whatever emotions you feel. It is by going through the storm that we get past the storm. Do not get stuck in a singular emotion or else you will not move forward. I was married for 17 years when I got divorced. I was pregnant with our third child, my other two were special needs kids, I had no job and I felt so utterly broken. I bottled up my emotions and put on a brave face and it took me so much longer to heal and move past it. Reach out when you need to, you have people willing to help. Do not feel you have to do everything alone, sharing our burdens make it lighter. I will pray for peace for you and for healing, may God bless you always and may He always open your eyes to see those blessings.

  • @okcdarksage
    @okcdarksage 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashley, you are loved and supported by your friends, family, and the community you have created with your channel. Keep your faith, your strength, your determination, and your heart; life continues at the pace you set. Know that you have our support! One step, one day at a time.

  • @sherylkirksey810
    @sherylkirksey810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry for your trial . Been through that. God will heal those places and you will be made stronger and refined. Praying for you

  • @juliejohnson4480
    @juliejohnson4480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am sorry for the pain of the divorce. Thank you for sharing and trusting us to be real and vulnerable. I wish you all good things to come.

  • @kentryan6279
    @kentryan6279 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not to worry! There is life after divorce. It is, in my mind a purging of negativity and an opportunity to develop a meaningful friendship with YOURSELF! God loves you and your followers, including me, adore you. I'm a hearing man that has pursued ASL as a self-development learning. I'm captured about my adventure in ASL. Thanks to you of course! If you post it they will follow! Stay strong my friend!

  • @grace2be
    @grace2be 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I married my high school sweetheart, my best friend, went to college together, married & moved far away with him twice. We divorced - never thought that would be me. Your videos have given me a lot of comfort on nights I can't sleep I've watched and learned some signs - you have a great personality and spirit..take care of yourself you are deserving 💜🌻

    • @grace2be
      @grace2be 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watching your video, I think it was the same year even same time as your divorce wow. I can really relate. If you would ever like a friend, a pen pal to talk with please reach out. My email is thorntonemegan@gmail.com take care, Megan

  • @taylorwarren2000
    @taylorwarren2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don't have to share anything until you're ready... You said you were ready now but you can hardly sign without crying... just take your time! Take as long as you need. Best wishes

  • @peterpan05
    @peterpan05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so real. Thank you for sharing with us. So much love to you and praying you continue to heal ♥️

  • @garyjerome6602
    @garyjerome6602 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I too am very sorry to hear this. I wish you the very best in the future and you deserve that! I would encourage you to get and read a small book that was given to me by my ex when she said she wanted a divorce many, many years ago. As much as I never wanted to read that book, months later I did and it was exactly what I needed. That book was “How to Survive by the Loss of a Love” by Peter McWilliams and others. This little book has helped me, over the years to survive the loss of lots of different loves and, as a guidance counselor, I’ve recommended this book to others faced by loss because divorce, death, or any kind of loss. I hope and wish you the very best while you grow and heal and open yourself to a new and better future.

  • @jonal42
    @jonal42 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    sorry to hear the news...........your strong and will get thru it, and i have no doubt God has the one for you...i have been thru it........life is alot of learning lessons.!!! it will be ok !

  • @pittschapelfarm2844
    @pittschapelfarm2844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sorry for being so late with all this. I just appreciate your courage of wanting to get all this struggle off your chest tempered with the restraint of wishing to be private enough to cause no harm. In a season of strife that's called wisdom.

  • @myadventurepants1978
    @myadventurepants1978 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your videos because you convey your emotions so well. I just want to say that it is courageous of you to share something that is so deeply personal. I know it's sad but I want to say that you can't have rainbows without the rainfall. As you said, it will all work out the way it is supposed to.

  • @crystalpearon1087
    @crystalpearon1087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes one door has to close so that another can open. There are wonderful things coming your way. As Dory says "Just keep swimming!" ❤️

  • @mahalkita7351
    @mahalkita7351 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    awwwww, breakupz,divorcez are some of the most painful partz of life, but also where we can ultimately grow the most... your pathz were linked for a time & you both learned something & now you are on divergent trajectories.i know that it still hurtz & it may be hard to conceive but the best part of your life is in front of you ,not behind you...you are hyper attractive which means many more opportunities for love shall come your way...now you will have more wisdom that will enable you to select a more compatible partner when the time comes.hugz & love to you.... as Maya Angelou said "this too shall pass"

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true, and I so believe that my latter days will be better than my former days. 😌 One day at a time. Thank you for taking the time to comment, I appreciate it. 💛

  • @marykoenig1158
    @marykoenig1158 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing. It takes courage to share painful things yet i feel it also helps to bring them down to size. I will keep you in my prayers specifically that you have people in your life to support you and help to continue to process your feelings. We understand death as a grieving process. Divorce is too. May God comtinue to bless you on your journey.

  • @mikeyt7546
    @mikeyt7546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hiya, sorry to hear about u being divorced and u go through a difficult time. U don't really need to share to us (public) because it is really personal to u. I hope u will be ok and happy. One day u will find happiness with someone new. U really deserve better. I can see that u struggling with emotion and mentally but hope u ok there. Take care!

  • @alfredtingkingco
    @alfredtingkingco 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    sorry about the divorce. there still someone better for you. just keep doing the right thing, keep the faith. he'll come im pretty sure of that. have a visit to asia in the philippines. you 're gonna enjoy here

  • @Deafie_Insights
    @Deafie_Insights 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending you virtual hugs during this time of your struggles. I totally understand as I was there too. Hang in there, when God closes one door, he opens another. Your life will get better but in the mean time take priority in yourself. Sending out prayers for healing. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @ASLLOVE
    @ASLLOVE 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You obviously went though a very painful time in your life. I’m sorry you had to experience that. You are continuing to push forward! Stay strong.

  • @J9Dalton
    @J9Dalton 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is okay to share. There are many women out there that are afraid to share. If you share, they will be inspired to share. Just looked up and knew God will lead you in HIS way.

  • @margueritacaraballo-rutled6658
    @margueritacaraballo-rutled6658 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a very strong person and this is a great time to be good to yourself! Although your divorce was difficult, sometimes God removes people and things from your life to make room for bigger and better blessings. You are a fantastic ASL teacher and wonderful person. I know Big Blessings are coming your way! Smile, stay strong and tough. New adventures await you!

  • @virginiareynolds6296
    @virginiareynolds6296 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am sorry about your divorce. The emotions and sadness you are feeling during this time is because divorce is like a death; the loss of the dreams and hoped for future you were expecting when you got married to your ex-husband. I know. Been there. Time, family and God will help.

  • @mr.h4646
    @mr.h4646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry to hear, take care

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, I'm doing much better now. Hope all is well with you too. 💛

  • @sedimenter
    @sedimenter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry for your troubles. I wish you well. Please keep teaching us and sharing your insights.

  • @janitorjosh
    @janitorjosh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for being real with all of us. You are amazing.

  • @charisamartin2152
    @charisamartin2152 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, Ashley, I'm so sorry you went through this 😞 God is faithful - He never leaves us.. And in times of trouble He pulls us closer. Hugs to you as your heart and mind heal. Thank you for sharing this part of your journey. 🤟🏽💗🤟🏽💗🤟🏽

  • @johnsandlin9775
    @johnsandlin9775 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your testimony Ashley and boldly telling about putting it all in God's and by faith trusting in him to see you through. That speaks volumes!

  • @Jaybob33
    @Jaybob33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're an amazing young lady keep being you! Keep being amazing! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MC-dg8cl
    @MC-dg8cl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry you had to go through that. You are a strong, beautiful woman. You are surrounded by loving family and friends. You have your faith and your health. So what I'm getting to is that bad things happen to good people... 😃 Thanks for the the videos and teaching us ASL 😃

  • @redpilllense7125
    @redpilllense7125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know the feeling. My now ex-wife and I separated in the Fall of 2015 and officially divorced in November 2019. Bittersweet, but deeply heartbreaking....💔

  • @juliescheidler7763
    @juliescheidler7763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Divorce is sad, I'm sorry you're going through this. Take things day by day & it will get better-take care of yourself.

  • @melissapinkston4935
    @melissapinkston4935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know that was hard. I'll be praying for you. Thank you for sharing and for all you do. I know God will take care of you.

  • @jillgodfrey8445
    @jillgodfrey8445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s ok if your not ready to share why you got divorce that is def your private life and you certainly don’t have to share I could tell you are heart broken over it I hope you can find some peace I’ve been divorce myself it’s heart breaking and sad of coarse you will get through it wiser and stronger I know it !

  • @spenceroxford5193
    @spenceroxford5193 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your story brave and valued in many ways. Explanation is not as helpful as consolation. However tough times don't last, tough people do. We understand our existence backwards looking into the past ,but we live life forwards ,sometimes in an unknown future. Have a Personal Quest For Meaning in Life & do the right and useful things to compliment your response to ( a sometimes painful ) reality . I hope I showed some consolation in my explaination, because our intelligence should service our heart as human beings (ideally). And the world would be a better place if our understanding came before our freewill. Life is painful, make meaning out of life and you'll survive. I wrote this much because I experienced similar circumstances in life & I can relate to your pain with empathy. Don't ever give up.

  • @officerbutton9532
    @officerbutton9532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got divorced last year, too. Life can be really hard sometimes, but I think that's what makes it so beautiful. Best wishes to you ❤

  • @matthewfournier6478
    @matthewfournier6478 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are appreciated loved and supported. All the best. God will help you and see you through.

  • @ffuifui
    @ffuifui 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your candor! Wishing you all the love, light, and healing this universe has to offer.🙏🏽

  • @throngcleaver
    @throngcleaver 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashley, you're just a big ol' bucket of goodness, yano that? There's no need to share something that personal, so please don't worry about us. It's none of our business, and we're here because of your personality, charm, and the skills that you share, not that kind of nitty gritty details of your life. You are plenty interesting, I assure you.
    I'm truly sorry that you went through that, but God opens doors for you when others close. He knows what you need, He understands what you want. It's really cool that you have over 200,000 people that love you, but nothing compares to the love of God.
    Thank you for sharing that with all of us. I know it was very difficult for you! It was sad to see you struggle for words, and I felt your emotions and all the hurt you've gone through. But you have everything going for you Ashley, and you'll be just fine. 😊

  • @alton791
    @alton791 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry to hear that. How much or how little of your private life you choose to share is a personal decision. I hope you have someone you can share some of your personal feelings with.

  • @tubeshawn28
    @tubeshawn28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry about your divorce. I was just surprised that you were sharing news about it. I know we all are not perfect. Things are bound to happen. Prayers are sent to you for a new chapter of your life. Best Wishes.

  • @jerrythefox5147
    @jerrythefox5147 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beginning to know that feeling here, it is sad and painful. Still trying here to ❤

  • @deanfromromania
    @deanfromromania 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My deepest sympathies. As a divorced man and father, I understand the difficulty. Being a Believer, I have faith that God will see you through this as well.

  • @ritamccammon8818
    @ritamccammon8818 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm really sorry about the divorce and your pain. I'm praying you will be healed from all of it.