I fired my boss due to toxic bullying and constant manufactured drama. My therapist helped me get through the process. I'm an empath, and I'm free!!!! Thank you for your videos. You helped me start on a path to recovery and self discovery. I'm no longer allowing myself to be exploited by toxic, shameless, lying narcissistic jerks. Setting boundaries is imperative.
Amen to that L D!.I'm proud of you,if I may say so myself. Every "little boundary" we erect,is one less nasty provacating remark or fake smile we gotta pit up with. Genuine kindness & empathy are probaly exploited more than anything else in the world.
The 1rst line of your comment describes my supervisor. My other supervisor is good as gold.A blessing from the LORD matter of fact. Its amazing what " inflated ego" does to a man.Jealousy & envy are a spiritual plague in the world.Thank GOD for the few genuine hearts we come across from time to time.
I believe they are soulless people they don’t care for there children,husband and family only about them self. My mother is a narc I ran but run quietly they are cruel and will get revenge
I know as my mother gets older she has gotten worse none of us have any contact with her and there are four of us. They will also go after there own grandchildren
In addition to everything said here, I have found, the hard way, that it’s important to stay in shape, if you can. Finding out that my mother had severe problems, starting early last year, caused me to sit, lay down, listen and read, to the point where, although I haven’t been in good shape for a long time and I’m in my mid-fifties, it caused me to lose a lot of muscle tone. So, despite the fact that I’ve hardly been in contact with her for about 18 months, she has still managed to skip off with at least a year of my life.
I'm going n my mid 50's too. Lifelong suffering. I realized I need to exchange guilt and obligation to self love. Caretaking too long led me to almost get run over by a train. The universe has spoken. Stop being a punching bag.
Lucia Mixon yes, long before I even knew narcissism was a thing, I’d said that people will run you out of your own life, if you let them. I hadn’t foreseen that it would be my family as, I didn’t grow up in an abusive home, had always had a very strong voice even with my mother and never felt bad about saying no. I think that people need to be made aware and be extremely vigilant over the fact that, when you’re dealing with a lot of situations, including with narcissists, you can be and have often been chosen as that strong person, who can shoulder a lot - yet, whatever they intend? It’s still happening to you. With a covert narcissist, it can be as they say, which is like a frog that doesn’t know its being slowly boiled to death. But, as I’ve had to learn a great deal and particularly about narcissism during the past year, I’ve turned off that burner and I’m moving on. I see that my unwitting sister, who’s also inheriting a free house early, is in that same situation and doesn’t know it. She’s being love bombed and praised - to, likely, her own death by our mother and has no idea that she’s being gifted a Trojan horse. That, as far as my mother is concerned, her own life will be set. She’ll have a built-in indentured servant, living but a few doors away. Someone who she’ll tell, “I know you have 4 jobs and you’re tired, but could you clean up my house for me?” She’ll sound empathetic and my sister will feel obligated since her own narcissism is being fed by inheriting a home prior to me after being absent for decades. Plus, as my mother has “said” she would help her in any way she can, she won’t have to worry about paying property taxes - right? Let her get more than 4 hours of sleep, she’ll lose that house - then, likely predate my mother and steal the other house. A mess I can I’ll afford to be involved in.
kinda reminds me of the kids game years ago 'Barrel of monkeys'...hitching the monkeys together hand in hand...the barrel is bottomless with narcs...and the monkeys have fangs and rabies
Please help. How can you force a phycological evaluation of a family member? The guy is a King Narcissist almost 80 & has no boundaries on destroying everyone & everything in his path.
Your videos bring home two key points. First just how dangerous the Narc is.
Second how and you can heal from them. Thank you for the message of hope.
I fired my boss due to toxic bullying and constant manufactured drama. My therapist helped me get through the process. I'm an empath, and I'm free!!!! Thank you for your videos. You helped me start on a path to recovery and self discovery. I'm no longer allowing myself to be exploited by toxic, shameless, lying narcissistic jerks. Setting boundaries is imperative.
Amen to that L D!.I'm proud of you,if I may say so myself.
Every "little boundary" we erect,is one less nasty provacating remark or fake smile we gotta pit up with.
Genuine kindness & empathy are probaly exploited more than anything else in the world.
The 1rst line of your comment describes my supervisor. My other supervisor is good as gold.A blessing from the LORD matter of fact. Its amazing what " inflated ego" does to a man.Jealousy & envy are a spiritual plague in the world.Thank GOD for the few genuine hearts we come across from time to time.
Manufactured drama... didn’t realize that till you mentioned it... so true...
I believe they are soulless people they don’t care for there children,husband and family only about them self. My mother is a narc I ran but run quietly they are cruel and will get revenge
They only get WORSE. Please believe me.
I know as my mother gets older she has gotten worse none of us have any contact with her and there are four of us. They will also go after there own grandchildren
They get WORSE. Don't look Back.
Been there.
@@fidelinafranco2144 Yes, mine is 84 and I'm sure she has one last slap in the face for us- the will. She has threatened us for decades with the will.
"run quietly". Good advice. Keep your eye on them as your _very tactfully_ remove them from your life.
Thank you Dr. Lewi. Your videos tell me. Don't let my past. Dealing with Narcs. And their bad choices. Determine my future and destiny. Thank you.
In addition to everything said here, I have found, the hard way, that it’s important to stay in shape, if you can. Finding out that my mother had severe problems, starting early last year, caused me to sit, lay down, listen and read, to the point where, although I haven’t been in good shape for a long time and I’m in my mid-fifties, it caused me to lose a lot of muscle tone. So, despite the fact that I’ve hardly been in contact with her for about 18 months, she has still managed to skip off with at least a year of my life.
I'm going n my mid 50's too. Lifelong suffering. I realized I need to exchange guilt and obligation to self love. Caretaking too long led me to almost get run over by a train. The universe has spoken. Stop being a punching bag.
Lucia Mixon yes, long before I even knew narcissism was a thing, I’d said that people will run you out of your own life, if you let them. I hadn’t foreseen that it would be my family as, I didn’t grow up in an abusive home, had always had a very strong voice even with my mother and never felt bad about saying no. I think that people need to be made aware and be extremely vigilant over the fact that, when you’re dealing with a lot of situations, including with narcissists, you can be and have often been chosen as that strong person, who can shoulder a lot - yet, whatever they intend? It’s still happening to you. With a covert narcissist, it can be as they say, which is like a frog that doesn’t know its being slowly boiled to death. But, as I’ve had to learn a great deal and particularly about narcissism during the past year, I’ve turned off that burner and I’m moving on. I see that my unwitting sister, who’s also inheriting a free house early, is in that same situation and doesn’t know it. She’s being love bombed and praised - to, likely, her own death by our mother and has no idea that she’s being gifted a Trojan horse. That, as far as my mother is concerned, her own life will be set. She’ll have a built-in indentured servant, living but a few doors away. Someone who she’ll tell, “I know you have 4 jobs and you’re tired, but could you clean up my house for me?” She’ll sound empathetic and my sister will feel obligated since her own narcissism is being fed by inheriting a home prior to me after being absent for decades. Plus, as my mother has “said” she would help her in any way she can, she won’t have to worry about paying property taxes - right? Let her get more than 4 hours of sleep, she’ll lose that house - then, likely predate my mother and steal the other house. A mess I can I’ll afford to be involved in.
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Their rules of engagement for war. Are. The rule is. There are no rules. Do as you wish. God bless. Thank you for your videos.
That title is exactly what I've been thinking.
Thank you. My support has disappeared. I miss my life.
kinda reminds me of the kids game years ago 'Barrel of monkeys'...hitching the monkeys together hand in hand...the barrel is bottomless with narcs...and the monkeys have fangs and rabies
I feel freer every day. ...Pandemic, even. TY. Tmrw
Beautiful opening music- what is it? I love your work your videos-thank you!
Wonderful video.
I'm long gone much above trash ... I wasn't taken away at birth. I pay notice to things around me all the time.
Pink dusks....
Please help. How can you force a phycological evaluation of a family member? The guy is a King Narcissist almost 80 & has no boundaries on destroying everyone & everything in his path.
Pass. Milk n honey. See the life around you.