Wearing my Wedding Ring as a Widower - People Have Asked Me How Long
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DIAGNOSIS:
March 19th, 2021 Stage IIIA Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (Non-Smoking)
February 2022 Stage IV Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (spreading to Brain, and other parts of lung and lymph nodes)
Gene Mutation EGFR with Exon 20 Insertion
TREATMENTS: Received or currently Receiving
2021: 8 Rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin and Paclitaxel) with 30 concurrent radiation treatments to chest and lung
Failed Immunotherapy directly after Chemo and Radiation (Durvalumab, 1 round)
2022: Chemotherapy
10 rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin, Alimta, and Avastin)
6 with Carboplatin, 4 without
Targeted Brain Radiation (Completed)
Most Recent Treatment plan, prior to passing:
Whole Brain and Spine Proton Therapy (Radiation) 13 sessions
Clinical Trial Medication NOLA
The purpose of my channel is to document my cancer journey to look back on, and/or help anyone else going through anything similar. It is also to potentially help loved ones supporting those who are in this fight as well. This is also an easy way to update a lot of people at once. My main goal is to have footage of this journey for my husband and children to look back on. I originally created this channel as a sort of video diary for my
family.
Thank you so much for following along on this journey. Your love and support help me so much.
It’s absolutely NOBODY’S business how long he wears it!!
Agree
Totally agree nobody’s business. They should never even have asked.
Exactly.
Agree
That one youtuber got re-married less than a year later to another widower and people freaked out. You can't win with people online.
The ring has no beginning and no end. The circle goes on and on forever, as does your love for Jenny. Wear it and take comfort in it.
I love that analogy
Absolutely !!! Beautifully said !💕
Perfectly said!!!!❤
@@vickieyoung7122 , thanks so much.
@@melissalehman2891 , thanks so much ❤
You wear your ring for as long as YOU want to.
Agree
My husband passed away 3 yrs ago Nov 22 of this yr. I still wear my wedding ring. As far as I am concerned I am still his wife and he is my husband. You should wear your ring as long as YOU want/need to. There is no right or wrong. It always amazes me how many people think it is ok to even ask that question.
absolutely
my father died 13 years ago and my mom still wears her rings! Now she is 90 and no chance of remarrying but we love seeing her wear her rings
Thank you for sharing Kyle such a hard topic. Your conversations are soo raw and truthful. You are learning to live without Jen.
Your videos are helpful.
Thank you 🙏
11 years later and I’m still wearing my wedding rings. I never take them off. It’s comforting.
My dear husband passed in 2014 from lung cancer. I an now 70 years young. I still wear mine. My engaement ring was bought in Bermuda on our first cruise. I will wear it till I cross over to heaven.
I am 70 as well and my husband passed in 2020... The ring stays on!
Kyle you don't need to explain to anyone.Your Still With Jenny it's not even a year keep being gentle with yourself.Jen is always with you
Yes but you are aged and you won't be getting married again
A lot of people who remarry still wear their first ring.
You can't erase a person's past, and who would even want to?
@@maxine3587 God says each marriage is binding so each ring is not necessary to wear it is only a symbol on earth
Shocked anyone would ask this! You’re still married, she is still your wife. wear your ring as long as you want. Love that about you, you keep Sweet Jenny ‘s memory alive for sure!! You’re an amazing husband and father!! Sending love to you Ellis & Winnie!!❤️🫶🤍🙏
I agree it really has nothing to do with anyone else. Everything to do with his personal journey. No one gets to dictate how grief should be handled.
Absolutely!! I'm so proud of you for keeping wearing your ring. Jenny is still your wife. ❤I appreciate so much how you keep Jenny's spirit and presence alive. ❤ That is so respectful and honorable. ❤
Amen! ❤✌🏻🙏🏼🦋🐞
I still wear mine and it's been 10 year's and yes I still call him my husband and I still cry. I love my husband.
@@cdsurvivor I have left a comment. No one is mentioning what Gods word says. Your ring is only a material symbol on earth but your union is joined by God. People especially women must have 20crt diamonds to show she is married do we think God cares. He doesn't care if you through it away God wants our devotion.
Do what your heart feels. My mom passed 8 yrs ago, and my dad still wears his.
My dad passed away 11 years ago and my mom still wears hers. They had an awesome love story too. He is the love of her life since she was 18, newly graduated from HS. They married three months after they met
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I seriously cannot understand why people think this is anyone’s business except for Kyle’s. Society have forgotten their manners or they just weren’t taught them, even online. It’s a symbol of your marriage. You wear it for as long as you want. It’s your level of comfort. The ring is part of who you are Kyle ❤
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There needs to be more men like Kyle in the world. His love for Jenny is so deep and so genuine. The kind of true love that is almost non existent in today's world.
That ring is like a token of his love for Jenny. Let it stay on his finger for as long as it brings him closer to her and brings him comfort. That's pure love right there. 🥰
Amen ❤️
When I was widowed young 25 years ago I took off my wedding ring and put it in the casket with my husband at the funeral, a symbol that my love & heart would always be with him. I had my engagement ring reset. The diamond is in the middle and our birthstones on each side. It is beautiful and I will wear it for the rest of my life.
I put my band in my husband's shirt pocket in the casket. I wear my diamond and had another band made, which his name carved, not engraved, into the gold across the front, which I still proudly wear. 💗
🫶🏻 you are so brave and addressing these things and talking about how you feel so openly is commendable. I like listening to you and I'm here to listen👂to whatever you have to say! As the 1 year anniversary approaches I have been struggling - and I didn't even know Jenny personally 😢
I lost my wife of 39 years 18 months ago. I cant imagine ever not wearing my wedding ring. I have hers on a chain around my neck.
Every one is different. Do what you feel is right for you.
My dad has been gone 22 years and my mom still wears her ring. Every year we celebrate their wedding anniversary because in her heart she is still married to him. Everyone has to do what's right for them. You do you Kyle. ❤
Your still a new widower. You still feel married. Unless they have lost a spouse, they wouldn’t know. Sending hugs
I am a widow & I cherish wearing my wedding ring. These are precious memories that are precious to me. You are doing what is good for you! Wear the ring❤❤❤❤❤
Amen to your feelings 🙏🙏❤
When you lose your spouse you’re still married I think about you so much Kyle I love watching you and going back and watching old videos with Jen also. ❤
It’s not that he still *feels* married … he still IS married. Just because her earthly presence has ended doesn’t mean their love and relationship has❤
If your heart tells you to wear your wedding ring then just wear it Kyle. Nobody has the right to tell you when you have to take your wedding ring off. Follow your heart Kyle ❤🙏
Kyle, you just remember what Jenny said to us all, we won’t judge you, and your allowed to be happy, Jenny is, and always will, be WITH YOU, and your beautiful children. You do whatever you want to do, when you feel YOU are ready, you will know, and Jenny will be smiling down upon you, because she asked all of us, not to judge, and we never would, 😊xxx
The ring is their symbol of their love. He is honoring that for her and their children and himself. THAT IS A GREAT GUY. JUST KEEP BEING YOU KYLE.
Kyle, next month will be 16 years since I lost my husband. Wearing your ring is absolutely personal choice. You will know when you are ready. For me it was 2 years. I realized it was causing me more depression and sadness than comfort. I did replace it with a different style ring because after 39 years that finger felt 'empty'. It was the right choice for me, but yes, it is each person's choice and feelings that will let you know when it's time. You are 'pre-grieving' this first Angelversary. I think all of us do . Everything is hitting you harder right now , and that too is normal. HUGS Grief is an evil, sneaky , monster.
There is another man on TH-cam whose wife died of cancer. People asked about his wedding ring, He said he was not taking his ring off. You do you. I support you in your decisions as a viewer. It is sad someone asked that!
Wearing your ring is a given. I would never question it.
I lost my husband suddenly 5 weeks ago. I am wearing his wedding band on my wedding ring finger. I am so happy for your channel. You give me hope. Most nights I pray not to wake up. I want to be with him. But he would be mad so I live day by day sometimes hour by hour. Seeing your strength is awe inspiring and I hope to get there.
I’m so sorry. Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day is all you can do right now
My husband passed almost 4 years ago now. I wear my ring every day. People have asked me why I still wear it. I say "because I'm still married"! My husband is not here now but I am still very married to him! It still brings me comfort every day and it keeps me feeling close to him. If I ever take it off it will be when I think I am ready. Don't let anyone make you question wearing your ring. It connects you to Jenny still. Blessings to you and your children Kyle.
My husband died 10 years ago and I still wear my wedding ring most of the time. It has been a long time and I have dated and have even had a couple of serious relationships. My wedding ring is a part of me and my life’s history. Sometimes I wear it on my right hand, sometimes on my left hand. It is a part of me and I will always greave my husband’s passing. Grief has so many stages. The love never goes away so why would the grief? As the years go by you will deal with Jenny’s loss in many different ways. Jenny wanted you to eventually find someone to grow old with and I have no doubt that you will because you have shown all of us how loving and kind you are. Loss and the grief that comes with it takes time and it’s different for everyone. If wearing your wedding ring gives you peace and comfort then wear it proudly. There are no rules or right answers. We all lost Jenny so can understand in a small way what you are living with. Time does heal but the amount of time has no definition. ❤️
You and Jenny have a bond in marriage, you wear your ring as long as you want. People have no right to tell you that you shouldn’t wear it. It’s a symbol of love, it may even bring you comfort to feel it during hard times. Your heart tells you what you need and if it is saying to keep it on then you keep it on.
Absolutely shocked that anyone would even consider it unusual that you’re still wearing your wedding ring. You wear it until you’re ready to take it off and if that’s never then that’s just fine!❤
You hold such high honor, respect, and love for your marriage. You kept your vows to Jen and the Lord. Hold on to whatever you need to as long as you need.
Your wedding ring has such significance to you, Kyle. It is a symbol of your love and that has not changed. There are no rules; you do exactly what gives you comfort. I actually love wearing my parents' wedding rings, because it symbolizes their beautiful union, and it just makes me happy. Sending you lots of prayers for your comfort. 🙏
Keep the ring on Kyle. Don't let anyone make you think it's wrong. It's still only been a short time so wear it as long as you want to.
I cant believe people have even asked about it x
The ring is a symbol of. Their. Love ❤️ 😊
The fact that you are still wearing it just underlines the person we have grown to know and love here.
Grief is very individual. My son died suddenly in June this year, from two undiagnosed medical conditions. My grief is crushing. My home is dedicated to him for as long as I want it to be. You, Kyle, grieve in your own way and time, and that is 100 percent ok!❤
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There is no timetable for grief. My mom was widowed around your age and she wore hers for several years. Then she had it made into a special ring she could wear on her right hand.
You will know when/if the time is right for you. ❤
My cousin lost her husband 3 years ago, her ring is on her finger it helps her feel close to her precious husband. Listening to you Kyle your telling your love story, your ring holds all of those memories ❤ You are a beautiful soul.
Dear Kyle , Jenny was your life, your soul mate, the mother of your precious children, i will never understand why people would even ask you such a personal question. You were the best husband and so kind and compassionate. Please wear your wedding ring as long as you wish to. We love you and Jenny and Ellis & Winnie❤❤
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I don´t think I´ve ever seen or heard someone talking with such warmth and love as you do when you talk about Jenny, your children, your thought about family, marriage and life. If all men were like you, there wouldn´t be any wars. You gave that incredible love to your beautiful wife and friend. That warms my heart.
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I am shocked that anyone at all would ask about your wedding ring and how long you are going to wear it. None of their business. You wear it your whole life through if you want to!
I agree 100%. My Dad passed 15 yrs before my Mom , and she wore her wedding ring until the day she died. People need to MYOB.
Agree. Its rude
Agreed people are so damn miserable and want to bring others down so Kyle keep keeping on❤
I completely agree with your comment.
I agree 💯
It's NOBODY'S BUSINESS. We all grieve
differently. What is wrong with people !?!? It's been for me, almost 10 years. I now wear mine on my pinky finger. And always will. You are the most caring and thoughtful man I've ever had the pleasure of getting to know through your videos. You do Kyle. And ignore the inconsiderate people out there. ❤
I was married for 30 yrs. and went thur a divorce. Never married again. I still wear my ring on another finger. This ring means everything to me. Our divorce was hard but it's your family.❤
You wear your ring regardless of how long Jenny has gone. Just because she's no longer on this Earth, you are still married to each other. God bless beautiful Jenny. And Kyle you have been doing a wonderful job of raising your children. Jenny would be so proud of you all. Sending love and light to you all ❤❤🙏🙏
We were married over 35 years and it has been 2 1/2 years since my husband’s death. I still wear my ring. Fortunately no one has asked me why. I don’t think I’ll ever take it off. You do you because only you know best. God bless you!🙏🏻
My husband passed away 2 months before Jenny due to cancer as well. My wedding ring is still on my finger, and it will remain there. It's a personal decision that each of us must make. It's more than just a piece of jewelry. Kyle when the right time comes you will know. People are way out of line for even asking that question 😒
Hi I'm still wearing mine after 5 years....❤
There is no right or wrong decision about wearing your wedding ring. Your ring represents the symbol of Love between you and Jenny. Wear it forever if you want to. God bless you and your beautiful little Angel's.🙏❤❤❤
That ring is a sign of the strong bond that you have with Jenny that nothing can break not even death And the love you have is everlasting keep on wearing the ring as long as you like may God be with you and may your beautiful Jenny rest peacefully 🌹
There's no "right" or "wrong" answer with these things. It's your ring, your marriage, your life, and your grief. Do what feels right to you, and if that changes at some point, that's okay too.
My dad passed about a week after Jenny. My parents were never big on wearing their wedding rings. But my mom got a new ring a few months ago that has symbolism to her of being a widow and she wears it like a wedding ring. Everyone's different, it's about what feels best to YOU.
Wear your ring as long as you want. You have to know what's best for you.
I agree with you Kyle.
It is part of you.
If I lost my husband I would Continue to wear my ring for ever.
I am 38yrs.
I LOVE you and I genuinely miss Jenny.
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Everyone is different. If he wants to wear his ring let him be. He's comfortable and thats what matters❤
We love you Kyle, I feel nobody should be asking you about your wedding ring, you are still married to beautiful Jenny in your heart ❤
My husband died when he was 34 years old i was 20 i am now 66 my wedding ring has never been off my finger.
Beautiful ❤
I lost my husband of 36 + years, 3 years ago. I still wear my wedding rings and his and I don't plan on taking it off anytime soon. It makes me feel good. Continue doing things that make you feel good. Ignore what anyone else may say
My husband will be gone 3 years in October and I still wear my rings. They give me comfort
My husband and I were married 73 years before he passed away. We were high school sweethearts so we actually had 75 years when he passed. I took his wedding ring and had it sized so I could wear it with my wedding band, that way he is always with me along in my heart. I am Almost 95 years old and not looking for a replacement so I will continue to wear the rings until I die.
Amazing. My parents have been married 69 years.
Wow ! Awesome,
Wow! That's totally awesome!💯
Your ring represents your immense love for your Jenny. It is your comfort zone and it is your way of celebrating all your the wonderful times you’ve shared with her. Don’t worry about what others think. Nobody needs to define how you should live. I can see that you are a great husband, my brother.
I would wear mine until I die, unless I remarried. For me, they broke the mold on my hubby.... so no-one can replace him. We have been married 42 years and we are high school sweethearts. You follow your heart my friend.😇
My husband of 53 years died over two years ago. I still wear my wedding ring. I have no plans to take it off. He is still my husband to me. I don’t want another one. Many people have said really ignorant things. It doesn’t make me angry. I know they don’t understand. Please do whatever you need to do. That is what I do. I was with him my entire life. We met when I was 19. None of our past together went away when he died. Our children are still trying to cope from day to day. We are all struggling. I wish you had had more time with Jenny. No amount of time is really enough. Please know that you are not alone in your grief. There are many of us out here who know exactly what you are going through. I am so sorry that this happened to you, Jenny and your children. No one can decide how you feel or should feel. There is no right answer to anything you do. It breaks my heart to see your pain.
I lost one of my best friends a few weeks ago to breast cancer. She was 33 and I’m still in shock. I can’t imagine losing a spouse. The love you have for Jenny is so beautiful ❤
I just want to add that Jenny was on the kindest, loving and genuine person I have ever met.( and this is through TH-cam I got to know Jenny). I can’t imagine actually being around here and being her real friend in life. I think about Jenny several times a week. She was one special person who will never be replaced. ❤❤❤
Jenny would be so proud Kyle. It is totally up to you 😢 I love that you wear your ring why the hell not? I cannot imagine your pain.
Good for you, it's so refreshing to see a young man who loves his wife so much. Well done, Jenny will be happy to know how much you love her still. God bless you and your children. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Its a physical piece of Jenny that you still have and can touch and get comfort from. You wear it as long as it feels right to you!!
I became a widow 7.5 years ago and I still wear my ring and will continue to do so.We didn’t divorce, we are still married.Its your journey, your grief you do what soothes and comforts your heart and soul.God bless you ❤
Beautifully said. ❤
I am honestly, so proud of you. I think the biggest step that a grieving person misses throughout the process is the step of them no longer being a couple and not learning who they are. Because when you’re married, and I didn’t lose my spouse by death lost my spouse by divorce. But when you’re married, you’re a couple everything in life is made or should be made as a couple when you lose your other half you have to relearn yourself and I think in that process people don’t learn who they are and I am so proud of you for learning who you are You’re a dad first, but you’re also learning who you are. I love how you’re just taking your time in this process and it does take time to change things I don’t think anyone gets over it. I also think sometimes people hop into a new relationship and they’re not even halfway through their process of grieving and therefore things are not gonna work. You just keep that ring on as you said you may never take it off and that’s perfectly okay. Sending you many blessings. ❤
Wear your precious ring with pride. It’s no one’s business but your own Kyle and as long as you get comfort and strength from it then why wouldn’t you? Whether you wear it for 2, 10 years or forever - it’s entirely your decision. Sending best wishes to you and your kids ❤️
Wear it always, why wouldnt you, im a widow but i still see myself as married, death parted my husband and i but am still his wife and always will be so be proud to wear your wedding ring Kyle xx
You speak from your heart Kyle. Spot on every time. We can’t do anything that we aren’t ready for ourselves, mentally and spiritually. Much love and prayers. Xxx❤
My husband died almost four years ago I still wear my rings and I always will because it makes me feel better! To each his own everyone is different! There is no right or wrong ! Sending hugs ❤️
Kyle it is absolutely nobody's business. You wear your wedding ring with so much love and pride for the love you and Jenny had and still have. There is no time limit or reason why you should stop wearing the band of gold that joined you together as one, its a precious, priceless symbol that will forever mean everything it mean't to you on your beautiful wedding day ❤ much love to you, ellis and winnie ❤️
You wear it as long as you like. My mom wore here's for 14 years after my dad died. She died with it on. They were married 56 years when he passed away.
You have been so strong for your children! Never doubt yourself! Do what feels right for you & your children!❤️🙏🏻
Ever since your lovely wife passed away I've not been able to watch your videos, your grief is so raw still. I think this is the first video I've watched in over 6mths. You are a wonderful man who did his absolute best taking care of, and loving his partner. Really, you've set the bar incredibly high. How could you not want to wear your ring still? It's a beautiful show of love for the deepest connection you've ever had. All the best to you, and your children.
I just want to pop in and remind you that you are doing such a good job, Kyle❤ Jenny is so proud of you for sticking to this TH-cam thing and continuing to include us in your journey. I am so grateful that Jen popped up randomly in my recommended videos and showed me the true meaning of what it is to be grateful and gracious. What a woman she is.
Her impact on this world has been immeasurable and the way that you continue to spread the love and joy that she nurtured in your family is so special to me. I guess I just want to say THANK YOU! XOXO
You don’t ever have to explain. You are an amazing person. Don’t let anyone ever tell you different .
My mom’s best friend lost her husband 9 years ago and she still wears her ring everyday. You shouldn’t have to put a time on it ❤
Kyle, you wear that ring as long as you like. You had a marriage made in heaven. Nobody should tell you when to remove it. It’s nobody’s business. I’ve been a widow for 30 years. I’m 75 years old & still wear mine. I love my wedding ring. Just be proud of the wonderful marriage you had.
Wear it as long as you want!!
Kyle you owe no one an answer. There is nothing wrong with wearing your wedding ring after your spouse’s passing. You are still grieving and when the time is right you will know. So sorry people feel they have to ask you this question. You do what is right for you. My heart goes out to you. My daughter lost her husband 2 1/2 years ago. He was 45 when he passed. She is just beginning to come out of grief but it has been hard. Just remember a brighter day will come.
This is such a beautiful response to people’s curiosity about your ring. I’m so glad you said it makes you feel safe and happy, I’m so proud of you for sharing and putting into words such a beautiful sentiment. You are a wonderful partner to Jenny, hang in there and I still pray for you and your family. My mother became a widow when my dad was killed in the Korean War back in 1952. She was 32 with 3 babies, 3, 1 and a newborn 3 days old. She wore her wedding ring on her left hand until the day she passed away at age 59. It was a beautiful band with 4 diamonds, and I never saw her without it. She never remarried, and when she passed I inherited her ring and have worn it for over 45 years now. I never knew my dad, but felt this ring was such a beautiful symbol of their love and also felt safe and happy wearing it. Thank you for sharing your feelings on this matter, it hit very close to home.
Your life story is so special and precious ❤ thank you for sharing.
Deeply, deeply moving. Thank you so much for your honesty. Praying for you and your children. X
It is ridiculous that anyone would even mention your wedding ring. It's no one's business, first of all. Ignore these people Kyle...I think it's rude of them. Sending love, and memories of dear Jenny.
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Thank you, Kyle. Do you realize you are educating all of us in love and kindness and respect? Thank you so much. 😢❤
Kyle I am humble that you continue to allow is to journey with you in such a vulnerable way! Wishing you and your family a wonderful week ❤
I am 9.5 years into being a widow and STILL wear my ring on left hand, and his on my middle finger on the right where he placed it when he started losing weight from cancer. You wear it as long as you feel you want too. There is no time limit on grief, and no time limit on when you have to take your ring off. You loved Jenny, and you will know when you feel that you can take your ring off, as for me, I will continue to wear mine.
Your ring is infinite just like your love for Jenny Kyle, so wear it with all your heart❤🐞
I’m so sorry that you’ve been asked about your ring. This is so personal. Your love story is so precious. You do not have to explain “why or when” to anyone. You are grieving. Wearing your ring is a reminder of Jenny and everything you two shared. Keep it on sweetie.❤️
Kyle, you are doing amazing, it is so personal what you choose to do. My dad lost my mom and got rid of his ring the day after and got rid of all her stuff that week. He was also married in under a year to a new woman and cut me and my kids, sister out of his life. I would say YOU ARE DOING JUST FINE ❤. You TRULY love Jen and it shows and I thank you for that! To see another human love someone that much is sooo healing and refreshing. God bless you and your family always. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I still wear my engagement and wedding rings 15 years after my husband died. I aways will, the rings bring me comfort and lovely memories.
I think it’s beautiful that you still are wearing your wedding ring. Continue what feels right for you. It represent your love and dedication to her❤
We just lost my mom and my dad lost his wife of 60 years. They lived with my husband and me, who himself is going through an ultra rare form of cancer that required a total amputation to his left leg, his hip, and 1/2 his pelvis as well as 6 mo of chemo. My dad asked me my thoughts on him taking his ring off. I told him that there is no timetable on grief and that no one else's opinion of what he does with his ring matters. My mom was ill for almost 4 yrs and he was devastated that he had moments where he felt like he was ok and didn't grieve. I reminded him that he had been grieving for almost 4 yrs prior to her death. Everyone grieves in their own way and no one's way is right or wrong. It's only what's right for you. God bless you Kyle.
I love that your ring brings you such comfort and that it has such meaning. Keep wearing it. You'll know IF or when you ever decide to remove it. I personally would not want to remove it. Much love and support.
How long to wear your ring is absolutely your decision. Your comfort during this grieving process is paramount to curiosity of others. Take your time sir.
YOU do what is best for YOU! It is no one's business. You are a good man Kyle!
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There is no time limit on grief and that’s okay. Kyle just in case no one has told you, you are also a very kind person and you’re doing an amazing job with the kids, with everything around you. Jenny is so proud of you. Love never dies. Love ❤ and light to you and your family. ❤
Kyle, you are coming up on the year mark. I found that time and the start of the 2nd year the most challenging time in my widow journey. Other widows warned me of that and that it was normal, which did help me. The first year we are in shock. The one year mark seems to make it real in a different way, and grief hits hard. At the same time, people crazily think we are done grieving at a year, which couldn't be further from the truth, but they are just very ignorant to how it works. If you are struggling now, or even feel like you are going backwards in grief, please know this is completely normal and you will get through this challenging time. Reach out if the struggle feels overwhelming. So many love and support you. 💗💗
I'm so sorry about your loss. Thank you for sharing this.
Was completely taken off guard going into the 2nd yr. Ppl never talked about that, you always hear about the 1st yr. 2nd yr was definitely more difficult. 🙏
❤ wear your ring as long as you want. It’s no one’s business. When people ask personal questions or judge, it reflects more about their inner workings than yours. It’s their conflicts and struggles projected onto you. Once they are in the same position, they will also be free to make their choice!
My husband passed away in 2010 and I STILL wear my wedding ring. Hell i even upgraded on what would have been our 20th anniversary because he always promised me he would.
People just suck! The internet and social media has caused so many people to forget what manners and compassion is. They would NEVER ask him these questions in person but somehow they feel justified because theyre sitting behind a phone or a keyboard
You wear your ring forever.....
You will always feel married to jenny, couldn't see anyone ever, living up to jenny, it's not even been 1 year. Ignore people's churlish questions Kyle, none of their beeswax
Kyle lots of people wear wedding ring rest of their lives after, that shows strong bond, I loved you wearing it ❤❤❤
❤Thanks!❤ Bless you and your precious family ❤
I didn't wear my ring for a few years before my late husband died because of work, but I always treasure it ❤ I understand you. . She is your wife and your ring and your life . Bless you always ❤ Jenny is so proud of you ❤
Kyle you wear your ring as long as you want! ❤️🙏🏻