This Was the BIGGEST MISTAKE I Ever Made
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ต.ค. 2024
- This topic has been weighing on me for a while now. I knew I would have to make it sooner or later. Seems like the appropriate time now/
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My man. Chasing the dream. Mad respect. Failure is not the opposite of success. It’s part of the journey TO SUCCESS
Exactly 💯, you are a good friend Mr X gems a lucky guy ❤️
X dropping that knowledge! 👊🏽
The Sultan is the fu**ing GOAT!
This
Exactly. You have over 100k people that love you and love your content. We are sticking with you and supporting you no matter what ✊
Takes a real man to admit he made a mistake and possibly warn others from making that same mistake. Respect. Hope things get better for you in the near future.
Being honest and recognizing that you may need to re-join the workforce is definitely a sign of maturity. Having a grown man perspective and humble mentality is the real flex, and it's rare to see on social media.
I was just going to say, this is rare to see online. Gem is a real one.
You mean become a wage slave again?
What Renegade said. I’m impressed, Gem
This video is the exact reason so many people love you and follow you. The honesty and transparency you offer is something special and genuine. I think we all are feeling the squeeze right now financially and you're definitely not the only one learning through these difficult circumstances. Praying for a quick sale and easy transition in what you have next!
Negative: you bought a house….in this economy!
Positive: your still with us and your kids have a father, your wife has a husband and your still Minty Fresh!
You're doing great, good time to up the meditation and journaling game, the raw and real will fall into place
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Lots of respect for the bravery it takes to make a video like this. Better things are ahead, wish you the best Gem!
Thanks bro
I'll explain why I personally unsubscribed and gave up on the Gempire. But first, let me say that I wish you the best. Based on your persona, I think you are probably a genuine person. I used to rock with Gem and the gang heavily. The channel used to emanate palpable enthusiasm surrounding the hobbies, all from a relatable personality. Early Gem was someone I could vibe with-a slightly ratchet dude, probably older than he looks, who just likes cool stuff. I connected with that. I would watch statue videos at work on the sneak, trying to come up on a Thanos on throne. I legitimately wondered how this dude was hustling up all this cool product. Statues weren't my world, but you made them approachable.
But man, the weekly comic reviews were it. Easy, relatable reviews-not overthought or overly clever. So many reviewers are bitter, overstimulated, and jaded, taking things way too seriously. It was like kicking it with a homie you didn't know messed with comics. Like how strangers in Jeeps wave at each other over shared interest. Fast forward to the ComicTom and Whatnot shine, con controversies-all of it. Everything just kind of went lame duck. The content had a tonal shift towards something more akin to another hand reaching for my pockets.
I will never knock a man for hustling. Get your money. But you guys genuinely messed the game up with Whatnot and CGC. Sure, it would have all happened anyway most likely, but it’s all sketchy, and you guys were the faces of that shift. Fairly or not, that’s your legacy right now. It seemed like everyone was clout-chasing, gassing each other up, trying to be celebrities within a niche hobby while simultaneously turning their backs on it. No reviews, no engagement.
Hell, Tom bought some stuff off me on eBay, made two videos about it, and couldn’t even tag my accounts. Which is okay, but it's not relatable to me. My time is precious, and I'm sure many people feel that way. Unfortunately, I think you were simply used up by bigger players as you took it for granted. Meanwhile people like myself walked away to our regular lives. I wish you all the best, and if you’re going to make content, I hope you find your passion. Best of luck, broski.
Same. I can’t stand Comic Tom he gives off snake oil salesman vibes. I was out after the C2E2 nonsense. I didn’t feel like I was watching someone be passionate about the same hobbies as me, it felt like I was sitting through a timeshare presentation
Wonderfully said. Particularly the celeb in a niche hobby part
This too shall pass. You've worked hard to get where you are and that hard work will pay off, even with some bumps in the road. We all wish you well!!
Batman, you are one of the best ❤ u Man 👏😎
There is nothing wrong with having a full time regular stable job. Social media has pushed this narrative of starting your own business and becoming a millionaire with millions of followers. But it takes a lot of hard work , sometime you fail sometimes you win , or if you are lucky , you are born into wealth. Like I said nothing shameful with having a steady source of income with health insurance and benefits from a job, and then doing TH-cam on the side .
So raw and honest. It sounds like with your outlook and work ethic you'll land on your feet. Rooting for you Gem!
I hope people are able to appreciate your transparency and I hope everything works out for you and your family!
I filed bankruptcy 25 years ago after my first business venture. Starting working again, busted my ass, and got back on my feet. Today I own my own business again which is very successful! Keep fighting and learning brother! You can do it!
Nobody is perfect Gem. Don't be too hard on yourself.
This video is shockingly honest and open. But you still have everything that matters and way more. And whatever house you "downgrade" to will still be an incredible home that most people in the world could only dream of owning.
You're not downsizing, you're prioritizing. You're the man, we love you and your family.
Housing prices are so out of reach for most people right now. It's kinda sad. A lot of folks have no pathway to ownership, and it's only getting worse.
We don't take "L" for loss. We take "L" for Lessons. You will bounce back bigger than ever. Stay strong bro. Blessing for you and the fam🤜🤛
I think the key thing or the best takeaway here for me was that you bet on yourself. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but you can’t do either if you never take the chance in the first place. Looking forward to the next chapter and the evolution of Gem Mint. 💎💎💎💎
Always bet on yourself if you can. 100% agree.
Yo man, listen. A LOT changed with youtube in the last 2 years that were very hard to foresee. Not if, but when, you get the stack back up, you`ll be all the wiser for it. Great vid, we love you bro. God speed on the next chapter.
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I wouldn't wish these kind of issues on anyone. Best of luck turning it around. Good luck on your channel man.
Thank you for sharing. Love the maturity and the recognition of the reality of the situation. Also just the vulnerability. We need more of this in the world.
Yeah, Whatnot drove me away but I still dipped back now and again. I empathise completely with your situation - Mine isn't that dissimilar with each month being extremely difficult. It's exhausting to be worried all the time. I respect your honesty making this video and I hope we both get out of our respective messes!
We got this
man.. its beyond exhausting to worry all the time. All I do is work and work and work to barely make it on my own. Example: Eating out was common place now it truly is a rarity and special occasion and I'm not talking fine wine and top notch food.. fast food is beyond ridiculous. Best of luck!
The new house lost the intimacy the old house had. It never felt right. I've watched from the beginning. I loved your old Spider-Man Statue wall. 5K a month is tough to keep up with. Excellent video
Nothing but respect for you for being so transparent in this video. You’ll crush it like you always do. Much love.
Our situation is ridiculously identical at the moment man…I bet on myself heavy and it didn’t work out. In the process of going through a deconstruction process and greatly look forward to the day when it’s all simple again.
Hope to catch up with you some day man, thanks for being humble and open about it all. I’ve been putting off making a video like this for months now and this if anything has been encouraging for me and to anyone who brings negativity out on ya they can pound sound.
Much love brudda ✌🏻
Damn… sorry to hear it.
I’ve been supporting the channel for a while and i have nothing but respect you and the family. Decisions get made. Lessons are learned. Stay strong.
More people need to be honest like you. I struggle everyday trying to help adolescents and adults realize that being an influencer is not a winning lottery ticket. I have seen a huge uptick in teens wanting to drop out of school to pursue this route over the last few years.
Respect for putting yourself out there. Not many people would take the risk you did, wish you all the best.
Growing up, I lived in a large house designed and built by my dad. After he passed away, my mom struggled with the upkeep of such a big place. The house required constant cleaning and repairs, and she started buying unnecessary items to fill the empty spaces left by my siblings moving out. When I moved to Tokyo, I chose a smaller place. From my experience, I realized that larger spaces tend to encourage accumulating things you don't really need.
It takes a REAL MAN to do what you just did on video. You're not the only person and DEFINITELY won't be the last. You've reassessed, reevaluated owned up to it. You're going to bounce back stronger than ever. Stay strong BE strong bruh
There’s something powerful about being vulnerable and not prideful! It allows you to pivot and refocus! All will be well in the end! Much respect to you and can’t wait to see classic GemMint back soon! 🙌
Appreciate you sharing this experience. People tend to only share the good, but in the mishaps lay an abundance of growth opportunities! Wishing you and Phie the best! ❤
Success isn’t always a constant upward progression.
If you ‘fail’, as long as you make sure you learn from it then it’s just part of the process toward something better.
Hats off to you Gem. Good luck with new direction. Hopefully it’ll start a new fire in you.
Just so you know, your journey was inspirational. It gives people hope that they can live off something they love, and you will get back to that.
Words of a true man is being completely honest with himself and those around him. This is part of what makes you my favorite gem. You are so relatable to your average person in terms of perspective and love of the hobby. Yea not everyone can afford those XM studio and prime statues, but the nerd in all of us can relate to that joy of comic books we like.
Keep staying minty fresh.
Brother, that's really sad. I've been here since your first video on youtube and been following your transformation as a person and as a collector. Yeah I agree that buying the house was a turning point. I remember you have to sell your Prime 1 Berserk collection which I really miss. Your reviews of Berserk statues and manga really made me a fan, I got back to reading it and now it's my number 1 manga of all time. I miss those reviews of new omnis and hauls. I think you should get back to roots. I hope you can make it. You're definately on of the best creators in this genre on entire platform.
I really need to do more berserk content. Peeps loved it.
One thing I have always enjoyed about your channel is the honesty and humility. Not everyone has the courage to do what they love, so I have mad respect for what you do. I’ve been a comic collector for a long time, and one thing I’ve learned from them is that adversity makes individuals stronger. I have no doubt you’ll come out of this.
I've been watching your channel for about 4-5 years now. You're my favourite, man. There were so many times when you made my bad day a little better. Wish you all the best and take care 💪
Happy to hear that. Thanks for sticking with me.
I saw this same thing happen with my parents, albeit without the comics and TH-cam aspects. They were in a great financial situation with both incomes, almost paid off their house which was more than big enough for the two of them and my sister. Then mum got the great idea to sell that one and scale up unnecessarily. They didn’t use the extra space she claimed she needed when they built it, dad lost his job right before Covid, and then they were doing it tough. Had to sell a bunch of stuff and cut back on luxuries, couldn’t do much fun stuff, etc. If they had’ve stayed and paid off their first house, my dad losing his job when he did would’ve made zero impact.
I learned from their mistake and will never sacrifice financial security and the comfort that brings for anything.
Really respect you for keeping it real and making the right choice here 👌🏻
Damn, so similar
I can’t believe this! I’m really sorry to hear this. I think there are several people who can understand what you are going through. This is that classic tale of “the things you own end up owning you.” I’m glad you have a positive outlook on this and are able to keep your head up.
Sorry to hear that and I hope everything works out. You do you brotha!
Love the honesty. Just a stage that you will pass and you will be back better than ever.
Appreciate you and your honesty and the fun content you have given us for years. You ARE a success. You have made a name for yourself. Houses come and go, statues come and go, comics come and go. Your audience will follow you whether you do this once a month or every day. Best of luck to you and it will all work out
Damn man, HUGE RESPECT for a video like this. So many people wouldn't dare to be this real and maybe even help others this way. I've often fantasized about a giant collection as well. But maybe I should just be happy that I get to have 2 whole walls in my home office covered with statues. I hope you get to sell the house soon and feel comfortable again in your own home!
Talking from experience, we typically learn the most from our biggest mistakes Gem. Wipe the slate clean so you’ve got a clear vision of what you want to do, and you’ll get there. You’ve got a lot of love out here man, and your followers will still be here. Focus on what makes the most sense and you’ll get where you want to be. Looking forward to hearing many more “stay minty fresh” !! 😊
What an honest and real video. Props to you for being authentic and transparent in this video. You have a lot of people who support you. The pandemic inflated numbers significantly and I know how frustrating that must be.
Another thing that’s easy to see in hindsight. Post pandemic TH-cam is not the same.
Thanks for the transparency. I don't watch your content for the background or the room.
Thanks for being honest and vulnerable with us. It seems you got a good head on your shoulders. Best of luck on selling the house and being able to breathe again! I know that stress
The real judge of a person's character is how they react in times of disparity. Much love and good luck on your journey!
I paused the video to get my thoughts in order. I've been supportive for years, Gem, you know that. I'm going to keep it 100.
WhatNot caused the channel to suffer. This is not a reflection of you, just a fact. I've seen the same thing happen to other channels that pushed WN.
A part of me thought you were burned out on YT. Yet I still look forward to your videos on a weekly basis.
You need to go back to the basics, do what you did to get you here. Regularly scheduled content based on YOUR interests. We all share your interests, that's why we're here. We know you have to eat, and I respect it, but the reason we all show up is for you, dude.
Two biggest things that can cause a business to fail, start up, and expansion. I don't think you intended to start as a business, but expansion takes more work than starting up and in this case, more regularly scheduled content would greatly help, not just sponsors.
We have all the love in the world for you dude, keep it simple.
Thank you. I appreciate the honesty. I agree 100%
I no longer get notifications for the common videos I used to watch all the time like “recent reads” videos, every “super hero” omni ever released, or the weekly haul videos. I have the bell notification too and just never see them show up so that’s why I stopped watching over time. Definitely never wanted to stop watching the content but I just don’t see it pop up without having to search for it now.
I loved your weekly comic pull reviews you used to do, Gem, in case you need content ideas. 😛
@GemMintCollectibles agree with the above. Found your channel during the pandemic and loved your passion for what you liked. I have dropped off on the videos since the move, you highlighted it how you weren't feeling it like you used too. Full faith you find the passion again and share it with us in your videos. Not saying you need to repeat the past but just enjoying what you are sharing with us will come through on its own. Looking forward to future videos. Hope everything works out financially for you. Not 100% sure if it's an option for you but you could do a HELOC on the house or your paid off house if you still own it. You could draw off that to bridge the time between now and when the house sells or if the channel picks back up for you.
I'm pretty impressed that you posted this for the public, it brave , honest and kind of inspiring
We live and learn. You are a born businessman and you’ve shown you can succeed. It’ll all work out.
Props for being vulnerable and talking about something a lot of people are going through. You're the number one creator that got me into this hobby and I appreciate all your content. Keep ya head up!
It feels good to get it off my chest.
This was a brave thing to do, admitting to failure is not easy but my respect goes out to you and I think you'll start to see growth again soon.
Sorry to hear all that. I for one would never bash someone who tries to better their life. I hate that it isn't working out, but at least you know the path forward and know what you need to do. Good luck!
Stay true to yourself is the biggest takeaway from everything I hear, still love your content but I agree the move hindered you more than helped, wishing you and Phie the best for the next chapter!!! Forever a fan, peace!
Gem - dude this vid hit. I totally get how you feel. I been going through a tough time for a few months now too and I had a very comfortable job with really good money that I took for granted and just pissed it like water on the collection almost daily. Now I’ve sold a bunch of my collection and I will be honest. I fucking resent a lot of collectibles lately because I got careless and now I’m getting back to grassroots and making smarter money decisions. The hobby isn’t life like I thought, appreciating my life is what allows me to enjoy the hobby. I was really stupid so I feel you. I gotta say I admire you taking the plunge and having the guts. Big ups man and I hope you and the fam rise again. You don’t need to have the showiest collection to be a TH-cam legend. You are one dude. Thank you for sharing with us and all the best in the world back to you.
I’ve always prided myself on not going into debt on collecting, never stopped to think buying the big ass house might be a bad idea lol
The hardest part of any hobby is turning it into a career. Keep up the hard work
Someone is gonna buy the house for that awesome basement
You know it!
That floor is awesome!!!
Haha, maybe. People could look at that and think it needs to be remodeled.
That blue floor is ugly as sin 😂 I’d redo it in a heartbeat
@@MoreLikeYewTube That’s what’s great about buying houses. Some people (like me) love it. Just like when buying comics, just because I hate a cover , someone else considers it their grail. Someone will definitely buy it for that room alone and some will see it as a thing to change.
huge respect for still going for it no matter what. we support you, dawg!
Hang in there brother , appreciate everything ya do . I’m locked in with ya
Love the honesty. SO many content creators / influencers like to pretend that their life is perfect. It's inspiring, good luck!
Still remember the live New Years Eve show several years ago. You got that X-factor with the comic fan community; you got this!
you have achieved a great deal and earned a lot of respect in my eyes, so now your doing what most people do , adapting to survive , its not the smartest or strongest who survive, its the ones who adapt most. best wishes gem keep buzzing.
I am rooting for you Gem! Thank you for the update! It sounds like you have a good plan. I wish you the best!
You did an awesome job in the basement, you down size, you will appreciate the little things more👍
Your channel got me back into reading comics and introduced me to a lot of great new titles. I was sad when you stopped reviewing comics and wondered why you had not continued with that content. Always thought you were a good dude though and wish you the best of luck in all your future ventures!
Live and learn.....live and learn. Life is a journey and no one is perfect. All the best.
The fact that you are aware of your situation, and pivoting puts you miles ahead of the average consumer. Good luck
Damn man, sorry to hear that. I hope you turn it around soon!
Thank you Gem for your honesty when sharing your story. We all make mistakes but things can turn around. You have a lot of people supporting your channel and hopefully someone can lead you to a good opportunity. May God bless you and your family!
I remember screaming “DONT DO IT!” at my phone when you first made the video announcing that you were going to quit your job and move to a bigger house, but you are 100% correct. People make mistakes and learn from them which is a great thing and luckily the things you’ve spent money on are worth something and not like drugs, drinking, or gambling so there is options for turnaround.
Only suggestion I would make to you if later on you bounce back and want to upsize your house would be to live in your smaller house and “act” like your bills are higher and set all of that aside so when/if you move again you can just pay that house off entirely.
Everyone loves a come back story. Yours will be one of the best. Hang tight brother.
I hope things get sorted.
Good job speaking about it! A lot of people either go through the same situation or are currently in that situation. You’re not alone! Good job moving forward!
No ones buying houses at the interest rates we have these days.
Inflation and high interest rates… not a good combo
It's actually the high prices combined with low wages.
I got lucky. I bought my house in 2015 with a VA loan, so it is locked in at a low APR. Since 2015, my house has nearly doubled in value. I make $30 per hour and I can't imagine trying to buy a house nowadays.
@@Twitch13MP dont sell it man
@@GemMintCollectibles good luck man. I know you’ll pull through. Key thing is to do what makes you happy.
Thanks for the honesty and being open about it. As a viewer and fellow collector I truly appreciate that.
Sell the chain u love showing off when u were making all that money
I did
@@GemMintCollectibles😂😂😂😂. Blame yourself and not the economy. If it’s the economy then why are so many of us making great money.
@@dextereason-rl3kj if you watch the video, I do blame myself. I never blamed the economy.
Nothing too good or too bad last too long. You’ll recover and be even stronger. Pulling for you 🙏
Gem, I respect the fact that you can get on this public platform and be so honest, not only with us but also with yourself. What drew me to your channel was the awesome content, the cozy mancave , heck I didn’t even know about omnibuses before you. We have watched you grow so much and cheered you on through the process. And just know that we continue to cheer you on for your success, excited to see you continue on this journey, RESPECT BROTHER!
Stay strong Gem Mint! You are a genuine sort and good things are right around the corner. Always enjoyed your channel but especially your open and honest manner. Peace.
The honesty and transparency is more than respectable man. Whatever you do, just don’t quit. Quitting is when you lose, and that’s it.
Wishing you all the luck in the world man. Appreciate your honesty and just how genuine you are. Keep pushing brother!!
Thank you for being so honest. In this era so many people project what they want people to see…this video was very very refreshing. Best of luck to you. This is a quick detour on your continued upward trajectory. Bless up. Keep staying minty fresh.
I've watched a lot of channels, and I've never taken joy in down times for creators. I hope it goes better for you. You guys aren't doing nothing, and it takes more time and $ than probably anybody realizes. Moderation is the key to life, or at least balance. Sometimes, it just takes a realignment, and you might end up even better off than before. If it's right, it's right for you. F what anybody else thinks.
Sometimes a bigger space really doesn’t help, this hobby needs an intimate personal space more than often! Bigger isn’t always better, good luck mate
An Honest video like this one truly deserves all the respect it can get. Big showing of emotional intelligence and a lesson learned in life. Well done man!
So impressed how self-reflective and honest you are.
Keep your head up man your a soldier, you've built your Gempire before and you can do it again.
Appreciate you making this Gem. You are truly a real one and I respect you seeing and presenting the true facts about what content creators go through without hiding the negative aspects of getting “Too big” and expanding. Wishing you the best for the future brother!
understanding that u messed up is the biggest life lesson that u can give to anyone and today u have done that thank you
Glad to see you searching for that spark again. Make the hobby fun again
This is something that the community needs. I appreciate you being transparent. In my opinion, I think this will help a lot of people reflect and make smarter choices moving forward. I’m proud of you, and you’re the goat brother. I’m always here if you need anything too 👊🏽
Respect for putting yourself out there and telling it like it is. Ive always been grateful for this channel dude, it's in your blood to be great, this is just a setback, and things will turnaround, looking forward to the next chapter!!! Im locked in with ya until the end brotha!
Keep it movin Gem. Mistakes happen, but that hustle you in you will never be lost.
Much love Gem 💎! It is all apart of the process. Growth is never easy and we are all rooting for you! Cheers 🍻
Stay positive brother and at least you tried it!! Dont know if you dont try!! Everything happens for a reason! It would have always been in back of mind to try out something new and its what you did, no regrets in life, you take some curveballs life throws at you and i know you will come out on top!! In a few months/years you will be looking back and smiling, have no stress in life its not worth it, i know you guys will get er done, stay beautiful/positive homie, you guys got this!! Its true the saying don’t appreciate it something till its gone, we all think we want things till we get it then were like damn wasn’t expecting that”. But yeah i know times are tough for some people, stay strong everyone and face life head on, we got this! Stay minty fresh everyone! Much love!! ❤💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
Hang in there, dude. Do what you gotta do. You'll come out stronger when you get through this.
I haven’t seen a video of yours since the Iceman statue days, I’m just out of the comic scene these days. most importantly, you look healthy brother, your future burns bright with the failures of the past. Stay strong, you got this.
None of us are perfect, and it is ok to make a mistake. Nobody knows what the future holds. Taking a chance is never wrong, man. You are still here and fighting. You will get back there!
Really sorry to hear about the tough times, Gem.
I'm sure the majority of your fans will agree with me when I say that we're here for you more than the collectibles. YOU are what make these videos fun to watch and keep us coming back, the stuff just lured us here. I still watch every video even if I'm not commenting much anymore.
I have no doubt you'll be able to right the ship. Looking forward to that journey too. Mad respect for this video.
I respect the honesty. It's super helpful to those thinking about starting their own channel.