I was just pouring my heart out God in prayer earlier today about pushing people away because I’m scared of being hurt again. I just came out of a very toxic and abusive relationship. God has put new people in my life and brought me Christian friends who try to show me love. I had a trigger moment last weekend and started pulling away this past week. Then not too long after I prayed, this video popped up on my TH-cam feed and I know it’s God’s response to my prayer. As I watch this all I can do is cry. I’m thankful that God allowed me to watch this. I’m continuing my healing journey and surrendering to God during this process. God bless you 🙏🏾
I needed to hear this! The part that stood out the most was the question "What defense mechanism do we employ?" 1. You find fault early 2. You give low or limited effort 3. You keep a detailed record of wrongdoing I’m definitely guilty of #3 😥 I’ve been reading 1 Corinthians 13 where it says “Love…it keeps no record of wrongs” and I’ve been feeling convicted already but this really made me see this as an area where I need to grow in. #correctthenarrative
Brother, this message….WHEW! I recently met someone who, unbeknownst to me, was fearful avoidant. I was very angry at him but this message really helped me understand what happened. Fearful avoidants need INTENSE THERAPY, especially if you’re older, 50, 60, 70, years old, to uproot the painful childhood trauma. This is a PROCESS! Yes, God can deliver someone instantly but that would be a miracle and we know miracles don’t often happen. That’s why it’s called a miracle! This message made me very sad for him and caused me to intercede for him. (STILL stay over there!) 😆This is an extremely sad way to live! Thanks for your transparency!
@@iamissaccurry Amen my brother. Thank you, Pastor Flowers, and everyone involved with this great ministry. Extremely authentic‼️ We appreciate it. Go forward and higher 📈 in the Lord my brother.
I remember hearing the story of Mephibosheth in elementary school. That was some 18 years ago. It's good to hear it again because I had almost entirely forgotten about it!
I love therapy Thursdays! This ministry is truly a blessing to me and my family from the first day I tuned in. I pray the Lord continue to bless this ministry and the team working in obedience to do the will of God. 🙏♥️♥️🙏🙌
I NEVER comment on TH-cam… but you just helped someone who’s really dealing with inner turmoil. This was a PERFECT follow-up after therapy. I can’t thank you enough. May God bless me with the ability to bless those like you ❤️
C'mon brotha Isaac, you are definitely talking about me.....maaaannnn. I think for me if I duck out or In my mind, if I expect someone to hurt me when things are going good, then it's less painful. THAT WAY OF THINKING IS A MYTH YA'LL....Don't do it!! Brilliant word👌🏾💯 Blessings and Love brotha Isaac.
Thank you, man of God, for choosing to be open, transparent, vulnerable, and humble and sharing with the spirit of the living God led you to share. STAY STRONG. I pray your strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. AMEN. ❤❤❤
Y’all, I started watching this message last Friday morning when I was working in the kitchen. Right from the jump, it hit a nerve so hard that I had to put it down. Finally, I came back to it today on Monday. God kept telling me to listen to it, but I was scared. Now I know why I was afraid. I’m still afraid. “Love“ has hurt me so much… thank you Lord, for this word and for your messenger Isaac who is willing to be vulnerable for us. I’m going to need your help , Lord. But I know you are able. And I am willing.🙏🏻
I don't know if you'll see this pastor. But it's honestly what I'm going through right now. 💯%. I don't even know if God sees me anymore. I have pushed everyone away. And for some reason i feel like that's a good thing. I'm even pushing my wife away. I don't trust anyone anymore. And to be honest. I don't want too. 😢
Assess your circle = 0 circle Assess your heart = limited access Assess your workplace = lone worker Absolutely zero trust in humanity and my heart can NOT take anymore of this world or humanity!
@@bem6344 sure is! there is guarding your heart and shutting your heart down unfortunately I only have the capacity to do the latter I know it’s not normal but it’s safe and less painful, I’m not emotionally stable enough to take any more only GOD can change that but also there is absolutely nothing worthy in my vicinity of me opening my heart up to either ❤️ God Bless All My Broken Brothers and Sisters 🙏🏼
@iamissaccurry Pastor Issac this has got to be the most POWEERFUL therapy session yet. First thing I thought of was when I "pushed" God away and He came after Me and got Me. I felt Him ask "why are You so afraid of Me?" and all I could say in reply was because everyone else rejected Me so why not Him. TOTALLY explains why every relationship in My Life failed. BUT God reminded Me that He had NEVER not Loved Me or ever stopped Loving Me so I just asked a simple question: "Lord, what IS Love, according to what YOU say?" and that's when it hit Me HARD. Life's NEVER been the same since and THIS session explained it ALL. SHARED AND WILL SHARED MANY TIMES OVER - so many need to hear this. That vulnerability thing - heard something this morning "...the times have changed so much that We now celebrate People who are fake and get mad at People who are real." There's a lot of Truth to that because to be REAL, You HAVE to be vulnerable and that's hard - but worth it.
I push people when cause I don't trust them. Because something's happened to me not every one. I'm starting to learn the trust again. I really appreciate your program. Yes, prayer important. I'm sorry I don't mean to be like that it's just something happened
🤯🤯🤯 wow boy was that spot on. I didn't realize this was a thing until just the other night I received counseling over this very thing. I was always disqualifying men I had dated due to this exact concept! I disqualified basically every man. and have missed out on so much life due to being scared of love and someone not being able to love me right. i mean how could someone love me if we didn't have everything exactly the same, why would they love me? So I had to find someone on the exact same page as me. Well let me tell you, that's an impossible goal. And then even then, honestly, real, raw, and intense love is overwhelming and scary. I want it so desperately but once I'm faced with it, it is so overwhelming. this lesson blew my mind, so spot on! how have i gone 34 years not knowing this. I am so ready to trace my fears, chase my fear, and chasten my fear! Thank you for taking the time to do these videos, it brings healing and chain breaking freedom! wow
This message spoke to me more than a lot I’ve heard. I didn’t know there was a answer or even a thing for what I do. I praised myself for being good a detaching from people , but the truth is I’ve always been afraid of being hurt so I never allowed myself to venerable. This was an amazing life changing message. Thank you.
It was hard listening to this message without feeling guilty..❤🩹😞Feeling very disappointed at myself for allowing fear to control my life, assumption, guilt, shame, etc. Thank you for this message.
This is a God-sent. I have a ministry partner with whom I just faced a fit of this operation... I've just identified her as such a couple of days ago and just when I do, boom, this message comes. The Holy Spirit is such a kind person, so thankful to Him! Stay blessed, keep on praying for Y'all and the Flowers'. So much love from Budapest, Hungary: Daniel & Emily ❤🤗☝️🙌😇
Thank you for this I really needed it. I’ve been praying for friendships but haven’t got any and started telling myself maybe I don’t have any friends cause God doesn’t want me to right now cause I would only hurt them in the process anyways. I’m going to try to trace, chase (this one seems the hardest for me), and chastise this fear though thank you again for delivering this message so clearly.
Thank GOD I came across your Therapy Thursday messages. This one right here is HITTING HOME! LORD HELP ME ON MY HEALING JOURNEY!!! I needed to hear this! GOD BLESS THIS MINISTRY 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for releasing this word. I’ve been hiding for so long, even as a Christian, and messing up the most important relationships in my life. My past has caused me not to be vulnerable and I did not understand why till now. It’s kept me from experiencing love from my spouse. And I’m hurting him. Lord help me go correct the narrative.
I’m not in a relationship now but thinking about it in the future And this is just what I need right now This is exactly how I have been in my past relationships because I’ve hurt thank God for this word
Thank you Pastor Issac! This was so needed! I appreciate you & Pastor Jerry for helping me on my spiritual journey as I heal from the inside. May God continue to bless both of you and your families richly!!!!
I was just pouring my heart out God in prayer earlier today about pushing people away because I’m scared of being hurt again. I just came out of a very toxic and abusive relationship. God has put new people in my life and brought me Christian friends who try to show me love. I had a trigger moment last weekend and started pulling away this past week. Then not too long after I prayed, this video popped up on my TH-cam feed and I know it’s God’s response to my prayer. As I watch this all I can do is cry. I’m thankful that God allowed me to watch this. I’m continuing my healing journey and surrendering to God during this process. God bless you 🙏🏾
You Can’t have love without VULNERABILITY 😢
We can't let our past hurt be the lens we view our current relationships through. We Gotta Heal 🙏🏾
Yes sir family!
Fam fam fam
Agreed. It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give to your partner is to be intentional about your healing.
@@iamissaccurry @Elana Curry Always a Blessing Family 🙏🏾💯
Amen
It’s my first time here so grateful to have come to this video. Love how this a Christian therapy session ❤️
I needed to hear this! The part that stood out the most was the question "What defense mechanism do we employ?"
1. You find fault early
2. You give low or limited effort
3. You keep a detailed record of wrongdoing
I’m definitely guilty of #3 😥 I’ve been reading 1 Corinthians 13 where it says “Love…it keeps no record of wrongs” and I’ve been feeling convicted already but this really made me see this as an area where I need to grow in. #correctthenarrative
Thank you Curry🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
Lord, help me to correct my narratives concerning friendship and love!!
Trace your fear, Chase your fear, and chastened your fear
Yo, when God gave me this revelation I was like 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Brother, this message….WHEW! I recently met someone who, unbeknownst to me, was fearful avoidant. I was very angry at him but this message really helped me understand what happened. Fearful avoidants need INTENSE THERAPY, especially if you’re older, 50, 60, 70, years old, to uproot the painful childhood trauma. This is a PROCESS! Yes, God can deliver someone instantly but that would be a miracle and we know miracles don’t often happen. That’s why it’s called a miracle! This message made me very sad for him and caused me to intercede for him. (STILL stay over there!) 😆This is an extremely sad way to live! Thanks for your transparency!
Fear is not your master. God is LOVE and He created us to LOVE ❤.
Fear is NOT your master!
@@iamissaccurry Amen my brother. Thank you, Pastor Flowers, and everyone involved with this great ministry. Extremely authentic‼️ We appreciate it. Go forward and higher 📈 in the Lord my brother.
Wow you just opened my eyes to a generational curse. This was heavy. God bless you and this Therapy Thursday episode 🙌🏽
DEMI! Let’s get it!
Thank you for tuning in!
I remember hearing the story of Mephibosheth in elementary school. That was some 18 years ago. It's good to hear it again because I had almost entirely forgotten about it!
I love therapy Thursdays! This ministry is truly a blessing to me and my family from the first day I tuned in. I pray the Lord continue to bless this ministry and the team working in obedience to do the will of God. 🙏♥️♥️🙏🙌
And we are extremely grateful to have you on this journey!
I NEVER comment on TH-cam… but you just helped someone who’s really dealing with inner turmoil. This was a PERFECT follow-up after therapy. I can’t thank you enough. May God bless me with the ability to bless those like you ❤️
Do your best to keep that person happy you and whoever is there for you….
C'mon brotha Isaac, you are definitely talking about me.....maaaannnn. I think for me if I duck out or In my mind, if I expect someone to hurt me when things are going good, then it's less painful. THAT WAY OF THINKING IS A MYTH YA'LL....Don't do it!!
Brilliant word👌🏾💯 Blessings and Love brotha Isaac.
Jo, come in here fam. I can speak it because I lived it
So good. 👏🏽
Thank u for this sharhing ❤
Look at Jesus!!
First timer 🙏🏾 amen 🙏🏾
My 1st time.. thanks ebony!!
Simply...thank you. This message revealed chains I've had for a very long time. Looks like, with God, it's finally time that they be broken.
Kim! Thank you. May the Lord bless you!
Praise God for this! It’s time for those chains to be broken. Right on time ❤
My first time
Welcome to therapy Thursday sis. God bless u👏🏿
WELCOME FAMILY!!!!
Thank you, man of God, for choosing to be open, transparent, vulnerable, and humble and sharing with the spirit of the living God led you to share. STAY STRONG. I pray your strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. AMEN. ❤❤❤
❤ first time 😊
I've been dealing with this and more in the past few months and your articulation of this matter is so spot on. Thank you Pr. Jerry.
First time❤️
Thank you Brother Issac Curry of REFINED TV. You all are AMAZING!!!! ALL GLORY TO GOD!!!
Kiya! Thank you for receiving this word!
Trace your fear.❤
First time
Nobody cares about the time, we need this healing
This is my first time here, and I’m excited!
My first time here
CORRECT THE NARRITIVE 🙏🏽
That narrative will have us fighting some unnecessary battles!
Great message. Thank you & Thank you God for allowing him to deliver this message the way that he did.
Thank you. Great show. I learned a lot. Peace.
WOW! 100% SPOT ON!
Y’all, I started watching this message last Friday morning when I was working in the kitchen. Right from the jump, it hit a nerve so hard that I had to put it down. Finally, I came back to it today on Monday. God kept telling me to listen to it, but I was scared. Now I know why I was afraid. I’m still afraid. “Love“ has hurt me so much… thank you Lord, for this word and for your messenger Isaac who is willing to be vulnerable for us. I’m going to need your help , Lord. But I know you are able. And I am willing.🙏🏻
Amazing work brother and so well put 🙏 God spoke thru u , amen and love keep it up 🙏🙏☦️👑
I don't know if you'll see this pastor. But it's honestly what I'm going through right now. 💯%. I don't even know if God sees me anymore. I have pushed everyone away. And for some reason i feel like that's a good thing. I'm even pushing my wife away. I don't trust anyone anymore. And to be honest. I don't want too. 😢
First time❤
Correct my narrative Lord.
My God sir!!!!
Amen 🙏🏽
Great message Pastor Issac. It helped me do some necessary introspection. 🙏💪🔥☝️👑🙌🤔🤔🤯🤯🤯🤯💥💥💥💥
Parker, all good family!!!
Blessings Sir, this my first time. Winterville, NC
Teach Isaac teach
Assess your circle = 0 circle
Assess your heart = limited access
Assess your workplace = lone worker
Absolutely zero trust in humanity and my heart can NOT take anymore of this world or humanity!
I’m praying a wonderful working miracle over your heart today. I can only imagine the hurt you’ve experienced
I understand it’s a war zone out here
@@iamissaccurry amen and thank you 🙏🏼
@@bem6344 sure is! there is guarding your heart and shutting your heart down unfortunately I only have the capacity to do the latter I know it’s not normal but it’s safe and less painful, I’m not emotionally stable enough to take any more only GOD can change that but also there is absolutely nothing worthy in my vicinity of me opening my heart up to either ❤️ God Bless All My Broken Brothers and Sisters 🙏🏼
I’m in the same boat and it definitely causes me to push people away or keep people out
AMEN. RIGHT.
Amen
@iamissaccurry Pastor Issac this has got to be the most POWEERFUL therapy session yet. First thing I thought of was when I "pushed" God away and He came after Me and got Me. I felt Him ask "why are You so afraid of Me?" and all I could say in reply was because everyone else rejected Me so why not Him. TOTALLY explains why every relationship in My Life failed. BUT God reminded Me that He had NEVER not Loved Me or ever stopped Loving Me so I just asked a simple question: "Lord, what IS Love, according to what YOU say?" and that's when it hit Me HARD. Life's NEVER been the same since and THIS session explained it ALL. SHARED AND WILL SHARED MANY TIMES OVER - so many need to hear this. That vulnerability thing - heard something this morning "...the times have changed so much that We now celebrate People who are fake and get mad at People who are real." There's a lot of Truth to that because to be REAL, You HAVE to be vulnerable and that's hard - but worth it.
May God continue to reveal to you Him. May He continue to draw you closer to Him. Bless you for your bravery. Peace to you!!
I push people when cause I don't trust them. Because something's happened to me not every one. I'm starting to learn the trust again. I really appreciate your program. Yes, prayer important. I'm sorry I don't mean to be like that it's just something happened
HAVE YOUR HOLY SPIRIT.
I needed this! thank you so much. God bless you🌸
I definitely have a fear of getting close to ppl 🥺
I pray God breaks that curse! He will! With your partnership!
🤯🤯🤯 wow boy was that spot on. I didn't realize this was a thing until just the other night I received counseling over this very thing. I was always disqualifying men I had dated due to this exact concept! I disqualified basically every man. and have missed out on so much life due to being scared of love and someone not being able to love me right. i mean how could someone love me if we didn't have everything exactly the same, why would they love me? So I had to find someone on the exact same page as me. Well let me tell you, that's an impossible goal. And then even then, honestly, real, raw, and intense love is overwhelming and scary. I want it so desperately but once I'm faced with it, it is so overwhelming. this lesson blew my mind, so spot on! how have i gone 34 years not knowing this. I am so ready to trace my fears, chase my fear, and chasten my fear! Thank you for taking the time to do these videos, it brings healing and chain breaking freedom! wow
You are Explaining my life
woow🔥🔥
Man this is right on time. My therapist just told me this. Cmon confirmation
Confirmation! 🙌🏽
Aww man pastor Issac this was that word I really needed thank you
❤️❤️❤️
First time
Wow 😮
TAISHAN, we welcome YOU!
This message spoke to me more than a lot I’ve heard. I didn’t know there was a answer or even a thing for what I do. I praised myself for being good a detaching from people , but the truth is I’ve always been afraid of being hurt so I never allowed myself to venerable. This was an amazing life changing message. Thank you.
Thank you
This was scary accurate to me.
First timer ❤
This is so good. All I can say, “ Praise God.”
It was hard listening to this message without feeling guilty..❤🩹😞Feeling very disappointed at myself for allowing fear to control my life, assumption, guilt, shame, etc. Thank you for this message.
Soo good. Thank you Issac Curry and thank you Lord God for this message! 🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥
From New Zealand and here for the 1st time. So grateful to have come across this challenge 🙌
AMEN🙏🏽
Thanks for tuning in!
This is a God-sent. I have a ministry partner with whom I just faced a fit of this operation...
I've just identified her as such a couple of days ago and just when I do, boom, this message comes. The Holy Spirit is such a kind person, so thankful to Him!
Stay blessed, keep on praying for Y'all and the Flowers'.
So much love from Budapest, Hungary:
Daniel & Emily
❤🤗☝️🙌😇
BUDAPEST!!! Our international family!!!
Bless you, family!
Thank you for this I really needed it. I’ve been praying for friendships but haven’t got any and started telling myself maybe I don’t have any friends cause God doesn’t want me to right now cause I would only hurt them in the process anyways. I’m going to try to trace, chase (this one seems the hardest for me), and chastise this fear though thank you again for delivering this message so clearly.
Thank you for watching and for your honest transparency about what’s happening in your life. Healing is on the way for you!
This word... Oh how I can relate! Wow. Thank you, Lord.
This my first time.
Lady Tae! Welcome fam!
I'm going through fear right now😢 Lord help me.
Thank u. This was an answered pray
A big Amen to this delivering message.
It was difficult to get through. Thank you for your prayers!!
Thank you guys for this message. It was what I prayed for today.
This is my 1st time here!
First time here. Felt very drawn. 🤍🦋✨
Ok Holy Spirit!!!
Thank GOD I came across your Therapy Thursday messages. This one right here is HITTING HOME! LORD HELP ME ON MY HEALING JOURNEY!!! I needed to hear this! GOD BLESS THIS MINISTRY 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen!! So powerful
Don't shorten the session, 😢please, I beg you. I wish they were long, but I know you have a life.
Thank you jesus
wow this is my whole life
Thank you for releasing this word. I’ve been hiding for so long, even as a Christian, and messing up the most important relationships in my life. My past has caused me not to be vulnerable and I did not understand why till now. It’s kept me from experiencing love from my spouse. And I’m hurting him. Lord help me go correct the narrative.
Replay!!!
I really needed this, have watched this a few times since I watched it live. God really checked me on this. I just hope its not too late.
I’m not in a relationship now but thinking about it in the future
And this is just what I need right now
This is exactly how I have been in my past relationships because I’ve hurt thank God for this word
Powerful! Thank you man of God! Bless you Isaac
Thank you so much for the word
Thank you Pastor Issac! This was so needed! I appreciate you & Pastor Jerry for helping me on my spiritual journey as I heal from the inside. May God continue to bless both of you and your families richly!!!!
You’re absolutely welcome Marilyn!!!
May the Lord heal you in ways you didn’t expect! Thank you for your kind words. 🙏🏽
Amen!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!
This is all me. Thank you for this time
It can only be you because it was me for so long!!!
This message was very raw but real
Much needed
Great message ...shirt is 🔥🔥🔥
😂 my man. See you got real taste family!!! 😂 yessir. I appreciate you shouting out my thread homie
WOW everything you said is SO TRUE!!!
💪🏽 Nicole!
Wow! What a word!
Hi, New here:)!!!