Allah and Nabi comes from a very very secure place, HE knows everything and also Nabi are also very very mature, secure, knows reality of everything. Our problem is we aren’t secure and do not know what we are doing is going to give desired results. My problem is I feel really very frustrated when I feel that my 4.5 year old trying to control me. As a gentle parent and trying not to be harsh with her now but she doesn’t do what I want her to do, I afraid of her to become lazy, irresponsible, I don’t not want to be mom/maid of my house, I want my kids to be trained to do their things themselves and it is said that habits are built at this very age. I don’t understand. Please guide me! I will be very very grateful
I just found your channel and omg i am in love with u. That's what i was in need these days. I am a new mother and i am dealing with all these problems 😭
Thank you so much .😢 Allah talaa humy hidayat atta farma den apny Deen ko smajh kr us pr chalny ki .. kyon k apki batun ka tmam tar lubb e lubab ye hai k hum Deen sa jurri jaen ... Jazak Allah ❤
Thanks for making us understand thia thing.. My child is 3.5 years old or ma isi liye school ma admission nahi kerwaya k teacher wont understand his emotions and start threatening him. Or wo threat sari umer nahi jaiga phir
When i was watching this video my 3 year's old son was also with me throughout the whole video he kept repeating aunty is saying bachon ko marty q ho 💔this is so heartbreaking😢
Some time aik chiz ap apni bacho ko aik chiz bar bar kahin gy to wo usko mind na betha lita hai..mere beti shoes phan k room se bahar nhi ati thi she is around 2years..ab soti bhi uthy ge to bahar shoes k sath are ha..and aik din to usko shoes ka aik pao mila aik mila nhi aik phan k agye k mama aik nhi mil raha ankh khul nhi re thi uski..so bacha by birth jo face dkhta ha wo mother ka hota ha or mother ko wo bohat acha smjhta ha..so mother ki koi bhi baat ki c bhi age ma ho not possible k usko smjh na ay
Assalm alikum mai ek baat khena chaty ho ki mujhe waswase are hai mere shour ky khene per one month 10 days ka obotion karye thi oss waqt maine ager shour ko batye nhi rhety to bhether hotha ya was wase are is baat ko das saal ho chuky hai aur mai was waso mai gheri ho
Aslam o Alikum Wa Rahmatullahe Wa Barakatuhu , we acknowledge them , validate them, sit with them without saying anything ,allow them to feel all the big feelings , set a boundary on not hitting us or siblings but they can cry out , we gather patience and slowly but surely they will wear out , they will come to you and want to see you there be with them. The problem is when we don’t give the children time to calm down and get triggered thinking they are bossy , bad , or doing it on purpose to make us angry. The key is patience, consistency is staying calm, maybe even moving away from them for a while but letting them cry, If they are hitting then holding their hands or leaving the room and letting them know we will not tolerate hitting as it hurts us.
Aoa dear sis agr bachy wrong chezen dekhen fone py or tablets py or rude behave karen or bht batmizi sy baat karen tu kiya karna chaye…mera beta7 year old hai bht tang krta hai choti behn ko marta hai bht zyada ma prégnant hon bht tang krta hai koi baat nhi manta extra sensitive b hai baat baat py rota shekhta hai soty howy b aisy he rota hai chekhta hai mjy smj nhi aati ma usy marna nhi chati mgr cntrol nhi rehta phr sari raat sara din khud ko blame krti rehti khud sy larti rehti but jab woh tang krta bilkul cntrol nhi hota ma usy mar deti hon …or bht gussa krti hon baba b same hai sham ko aaty tu yeah bht tang krta unh sy b mar he khata ..mjy bht fikr hai plz mjy pta ma galt hon bit guide me properly…
Misba api ALLAH PAK apko Ik Ik Lamha Wo skoon Wo Rahat Wo Skoon E Qalb Ata frmay jo ALLAH PAK apny Naik Bandy Ko ata frmta H apka beta apki Hr Bat Esy Many Jesy Ap usko leed krti Hen jesa pyr apka H apny Bety Sy ALLAH Sy Dua H K apka Beta B wesy Hi ap sy pyr B kry Or apki Hr Bat B many ALLAH PAK apko zindgi Ky Ik Ik Lamha Skoon o Rahat ata frmay
Jazakillaahu khairun kaseeran kaseera.❤
nice video sister. Thanks a lot
JazakAllah
Allah ap ko is ka ajr dy is dunya mai b r akhirat mai b ameen
Allah and Nabi comes from a very very secure place, HE knows everything and also Nabi are also very very mature, secure, knows reality of everything. Our problem is we aren’t secure and do not know what we are doing is going to give desired results.
My problem is I feel really very frustrated when I feel that my 4.5 year old trying to control me. As a gentle parent and trying not to be harsh with her now but she doesn’t do what I want her to do, I afraid of her to become lazy, irresponsible, I don’t not want to be mom/maid of my house, I want my kids to be trained to do their things themselves and it is said that habits are built at this very age. I don’t understand.
Please guide me! I will be very very grateful
Very good question
Just found your channel and came from facebook. Thank you for this video. JAZAK ALLAH!
I just found your channel and omg i am in love with u. That's what i was in need these days. I am a new mother and i am dealing with all these problems 😭
Jzk Iram explained very well
Assalam o alaikum.
Your videos are always guiding and comforting for me as a mom... Jazak Allah😇
MashaAllah Allah pak hamen acha insan banade achi maa banade Ameen za bar10 coaching ❤
Thank you so much .😢
Allah talaa humy hidayat atta farma den apny Deen ko smajh kr us pr chalny ki .. kyon k apki batun ka tmam tar lubb e lubab ye hai k hum Deen sa jurri jaen ... Jazak Allah ❤
Iram Mam I love your talks and this one is simply so satisfying.Thank you for shifting our attention from our children to ourselves.(first) ..
hats off 👏👏👏
Love your way of explanation.
Being a parents we should listen and i really appreciate you for talking on this topic ❤❤
I like ur way of style to talk and ur voice 🥰
nice mam jazakallah mam 7 to teenage baccho ko kaise handle kare plz is k upper b vedio banaye
MashaAllah MashaAllah...God bless u sister
JazakAllah.all mother's need to listen this
JazakAllah JazakAllah iram...u have changed my lens in parent hood
Good suggestion
quite useful video
Thank you so much jazak Allah kher. It was a really helpful video .
u r right logon k pressure mein hum sahi se deal nahi karte bachay ko
Hamain pressure manage krna ana chahie
Salam..plz also talk on steeling ..how 2 teach kids not to steel even little things
Thanks for making us understand thia thing.. My child is 3.5 years old or ma isi liye school ma admission nahi kerwaya k teacher wont understand his emotions and start threatening him. Or wo threat sari umer nahi jaiga phir
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When i was watching this video my 3 year's old son was also with me throughout the whole video he kept repeating aunty is saying bachon ko marty q ho 💔this is so heartbreaking😢
Some time aik chiz ap apni bacho ko aik chiz bar bar kahin gy to wo usko mind na betha lita hai..mere beti shoes phan k room se bahar nhi ati thi she is around 2years..ab soti bhi uthy ge to bahar shoes k sath are ha..and aik din to usko shoes ka aik pao mila aik mila nhi aik phan k agye k mama aik nhi mil raha ankh khul nhi re thi uski..so bacha by birth jo face dkhta ha wo mother ka hota ha or mother ko wo bohat acha smjhta ha..so mother ki koi bhi baat ki c bhi age ma ho not possible k usko smjh na ay
آپ نماز اور قرآن کے ذکر کی طرف
خود نہیں جاتے آپ کو چن لیا جاتا ہے "🙏🙏
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Assalm alikum mai ek baat khena chaty ho ki mujhe waswase are hai mere shour ky khene per one month 10 days ka obotion karye thi oss waqt maine ager shour ko batye nhi rhety to bhether hotha ya was wase are is baat ko das saal ho chuky hai aur mai was waso mai gheri ho
Nice
Some mother against children to their grandparents. She says my children leave me.
What if your child needs your attention all the time ..
Aslamo alkomma sisters mary baty muj sa for hot ja rahy ha ma kia karo dono bary ho ga ha
hazrat Yaqub as apne bete yusuf as k lye itna rote k eyes khtm hogai thin
Please replye mai pagel ho jaogi mera ghar per parivar per dyan nhi
What about my 2year old cry to get phone ?
وعلیکم السلام اپی اپ کی باتیں بہت اچھی لگتی ہیں پر میرے پاس تو اولاد ہی نہیں ہے میں تو بے اولاد 😭
Allah pak AP ko nek or saleh olad ata frmai
mera bachay ko i deal like this
Salamualikm mam how to deal with agressive children despite trying a lot to mould them but they still shows same behaviour.
Aslam o Alikum Wa Rahmatullahe Wa Barakatuhu , we acknowledge them , validate them, sit with them without saying anything ,allow them to feel all the big feelings , set a boundary on not hitting us or siblings but they can cry out , we gather patience and slowly but surely they will wear out , they will come to you and want to see you there be with them. The problem is when we don’t give the children time to calm down and get triggered thinking they are bossy , bad , or doing it on purpose to make us angry.
The key is patience, consistency is staying calm, maybe even moving away from them for a while but letting them cry,
If they are hitting then holding their hands or leaving the room and letting them know we will not tolerate hitting as it hurts us.
Right
Pata nahin log pachon ko mar kasay latay hain
Aoa dear sis agr bachy wrong chezen dekhen fone py or tablets py or rude behave karen or bht batmizi sy baat karen tu kiya karna chaye…mera beta7 year old hai bht tang krta hai choti behn ko marta hai bht zyada ma prégnant hon bht tang krta hai koi baat nhi manta extra sensitive b hai baat baat py rota shekhta hai soty howy b aisy he rota hai chekhta hai mjy smj nhi aati ma usy marna nhi chati mgr cntrol nhi rehta phr sari raat sara din khud ko blame krti rehti khud sy larti rehti but jab woh tang krta bilkul cntrol nhi hota ma usy mar deti hon …or bht gussa krti hon baba b same hai sham ko aaty tu yeah bht tang krta unh sy b mar he khata ..mjy bht fikr hai plz mjy pta ma galt hon bit guide me properly…
Misba api ALLAH PAK apko Ik Ik Lamha
Wo skoon
Wo Rahat
Wo Skoon E Qalb
Ata frmay jo ALLAH PAK apny Naik Bandy Ko ata frmta H apka beta apki Hr Bat Esy Many Jesy Ap usko leed krti Hen jesa pyr apka H apny Bety Sy ALLAH Sy Dua H K apka Beta B wesy Hi ap sy pyr B kry Or apki Hr Bat B many ALLAH PAK apko zindgi Ky Ik Ik Lamha Skoon o Rahat ata frmay
Allah ap k lye asani kre
Allah ap ki aulad ko ap ki ankho ki thandak bnae ameen