Whenever any man cried before me i was more kind and polite and loving to him..i tried to work more on the relationship...be it my son, brother or husband
Me too. But toxic men will use this nurturing empathic side to us as a means to manipulate us. So sisters, please be careful. Some men, especially toxic men, consider showing emotions as a sign of weakness or feminine.
May Allah Azzwajal help us and build us up to become responsible men and husbands and grant us all a good, righteous, religious and loving spouse and a good,religious and respectful family in this dunya and in the Akhira امين يا رب العالمين
Istighfar - From the Sunnah #1 (سيد الاستغفار) اَللّٰهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّيْ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ ، خَلَقْتَنِيْ وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ ، وَأَنَا عَلَىٰ عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ ، أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ ، أَبُوْءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ وَأَبُوْءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِيْ ، فَاغْفِرْ لِيْ فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوْبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ. Allāhumma Anta Rabbī, lā ilāha illā Ant, khalaqtanī wa ana ʿabduk, wa ana ʿalā ʿahdika wa waʿdika mā’staṭaʿt, aʿūdhu bika min sharri mā ṣanaʿt, abū’u laka bi niʿmatika ʿalayya wa abū’u laka bi-dhambī fa-ghfir lī fa-innahū lā yaghfiru-dh-dhunūba illā Ant. O Allah, You are my Lord. There is no god except You. You have created me, and I am Your slave, and I am under Your covenant and pledge (to fulfil it) to the best of my ability. I seek Your protection from the evil that I have done. I acknowledge the favours that You have bestowed upon me, and I admit my sins. Forgive me, for none forgives sins but You. عَنْ بُشَيْرُ بْنُ كَعْبٍ الْعَدَوِيُّ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي شَدَّادُ بْنُ أَوْسٍ رضي الله عنه عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم سَيِّدُ الِاسْتِغْفَارِ أَنْ تَقُولَ: اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي، لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي، فَاغْفِرْ لِي، فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ. قَالَ: وَمَنْ قَالَهَا مِنَ النَّهَارِ مُوقِنًا بِهَا فَمَاتَ مِنْ يَوْمِهِ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُمْسِيَ فَهُوَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ، وَمَنْ قَالَهَا مِنَ اللَّيْلِ وَهُوَ مُوقِنٌ بِهَا فَمَاتَ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُصْبِحَ فَهُوَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ. (صحيح البخاري ٦٣٠٦) Shaddād b. Aws (raḍiy Allāhu ʿanhu) narrates that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “The most superior manner of seeking forgiveness is that you say [the above]. Whoever says it during the day with firm belief in it and dies on the same day before the evening, he will be from the people of Paradise. And whoever says it during the night with firm belief in it and dies before the morning, he will be from the people of Paradise.” (Bukhārī 6306) Dhikr & Dua App by LifeWithAllah.com
Ayat al-Kursi: The Greatest Protection أَعُوْذُ بِاللّٰهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيْمِ. اَللّٰهُ لَآ إِلٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ الْحَىُّ الْقَيُّوْمُ ، لَا تَأْخُذُهُۥ سِنَةٌ وَّلَا نَوْمٌ ، لَهُۥ مَا فِى السَّمٰـوٰتِ وَمَا فِى الْأَرْضِ ، مَنْ ذَا الَّذِىْ يَشْفَعُ عِنْدَهُۥ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِۦ ، يَعْلَمُ مَا بَيْنَ أَيْدِيْهِمْ وَمَا خَلْفَهُمْ ، وَلَا يُحِيْطُوْنَ بِشَىْءٍ مِّنْ عِلْمِهِٓ إِلَّا بِمَا شَآءَ ، وَسِعَ كُرْسِيُّهُ السَّمٰـوٰتِ وَالْأَرْضَ، وَلَا يَئُوْدُهُۥ حِفْظُهُمَا ، وَهُوَ الْعَلِىُّ الْعَظِيْمُ. Aʿūdhu bi-llāhi mina-sh-Shayṭāni-r-rajīm. Allāhu lā ilāha illā Huwa-l-Ḥayyu-l-Qayyūm, lā ta’khudhuhū sinatuw-wa lā nawm, lahū mā fi-s-samāwāti wa mā fi-l-arḍ, man dhā-lladhī yashfaʿu ʿindahū illā bi-idhnih, yaʿlamu mā bayna aydīhim wa mā khalfahum, wa lā yuḥīṭūna bi-shay’im-min ʿilmihī illā bi-mā shā’, wasiʿa kursiyyuhu-s-samāwāti wa-l-arḍ, wa lā ya’ūduhū ḥifẓuhumā, wa Huwa-l-ʿAlliyu-l-ʿAẓīm. I seek the protection of Allah from the rejected Shayṭān. Allah, there is no god worthy of worship but He, the Ever Living, The Sustainer of all. Neither drowsiness overtakes Him nor sleep. To Him Alone belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. Who is it that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them and what will be after them, and they encompass not a thing of His knowledge except for what He wills. His Kursī extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not tire Him. And He is the Most High, the Magnificent. (2:255) عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ رضي الله عنه، أَنَّهُ كَانَ لَهُ جَرِينُ تَمْرٍ فَكَانَ يَجِدُهُ يَنْقُصُ فَحَرَسَهُ لَيْلَةً، فَإِذَا هُوَ بِمِثْلِ الْغُلَامِ الْمُحْتَلِمِ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَرَدَّ عليه السلام، فَقَالَ: أَجِنِّيٌّ، أَمْ إِنْسِيٌّ؟ فَقَالَ: بَلْ جِنِّيٌّ، فَقَالَ: أَرِنِي يَدَكَ فَأَرَاهُ، فَإِذَا يَدُ كَلْبٍ وَشَعْرُ كَلْبٍ، فَقَالَ: هَكَذَا خَلْقُ الْجِنِّ، فَقَالَ: لَقَدْ عَلِمَتِ الْجِنُّ إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ فِيهِمْ رَجُلٌ أَشَدُّ مِنِّي، قَالَ: مَا جَاءَ بِكَ، قَالَ: أُنْبِئْنَا أَنَّكَ تُحِبُّ الصَّدَقَةَ فَجِئْنَا نُصِيبُ مِنْ طَعَامِكَ، قَالَ: مَا يُجِيرُنَا مِنْكُمْ؟ قَالَ: تَقْرَأُ آيَةَ الْكُرْسِيِّ مِنْ سُورَةِ الْبَقَرَةِ {اللَّهُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ الْحَيُّ الْقَيُّومُ} [البقرة: 255] قَالَ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: إِذَا قَرَأْتَهَا غُدْوَةً أُجِرْتَ مِنَّا حَتَّى تُمْسِيَ، وَإِذَا قَرَأْتَهَا حِينَ تُمْسِي أُجِرْتَ مِنَّا حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ، قَالَ أُبَيٌّ فَغَدَوْتُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ بِذَلِكَ، فَقَالَ: صَدَقَ الْخَبِيثُ. (المستدرك على الصحيحين للحاكم ٢٠٦٤) Ubayy b. Kaʿb (raḍiy Allāhu ʿanhu) reported that he had a vessel in which he kept dates. He found that its quantity was decreasing. So he kept guard on it one night and saw a creature that resembled an adolescent boy. Ubayy greeted him and he returned his greeting. Ubayy then asked him, “What are you, a jinnī or a human?” He replied, “A jinnī.” So he said to him, “Show me your hand.” So he showed him his hand, and it looked like a dog’s paw with dog’s fur. He said, “This is how the jinn are created. The jinn know that there is no one amongst them who is stronger than me.” Ubayy asked him, “What caused you to do what you did?” He replied, “We heard that you are a man who loves charity, and we came to take our share from your food.’” Ubayy asked him, “What will protect us from you?” He replied, “Reciting Āyah al-Kursī from Sūrah al-Baqarah [i.e. the verse above]. If you recite it in the morning, you will be protected from us till the evening. And if you recite it in the evening, you will be protected from us till the morning.” Ubayy said: “The following morning, I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and told him about what had happened. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, “The evil one spoke the truth.” (Ḥākim 2064) Dhikr & Dua App by LifeWithAllah.com
I just behave normally and see females as humans just like me. They have some different problems they have to face.So,I try to understand them instead of assuming anything.
This is decent behavior and the bare minimum requirement for everyone to embody. Inshallah, it will become normalized to treat and see everyone as humans and to understand them instead of assuming.
*The Prophet(ﷺ)said:“One who-strives-to-help the widow and the-poor is such as the-one-who-fights-in the way of Allah.”(Sahih al-Bukhari) I am your sister in islam, and I am a widow and I have four orphaned children without a father. I am unable to provide even food for them. Sometimes my children sleep without eat. and we don t have anything at home to anything us except for your mercy. and Also, the owner of the house comes most days, and telling us, that he will take us out of the house. due to delay in paying the rent and Also because of the accumulation of previous dues to them. Where do we go? and my kids are,. and they are still young and unable to work. and we have no source of earning money to live off of, and debts are accumulating on us and increasing day by day, and no one is responsible for us. only God. The Prophet(ﷺ)said"Those who are merciful will be shown mercy by the Most Merciful" jazakum allah khayrana*
I think you got think wrong man shouldn’t display higher emotions than his wife for example but of course he can cry or be sad and show love but can’t be a wimp that’s the difference because his partner will look down on him with time women have no pity when it comes to men, women wait at the finish line to pick the winner they don’t care about your struggle
@@gool54 that’s what I’m saying. Our generation of women are beyond different from the prophets time period. Ladies make their own income now and have their own career. They don’t really rely on us anymore. That being said we cannot show a seed size of weakness to them.
There are many hadiths where the prophet SAW would cry infront of his womenfolk, such as when Ibrahim passed away, he cried in front of his companions, including women: “When Ibrahim died, the Prophet (SAW) wept. The companions said to him, ‘O Messenger of Allah, you are weeping!’ He replied, ‘The heart is grieved, and the eyes shed tears, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord.’” (Sahih al-Bukhari) Hadith about the Quran: It is reported that when the Prophet (SAW) recites the Quran, especially verses about punishment or mercy, he sometimes cries. One such occasion was when he recited Surah Al-Isra (17:82), which speaks about the Quran being a healing for the believers. And there is a narration where the Prophet (SAW) cried when he was reciting verses from the Quran, particularly when he was with his wife Aisha (RA). She reported that he would sometimes cry during his prayers, especially when he recited verses about mercy and punishment. And the last part of your paragraph sounds misogynistic, you claim that women don't care about your struggle? Have you interviewed every single woman in the world to see if that's true before making such a generalization about women. You are referring to a certain group of women, you should be seeking a righteous woman and vice versa. If you search for any woman without taking into account her righteousness or how she acts around any man (be it her brother, or father) that displays emotion, then what do you expect when they fall into this category.
I'm sorry. In this modern world I don't agree with any of this. Whatever this person is saying might have worked 2000 years ago or even in the 1940s and 50s but in today society doing even half of the things thus narrator says is a sure fire way to the divorce courts. So many "nice" men have been totally screwed over by their wife etc. Nah, I think I'll stick with my "toxic" masculinity. It has worked for the past 31 years of marriage and will see me through 31 more years inshallah. Never ever ever ever be weak or show weakness in front of a woman.
I strongly disagree with crying in front of your lady, we are in a different time period in a lady’s mind she will find you to be a weak man. vulnerability needs to be hidden don’t show it in public (in this time period).
@ don’t matter how close you are brother. It’s not me even being bitter. U cannot show an ant size of weakness to your lady. U can have a family with any lady now and they will still leave u it doesn’t matter.
Regardless of the time period, we follow the sunnahs and traditions of the prophet SAW, and he used to cry in front of his womenfolk and other people. If you have a lady that considers you a weak man just for crying, you need to find yourself a righteous lady. When Ibrahim passed away, and the Prophet (SAW) was deeply affected by the loss. It is reported that he cried in front of his companions, including women. The hadith states: “When Ibrahim died, the Prophet (SAW) wept. The companions said to him, ‘O Messenger of Allah, you are weeping!’ He replied, ‘The heart is grieved, and the eyes shed tears, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord.’” (Sahih al-Bukhari) Hadith about the Quran: It is reported that when the Prophet (SAW) would recite the Quran, especially verses about punishment or mercy, he would sometimes cry. One such occasion was when he recited Surah Al-Isra (17:82), which speaks about the Quran being a healing for the believers. Additionally, there is a narration where the Prophet (SAW) cried when he was reciting verses from the Quran, particularly when he was with his wife Aisha (RA). She reported that he would sometimes cry during his prayers, especially when he recited verses about mercy and punishment. If you yourself are righteous and seek to find yourself a righteous woman, she would rather comfort you than humiliate you or leave you.
Sounds like you've had some bad experiences, brother. I advise you not to take those experiences as your guidance. Showing emotions isn't a weakness. Take our Prophet (saws) as your example instead. May Allah (swt) guide us all.
Prophet Muhammad SAW cried, are you saying he wants strong and courageous? Lol he did things to spread Allahs message which todays when could never do or withstand their egos are too big and courage and strength too little
At the end it's about education and respect
Much needed topic of discussion
Pray for my xabiiby sheikh,sonetimes i think he even forgets Allah swt in his gradiosity,ive refused to leave him but he drives me insane😢
Whenever any man cried before me i was more kind and polite and loving to him..i tried to work more on the relationship...be it my son, brother or husband
A Muslim Man must be physically strong and never cry Infront of his wife. Women manipulate men when they cry.
Me too. But toxic men will use this nurturing empathic side to us as a means to manipulate us. So sisters, please be careful. Some men, especially toxic men, consider showing emotions as a sign of weakness or feminine.
@militaryislam5184 Correction. Toxic women will manipulate a man when he cries. A healthy woman of good morals will comfort him without judgment.
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i hate the mindset that fathers need to babysit their kids. SIR, RESPECTFULLY, THATS YOUR KIDS too
Subhan Allah
May Allah Azzwajal help us and build us up to become responsible men and husbands and grant us all a good, righteous, religious and loving spouse and a good,religious and respectful family in this dunya and in the Akhira
امين يا رب العالمين
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Subhanallah alhamdulillah Allahu Akbar JazakAllah khair
Istighfar - From the Sunnah #1
(سيد الاستغفار) اَللّٰهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّيْ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ ، خَلَقْتَنِيْ وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ ، وَأَنَا عَلَىٰ عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ ، أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ ، أَبُوْءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ وَأَبُوْءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِيْ ، فَاغْفِرْ لِيْ فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوْبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ.
Allāhumma Anta Rabbī, lā ilāha illā Ant, khalaqtanī wa ana ʿabduk, wa ana ʿalā ʿahdika wa waʿdika mā’staṭaʿt, aʿūdhu bika min sharri mā ṣanaʿt, abū’u laka bi niʿmatika ʿalayya wa abū’u laka bi-dhambī fa-ghfir lī fa-innahū lā yaghfiru-dh-dhunūba illā Ant.
O Allah, You are my Lord. There is no god except You. You have created me, and I am Your slave, and I am under Your covenant and pledge (to fulfil it) to the best of my ability. I seek Your protection from the evil that I have done. I acknowledge the favours that You have bestowed upon me, and I admit my sins. Forgive me, for none forgives sins but You.
عَنْ بُشَيْرُ بْنُ كَعْبٍ الْعَدَوِيُّ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي شَدَّادُ بْنُ أَوْسٍ رضي الله عنه عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم سَيِّدُ الِاسْتِغْفَارِ أَنْ تَقُولَ: اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي، لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي، فَاغْفِرْ لِي، فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ. قَالَ: وَمَنْ قَالَهَا مِنَ النَّهَارِ مُوقِنًا بِهَا فَمَاتَ مِنْ يَوْمِهِ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُمْسِيَ فَهُوَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ، وَمَنْ قَالَهَا مِنَ اللَّيْلِ وَهُوَ مُوقِنٌ بِهَا فَمَاتَ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُصْبِحَ فَهُوَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ. (صحيح البخاري ٦٣٠٦)
Shaddād b. Aws (raḍiy Allāhu ʿanhu) narrates that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “The most superior manner of seeking forgiveness is that you say [the above]. Whoever says it during the day with firm belief in it and dies on the same day before the evening, he will be from the people of Paradise. And whoever says it during the night with firm belief in it and dies before the morning, he will be from the people of Paradise.” (Bukhārī 6306)
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Ayat al-Kursi: The Greatest Protection
أَعُوْذُ بِاللّٰهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيْمِ.
اَللّٰهُ لَآ إِلٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ الْحَىُّ الْقَيُّوْمُ ، لَا تَأْخُذُهُۥ سِنَةٌ وَّلَا نَوْمٌ ، لَهُۥ مَا فِى السَّمٰـوٰتِ وَمَا فِى الْأَرْضِ ، مَنْ ذَا الَّذِىْ يَشْفَعُ عِنْدَهُۥ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِۦ ، يَعْلَمُ مَا بَيْنَ أَيْدِيْهِمْ وَمَا خَلْفَهُمْ ، وَلَا يُحِيْطُوْنَ بِشَىْءٍ مِّنْ عِلْمِهِٓ إِلَّا بِمَا شَآءَ ، وَسِعَ كُرْسِيُّهُ السَّمٰـوٰتِ وَالْأَرْضَ، وَلَا يَئُوْدُهُۥ حِفْظُهُمَا ، وَهُوَ الْعَلِىُّ الْعَظِيْمُ.
Aʿūdhu bi-llāhi mina-sh-Shayṭāni-r-rajīm.
Allāhu lā ilāha illā Huwa-l-Ḥayyu-l-Qayyūm, lā ta’khudhuhū sinatuw-wa lā nawm, lahū mā fi-s-samāwāti wa mā fi-l-arḍ, man dhā-lladhī yashfaʿu ʿindahū illā bi-idhnih, yaʿlamu mā bayna aydīhim wa mā khalfahum, wa lā yuḥīṭūna bi-shay’im-min ʿilmihī illā bi-mā shā’, wasiʿa kursiyyuhu-s-samāwāti wa-l-arḍ, wa lā ya’ūduhū ḥifẓuhumā, wa Huwa-l-ʿAlliyu-l-ʿAẓīm.
I seek the protection of Allah from the rejected Shayṭān.
Allah, there is no god worthy of worship but He, the Ever Living, The Sustainer of all. Neither drowsiness overtakes Him nor sleep. To Him Alone belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. Who is it that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them and what will be after them, and they encompass not a thing of His knowledge except for what He wills. His Kursī extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not tire Him. And He is the Most High, the Magnificent. (2:255)
عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ رضي الله عنه، أَنَّهُ كَانَ لَهُ جَرِينُ تَمْرٍ فَكَانَ يَجِدُهُ يَنْقُصُ فَحَرَسَهُ لَيْلَةً، فَإِذَا هُوَ بِمِثْلِ الْغُلَامِ الْمُحْتَلِمِ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَرَدَّ عليه السلام، فَقَالَ: أَجِنِّيٌّ، أَمْ إِنْسِيٌّ؟ فَقَالَ: بَلْ جِنِّيٌّ، فَقَالَ: أَرِنِي يَدَكَ فَأَرَاهُ، فَإِذَا يَدُ كَلْبٍ وَشَعْرُ كَلْبٍ، فَقَالَ: هَكَذَا خَلْقُ الْجِنِّ، فَقَالَ: لَقَدْ عَلِمَتِ الْجِنُّ إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ فِيهِمْ رَجُلٌ أَشَدُّ مِنِّي، قَالَ: مَا جَاءَ بِكَ، قَالَ: أُنْبِئْنَا أَنَّكَ تُحِبُّ الصَّدَقَةَ فَجِئْنَا نُصِيبُ مِنْ طَعَامِكَ، قَالَ: مَا يُجِيرُنَا مِنْكُمْ؟ قَالَ: تَقْرَأُ آيَةَ الْكُرْسِيِّ مِنْ سُورَةِ الْبَقَرَةِ {اللَّهُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ الْحَيُّ الْقَيُّومُ} [البقرة: 255] قَالَ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: إِذَا قَرَأْتَهَا غُدْوَةً أُجِرْتَ مِنَّا حَتَّى تُمْسِيَ، وَإِذَا قَرَأْتَهَا حِينَ تُمْسِي أُجِرْتَ مِنَّا حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ، قَالَ أُبَيٌّ فَغَدَوْتُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ بِذَلِكَ، فَقَالَ: صَدَقَ الْخَبِيثُ.
(المستدرك على الصحيحين للحاكم ٢٠٦٤)
Ubayy b. Kaʿb (raḍiy Allāhu ʿanhu) reported that he had a vessel in which he kept dates. He found that its quantity was decreasing. So he kept guard on it one night and saw a creature that resembled an adolescent boy. Ubayy greeted him and he returned his greeting. Ubayy then asked him, “What are you, a jinnī or a human?” He replied, “A jinnī.” So he said to him, “Show me your hand.” So he showed him his hand, and it looked like a dog’s paw with dog’s fur. He said, “This is how the jinn are created. The jinn know that there is no one amongst them who is stronger than me.”
Ubayy asked him, “What caused you to do what you did?” He replied, “We heard that you are a man who loves charity, and we came to take our share from your food.’” Ubayy asked him, “What will protect us from you?” He replied, “Reciting Āyah al-Kursī from Sūrah al-Baqarah [i.e. the verse above]. If you recite it in the morning, you will be protected from us till the evening. And if you recite it in the evening, you will be protected from us till the morning.”
Ubayy said: “The following morning, I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and told him about what had happened. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, “The evil one spoke the truth.” (Ḥākim 2064)
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This is exactly what the video is about toxic your doing a example
Dude there is no bots
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I'm not being toxic
I just behave normally and see females as humans just like me.
They have some different problems they have to face.So,I try to understand them instead of assuming anything.
This is decent behavior and the bare minimum requirement for everyone to embody. Inshallah, it will become normalized to treat and see everyone as humans and to understand them instead of assuming.
@Sandra-1wiq highly unlikely. From the beginning of time, women have been looked at as less than important and easily oppressed
*The Prophet(ﷺ)said:“One who-strives-to-help the widow and the-poor is such as the-one-who-fights-in the way of Allah.”(Sahih al-Bukhari) I am your sister in islam, and I am a widow and I have four orphaned children without a father. I am unable to provide even food for them. Sometimes my children sleep without eat. and we don t have anything at home to anything us except for your mercy. and Also, the owner of the house comes most days, and telling us, that he will take us out of the house. due to delay in paying the rent and Also because of the accumulation of previous dues to them. Where do we go? and my kids are,. and they are still young and unable to work. and we have no source of earning money to live off of, and debts are accumulating on us and increasing day by day, and no one is responsible for us. only God. The Prophet(ﷺ)said"Those who are merciful will be shown mercy by the Most Merciful" jazakum allah khayrana*
I think you got think wrong man shouldn’t display higher emotions than his wife for example but of course he can cry or be sad and show love but can’t be a wimp that’s the difference because his partner will look down on him with time women have no pity when it comes to men, women wait at the finish line to pick the winner they don’t care about your struggle
@@gool54 that’s what I’m saying. Our generation of women are beyond different from the prophets time period. Ladies make their own income now and have their own career. They don’t really rely on us anymore. That being said we cannot show a seed size of weakness to them.
There are many hadiths where the prophet SAW would cry infront of his womenfolk, such as when Ibrahim passed away, he cried in front of his companions, including women:
“When Ibrahim died, the Prophet (SAW) wept. The companions said to him, ‘O Messenger of Allah, you are weeping!’ He replied, ‘The heart is grieved, and the eyes shed tears, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord.’” (Sahih al-Bukhari)
Hadith about the Quran: It is reported that when the Prophet (SAW) recites the Quran, especially verses about punishment or mercy, he sometimes cries. One such occasion was when he recited Surah Al-Isra (17:82), which speaks about the Quran being a healing for the believers.
And there is a narration where the Prophet (SAW) cried when he was reciting verses from the Quran, particularly when he was with his wife Aisha (RA). She reported that he would sometimes cry during his prayers, especially when he recited verses about mercy and punishment. And the last part of your paragraph sounds misogynistic, you claim that women don't care about your struggle? Have you interviewed every single woman in the world to see if that's true before making such a generalization about women. You are referring to a certain group of women, you should be seeking a righteous woman and vice versa. If you search for any woman without taking into account her righteousness or how she acts around any man (be it her brother, or father) that displays emotion, then what do you expect when they fall into this category.
@@Majesticwalnuttabsolutely. Men oppressed women when they were in positions of authority. Furthermore, the men certainly aren't the same either.
I'm sorry. In this modern world I don't agree with any of this. Whatever this person is saying might have worked 2000 years ago or even in the 1940s and 50s but in today society doing even half of the things thus narrator says is a sure fire way to the divorce courts. So many "nice" men have been totally screwed over by their wife etc. Nah, I think I'll stick with my "toxic" masculinity. It has worked for the past 31 years of marriage and will see me through 31 more years inshallah. Never ever ever ever be weak or show weakness in front of a woman.
I strongly disagree with crying in front of your lady, we are in a different time period in a lady’s mind she will find you to be a weak man. vulnerability needs to be hidden don’t show it in public (in this time period).
Well depends on how close to each other you are.
Whenever a man cr
@ don’t matter how close you are brother. It’s not me even being bitter. U cannot show an ant size of weakness to your lady. U can have a family with any lady now and they will still leave u it doesn’t matter.
Regardless of the time period, we follow the sunnahs and traditions of the prophet SAW, and he used to cry in front of his womenfolk and other people. If you have a lady that considers you a weak man just for crying, you need to find yourself a righteous lady.
When Ibrahim passed away, and the Prophet (SAW) was deeply affected by the loss. It is reported that he cried in front of his companions, including women. The hadith states:
“When Ibrahim died, the Prophet (SAW) wept. The companions said to him, ‘O Messenger of Allah, you are weeping!’ He replied, ‘The heart is grieved, and the eyes shed tears, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord.’” (Sahih al-Bukhari)
Hadith about the Quran: It is reported that when the Prophet (SAW) would recite the Quran, especially verses about punishment or mercy, he would sometimes cry. One such occasion was when he recited Surah Al-Isra (17:82), which speaks about the Quran being a healing for the believers.
Additionally, there is a narration where the Prophet (SAW) cried when he was reciting verses from the Quran, particularly when he was with his wife Aisha (RA). She reported that he would sometimes cry during his prayers, especially when he recited verses about mercy and punishment. If you yourself are righteous and seek to find yourself a righteous woman, she would rather comfort you than humiliate you or leave you.
Sounds like you've had some bad experiences, brother. I advise you not to take those experiences as your guidance. Showing emotions isn't a weakness. Take our Prophet (saws) as your example instead. May Allah (swt) guide us all.
A man must never cry Infront of his wife. A Muslim Man must be strong and courageous.
U cannot be strong forever
Crying is not weakness, their is Adam AS, Muhammad AS, Zakariya AS, and Yaqoob AS. Who cried their whole lifetime.
Prophet Muhammad SAW cried, are you saying he wants strong and courageous? Lol he did things to spread Allahs message which todays when could never do or withstand their egos are too big and courage and strength too little
Crying is a healthy physiological response for when the body has to release tension
Clearly didnt listen to the khuthba.
Never open up to a woman again if you already did it once and she used it to put you down, disrespect you or shut you up.