When Should a Child Quit a Sport?

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  • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
    @MakeYouFeelBetterNow ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My advise to any kid reading this. Your parent can't and shouldn't force you to play a sport you don't like. Instead of quitting all sports, replace the sport you don't like with a sport you like. Playing sports and being active is very important and will help you a lot in life, especially later as an adult. Good luck!

  • @DEEPLUVBOO
    @DEEPLUVBOO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I've played football for most of my life and its boring and my last team made my passion of football worse, I tried telling my dad I don't wanna play football but he instantly shot it down by saying It was the only option because of others, I said I wanted to do baseball before the season had started now he only cares about me living his life for him and tried to force me to do wrestling when I never showed interest on something he did when he was younger, I just wasn't to understood as a normal person instead of a kid who has no say, or answer to a problem. I just want to quit football and just have a normal life for once.

    • @hello-xo6pl
      @hello-xo6pl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I never like sports. I always like art and piano and spent my time on that, but my parents forced me into. Sport. I grew up with a negative mindset against sports

  • @foxx.on.saturn5143
    @foxx.on.saturn5143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Haha I’ve been wanting to quit for 6 years I’ve pushed through now I have emotional trauma and a shit load of regret/self hate for staying with it because I feel I could’ve done so many other things with my time.

    • @Brady_D_Luffy
      @Brady_D_Luffy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is my same story with baseball wanting to quit for 3 years but my dad loves it so much I cabt

    • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
      @MakeYouFeelBetterNow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You could have been doing worse things with your time, at least it was healthy. But now it's time to start living your life, do a sport or things that interest you.

    • @loganehewett9807
      @loganehewett9807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 35 and resent my parents for not hearing me say I hate sports from the age of 4-17 it's caused me to miss exploring my own interests. Anything I've ever taken an interest to doing I've done very well, the lack of actual guidance in my youth wss debilitating

  • @mattgreco4712
    @mattgreco4712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve played football for 3 years currently a freshmen and I’ve lost a lot of motivation to play

    • @yummykitkatyt4580
      @yummykitkatyt4580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      12 years for on my sport I’ve felt like shit for the past 4 years

  • @PIANOPHUNGUY
    @PIANOPHUNGUY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My dad got us into judo for a year when I was 7. Way too young . I didn't know what I was doing.

    • @MakeYouFeelBetterNow
      @MakeYouFeelBetterNow ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a little young for Judo, but some very successful people started then. If they wanted to go that route, it would have been better to start in wrestling or perhaps BJJ.

    • @yummykitkatyt4580
      @yummykitkatyt4580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I started when I was four and I still do it and hate my martial art stop crying

  • @TheOGGalaxy._.
    @TheOGGalaxy._. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Still dont like playing football. Im happy when I don't play but still my dad doesn't care. He overexagerates my health and uses that as a way to force me into playing the sport i said i didn't want to play anymore. He is more enthusiastic about it then i am, its so obvious he's doing this just to see himself play but through his kid. I don't want to be a couch potato and i love the gym, but he doesn't care even if i presented that to him. By the time i am able to move out i think i might do it.

  • @brydenpaul7276
    @brydenpaul7276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bruh 2nd year of high school football gr10 and I’m having to learn first tight end and now guard positions plus it feels more like a burden to go then FUN plus if I continue I’ll be a stater against guy three times my experiences and weight it’s only the second day for me.

  • @sigmawithagyatt
    @sigmawithagyatt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m only in year 2 of playing american football and I wanna quit. I’m pretty good at it and last season we only lost 1 game, but I just don’t wanna do it anymore. It isn’t fun to me anymore. My mom signed me up for it randomly.

    • @antitorivega7667
      @antitorivega7667 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is me with athletics, I'm good at it and all but the decision to start it was extremely rushed, I've done it for a year and a half. I really dont enjoy it but im good at it and I don't want to let anyone down

  • @fijiwater166
    @fijiwater166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just turned 15 a week ago and been doing boxing for a year and a half. i have not been enjoying workouts and i can’t get motivated anymore idk why. when i think there is other people working harder than me and people started way before i get upset and i just lay in bed all day which i have been doing all this week. if anyone could spare some advice I’ll appreciate it please

    • @fijiwater166
      @fijiwater166 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      another thing people say a have a lot of potential and i only have 1 amateur fight and i won. but since the pandemic the motivation was there till now. i really do not want too disappoint the people at the gym and my coach if i quit so idk and this is putting a lot of stress on me

    • @forwatching2310
      @forwatching2310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fijiwater166 hi when I was younger I was told I was talented and whatnot but I suddenly lost interest and quit sports. I wish I hadn't done that and I think I would be more fit and confident now if I hadn't fully quit. Maybe take a break for a month or so and see how you feel about it? Ultimately your life is yours to live and it's not about meeting other people's expectations. Think about the sort of person you want to be in the future and see if boxing lines up with it - don't stress about making the wrong decision because all decisions are, in some way, wrong. I managed to do really good academically and get into a difficult university and degree after stopping sports but it won't stop me from imagining what could've happened if I didn't stop. I hope you find a path you're content with and are proud of yourself!

    • @fijiwater166
      @fijiwater166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For Watching hey thanks man for this. woke up today and feeling good and had a desire to go for a run. I’ll give it a week and see how i feel. Once again thank you

  • @bananagun6598
    @bananagun6598 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my parents force me to do swimming, literlaly impossible to convince them otherwise

    • @yummykitkatyt4580
      @yummykitkatyt4580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think you should be forced to do swimming it’s almost a survival thing but once your confident I don’t thing people should really have to

  • @SUPERMAN-s3m
    @SUPERMAN-s3m หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can somebody help me i have been playing football for a year and i lost motivation i wanna go to the gym and hangout with my friends i dont like football anymore my team gives me stress. I tried telling my mom but she forces me to go i dont feel happy when going training. Football isnt my thing. I kinda feel bad for my cuz she bought me boots my football clothes my club bills and she has SPEND so much money i dont want it to go waste
    Im very stressed im just un happy

  • @NorthFloridaMan
    @NorthFloridaMan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts

  • @CitizenofEarth-x3m
    @CitizenofEarth-x3m หลายเดือนก่อน

    A good parent pushes academics, the end.

  • @rcrushly1117
    @rcrushly1117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im 10 im thinking about quiting football for motox

    • @nekojcovek8466
      @nekojcovek8466 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe wait a month or two, if you still do, quit instantly. Don't make the mistake I did

    • @Discipleofthelordandjesus
      @Discipleofthelordandjesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont lol I’m 18 now . So many emotional decisions I made as a kid… keep going

  • @zyrox3240
    @zyrox3240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hate this