THE TRUTHS BEHIND SENDING YOUR CHILD TO NURSERY POST CANCER..
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ก.ย. 2024
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We are the bridge family trying to get the most out of this rat race we all call life.
In September 2021 we found out our dreams had come true. We were expecting a new addition ….to the Bridge family.
We spent the next 9 months, like any normal parents would, preparing our life for the arrival of our little boy.
On the 11th of may 2022, at 11:11pm we were bless with the birth of our son. HE WAS PERFECT. We instantly felt love like we had never experienced and our family of 4 we always dreamed of. Was finally complete.
We had the most magical first 8 months with Teddy experiencing all that life had to offer. UNTIL on the 24 of feb 2023 he got diagnosed with high risk AML Leukaemia.
We spent 6 months (184 days to be exact) at Great Ormond Street Hospital. He endured 2 rounds of chemotherapy and a full bone marrow transplant in hope that it would save our son's life.
We documented every part of his journey on this channel to raise awareness and give childhood cancer the exposure it deserves.
After riding the hellish and unpredictable storm Teddy made it to the end of his treatment and RANG. THAT BELL!
You are joining us now in our next chapter of this journey at home at bridge HQ, as we try to rebuild our life and continue to spread awareness about what it’s like to have a child post cancer and transplant in hope that this second chance at life we have been given. IS FOREVER.
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Our perspective and what we want from life when spending 6 months in hospital fighting for your child’s life, let’s just say has changed a little.
All though myself and Katie have been lucky enough to travel the world far and wide in the past and now are slightly restricted for now due to Teddys recovery. This doesn’t mean to can’t dream, explore and go on adventures from our doorstep to show our son what life has to offer.
TIME is something that none of us have control over and let me tell you. It isn’t on our side. I don’t have time. We don’t have time and you don’t have time. Yes I said it. YOU. DON'T. HAVE. TIME.
So if there is one message we would like to spread to all of our community here on our channel. It’s live for today as tomorrow is never promised.
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Teddy is a smart child. He is so amazing. He learns new song at the nursery. Thanks for his first day of nursery school.
Your fears are well founded Scott! There are so many unknowns when a child starts a new phase in their life. Hopefully his immune system will start to improve little by little being exposed to a variety of new bugs. In addition to Teddy growing physically, he is such a wonderfully intelligent little boy, he needs to continue to grow mentally. He is really amazingly intelligent, sociable and self assured. Seeing him so well and happy just fills the hearts of those who follow your channel! ❤
You are two absolutely fantastic parents. Sometimes I think people that will be able to handle and give their all are chosen for these situations. Teddy is looking fantastic and so are Mum and Dad. He is such a fast learner and we shall pray that he stays cancer free. He is such a cute little man.
Keep living for today because tomorrow is never promised ❤
Scott, you have to go with your saying, “Live for today as tomorrow is never promised.” As hard as it, you will adjust, as well as Teddy. Good luck 🍀💙
You're never boring to listen to, Scott! What you were explaining makes perfect sense. I'm so glad that Arthur is at the same nursery with Teddy. That has to help him to feel more secure. He's such a smart and sociable little boy! It was so sweet to see him give Willow a cuddle upon returning home the first day. I'm so very proud of our Super Ted!❤🎊🌟
I'm so proud of Teddy! What a big boy! I'm so proud of mom and dad too! It takes a lot of courage to let a child soar after what he's been through! Great job!
I completely under stand I have a rare cancer and have chemo everyday morning and night I have to avoid big crowds watching your videos brings me great happiness Ted is a wonderful clever little man and you and Katie are exceptional parents take care
Scott, every time you are nursing Teddy with an illness or a bug, .aube it will help to think of it as Teddy just leveled up I'm the immune system game.
I dread the kids getting sick so I can't really imagine how you must feel about it. You and Katy are just such wonderful parents and are exactly what he will always need x
Teddy is an awesome child and will do great in Nursery. Such a precious time.❤
Absolutely over the moon to see Teddy reach this milestone! 🎉🤩
Aww ❤ his lovely interaction with Willow!!! He is beyond precious 🥰
Teddy is so smart 🤓
It was so marvelous to see your son smiling and happy walking out the door for his first day of school! I can really understand your feelings about him going to school and picking up something but I think you’re making the right decision by letting him go!!Learning to be around other children is important for Teddy!! Tough decision on your part I know!!!!
Teddy, you are Amazing! You will thrive, learn new songs, read new books, play new games and make new friends. Its a huge step for you all. I can appreciate your apprehension Scott, this is as much about yourself and Kate as it is about Teddy. You are all moving forward together.
Sending the biggest and best hugs and love to you all...
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Big hugs as a nursery practitioner I promise he will be loved, you will get initial nursery germs where they share it in the begining then it gradually spaces out if a child is not settled food is the last thing they will eat as food is the only thing they can control in the whole situation. Proud of you for doing this x
look at that big boy with a smile on his face!!!!!
Looking back on these videos ,teddy has come such a long way , precious boy, enjoy your first day , he melted my heart when he said love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Awe what a sweet boy. He loves his willow and she luvs him. Week after week teddy is talking so good and went from learning to walk to running so fast. Hope he enjoys school. Prayers for good health for the Bridge family. Mum not sick anymore with bad belly dad with tooth ache. Much luv from FL. Bring the bridge family to Florida I'll treat ya to a Disney trip for Teddy
Teddy has grown so much. Clever little boy.
OMG so proud of Teddy starting nursery school.
Scott you fears worries and urge to control the situation your faced with is absolutely valid and understandable. I have a Very healthy 29 year old son and as a mum when he started nursery I was a wreak!!!! I hated the thought of him getting sick and when he did my anxiety at letting him return you to the place where he got sick was overwhelming and my son had no health concerns, so to be in yours and Katie's shoes is not a place I would ever want to be. I think your amazing parents and you too both need to be proud of yourselves and each other for pushing through the fear and anxiety for the benefit of Teddy.
My son is a parent now and I watch him going through the same fears and worries I went through, it's only natural to have these feelings as a loving parent and even more so for you as a parent of a post transplant child.
All I can say is trusrt in the process, trust in your decision, trust in each other and talk to each other about your daily worries and fears for Teddy as he grows up and faces new challenges.
One thing about being a parent now matter what,as soon as our children come into this world we worry about them. The worries never stop, they just change as time goes by.
If the anxiety becomes too overwhelming for either of you then contact people at children's cancer charities as I am sure they will be able to point you in the right direction you need to get outside emotional support especially as PTSD is a big thing for parents of children living with a cancer no matter what stage their treatment is at.
On a final note your an awesome family and this Chanel will be and continue to be of comfort, courage and strength to families living through childhood cancers.
Thankyou for continuing to share your journey with us all and for creating awareness of childhood Cancer
God bless you all. I'm rooting for you always xxxx ❤️❤️😘😘🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂🫂
Well done all of you!
Totally understand your angst about sending Teddy to day care. I’m a former pediatric nurse from the United States. Is there learning in your day care there? As a rule, there’s not here. You can always give it a go and if runs into issues, restart next year. Preschool starts at 3 years of age and most require potty trained. Good to see Teddy eating.
I got a lump in my throat just watching this video Teddy your one amazing hero to me enjoy your nursery life he is growing up to fast your both amazing parents love and hugs to you all xx
Scott, you and Katy have such wise, totally selfless, courageous heads on your shoulders, and your journey with Teddy is a huge inspiration and education to us all. We understand the massive pressure between doing what your heart tells you over what your head tells you, and it's clear to see that your only desire is to help your boy 'live for today,' while also protecting him at the same time! Massive respect to you both! ❤
You’re doing brilliant. Even adults that have gone through chemo or treatment, don’t always go back to work or school right away. I think you’re being smart doing as you feel is proper for him. Cute little chap!
You don't waffle on Scott....what your sharing is very valuable information from yours and kates experience of what you been through and going through different emotions and worries that are slightly different to the average parent that hasn't been what you both been through...if that makes sense lol...i was gutted on my kids first day of nursery...they grown up now but I shed a tear ... anyway,teddy is amazing in everything he does, there's no stopping him...he's grown so quick...I just love your videos there's a mixture of everything...sorry for waffling on 😂...roll on next video...sending lots of hugs
Teddy did great his first couple days!! You and Katie are amazing parents 🤩. Have an outstanding week.
I can only imagine your angst and you and Katie are well founded. Teddy is such an adorable and smart child and may rule the roost at nursery😁
OMG I didn't know it was possible to love someone you have never met in person but that cheeky, handsome, smart little boy has this grandma from California has me hook line and sinker. Give that little boy a great big hug from grandma Lori. Love to you and Kate and of course willow.
Scott and Katie , you’re just super amazing people and parents! ❤Teddy, you’re just amazing too! ❤️⭐️
Hi the Bridges, it's so nice to see little man going off to nursery, go super Teddy.
I totally understand that both you and Katie have decided you'll only have Teddy and to throw all your love and support into raising him. However, being an only child can be very lonely at times. If you're both busy and he wants to play a board game, it'll have wait until one of you are free. Having no siblings to share life's journey together is tough.
I completely understand you've made your decision and no one can influence you to change. I believe you are brilliant parents and you have very big hearts. You're great with little man.
So happy to see that Teddy is doing so well at nursery school. It’s a big adjustment for him and you and Katie. I remember taking our son to nursery school. He cried at first when I left and a few days later he cried when I picked him up! Of course we hadn’t been through the horrible experience that you and Katie have been. My husband and I would have have the same worries that you do. I pray that Teddy stays healthy and grows up to be a wonderful young man.
You are doing great with making choices even when you are scared. I'd personally have started him in a year from now. An extra year to get stronger and a bit older and just do more catch ups with kids etc and more social stuff over the next year. He is only little and pausing another year would have been my idea. But Teddy is amazing and he will do his best with everything he tries anyway
You are amazing Teddy! ❤🙏
Awesome Teddy, and well, well done Scott and Katie!
Yes, you did it! You got through the first day, and the second day of Nursery School.
You’ve made the right decision for Teddy, and in the long run, it’s also the right decision for you both as well.
I can only imagine how difficult it is to put the anxiety to rest and just let your boy live.
But, you’re doing it, even with the understandable anxiety.
God bless and keep you all.
You are all AMAZING!
Love from Queensland, Australia. ❤🇦🇺
As a teacher, I have had to find things that help me and my students stay well with all of the nasty germs that are within schools. I have two things I have found effective, although in his case would probably need to be run by his physicians. I have a medical background as well having worked at our children’s hospital in Fort Worth Texas, Cook’s Children Medical Center. The first helpful thing I found is using a diffuser in the home and classroom that you can put two natural oil blends in. They are called “OnGuard and Breathe”. I purchase the ones by DoTerra oils. I have really seen a difference with this. Having taught near an Indian Reservation, I learned that Elderberry is great for keeping our immune system stronger. Since I learned this, I have given my own children and myself Elderberry gummies everyday. I have noticed a big difference in our ability to fend off infection. I am immunocompromised myself and so I have to be diligent with my health as well. They are both natural and have worked for all of us. Just an idea to consideration. I know you will do your research. I love your videos and Teddy’s singing. Keep up the good fight! ❤ to each or you.
Another milestone. My grandkids are grown now but all the anxiety of first day at any school is normal. Good that he is learning new activities and trying new foods. Step by step is the order of the day. Teddy is so cute with you all. I remember a comedy joke about second day at nursery school and the toddler says to mom (May be a little late.. going to stop off with the boys for milk after class.). They do grow up so very fast.
Congrats Teddy on Nursey school love following your progress
❤❤my daughter is 19 now but was 4and half when had cancer I remeber send her with Ng tube to school well done Scott and Katie and teddy xx I am all so doing 5k for gosh so mite see you there xx
Amazing! If you see us and the big bear please come and say hello ❤️🙌🏻
Well my worried feelings just came back watching Super Ted go to school for the first time. When you have children, no one tells you the hardest part when they are little, is sending them to school! Oh man, I have butterflies for Teddy!
Definitely get ready for Teddy to get all kinds of illnesses from school. My 2 boys just had to breathe and they caught everything.
This is part of growing up!
Sending Love & Prayers from Florida!
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Just love watching your videos Scott. Teddy is lucky to have you and Katie as his parents.
Difficult balancing act, Scott but as you say, Teddy's immune system needs the exposure. His body needs the ability to fight viruses and infections. That is key.
A worrying process for you and Katie, but in time you will be so glad you sent him to nursery.
Totally understandable you want control but it is impossible to control ALL the variables.
The video was not boring at all..
We all feel for you and are willing things to go well. I'm sure they will.
Teddy will thrive at nursery school. He's alright, beautiful child. Go, Teddy Bridge!!
Love to you all.
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Meant a bright, beautiful child!! 😊
Way you go Teddy, willow will be following you about more, goodies landing her way, yes the dog is always great for hiding food you don’t want, did it myself. Nice to see Katy with camera, hello Arthur, Ted will love 🧡 the new toys, new children, the colours, the singing, what a good thing to do, he is really being part of things now, we are all so happy, emotional for everyone rock on Teddy ❤❤❤xxx
Well done Teddy for being so brave and trying new thing and meeting new friends. And well done mummy and daddy for letting him go 🎉xx
Wow ! Hi Lovely dog! It's called Willow! I love it😂 ! Glad the school went as well as it did ! And Scott I understand that comprehension I had a very sick baby that I spent a lot of time in the hospital with her and I felt exactly that COMPREHENSION on her first day of school! Well, she holds her own very well at age 20! I hope it all goes well for Teddy and you and that he will thrrive in health and spirit !!
Great job teddy
He is a beautiful big boy well done champion Teddy 😘😇❤️❤️❤️❤️👏💪
You both are so wonderful and look how you balance each other with these transitions! Katy handles anxiety differently from you and it works !! Teddy is quite the star and those hats he sports are just the best!! You say how blessed to come home greeted by your beautiful wife and little star well we are all blessed with your family in our lives truly I am a better person how to be more kind patient live life fuller so thank you for being so incredible 🙏🧚💖🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚🧚
I think any parent is apprehensive when sending their child to nursery or school for the first time. I completely understand your worries Scott but I really believe this will be beneficial for Teddy in so many ways. Great video once again.
Scott and Katie you have a happy go little boy he makes my day ....im still waiting for hes autograph he sings like a little star ✨ always happy and chatting away
Bless you both!!!! I would be terrified just like you, Scott. Teddy did amazing!!!! Can see how it tires him, but sending our prayers for stamina, health, and strength… it’s great they call you when he’s hit his limit. I’m sure he needs to slowly adapt to all these changes. “Let’s do it” thumbs up!!!!
I am crying my head off. Hoping everything goes great.
Well done Teddy, you were so brave going to Nursery for the first time,and you are amazing....we got this Teddy,
God bless you all.
Scott thank you for sharing your concerns. I don’t feel that for a child but for myself as I also am on Ivig. I was denied and over due for 5 weeks and had to start back to working at a school. I have learned over the years that worrying creates its own issues. Ivig has protected me over the years more than I know. My attendance is better than some as I have learned how to protect myself best I can. Ivig has antibodies to chicken pox so he has a slight head start in getting through it. Wish way to help.
It can't be easy to suddenly let go scott , I pray he does amazing and doesn't get to many bugs . Just take one day at a time as you have done each step of the way .
Teddy your a superstar I think we would all be anxious in your shoes Scott it s such a milestone that he has reached
Teddy is so adorable you cant help but love him . He always brings a smile to my face ❤❤
Not boring in the slightest! I can’t even imagine how worrying it is for you, but you explain it very well. I suppose my question would be - if you don’t let him go now, then when? When he’s 5, 7, 10? He’s going from strength to strength and well done to you and Katie for being so strong, too ❤❤❤
I pray that all goes well for Teddy at nursery school. I know there’s a lot to worry about, but I think Teddy will thrive! He is the smartest and cutest little guy! All my love and hugs to you all ❤️🥰🤗💙
Turn Teddy completely in Gods care. Ask God to put a hedge of protection around him….all the time. Peace
Big step for Teddy B and for you and Katie, onwards and upwards guys 👍😘❤️
Well done Teddy B beginning the next chapter in your awesome exciting book 📚 of life...wonderful milestone have fun adventures & make lots of wonderful friends 💙
As always a continuous flow of healing reiki energy flowing to you big strong boy xxx✨🕯💜✨🕯💜✨🕯💜
Well done guys you have taking on hell of a big step,there a thousands of parents out there who are apprehensive bounty sending there pride and joy to nursery and they have children who are unlike Ted have never been ill,So Scott and Kate you have made the right decision for your Cub ,of course your fear is real and u would not be human if u didn't,but as u said Scott you can't keep him at home he is such a little fighter and so funny for a 2 year old ,of course you will have ups and downs and u will think the worst but we you Bridge Family still holding him in our hearts and prayers he will keep marching on,I just have to say I have never seen a child wake up from a nap and first thing he say is let's play Hide-seek ,full of energy ,you and Kate are doing something right and he is so healthy ,funny and full of life and he knows how to chat ,I hope all is going well in the nursery and carries on like that,as always lots of love to my little Ted 🐻,Love to you Scott and Kate and remember that this Bridge Family is here for you always,Willow gets a woof woof ,love and hugs to u all❤️❤️❤️
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You are definitely doing the right thing as he want to be playing with other children.. so good for his social skills. I was a nursery nurse for 35 years and the nursery is doing well by letting him settle in gradually. Well done Super Ted ❤👍
Scott love how open your are about your anxiety concerning Teddy going to nursery school only natural to feel the way you do keep in mind you and Katie are doing what the doctor said is Let that boy live Teddy is thriving and loving life just like a toddler should ❤🏴
It’s understandable that you & Katie are worried about Teddy going to nursery school, I’m scared for you, knowing that it’s in Teddy’s best interest & knowing that Teddy is going to thrive doesn’t make it any easier for you & Katie, Teddy is an amazing little boy seeing him shine bright like the little star he is makes my heart smile, you & Katie are amazing parents, I’m so glad that I get to see Teddy shine❤️xx
He's so much stronger now.
Awww…Teddy you are doing amazing 👏👏👏👏…he is going to be just fine❤️🙏🏻🌸🦋
❤ were all with you on nursery journey teddy what an amazing boy as parents Ur wonderful 💯😊
Oho Teddy ,YOU ARE SOOO CUTE .LOVE YOU SO MUCH ❤
Love you,Teddy. God bless you all.
So glad you posted this, Teddy is amazing! I just cannot get over how smart he is! The anxiety is real, you and Katie are so brave to send him to pre school, don't know if I could do it! It is the best thing for him, praying he thrives and gets tiny bugs to build up that immune system. By the way do you have a post office box?
As always a great job on re video of Teddy & he started nursery school & meeting new friends. How cool that his cousin goes to the same one as well.
He looks like he is enjoying it & then tired not too long after he gets back home for a relaxing nap for his body to feel energized for the rest of the day of play at home or fun outings with his parents!
Keep up the good care & love of Teddy & keeping him well this past yr after transplant!!
Keep the faith Scott.
When my kids started kindergarden i put a small amout of neosporin in their nostrils. They never got sick.
It is so hard for you when your role for the past few years has been completely the opposite to what you're doing now. The thing is it has to happen at some point and it's better to do it now thsn later on. It's Big Boy Pants Time now and I know you'll rise to the occasion.🙏💙🙏💙
Oh Wow. For us the doctors are not letting my son to kindergarten until he gets his mandatory early childhood vaccinations and he can only get them 1 year after end of treatment and he didn’t even have a transplant, just chemo (intensive and maintenance therapy)
Scott its Completely normal to be worried about Ted starting Nursery but if I know teddy we going to Smash it he's beat cancer so he will be Absolutely fine at nursery he will make new friends learn new Nursery rhymes and lots and lots of playing and maybe a girlfriend lol 😂😂😂😂 and look how happy he was proud of you all Especially teddy
You and Katie are amazing mummy and daddy 💓💓💓💞💞💝💝💛💚💚💚💙💙💕
I think Teddy should be home with you guys if it's possible, I don't listen to the world, I think you should listen to your gut, and there's parents out there that don't vaccinate. I think you need to question is it truly a must for you to send him to nursery? But if you are happy, then I'm happy. ❤
Hi. After my son had a stem cell transplant when he was 21yrs he had to receive all his baby/ toddler immunisations again. Just wondering if Teddie also had to have his immunisations done again before starting nursery. Very best wishes from Australia
Scott I would be like you and would have kept him away from nursery only because when my daughter went to nursery was the first time she ever got sick in her pre school years and it got progressively worse as then she contracted whooping cough from an unvaccinated child and was extremely ill for weeks even though she was vaccinated and it’s affected her lungs for life but situations like that seem unavoidable if your child is to progress through the pre school to school system. I think your overseeing him and taking that extra care will hopefully keep Teddy safe and if there’s an outbreak of anything detrimental you can always keep him at home.
Good luck and I hope Teddy settles in.
I love your content, and everything you, and Katie feel, is exactly what good parents worry about, but going through what both of you have went through, have caused you to come out with huge scares, nobody could watch their child go through cancer, and not have them. Teddy is strong, and he can do this, and I believe your right, you can't stop him from living, great job guys!!!👆👆👆
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Well done to you teddy our little super star. So proud of you for managing your first days at nursery like a pro... Get in there Teddy B ❤👍🫶
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