I’m adding another comment because something extraordinary happened after I watched this. After asking myself where am I not free, I realised that I’ve had a deep-seated belief that I am a big disappointment which stems from childhood. Anyway, I asked myself, what would I do and who would I be if I wasn’t a disappointment? Rather than an answer, a feeling came, a lighter feeling and a feeling of more freedom. This morning I feel much less inclined to comfort eat and feel low. I feel a general sense of having more courage, less fucks and more inclined to smile. So thank you from the bottom of my heart. I hope you see this message. Love and peace. 🙏🏼💙🦋
Dammit Peter. I am an Alaskan Fisherman with a whole lot of shadows. Been listening to you for about a month, and you have helped me find myself finally. I was always there. I can't fucking thank you enough
I noticed in the beginning of the podcast how Aubrey says "I hope we don't disappoint them" , and Peter replies with "I would love to meet the expectations". Literally, the two statements are the same but the way they're articulated makes all the difference. Aubrey is brilliant, of course. Thanks for your amazingly deep questions and vulnerability, man. Wonderful podcast.
49:00 "Life will present you with people and circumstances to reveal where you're not free." Also... "What happened at that moment, couldn't have happened any other way. Why?? Because it didn't."
What a commitment to human being ... to watch Peter 'working' ... and just be totally inspired by what he releases in Aubrey .... and Aubreys willingness to go there ... its just beautiful! Thank you.
I have never heard of Peter Crone, but now I am a fan. It is so rare to hear deep heart focused truth. Wonderful have powerfully and gently he helped Aubrey see his life in new ways
Rarely you get the chance to hear two people talk so openly, honestly and free about life. I love this podcast, love these two people, because they are showing clearly what it is like to have a conversation with respect, honor and pure love. Thank you Aubrey Marcus and Peter Crone for this.
this guy really speaks the truth. I love what he said about always trying to tie it back to people in real life who are struggling. He said somehwere in the beginning that "we could sit here in the comfort of this room and talk about unity and love all day" but that doesnt really translate to people and their struggles. THAT is the truth, I think in the world of self help the actual talking can become really detached from the lived experience of that person (I've noticed this first hand with myself) and true healing really does start to take place when the gap between our thoughts and our actual lives becomes smaller. When we actually see ourselves and our lives as they actually are in reality (not how we wish we could be our how we wish our lives would be) and start to make peace with our existence, as flawed as it is. What i've found on this path is that its totally okay to absolutely hate something about my life right now/about my experience (I struggle with anxiety) while still accepting that this is my life and it's actually okay, that I'm actually okay even with my anxiety. It sounds so simple but when you actually start to metabolize it on a cellular level it is sooo profound. Like I dont have to sit up in my head all day and wish xyz was more spiritual, more united, more loving, etc, I can actually meet reality in all its messiness and its all good! I can even hate it sometimes and thats totally fine! I don't have to shy away from myself and my life in a quest to be "healed" --that completely goes against the true nature of healing. I hope that makes sense! went on a little tangent there.
@A PO Peter Crone is amazing isn't he, I try to listen to his podcasts/youtubes as much as I can. Your comment above really resonated with me, about making peace with our existence, and to be OK with it & accepting our flaws (eg in your case anxiety). It does sound indeed simple as you say, but I do struggle with how to implement this day-to-day. It's like I know the theory but really fail to implement and go back to being negative & anxious. If you have any tips to share on how to actually rewire/recondition the thinking, let me know, I would be grateful :)! One more question I had when reading your comment, what to you mean with 'the gap between our thoughts and our actual lives becomes smaller'? Do you mean with that to live in the now, mindfully as opposed to having thoughts all the time? Thanks & wish you a great day!
A PO... Thanks for sharing... Reading you... I was just shading tears... It hit so deep and the worst part when you cannot or make people around to understand... Much love from France. ♥️.. Bisous.
Véronique A. Smans I resonated with your comments for AP O - couldn’t have said it better myself... I do a lot of research, but stumble in executing or even where to start. So overwhelmed with all the fires that should be put out... feel like a snake eating myself to the point of just staying on my iPad, reading self help books, and fighting the anxiety, depression and financial failures...
kimba dull yes it’s the execution that is the most hard I guess. But as P Crone says, awareness of what triggers you is the first big step and a major part of it. Listen to as many Peter Crone podcasts as you can. I’m so glad I found him as it makes so much sense what he says plus he says it in a more simple and tangible way than other ones I have listened to.
So refreshing to see two men in such authenticity realizing strength through allowance of vulnerability. Love demonstrated in real time~ amazing. The “I’m in love” statement ~ that’s a gold nugget everyone can carry that is so powerful. Thank you both. I am (experiencing) in (& from) love. This is the stuff that should be taught in school, instead, school years often inform people how to hide and put on the brave face and deny ourselves our experiences as though we are not inherently worthy. All are worthy.
This conversation has no waste, I feel privileged and grateful to have been able to listen to so much love and wisdom. Thanks and blessings to both of you.
I've enjoyed listening to Peter Crone. He has helped me to recognise where I have resistance to (people places things) and also how to reframe situations. It subtle. I went back to wrk after working from home for 3 months. A meeting room had been booked as there were no desks available. I was asked to come in so the team could meet a new member of staff. No one had joined me in the room or told me the staff member was off sick. I felt poor me, victim, I've been abandoned (the old story I've been carrying). Then I recognised my feelings and sat with them. I then decided i would chose to look at things a different way. I have all this space to myself away from the din - I called it my office - I sat by the window and had beautiful sunlighton my face, I turned up the heat as I love the warmth. I muttered and giggled to myself in glee, drank my delicious coffee, ate my Pret, I popped out to chat with old workmates and i tell you, it turned into the best day back in the office. My team then seemed to gravitate into 'my office' and then seemed to not want to leave. Life is beautiful, when you surrender to 'I am'. Love and light to Peter Crone and to all who read or glance at this.
Inadequacy is a lie, and I cannot overcome that which in itself is a lie -- wow wow wow. This hit me hard. Thank you Aubrey and Peter for this podcast.
Yes but if inadequacy is a lie there's nothing to overcome but a passing feeling. A delusion. Life is a big illusion, it's what we choose to buy into. The painful part is we buy into things at a time when we didn't know any better or how to challenge. We got a message and it stuck
Power is self-love and acceptance. Not ego, you're fully aware of your flaws. You don't accept them as permanent, but a starting point. Meeting people who love self and others, who are kind and compassionate, that's powerful to me. Knowing what you can do, but having restraint, that's powerful. Controlling your own life vs others, that's powerful. Having courage to step out into the world and just be yourself, knowing you seek change, growth and improvement and will find it. Being okay with yourself gives others the example and encouragement to be themselves. It flows forward in a productive motion. It's important to become the person you want to be. It adds good into the universe. The journey is a beautiful mess, for which you can pause, look back and see the mountain you scaled and look forward to the gorgeousness of the view ahead, broad, expansive and eternal.
This is hands down THE most transformational podcast I have EVER come across...!!! It's like watching The Soul in conversation with Itself. Just beautiful!🙏✨🌈💜⚡Thank you for doing this!!
Podcasts like this are great reminders of what we repeatedly forget and as brothers and sisters we need to be reminded sometimes. I appreciate this rather than idolise. I reckon people do too much idolising outside themselves. We are all God. No one more amazing than another, just time and effort not to mention life paths and missions unique to each individual. I appreciate this reminder. Thank you so much. What I find really great is that one man with so much wealth and marketing behind him can access and aid another man with gifts and abilities to heal. You've got a, intuit/healer and an explorer/facilitator/agent right there that come together to create reminders of self healing and trauma release to others and that's a wonderful thing
This pod cast is enlightening. I learn something from Peter Crone every time I am privileged to listen to him. Thank you Aubrey for your story that for two decades had haunted you. I also loved the fact that Peter asked you to speak in the first person singular (I). That was so much more meaningful for me.. And it is so amazing to see two men who have emotions and are able to speak about the emotions of LOVE.
Fear is nothing to be afraid of. It cannot be destroyed, it doesn't have to be. Fear is what guides you gently and cautiously into the unknown when you let it and stop fighting it.
Holy moly. Aubrey, your emotion is so moving. What a beautiful mirror to reflect into for my own fears of letting others down. Powerful this for me to experience as an observer, to witness a breakthrough with the abrupt understanding that it’s time for me to identify my past “failures” I’ve held against myself all my life & truly release them. Thank you for this incredibly intimate and transcendent conversation, and giving the world a peek into the meaning of what it is to be true.
The whole discussion about the concept around the Sedona home, the "being IN love" were exactly what I needed. We bring our experience - no matter where and with whom we are. Thank you.
Guys I just found this channel & it is so refreshing to see this level of consciousness & articulation coming from dudes talking. Divine masculine in action!
Brought me to tears. In a good an liberating way- thank you so much, we need more of these mighty people like you. Much apreciation and tons of Love 💕🙏🙏🙏
"Half-life" is what they were describing. When something is constantly dividing by half its self. I remember learning about it in chemistry with radioactivity. beautifully put
I'm at minute 40:33 and loved what I just heard. Aubrey repeats what he said using I rather than you. I used to use the expression I when I was referring to an experience I had had. While going through college in the USA from my freshman year I was taught to not use I because it sounded selfish, full of myself, and that instead I should use you, implying no one. I have remained with that teaching when I hold a conversation in English be generally use I when I converse in my mother language, Spanish. Thanks Peter for your teaching.
Wow, this episode was an absolute 180° difference from what I was expecting based on the thumb nail photo. Peter looks like a Marine in the photo, and the text reads "How to Destroy Fear". So I was expecting some hyper masculine dude, sharing his "Hack" for DESTROYING fear. 😅🙈 This episode was such an amazing surprise, and in perfect alignment with Byron Katie's "The work". That I was reading yesterday. This episode was definitely a Synchronistic discovery for me. And I am so happy I suspended my judgements and moved through my assumptions about the thumb nail, and gave the video my attention. I had a very transformative perspective shift of my own, watching Aubrey go through his. And now I am unreveling so many limiting beliefs I've created during my childhood. THANK YOU FOR THIS EPISODE, IT IS A GAME CHANGER. 💯❤️💯
This completely moved me Aubrey! Thanks for having Peter on your podcast and opening up your heart. Old limiting beliefs are so imbedded and strong and really subconsciously create situations in our life we don't even desire. I will continue to listen to my thoughts and see what limiting beliefs I need to transcend. Much Love!
If your suffering from total self hate shut down you need to FALL Forward and find a way out don't give up keep fighting. It all matters every little chore that seems meaningless matters. If you can imagine success you can have it period. Focus on the balance and reverence for being alive. It all matters. Love forgives all.
Saw my own pain and compassion through Aubrey. I cry with you Aubrey. It is not true that we have to save everyone from pain. We have let people down and that's ok. We accept we are in a human experience.
Beautiful moments in this discussion. Truly unveiling of how we wrap ourselves in prior constructs. Peter's direct approach and Marcus's giving over to being humble in the moment struck a deep chord in my own being.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *🧠 The degree of desire often reflects the fear of not attaining it.* 01:38 *🌱 Life's journey involves transcending limitations to embrace expansive possibilities.* 02:20 *💖 Transformation begins with embracing love without judgment or agenda.* 03:16 *🚪 Liberation involves recognizing and decoding the clues to break free from self-imposed constraints.* 04:22 *🧘♂️ A space of unconditional love fosters self-acceptance and healing.* 06:18 *💔 Addiction stems from seeking external validation to fill an internal sense of lack.* 08:37 *🔄 Power, when understood, is the ability to be unaffected by circumstances without the need for control.* 11:24 *💪 Power, often mistaken for love, can compel action but lacks the depth and fulfillment of genuine love.* 13:43 *🎭 Pursuing external markers of success without internal fulfillment leads to emptiness and dissatisfaction.* 15:45 *🔄 Conditional love paradigms perpetuate self-judgment and grievances, hindering self-acceptance and fulfillment.* 17:21 *🎯 Striving for perfection as a compensation for insecurities is a futile pursuit based on false narratives.* 19:38 *🏹 The Zen paradox illustrates the limitations of logical thinking in understanding infinity and attainment.* 19:52 *🎯 Understanding that progress often requires time and distance, even if it feels like incremental steps.* 21:27 *💡 Embracing the perpetual journey of self-discovery rather than fixating on reaching a finite destination.* 22:49 *🌌 Contemplating the concept of unity and infinity as the potential ultimate destination of existence.* 26:08 *🔄 Recognizing that personal growth involves integrating flaws and imperfections rather than seeking perfection.* 31:31 *❤️ Embracing humanity, flaws, and vulnerabilities in relationships fosters genuine connection and love.* 36:11 *🎭 Realizing that circumstances and interactions reveal areas where one may still feel constrained, providing opportunities for growth and liberation.* 39:19 *🦋 Surrendering everything without attachment to the outcome is key to personal growth.* 40:14 *💡 The ultimate surrender involves liberating oneself from the notion of a fixed identity.* 41:59 *🧠 The identity construct functions as an entity fighting for survival, hindering true self-realization.* 43:21 *🏹 Past experiences, like feeling one has let others down, can shape present fears and behaviors.* 46:34 *🏀 Early experiences, such as feeling let down in sports, can leave lasting impacts on self-perception.* 53:28 *🌱 Acknowledging and releasing deeply held fears, like the fear of letting others down, can lead to personal growth and freedom.* 56:13 *🔄 Recognizing that perceived limitations are merely narratives allows for profound shifts in self-perception and potential realization.* 59:35 *💡 Pleasure is often a reaction to displeasure or suffering, leading to seeking escapism.* 01:01:10 *🌱 Stepping into freedom transforms the experience of pleasure, fostering deeper intimacy and connection with life.* 01:03:28 *🏞️ Disassociating internal states from external factors like possessions or locations liberates one from attachment and allows for freedom of experience.* 01:07:21 *💖 Essence of experiences, like love, is internal and can be realized independently of external circumstances or individuals.* 01:12:03 *🔄 Embracing one's humanity and allowing all feelings without judgment leads to greater freedom and joy, shifting from emotions to pure feelings.* 01:18:37 *💡 The process of personal growth involves moving from unconscious incompetence to conscious competence to unconscious competence.* 01:19:29 *🕰️ Emotions become stuck in time when they're not fully processed, leading to lingering manifestations of past hurts or frustrations.* 01:20:24 *🧒 Embracing childlike acceptance of emotions without judgment can prevent suffering caused by self-analysis and narratives of right and wrong.* 01:22:29 *🔄 Freedom comes from processing unresolved past experiences and emotions, allowing for greater present moment awareness and integration.* 01:31:33 *🛤️ Making decisions about boundaries and relationships requires aligning actions with personal values and commitments, understanding what works for oneself, and communicating honestly with others.* 01:36:45 *💬 Honesty and authenticity in communication foster genuine connections and deeper relationships.* 01:37:42 *🤝 True intimacy allows for honest self-reflection and the willingness to confront fears and attachments.* 01:38:12 *💡 Embracing vulnerability and expressing genuine feelings cultivates powerful interactions, free from the need to conform to societal expectations.* 01:38:26 *🔄 Progress in personal growth involves acknowledging past shortcomings, committing to improvement, and embracing the journey of becoming more authentic and accountable.* 01:39:39 *🎙️ Authentic conversations can lead to profound transformations, fostering deep connections and personal insights.*
Enlightening, enriching and empowering conversation. Thanks for your courage Aubrey in opening up. Love the rawness of the conversation - I made the same analogy myself the other day about the difference of experiencing the rawness life as opposed to shielded with the protection of a condom. Keep up the fantabulous work - you lift your audience as opposed to letting them down
Can you imagine having these two beautiful men just chillin with you in the living room or even better sitting out under a shade tree!? Peter Crone is so capable of leading one to insight. And Aubrey is precious.
I had a breakthrough too, right along w Aubrey- tears & all (helped that we share the same fear)... TY! Im amazed how every time I sit down and just let YT play, somehow it immediately seems to find & show me EXACTLY what I need, in EXACTLY this moment. Great to Aubrey & Peter be conduits of this phenomenon, for myself, and, Im sure, so many others. Good stuff. Really good, very brave. Much love
Awesome video with Peter Crone!!! He made me realize so many deep issues that I have and didn't have an understanding of them, until now!!! Thanks guys!!!!!
Just Wow! Thank you Aubrey and Peter, this is a remarkable experience! Incredible to listen to and be a part of. So much said and contained within sentence it is a pleasure to listen to over and over. The sections on “Emotional Indigestion”, “Unconscious Competence” and that “People reflect back to us the nature of love that is our essence” leave me with gratitude, a map and answers! Again, Thank you both!
Amazing show, thank you both it's a pass events map to find freedom, the way out to forgive, and heal and reflect our past life events, and the why's and the now. Thank you much to both.
What a gift you were to me Audrey! Thank you for your vulnerability. It was beautiful to watch! May God Bless you and keep you and May you continúe to have more times with Peter Crone #petercrone
great conversation thank you so much I tool dealth with making sure I dont let people down, but as I result I shot down, and lived shelthered small life all of my life till now, trying to heal that now.
That really, really, really resonated with me. I actually received a deep, crucial understanding about something really important about myself. Thanks.
You only need to heal yourself and you have all the tools right under your nose. Appreciating is a great thing, making others idols, not so much. You have all this already in you. Don't try to heal the world. Heal yourself and let it overflow naturally
really interesting opening on divine feminine (mother) and masculine (father). i would love to hear/discuss way more in depth to develop the roles physically, emotionally, and spiritually, as well as understand some of their capabilities. definitely also warrants a lot of questions about family as the individual-society interface. so cool. beautiful podcast, glad i listened on love day as i prepare to welcome a little boy into the world! i love being a mama to my 2 year old daughter, the balance of a boy joining us is immensely meaningful- and has me really redefining parenting and my role. i felt great parenting my daughter as a single mama (though completely supported by family/community)- but with a boy, i am feeling so humbled to NOT be 100% on what parenting means anymore and to NOT feel 100% enough. my appreciation for both feminine/mother and masculine/father continue to expand. thank you again for a cool podcast that gives a lot of us some fantastic navigation points/food or thought!
The openness and their willingness to share this event whit the world ...more people like this will the world better place faster than any forcefull attempts of culture change....so great full for coming across this video. Thank You.
Makes me think to: "Freedom and responsibility are two aspects of the same coin. If you are not ready to feel responsible, you will never be free." -Osho
Absolutely unbelievable. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. A beautiful beautiful conversation. You are changing the world and definitely not letting anyone down;)
Addiction is you not getting enough of something that almost works. That opened a whole New perspective to me, on why i am who, where and how i am today. So You have to befriend the underlying bitterness of every gain, that comes with the Light of everything good, depending on and at the same time defining the quantitative antiproportionality and it goes BOTH WAYS. All at once. It is only by the two-dimensionality of Our convergent thinking sometimes being a little too effective at reducing and conceptionalizing, while the outflaring three-(or maybe even more-) dimensionality of Our divergent side of this mental coin, by that is forceful enough to being seemingly KEEPING us from taking that infinitely small leap of FAITH to the step that is there and that we can SENSE but not be able to see...AND that will make one Person almost feeling mocked by this oxyMORONIC state and the other one BEING EVEN MORE CONVINCED OF THE INHERENT BENEVOLENCE.
Transformative! Experiencing this helped me recall a very deep (forgotten) Experience that lives within ... hope I will be able to hone this into something useful.
I heard something around 7:45 that was so real for me that I just started laughing. Thank you both. To Peter for the revelation and to Aubrey for making it all possible.
asymptote : a straight line associated with a curve such that as a point moves along an infinite branch of the curve the distance from the point to the line approaches zero and the slope of the curve at the point approaches the slope of the line
I’m adding another comment because something extraordinary happened after I watched this. After asking myself where am I not free, I realised that I’ve had a deep-seated belief that I am a big disappointment which stems from childhood. Anyway, I asked myself, what would I do and who would I be if I wasn’t a disappointment? Rather than an answer, a feeling came, a lighter feeling and a feeling of more freedom. This morning I feel much less inclined to comfort eat and feel low. I feel a general sense of having more courage, less fucks and more inclined to smile. So thank you from the bottom of my heart. I hope you see this message. Love and peace. 🙏🏼💙🦋
Amazing! :) Thank you for sharing!
This is huge, so happy for you!!!
I celebrate you and hooe that you are celebrating yourself ❤🎉❤
Dammit Peter. I am an Alaskan Fisherman with a whole lot of shadows. Been listening to you for about a month, and you have helped me find myself finally. I was always there. I can't fucking thank you enough
I noticed in the beginning of the podcast how Aubrey says "I hope we don't disappoint them" , and Peter replies with "I would love to meet the expectations". Literally, the two statements are the same but the way they're articulated makes all the difference. Aubrey is brilliant, of course. Thanks for your amazingly deep questions and vulnerability, man. Wonderful podcast.
Very wise
Yaaa
eh? he said "I love unfulfilled expectations"
I may be wrong, but Peter actually says “I love unfulfilled expectations”
Oh yeah, that’s actually what he said when I re-listened . I guess I heard what I wanted to hear earlier. 😉
49:00
"Life will present you with people and circumstances to reveal where you're not free."
Also...
"What happened at that moment, couldn't have happened any other way. Why?? Because it didn't."
I came here for these quotes. Thanks
What a commitment to human being ... to watch Peter 'working' ... and just be totally inspired by what he releases in Aubrey .... and Aubreys willingness to go there ... its just beautiful! Thank you.
I have never heard of Peter Crone, but now I am a fan. It is so rare to hear deep heart focused truth. Wonderful have powerfully and gently he helped Aubrey see his life in new ways
Me too.
this was me too yesterday,,,today ohhh I know him now,Love the light he brings as Aubrey Marcus too does
Rarely you get the chance to hear two people talk so openly, honestly and free about life. I love this podcast, love these two people, because they are showing clearly what it is like to have a conversation with respect, honor and pure love. Thank you Aubrey Marcus and Peter Crone for this.
this guy really speaks the truth. I love what he said about always trying to tie it back to people in real life who are struggling. He said somehwere in the beginning that "we could sit here in the comfort of this room and talk about unity and love all day" but that doesnt really translate to people and their struggles. THAT is the truth, I think in the world of self help the actual talking can become really detached from the lived experience of that person (I've noticed this first hand with myself) and true healing really does start to take place when the gap between our thoughts and our actual lives becomes smaller. When we actually see ourselves and our lives as they actually are in reality (not how we wish we could be our how we wish our lives would be) and start to make peace with our existence, as flawed as it is. What i've found on this path is that its totally okay to absolutely hate something about my life right now/about my experience (I struggle with anxiety) while still accepting that this is my life and it's actually okay, that I'm actually okay even with my anxiety. It sounds so simple but when you actually start to metabolize it on a cellular level it is sooo profound. Like I dont have to sit up in my head all day and wish xyz was more spiritual, more united, more loving, etc, I can actually meet reality in all its messiness and its all good! I can even hate it sometimes and thats totally fine! I don't have to shy away from myself and my life in a quest to be "healed" --that completely goes against the true nature of healing. I hope that makes sense! went on a little tangent there.
@A PO Peter Crone is amazing isn't he, I try to listen to his podcasts/youtubes as much as I can. Your comment above really resonated with me, about making peace with our existence, and to be OK with it & accepting our flaws (eg in your case anxiety). It does sound indeed simple as you say, but I do struggle with how to implement this day-to-day. It's like I know the theory but really fail to implement and go back to being negative & anxious. If you have any tips to share on how to actually rewire/recondition the thinking, let me know, I would be grateful :)! One more question I had when reading your comment, what to you mean with 'the gap between our thoughts and our actual lives becomes smaller'? Do you mean with that to live in the now, mindfully as opposed to having thoughts all the time? Thanks & wish you a great day!
A PO... Thanks for sharing... Reading you... I was just shading tears... It hit so deep and the worst part when you cannot or make people around to understand... Much love from France. ♥️.. Bisous.
Véronique A. Smans I resonated with your comments for AP O - couldn’t have said it better myself... I do a lot of research, but stumble in executing or even where to start. So overwhelmed with all the fires that should be put out... feel like a snake eating myself to the point of just staying on my iPad, reading self help books, and fighting the anxiety, depression and financial failures...
kimba dull yes it’s the execution that is the most hard I guess. But as P Crone says, awareness of what triggers you is the first big step and a major part of it. Listen to as many Peter Crone podcasts as you can. I’m so glad I found him as it makes so much sense what he says plus he says it in a more simple and tangible way than other ones I have listened to.
kimba dull you can find a lot of his interviews on apple podcast.
If you can't love when you have nothing then you cant love when you have everything ❤
So refreshing to see two men in such authenticity realizing strength through allowance of vulnerability. Love demonstrated in real time~ amazing. The “I’m in love” statement ~ that’s a gold nugget everyone can carry that is so powerful. Thank you both. I am (experiencing) in (& from) love. This is the stuff that should be taught in school, instead, school years often inform people how to hide and put on the brave face and deny ourselves our experiences as though we are not inherently worthy. All are worthy.
Yesssss!! 🤗🤘🏾💫
This conversation has no waste, I feel privileged and grateful to have been able to listen to so much love and wisdom. Thanks and blessings to both of you.
I've enjoyed listening to Peter Crone. He has helped me to recognise where I have resistance to (people places things) and also how to reframe situations. It subtle. I went back to wrk after working from home for 3 months. A meeting room had been booked as there were no desks available. I was asked to come in so the team could meet a new member of staff. No one had joined me in the room or told me the staff member was off sick. I felt poor me, victim, I've been abandoned (the old story I've been carrying). Then I recognised my feelings and sat with them. I then decided i would chose to look at things a different way. I have all this space to myself away from the din - I called it my office - I sat by the window and had beautiful sunlighton my face, I turned up the heat as I love the warmth. I muttered and giggled to myself in glee, drank my delicious coffee, ate my Pret, I popped out to chat with old workmates and i tell you, it turned into the best day back in the office. My team then seemed to gravitate into 'my office' and then seemed to not want to leave. Life is beautiful, when you surrender to 'I am'. Love and light to Peter Crone and to all who read or glance at this.
it's called an asymptote! - a line that a graph approaches but never touches. Amazing talk!
wow i have been looking out for this P.Crone _invited/alluded to A member here will bring it to light yeeeee Love you Marina you brought it home.
Well done 👍🏼. A math ➗➖ speaker 😊.
Inadequacy is a lie, and I cannot overcome that which in itself is a lie -- wow wow wow. This hit me hard. Thank you Aubrey and Peter for this podcast.
Yes but if inadequacy is a lie there's nothing to overcome but a passing feeling. A delusion. Life is a big illusion, it's what we choose to buy into. The painful part is we buy into things at a time when we didn't know any better or how to challenge. We got a message and it stuck
Power is self-love and acceptance. Not ego, you're fully aware of your flaws. You don't accept them as permanent, but a starting point. Meeting people who love self and others, who are kind and compassionate, that's powerful to me. Knowing what you can do, but having restraint, that's powerful. Controlling your own life vs others, that's powerful. Having courage to step out into the world and just be yourself, knowing you seek change, growth and improvement and will find it. Being okay with yourself gives others the example and encouragement to be themselves. It flows forward in a productive motion. It's important to become the person you want to be. It adds good into the universe. The journey is a beautiful mess, for which you can pause, look back and see the mountain you scaled and look forward to the gorgeousness of the view ahead, broad, expansive and eternal.
It's great to listen to men break stereotypes in what men discuss.
Unstuck from the old paradigm of grievances against my self--what I did and didn't do; LOVE IS THE ARROW and I AM LOVE. thank you
This is hands down THE most transformational podcast I have EVER come across...!!! It's like watching The Soul in conversation with Itself. Just beautiful!🙏✨🌈💜⚡Thank you for doing this!!
Are they paying you to write this 😂
This dude right here... Wow where has he been all my life, thank you Aubrey about to replay this whole thing
Podcasts like this are great reminders of what we repeatedly forget and as brothers and sisters we need to be reminded sometimes. I appreciate this rather than idolise. I reckon people do too much idolising outside themselves. We are all God. No one more amazing than another, just time and effort not to mention life paths and missions unique to each individual. I appreciate this reminder. Thank you so much. What I find really great is that one man with so much wealth and marketing behind him can access and aid another man with gifts and abilities to heal. You've got a, intuit/healer and an explorer/facilitator/agent right there that come together to create reminders of self healing and trauma release to others and that's a wonderful thing
The level of self awareness and presence in these two is incredible.
“You can never get enough of something that almost works” that’s really good.
This pod cast is enlightening. I learn something from Peter Crone every time I am privileged to listen to him. Thank you Aubrey for your story that for two decades had haunted you. I also loved the fact that Peter asked you to speak in the first person singular (I). That was so much more meaningful for me.. And it is so amazing to see two men who have emotions and are able to speak about the emotions of LOVE.
This was the perfect guest for you Aubrey. Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation.
Amazing and powerful wow Peter Crone is such a blessing to this world . his wisdom is just magic 🙏❤️
Fear is nothing to be afraid of. It cannot be destroyed, it doesn't have to be. Fear is what guides you gently and cautiously into the unknown when you let it and stop fighting it.
This podcast changed my life. Thanks guys
Holy moly. Aubrey, your emotion is so moving. What a beautiful mirror to reflect into for my own fears of letting others down. Powerful this for me to experience as an observer, to witness a breakthrough with the abrupt understanding that it’s time for me to identify my past “failures” I’ve held against myself all my life & truly release them. Thank you for this incredibly intimate and transcendent conversation, and giving the world a peek into the meaning of what it is to be true.
The whole discussion about the concept around the Sedona home, the "being IN love" were exactly what I needed. We bring our experience - no matter where and with whom we are. Thank you.
no podcast has made me cry and release on a regular- Aubrey Marcus and Peter Crone thank you for your beauty
I am ready to wake up thank you for two amazing masters
Guys I just found this channel & it is so refreshing to see this level of consciousness & articulation coming from dudes talking. Divine masculine in action!
I had the worst feeling of anxiety before watching this & it instantly calmed down after watching this.
you were right, Peter ... rendered to tears . The heart of both of you speaks volumes to all who listen. Thank you. So beautiful....
Brought me to tears. In a good an liberating way- thank you so much, we need more of these mighty people like you. Much apreciation and tons of Love 💕🙏🙏🙏
Thank God for people like Aubrey and Peter man. Shit saving my life
This is absolutely brilliant ty 🙏🏼💙
"In a conditional love paradigm, the problem is you fix one side of the spectrum as perfection."
💯💯💯
"Half-life" is what they were describing. When something is constantly dividing by half its self. I remember learning about it in chemistry with radioactivity. beautifully put
I'm at minute 40:33 and loved what I just heard. Aubrey repeats what he said using I rather than you. I used to use the expression I when I was referring to an experience I had had. While going through college in the USA from my freshman year I was taught to not use I because it sounded selfish, full of myself, and that instead I should use you, implying no one. I have remained with that teaching when I hold a conversation in English be generally use I when I converse in my mother language, Spanish. Thanks Peter for your teaching.
This was eye opening and beautiful...I cried as well...Thank-you both for this ❤🙏🏼🫶🏼
Wow, this episode was an absolute 180° difference from what I was expecting based on the thumb nail photo. Peter looks like a Marine in the photo, and the text reads "How to Destroy Fear". So I was expecting some hyper masculine dude, sharing his "Hack" for DESTROYING fear. 😅🙈
This episode was such an amazing surprise, and in perfect alignment with Byron Katie's "The work". That I was reading yesterday. This episode was definitely a Synchronistic discovery for me. And I am so happy I suspended my judgements and moved through my assumptions about the thumb nail, and gave the video my attention.
I had a very transformative perspective shift of my own, watching Aubrey go through his. And now I am unreveling so many limiting beliefs I've created during my childhood. THANK YOU FOR THIS EPISODE, IT IS A GAME CHANGER. 💯❤️💯
Daaaamn, pls Peter Crone, I wanna learn from you!
This completely moved me Aubrey!
Thanks for having Peter on your podcast and opening up your heart. Old limiting beliefs are so imbedded and strong and really subconsciously create situations in our life we don't even desire. I will continue to listen to my thoughts and see what limiting beliefs I need to transcend. Much Love!
Aubrey, I feel like you are beyond this now, but you never let any of us down. Much love.
If your suffering from total self hate shut down you need to FALL Forward and find a way out don't give up keep fighting. It all matters every little chore that seems meaningless matters. If you can imagine success you can have it period. Focus on the balance and reverence for being alive. It all matters. Love forgives all.
Watching this a second time today, thank You
I listened to this today! I really needed this today! The universe gives you what need not what you want!
Yes I've been trying to allow God into myself enough to experience life as I do
Saw my own pain and compassion through Aubrey. I cry with you Aubrey. It is not true that we have to save everyone from pain. We have let people down and that's ok. We accept we are in a human experience.
Beautiful moments in this discussion. Truly unveiling of how we wrap ourselves in prior constructs.
Peter's direct approach and Marcus's giving over to being humble in the moment struck a deep chord in my own being.
This was like a punch in the gut! Thank you for sharing this, so powerful, yet vulnerable. You are NOT letting your fans down, thats for sure!
This saved my life. Learning the truth about myself set me free from an addiction that I've battled for decades.
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🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 *🧠 The degree of desire often reflects the fear of not attaining it.*
01:38 *🌱 Life's journey involves transcending limitations to embrace expansive possibilities.*
02:20 *💖 Transformation begins with embracing love without judgment or agenda.*
03:16 *🚪 Liberation involves recognizing and decoding the clues to break free from self-imposed constraints.*
04:22 *🧘♂️ A space of unconditional love fosters self-acceptance and healing.*
06:18 *💔 Addiction stems from seeking external validation to fill an internal sense of lack.*
08:37 *🔄 Power, when understood, is the ability to be unaffected by circumstances without the need for control.*
11:24 *💪 Power, often mistaken for love, can compel action but lacks the depth and fulfillment of genuine love.*
13:43 *🎭 Pursuing external markers of success without internal fulfillment leads to emptiness and dissatisfaction.*
15:45 *🔄 Conditional love paradigms perpetuate self-judgment and grievances, hindering self-acceptance and fulfillment.*
17:21 *🎯 Striving for perfection as a compensation for insecurities is a futile pursuit based on false narratives.*
19:38 *🏹 The Zen paradox illustrates the limitations of logical thinking in understanding infinity and attainment.*
19:52 *🎯 Understanding that progress often requires time and distance, even if it feels like incremental steps.*
21:27 *💡 Embracing the perpetual journey of self-discovery rather than fixating on reaching a finite destination.*
22:49 *🌌 Contemplating the concept of unity and infinity as the potential ultimate destination of existence.*
26:08 *🔄 Recognizing that personal growth involves integrating flaws and imperfections rather than seeking perfection.*
31:31 *❤️ Embracing humanity, flaws, and vulnerabilities in relationships fosters genuine connection and love.*
36:11 *🎭 Realizing that circumstances and interactions reveal areas where one may still feel constrained, providing opportunities for growth and liberation.*
39:19 *🦋 Surrendering everything without attachment to the outcome is key to personal growth.*
40:14 *💡 The ultimate surrender involves liberating oneself from the notion of a fixed identity.*
41:59 *🧠 The identity construct functions as an entity fighting for survival, hindering true self-realization.*
43:21 *🏹 Past experiences, like feeling one has let others down, can shape present fears and behaviors.*
46:34 *🏀 Early experiences, such as feeling let down in sports, can leave lasting impacts on self-perception.*
53:28 *🌱 Acknowledging and releasing deeply held fears, like the fear of letting others down, can lead to personal growth and freedom.*
56:13 *🔄 Recognizing that perceived limitations are merely narratives allows for profound shifts in self-perception and potential realization.*
59:35 *💡 Pleasure is often a reaction to displeasure or suffering, leading to seeking escapism.*
01:01:10 *🌱 Stepping into freedom transforms the experience of pleasure, fostering deeper intimacy and connection with life.*
01:03:28 *🏞️ Disassociating internal states from external factors like possessions or locations liberates one from attachment and allows for freedom of experience.*
01:07:21 *💖 Essence of experiences, like love, is internal and can be realized independently of external circumstances or individuals.*
01:12:03 *🔄 Embracing one's humanity and allowing all feelings without judgment leads to greater freedom and joy, shifting from emotions to pure feelings.*
01:18:37 *💡 The process of personal growth involves moving from unconscious incompetence to conscious competence to unconscious competence.*
01:19:29 *🕰️ Emotions become stuck in time when they're not fully processed, leading to lingering manifestations of past hurts or frustrations.*
01:20:24 *🧒 Embracing childlike acceptance of emotions without judgment can prevent suffering caused by self-analysis and narratives of right and wrong.*
01:22:29 *🔄 Freedom comes from processing unresolved past experiences and emotions, allowing for greater present moment awareness and integration.*
01:31:33 *🛤️ Making decisions about boundaries and relationships requires aligning actions with personal values and commitments, understanding what works for oneself, and communicating honestly with others.*
01:36:45 *💬 Honesty and authenticity in communication foster genuine connections and deeper relationships.*
01:37:42 *🤝 True intimacy allows for honest self-reflection and the willingness to confront fears and attachments.*
01:38:12 *💡 Embracing vulnerability and expressing genuine feelings cultivates powerful interactions, free from the need to conform to societal expectations.*
01:38:26 *🔄 Progress in personal growth involves acknowledging past shortcomings, committing to improvement, and embracing the journey of becoming more authentic and accountable.*
01:39:39 *🎙️ Authentic conversations can lead to profound transformations, fostering deep connections and personal insights.*
Enlightening, enriching and empowering conversation. Thanks for your courage Aubrey in opening up. Love the rawness of the conversation - I made the same analogy myself the other day about the difference of experiencing the rawness life as opposed to shielded with the protection of a condom. Keep up the fantabulous work - you lift your audience as opposed to letting them down
Cried and cried! Thanks guys, really grateful.
So that's true, the Love is the ultimate answer to eveything. Thank you for that experience :)
Can you imagine having these two beautiful men just chillin with you in the living room or even better sitting out under a shade tree!? Peter Crone is so capable of leading one to insight. And Aubrey is precious.
Love awakened men !!!! Rare Gems 💎
I had a breakthrough too, right along w Aubrey- tears & all (helped that we share the same fear)... TY! Im amazed how every time I sit down and just let YT play, somehow it immediately seems to find & show me EXACTLY what I need, in EXACTLY this moment. Great to Aubrey & Peter be conduits of this phenomenon, for myself, and, Im sure, so many others. Good stuff. Really good, very brave. Much love
What an amazing discussion.
This was such a great podcast. Peter is amazing at what he does! Thank you Aubrey!
Awesome video with Peter Crone!!! He made me realize so many deep issues that I have and didn't have an understanding of them, until now!!! Thanks guys!!!!!
Just Wow! Thank you Aubrey and Peter, this is a remarkable experience! Incredible to listen to and be a part of. So much said and contained within sentence it is a pleasure to listen to over and over. The sections on “Emotional Indigestion”, “Unconscious Competence” and that “People reflect back to us the nature of love that is our essence” leave me with gratitude, a map and answers! Again, Thank you both!
Thank you for being vulnerable Aubrey and not giving a f
Amazing show, thank you both it's a pass events map to find freedom, the way out to forgive, and heal and reflect our past life events, and the why's and the now.
Thank you much to both.
Profound thank you for sharing your humanness
What a gift you were to me Audrey! Thank you for your vulnerability. It was beautiful to watch! May God Bless you and keep you and May you continúe to have more times with Peter Crone #petercrone
great conversation thank you so much I tool dealth with making sure I dont let people down, but as I result I shot down, and lived shelthered small life all of my life till now, trying to heal that now.
That really, really, really resonated with me. I actually received a deep, crucial understanding about something really important about myself. Thanks.
Nice to hear that! = Namaste, Kirk
This conversation is nuts, so powerful, much love
Thank you for this moment. Please keep reminding us. Love you truly and forever ❤
This has been an amazing experience... Both Aubrey and Peter are amazing. How I would love to meet Peter, heal and make sense of me in this world.
You only need to heal yourself and you have all the tools right under your nose. Appreciating is a great thing, making others idols, not so much. You have all this already in you. Don't try to heal the world. Heal yourself and let it overflow naturally
That’s the second time you have done this to me!! First with Kerwin, and now this. The day I hit my Dad with my truck. Wow. Thank you Peter
Best guy ever, feeling so grateful. Thank-you for sharing your conversation with the brilliant Peter Crone🙏
I love listening to these two incredible humans! 😍🙌🏻🙏🏻🌟
Thank you Aubrey Marcus. I've been binge watching and have been so enthralled by the meaning that I've forgotten to like and comment. I appreciate you
really interesting opening on divine feminine (mother) and masculine (father). i would love to hear/discuss way more in depth to develop the roles physically, emotionally, and spiritually, as well as understand some of their capabilities. definitely also warrants a lot of questions about family as the individual-society interface. so cool. beautiful podcast, glad i listened on love day as i prepare to welcome a little boy into the world! i love being a mama to my 2 year old daughter, the balance of a boy joining us is immensely meaningful- and has me really redefining parenting and my role. i felt great parenting my daughter as a single mama (though completely supported by family/community)- but with a boy, i am feeling so humbled to NOT be 100% on what parenting means anymore and to NOT feel 100% enough. my appreciation for both feminine/mother and masculine/father continue to expand. thank you again for a cool podcast that gives a lot of us some fantastic navigation points/food or thought!
The openness and their willingness to share this event whit the world ...more people like this will the world better place faster than any forcefull attempts of culture change....so great full for coming across this video. Thank You.
Genuinely enjoyed this 💕🤟
Thank you Aubrey and Peter. ❤️❤️You are both big beautiful balls of love. 🌎🌎✌️✌️😊😊I’m loving your excellent conversation
Makes me think to: "Freedom and responsibility are two aspects of the same coin. If you are not ready to feel responsible, you will never be free." -Osho
I love these two 😊 thank you both ❤
OMG I love you Peter! Wish I had funds to do your course!
Absolutely unbelievable. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. A beautiful beautiful conversation. You are changing the world and definitely not letting anyone down;)
Addiction is you not getting enough of something that almost works. That opened a whole New perspective to me, on why i am who, where and how i am today. So You have to befriend the underlying bitterness of every gain, that comes with the Light of everything good, depending on and at the same time defining the quantitative antiproportionality and it goes BOTH WAYS. All at once. It is only by the two-dimensionality of Our convergent thinking sometimes being a little too effective at reducing and conceptionalizing, while the outflaring three-(or maybe even more-) dimensionality of Our divergent side of this mental coin, by that is forceful enough to being seemingly KEEPING us from taking that infinitely small leap of FAITH to the step that is there and that we can SENSE but not be able to see...AND that will make one Person almost feeling mocked by this oxyMORONIC state and the other one BEING EVEN MORE CONVINCED OF THE INHERENT BENEVOLENCE.
Transformative! Experiencing this helped me recall a very deep (forgotten) Experience that lives within ... hope I will be able to hone this into something useful.
I heard something around 7:45 that was so real for me that I just started laughing. Thank you both. To Peter for the revelation and to Aubrey for making it all possible.
Extraordinary discussion. So healing. Thank you for sharing Aubrey. Sidenote: RIP Ram Dass
Just the intro music alone in this podcast heals me 🖤
I love these two guys. I know that not common to say as a strait male.
Pure beauty! I'm going to watch this a couple of times.
An absolute therapy session from peter crone jesus
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You made me cry again!❤
Wow!! So Grateful for you both💛Thank you so much for this amazing conversation.
This was truly outstanding, thank you gentlemen.
Just casually watching this for the 11th time.
It’s so good hey ☺️
lol I am the same way. U go baby
Beautiful man, I can’t wait to dive more into his work and start really working through these areas as well. Thank you, both.
Love these guys😍 such a great powerful discussion. Enjoyed it very much. I’ll be saving this and watching it again. Thanks guys ☺️
Thank you