12 ways I made my wedding accessible as a blind bride

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  • @lucyedwards
    @lucyedwards  ปีที่แล้ว +5858

    1. Blindfolding our guests for the aisle walk
    2. Bespoke collar for my guide dog Miss Molly from Eleganza (gifted)
    3. 3D Sound and scented flowers up the aisle that grew intensity as I approached my husband to be
    4. Kew Gardens gave us an audio described tour with a bespoke guide who does accessible tours all the time around the gardens.
    5. Navilens codes on all my signs and table talkers. Nothing was really written. They could access the menu, table plans and cocktail list with the code.
    6. Having glasses from different ranges so I would know the difference for definite between drinks
    7. Audio Guest Book
    8. A soundscape from our videographer along with extra videos of our guests audio describing by their outfits and telling us their favourite moment of the day
    9. a buggy to transport disabled guests between buildings
    10. when arranging our canapés we made sure it was food that was easy and tidy to eat. Eg. Our veggie sushi rolls were amended to have a glaze instead of a dipping sauce. Perfect for a blind bride in a white dress.
    11. Braille on the name cards
    12. I got taught how to make the sugar flowers on our cake by Rosalind Miller so I knew exactly what went into them

    • @sssophie9292
      @sssophie9292 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Love these!
      There's something more special about the audio guestbook/ when guests describe their outfits and favourite part of the day, I think you can gather more about the ambience of the day and memories of loved ones' voices will be treasured forever 😊

    • @cheryl-lynnmehring8606
      @cheryl-lynnmehring8606 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I only counted 10. It must have cut off the last 2! I love guests' audio describing their outfits and favorite part of the wedding that is special and unique!🥰

    • @Migkamilla
      @Migkamilla ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Wow thank you. You just made your video more accessible to people with hearing problems of different kinds 🤗🌺
      I really love all your ideas. And love that you share it all with us. Thank you
      Lots of love from a grateful fan in Denmark 🇩🇰

    • @anonymous.hippopotamus
      @anonymous.hippopotamus ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congratulations! You are stunning!!!!

    • @miasancto
      @miasancto ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is it sushi if it’s vegan? Sushi is fish, without the fish it’s just rice and plants (including seaweed)

  • @Mossfinch
    @Mossfinch ปีที่แล้ว +7154

    the audio messages is SUCH a good idea because even as your husband ages or ever loses his sight himself, they'll still be accessible to him to look back on!

    • @jeremyfoster23
      @jeremyfoster23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

      “Look back on” 😅 might wanna rephrase that

    • @lovelylauriie
      @lovelylauriie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

      ​@@jeremyfoster23reminisce 😂

    • @Emma-Maze
      @Emma-Maze 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Is he losing his sight? 😢

    • @fawnamae
      @fawnamae 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@Emma-MazeI don’t think so. But it is always a possibility.

    • @Too_tired_for_this_
      @Too_tired_for_this_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@Emma-Maze I don’t think so but the comment was thinking more long term like if something happens or with age :)

  • @Yzabell0M
    @Yzabell0M ปีที่แล้ว +1625

    I’m not blind but I would love to implement the audio message. That’s awesome

    • @ivoryhenson1285
      @ivoryhenson1285 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      There's at least one company that does this, they give you a rotary phone that's color coordinated to your decor and then guests use it to leave voice-mail messages for you

    • @TellyVee
      @TellyVee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ivoryhenson1285this is news to me! that’s cool 😮

  • @drinkerofalltheteas
    @drinkerofalltheteas ปีที่แล้ว +6664

    As a wedding videographer number 8 hit me 😭🥰 That is so special and an incredible way to relive the day through audio!

    • @ThatOn3simp
      @ThatOn3simp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Aww! This is actually amazing. I have to agree! It's so special

    • @missmarie_8790
      @missmarie_8790 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes!!! I love that I’m gonna tell my photography friend about that idea, if she ever has a blind or seeing impaired client 😊

  • @QueenRoxic
    @QueenRoxic ปีที่แล้ว +649

    Kew Gardens is the only place I have been that has been 100% inclusive and fully understand near enough every single disability going. I felt comfortable for the first time to use a wheelchair there without being judged at all and the staff were all amazing

    • @KittyCatGirl-br9sx
      @KittyCatGirl-br9sx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That’s amazing, Kew is great

    • @XxPanda6
      @XxPanda6 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thats awesome

    • @ohrats731
      @ohrats731 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I kept hearing how amazing Kew is but I live in the US 😭 I must visit some day!

  • @jp42293
    @jp42293 ปีที่แล้ว +1795

    I love the little audio messages, such a nice touch!

    • @CannibalisticRapscallion
      @CannibalisticRapscallion ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It feels much more personal than a written note

    • @kathygraham1980
      @kathygraham1980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your wedding sounds, I do like that you included your guests in your thoughts when you are making your plans. You made this an event for your guests also. Congratulations have a happy life together 💝.

  • @daemon2426
    @daemon2426 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    I'm partial disabled and use mobility aids. Earlier ths year mu husband and I went to a friend's wedding. I went in my wheelchair, and it was wonderful. Everyone was accommodating in the best way, holding doors, lifting my chair over thresholds, helping me get food that I couldn't quite reach. No one was rude or tried to overstep and it was amazing. It doesn't take as much as people think to make an event feel inclusive, even if you can't do it all.

    • @maxinedeleon4357
      @maxinedeleon4357 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm glad you had a wonderful day that you'll treasure. You'll find people kind and accommodating at weddings bc they want everyone to enjoy the day especially for the bride and groom to have happy memories and to know that their guests are having a good time👍

  • @andieluke1366
    @andieluke1366 ปีที่แล้ว +1649

    Congratulations! May your days be filled with joy and laughter for many, many years to come. The blindfolds were so touching.

  • @givemethetea9302
    @givemethetea9302 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The flowers increasing in intensity- what an incredible idea!

  • @defensemechamismmode1501
    @defensemechamismmode1501 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love those audio messages not only because they're accessible. But also because you'll always be able to hear those persons voices even if they might one day not walk the earth anymore.

  • @infinitycryptid
    @infinitycryptid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i literally adore how big and genuine your smile is. you and your husband look so incredibly happy to be married and it warms my heart

  • @beththegreen
    @beththegreen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This stuff honestly massively enriches the experience sighted or not! Really magical to focus more on senses other than just sight!!

  • @angiemercer1588
    @angiemercer1588 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you made your wedding different because you made it how you want it and that makes it beautiful.

  • @jordan_mccarthy-3643
    @jordan_mccarthy-3643 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the audio message so decades later after loved ones pass you can hear their voice and laughter ❤

  • @katrinajohnson9622
    @katrinajohnson9622 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    DANG GIRL. You don’t know you’re beautiful!!!! 🎶 Wonderful captures of a wonderful wedding! Great planning!

  • @saritavenkatapathynaidu9533
    @saritavenkatapathynaidu9533 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a beautiful example of how universal design makes everything better - you not only thought of things to make your experience richer and more memorable, but every single one of those implemented ideas made the wedding more unique and more engaging for everyone that was not blind!
    It’s why we need to blur the line between the disabled and abled worlds - this is just one example of work that you’d be so talented at that is only enhanced by your being blind - you’d be a magnificent wedding/event planner because you’re detail oriented but don’t lose sight of the big picture, you’re very honed in on the experiential opportunities that you can weave into the event to create stronger memories, and you’ve got a different way of understanding people, their personalities, and strengths, which makes you the best planner of the emotional and touching moments.
    These are just things I see in your work across social media platforms, and I’m sure that your loved ones could say so much you’re talented in. Still, it’s an easy example of how much beauty the world loses in undervaluing our contributions as disabled people, and not seeing us as qualified for all kinds of work. It’s frustrating to have to make our own way, but you’ve shown how you can do it, still, with this account. Not to mention - the triumphant day that you get to marry the love of your life and include all the things that make it for both of you!
    All the more reason everyone should be following you, Lucy. You’ve done a beautiful job.

  • @gem1819
    @gem1819 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww what a beautiful bride! The happiness shines through ❤

  • @MK_Peace
    @MK_Peace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a lovely wedding.. it was all so thoughtful. Thank you for sharing so much of your day, Lucy..❤

  • @pipermurray1794
    @pipermurray1794 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This made me tear up with happiness for you. Congratulations!

  • @MeriaDuck
    @MeriaDuck 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The attention to detail, lovely! The 3d audio and scented aisle and especially the blindfolded guests were so good!

  • @aha_philsan
    @aha_philsan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t know why I’m crying… your wedding looked so beautiful & serene! Congratulations!

  • @desireerrudnik1106
    @desireerrudnik1106 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just wonderful, so deco and visceral
    Congrats beautiful new bride 💍🗝️

  • @anotherinternetidiot6300
    @anotherinternetidiot6300 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOW You are a gorgeous Bride! Congratulations to you and your husband - what a brilliant and beautiful wedding❤

  • @shyeahright
    @shyeahright 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love all of these! Great ways to incorporate all of that so that all guests and plus-ones feel welcome. 💕

  • @wrenpeach6707
    @wrenpeach6707 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the idea of different scented flowers as you get closer to your husband!

  • @Anya-P
    @Anya-P 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AUDIO GUEST BOOK????? As someone who isn't visually impaired, I didn’t know that existed, but I LOVE the idea of something like that

  • @truecrimenut6696
    @truecrimenut6696 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This brought tears to my eyes. How beautiful! Congratulations! 🥂

  • @disenchantedtear8219
    @disenchantedtear8219 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my gosh how incredibly beautiful!!!

  • @kittykat490
    @kittykat490 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The audio messages is such a beautiful idea!

  • @MariaBarbosa-pt2cc
    @MariaBarbosa-pt2cc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You looked beautiful! Congratulations!

  • @VickyClark-kd5rt
    @VickyClark-kd5rt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look absolutely amazing. Your dress was absolutely beautiful. Congratulations your such an adorable couple. I wish you all the very best for the future.

  • @HolyFreakinDragonSlayer
    @HolyFreakinDragonSlayer ปีที่แล้ว +81

    That's absolutely wonderful. I love the scented flowers idea, that's gorgeous. Congratulations again Lucy x

  • @periltheinferno8260
    @periltheinferno8260 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so amazing and so wholesome❤❤❤ I live how inclusive you are if anyone with disabilities, no matter what they are.

  • @sweigh72
    @sweigh72 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congrats you looked beautiful I wish you both so much happiness x

  • @yellowlaffytaffy
    @yellowlaffytaffy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything about your wedding looked beautiful. The dress, the decor, the food looked yummy. I especially love the hanging wisteria flowers. Such an elegant touch.

  • @andresteelemusic5512
    @andresteelemusic5512 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely terrific! Looks like it was an unforgettable day. Congratulations to you both!

  • @seganaleqa
    @seganaleqa ปีที่แล้ว +175

    The audio guest book is brilliant! I’m not blind, but I’m very attached to voices, and I can recognize a voice quicker than a face or name. This would be the perfect guestbook idea for me. 💜

  • @33sugaD
    @33sugaD 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stunning!!!! 🥹
    Thank you for sharing!

  • @BlackMilkSleep
    @BlackMilkSleep 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never would have thought of using the differences in glassware as a feature, not a bug! Absolutely genius!

  • @miadonohue3326
    @miadonohue3326 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember ur first videos like these but saying things like how I get past cars being blind now ur making ones being married I’m verry happy for u both,

  • @Leo_Exists
    @Leo_Exists 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The audio one made me cry a little, my mom remarried a few years ago and that's something she wishes she would have done as many family members have passed since then.

  • @headerahelix
    @headerahelix 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, I remember you from when you were making your first videos here. So happy to see you still living life to the fullest, big congrats to you both on the wedding!

  • @cas6359
    @cas6359 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    i wish more people had the funds to do this more often!!

    • @BubbleB0T
      @BubbleB0T 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly it’s one thing saying Kew Gardens are great for accessibility I’m a wheelchair user who’s a bride and we were quoted just under £20k for a wedding on a Monday for 40 people off season. They’re around £60k for a summer weekend wedding and that is just the venue and food it’s insanity. We are getting all that and so much more for £15k for literally everything!!

  • @ayperosia
    @ayperosia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely wonderful, you look so beautiful and happy ❤

  • @sdran23
    @sdran23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    An audio guestbook is genius. So innovative. So memorable.

  • @draclauria2812
    @draclauria2812 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Love Love Love this, this was beautiful to see

  • @melbapeach162
    @melbapeach162 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are all such beautiful ideas, you and your husband look amazing 🌱

  • @leighahoward2318
    @leighahoward2318 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love it!!!!! Keep on making videos of y'all's journey! So exciting!!!!! Y'all are a super couple!!!

  • @louisachalarca6494
    @louisachalarca6494 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVEEE THE AUDIO MESSAGES !! And the walk was ❤

  • @kaikai52720
    @kaikai52720 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your husband is very cute! Congratulations! Both of you are very lucky

  • @Murrrrrrp
    @Murrrrrrp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this so much ❤
    Also, your wedding look is stunning and your smile is so kind. 💜💜

  • @missjakson9028
    @missjakson9028 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So beautiful
    ... First time i saw you was on a say yes to the dress episode that got randomly pushed into my recommandations... I instantly fell in love with your personality and I was so happy to find your chanel

  • @SoySauce17233
    @SoySauce17233 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    CRYINGGGG she’s so beautiful i can’t with her😭😭💗💗💗

  • @rebekahtaylor9307
    @rebekahtaylor9307 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I got married in the blind garden at our botanical gardens. I’m not blind but it was cool how they incorporated sounds and scents and textures.

  • @shakariminor7106
    @shakariminor7106 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    As a visually impaired person who has a 85% chance of going completely blind when I get older I love this sm 😭❤️❤️

  • @amykay2781
    @amykay2781 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a disabled myself, i teared up when you had the buggy to the venues. Oh i wish everyone would think of things like this.

  • @traceygilligan1201
    @traceygilligan1201 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant, you looked Beautiful, your husband dapper, and guests all Amazing. The details during the day WOW all inspiring xxx

  • @Mrcampercool
    @Mrcampercool 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the idea of the audio guest book for me and my fiancé's wedding as it means I remember my family members voices after they pass

  • @kelleywickenhagen2944
    @kelleywickenhagen2944 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a WONDERFUL Wedding , GREAT ideas you had.

  • @robinharding9919
    @robinharding9919 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gosh the joy on both of your faces and the way family and friends are celebrating. What a lovely couple. I hope you have so many happy years

  • @sashacardenas377
    @sashacardenas377 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AH CONGRATS GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE❤🙌🏼🙏🏼

  • @ValiBorel
    @ValiBorel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Woah! That's really impressive! Very creative! I'm absolutely amazed! I usually don't like attending weddings but your wedding? I would even pay to experience something like this 😍 Congratulations you two! I wish that your future will be exactly what you dream it to be ❤

  • @mayapatel62442
    @mayapatel62442 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved your idea about blindfolding the guests on your wedding day.

  • @jodysmilas2012
    @jodysmilas2012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your dress was beautiful. What an amazing day.

  • @hayleycakes3435
    @hayleycakes3435 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You looked absolutely gorgeous!!! Im so happy for you, sounds like it was a blast!

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved your episode with Aunti Gok on say yes to the dress. He is so good with his brides and he was fabulous with you.

  • @BringJoy2HealOurEarth
    @BringJoy2HealOurEarth 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You and your wedding look absolutely beautiful ✨

  • @5050TM
    @5050TM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awe how lovely 🌹😍❤ Beautiful wedding!

  • @maxtravers1314
    @maxtravers1314 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so cute and I hope it was as delightful as you are beautiful love ❤ so happy for you

  • @inkblot4
    @inkblot4 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is awesome! Such great ideas ❤❤ hope it was a wonderful day for all xxx

  • @michelecraig9658
    @michelecraig9658 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this. All of us could learn from you to use all her senses. I am so glad your videos have come up on my feed.

  • @TheShauNanigans
    @TheShauNanigans 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The audio guestbook is such a cool and unique idea.

  • @nevestelling662
    @nevestelling662 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im not blind but I really like the idea of so many of the things you did at your beautiful wedding and ill definitely be coming back to this video for my wedding because it seems like you made it such an amazing day!

  • @Llamamanllama
    @Llamamanllama ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how she helped yt shorts become what it is and shes still around. I hope u stays around forever and im so happy for i guys

  • @ohrats731
    @ohrats731 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I keep hearing great things about Kew! I’m so jealous you got married there 🤩 I hope I can visit some day. I’m from the US

  • @rhyfelwrDuw
    @rhyfelwrDuw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You both looked awesome! Of course Lucy you were beautiful (as always) wishing you and Ollie much happiness together! ❤️🎉🎊🎈

  • @SunnySky-
    @SunnySky- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even though im not blind i think i might use one of your ideas on the audio notes from the attendees it just seems so sweet to be able to live the night over through voice instead of writing!

  • @delaneynicole21
    @delaneynicole21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow your wedding looks beautiful. Congrats!

  • @TheKatishadow
    @TheKatishadow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations!! Your wedding sounds like it was amazing. I like this idea that you really heightened the other sense in the exsperiance and the audio guest book. 100% everyone should be doing that. Being able to hear the ones you love years on

  • @owatson7648
    @owatson7648 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh I adore this!! I adore seeing the creative ideas people come up with to make special events more accessible! What a lovely wedding 💕💕

  • @Moonstrila
    @Moonstrila 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Words cannot describe how happy I am! Your wedding was so beautiful and I wish you and your husband nothing but the best in life ❤

  • @md1972
    @md1972 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful. So thougthful and inclusive. God bless you always. ❤😊

  • @melaniekeeling7462
    @melaniekeeling7462 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are such a lovely bride. What a lucky man!

  • @ichomej3837
    @ichomej3837 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look so beautiful and happy ❤ all the best wishes to you both!

  • @stephengarrison172
    @stephengarrison172 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You two are so cute!

  • @rookthehuman
    @rookthehuman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is all so lovely for every to be included and loved even if it’s for YOUR special occasion

  • @beachobsession29
    @beachobsession29 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Looks like a great day filled with special items.

  • @fearofthechippan
    @fearofthechippan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations you two! That pic of the both of you on the stairs seemed so full of joy and pride, so happy for you both 🎉

  • @K3nzyy1416
    @K3nzyy1416 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im so happy for you! I can really tell how perfect that day was for you! So happy that you got your special day!! 💓

  • @emmyfox2304
    @emmyfox2304 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg your dog is so cute with the leaves and flowers :D

  • @xoxomercii
    @xoxomercii ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful couple! I wish you a long and happy marriage! Congratulations! ❤

  • @EchanteDante
    @EchanteDante 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That venue is absolutely stunning!!! I want a photo on those stairs just in general now! SO GORGEOUS!

  • @FutureCommentary1
    @FutureCommentary1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your moment with us. I'm getting lots of ideas here for things to make events accessible. You're very good at raising awareness.

  • @missmarie_8790
    @missmarie_8790 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So beautiful!!!

  • @ang5798
    @ang5798 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The blindfolds aren't making anything accessible, they are just making the ceremony blind-centered

  • @ocean3550
    @ocean3550 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    The most beautiful wedding and bride I’ve ever seen ❤️

  • @aarynbastian4469
    @aarynbastian4469 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those things you did add so much more to the experience esp the flower scent, brilliant!

  • @emrilbennett8704
    @emrilbennett8704 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re beautiful, Lucy!

  • @ultrabumblebee
    @ultrabumblebee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Big congrats to you both!!
    Also, some of these are just genuinely better ways of doing things. So thoughtful, very big brain 😆👍🔥

  • @4eyedlover
    @4eyedlover ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! A Hundred Years of Health And Happiness!!!