I really get it if she doesn't want to raise his kid, but it's absolutely unacceptable to mistrate a child. And its not even the nieces fault, she is just trying to exist. It really shows that the gf is not a really good person
I honestly get both sides. He wants his girlfriend to help raise a child, and didn’t even speak with her about it. While it is tragic to expect a gf to raise a kid, give up her personal space, and time isn’t small. Op isn’t wrong for picking his niece but I get why the gf isn’t happy. I’m child free and if my boyfriend did this, I wouldn’t be angry but I leave.
Its your niece, call her that . Not hard to explain your brothers daughter and you are now the active uncle. As far as your partner, if she cant or doesnt believe in helping family, why would you want to start a family with her ?
I really get it if she doesn't want to raise his kid, but it's absolutely unacceptable to mistrate a child. And its not even the nieces fault, she is just trying to exist. It really shows that the gf is not a really good person
I honestly get both sides. He wants his girlfriend to help raise a child, and didn’t even speak with her about it. While it is tragic to expect a gf to raise a kid, give up her personal space, and time isn’t small. Op isn’t wrong for picking his niece but I get why the gf isn’t happy. I’m child free and if my boyfriend did this, I wouldn’t be angry but I leave.
Its your niece, call her that . Not hard to explain your brothers daughter and you are now the active uncle. As far as your partner, if she cant or doesnt believe in helping family, why would you want to start a family with her ?