Chandigarh's Gedi Culture: Pyaar ya Show-off? | 2 am Stories | Episode 3
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ค. 2023
- Chandigarh is known for it's town planning and also it's loud and flashy Gedi culture. In this episode of 2 am Stories, Alisha experiences the fun behind Gedi and explores the risks in the kind of culture it is. Her guests- Amy Singh and Deepika Gandhi, show venture out with her to show her a night life of a different kind. Watch this episode strike important questions about women safety while exploring Chandigarh as a city.
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0- 1:28 What’s in this episode
1:28- 1:59 Hello Chandigarh
1:59- 3:17 Gedi kya hai?
3:17- 4:00 What do girls feel about gedi culture?
4:00- 4:36 Cops are here!
4:36- 5:11 The other side of gedi culture
5:11- 8:05 I met a young poet- Amy Singh
8:05- end How is Chandigarh so well planned? - บันเทิง
Normalizing stalking culture should not be encouraged. There is a demarcation between "fun" and making someone uncomfortable.
hindus are responsible for all the liberal filth and pub club culture
First women say we are equal to men then cry like this. Why highlighting this. Just do whatever you wish like boys. If you think you are equal. Hypocrisy at heights. By nature Female gender weak bnai gai hai ye har living being me exist hai animals, plants, birds. Faltu k protest aur feminism krne k bjaye apne strength pe focus kare females rather bs feminism k naam par sare boys ko bura bnana hai. Faltu k protest krne. Have some clarity first women. Both genders are different has their own strength and weakness. Stop crying victim game.
Having lived in Kota for a year, I can certainly say this gedi culture is quite prominent even there. You will find many vehicles just making rounds in the evening and especially during the weekends. Many end up following till the hostels and some even asking out. Tbh this actually made us feel unsafe and especially during diwali when most of the students return their homes, the city is half empty, never felt more unsafe than those times.
It's so bad culture instead of this please ask them to do some useful work, focus on their career and gain some respect in life.More shocking is police has no problem with that. Parents also should check what their kids are doing. Not only Chandigarh all over India this stalking culture should stop. I feel film industry is also should be blamed for this which shows heroes doing this kind of cheap things.
Absolutely, stalking culture is a growing concern.
NRI money, these blokes dont need to work
Finally the comment i was looking for. This gedi culture makes women uncomfortable and unsafe and is nothing but harassment. This stupid culture should stop ASAP
@@hauterrfly girls also like such thing
Thank you for showing the reality
That gedi is not for fun it normalises stalking and harassing
We chandigarh people feel so uncomfortable beacuse of these gawar outsiders who are just here to show off they have came from third class are with a mindset to tease off Chandigarh girls because they think every chandigarh girl is just a sexy object 💔
Are only outsiders there??? Not local residents
@@varinderwalia7840of course there are!
hindus are outsiders in our punjab
i can feel the pain😂😂same thing happens in doon as well bahar ke log sale mahaul kharab kar dete hai....
Although i support you against this culture of stalking but real outsiders are you people they are native of this land of Punjab they have full right over their capital city and once again i do not support this nonsense of Gedi
I am from West Bengal , I stayed close to 1.5 years in Punjab. I really loveddd punjabi food, Now in kolkata i hunt for punjabi food only in weekends! Specially the nonveg ones are mouth watering.
But this gedi culture which i have seen to be true sadly, is tarnishing the name of beautiful rich punjabi culture.
I have observed in states where sex ratio is low, female foeticide happens there these kind of social evils surfaces, such as dowry, honor killings in intercaste marriage, misogyny in every sphere of life. Actually when women are treated as commodity to be breeded and making babies having father's surname, then these evil will surface. We indians need to improve a lottttt.
Anyway hope this culture ends soon.
Wahe guru!
People should understand that if a woman/man says no to something or if he/she is not comfortable with your act, respect her/him. And move on, there's nothing wrong in having some fun but fun should be accepted from both sides.
It depends upon the people of the place, Chandigarh is generally full of young students, max of them went there for fun only because the place is good, unlike Mumbai, the people there from starting have maintained equality amongst genders at home only, plus the Nirbhaya squad has done wonders there,, thank you for showing the reality .
Pune has lots of student, but most come from humble background, they don’t have crazy pind and Canada da dollar money.
Plus Pune culture is rooted more in Phule Ambedkar social reform based culture. Culture builds many things, all cities are not same.
I am not from Pune, but o understood this while staying there for few years. We should always learn if someone is better, rather than outright rejecting that there are flaws in this gadi culture. Students hai to padhai karo, hustle karo, ye bedi ka time hi kaha hai. Accha ji baap ka paisa hai.
R u dumb or what u think gadi culture is right just because its for fun starring a random girl is not a fun thing ok next time if your sister face gedi by boys just appreciate them because they are just enjoying apni behn ke liye nahi sehna aata to dusro ke liye usi cheez ko fun mat banao Gadhi saali
First they say we are equal to men then cry like this. Why highlighting this. Just do whatever you wish like boys. If you think you are equal. Hypocrisy at heights. By nature Female gender weak bnai gai hai ye har living being me exist hai animals, plants, birds. Faltu k apne strength pe focus kare bina bs feminism k naam par sare boys ko bura bnana hai. Faltu k protest krne. Have some clarity first.
Chandigarh is capital city so it’s generally safe as compared to other major cities in India and being allot of government officials living here makes the place liveable.
These pendus coming out to study here in Chandigarh have hyped this. You will hardly find any person having a base in Chandigarh do it.
Himachalis as well
Originally the term "gedi" only meant to go out on a drive with friends and have a good time with them. However, lately desperation and wrong thinking has come along with youngsters, the college students, leading to a negative and pessimistic culture. And it's not okay, when people have normalised it. It was never there, I don't know what happened.
this series is precious
There are some people in every city who make people feel unsafe, Delhi is full of those people, because the outsiders are way too many there.
Native Delhi k log bohot rare he aapko milenge kuch ulta krte hue.
Cities like Gurugram and Noida are still villages if you observe, Isliye vha k log vahi low mentality ke h, plus, there are plenty of corporate guys who think evwry woman is ready to sleep with them since they own a car or have expensive gadgets. Idiots forget that they have sisters at home.
10:20 culture, people culture makes a difference. And what we teach in school. Because that area never had social reformers, but yes freedom fighters were there, now it’s time to have social reformation. Women can lead that social reformation.
Why only women can lead?? Why can't both genders? That's the issue. Pehle men karte the ab women ko wahi sab karna to become like men. First women say we are equal to men then cry like this. Why highlighting this. Just do whatever you wish like boys. If you think you are equal. Hypocrisy at heights. By nature Female gender weak bnai gai hai ye har living being me exist hai animals, plants, birds. Faltu k protest aur feminism krne k bjaye apne strength pe focus kare females rather bs feminism k naam par sare boys ko bura bnana hai. Faltu k protest krne. Have some clarity first women. Both genders are different has their own strength and weakness. Stop crying victim game.
I'm from mcm dav one of the most popular gedi routes of chd and most of these guys are Punjabi Gwaar who take cars on rent and stalk girls and show off
Gwaar kyu ji nhi fsna naa krdeya kroo tattehh kaato hund oo
Hello Alisha Mam. m your Big fan. when will you upload the next episode of 2 am stories? Eagerly waiting
"baat ye nahi hai ki hamare paas azadi nahi hai, par hamare paas BEKHAUF azadi nahi hai" Waah 👏👏
Wow beautiful city 🎉 thank you for some inner information
Glad you loved the episode!
Do watch 2 AM Stories Mumbai And Gurugram too :)
being from Mumbai, this is unacceptable. men stalking, gawking, teasing women is already disgusting and top of it that girl says "content" mil jaata hai !!! she considers girls including herself Content" Unless you respect yourself dont expect others to respect you.
I feel all this is far more deep rooted than what your eye meets. female Infanticide to begin with. We all know the statistics in certain places of Punjab and Haryana that there is so much shortage of women that sometimes a single women is married to all the brothers in the grooms family. she is literally married to 4-5 men !! Polyandry is rampant in these areas.
If these men grew up in a family culture of sisters and aunts who were "Respected" as sisters and aunts or wives, there probably would be no Gedi at all. its just a culture thing here to treat women like a piece of meat. The very bringing up of these men is toxic. very sickening. The cop came over to question you what you were doing but never came when so many cars and men were lining up to Gawk at women who are students !! these girls want to study and dream of having a good future for God sake - leave them alone. it is because of these disgusting men that most girls are deprived of higher or good education becs parents find it unsafe to send their girls to colleges or hostels. This entire Gedi thing as a whole should be scrapped off by some very strict law and rules.
Want more cities in this series
kudos to camera guy for the lightning and stable frames in dark.
great work mam
Being creep is cool in india
Why do they think by doing this chaprigiri they will be able to impress any girl 🤷, most probably girls are gonna think these are fools and will ignore them
Loved the concept mam , keep coming with more such content 😊
Mhara( म्हारा) Chandigarh... yup bahut kuch change hona baki hai..per bahut jyada kuch acha hai.. its just not a city. Its love...
Edit: Or haa tumhara video bahut acha laga.. keep spreading love.
2:00 umm wht happened to the cycle guy 0_0
Pune is very safe,everyone is busy here,
I have been living in Chandigarh for the past 5 years and the amount of uncomfortableness they make us feel.... stalking, following, slut shaming, derogatory comments, verbal harassment, etc.... what not they make us feel unsafe that also in front of my college..... I feel the most unsafe in Chandigarh from the DAV College Gate to the Auto Point in Madhya Marg.... i cannot tell you the amount of time I came running..... Gedi culture is the worst culture of Chandigarh..... otherwise Chandigarh people are the sweetest, the best, especially the police..... hats off to the police for their commendable job in making sure no girls are hurt if feel unsafe
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Nyc cinematics,story and Theme totally love your content keep growing 👏
Thank you! Have you seen 2 AM Stories Mumbai & Gurugram?
Yess!
Hello sis
I am in 12th ...after clearing entres exam ...i disided to choose college in Chandigarh.....
Your video helped me alot to know about there people and women safety....
And stalking someone is not kind of fun .....
You are amazing and a brave person .... really like your video ...
Thank you for providing this good content ❤
Freedom Vs Fearless Freedom
Being from mumbai we feel so disconnected with the north people in terms of the mindset
I agree. True.
First women say we are equal to men then cry like this. Why highlighting this. Just do whatever you wish like boys. If you think you are equal. Hypocrisy at heights. By nature Female gender weak bnai gai hai ye har living being me exist hai animals, plants, birds. Faltu k protest aur feminism krne k bjaye apne strength pe focus kare females rather bs feminism k naam par sare boys ko bura bnana hai. Faltu k protest krne. Have some clarity first women. Both genders are different has their own strength and weakness. Stop crying victim game.
People in Mumbai Just living for money. .in small apartments ... lifestyle of Mumbai people is like suffocating
alisha parvez thakur 🔥🔥🔥
Kuch nahi bas gaadi show off ko gedi culture kehte h...aur usme koi ladki pat gayi toh Inka bas tauba tauba😮
No wonder why we Goans hate North Indians. Southern states are way more peaceful. The men here are well mannered and respectful specially towards women. Maharashtra and Goa has a great culture.
lmao no, south indians dont even consider catcalling a thing because its that normalised there.
@@stutisidhu559 you have a video right infront of you proving how catcalling is normalised in North. If still not convinced, Watch their video on Delhi. And Still you want to live in a denial then good for you. Also, idk which part of South you've been to and experienced catcalling as a normal activity.
Shut the fuck up peope literally shit anywhere in ur Goa or Maharashtra.. in Punjab or chandigarh we don’t do that ur North Indian version is up or Rajasthan that is not north India .. North is everything above Delhi
Bhai kuch chutiye tumhe har city me milenge. Don't pretend like such things don't exist in the south. Utna show-boating wala culture nahi hai but every place has problems of it's own. Have you ever been to Chandigarh? It's one of the best cities in India, I rank it higher than any place I've visited so far. Stop generalising it to "North Indians".
A quick Google search will open yours eyes to the level of crime on women in south for which you are blindsided for some reason.
Chandigarh is most beautiful city everrrrrr… heart of panjab❤
Gedi ka matlab hi h time waste krna
Try indore too
8:50
its f..d up. except for trees. coming just for nature drive.
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@@hauterrfly yes I have seen all yours 2 AM series episode wonderful job keep it up ....Congratulations
It's all about people, even well educated people are doing crime against women
Mcm college
one can't even stay out late alone in us.
In Europe they can...US is unsafe even for men...
Even it is unsafe to roam around midnight on street or go to work in Canada too! Infact considering the population of India,crime there is much lower as compared to western countries.
Chandigarh me mooj hai full
just say muslims harrasing a girl and you will get 10 million views what is happening to our country😒😒
Chandigarh is good but there are few bad people in every city
wtf u mean by fearless freedom? how cn u be free n fearless together? being free u have to responsible, u have to watch ur back, thats just it. u cant go in front of a tiger in the name of freedom and then say i should be fearless n tiger shouldnt attack me. i know stupid example, but u do get what i am talking about.
That’s what’s she meant one should have fearless freedom a freedom with fear isn’t freedom at all
Well, yk fearless and careless are two different things?
Lack of proper lighting , kaunsi jagah nhi hai behen . Or bekhauf hoke to koi bhi Ghar se bahar nhi nikalta ..u have to be alert irrespective of age gender....patriarchy ki or yaha k logo ke soch ki baat kar Rahi hai behen....chahti kya ho bahin..
No one should misbehave with girls.... But look at the positive side of it..... Girls are getting plenty of choice🙃....beside that it is a kind of casually chilling...
apki behen ko bhi yeh choice milni cahiye
Rules same honey cahiye na
These are criminals
Showfff g
O bhai chd is far safe, I m being to most of Indian cities for work & business. Fearless Azaadi raat toh 4 bje ghumne ki kahan hai.. akele ladke ki bhi koi lutt maar kr skta hai throughout country. FEMINIST K Naam pee kuch bhi mat chep do..
Btw those who are saying chd meij outsiders hai, no one is native of this land as this was planned city from scratch. Jo native ban rhe hai woh bhi bhar wale hai.. 😂
Tharkiness At its peak
Complaint krn wale sire de fattu hone aa, geddi maran wele daler bande aa, hun ghare na video diss jaye tan b*nd cho hawa nikal jandi aa
If Chandigarh or Punjab in general isn’t safe for women , nothing is safe for women in india .. end of debate
what about Bombay
@@user-ng2rv7lz5opunjab much better
Tere baal kyu nahi ude..