How To Determine Your Core Values | 13 Questions with Dr John Demartini
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- About This Video: Dr Demartini shares the most important aspect of human behavior which emerges from each of our unique hierarchies of values. Understand the difference between values and social idealisms. Knowing your highest values enables you to align your life's actions with the things that mean the most to you. Not being aware of your highest values makes it exponentially more difficult to create a meaningful, and fulfilling life.
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Dr. John Demartini is a human behavior specialist, a polymath, philosopher, international speaker and best-selling author. His work is a summation of over 299 different disciplines synthesized from the greatest minds in most fields of study today. His extensive curriculum focuses on helping individuals master their lives so that they can more extensively serve humanity with their inspired vision and mission.
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1 3:56 What do we fill our space with?
2 4:37 How do you spend your time?
3 5:25 What energizes you?
4 6:12 What do you spend your money on?
5 6:55 where are you most organized and ordered?
6 7:41 Where are you most disciplined and reliable?
7 8:07 What do you think about?
8 8:07 What do you visualize?
9 8:07 What do you have an internally dialouge about most?
10 8:59 What do you want to converse with other people about?
11 9:11 What inspires you the most?
12 10:01 What are your 3 most consistent goals?
13 10:35 What do you love to learn about?
Thank you!
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@@hindenburg2006 If I may be so bold, my newest discovery: find something you hate and declare a personal war against is the other 50% of the equation no one seems to talk about. Being angry, in pain and full if hate is both natural, normal, empowering and very realistic. Just seeking the positives in your quest for work, relations or meaning almost becomes a weak, hedonistic pleasure seeking with less potency and no real "wind in the sails" to it.
Embrace the sith in you and you'll have a *MUCH* easier time in your quest to live a good life in regards to your values
Thank you.
Thanks for taking the time to do this!
Hard to believe there are only 1.5K views on this when writing this comment, which is one of the most important things to do - find your values.
1. How do you fill your space
2. How do you spend your time
3. What energizes you
4. What do you spend your money on
5. Where are you most organized
6. Where are you most disciplined & reliable
7. What do you think about most
8. What do you visualize most
9. What do you have an internal dialgue about most
10. What do you converse with other people about most
11. What inspires you most
12. What are your 3 most consistent goals
13. What do you love to learn about
Perfect and you can also pop over to the Demartini website and take the FREE online Value Determination Here: www.drdemartini.com/values
Thank you!
Thanks for the recap buddy :D
I'm absolutely blown away. I have been struggling to "find myself" or the values that define me for probably a year now with what I thought was success. However, this video has really dug right to the core and got into exactly what my values are and I was miles off. Thank you so so much for this amazingly helpful video.
You're so welcome - there are more on values you may also find useful here's another on the voids that set up your values: th-cam.com/video/pTPV7FnySZk/w-d-xo.html - Enjoy 🙂
How u found
Hey, i have a question: How do you find your values from these questions? The ans to these questions are activities i like doing. For example: 1.What do you spend your time on: Motivational videos,cooking etc.. 2.What energises you: eating/cooking, watching motivational videos. Whats my 'value' here? i do not get this. Could you pls help?
Ok how I got my answers, was I answered the 13 questions. I gave three answers for each question. Then I counted the word that was constantly repeated as my highest value. For example I noticed you already have cooking already in your two questions. It appears you love creating great tastes for the world to experience. My thoughts
Dr. John Demartini this message has already changed my life. I'm a lover of TH-cam videos on relationships. I came across one of your videos about a week ago. I can not stop watching them. I have been working on me. I already shared with family and friends. Blessings sir.
This is so valuable, thank you so much Dr. Demartini!
Thank you for your presentation. I find thinking about my core values extremely difficult to do, I really do struggle at times. To explain and describe my true self feels like doing a very difficult exam because most of my life I’ve thought and done things for everyone else, so I’ve never thought about myself like this. However, after listening to your brilliant presentation, things are now starting to jump out at me, things that inspire me and what I am passionate about. I haven’t completed the exercise yet but I’m sharing with you that these positive thoughts leaping out at me is a good start and it’s got me thinking more. So thank you Dr Demartini😊🙏🏼
This is the only video I could find that actually helped me figure out what my TRUE values are. Thank you!!
Great news Katya, thanks for sharing. If you'd love to explore values even further and gain a deeper understanding, I highly recommend this video: th-cam.com/video/QbXFweDESbs/w-d-xo.html
What a wonderful list! This is the most actionable instruction I've come across about revealing what my values are as I am living them right now. Below are the 13 questions slightly reworded as I understood them.
1. What do I fill my space with?
- The close space around me
- 3 high priority items that are around me
2. How do I spend my time?
3. What energizes me?
4. What do I spend my money on?
5. Where am I most organized and ordered?
6. Where am I most disciplined and reliable?
7. What do I most often think about?
8. What do I most often visualize?
9. What do I most often have an internal dialogue about?
10. What do I want to converse about with others?
11. What inspires me and what is consistent with the people who inspire me?
- What brings tears to my eyes? Write down what was in my mind when the tears came to my eyes
12. What are the 3 most consistent goals I have?
13. What do I love to learn about?
Thanks Jonathan. The key here being that you're looking at what your life demonstrates for each of these questions. You can also take the free Value Determination online, where Dr Demartini also explains each question: demartini.fm/mytopvalues
1. What do you fill your personal space with? What are the three elements that you consistently have around you the most?
2. Where do you invest your time? What activities or tasks occupy most of your daily time?
3. What energizes you? What activities or situations increase your energy and enthusiasm?
4. What do you spend your money on? What are the main areas where you invest your financial resources?
5. Where are you most organized and orderly? In what aspects of your life do you demonstrate greater organization and structure?
6. Where are you most disciplined and reliable? In what areas of your life can you count on yourself to be consistent and fulfill your commitments?
7. What do you think about most often? What are the thoughts or themes that dominate your mind?
8. What do you visualize about your life? How do you imagine your ideal life and what evidence is there that it is becoming a reality?
9. What do you internally dialogue with yourself about? What are the internal conversations you have about your goals and aspirations?
10. What topics do you like to talk about with other people? What conversations do you tend to initiate or maintain with others?
11. What inspires you? Who are the people or what are the situations that motivate and excite you?
12. What are your most consistent goals? What goals do you have that show evidence of being achieved?
13. What topics do you love to study, read, learn, and listen to? What areas of knowledge do you seek to explore spontaneously and continuously?
thanks alot for summarizing
I must have watched more than a fair share of videos and a score of books on the subject, finally I can say confidently that your 13 questions do bring out the values that align with what a person really is. Thanks Dr. Demartini
Hey, i have a question: How do you find your values from these questions? The ans to these questions are activities i like doing. For example: 1.What do you spend your time on: Motivational videos,cooking etc.. 2.What energises you: eating/cooking, watching motivational videos. Whats my 'value' here? i do not get this. Could you pls help?
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Dr Demartini, more people will appreciate this than you might realise!
A very very very hard work for today for me
Okay, thank you. I have answered the questions, a real eye opener.. My values are awful and trivial. My question now, how do I refocus and make the important stuff, important?
You simply now must just start working WITH INTENT to change and redirect. Simple. Every minute think about what you are doing. This takes practice. Ask yourself every 30 minutes for the next 2 weeks, why am I doing this particular activity
Excellently put. Thanks.
This is brilliant! Thank you 🙏🏼
you dont need any recognition , i take your suggestion as it is .
thank you for a great insight.
This is GOLD!!!! Thank you so much for what you do, you are making mankind better…
I did your breakthrough course in 2013 and have been watching videos and webinars ever since. Today I logged on to try to connect my highest "wish" with my highest "value", so that i can link the two. Thanks so much for giving me the knowledge to make necessary changes to my life!
After 7 years still trying........ ? Why soooooo long ???
Dr. John Demartini...You're a gift to the Society and Me personally...I am getting clearly, what my priorities are...and what should I do hereafter...🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
Spent my morning answering your questions. Rev Lee Wolak brought me here. Thumbs up to you both.
the distinction between delegating and linking really resonated with me. I’ve just stated to think about my values in day to day life and I find that I’m more motivated because I can trace back my actions or justify my future actions based on my core values. thankyou so much for this video!
It is wonderful and is making me think hard. Will do this exercise to know self better. Thanks Dr.Demartini for this wonderful knowledge
You're so welcome 🙂
A super helpful presentation. I am struggle with what my values are. With you prompt questions, I feel I can easily see myself from a thrid person's eyes and give objective answers to myself. True inspiration!
Value determinants-what a great lesson. It seems to be easier to see someone else's highest values rather than one's own. Taking on what one has been trained to be personal core values, is a reality. As a black person on top of it all, one does not feel like one even has the right to powerfully and freely choose the 'loves for' rather than the 'ought to's".
Thanks for your comment Naomi, have you done your values on Dr Demartini's website?
I found my life so far running around learning Physical and Mental health, Love and Counselling, thanks for this video
Thank you. I now can focus on my dreams and values. It"s never too late to start
100%. You are worthy of turning your inspired dreams into reality
Thank you John for sharing this wisdom! Student of yours for life! 💓
Thank you John you still look the same as you did 15 years ago lol keep them videos coming 🙏🏽
This was EXACTLY what I needed. These are the best questions I have ever heard that help us define our values. This was awesome. Thank you.
Thanks Dr. Demartini making the distinction between ideals vs actual values, inculcated / injected values and true personal values!
Thanks for making the value determination method for free that blesses many! I am a life purpose coach that find this tool very helpful!❤
Many years ago Dr. John Demartini at a live Talk at Pollsmoor Prison where he Addressed the Officials. Very inspirational.
I listened yesterday and the day before ,On the Success Summit to him speak on Values. I am working on them at this very moment. Thank you
Hi Mark - I remember that day very well. Wonderful that you've found this work again 🙂
Thank you for this thoroughly revolutionary approach to “self-realization.”
very helpful, thank you so much. also blown away by the brain and body circuitry impacts you went through in the Next Level Soul interview. many thanks for the work you do. xxx
I took the test found it very helpful, just came across your work yesterday and I must have watch 8 of your videos, thank you for sharing your knowledge
Your content isnt "sexy" but it is WELL articulated, concrete, & useful. Thanks for sharing 🙌🏾 Please consider a recap slide or list in the future, or not and make us gain it the hard way 🤷🏾♀️ Ill still watch
Very erudite and forensic clip showing us EXACTLY how discover discover what our true values are. Brutal honesty is required, especially for dreamers like me...The clincher was what fires the reticular cortex. I came across some brain structures when non expertly looking into the twinned sttuctures of Thalami and Amydullas. I speculate that gender differences are related in some way to M/F preferences in the Affect / Logos department...Thats what floats my boat..Thank you Dr Demartini ..Job 10 - 15% done!!?
Thank you so much for helping us being conscious of what really matters for us no matter what the outside and the inner confusion may say. I have found it super useful to put order and to clarify my life. I was struggling in accepting what I love the most and I was judging myself without realizing it was an imposed voice and command. I have been watching videos of Marisa Peer, Bruce Lipton, Joe Dispenza, Aaron Doughty and more... but I didn't find such a down to earth tool to practically help us in our lives. Thank you so much Dr. Demartini ! 🙏 ❤
Thank you Gigi
Excellent. I am currently doing a deep dive into ACT and the 6 Pivots. One of which is Values driven action, This really helps people to get clear on what they value. Is there a survey people can do or questionnaire?
Hi mark, you can determine your values here 🙂 demartini.fm/mytopvalues
It was almost 5 years ago I went to the Break Through Experience. And about 3 years ago I listened to "The Values Factor" on audible.
Yes, Dr. John's instructions have been rattling around without a sense of conviction. It is only now I sitting down to document & discover exactly where I need to be.
If you feel shitty know its never to late to re-write the ending a become a happier me.
Thank you so much Dr. Demartine for your valuable presentation, it has helped me to understand and find my "🌞🌹Life Purpose" by accepting MY Values, MY SELF❤!
Thank you so much! I've watched or read several other core value things that just gave a list and said "select the 5 words that resonate with you most" and that left me in such an internal struggle. I've been struggling for days, pouring over core values lists, constantly battling with the divide between what I think I should choose as my highest values (because they're valued by society) and what truly engages and fills me with meaning. This video and list of questions helps me feel validated by reminding me that the things I truly value energize me and move me into action. When I just focus on "supposed to" values, with no connection to my authentic values, I feel drained, unmotivated, and aimless. I love what you said at the end about loving what you do through linking too! This video has been so valuable!
So glad you found this video! You can also do the actual value determination process on our website for free here: drdemartini.com/values/
Wow thanks you so much Dr ,l have learnt so much from this presentation, this is amazing
i just had tears in my eyes right now... i'm going to watch it again!
This video simplified what i was in search for and saved me a lot of time in research, reading, etc . Valuable information. Thank you Dr. Demartini. ❤❤❤
This video is gold 👍
If you answer the questions honestly you get an amazingly clear answer to the question of which values you have. Thank you so much John!
It is our pleasure, team Demartini.
A huge thank you. A strong message on establishing order in my life.
Thankyou for your guidance John. Up until 18 months ago I never even knew what "core values" were. Your Value Determination exercise has helped me identify what I was wasting a lot of time on thinking that it was the right thing but it was never goingto be. I am so grateful to have come across you and your teachings. Thank you John for following your passion and being you. 🙏❤
OMG this is what I really wanted to hear. Thanks this means a lot to me
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Thank you for developing this system of questions! It really helped to understand myself better.
You're so welcome - don't forget to determine your values by taking the FREE online test www.drdemartini.com/values 🙂
Dr, cant thank you enough for this clarity on values system that i have been seeking for quite sometime. Here it is, so vivid, scientific & clarified prudently! Thank you! Im huge fan of yours and following you thru recently
This exercise was so POWERFUL to me I now teach and coach on it. It helped me avoid a midlife-crisis and turn it into a midlife-reset.
Hi Tim - if you'd love to master the work on Values and share that with your clients you may wish to find out about the licensing programs we have available for that - Please reach out to the team by emailing Emile@DrDemartini.com as we'd love it if you were enabled to share this work with your network 🙂
Thanks John. One of the simplest methods, but difficult. It is so challenging to cut through the injected values. The video came at a great time as I am doing this at the moment.
Thank you. I am just discovering your content. I find it is helping me continue to evolve as a human being in spiritual ways.
Im reading the book now. Well listening. And i am waiting for my hard copy to continue. I feel like i gotta do this right. Idk if i should even listen until i have it in hand am ready to take the time.
Wonderful and do the exercises as that's where you'll really see the power of this work.
I feel like I don’t have the mental clarity to do this and am depressed. Doesn’t feel so simple to answer these questions :/
Hi Blane, thanks for your comment. Have you looked at attending Dr Demartini signature program the Breakthrough Experience that can help you?
How is it going? These questions are thought my friend. Not easy. For me it helps to just imagine it's a "sketch" so I don't overthink every answer as if it was gonna change my whole life. Also, I leave every month at least 1 hour to reflect, because sometimes i find out new values or fake values or that they just changed
You have no idea how incredibly amazing your speech are. So well structured and concrete that help us understand better ourselves. Thank you so much for your video. I hope to see more content in the near future.
Take care.
Thank you Houda. Great to hear it's been of value to you
Thank you so much for give the step-by-step in how to determine our values! I’ve been struggling to figure out my top values but now I know how to do it!!! Thanks a lot!! :)
Thanks Jana. Lovely to hear. If you'd like to take the next step of learning, here's a free masterclass on finding meaning and purpose along your journey: demartini.ink/3DX0wHh
I have never come across such an easy way to find my values in life . It was during the you tube video , I could easily figure out the answers . Thankyou very much for the helpful video !
Glad it was helpful! Thank you
Dear Doctor Demartini: Thank you very much for providing simple yet powerful way to bring things that we do nonconsciously actually reflects what we truly value. We are making steady progress in improving our quality of our life so we can keep enhancing our service to our world. God bless you Doctor Demartini 😃👍🙏
Thank you - it's inspiring to hear that you're gaining value from these teachings ❤️
So this video for the first time 2021, despite all the challenges in my life at the time it a year I lived with a lot of intentionality because I was living, breathing and expressing my authentic values more the ever.
Thank you so much Doctor DeMartini for your service to this wonderful world.
Very concise, beautiful and practical. Thank you so much Dr Demartini! My intuitive answers were Love, Compassion, Enthusiasm, Passion, Truth, Pleasure and Satisfaction.
Immense gratitude thanks to y'all so much dearest all 🌹
Y'all such an inspiration 🥰
Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖
Stay Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈
I really love how you present your ideas, thoughts, for what's your passion. I can climb with you when you explain the meanings of these subjects. Thank you!!
First, Good Morning to you Dr. D, and then I want to state I haven’t implemented anything I’ve listen that you said yet into practical use, but I just want to say thank you for all that you said.
So I was trying to comprehend 40-70 books a week, and then when we reached the end of this and I experienced a perspective breakthrough from this exercise, I get it.
This video deserves more views
Dr John, your tireless efforts are an inspiration! Your videos do fill close up space🙂 Thank you
Thank you Dr, After many years of trying to list down and prioritizing my life values finally I got more clear with your guidance.
That is inspiring to hear Mir. What is it that you are creating in the world?
Thanks for your contribution of clarifying what is most important in everyone ‘s life. . A valuable knowledge that needs to be seeded everywhere. 👏🏼
Thanks for the comment in learning this information. Team Demartini.
Finally!!! I have watched so many videos about this and have always been left wanting. A feeling that while the info was good it wasn't quite what I needed. But THIS! This is it! This is exactly the thing I needed. Thank you sir!!
Fabulous! Have you done the FREE online test where you can determine your values? If not yet then please click here: demartini.fm/mytopvalues.
Then once you're done if you'd like to go deeper into the work you can review some of the FREE training modules on offer which you can access here: demartini.ink/training
Enjoy 🙂
Absolutely spot on. “Conditioning”💯.
Great information as always.
Thank you very much for this interesting and practical video! It helps to immediately put it into actionable steps to change life for better. Great job!
Glad it was helpful!
Dr. DeMartini, will you further extrapolate on the practical use of these exercises? The 11:32 - 12:30 mark feels like is rushed through and to me it's the gold...please help me understand the benefits of what this entire video is about...how do I take the results and make best use of what you brought awareness to in your view?
I've been aware of my values for a long time (in part thanks to your book)...are you encouraging us to change or adjust our behavior in some way once having this knowledge? I mean...if our values are what we do...then they are we do and surround ourselves by....and....so what? Now what?
Maybe you mention in your book, it's been a while since I've listened to it on Audible. I will go research now.
Ah ha! It's in Chapter 6 of the Values Factor. Might be good at the end of your video to direct folks there for more in depth practicality if not mentioning it on video. :)
So many videos on YT about identifying core value but almost all just waffle on. Your video offered a concrete method to identifying values. Now I’m getting somewhere. Thank you.
Thank you Daniel, great to hear.
I've been looking for a video like this for ages! A majority of videos on this topic rely on you having good self awareness (which I dont claim to have lol). Thank you, these questions are eye opening and realistic
You're so welcome!
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Same 3 answers to all 13.. writing music.. screenplays... and gym... at age 66 the gym shows the evidence of progress.. 18 pounds of muscle in 4 months..
Screenplays for one year paid the best.. couple thousand dollars.. music recording getting better.. good quality..
$1000 a month retirement is not much.. it all goes to rent for a room San Diego.. but the extra 2000 writing pay.. cash help.. went to car insurance tags registration etc
This free masterclass on being financially fulfilled doing what you love will offer you some valuable insights: demartini.ink/2Vrkl87
Thank you Dr. John for your messages and values
What a fantastic video 😍 thank you doctor!
I am clearly inspired ..teary eyed🙏🙏
Fantastic! I found myself nodding the whole way through, it made a lot of sense to me. ❤
Wow! Thank you so much. I just watched this 7 times and took notes! Thank you for your insight!
Damn good video! I learned more about myself than I was willing to admit once I got rid of all the fantasy BS!
Thank you for sharing Nicholias
@@DrDemartini thank YOU for sharing. I've subscribed :)
Great! Welcome to the community!
A very good start to find true change
This is a great video - thank you! I am intrigued about extrapolating ones values from a person talents when doing the Clifton Strengths Finder. Strengths (according to Gallup) can be defined as ones natural way of thinking, feeling and behaving. So it’s comes naturally to you - you are already doing it unconsciously. My talents are learning, responsibility, input, futuristic and intellection. Extrapolating my values from this will be learning, ownership, sharing, innovation, wisdom. I see evidence of these talents on a daily basis and it’s underpinned by these values.
great teaching!
I love this so much. I will share it as soon as im out of fb jail lol
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One of the most helpful thinks I have found. Thank you doctor for this life changing video.
So lovely to hear. Thank you Anish
great talk. Thank you
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wow this was incredibly valuable. Packed with useful, ACTIONABLE items that we can all follow. Many videos talk about the idea behind something, but this actually held my hand step by step along the way. Thank you
Thank you
Thank you so much Dr Demartini, this has a lot of value, gives me clarity and direction to what my actions should be. I appreciate you
You're so welcome Menchi 🙂
Find your heart values and change your life! Love it
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Amazing thanks so much
Heard you for the first time today in another format. Love what I heard there and am anxious to learn more!
Great to hear Linda, welcome! If you'd love to take your learning further, here is a link to free training by Dr Demartini: demartini.ink/training
Thank you so much! Very helpful! This is such a motivational catalyst!
This video was so helpful and amazing. I listened to it sped up, then I slowed it down to take notes. Seriously.. this video has just helped me so much! Thank you!! This was so excellent and I appreciate your articulation and examples immensely.
Thank you so much Seymor, we appreciate your comment. If you'd love to take your learning further, please take advantage of the free training that Dr Demartini has to offer: demartini.ink/training
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I enjoyed how these prompts helped me gain clarity ❤
Thank you. 😊
You're welcome 🙂