How To Be A Nicer Person (10 Tips)

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  • Here's 10 tips on how to be a nicer person. What is a “nice person”? Being kind and nice is all good on paper, but when it comes down to it, many people find themselves lacking in the friend’s department. Why is that? What is it that makes someone unpleasant to be around, and how can we remedy it? Rather than breaking or tearing someone down, you should be seeking to build them up, support them, and encourage them. Here are ten helpful pointers on how to be a nice person so that others can be more enjoyable around you and appreciate your kindness.
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  • @georgemiller2503
    @georgemiller2503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2886

    I'm so disappointed that I'm here...

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      XD

    • @movedchannels5244
      @movedchannels5244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +292

      It’s ok to be here, plus, you’re learning stuff! It’s amazing that you’re trying to be a better person! ☺️

    • @brishti7443
      @brishti7443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Same..

    • @goofyahhchaseif
      @goofyahhchaseif 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Me too!

    • @libbyruanne3418
      @libbyruanne3418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I recently got told that I'm an awful person, so I'm trying not to be.. So I am also ashamed to be here

  • @suburban.legend
    @suburban.legend 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1978

    To everyone saying they are disappointed to be here read this...you shouldn't be disappointed to be here, you should be proud that you actually looked this up and decided to change, that's awesome because some people don't even know they need to be nicer, or they just don't genuinely care!
    I'm proud of you :)

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      That's true! :D

    • @jessicasaldivar9681
      @jessicasaldivar9681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This should get way more likes!

    • @comfyisabot5065
      @comfyisabot5065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That's so nice for you to say that!

    • @infiniteegirl8853
      @infiniteegirl8853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I can’t be not disappointed because I told myself a 1,000 times to be nicer and I can’t listen to it, but this video kinda helped me and I still can’t become nicer

    • @suburban.legend
      @suburban.legend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Swe̸e̸t Strawbe̸rrie̸s same!! But it’s all about your confidence, if you believe you can be nicer you’ll succeed but if every time you do something mean you think “I’ll never be nicer” then you’ll believe there’s no point in even trying. So if you decide to keep going, ofc you’ll struggle at first but then you’ll see a change and actually be surprised

  • @gracekasing6560
    @gracekasing6560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1105

    For all those people with busy lives
    1.Try opening up and ask others abt themselves
    2.Simple courtesies and manners
    3.Offer your help freely and often
    4. Use open body language
    5.Offer up compliments to others
    6.Encourage others
    7.Stop the negative gossip
    8.Allow others to participate or to have a say
    9.Hold off on hurtful jokes and pranks
    10. Express affections
    Your welcome 🍭

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Thanks, Grace.

    • @amykang4942
      @amykang4942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hate this nood

    • @bob130
      @bob130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Fuck, i looked at the comment section after the video

    • @Alexamariemusic
      @Alexamariemusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Grace Kasing ty

    • @Larowo
      @Larowo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

  • @savethemonkeys1463
    @savethemonkeys1463 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    To all the people watching this, you are kind enough to want to be kind, I can tell all the people who watched this on the true intent to become nicer, have a pure soul.

  • @autumnmae5001
    @autumnmae5001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    I wanted to help
    this old woman carry her bags up the stairs but I thought she might think I’m trying to steal her stuff😂

  • @tonyadair0754
    @tonyadair0754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Two of the most important things, in my opinion:
    - Be as genuine as possible
    - Realizing it's not about you

  • @ashlandchristensen7791
    @ashlandchristensen7791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    I am a good friend but I always am too blunt. Saying mean stuff or pranking too harmfully. But I say it as a joke but some take it as I'm being mean.
    And I need to get out of that habit.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Awww

    • @brishti7443
      @brishti7443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Same!i come off very rude and blunt when i dont mean to hurt them..

    • @jesstheetaurus9239
      @jesstheetaurus9239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ashland Christensen i have that same habit and i don’t know how to stop

    • @hannibal0001
      @hannibal0001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      same It really affected me I try to be a good friend but I spit out random words and that made people look differently at me thats why I try to stay away from other people because I don't want to hurt them like I did before then they can't trust me but I can't stop I really want to but thats just me I try to be friendly well I think the only people who im friendly is strangers because I always smile and compliment them. I try though

    • @peachy.bubs_8343
      @peachy.bubs_8343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i just wanna have fun with my friends but sometimes i come off and say something rude, i dont realize why there mad unless i think about if for like 2 mins. I dont think im a good friend 🥺

  • @important275pear3
    @important275pear3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I used to be a kid that everyone will just want to punch but because of this everyone likes me and wants to be my friend I can't believe I was such a jerk but now I realized when im nice people will respect me so thank you for changing my life.

  • @regina7732
    @regina7732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Whenever I try to say something nice it somehow comes up sounding sarcastic 😅

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It’s okay

    • @camjure
      @camjure 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Regina Martinez you’re such a nice person

    • @mr.sweden7495
      @mr.sweden7495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I have the same problem . For me it's my voice , which is VERY monotone . My friends know I'm a nice person , but others react with "you don't have to be rude about it". Which makes me feel like a bad person .

    • @regina7732
      @regina7732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mr.sweden7495 yeah that's what happens I don't try to sound like that but I just do and for people it comes off as rude 😔

    • @chrysalism7375
      @chrysalism7375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg same my family thinks I’m incredibly rude because of my voice and it sounding sarcastic and I’m trying so hard to change the way I speak but I can’t really change it over night :/ ...

  • @luziokai
    @luziokai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    This is difficult for me to do with my siblings

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      It's fine, sometimes siblings are just going through a phase...

    • @sand593
      @sand593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol same

    • @chapstickwarrior9277
      @chapstickwarrior9277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, except it's my father that gets to me...

    • @Q_Photo
      @Q_Photo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same as well as my mom 😔

  • @eviegacha5615
    @eviegacha5615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I feel like my “niceness” is covered up by all the sarcasm in my class. My classmates are so sarcastic they’ve become accustomed to everything nice is fake.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      :O

    • @prezidenttrump5171
      @prezidenttrump5171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel the same way. I'm a total jerk, ruined many relationships. I feel that nice people are frauds to a certain extent. Who are they trying to impress? You want a medal for being nice?

    • @depressedbuttercat5318
      @depressedbuttercat5318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@prezidenttrump5171 Some people might be fake nice, but other nice people just genuinely want others around them to be happy. Nice people might be trying to make more friends and connect to others, or they are just scared of hurting other people's feelings. Please remember that there are some good people in this world who aren't being fake

    • @prezidenttrump5171
      @prezidenttrump5171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@depressedbuttercat5318 Hey Nala, I appreciate your point of view. I'm 29 years old now, and I've always had a skill in talking to people. What I've come to find is that a majority of nice people I speak to are very upset that other people aren't nice, with a whole "What's wrong with the world!" mentality.
      I find them very weak, but at the same time I can find beauty in their view. Are you not mistrustful of nice people? I honestly feel they're either socially retarded or just don't have a backbone. I come off strong and then soften as I get to know them, they come off weak and they can't transition to strong.

    • @depressedbuttercat5318
      @depressedbuttercat5318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@prezidenttrump5171 Thank you for being open about my point of view, I just hope that you'll think differently about nice people not having a backbone, they can be very strong. It takes a lot of willpower to be kind to people, even the ones you don't like :)

  • @mrsboopronaldmcdonalds5966
    @mrsboopronaldmcdonalds5966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    Thank you so much! It really helped me get more friends!

  • @hollyconger9037
    @hollyconger9037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Unless the person ur talking to is a two faced sneaky horrible person who will cause u harm when ur nice.

  • @nobody-vn7fu
    @nobody-vn7fu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i pretty much have a lot of manners but the problem is i like to use hurtful jokes and pranks ALL the time, even if it was a joke you don’t know what they are feeling inside and just makes me feel bad. i also struggle with negative gossiping i really want to stop and doesn’t make me feel like i can’t be trusted, i really want to change my actions but i feel like the only way the conversation keeps going is too bring up random drama. oh and did i mention? i have social anxiety so i don’t really think what i’m about to say and i just spit it out without knowing if it’s rude or not

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see. Most importantly start by thinking before you speak. I believe it’ll help you.

    • @kailol2049
      @kailol2049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really relate to this, I don’t really pick up if I joke too far and when someone tells me I did I just feel like the absolute worst. I’m really trying to get better but I’ve always had a problem with picking up social cues. I think especially the compliment thing is helpful because it’s one of the more simple ones.

  • @gene163
    @gene163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I got a compliment from my friend today and I became super happy because I had bad confidence issues this week. I’m watching this video and I always thought I was a horrible person but I did everything he said. (This isn’t to brag or anything I just wanted to tell someone)

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      :D Thanks! :D

    • @TornadoElle_
      @TornadoElle_ ปีที่แล้ว

      sometimes its not you, its them.

    • @squeakycheese9799
      @squeakycheese9799 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me on the other hand who’s so socially awkward that I end up being mean

  • @trulykou
    @trulykou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I’m gonna watch this every day because I keep losing friends and they make me think I’m a bully

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Awww I'm sure you can do it! I believe in you!

    • @joannechoi9616
      @joannechoi9616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My toxic friedn was like all you do is bully me and my friends blah blah ugh

    • @isla4853
      @isla4853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      literally same my friend who i now no was toxic sent me a TEXT that she didnt wannq be friends with me coz i kicked someone elses pot like it was a football and was annoying in yr 3. gurl what. she took my friends away from me and now i know she was toxic

  • @joyrosebud2542
    @joyrosebud2542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    1. Open up and ask others about themselves
    2. Simple manners
    3. Offer help often
    4. Use open body language
    5. Offer compliments
    6. Encourage others
    7. Stop negative gossips
    8. Allow others to participate and talk
    9. Hold off on hurtful jokes and pranks
    10. Express affection
    This took me a long time so please think about this Jesus loves you and is the only way to heaven! Pray a prayer of apology and that you believe in him and want to have a relationship with him! He is real ! I want to see you in heaven!❤️❤️❤️✝️

    • @raizallopez6103
      @raizallopez6103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Peace of Christ to you 🙏

    • @funandlala
      @funandlala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What a wonderful comment ♡ I want to be a very nice person and I want Jesus to be my best friend ♡ We will see each other in heaven one day ♡

    • @infrequentoutrage1042
      @infrequentoutrage1042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also dear, I must point out, it does not take a lot of time,
      But it's ok, i hope you know that it's not only not good but also manipulative
      Also not all ppl have trust in the Je'sus', and the way you put it, will make ppl hate Jesus

    • @oliver5470
      @oliver5470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you ✨🙏✨

    • @slay3451
      @slay3451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @stevieme8642
    @stevieme8642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Thanks for posting this! I've wandered off the red path and let all of the chaos, trauma and suffering of the last couple of years eat me up with anger and resentment until I feel like a shell of the person I should be. I needed this kind of reminder to get back on the right path and be the good, kind person I was meant to be.

    • @CrystalswEli21
      @CrystalswEli21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @landondixon3739
      @landondixon3739 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same bro, I’m 15 and my father is a addict who I haven’t seen or heard from since I was 6. As a kid I grew up impoverished living near Martin Luther king street in St. Louis MO, I’ve been to at least 15 different schools, a different school each year of middle school, probably 2 different schools each year of elementary, I’ve moved houses and states more times than I can count due to my stepdad who can’t seem to stay in the same place for long, they finally bought a house and I’ve been told I’m gonna stay all 4 years in the same high-school, my first year of high-school has passed already, I’ve hurt so many people; I’ve manipulated so many people; I’ve had my a girlfriend that I was very cold to and didn’t treat with affection; I airdropped embarrassing photos of her for basically no reason, she ended up slapping me but I didn’t stop I just took that as more reason to do it, so i posted the photos on my story, she ended up convincing me to take it down and I somehow got her to apologize, she tried messaging me afterwords but I left her in read and told her to not text me, there’s another girl now who cares for me now and I treat her terribly, all I do is hurt people; even people who care about me and help me I still hurt them, I don’t think I’ve ever had a positive impact on someone in my entire life, but people still are kind to me and help me even while I hurt them, I’m trying my best to be kinder but it’s a very difficult process

    • @anamartabrito1222
      @anamartabrito1222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      5:49

    • @anamartabrito1222
      @anamartabrito1222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry

    • @QueenLeedf
      @QueenLeedf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Story of my Damn Life . I’m taking My Life Back Though 🤷🏽‍♀️ I refuse to keep letting people effect how I look at people as a whole

  • @drakefromstatefarm1030
    @drakefromstatefarm1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've been trying to be a better person but I suffer from something called NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and have trying treatments and helpful things to be a better person, So thank you

  • @panic2063
    @panic2063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    People always tell me that I'm mean or I'm intimidating and I'm lo key lonely and have almost no friends 😔

  • @gecko2023
    @gecko2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Stop the negative gossip;
    Challenge accepted

  • @whyaretherehandlesnow
    @whyaretherehandlesnow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    0:53
    Give them ur full attention
    Me (Has ADHD and Social anxiety) : Well..... you see..... it's really not as easy as it sounds

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      XD you got this!

    • @bxndzcookies8500
      @bxndzcookies8500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have ADD it’s the same thing but you can control your movement

    • @jessicasaldivar9681
      @jessicasaldivar9681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here ....and tbh im a bitch and I'm only 22 .. I've always had it my way and I finally met someone that told me stuff I needed to here ...I got problems all because I grew up getting what I want with my parents, partners , friends and now in left alone .....I want to change not just because of the loneliness but for others I dont wanna hurt anyone anymore ugh terrible
      I edited in to "im" js

    • @comfyisabot5065
      @comfyisabot5065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jessicasaldivar9681 Your not alone. We are here for you! Your a wonderful person. Don't think Negative. Im only 10 but.. I want to help 😞

    • @amy-vj1ky
      @amy-vj1ky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

  • @raulperez3606
    @raulperez3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    In other countries smiling isn't considered friendly/polite. It's like you're lowkey tryna hide how u really feel its percieved as sneaky in a way.

  • @kokonutnut5709
    @kokonutnut5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've been extremely rude to someone so this really helped!

  • @rucelninafrancisco6451
    @rucelninafrancisco6451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    im sad because people tell me that i dont have good manners but i tried my best to be a nices person😔

    • @caroc1328
      @caroc1328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m proud of u for trying:) ik it’s hard but at least you’re giving your best 😌 (sorry for my bad English).

  • @moose_sauce2938
    @moose_sauce2938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Man, I do all of the things on this list, but I still feel like it’s shallow and people don’t like me :/

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hmmm is it coming out as fake.... :/

    • @morehqjj_chanell4243
      @morehqjj_chanell4243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can’t be lijes na Everybody,IT is impossible,search the religion of islam and you will se what IT has to say🤵🏻‍♂️

  • @michaelakotaskova3831
    @michaelakotaskova3831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    To the point #5, yeah it definitely works!! 😊 I have my own rule in this: whenever you have something nice to say, say it! Praise is never awkward ❤️

  • @veroleri4363
    @veroleri4363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Recently ruined my friend’s relationship with someone else, i’ve felt so guilty and promised to be a better person by 2 weeks when we would talk again. This helps, thanks!

  • @kuzgamer8227
    @kuzgamer8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly Kind of Sad That When I try To Be Nice Everyone in My Family Thinks That I am Awkward,weird,A low-standard.
    And When I act Rudely They Take Me More seriously.Sick of it

    • @sadman6180
      @sadman6180 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know this is a yr ago, but if anyone else feels like their in a similar situation, don’t let rude people change who you are. And I hope you can find like minded people who are also kind-hearted.

  • @rashimeircooper179
    @rashimeircooper179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks i need this type of energy to get my maturity right.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No problem

    • @rashimeircooper179
      @rashimeircooper179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrueMedallion is being smart a cool thing or a good thing?

    • @evzyon
      @evzyon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rashimeircooper179It's a feature.

  • @depressedbuttercat5318
    @depressedbuttercat5318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm really disappointed with myself that I'm here, sometimes if I'm around people that irritate me I can be a bit passive and rude to them, I really want to get out of that habit and be more open and kind to people

    • @Forit26
      @Forit26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why be disappointed? You should be disappointed if you *weren't* trying to improve yourself

  • @Bealis12
    @Bealis12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I seriously wanted to say to a guy in my year I think he'd go far in life when a teacher said he wouldn't but I remember biting my tounge and not saying it because I thought people would think I'm sucking up to him or something. And I also wanted to compliment the dinner lady's food because it's really nice all the time and when she had to serve the lower years at school and she was back serving us lot, I wanted to say it's good to have you back. I also wanted to comfort a girl in my year who was crying on the stairs but since she had her friend with her, who did the job for me I just felt so guilty. I want to do and say so many things to lift others up. I just want to be a bit more kinder to people in school, peers and teachers. Show a bit of character, but I just talk myself out of it, because I'm too fucking scared to go for it...

  • @httrumpet
    @httrumpet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Read this if you ever felt suicidal, scared, alone, worthless, or depressed.
    You Are Beautiful.
    You Are Wanted.
    You Are Wonderful.
    Don't quit on yourself. Don't hurt yourself. You are worth the world and nobody want to see you suffering. This is not the end. The way you feel right now will pass. People's minds will change. Things WILL get better.
    We love you and are always here for you. Do NOT do something permanent over something temporary.
    You're better than that.
    All stars need to see darkness before the light.
    And always remember, Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself & the right people will find and love the real you.
    Your
    own
    unique
    Mindset
    always
    try
    to
    engage in the
    right ways
    Now read the first letter of every word
    You Matter! no matter what other people may say. Always know this is true. It helps. You are worth my time to write this. I do care. ❤️ Continue on ❤️ be a soldier. Fight that war. Because YOU can. I believe in you. I'm rooting for you! Good luck!

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @httrumpet
      @httrumpet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrueMedallion No problem, I'm glad you read it

    • @youroarry4666
      @youroarry4666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It really melted my heart rn I'm facing a really hard time. Even though I'm just a teenager, things are getting complicated from now . Your comment really helped me and it encouraged me. Thank you so much ❣️

    • @httrumpet
      @httrumpet ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Youroarry I understand and I’m sorry and hope you will get through your difficult time. I’m a teenager myself too and I have gone through many situations. I’m glad this helped you. 😀

    • @youroarry4666
      @youroarry4666 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@httrumpet you don't need to say sorry and thanks

  • @tmc3567
    @tmc3567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    When you do these things, people take advantage of you.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😕 if you notice that, then it’s time to part ways...

    • @mandyelmers9242
      @mandyelmers9242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have had that a lot when I was younger, so I didn’t really help others anymore and now it’s very hard for me to be nice and I am pushing my good friends away without even seeing it. Don’t stop being nice and helping people because of a horrible person.

    • @comfyisabot5065
      @comfyisabot5065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea i know that feeling..If im being nice my classmates would bully me.. and when i became a bully i feel uncomfortable so right now i am trying to be nice like what i used to be.. Sorry for the bad grammar.

    • @johnfuggle6901
      @johnfuggle6901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@comfyisabot5065 mate to put it simply, being a nice person and greeting and genuinely being interested or thoughtful makes a difference. You'll get people who will bully or make fun of you. This is because they know no better they probably have never had someone be kind to them, or been kind to others. I just ignore them or forget because after all I know I'm the better person. And so are you.

    • @peachy.bubs_8343
      @peachy.bubs_8343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      my whole life everybody did that so much. They still do it i dont wanna come off rude so i listen to there “demands” i work so hard everyday running around everywhere cleaning getting stuff just because of there stupid lazy things. I cry every single day about it. I really want to say no but i cant.. 🥺✨

  • @banishingwarden
    @banishingwarden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I loved this video. I have out of body experiences whenever I do something to annoy someone. My brain shuts off all contact to the outside world. I did once pass out from this. I annoy my brother and he does the same things back ((he's 9, don't worry! XD)) I will definitely use some of these things because I don't wanna live terribly and be torn down by my parents whenever my brother tells on me. I'm 15 and going into my very first job. can't do the ""at home stuff, that's boring, I wanna be in the world and be the nice person I was meant to be!

    • @nataliekennedy4646
      @nataliekennedy4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you got ADHD and you might need medication for that because it makes you very board and makes you do crazy things

    • @CrystalswEli21
      @CrystalswEli21 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @waaa3577
    @waaa3577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mostly here because since my life has been down. I’ve got anger issues and started beating up my best friend. I’m trying to recover and try to be calm and positive. ❤️
    -Edit: This really helped!! Thank you for giving these tips. 😊

    • @nataliekennedy4646
      @nataliekennedy4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What the hell man you need help you beat up your best friend see a doctor

    • @SamanthaMae444
      @SamanthaMae444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nataliekennedy4646 *NOT TRYING TO START A FIGHT OR ARGUE WITH YOU* This person is trying to work on themselves. While no ig is not okay to beat anyone up, this person is showing up for themselves and trying to be better. They said that they are trying to recover. This could mean they went through trauma. Again, dont mean to come off rude to anyone or offend anybody, I just wanted to say that this person is working on themselves and it shows that deep down they are a good person trying to become better.

    • @cookiez123alt9
      @cookiez123alt9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beating up your best friend wtf? ;-; Well I mean you are improving so that's good I guess.
      But beating up your best friend woah

  • @yuchae327
    @yuchae327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi! My friends don't it like when I am very nice. But, when I become mean, they would get mad and gossip about me. I don't know what to do. :(

    • @nuck477
      @nuck477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Be yourself

    • @suburban.legend
      @suburban.legend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If there's one thing I can tell you, it's that they are not your friends, a real friend is someone who loves and supports you no matter what! They would accept you the way you are without judging.
      The only way to find real friends is to be yourself, because real friends are those who like you for who you really are, not who you might pretend to be :)

    • @MsACE-uy3uh
      @MsACE-uy3uh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes.... Why is it like being nice nowadays is a bad thing?

    • @nabilayukiharu8276
      @nabilayukiharu8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      soon, you will find true friend at the right time.. keep smiling friend😊

  • @jibrilonce7431
    @jibrilonce7431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i used to be so happy and kind. idk what happened. im like an emotionless potato

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      awww find purpose... :/

    • @karenlyth9774
      @karenlyth9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      the people who liked this comment enjoy seeing pain :/

  • @kyunpai
    @kyunpai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you so much! this helped me on stop being a really bad friend, i realized on what ive done wrong. And ive followed the wrong person, i shouldnt had listen to them.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww it’s okay. You learn.

  • @laurendonnelly7997
    @laurendonnelly7997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you, I feel like such a mean person and my parents never help😭

  • @joofpapi7251
    @joofpapi7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much. I have lost my way and want to get it back. This will help me. God bless you!

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No problem, Obi- Wan Kenobi! :D

  • @reireio-o
    @reireio-o 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Love this! Thank you!

  • @itssmaria8366
    @itssmaria8366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so cold/hearted & cold with no emotions that’s how I was raised thanks for the video

  • @bobsurman5301
    @bobsurman5301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I do most of this at school and it really works

  • @hedras924
    @hedras924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    how to be a nicer person:
    1. try opening up and ask others about themselves
    2. have simple courtesies and manners
    3. offer your help freely and often
    4. use open body language
    5. offer up compliments to others
    6. encourage others
    7. stop negative gossips
    8. allow others to participate and/or have a say
    9. hold off on hurtful jokes or pranks
    10. express affection

  • @ayushiikaa
    @ayushiikaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This really helped me controlling my anger issues
    Thank you ❤️

  • @shrijaniraghupathy7111
    @shrijaniraghupathy7111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really appreciate your effort to reply to all the comments! A humble, thoughtful and generous channel! Really makes one of you! :)

  • @liviaugh
    @liviaugh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you... ive been feeling angry lately but ive been trying to be nicer. i keep trying but i always find myself being mean unconsciously.

  • @ScrotN
    @ScrotN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m starting to feel there are many r/niceguy watching this video and say this is them to everyone

  • @sorrytosaythismanbut6552
    @sorrytosaythismanbut6552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Tbh none of this works in our messed up society

    • @rtt8806
      @rtt8806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      if you be nice, then maybe some people who you be nice to will be nice, and people who they are nice to will be nice, and so on until most people in your area are being nice

    • @maddisoncooper3540
      @maddisoncooper3540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rtt8806 Wait until you work in retail lmfao

    • @mandyelmers9242
      @mandyelmers9242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is not very encouraging for people who are trying to learn something here, shame on you

    • @kingajelen2842
      @kingajelen2842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In this society, people only like you if your cool and rich, not if your nice :(

    • @jamm8031
      @jamm8031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      not everyone, I had a boyfriend because I was nice and police and yes, I am gay

  • @theresachiorazzi4571
    @theresachiorazzi4571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you are good to someone it makes you feel good inside it costs nothing to show kindness it could make their day and yours too

  • @DN8YE
    @DN8YE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am no longer alone in the pit of loneliness and darkness. Thank you

  • @nicklzz1294
    @nicklzz1294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man, thank you so much, I promise you that this video will change my life! May God Bless You, you’re legit an angel for me! 🙂

  • @Itisheylel
    @Itisheylel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I do think I’m nice ヾ(^▽^ヾ) I want to improve more so people can easily be comfortable around me.
    To all the people who are saying they’re disappointed at themselves, I’d say the fact that you went here is enough for me to think you’re a really sweet and thoughtful person. I suggest that the first thing to do is to be kind to yourself ^u^

  • @stefanblagojevic3756
    @stefanblagojevic3756 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am late but I readed this because I am a rude person and I want to be a nicer person because I've learned how much i'm suffering to be a rude person, thank you so much medallion.

  • @Baldjiro
    @Baldjiro ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you :))
    It helped a lot❤️
    Amazing video!

  • @daniellemoreno410
    @daniellemoreno410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this video💗😝yu really helped me alot and ive always been a mean person and i wanted to change my life around into something good 😌✨

  • @veronica-sc1vw
    @veronica-sc1vw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Here's the result in my environment.
    1. Try opening and asking about themselves
    (THEY DON'T EVEN WANT TO TALK TO ME)
    2. Simple courtesies or manners
    (HOW TF IF THEY WON'T PAY ATTENTION)
    3. Offer your help freely or often
    (EVEN IF I DO, THEY'LL JUST BOSS ME AROUND)
    4. Use open body language
    (YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY IDEA ABOUT MY ENVIRONMENT RN :

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Veronica, thanks for sharing. In your situation, if you keep getting these unwanted behaviors, it's okay blocking them out and focusing on the one or two things that gives you joy. Focusing on yourself and thinking about what makes you happy first before thinking about others. Hope this helps.

    • @veronica-sc1vw
      @veronica-sc1vw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrueMedallion I really didn't hope that you would reply but I appreciate the thought, thank you for listening ☺️

  • @Ella-fz4sg
    @Ella-fz4sg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my old friends called me toxic I didn’t think I was but now I’m really self conscious and putting myself down so I’m trying to change myself.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You got this! Be positive. :)

  • @-Moonlight-1
    @-Moonlight-1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the tips! Recently I've been surrounded by not really good and toxic people and I picked up some of their negative behaviors and started acting like a toxic person too.. But I know that I'm not like that and that's now who I really am. I aspire to be a nicer and better person and I want to change!

  • @raljulpjayme2853
    @raljulpjayme2853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you so much! it really helped me get more friends thank you🙂🙂🙂☺

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No problem! Glad it helped. :)

  • @weeb-chan1926
    @weeb-chan1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    so if i'm already doing all of this why tf does everyone hate me?

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Time to ask them why. Get down to finding answers. :)

    • @nabilayukiharu8276
      @nabilayukiharu8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ignore the one that hate you..remember u will be loved....

    • @weeb-chan1926
      @weeb-chan1926 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nabilayukiharu8276 thank you.
      I think once i start loving myself I will be loved, but untill then.. damn

  • @simonaturcan7385
    @simonaturcan7385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im totally going to follow your guide, Thank you so much

  • @worm_slop
    @worm_slop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Working hard on being nicer during trauma recovery... Being closed off was an effective defense mechanism but now it's only causing problems. I hope you all recognize it's good to be here, it's another step forward

  • @alrightt
    @alrightt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg this help me a lot! Tysmm! My dad bought me everything but I never been nice to him and now I can! He's so happy :D
    Tysmm

  • @scrolix8975
    @scrolix8975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being kind doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.

  • @PeakFilmClipz
    @PeakFilmClipz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being kinder honestly made me feel better about myself and I have a brighter view on life

  • @serenityomond3005
    @serenityomond3005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve just been feeling like I’m slowly becoming toxic. Like if I don’t like the way somebody is doing something I’d go straight into the negative side about everything they’re doing. Like I don’t even feel like I’m helping them for their sake anymore, I’m just caught up in being right. And worst of all, it’s so hard for me to give good and positive relationship advice, now.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least you understand and know how you are acting and behaving. Now it's your chance to change if you want.

    • @serenityomond3005
      @serenityomond3005 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrueMedallion Yes, thank you as well!

  • @plasbolw3436
    @plasbolw3436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “I really like your shoes today.”

  • @unknownnonofurbuz7109
    @unknownnonofurbuz7109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you I really learnt alot how to be a nicer person ☺ ♥

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay! :)

    • @unknownnonofurbuz7109
      @unknownnonofurbuz7109 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrueMedallion if you don't mind me asking what should I do if people are rude and mean to me? 😔

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ignore them. Don't let them get to your head. If you let them get to your head, they'll feel like they have power over you. So the best way to go about it, is pretend they don't even exist.

  • @gift537
    @gift537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was amazing thank you so much!

  • @M0ldyBubbles
    @M0ldyBubbles 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video, ive been through a lot this year with people using me and i guess i finally snapped, i used to be so nice to a point where people took advantage of me. I want to be nice, just not an easy target.

  • @thefallenpotato9594
    @thefallenpotato9594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I say mean stuff accidentally. Like, i make jokes that can be a bit mean sometimes but i really can’t help it. Idk how to stop, I just like making jokes and being goofy. I’m just bad at thinking before doing I guess

  • @user-qo7po3ud8c
    @user-qo7po3ud8c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m trying not to be a mean middle schooler

  • @dahiya369
    @dahiya369 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this video was really helpful.

  • @clawmansegele1988
    @clawmansegele1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video! Very helpful and detailed.

  • @fatima_443
    @fatima_443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    M just in a breakdown cz of ppl nd wanna try to be more nice then I found that I do all this things idk what m doing wrong

    • @keeganlol4556
      @keeganlol4556 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you dont spell right

    • @suburban.legend
      @suburban.legend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@keeganlol4556 you clicked on a video on how to be a nicer person but you're judging someone else in the comments for making a mistake instead of correcting them nicely..how ironic ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @user-me1mt1fm5r
    @user-me1mt1fm5r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am worried that I become to annoying if I start to speak to someone :(

  • @sewer_rat2267
    @sewer_rat2267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really needed this for me and my sisters relationship
    Thank you 🙏❤

  • @morehqjj_chanell4243
    @morehqjj_chanell4243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1) ASK others how Are they
    2) good manners
    3) OPEN your help frelly and often
    4) Use OPEN body language
    5) Giving compliments to others
    6) Encourage others
    5) Giving compliments to others
    6) Encourage others
    7) stop gossip
    8) Give others a say
    9) Hold off BAD words and hurtful jokes
    10) Express affection

  • @ikigai2738
    @ikigai2738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great content

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, Shan! :D

    • @ikigai2738
      @ikigai2738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You deserve more subs and likes

  • @marii9763
    @marii9763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "offer a stranger groceries"
    My mind: what if someone runs with the groceries

  • @miraculouslyepisodes6080
    @miraculouslyepisodes6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u so so much
    I'll try and do all these things in school and see how it goes ❤️❤️

  • @tbtjay5315
    @tbtjay5315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im trying to become a better less hateful person, im dealing with my homophobia and hate towards groups

  • @anafariq5705
    @anafariq5705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But what about with our family members?

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s okay. You can still do it

  • @cheycheybern5163
    @cheycheybern5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay, ready. :)
    #1 "Rather than breaking or tearing someone down, you should be seeking to build them up, support them, and encourage them." Yes TM YES. "Bring them into yours. These small curiosities show that you actually care about them and want to hear about their perspectives and experience." BLUE words still TM. RED words too TM.
    #2 :)

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha it's okay, Chey! Haven't heard from you for about a month. haha

    • @cheycheybern5163
      @cheycheybern5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrueMedallion Man, it's been a while since I've watched your videos. Not 'til now, but still. Hope you're good and healthy. :) JOKE JOKE :) Anyways, I want to see the rest of your videos, but I have my FINALS next week. :( Good thing Gov't of 75 questions is a multiple choice. I pray I'll have a good grade from that (once it's over with). Thanks for the support. By the way, I haven't seen your vlogs or blogs (whatever it is). Well then, see you next time or so. :) Bye TM.

    • @cheycheybern5163
      @cheycheybern5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for that TM. You're nice too. You'll be with me until the end (now that you know that), just coming from me, I'll think about you with your videos. :) Bye TM.

    • @cheycheybern5163
      @cheycheybern5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know it's been 2 weeks, but I've never seen your face reveal or something like that. Probably it's because I do not know where to find it.

  • @shabee_0196
    @shabee_0196 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 😊

  • @yasminee6935
    @yasminee6935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im trying to be a kinder person, I have slight anger issues and i feel like i get annoyed by others easily, nothing really calms me down.

  • @amykang4942
    @amykang4942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like this it is nice to say this 😂😂😂

  • @gaellefeghaly8047
    @gaellefeghaly8047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn, my mom really made me watch this...

  • @seraphwithatank6535
    @seraphwithatank6535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think what I was looking for goes beyond the scope of this video. That said, it's nice that you made it.

  • @superdood9085
    @superdood9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always helping people out well done 👏

  • @judy-lg5zc
    @judy-lg5zc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I tried but ew

  • @blades4363
    @blades4363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi

  • @user-fi4ny8cw9k
    @user-fi4ny8cw9k 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @JamilAhmed-mu3zu
    @JamilAhmed-mu3zu 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you man you really helped me

  • @blades4363
    @blades4363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First?

  • @Hello-xu6jf
    @Hello-xu6jf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Idk wut to say ;-;

  • @jalenloving9580
    @jalenloving9580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so disappointed of myself for being a bad person, I'm sorry for everyone.

  • @AltaafJahankeer1501
    @AltaafJahankeer1501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video. I will change myself for the better :)