he just gived not enough context or overreacted at first on yt vid and people just judged on the context and reaction he gived them,its not necessary to call them haters
@@phantik5090 they are though because he said at that video that they didn't even bother replying to him but the retarded TH-cam comments hated him for it and I've seen those same people shit on druttut for whatever reason every single time he shares even just a personal story not even an emotional one
@@phantik5090 context or no context getting annoyed by being ghosted shouldn't be bashed. People acting like druttut is the bad guy when someone ghosted him is just hater behavior. He overreact wanting to cut off bc we didn't know context but that doesn't really excuse people bashing him. Druttut short is just full of haters tbh
@@kozrak-kai8215 are you stupid? he overreacted after just 2 days,which is kinda pathetic and calling it "ghosting" was not necessary bcs it was just 2 days but he provided greater context and said that he did a follow up message(which he didnt say he did in the 1st vid) and guy ignored him for 7 days,people called out drututt bcs of the context he provided and that worked against him
@@phantik5090 This. Like you said, after the context he added, it makes sense but before that he was just being as childish as a human being can. By the way, people forget that the top streamers are not normal people, they don't live normal social lives. Imagine if the Bauss went to a party and half the people just started yelling solo bolo at him while he was just trying to have a nice time. Celebrities (I know, they only play League of Legends but they have a large enough following that people recognise them) don't lead normal social lives cause of that so they are wildly out of touch with reality. I have a lot of friends who are very dear and near to me but they don't see my messages for like 3-5 days at times. They have their own family, most of them have children already, a loving wife and an 8-12 hour shift every day. It is hard to find the time to socialise so you can forget about a message for a certain time sometimes. Obviously he never interacted normally or barely did, he is after all very young and became popular young so he is out of touch.
Hi drutt I am normally a silent viewer, but the thing at the end about you feeling underappreciated really resonated with me. Just know that everything that you are feeling is fully correct and this person isnt worth your time and attention, trust me. I hope you keep it up with your commitement to the people you care about, one settback shouldnt determine you to change. Hope you'll find people who give you back the same energy you are giving🙌🏼
Literally same, i relate with drut 100% on this. It just seems the more you give, the less the other person gives back. How hard can it be to find a friend that treats you atleast 50% as good as you always treat them?
here’s the thing, there’s a few different ways to look at this. his friend probably works an irl job and at this point might have a group of people they’re closer with since they live in another city. if that’s the case, then it’s not unreasonable to think that they just forgot to respond. busy work/social life and a guy reaches out to you who you haven’t seen in over a year? they could just be overwhelmed and have forgot to respond especially if they’ve got any neurodivergencies or they’re a bad friend or they had unresolved beef that made the other friend more distant or maybe drut has bailed on this guy before and the friend no longer considers him a priority drut is right we don’t know what’s happening behind the scenes
@@ianriley5893 but the problem isn't the friend it's people bashing on drut for being annoyed when someone ghosted him. Mental illness/anything else or not ghosting someone is not a good thing.
58:00 A though one theme. I personally believe that golden rule on moral is bullshit and if you are great it doesn't mean everyone else has to be on the same lvl. It's about learning what they got good in them and will their feedback be worth of time you spent working on communication. If a person ghosts you need to know for sure what's the pattern to make a final decision of do you want to be initiative in this relationship or it's just straight up toxic and you better off without them.
Nah I'm the exact opposite. Treat others how you want to be treated but I guess I also extend the rule to reciprocating how others treat me. I'm generally good at reading how people feel so that's for sure contributed to my success but not once have I ever regretted approaching others with unconditional kindness at least at first. Sure i gain nothing if they're an asshole but I also lose nothing so it really doesnt matter
@@recklessderp7528 as empathetic person, it's funny to me how every other empathetic person demands any other person to feel the same way towards them. Which is a crap take considering how different people are... I was sensitive on the topic once but now I test people for some weeks to be sure if they can be reliable in any situation. They need to turn me down multiple times in different ways (but in none of really important situations, just casual ones) - to prove me they do not value my character (and before that I do not neither discriminate nor put my trust in them). Also, if you expect the same kindness but do not receive it, you don't "lose nothing" - you lose hope you put in the person (which is on you) and ruin your mood (from slightly to heavily - pretty random aspect).
55:17 Drut, you are so real for that one, I am so glad you are being transparent with your viewers, I really respect it. My whole life I feel the same, I definitely agree with you as a person who got ghosted so many times by "friends", honestly I also feel like they just forget about my existence and I have to chase their attention and it's just always one-sided.
With greater context, your conclusion does sound reasonable. Please keep in mind, however, that the information in the video went something like: 1.) You hadn't interacted with the person for almost a year. 2.) Once you hit them up they had a quick chat with you and postponed further conversation until after they got off work. 3.) After they didn't respond for 48 hours(which is a long time), you arrived at a negative conclusion (and with the initial videos information) at the solution of breaking off that very long relationship completely. That string of action can come out of people with narcissistic personality disorder. As you now provided greater context(and most importantly the fsct that you wrote to them another time to see if it was a mistake) that probaly concludes most issues commnetors found with your course of action. Hope you have a great day
@sleepyboy__ genuinely, i think so. gp main of like 2 years, getting bursted down b4 being able to do any of his slow combos was a big problems, most of the actual good gp mains ik agree on durability being a decent buff if theyre not buffing his dmg or ms
12:25 Tryndamere: Beneath this mask there is more than flesh, beneath this mask there is an idea mr.drututt.. And ideas are bulletproof dies anyway so nvm
I remember those comments, I was like wtf is everyone wilding about you are allowed to be pissed that a friend ghosted, in fact it is probably the most natural and correct reaction. Had it happen to me it feels like shit especially if youve done a lot for them. I just un friended them mentally and moved on ggwp gl next
Those comments on your vid were pretty crazy. I will say it seemed a lil harsh that you said you'd cut contact with them but I wasn't in stream for full context. I always take any yt comments with a grain of salt because most of them are unhinged as hell. It was pretty feelsbadman hearing how genuinely upset drut sounded talking about it
Honestly it is like twitch chat, he reads only a fraction of em but some of the ones scrolling past are wild and only kept slightly in check with real time bans or time outs. People are entitled to their opinions on friendship but I know I have completely forgot about hanging out with some of my best friends I have messaged just because I am forgetful. At the same time there are some who consistantly would forget/cancel so often I just lost hope with them. At the end of the day I think Drututt doing anything beyond just not reminding them is a bit much, but if they don't respond just leave it at that.
Youre a good friend, yes when you talked about it, it seemed off because it was only day 2 of him not responding and maybe he really did forget, but if its already been a week now, your feelings are 100% justified
For the relationship one it's hard to say as we know pretty much nothing about the situation but from what you are saying just forget about them, no need to waste time chasing uninterested people in your relationship
I know exactly what Drut was talking about with friendship. I ended a few friendships recently with people who thought of me as a friend when convenient and never reached out first. I also got ghosted while trying to have a serious conversation about my feelings xd
you deserve better, drututt! I know exactly what you were talking about. you are 100% right, real relationships are both ways. don't let shitty comments get to you. they are simply incorrect. it's not fun when people forget you exist as soon as you stop reaching out. but it'll get better! they're just making room for the real ones (who ARE coming :)) love you bro
Maybe you should go and do a live therapy (or just casual venting) session with dr. k. I do believe it would be very beneficial for you, content and the gaming community as a whole. U don't have to talk about the friends ghost/not reciprocating thing, but it would prolly make for a good conversation on its own!
Hey, this is the first time I've ever commented on a TH-cam video, but I had to say something. It really hurts when friends let you down. I totally understand what you're going through. Stay strong, and remember that people who treat you like that don't deserve your friendship.
If you don’t give all the details and rant about a friend not giving attention and expect everyone to blindly agree then yes, you are entitled. We don’t know the relationship because you refuse to give it to us, now you don’t HAVE to give it to us, you are entitled to privacy but don’t give us half a story and expect us not to question where you could be wrong in the relationship.
Don’t listen to the people hating on you! It’s a common thing among many people to be the friend that has to do everything. Don’t let people bring you down.
I do feel like its wrong to call someone a bad friend due to someone's response time. Many people do have things going on in their lives and maybe some people fall out of touch with their friends, happens to many people. And I feel you on being the one to host things and call people together. The thing is, when you've been doing it for so long, it becomes an unasked standard by which those around you will always expect. If you deviate from continuing to do so, you break this expectation and, usually, nothing happens from their part, since they've never been the ones to initiate or host things. All people have a role I suppose: some like to host, some will always show up, one will always have ideas but never initiate anything, some are shy and like to hang around only 1 friend, and not a bunch. Everyone's different.
after you provided more context,and said that you infact send this person a follow up message to make sure if they still want to talk and they ghosted you 2nd time then i think everyone will take their words back probably(and me ofc)
58:30 I guess I'm on the other end, I used to give my friends all of my attention, always in contact, video/voice, text, meetup every day. years have gone on and Ive changed, I barely speak to any of them and I'm not a social person anymore, though I think about them/old times often. They contacted me to meetup and I'm seeing them this weekend. I felt bad hearing you explaining it, could be how my friends feel.
55:00 Not making any assumptions about drut, but as someone who is on the autism spectrum I can relate to him there. Lack of communication from others really messes with me.
Just wanna say drut, that its the same iwth my friend group. If you are the one always setting up the meet ups then they are gonna expect it to be you the next time always. It can go a year and people just forget about you cuz youre the guy to arrange it all. Im with you about the fact that it hurts if you are the only one who actually seems to care to set these things up. But you gotta let these people know that, hey im always the one setting it up, can you guys do it next time? And sometimes they do sometimes they dont. Hopefully theres gonna be one person whos got your back and always there to be with you, im happy as i have that guy for me. Wish you the best drut.
Not really a defense, but in your friend's defense. He/she might experience something similar that I had experienced before, because I messed up a lot of relationship by not replying message/ghosting as well. The working environment where it require people to reply phone message can mess with the mind of thinking replying a message is about working. For my case after this happen, I prefer calls rather than replying message.
I don't have enough info to give an opinion on the subject about your friend, I just want to mention that not everyone is as socially active as the average person is expected to be. In my personal example, I have a friend who is like my brother and whom I meet weekly. Sometimes he texts me and I don't respond to him in like 5 days or until we're gonna meet, and that's just because I've never been into texting. I don't find amusement in checking my messages to reply to people or anything of the sort (barely use any social media, mostly TH-cam if you consider it one). My friend is pretty much the opposite in that regard, but he knows me and knows that if he wants to get my attention he can give me a call, so he doesn't care that I "don't pay attention to him for days", because I'm just not as social like that. I've seen posts online recently talking about the toxicity of expecting everyone to always be available because now we have phones and it seems like people are being a bit more conscious about it nowadays. I'm not saying this is what happened with your friend. As I said, I don't know shit to have an opinion on it. I just wanted to give my input on the subject.
Drut, YT comments were mostly right about the last video. People are dealing with variety of hardships all day every day, which you can also imagine. Sometimes you wake up at 6am, work 10 hours and then finally come back home only to deal with housework, and then finally sleep. You'll keep repeating that for months if not for years. Sometimes you'll lose a valuable friend or relatives. Sometimes you get fired from your job and have to deal with unemployment for months. You don't really know what people are going through. This also applies to you, other way around. Perhaps your friend has similar issues like above, or perhaps he's an actual human garbage. You can't know without talking to him. The problem with last video was, you declared the guy a horrendous person just because he didn't return to your message. You didn't even think his reason(-s) just for a second. If you really think of him and yourself as good friends, then give him some space. Just talk to him. You won't feel worthless or trash just because you asked why he didn't return. These are petty things to worry about between good friends. You're mature and far better than that, I'm being sincere here. If he calls you back, then you kept a hard-earned friendship. If not, then you dodged a bullet. Keep it cool brother. You have a loving mother, girlfriend and a successful career with streaming. You have distinct, solid fans following you. Don't burden yourself with pointless doubts or worries. Believe in yourself. I know the last part felt like some pseudo life coach red pill bullsh*t but yeah that's the truth. Be safe man!
Drut, don't mind the youtube frogs. Sounds like you were venting. What they mean to say is getting ghosted once or twice isn't worth burning bridges if you consider them your friend, there's worse things. GG thanks for the content
I main adc, and playing cait has been really fun, but they need to roll back these changes and start from scratch if they wanna do anything about adc items. Distribute the ad to the attack speed items again so the raw damage items don't have op stats. And for the love of all that is holy, revert the navori rework.
A week of not responding? Its just a text. Idk how busy of a person they are, but in 99% of circumstances thats just unacceptable. At that point they are just avoiding you. Atleast text back like "sorry man im really in it this week with work and cant resond properly but ill get back to you once i have some free time.". Its really not too much to ask.
I’m no hater, I enjoy your videos. I do not think your take on your friend is correct. I do agree that what they did is wrong as everyone has some time to reply. However when you do certain things and expect people to do them back is a way you shouldn’t act. You should do your acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. If they do reciprocate those actions that would add to the value in that person. However them not doing it, should either tell you that this is a busy period in their lives or that you didn’t really know the person you believed to have considered your friend.
Honestly what your friend did is dick behavior, but cutting them off instead of trying to communicate this to them feels extreme. All of us make mistakes, this includes forgetting to respond to messages. If this was a repeated pattern then sure but for a one off thing again it feels too extreme to cut them off. On your point about feeling unappreciated and planning most hang outs I get that but people function differently. Some people will think to hang out while some people will not. I for example don’t like going out all that much so planning hangouts isn’t on my mind but when my more outgoing friend makes a plan and wants to include me I happily go out because I appreciate that friend. I also have a long distance friend and despite usually being the first one to message I don’t feel underappreciated because that friend has cancelled his plans to hang out with a long distance friend. He may not be the first one to call but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t appreciate me. Now all these things I’ve said may not apply to your friend since I don’t know all the details but I’m just adding my two cents.
My 50 cents on the friend question: don't put the other people on the same standard you expect from yourself because you don't know what's going on in their head. That said, if you feel not wanting to reconnect to that person just don't. You're entitled (is it the right word? I mean it in a positive way) to your emotions.
Druttut dont take the comments to seriously! we don't know the whole situation, but it sounded like "omg i didn't get a reply IMMEDIATELY, omg, he hates me" with not context
Sometimes people have communication disorders The “friend” might just be a serial ghoster It’s a shitty sitiuation that might’ve been better presented anonymously or smth Cuz… u know, the internet can be quite judgmental
okay after you approached them the 2nd time and they ghosted you, that's fair if you get mad. But the first time where they didn't get back to you after 2 days and you said they're worth nothing to you now, that was overreacting.
to the yap in the end: it was actually your bad, but not in the way you think. First of all, by inviting then by yourself everytime you are making them used to it, so its normal to them to only have invitations, and not send them. About the forgetting of your existence... its quite possible even with very close people, but very unlikely, mostly because they have no actual time to think, but as you said they're not the busy 24/7 persen, that was quite unlikely from them, so the only way there is they did not paid enought attention & wast that excited to contact you, aaand the massege probably was a complete lie and they couldn't responded, but they were too week to asnwer directly. Just move on with the person that doesn't pay enough credits for your doings and next time try to hint them to initiate the stuff you're doing, dont blame yourself for the situation, your ways arent parallel anymore sheesh, i didnt listen to the end, but now i know about the small convo after.. yeah, they're really dont want you in teir life, dont they?
can't do lane swap in soloq anyway because cant trust team to win the stacked side of the map and the top laner will int and spam ping xd 0 grubs 0/2 dive laneswaps
Nah druto. I have no idea what the relationship is with that dude. But friends usually answer. It's mutual. It's correct of you to expect and demand an answer if you value your friendship, but "he didn't answer message he doesn't think I exist anymore", does seem a bit of a leap. The ghosting he did after the convo you mentioned is so bad though. Wtf. I don't think you're wrong but Idk the details and you made yourself look a little bit bad. Idc though, I get the situation.
Bro I have the same issue with my friends or buddies, they are always like whatever and I have to be the one asking for gaming session or going out. If anybody wants to play (any game) or looking for a friend let me know in comments
Even my comment got buried and people disagreed with me saying “your feelings are valid, that shit sucks” so TH-cam comments are just terrible sometimes
the guy who said he thought Drut is mexican is the funniest chatter lmao
I thought he was Indian for a while
prob because of the akshan model @@xiopia3940
Back when he had the akshan pepe, i assumed it was supposed to be a caricature of what he looked like irl
@@lohanventer4400 the pepe avatars were so much better😪
4:00 When my phone rings
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real
LOL idk man this shit was way too funny for sleep deprived me
That talk about friends at the end was some real talk bro ❤️ur a good dude i love your content don't mind the haters❤️❤️❤️
he just gived not enough context or overreacted at first on yt vid
and people just judged on the context and reaction he gived them,its not necessary to call them haters
@@phantik5090 they are though because he said at that video that they didn't even bother replying to him but the retarded TH-cam comments hated him for it and I've seen those same people shit on druttut for whatever reason every single time he shares even just a personal story not even an emotional one
@@phantik5090 context or no context getting annoyed by being ghosted shouldn't be bashed.
People acting like druttut is the bad guy when someone ghosted him is just hater behavior.
He overreact wanting to cut off bc we didn't know context but that doesn't really excuse people bashing him. Druttut short is just full of haters tbh
@@kozrak-kai8215 are you stupid?
he overreacted after just 2 days,which is kinda pathetic
and calling it "ghosting" was not necessary bcs it was just 2 days
but he provided greater context and said that he did a follow up message(which he didnt say he did in the 1st vid) and guy ignored him for 7 days,people called out drututt bcs of the context he provided and that worked against him
@@phantik5090
This. Like you said, after the context he added, it makes sense but before that he was just being as childish as a human being can. By the way, people forget that the top streamers are not normal people, they don't live normal social lives. Imagine if the Bauss went to a party and half the people just started yelling solo bolo at him while he was just trying to have a nice time.
Celebrities (I know, they only play League of Legends but they have a large enough following that people recognise them) don't lead normal social lives cause of that so they are wildly out of touch with reality. I have a lot of friends who are very dear and near to me but they don't see my messages for like 3-5 days at times. They have their own family, most of them have children already, a loving wife and an 8-12 hour shift every day.
It is hard to find the time to socialise so you can forget about a message for a certain time sometimes. Obviously he never interacted normally or barely did, he is after all very young and became popular young so he is out of touch.
Bro i feel you on the friendship thing, youre line of thinking is just fine brother
Hi drutt
I am normally a silent viewer, but the thing at the end about you feeling underappreciated really resonated with me. Just know that everything that you are feeling is fully correct and this person isnt worth your time and attention, trust me. I hope you keep it up with your commitement to the people you care about, one settback shouldnt determine you to change.
Hope you'll find people who give you back the same energy you are giving🙌🏼
Literally same, i relate with drut 100% on this. It just seems the more you give, the less the other person gives back. How hard can it be to find a friend that treats you atleast 50% as good as you always treat them?
wow actual sane drut viewers that also have good words of wisdom, keep it up homies
here’s the thing, there’s a few different ways to look at this. his friend probably works an irl job and at this point might have a group of people they’re closer with since they live in another city. if that’s the case, then it’s not unreasonable to think that they just forgot to respond. busy work/social life and a guy reaches out to you who you haven’t seen in over a year? they could just be overwhelmed and have forgot to respond especially if they’ve got any neurodivergencies
or they’re a bad friend
or they had unresolved beef that made the other friend more distant
or maybe drut has bailed on this guy before and the friend no longer considers him a priority
drut is right we don’t know what’s happening behind the scenes
@@ianriley5893 but the problem isn't the friend it's people bashing on drut for being annoyed when someone ghosted him.
Mental illness/anything else or not ghosting someone is not a good thing.
I don't get why Drututt doesn't just send another message? He's going throw away his friendship just because he didn't respond in two days.
58:00
A though one theme. I personally believe that golden rule on moral is bullshit and if you are great it doesn't mean everyone else has to be on the same lvl. It's about learning what they got good in them and will their feedback be worth of time you spent working on communication.
If a person ghosts you need to know for sure what's the pattern to make a final decision of do you want to be initiative in this relationship or it's just straight up toxic and you better off without them.
Nah I'm the exact opposite. Treat others how you want to be treated but I guess I also extend the rule to reciprocating how others treat me. I'm generally good at reading how people feel so that's for sure contributed to my success but not once have I ever regretted approaching others with unconditional kindness at least at first. Sure i gain nothing if they're an asshole but I also lose nothing so it really doesnt matter
@@recklessderp7528 as empathetic person, it's funny to me how every other empathetic person demands any other person to feel the same way towards them. Which is a crap take considering how different people are...
I was sensitive on the topic once but now I test people for some weeks to be sure if they can be reliable in any situation. They need to turn me down multiple times in different ways (but in none of really important situations, just casual ones) - to prove me they do not value my character (and before that I do not neither discriminate nor put my trust in them).
Also, if you expect the same kindness but do not receive it, you don't "lose nothing" - you lose hope you put in the person (which is on you) and ruin your mood (from slightly to heavily - pretty random aspect).
55:17 Drut, you are so real for that one, I am so glad you are being transparent with your viewers, I really respect it. My whole life I feel the same, I definitely agree with you as a person who got ghosted so many times by "friends", honestly I also feel like they just forget about my existence and I have to chase their attention and it's just always one-sided.
With greater context, your conclusion does sound reasonable.
Please keep in mind, however, that the information in the video went something like:
1.) You hadn't interacted with the person for almost a year.
2.) Once you hit them up they had a quick chat with you and postponed further conversation until after they got off work.
3.) After they didn't respond for 48 hours(which is a long time), you arrived at a negative conclusion (and with the initial videos information) at the solution of breaking off that very long relationship completely.
That string of action can come out of people with narcissistic personality disorder.
As you now provided greater context(and most importantly the fsct that you wrote to them another time to see if it was a mistake) that probaly concludes most issues commnetors found with your course of action.
Hope you have a great day
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@@trnaltmark9061 Illiterates when the text is more than 5 words long(they get overwhelmed)
Finally an actual non-NPC viewer comment
@@mugiwarat I'm sorry I puke whenever I see more than 30 words in the same text
gp saved off the plank thanks phrek okayeg
im sure some hp and armor will help him in any significant way
@sleepyboy__ genuinely, i think so. gp main of like 2 years, getting bursted down b4 being able to do any of his slow combos was a big problems, most of the actual good gp mains ik agree on durability being a decent buff if theyre not buffing his dmg or ms
@@yermil890 When I read things like this I'm always curious about rank
@Zero_Shift im plat, the mates are m, gm and i think one hit chal a few weeks ago
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Lol Nice one
did you get that humor degree from mcdonalds toilet ?
I got something else from mcdonald's toilets @@diecayed
A happy meal
You’re shitting yourself
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Lmao, this should've been the thumbnail HAHAHA
12:25
Tryndamere: Beneath this mask there is more than flesh, beneath this mask there is an idea mr.drututt.. And ideas are bulletproof
dies anyway so nvm
I remember those comments, I was like wtf is everyone wilding about you are allowed to be pissed that a friend ghosted, in fact it is probably the most natural and correct reaction. Had it happen to me it feels like shit especially if youve done a lot for them. I just un friended them mentally and moved on ggwp gl next
Those comments on your vid were pretty crazy. I will say it seemed a lil harsh that you said you'd cut contact with them but I wasn't in stream for full context. I always take any yt comments with a grain of salt because most of them are unhinged as hell. It was pretty feelsbadman hearing how genuinely upset drut sounded talking about it
Honestly it is like twitch chat, he reads only a fraction of em but some of the ones scrolling past are wild and only kept slightly in check with real time bans or time outs.
People are entitled to their opinions on friendship but I know I have completely forgot about hanging out with some of my best friends I have messaged just because I am forgetful. At the same time there are some who consistantly would forget/cancel so often I just lost hope with them.
At the end of the day I think Drututt doing anything beyond just not reminding them is a bit much, but if they don't respond just leave it at that.
Youre a good friend, yes when you talked about it, it seemed off because it was only day 2 of him not responding and maybe he really did forget, but if its already been a week now, your feelings are 100% justified
For the relationship one it's hard to say as we know pretty much nothing about the situation but from what you are saying just forget about them, no need to waste time chasing uninterested people in your relationship
The thumbnail is goated, got me cracking
I know exactly what Drut was talking about with friendship. I ended a few friendships recently with people who thought of me as a friend when convenient and never reached out first. I also got ghosted while trying to have a serious conversation about my feelings xd
1h vid, thank you editors
you deserve better, drututt! I know exactly what you were talking about. you are 100% right, real relationships are both ways. don't let shitty comments get to you. they are simply incorrect. it's not fun when people forget you exist as soon as you stop reaching out. but it'll get better! they're just making room for the real ones (who ARE coming :)) love you bro
It took me a while to learn where the "giggity" was coming from. 😂
Maybe you should go and do a live therapy (or just casual venting) session with dr. k. I do believe it would be very beneficial for you, content and the gaming community as a whole. U don't have to talk about the friends ghost/not reciprocating thing, but it would prolly make for a good conversation on its own!
Hey, this is the first time I've ever commented on a TH-cam video, but I had to say something. It really hurts when friends let you down. I totally understand what you're going through. Stay strong, and remember that people who treat you like that don't deserve your friendship.
If you don’t give all the details and rant about a friend not giving attention and expect everyone to blindly agree then yes, you are entitled. We don’t know the relationship because you refuse to give it to us, now you don’t HAVE to give it to us, you are entitled to privacy but don’t give us half a story and expect us not to question where you could be wrong in the relationship.
Don’t listen to the people hating on you! It’s a common thing among many people to be the friend that has to do everything. Don’t let people bring you down.
Nah, drut said real shit ngl
A naked man fears no pickpocket
I'll pick ur organs
Thumbnails always so good
57:58 look drutt, you could be a ranged top laner, but you're actually likeable, don't let people tell you the opposite.
Fully agree w/ drut about the friendship thing
Ofc the echo chamber would
I dont know, could be that ratirl doesn't want a madman shouting in his ear like a fnaf jumpscare at random intervals.
I do feel like its wrong to call someone a bad friend due to someone's response time. Many people do have things going on in their lives and maybe some people fall out of touch with their friends, happens to many people.
And I feel you on being the one to host things and call people together. The thing is, when you've been doing it for so long, it becomes an unasked standard by which those around you will always expect. If you deviate from continuing to do so, you break this expectation and, usually, nothing happens from their part, since they've never been the ones to initiate or host things.
All people have a role I suppose: some like to host, some will always show up, one will always have ideas but never initiate anything, some are shy and like to hang around only 1 friend, and not a bunch. Everyone's different.
Lore accurate Philippino Zeri
Holy moly. Tis the season of giving or what
With more context i agree with you on the friend story.
after you provided more context,and said that you infact send this person a follow up message to make sure if they still want to talk and they ghosted you 2nd time then i think everyone will take their words back probably(and me ofc)
As a Romanian, I can confirm this build is very relatable
Yeah I agree with what he said on the friendship part, he s a 100% right
58:30 I guess I'm on the other end, I used to give my friends all of my attention, always in contact, video/voice, text, meetup every day. years have gone on and Ive changed, I barely speak to any of them and I'm not a social person anymore, though I think about them/old times often. They contacted me to meetup and I'm seeing them this weekend. I felt bad hearing you explaining it, could be how my friends feel.
55:00 Not making any assumptions about drut, but as someone who is on the autism spectrum I can relate to him there. Lack of communication from others really messes with me.
Playing all those games on the a-z challenge made u so much better at viego bro
55:35 it really depends on the friendship dynamic, idk why anyone would care to give advice/criticize with the little context from that mini rant
Just wanna say drut, that its the same iwth my friend group. If you are the one always setting up the meet ups then they are gonna expect it to be you the next time always.
It can go a year and people just forget about you cuz youre the guy to arrange it all. Im with you about the fact that it hurts if you are the only one who actually seems to care to set these things up.
But you gotta let these people know that, hey im always the one setting it up, can you guys do it next time?
And sometimes they do sometimes they dont.
Hopefully theres gonna be one person whos got your back and always there to be with you, im happy as i have that guy for me.
Wish you the best drut.
what about hades' THERE IS NO ESCAPE music on every death? would be poggers
Not really a defense, but in your friend's defense. He/she might experience something similar that I had experienced before, because I messed up a lot of relationship by not replying message/ghosting as well.
The working environment where it require people to reply phone message can mess with the mind of thinking replying a message is about working. For my case after this happen, I prefer calls rather than replying message.
Rare video of Drututt defending Romanians
I don't have enough info to give an opinion on the subject about your friend, I just want to mention that not everyone is as socially active as the average person is expected to be. In my personal example, I have a friend who is like my brother and whom I meet weekly. Sometimes he texts me and I don't respond to him in like 5 days or until we're gonna meet, and that's just because I've never been into texting. I don't find amusement in checking my messages to reply to people or anything of the sort (barely use any social media, mostly TH-cam if you consider it one). My friend is pretty much the opposite in that regard, but he knows me and knows that if he wants to get my attention he can give me a call, so he doesn't care that I "don't pay attention to him for days", because I'm just not as social like that. I've seen posts online recently talking about the toxicity of expecting everyone to always be available because now we have phones and it seems like people are being a bit more conscious about it nowadays. I'm not saying this is what happened with your friend. As I said, I don't know shit to have an opinion on it. I just wanted to give my input on the subject.
Drut, YT comments were mostly right about the last video. People are dealing with variety of hardships all day every day, which you can also imagine. Sometimes you wake up at 6am, work 10 hours and then finally come back home only to deal with housework, and then finally sleep. You'll keep repeating that for months if not for years. Sometimes you'll lose a valuable friend or relatives. Sometimes you get fired from your job and have to deal with unemployment for months. You don't really know what people are going through. This also applies to you, other way around. Perhaps your friend has similar issues like above, or perhaps he's an actual human garbage. You can't know without talking to him. The problem with last video was, you declared the guy a horrendous person just because he didn't return to your message. You didn't even think his reason(-s) just for a second. If you really think of him and yourself as good friends, then give him some space. Just talk to him. You won't feel worthless or trash just because you asked why he didn't return. These are petty things to worry about between good friends. You're mature and far better than that, I'm being sincere here. If he calls you back, then you kept a hard-earned friendship. If not, then you dodged a bullet. Keep it cool brother. You have a loving mother, girlfriend and a successful career with streaming. You have distinct, solid fans following you. Don't burden yourself with pointless doubts or worries. Believe in yourself. I know the last part felt like some pseudo life coach red pill bullsh*t but yeah that's the truth. Be safe man!
Essaying a video later. Not that deep. Insecurity happens.
I'm sure he'll be fine regardless if he wants to mature just let him
aint reading allat
Bro sending emotional suport to 20 year old millionare.
When tryn e in you can w slow him to match his w slow. No need to lose lane in like 2 trades
dish dish dish dish
Drut, don't mind the youtube frogs. Sounds like you were venting. What they mean to say is getting ghosted once or twice isn't worth burning bridges if you consider them your friend, there's worse things. GG thanks for the content
Stacking dirk on draven is crazy rn
"zyox moan compilation" interneet history is DIABOLICAL
" at least dont buff the passive please" , who´s gonna tell him ?
I main adc, and playing cait has been really fun, but they need to roll back these changes and start from scratch if they wanna do anything about adc items. Distribute the ad to the attack speed items again so the raw damage items don't have op stats. And for the love of all that is holy, revert the navori rework.
A week of not responding? Its just a text. Idk how busy of a person they are, but in 99% of circumstances thats just unacceptable. At that point they are just avoiding you. Atleast text back like "sorry man im really in it this week with work and cant resond properly but ill get back to you once i have some free time.". Its really not too much to ask.
Least overbearing friend
I’m no hater, I enjoy your videos. I do not think your take on your friend is correct. I do agree that what they did is wrong as everyone has some time to reply. However when you do certain things and expect people to do them back is a way you shouldn’t act. You should do your acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. If they do reciprocate those actions that would add to the value in that person. However them not doing it, should either tell you that this is a busy period in their lives or that you didn’t really know the person you believed to have considered your friend.
Honestly what your friend did is dick behavior, but cutting them off instead of trying to communicate this to them feels extreme.
All of us make mistakes, this includes forgetting to respond to messages. If this was a repeated pattern then sure but for a one off thing again it feels too extreme to cut them off.
On your point about feeling unappreciated and planning most hang outs I get that but people function differently. Some people will think to hang out while some people will not. I for example don’t like going out all that much so planning hangouts isn’t on my mind but when my more outgoing friend makes a plan and wants to include me I happily go out because I appreciate that friend.
I also have a long distance friend and despite usually being the first one to message I don’t feel underappreciated because that friend has cancelled his plans to hang out with a long distance friend. He may not be the first one to call but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t appreciate me.
Now all these things I’ve said may not apply to your friend since I don’t know all the details but I’m just adding my two cents.
Can they just revert ER changes and give back Sheen to it?
My 50 cents on the friend question: don't put the other people on the same standard you expect from yourself because you don't know what's going on in their head. That said, if you feel not wanting to reconnect to that person just don't. You're entitled (is it the right word? I mean it in a positive way) to your emotions.
Druttut dont take the comments to seriously! we don't know the whole situation, but it sounded like "omg i didn't get a reply IMMEDIATELY, omg, he hates me" with not context
Romanian Zeri Thumbnail 😎
where does he get that patch previews that he looks in the first min of the video?
twitter
Sometimes people have communication disorders
The “friend” might just be a serial ghoster
It’s a shitty sitiuation that might’ve been better presented anonymously or smth
Cuz… u know, the internet can be quite judgmental
What are they nerfing on Irelia?
Gypsy Zeri OP
I have seen entire hour whitout notice :D XD ur not wrong druttut, thing is care/like more about experience and people thats hard sometimes
where can i find the 14.11 notes??? mods??
Bro try tophelios i wanna see you in action with this dmg bro
Wtf why is morde getting nerfed? Isnt he The worst stat checker in the game?
Mundo is the worst stat check in th egame
Shyvana: Hold my beer
@@BawanaBeast noway you just said shyvana
okay after you approached them the 2nd time and they ghosted you, that's fair if you get mad. But the first time where they didn't get back to you after 2 days and you said they're worth nothing to you now, that was overreacting.
that rakan was soooo clean
First Strike is getting a nerf no way this stays
I love how every lol player can complain about any champion
Pretty sure I've never heard of anyone complsin about braum
to the yap in the end: it was actually your bad, but not in the way you think. First of all, by inviting then by yourself everytime you are making them used to it, so its normal to them to only have invitations, and not send them. About the forgetting of your existence... its quite possible even with very close people, but very unlikely, mostly because they have no actual time to think, but as you said they're not the busy 24/7 persen, that was quite unlikely from them, so the only way there is they did not paid enought attention & wast that excited to contact you, aaand the massege probably was a complete lie and they couldn't responded, but they were too week to asnwer directly. Just move on with the person that doesn't pay enough credits for your doings and next time try to hint them to initiate the stuff you're doing, dont blame yourself for the situation, your ways arent parallel anymore
sheesh, i didnt listen to the end, but now i know about the small convo after.. yeah, they're really dont want you in teir life, dont they?
Yall better not nerf Aphelios...
Xd when druta will accept that with 50% crit chance you have guarantee 2 crits from 4 autos. So 3 it's kinda average.
I was afraid when I opened twitch and druta was off, thankfully TH-cam's always here for our daily amount of RANGED and Malding like never before seen
I kinda have the same shit with friends, somehow im the one who needs to message or arrange stuff
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Oh I see. Draven is over tuned? Nerf Irelia.
can't do lane swap in soloq anyway because cant trust team to win the stacked side of the map and the top laner will int and spam ping xd 0 grubs 0/2 dive laneswaps
nami buff well look like being at 50% winrate well i guess if the enchanter don't peak around 52% it's a bad support nowaday
Bruh wtf were these games 😂😂 woulda been asleep for 3 days after those
ah zeri the best champion in league of legends
Don’t buff the passive 💀 does he know
BORIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIING, post the fking all roles challenge
16:43 pause-
Zeri gameplay i sleep
Honestly that skin is an insult to B and K
Nah druto. I have no idea what the relationship is with that dude. But friends usually answer. It's mutual. It's correct of you to expect and demand an answer if you value your friendship, but "he didn't answer message he doesn't think I exist anymore", does seem a bit of a leap.
The ghosting he did after the convo you mentioned is so bad though. Wtf.
I don't think you're wrong but Idk the details and you made yourself look a little bit bad. Idc though, I get the situation.
Weirdly civilized comment section on this one
Is Zeri from Barcelona?
ATENCION, CARTERISTAS !!!
Romanian zeri build 🧱👷🏾♂️
talking bad about streamer in youtube comments or twitch chat is its own reward
Bro I have the same issue with my friends or buddies, they are always like whatever and I have to be the one asking for gaming session or going out. If anybody wants to play (any game) or looking for a friend let me know in comments
Say what you want
this is Romanian zeri
romanian zeri
I love zeri and zy0x 🥰🥰🥰
Even my comment got buried and people disagreed with me saying “your feelings are valid, that shit sucks” so TH-cam comments are just terrible sometimes