I am telling you, makes me wonder how he aimlessly roamed about to meek that kind woman. She could even barely construct a simple sentence correctly (Perhaps when she had the opportunity to go to school, she was busy with other things 😂)
She claimed she recently begged him for them to be together again but immediately said No without a second thought when she was asled if she would like to be together with him again. You can easily tell she is a dubious person.
exactly!!! He knows the woman well that's the reason it's hard for him to agree with the verdict . She's vindictive and not remorseful and has maybe succeeded in transferring her hatred to the kids. The man let his feelings or emotions towards the woman control his actions in respect to the children. He should have done better for them considering the type of woman he married. i neva watch finish but i don dey vex
I feel sorry for the man too,he was running from his wife's troubles without realizing the damage it was doing on his kids,I feel immediately he saw his kids at the court he realized his mistakes and wanted them with him even if he had to make up with his wife
This woman will definitely meet a man that you treat her worst than she treated this man. She is just something else. May God bless this man with someone that he will find lasting joy with.
Everything about this woman is scary...signs of danger. Her facial expressions, her scary eyes and finally, worse off her earthquake, tremor, trembling voice...even if men were "born to suffer", this isn't worth it
I understood your point of view.. This man would have seen the bad character when he had a first child with her, he kept on managing her bad character, until the whole issue escalated.
Why would a married woman be clubbing without the permission of his husband?...Infact there are lots of red flag in this married, but the man keep managing her, hoping she would change...Last Last Last the matter come cast...
May we never enter marriage unprepared. May we never enter marriage without first building our relationship with God. We are experiencing this because the faith is completely lost among christians. The lady will live to regret her decision. God help us all
Bro he is lucky because it’s in Nigeria court In abroad the judge will determine the child support according to your income. I am paying over four hundred thousand per month for a child.
This is not fair honestly. This woman knows what she is doing. I feel for this man after hearing all the stories. The woman should be included in the upkeep of the children too.
The are other tangible and intangible expenses that were not allocated that the woman will be generally bear. Clothing for instance, now cost more and was never mentioned. It’s just unfortunate that the two couldn’t work out the marriage.
Both parties are to blame. Eventhough the woman is problematic, for the man to be mute over the upkeep of their children for 3years, it doesn't tell well. Here, we learn to be in-depth and deliberate about the persons we chose as partners.
@@adebisilizaxta8033 Seriously! the fact that you don't see anything wrong in a man not providing for his kids for 3yrs! shows you are an irresponsible person.
The woman is not wrong to ask him to assist in taking care of his children. How can you call yourself a responsible man and neglect responsibilities of your children for 3 years and ongoing. Nonsense
Never judge until you hear from the other side, I remembered last when I was listening to this woman I felt like I had nothing until I hear from the man himself. And Boom, I don't know what this woman really want but I hope this man moves on. That's I can say
I think the woman had size up the man and found him belittled. If the man earns something around 7figures a month, she will gladly find a way to get the lacuna within them fix up. This is a big lesson for the unmarried.
@@maydvicky3316 How could you not tell that the woman was already out on the street with other men way before now? She already had other men funding her business while she was even still in her matrimonial home. She is dirty and immoral, she has been and is a street lady. The guy met her because she was discarded by another guy, the kind of situation that I would call "on a rebound". The guy is best served to stay the hell away from her.
The woman was already having an affair with another man before she moved out from the house, that's why she didn't want the marriage to work or go for marriage canceling
It's people like you that opened mouth to blame Osinachi for not leaving an abusive marriage... Now you're still wondering why a woman has decided to move on after her husband said he no longer has an atom of love for her... Hear what he said @14:20 under his breath, he's just pretending.
@@the_deola_fash what do you mean .. saying is been caged? i always tell men that as never married before to go far away from baby/divorce woman... they're all bitter and sadist human they're full ot toxic human
@@the_deola_fash between the man and that woman who is being toxic and evil? She took knife to kill the man because of his gentility. I wish that man to press further and even charge her for attempted murder if he can prove it in a regular court. That woman is evil, watching her expression says a lot about her.
This is a very good judgement. This case is about the CHILDREN's welfare. They are the ones suffering from the problems of the parents. Irrespective of their differences, a father should not harden his heart towards his children. When they were living with him, did he feed them, when he was living alone and eating didn't he feel in his heart oh what are my children eating?. Oh are their school fees paid?, how are they doing when they are sick? Its not about whether the woman is crazy or not it's about the children. You don't need to be with the woman but you need to be a good father because the children are watching. So if this crazy woman didn't drag him to court ,he wouldn't have thought of feeding his children, for 3 years he has not fed his children, 3 years because of anger, he neglects his children who are bearing his name ,who will be counted towards his family. For those saying he doesn't have custody , listen to the judgment again, during holidays and weekends he has custody of the children. I agree the lady is crazy but the man is wicked. Don't let his gentle talk fool you. A father that would not provide for his children deliberately because he is angry with their mother is wicked.
I really feel for this gentle man. Nevertheless, it's a good lesson for young men. She left her first marriage and you decided to marry her without doing your own finding. You learnt your lesson in a hard way
Well said, i remember when i left my ex wife because i was tired of having disputes with her almost every week along with insults and then she relocate to swizz with my two daughters to meet a pastor who she ment on Facebook because we both use to live in Madrid. Then the pastor eventually got married to her and they had a daughter but unfortunately again the pastor had to divorce her after 3 to 4yrs and nw she's finally living as a single mum, so i would say it's very important for men and women to do their findings b4 going into marriage with a divorce person. Thanks be to God that i found the right woman after some yrs i divorced my ex - wife and we both have been together for the past 12yrs with two kids, a girl and a boy and i could tell that marriage is a joy and a blessing if you find the right partner.
@@Sloliom congratulations sir, what about your two daughters, hope you kept in touch with them. Hope you helped raise them so they don't grow up like their mother?
You no hear when he say he already paid 100k for them for their school before the woman withdraw them from that school, probably she was denying him access to the kids too that’s why he’s saying he wants them in his roof.
You are reasoning well. He doesn't want to pay anything, just wanted to leave all the responsibilities for the woman and enjoy himself. Don't be surprised he might have gotten another lady pregnant during this three years and that's where all his money is going to. Useless man
For sure, that's how God works. God will give her what will make her regret the opportunity she had lost. Trust me, in 5 years time at most, she will be begging him.
She broke up with her first marriage, now second and she will be hoping for the third marriage, the circle will continue if she's not careful and might even affect her children when they grow up. She's looking for Love. Is there still Love in this social media era? She's dreaming of social media love and forgetting about her children at this stage. The man is very peaceful in nature. God help him to find someone who will build a good home with him.
You're reasoning in the same state with me, that lady has issues in her life, and I pity those children under her care, she's not even good for that kind of man. May God bless that kind hearted man.
For me the woman is the issue, trying to paint the man as evil before the kids, deep down the man too he doesn't want the marriage anymore but wants his kids back home. He's such a gentle man
For a man or woman to say they don't have an atom of love for you it means you haven't *"deposited any spousal benefits in your partners life"* so they wouldn't miss you when they leave you.
I refused to agree with you, the woman is an ungrateful woman, if a man pays for the roof over your head take care of your kids even adopted the previous one you had and pays for there school fees and you now tells me he had not deposit love. No now, that's ungreatfulness. You should have asked her about the whereabouts of the father of her first daughter. A woman that's lacking in character, for the guy to endure her up to 4kids the guy is just a peaceful and gentle man. If na me she don go tete after one kid. Shameful olosho woman
@@woleakinyemi9452 we are saying the same thing. The woman hasn't made any positive contribution to the man's life for him to utter the statement " I don't have an atom of love for you". He is happy to split from her, I believe the reason why reconciliation was on the cards for him was because of the children.
This is not a wife material at all. She think the judgement will be in her favour when she brings the man to the court. It is a very big problem to a man when his wife starts having extra marital affairs outside their marriage. I can't even pray for my enemy to have this kind of a woman as a wife. Her eyes 👀 go clear when those guys out there don chop her finish. She is not remorse. No atom of respect at all. Yeye dey smell
Counselling is important 6months before marriage. Every 18 year old and above should attend marriage and relationship counselling in their faith or local community even when they are not in a relationship Families should come together often several before and after any marriage. Communication is key
@@ladam653 yes you are right they are both not saint but take responsibility for the kids man! Marriage is not by force but don’t abandon her with the kids with out any form of support .. Things are expensive Children are even more expensive.
@@ladam653 the man has been doing it for years without complaining,he even took the burden of the child she had before,only 3years now she wants to die,even after the man has paid part of their school fees she decided to withdraw them from the school,packed out of the house with the kids and his properties,probably she was denying him access to kids too,just want him to be sending money.
Unfortunately, divorce creates double expenses... when the man pays the bills year after year nobody hears anything.. but she pays for just 1 year (and no available change for frivolous spending) and there is commotion everywhere.
Out of 112k he will save 40k for rent, 20k for his children and he’ll still pay school fees 360k. How is he going to eat and take care of himself. It’s women’s world!
@@taracarson9466 but the woman has been paying the money for 3 years, what is wrong with you people? If a man can deny one child because his having misunderstanding with his wife means he is not a real man
Wickedness she used hot pepper on her maid, held a knife against her husband, fought her own sis pls pls where is social services, this woman shouldn't be with her children very angry person.
This woman is a good example of a bad woman I'm sorry to say! 😔 I'm also married to a salary earner, I can tell you it's not easy, she's not being considerate at all, she planned the whole thing and she must surely reap what she sowed
She is a wicked soul,she moved everything out the house.As for the man he is too gentle and calm that’s why the woman is using his weakness against him
Her type gets killed in the US after frustrating the man who brought them in and sponsored their nursing school till graduation and pick up a job,then boom the husband suddenly becomes lazy n useless
Wait a minute, No one is talking about him not making effort to see his 4 children Since 4 years ! He didn't try to make sure they are fine or not.. Left the responsibilities for the lady alone . Kids are expensive to care for man!
I think the man probably married her out of pity as a single mum but I think the woman married him out of no option. I think they are not good for each other. I hope they both work on themselves to be kind humans. Sad
😂😂 @14:20 judge asked how much he will be giving for his children’s upkeep, and under his breath, he says “e no concern you” so rude! since 2019…you’re in court, so you have to be ready so answer the judge’s questions.
@Patrick Agori it’s so interesting how everyone in the comments seems to see him as a responsible and calm gentleman all because of his demeanour. Someone being quiet in public doesn’t make them a saint.
African courts seem very different from American ones. They actually still respect the rights of men. In America a black man has no chance in court against a woman. If he just leaves with the the shirt on his back and his life he should consider himself lucky.
Do you agree that a man should be responsible and support his children?? African courts have no regards, no respect for women. Men are allowed to beat their wives , and treat them anyhow. Why some men in Africa don't want to support their children, the women didn't make the children on her own.
You noticed bah? All of a sudden shes talking over you. If she has agreed and said yes and the judge was still speaking, will she have snapped at her?we should learn to allow toxic marriage dissolve. The children dont only need material provisions, they also need to grow in a loving and peaceful environment. The woman has issues but so does the man. Do you know how frustrating for a lady to talk to a man about the welfare of their children and he will be playing dumb?
@@ladam653 God will bless you. She became irritated right away. If the man had refused, she would have probably handled it differently but because she refused, it was a "how dare you" moment. Especially cos he was open to it.
It's obvious the woman is wayward and it's even cheating on the husband before moving out..I pity her daughters.i pray they don't take after her..this type of woman can never settle down and that's why her first marriage also failed..I blamed the man for not investigating who she is before he married her
The Lady has premeditated this marriage and relationship. you can see she has no real feelings. A narcissist female cannot stay in a marriage. They can plan to set you up phychologically so that you cant perform your fatherly duties. These people prey on empathetic men. At the end of the day they want people to see them as the victim.
Hmmm don't judge a book by its cover......if she really did all he accused her of doing how come he is ready to still make the marriage work so easily without any argument...the woman might no be innocent of all his accusations but trust me the man isn't a saint either.
If a man don't benefit directly from a relationship, he LL never stay. Not to judge but it tells me something if he says he wants her back. To be fair, cos of our culture, some men quickly accuse women of adultery if they know they did her wrong. People will then refuse to listen to the woman. Something like that happened to my brother in law who accused the wife of adultery cos a fight ensued when his wife asked him to bring more money. Now the woman has left just cos of the accusations. He's even lost weight and asked me to beg only for me to have a can of worms opened to me. A person demeanor has nothing to do with his / her character . I then realized that some women's actions are actually a reaction to a bunch of things and we never do question how/ when situations started and progressed to the point that we find ourselves. That's sad. Grown ups can lie, growing up I thought otherwise
@@sekinatjoshua8740 ,dont you know that women are not deep thinkers.If she is seeing the other guy like he claimed,her judgement would be clouded.What I c is that the lady is using his gentility against him
The judge should have back dated the child support and school fees. Since 2019 she has taken care of the kids with no assistance. What has he been doing with his salary????
The woman surely has seen someone else. This man has a very valid point and wants this to work but the woman God forbid. These are the things that lead people into depression or suicidal. I just pray this man gets over all this whole issue without been depressed. Divorce is a deadly game
That she decided to move on after all the things the man said made you say she hv seen someone else? God forbid that I move back to a man that said all he said....
@@nwoluoluchi109 so you didn’t hear that she has been having affairs even while they were together to the extent of breaking one her lover’s’ marriage….
@@nwoluoluchi109 Am not one to reason with my bottom. The man is ready for counselling,why isn’t she if she’s not still seeing the man she had an affair with? Didn’t you hear that she broke the mama marriage too? Please oh I wish you all you wish yourself
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I dnt luv da program, i like it....coz, how can i luv someone/somethin' i dnt know.
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@@hotgrin3478 and you subscribe see you
Nobody ask how much do you want to pay in western court. They just take your paycheck amd divide it. Case close
May God bless Judge Funmi with more wisdom.
He want to because of the children. That man is a good man .
I feel for this man,hope he finds someone who is kind enough to love him without taking advantage of his kind
I pray so too 👏
You don't judge because the woman doesn't want to go into details the man just want to disgrace the woman while the woman was projecting
I will support my kids but will never come close to such woman. Oga go enjoy life and make sure you hustle up to help your kids. That's all
She is Judy Austin’s sister. She destroyed another person’s home
My taught
Never get into a relationship out of pity. There is a reason her first man left her.
100℅ Respect for this man.
Judge Funny Asaolu is a great judge.
I tell you
I am telling you, makes me wonder how he aimlessly roamed about to meek that kind woman. She could even barely construct a simple sentence correctly (Perhaps when she had the opportunity to go to school, she was busy with other things 😂)
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Am here ooo 😂😂this woman sha I had already known she's the problem
Lol..Am here
She claimed she recently begged him for them to be together again but immediately said No without a second thought when she was asled if she would like to be together with him again. You can easily tell she is a dubious person.
People like her are troublessome and dubious
God bless you. So cruel a woman. May God save our families
Pride, unnecessary pride.
I just feel for this man, this woman took advantage of his kind heart, but where the man went wrong was for neglecting his children
I agree with you 💯
Exactly 😢
exactly!!! He knows the woman well that's the reason it's hard for him to agree with the verdict . She's vindictive and not remorseful and has maybe succeeded in transferring her hatred to the kids. The man let his feelings or emotions towards the woman control his actions in respect to the children. He should have done better for them considering the type of woman he married. i neva watch finish but i don dey vex
Perfectly said
I feel sorry for the man too,he was running from his wife's troubles without realizing the damage it was doing on his kids,I feel immediately he saw his kids at the court he realized his mistakes and wanted them with him even if he had to make up with his wife
This should be an eye opener. If you must make a mistake, never you marry a wicked and inconsiderate person.
The lady has been decived by men out there. She will finally regret it at last.
I swear
Sure
Dem dey decieve her outside but the money she dey collect from them no reach anything for the bills she dey sort .
That's a good way of saying it, she's simply wayward in my opinion.
He has to provide foe his children!!! because a woman leaves you is no excuse not to look after your kids.
This woman will definitely meet a man that you treat her worst than she treated this man. She is just something else. May God bless this man with someone that he will find lasting joy with.
Hi, could u explain why she's something else, like why do u say so🤔
@@victoriaolaleye1689 jamb question. You didn't watch the video before you started writing, or are you the woman in question?
“Don’t talk over me!”
I Stan a Judge that assumes control #respect 🙌🏾
Judge funmi is a very principled minded woman,peaceful and intelligent 👍❤
She's also not moved by sentiments
I pray for all of us that are yet to marry not to fall victim,this woman is a big NO
Everything about this woman is scary...signs of danger.
Her facial expressions, her scary eyes and finally, worse off her earthquake, tremor, trembling voice...even if men were "born to suffer", this isn't worth it
I understood your point of view.. This man would have seen the bad character when he had a first child with her, he kept on managing her bad character, until the whole issue escalated.
Why would a married woman be clubbing without the permission of his husband?...Infact there are lots of red flag in this married, but the man keep managing her, hoping she would change...Last Last Last the matter come cast...
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This woman is a very Bad woman. Me no fit forgive a cheating woman this man that even wants to work it out dey try God forbid bad things.
May we never enter marriage unprepared. May we never enter marriage without first building our relationship with God. We are experiencing this because the faith is completely lost among christians.
The lady will live to regret her decision. God help us all
I really don’t know why bad things happen to “some” good people 😢 he really doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment. I hope he finds love again🙏
A big sorry for the man . I felt bad for him when he said “ his been caged “ the lady knows what she’s doing.
She's a narcissist.
This is why as men we need to be careful about who we fcuk. Think with your head not your pr..k.
Who cage am?.
He’s been having issues with the lady why not stop at baby number two. E don reach for money, he’s cage.
Bro he is lucky because it’s in Nigeria court
In abroad the judge will determine the child support according to your income.
I am paying over four hundred thousand per month for a child.
@@sylvesternwanze6682 If the court feels you can afford it, there is no issue with that. At least he wouldn't be asked to pay what he cannot afford.
This is not fair honestly. This woman knows what she is doing.
I feel for this man after hearing all the stories. The woman should be included in the upkeep of the children too.
The are other tangible and intangible expenses that were not allocated that the woman will be generally bear. Clothing for instance, now cost more and was never mentioned. It’s just unfortunate that the two couldn’t work out the marriage.
Both parties are to blame.
Eventhough the woman is problematic, for the man to be mute over the upkeep of their children for 3years, it doesn't tell well.
Here, we learn to be in-depth and deliberate about the persons we chose as partners.
Exactly. People are not seeing that,for three years? A man who have compassion will never do that.
Thank you very much... The man is even being evasive about the upkeep right there in the court... He justs wants the custody and nothing else.
@@forexlord2550 My dear pray oooo , there are something these man did not say.
@@forexlord2550 don't forget it's through this same woman upkeep money will go to. That's why he want the children so he can take care of them himself
Some are used to seeing everything as 1 persons fault
I felt for this man, his been caged, and the woman has already planned things out, I pray he finds someone else that will make him help.
How is he cage? We are talking about his kids ,they need to take care of them,she has been doing it alone for 3 year Aba
@@forexlord2550 why didn't she continue then.
@@adebisilizaxta8033 Seriously! the fact that you don't see anything wrong in a man not providing for his kids for 3yrs! shows you are an irresponsible person.
@@ifunanyaesther967 n since u re responsible idiot, go n marry her for ur family or perhaps start helping to pay.
@@ifunanyaesther967 n since u can't use ur head to think, I felt u see urself in her, it's d reason u don't see anything wrong with her
I feel so bad for this man... Such a calm and gentle man. God please don't give my brothers this kind of woman... 😢😢😢
Amen. This kind of woman can turn the heart of the children against their father painting him as a bad man.
Nice guys finish last. I pity him, but I hope he gets a second chance to right his wrongs in life.
This man is too responsible and calm for what the woman is making him go through. May our sons not come the way of evil woman
I think I'll call in for a similar case soon.... Still gathering some momentum
The man is quite responsible but the woman mere looking at her you will know where she incarnated from.
Amen
I disagree I know his type wicked to the core.
The woman is not wrong to ask him to assist in taking care of his children. How can you call yourself a responsible man and neglect responsibilities of your children for 3 years and ongoing. Nonsense
Never judge until you hear from the other side, I remembered last when I was listening to this woman I felt like I had nothing until I hear from the man himself. And Boom, I don't know what this woman really want but I hope this man moves on. That's I can say
Second judge
You are very right
I think the woman had size up the man and found him belittled. If the man earns something around 7figures a month, she will gladly find a way to get the lacuna within them fix up. This is a big lesson for the unmarried.
She's troublesome and.not ready to be with a man ...
Judge Funmi, I admire your firmness and calmness put together. Well done to you and your team.
I really feel for this man. They're being unfair to him. She made life difficult for him and he's paying for it.
This man is a complete gentle man
I really feel for the man. He has gone through a lot
Such a gentle man.. the woman is something else so obvious she has moved on.
Fear gentle
People. Is it because the woman is more vocal..
Fear him o, if a woman says she doesn't want a man hmmmmmn I reserve my comment
@@maydvicky3316 How could you not tell that the woman was already out on the street with other men way before now? She already had other men funding her business while she was even still in her matrimonial home. She is dirty and immoral, she has been and is a street lady. The guy met her because she was discarded by another guy, the kind of situation that I would call "on a rebound". The guy is best served to stay the hell away from her.
Hmmmmmm?
@@akenebhorirene6793 say that again. This is what many people are ignorant of! Mr gentle Mr innocent 😮
Behold the most sensitive and intelligent judge I have seen. God bless you ma'am
We are here today again 😊....omo I feel pity for this man
The woman was already having an affair with another man before she moved out from the house, that's why she didn't want the marriage to work or go for marriage canceling
Exactly my thought.
That's true she didn't love this man again
It's people like you that opened mouth to blame Osinachi for not leaving an abusive marriage... Now you're still wondering why a woman has decided to move on after her husband said he no longer has an atom of love for her... Hear what he said @14:20 under his breath, he's just pretending.
@@the_deola_fash what do you mean ..
saying is been caged?
i always tell men that as never married before to go far away from baby/divorce woman... they're all bitter and sadist human
they're full ot toxic human
@@the_deola_fash between the man and that woman who is being toxic and evil? She took knife to kill the man because of his gentility.
I wish that man to press further and even charge her for attempted murder if he can prove it in a regular court. That woman is evil, watching her expression says a lot about her.
This is a very good judgement. This case is about the CHILDREN's welfare. They are the ones suffering from the problems of the parents. Irrespective of their differences, a father should not harden his heart towards his children. When they were living with him, did he feed them, when he was living alone and eating didn't he feel in his heart oh what are my children eating?. Oh are their school fees paid?, how are they doing when they are sick? Its not about whether the woman is crazy or not it's about the children. You don't need to be with the woman but you need to be a good father because the children are watching. So if this crazy woman didn't drag him to court ,he wouldn't have thought of feeding his children, for 3 years he has not fed his children, 3 years because of anger, he neglects his children who are bearing his name ,who will be counted towards his family. For those saying he doesn't have custody , listen to the judgment again, during holidays and weekends he has custody of the children.
I agree the lady is crazy but the man is wicked. Don't let his gentle talk fool you. A father that would not provide for his children deliberately because he is angry with their mother is wicked.
I really feel for this gentle man. Nevertheless, it's a good lesson for young men. She left her first marriage and you decided to marry her without doing your own finding. You learnt your lesson in a hard way
well he is finding
Well said, i remember when i left my ex wife because i was tired of having disputes with her almost every week along with insults and then she relocate to swizz with my two daughters to meet a pastor who she ment on Facebook because we both use to live in Madrid. Then the pastor eventually got married to her and they had a daughter but unfortunately again the pastor had to divorce her after 3 to 4yrs and nw she's finally living as a single mum, so i would say it's very important for men and women to do their findings b4 going into marriage with a divorce person. Thanks be to God that i found the right woman after some yrs i divorced my ex - wife and we both have been together for the past 12yrs with two kids, a girl and a boy and i could tell that marriage is a joy and a blessing if you find the right partner.
@@Sloliom congratulations sir, what about your two daughters, hope you kept in touch with them. Hope you helped raise them so they don't grow up like their mother?
Men don't benefit from Divorce👪➡👨👩😭, this just the truth
@@storieswithauntyogeswaog1430 sṣṣ
Cb
Such a gentle man. the Lady has moved on since 1960.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Honestly
1800 not 1960
@@diamondpearlify 🤣🤣🤣
@@chinnyevans 🤣
Judge Funmi was really stressed on this case o. I commend her patience.
The man self nor try to leave the responsibility for that years for the woman,he nor wan even pay any money for the kids. The man self shuoo
You no hear when he say he already paid 100k for them for their school before the woman withdraw them from that school, probably she was denying him access to the kids too that’s why he’s saying he wants them in his roof.
You are reasoning well. He doesn't want to pay anything, just wanted to leave all the responsibilities for the woman and enjoy himself. Don't be surprised he might have gotten another lady pregnant during this three years and that's where all his money is going to. Useless man
@@patrickagori3537God forbid to your type of woman.
This man is acting as if he doesn't want to take responsibility of his children 🥱🥱🥱
That you judge Funmi.
The man deserves the custody of his children and never have anything to do with such a lady again. Wicked world.
The woman is the one at loss, she will never see a man like this again.
For sure, that's how God works. God will give her what will make her regret the opportunity she had lost. Trust me, in 5 years time at most, she will be begging him.
I agree with you
This man is very heartless
@@herbirtmebonta9914 Did you just say the is heartless?
@@olagokeolayiwola8111 very very wicked. Punishing those kids because of the hate he has for the ex wife?
She broke up with her first marriage, now second and she will be hoping for the third marriage, the circle will continue if she's not careful and might even affect her children when they grow up. She's looking for Love. Is there still Love in this social media era? She's dreaming of social media love and forgetting about her children at this stage. The man is very peaceful in nature. God help him to find someone who will build a good home with him.
She isn't looking for love, she is looking for good time, fun and clubbing.
You're reasoning in the same state with me, that lady has issues in her life, and I pity those children under her care, she's not even good for that kind of man. May God bless that kind hearted man.
The man should do DNA for those kids. I won't be surprised if some are not his.
Judge funmi was angry with the woman, that's why she said don't talk over me...
The woman will suffer, she took advantage of her bad life. man continue ur good heart
Aah this woman is something else. May God help us.
For me the woman is the issue, trying to paint the man as evil before the kids, deep down the man too he doesn't want the marriage anymore but wants his kids back home. He's such a gentle man
I share same opinion sis
You see that man na slow poison OoooO
@@nwoluoluchi109 do u know him personally ..how did u come 2 that conclusion or u just being toxic
They man get his problem...he doesn't want to pay anything lol .
@@nwoluoluchi109 well I think he's doing that cos he wants his children to come back home
These are one of the reasons it's good to be together as one. A lot of issues always occur. And by splitting it also affect the children.
For a man or woman to say they don't have an atom of love for you it means you haven't *"deposited any spousal benefits in your partners life"* so they wouldn't miss you when they leave you.
I refused to agree with you, the woman is an ungrateful woman, if a man pays for the roof over your head take care of your kids even adopted the previous one you had and pays for there school fees and you now tells me he had not deposit love. No now, that's ungreatfulness. You should have asked her about the whereabouts of the father of her first daughter. A woman that's lacking in character, for the guy to endure her up to 4kids the guy is just a peaceful and gentle man. If na me she don go tete after one kid. Shameful olosho woman
@@woleakinyemi9452 we are saying the same thing. The woman hasn't made any positive contribution to the man's life for him to utter the statement " I don't have an atom of love for you". He is happy to split from her, I believe the reason why reconciliation was on the cards for him was because of the children.
I just love this Judge. This is truly her calling.
It’s a typical thing Nigeria women do , it’s not new , I have been there before that why I been single for 5yrs
Wow this man is a real man I really admire him.
This is not a wife material at all. She think the judgement will be in her favour when she brings the man to the court. It is a very big problem to a man when his wife starts having extra marital affairs outside their marriage. I can't even pray for my enemy to have this kind of a woman as a wife. Her eyes 👀 go clear when those guys out there don chop her finish. She is not remorse. No atom of respect at all. Yeye dey smell
Thank God she brought the case to court herself at least the man is free now.
@@preciousidogah4852 yes oh. You are right.
Even the odour reach kano
@@ebukaisrael5358 comrade please take it easy
Just imagine, she even refused to visit a counselor.
Men be careful oooooo. Open your eyes very well before you marry ooo.
This man needs to pay upkeep as he's not paying the children's accommodation. Let their mother go and hustle for a better life. Life goes on.
Counselling is important 6months before marriage.
Every 18 year old and above should attend marriage and relationship counselling in their faith or local community even when they are not in a relationship
Families should come together often several before and after any marriage. Communication is key
She is toxic, my dear brother let her move on...just train your children till they come off age to cater for themselves...well done Judge Funmi❤️
How do you know?
The woman started having kids at a very young age, she just want to spread her wings and explore life now that her children are grown.
He should have a DNA for those children
I think he is feeling caged because he doesn't want to take up his responsibilities .
I'm not cool with that .
Exactly. The woman is bad but the man too no pure. 3 years not even a kobo for your children's upkeep? Taaa
@@ladam653 yes you are right they are both not saint but take responsibility for the kids man!
Marriage is not by force but don’t abandon her with the kids with out any form of support ..
Things are expensive
Children are even more expensive.
@@ladam653 the man has been doing it for years without complaining,he even took the burden of the child she had before,only 3years now she wants to die,even after the man has paid part of their school fees she decided to withdraw them from the school,packed out of the house with the kids and his properties,probably she was denying him access to kids too,just want him to be sending money.
So you supporting the lady ?
May your son marry this kind of woman, say amen 😂
Both of them should take care of the kids in every way ....this man is too gentle 😠😠.
I wanted to be crying for this man, I hope he become more successful in life and that his children love him
Unfortunately, divorce creates double expenses... when the man pays the bills year after year nobody hears anything.. but she pays for just 1 year (and no available change for frivolous spending) and there is commotion everywhere.
I feel pity for the man, he's been caged and captive😢
May God put him through
Out of 112k he will save 40k for rent, 20k for his children and he’ll still pay school fees 360k. How is he going to eat and take care of himself. It’s women’s world!
@@taracarson9466 but the woman has been paying the money for 3 years, what is wrong with you people? If a man can deny one child because his having misunderstanding with his wife means he is not a real man
For leaving children
@@Jummy_Endowed woman will support woman
When she starts talking,comes out of the destructive words.
This woman doesn't want settlement, she just wants to be exploiting this man
Wickedness she used hot pepper on her maid, held a knife against her husband, fought her own sis pls pls where is social services, this woman shouldn't be with her children very angry person.
Does social service work in nija?
Exactly! She will transfer her attitude to the children
This woman is a good example of a bad woman I'm sorry to say! 😔 I'm also married to a salary earner, I can tell you it's not easy, she's not being considerate at all, she planned the whole thing and she must surely reap what she sowed
She is a wicked soul,she moved everything out the house.As for the man he is too gentle and calm that’s why the woman is using his weakness against him
Her type gets killed in the US after frustrating the man who brought them in and sponsored their nursing school till graduation and pick up a job,then boom the husband suddenly becomes lazy n useless
Imagine wat of feeding? So wetin be her own to be following men for no reason
C her shaking her head with no reason,
Wait a minute,
No one is talking about him not making effort to see his 4 children Since 4 years !
He didn't try to make sure they are fine or not..
Left the responsibilities for the lady alone .
Kids are expensive to care for man!
Any man that run from his responsibility will come back to it for real
sharap
God have mercy on you
The judge must not be a Nigerian, she is too nice and professional, I like her
Nigerians are nice and professional o
They don't know we are the best in Africa brain, class and beauty
"Don't talk over me.... let this be the last time you talk over me.."😅💀
A testament that all that the man said about the woman is true.
Since the woman wanted divorce so badly, she should be ready to shoulder some responsibilities.
This lady needs to go for mental deliverance, spiritual deliverance, and psychological deliverance.
Wow u just concluded their lives in a few minutes video
@@classybree2241 na your type be dat
@@ikennaokafor573 ok I hear
Wow seriously
Only one person😅😇😀
This woman is the definition of trouble, even the man get e own .
I think the man probably married her out of pity as a single mum but I think the woman married him out of no option. I think they are not good for each other. I hope they both work on themselves to be kind humans. Sad
less than 15 to 20yrs from now, she will look back and say, i wish she can turn back the hands of time.
Exactly. Something is pushing her to a wrong direction she enjoys for. Is but time is coming she would regret it.
Be deceiving yourself , God ways is not how way. Not woman that leaves regret it.
*every
😂😂 @14:20 judge asked how much he will be giving for his children’s upkeep, and under his breath, he says “e no concern you” so rude! since 2019…you’re in court, so you have to be ready so answer the judge’s questions.
The man too has issues but as usual nigerian being a patriarchal society even some women only see the woman's fault and none from the man.
So true. I just listened to it. This man is wicked. Abeg the woman should not go back
@Patrick Agori it’s so interesting how everyone in the comments seems to see him as a responsible and calm gentleman all because of his demeanour. Someone being quiet in public doesn’t make them a saint.
@@opocoyo so true 👍
You are smart
Judging by her countenance and facial expressions, you just know this woman is a real problem
African courts seem very different from American ones. They actually still respect the rights of men. In America a black man has no chance in court against a woman. If he just leaves with the the shirt on his back and his life he should consider himself lucky.
Not true
Do you agree that a man should be responsible and support his children?? African courts have no regards, no respect for women. Men are allowed to beat their wives , and treat them anyhow. Why some men in Africa don't want to support their children, the women didn't make the children on her own.
Is a typical lie
Is Nigeria American
Very country have their law and way
This man was just unfortunate. I really pity him
Such a gentle man.
The judge getting upset because the woman refused marriage counseling. See wahala oh.
You noticed bah? All of a sudden shes talking over you. If she has agreed and said yes and the judge was still speaking, will she have snapped at her?we should learn to allow toxic marriage dissolve. The children dont only need material provisions, they also need to grow in a loving and peaceful environment. The woman has issues but so does the man. Do you know how frustrating for a lady to talk to a man about the welfare of their children and he will be playing dumb?
@@ladam653 God will bless you. She became irritated right away. If the man had refused, she would have probably handled it differently but because she refused, it was a "how dare you" moment. Especially cos he was open to it.
See as my man just got himself hooked.
You could see this man isn't a troublesome person
It's obvious the woman is wayward and it's even cheating on the husband before moving out..I pity her daughters.i pray they don't take after her..this type of woman can never settle down and that's why her first marriage also failed..I blamed the man for not investigating who she is before he married her
You made a lot of sense my dear lady, unlike a lot of people who publish comments here as if they are brain-damaged!
This lady is very heartless, I really pity the man and judge Funmi didn't give fair judgment to the man
The Lady has premeditated this marriage and relationship. you can see she has no real feelings. A narcissist female cannot stay in a marriage. They can plan to set you up phychologically so that you cant perform your fatherly duties. These people prey on empathetic men. At the end of the day they want people to see them as the victim.
Hello, if we could have a decent discussion...why do u say she's narcissistic?
@@victoriaolaleye1689 you don't know how to Google?
She is a perfect example of a narcissist..that is why she doesn't care and whoever is dating her should start running 😅
I don't trust this woman with her crocodile's tears 😭
This man has been through a lot . Why should this be happening to a gentle man like this ?
Do you know this man, do you live with him. smh
Nice question
Hmmm don't judge a book by its cover......if she really did all he accused her of doing how come he is ready to still make the marriage work so easily without any argument...the woman might no be innocent of all his accusations but trust me the man isn't a saint either.
If a man don't benefit directly from a relationship, he LL never stay. Not to judge but it tells me something if he says he wants her back.
To be fair, cos of our culture, some men quickly accuse women of adultery if they know they did her wrong. People will then refuse to listen to the woman.
Something like that happened to my brother in law who accused the wife of adultery cos a fight ensued when his wife asked him to bring more money. Now the woman has left just cos of the accusations. He's even lost weight and asked me to beg only for me to have a can of worms opened to me. A person demeanor has nothing to do with his / her character .
I then realized that some women's actions are actually a reaction to a bunch of things and we never do question how/ when situations started and progressed to the point that we find ourselves. That's sad.
Grown ups can lie, growing up I thought otherwise
@@sekinatjoshua8740 ,dont you know that women are not deep thinkers.If she is seeing the other guy like he claimed,her judgement would be clouded.What I c is that the lady is using his gentility against him
A very good and fair judgement 👌. Judge Funmi is amazingly great 👍 👏 . Kudos to her & her team👍.
Lesson to all young guys out there
I just feel for this man 😢 may my Son and brothers not come across a woman like this 😢
See why some men finds it hard to marry a single mom..... The woman has moved on before she left the house
This woman is toxic , she doesn’t deserve this man... There’s nothing outside her eyes will clear very soon
The judge should have back dated the child support and school fees. Since 2019 she has taken care of the kids with no assistance. What has he been doing with his salary????
... And considering if truly they are his paternal kids. I think the man needs to run a DNA on the kids.
@@chibuzoranaba4965 what are you talking about
Good point
Doing fine bobo na. Bad woman yeah but you too na bad father. 3 years no upkeep. So the men she's dating should fend for your children?
For what he can barely afford the current school fees and feeding money you are here talking about backdating why create more problems
This womam makes a big mistake by not accepting the counseling... Which man outside will really cater for her and 5 children ..
The woman surely has seen someone else. This man has a very valid point and wants this to work but the woman God forbid.
These are the things that lead people into depression or suicidal.
I just pray this man gets over all this whole issue without been depressed.
Divorce is a deadly game
That she decided to move on after all the things the man said made you say she hv seen someone else? God forbid that I move back to a man that said all he said....
@@nwoluoluchi109 1 evil woman spotted ,guys avoid dz types like plaque ....selective hearing
@@nwoluoluchi109 so you didn’t hear that she has been having affairs even while they were together to the extent of breaking one her lover’s’ marriage….
@@nwoluoluchi109 Am not one to reason with my bottom. The man is ready for counselling,why isn’t she if she’s not still seeing the man she had an affair with? Didn’t you hear that she broke the mama marriage too? Please oh I wish you all you wish yourself
@@nwoluoluchi109 if there's no love, what would you be waiting for?
With all due respect 😢
Some women are wicked 😭
I’m led to tell the man to take those kids for DNA test before he starts paying any dime . May God be with him
Yes the man needs to do DNA 🧬 test
Exactly
You're right
Yes cause the lady flirts around
I second to this ..🧘🏿♂️🧘🏿♂️🧘🏿♂️
This woman does not love. She is only an opportunist. May God bless the Man with a virtuous and resourceful woman soonest.
Judge Fumi wished she could do more for the man but the law is the law. Marriage is not designed for Men.
I'm telling you.
This woman is something else and she looks so troublesome. I pray God help us in choosing the right partner 🙏