I FEEL CAGED || Justice Court EP 137

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  • @g.motion8126
    @g.motion8126 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    How many of you love Justice ⚖ Court programmes let me see you press the like button

    • @hotgrin3478
      @hotgrin3478 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dnt luv da program, i like it....coz, how can i luv someone/somethin' i dnt know.

    • @julianaabundant
      @julianaabundant ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm number one

    • @stellalove6896
      @stellalove6896 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hotgrin3478 and you subscribe see you

    • @teemakin4619
      @teemakin4619 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nobody ask how much do you want to pay in western court. They just take your paycheck amd divide it. Case close

    • @tonyijeh7791
      @tonyijeh7791 ปีที่แล้ว

      May God bless Judge Funmi with more wisdom.

  • @lilianayegwalo5321
    @lilianayegwalo5321 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    If you paused other videos immediately you saw the notification, gather here....
    👍👍

    • @emmanuelfelicity5527
      @emmanuelfelicity5527 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am here ooo 😂😂this woman sha I had already known she's the problem

  • @beautyworgu941
    @beautyworgu941 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    100℅ Respect for this man.

    • @Eyekesolomoneyeke73
      @Eyekesolomoneyeke73 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Judge Funny Asaolu is a great judge.

    • @ogechukwuudeh6989
      @ogechukwuudeh6989 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I tell you

    • @adebayoolawale6396
      @adebayoolawale6396 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am telling you, makes me wonder how he aimlessly roamed about to meek that kind woman. She could even barely construct a simple sentence correctly (Perhaps when she had the opportunity to go to school, she was busy with other things 😂)

  • @loycecarolkhayeli
    @loycecarolkhayeli ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I feel for this man,hope he finds someone who is kind enough to love him without taking advantage of his kind

    • @eziunormokwunyei7506
      @eziunormokwunyei7506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I pray so too 👏

    • @CallisterUzoeghelu
      @CallisterUzoeghelu 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You don't judge because the woman doesn't want to go into details the man just want to disgrace the woman while the woman was projecting

  • @justinamourine5922
    @justinamourine5922 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This woman will definitely meet a man that you treat her worst than she treated this man. She is just something else. May God bless this man with someone that he will find lasting joy with.

    • @victoriaolaleye1689
      @victoriaolaleye1689 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, could u explain why she's something else, like why do u say so🤔

    • @justinamourine5922
      @justinamourine5922 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@victoriaolaleye1689 jamb question. You didn't watch the video before you started writing, or are you the woman in question?

  • @franklinokechukwu1073
    @franklinokechukwu1073 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She claimed she recently begged him for them to be together again but immediately said No without a second thought when she was asled if she would like to be together with him again. You can easily tell she is a dubious person.

    • @generalman3016
      @generalman3016 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People like her are troublessome and dubious

    • @edehoziomairene7553
      @edehoziomairene7553 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God bless you. So cruel a woman. May God save our families

    • @markighagbon6579
      @markighagbon6579 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Pride, unnecessary pride.

  • @blessingnorris2500
    @blessingnorris2500 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I just feel for this man, this woman took advantage of his kind heart, but where the man went wrong was for neglecting his children

    • @ezechinedu7980
      @ezechinedu7980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you 💯

    • @emmacollins2164
      @emmacollins2164 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly 😢

    • @D4DORIS.
      @D4DORIS. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      exactly!!! He knows the woman well that's the reason it's hard for him to agree with the verdict . She's vindictive and not remorseful and has maybe succeeded in transferring her hatred to the kids. The man let his feelings or emotions towards the woman control his actions in respect to the children. He should have done better for them considering the type of woman he married. i neva watch finish but i don dey vex

    • @jokertales
      @jokertales ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perfectly said

    • @ebereezeigbo2183
      @ebereezeigbo2183 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel sorry for the man too,he was running from his wife's troubles without realizing the damage it was doing on his kids,I feel immediately he saw his kids at the court he realized his mistakes and wanted them with him even if he had to make up with his wife

  • @walkingcamera8610
    @walkingcamera8610 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I will support my kids but will never come close to such woman. Oga go enjoy life and make sure you hustle up to help your kids. That's all

  • @ugoomuonagolu219
    @ugoomuonagolu219 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This should be an eye opener. If you must make a mistake, never you marry a wicked and inconsiderate person.

  • @Cath.Spirituality
    @Cath.Spirituality ปีที่แล้ว +39

    May we never enter marriage unprepared. May we never enter marriage without first building our relationship with God. We are experiencing this because the faith is completely lost among christians.
    The lady will live to regret her decision. God help us all

  • @odasani1250
    @odasani1250 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Never get into a relationship out of pity. There is a reason her first man left her.

  • @ladybumbum5807
    @ladybumbum5807 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Judge funmi is a very principled minded woman,peaceful and intelligent 👍❤

    • @OtibhoEK
      @OtibhoEK ปีที่แล้ว

      She's also not moved by sentiments

  • @vivianonwuka9707
    @vivianonwuka9707 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He want to because of the children. That man is a good man .

  • @tayearimoro641
    @tayearimoro641 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    “Don’t talk over me!”
    I Stan a Judge that assumes control #respect 🙌🏾

  • @plentystuffs
    @plentystuffs ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He has to provide foe his children!!! because a woman leaves you is no excuse not to look after your kids.

  • @ekeneonwudiwe3826
    @ekeneonwudiwe3826 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The lady has been decived by men out there. She will finally regret it at last.

  • @m.edecor6735
    @m.edecor6735 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a very good judgement. This case is about the CHILDREN's welfare. They are the ones suffering from the problems of the parents. Irrespective of their differences, a father should not harden his heart towards his children. When they were living with him, did he feed them, when he was living alone and eating didn't he feel in his heart oh what are my children eating?. Oh are their school fees paid?, how are they doing when they are sick? Its not about whether the woman is crazy or not it's about the children. You don't need to be with the woman but you need to be a good father because the children are watching. So if this crazy woman didn't drag him to court ,he wouldn't have thought of feeding his children, for 3 years he has not fed his children, 3 years because of anger, he neglects his children who are bearing his name ,who will be counted towards his family. For those saying he doesn't have custody , listen to the judgment again, during holidays and weekends he has custody of the children.
    I agree the lady is crazy but the man is wicked. Don't let his gentle talk fool you. A father that would not provide for his children deliberately because he is angry with their mother is wicked.

  • @NurseJuliaEzeji
    @NurseJuliaEzeji ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I really don’t know why bad things happen to “some” good people 😢 he really doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment. I hope he finds love again🙏

  • @obasinzubechukwu2759
    @obasinzubechukwu2759 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This is not fair honestly. This woman knows what she is doing.
    I feel for this man after hearing all the stories. The woman should be included in the upkeep of the children too.

    • @YommyFermi
      @YommyFermi ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The are other tangible and intangible expenses that were not allocated that the woman will be generally bear. Clothing for instance, now cost more and was never mentioned. It’s just unfortunate that the two couldn’t work out the marriage.

  • @yusufadedoyin5515
    @yusufadedoyin5515 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    This man is too responsible and calm for what the woman is making him go through. May our sons not come the way of evil woman

    • @josephadeoye3689
      @josephadeoye3689 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think I'll call in for a similar case soon.... Still gathering some momentum

    • @tunwaseajiwojuoluwa5666
      @tunwaseajiwojuoluwa5666 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The man is quite responsible but the woman mere looking at her you will know where she incarnated from.

    • @westwilliamesekhaigbe4910
      @westwilliamesekhaigbe4910 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @maryjo2394
      @maryjo2394 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I disagree I know his type wicked to the core.

    • @patrickagori3537
      @patrickagori3537 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The woman is not wrong to ask him to assist in taking care of his children. How can you call yourself a responsible man and neglect responsibilities of your children for 3 years and ongoing. Nonsense

  • @kjoo3360
    @kjoo3360 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Everything about this woman is scary...signs of danger.
    Her facial expressions, her scary eyes and finally, worse off her earthquake, tremor, trembling voice...even if men were "born to suffer", this isn't worth it

    • @healthdivinediet
      @healthdivinediet ปีที่แล้ว

      I understood your point of view.. This man would have seen the bad character when he had a first child with her, he kept on managing her bad character, until the whole issue escalated.

    • @healthdivinediet
      @healthdivinediet ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why would a married woman be clubbing without the permission of his husband?...Infact there are lots of red flag in this married, but the man keep managing her, hoping she would change...Last Last Last the matter come cast...

    • @NnekaOmego-yu5ut
      @NnekaOmego-yu5ut 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @marynkechi5636
    @marynkechi5636 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel so bad for this man... Such a calm and gentle man. God please don't give my brothers this kind of woman... 😢😢😢

    • @abishagmusa8230
      @abishagmusa8230 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen. This kind of woman can turn the heart of the children against their father painting him as a bad man.

    • @PepTalkTillYouDrop
      @PepTalkTillYouDrop ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice guys finish last. I pity him, but I hope he gets a second chance to right his wrongs in life.

  • @chikaou7050
    @chikaou7050 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really feel for this man. They're being unfair to him. She made life difficult for him and he's paying for it.

  • @user-un9wg1yb8v
    @user-un9wg1yb8v ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Judge Funmi, I admire your firmness and calmness put together. Well done to you and your team.

  • @olaashade3588
    @olaashade3588 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    A big sorry for the man . I felt bad for him when he said “ his been caged “ the lady knows what she’s doing.

    • @african-history-fountain
      @african-history-fountain ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a narcissist.

    • @PepTalkTillYouDrop
      @PepTalkTillYouDrop ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why as men we need to be careful about who we fcuk. Think with your head not your pr..k.

    • @franccaroline4873
      @franccaroline4873 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who cage am?.
      He’s been having issues with the lady why not stop at baby number two. E don reach for money, he’s cage.

    • @sylvesternwanze6682
      @sylvesternwanze6682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro he is lucky because it’s in Nigeria court
      In abroad the judge will determine the child support according to your income.
      I am paying over four hundred thousand per month for a child.

    • @swiftoutcrygaming3297
      @swiftoutcrygaming3297 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sylvesternwanze6682 If the court feels you can afford it, there is no issue with that. At least he wouldn't be asked to pay what he cannot afford.

  • @aimajay7363
    @aimajay7363 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Such a gentle man.. the woman is something else so obvious she has moved on.

    • @chachadavid3794
      @chachadavid3794 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed she moved on, by main looking at her mood

    • @ladam653
      @ladam653 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah you are correct but the man should pay at least 20 k for their up keep. We know 20 k cant be enough for 3-4 kids a month so she will still contribute more thsn 20k too. He is gentle physically but heartless inside. 3 years no upkeep for your children?

  • @eloghosaaiyanyor9954
    @eloghosaaiyanyor9954 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Both parties are to blame.
    Eventhough the woman is problematic, for the man to be mute over the upkeep of their children for 3years, it doesn't tell well.
    Here, we learn to be in-depth and deliberate about the persons we chose as partners.

    • @forexlord2550
      @forexlord2550 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exactly. People are not seeing that,for three years? A man who have compassion will never do that.

    • @the_deola_fash
      @the_deola_fash ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you very much... The man is even being evasive about the upkeep right there in the court... He justs wants the custody and nothing else.

    • @diamondpearlify
      @diamondpearlify ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@forexlord2550 My dear pray oooo , there are something these man did not say.

    • @joykorshiwor699
      @joykorshiwor699 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@forexlord2550 don't forget it's through this same woman upkeep money will go to. That's why he want the children so he can take care of them himself

    • @StarInc7
      @StarInc7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some are used to seeing everything as 1 persons fault

  • @learniverx
    @learniverx ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Behold the most sensitive and intelligent judge I have seen. God bless you ma'am

  • @amarasspace
    @amarasspace ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I felt for this man, his been caged, and the woman has already planned things out, I pray he finds someone else that will make him help.

    • @forexlord2550
      @forexlord2550 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      How is he cage? We are talking about his kids ,they need to take care of them,she has been doing it alone for 3 year Aba

    • @adebisilizaxta8033
      @adebisilizaxta8033 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@forexlord2550 why didn't she continue then.

    • @ifunanyaesther967
      @ifunanyaesther967 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@adebisilizaxta8033 Seriously! the fact that you don't see anything wrong in a man not providing for his kids for 3yrs! shows you are an irresponsible person.

    • @adebisilizaxta8033
      @adebisilizaxta8033 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ifunanyaesther967 n since u re responsible idiot, go n marry her for ur family or perhaps start helping to pay.

    • @adebisilizaxta8033
      @adebisilizaxta8033 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@ifunanyaesther967 n since u can't use ur head to think, I felt u see urself in her, it's d reason u don't see anything wrong with her

  • @unrulysuspect
    @unrulysuspect ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Never judge until you hear from the other side, I remembered last when I was listening to this woman I felt like I had nothing until I hear from the man himself. And Boom, I don't know what this woman really want but I hope this man moves on. That's I can say

    • @stellalove6896
      @stellalove6896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Second judge

    • @therabbitv676
      @therabbitv676 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are very right

    • @YommyFermi
      @YommyFermi ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think the woman had size up the man and found him belittled. If the man earns something around 7figures a month, she will gladly find a way to get the lacuna within them fix up. This is a big lesson for the unmarried.

    • @afemaiconerafemaiqueen286
      @afemaiconerafemaiqueen286 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's troublesome and.not ready to be with a man ...

  • @Comfortzone-qz3yx
    @Comfortzone-qz3yx ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really feel for the man. He has gone through a lot

  • @davidsule5175
    @davidsule5175 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This man is a complete gentle man

  • @mercyabioye8200
    @mercyabioye8200 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We are here today again 😊....omo I feel pity for this man

  • @oltonrenwick9175
    @oltonrenwick9175 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Don't talk over me.... let this be the last time you talk over me.."😅💀

    • @adebayoolawale6396
      @adebayoolawale6396 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A testament that all that the man said about the woman is true.

  • @yvetteneng4753
    @yvetteneng4753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this man is a real man I really admire him.

  • @serenitypowers
    @serenitypowers ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She broke up with her first marriage, now second and she will be hoping for the third marriage, the circle will continue if she's not careful and might even affect her children when they grow up. She's looking for Love. Is there still Love in this social media era? She's dreaming of social media love and forgetting about her children at this stage. The man is very peaceful in nature. God help him to find someone who will build a good home with him.

    • @sammyscorpion2048
      @sammyscorpion2048 ปีที่แล้ว

      She isn't looking for love, she is looking for good time, fun and clubbing.

    • @prudentkudos1841
      @prudentkudos1841 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're reasoning in the same state with me, that lady has issues in her life, and I pity those children under her care, she's not even good for that kind of man. May God bless that kind hearted man.

  • @olawuyisegun1234
    @olawuyisegun1234 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wanted to be crying for this man, I hope he become more successful in life and that his children love him

  • @Advic77
    @Advic77 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For a man or woman to say they don't have an atom of love for you it means you haven't *"deposited any spousal benefits in your partners life"* so they wouldn't miss you when they leave you.

    • @woleakinyemi9452
      @woleakinyemi9452 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I refused to agree with you, the woman is an ungrateful woman, if a man pays for the roof over your head take care of your kids even adopted the previous one you had and pays for there school fees and you now tells me he had not deposit love. No now, that's ungreatfulness. You should have asked her about the whereabouts of the father of her first daughter. A woman that's lacking in character, for the guy to endure her up to 4kids the guy is just a peaceful and gentle man. If na me she don go tete after one kid. Shameful olosho woman

    • @Advic77
      @Advic77 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@woleakinyemi9452 we are saying the same thing. The woman hasn't made any positive contribution to the man's life for him to utter the statement " I don't have an atom of love for you". He is happy to split from her, I believe the reason why reconciliation was on the cards for him was because of the children.

  • @joejoe2365
    @joejoe2365 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    These are one of the reasons it's good to be together as one. A lot of issues always occur. And by splitting it also affect the children.

  • @gabrielasaolu9199
    @gabrielasaolu9199 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I really feel for this gentle man. Nevertheless, it's a good lesson for young men. She left her first marriage and you decided to marry her without doing your own finding. You learnt your lesson in a hard way

    • @redbunnyclassic
      @redbunnyclassic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well he is finding

    • @Rainq-games
      @Rainq-games ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Well said, i remember when i left my ex wife because i was tired of having disputes with her almost every week along with insults and then she relocate to swizz with my two daughters to meet a pastor who she ment on Facebook because we both use to live in Madrid. Then the pastor eventually got married to her and they had a daughter but unfortunately again the pastor had to divorce her after 3 to 4yrs and nw she's finally living as a single mum, so i would say it's very important for men and women to do their findings b4 going into marriage with a divorce person. Thanks be to God that i found the right woman after some yrs i divorced my ex - wife and we both have been together for the past 12yrs with two kids, a girl and a boy and i could tell that marriage is a joy and a blessing if you find the right partner.

    • @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430
      @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Rainq-games congratulations sir, what about your two daughters, hope you kept in touch with them. Hope you helped raise them so they don't grow up like their mother?

    • @kingsman8209
      @kingsman8209 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Men don't benefit from Divorce👪➡👨👩😭, this just the truth

    • @robertadeosun422
      @robertadeosun422 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@storieswithauntyogeswaog1430 sṣṣ
      Cb

  • @jjmkitchentv4397
    @jjmkitchentv4397 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aah this woman is something else. May God help us.

  • @tamaraituma608
    @tamaraituma608 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wait a minute,
    No one is talking about him not making effort to see his 4 children Since 4 years !
    He didn't try to make sure they are fine or not..
    Left the responsibilities for the lady alone .
    Kids are expensive to care for man!

  • @amosoiboh8806
    @amosoiboh8806 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    less than 15 to 20yrs from now, she will look back and say, i wish she can turn back the hands of time.

    • @emmacollins2164
      @emmacollins2164 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Something is pushing her to a wrong direction she enjoys for. Is but time is coming she would regret it.

  • @milissawilson-smith1768
    @milissawilson-smith1768 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just love this Judge. This is truly her calling.

    • @tescoatkinsongroupandco1065
      @tescoatkinsongroupandco1065 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a typical thing Nigeria women do , it’s not new , I have been there before that why I been single for 5yrs

  • @macgoldosawari435
    @macgoldosawari435 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This is not a wife material at all. She think the judgement will be in her favour when she brings the man to the court. It is a very big problem to a man when his wife starts having extra marital affairs outside their marriage. I can't even pray for my enemy to have this kind of a woman as a wife. Her eyes 👀 go clear when those guys out there don chop her finish. She is not remorse. No atom of respect at all. Yeye dey smell

    • @preciousidogah4852
      @preciousidogah4852 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank God she brought the case to court herself at least the man is free now.

    • @macgoldosawari435
      @macgoldosawari435 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@preciousidogah4852 yes oh. You are right.

    • @ebukaisrael5358
      @ebukaisrael5358 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Even the odour reach kano

    • @preciousidogah4852
      @preciousidogah4852 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ebukaisrael5358 comrade please take it easy

    • @soccerhighlightstudio
      @soccerhighlightstudio ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just imagine, she even refused to visit a counselor.
      Men be careful oooooo. Open your eyes very well before you marry ooo.

  • @onyinyechimodesta9535
    @onyinyechimodesta9535 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The woman is the one at loss, she will never see a man like this again.

    • @starcashintertech
      @starcashintertech ปีที่แล้ว

      For sure, that's how God works. God will give her what will make her regret the opportunity she had lost. Trust me, in 5 years time at most, she will be begging him.

    • @olagokeolayiwola8111
      @olagokeolayiwola8111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you

    • @herbirtmebonta9914
      @herbirtmebonta9914 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This man is very heartless

    • @olagokeolayiwola8111
      @olagokeolayiwola8111 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@herbirtmebonta9914 Did you just say the is heartless?

    • @herbirtmebonta9914
      @herbirtmebonta9914 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@olagokeolayiwola8111 very very wicked. Punishing those kids because of the hate he has for the ex wife?

  • @truecleaningqueen
    @truecleaningqueen ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Judge Funmi was really stressed on this case o. I commend her patience.

  • @mercy615
    @mercy615 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This woman is a good example of a bad woman I'm sorry to say! 😔 I'm also married to a salary earner, I can tell you it's not easy, she's not being considerate at all, she planned the whole thing and she must surely reap what she sowed

    • @johnadeoye3272
      @johnadeoye3272 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a wicked soul,she moved everything out the house.As for the man he is too gentle and calm that’s why the woman is using his weakness against him

    • @ehiehi4592
      @ehiehi4592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her type gets killed in the US after frustrating the man who brought them in and sponsored their nursing school till graduation and pick up a job,then boom the husband suddenly becomes lazy n useless

    • @jessicajoseph3976
      @jessicajoseph3976 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine wat of feeding? So wetin be her own to be following men for no reason

    • @jessicajoseph3976
      @jessicajoseph3976 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      C her shaking her head with no reason,

  • @bosedesho5623
    @bosedesho5623 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Counselling is important 6months before marriage.
    Every 18 year old and above should attend marriage and relationship counselling in their faith or local community even when they are not in a relationship
    Families should come together often several before and after any marriage. Communication is key

  • @bossbaekamsy
    @bossbaekamsy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The woman surely has seen someone else. This man has a very valid point and wants this to work but the woman God forbid.
    These are the things that lead people into depression or suicidal.
    I just pray this man gets over all this whole issue without been depressed.
    Divorce is a deadly game

    • @nwoluoluchi109
      @nwoluoluchi109 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That she decided to move on after all the things the man said made you say she hv seen someone else? God forbid that I move back to a man that said all he said....

    • @knix9014
      @knix9014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nwoluoluchi109 1 evil woman spotted ,guys avoid dz types like plaque ....selective hearing

    • @Avy999
      @Avy999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nwoluoluchi109 so you didn’t hear that she has been having affairs even while they were together to the extent of breaking one her lover’s’ marriage….

    • @bossbaekamsy
      @bossbaekamsy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nwoluoluchi109 Am not one to reason with my bottom. The man is ready for counselling,why isn’t she if she’s not still seeing the man she had an affair with? Didn’t you hear that she broke the mama marriage too? Please oh I wish you all you wish yourself

    • @jesusisthekoko7844
      @jesusisthekoko7844 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nwoluoluchi109 if there's no love, what would you be waiting for?

  • @nonnebeautiful7114
    @nonnebeautiful7114 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wickedness she used hot pepper on her maid, held a knife against her husband, fought her own sis pls pls where is social services, this woman shouldn't be with her children very angry person.

    • @dorothyndobu3943
      @dorothyndobu3943 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Does social service work in nija?

    • @ayindebolaji1980
      @ayindebolaji1980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly! She will transfer her attitude to the children

  • @forexlord2550
    @forexlord2550 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The man self nor try to leave the responsibility for that years for the woman,he nor wan even pay any money for the kids. The man self shuoo

    • @edialeprecious5348
      @edialeprecious5348 ปีที่แล้ว

      You no hear when he say he already paid 100k for them for their school before the woman withdraw them from that school, probably she was denying him access to the kids too that’s why he’s saying he wants them in his roof.

    • @patrickagori3537
      @patrickagori3537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are reasoning well. He doesn't want to pay anything, just wanted to leave all the responsibilities for the woman and enjoy himself. Don't be surprised he might have gotten another lady pregnant during this three years and that's where all his money is going to. Useless man

    • @EmilyGorgeous
      @EmilyGorgeous หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@patrickagori3537God forbid to your type of woman.

  • @abahsimonpeter4768
    @abahsimonpeter4768 ปีที่แล้ว

    The woman will suffer, she took advantage of her bad life. man continue ur good heart

  • @Advic77
    @Advic77 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unfortunately, divorce creates double expenses... when the man pays the bills year after year nobody hears anything.. but she pays for just 1 year (and no available change for frivolous spending) and there is commotion everywhere.

  • @pattinahukah3146
    @pattinahukah3146 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A very good and fair judgement 👌. Judge Funmi is amazingly great 👍 👏 . Kudos to her & her team👍.

  • @straightforward3330
    @straightforward3330 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The Lady has premeditated this marriage and relationship. you can see she has no real feelings. A narcissist female cannot stay in a marriage. They can plan to set you up phychologically so that you cant perform your fatherly duties. These people prey on empathetic men. At the end of the day they want people to see them as the victim.

    • @victoriaolaleye1689
      @victoriaolaleye1689 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello, if we could have a decent discussion...why do u say she's narcissistic?

    • @PepTalkTillYouDrop
      @PepTalkTillYouDrop ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victoriaolaleye1689 you don't know how to Google?

    • @Blessed56863
      @Blessed56863 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a perfect example of a narcissist..that is why she doesn't care and whoever is dating her should start running 😅

  • @dreo6769
    @dreo6769 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The woman started having kids at a very young age, she just want to spread her wings and explore life now that her children are grown.

  • @annabellasergey9482
    @annabellasergey9482 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She is toxic, my dear brother let her move on...just train your children till they come off age to cater for themselves...well done Judge Funmi❤️

    • @ennykad1
      @ennykad1 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you know?

  • @joykorshiwor699
    @joykorshiwor699 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This woman is cruel. May my brothers never meet such kind.

  • @ashiedumariam4925
    @ashiedumariam4925 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Such a gentle man. the Lady has moved on since 1960.

  • @fantasticmrfox7497
    @fantasticmrfox7497 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man needs to pay upkeep as he's not paying the children's accommodation. Let their mother go and hustle for a better life. Life goes on.

  • @olalekangbolagade5406
    @olalekangbolagade5406 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "A man that doesn't even have a single atom of love like this for me" If he's is the last man on earth I wouldn't want him....lessons learnt here.
    To all genlemen and ladies in Africa and beyond please make a proper findings before marrying a divorce person. And to the great woman honourable judge funmi Asaolu thanks ma for listening to both sides but da burden is just too too much on my gentleman please I urge the honourable court to reconsider this gentleman... thanks

  • @mosesbassey9431
    @mosesbassey9431 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This man has been through a lot . Why should this be happening to a gentle man like this ?

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Do you know this man, do you live with him. smh

    • @stellalove6896
      @stellalove6896 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nice question

    • @sekinatjoshua8740
      @sekinatjoshua8740 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hmmm don't judge a book by its cover......if she really did all he accused her of doing how come he is ready to still make the marriage work so easily without any argument...the woman might no be innocent of all his accusations but trust me the man isn't a saint either.

    • @alinayili2199
      @alinayili2199 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If a man don't benefit directly from a relationship, he LL never stay. Not to judge but it tells me something if he says he wants her back.
      To be fair, cos of our culture, some men quickly accuse women of adultery if they know they did her wrong. People will then refuse to listen to the woman.
      Something like that happened to my brother in law who accused the wife of adultery cos a fight ensued when his wife asked him to bring more money. Now the woman has left just cos of the accusations. He's even lost weight and asked me to beg only for me to have a can of worms opened to me. A person demeanor has nothing to do with his / her character .
      I then realized that some women's actions are actually a reaction to a bunch of things and we never do question how/ when situations started and progressed to the point that we find ourselves. That's sad.
      Grown ups can lie, growing up I thought otherwise

    • @aybiggy
      @aybiggy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sekinatjoshua8740 ,dont you know that women are not deep thinkers.If she is seeing the other guy like he claimed,her judgement would be clouded.What I c is that the lady is using his gentility against him

  • @ScorpioEnergy247
    @ScorpioEnergy247 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The judge should have back dated the child support and school fees. Since 2019 she has taken care of the kids with no assistance. What has he been doing with his salary????

    • @chibuzoranaba4965
      @chibuzoranaba4965 ปีที่แล้ว

      ... And considering if truly they are his paternal kids. I think the man needs to run a DNA on the kids.

    • @ScorpioEnergy247
      @ScorpioEnergy247 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chibuzoranaba4965 what are you talking about

    • @imao6928
      @imao6928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good point

    • @ladam653
      @ladam653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doing fine bobo na. Bad woman yeah but you too na bad father. 3 years no upkeep. So the men she's dating should fend for your children?

    • @posjaboateng5556
      @posjaboateng5556 ปีที่แล้ว

      For what he can barely afford the current school fees and feeding money you are here talking about backdating why create more problems

  • @tkcmanagementconsult608
    @tkcmanagementconsult608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That you judge Funmi.
    The man deserves the custody of his children and never have anything to do with such a lady again. Wicked world.

  • @makk-i.n.g.9312
    @makk-i.n.g.9312 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    African courts seem very different from American ones. They actually still respect the rights of men. In America a black man has no chance in court against a woman. If he just leaves with the the shirt on his back and his life he should consider himself lucky.

    • @imao6928
      @imao6928 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not true

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you agree that a man should be responsible and support his children?? African courts have no regards, no respect for women. Men are allowed to beat their wives , and treat them anyhow. Why some men in Africa don't want to support their children, the women didn't make the children on her own.

    • @nzejioforjohnpaul911
      @nzejioforjohnpaul911 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is a typical lie

    • @johnsonvictory8657
      @johnsonvictory8657 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is Nigeria American

    • @johnsonvictory8657
      @johnsonvictory8657 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very country have their law and way

  • @nosamudianatv24
    @nosamudianatv24 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The woman was already having an affair with another man before she moved out from the house, that's why she didn't want the marriage to work or go for marriage canceling

    • @Bouzieify
      @Bouzieify ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly my thought.

    • @julianaabundant
      @julianaabundant ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's true she didn't love this man again

    • @the_deola_fash
      @the_deola_fash ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's people like you that opened mouth to blame Osinachi for not leaving an abusive marriage... Now you're still wondering why a woman has decided to move on after her husband said he no longer has an atom of love for her... Hear what he said @14:20 under his breath, he's just pretending.

    • @samallyhvac3119
      @samallyhvac3119 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@the_deola_fash what do you mean ..
      saying is been caged?
      i always tell men that as never married before to go far away from baby/divorce woman... they're all bitter and sadist human
      they're full ot toxic human

    • @Mikyhandsome
      @Mikyhandsome ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@the_deola_fash between the man and that woman who is being toxic and evil? She took knife to kill the man because of his gentility.
      I wish that man to press further and even charge her for attempted murder if he can prove it in a regular court. That woman is evil, watching her expression says a lot about her.

  • @emilexemmanuel9021
    @emilexemmanuel9021 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    See why some men finds it hard to marry a single mom..... The woman has moved on before she left the house

  • @adebukolaadebisi8694
    @adebukolaadebisi8694 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He should have a DNA for those children

  • @chinonsochigozie7401
    @chinonsochigozie7401 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both of them should take care of the kids in every way ....this man is too gentle 😠😠.

  • @buikeofonedu2927
    @buikeofonedu2927 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Judge Fumi wished she could do more for the man but the law is the law. Marriage is not designed for Men.

  • @queenetchinenyenwa7862
    @queenetchinenyenwa7862 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    For me the woman is the issue, trying to paint the man as evil before the kids, deep down the man too he doesn't want the marriage anymore but wants his kids back home. He's such a gentle man

    • @lawrenceadeyemo8832
      @lawrenceadeyemo8832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I share same opinion sis

    • @nwoluoluchi109
      @nwoluoluchi109 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You see that man na slow poison OoooO

    • @knix9014
      @knix9014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nwoluoluchi109 do u know him personally ..how did u come 2 that conclusion or u just being toxic

    • @cco7174
      @cco7174 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They man get his problem...he doesn't want to pay anything lol .

    • @queenetchinenyenwa7862
      @queenetchinenyenwa7862 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nwoluoluchi109 well I think he's doing that cos he wants his children to come back home

  • @VictorIfo
    @VictorIfo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Marriage without deliverance is really not easy. The sister should seek deliverance, spiritual marriage is her challenge.

  • @adeosunoluwatobi5982
    @adeosunoluwatobi5982 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such a gentle man.

  • @abdulkadimosenye5050
    @abdulkadimosenye5050 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The judge must not be a Nigerian, she is too nice and professional, I like her

    • @imao6928
      @imao6928 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nigerians are nice and professional o

    • @ijeomagabriel5499
      @ijeomagabriel5499 ปีที่แล้ว

      They don't know we are the best in Africa brain, class and beauty

  • @pamilerindejoy
    @pamilerindejoy ปีที่แล้ว

    So some men are facing violence martial life from women.
    This platform is really thoughtfully and perfect..

  • @shamsideenkazeem269
    @shamsideenkazeem269 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I tot the lady will consider coming back and then live a better lives while individuals amend their ways

    • @DJSid-kl5zx
      @DJSid-kl5zx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Someone that belongs to the street

  • @sundaykigbu1876
    @sundaykigbu1876 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This woman is the definition of trouble, even the man get e own .

    • @toyinolobayo4302
      @toyinolobayo4302 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think the man probably married her out of pity as a single mum but I think the woman married him out of no option. I think they are not good for each other. I hope they both work on themselves to be kind humans. Sad

  • @amunidara7732
    @amunidara7732 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I’m led to tell the man to take those kids for DNA test before he starts paying any dime . May God be with him

  • @aputujohn9738
    @aputujohn9738 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you got married to a manipulator as time goes by you will begin to realize that you are being taken advantage of your genuine and sincere heart for this person it is this realization of self that usually bring about the conflict in this situation this man is a good man and still want the best for is family

  • @preshyfoods_ng
    @preshyfoods_ng ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This woman is toxic , she doesn’t deserve this man... There’s nothing outside her eyes will clear very soon

  • @tamaraituma608
    @tamaraituma608 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I think he is feeling caged because he doesn't want to take up his responsibilities .
    I'm not cool with that .

    • @ladam653
      @ladam653 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. The woman is bad but the man too no pure. 3 years not even a kobo for your children's upkeep? Taaa

    • @tamaraituma608
      @tamaraituma608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ladam653 yes you are right they are both not saint but take responsibility for the kids man!
      Marriage is not by force but don’t abandon her with the kids with out any form of support ..
      Things are expensive
      Children are even more expensive.

    • @edialeprecious5348
      @edialeprecious5348 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ladam653 the man has been doing it for years without complaining,he even took the burden of the child she had before,only 3years now she wants to die,even after the man has paid part of their school fees she decided to withdraw them from the school,packed out of the house with the kids and his properties,probably she was denying him access to kids too,just want him to be sending money.

    • @ogazichijioke3363
      @ogazichijioke3363 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you supporting the lady ?

    • @pattyx9050
      @pattyx9050 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May your son marry this kind of woman, say amen 😂

  • @aderibigbetoheeb6610
    @aderibigbetoheeb6610 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I feel pity for the man, he's been caged and captive😢

    • @aderibigbetoheeb6610
      @aderibigbetoheeb6610 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May God put him through

    • @taracarson9466
      @taracarson9466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Out of 112k he will save 40k for rent, 20k for his children and he’ll still pay school fees 360k. How is he going to eat and take care of himself. It’s women’s world!

    • @edoborgodwin4107
      @edoborgodwin4107 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@taracarson9466 but the woman has been paying the money for 3 years, what is wrong with you people? If a man can deny one child because his having misunderstanding with his wife means he is not a real man

    • @Jummy_Endowed
      @Jummy_Endowed ปีที่แล้ว

      For leaving children

    • @aderibigbetoheeb6610
      @aderibigbetoheeb6610 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jummy_Endowed woman will support woman

  • @rafiatmohammed8611
    @rafiatmohammed8611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are basically being caged because you don’t want to take financial responsibility of the children.

  • @shalomaaron7150
    @shalomaaron7150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman is something else and she looks so troublesome. I pray God help us in choosing the right partner 🙏

  • @victoriasuberu9688
    @victoriasuberu9688 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This woman doesn't want settlement, she just wants to be exploiting this man

  • @olagokeolayiwola8111
    @olagokeolayiwola8111 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This man was just unfortunate. I really pity him

  • @afemaiconerafemaiqueen286
    @afemaiconerafemaiqueen286 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just feel for this man 😢 may my Son and brothers not come across a woman like this 😢

  • @jayxandi
    @jayxandi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @14:19 you see the guy’s real character come out. He said “e no concern you” under his breath. If he can do that to a judge, na only am know wetin he don do the girl. I hope they both heal and get to a better place

    • @patrickagori3537
      @patrickagori3537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @kusman8917
      @kusman8917 ปีที่แล้ว

      He so Suffer so many abuses from her and he almost turn him to Monster. I blame this man for Settling down for this kind of woman at the First place

  • @unachukwunathaniel3014
    @unachukwunathaniel3014 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This man is truly been caged why so much responsibilities on him, after all he opted for reconciliation to make things easier for him and for his children and the woman said no, she too should take up some responsibilities for her Stubborn stands, the judgement is too hard and unfair on the man. Humming marriage from sweetie to Arc enemies, women's abusiveness and I'll responds, lack of fair considerations and understanding to Minor issues on their men are the roots of many broken marriages, the fact remains that there's no guarantee that the next relationship will be conflicts Free the circle continues O! Life

    • @ezennaisaac3538
      @ezennaisaac3538 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well detailed, the life of a man is so complicated, this is why I advocate for a man to marry a woman who loves and feels for him so dearly , this woman has a stony heart towards the man

  • @emmanueligwe8675
    @emmanueligwe8675 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't trust this woman with her crocodile's tears 😭

  • @adetounosunsanmi5680
    @adetounosunsanmi5680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This lady is very heartless, I really pity the man and judge Funmi didn't give fair judgment to the man

  • @henryosondu1290
    @henryosondu1290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭THIS MAN IS SO UNFORTUNATE TO MEET THIS KIND OF WOMAN,GOD PLS HELP THIS MAN.😭😭😭😭THIS WOMAN IS NOT A GOOD PERSON.

  • @herbirtmebonta9914
    @herbirtmebonta9914 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mr man take care of your children

  • @tahirurafiu8750
    @tahirurafiu8750 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lesson to all young guys out there

  • @abimbolaadegoke-adebajo6318
    @abimbolaadegoke-adebajo6318 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since the woman wanted divorce so badly, she should be ready to shoulder some responsibilities.

  • @mankindgenerousity7075
    @mankindgenerousity7075 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel for this guy..am a woman an from the depth of my heart he doesn't deserve all this..gosh!!

  • @emmauchenna7730
    @emmauchenna7730 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It is a heartless thing to do, to punish your innocent kids because of your partner no matter what, my wife left me earlier this year with our 3 kids, for about one month no communication but I know where they were, when we resumed our communication I put everything behind and think about the children, I sent monthly upkeep pay their school fees, the demand was becoming too much I gave her one million naira to start up something so she can be having her own money too, I buy clothes shoes and sent to her for the kids, and every two weeks I will make sure they have pizza ice cream ect, this December I added 20% of what are used to send to them on monthly basis to celebrate the festive period without her asking for it, she has been begging to come back and I told her it's over between us, she knows that I'm a man of my word, but that will not stop me from playing my fatherly role I make sure that my children are very ok, parents should stop trying to get to each other by making their innocent children to suffer,

    • @faithful1923
      @faithful1923 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you sir 🙏

    • @Mummyhood833
      @Mummyhood833 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a real man

    • @adeluhaneefah3143
      @adeluhaneefah3143 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you

    • @n.yblack
      @n.yblack ปีที่แล้ว

      Most kids suffer due to the carelessness of their mum,most especially when e man is a struggling man,most important thing in a relationship good or bad is when there is good communication and that’s what really helped you

    • @jesusbrideindeed1657
      @jesusbrideindeed1657 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop telling lies

  • @opocoyo
    @opocoyo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    😂😂 @14:20 judge asked how much he will be giving for his children’s upkeep, and under his breath, he says “e no concern you” so rude! since 2019…you’re in court, so you have to be ready so answer the judge’s questions.

    • @ladam653
      @ladam653 ปีที่แล้ว

      The man too has issues but as usual nigerian being a patriarchal society even some women only see the woman's fault and none from the man.

    • @patrickagori3537
      @patrickagori3537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true. I just listened to it. This man is wicked. Abeg the woman should not go back

    • @opocoyo
      @opocoyo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Patrick Agori it’s so interesting how everyone in the comments seems to see him as a responsible and calm gentleman all because of his demeanour. Someone being quiet in public doesn’t make them a saint.

    • @patrickagori3537
      @patrickagori3537 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@opocoyo so true 👍

    • @dumebitemple4029
      @dumebitemple4029 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are smart

  • @kupokupo430
    @kupokupo430 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr. Emma is a very kind hearted man I can see it clearly. God help us from marrying a bad woman

    • @samuelkika6611
      @samuelkika6611 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen o! This marriage of a thing is becoming scary!