That is fine by me I gave up approaching black women many years ago too much negativity for me. I'm not even a criminal or bad breed type of person but even if you got a good spirit you still get treated like garbage by these women I seen plenty of women over the last 24 years disrespect men who are good
Great points from a women with discernment. I had to accept that even if I approached with good intentions that I may still be rejected. The movie "The Forge" shows two different approaches to the same woman, and how your spirit can make a huge difference. Love the channel and your honesty about your experiences.
I seen it happen over and over and why ? For what purpose? Men are very sensitive to that harshness and eventually get fed up with it and now don't want to deal with women that are like that.
Jasmine, I totally understand where you are coming from and I must say I didn't look at it the way you explained it, and what you said is justified., but my experience is a little less simplified than what you explained. When I'm out I only speak to black women by saying hello, nothing more, I at least expect a hello back but what I usually get is silence or mean mugging. I get it, a woman should be concerned about her safety and truth be known there are a lot of guys out there with bad intentions but I'm only trying to speak to my black sisters and if she doesn't return my salutation I just keep walking and I don't get violent because she doesn't speak, because I have accepted the fact that most black women think we are trying to come on to them, so I just move on and only speak to the ones that appear to be friendly to my greetings. Thank you for the insight, this has allowed my perspective to be widen and has made me wiser. Great video❤
@reginaldgreen9753 Hi Reginald 🙂. I completely understand. Unfortunately, men will encounter this. Many times, people are going through things in their personal life, and it's showing on their face and body language. I think we have to pray for them and ignore them when we can. I have had Black men roll their eyes at me in public places as well. And I do not know them! Try to think about the positive experiences that you have had, even if it has only been a few🙂. Thank you for sharing with me! God bless you ❤🙏🏽
Also, Reginald, I'm praying for you guys on this channel. I know this world is tough out here. So many people are hurting... Some people just want to say hello or have someone greet them with a smile. I completely understand.
@jparker19822009 Hi! Yes, I definitely think people just want to say hello and want others to be polite to them. I totally understand, and this is different.
Most people can't Comprehend Discernment always protect yourself & energy. If your Spirit picks things up stick with your gifts. You're making great videos 👍
Speaking of discernment, men with the right intent typically won't approach random women outside their own network. Just like you don't know who this spirit is approaching you, men don't know the woman they're approaching and what spirit she's of. If my intent is to find someone family-oriented who I can start a family with, I'm not about try to find that in some random woman in the street. If my intentions were impure, then any random woman I have some level of sexual attraction for will do.
Just the couple of minutes! Just explaining yourself. And who you are and who's you are. Just listening. It would be refreshing just to talk. To someone like you. I would never get tired of talking with you. God, Business, Life, Outings, etc. I would feel comfortable around you. I would be drawn to how you carry yourself! You sound very smart and intelligent. Take care!
You previously posted a videos entitled “Why do black women reject men harshly” “Are black women unapproachable ? Many Black women exhibit similar behavior, whether right or wrong, as a collective. From a behavioral science and psychological perspective, the outcome aligns with the following title of your last video. ‘Why are black man not approaching “women?
I share your same perspective, I don't approach a woman unless I feel her spirit, If her spirit is off I just keep going about my business, I understand most women are approached many times a day and I know it must be tiring.
Discernment if you have it...will save your life. It's worth the loneliness....it's worth being single by choice. The women who are killed by lovers and husband's is unreal. Had they had Discernment early.
O.k, but how do you explain the harsh rejection, where there are plenty of people around, like nightclubs, festivals, or even singles events? Some women respond to the aggressive approach, or if he's attractive.
@philipbell5448 The women that I have known to like men being aggressive in their approach are usually: fatherless/grew up with a single mom or having a bad relationship with their father. Grew up in foster care or an unfortunate living situation in her youth. And ect. There is always more to the story. But a woman who knows her value does not want that type of approach, even if he's attractive.
@@jasminedeshawna9272 Ms.Jasmine, A big red flag for me. Is a woman who appears to need Multiple Men/ Women To validate her. And like you said in previous videos. I have learned to let God be my Validator and Vindicator. I have been in a crowd . I have learned to be whole and content being by myself! I have Friends and Family. I just don't sweat myself or anybody. That's my balance. Leaning into God when things are challenging! Having serious talks with God. Lord do you really care? You know my situation. Talk to me anytime and anywhere! I'm not that busy. I can't stop and listen to you! That's the way I live. My hand is open. GOD puts into it want he wants me to have. The opposite is also true!
Some women smile as a survival mechanism because she understands if she reacts/asserts herself, she may be put in further danger, especially she's by herself. Please keep that in mind.
Jasmine the positive examples you gave from DMV were a) - You approaching the men and asking for help directions etc b) - Were totally platonic (non sexual) examples/interactions Compared to the negative examples you gave from Florida where the men approached you presumably to get your number get a date etc please compare like with like the two types of interactions are not the same Could it be that your true desire (even subconsciously) is to remove the sexual component out of male female interactions?
@Martin-bj8eq Hello, I like this statement. To me, the energy and look of some of the Black men in Florida could possibly make a woman hesitate to approach with a question or directions. I first observe the man before I approach and ask a question or ask for help. I compared the two because most of the time, I am too nervous to approach a Black man for help in Florida. I hope you understand 🙂
That is fine by me I gave up approaching black women many years ago too much negativity for me. I'm not even a criminal or bad breed type of person but even if you got a good spirit you still get treated like garbage by these women I seen plenty of women over the last 24 years disrespect men who are good
@@Blackisciple And there will be Karma
Keep it simple fellas......just leave black women alone........
Great points from a women with discernment. I had to accept that even if I approached with good intentions that I may still be rejected. The movie "The Forge" shows two different approaches to the same woman, and how your spirit can make a huge difference. Love the channel and your honesty about your experiences.
I’m a guy and definitely understand what you are saying. Some guys don’t have grace. Back in the day Men had more grace naturally!
Wome judge us men all the time,but we cant judge them!
I seen it happen over and over and why ? For what purpose? Men are very sensitive to that harshness and eventually get fed up with it and now don't want to deal with women that are like that.
HAPPY NEW YEAR from houston texas, & i feel you miss jasmine. thanks for the advice.
@@jerryscool2008 Happy New Year 🙂
They have Jezebelle Spirit and It’s not just women and It affects the men as well
It's more notorious in women not all men are able to get women
I leave Black Women alone when I'm walking in the streets.
just subscribed and thank you
Jasmine, I totally understand where you are coming from and I must say I didn't look at it the way you explained it, and what you said is justified., but my experience is a little less simplified than what you explained. When I'm out I only speak to black women by saying hello, nothing more, I at least expect a hello back but what I usually get is silence or mean mugging. I get it, a woman should be concerned about her safety and truth be known there are a lot of guys out there with bad intentions but I'm only trying to speak to my black sisters and if she doesn't return my salutation I just keep walking and I don't get violent because she doesn't speak, because I have accepted the fact that most black women think we are trying to come on to them, so I just move on and only speak to the ones that appear to be friendly to my greetings. Thank you for the insight, this has allowed my perspective to be widen and has made me wiser. Great video❤
@reginaldgreen9753 Hi Reginald 🙂. I completely understand. Unfortunately, men will encounter this. Many times, people are going through things in their personal life, and it's showing on their face and body language. I think we have to pray for them and ignore them when we can. I have had Black men roll their eyes at me in public places as well. And I do not know them! Try to think about the positive experiences that you have had, even if it has only been a few🙂. Thank you for sharing with me! God bless you ❤🙏🏽
Also, Reginald, I'm praying for you guys on this channel. I know this world is tough out here. So many people are hurting... Some people just want to say hello or have someone greet them with a smile. I completely understand.
@@jasminedeshawna9272You’re right about approaching every man yes but test the spirit sometimes people just want a hello
@jparker19822009 Hi! Yes, I definitely think people just want to say hello and want others to be polite to them. I totally understand, and this is different.
Most people can't Comprehend Discernment always protect yourself & energy. If your Spirit picks things up stick with your gifts. You're making great videos 👍
They don’t do this to all men..
its true , especially guys who they find sexually attractive, they will never be rude to those men
@@iloveyou281000 They aren't rude to white men
@@bigreggie396 maybe
Well lets see how this thing work out for the men and the women in the next 20 years
Speaking of discernment, men with the right intent typically won't approach random women outside their own network. Just like you don't know who this spirit is approaching you, men don't know the woman they're approaching and what spirit she's of. If my intent is to find someone family-oriented who I can start a family with, I'm not about try to find that in some random woman in the street. If my intentions were impure, then any random woman I have some level of sexual attraction for will do.
@@eLion27 Hello🙂, that's a great perspective. Thank you for sharing.
Just the couple of minutes! Just explaining yourself. And who you are and who's you are. Just listening. It would be refreshing just to talk. To someone like you. I would never get tired of talking with you. God, Business, Life, Outings, etc. I would feel comfortable around you. I would be drawn to how you carry yourself! You sound very smart and intelligent. Take care!
You previously posted a videos entitled
“Why do black women reject men harshly”
“Are black women unapproachable ?
Many Black women exhibit similar behavior, whether right or wrong, as a collective. From a behavioral science and psychological perspective, the outcome aligns with the following title of your last video.
‘Why are black man not approaching “women?
I share your same perspective, I don't approach a woman unless I feel her spirit, If her spirit is off I just keep going about my business, I understand most women are approached many times a day and I know it must be tiring.
Discernment if you have it...will save your life. It's worth the loneliness....it's worth being single by choice. The women who are killed by lovers and husband's is unreal. Had they had Discernment early.
Your spirit is different than the rest but your answer is correct. It’s spiritual
Yes
O.k, but how do you explain the harsh rejection, where there are plenty of people around, like nightclubs, festivals, or even singles events? Some women respond to the aggressive approach, or if he's attractive.
@philipbell5448 Hi, I did... Listen carefully to the video.
@philipbell5448 The women that I have known to like men being aggressive in their approach are usually: fatherless/grew up with a single mom or having a bad relationship with their father. Grew up in foster care or an unfortunate living situation in her youth. And ect. There is always more to the story. But a woman who knows her value does not want that type of approach, even if he's attractive.
@@jasminedeshawna9272 Ms.Jasmine, A big red flag for me. Is a woman who appears to need Multiple Men/ Women To validate her. And like you said in previous videos. I have learned to let God be my Validator and Vindicator. I have been in a crowd . I have learned to be whole and content being by myself! I have Friends and Family. I just don't sweat myself or anybody. That's my balance. Leaning into God when things are challenging! Having serious talks with God. Lord do you really care? You know my situation. Talk to me anytime and anywhere! I'm not that busy. I can't stop and listen to you! That's the way I live. My hand is open. GOD puts into it want he wants me to have. The opposite is also true!
Some women smile as a survival mechanism because she understands if she reacts/asserts herself, she may be put in further danger, especially she's by herself. Please keep that in mind.
not all black men are predators
Jasmine the positive examples you gave from DMV were
a) - You approaching the men and asking for help directions etc
b) - Were totally platonic (non sexual) examples/interactions
Compared to the negative examples you gave from Florida where the men approached you presumably to get your number get a date etc please compare like with like the two types of interactions are not the same
Could it be that your true desire (even subconsciously) is to remove the sexual component out of male female interactions?
@Martin-bj8eq Hello, I like this statement. To me, the energy and look of some of the Black men in Florida could possibly make a woman hesitate to approach with a question or directions. I first observe the man before I approach and ask a question or ask for help. I compared the two because most of the time, I am too nervous to approach a Black man for help in Florida. I hope you understand 🙂
This is a beautiful intelligent woman your voices is soothing and calm😁
❤