Jasmine, I like you and what you're saying is true. I'm a guy and just about everything you said is true. Baggage is like having an anchor on your back. You can't go for it until you pulled that anchor up.😊
The dating scene is terrible because most people go into relationships with unrealistic expectations and when reality sets in they are hurt. Jasmine you are correct because I have met many women who didn't release the trauma and hurt from past relationships ships and they bring those feelings into a new relationship and expect it to be a great experience and then can't figure out why things don't work out, it's obvious you haven't been healed.
Date with the intention to marry. You know within 6 months if marriage is in the future, if not, MOVE ON. Also, “Dating” is not intended for people 35+…and I’m being generous.
DATING TO MARRIED RULES Date rules, dont talk, want, hope too much. Join quality time Relationship rules, dont talk, want, hope too much. Join quality time Married rules, dont talk, want, hope too much. Join quality time
Sistah dating is for 18 to 25 year Olds primarily The older you get the worst it becomes women have trouble with this it's supposed to be like that there's a time frame involved to get it right
Our culture is what shapes the ppl to behave and act the way it is. That's why I say it's bigger than us. Just like racism is bigger than us. It will never change
They bring in baggage from another relationship that they had Probably not a good one and he trying to push it off. I'm the new person. Which can be mean-spirited? Which causes people to walk away.
18-25 is what a man wants to marry. He may be anywhere from 20-30. When a woman hit that mid to late 20 year old mark men see her as driven by other priorities something other than marriage and raising a family. If you're 30 you gotta understand most men your age got a wife and children, or maybe an ex wife. By then a man's view about women change tremendously. Hes not that eager to take a woman too serious. Especially one in her 30s looking to settle down. That's not the best option for him at all.
Im not missing anything...😅😅😅 ppl don't thing there s anything wrong with them.. .including my son and his girlfriend...im older, wiser..i am too nice, i show my heart way to soon...😢
Really traditionally a man married a young lady a year or two after high school. They had a family and raised children. Now that women don't consider marriage till their late 20s. But by then all of the progressive men in the community have been married at least once. And now you're almost 30 and a lot of those men that was available then aren't available anymore or have been married. If they're divorced they most likely will never take another woman seriously. If you aren't focused on starting a family from the age of 18-25 why would a man in his right mind make a woman his wife.
Whew!!!!!! This right here💯💯💯💯Ask God to show you YOU! Talk about a wake up call! Unforgiveness is definitely a big one too!
🕎💕👸🏽🌹 Ecclesiasticus 26:23
“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.”
Jasmine, I like you and what you're saying is true.
I'm a guy and just about everything you said is true.
Baggage is like having an anchor on your back. You can't go for it until you pulled that anchor up.😊
We can never fix this issue. Its much bigger than humans can fix
The dating scene is terrible because most people go into relationships with unrealistic expectations and when reality sets in they are hurt. Jasmine you are correct because I have met many women who didn't release the trauma and hurt from past relationships ships and they bring those feelings into a new relationship and expect it to be a great experience and then can't figure out why things don't work out, it's obvious you haven't been healed.
Date with the intention to marry. You know within 6 months if marriage is in the future, if not, MOVE ON. Also, “Dating” is not intended for people 35+…and I’m being generous.
That’s the problem, people need to fix their internal and external issues, but it’s true dating in America is doomed.
You're so right I agree with everything you said 💯💝
DATING TO MARRIED RULES
Date rules, dont talk, want, hope too much. Join quality time
Relationship rules, dont talk, want, hope too much. Join quality time
Married rules, dont talk, want, hope too much. Join quality time
Sistah dating is for 18 to 25 year Olds primarily
The older you get the worst it becomes women have trouble with this it's supposed to be like that there's a time frame involved to get it right
Our culture is what shapes the ppl to behave and act the way it is. That's why I say it's bigger than us. Just like racism is bigger than us. It will never change
I'm fixed I'm not the problem. Now if we can just fix 100 million more ppl.
They bring in baggage from another relationship that they had
Probably not a good one and he trying to push it off. I'm the new person. Which can be mean-spirited?
Which causes people to walk away.
18-25 is what a man wants to marry. He may be anywhere from 20-30.
When a woman hit that mid to late 20 year old mark men see her as driven by other priorities something other than marriage and raising a family. If you're 30 you gotta understand most men your age got a wife and children, or maybe an ex wife.
By then a man's view about women change tremendously. Hes not that eager to take a woman too serious.
Especially one in her 30s looking to settle down. That's not the best option for him at all.
Im not missing anything...😅😅😅 ppl don't thing there s anything wrong with them.. .including my son and his girlfriend...im older, wiser..i am too nice, i show my heart way to soon...😢
Dating is the way it is because we live in a toxic culture in america
What she is saying is that “we” make up that toxicity. We can fix it. Start by working on yourself and setting the example.
Really traditionally a man married a young lady a year or two after high school. They had a family and raised children. Now that women don't consider marriage till their late 20s. But by then all of the progressive men in the community have been married at least once. And now you're almost 30 and a lot of those men that was available then aren't available anymore or have been married. If they're divorced they most likely will never take another woman seriously. If you aren't focused on starting a family from the age of 18-25 why would a man in his right mind make a woman his wife.