As I'm single, no lady is seeing me. If I eventually get married and any lady decides im ideal for snatching, na 2 by 2 you go collect. There's no reason to cheat in marriage, that's why it's very important to take your time before taking that decision
The guy is making the most sense but nobody wants to listen..at the end the day, it all comes down to the individual and the values they hold as a person💯👏🏽
This woman is not letting her guests talk.Shes intruding improperly and trying to force her opinions on the guests.If she knew it all why didn't she do the program all by herself and talk to us?You bring guests but won't let them talk...oversabi
As much as I don't like the image of Blessing CEO and her anticedents (where she claimed someone's property etc) she made a good point about the permissiveness in our very patriarchal society. Arise TV your platform is well respected especially in the diaspora pls ensure you bring women younger ones can really look up too. Best wishes
With Enahoro in your life you can't be emotionally foolish. Lol. Enahoro is a globally certified Emotional Intelligence and Life Coach. He is the owner of Pause Factory. He is so sound and impactful.
It takes budget to cheat. Them no dey sing for side chick. Poems and love letters are not the currencies for cheating. A man cheats because he can. When you have enough money to sponsor your bad attitude as an undisciplined man, you have to cheat. The best gift you can ever give your spouse is the gift of fidelity. When your spouse knows for sure that he/she has nothing to worry about. And there are people practicing this. I'm one of them.
This blessing is the type of person i don't want to know personally. I don't think this is the kind of person to be brought on a show on a whole arise Tv. God bless mr. Enahoro.
About men leaving: when a marriage has gone on long enough between a couple to have produced children, the couple is expected to come to a place of maturity where they understand that the purpose of life is not happiness, it is responsibility. That is what fulfills you in the long run. Running away with another woman will not take away the suffering that is endemic with life from your story; everybody suffers - rich, poor or whatever. Be careful the messages you listen to.
I walked away after 20 years, we moved to Europe 18 years ago, she is been accusing me of cheating ever since with no proof only because she saw me with a girl 25 years ago when we were dating, I was about 20 yrs old then...
@@tonypeters664 Sorry to hear it, you're a man bro. Your long-term marital relationship broke down sadly under the burden of an unrelenting deluge of unresolved issues. Very different from the angle the post was addressing.
... you couldn't have said it better. If one expects too much in life including marriage, one will get disappointed. So, assume your responsibility and carry on.
So the busy-ness of the woman and her unavailability can make the man drift? How about the man helps the woman with the domestic busy-ness and free her to spend time with him? Side chick is not domestically busy because of the straying husband’s provisions, not so? So why not make the provisions to free wify from the domestic burden?
I feel nauseated listening to this woman called Blessing CEO... I feel sorry for those who goes to her for counselling, cos she doesn't even understand herself, she lacks integrity as a lady, and she's obviously misleading many females. An opportunity on an international TV as Arise, should have been used wisely to mould the fast decaying morals in our society, but no, she was too concerned with selfish ambitions,and rather glorifying the impunity and societal decay.
I think you missed her point. She was talking about reality. Not what is right or wrong. If she says for instance that activities of side chics can be a reason to help a man cope with the mess in his marriage she could be right. Not that it’s the right thing for side s to cushion men in martial but it’s reality.
A woman who has no issue with her husband cheating or gives him the go-ahead to cheat, then she has a low self-esteem. She's settling for less or anything. It's a bad "coping mechanism". If the man is indiscipline and cannot control himself, then she should offer him a note of divorce. Simple! The wife will be exposing herself to diseases and emotional & psychological trauma
When people refuse to retain God in their thinking, He gave them to a debase man to do things that are not fitting. Hear this Blessing lady speaking from a debase mind.
Let’s not allow our young girls and woman to take this so called social media influencers. As an African lady I have grown to admire Nigerian woman for years for upholding their values , but have recently beginning to change my mind cos of people like Blessings
There is nothing like husband snatching, the man just decides to walk to where he wants to go leaving the woman to patronise him and blame their fellow women as usual. Men have learnt since the beginning of time how to manipulate women to shield their irresponsibility. That's the way I see it., am old over 60yrs. So I know.
Exactly. A cheating man knows wat he is doing 100% Cheating is a personal choice and not all about d woman’s fault. They Jst hav a way of blamin d woman that she has changed,not sexy blablabla. If u hav a problem in ur marriage fix it and spice it up,make ur own efforts before stepin outside to mess around
Indeed.. it is actually very childish to blame someone else for your own misbehaviour. If you are tired end the marriage and marry another one if you cannot or refuse to work on whatever problem you think is making you cheat. Bottomline a cheat is a very indisciplined and selfish person who wants to eat their cake and have it without any respect or loyalty to the spouse.
I disagree with the mentality that all Nigerian men are naturally not faithful and has a child chick... I have never cheated on my wife and will never will. I am tempted outside by beautiful women but i just tried to control myself. I also think upbringing counts alot here. A good Christian Home raised man will fear God and not cheat on his wife.
This is sincere truthful marriage counselor . The lady has nothing to offer young ladies please stay away from this lady if you want to build a good and happy marriage
Great insights from the panel today. Really enjoyed the balance of views from Enahoro and Blessing CEO. Excellent Job Ms Osime. Your Programme Perspectives is always on point. 👏👏👏👏👏
The intrusion of the interviewer to the guests is quite too much and it's annoying to some audience including me.. If you know it all, why bring them on air? 🙄
There is a lot of work a man and women do “work” in marriage. God bless this man. This lady (the guest) made some little sense…then sometimes talks WONDERS!
It is a big shame how a young girl or grown up lady will put herself down for a man who has a wife. I don’t care who they are how much they have I have a big respect for myself
And some people goes to this girl for marriage counseling smh! It's so nauseating hearing them normalising infidelity and providing excuses for men. I am a man myself in a
GOD bless you Sir. You always hit the right point. You can be in the midst of people that drink and not drink. Let's leave all this home video and face reality.
@kateodumu6640 true as well. But in the case where they drift apart, there's probably a stronger pool to come back together than infidelity. If they still love each other. You know what I just don't know i'm single myself I don't know. Married people should stop playing.
I don't think that the woman Blessing CEO has made the best decision. She couldn't manage her marriage but stand out to advice those in marriage. And I would also want her where did she get marriage consulting education
Firstly, side chic refers to a younger girl or short term fling (university babes fall into this category), while mistresses refer to older more matured girls (working class or career focused ) with long-term goals hence the men spend more on them like buying houses, cars , paying their rent bills etc than the side chic who has less needs because she's still in school. Secondly, sex and love are not the same. Men can have sex with women they don't love, men can even have sex with a woman over a bet with his boys. Also men are polygynous by nature while women are monogamous in nature, ofcourse there are exceptions. From the age of puberty, boys wake up with an erection every morning and this will continue into teen hood until he starts experiencing sex which is not the same for the girls. Young men between the age of 17 - 33 years think of sex every 5 - 10 mins unlike women. A man craving for more than one wife is not a sin in the bible or quran because prophets had multiple wives and these same prophets are more holier and guided than us. What is a sin is fornication and adultery and NOT Polygyny. Thirdly, according to Islam, polygyny was instructed in Islam in the Quran not to increase promiscuity but rather to decrease it and decrease the cravings for women by men by limiting it to 4 wives only. Thirdly, it is only broke men that believe in monogamy, because they cannot attract beautiful women, But the moment these broke men become high-value men like davido, tate, wizkid, etc they become active in keeping side chics , baby mamas and mistresses. That's why you see men that after 20 years of marriage they start cheating or start keeping side chics because they now have money and can attract beautiful young girls Finally, it is only the fear of God that can make a man not cheat and not because of any love for his wife. This is the same reason i love muslim men that practice polygyny because they fear Allah and decide to marry a second wife rather than commit fornication
JUST EXPLAIN TO YOUR INITIAL WIFE THAT YOU ARE A POLYGAMIST, FROM THE IST DAY.. That way, you all will lay the foundation for the marriage on that...Meaning, make no sacrifices because you are in a public institution!!!
What have you just said in total? You sound confused yourself. Read your epistle again. And listen to yourself. May the young grow to have the right role models with clear perspectives
I nees such a man who will rather get a second wife than cheats. Unfortunately most of us Africans thought Nigerian man a better well not anymore cos here in the uk it’s the other way round
The worst thing that will happen to a man or even a woman is to be in a marriage he or she is not happy with. The foundation of marriage should be true Love & Happiness. Blessing says a lot of truth just that a lot of pple don’t like her truth.
Interesting presentaion. I guess the present had similar challenge in her marriage hence asking, talking too much and interrupting the guests so as to learn.
People like Blessing CEO has nothing beneficial to teach any one in marriage about marriage. She was married before and failed the marriage test. You can listen to her but don't take her words for it. She was here saying if her husband has a side chick or cheats, she will leave the marriage. You don't leave Blessing, you stay and fix the problem.
Just because someone’s marriage failed doesn’t mean they have nothing to teach. Abi peson no dey learn from failures? No be only success dey teach lessons.
@@ABCD1234-user-x3v What did she tell you she learnt from her failed marriage? I have problems with people who quit marriage for flimsy reasons. Except where there is physical violence that can threaten life, leaving marriage is never a good option. Stay and deal with it. Ladies, grow up, stay and finish your marriage contract. You don't marry for fun, good times and happiness. You marry for legacy and procreation.
@@akidiado1039 “People like blessing have nothing to teach. She was married and failed”. But You are right, people like Blessing that failed never have anything to teach, even if it’s why they failed, or things to avoid so we don’t fail like they did.
For me, women are to be blamed in Nigeria because many women depend on men . parents should educate their children so they can have their own money 💰 and if she is no more comfortable with marriage, she can ask for divorce.
Marriage is hard work! Discipline is the greatest gifts to yourself and let talking be your pleasure in all relationships (parenting, friendships, dating and marriage, divorce and co-parenting).
Mgbeke blessing chewing gum and rolling around in her chair. Couldn’t even comport herself!! If the man leaves his wife to be with the side chick the side chick will become boring too
😂😂 is because the man is married and she is not . Let’s stop being hypocritical, blessing dey craze but she makes some points right too, the one she says most people marry for wrong reasons .
This man is wow! He is correct, all lies on the individual man. Its not about friends that cheats or smoke, or drinks but how do the man values himself. That's makes him a responsible or irresponsible man.
How we have gotten to this point where high level immortality is now becoming normal in Nigeria is a wonder. Let us all remember today, that the seeds sown will provide its harvest tomorrow.
Blessing is not a blessing to this conversation with her chewing gum and her inappropriate dressing. She is equally a side chick, so how can such a person be a counselor? Arise news, choose your speakers with wisdom!!
Please i hope Governor Sanwolu is watching this program? This is not politics ooooo, he has a child outside. In fact, his first child is outside there in Warri. He'd better go pick his child. Period!
I believe blessing on this one that most people marry for wrong reasons . Either u marry a woman cos she is from same social status etc . Then when u marry u start fighting to build and keep the love . Next time bring a married woman cos most people dislike blessing.
You can’t compare an Orange and a cucumber.,, A man that claims happiness with a Sidechick should keep that happiness at bay until you make that Sidechick a Wife . It’s never the same !!!!!!! Period
Blessing have done really well. She is honest and speaking the truth. Whoever is condemning her, is just jealous and envious. Infidelity is & has been existing from time immemorial. When did we turn to Oyinbo sef? My father married 10, most of you condemning Blessing here, their wife or husband or father are all cheating unknowingly to the other party. Someone even called her Ashewo, that is abusive and totally disrespectful. Especially, someone you don't even know personally. Love alone cannot make marriage work.
God 🙏 instituted marriage so that man would have companion. According to the standard of God 🙏, a woman must be submissive to the husband and a man must love the wife for marriage to work. So whenever any of this virtue is lacking either from the man or woman, the relationship starts shaking. A woman should not accept a man she doesn't have respect for and a man shouldn't go for a woman he doesn't love. Husband snatching is a wicked act. I believe strongly that no responsible lady would want to snatch another woman's husband.
But you are too interruptive, Moderator. Pls allow them air their views as your guests. And suppress your biases to allow them ventilate their opinions/views.
Ive been married for 24 yrs i know my husband strengths and weaknesses. My advice be independent as a woman your marriage can last longer
Kudos to the man, he kept the flame of sanity in this pit.
As I'm single, no lady is seeing me. If I eventually get married and any lady decides im ideal for snatching, na 2 by 2 you go collect. There's no reason to cheat in marriage, that's why it's very important to take your time before taking that decision
Exactly what blessing is saying, most people marry for wrong reasons . When they now marry , they struggle for love especially the women .
Fantasy, it's only God that can help you
The guy is making the most sense but nobody wants to listen..at the end the day, it all comes down to the individual and the values they hold as a person💯👏🏽
I agree. Enahoro is reasonable and thinking critically.
He's not being realistic but telling us morals which we know but they don't practice it.
Senseless to be giving this Blessing CEO this kind of platform..... absolutely senseless
Thank you sir.
This woman is not letting her guests talk.Shes intruding improperly and trying to force her opinions on the guests.If she knew it all why didn't she do the program all by herself and talk to us?You bring guests but won't let them talk...oversabi
You just spoke my mind.
Honestly I noticed that and it pissed me off . She keeps trying to put words in their mouths
You are right and on point... The male guest had to tell her that he wanted to finish his story to land his point on emotional intelligence.
I thought I was the only one that noticed. Interjecting your guests rudely is a no no!
Hopefully, it's because she's learning😏 She needs to learn to shush🙄
May God bless this Mr Enahoro. Blessing keep patting iniquity on the back because that is what you do. Kontinu 🤣🤣
I may disagree with blessing in somethings but this particular show she nailed it.she said the fact and she was so realistic in her analysis 😊😊
Interesting programme with blessing (realist) and Enahoro (Idealist). You both are massively knowledgeable
Extremely knowledgeable indeed
As much as I don't like the image of Blessing CEO and her anticedents (where she claimed someone's property etc) she made a good point about the permissiveness in our very patriarchal society. Arise TV your platform is well respected especially in the diaspora pls ensure you bring women younger ones can really look up too. Best wishes
With Enahoro in your life you can't be emotionally foolish. Lol. Enahoro is a globally certified Emotional Intelligence and Life Coach. He is the owner of Pause Factory. He is so sound and impactful.
Blessing CEO talk true, nobody dey meet you for counseling or therapy 😂😂😂
Mr Enahoro is more reasonable with his points.👍
It takes budget to cheat. Them no dey sing for side chick. Poems and love letters are not the currencies for cheating. A man cheats because he can. When you have enough money to sponsor your bad attitude as an undisciplined man, you have to cheat. The best gift you can ever give your spouse is the gift of fidelity. When your spouse knows for sure that he/she has nothing to worry about. And there are people practicing this. I'm one of them.
God bless you sir!
Marriage is patient but today a lot of men and women are no longer patient in their Marriage
Excellent statement that may be the summary of the whole thing
This blessing is the type of person i don't want to know personally. I don't think this is the kind of person to be brought on a show on a whole arise Tv. God bless mr. Enahoro.
It's a shame on Arise TV
He is being very realistic. Any man who has self confidence will never capitulate to peer pressure.
About men leaving: when a marriage has gone on long enough between a couple to have produced children, the couple is expected to come to a place of maturity where they understand that the purpose of life is not happiness, it is responsibility. That is what fulfills you in the long run. Running away with another woman will not take away the suffering that is endemic with life from your story; everybody suffers - rich, poor or whatever. Be careful the messages you listen to.
wow!
I walked away after 20 years, we moved to Europe 18 years ago, she is been accusing me of cheating ever since with no proof only because she saw me with a girl 25 years ago when we were dating, I was about 20 yrs old then...
@@tonypeters664 Sorry to hear it, you're a man bro. Your long-term marital relationship broke down sadly under the burden of an unrelenting deluge of unresolved issues. Very different from the angle the post was addressing.
I like your commet jare
... you couldn't have said it better. If one expects too much in life including marriage, one will get disappointed. So, assume your responsibility and carry on.
So the busy-ness of the woman and her unavailability can make the man drift? How about the man helps the woman with the domestic busy-ness and free her to spend time with him? Side chick is not domestically busy because of the straying husband’s provisions, not so? So why not make the provisions to free wify from the domestic burden?
Somebody's son should please come and marry Blessing so that sidechicks can help her out
She is not marriageable ...she is going to end up as a single mother or a mistress/side chic..
@@olugbengababalola8940A proud one at that... Proud mistress.
Blessing doesn't know what she is talking....
Who knows why she left her marriage
@@olugbengababalola8940 loool
Blessing CEO just talking out of point. Unnecessary controversial
I feel nauseated listening to this woman called Blessing CEO... I feel sorry for those who goes to her for counselling, cos she doesn't even understand herself, she lacks integrity as a lady, and she's obviously misleading many females. An opportunity on an international TV as Arise, should have been used wisely to mould the fast decaying morals in our society, but no, she was too concerned with selfish ambitions,and rather glorifying the impunity and societal decay.
Blessing CEO has ashewo vibes! She is morally bankrupt and you can smell she has been there!
I think you missed her point. She was talking about reality. Not what is right or wrong. If she says for instance that activities of side chics can be a reason to help a man cope with the mess in his marriage she could be right. Not that it’s the right thing for side s to cushion men in martial but it’s reality.
She's madly terrible...
She makes my skin crawl 🤮
Side chick can not help a man to cope. Come and try it in western world nah
It is not every man that cheats or planning to do so. I don't and know many who don't . I think Enahoro made a great point.
A woman who has no issue with her husband cheating or gives him the go-ahead to cheat, then she has a low self-esteem. She's settling for less or anything. It's a bad "coping mechanism". If the man is indiscipline and cannot control himself, then she should offer him a note of divorce. Simple! The wife will be exposing herself to diseases and emotional & psychological trauma
When people refuse to retain God in their thinking, He gave them to a debase man to do things that are not fitting. Hear this Blessing lady speaking from a debase mind.
Blessing performed beyond my expectation of her.Kudos to enahoro!!!
Let’s not allow our young girls and woman to take this so called social media influencers. As an African lady I have grown to admire Nigerian woman for years for upholding their values , but have recently beginning to change my mind cos of people like Blessings
Blessing is speaking from both sides of her mouth and such a terrible cheat. She had a child with a family man
Can you imagine Blessing of all people, big liar
@@nnochacalistus2340 Lol, you can tell, cus she is all over the place, can't even answer question heads on
I blame the platform that provided her with audience. Home breaker!
And when did she become representative of all Nigerian women?
There is nothing like husband snatching, the man just decides to walk to where he wants to go leaving the woman to patronise him and blame their fellow women as usual. Men have learnt since the beginning of time how to manipulate women to shield their irresponsibility. That's the way I see it., am old over 60yrs. So I know.
Exactly. A cheating man knows wat he is doing 100% Cheating is a personal choice and not all about d woman’s fault. They Jst hav a way of blamin d woman that she has changed,not sexy blablabla. If u hav a problem in ur marriage fix it and spice it up,make ur own efforts before stepin outside to mess around
If u like marry the most beautiful and respectfully woman at home some of this men will stil cheat. So there is no rules to it
Indeed.. it is actually very childish to blame someone else for your own misbehaviour. If you are tired end the marriage and marry another one if you cannot or refuse to work on whatever problem you think is making you cheat. Bottomline a cheat is a very indisciplined and selfish person who wants to eat their cake and have it without any respect or loyalty to the spouse.
I disagree with the mentality that all Nigerian men are naturally not faithful and has a child chick...
I have never cheated on my wife and will never will. I am tempted outside by beautiful women but i just tried to control myself.
I also think upbringing counts alot here. A good Christian Home raised man will fear God and not cheat on his wife.
Exactly
I don't understand why they are enabling cheating
This is sincere truthful marriage counselor . The lady has nothing to offer young ladies please stay away from this lady if you want to build a good and happy marriage
God bless Mr okhae you're the only realist here. Thank you for standing up for us sir
Enahoro bro we got you..
Never break the bro code 💯
The Man and the so>called blessing are not worthy to discuss this Topic, marriage isn't butter and bread
This man gives hope for a better society! God bless you! Share your handle please! 🎉
He is very sensible and constructive while Blessing is all over the place, she is a complete joke
Enahoro Okhae, CEO of GIGM, Nigeria's leading Transport & Logistics Company. Not surprised
Enahoro is a globally certified Emotional Intelligence and Life Coach. He is the owner of Pause Factory. He is so sound and impactful.
@@tonypeters664 it's not true. She was talking reality not morals.
I love this man, he speaks the truth.
Blessing is saying the truth.
ENAHORO made his positive contributions....kudos to him.
Great insights from the panel today. Really enjoyed the balance of views from Enahoro and Blessing CEO. Excellent Job Ms Osime. Your Programme Perspectives is always on point. 👏👏👏👏👏
Wow....Ruth Osime now on Arise Tv....
This is Great!
What a Great time to be Alive.
Where was the before?
"You don't forced discipline on people" power point from CEO .
The way you take write that grammar, two of una deserve each other
Blessing is misleading younger women , Arise News doesn't rubbish it, you are losing it by inviting her.
Morality has long left the scene…
Blessing has said it all because the women don't have laws guarding them. Nigerian women are really suffering in the hands of Nigerian men.
Madam Ruth, pleased calm down and listen to your guests. Stop intereupting or pre-empting . Try to listen and understand their PERSPECTIVES
I don’t never agree with blessing, but here I stand with her idea
The intrusion of the interviewer to the guests is quite too much and it's annoying to some audience including me..
If you know it all, why bring them on air? 🙄
What stipid role do side-chicks play in the lives of the husbands dear Madam Osime? What are you saying?
Kudos to the Wise man there!
There is a lot of work a man and women do “work” in marriage.
God bless this man.
This lady (the guest) made some little sense…then sometimes talks WONDERS!
Even if she swings from a chandelier?😂😂❤That was such a killer imagery.👍👍
A human cannot be snatched. It is a personal decision
I totally enjoyed this discussion from all angles.
Blessing is a small girl. She does not understand what life is all about. Anybody can talk. Life is a lesson.
Blessing CEO has ashewo vibes! She is morally bankrupt and you can smell she has been there!
Man❤
Man❤
Correct
It is a big shame how a young girl or grown up lady will put herself down for a man who has a wife. I don’t care who they are how much they have I have a big respect for myself
And some people goes to this girl for marriage counseling smh! It's so nauseating hearing them normalising infidelity and providing excuses for men. I am a man myself in a
GOD bless you Sir. You always hit the right point. You can be in the midst of people that drink and not drink. Let's leave all this home video and face reality.
The host should allow the man to talk more.
Blessing CEO’s bad experience with marriage has affected this discussion badly. Nonetheless this generation needs God.
Blessing CEO has ashewo vibes! She is morally bankrupt and you can smell she has been there!
Please arise should not bring this empty head blessing to their station again she does not have anything to teach she is so empty like Sahara desert
Ms Osime is really smart about the balance of point from blessing ceo and enahoro
Loyalty can keep marriage
13:21 Another good point by blessing ceo. People marrying for the wrong reasons
People drift apart too not just about marrying for the wrong reasons
@kateodumu6640 true as well. But in the case where they drift apart, there's probably a stronger pool to come back together than infidelity. If they still love each other. You know what I just don't know i'm single myself I don't know. Married people should stop playing.
She's wrong for saying being exposed and traveling the world makes a good husband and this shows her lacking of understanding of what marriage is!!!
Blessing CEO gets it
I don't think that the woman Blessing CEO has made the best decision. She couldn't manage her marriage but stand out to advice those in marriage. And I would also want her where did she get marriage consulting education
Firstly, side chic refers to a younger girl or short term fling (university babes fall into this category), while mistresses refer to older more matured girls (working class or career focused ) with long-term goals hence the men spend more on them like buying houses, cars , paying their rent bills etc than the side chic who has less needs because she's still in school.
Secondly, sex and love are not the same. Men can have sex with women they don't love, men can even have sex with a woman over a bet with his boys. Also men are polygynous by nature while women are monogamous in nature, ofcourse there are exceptions. From the age of puberty, boys wake up with an erection every morning and this will continue into teen hood until he starts experiencing sex which is not the same for the girls. Young men between the age of 17 - 33 years think of sex every 5 - 10 mins unlike women.
A man craving for more than one wife is not a sin in the bible or quran because prophets had multiple wives and these same prophets are more holier and guided than us. What is a sin is fornication and adultery and NOT Polygyny.
Thirdly, according to Islam, polygyny was instructed in Islam in the Quran not to increase promiscuity but rather to decrease it and decrease the cravings for women by men by limiting it to 4 wives only.
Thirdly, it is only broke men that believe in monogamy, because they cannot attract beautiful women, But the moment these broke men become high-value men like davido, tate, wizkid, etc they become active in keeping side chics , baby mamas and mistresses. That's why you see men that after 20 years of marriage they start cheating or start keeping side chics because they now have money and can attract beautiful young girls
Finally, it is only the fear of God that can make a man not cheat and not because of any love for his wife. This is the same reason i love muslim men that practice polygyny because they fear Allah and decide to marry a second wife rather than commit fornication
You are absolutely right
JUST EXPLAIN TO YOUR INITIAL WIFE THAT YOU ARE A POLYGAMIST, FROM THE IST DAY.. That way, you all will lay the foundation for the marriage on that...Meaning, make no sacrifices because you are in a public institution!!!
What have you just said in total? You sound confused yourself. Read your epistle again. And listen to yourself.
May the young grow to have the right role models with clear perspectives
I nees such a man who will rather get a second wife than cheats. Unfortunately most of us Africans thought Nigerian man a better well not anymore cos here in the uk it’s the other way round
@@wonderfulera63490 you sound like a female. You won’t understand .
The worst thing that will happen to a man or even a woman is to be in a marriage he or she is not happy with. The foundation of marriage should be true Love & Happiness. Blessing says a lot of truth just that a lot of pple don’t like her truth.
The first foundation of marriage is love and commitment. Happiness is relative.
@@chikarayleigh4534 commitment comes when you are happy. How can you be committed to what you are not happy with?
Interesting presentaion. I guess the present had similar challenge in her marriage hence asking, talking too much and interrupting the guests so as to learn.
People like Blessing CEO has nothing beneficial to teach any one in marriage about marriage. She was married before and failed the marriage test. You can listen to her but don't take her words for it. She was here saying if her husband has a side chick or cheats, she will leave the marriage. You don't leave Blessing, you stay and fix the problem.
Just because someone’s marriage failed doesn’t mean they have nothing to teach. Abi peson no dey learn from failures? No be only success dey teach lessons.
@@ABCD1234-user-x3v What did she tell you she learnt from her failed marriage? I have problems with people who quit marriage for flimsy reasons. Except where there is physical violence that can threaten life, leaving marriage is never a good option. Stay and deal with it. Ladies, grow up, stay and finish your marriage contract. You don't marry for fun, good times and happiness. You marry for legacy and procreation.
@@akidiado1039 “People like blessing have nothing to teach. She was married and failed”. But You are right, people like Blessing that failed never have anything to teach, even if it’s why they failed, or things to avoid so we don’t fail like they did.
@@ABCD1234-user-x3vThen she has no moral right to teach others about marriage. Do what you preach.
Teaching has nothing to do with marriage failing. She is not preaching.
Honestly Blessing is realistic indeed.
The presenter is Blessing CEO Fan
For me, women are to be blamed in Nigeria because many women depend on men . parents should educate their children so they can have their own money 💰 and if she is no more comfortable with marriage, she can ask for divorce.
Not that there’s no law in Nigeria, but your traditional law is prevailing on the people.
Wow !!!! Very interesting conversations ,, first time I have seen blessing ceo talk intelligently absolutely brilliant thanks
She is a brilliant lady, but controversial most times
This man talks as a married man but Blessing talks as a side chick. So what do you expect from her
Marriage is hard work!
Discipline is the greatest gifts to yourself and let talking be your pleasure in all relationships (parenting, friendships, dating and marriage, divorce and co-parenting).
Mgbeke blessing chewing gum and rolling around in her chair. Couldn’t even comport herself!! If the man leaves his wife to be with the side chick the side chick will become boring too
Blessing CEO has ashewo vibes! She is morally bankrupt and you can smell she has been there!
😂😂 is because the man is married and she is not . Let’s stop being hypocritical, blessing dey craze but she makes some points right too, the one she says most people marry for wrong reasons .
This man is wow! He is correct, all lies on the individual man. Its not about friends that cheats or smoke, or drinks but how do the man values himself. That's makes him a responsible or irresponsible man.
This is very educative. Thank s to you guys.
How we have gotten to this point where high level immortality is now becoming normal in Nigeria is a wonder.
Let us all remember today, that the seeds sown will provide its harvest tomorrow.
The host is just being unnecessarily sentimental. She's not being professional. She's just talking from a point of her past experience
Blessing is not a blessing to this conversation with her chewing gum and her inappropriate dressing. She is equally a side chick, so how can such a person be a counselor? Arise news, choose your speakers with wisdom!!
The man is far divers in knowledge than blessing.
I guess this why my wife cancelled our vacation to AFRICA😂😂😹
I guess so he wants to save her marriage she does not want anyone taking you away from her lol😂😂😂
Hahaha
15:19 Enahoro is right to an extent too
Please i hope Governor Sanwolu is watching this program? This is not politics ooooo, he has a child outside. In fact, his first child is outside there in Warri. He'd better go pick his child. Period!
Blessing is so knowledgeable ❤my love for her just increased
Well you're as foolish as her.
I believe blessing on this one that most people marry for wrong reasons . Either u marry a woman cos she is from same social status etc . Then when u marry u start fighting to build and keep the love . Next time bring a married woman cos most people dislike blessing.
There are men who don't cheat and are always with their friends who cheat.
In morality, the majority on the side of wrong doesn't carry the day. Ideal is ideal. Thanks to the man.
Allow Mr Enahoro talk , that is why he came .
I wonder those listening to Blessing for wrong advice
You can’t compare an Orange and a cucumber.,, A man that claims happiness with a Sidechick should keep that happiness at bay until you make that Sidechick a Wife . It’s never the same !!!!!!! Period
Well said@ Enahoro
Anyway blessing doesn't av a female child but she can as well pray for her daughter in law to be snatched.
Blessing have done really well. She is honest and speaking the truth.
Whoever is condemning her, is just jealous and envious.
Infidelity is & has been existing from time immemorial.
When did we turn to Oyinbo sef? My father married 10, most of you condemning Blessing here, their wife or husband or father are all cheating unknowingly to the other party.
Someone even called her Ashewo, that is abusive and totally disrespectful. Especially, someone you don't even know personally.
Love alone cannot make marriage work.
Increase of wealth can make a man drift away
Cheating is not a sin , based on how you understand it and they way you reacts to it when you caught your partner 😂
The moderator is very experience and knowledgeable of this subject matter than both guest!
God 🙏 instituted marriage so that man would have companion. According to the standard of God 🙏, a woman must be submissive to the husband and a man must love the wife for marriage to work. So whenever any of this virtue is lacking either from the man or woman, the relationship starts shaking. A woman should not accept a man she doesn't have respect for and a man shouldn't go for a woman he doesn't love.
Husband snatching is a wicked act. I believe strongly that no responsible lady would want to snatch another woman's husband.
But you are too interruptive, Moderator. Pls allow them air their views as your guests. And suppress your biases to allow them ventilate their opinions/views.
Also, people marry for the wrong reasons, which is the foundational problem with marriage
Women Don’t pretend to be better than you are live, life at your own pace and be truthful to yourself and your husband, you will be fine