Gosh!!! I thought I was the only one who noticed.... why have a co-presenter if there interventions count for nothing.... She is clearly a bully and extremely high on her opinion. She actually made a categorical statement on International TV that there is no honest and faithful Nigerian Man walking the face of this earth....phew! Such shallowness and weak projection of insecurity....😢
Edgar may sound so funny, but his points are valid. We need to approach marriage with less of emotions and more of a "duty" mindset. That's why previous generations had more marital success.
Very important topic. Infidelity is bad both from males and females. We know about men but women are far better/smarter cheat than men and it didn’t start today. Only a woman knows the father of her child. I think poverty, greed, loneliness, lack of appreciation/love/romance, revenge, unforgiveness, childlessness, unsatisfied sex, lack of sexual education in our men, lack of good communication on sex or how to satisfy each other, bad influence from social media & bad friends and of course promiscuity, really contributed a lot to this infidelity in some married women.
Most at times we only know one part of love and once it's no longer there, we think love has gone. Please let's stop using love to mean only that erotic emotional feelings, love is too way more than that. Love is feeling Love is understanding Love is sense of duty and responsibility Love is forgiveness Love is kind and patience. Love is everything and anything good that makes human relationship good and functional. Try to know and have all this kinds of love so that you can use them when appropriate and needed.
I disagree with the Lady who said there's no honest Nigerian man. I've been married for 5 years now and have never cheated on my Wife and will never do such even as I wasn't living together with her for our first 3 years of marriage. It wasn't easy especially living abroad and having all it takes to do what ever I want and being exposed to lots of beautiful girls who are always trying their luck up to this date. Coincidentally, 2 of my best friends back in Nija are also faithful to their wives. We're so proud of our beautiful wives. It's awesome being faithful in marriage 💑. My wife has the pin code to all my 3 cellphones and I have no regrets to be open and faithful to my lovely wife. Guys it's so difficult to cheat, always hiding.
Welldone Bro. Don't mind the woman. My husband is also a faithful one woman man. Some people just think that it's difficult to stay faithful to one's spouse because of their own personal experiences....or mindset they've imbibed over time.
16:12 Arise please allow only Ruth to bring Topics and run the show. Why are there other participants in the Studio when Ruth will never allow them complete 3 sentences without interjection
There is this statement someone made, he said" if a man catches a woman she will go and if a woman catches a man also cheating she will also go" because the woman can't deal with a cheating husband and most men don't forgive their cheating wife ...everything still falls on the woman because of African culture. They want the woman to endure the marriage... now things are changing, it's not business as usual, that's why this kind of topic is being discussed. Faithfulness pays more.
This lady shouldn't be moderating such topic if her emotions or experience with her partner or life style wouldn't allow her to give room for her invitees speak, they are professionals and we all see things from different perspectives not always will everyone agree or see things through the same lense as to yours.
Relevant topic and conversation. But which survey are you referencing? I can't find any link to the report on the internet. Can you share where it was published?
What most women don't understand is that a cheating man don't bring home another woman's child for the wife. But cheating women bring in other men's children for their husband to take care of...
This is not logical at all. Men bring in sexually transmitted diseases like HIV to the home and women do too.Your logic is neither here,nor there because,if he gets a child outside,the child will eventually come back to his or her father's house. So, your defence has no logic to it. After all, he will still be taking care of this child whether in his house or outside his house in a baby daddy way. So, what's the sense in your argument?
How about I tell you I know of men who have done this and brought home mistress' kids to their wives. 😒 Regardless, let's not make any excuses for anyone to cheat. If you can't be faithful, just don't get married!!
@@talk2minie there's no woman that would allow her husband bring another woman's child without her concest or condition either the man had no child from the woman at the meantime or under adoption for the child...
sometimes i wonder why people keep saying married men cheat more than married women, my 8yrs of working in 3 guest house in Nigeria made me to just say waoo, if we have 50 customers per day, 47 of them are married women, if we all go for DNA today, 78% of us will go looking for our biological father....
Marriage is love/feelings between two people which heralds a lifelong sense of duty.The sense of duty is beyond feelings it is action whether you love or not.
The lady with red glasses is speaking wisdom. The man with earings is a modern play boy. If that guy can tolerate a cheating wife, he's such a cheat himself. He lacks values and discipline! The fair anty is a "do me. I do you" kind of woman!🤷
No no no, this is wrong approach madam Ruth. Marriage and family are vital social institutions to human existence otherwise society is doomed as it is increasingly becoming. And pls it is absolutely wrong to be so generic about Nigerian men been notorious for infidelity. I lived with my father and mother until they both left this world and there was no single incident of infidelity. I am a living Nigerian man who have been faithful to my spouse. I am sorry to say this madam but you are obviously too bias and angry to handle this program
Oh! So someone else feels same the way I felt about her sense of judgement about Nigerian men?. Let me use myself as an example. I left Nigerian in 2019 for Germany for study purpose, and only visited my wife in July this year. 2023. All through, I had never had any sexual affairs with any lady be it black or white despite all the temptations. Many white ladies pushed themselves through but we're all disappointed. I am a human though but I was just being faithful to my vow on the alter. Is that not faithfulness or am I not one of the Nigerian men she is saying rubbish about? It seems she is just angry for never ever been married, period!
I also hate that aspect of her generalizing infidelity of Men. My Boss who is at his 50 is not part and so his my Husband of 11yrs. She should not be generalizing infidelity of African or Nigerian Men, it's so discouraging to those that's making effort or dislikes d act. This is the second time of seeing her saying things like that about Men.
You guys can be angry all u want but what she says about men who are not faithful to their marriage is real. Yes there are a few men who keep to their vows of which u may be among but the truth remains that a larger percentage of married men sleep around.
She admitted she's a feminist, so we shouldn't expect less. She keeps interrupting her guests. She definitely change the topic from uprise of infidelity amidst married women to that of men.
This is an important topics. Let's start with the church. these days when I see our women in church I will be so afraid because I don't know if there is any innocent one among them again including pastor's wife. They are involve in this and still go around as still holy sister even joining in condemning the same infidelity they practice. It's terrible. Even some G O. Wife are not exempted. My profession grants me the opportunity to know all these. Johnson Ndukwe
@@ogomailechukwu9422a man is entitled to so many women as he can take care of. If you say men and women are equal due to your modern mindset, then a woman is entitled to so many men as she can take care of . .. but are women ready to do so???
Honestly, a woman that will cheat wouldn't care for yur forgiveness, will spend days to plan NOT to get caught for that ten to fifteen minutes of pleasure.
THIS MAS HAVE A VERY BETTER EXPERIENCE. THIS IS TRUE, WHEN A CHILD ARRIVES WHAT MOVES PARENTHOOD STRONGER IS NO MORE LOVE BUT DUTY AND RESPONSIBILITY. LOVE IS VERY FRAGILE WHEN IT COMES TO PARENTING DUTY AND RESPONSIBILITY STANDS IT ALL
They are forming psychologists and simply do not know how much Women are built to be led. If not they will bear what they see. Our culture is appreciated by foreign cultures bcos most Nigerian men are disciplined..
I am so glad that finally women are beginibg to know their worth! Marriage is a duty, and with that comes mutual respect, understanding, and compromises.
Did women just start cheating/committing adultery today? What a use of the brain? Cheating is sex with someone who is not your partner/spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. It takes two to tangle, if for you men have been cheating, do you think they have been cheating with manikins? Women control the gate to sex, and the one who opens the door to the thief has done even more cheating as well. I don't know if they have started also to pay/spend to marry the men in Nigeria if that's part of what you mean by knowing their worth. Although women's worth depletes with the more different men they sleep with, unlike men's. But good for you for demonstrating your worth by cheating/sleeping with countless men...
Women are attracted to friendship (attention) and comfort (provision of available fund to their needs and wants). Further, friendship and comfort are catalysts and sustainance for love. As soon as a man seizes to provide both, women become venerable and take the next favorable decision. Please note; women are content in most cases. However, today, women are empowered where by possess necessary comfort, even more than their partners. So if the man seizes to provide comfort and friendship, the empowerment status of women kicks in. That is. She’s empowered, so she doesn’t really need the man anymore. She may either stay by herself until she’s ready to move on or she moves on immediately where she can get friendship outside because she’s already empowered. Therefore only seeking for attention and all that comes with it.
Amazing show. As for the presenter ur body language and choice of words clearly shows u av a biased perspective on the subject. Stephanie is very objective I like her vibe and Edgar is a very practical man. In my opinion, it is petty for a woman to cheat because the husband is doing same. I av met women dt av not cheated in their marriages despite their husbands doing the exact opposite. My perspective is it comes down to the value system of the individual. We are responsible for the choices we make and shld be prepared for its attendant consequences.
A woman with this bias against man cannot see a faithful man and recognize him. It is offensive to assume that all men are unfaithful and then try to justify women's unfaithfulness by blaming the men for all of it. If men act the way you say, it is still your choice to either walk away or make the obviously bad choice of cheating.
Its so heart wrenching knowing I was raised to serve another human being😢😢😢😢😢. However, the bright side is to raise the next generation to understand the liberation if equality, equity, and freedom.
My dear, Nature made it that way. the issue is that women are fighting for gender equality just like LGBT is fighting for eqaulity, no matter what the westerners do, it will never work in some countries especially, Arabic countries. So nature never made man to be equal with the woman, take it or leave it. God created a woman to be a helper to the man and in as much as marriage is concern, it gives the man more right over the woman, why? Because the man will come to the woman's parents and ask for their daughter's hand in marriage, pay a dowry over the girl and take her away from her father's house to his own house and at the same time gives the man the right to change the girl's surname to his own.these things gives the man an edge over the woman. I know that so many women will not like what I am saying but that's a fact whether the next generation will change it or not is not the issue. in as much as these things are still in place and it still remains a woman's job to carry the pregnancy, a man will always remain at the top.
Have you considered the bad economy ?a woman ll go to any length to feed her hungry children and cover up for a mansa irresponsibility inthe place of provision .#i dont support infidelity #may we not become so vulnerable
Some women and double standards. Ask them and you'll find a number of them have gone off track quite a few times. Then they come on a show and go on a rant against men. Well, your opinions remain what they are, your opinions.
Osime is so unfit to lead this conversation with her ridiculous bias against men. The fact that she refused to outrightly condemn female infidelity & terms it “not judging” while trying to find non-existent reasons but harps on male infidelity & for lack of better words, tags it 2nd nature is clear indication of her stance. Infidelity is wrong across all genders & there’s ZERO reasons for it. If you would mutilate your body if your partner does it and you clearly don’t approve of it, why would you sleep with someone else because your partner did, when you can clearly walk away from his or her life and find yourself.
You have spoken the murmurs of my heart. It is little wonder that she is yet to be married. She sounds like one who would cheat on her man on the whims of flimsy reasons.
You can see her aggressive nature! Compare her to the demeanour of the other lady; she was just passively bullying her…. What a shame! An unprofessional being parading herself as a journalist lmao
Ladies let me ask you one question. These single girls hanging on the roads at nights will eventually get married do you think they will be faithful or not?
Fidelity in marriage occurs when sex is a completion of oneness. If sex is transactional then like the other lady said what is marriage The Bible says Adam and Eve knew each other and were not ashamed. Love is not an attraction otherwise it is erotic but marital love moves from friendship to Godly love. Many without God or the power of salvation are inherently unfaithful. The book of Proverbs says a faithful man who can find. But women should strive to be virtuous. Many men I know are faithful to their spouses. We know like proverbs stolen waters is sweet but the results is death
One of the most important factor in modern marriage is finances and if i bring in money enough to fulfil the lavish expectations of ten modern women, no woman can stop me from have the women that i want. Imagine me being Davido and you telling me to stick with just Chioma no, that won't stick.I will not go round sleeping with every tom and harry but, i will marry 2 or 3 that will satisfy my desires. I don't think men should hide their intentions about wanting more than one woman as long has they can satisfy the needs of those women in most areas of life. Women know men they can cheat on. If a woman cheats on me despite me doing everything within to please her, she is a goner, no second chance.
"Love is for teenagers" - Edgar I totally agree. It is some fleeting feeling we get when our hormones have gotten the better of us when we are adolescents. Eventually, we will all outgrow the giz-giz feeling.
These women doesn't know that they are on the losing side and helping men concentrate on fashioning out the main goal in life which is not marriage actually but realizing their trueness and true identity which is obviously to walk in the purpose of their birth as reason to why they came on earth. Firstly a man's purpose is not marriage, a man's purpose is wealth, health, and happiness, and he can only find these in the field of his purpose as destiny. Listen, marriage has never made any man on earth achieve his destiny and dreams or goal, rather marriages weakens men's quest to successiveness.
What a perspective people have! You see this your male guest, he needs to be with a woman like him so that the world can be a saner place. Everything boils down to why people get married! Always remember your why! I also want to say that you ladies were not letting the man speak. Subsequently, one after the other please. Don't cut in when someon else is making their point please.
This is an important topic but the conversation is poor and myopic. There's a psychology behind infidelity. Next time, let a seasoned psychologist be part of your panel of commentators.
"when they are single, we are trying to force them not to touch each other but when they are married, we are trying to force them to touch each other" And you wonder why? Have you heard of the law of diminishing returns? exactly.
The discussion will always turn back to the man being the problem... The topic is the uprise of infidelity amidst married women.
It would be nice if Ms Osime could allow her co-presenter to speak without interruption.
It will be nice if the presenters are not talking over each other, so we can hear each presenter
Correct, but the co-presenter is reactional for she too wants to be heard. Ms Osime is the principal anchor and she sets the pace.
She is a cheat
Edgar is a chronic cheat and champion of sleeping with married women
Gosh!!!
I thought I was the only one who noticed.... why have a co-presenter if there interventions count for nothing....
She is clearly a bully and extremely high on her opinion.
She actually made a categorical statement on International TV that there is no honest and faithful Nigerian Man walking the face of this earth....phew! Such shallowness and weak projection of insecurity....😢
Edgar may sound so funny, but his points are valid. We need to approach marriage with less of emotions and more of a "duty" mindset. That's why previous generations had more marital success.
Exactly 💯
When adultery is called cheating; it becomes traditionally acceptable as the new norm
agreed
Yh, that's a root cause misperception. Calling it cheating is a problem on its own
Please, what is it called when someone cheat on their spouse? Weather a male or female.
@@BraveheartMother😂😂😂 funny question. This flew right over your head!
Very important topic.
Infidelity is bad both from males and females. We know about men but women are far better/smarter cheat than men and it didn’t start today. Only a woman knows the father of her child.
I think poverty, greed, loneliness, lack of appreciation/love/romance, revenge, unforgiveness, childlessness, unsatisfied sex, lack of sexual education in our men, lack of good communication on sex or how to satisfy each other, bad influence from social media & bad friends and of course promiscuity, really contributed a lot to this infidelity in some married women.
This Edgar Man is something else, in fact he killed the whole conversation. Thank you
Very interesting pls bring them back again.. Everyone contributed nicely to the topic and was well educative.
This is a very important topic. Thank you all for your contributions. Ms. Kadiri seems to be an expert on the issue due to her academic background.
People cheat because they choose to whether men or women.
Cheating is a choice!
💯 and full stop. People making excuses for the man or woman cheating is driving me insane!
Most at times we only know one part of love and once it's no longer there, we think love has gone.
Please let's stop using love to mean only that erotic emotional feelings, love is too way more than that.
Love is feeling
Love is understanding
Love is sense of duty and responsibility
Love is forgiveness
Love is kind and patience.
Love is everything and anything good that makes human relationship good and functional.
Try to know and have all this kinds of love so that you can use them when appropriate and needed.
P is
Your point?
ZS
Wonderful presentation. The more the quality of a person the more the quality of choices embraced.
A topic that most people shy away from. Arise TV has done well again.
Thumbs up to Mr. Edgar for his courage on this topic and being real. Good discussion with maturity
Standing by your duty in marriage is Love.
I disagree with the Lady who said there's no honest Nigerian man. I've been married for 5 years now and have never cheated on my Wife and will never do such even as I wasn't living together with her for our first 3 years of marriage. It wasn't easy especially living abroad and having all it takes to do what ever I want and being exposed to lots of beautiful girls who are always trying their luck up to this date. Coincidentally, 2 of my best friends back in Nija are also faithful to their wives. We're so proud of our beautiful wives. It's awesome being faithful in marriage 💑. My wife has the pin code to all my 3 cellphones and I have no regrets to be open and faithful to my lovely wife. Guys it's so difficult to cheat, always hiding.
Welldone Bro. Don't mind the woman. My husband is also a faithful one woman man. Some people just think that it's difficult to stay faithful to one's spouse because of their own personal experiences....or mindset they've imbibed over time.
5 years, and you are talking. I have been married for 21 years. If you cheat on your wife now, you never really found her attractive.
These women should just shut up. Africans can have multiple wives. Is the North not part of Nigeria.
FIVE YEARS. Come back in more years time and repeat this comment.
Fornication and adultery are SINS . Repent and give your lives to Jesus.
Osime, allow people talk na. Learn to listen and let others air their views. 😢
Madam, they are a lot of faithful men who are very honest. You should not use your situation to pass your judgement.
The moderator should enforce decorum at discuss tables. This debate is chaotic
16:12 Arise please allow only Ruth to bring Topics and run the show. Why are there other participants in the Studio when Ruth will never allow them complete 3 sentences without interjection
I enjoyed this programme.
Thanks Arise
This was so chaotic! 🤦♀️🤦♀️
9:38 is wrong. There are faithful and honest men
The man is so right 100%. I am a man and I know this. Egar, you are apt and truthful in all aspects.
There is this statement someone made, he said" if a man catches a woman she will go and if a woman catches a man also cheating she will also go" because the woman can't deal with a cheating husband and most men don't forgive their cheating wife ...everything still falls on the woman because of African culture. They want the woman to endure the marriage... now things are changing, it's not business as usual, that's why this kind of topic is being discussed. Faithfulness pays more.
This lady shouldn't be moderating such topic if her emotions or experience with her partner or life style wouldn't allow her to give room for her invitees speak, they are professionals and we all see things from different perspectives not always will everyone agree or see things through the same lense as to yours.
Relevant topic and conversation. But which survey are you referencing? I can't find any link to the report on the internet. Can you share where it was published?
What most women don't understand is that a cheating man don't bring home another woman's child for the wife. But cheating women bring in other men's children for their husband to take care of...
God bless you
This is not logical at all. Men bring in sexually transmitted diseases like HIV to the home and women do too.Your logic is neither here,nor there because,if he gets a child outside,the child will eventually come back to his or her father's house. So, your defence has no logic to it. After all, he will still be taking care of this child whether in his house or outside his house in a baby daddy way. So, what's the sense in your argument?
How about I tell you I know of men who have done this and brought home mistress' kids to their wives. 😒 Regardless, let's not make any excuses for anyone to cheat. If you can't be faithful, just don't get married!!
@@talk2miniethat immediately makes the child his..
@@talk2minie there's no woman that would allow her husband bring another woman's child without her concest or condition either the man had no child from the woman at the meantime or under adoption for the child...
sometimes i wonder why people keep saying married men cheat more than married women, my 8yrs of working in 3 guest house in Nigeria made me to just say waoo, if we have 50 customers per day, 47 of them are married women, if we all go for DNA today, 78% of us will go looking for our biological father....
Marriage is love/feelings between two people which heralds a lifelong sense of duty.The sense of duty is beyond feelings it is action whether you love or not.
Ruth should give a co-presenter time to finish her tenses. She keeps cutting her off.
This still is a typical News setting, the studio used for shows like this should have a more relaxing look.
What an interesting conversation. It was undiluted and really, especially from Joseph.
There is no rise. This has always been there, but now social media has socialised the act.
Very interesting discuss. Arise please make this a daily post. Thank you guys
A Man was needed in this panel
Spouses should be faithful to one another. STD is real
Bible blueprint on marriage remains the best to go to, and will always be my final authority. The world has gone berserk.
The purpose of marriage is for companionship and procreation and what sustains understanding and quality communication.
Thanks for this interesting topic
The lady with red glasses is speaking wisdom.
The man with earings is a modern play boy.
If that guy can tolerate a cheating wife, he's such a cheat himself. He lacks values and discipline!
The fair anty is a "do me. I do you" kind of woman!🤷
What did I just hear that Ms.Osime is not married yet? Please tell me if I did not hear well. Because I have been waiting to ask?
Thanks for this conversation, at least away from useless politics.
No no no, this is wrong approach madam Ruth. Marriage and family are vital social institutions to human existence otherwise society is doomed as it is increasingly becoming. And pls it is absolutely wrong to be so generic about Nigerian men been notorious for infidelity. I lived with my father and mother until they both left this world and there was no single incident of infidelity. I am a living Nigerian man who have been faithful to my spouse. I am sorry to say this madam but you are obviously too bias and angry to handle this program
Oh! So someone else feels same the way I felt about her sense of judgement about Nigerian men?. Let me use myself as an example.
I left Nigerian in 2019 for Germany for study purpose, and only visited my wife in July this year. 2023. All through, I had never had any sexual affairs with any lady be it black or white despite all the temptations. Many white ladies pushed themselves through but we're all disappointed. I am a human though but I was just being faithful to my vow on the alter. Is that not faithfulness or am I not one of the Nigerian men she is saying rubbish about? It seems she is just angry for never ever been married, period!
The fair woman is pushing a narrative and she knows she is wrong.@@damianikeri7808
I also hate that aspect of her generalizing infidelity of Men. My Boss who is at his 50 is not part and so his my Husband of 11yrs. She should not be generalizing infidelity of African or Nigerian Men, it's so discouraging to those that's making effort or dislikes d act.
This is the second time of seeing her saying things like that about Men.
You guys can be angry all u want but what she says about men who are not faithful to their marriage is real. Yes there are a few men who keep to their vows of which u may be among but the truth remains that a larger percentage of married men sleep around.
A larger percentage and "all" doesn't send different to you, right?@@nosashuly
A very good discussion, the fair lady host was making great points, sorry i didn't catch her name, , she was saying it like it is.👍👏👏
Ruth Osime is her name
They are talking over each other.
Please the lady in black should allow other people to talk, she's always cutting people off, or interjecting. The show has great potential , Weldon 👍
Agree she is jarring
U can't judge women's infidelity but u are judging men's infidelity, definitely double standard.
The world reeks of hypocrisy.
dont mind her, she has nothing good to say about Nigerian men, my dear, not all men cheat
@@jonathanogbone9925she should go and try east or south African men and understand Nigerian men are saint compared to them
FACTS. REASON THIS IS DISGUSTING
She admitted she's a feminist, so we shouldn't expect less. She keeps interrupting her guests. She definitely change the topic from uprise of infidelity amidst married women to that of men.
This is an important topics. Let's start with the church. these days when I see our women in church I will be so afraid because I don't know if there is any innocent one among them again including pastor's wife. They are involve in this and still go around as still holy sister even joining in condemning the same infidelity they practice. It's terrible. Even some G O. Wife are not exempted. My profession grants me the opportunity to know all these.
Johnson Ndukwe
To generalize that no such thing as faithful Nigerian man is shocking. I know of many and some of us can speak for ourselves
I was shocked by that too. Seems they have accepted low standards
i WILL NEVER FORGIVE A CHEATING WOMAN
Can you forgive a cheating man?
@@ogomailechukwu9422a man is entitled to so many women as he can take care of. If you say men and women are equal due to your modern mindset, then a woman is entitled to so many men as she can take care of . .. but are women ready to do so???
I Hope You Are A Guy And A Saint 😂😂😂😂
Honestly, a woman that will cheat wouldn't care for yur forgiveness, will spend days to plan NOT to get caught for that ten to fifteen minutes of pleasure.
If you find out noe
He is really correct
God bless this woman for saying that not all men cheat
Marriage is for the protection of women and children.
Very interesting and educative topic
I ❤love the topic.
THIS MAS HAVE A VERY BETTER EXPERIENCE. THIS IS TRUE, WHEN A CHILD ARRIVES WHAT MOVES PARENTHOOD STRONGER IS NO MORE LOVE BUT DUTY AND RESPONSIBILITY. LOVE IS VERY FRAGILE WHEN IT COMES TO PARENTING DUTY AND RESPONSIBILITY STANDS IT ALL
Duty and responsibility is also Love.
Very interesting conversation and great panelists
The presenter on point. I love her perspective.
Very good discussion. You should this mo r e often if you want to curb infidelity in Nigeria.
Imagine this woman condemning Nigerian men because of her own experience.
Honestly. She's purely speaking from personal experience. She's given up on fidelity.
They are forming psychologists and simply do not know how much Women are built to be led. If not they will bear what they see. Our culture is appreciated by foreign cultures bcos most Nigerian men are disciplined..
This is absolutely interesting ❤❤❤
I am so glad that finally women are beginibg to know their worth! Marriage is a duty, and with that comes mutual respect, understanding, and compromises.
Did women just start cheating/committing adultery today? What a use of the brain? Cheating is sex with someone who is not your partner/spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. It takes two to tangle, if for you men have been cheating, do you think they have been cheating with manikins? Women control the gate to sex, and the one who opens the door to the thief has done even more cheating as well. I don't know if they have started also to pay/spend to marry the men in Nigeria if that's part of what you mean by knowing their worth. Although women's worth depletes with the more different men they sleep with, unlike men's. But good for you for demonstrating your worth by cheating/sleeping with countless men...
I am glad for you too . Only stupid men get married
I am glad for you too . Only stupid men get married
I will adopt his words from now, is the simple truth
Women are attracted to friendship (attention) and comfort (provision of available fund to their needs and wants). Further, friendship and comfort are catalysts and sustainance for love. As soon as a man seizes to provide both, women become venerable and take the next favorable decision. Please note; women are content in most cases. However, today, women are empowered where by possess necessary comfort, even more than their partners. So if the man seizes to provide comfort and friendship, the empowerment status of women kicks in. That is. She’s empowered, so she doesn’t really need the man anymore. She may either stay by herself until she’s ready to move on or she moves on immediately where she can get friendship outside because she’s already empowered. Therefore only seeking for attention and all that comes with it.
This guy is really right
Amazing show. As for the presenter ur body language and choice of words clearly shows u av a biased perspective on the subject. Stephanie is very objective I like her vibe and Edgar is a very practical man. In my opinion, it is petty for a woman to cheat because the husband is doing same. I av met women dt av not cheated in their marriages despite their husbands doing the exact opposite. My perspective is it comes down to the value system of the individual. We are responsible for the choices we make and shld be prepared for its attendant consequences.
A woman with this bias against man cannot see a faithful man and recognize him.
It is offensive to assume that all men are unfaithful and then try to justify women's unfaithfulness by blaming the men for all of it.
If men act the way you say, it is still your choice to either walk away or make the obviously bad choice of cheating.
Its so heart wrenching knowing I was raised to serve another human being😢😢😢😢😢. However, the bright side is to raise the next generation to understand the liberation if equality, equity, and freedom.
My dear, Nature made it that way. the issue is that women are fighting for gender equality just like LGBT is fighting for eqaulity, no matter what the westerners do, it will never work in some countries especially, Arabic countries. So nature never made man to be equal with the woman, take it or leave it.
God created a woman to be a helper to the man and in as much as marriage is concern, it gives the man more right over the woman, why? Because the man will come to the woman's parents and ask for their daughter's hand in marriage, pay a dowry over the girl and take her away from her father's house to his own house and at the same time gives the man the right to change the girl's surname to his own.these things gives the man an edge over the woman.
I know that so many women will not like what I am saying but that's a fact whether the next generation will change it or not is not the issue. in as much as these things are still in place and it still remains a woman's job to carry the pregnancy, a man will always remain at the top.
Even your children will serve men forever
The reason for this problem is lack of faithfulness before marriage
Have you considered the bad economy ?a woman ll go to any length to feed her hungry children and cover up for a mansa irresponsibility inthe place of provision .#i dont support infidelity
#may we not become so vulnerable
Some women and double standards. Ask them and you'll find a number of them have gone off track quite a few times. Then they come on a show and go on a rant against men. Well, your opinions remain what they are, your opinions.
Abeg where rural for this talk
God bless you 😊
Osime is so unfit to lead this conversation with her ridiculous bias against men. The fact that she refused to outrightly condemn female infidelity & terms it “not judging” while trying to find non-existent reasons but harps on male infidelity & for lack of better words, tags it 2nd nature is clear indication of her stance. Infidelity is wrong across all genders & there’s ZERO reasons for it. If you would mutilate your body if your partner does it and you clearly don’t approve of it, why would you sleep with someone else because your partner did, when you can clearly walk away from his or her life and find yourself.
You have spoken the murmurs of my heart. It is little wonder that she is yet to be married. She sounds like one who would cheat on her man on the whims of flimsy reasons.
You can see her aggressive nature! Compare her to the demeanour of the other lady; she was just passively bullying her…. What a shame! An unprofessional being parading herself as a journalist lmao
@@chakadaniel7457I won't be surprised if she's from the same village with Nedu's ex wife 😂
so true
Exactly my thoughts
Ladies let me ask you one question. These single girls hanging on the roads at nights will eventually get married do you think they will be faithful or not?
You've answered the question 😊
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they might not oo. tasting different sizes and then comparing hubbies own .... lots of fantasies
When you married then you will find out the hard way
It's called commitment.
Every child born should have a DNA
You talk over each other...
Fidelity in marriage occurs when sex is a completion of oneness.
If sex is transactional then like the other lady said what is marriage
The Bible says Adam and Eve knew each other and were not ashamed.
Love is not an attraction otherwise it is erotic but marital love moves from friendship to Godly love.
Many without God or the power of salvation are inherently unfaithful. The book of Proverbs says a faithful man who can find. But women should strive to be virtuous. Many men I know are faithful to their spouses. We know like proverbs stolen waters is sweet but the results is death
One of the most important factor in modern marriage is finances and if i bring in money enough to fulfil the lavish expectations of ten modern women, no woman can stop me from have the women that i want.
Imagine me being Davido and you telling me to stick with just Chioma no, that won't stick.I will not go round sleeping with every tom and harry but, i will marry 2 or 3 that will satisfy my desires.
I don't think men should hide their intentions about wanting more than one woman as long has they can satisfy the needs of those women in most areas of life.
Women know men they can cheat on. If a woman cheats on me despite me doing everything within to please her, she is a goner, no second chance.
You are Immature. How long will you do that for.
"Love is for teenagers" - Edgar
I totally agree. It is some fleeting feeling we get when our hormones have gotten the better of us when we are adolescents. Eventually, we will all outgrow the giz-giz feeling.
They're too emotional to discuss this topic. I had to switch off. Get logical thinkers to discuss this next time please.
Exactly 💯
Honestly
Marriage is a human concept to control man......like organizations, religion,Govt.
This will destroy the family and remove the protection that women have.
You can see their outrage against Men
What if your wife doesn't have feelings for the husband?
So glad I'm not a fan of this TV station, your discussion is the same reason young men are not willing to get married.
These women doesn't know that they are on the losing side and helping men concentrate on fashioning out the main goal in life which is not marriage actually but realizing their trueness and true identity which is obviously to walk in the purpose of their birth as reason to why they came on earth. Firstly a man's purpose is not marriage, a man's purpose is wealth, health, and happiness, and he can only find these in the field of his purpose as destiny. Listen, marriage has never made any man on earth achieve his destiny and dreams or goal, rather marriages weakens men's quest to successiveness.
Yet you want kids??
Well stated. Only few men of knowledge know this.
What a perspective people have! You see this your male guest, he needs to be with a woman like him so that the world can be a saner place. Everything boils down to why people get married! Always remember your why! I also want to say that you ladies were not letting the man speak. Subsequently, one after the other please. Don't cut in when someon else is making their point please.
I am honest, honestly and faithfully faithful
You have never been married but talking with so much authority and finality, abeg park somewhere.
The caption ???? Uprise or Rising?
This is an important topic but the conversation is poor and myopic. There's a psychology behind infidelity. Next time, let a seasoned psychologist be part of your panel of commentators.
I think it is somehow culturally tolerated among the Yoruba.
What is wrong with you? Why must you bring tribe into this?
"when they are single, we are trying to force them not to touch each other but when they are married, we are trying to force them to touch each other"
And you wonder why? Have you heard of the law of diminishing returns? exactly.
HOW CAN HE SEPARATE THE MOTHERS PAIN FROM HER ABILITY TO BE A GOOD MOTHER. IF SHE IS SUFFERING SHE CAN NOT CARE FOR HERSELF OR CHILDREN AS NEEDED
R Osime, u know the truth, u are just trying to defend and give excuses for women. U can only for urself not for all women.
Until you guys are ready to define the word "lust or sin" and how it is to be dealt with, you will not have a reasonable conclusion.
Once the children are involved, cheating could be forgiven, cheating cheapens a woman.
And it doesn’t cheapen men? 😂
Y’all think we women don’t see promiscuous men as dirty?
If not for the sake of kids involved in divorce, no gender worth forgiven of cheating... cheating is not by a mistake, is indeed intentional. ....
The anchor needs to be more professional in terms of communication skills. She is used to interrupting speakers during conversations.