Do Asian Men Approach American Women (AMWF)? 亚裔男生会主动与美国女生搭讪吗？한국 남자 접근 백인 여성 을 합니까?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 พ.ค. 2015
- Do Asian Men Approach American Women (AMWF)? What if white women liked Asian men, but no Asian men ever approached her and asked her out?
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中国做男人接近白人女性？
Zhōngguó zuò nánrén jiējìn báirén nǚxìng?
한국 남자 접근 백인 여성 을 합니까?
hangug namja jeobgeun baeg-in yeoseong eul habnikka?
日本の男性は、白人女性はアプローチですか？
Nihon no dansei wa, hakujin josei wa apurōchidesu ka?
Đừng Đàn ông Việt Phương pháp tiếp cận phụ nữ trắng ? - บันเทิง
Asian men are busy getting their MDs and PhDs. Leave them alone
Don't forget, we're engineers as well.
@@hnguye22 your right.
hahahahahahahaha
That degree may lead you straight to extinction!
Yep most of us are studying
doctors, lawyers, engineers, Computer Science.
So we don't have time to waste on chasing girls that are flakes.
Most western women flake way too much and have guys chasing them all day.
Higher quality Asians will not bother the women may have to chase them
also we exist outside of bars. they'd only find the players there.
Anime nerd girl is attractive she has my attention XD
I’m an Asian man and in general I / we don’t pickup women. We will be in contact through friends, family, colleagues, and shared interests, etc. Most Asian men I know aren’t against dating white women, just that there are a lot of super hot Asian women who don’t act like they are super hot and usually don’t have a history of multiple sex partners (most white women I know love to boast they have been with over 5 men).
Even tho I'm an Asian girl if I do anything disrespectful to the opposite gender I'd probably get hit, my guy friends too don't pick up girls, manners and respect are enforced for sure, culturally it's definitely discouraged
More than 5 ...
Let we say 10 men
Asian men and their parents have a high standard for women.
I think Asian men expect higher standard. Most of these women are just messing around.
I never thought about it that way, but after thinking about it...yea I didnt care for any of these girls. A couple seemed ok, but...theyre replies were kinda a deal breaker.
Most or all Asians tend to be conservative. Now, *don't* mix that with American politics.
@@robobo2226 im a asian conservative.
ya
They actually have very high standard about woman (not just about appearance) like personality, decent jobs, degrees, etc... Most black and Hispanic women don't have those.
As someone who has lived in the Midwest for 24 years, and 12 years in Southern California before that, I can tell you the "itty bitty dicky committee" girls are likely from the Midwest, based on the way they're dressed and their mannerisms and accents (yes, midwesterners have distinctive accents).
-the girl on the left said she likes black guys. That's very common nowadays in places like Chicago, Detroit and Indiana.
-"itty bitty dicky committee" and "itty bitty titty committee" was rap/hip hop slang terms.
-these girls look to be in the 20s and 30s.
-these girls are distinctively butcher and "thicker" than other girls in the video. They have less sophistication.
Do you see a pattern? These are all common traits of white girls in places like Michigan, Illinois, Indiana and Wisconsin. They have been raised on white latino and black men. They think these men are cool and exciting. They like black guys because they think they all have huge penises. In contrast, they believe the stereotype that Asian men have little penises. But they've never actually dated an Asian.
California girls especially in Orange County and places rich in Asian men are not like these 3 girls.
David Lin Nice cultural context! Very educational.
David Lin Fancy meeting you here, hey what do you know it's me again. lol. I don't know where all these girls are from, but I'm from Texas, and as a girl who was once in a relationship with a man that was Chinese American, I can honestly say that the "itty bitty dicky committee" thing does NOT speak for all Asian men. I keep watching these ABC's of attraction vids because I'm hoping that there are other girls out there that think and feel the same as I do and will say " yeah, I absolutely love Asian men! in fact, I love men of All types, because when it comes down to it, we're all just people, we all have hearts, ideas, thoughts, and feelings, organs, brains, and we all bleed the same, we all have to breathe, eat and sleep, we cry, we hate, we feel, we love, and in the end we're all the same. We are human beings.", but sadly I haven't seen that yet, and all I really can say is the same as my last comment on another vid, that not all American women think this way.
Thanks :) What does "moolovesyou" mean?
David Lin Your Welcome. And It's just something I made up, it doesn't really mean anything. lol.
***** oh my gosh, sorry! Yes I meant it does Not speak for all Asian men because my ex was Not small. In fact he was very very nice in that area. That's what I meant.
Love your videos. As an Asian guy, this is valuable information.
Ok if I approached that single chick, I guarantee that she would magically have a boyfriend
xD
Exactly that day they always have one
Hahaha
Means no unfortunately.
It’s just their way of saying no, move on. There will be someone else who will be attracted to you. What would you do if someone you aren’t into was hitting on you? You have to see it from their point of view
Why is this even an issue? If you like white girls just go for them, and if you don't like them then go for other girls. Why does this make it sounds like that Asian guys must date white girls?
Its because its very rare and its more common to see asian women with white or black men.
@@OooOoo-br5uq Asian women has tighter pussy than white girls thats why white and black guys want Asian women.
As an Asian man, women have rejected me all of my life. When I got older and started having a decent career, then suddenly women started liking me. Screw them. I've gone MGTOW. I have too much to lose now.
I like your self-victimized attitude :D
Great !
They can sense your money I guess
MGTOW is a right wing white supremacist 💩hole
@@MrHds46 Really? Have you heard of Coach Greg Adams, an African-American MGTOW coach?
It feels like they don’t filter much with this show which I like. Give you more of what real opinions are like
I've been seeing quite a few Asian men with non-Asian women lately. It's definitely not as rare as it used to be.
I'm an Asian-American living in Southern California who has experience dating non-Asian girls, and from my experience there are many girls of all races willing to date Asian guys. The majority of the girls that I've dated are white, and what I mostly hear from them is the same thing over and over again! White girls are open to dating Asian guys but Asian guys NEVER approach them! White girls would then assume that Asian guys only date Asian girls. On occasions, I would hear my non-Asian girlfriends say that they hadn't really thought about Asian guys until I had asked them out. Their perception of Asian guys had changed due to their experience with me. I'm NOT saying that all non-Asian girls are attracted to Asian guys but if they're not, that's ok, it's only a preference so don't take it personally; just move on! You'll never know if that white, black or hispanic girl likes Asian guys until you ask her out!
+Kevin P Good points Kevin, I agree.
i got rejected all the time by white women in CA :(
alexcd2009 It was probably something you said or the vibe you gave off. With CONFIDENCE you can get girls of all races.
+Kevin P Hmm interesting. I'm a Middle Eastern dude who's gonna move to South Cali soon does this apply for us too lol?
Andrew Blackop YES, this does apply to Middle-Eastern guys too. Through CONFIDENCE and TRIAL & ERROR, you will find the girl who would date you. Southern California is very multi-cultural therefore most girls here are opened to dating outside their race. Here's a secret...CONFIDENCE negates RACE. This means if you're a confident guy, your race would be a non-issue.
I’m Asian, and I love to date another race. But I know it’s not going to happen. Well I better go now.
And to be honest, the only hot girl in this entire video is the host herself. Most are average to bellow average at best. The black girl is pretty nice, though.
The most beautiful and the sweetest one is already married
Ask older woman what they thinks of Asian men. The average Asian men are in better shape than other race. You are asking little kid just wait a few years and look at those blondes, not too interesting . Looking good only the 1st 20% of the marathon but still 80% to go ladies. We drive Toyota's not Audi for long term reliability.
rick lulu “long term reliability” I’m deadddd
Oofff that’s the tea right there😂😂🍵
What???? I prefer high maintenance one ... like the Corvette Stingray, for maximum fun. I know most Asian love Toyota, way too boring for me. Btw, I am also Asian (but SOUTHeastern instead).
You make us sound like we are the master race.
just6437 that’s what my dad said
HELL YES! Wow! I love her answer. 😮
I love woman like this youtuber.
I'm Indian. And Indians have lot of stereotypes about western society. Indians believe in one, long, lifetime relationship. We are very loyal to our spouses. We have very low divorce rates. We try hard to save the relationship no matter whatever happens. And we tend to think that western society lacks these qualities hence we generally prefer Indians only.
Agreed man. It's weird how western people suddenly divorce or cheat on a whim
True brother
1:00 them Hispanics girls are Nice !
Them Curves,..especially the one with the hat ;)
so much fun to interview those 3 "pretty" ladies. They answered as if all Asian boys begged them irl to date them. so much fun...
I prefer sushi over cheeseburgers.
@Conservative Hamster ofc we do
@Conservative Hamster in general tea > coffee. Personal preferences, whats the big deal?
@Civilized whether we invented coffee or not has nothing to do with preference
Isabelle spitted bubble at 2:17 !!
+Justin Zhang Justin Zhang oh my god i lost it! HAHAHAHAHA
the guy in fast and furious 3 is sung kang
When you say Asian they understand Chinese or Japanese! But there are many different countries in Asia which don’t look like Chinese or Japanese guys! Consider that!
Yaahh! Correct
Definitely
The guy from Maze Runner though!! He's super hot!
what is her name the girl who asks questions?
I don't get it. It says American women, but none of those women are American....
ha ha!
?
Do you mean Native American?
kennen n who is American exactly? American citizen can be IDed by checking their passport.
kennen n u
why is it jackie chan and bruce lee only why not manny pacquiao??
What is the girl with the mic's name? She said it so fast and the transcript doesn't say.
0:57 that kid wearing a black flag shirt rocks!
amwf means asian male western female. conludes europe, north america, australia
Suggestion: its seems like you should gather a bunch of Asian guys that DO like dating outside their ethnicity to create a street challenge for individuals testing the water and to create opportunities. Even if denied, at least they were approached.
I wanted to post this because a lot of Asian guys always ask me how I approach and date different women of all races.
I am American Asian (Full Viet), most individuals in my network (Norcal and Socal people) don't ever see me "Asian", but as a Man. So be a man and do the right thing, lol.
Grant it, I Dated both Asians and non-Asians, from ebony to ivory or vice versa. Lady Pua is on point and so were some of the ladies she interviewed on the streets about approaching them and giving them the opportunity to reciprocate or deny.
..... you are only proving ladies RIGHT when you're not being assertive. If it was the other way around where the ladies can just simply say yes or no from their experiences, which is zelch for more than half it seems to be. Rejection is part of life and it just means when you DO receive the opportunity. Show how great we are! And it'll be definitive that she desires you.
Thanks Lady Pua and JT Tran for helping my ninjas,
J
that married woman has the looks of an angel, lucky guy who married her.
It's part of our culture. It's considered tacky and low class to hit on women we don't know. We wait to be introduced. I wish this channel would open non-Asian people's minds a little more and break down barriers. You guys perpetuate stereotypes without delving into the cultural aspects.
looks, personality and confidence is superficial. the only thing that really matters in a relationship is the character of the person. no point having looks, personality and confidence when he/she is going to cheat on you or leave you to die in dire situations. this is why its easy for girls to take the bait, there are books and classes all about how you can hook girls up. there are many avenues where you can learn to groom yourself, be able to master multiple personalities and portray yourself confidently but there is very little in building a good character. in fact those with good characters find it hard to play the dating/pickup "game".
2:19 - OMG THAT BUBBLE.
I wish I can date/marry an asian guy. I don't sleep around or drink and didn't really have any boyfriends. Its been 6+ years since I dated someone briefly. And I didn't even sleep with him. Guess he didn't like that cuz he broke up with me. Oh well. And I love watching asian dramas. When the host asked everyone what asian person they can think of I couldn't believe their answers. I mean seriously...the first people that came to my mind was wang kai, dilraba, yang mi etc. But thats because I love the shows and music :) I'm even learning chinese. But my family is indian-ish looking. I have tan skin and I don't think asian men like that very much. They might not like the cultural differences either.
Shawty in the blue dress
The interviewer is Hot.
FHRITP!
No she’s Asian
Tim R she’s Eurasian
She’s 100% Vietnamese
She's filipina
I grew up without any asians around me besides my family. So I had no choice but to date caucasians. To be fair I am really enjoying the interracial dating thing. Also my friends are all from different areas around the world so we have this group of guys with black people, middle eastern, euopeans, south american, indian and of course me the asian. When we go out all of us aproach girls without hesitation. The benefit of such group of friends is we know a lot from different cultures and we do get lucky with girls from different backgrounds and if I am not what you want what about my buddy hahaha :)
An Oriental man in a Western country generally has a hard time upholding his parents' desire for him to date and marry an Oriental woman, because they are rare in Western countries. And on top of that, the white guys already "stole" half of the Oriental women, leaving us with slim pickings.
That moment that asian guys say they get nervous because they can’t speak fluent English but it sounds just so agh when they have the accent 😍😍😂
Because we have this thought of white women doesnt like asian guys, we are also shy and most cannot talk fluent english, so i suggest white women should be the one initiating..
I wonder why that is. I’m very confident around any asian girl but overwhelmed around a white girl.
Small penis stereotype maybe, nothing to get nervous about.
@@Arandomuser3662 small penis stereotype is fake.
I have a 6-6.5 in one I measured correctly. I assume it's not just me.
Maybe it's just me or most asian americans with the food we eat have this difference.
So may not be genetics but nutrition.
What race/ethnicity is the host?
not often means yes...
2:14 did you see that bubble coming it of no where
Im Filipino raised LA well traveled growing up have always loved Latinas and forever will and along with life experiences I speak fluent Spanish my kids are half Hispanic in regards to Asian men I would say lack of self esteem and communication skills though I cannot speak for all and can also maybe due too cultural differences and said negative stereotypes of what an Asian man is or isn’t who knows may have some effect...At the end of the day it’s all about confidence with women and u have to know yourself before anything else... put it this way “You can never score if you don’t shoot” lol
Of course we do, if we see something we like. I actually find picking up women not difficult at all, however finding someone I like is rare. Nothing wrong with being picky right?
I brought my MD diploma to meet then gf's parents, it was a smooth transaction.
0:12 thats not even the question that was asked lol...
Bruce and Jackie? Come on grandmas!!!!
Size and color not matter. If you want be happy for short time so you can choose but you want happiness forever then you have to look for respect, love, faith and a love who can care of you for life time. 👁️
Only Asian guys these girls can think of are Jackie Chan and Bruce Lee......
killbot86 Ikr
killbot86 TRUE!
killbot86 cuz its AMURICA
killbot86 Because its murica and most, including the Asians in US, are not exposed to the world.
SO not true!! that's not what I think of when I think of Asian men, and I'm American. don't believe that about us!!
Asian women are prettier
I am one ugly dude well said!
Asian men are sexy!
No. Cuz if you see most of them, theyre unattractive. Especially the foreign exchange students
Jaden Jeong go to Asia tons of baddies hot ass Asian women
They're cutter but American girls are more beautiful and sexier😍
I am Asian
that girl at 1:19 damn shes a hunny. Surprised no guys approach her
1:00 That man in the background 😂😂😂
Laughter Therapy Hahaha he was checking her ass
The Truth is whether Black, White or Asian. People stick to their own people, because people are brought up to pass on there cultural traditions and values etc etc etc. Not saying that differences cannot work, but it takes incredible love, understanding and commitment for ethnic relationships to work out in the long term.
I personally just don't approach much women because its seems rude especially if they are working wherever you happen to be. Though I have also experienced women's distaste for Asian culture which has been a turn off generally speaking.
Asian men are smart and know the risk / reward odds. That’s why they don’t approach because the odds are very low on non-Asians.
I'm coming wait me
Back in the 90's JohnLone
I'm an Asian woman, I know about Asian men, they don't like the hotness of western girls, but they like gentleness, Asian men don't hesitate to issue money when they love as Westerners
1:13 damn, Latinas!
@2:36 those three girls just gross!
Wayne Hedd i actually think the leftmost one is cute, but once know how little they know the world around them...its a different story now(the other two irl definitely look like biches, like seriously)
dude their not, they're just being truthful, they like big dicks with no personality.
+Cymmer Lim wow...that is not where I was thinking this conversation was gonna go!
asian men have been destroyed by the media 😲
Have to agree, thots making white girls look bad.
Has anyone ever read the book L'amant (the lover) by Marguerite Duras. Or seen the movie that was made in 1992? It's about a French teenage girl, living in Indochina during the 1920's who becomes lovers with an older wealthy Chinese man. It's like one of those forbidden love type stories because well she is kind of young, 15 to be exact, and I don't know how old Jane March was when she played in that movie, but there sure was a lot of hot love scenes. Full on nude, hot, sweaty, body to body, type love scenes, that put the movie Un Faithful to shame. So yeah I highly recommend reading the book and watching the movie. It's a good love story.
I’m Asian I’ve been married to a Latina for over 10 years the difference in cultures is a big negative to be honest. It’s not easy.
Make an Asian guy approach them first and record what they said then interview them later. That will prove are they really into Asia men.
Most of them must be approached during pranks.. just a thought. . After watching Asian men prank compilation. .😉😉😉😉
I like Russian ladies. They are white, more beautiful and better shape than U. S.
@XRODEE 😂I m talking about the appearance of women. Who fuxking cares what parties and what country they belongs to?
I'm a Korean guy and I prefer to date East asian girls and this is mainly due to favoring partners with the ABCC11 gene, aka non stinky gene that gives you dry earwax.
Racial Superiority.
I'm asian a filipino I'm 6 feet
Who's the girl who said she's single. I would want to meet her. She's cute
that's true, not skinny enough...
Yup. Fat and ugly too.
HongKong...
they said theyre not skinny enough, not saying we're ugly
bruce lee, jackie chan is not the only men that can represent most asian men, there are plenty of tall gorgeous and charismatic asian men out there!
it's because we are scared especially me.
My last 3 exes have all been from random approaches at malls and bars... They were all Asian girls tho. FYI i am Asian.
Maybe she is gorgeous to you only, not to many guys. You can approach her yourself.
I honestly say to your video and who are suppot me a lot of thanks for them.besides who are not support me I heartly thanks because today or tomorrow they support me when they properly realised me.I heartly love and friendship to each other for get help or to help of others for no war,make relationship each others,peace and properity every society and country.who support me I extremly thanks all man women.
Just noticed this shits been up for 3 yrs now
I make myself noticable and then walk pass them back and forth back and forth until they recognize me and then eventually bump into them I DO THIS TO ALL WOMEN WHETHER THEY BLACK WHITE YELLOW BROWN PINK PURPLE #SHEHULK GREEN but usually if im feeling good vibes and notice a gal and her group of friends chuckling about something i'll definitely wave and say hi first before advancing further and introduce myself while conversating and usually if women already know of you already first hand and who you are they'll definitely approach the guys too and just respond with a simple greetings
我信了，嗯嗯
To all fellow Asian men: IT'S ALL ABOUT CONFIDENCE!! BE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO APPROACH THESE GIRLS OK!! 😉👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Ive said this many time on any vids regarding men or women attraction. White men, hispanic men, black men, and asian men like asian girls.
Can you please ask middle east women that "will you date asian guy"?
Burma Rising yes as long as you are Muslim
Usually Asian man will not approach American girls in the Country of they had been lived, because the language is different, when you are together, you can't talk to each other, others will be different living culture and the different living level, think about in Asian area, a man speak English, knowing about western culture, had a high level living life, watch HBO, CNN, TH-cam, facebook... you will love him too.
I remember when I approached a girl. A random guy came up and said who do you think you are? And started all this fuss. It was a white guy. That the short version. There was another time when i approached a girl and there were again white guys staring very intently at me. I felt there eyes. It was a long straight stare. They must be intimidated by me, I'm a social threat. One was like you got money?
damn they must be jealous and thinking *he's so good looking he's gonna get all the girls* just ignore them and do what you want
😂😂😂😂😂😂. If you didn't do anything wrong then its just fear.
Wish there could be more and better representations of asian guys in media other than Jackie Chan or Bruce Lee.
YOU SO RIGHT ! I am am so sick and tired of how Hollywood portrayed asian men, I mean I have to thanks korean and many other asian men in movies and pop culture that is changing the way the west view asian men.
1:15 mama I know fosho u wouldn't denied me
Most of the girls who have been interested in me were white, except a couple mexicans and maybe a couple asians. They introduced themselves to me and it might be because of our kind close knit community, so for you asian dudes out there just make sure you surround yourself with genuine people.
I think the problem is with our culture and tradition. We cannot take in an outsider who doesn’t know the value of the family system, expectation from society and the continuity of culture and tradition as a whole. An outsider will never understand.
Damn that girl with blue dress..
Those 3 women at 3:40 look like they are off from working the night shift. They look familiar.
FAST AND FURIOUS GUY A.K.A SUNG KANG
Asian Men here😁
ONIK OINK ~~ MISS PIGGY
Instead of asking “asian” just ask them the variety of Asians cause some people are clueless
What did the curvy girl with the blue dress at 4:03 say? She was cut off. Ngl she’s absolutely gorgeous too. Anyone know her @?
The host Isabelle was putting a positive spin and completing the answers for these girls. Some answers included race, hispanic girls reject Asian guys, and even Itty bitty dicky committee and she played it off. She's Asian and should of at least at them to elaborate on their answers.
Those girls with those answers were quite the ignorant type and butchy looking. In fact I didn't find any of them attractive.
Jude N. You know what, you're totally right. In fact, I had already realized it in the moment but I was so taken back by some of the responses that I was just speechless. So I defaulted to what I knew and just played it off. Looking back, I wish I could have taken it a little further to shed more light. But I also think that the girls in turn were also taken back by my questions. They weren't told beforehand what the exact questions were specifically about, I just asked them if I could interview them about dating. I do wonder that if I wasn't an Asian and was another ethnicity, whether they would have answered differently. Thanks for your feedback, really appreciate it :)
Isabelle Du I mean what is the point of showing interviews of racist people if you don't challenge them; what does the audience learn. Its like interviewing the KKK and acting like everything is normal. It could be a learning experience but know you just passively do nothing. All this does is anger people. Additionally, you kind of reinforced the stereotype that Asian people are passive and will just take racism -_- which is why the people probably felt comfortable to say it to you in the first place.
Delahunta Again, I completely agree with you. In fact, this is the backlash I was most afraid of - people perceiving me as part of the problem and not the solution by not addressing it. I won't deny that I seem passive to you. Unfortunately, I've become more passive over the years because I've had my fair share of racism that I've addressed head on and point blank over the years to the point where it stresses, depresses me and takes a lot out of me. My body and mind now reacts as a defensive mechanism because it has muscle memories from my past experiences. Sometimes I don't think I've healed from it completely. I have had an entire student body isolate me during my senior year of college because of an e-mail that went viral on campus where I called out a student president candidate as racist. My grades slipped and I was afraid to be on campus. I am a person. It actually makes me sad to read this comment because it's the complete opposite of everything I want to be and I hope you understand that I am a person. Yes, I wish I could've represented Asian Americans better by really calling these girls out but I'm still learning. We're all still learning, really.
Isabelle Du I understand you are human and that it can be hard to confront people btw I am Asian too. I am curious though why you decided to show the racist people and you interviewing them, you did not have to show it and it does not seem to serve a purpose to the viewing audience. When it comes to confronting people, I feel some people feel trapped feel that they either have to come up with the perfect comeback which paralyzes them into passivity. You could have always walked away, shook your head, said hey Im asian, said I can''t believe you are saying this to me...etc.
I understand you are an actor/model and that puts you in a tricky situation because its really hard to find work that does not demean asians/ I understand you have to eat, but could at least be mindful of the messages you send. BTW, I do you think you look good as a person, I would hope someone with your looks would not have trouble finding work.