[f4a] GF walks in on you packing a bag [fight][I can explain][I'm not cheating on you!]

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  • @primrosevale1995
    @primrosevale1995 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Thank you for showing such a mature and caring way to handle misunderstandings in a relationship.

  • @angelmatiastorres
    @angelmatiastorres ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Oh boy... This is going to be intense

    • @davidoberhaus5995
      @davidoberhaus5995 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      These types of audios always give me anxiety and flashbacks to my last relationship. Every time we got in an argument the only thing I could do was try to calm her down, but it NEVER worked, so I hate arguments.

    • @angelmatiastorres
      @angelmatiastorres ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@davidoberhaus5995 i hope you get a better relationship!

    • @Dystopian_k1ng
      @Dystopian_k1ng ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My thoughts going into this exactly

    • @tpfraden7249
      @tpfraden7249 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m taking a dump rn

    • @Dystopian_k1ng
      @Dystopian_k1ng ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tpfraden7249 absolute menace💀

  • @crazyanimegamer5667
    @crazyanimegamer5667 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    When you feel like you've been betrayed, even if you actually haven't been, you'll make rushed decisions. You need to talk it out to make sure you don't make a huge mistake.

  • @ImperialGuardsman2
    @ImperialGuardsman2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    You ate my chicken nuggies. That's unforgivable.

  • @Blindluck92
    @Blindluck92 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    "She's not part of my life. She doesn't *get* to know what's going on with me."
    In other words, why waste time or energy even thinking about the ex when it can be better spent on the wonderful relationship you've got now?
    This was emotional and wonderful. Thanks for the audio, Kat.

    • @darksaigith7285
      @darksaigith7285 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well said, and 'grats on the N7 ranking

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Communication is the best way to handle problems and this shows why

  • @squiddyt
    @squiddyt ปีที่แล้ว +28

    its always communication that rlly makes a difference in a relationship, thanku sm for this !

  • @SilverTonguedDevil999
    @SilverTonguedDevil999 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really love this.. wholesome af in a way that most don’t see. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever been spoken to this way.. and that dawned some things on me just now.

  • @SolarGirlASMR
    @SolarGirlASMR ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Yess perfect timing, I'm so ready to go on emotional rollercoaster right now 🙌

    • @Dctctx
      @Dctctx ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You’re everywhere I stg

    • @JakeSm4sh
      @JakeSm4sh ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣. My emotions were through the roof

    • @liamfinnegan2314
      @liamfinnegan2314 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y are u in everywhere like seriously lol

    • @keck4022
      @keck4022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Didn’t expected you her but okay

  • @clarknova1567
    @clarknova1567 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Always block your toxic ex's ladies and gents.

  • @thenargles
    @thenargles ปีที่แล้ว +47

    You are one of the best VAs on TH-cam, but I was still a bit shocked at how brilliant your performance is in this audio. It’s so intense and full of emotion, it actually made me brought tears to my eyes. Amazing, Kat.

  • @Spaceman_VA
    @Spaceman_VA ปีที่แล้ว +42

    A scary scenario for sure, but I love the wholesome ending. Great as always Kat...🌌

  • @crystalin_N
    @crystalin_N 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Jesus, I really am not finding love am I?

    • @bolittle1
      @bolittle1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Real (Stay positive man, our time to shine will come sooner than later)

    • @crystalin_N
      @crystalin_N 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bolittle1 I hope it does. Because any sign I see, I take it as a symbol of hope. Or, an escape.

    • @Grimreaper15264
      @Grimreaper15264 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same, wish you luck, I'm out of it

    • @Nathan-n6s
      @Nathan-n6s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even in relationships, love isn’t real.

  • @coolkid558_
    @coolkid558_ ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Omg this was so sweet and wholesome and nice I loved this so much. The speaker was so sweet and kind and caring, her hating us feeling unsafe with her was so pure, and her giving us the option to have space and/or take time to think about everything and expressing that she wants us to be ok and happy was so awesome that was such a nice touch., as was her reassuring us that we’re the only one she wants and that we’re so important and matter so much to her, and that she loves us so much. This was adorable and awesome amazing work

  • @Antonio-is2cn
    @Antonio-is2cn ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "I'M LEAVING!"

  • @R4vencl4w
    @R4vencl4w ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very nice audio. Could've been me packing my things after reading that.

  • @Staynes89
    @Staynes89 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Great stuff Kat love your range of topics in your audios!

  • @andrewdavido963
    @andrewdavido963 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can already tell by the title this is gonna be one intense audio looking forward to it!!!

  • @levejurgensen7007
    @levejurgensen7007 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thats gonna be a tough one.

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yay your have gotten 30K subs! Congratulations Kat. ❤

  • @ren3295
    @ren3295 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    “Blocking her right now” that doesn’t change the fact that you only do it because your partner found out. Idk how someone would think it isn’t worth mentioning even though you yourself said you would be upset if the roles were reversed in that situation. Me personally I believe you should completely cut ties (yes that means blocking them) with a previous partner to me it just doesn’t make sense to keep a previous “lover” in contact letting them text you gives them the hope of you seeing the messages and responding the fact that you even see it could be enough to satisfy them and leads them on to keep going.

    • @nightfurmoonfang3391
      @nightfurmoonfang3391 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Did the same thing, things did in fact get better... want the best for her still, but that's been history 3+ years

  • @Goblinsimo
    @Goblinsimo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man… i need a gf

  • @coreybrown1366
    @coreybrown1366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could meet someone like this dope video

  • @This_handle_isnt_available_H
    @This_handle_isnt_available_H 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Didn't tell you/Didn't block her - bro is keeping ex as a backup plan.

  • @TheReddDevil666
    @TheReddDevil666 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish I knew what love felt like

  • @fbi5972
    @fbi5972 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fbi approved.

  • @billi5920
    @billi5920 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man I've never been in a relationship and this scares me to the point where i thought 🤔 man the fan be looking fine tho

  • @Ethanol245
    @Ethanol245 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, this was amazing 👏 😍 ❤️

  • @NomadicDave2032
    @NomadicDave2032 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reminds me of how utterly destroyed and broken inside I am, it’s a regret that I have probably the only one in my years that I never found anyone that didn’t stab me in the back and then laugh at me because of my stupidity that I actually trusted someone.

  • @s1nful_s41nt
    @s1nful_s41nt ปีที่แล้ว +36

    hope I stretched before jumping to those conclusions god damn

    • @eepyart
      @eepyart ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BAHAHAHAHA OMG IMA DIEEEE

  • @NAZGULLAK
    @NAZGULLAK ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Lmao, I broke up with a girl a while ago, cos she still was after her ex. He was texting her, her friends etc. She was mad about it but she NEVER blocked him... Even when I told her to do it. She was nothing but a pain in the arse. She never loved me, she haven't respected me at all...

    • @Luke_existent
      @Luke_existent ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This might be a hot take from me, but, if you're still talking to your ex, do not get in a relationship again, being someone's ex is irreversible, to the point where you can't just go back to being friendly, like nothing happened, something is bound to stir up in the future, and putting someone in the middle of it is wasting their time

    • @NAZGULLAK
      @NAZGULLAK ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Luke_existent Thx, nah man, you're right, I don't talk to her at all. I also removed her from every social I had her on. So its been almost a year since I've spoke, or seen her.

  • @Depressed_Ferrari_Fan_16
    @Depressed_Ferrari_Fan_16 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aw shit, here we go again.

  • @sonkey7128
    @sonkey7128 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Clairo listened to this, and wrote Bags after it

  • @dreamlessking9
    @dreamlessking9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I will never understand why people would put themselves into these kinds of situations. But good vid nonetheless

  • @Nathan-n6s
    @Nathan-n6s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trouble is, it’s clear the listener is just imposing on her. She’d rather be available to her ex so…

  • @francocarlyledimarucut653
    @francocarlyledimarucut653 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm heading to Ohio and I'm going to work for Mr white and also ill have to cook with jesse

  • @Bob-sg5jf
    @Bob-sg5jf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stg you sound like LTG on his rant in this one

  • @odin0707
    @odin0707 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice

  • @Z3ph1s
    @Z3ph1s 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh shi, not again

  • @ultiduo
    @ultiduo ปีที่แล้ว +3

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a rough but also very sweet one. Very well done as always. Btw congratulations on 30K, I know your not quite there yet as of making this comment but I’m sure you will be there super soon now.

  • @xRenStormYT
    @xRenStormYT ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey, New Sub Here! Now I have to see what's instore for the future!

  • @Nyghtgirl27
    @Nyghtgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So does this mean that Kat is gonna off us in the next video? I would like that very much. Lol

  • @johncena6698
    @johncena6698 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Relationshiph

  • @gabegabe5272
    @gabegabe5272 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice

  • @JakeSm4sh
    @JakeSm4sh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Comment for the algorithm

  • @tinytim7350
    @tinytim7350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guys don’t fall for this if they don’t block them it ain’t gonna end well for you

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    ... well if you're not messaging back why am I packing? Ngl the scenario is written kind of stupid.

    • @northernalpine4350
      @northernalpine4350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The MC sounds like hes keen on sabotaging this relationship no matter the cost and it made me facepalm straight through my skull

  • @Xinyamni
    @Xinyamni ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so uh is the listener the one who packs the bag or the person who walks in

    • @keck4022
      @keck4022 ปีที่แล้ว

      The listener (bit late)

  • @barnykirashi
    @barnykirashi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact her ex is a woman.......it doesn't just hit home, it hits me right through the guts with a crowbar.
    I'm leaving now, before my trauma returns.

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How do people not block their exes?
    How is 0 contact so hard when youre in a loving commited relationship?
    Oh yeah... because shes obviously a cheater, and manipulator.

    • @stokeyarcanum5754
      @stokeyarcanum5754 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My favorite line "I don't think she deserves the attention of being blocked" lmao what?

    • @fredericksaxton9782
      @fredericksaxton9782 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depends on the ex. You can have a good friendship with some, others will make new accounts after you block them because negative attention is still attention.

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fredericksaxton9782 being friends with an ex, even when possible, is not a good idea.

    • @scpfoundation8376
      @scpfoundation8376 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Synthetic94well damn, I’m friends with one. Though I’m not dating anyone and she is. And I still secretly laugh at how toxic they sometimes are. She’s so overly sensitive and says unnecessary shxt out of nowhere. Hence why we work better as friends. But Jesus can she be over emotional.

    • @northernalpine4350
      @northernalpine4350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Damn, youre that insecure in your relationship that you think your partner would come crawling back to their EX just because you see them Manic texting them while blackout drunk or Lonely in the middle of the night?
      Real nice display of maturity and trust there bub, keep at it, Next you should put a tracker on her bag, a phone app to Spy on every chatlog and messages she ever sends, a private investigator to Dig into everything about her life
      Fuck, while youre at it, pry open her brain too and prod around in there, if you had a dream of em cheating, that's a good enough reason right?

  • @Hereandqueer
    @Hereandqueer ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me when I heard her :) 🫶🌈

  • @AsaLaukka
    @AsaLaukka 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🥺

  • @lol-2247
    @lol-2247 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello there??

  • @northernalpine4350
    @northernalpine4350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man, the MC sounded so keen on Sabotaging his relationship with her right then and there lmfao, like i get what youre feeling but calm your ass down and let her talk 😂

  • @gameplays-mj3wi
    @gameplays-mj3wi ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What kind of insecure man am i in thjs story

  • @thedudefromurcloset
    @thedudefromurcloset ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “She”??

  • @georginaarmstrong6381
    @georginaarmstrong6381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Er dears you have name you have love stages your eggs your girls sad

  • @grapes196
    @grapes196 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Is this for lesbians only?

    • @totallynotcarter
      @totallynotcarter ปีที่แล้ว +19

      No? Shes bi I think, so just because she 'dated a woman' doesn't mean she also wouldn't date a male or someone gender-neutral.

    • @grapes196
      @grapes196 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@totallynotcarter Jesus Christ u people always find a way to turn a simple comment into something ‘offensive.’

    • @totallynotcarter
      @totallynotcarter ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@grapes196 I didn't think it was offensive, just miss-informed

    • @grapes196
      @grapes196 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Catnip no. It’s just that she is a woman. And she’s referring to girls in the video. Don’t act like it was an offensive question

    • @grapes196
      @grapes196 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Catnip I don’t even know what this f4f stuff is

  • @X.Factor310
    @X.Factor310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right leave you All the shit if I find one fucking thing it’s done you hear me done. I ain’t coming back. Oh my God you were fucking lying. I’m sorry I overreacted. I just thought that I don’t know that you were gonna break what we had and I was looking again just someone was cheating on me come here let me hold you all those things are true. My life was kind of like yours. I was a mess but now you think about it I would like to spend the rest of my life with you dead serious, but one step at a time for now, we just get over this, and then the future

  • @randorandorando659
    @randorandorando659 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    not telling your partner right away and still having their ex's images or text. is a BIG NO! Dump her and leave

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Finally someone with sense

  • @totallynotcarter
    @totallynotcarter ปีที่แล้ว +3