These types of audios always give me anxiety and flashbacks to my last relationship. Every time we got in an argument the only thing I could do was try to calm her down, but it NEVER worked, so I hate arguments.
When you feel like you've been betrayed, even if you actually haven't been, you'll make rushed decisions. You need to talk it out to make sure you don't make a huge mistake.
"She's not part of my life. She doesn't *get* to know what's going on with me." In other words, why waste time or energy even thinking about the ex when it can be better spent on the wonderful relationship you've got now? This was emotional and wonderful. Thanks for the audio, Kat.
Really love this.. wholesome af in a way that most don’t see. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever been spoken to this way.. and that dawned some things on me just now.
You are one of the best VAs on TH-cam, but I was still a bit shocked at how brilliant your performance is in this audio. It’s so intense and full of emotion, it actually made me brought tears to my eyes. Amazing, Kat.
Omg this was so sweet and wholesome and nice I loved this so much. The speaker was so sweet and kind and caring, her hating us feeling unsafe with her was so pure, and her giving us the option to have space and/or take time to think about everything and expressing that she wants us to be ok and happy was so awesome that was such a nice touch., as was her reassuring us that we’re the only one she wants and that we’re so important and matter so much to her, and that she loves us so much. This was adorable and awesome amazing work
“Blocking her right now” that doesn’t change the fact that you only do it because your partner found out. Idk how someone would think it isn’t worth mentioning even though you yourself said you would be upset if the roles were reversed in that situation. Me personally I believe you should completely cut ties (yes that means blocking them) with a previous partner to me it just doesn’t make sense to keep a previous “lover” in contact letting them text you gives them the hope of you seeing the messages and responding the fact that you even see it could be enough to satisfy them and leads them on to keep going.
Reminds me of how utterly destroyed and broken inside I am, it’s a regret that I have probably the only one in my years that I never found anyone that didn’t stab me in the back and then laugh at me because of my stupidity that I actually trusted someone.
Lmao, I broke up with a girl a while ago, cos she still was after her ex. He was texting her, her friends etc. She was mad about it but she NEVER blocked him... Even when I told her to do it. She was nothing but a pain in the arse. She never loved me, she haven't respected me at all...
This might be a hot take from me, but, if you're still talking to your ex, do not get in a relationship again, being someone's ex is irreversible, to the point where you can't just go back to being friendly, like nothing happened, something is bound to stir up in the future, and putting someone in the middle of it is wasting their time
@@Luke_existent Thx, nah man, you're right, I don't talk to her at all. I also removed her from every social I had her on. So its been almost a year since I've spoke, or seen her.
This is a rough but also very sweet one. Very well done as always. Btw congratulations on 30K, I know your not quite there yet as of making this comment but I’m sure you will be there super soon now.
The fact her ex is a woman.......it doesn't just hit home, it hits me right through the guts with a crowbar. I'm leaving now, before my trauma returns.
How do people not block their exes? How is 0 contact so hard when youre in a loving commited relationship? Oh yeah... because shes obviously a cheater, and manipulator.
Depends on the ex. You can have a good friendship with some, others will make new accounts after you block them because negative attention is still attention.
@@Synthetic94well damn, I’m friends with one. Though I’m not dating anyone and she is. And I still secretly laugh at how toxic they sometimes are. She’s so overly sensitive and says unnecessary shxt out of nowhere. Hence why we work better as friends. But Jesus can she be over emotional.
Damn, youre that insecure in your relationship that you think your partner would come crawling back to their EX just because you see them Manic texting them while blackout drunk or Lonely in the middle of the night? Real nice display of maturity and trust there bub, keep at it, Next you should put a tracker on her bag, a phone app to Spy on every chatlog and messages she ever sends, a private investigator to Dig into everything about her life Fuck, while youre at it, pry open her brain too and prod around in there, if you had a dream of em cheating, that's a good enough reason right?
Man, the MC sounded so keen on Sabotaging his relationship with her right then and there lmfao, like i get what youre feeling but calm your ass down and let her talk 😂
Right leave you All the shit if I find one fucking thing it’s done you hear me done. I ain’t coming back. Oh my God you were fucking lying. I’m sorry I overreacted. I just thought that I don’t know that you were gonna break what we had and I was looking again just someone was cheating on me come here let me hold you all those things are true. My life was kind of like yours. I was a mess but now you think about it I would like to spend the rest of my life with you dead serious, but one step at a time for now, we just get over this, and then the future
Thank you for showing such a mature and caring way to handle misunderstandings in a relationship.
Oh boy... This is going to be intense
These types of audios always give me anxiety and flashbacks to my last relationship. Every time we got in an argument the only thing I could do was try to calm her down, but it NEVER worked, so I hate arguments.
@@davidoberhaus5995 i hope you get a better relationship!
My thoughts going into this exactly
I’m taking a dump rn
@@tpfraden7249 absolute menace💀
When you feel like you've been betrayed, even if you actually haven't been, you'll make rushed decisions. You need to talk it out to make sure you don't make a huge mistake.
True
yknow this isnt real right?
You ate my chicken nuggies. That's unforgivable.
Throw her at 682
I’m gonna take over SCP 999, it’ll be funny
Unleash SCP-094
Crazy
Nuggets
"She's not part of my life. She doesn't *get* to know what's going on with me."
In other words, why waste time or energy even thinking about the ex when it can be better spent on the wonderful relationship you've got now?
This was emotional and wonderful. Thanks for the audio, Kat.
well said, and 'grats on the N7 ranking
Communication is the best way to handle problems and this shows why
its always communication that rlly makes a difference in a relationship, thanku sm for this !
Really love this.. wholesome af in a way that most don’t see. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever been spoken to this way.. and that dawned some things on me just now.
Yess perfect timing, I'm so ready to go on emotional rollercoaster right now 🙌
You’re everywhere I stg
🤣🤣🤣. My emotions were through the roof
Y are u in everywhere like seriously lol
Didn’t expected you her but okay
Always block your toxic ex's ladies and gents.
You are one of the best VAs on TH-cam, but I was still a bit shocked at how brilliant your performance is in this audio. It’s so intense and full of emotion, it actually made me brought tears to my eyes. Amazing, Kat.
A scary scenario for sure, but I love the wholesome ending. Great as always Kat...🌌
Jesus, I really am not finding love am I?
Real (Stay positive man, our time to shine will come sooner than later)
@@bolittle1 I hope it does. Because any sign I see, I take it as a symbol of hope. Or, an escape.
Same, wish you luck, I'm out of it
Even in relationships, love isn’t real.
Omg this was so sweet and wholesome and nice I loved this so much. The speaker was so sweet and kind and caring, her hating us feeling unsafe with her was so pure, and her giving us the option to have space and/or take time to think about everything and expressing that she wants us to be ok and happy was so awesome that was such a nice touch., as was her reassuring us that we’re the only one she wants and that we’re so important and matter so much to her, and that she loves us so much. This was adorable and awesome amazing work
"I'M LEAVING!"
Very nice audio. Could've been me packing my things after reading that.
Great stuff Kat love your range of topics in your audios!
I can already tell by the title this is gonna be one intense audio looking forward to it!!!
Thats gonna be a tough one.
Yay your have gotten 30K subs! Congratulations Kat. ❤
“Blocking her right now” that doesn’t change the fact that you only do it because your partner found out. Idk how someone would think it isn’t worth mentioning even though you yourself said you would be upset if the roles were reversed in that situation. Me personally I believe you should completely cut ties (yes that means blocking them) with a previous partner to me it just doesn’t make sense to keep a previous “lover” in contact letting them text you gives them the hope of you seeing the messages and responding the fact that you even see it could be enough to satisfy them and leads them on to keep going.
Did the same thing, things did in fact get better... want the best for her still, but that's been history 3+ years
Man… i need a gf
I wish I could meet someone like this dope video
Didn't tell you/Didn't block her - bro is keeping ex as a backup plan.
I wish I knew what love felt like
Fbi approved.
What are u doing here
Man I've never been in a relationship and this scares me to the point where i thought 🤔 man the fan be looking fine tho
Wow, this was amazing 👏 😍 ❤️
Reminds me of how utterly destroyed and broken inside I am, it’s a regret that I have probably the only one in my years that I never found anyone that didn’t stab me in the back and then laugh at me because of my stupidity that I actually trusted someone.
hope I stretched before jumping to those conclusions god damn
BAHAHAHAHA OMG IMA DIEEEE
Lmao, I broke up with a girl a while ago, cos she still was after her ex. He was texting her, her friends etc. She was mad about it but she NEVER blocked him... Even when I told her to do it. She was nothing but a pain in the arse. She never loved me, she haven't respected me at all...
This might be a hot take from me, but, if you're still talking to your ex, do not get in a relationship again, being someone's ex is irreversible, to the point where you can't just go back to being friendly, like nothing happened, something is bound to stir up in the future, and putting someone in the middle of it is wasting their time
@@Luke_existent Thx, nah man, you're right, I don't talk to her at all. I also removed her from every social I had her on. So its been almost a year since I've spoke, or seen her.
Aw shit, here we go again.
Clairo listened to this, and wrote Bags after it
I will never understand why people would put themselves into these kinds of situations. But good vid nonetheless
Trouble is, it’s clear the listener is just imposing on her. She’d rather be available to her ex so…
I'm heading to Ohio and I'm going to work for Mr white and also ill have to cook with jesse
Stg you sound like LTG on his rant in this one
Very nice
Oh shi, not again
This is a rough but also very sweet one. Very well done as always. Btw congratulations on 30K, I know your not quite there yet as of making this comment but I’m sure you will be there super soon now.
Hey, New Sub Here! Now I have to see what's instore for the future!
So does this mean that Kat is gonna off us in the next video? I would like that very much. Lol
Relationshiph
nice
Comment for the algorithm
Guys don’t fall for this if they don’t block them it ain’t gonna end well for you
... well if you're not messaging back why am I packing? Ngl the scenario is written kind of stupid.
The MC sounds like hes keen on sabotaging this relationship no matter the cost and it made me facepalm straight through my skull
so uh is the listener the one who packs the bag or the person who walks in
The listener (bit late)
The fact her ex is a woman.......it doesn't just hit home, it hits me right through the guts with a crowbar.
I'm leaving now, before my trauma returns.
How do people not block their exes?
How is 0 contact so hard when youre in a loving commited relationship?
Oh yeah... because shes obviously a cheater, and manipulator.
My favorite line "I don't think she deserves the attention of being blocked" lmao what?
Depends on the ex. You can have a good friendship with some, others will make new accounts after you block them because negative attention is still attention.
@@fredericksaxton9782 being friends with an ex, even when possible, is not a good idea.
@@Synthetic94well damn, I’m friends with one. Though I’m not dating anyone and she is. And I still secretly laugh at how toxic they sometimes are. She’s so overly sensitive and says unnecessary shxt out of nowhere. Hence why we work better as friends. But Jesus can she be over emotional.
Damn, youre that insecure in your relationship that you think your partner would come crawling back to their EX just because you see them Manic texting them while blackout drunk or Lonely in the middle of the night?
Real nice display of maturity and trust there bub, keep at it, Next you should put a tracker on her bag, a phone app to Spy on every chatlog and messages she ever sends, a private investigator to Dig into everything about her life
Fuck, while youre at it, pry open her brain too and prod around in there, if you had a dream of em cheating, that's a good enough reason right?
Me when I heard her :) 🫶🌈
🥺
Hello there??
Man, the MC sounded so keen on Sabotaging his relationship with her right then and there lmfao, like i get what youre feeling but calm your ass down and let her talk 😂
What kind of insecure man am i in thjs story
“She”??
What about it?
You gotta problem with that @Gh0st_M? Or was it just unexpected?
Some people are lesbian/bi/pan, Steve.
Er dears you have name you have love stages your eggs your girls sad
Is this for lesbians only?
No? Shes bi I think, so just because she 'dated a woman' doesn't mean she also wouldn't date a male or someone gender-neutral.
@@totallynotcarter Jesus Christ u people always find a way to turn a simple comment into something ‘offensive.’
@@grapes196 I didn't think it was offensive, just miss-informed
@Catnip no. It’s just that she is a woman. And she’s referring to girls in the video. Don’t act like it was an offensive question
@Catnip I don’t even know what this f4f stuff is
Right leave you All the shit if I find one fucking thing it’s done you hear me done. I ain’t coming back. Oh my God you were fucking lying. I’m sorry I overreacted. I just thought that I don’t know that you were gonna break what we had and I was looking again just someone was cheating on me come here let me hold you all those things are true. My life was kind of like yours. I was a mess but now you think about it I would like to spend the rest of my life with you dead serious, but one step at a time for now, we just get over this, and then the future
not telling your partner right away and still having their ex's images or text. is a BIG NO! Dump her and leave
Finally someone with sense