Our Sweet Little Everly | Stillborn At 40 Weeks
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- Katy talks with Winter about the birth of her daughter Everly, who was stillborn at 40 weeks. Katy recounts the joy and excitement the she had during the pregnancy, which seemed to be a perfect pregnancy. Katy and Winter talk about the sadness and total heartbreak of finding out that Everly didn't have a heartbeat and the fear of having to then deliver her sweet little baby.
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Winter Redd, please allow me to commend you on your ability to hold space for the grief of the mamas who are sharing their stories of their beautiful lost Babes. You allow the silence in between their words, without trying to fill the air w meaningless words...you hold space in such a compassionate way. I love what you & Lee are doing with your platform ❤️
I am a death and grief/bereavement doula. We are a source of comfort, an ear, a liaison and just someone to be non-medical support when called upon. This channel is absolutely needed and absolutely beautiful. No one knows a parents grief better than parents who’ve walked in and lived to tell of their journey. God bless and please keep up this fantastic work.
These stories are so touching, I lost my baby at 10 weeks and can not imagine the pain. Thank you for creating a safe place to share
I'm so sorry Mama. I too know this pain. My daughter Naomi Joy was stillborn at 26 weeks December 2014. Your sweet girl was beautiful ❤
I love that you took baby Everly outside!
Winter you do an excellent job of interviewing thru a hard subject.
Oh my word! Your baby was beautiful!
Oh momma. She’s so BEAUTIFUL ❤😢❤
My mother had triplets in 1953 that were stillborn. Debra
, Diane and Daniel . They are in heaven and one day I will with them.
What a sweet interviewer. Loved her. Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings to you❤️
She’s so beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss!
These stories are absolutely gut wrenching. I just hate, hate, hate this for these families. I pray for healing, peace and comfort for these beautiful precious families.
I lost my Lil girl Angel she was a stillborn its been 33 yrs and I still think of her everyday its so special to have made memories with our Lil girls to remember on birthdays and holidays I to had a awesome hospital just remember its not your fault may god bless you and keep you in his loving arms
Im so sorry for your loss. To leave with empty arms is heartbreaking.
What a perfect lil woman she's the sweetest ❤ god bless you all through this xoxo 👑❣😇
May God comfort this mom and dad 😢
The pictures are so precious because they show that she was here, your sweet daughter. An angel too beautiful for this earth. 💖
She was such a pretty girl. And she is very loved and remebered by you. Thank you for sharing your story
Lots of love. I'm a mum to 4 angels. You never stop grieving, but the scar gets easier to wear ❤
Thank you for your bravery in telling this grandmother about the loss of you very special
Baby Everly. She will be a sister one day and I send you love and the best of good wishes for you future as a family. (From New Zealand)
This is such a very sad story. I can’t even imagine what they are going through. My heart breaks for them.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this deep pain. I too, had a stillborn baby girl, just over 2 years ago and all I can say is the pain does become less but the missing her and longing just becomes a part of us. And it should because our precious little babies are a part of us and when they're gone from our side we feel it. Our stories are exactly the same. Everything was perfect until the day before she was born. And we also got the same answer as to why she passed away. Praying for you 🙏 ❤
Such a sad, but beautiful story. I think your story, Katy, may help others who are faced with loss know that it is okay to take their time and grieve in a way that is best for them. She's a beautiful baby.
RIP Everly 🌹 No parent should ever have to bury their child. It's always tragic. My deepest condolences 😢
Your baby is precious. I love her teeny lips. Im sorry you lost her. I cant imagine your pain. I lost a baby at 10 weeks, it was traumatic.
This channel has helped me a lot. I can't thank everyone that has shared their stories with us enough. I start my grieving process all over, every year from now, until fall. Nobody in my family has experienced a loss like I have, so it's hard to explain to them why I still get sad and depressed all over again. It gets a little better every year, but as too many of us know, it is far from easy to just "move on".
Your story of Everly is as beautiful as it is sad. I’m so sorry that this happened
I am so sorry of your loss .🙏🙏
Im so sorry for your loss, Katie. Everly is a beautiful name. I too lost a baby. I had a tubular pregnancy in 1991. I wasnt able to have anymore due to cystic overies and endometriosis. My heart breaks for you and your husband. I cried while you told your story. My thoughts and prayers are with you.🙏
Thank you for sharing the story of Angel Everly who now is in heaven cooing at grandma! ❤
Hugs so very Sorry That puppy dog just adores you you can tell your a Beautiful mom inside and out
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for your loss
Thank you for sharing your story of your beautiful daughter Everly. You are so incredibly brave.
I also have to say, the nurses at that hospital were angels sent from heaven. God bless them.
Sobbing. I’m soo sorry….my son died at 17…I thought nothing could be harder til I heard of your EVERLY…
I love that name Everly it’s beautiful
Katy, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl Everly. She is a precious little angel. My heart breaks for you and your husband. May God bless you both.
RIP precious baby girl Everly 😇💕💕💕
I love her name! Everly It's one of my favorites! She is beautiful. 💔
❤❤❤sending you love and hope
Thank you for sharing Everly's story. This has enlightened me so much about what parents go through when dealing with such unspeakable loss. Not knowing how to comfort, just simply being there is comfort in itself. But there is a happy reunion awaiting you. Be assured. Not goodbye, but just goodnight. 👪
I lost my baby in 1972. She was a little girl and I was 21. They never let me look at her they said it was better if I didn't and I kept asking them why And I was so naive so I agreed with them. My mom buried her in yellow. She told me she was beautiful. I still go to visit her and look at the babies near her who have been forgotten. How could parents forget. I went 36 weeks pregnant. They said natural causes. Never believed it.😢😢
I went through this in 1974. Never got to see her or hold her. Stillborn at 39 weeks. Was my 3 rd pregnancy. I had a IUD and still got pregnant. Did not feel as well as with with the others. They did not know why she was stillborn. Yellow was the gown and blanket for her casket. No Sonos back then. I felt so empty even though I had a 4 and 6 yr. Old. I was 24.🙏💕
So sorry for your loss. I believe drs and nurses were very nieve at the time. Im glad medicine has gotten better and there is more (not enough) support for grieving parent's.
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Oh Judy I weep with you even though I don't know you. The pain of your loss is so poignant in your voice. I am so so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry. She was beautiful. God bless you.
Thankyou for sharing your story of little Everly, she is a beautiful baby with a beautiful family. ForEverly remembered
These stories are all so unique. However, we all have one thing in common we have suffered great and almost indescribable loss at a time when we were supposed to feel pure joy. I have been a part of many of these heartbreaking stories many times, having worked labor and delivery, and then during the pandemic, we experienced our own devastating loss. What a whirlwind. To those of you that share your stories on this channel. Thank you! Sharing is both healing for you and help and encouragement to others who have to walk a similar path. It can feel like such a lonely journey. God bless and much love to anyone who has experienced a similar situation 🙏
I'm so sorry. Everly is beautiful.
I’m sorry for your loss. My sister lost full term twins. My heart aches for you both ❤
The pain in your voice is palpable💔 You seem like the sweetest, kindest soul🥺 I am so deeply sorry that this is something you're having to endure. I just want to give you the biggest hug and wrap you in comfort. I hope you feel your darling girl's presence around you in everything you do, and that you and your family are able to get any amount of peace in any way that you can, to give you the strength to put one foot in front of the other each day (which of course means something different to each person because there's no "right" way to get through the day). So much love to you sweet mama (and daddy) and your beautiful daughter❤️🩹🤍😔
I am so sorry for your loss. When you heal and have time to decide on your family expanding I hope you can reconnect with your lovely nurses. I can tell you that nurses do remember traumatic cases. The nurses who cared for me with my daughter asked if I had delivered with them before, and I had, they cared for me and my son when I almost lost him. The reunion for all of you will be 1000 times more joyous, rainbow babies are truely magic. I hope your family has found true peace.
I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl🙏🏻🙏🏻🥲🥲 she was beautiful 😢🙏🏻
This made me bawl. So sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain of a stillbirth let alone one at 40 weeks. 💔
Hugs, compassion & prayers.
Katy I am so so sorry for your tragic loss. I know nothing I can say will ease your pain. But I really want to tell you what an incredible mommy you are. Everly chose the best mommy, not only are you beautiful but I can honestly hear the love for her in your voice. My goodness, didn’t she have the most perfect little lips?! Of course she was perfect in every way, but those sweet little lips are just the most precious. Again sweetie, I’m so sorry. You are an amazing mama and I know one day you will be with her again. Sending a million hugs and love your way. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful story and your daughter with us. I will never forget your family💖
Thank you gif your story - heartfelt
So sorry for your loss. She was so beautiful❤
Omgoodness hun I'm extremely, extremely sorry about the passing of sweet Everly..an Angel born sleeping. I'm sending as much an extreme amount of love,strength and sending you are huge hug through the clouds and the sky's from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️ 🕊🦋🌸🌏🌈🙏💫👼😪🐶What amazing, beautiful Nurse's you had...Earth Angels on this Planet ❤️ 🌻Foreverly Remembered fly free sweetheart 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊Love to you Katie and your husband plus your best buddy...🐶
So sorry for the loss of your Everly she was beautiful!
So so sorry for ur lost. I pray for your rainbow baby soon. May ur lil angel rest in heaven.
What a beautiful name. Beautiful story but oh so sad. I’m sorry for your loss and pain. Everly is safe in the arms of Jesus!
Crying with you! Can’t imagine! We’ve lost one also, quite early, but still hurt so much!!
I’m so sorry!! God bless you and your husband and give you comfort and peace!
Sorry for your loss, what a beautiful name
What a beautiful girl so sorry.
God bless this family
My deepest sympathy
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your story sounds so much like mine. I went to the Dr. on Friday and they said everything was fine. It was my last visit but I thought I had another month to go so I didnt understand when they had said I went 36 weeks. And she hadn't been moving as much and I felt there was something wrong too. So on Monday night I had cramps and I went to the bathroom and didnt flush. I just got back in bed and my mom and dad lived right next door and she stayed at my house and noticed blood in the toilet. I wasnt thinking straight and by 9:30pm my Dad drove me to the hospital because my cramps got worse. They couldnt find heartbeat. Since she was probably dead sometime between Friday and Monday, I got an infection from her being in me so long. I couldnt go to her funeral because I stayed in hospital. I use to think the hospital made a mistake. They say you go into labor between 24 and 48 hrs. after the baby dies. It was all over within 3 hours of labor. She was pronounced dead January 17 th 1972.
Thank you for being so brave and share your tragic story and every emotion. These gives strength to those who may go thru this sort of things. I feel like it’s so hard to make a woman go through a birth, especially when your heart is broken.
So heartbreaking. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Everly. God bless 🙏🏼
So so sorry for your loss! What a deep sadness! I cried for you!
Oh my Dear! I am just so very sorry this happened to you and your family! I wish I could hug you!
So so sorry..I lost my baby at 7 months pregnant..the pain..never really leaves.
Thank you for sharing your story and being so raw and real. You will remain in my prayers
Praying for you and your family
I’m so sorry. That’s so hard you guys. Sending love your way.
Cutest little button nose. ❤❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Foreverly sleeping 👼🏻
Just remember..... YOU GOT TO BE A MOM AND WILL AGAIN💖🙏👼🤗
Yesss❤❤❤❤❤
So sorry for your loss😢.
So sorry for your loss of Everly💜💜💜.
Sweet Angel Baby 👼
I ,too loved being pregnant!
So very sorry for your loss
I am so very sorry for your loss 😢 💔
So sorry for your loss. ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss
In the state of California, USA, you are allowed to keep your loved one at home up to three days for spiritual reasons. Why we never astral travel alone. Always have someone with you to watch out for your body.
I am so very sorry please know that my thoughts are with you😥😥💖💖 Fly high baby girl
This happened to my first grandchild. I feel your pain. It was a cord issue with us as well.
I'm so sorry this happened. I hope you and your family can find peace.
You are in my prayers- thank you for sharing her story
So very sad. We lost Baby Polly at 28.6 weeks to stillbirth. I took myself off to the hospital (flight from small island to mainland) & reported reduced movement. Too much fluid was found around baby but was sent away for 2 days. When returned to hospital, no heartbeat. Polly should have been delivered when I first arrived. Best wishes & peace. X💞
I am so sorry .My heart and thoughts are with you❤
Totally heartbreaking. So sorry❤
My sincere condolences
❤😢god. Bless. Love. Prayers
I’m so sorry 😢
So heartbreaking, I`m so sorry!
I'm so sorry for your loss, Everly was beautiful.
I'm curious and hope you don't mind but what happened to her right arm?
When babies are born deceased, as they come out their thin skin comes apart…..
Back then, they didn't ask those wonderful questions so they didn't give a beautiful package like pictures etc. I forgot she was 5lbs 1oz. 19 inches. They knocked me out as soon as she came out and put her on my stomach and I still feel her to this day. So I balled too. Still they said natural causes.And you both did great! I wish so much I had that. They even took me off maternity floor to another floor. I cried. My Dr. Patted my cheeks when he told me she was stillborn cuz I forgot they couldn't find heartbeat. They gave me crazy drugs. Didn't give spinal then.
Katy….I pray that every day your heart will heal…and it will…that baby girl will ALWAYS be your first…and have a bday cake each year for her…a little one…but it is important to still have that…you will have another child when you are ready….God wanted your little bud of promise to bloom in His Heavenly Kingdom
It’s happened to me twice. Mine was due to medical mistakes and the doctors involved no longer have medical licenses to practice medicine. I had placental abruption both times.
Oh my this is heartbreaking how horrible I also lost my son to plancenta abbruption I was in the day before with pain but it wasn’t picked up 😢
@@Plummele97so sadddd 😢❤ sending you love and peace
My adopted mom lost her only child at birth. She was a tiny woman and ger husband at the time was like 6 5 she was 5 2 and maybe 100 lbs soak and wet. Now this happened 1948 or 1949. She went into labor and had complications because the baby was to big to go threw the birth canell. They did not due c sections then. He rupture her uterus and she bleed and the baby drowned in the blood. She ended up with a full historectamy. Her husband was a real jerk and refused to see her in the hospital. His family saw her and gave her their support but he divorced her. She webt back to work as a surgucal nurse and did her best to move on. She married my dad when i was five and adopted me. His name was wade. I always promised her if i had a boy he would have the nane wade. He does its Andrew after his grandfather and wade as his middle name. She is gine now but knew my son for 8 years before she passed. By the way i adapted my son as well as i was not able to have kids of my own. I dont know the whole story as she dud not talk alot about this. So march 8 was always a very difficult day every year for her.