I met a Lady in route to Dopolog city and she said her husban was picking her up and he would help me find my Pen Pal Filipina Well he turned out to be the Mayor of Dipolog city and he took me in his jeep down to Katipunan to find her That was the kindest and most help full i could have ever dreamed of That shows the kindness of most folks in the PI She did turn out to be my wife now 27 years and i would also visit the Mayor every trip
Talk about women sending signals, guys we miss'em all the time! I was living out of a hotel in Germany and went down to the bar one night where I got in a conversation with a girl who was about a 7. Ok we chatted it up for a while with her staring in my eyes. She leaned forward and asked me, "Do you have music in your room?" I was about 24 then. So I ran off a list of recording artists I had. She just sat an looked, and I kept talking. About two hours later it hit me that she wanted to go up to my room. That's what we did;-);-)
May God will allow me to meet a good man like you who cares the Filipina's dignity. I salute you sir...thank you for the love and care that you give to your Filipina wife. God bless you.
The Philippines has already given me so much and I haven't even been there.The joy that I've received just contemplating and anticipating my trip over there has just been great.
There is another option with the 24 hour pregnancy, she was already pregnant and having sex with him makes it so she can claim it's his. I would like to believe this isn't the situation, but there are people out there like that, and I don't just mean in the Philippines, but everywhere in the world. If you just can't wait, use protection, YOUR OWN protection that you know wasn't tampered with, your little swimmers can still perform the breast stroke in the wading pool, but they're not jumping into the deep end. If you're there looking for and believe you have found a LIFE partner, then she should ALWAYS have your undivided attention, you should want to spend every waking moment with her. You don't need to make grand gestures, buy expensive gifts to show her how you feel about her, those things just say you did something wrong and are trying to make up for it. That's where the saying "It's the little things that count," show her she's special every day in some little way and it will go a lot farther than the most expensive of gifts. Knowing what to do, and ACTUALLY doing it aren't the same, just because you know you should open the door for a lady doesn't mean you do it, Filipinas aren't those feminists like in the west, chivalry isn't dead to them.
Hey Calvin. You're definitely on point. Men need to look and smell good for the filipina they'll meet for the first time in person and thereafter. Thank you for sharing.
Great advice Calvin 👍 I learned a long time ago become what you expect in others . If you want a woman who is kind, respectful and is hygienic . Be a kind , respectful man who takes care of his physical appearance and hygiene.
Great Advice. I think I avoided one of these crazy filipinas who wanted to meet me at the airport. (So she can lock me down away from all the other filipinas) After just 2 weeks of chatting online she also wanted me to stop chatting with other girls. RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG.
See thier are differnent. ones who want to meet you so you see no other woman. or like my wife did, we meant in cebu alone at airport , and i knew she was the one. we knew rt away. she did not presure me to not look other ways. but she was so kind and sweet. no reason to look the other way 1 was 45
Thank you Cali Cal for the advice and also the message of hygiene. I really don't understand it but I'm glad you're putting the fellas on notice about the hygiene factor. It's self explanatory to me but I get it. Maybe you should remind some about that one critical yet very very important point because I know a couple of fellas who really need to be put on notice about that. I remember a young very very attractive lady was being interviewed and the subject came up about her turn-offs and she gave guys some good advice about hygiene and how a man having bad body odor is such a turn-off for her. She said 'guys take your fingers and run it up and down your groin and sniff. You're asking a woman to deal with that. If it's offensive to you what do you think she's thinking'. I have stories about some of my buddies but I'll leave that alone. LOL!!! Thanx again buddy...
No truer words have been spoken! If you met her online and are meeting in person for the first time, regardless of how many pics she has sent you or how many times you have video chatted, DO NOT LET HER MEET YOU AT THE AIRPORT! Get cleaned up and rested after your journey and meet her in a public place. Especially if you are a first time traveler, this could also be for your safety.
Lol… if you dont think Aquino or Mactan airports are public places you have never been to one…and after a year or two if you have not vetted her then its your fault…ive known several men who arrive exhausted and disoriented carrying a lot of money …that dont know the language or locale …then trust a baggage handler or cabbie they just met …i would never let my filipina just go to the hotel alone when coming to my country for the first time…so bahala na
I am a seasoned traveler of over 40 years and my opinion is my opinion. I am not here to debate you or list the pros and cons. If you think otherwise, then good for you!
Calvin Excellent advice!!!! Agree with you, undivided attention a must.. Hygiene a must...I remember passing up on an opportunity with a beautiful girl in the past because her hair smelled bad... If hair is dirty what else is dirty?
So right. When I came there in 2014 I came looking for a new life. We had been chatting for close to 2 years already. So sex wasn’t really high up on my agenda, even though we were in the hotel together. Keep up the good work. 👍
I met my filipina at the airport and she took care of me and made sure i was comfortable. She translated for me and helped with anything I needed. So you have to use your best judgement.
I met mine at the airport the first time and she wouldn't let me out of her sight when that happens it's because she's full of manipulation and she just wants you for money and that's first-hand experience my friend
So, when you arrive at the airport. Arrive as a John. Then make your way to the hotel and get rid of any jet lag/time lag issues. Then when your clean and rested, meet your friend(s). Then be prepared for that English to English translation and assume that everything that anyone says, is positive and not an insult. Your English usage might not be the same as theirs. So always assume that it is positive.
Salamat my friend …i agree with abstaining the first night …but i want my two year ldr gf to meet me at the airport …to help me get reacclimatized to the surroundings… and translate with the grab driver and hotel clerk etc…she is my lookout when im exhausted from the trip and already knows i need rest for a couple of days
Yeah if you are in a1 yr 2 yr 3 yr official LDR. then the advice isnt really for you. This is more about the guys who have chatted with some filipinas beforehand . but are not in an official LDR. LDRs should just meet their girl and enjoy their time.
@@dddtrump I agree with that completely yeah if you've been talking for two or more years even a year that's quite a bit of talking you should have a pretty good idea of who she is by that time
@@lovemyFilipina You've got no idea what a woman is all about even if you live with a free year they're sneaky they're manipulative and that's all world worldwide
Hello again Calvin, and lovely family Very smart analysis! Another excellent video, I really like it! Thanks for another great sharing. Good luck. Be safe, stay safe, and please keep posting! Best and warmest regards/Ned 👍👏👍
Totally agree. Sleeping with one means you have little freedom if you start thinking this won't work out. Tons of drama as you try to validate the view you had from 6,000 miles away.
While I love women…my interest in coming to the Philippines is the quality of life and exchange rate. My first trip won’t be to meet women…but to see about for different cities that have captured my attention for retirement.
Since I was both in the Navy and served with the Fleet Marine Force corpsman 1964-1968 i have very good hygiene. When I lived in Subic bay and had my fillipina I took several showers a day in our place we rented in olongapo. Those habits have never been lost.
Haha you are telling as it is Sir Calvin. 😂 I want my man smelling good and looking appealingly clean to meet my family. Have a bless day Sir Calvin and family. 🙏
If you are in a LDR with a girl and you don't want her to meet you at the airport.... You are with the wrong girl; for the wrong reasons. Meeting your girl at the airport can save alot of time and money.
@@BarryObaminable not sure how you can chat with a lady for over a year and discover at arrival that she is a three. I chatted with my wife for 8 months and when I landed she was a 13! The video chats didn't lie.....
Well we've already buggered so yeah she's going to meet me at the airport and we're going straight to the room to bugger some more 😂 but I'll definitely make sure I wash my ass before
Great advice and should be universal for all Countries including the US. Im dating a Filipina here in the US. I got lucky and found her here after a rich scumbag took her as a young beautiful woman from the Philippines, brought her home, got her pregnant and cheated on her. My gain. His loss. She's everything you say Filipinas are. Amazing.... Thank you brother for your wisdom and caring nature. Maybe we'll visit and say a big hello to you oneday.
...Unless you've known each other for years prior! I met my wife online in 2007 and finally visited in 2013. And, yes, she met me, more less, "rescued" me from unscrupulous taxi drivers at the airport. I've since learned how to deal with them. Stayed the night at a decent hotel not from from Aquino Airport and in the morning went to our first apartment in Sta. Mesa. It's been an incredible going on 9 years married and looking forward to the next 9 years.
Second step is soooo true.. I do that here in the states, and they want you more.. trust me. And this isn't just for the Philippines this is everyday life.
Thanks for all the great information Calvin ! I have been speaking to a phillipina now for over two years. Ime 67 and she is 55 and ime excited to be meeting her finally in about 3 or four months. If it doesn't work out I want to stay in the phillipines. She lives in Bulacan. Any suggestions would be appreciated brother. I've followed your vlog for over a year and I appreciate what your doing. Keep up the good work !
If a girl is complaining about stomach aches and pregnancy pangs less than a week after you’ve had sex, chances are she got knocked up by somebody else before she came to be with you. It takes at least six days for the sperm to fertilize the egg and even after that it takes up to 10 days for the egg to attach itself to the uterine wall. Either: you stretched her out so good that her stomach is hurting because of your manliness or she was already pregnant before you met up with her. And considering the fact that you’re flying 9000 miles to meet up with someone who may or may not already have a boyfriend chances are that kid isn’t yours. You won’t know for the next nine months whether it’s true or not. And that’s really the disgusting aspect of pregnancy: you could end up having to take care of somebody else’s kid and then be completely disappointed in nine months without having an option to get a refund on all of that money you’ve been sending over.
Bro Calvin great video dude love it . But brother you know that it's that easy to know when a woman is into you for real i mean a woman can fake that shit special if she is in survival mode and she knows the benefits behind if she handles it properly even when she is faking .
Brotha has a point. That disappointment after a year of courting will probably crush u. Hopefully, people are at least wise enough to video chat and get a rough idea of what a physical encounter may be like. I wouldn't just count on photographs.
Mr. Calvin.... Good Afternoon.... I am laughing so hard and fell off my chair on this one ... The word "Dignity".... Look Funky, Smell Funky.... Your toasted right from the start..... If your focus is "Not On Her"....that's a problem..... Body Language is a big Killer Mr. Calvin.... Those that have lost their Morals and Ethics....have already lost the Dignity.... If that single person is just looking for a "Cheap Trick"....you can find that anywhere in the world..... Now, that "Sunglasses".... Advice just made me fall off my chair..... If I was a women.....and your interested in me.....them sunglasses would be broken and smashed....🤣
Calvin , another informative blog with facts ! Would be a real pleasure to meet you in person if possible or you have the time ! Looking at Negros to repatriate within 12 mths , but wish to explore it prior rather than original plan for Mindoro ! Cheers ( Detlef , Queensland , Australia)
I dont usually comment on videos but this video you made is very onpoint. Hope other men thinks the way you do... Very factful.Filipinas are not desperate, if they had a bad experience with other women before that doesn't mean we are all the same. Majority are professionals and knows what they want and can afford to pay too... They also need to consider that maybe this filipina chosed him because she was inlove.. Thanks!
My wife told me that a philipina can tell if someone is newly in the Philippines, By how thay smell, but after a few weeks thay no longer smell different than philipino's. After she told me that I did notice it was true.
I been telling my 2 sons everything you talked about in this video . They are 13 and 16 . I had them watch this video and I think it sunk in . Not that they are funky or anything 🤣😂🤣 but they need to know . I been watching your vids for a while now . I don’t really comment but I do really enjoy your channel .
Calvin- my wife worked at clark-we meant at cebu with her only--i was clean just exhausted...we went hotel , i was not in prison..we chatted and talked very long. one of the few times i disagree..love you buddy--bob/philly i just knew she was the one me 45 her 34, no sex first night...married 13 years. but your point is a good one for the 90% . heck i was too tired to screw....also i had no backup girl . i meant with my west coast buddy thier he was looking for a pinay---he had an x -pinay and child..he said get a back up. he had sex- i got sex and a wife. and a great vacation
When I first traveled to Philippines, I got to the airport and to the hotel earlier than her. I had a few hours to look around before she arrived the next morning by bus at 5AM. I was dead asleep in my room when I got the call from the desk to come escort her up. Thing is, if you’re in a serious relationship and she’s traveling to meet you, chances are you are vested and committed. Meeting someone else between the time you get off the plane and the time you meet her is negligible.
I know you very serious about everything you saying but you got the funniest way to say things you had me laughing on this video you remind me of me I taught like that sometime I'll send you video to the mountains it was beautiful there thanks for showing me around the Philippines you and your family have a blessed day
Calvin when I first started listening to your videos I was kind of cynical where But you are definitely winning me over if you can take the time can you recommend me to a good online dating site so I can try to find someone
I appreciate your take on Filipino culture but If you tell your Filipina NOT to pick you up at the airport, it may be a big mistake, and what would you tell her the reason? This is a big deal for her meeting her true love. My (now K1 wife) Filipina met me at the airport with family members and it was great! Thanks for sharing your videos and we will look forward to meeting you in about a month on our return to Philippines!
This is a good point. It can be viewed either way. I guess it really depends on the individuals and how close they feel. It certainly is exciting to meet what could be the love of both of your lives right off the plane. All the best to you.
It’s unfortunate you had to make a vlog telling dudes to shower before they come over. What’s also unfortunate is the amount of these weirdo’s with the resources to travel.
Calvin, Spot on brother.and .I'm on it ,getting my head clear , but really. Excluding the hygiene items, it seems you're telling me philipinos are shallow...am I correct. thank you
In all seriousness you should consider writing a book for ex-pats and visitors first coming to the Philippines. The information that you give is priceless and saves us a lot of wasted time and money
If a woman claims to be pregnant or worse her doctor says she's pregnant after only three days it's too early for a positive test and you're being scammed. She very well might be pregnant... but with someone else's child.
A lot of guys who go overseas also need to lay up off of the drinking as well. I imagine the ladies find it a turn off for guys who go overboard w/ the alcohol, local or foreign
I would say that the Filipina could definitely assume that you might be a player if you're not allowing her to meet you at the airport especially if you've been talking for well over a year she might definitely think something's up and get suspicious of you
I am a Filipina. Personally, if I have been chatting with a the person for a long time, and have known his values, then I don’t think that meeting him in the airport will be an issue. I would likely volunteer, so I can be of help to him at least. I would surely be excited to see him in person for the first time. If the man is not sure about the woman though, then probably he likes to look around for others. This video gave me a better perspective though, and gave me insights after reading the comments section. Thanks for this upload Calvin.
I've been watching your blog a few times..very informing. I was wondering if you know anything about any sort term covid-19 travel insurance for the Filipinos. I'm going to need some soon. I would appreciate your help.
Great video calvin as always 35k and growing. alot you say is common sense to us but not them..is it not crazy that these women living in a shack provance house. can be so clean and smell so good. skin smooth like silk...if you cannot be personally clean. stay home..
@@calroach1 You and i know no mean's yes..like the quacker oat's she wanted..my wife is still like that after being here 14 years...but guys being not clean, is crazy. you video last night into taking responibiliy to the wonan . like john did not is a very important topic. and using sun glasses..yes..i never had big roving eyes..but 90% will. guys make the girl feel special and have a great time. my first trip with my than G.F now wife, was one giant vacation..cebu . manila. cloud nine..gen luna. native foods..sm mall food's i did not spend crazy amount's..GUYS CALVINS ADVICE IS WORTH ITS WEIGH IN GOLD. come meet a real nice woman . strap in have fun..and nothing will ever make sense to us thier and even here...going on 14 years
Calvin, You hit the nail on the head about first impressions. A person's sent is first and foremost. I always think but to Red Foxx's 1974 album called "You Got to wash Your Ass"...a very important of our five senses.
I’m interested in learning more about the geography of the Philippines. Could you make some videos about that, or maybe suggest another source on TH-cam? Thanks!
My Filipina is my fiance. Still gonna meet her again at airport in few months XD Edit: Finally got around to listening to the whole video and I agree with everything he said. If you're not emotionally committed and haven't made that decision that she's the one for you, then yes, follow his advice. My experience is different since I already committed and we've been talking 5 years before I even visited. A lot that happened to me was opposite haha the first night I was there she hopped on me. I was still jet lagged haha! I was ready to sleep! She just wasn't having it, she needed to lose that V card ASAP apparently. I met her at the airport and we spent a good 6 hours going to her village from Davao. Gotta say, the driving here is crazy. Reminded me of Mexico. Did not feel safe on the road haha. After a week of being in the same rented house I met her family then a few days later we all went to the beach. Couldn't understand a thing they said but they seemed happy enough. Another thing was I was always started at by everyone when we went out for food or entertainment. I'm introverted so it was pretty odd plus I have that resting bitch face so not many came up to talk to me haha but that's fine I wasn't visiting to meet strangers, only to spend time with her. In a few months I'll be headed back to visit so we can start the rapidvisa process again. Couldn't make progress the first time because COVID happened right after I returned so fingers crossed everything works out this time! We're on our 7th year together(emotionally) and we still talk every day. I know there's a lot of bad experiences out there and I've watched those 90 day fiance shows(that's complete chaos lol) but we are going strong! If anyone knows of any good places to visit in davao please let me know, I'll be going with a lot more money this time! 🤣
I normally watch all your videos but I got busy after barely starting this one. I'll finish watching this one later but when I commented I didn't mean anything bad. Just said what I was thinking at the time since it makes no sense to not meet your girl at the airport, but I'm sure you have some good opinions on why it's a bad idea? I'll finish the video and comment again later though
I apologize for the glitch at the 13:18 mark, my gimbal battery died :)
I met a Lady in route to Dopolog city and she said her husban was picking her up and he would help me find my Pen Pal Filipina Well he turned out to be the Mayor of Dipolog city and he took me in his jeep down to Katipunan to find her That was the kindest and most help full i could have ever dreamed of That shows the kindness of most folks in the PI She did turn out to be my wife now 27 years and i would also visit the Mayor every trip
Talk about women sending signals, guys we miss'em all the time!
I was living out of a hotel in Germany and went down to the bar one night where I got in a conversation with a girl who was about a 7. Ok we chatted it up for a while with her staring in my eyes. She leaned forward and asked me, "Do you have music in your room?" I was about 24 then. So I ran off a list of recording artists I had. She just sat an looked, and I kept talking. About two hours later it hit me that she wanted to go up to my room. That's what we did;-);-)
Better, after 2 hours than 2 days... 🙈😂
May God will allow me to meet a good man like you who cares the Filipina's dignity. I salute you sir...thank you for the love and care that you give to your Filipina wife. God bless you.
Thank you
@@calroach1 your very welcome!
The Philippines has already given me so much and I haven't even been there.The joy that I've received just contemplating and anticipating my trip over there has just been great.
Took the words out of my mouth. I agree, I agree
There is another option with the 24 hour pregnancy, she was already pregnant and having sex with him makes it so she can claim it's his. I would like to believe this isn't the situation, but there are people out there like that, and I don't just mean in the Philippines, but everywhere in the world. If you just can't wait, use protection, YOUR OWN protection that you know wasn't tampered with, your little swimmers can still perform the breast stroke in the wading pool, but they're not jumping into the deep end.
If you're there looking for and believe you have found a LIFE partner, then she should ALWAYS have your undivided attention, you should want to spend every waking moment with her. You don't need to make grand gestures, buy expensive gifts to show her how you feel about her, those things just say you did something wrong and are trying to make up for it. That's where the saying "It's the little things that count," show her she's special every day in some little way and it will go a lot farther than the most expensive of gifts. Knowing what to do, and ACTUALLY doing it aren't the same, just because you know you should open the door for a lady doesn't mean you do it, Filipinas aren't those feminists like in the west, chivalry isn't dead to them.
had a friend who the girl said he got her pregnant. He said he had vasectomy . Nice try lady ha
Glad to see another of your walk-about videos from your city. The greenery is back and looks amazing!
Hey Calvin. You're definitely on point. Men need to look and smell good for the filipina they'll meet for the first time in person and thereafter. Thank you for sharing.
Great advice Calvin 👍 I learned a long time ago become what you expect in others . If you want a woman who is kind, respectful and is hygienic . Be a kind , respectful man who takes care of his physical appearance and hygiene.
pride in your appearance goes a long way in any relationship
Hey brother. Good words again. Some of these things a person needs to hear multiple times until it sinks in. Keep it coming. Be safe.
Great Advice. I think I avoided one of these crazy filipinas who wanted to meet me at the airport. (So she can lock me down away from all the other filipinas) After just 2 weeks of chatting online she also wanted me to stop chatting with other girls. RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG.
See thier are differnent. ones who want to meet you so you see no other woman. or like my wife did, we meant in cebu alone at airport , and i knew she was the one. we knew rt away. she did not presure me to not look other ways. but she was so kind and sweet. no reason to look the other way 1 was 45
I love all of the wisdom that you are putting out, I will be visiting Dumaguete for the first time in July and I need all I can get
Thank you Cali Cal for the advice and also the message of hygiene. I really don't understand it but I'm glad you're putting the fellas on notice about the hygiene factor. It's self explanatory to me but I get it. Maybe you should remind some about that one critical yet very very important point because I know a couple of fellas who really need to be put on notice about that. I remember a young very very attractive lady was being interviewed and the subject came up about her turn-offs and she gave guys some good advice about hygiene and how a man having bad body odor is such a turn-off for her. She said 'guys take your fingers and run it up and down your groin and sniff. You're asking a woman to deal with that. If it's offensive to you what do you think she's thinking'. I have stories about some of my buddies but I'll leave that alone. LOL!!! Thanx again buddy...
I sure love to hear those stories someday 😂😱🤣 because that a subject nobody talk about
@@cs77smith67 No problem brother. 🤣
No truer words have been spoken! If you met her online and are meeting in person for the first time, regardless of how many pics she has sent you or how many times you have video chatted, DO NOT LET HER MEET YOU AT THE AIRPORT! Get cleaned up and rested after your journey and meet her in a public place. Especially if you are a first time traveler, this could also be for your safety.
Lol… if you dont think Aquino or Mactan airports are public places you have never been to one…and after a year or two if you have not vetted her then its your fault…ive known several men who arrive exhausted and disoriented carrying a lot of money …that dont know the language or locale …then trust a baggage handler or cabbie they just met …i would never let my filipina just go to the hotel alone when coming to my country for the first time…so bahala na
I am a seasoned traveler of over 40 years and my opinion is my opinion. I am not here to debate you or list the pros and cons. If you think otherwise, then good for you!
Thank you for the sound and practical advice, Calvin. All the best to you and your family. 👍
This is a great reminder, Abc"s for newcomers conduct. Heads up insider nuggets. Great advice bro 👍
Calvin
Excellent advice!!!!
Agree with you, undivided attention a must..
Hygiene a must...I remember passing up on an opportunity with a beautiful girl in the past because her hair smelled bad...
If hair is dirty what else is dirty?
Yep
So right. When I came there in 2014 I came looking for a new life. We had been chatting for close to 2 years already. So sex wasn’t really high up on my agenda, even though we were in the hotel together. Keep up the good work. 👍
Ur the best practical utuber bro! anyone says otherwise don't pay attention.. thank u for these info..
I met my filipina at the airport and she took care of me and made sure i was comfortable. She translated for me and helped with anything I needed. So you have to use your best judgement.
Sorry Sir,i think you missed the point,Calvin layed it out beautifully.
Yes but she shouldn't had done that. But she was so scared someone will seduce you.
I met mine at the airport the first time and she wouldn't let me out of her sight when that happens it's because she's full of manipulation and she just wants you for money and that's first-hand experience my friend
@@ikeskifan yes that is signs of a person in desperate need.
So, when you arrive at the airport. Arrive as a John. Then make your way to the hotel and get rid of any jet lag/time lag issues. Then when your clean and rested, meet your friend(s). Then be prepared for that English to English translation and assume that everything that anyone says, is positive and not an insult. Your English usage might not be the same as theirs. So always assume that it is positive.
Calvin, I really enjoyed this vlogg, I feel sad for whomever who will be remembered in such foul manner.
Enjoyed that and it sounds like very good advice to me i like the way you put thing across
Salamat my friend …i agree with abstaining the first night …but i want my two year ldr gf to meet me at the airport …to help me get reacclimatized to the surroundings… and translate with the grab driver and hotel clerk etc…she is my lookout when im exhausted from the trip and already knows i need rest for a couple of days
Why would you need all that,
"lookin out for," just to go to the hotel?!? Lol.
Yeah if you are in a1 yr 2 yr 3 yr official LDR. then the advice isnt really for you. This is more about the guys who have chatted with some filipinas beforehand . but are not in an official LDR. LDRs should just meet their girl and enjoy their time.
@@dddtrump I agree with that completely yeah if you've been talking for two or more years even a year that's quite a bit of talking you should have a pretty good idea of who she is by that time
@@lovemyFilipina You've got no idea what a woman is all about even if you live with a free year they're sneaky they're manipulative and that's all world worldwide
If you're in a 2 year ldr and never met up... you aren't the only guy she's talking to.
Very solid advice Calvin!
A wonderful thing about Filipinas is they aren't crazy about colours of flowers like some asian cultures.
Hello again Calvin, and lovely family
Very smart analysis! Another excellent video, I really like it! Thanks for another great sharing. Good luck. Be safe, stay safe, and please keep posting! Best and warmest regards/Ned 👍👏👍
Totally agree. Sleeping with one means you have little freedom if you start thinking this won't work out. Tons of drama as you try to validate the view you had from 6,000 miles away.
While I love women…my interest in coming to the Philippines is the quality of life and exchange rate.
My first trip won’t be to meet women…but to see about for different cities that have captured my attention for retirement.
Since I was both in the Navy and served with the Fleet Marine Force corpsman 1964-1968 i have very good hygiene. When I lived in Subic bay and had my fillipina I took several showers a day in our place we rented in olongapo. Those habits have never been lost.
Haha you are telling as it is Sir Calvin. 😂 I want my man smelling good and looking appealingly clean to meet my family. Have a bless day Sir Calvin and family. 🙏
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@@calroach1 first impressions is lasting Sir. 😂
I'm new to the channel, you're like the older cousin, guiding me along through uncharted waters( haven't visited the Philippines before)
Same
Checking in from Tampa, FL Great video
If you are in a LDR with a girl and you don't want her to meet you at the airport.... You are with the wrong girl; for the wrong reasons. Meeting your girl at the airport can save alot of time and money.
a lot of time wasted when you show up and she is a 3.
@@BarryObaminable then you didn't do your research enough and she fooled you big time
@@BarryObaminable not sure how you can chat with a lady for over a year and discover at arrival that she is a three. I chatted with my wife for 8 months and when I landed she was a 13! The video chats didn't lie.....
Exactly right…and could save you from a scam or pickpocket etc
Well we've already buggered so yeah she's going to meet me at the airport and we're going straight to the room to bugger some more 😂 but I'll definitely make sure I wash my ass before
Lol! Mad Skills sir!
Great advice and should be universal for all Countries including the US. Im dating a Filipina here in the US. I got lucky and found her here after a rich scumbag took her as a young beautiful woman from the Philippines, brought her home, got her pregnant and cheated on her. My gain. His loss. She's everything you say Filipinas are. Amazing.... Thank you brother for your wisdom and caring nature. Maybe we'll visit and say a big hello to you oneday.
I'll be there in August, that drive to the hotel will be solo... thanks Calvin
Good info brother my friend likes your channel and speak about coming there hopefully we can make it this year. 1 brother be safe.
...Unless you've known each other for years prior! I met my wife online in 2007 and finally visited in 2013. And, yes, she met me, more less, "rescued" me from unscrupulous taxi drivers at the airport. I've since learned how to deal with them. Stayed the night at a decent hotel not from from Aquino Airport and in the morning went to our first apartment in Sta. Mesa. It's been an incredible going on 9 years married and looking forward to the next 9 years.
This is so true thanks for this I'm taking it all in
Good video Calvin and some good tips 👍
Great video Calvin - we all need reminders - Thank you
Hello from Texas! Another great video. Excellent advice!
Second step is soooo true.. I do that here in the states, and they want you more.. trust me. And this isn't just for the Philippines this is everyday life.
Thanks for all the great information Calvin ! I have been speaking to a phillipina now for over two years. Ime 67 and she is 55 and ime excited to be meeting her finally in about 3 or four months. If it doesn't work out I want to stay in the phillipines. She lives in Bulacan. Any suggestions would be appreciated brother. I've followed your vlog for over a year and I appreciate what your doing. Keep up the good work !
You give great advice on how to connect in the Philippines bruh I’m thinking about coming to visit
Great advice Calvin!!
Great topic Sir. Shouldn't have to remind an adult about hygiene, but I guess it happens.😂😂 "Sunshine Shoulders Marital Agency"👌🌎✊
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If a girl is complaining about stomach aches and pregnancy pangs less than a week after you’ve had sex, chances are she got knocked up by somebody else before she came to be with you.
It takes at least six days for the sperm to fertilize the egg and even after that it takes up to 10 days for the egg to attach itself to the uterine wall.
Either: you stretched her out so good that her stomach is hurting because of your manliness or she was already pregnant before you met up with her. And considering the fact that you’re flying 9000 miles to meet up with someone who may or may not already have a boyfriend chances are that kid isn’t yours.
You won’t know for the next nine months whether it’s true or not.
And that’s really the disgusting aspect of pregnancy: you could end up having to take care of somebody else’s kid and then be completely disappointed in nine months without having an option to get a refund on all of that money you’ve been sending over.
Such beautiful scenery! I look forward to visiting one day.
I met my Philippines girlfriend on Facebook 8 years ago 8 years together now been there picked me up at airport had a great time
Morning breath at 5pm! 😂
My grandma used to say "If you smell yourself 20 other people have already smelled you!" REAL TALK
24 hour pregnancy? Nah, I think she was already pregnant and is trying to get the guy to think its his. Tell your buddy to get a paternity test.
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Bro Calvin great video dude love it . But brother you know that it's that easy to know when a woman is into you for real i mean a woman can fake that shit special if she is in survival mode and she knows the benefits behind if she handles it properly even when she is faking .
Trust me they're not that sophisticated. We fall first and it clouds our thinking.
Brotha has a point. That disappointment after a year of courting will probably crush u. Hopefully, people are at least wise enough to video chat and get a rough idea of what a physical encounter may be like. I wouldn't just count on photographs.
Mr. Calvin.... Good Afternoon.... I am laughing so hard and fell off my chair on this one ... The word "Dignity".... Look Funky, Smell Funky.... Your toasted right from the start..... If your focus is "Not On Her"....that's a problem..... Body Language is a big Killer Mr. Calvin.... Those that have lost their Morals and Ethics....have already lost the Dignity.... If that single person is just looking for a "Cheap Trick"....you can find that anywhere in the world..... Now, that "Sunglasses".... Advice just made me fall off my chair..... If I was a women.....and your interested in me.....them sunglasses would be broken and smashed....🤣
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Calvin , another informative blog with facts ! Would be a real pleasure to meet you in person if possible or you have the time ! Looking at Negros to repatriate within 12 mths , but wish to explore it prior rather than original plan for Mindoro ! Cheers ( Detlef , Queensland , Australia)
I dont usually comment on videos but this video you made is very onpoint. Hope other men thinks the way you do... Very factful.Filipinas are not desperate, if they had a bad experience with other women before that doesn't mean we are all the same. Majority are professionals and knows what they want and can afford to pay too... They also need to consider that maybe this filipina chosed him because she was inlove.. Thanks!
you forgot PRIDE..PINAY PRIDE ITS SO STRONG
“Hanky Panky, Hoochie Coochie” That’s that, Nitty Gritty!! I’m a booty watcher Calvin haha You’re toooo funny man. Great advice!!
My wife told me that a philipina can tell if someone is newly in the Philippines, By how thay smell, but after a few weeks thay no longer smell different than philipino's. After she told me that I did notice it was true.
Especially if your clothes are being hand washed 🙂
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@@calroach1 yes you can smell the difference between hand wash or machine wash. Clothing.
just show up in the philippines and don't tell anyone your coming
I'm doing that buddy.
That is exactly what I did my first time arriving there. Best way to do it, I feel
I met mine at the airport and everything was very good.
I been telling my 2 sons everything you talked about in this video . They are 13 and 16 . I had them watch this video and I think it sunk in . Not that they are funky or anything 🤣😂🤣 but they need to know .
I been watching your vids for a while now . I don’t really comment but I do really enjoy your channel .
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Calvin great advice !
Great advice 👍🏾👍🏾
Great advice champ
Calvin- my wife worked at clark-we meant at cebu with her only--i was clean just exhausted...we went hotel , i was not in prison..we chatted and talked very long. one of the few times i disagree..love you buddy--bob/philly i just knew she was the one me 45 her 34, no sex first night...married 13 years. but your point is a good one for the 90% . heck i was too tired to screw....also i had no backup girl . i meant with my west coast buddy thier he was looking for a pinay---he had an x -pinay and child..he said get a back up. he had sex- i got sex and a wife. and a great vacation
Calvin spitting absolute facts
When I first traveled to Philippines, I got to the airport and to the hotel earlier than her. I had a few hours to look around before she arrived the next morning by bus at 5AM.
I was dead asleep in my room when I got the call from the desk to come escort her up.
Thing is, if you’re in a serious relationship and she’s traveling to meet you, chances are you are vested and committed. Meeting someone else between the time you get off the plane and the time you meet her is negligible.
I know you very serious about everything you saying but you got the funniest way to say things you had me laughing on this video you remind me of me I taught like that sometime I'll send you video to the mountains it was beautiful there thanks for showing me around the Philippines you and your family have a blessed day
Calvin when I first started listening to your videos I was kind of cynical where
But you are definitely winning me over if you can take the time can you recommend me to a good online dating site so I can try to find someone
I appreciate your take on Filipino culture but If you tell your Filipina NOT to pick you up at the airport, it may be a big mistake, and what would you tell her the reason? This is a big deal for her meeting her true love. My (now K1 wife) Filipina met me at the airport with family members and it was great! Thanks for sharing your videos and we will look forward to meeting you in about a month on our return to Philippines!
If you start out explaining you'll always explain. Put your big boy pants on 😂
This is a good point. It can be viewed either way. I guess it really depends on the individuals and how close they feel. It certainly is exciting to meet what could be the love of both of your lives right off the plane. All the best to you.
It’s unfortunate you had to make a vlog telling dudes to shower before they come over. What’s also unfortunate is the amount of these weirdo’s with the resources to travel.
Headed your way in a couple months brother, hope to meet you in person
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Morning breath at 5pm😂😂 Hilarious!!! I'm planning a trip there Calvin man we have to meet up when I come.
Calvin, Spot on brother.and .I'm on it ,getting my head clear , but really. Excluding the hygiene items, it seems you're telling me philipinos are shallow...am I correct. thank you
No you're misinterpreting what I'm saying. It's all about showing respect in her country. You're not at home.
Cleanliness is Godliness.
In all seriousness you should consider writing a book for ex-pats and visitors first coming to the Philippines. The information that you give is priceless and saves us a lot of wasted time and money
I agree 💯 he should. I be going to the Philippines 🇵🇭 soon again maybe my birthday month Month.
Not the hanky panky and oochie coochie🤣
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If a woman claims to be pregnant or worse her doctor says she's pregnant after only three days it's too early for a positive test and you're being scammed. She very well might be pregnant... but with someone else's child.
I be there Sunday Calvin! Staying till may 4th flying into manila! Not sure you close to manila.
We'll be in Angeles City on April 17
Roads to the province from Manila may be a bit congested on certain days during Holy Week. Be warned.
A lot of guys who go overseas also need to lay up off of the drinking as well. I imagine the ladies find it a turn off for guys who go overboard w/ the alcohol, local or foreign
Exactly. You can make the Philipines a heaven or hell. Who wants to come here and drink beer and bitch and moan
Excellent advice.
Terrific video!
I was told they like to ask to meet you at the Airport, it’s a test to see if your serious or just a player.
I would say that the Filipina could definitely assume that you might be a player if you're not allowing her to meet you at the airport especially if you've been talking for well over a year she might definitely think something's up and get suspicious of you
I am a Filipina. Personally, if I have been chatting with a the person for a long time, and have known his values, then I don’t think that meeting him in the airport will be an issue. I would likely volunteer, so I can be of help to him at least. I would surely be excited to see him in person for the first time.
If the man is not sure about the woman though, then probably he likes to look around for others.
This video gave me a better perspective though, and gave me insights after reading the comments section.
Thanks for this upload Calvin.
Good info Calvin 👍
I've been watching your blog a few times..very informing. I was wondering if you know anything about any sort term covid-19 travel insurance for the Filipinos. I'm going to need some soon. I would appreciate your help.
Thanks. Go to health care in the Philippines Facebook page and message Michael Onstad
Great video calvin as always 35k and growing. alot you say is common sense to us but not them..is it not crazy that these women living in a shack provance house. can be so clean and smell so good. skin smooth like silk...if you cannot be personally clean. stay home..
Right. The biggest problem I see with us here is our inability to shift our thinking. We believe everything is the same around the world.
@@calroach1 You and i know no mean's yes..like the quacker oat's she wanted..my wife is still like that after being here 14 years...but guys being not clean, is crazy. you video last night into taking responibiliy to the wonan . like john did not is a very important topic. and using sun glasses..yes..i never had big roving eyes..but 90% will. guys make the girl feel special and have a great time. my first trip with my than G.F now wife, was one giant vacation..cebu . manila. cloud nine..gen luna. native foods..sm mall food's i did not spend crazy amount's..GUYS CALVINS ADVICE IS WORTH ITS WEIGH IN GOLD. come meet a real nice woman . strap in have fun..and nothing will ever make sense to us thier and even here...going on 14 years
Yeah, but what if the prison guard is a 10, and she's the one trying to taste your 🌭? 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's a chance we take. If is a powerful word.
No matter what you do she still going to be the guard
Your funny Calvin 😁 got a way with WORDS 👍
That place is awesome..yes the night should be yours if your coming here....
try to come here in luzon and compare the ladies there and here... visit baguio as well... im promoting my place char...
Thanks for sharing.
Calvin, You hit the nail on the head about first impressions. A person's sent is first and foremost. I always think but to Red Foxx's 1974 album called "You Got to wash Your Ass"...a very important of our five senses.
sound advice!!!!
We expect the Pinays to be hairless and immaculately clean where it matters, it is only fair to return the favor....
You make me laugh thanks for the value information
So true
Amazing Advice sir, you really save a lot of Men from life Changing Choices. I will plan to go In 2024. I want to go a free man and prosper.
I’m interested in learning more about the geography of the Philippines. Could you make some videos about that, or maybe suggest another source on TH-cam?
Thanks!
My Filipina is my fiance. Still gonna meet her again at airport in few months XD
Edit: Finally got around to listening to the whole video and I agree with everything he said. If you're not emotionally committed and haven't made that decision that she's the one for you, then yes, follow his advice.
My experience is different since I already committed and we've been talking 5 years before I even visited. A lot that happened to me was opposite haha the first night I was there she hopped on me. I was still jet lagged haha! I was ready to sleep! She just wasn't having it, she needed to lose that V card ASAP apparently. I met her at the airport and we spent a good 6 hours going to her village from Davao. Gotta say, the driving here is crazy. Reminded me of Mexico. Did not feel safe on the road haha. After a week of being in the same rented house I met her family then a few days later we all went to the beach. Couldn't understand a thing they said but they seemed happy enough. Another thing was I was always started at by everyone when we went out for food or entertainment. I'm introverted so it was pretty odd plus I have that resting bitch face so not many came up to talk to me haha but that's fine I wasn't visiting to meet strangers, only to spend time with her.
In a few months I'll be headed back to visit so we can start the rapidvisa process again. Couldn't make progress the first time because COVID happened right after I returned so fingers crossed everything works out this time!
We're on our 7th year together(emotionally) and we still talk every day. I know there's a lot of bad experiences out there and I've watched those 90 day fiance shows(that's complete chaos lol) but we are going strong!
If anyone knows of any good places to visit in davao please let me know, I'll be going with a lot more money this time! 🤣
What's your point 😄
I normally watch all your videos but I got busy after barely starting this one. I'll finish watching this one later but when I commented I didn't mean anything bad. Just said what I was thinking at the time since it makes no sense to not meet your girl at the airport, but I'm sure you have some good opinions on why it's a bad idea? I'll finish the video and comment again later though
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