21 Year Old Mom Refuses To Hold Her Baby After Giving Birth | I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- After having an unknown pregnancy, a 21 year old mom doesn't feel prepared to hold her newborn son. She's still not sure if she wants to raise the baby or put him up for adoption.
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I feel actually really bad for her, like not even knowing she is pregnant and giving birth on the same day
I feel bad too not only that but I feel bad for her that she didn’t a shower or get to feel that baby heart beat that must be disappointing
Zoey Draper Thank you
Leah Grace Fecteau I know
@@leahgracefecteau6049 I was pregnant with blood on my kidneys and the baby was practically killing me.
Anyway she was delivered a month early because I had cholestasis and they die spontaneously at week 37 on the dot so I was delivered at 36 weeks but never once did I feel a heart beat kick or contractions.
She was so tiny and wasnt thriving and the nurses left me to die on the operating table while they did another surgery and then tried to tell CPS I'm starving the newborn when it wasnt the case at all and one head nurse tries attacking me while I was trying g to pack up my stuff and mind you I was nice to everyone the entire time and there is horror stories from this hospital
But anyway yeah it's hard when you dont bond during pregnacy
@@HackerActivist
Glad to hear you're ok.
Did the baby make it? When did CPS get involved? And why?
U can tell she lived in U.K., her accent is a weird mix
Yes! She sounds like a mixture of British and American. I can hear her American accent when she says certain words.😃
Uhm ok I mean u pointed out the obvious
Matt Lewis she’s being extra I feel like , I lived there for years and was normal I feel she’s adding in British words and a little accent just because
No shit. Says at the start of the video that she moved from the US to London
1:43 she flew from England to America
Why is no one talking about how indestructible her baby was.
Insignificant_Anon i laughed
bonziebon 300 brooo....
Sister had a fucking titanium baby...
Insignificant_Anon like captain man ❤️❤️
That thing survived like a million things that would abort any regular fetus. This woman's child is clearly a God
The title makes here seem like a bad person because she didn't want to hold her newborn child but the thing is that she wasn't ready and it was too overwhelming for her
Jazzy K I think she probably didn’t wanna bond with it, knowing she most likely wouldn’t keep it. She clearly didn’t bond with it during the pregnancy. It’s like some random thing popping out of you out of nowhere, not sure how I’d react, I don’t want kids either.
Yeah I've spent MONTHS preparing for my baby to come. I can't even fathom having only a minutes notice. She probably felt it wasn't conceivable to raise it and didn't want to bond with it because she thought she had to give it up.
Him* the baby is a boy.
@@jazmaneplauger3318 In my comment I didn't say if the baby was a girl or boy. Also, all the times I was saying "her" I meant the woman who had the baby.
@@jazzyk.9697 I wasnt responding to you. I was responding to the 2 replies to your comment referring to the baby as "it".
Can we just appreciate Claire's actress? ...jesus shes good!
She actually looked like her
chubbdoggo 84 lol yh
Wait... I thought that was claire
Samira N bruh do you think there would be cameras there everywhere when those are happening 💀
I thought it was her playing herself in a reconstruction
This shit genuinely scares me.
I’m probably going to have nightmares after this.
Ashlynn Smith I’m not going to sleep tonight
Omg ur in the fandom !🐞🐾
I was the 666th like
Miraculous Fandom Yesss!! Glad to have found another person from the fandom.
doctor: we have good news, he’s healthy.
claire: okay and?
Lol
"I don't see how this is my problem"
Based
I can only imagine being young, not knowing your pregnant. Suddenly giving birth and having a baby handed to you. I'd be like.. WTF!...
see you guys in 10 years when it’s recommended to us all
Lol i promise im coming back to this comment lol
Lmao, see you Bro 🙋♀️
The letter E you better
Sam Peterkoski lol okay
See you then
The only reason the nurses force you is to hold the baby is so you feel more connected to it and actually wanna keep it and not put it up for adoption lmao
Theres nothing wrong w putting up for adoption and it's a good thing we have such a thing,lots of couples cant even carry a pregnancy.
ann l yes but sometimes nobody wants to adopt the child such as in this situation if the parent was an alcoholic and didn’t know they would become a parent. It could lead to problems when the child grows up if the parent was addicted to nicotine the child could get ill without nicotine.
I would've been pissed to be forced to accept a child I didn't know I was having
It's likely that you would feel differently after the delivery. Your hormone levels adjust to create a bond between mother and child, and usually create a rush of euphoria after the child is born.
Which is actually fucking horrible. The second she said “no I don’t want to” the nurse should have fucking listened, and respected her. Instead she said “you NEED to” and shoved the baby in her arms.
I don’t care if there was a good outcome to this, this is yet another example of directly disrespecting a woman when she says “no”
Did she not feel the baby kicking?
I mean I didnt feel my son kick all that much she probably just thought it was gas from all the beer and soft drinks
At times the baby kicking usually feels like gas so she probably thought it was gas and not a baby.
It super feels like gas. After I had my kid sometimes I'd feel a gas bubble thinking it was a kick lol
Many times, babies just don't kick either. My son probably kicked literally 4 times. I almost thought he was dead at one time bcuz her hardly ever moved. Now I can't get him to sit down 😂😂😂😂
I didnt feel my baby boy. I was 33 weeks when I found out I was pregnant. I didnt even look pregnant until my baby "dropped" for delivery
Why is everyone in the comments talking about her accent :\
And now you're talking about it
Because its unusual.
why are you that worried abt it
1:37
“Yeah that looks nice!!”
Oof 🥴😬😂
Yeah I bust out laughing at that too lol like girl bye. Don't trust that "friend!"
Innit
that baby said im here and im here to ruin your life in one way or another
Its her baby if she dont want to she dont have to thats her problem
but yeah imagine how the child woul feel like as he grew up
U have to think both ways .... just coz the baby is small n cant speak for his rights doesn't mean u dont think of the baby..... mother doesnt want the child but the baby definitely needs the mother .... just coz women give birth to the child doent mean dey can reject the child and his rights
Gazala Shabnam it’s not it’s right to be held by the mother. She didn’t even know she’s pregnant. She can give it up for adoption it’s not that deep if she doesn’t want a child she doesn’t want it
Gazala Shabnam She didn’t know she was pregnant. My mother didn’t know when she was, and it didn’t turn out so happy
She didnt want to get pregnant which is why she was on birth control. Now she could have gotten an abortion but thats a difficult topic so im not gonna argument with that. But if she doesnt want it she can give it up for adoption. U cannot force someone to keep something they dont like.
Can't imagine how expensive the medical bill would have been - two days at the hospital but also additionally getting stuff for the baby.
When your friend lie n tell u your outfit look nice
She doesn't look 21 though... She looks far way older...
she's not telling it as it happens
She’s probably telling the story when she’s older and kids age you 😭
And white people tend to age faster too...raisins
she was probably older when she filmed this
im not blaming her for not wanting to hold her baby. some moms just don't want to. postpartum blues/depression/etc is real, and there's moms out there who don't connect to their kid. my sister had a planned pregnancy and didnt feel connected to her son for a bit
You dont force someone to take a baby.....
You don't tell someone what to do
Wouldn’t that be what your doing if the mom refused? Then she would be forcing someone else to take the baby.
@@KAyLA_K it's not someone else's baby it's hers
@Brianna Britton it's still her baby rather no matter what she does that baby came out of her that baby is forever hers if she signs for adoption that baby is still biologically hers,the thing you don't know is when you give birth the baby that comes out of you is yours, so if she leaves her baby somewhere the baby is still hers
It's not "a" baby, it's actually her own baby. Big difference.
Once you see your baby and hold on to them for the first time... there is nothing as special as that moment❤️
I would have yeeted it 😂
This must’ve been traumatising
This happened to one of my teachers..... She was the smallest woman but started having bad pain then came a baby girl
I feel bad for Claire. But I'm glad she was able to bond with her son! You are never really ready to be a parent.
*If i had such toughtful parents like hers, life would be so much better*
this was so sweet... ♥️♥️ she kept him!!!!
A nightmare, literally a nightmare
Honestly I wouldn't even want to look at that baby
Same. Motherhood is only truly beautiful when it's a choice, in my opinion.
I don’t blame her, I would honestly be too scared and shocked. Don’t make her seem like a bad person.
Oh my God that's horrible I would not know what to do in that situation. Poor girl. Poor baby.
Child finds this in 8 years... “hey that’s mom! Wait a minute!!!!”
Someone said the child is 12 now
SMK Taman Serai welp this can help if he ever has a project for their birth this is it! lol
One of the happiest things for a mother .. is the first time she is able to hold her own child, it has no equal.
When it shows them in the club, you know it’s bad
That nurse is crazy!
Girl: I don't want to hold the kid.
Nurse: You need to!.
Unprofessional behavior.
Nope, that is their job. What's best for the baby. In my experience they usually shove the baby into your arms immediately without even asking. It's important for the baby's health and comfort and for bonding to the mom.
I just feel terrible for her that she had to give birth in an American hospital! Being from the UK, she’s familiar with NHS. Her bill/costs will be savage.
I’m 13 weeks 1day and I’m confused about how someone wouldn’t know or didn’t go to the doctor
Your telling me, 13 weeks ok, but I'm in my 6th month and I feel huge .... people not knowing until the give birth?!! Brain not comprehending.....
@Twice ❤️ I’m 18
@I’m not scary. was just saying lol 😂
I fell pregnant at 19, while on the pill. I was terrified. The birth was 2 hours with no pain relief. As soon as I saw my daughter, I forgot about the fear and pain. 18 years later, and she’s still my miracle. I fell pregnant with an implant in my arm also. Her birth was just as fast! I have 2 beautiful daughters now!!!
That's so wonderful. It must have been very scary having a baby at nineteen.
Glad she kept him that boy had some gorgeous eyes
Could someone explain how she regularly got her period? Isn't that part that collapses into a period spouse to be holding the fetus to the womb ?
Denial of pregnancy, it's pretty rare but there are cases where you're either so sure you can't get pregnant (because you're on birth control, sterile ect) that you won't notice you're pregnant, or you so don't want to be pregnant that unconsciously, your brain and body will suppress any symptoms of pregnancy, no morning sickness, periods still going on and the foetus developing in ways that you won't have a baby bum. You can read more about the subject, it's fascinating
@@regcla6667 ok but still im so confused i thought having a period while pregnant would cuz a miscarriage unless her brain did something else like a period to foul her idk this is my worst nightmare
Spotting during pregnancy is common and can be mistaken as a period. I didnt know till I was 6 months along cause of this.
Bleeding slightly during pregnancy is very common.
Poor baby. She drinked a lot
And she never knew she was pregnant so stfu, and don't even try saying she knew because every pregnancy is different some babies are closer to the women's back which caused a NEGATIVE test again stfu
@@sidneymccombs164 what are you so mad for ?? all the person said was "poor baby."
@@sidneymccombs164 and no the baby being further back wouldn't cause a negative, it would be lower levels of hcg. Get educated before you speak.
@@I.hateeilish yes it does, that's why she didn't show why don't you get educated before you. come at me you dumbass twat
@@I.hateeilish lit
Omg how can you not want to hold your baby? I got teary eyed
Imagine not knowing you were pregnant...went about doing all those completely normal things that you do like going out for a drink with friends etc only to suffer serious pains nine months later, go to hospital and find out that you are pregnant and having the baby that day...there'd be so much guilt and shock the mother would be coping with...the guilt of not kbowing therefore not getting the proper pre natal care etc and the shock of actually finding out about the pregnancy on the day the baby arrives
Not everyone wants kids
So her birthday is eight days before her child’s wow
My birthday is 3 days before my dads
My mom and my sister have the same birthday
My son born 12 feb and i 14 feb🙈.
How could you give up a baby its a blessing think who can't have.
I always wonder why it never crosses their mind that maybe just maybe they might be having a baby especially when it's period related. I would immediately think ok maybe I should go to the hospital and get checked.
she said she never missed her period
If I was having raging cramps (It's not like she was a triathelet in top shape to get away with a super easy labor) and I was sexually active I would still consider going to the Dr if this didn't let up in a day to make sure my lady parts were ok and I wasn't having an ectopic pregnancy or a burst something or other than that down there. Just to be safe..idk.
I feel so bad for her. This is horrible, it shouldn't happen to anyone
I can understand that she had to be in total shock and it took time to process that she had just had a baby. Can't totally blame her there. I hope they are all well.
Takes the sight of blood to get this poor girl to a hospital. They just let her squirm, grimace, squat for hours while they drive, watch tv, try to sleep. Great family.
My cousin only found out that she was pregnant with her second when she was 5 months along, during a medical exam. She also had not missed any periods and she had only put on some weight. This is a real thing. This happens to some women. I imagine back in the old days it was even more common. Super scary!
Epidural Is Magic!! Got it twice for both of my children, and thank god I did!! I felt everything before they gave me the Epidural, but as soon as I got it, Omg I felt so much better! I was having contractions and didnt feel a thing!! I was actually on the hospital phone in my room calling friends and family and telling them I was about to have a baby.. Being pregnant is the best feeling in the world. The kicks & the baby moving around in my belly was the best feeling, and you will never experience anything like it until u get pregnant.. But the pain YESSS WAS VERY VERY PAINFUL. BUT SOON AS I GOT THE EPIDURAL, THE PAIN WENT AWAY IMMEDIATELY. AND I COULD PUSH AND NOT FEEL NO PAIN AT ALL, JUST PRESSURE UR PRETTY MUCH NUMB FROM THE WAIST DOWN!! NOW I HAVE 2 HANDSOME MEN.. MY OLDEST IS 22 YRS OLD, AND YOUNGEST IS ABOUT TO BE 18 IN AUGUST. AND MY OLDER SON HAD A BABY GIRL IN 2018. MY BEAUTIFUL GRANDDAUGHTER WILL BE 2 NEXT MONTH!! FINALLY GOT MY GIRL. LOVE YOU SKYLAR LILLIANA
Being pregnant is not that bad at all. It's a beautiful beautiful experience. And all worth it in the end. No matter what I know I will always have my 2 boys and granddaughter (for now 1 grandchild, until they have more) by my side. And take care of me when I'm really old..
It's the best thing that has ever happened to me!!
Yeah now I know for definite I ain’t having kids 💀
How on earth a woman would not know that she is pregnant for straight 9 months, and directly on the D Day she says I can't be pregnant. Hard to believe.
I'll never understand how a woman does not know when she is pregnant!
I mean it’s her first kid she doesn’t know the feeling and she’s still getting her period monthly soooo....
This will probably get recommended to the kid in ten years time !
I mean she was in shock, pain, exhausted from having a surprise baby. I'm not sure how I'd deal at first either.
She should realize how lucky she was
kinda messed up how the nurses forced him on her. She wasn't ready at all and of course once you give her the kid shes gonna change her mind
I remember that feeling of instantly falling in love with my first baby boy.
Really shots most doctor's do a pregnancy test before giveing those shots drinking and takeing birth control your damn lucky he was healthy
Fake because if she is pregnant why is the stomache small
Guppy TV they film after she’s given birth
Some women don't show
Guppy TV that was after birth 🤦♀️ if they filmed then she would know she was pregnant the show is called i didn’t know i was pregnant 🤦♀️ it was all after
I didnt know I was pregnant at 15 till about 6 months in. When my period stopped. (Yes I still had my period half way through my pregnancy.)
Michelle Vazquez probably not, a lot of women don’t have any symptoms
No I didnt. I was eating a lot more but nothing really out of the ordinary.
Yikes
Skin to skin is critical in the bond between you and baby. Also the fact that people dont realize that birth control doesnt always work and are doing it unprotected and hoping theyre not gonna get pregnant. It literally takes one time having sex. One sperm. If your gaining weight and having unprotected sex chances are its a baby. how do people not realize theyre growing a person? I knew like the minute i concieved my baby.
This story is sad but sweet at the same time. I'm glad things worked out for her and the baby in the end! :)
See you all after 5 years when you were recommended for this😁
Thankful mom and baby are well.
I'm glad everything went well and she liked the baby. It made me teared up even if it's a reenactment. 😢
“Period cramps but a million times worse”... guess who is adopting
You and me BOTH!!!
Too late for me I’m due in 6 weeks 🥴
@@vickivixen7465 wishing you a blessed pregnancy and that baby will be safe throughout
debie gz
SO TRUE
I HAVNT EVEN GOTTEN MY PERIODS YET🤣 I do know that period cramps are painfull
Lauren Le Roux thank you babes, that was super sweet.
Son: Mom how did you find out you were pregnant with me
Mom: By giving birth to you
Not only alcohol but she was still getting a bc shots god bless this baby
The shot is progesterone, which would just help prevent a miscarriage actually
She didn’t know she was pregnant
@@risaterry6513 it might effect their sexual/gender development. It could cause an intersex condition.
@@Mariathinking that isn't true according to my gynecologist
@@ribb6989 bakudeku is life
This show should be called "Scaring people into not having kids."
I dont want kids i dont want it smelling like 🐟
I've always wanted kids and watch this show and makes me want to have kids even more
Magaly Wing how could you love something you don’t want? Lol that baby is getting yeeted if that ever happened to me
@@conormaynard666 i hate babys, babys are the worse x.
@@MsMaggyW I think that's a great way to look at it 😊
Not missing one period? I wouldn’t think anything of it either
Heaven Green when ur on birth control u don’t get ur period
Alaya & the silly sausages It depends on the person, my sister still gets her period regularly
@@sxturn8591 I still get it, but irregularly.
Alaya & the silly sausages you definitely can still get it
@@smiletwt depends what kind of birth control you use.. I been on it and I havent had my period since I was 17, I'm 20 now
Someone in unbearable pain in england: lets go to the hospital!
Someone in unbearable pain in america: we’d better check into a motel and see how it goes
nah in england we would just try walk it off
A slight Correction:. Someone in unbearable pain ANYWHERE, let's rush to the hospital. What was this family thinking ??
They where thinking it’s just cramps or something, they also probably didn’t want to pay medical bills
Sanober Malhotra they thought it was just stomach cramps.
She probably didn’t have health insurance and her family didn’t want rush to the emergency.
Imagine giving birth with your father in the room. I could never
My father was outside the door cheering me on, and didn't come in until after they sewed and cover me up🤣
I dont want kids lmao
I was in hard labor for 12 hours. I mean hard labor. My dad had to come hold my leg because I couldn't anymore and my mom is tiny. It was super awkward but he didn't look
@@DNGH814 they sewed u up? Woah lol
@@a.r.375 Yeah, it's usually because doctor performs a episiotomy right before the baby is born. It's done because most women tear at their vaginal opening when the baby is born. It's easy for the doctor to stitch up a cut he created than a tear created by the baby.
I feel like not knowing your having a baby and not know what’s going on would make the pain worse, because you don’t know what’s happening and fear would probably make it more painful.
actually its backwards... labor anxiety makes it hurt much more during labor then not actually knowing what's wrong...
evilynice Nava well when you don’t know what’s wrong you also don’t have the option of an epidural
ok, what's ur point??? like u said an epidural is an option and not everyone wants one... labor anxiety has nothing to do with the meds u get or dont... I didn't get an epidural because i didn't feel my labor at all, with my second son when I was told I could die, that's when I got anxiety I didn't even want to push, and that labor was painful as hell... pain tolerance is something u can train for to trick ur mind... if u aren't calm in any situation, not just labor, everything can feel much worse then it actually is...
@@evilynicenava wdym you could die becouse you didnt feel anything?
@@mothball-8324 no... I said in my first labor I did not feel a thing, in terms of labor pain, active labor pain... I felt like a muscle ache and nothing more... it was my first so I didn't know what I was expecting and I was mentally prepared... so it didn't hurt... my second pregnancy came with alot of complications including death... so when I went into labor I got a little scared and because I refused to push and I was panicking, I felt it all... made it worse by not pushing... when it comes to labor, labor anxiety makes it worse... once in active labor there is no changing ur mind and getting pain killers, it's to late, at this point u just have to deal with the pain... that is when most women are in the worse pain... labor pain is tolerable for most, that is when med decisions are made... if u don't get it then, u cant get it later... so even if these women got to a hospital, they wouldn't get anything, they were already in active labor... but when ur not sure what the pain is from, like many of them didn't know, u think its cramps or something else, which is actually better... anyways the whole breathing thing pregnant women do, is a method to train ur brain to focus on the breathing and not the pain... its proven it actually helps, but the last thing on my mind was breathing techniques... so my entire point is, not knowing ur in labor would help with the pain as ur brain is trying to make sense of it by making u think its something else, plus the shock of it all would not make u feel much either... when in labor and ur nervous all u can think is about the pain and what's happening... which makes it much worse for u....
im just amazed by her accent, it’s like half british/half american
This is the comment I was looking for
It's bizzaire I'm British and after a little bit I can only hear British but I th beginning it was different
Doctor:good news the baby’s perfectly healthy
Claire:👁👄👁
Fr 😭💀💀
I died
😂
Lmao can’t Blair her she didn’t want a child and she didn’t even know
That part! 😅
People are criticizing her alcohol, i mean she never wanted kids it was shocking. Felt bad for her.....
Yes my sister never wanted kids but still takes care of the baby.My sisters baby has cerebral palsy too.
I wanted to like, but ur likes was 111 and I didn't want to mess it up xD
Should’ve had protected sex then
Wolf Girl sometimes protection fails
Wolf Girl she did. She was on the depo shot. A hormonal birth control shot that she gets every three months.
Why did my stomach start to feel weird while watching this?... wait I’m lactose intolerant I just ate Mac n cheese!
Tree Artist tehe...
Mine did too- maybe just the thought of it happening to us 🤷♀️
Omg same. Had me thinking how I never ever want to experience the real thing. Props to that actress 😦
Damn imagine all the alcohol she consumed not knowing theres a baby in her i hope her baby is alright 😭
The baby turned out healthy thankfully
Just hope this doesnt give young women the impression that it's ok to still be able to drink cause its not.
This is from 2007
@@seharali9205 your point?
@Joe hes 12 no where near a teen
Wow she was pregnant now her baby is 12 years old damn that kid has to watch this on TH-cam *WOW*
yikesss
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Christina Gray does he have any social media?
bribabes how am I supposed to know that but every 13 year old I know does
Bro I’m 13
Claire: my worse fear is that i was pregnant
Doctor: claire you are pregnant
I don't know why but I can't stop laughing... I am a bad person :(
Me too😂😂
Great respect for the step mom,
“I don’t want to”
“You need to”
Is that your baby in the profile picture? It's the cutest baby ever
@@lilliannea.8022 yes 🥰
@@alysiaarkola6570 Omg so so adorable!
Was the step mom forcing her to hold the baby’s?
It was a nurse,not the step mom,but still awesome!!
y’all really care about her being british or american 🤦♀️
Lmao
We don’t t care her accent is just interesting
Yes we do lool
No
I was looking at the comments waiting for someone
“Happy little accidents.” -bob ross
@boxersnatcher I mean, she clearly stated after having him and holding him he immediately fell in love, which means she was happy.
I like that
@boxersnatcher no it’s just maternal instinct
@boxersnatcher sure grandma now lets get you to bed
@Queen Bitch definitely living up to your name
Unfortunate that she delivered him in the US. Can’t imagine the medical bill she’ll be receiving. At home it would have been free.
Kai Stockman UK might have still sent her a bill if she was American
@@TheZombaslaya she most likely has citizenship because she lives here
Ikr
I wa thinking the same thing 😂
TheZombaslaya Still wouldn’t be as bad as it is in the US.
This happened to a girl I went to highschool with. She delivered a full term baby without ever having known she was pregnant (she had an inverted uterus so it barely showed). She also continued life as normal during her pregnancy bc she just didnt know, and drank regularly. Thankfully the baby was born perfectly healthy, but I don't think it right for people to be shaming this girl for drinking when she didn't know. This happens more often than people think and its unreasonable to assume a woman would constantly be checking for pregnancy if there were 0 signs of it
ok even if she had inverted uterus..didn't she notice her missed periods?
Imagine a world where you don't automatically love the creature that was growing inside of you, without your knowledge. Oh...oh wait. Also, postpartum depression is a thing. There should be no shame not loving the baby right away.
I feel like I could experience that especially if it's unexpected. I don't like kids I don't want them and the person I had it with would have to be a part of my life for me to actually possibly keep it. Imagine the pain of being abandoned with a kid you didn't even want made by someone who doesn't even love you
V. G. I had postpartum depression
@@bleachedbrownsugarbabe3673 The solution is very simple. Have common sense. Don't have sex with random people, fling boyfriends and otherwise idiots who don't love you. If there's any seed of doubt in your mind whatsoever that you will not be with that person at least for a very long time then you shouldn't be fucking them in the first place. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
kassie jane People hate the truth, but that’s real. I agree.
Yes. True.
I see all these people giving her a hard time in the comments but literally think about it
She finds out she’s pregnant 19 minutes before she has the child, she didn’t want a child beforehand, and wasn’t mentally, emotionally, or financially ready at all. That’s such a huge responsibility and life decision shoved into your face in the span of 20 minutes. Y’all shouldn’t expect her to immediately be overwhelmed with joy at something life altering happens unexpectedly.
Personally, I’m amazed she decided to keep him in the end.
Thanks Vaggie, very cool
Madison S. Please don’t call me Vaggie.
Julia A People can often times mistake fetal movements as bowel movements, or the baby just isn’t that active inside the belly. There’s no reason to suspect you’re pregnant if you don’t have any symptoms of pregnancy, are consistent with your birth control, and continue to have a regular period.
Julia A Spotting can happen during a pregnancy, which can look like a light period and would be normal for someone who started receiving Depo Provera.
It’s not a period because she was pregnant, but it would look like a period to someone on birth control.
Also, it’s a TLC show, one that I think was canceled years ago, so the story itself is most likely fake.
Julia A Well, what can I say? It’s a fake show and I don’t think any of what happened in this video actually happened. TLC is known for that.
Even if it was real and she did just ignore it like you say she did, why didn’t she just go get an abortion? It’s been legal since 1967 in the UK, and would be a lot more effective in terminating her pregnancy than alcohol and a depo shot.
Don't blame her! I don't want children and I use birth control, if that happened to me I wouldn't want to hold the baby either!! Feel bad for her, must have been shocking.
If you don’t want kids , don’t fuck it’s as simple as that bruh
u dont need too want to have kids to have sex girl thats why its birth control gur
@@kato111 if you want to live like an animal live in the jungle. Civilized human beings can agree that sex is more about romance and relationships than it is producing offspring. Creature
@@kee7374 You sound like a catholic🤣🤣
@@kee7374 but we are living beings right..with dna, cells,hunger and everything we do everything that every animal does..so we do mating. Having sex has nothing to do with love..our sex organs and hormones are basically for reproduction..that's why underage people don't have urges to met..because they can't produce kids..but still they love other humans.
Okay but if this situation ever happened to me, my parents would actually kill me-
Same!
After watch too much of this show, im afraid things can happen to me.... but i have to remind my self that i'm a virgin🤣🤣
Same here and ill be kicked out of the house
Sad thing.. if we can't count whit our parents whit how can we?
Xx Suga_Kookie xX but she was on birth control..??
This seems like an absolute NIGHTMARE. Imagine going to the hospital thinking you have something wrong with your stomach and get told you're pregnant while you're in immense pain & the baby is coming any minute. I think I would rather just.. die.
I cried when he was was put in her arms and she fell in love with him.
Me too. Im a mom of 2 so it reminded me of the feeling each time i meant my baby- overwhelming love
@A Shady Cat it still happened though! :^)
I can understand her.. When i found out that i was pregnant i was so unhappy and wanted to undergo an abortion, but when i saw my baby on the ultrasound.. I couldn't help crying and decided that i have to keep it.. My husband is supportive as well, so I'm glad i took the right decision.. I can't wait to finally be able to hold my baby
@@deejayslowmotion6428 that's adorable. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby 🥺💓
Honey you really emotional
I feel for her. She wasn't ready. Most mother's have 9 to 10 months to prepare for motherhood. Not just get everything ready, but to accept what their life is going to be like and get into that mentality of being ready. This was pushed on her in a matter of minutes. I would be terrified and so overwhelmed.
If you have sex period you need to be prepared for the possibility of pregnancy and having a baby. I dont know why idiots keep thinking that they’re so invincible. No matter what you do or take, as long as you have sex even anal will have a chance of pregnancy
Doc: the baby’s all healthy 👍🏻
Claire: 👁👄👁
Wait how is the baby healthy after drinking and stuff?
@@miyukikoutaru5104 when you drink while pregnant it's dangerous but there is a chance that your baby will be healthy
You can still be pregnant when u r on ur period and birth control doesn't always work there is always a slight chance u get pregnant on birth control
I wonder why she didn't try any pregnancy test
@@amrithak9875 bcuz she was 20 and they don't teach you that you can be pregnant and have a period. Most women literally don't know that you can have a period and be pregnant until it happens to them.
*runs to take a pregnancy test* 🤦🏻♀️
Periods are the uterine lining shedding. If you had your period during pregnancy, you’d lose the baby. Yes, they can bleed and cramp, but it’s not the menstrual cycle. :)
When you bleed while pregnant, it’s usually just spotting. It’s not a full blown period
can’t blame her at all! i feel terrible for her - she was being safe and knew that she didn’t one a kid. This is a nightmare. I wouldnt have wanted to hold or even look at the baby either.
Just a friendly reminder that God is always in control. you can do whatever you want but God is the one who decides whether life will come or not. It's also not our decision to take life aka abortions. And all 22 of the people who thumbs up this comment should be ashamed of themselves. Where's your maternal instincts? I understand it be a scary thing but you guys are acting like it's a plague!!! having a child is one of the biggest best blessings one can have in life other than getting married!!
User Unknown lol god is not real shut up.
not everyone wants children and thats ok. im not gonna talk abortion with you cuz theres no point. stay out of other peoples business
@@CharmingHoran okay you hypocrite, you're in my business aren't you?!? Also I wasn't in anybody's business in particular, I made a general statement. Only a fool says there's no God, no point in arguing with a fool. 🤷
User Unknown amen
@@MrsBee-uo2lc Shut yo bitch ass up
Could someone explain to me how the baby bump doesn't get formed?
The baby grows inside pressing on the back instead of outward. Weird but it happens.
I think it’s called a cryptic pregnancy if that’s how you spell it bc the baby can grow in a different direction and area in the womb if that make sense where it’s less visible (the bump) but that’s what I heard from another video I’ve seen haha
@@mayabrown3741park it happens to my aunt , her and her parents did not she was pregnant before she had took a Surgery. And that was went the doctor told her parents she was pregnant 3 months.
It's just a miracle any explanation doesn't satisfy me
The actually explanation is that instead of the baby being in the lower abdomen causing for the stomach to extend and grow as the baby needs the baby instead was pushed up under the rib cage so the baby continues to grow but the rib cage prevents from it extending around the baby there for no baby bump
Why do all women in the UK look like they came out of 1999-2010?
Edit- Jesus that's alot of likes.. also I appolgise if anyone found my comment disrespectful in anyway it was mostly a fun joke that I found funny
smol peaches this was in 2006
No one tells us what year it is so we just make random guesses and dress accordingly
smol peaches well I was born in 1996
@@junogarrity717 they mentioned it was 2006
Wow ignorant much?
Her mixed accent of American and English makes her sound Irish 🤣
"no. No. I don't wanna hold him. I don't wanna-"
*Forcefully hands baby.*
"AAAAA I LOVE HIM SO MUCH."
Lol I thought the same exact thing!
Stepmom: Hold your baby.
Her: No, I don't want to.
Stepmom: You have to. *Proceeds to hand baby to her*
Her: Aw, I love my baby now!
I used to like this show, but episodes like this make me mad. They make the mom look like the bad guy for not wanting to hold her kid she never wanted in the first place.
EliseDaSnareChick exactly it’s a woman’s choice what to do with the baby we shouldn’t be forced into something like motherhood unexpectedly
The process of giving birth releases hormones that make a woman attached to her baby through physical contact and exchanging each other's bodily temperature.
@@essie. Not all the time. Not every mother feels attachment to their baby (this can happen with post-partum if I'm not mistaken). They could also possibly end up hating the baby, or at least feel very detached from them.
In some cases it doesn't last (edit: or it doesn't happen at all), but in others it lasts for a very long time.
@@essie. yeah, I know that.
Her mixed accent sounds like those weird indie singers