I did almost ten years in maximum security, and while I can respect a person for a philosophical stance on non-violence, in places like that, choosing not to engage in violence (more often than not) just creates an even more ripened culture of predation where you live. Bullies get encouraged and emboldened by their victims and the victims of others. An appropriate amount of force is oftentimes the prefect deterrence to a future of violence. You can't speak poetry to someone who isn't a poet-- when you meet a swordsman, draw your sword.
It's inevitable. Yea there are a lot of fck boys doing fck things but they aren't thinking about that when they are break an entry to score some glass or some black. Once they end up in prison they realize they are pssy and becomes ""boys". Going back to your comment ita true it's very true but it's still going to go down.
My brother is in and out of jail all his life, he told me if i ever end up in there, just be willing to fight. Don't matter if you win or lose, it's the fact that you WILL fight that matters.
What if you lose the fight, end up unconscious, and a homosexual decides to fuck you in the ass while you sleep? that's why don't go to jail in the first place
What happens if you the small guy? And gets beat up all the time even tho you try and swing... is that still better than nothing and earn some prison respect? Serious question because I am a 5'9" 140lbs small build guy...and I know if I go up against a 6'0 200lb guy I know 1 hit would lay me out....
Its so ironic that people who dont like following rules go to prison where the rules are even more extreme. Like you said its important to stand up for yourself and its even more important when you're locked up.
Yeah that's a matter of life and death many times when your locked up even if you lose get your ass beat whatever it's all about standing up for yourself stand your ground and don't ever let anyone ever punk u especially in front of a cafeteria full of other inmates cause they see that once and your most likely gonna be labeled a mark, target for anyone and not gonna have Any respect from anyone, it's a fucked up position to be in but gotta do what you got to do, simply stand up for yourself don't take shit from anybody, win or lose and u will b respected
I'm a small ass dude. 1 thing I learned in life. Be respectful, it goes a long way. Being like that doesn't show weakness nor strength just a pure acknowledgement of another human. Some don't understand this hidden law of life.
You try being like that in prison, your getting folded. It'll work to a extent, but at sometimes in prison, you have to fight. Most times, it'll let people know you ain't going, and even though you may not win, but it shows you're not going to be a easy win, and they'll go to a easier target.
In jail if you don't fight people don't respect you I never fought my whole life I was a drug addict I was cool with everyone in the place cuz I knew everyone .. 1 day some dude gets changed over from another jail and hes there for a few days... So 3 4 days in he came up to me and tried to push me off the phone and I'm like bro I'm gonna be a few minutes I'm talking to my mother and he goes meet me in the bathroom .. 2 people I know said bro you gotta fight and I said fight? They said yea if you don't your life is gonna be over in here .. I went in fought him won and felt great about myself I never pushed no one around after that I got in maybe 2 more fights for my next 2 years there .. win or lose you fight it's about respect
Agreed. I'm 4" short of being 6 feet, I've pulled concrete footers, laid block, worked at recycling facilities, etc. And look like a body builder, & took martial arts. But, everytime I meet people, I'm kind and courteous, life is too short to be unduly confrontational with anybody. Prison- well that's another matter.
@@johnterell8642 not really dude. I've been to a federal place. Most fights I saw were over money. People not paying their debts, not honoring deals they made etc. You dont gamble, you dont have a bad case, you dont go around bothering people you will be fine. I was only in 6 months and saw several fights but never had to fight myself. Never had anyone steal my commissary or anything like that. If you dont give people a reason most of the time you will be fine.
had a conversation recently with my nephew about not letting people take stuff from you. He is 8, and wanted to bring a $100 toy to school. I told him "make sure nobody tries to take it from you. If someone asks to see it, make sure it's somebody you trust to give it back. If they try to take it, take it back." He was apprehensive and asked "did that ever happen to you?" i told him yes, and told him a story about when i was on a school trip and a kid from a different school tried to take my hat. I took it back and made it clear I'd fight to keep it. I told my nephew, "if you let one bad person take something from you, other bad people will see that and think THEY can take your stuff, too. You stop it the first time." He's a generous kid, but he has already stood up for himself a few times, just hasnt had THIS situation happen and i was trying to prepare him if somebody tried to steal his toy. Many parents say "tell a teacher", but honestly that's bad advice most of the time for a young boy.
This happened when I was a kid. My son went to the park with his RC the other day with implicit instructions If someone try to take it from you you have dad's permission to lay em out
No prison‘s rules are extremely extremely petty I watch a man get his face smashed in Over three Ramen noodles that he was going to get that evening it just wasn’t going to be that minute and he didn’t like that it’s a whole different world in there brother
My best friend growing up went to prison at 17 years old for 5 years. After he came out. He has anger problems and wants to fight people over every little thing. It's sad
It will fade with time. I did 14 years, and when I came home, life was hard, I didnt understand how to live anymore. When people would do or say things that would be disrespectful in prison o reacted to it like I was still there, it took awhile for me to gain a new understanding, the same as it takes time to adapt to there. Honestly some groups or people to talk to he respects might make a difference and help. You have to go back to normal life, he has PTSD and emotional damage.
I didn't ever want to fight, but if you stand up for yourself, the first time... You will have alot more respect from everyone and have a smoother stay.
@@L0kias1 naa man 100% motherfuckers gonna try you at some point especially if you got money. your option is show whoever tries you first that he tried the wrong 1 and as long as you're not a little bitch doing bitch shit you be aiight.
I feel like in Life you never let NO ONE put thier hands on you atlease thats how I was raised! You win some and you lose some but you live to tell another day! Anything is better then getting shot! Y'all Stay Humble.
My brother spent 42yrs in prison in CDCR classified GP/GP (gang profiled general pop) started lvl4 housing, ended lvl3 (both cell living). My brother is 6'9" 334lbs. He's never been in a single altercation in prison, not with inmates, not with staff. No one tried pressing on him (his size alone is a cautionary sign) no one tried pulling him into anything. Paroled out with 5yrs parole and a model inmate. I'm proud of my brother.
That sounds awful But it's awesome that he didn't get into more trouble. Being 6'9 is a lot different than being under 6' but I still count it. At that size, it would probably be easy to debo everybody.
@@ErnestJackson-ix6zt what makes it so unbelievable to you? Is it your own failure to better yourself? Your lack of success in life? Or your inability to accomplish anything? Recidivism only effects those whom have no desire to change. Many inmates go into prison and out without disciplinary actions against them because they follow the program.
Bro in the video (the guy telling the story in parts) is a real one. Stand up dude. I can tell. Because he tried on several different occasions to help dude out and coach him into not having such a hard time in prison. Dudes biggest barrier in my opinion is fear or lack of desire to fight. I get it, I don't like confrontation myself. Extremely humble and laid back. However.. I understand that sometimes you have to fight. Ain't no choice. I mean you always have a choice but the results if u choose wrong can be worse then if you just took a black eye, bloody nose, whatever and got the fight over with. Shoot, you might even win lmao. Even if you scared. But win or lose, it's about respect. Dude in video really solid cuz he could have tried to ho dude around too being his own celly after the first time he saw he wouldn't fight. But he kept trying coach dude mistake after mistake when he didn't have to. Prison is a whole different beast with set of rules that I don't desire to experience. But even outside of prison, the common denominator I feel is standing up for yourself to be respected. In or out..
"I don't want to fight" well that's just too bad. The one thing I was often told by ex-cons was that if I ever found myself in prison, some lowlife maggot would try it on to steal my shit and that the entire prison would be watching. Doesn't matter whether one wins or loses, as long as one has a go standing up for himself. This story is a good example of what happens when you don't.
I know I'm asking this question out of the blue but is Paul Grey your real name? I just got reminded of Paul Gray, the bassist from Slipknot. I also like how you referred to the stealing dirtbag as a 'maggot', another reference to the band's fandom lmao
@@jacobpeters5458no one would stab another when a newbies being tested. Getting shanked is personal. One would have to do something to piss another off to get stabbed. Mind your own business. Show respect. Don't accept any 'gift' [nothing is free in prison] Don't gamble. Don't get drugs on credit.
The last thing you said is key… not EVERYTHING needs to turn into a fight… don’t go in there guns blazing either.. odds are there’s someone badder than you. Only fight if it’s disrespect- if you’re getting tested. I knew a dude from county who got sent to a sober living type of house in place of the joint…. He fucked up there and it followed him all the way to prison. I’ll be straight up. I was a soft white dude, and I could have had a real shitty time. I was from a nice area and just got mixed up with opiates, eventually landing me in prison for my first offence. Part of it was luck, part of it was the fact that there were soo many strung out suburban white Boys in the downtown (urban af) jail system in the late 2000’s… they were able to give me a crash course in what not to do real quick. A few things that saved my ass: I can draw. In fact I was a classically trained fine arts major (of course nobody fucking knew that- I had enough sense not to share that lol)… this is good because dudes always want to send drawings/cards to their loved ones on the outs… the shit they wanted was always retarded as fuck. Skulls, roses, big tiddied bitches… if you can draw that’s currency. Find a hustle. * also I can read and write proficiently… lots of dudes can’t. A few times I wrote letters for people, spell checked letters to judges, I even wrote a gay ass love letter for a dude to send to his girl trying to convince her to ride with him…. This is a fine line though- you don’t want to come off as a scholar nerd. Don’t speak the queens English, just casually be like “yeah I can read and write good” Second thing that was good for me- I straight up fucking hate juice. The apple juice, orange juice grape juice… fucking hate that Tropicana bullshit. Let me tell you something about black dudes: they fucking love juice, let me tell you another thing about black people: they hate milk. I love milk, I was trying to get in shape because I knew I had a bit ahead of me (more good advice- workout if you’re facing time… don’t be fuckin Rocky running up the chow tables, but lift some water bags)…. I traded my juice for milk every time, with one dude in particular… kind of think of it as building credit… every time you honour a deal your trust credit goes up- he wasn’t bullying me into trading or anything, but he was a big ass black dude. Basically we had business. Eventually we became cool (as cool as a white hipster first timer and a Blood could be). 3rd thing that helped me was being funny….. you gotta be really fucking careful with this. You gotta make sure you’re making dudes laugh at what you’re saying , not at you. You gotta know what’s too far, you can’t constantly be doing Jerry Seinfeld standup bits like “what’s the deal with these coffee cakes? They’re not coffee and they’re not cake!”…. But fuck man, if you can get the boys rolling then you’re good… you’re helping the time pass, which is what we all want at the end of the day- but use discretion: if a dude just got back from court and finds out he was denied probation and is shipping out, dudes probably not in the mood. But I had a few big dudes who I could clown with…. When new inmates come in and see you laughing with the boys they register you like “oh he’s got people, he’s must be chill”…. Don’t be a weirdo and hide in bed all day. You gotta mix with people, if you don’t fit in, make yourself fit in… I wasn’t talking about craft beers and nirvana when I was in there, you’re gonna have to be flexible. You need people for your own sanity, and if you’re a fckin mute it’s gonna make people uneasy or think you’re hiding something. Another quick tip: phone time is a bitch. When all the dudes rush for the phones, just chill if you can. If dudes are in line and you can wait for rush hour to end, just do it. Little things like that can just keep you removed from any potential issues. Again, this is if you’re trying to avoid conflict at all costs.., don’t inconvenience yourself, but stay out of chaos as much as you can. If you’re next in line for the phone and you’ve got a dude ahead of you who’s phone call ends and he immediately picks it back up and dials back, he’s saying “fuck you, my time is more valuable than yours… what’s good?”… do you want to fight in that instance? Technically you absolutely should, but you don’t want to. Just wait until the phones are free if you can. You have to be an anthropologist and casually conduct your own ethnographic research in your head. An anthropologist observes, adopts new customs, doesn’t question stuff/doesn’t push their views and customs. You need to embrace the experience and learn to push through. Every hard experience you go through makes you stronger… if you learn to embrace the struggle then there is no struggle. Your attitude is *Fucking Everything*… it’s literally all you have, besides some bags of milk and an old maxim magazine. Nobody can take away your mindset. Not the guards, not the kid banging on tables rapping at 4 am, not the fat dude snoring… remember that it will pass. You will see your family again. You will order a beer at a bar. You will get pussy again. Time is just time. The experience made me stronger and more resilient. I was always a good bullshitter and master manipulator. The experience is humbling because you’re not going to sweet talk your way out of time with a judge. Living in the bottom of the forgotten waste bin of society puts stuff in perspective. Learning gratitude for freedom is a beautiful thing. Today I’m on track to getting a PhD in Psychology, and you bet your ass my time in prison is an asset to me today. If you find a way to make the experience work for you then it’s a positive. The legal system is a goddamn disgrace- I realize I can’t fix it, but I’m going to try my best to help specifically young men so they don’t end up there. Society is falling, and it’s falling because values like integrity, honour and civility are falling … it’s falling because men are falling. Some of the best people I met will never see freedom again, and some of the shittiest people I know are driving to an office in a Mercedes. Learn to tame the reptile, primate brain and better yourself and you will better the world. Respectfully, 608-173
@@sahirdamani1264 I’d understand if he was in jail looking at less then a year due to not wanting extra time added however dude was in prison, your time is already long. Do anything that’ll make that time better even if it means the hole
Must admit haven't viewed one of your videos in about 3 months, but the algorithm brought this upon me. With that I first came across your channel roughly a couple years ago and you had roughly 30k subs. Now look at you. Very proud of guys like us who struggled and came out on top. Respect.
Enjoyed this story. I had a friend who was in for a while , he told me I would make it ok if I ever went. I would never want to find out. But if I did I would be fearful of catching another case inside for fighting or killing someone purposeful or accidentally. Much respect to the folks who can survive that world and get out to make a decent life.
Lmao you’re full of shit man. You would be the latino gang member’s personal bitch and the only charge you would get is solicitation as you try to get more men to clap your booty cheeks
Lmao people that say shit like "I'd be fearful of catching a case inside for killing someone" are the same ones that say "I couldn't go to the military because I'd swing on a drill instructor"
The fact you insisted like 3 times that you would be fine, leads me to believe that you were afraid the person that was gonna get killed is you, and not the other way around.
If you don’t fight, your own people will handle you because you didn’t handle an issue. Just get it done, win or lose, but you had the heart to just get it over with. No one faults you for losing, but they will treat you with absolute disrespect for not fighting.
That’s not just prison bro it’s like that in life and real world too there’s always someone around who has no problem fucking with someone who’s weaker then them Best thing I ever heard was hurt people hurt people
Bro that's nature, u gotta be stronger than your enemies in this demonic world and prepare for anyone on fuck shit, I had to grow up fighting because I was smaller than others, now as a grown man who's about 5'6 I have all the tough guys and big guys respect me cause they can just look at me and tell I'm not gonna take their psychological bs, half of the times your dealing with people I just learned they want your fear and nothing else, but they'll start fearing you when you give them their fears, if they don't fear anything well shit create one for them !
I'm a short guy. And I'm not tough or anything but throughout my life whenever I have gotten bullied to the point of fighting or someone harassing mean. I have not backed from a fight.
There is enough psychopaths and sociopaths in the real world...but if you're in a state prison, then that density is increased. You need to adjust your thinking and treat it like the animal world...it sucks but you need to have a quick jump to violence underneath your diplomatic side. You have to remember where you are and who you are locked up with. Great story and lesson...
I hate bullies. I would have a field day with them and enjoy it. At 68 years old a Vietnam Veteran. I respect all a true gentleman and very old school but don't tolerate bullies. Much appreciated for all your great videos. God Bless you and family your a good man
I used to be a bully. Let’s just say they don’t lie about what happens to hot heads in there. They humbled me fast in there that’s why I respect everyone now sir 👍🏻👍🏻💯
The biggest lesson and advice I have learned that if you are one of these goes that doesn't "belong " in prison so to speak, like the ones that want to avoid it all and not fight etc. if you really want to avoid as much trouble as possible, the biggest lesson I and gotten from all the ones that actually served time, is Mind Your Own Business.. If Roomie had listened, and follow the guys advice, that stuff would not have started to happen, IT all started for him when he didn't mind his own business... for the most part,
Honestly that's kept me pretty straight, I've known people in my circle that got murdered, got into shoot outs, typical violent shit. I usually don't ask about some situations and if they tell me I'll listen and be like damn, then keep it moving. Because even if you around the fuck shit, the ops might not knock you off if you a random they ain't beefin with
Yep, minding your own business 95% usually insures you'll be left alone. You learn that in the streets, even if not from the streets, and find yourself there, you learn (if you want to survive) to mind your own business.
This is true, when my brother was in for 8 months, he had 5 months of peace and one day out of nowhere a new inmate tried stealing his lunch, so he had to fight. It can happen at any time
This dude is 💯. Really good video for the younger guys thinking about that life. This man man gave damned good advice on every single subject. But sadly you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
I’ve been working in Corrections for 12years. I’m a Sergeant now at the Facility I’m at now and I tell all the new Officers coming in to always treat the men and women that they are there to watch over and keep Security over to treat with respect. That doesn’t mean let them run over you or other Inmates in the unit. It means treat them how you would want to be treated, how you would want your family members treated, but by all means when it’s time do do your job I EXPECT AND DEMAND that YOU do your Job by the Policies and Procedures that are put in place. They are there to keep you out of Trouble with the law yourself and to maintain Order within the Facility. I also remind them that, yes there are people there that will never change and will always choose to do criminal activities, but there are some and a good bit that are there that made a bad decision and are paying their consequences for it. These people will be getting out one day and they could be on your neighborhood or even your neighbors. So don’t come to work trying to make enemies out of everyone because that is what you will get and your days on the job will be long and miserable!
As a sergeant, your job is huge. Stay encouraged! Stay full of integrity! It matters more than you know, you're in charge over a bunch of people. Have as much compassion as you possibly can. One day God's going to bring into account everything you did and said in the flesh... Holdfast to your integrity, man of authority ✊
Quick prison story: while being held for trial , I took in and looked after a 6foot tall guy with the mind of a 7yr old child . Made sure no one troubled him. 3moons later prison staff came and say to me "what's the best news I can give you right now " so I said " me getting out of prison right now " staff said " yep pack you shit your case got dropped"
Was this in the U.S? I ask because if it was, you were NOT in prison. If you were awaiting trial, then you were just in a county jail which is nothing like prison.
@@emmanuelzanders1746any kind of fighting will do, like most of the comments have said you have to fight or you will be bullied every day of your sentence...bullies are basically cowards and the last thing they want is people standing up to them...if they think you will hit back they will leave you alone, I've ended up losing remission for fighting but if I hadn't I would have been picked on all the more ⚡
More like a smart person, but there is many innocent people In prison. There is also people that should be in jail in prison. There's so many dirty cops in places like new York an La...LA.... After slavery was over they throw fake. Charges on a black man send him to jail and to work on. The rail road. Cause they was getting extra money for it.
Louisiana still sentences to hard labor and profits from people labor. Angola state prison is built on top of a slave plantation. There not just grabbing up innocent people like back then but mf dirty....
My old uncle did a good bit of his life in jail,his advice to me as a kid on going to jail was,,, if you can be bad enough to get in there,you should be bad enough to handle it in there!
Like how your old uncle explained it. Well put by your old uncle dude. Im gonna explain it that way to my kids if i ever have to talk to them bout that kind of thing to them.
If you don't stand up for yourself when you get messed with, that mess is gonna keep getting worse, and harder to deal with when you finally do. This video made me remember something that happened in my life. Some 10-15 years back, this dude I grew up with moved to a spot in Oakland, CA. He's a Japanese cat, on the shorter/lighter side of the tape & scales. After he got settled, I went out to his spot to kick it. His crib wasn't in the worst part of town but it wasn't up in the hills either. When I got there we strolled down to the corner for some tall cans. On the way he tells me he got jumped by some kids in the hood. They smacked him around and took his wallet. He said we might might run into them. Now I ain't the biggest/toughest dude on the street, but I ain't the smallest/weakest cat on the block neither. I told him I'm down to scrap if that's what it is, but I'm not trying to take care of his problem for him. He was like, "You would mop those punks." I stopped walking right there to make sure I had his attention. I told him like this, "If we run into whoever and they give me a problem, I'm gonna handle MY problem one way or the other, but I don't gotta live here. I could roll out after and never come back, never see them again. You live here, and these kids live here too. No matter what happens if we see them while I'm here, yer gonna see them again without me. If we see them today, and you don't do nothin, it's gonna be worse for you next time you see them." He was like, "What am I supposed to do? I'm small and I can't fight." I said, " You're going to get your ass kicked anyway, so you might as well not rollover like a bitch, and give em a fight. There ain't no rules posted out here. It don't matter how you get down in a fight. You just gotta fight. Who knows? You might get lucky? If you don't stick up for yourself, you're a mark. You're easy pickins. Every time you see one of these kids they're gonna pocket check you cuz they can. Somehow, someway, you have to earn the respect you need to live out here. Otherwise pack your shit and find another place to live before they see you again. It's the same everywhere though. It don't matter where you are, everywhere is the same. If you rollover, there will always be someone more than happy to roll you." In the end, we didn't end up running into them. We grabbed our beers n hung out for a minute, then i bounced. I haven't seen him since. Talked to him a few times but that never came up. I know things are different than how it is in the pen. The principle remains the same though, and it's the same everywhere in life. Like I said at the top... If you don't stand up for yourself when you get messed with, that mess is gonna keep getting worse, and harder to deal with when you finally do.
People get so in there own head about how bad it’s going to be if they have to fight. It’s SO MUCH WORSE IN YOUR HEAD. Reality is you win some you lose some but if you carry yourself with some dignity and realize it could be a whole lot worse than some bumps and bruises. The real wisdom is knowing when you HAVE to fight and when you don’t.
LOL not the chicken patty. The young cats go in there tell them when you go up for parole or you have a release date. Talk on that Death .... also talk about how these young cats will be probating for an organization and in their head they thinking that the people they probating for may hate a certain gang or race in reality they get along. Organizations are in place to handle problems that may arise. They or the people who think is your friends will actually have an organization heart check your ass to see what you will do. In this case that could have been what was happening the guy did say he was probating for SK . Sounds shady to me. They seen cat wouldn't do anything and boom they know hell no they don't want him riding with them. I seen people crash out on heart check before many times. I've also seen where guys was getting heart checked and guys had to come in and calm shit down because they didn't expect guy to lose his shit the way he did. They had to explain to them what was happening.
My first time watching you and I liked what I saw. Being an alumni of the Florida department of corrections, I can relate to everything said in this video. Prison isn't for everyone, you find out real quick where you stand in a violent world.
I'm only 5'8" 180lbs. I had to do a skid bid. While I was in, dude wanted my sneakers. I knew what I had to do, so I laced up, and got my ass beat. I still have those sneakers.
Straight almost died messing with guys bigger than me but same size its hard especially after covid no friends mind keeps playing tricks on me rolling solo no connects I'm an easy mark.
Only a fool fights fair in jail every dick in the place wants a go with someone good with their hands if only to pass the time .the reality is you get yourself armed ASAP mix with the right people don't borrow or stick your nose into other people's business. And if someone bothers you you wait and get them alone. And never mention it again everyone will know anyway. Most men in jail will have less fights in jail than on the street if you got any common sense.
Its the same thing outside of prison too... I have a daughter that was bullied throughout highschool but no fighting. Just mental bullying. She just started college and her roommate was trying to bully her and she told me about it. Her roommate was waking her up on purpose just so she couldn't sleep. My daughter is a pre-med student and doesn't sleep much anyways. Her roommate is going to be a teacher. So I told her she better stand up for herself otherwise it will only get worse in life. She finally said something to her roommate and put her in her place. Next thing I know the roommate was gone for 2 days spending nights somewhere else. That shit stopped right away. I'm proud of her because my daughter is kind and nice but I told her when people start shit you finish it. Now she has so much more confidence.
When you're in jail, you CANT BE SOFT! Everyone is constantly sizing you up and down and if you show even one inch of fear, your ass is getting beat. Oh yeah, if you're going to jail for the first time DO NOT ACCEPT ANY GIFTS FROM ANYBODY!
Not even in the streets or in certain groups / cliques can you be soft or you'll get used & abused. Some jobs are toxic as hell and have the same clique crap of attacking others.
Bro when I first started watching I had only been to jail, hella times. I just did my first prison bid, came home like 3 months ago and am glad to see the channel growing and you doing good homie. Bless up
@@devin7376 how about you wish that person a good future instead of judging them for their past. that man clearly knows he has faced the consequences of his actions and doesnt run from that, he owns it. judging on how focused you are on other people, one day you'll be the main character in someone elses "when you dont fight in prison" story.
@@E-1337 judging by how you put yourself in my way seems like you ain’t to bright yourself bud. Where am I judging this MF past? And you talking about how dude “owns it”? You know this Mf? you don’t know what this guy “owns” or doesn’t. You think he gonna rob somebody or go fuck a kid and say yep it was me come pick me up. Hell nah!! Dudes gonna get away with everything he can. Won’t we all? And here you are talking about judging right, then you gonna say you’ll be in someone’s story. Your a DA. Go read a book bud and get off YT comment section. Heres the deal, when you see a young cat getting to comfortable, call him/her out on that. Self evaluation is a key factor to change. Have some courage to tell a mf what he needs to hear. And be smart enough to know when you should or shouldn’t be on the keyboard.
@@devin7376 damn, did i hit a nerve? you think im reading that? im not a therapist, go pay one of them to walk you through your emotional hysterics. this isnt reddit, nobody gives a fuck here. if you plan on crying when people call you out for being a piece of shit, then either shut the fuck up, or stop being a piece of shit towards people.
I’ve never been in prison but I’ve worked blue collar with a lot of dudes who have been. And typically I try and chose the non violent resolution but some of these guys bring prison back with them. Got into a fight cause the guy saw I was trying to peacefully resolve and he wanted to pounce on what he perceived as weakness. Guy took a trip to the floor cause he didn’t know I had martial arts background and after that some of the other former convicts never tried to fuck with me again.
@@henryettacollins9095I agree that shit doesn’t happen anymore.. maybe back in the day I’d believe it I worked blue color for years and have worked and trained many convicts/former cons they would come on work release. Those guys were on good behavior and the ones who got out always were respectful good workers. And hell I’m looking at a little time myself in the future so hopefully I don’t have too hard of a time that being said I’ve been in a few fights it’s the group of guys that scares me
This is something I tried to explain to my family and girlfriend and stuff when I got out, you aren't really able to say no to a fight. You're better off fighting when someone disrespects you and getting beat up than choosing to look away and take it. Personally I didn't have to deal with it much, only got in 1 little scrap not much happened though, the fact that I worked out alot and made friends with alot of them probably helped, I made it pretty obvious that I was down to scrap if the wind blows that way and honestly that's all it really takes to not get fucked with.
""" You're better off fighting when someone disrespects you """ disrespects you- like huh.... with that type thinking .... it's no wonder you were sent to prison
@@flipwilson9360On another note, these people clearly don't take Jesus's words to heart. Some people choose to be pacifists, it shouldn't be taken as weakness. Seems like with the material mindset and the aggressive mindset that these people have, the Devil has these people by the throat.
Wow so self righteous you could not wait to brag on yourself. He said that’s the way to Be in prison and you took it as his life motto. Grow the hell up and stop casting judgment before you even finish reading.
@@byronperez9199Be a pacifist in prison and see where that gets you. They'll pass-a-fist across your face. Jesus chased men from the temple with a cat-o-nine-tails and Peter cut off a guard's ear. There is a such thing as righteous anger.
Just like in life. You either face the bully or they continue to bully you. I tried to "ignore the bully" in school. Eventually things got to the point where I was a constant target until one day in the 4th grade I snapped and brutalized a guy who laughed at me for being down about my grandfather dying of cancer. After that I was a ball of rage that took out his frustrations on everyone who ever tormented him. I was still occasionally targeted by bullies, but by this time by pain tolerance was at a level where a shot to the face simply pissed me off even further. One kid found out the hard way that I was done with his shit when I spun him around and sent him sailing across pavement. And that's been my creed for the last 30 years. "When someone gets in your way with malicious intent, crush them."
@@chuckplaysgames7925 I never hurt a person who didn't deserve it. I never harassed, taunted, or attacked the innocent. as Al Capone once said, "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me."
We used to fight over chicken patties in elementary school, which is silly. But on the other hand, WE KNEW TO FIGHT for OUR CHICKEN PATTIES in elementary school.
@Jamey no I did not move to Gary. Why would I leave the frying pan to jump into a fryer? I moved to a small quiet town far from Gary, but apparently meth is a big issue out here.
you dont ALWAYS lose if you dont throw the first punch but its still the best advice. if you know theres no way out of the fight, just start throwing and get it over as quick as possible. because the person who throws first usually just keeps goin til its over, not always but a lot of times.
Its because he was looking out for him and his celly was stupid and clearly didn't pick up that his celly was actually being cool and legit with him you don't find guys like that in prison and shit that easy dude.
I've been in and out of the criminal justice system since I was 18. I'm 31 now and just finally got off paper (probation). You don't have to be a fighter you just have to fight even if you get your ass beat at least you got down! And being scared doesn't make you a punk fear is actually a good thing makes you more focused aware. I still get butterflies but I can sense when something is about to go down. This guy should of took off on the dude the second he got sucker punched and he shouldn't of called the guy in his cell he should of waited until they tried to punk him for his shit and then made a stand right there. It would of been the end of the story.
you know these men in these situations need to stop being punk's marks which made you know whatever you want to call it okay I think there's many consulting names but they just need to get down and handle their business or stay away from that life in that lifestyle if you live in an Indian neighborhood and there's nothing you can do about the people that you intermingway for you have to pass by everyday or you feel the need to speak to them in a cordial manner I mean if she's going to get ugly I mean get ugly with it and get down with it and then rise up and keep going forward and not to look back and stay out of the dirt if you can from that point on but sometimes people only understand violence and filth and you got to bring it to him then the s*** stops for the most part there's only going to be one winner and only one walk away
Exactly. It's about making a stand and men will always primal respect that. You curl up in a ball crying and you're a punk who's gonna be targeted now nonstop
Never show weakness in prison or out of prison, I learned that shit in highschool the place where you expect to go get educated I ended up being surrounded by brain dead bullies that kept pushing my bottons everyday until one day I snapped and beat the living shit out of one dude and all of sudden he wanted to become friends it always ends that ways with me and bullies lol smh, so always remember whenever you feel disrespected Stand up for yourself and fight!
Samething happened to me. It stopped once I snapped and told one of them to meet me right outside after class with the rest of them. I didn't care if I was gonna get jumped or what, I was so mad that I felt I could take a 5 of them at once After that day it's like they were new people lol.
I went ballistic verbally on everyone in our circle of fake friends / bullies and they never messed with me since. They only attack those when they know they can get away with it and test your boundaries like cowards. Gotta end it real fast or they'll never stop.
Being scared to show weakness makes you look weak. Think about it. If you were literally Superman, you wouldn't care if people saw you as weak, because they couldn't do shit about it anyway
i wish i woulda had a celly like this when i first went in. coulda saved me some broken ribs and a broken orbital lmfao. but i was 17. and fresh as a noodle.. i mean i was SO fkn fresh that when the judge sentenced me.. the entire courtroom said "AWWWW" dead serious lmao. i was cryin and shit. man that first jail visit was roughhh. but i learned ALLOT. and the next time i went in. i had no issues. well i had issues... but no issues like this
Great rehabilitation, the guys just come out angry and I can see why.. I couldn't imagine how bad it would be for someone who was bullied in school...x100?
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 I think the guards should protect guys that can't fight, you shouldn't have to take a karate course before jail. They also shouldn't mix guys who have killed people with harmless drug addicts.
Sorry to hear that happened in your 15th birthday. Best policy for prison or jail is to do all you can to stay out. If you go in, you better 1.) put away the tough guy act (that'll get you unwanted attention) and be real easy, 2.) choose some stand up people to hang with, and 3.) resolve to stand up for yourself at all times.
I have rarely seen a straight up, one-on-one fight in prison. In most cases, people get jumped by several attackers. It's true that being known to stand up for yourself brings a degree of respect and failing to invites more of the same but most prison violence are mob handed ambush attacks.
Don't do the crime, if you can't do the time. No one thinks about that, until it's too late. Before you do something stupid think about the consequences. Once you're locked up you will surely wish you did!
Im from Southern California, in association with the crips, however I was no die-hard member who started banging when i still had to be inside by the time street lights turned on. I did square things like work jobs, have girlfriends and hang with non affiliate friends at the beach. But at 27 I catch a case that I spend two years in county over to end up taking a nine-year deal which left me doing seven years in prison. Well the night of me catching the chain i was in a holding cell with a OG gangmember from a well known Compton set who was down from Prison on a family court case (he was also in a wheelchair). We got acquainted over the night and he told me some things that carried me all the way through my prison sentence and I will never forget to this day. He told me the first thing you need to know about prison is that every room you walk into theres somebody in there doesn't like you for some reason. And if you're going to survive you have to be on the lookout for these people and when they present themselves you don't back down or shy away from the issue. That doesn't mean go looking for that problem because the problem will present itself, just be ready when it comes. I ended up doing 7 years out of that 9 never going PC, never being considered a fish, or anything weak all because I had a set mind set of what I know I can't tolerate from any other individual inside that place.
A friend from years ago never understood why he was picked on so bad and i always told him he needed to stand up for himself. He wouldn't listen, absolutely terrified to stand his ground. He believed the bigger man always walks away. And i told him you won't ever be respected if all you every do is run away.
honestly i wish more people thought like that OUTSIDE of prison. it bothers me how our society tells people that staying quiet to abuse, bullies, and "trolls" is the only way handle them. problems don't go away if you ignore them. that's why our society is now filled with passive aggressive people who have slowly started to become afraid to speak up for themselves for fear of social backlash. those of us who are more aggressive or assertive are shamed for all the wrong reasons. at no point in time is there ever anything absolutely law that says that walking away makes you the bigger person. i feel like people are trying to apply "gentlemanly" social rules of centuries past to a present-day society and it's not working. sure, sometimes walking away can keep you or someone safe, and sometimes you do gotta pick and choose your battles. but picking and choosing your battles is not the same thing as feigning moral high ground and refusing to stand up for yourself.
@@Supported32320 very well said. And truly, passive aggressive people need to get straightened out. They have a thing with being so disrespectful, deliberately, in a pleasing tone. It's in need of being changed
There’s a difference in fighting and sticking up and defending yourself. If you with your family and someone comes up and slaps your kid..what you gonna do? Stick up and defend your family..do the same for yourself!Even if it means you getting your ass kicked.
I will never forget when I was 18 in 93. I went to CoCo jail in Ca for some auto theft. I made to minimum security and had this job in the kitchen so I was helping smuggle shit from visiting and what have you. 1 day I was makin some hobo coffee playing cards and this dude obviously didn't like me for some reason and we started arguing. He told me to shut up so I told him to come shut me up. His 1st punch was an uppercut to my chin that knocked me cold. I recovered hella quick and got back to my feet. I remember my homies tellin me to just stay down (they already knew this guy). I got back up, squared up to keep boxing and he 1-2'd me right above the eye. Think he knocked me out again. I got up still talkin shit. We squared up again, this time I realized I couldn't throw hands with this guy so I rushed him and got a take down. We threw some short punches back and forth and mutually realized this wasn't going anywhere and that the cops will be rollin in any second. We hopped up, went to the cop shack and said he elbowed me going for a rebound on the court. If you looked like U got beat up they would roll you up the next morning and send U to PC in Martinez. Cop said cool, documented it and he gave me a band aid for my eye. We were cool after that. The point tho, is that not 1 person referred to me as the guy that got KO'd 2x, but the kid with hella heart who kept getting back up to fight.
Have any dreams dawg? Better give em up 💯 glad I stumbled across ya’ll man, yall spittin’ knowledge on these boys. Well done!!! Even God cant help those who can’t help themselves. He got a good stretch……. He better get right!!! Thank y’all again!!! 🇨🇱🤘🏻🤠🤘🏻
None of these losers are men. When you get, "You have to fight or I'm going to steal your chicken patty," that's 5th grade boys, not men. Never heard any woman worth anything say, "I'm really turned on by the guys who hit and bully weaker people and steal their food." Those kinds need to stay behind bars because they can't make it on the outside with the real men.
They may not say that specifically,but most of the women I've been around my entire life have always liked these type of men..."f*ckboys". Maybe I've just known shitty people 🤷...maybe I'm shitty also...just saying...the women I've known like danger it seems.
this is pretty backwards. you expect prepubescent boys to be violent and to extort each other, but you're disappointed convicted felons locked in a cage aren't more civil? even if you're theory of women not being turned on by violent bullies was true, prison fights aren't about impressing women. prisons are coed.
@@diegodonjuan You missed the point entirely, but probably not the first time. No one expects children to be violent and extort, but we know children are immature with not yet expanded conflict resolution skills, as we see some chronological "adults" seem to be as well.
I won't say anything about the right or wrong of your statement. I'll just say, be careful of being sure that your way of thinking and your statements are correct. New information, time, or a different perspective may have you seeing things differently down the line. Also, be especially careful that your thought processes don't lead you to belittling people, ESPECIALLY people with more physical power than yourself. It may be easy to disregard someone's strength because they're not physically in front of you, but thinking this way makes it easier to say the wrong thing, at the wrong time, to the wrong person. Generally, it's safer to not train yourself into getting used to it...if you don't have the required physical strength to get through any "issues" your words may cause.
Man I need to get my stuff together. Driving an hour to the south side of chi every few days on a suspended is gonna get me being on these what not to do videos. Can’t box, use to wrestle but out of shape. Fuck all dat. Almost back on the suboxne legally. Two more days of feeling like shit and I can be back to somewhat normal. Wish me luck fam. Best of luck to those out there struggling Themselves.
Soon as you feel better hit up a boxing gym, never know when you'll need that shit but every man gotta throw haymakers at least once in his life. Peace bro
You should grab that dude, who’s an amazing storyteller and become partners. Then you can sort of interview him, but also add more context to the visual. They would be the perfect podcast and you both could interview plenty of folks that did time + great stories that YOU drive (not everyone can tell a story, so you guide it). Awesome job man
Yup, that’s what it is!! It’s Soap checkin in from the 505 burque at central y atrisco!! Just remember; no matter what happens to you, you can always keep your respect with people by standing up for yourself..... and it’s the same reason people extort and bang on you if you don’t! So keep your respect, and show respect to other people!!
Someone i knew who went to jail over here in Australia. He ended up in the mental health pod. And every lunch time they would bang on the doors and once the doors open they would just beat the fuck out of each other with the food trays.
You cant let folks walk on you .. and the way it sounds in his area, everybody was runnin one on one fades .. no bullshit jumps or pokers.. he had a chance to run a straight up 1 on 1 fade an he backed down.. you got to run that shit.. even if you get beat down... You got to do it...
This guy reminded me when I got that call from my celly. I told my celly the same thing, no man I'm good I don't want to fight. My celly gives me this look and says, no bro you HAVE to go handle your bizness. Those eyes and that look said it all. I didnt say 1 word just went to lacing up my sneakers and handle my bizness.
I know a dude that was an undercover Fed and went into a State joint in PA on an operation. They found out he was undercover and when we was in the laundry room working, he was jumped by a bunch of dudes. So dude got pulled from the operation. Three days later the joint went into lockdown and a Spec Ops crew came in and took out every dude that was part of the hit that broke dude's arm including the on-duty. Lesson of the story - don't eff with the Feds, especially if that Fed Agency ends in an "A".
I’m from Indiana and when people go into a cell to get it in what you don’t do is crowd around the cell 2. Keep staring that way 3.cheer someone on and 4. You better fight if you can’t and learn to get them hands right
Same shit applied to my school. You don't fight once, next time they take your shit, next time nobody will stand up for you, and everybody considers you a victim. I made this mistake when I arrived. Had to claw my way back by cracking a dude's head open with a chair, got suspended, but when I cam back nobody was taking my shit no more.
yup also learnt the hard way, yeh its basically a life rule. Sadly I was slow to learn, only the last couple years of highschool did I learn that lesson and then they left me the damn hell alone finally.
I went to jail years ago and it was over full so they put us with the ones that were either going to prison or coming from prison and the three I was with that got put with them were all short time like 30 or 60 days, well one young guy messed up bc he took food from a guy coming from prison that offered it to him which was no problem but a week later the young guy had some food come in and the guy from prison his name was Tig, wanted to try some of his chips he got, and the young guy said no which was a mistake, long story short young guy checked out of the cell bc he was afraid of getting his a** beat, I got out shortly after and got sent back to jail over an unpaid fine and I seen that young guy again, he did not look the same he looked like he lost his soul and he had cut marks on his wrists, so wherever he checked out to they gave him hell, I'll never forget how he looked
@@justingreen6561 he was really young like just turned 18 or 19, but yeah when I heard him say no I knew that was a mistake bc the guy gave him some extra food when he first got there bc he was hungry, he just asked for some chips and that should have been common courtesy to give the man some chips, but whatever all happened to him when I seen him again it was like his soul was gone when I looked at him
@@justingreen6561 Yeah, I agree. He deserved to get beat up and tormented for his entire stay to the point of committing suicide if he wouldn’t give the guy some potato chips. What an *** move. Bullying is always acceptable. People need to just learn to deal with it. It’s their own fault. Suck it up.
@@Huinooauzyxgxhdu I don't know exactly what happened to him from the point of when he checked out of the cell to the point of me getting picked up again over an unpaid fine, I was being moved to a holding cell temporarily bc I was getting right back out and I seen him passing right by me bc they were going to the courthouse, it stuck with me when I seen him bc he had cut marks on both wrists and he looked soulless like nobody was home, best way I can describe is he was a normal person going in and when I seen him again it was like he was possessed looking and not looking good at all like there was just no life in him, so after he checked out that time I'm pretty sure he caught hell and who knows what happened bc other cells find out pretty quick if you checked out somewhere and the reason, whatever happened to him it was bad and it stuck with me the before after of being around the guy for a short time
When dudes wanna get down all we had was the bathroom. As far as I was concerned I was blind. Less I see the less of a witness I would be. The cops can tell if you are lying anyway. One night I was on the shitter in the last stall. The last shower stall was in front of me. I'm sitting there trying to do my business and I hear body shots. Next thing you know dude falls face first into my lap. I had to handle it. Next thing you know I'm fighting both of these dudes. One of them was my homeboy. He was throwing shots at me and the other dude. He blacked out and went crazy. The whole pod rushed in there and stopped it. The captain was coming down the hall to our pod with 4 or 5 COs. Crazy night. Lol!
@@RjKME Right. In lock up the COs know. They kind of pick their battles. If someone in there they wanna hem up on violations they rush them, but otherwise they would let it go. Better to let it happen so it's over with and you don't have the same dudes beefin constantly.
@@roosterj2599 man facts, I did some juvenile time but luckily I’m from Vegas lol, I did time in Colorado and juvenile is the worst🤦♂️ everyone thought they had to prove something, I was coming down off of Xanax so i didn’t care who I fought lmao but I got some respect from the guard’s I told one of them what I was gonna do, cause this guy just got up and started hitting my friend out of no where so the next I told him hey when he walks out of class ima sock off on em, BOOM knocked him on his pants lol
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 because that was my friend and I wanted a reason to fight… I didn’t have shit on me this was juvenile, but I did find a sharpened peace of the window lining sharpened
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 He hit me first and then I was getting bombed on by both of them. I was pissed so I got back. Didn't have shit on me. I was working on making a deposit. Story makes sense. It's the short version. A lot more to it than that. I won't elaborate as to not hurt any feelings.
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I did almost ten years in maximum security, and while I can respect a person for a philosophical stance on non-violence, in places like that, choosing not to engage in violence (more often than not) just creates an even more ripened culture of predation where you live. Bullies get encouraged and emboldened by their victims and the victims of others. An appropriate amount of force is oftentimes the prefect deterrence to a future of violence. You can't speak poetry to someone who isn't a poet-- when you meet a swordsman, draw your sword.
best analogy i’ve read
That shit was poetic!
Only he that draws his sword shall be meant with brute force
You live by the sword you die by the sword
'You don't recite poetry to someone who isn't a poet' that's a great analogy.
There are a lot of guys not built for prison but are constantly doing things that will eventually put them there.
It's better to have a little fight rather than get seriously hurt
Not good to have a crutch like a pistol,knife or really any weapon. When a man can't rely on his hands, on his fists, he really isn't much of a man.
@@0BRAINS0 If you judge whether a man is a man by whether or not he can fight with his fists you're going to find yourself in a cell.
@@JohnDoe-jt9oq it doesn't make you a man but if you want to act like a man, you better learn how to fight.
It's inevitable. Yea there are a lot of fck boys doing fck things but they aren't thinking about that when they are break an entry to score some glass or some black. Once they end up in prison they realize they are pssy and becomes ""boys". Going back to your comment ita true it's very true but it's still going to go down.
My brother is in and out of jail all his life, he told me if i ever end up in there, just be willing to fight. Don't matter if you win or lose, it's the fact that you WILL fight that matters.
What if you lose the fight, end up unconscious, and a homosexual decides to fuck you in the ass while you sleep? that's why don't go to jail in the first place
Your brother is an idiot and I hope you have some sense to stay out of that shit hole.
What happens if you the small guy? And gets beat up all the time even tho you try and swing... is that still better than nothing and earn some prison respect?
Serious question because I am a 5'9" 140lbs small build guy...and I know if I go up against a 6'0 200lb guy I know 1 hit would lay me out....
They need to know that while they can beat you in a fight, it will not be worth it for them.
@@tomthumb5445 but if you get your ass beat everytime isn't it worth beating your ass when you take everything anyway?
Standing up for yourself is definitely so important in life too 🙌 well said
Its so ironic that people who dont like following rules go to prison where the rules are even more extreme. Like you said its important to stand up for yourself and its even more important when you're locked up.
Yeah that's a matter of life and death many times when your locked up even if you lose get your ass beat whatever it's all about standing up for yourself stand your ground and don't ever let anyone ever punk u especially in front of a cafeteria full of other inmates cause they see that once and your most likely gonna be labeled a mark, target for anyone and not gonna have Any respect from anyone, it's a fucked up position to be in but gotta do what you got to do, simply stand up for yourself don't take shit from anybody, win or lose and u will b respected
I'm a small ass dude. 1 thing I learned in life. Be respectful, it goes a long way. Being like that doesn't show weakness nor strength just a pure acknowledgement of another human. Some don't understand this hidden law of life.
You try being like that in prison, your getting folded. It'll work to a extent, but at sometimes in prison, you have to fight. Most times, it'll let people know you ain't going, and even though you may not win, but it shows you're not going to be a easy win, and they'll go to a easier target.
Yeah but when its time to fight u gotta fight doesnt matter if u lose or win
In jail if you don't fight people don't respect you I never fought my whole life I was a drug addict I was cool with everyone in the place cuz I knew everyone .. 1 day some dude gets changed over from another jail and hes there for a few days... So 3 4 days in he came up to me and tried to push me off the phone and I'm like bro I'm gonna be a few minutes I'm talking to my mother and he goes meet me in the bathroom .. 2 people I know said bro you gotta fight and I said fight? They said yea if you don't your life is gonna be over in here .. I went in fought him won and felt great about myself I never pushed no one around after that I got in maybe 2 more fights for my next 2 years there .. win or lose you fight it's about respect
Agreed. I'm 4" short of being 6 feet, I've pulled concrete footers, laid block, worked at recycling facilities, etc. And look like a body builder, & took martial arts. But, everytime I meet people, I'm kind and courteous, life is too short to be unduly confrontational with anybody. Prison- well that's another matter.
@@johnterell8642 not really dude. I've been to a federal place. Most fights I saw were over money. People not paying their debts, not honoring deals they made etc. You dont gamble, you dont have a bad case, you dont go around bothering people you will be fine. I was only in 6 months and saw several fights but never had to fight myself. Never had anyone steal my commissary or anything like that. If you dont give people a reason most of the time you will be fine.
had a conversation recently with my nephew about not letting people take stuff from you. He is 8, and wanted to bring a $100 toy to school. I told him "make sure nobody tries to take it from you. If someone asks to see it, make sure it's somebody you trust to give it back. If they try to take it, take it back." He was apprehensive and asked "did that ever happen to you?" i told him yes, and told him a story about when i was on a school trip and a kid from a different school tried to take my hat. I took it back and made it clear I'd fight to keep it. I told my nephew, "if you let one bad person take something from you, other bad people will see that and think THEY can take your stuff, too. You stop it the first time." He's a generous kid, but he has already stood up for himself a few times, just hasnt had THIS situation happen and i was trying to prepare him if somebody tried to steal his toy. Many parents say "tell a teacher", but honestly that's bad advice most of the time for a young boy.
This happened when I was a kid. My son went to the park with his RC the other day with implicit instructions If someone try to take it from you you have dad's permission to lay em out
@@GlazzedDonut I'm not having anybody take anything from my family without consequences, period.
@Wil Paul What? Let your son have toys you waste of space
@Wil Paul lil man got a toy because he a lil man, let kids be kids fucks sake...
@Wil PaulHe's a child loser. The fuck is wrong with you?
This lesson is not just for prison, it applies to life in general. Prison has the same rules as the outside. People will exploit those who are weak.
so christians are weak because they think that you must turn the other cheek lol. Violence is for the weak and the animals.
No prison‘s rules are extremely extremely petty I watch a man get his face smashed in Over three Ramen noodles that he was going to get that evening it just wasn’t going to be that minute and he didn’t like that it’s a whole different world in there brother
This guy^ ^ ^. When you never been to prison but act like it. Gtfoh with that comment
Nah not exactly
People will exploit those who are weak yes however don't act like people fist fighting over a candy bar is everyday life on the outside lmfao
"Well...your math good, but that's the wrong answer." LOL
This comment right here
Right?!
I almost friggin died…
I need to find this dudes tik toc.
My best friend growing up went to prison at 17 years old for 5 years. After he came out. He has anger problems and wants to fight people over every little thing. It's sad
Sounds like a good boxing career path opportunity. tell him to train and be an instructor. might as well get paid to do what you love
@@crojackbojangles Prison has messed him up too bad and he can't hold down any job.
@@SavageMrFox-dh7ip is he still your buddy?
Sounds like regular everyday adulthood
It will fade with time. I did 14 years, and when I came home, life was hard, I didnt understand how to live anymore. When people would do or say things that would be disrespectful in prison o reacted to it like I was still there, it took awhile for me to gain a new understanding, the same as it takes time to adapt to there. Honestly some groups or people to talk to he respects might make a difference and help. You have to go back to normal life, he has PTSD and emotional damage.
I didn't ever want to fight, but if you stand up for yourself, the first time... You will have alot more respect from everyone and have a smoother stay.
Problem is they just want you to catch a charge so you can be locked up in there as long as they are.
@@L0kias1 naa man 100% motherfuckers gonna try you at some point especially if you got money. your option is show whoever tries you first that he tried the wrong 1 and as long as you're not a little bitch doing bitch shit you be aiight.
@@L0kias1 wont catch a charge most of the time. my homies literally jumped a dude in the courtroom and got no charges added on
@@L0kias1 Once you get yourself locked up you're no longer a civilian, so never mind about getting out, just focus on surviving.
@@JohnDoe-jt9oq shit this is spot on my dude✊🏾
ain't no fucking way I'm cut out for prison.
Same 😂. I watch these videos as a reminder not to do anything stupid to end up in jail.
For real, I’d definitely fight but in no ways want to be in that situation. Clean living for me thanks.
Good don't do nothing to put yourself in that position
It's a young man's game
Bro jail is not bad prison is not it tfoh 😒
I feel like in Life you never let NO ONE put thier hands on you atlease thats how I was raised! You win some and you lose some but you live to tell another day! Anything is better then getting shot! Y'all Stay Humble.
My brother spent 42yrs in prison in CDCR classified GP/GP (gang profiled general pop) started lvl4 housing, ended lvl3 (both cell living). My brother is 6'9" 334lbs. He's never been in a single altercation in prison, not with inmates, not with staff.
No one tried pressing on him (his size alone is a cautionary sign) no one tried pulling him into anything.
Paroled out with 5yrs parole and a model inmate. I'm proud of my brother.
That sounds awful
But it's awesome that he didn't get into more trouble. Being 6'9 is a lot different than being under 6' but I still count it. At that size, it would probably be easy to debo everybody.
Sound like a lie
@@ErnestJackson-ix6zt what makes it so unbelievable to you? Is it your own failure to better yourself? Your lack of success in life? Or your inability to accomplish anything?
Recidivism only effects those whom have no desire to change. Many inmates go into prison and out without disciplinary actions against them because they follow the program.
@@ErnestJackson-ix6zt what's your evidence of this?
Did you know you can say that about almost everything on the internet?
Total bs. These idiots in the pen because they lie non stop. Fk this bitch. I'd slap him up
Bro in the video (the guy telling the story in parts) is a real one. Stand up dude. I can tell. Because he tried on several different occasions to help dude out and coach him into not having such a hard time in prison. Dudes biggest barrier in my opinion is fear or lack of desire to fight. I get it, I don't like confrontation myself. Extremely humble and laid back. However.. I understand that sometimes you have to fight. Ain't no choice. I mean you always have a choice but the results if u choose wrong can be worse then if you just took a black eye, bloody nose, whatever and got the fight over with. Shoot, you might even win lmao. Even if you scared. But win or lose, it's about respect. Dude in video really solid cuz he could have tried to ho dude around too being his own celly after the first time he saw he wouldn't fight. But he kept trying coach dude mistake after mistake when he didn't have to. Prison is a whole different beast with set of rules that I don't desire to experience. But even outside of prison, the common denominator I feel is standing up for yourself to be respected. In or out..
He's a closetcase and your his partner. Quit cheerleading....
@@JukeHighwalker how much you get paid an hour to waste ppl time making goofy ass comments like this? ☠️☠️☠️
@@JukeHighwalker what you talking about?
Makes you wonder what he did to get 10 to 15 years if he’s not violent. Still he should have been prepared to throw them hands win or lose.
@@Garbeaux. how you know he got 10-15 years?
"I don't want to fight" well that's just too bad. The one thing I was often told by ex-cons was that if I ever found myself in prison, some lowlife maggot would try it on to steal my shit and that the entire prison would be watching. Doesn't matter whether one wins or loses, as long as one has a go standing up for himself.
This story is a good example of what happens when you don't.
I know I'm asking this question out of the blue but is Paul Grey your real name? I just got reminded of Paul Gray, the bassist from Slipknot. I also like how you referred to the stealing dirtbag as a 'maggot', another reference to the band's fandom lmao
@@sherwinashfordlmao
ok but like what are the chances of getting stabbed? cuz I think that's what most ppl are worried about, not the actual bruises etc
@@jacobpeters5458no one would stab another when a newbies being tested.
Getting shanked is personal. One would have to do something to piss another off to get stabbed. Mind your own business. Show respect. Don't accept any 'gift' [nothing is free in prison] Don't gamble. Don't get drugs on credit.
@@sherwinashford it's my real utube name 😁 No relation to Slipknot.
The last thing you said is key… not EVERYTHING needs to turn into a fight… don’t go in there guns blazing either.. odds are there’s someone badder than you.
Only fight if it’s disrespect- if you’re getting tested. I knew a dude from county who got sent to a sober living type of house in place of the joint…. He fucked up there and it followed him all the way to prison.
I’ll be straight up. I was a soft white dude, and I could have had a real shitty time. I was from a nice area and just got mixed up with opiates, eventually landing me in prison for my first offence. Part of it was luck, part of it was the fact that there were soo many strung out suburban white Boys in the downtown (urban af) jail system in the late 2000’s… they were able to give me a crash course in what not to do real quick.
A few things that saved my ass:
I can draw. In fact I was a classically trained fine arts major (of course nobody fucking knew that- I had enough sense not to share that lol)… this is good because dudes always want to send drawings/cards to their loved ones on the outs… the shit they wanted was always retarded as fuck. Skulls, roses, big tiddied bitches… if you can draw that’s currency. Find a hustle.
* also I can read and write proficiently… lots of dudes can’t. A few times I wrote letters for people, spell checked letters to judges, I even wrote a gay ass love letter for a dude to send to his girl trying to convince her to ride with him…. This is a fine line though- you don’t want to come off as a scholar nerd. Don’t speak the queens English, just casually be like “yeah I can read and write good”
Second thing that was good for me- I straight up fucking hate juice. The apple juice, orange juice grape juice… fucking hate that Tropicana bullshit.
Let me tell you something about black dudes: they fucking love juice, let me tell you another thing about black people: they hate milk. I love milk, I was trying to get in shape because I knew I had a bit ahead of me (more good advice- workout if you’re facing time… don’t be fuckin Rocky running up the chow tables, but lift some water bags)…. I traded my juice for milk every time, with one dude in particular… kind of think of it as building credit… every time you honour a deal your trust credit goes up- he wasn’t bullying me into trading or anything, but he was a big ass black dude. Basically we had business. Eventually we became cool (as cool as a white hipster first timer and a Blood could be).
3rd thing that helped me was being funny….. you gotta be really fucking careful with this. You gotta make sure you’re making dudes laugh at what you’re saying , not at you. You gotta know what’s too far, you can’t constantly be doing Jerry Seinfeld standup bits like “what’s the deal with these coffee cakes? They’re not coffee and they’re not cake!”…. But fuck man, if you can get the boys rolling then you’re good… you’re helping the time pass, which is what we all want at the end of the day- but use discretion: if a dude just got back from court and finds out he was denied probation and is shipping out, dudes probably not in the mood. But I had a few big dudes who I could clown with…. When new inmates come in and see you laughing with the boys they register you like “oh he’s got people, he’s must be chill”….
Don’t be a weirdo and hide in bed all day. You gotta mix with people, if you don’t fit in, make yourself fit in… I wasn’t talking about craft beers and nirvana when I was in there, you’re gonna have to be flexible. You need people for your own sanity, and if you’re a fckin mute it’s gonna make people uneasy or think you’re hiding something.
Another quick tip: phone time is a bitch. When all the dudes rush for the phones, just chill if you can. If dudes are in line and you can wait for rush hour to end, just do it. Little things like that can just keep you removed from any potential issues. Again, this is if you’re trying to avoid conflict at all costs.., don’t inconvenience yourself, but stay out of chaos as much as you can. If you’re next in line for the phone and you’ve got a dude ahead of you who’s phone call ends and he immediately picks it back up and dials back, he’s saying “fuck you, my time is more valuable than yours… what’s good?”… do you want to fight in that instance? Technically you absolutely should, but you don’t want to. Just wait until the phones are free if you can.
You have to be an anthropologist and casually conduct your own ethnographic research in your head. An anthropologist observes, adopts new customs, doesn’t question stuff/doesn’t push their views and customs. You need to embrace the experience and learn to push through. Every hard experience you go through makes you stronger… if you learn to embrace the struggle then there is no struggle. Your attitude is *Fucking Everything*… it’s literally all you have, besides some bags of milk and an old maxim magazine. Nobody can take away your mindset. Not the guards, not the kid banging on tables rapping at 4 am, not the fat dude snoring… remember that it will pass. You will see your family again. You will order a beer at a bar. You will get pussy again. Time is just time.
The experience made me stronger and more resilient. I was always a good bullshitter and master manipulator. The experience is humbling because you’re not going to sweet talk your way out of time with a judge. Living in the bottom of the forgotten waste bin of society puts stuff in perspective. Learning gratitude for freedom is a beautiful thing.
Today I’m on track to getting a PhD in Psychology, and you bet your ass my time in prison is an asset to me today. If you find a way to make the experience work for you then it’s a positive. The legal system is a goddamn disgrace- I realize I can’t fix it, but I’m going to try my best to help specifically young men so they don’t end up there. Society is falling, and it’s falling because values like integrity, honour and civility are falling … it’s falling because men are falling.
Some of the best people I met will never see freedom again, and some of the shittiest people I know are driving to an office in a Mercedes. Learn to tame the reptile, primate brain and better yourself and you will better the world.
Respectfully,
608-173
This is incredible…..
Ion ever read paragraph comments. But this one was diff. Good stuff
@@Prod.VilianoGames right? Truly inspiring and eye opening
Your time in served you well.
Nice comment. It was easy to read and very insightful. You should write a book.
The moment the guy said "he ain't wanna fight" I got scared my damn self lol
I don’t get why he didn’t wanna fight tho makes no sense
🤣 hell yea me too...I said OH SHIT SMDH
@@sahirdamani1264 I’d understand if he was in jail looking at less then a year due to not wanting extra time added however dude was in prison, your time is already long. Do anything that’ll make that time better even if it means the hole
Does fighting dirty make things worse ?
Funny, honest bro 😂
Must admit haven't viewed one of your videos in about 3 months, but the algorithm brought this upon me. With that I first came across your channel roughly a couple years ago and you had roughly 30k subs. Now look at you. Very proud of guys like us who struggled and came out on top. Respect.
Algorithm be buggn ion watch jail stuff but I watch bro I haven’t seen him in a few
@An Irishman ☘️ be his 3rd
Enjoyed this story. I had a friend who was in for a while , he told me I would make it ok if I ever went. I would never want to find out. But if I did I would be fearful of catching another case inside for fighting or killing someone purposeful or accidentally. Much respect to the folks who can survive that world and get out to make a decent life.
Lmao you’re full of shit man.
You would be the latino gang member’s personal bitch and the only charge you would get is solicitation as you try to get more men to clap your booty cheeks
Lmao people that say shit like "I'd be fearful of catching a case inside for killing someone" are the same ones that say "I couldn't go to the military because I'd swing on a drill instructor"
Not necessarily
Don't do stupid shit that will land you in prison, and you don't have to worry about whether you will make it or not.
The fact you insisted like 3 times that you would be fine, leads me to believe that you were afraid the person that was gonna get killed is you, and not the other way around.
If you don’t fight, your own people will handle you because you didn’t handle an issue. Just get it done, win or lose, but you had the heart to just get it over with. No one faults you for losing, but they will treat you with absolute disrespect for not fighting.
Some prisoners are so miserable that they gotta torment someone just for being weaker. Very sad and inhumane
That’s not just prison bro it’s like that in life and real world too there’s always someone around who has no problem fucking with someone who’s weaker then them
Best thing I ever heard was hurt people hurt people
@@Xtino1989X absolutely correct!
Bro that's nature, u gotta be stronger than your enemies in this demonic world and prepare for anyone on fuck shit, I had to grow up fighting because I was smaller than others, now as a grown man who's about 5'6 I have all the tough guys and big guys respect me cause they can just look at me and tell I'm not gonna take their psychological bs, half of the times your dealing with people I just learned they want your fear and nothing else, but they'll start fearing you when you give them their fears, if they don't fear anything well shit create one for them !
@@Xtino1989X I agree......it's just far more amplified in prison.
@@YoungEli9 Its not nature.. it depends on the environment one is in.
I'm a short guy. And I'm not tough or anything but throughout my life whenever I have gotten bullied to the point of fighting or someone harassing mean. I have not backed from a fight.
I avoid it the same way brother. Sometimes I be kind on purpose because I love fighting lmao I'm a Leo. Until they keep pushing and just snap
@@JustinWatts-yz9ikbecause your a trolly roller lmfao
Some of the toughest people can be short.
@@robertpatter5509 yup and viseversa as well
Some of the toughest people ARE short, because they have to be meaner/tougher than everyone else to avoid being walked all over.
Very true. A man have to stand for himself. Show no weakness in a place like this. If you think like a victim, you'll become one.
Even women walk over weak men.
You can say I'm corny but I just love these prison stories their art of survival is from a complete different world, Thanks man👌
Corny's not the word.
They are a bunch of losers.
True these guys are scumbags have fun sittin in jail the rest of your life
Man it's worse than you can imagine
You aren’t corny or goofy.
What you are is smart enough to appreciate that you will never do anything to end up in a prison. I say, good for you.
You gotta fight. Win, lose, or draw, you still gotta fight.
That's life
100% correct.
Better to fight and lose than let others extort you. At least you showed courage. And that kind of honor currency is worth it's weight in gold.
Highly doubt there are ever, "draws" in prison. Basically someone is always on the losing end unless it isnt an actual fight.
@@sirchawlez4718I've fought to a draw enough times....bloody lips ears knee scabbing on some concrete I can fight pretty decently
"Maybe the fruit cup, but not the damn chicken patty" hahahahaha so good
😂
Shit had me crackin up
@@panama2468 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Better be giving me 2 or 3 jolly ranchers for that fruit cup 😂
There is enough psychopaths and sociopaths in the real world...but if you're in a state prison, then that density is increased. You need to adjust your thinking and treat it like the animal world...it sucks but you need to have a quick jump to violence underneath your diplomatic side. You have to remember where you are and who you are locked up with. Great story and lesson...
"Whatchu want me to do??"
"Grab a lock and hit him with it while he's on on the phone" 😂😂😂
The blue phone blues lol
Lock-in-a-Sock
I hate bullies. I would have a field day with them and enjoy it. At 68 years old a Vietnam Veteran. I respect all a true gentleman and very old school but don't tolerate bullies. Much appreciated for all your great videos. God Bless you and family your a good man
I used to be a bully. Let’s just say they don’t lie about what happens to hot heads in there. They humbled me fast in there that’s why I respect everyone now sir 👍🏻👍🏻💯
respect a mature vet who can still 👊🏼 : would luv to see you in action 💪
The biggest lesson and advice I have learned that if you are one of these goes that doesn't "belong " in prison so to speak, like the ones that want to avoid it all and not fight etc. if you really want to avoid as much trouble as possible, the biggest lesson I and gotten from all the ones that actually served time, is Mind Your Own Business.. If Roomie had listened, and follow the guys advice, that stuff would not have started to happen, IT all started for him when he didn't mind his own business... for the most part,
. Yo toes let them hands fly!!Keep yo eyes low and yo hands high. If one step k
Honestly that's kept me pretty straight, I've known people in my circle that got murdered, got into shoot outs, typical violent shit. I usually don't ask about some situations and if they tell me I'll listen and be like damn, then keep it moving. Because even if you around the fuck shit, the ops might not knock you off if you a random they ain't beefin with
Eventually tho. U will be tested. Ppl be bored in there. And u gotta know how to react and when and how.
Yep, minding your own business 95% usually insures you'll be left alone.
You learn that in the streets, even if not from the streets, and find yourself there, you learn (if you want to survive) to mind your own business.
This dude does a real good job of explaining the story
This dude is a f**** he probably runs with the blacks or he's a other
This is true, when my brother was in for 8 months, he had 5 months of peace and one day out of nowhere a new inmate tried stealing his lunch, so he had to fight. It can happen at any time
You look like you're thriving after your release. Sending you love and light
This dude is 💯. Really good video for the younger guys thinking about that life. This man man gave damned good advice on every single subject. But sadly you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
This dude telling the story probably runs with the blacks or he runs other he's a ****** lame
Oh man I'm so glad I'm not in prison anymore. Learned my lesson the first time I messed up. Been out almost 10 years and love being free.
Same here man been out since 2008. If I go back it will be for life lol😂
@@joegardner5386 oKaY jOe
I’ve been working in Corrections for 12years. I’m a Sergeant now at the Facility I’m at now and I tell all the new Officers coming in to always treat the men and women that they are there to watch over and keep Security over to treat with respect. That doesn’t mean let them run over you or other Inmates in the unit. It means treat them how you would want to be treated, how you would want your family members treated, but by all means when it’s time do do your job I EXPECT AND DEMAND that YOU do your Job by the Policies and Procedures that are put in place. They are there to keep you out of Trouble with the law yourself and to maintain Order within the Facility. I also remind them that, yes there are people there that will never change and will always choose to do criminal activities, but there are some and a good bit that are there that made a bad decision and are paying their consequences for it. These people will be getting out one day and they could be on your neighborhood or even your neighbors. So don’t come to work trying to make enemies out of everyone because that is what you will get and your days on the job will be long and miserable!
As a sergeant, your job is huge.
Stay encouraged!
Stay full of integrity!
It matters more than you know, you're in charge over a bunch of people.
Have as much compassion as you possibly can.
One day God's going to bring into account everything you did and said in the flesh...
Holdfast to your integrity, man of authority ✊
Quick prison story: while being held for trial , I took in and looked after a 6foot tall guy with the mind of a 7yr old child . Made sure no one troubled him. 3moons later prison staff came and say to me "what's the best news I can give you right now " so I said " me getting out of prison right now " staff said " yep pack you shit your case got dropped"
Fair play man. Good karma came back on you.
@@DannyCrow-16YearsAnd- yep trust me bro it did.
Amen bro I had a similar story. Second chances 🙏🏻
Was this in the U.S? I ask because if it was, you were NOT in prison. If you were awaiting trial, then you were just in a county jail which is nothing like prison.
@@tbone6924 you’re right bro. This happens a lot now more than ever in county. Overpopulated, Understaffed Corrections and DAs are a major problem
my mate was a long time prison person he told us " if you fight in prison they will respect you"
If you don't fight it's gonna get really bad. Doesn't even matter if you lose every fight as long as u stand up for yourself
What about dirty fighting
@@emmanuelzanders1746any kind of fighting will do, like most of the comments have said you have to fight or you will be bullied every day of your sentence...bullies are basically cowards and the last thing they want is people standing up to them...if they think you will hit back they will leave you alone, I've ended up losing remission for fighting but if I hadn't I would have been picked on all the more ⚡
A real man keeps himself out of prison. I've learned that..
More like a smart person, but there is many innocent people In prison. There is also people that should be in jail in prison. There's so many dirty cops in places like new York an La...LA.... After slavery was over they throw fake. Charges on a black man send him to jail and to work on. The rail road. Cause they was getting extra money for it.
Louisiana still sentences to hard labor and profits from people labor. Angola state prison is built on top of a slave plantation.
There not just grabbing up innocent people like back then but mf dirty....
@@TcVideoHosting umm ok idk where that just went.
@@TcVideoHosting wrong. Completely wrong
Not always the case, there are people out there currently doing time for defending their family or defending their religion/beliefs.
Vid Is hilarious "your bunkie wants to fight you put him up to this" "nah, my advice was totally different" haha
My old uncle did a good bit of his life in jail,his advice to me as a kid on going to jail was,,, if you can be bad enough to get in there,you should be bad enough to handle it in there!
Like how your old uncle explained it. Well put by your old uncle dude. Im gonna explain it that way to my kids if i ever have to talk to them bout that kind of thing to them.
If you don't stand up for yourself when you get messed with, that mess is gonna keep getting worse, and harder to deal with when you finally do. This video made me remember something that happened in my life. Some 10-15 years back, this dude I grew up with moved to a spot in Oakland, CA. He's a Japanese cat, on the shorter/lighter side of the tape & scales. After he got settled, I went out to his spot to kick it. His crib wasn't in the worst part of town but it wasn't up in the hills either. When I got there we strolled down to the corner for some tall cans. On the way he tells me he got jumped by some kids in the hood. They smacked him around and took his wallet. He said we might might run into them. Now I ain't the biggest/toughest dude on the street, but I ain't the smallest/weakest cat on the block neither. I told him I'm down to scrap if that's what it is, but I'm not trying to take care of his problem for him. He was like, "You would mop those punks." I stopped walking right there to make sure I had his attention. I told him like this, "If we run into whoever and they give me a problem, I'm gonna handle MY problem one way or the other, but I don't gotta live here. I could roll out after and never come back, never see them again. You live here, and these kids live here too. No matter what happens if we see them while I'm here, yer gonna see them again without me. If we see them today, and you don't do nothin, it's gonna be worse for you next time you see them." He was like, "What am I supposed to do? I'm small and I can't fight." I said, " You're going to get your ass kicked anyway, so you might as well not rollover like a bitch, and give em a fight. There ain't no rules posted out here. It don't matter how you get down in a fight. You just gotta fight. Who knows? You might get lucky? If you don't stick up for yourself, you're a mark. You're easy pickins. Every time you see one of these kids they're gonna pocket check you cuz they can. Somehow, someway, you have to earn the respect you need to live out here. Otherwise pack your shit and find another place to live before they see you again. It's the same everywhere though. It don't matter where you are, everywhere is the same. If you rollover, there will always be someone more than happy to roll you." In the end, we didn't end up running into them. We grabbed our beers n hung out for a minute, then i bounced. I haven't seen him since. Talked to him a few times but that never came up. I know things are different than how it is in the pen. The principle remains the same though, and it's the same everywhere in life. Like I said at the top... If you don't stand up for yourself when you get messed with, that mess is gonna keep getting worse, and harder to deal with when you finally do.
Here's a thought, drive to the liquor store next time, so you don't walk yourself into the same problem, lol
@@rickbonilla8308 lmao it’s not about that tho
@@rickbonilla8308 so youre adapting your lifestyle to avoid these people. Pure weakness..
Too much to read bro. But I bet it’s a good one.
@@rickbonilla8308 Yeah wonderful idea. Then they can keep your wallet, steal your car, and drink your beer.
0:54 for some reason this inexplicable edit of you blowing smoke rings made me laugh
People get so in there own head about how bad it’s going to be if they have to fight. It’s SO MUCH WORSE IN YOUR HEAD. Reality is you win some you lose some but if you carry yourself with some dignity and realize it could be a whole lot worse than some bumps and bruises. The real wisdom is knowing when you HAVE to fight and when you don’t.
The other guy could be petty and shank you.
@@KangarooJoeMama he could do that anyways. You don’t have to be in a fight for that to happen
Knowing too much is definitely making yourself a larger liability.
Never thought about this scenario - Happy Friday!
LOL not the chicken patty. The young cats go in there tell them when you go up for parole or you have a release date. Talk on that Death .... also talk about how these young cats will be probating for an organization and in their head they thinking that the people they probating for may hate a certain gang or race in reality they get along. Organizations are in place to handle problems that may arise. They or the people who think is your friends will actually have an organization heart check your ass to see what you will do. In this case that could have been what was happening the guy did say he was probating for SK . Sounds shady to me. They seen cat wouldn't do anything and boom they know hell no they don't want him riding with them. I seen people crash out on heart check before many times. I've also seen where guys was getting heart checked and guys had to come in and calm shit down because they didn't expect guy to lose his shit the way he did. They had to explain to them what was happening.
My first time watching you and I liked what I saw. Being an alumni of the Florida department of corrections, I can relate to everything said in this video. Prison isn't for everyone, you find out real quick where you stand in a violent world.
Hated the bluebird ride to the panhandle 🤷♂️😂
I'm only 5'8" 180lbs. I had to do a skid bid. While I was in, dude wanted my sneakers. I knew what I had to do, so I laced up, and got my ass beat. I still have those sneakers.
@@Dan-c4j9t did you have to swallow ❤️❤️
I didnt even get the second boot on before it went down. I got the other pair of shoes back too.
Everyone should have(maybe even win) at least one fight in their life. It humbles you and teaches you a lot about yourself
i got into one, and it is a very different experience being in a fight
i mean who hasn't gone to school?
Straight almost died messing with guys bigger than me but same size its hard especially after covid no friends mind keeps playing tricks on me rolling solo no connects I'm an easy mark.
Only a fool fights fair in jail every dick in the place wants a go with someone good with their hands if only to pass the time .the reality is you get yourself armed ASAP mix with the right people don't borrow or stick your nose into other people's business. And if someone bothers you you wait and get them alone. And never mention it again everyone will know anyway. Most men in jail will have less fights in jail than on the street if you got any common sense.
Its the same thing outside of prison too... I have a daughter that was bullied throughout highschool but no fighting. Just mental bullying. She just started college and her roommate was trying to bully her and she told me about it. Her roommate was waking her up on purpose just so she couldn't sleep. My daughter is a pre-med student and doesn't sleep much anyways. Her roommate is going to be a teacher. So I told her she better stand up for herself otherwise it will only get worse in life. She finally said something to her roommate and put her in her place. Next thing I know the roommate was gone for 2 days spending nights somewhere else. That shit stopped right away. I'm proud of her because my daughter is kind and nice but I told her when people start shit you finish it. Now she has so much more confidence.
When you're in jail, you CANT BE SOFT! Everyone is constantly sizing you up and down and if you show even one inch of fear, your ass is getting beat.
Oh yeah, if you're going to jail for the first time DO NOT ACCEPT ANY GIFTS FROM ANYBODY!
Right or u’ll get raped for accepting gifts....
You're confusing jail and prison.
PFFT that's standard where i grew up in Queensland lol. going to Prison just means you lost!
Not even in the streets or in certain groups / cliques can you be soft or you'll get used & abused. Some jobs are toxic as hell and have the same clique crap of attacking others.
All facts, take my chicken patty get blammed with the tray!
Bro when I first started watching I had only been to jail, hella times. I just did my first prison bid, came home like 3 months ago and am glad to see the channel growing and you doing good homie. Bless up
Seems like your to comfortable. You’ll be back in no time.
@@devin7376 how about you wish that person a good future instead of judging them for their past. that man clearly knows he has faced the consequences of his actions and doesnt run from that, he owns it. judging on how focused you are on other people, one day you'll be the main character in someone elses "when you dont fight in prison" story.
@@E-1337 judging by how you put yourself in my way seems like you ain’t to bright yourself bud.
Where am I judging this MF past? And you talking about how dude “owns it”? You know this Mf? you don’t know what this guy “owns” or doesn’t. You think he gonna rob somebody or go fuck a kid and say yep it was me come pick me up. Hell nah!! Dudes gonna get away with everything he can. Won’t we all?
And here you are talking about judging right, then you gonna say you’ll be in someone’s story. Your a DA. Go read a book bud and get off YT comment section.
Heres the deal, when you see a young cat getting to comfortable, call him/her out on that. Self evaluation is a key factor to change. Have some courage to tell a mf what he needs to hear. And be smart enough to know when you should or shouldn’t be on the keyboard.
@@devin7376 damn, did i hit a nerve? you think im reading that? im not a therapist, go pay one of them to walk you through your emotional hysterics. this isnt reddit, nobody gives a fuck here. if you plan on crying when people call you out for being a piece of shit, then either shut the fuck up, or stop being a piece of shit towards people.
I thought poster was going to say these videos helped him with his politicking him in the pen… Nope, just showing love.
I’ve never been in prison but I’ve worked blue collar with a lot of dudes who have been. And typically I try and chose the non violent resolution but some of these guys bring prison back with them. Got into a fight cause the guy saw I was trying to peacefully resolve and he wanted to pounce on what he perceived as weakness. Guy took a trip to the floor cause he didn’t know I had martial arts background and after that some of the other former convicts never tried to fuck with me again.
Haha never happened
stand your grown.
@@henryettacollins9095I believe it happened
@@henryettacollins9095I agree that shit doesn’t happen anymore.. maybe back in the day I’d believe it I worked blue color for years and have worked and trained many convicts/former cons they would come on work release. Those guys were on good behavior and the ones who got out always were respectful good workers. And hell I’m looking at a little time myself in the future so hopefully I don’t have too hard of a time that being said I’ve been in a few fights it’s the group of guys that scares me
I did my 3 years in Louisiana so when you said “you might could let em take ya fruit cocktail” I went “yall had fuckin fruit??!!” 😂😂
This is something I tried to explain to my family and girlfriend and stuff when I got out, you aren't really able to say no to a fight. You're better off fighting when someone disrespects you and getting beat up than choosing to look away and take it. Personally I didn't have to deal with it much, only got in 1 little scrap not much happened though, the fact that I worked out alot and made friends with alot of them probably helped, I made it pretty obvious that I was down to scrap if the wind blows that way and honestly that's all it really takes to not get fucked with.
""" You're better off fighting when someone disrespects you """ disrespects you- like huh.... with that type thinking .... it's no wonder you were sent to prison
@@flipwilson9360On another note, these people clearly don't take Jesus's words to heart. Some people choose to be pacifists, it shouldn't be taken as weakness. Seems like with the material mindset and the aggressive mindset that these people have, the Devil has these people by the throat.
@@byronperez9199a pacifist isn't a christian.
Wow so self righteous you could not wait to brag on yourself. He said that’s the way to Be in prison and you took it as his life motto. Grow the hell up and stop casting judgment before you even finish reading.
@@byronperez9199Be a pacifist in prison and see where that gets you. They'll pass-a-fist across your face. Jesus chased men from the temple with a cat-o-nine-tails and Peter cut off a guard's ear. There is a such thing as righteous anger.
Just like in life. You either face the bully or they continue to bully you. I tried to "ignore the bully" in school. Eventually things got to the point where I was a constant target until one day in the 4th grade I snapped and brutalized a guy who laughed at me for being down about my grandfather dying of cancer.
After that I was a ball of rage that took out his frustrations on everyone who ever tormented him. I was still occasionally targeted by bullies, but by this time by pain tolerance was at a level where a shot to the face simply pissed me off even further.
One kid found out the hard way that I was done with his shit when I spun him around and sent him sailing across pavement.
And that's been my creed for the last 30 years. "When someone gets in your way with malicious intent, crush them."
Sounds like you turned into the bully you used to hate . Good job kid!
@@chuckplaysgames7925 I never hurt a person who didn't deserve it. I never harassed, taunted, or attacked the innocent.
as Al Capone once said, "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me."
How did you avoid prison?
@@kazman_6899 I don't live in a blue state for one. That and the whole zero tolerance bullshit hadn't been implemented yet.
We used to fight over chicken patties in elementary school, which is silly. But on the other hand, WE KNEW TO FIGHT for OUR CHICKEN PATTIES in elementary school.
Chicken patties are worth fighting for? Where do you stand if you don't actually like the damn things?
Huh Man! 💪🏾 I Remember Fighting Over A Milk!
@@dkimbrough7220 Milk was ever MORE serious. (lol)
@@ats-3693 Most of the fights were over the chocolate milks. (you ever been hungry?)
@@TheRealDarrylStrawberry yeah I've been hungry, we just never had chicken patties though 🤷♂️
"You can't be letting nobody steal your damn chicken paddy in prison, Man! Maybe the fruit cocktail, but not the damn chicken paddy"
Lol....
I've been to prison myself and the advice you share with younger people is POWERFUL because I've seen the same things in Indiana
What's the crime putting people away in Indiana? I moved from Chicago hoping Indiana would be safer
@@mychicksrthick Gary Indiana? Way worse than Chicago
@Jamey no I did not move to Gary. Why would I leave the frying pan to jump into a fryer? I moved to a small quiet town far from Gary, but apparently meth is a big issue out here.
I was in Richland and saw a kid get completely tormented and robbed by the heartless felons for not fighting smh it’s a rough grind in Ohio
Richlands not too bad of a spot but yeah you have to fight
My parents always told me “throw the first punch” bc if u don’t you’re gone.
you dont ALWAYS lose if you dont throw the first punch but its still the best advice. if you know theres no way out of the fight, just start throwing and get it over as quick as possible. because the person who throws first usually just keeps goin til its over, not always but a lot of times.
@@GamingWITHsKeLeToR just out last 20 seconds then go to work
What if you miss then you’re f’d lol
There's a thing called counterpunching lol
Sound like smart ppl
Not the chicken pattie maneeee… lmao I died
Bro was tryin to help dude.
"Hit him in the face with a lock while he on the phone."
LMFAO
Called black
The guy telling the story sounds like a really solid dude, was trying to look out for his cell mate every step of the way
This dude telling the story probably runs with the blacks or he runs the other he's a f****** lame
Would be lucky to have a roomie like that, and homeboy messed it up.
Its because he was looking out for him and his celly was stupid and clearly didn't pick up that his celly was actually being cool and legit with him you don't find guys like that in prison and shit that easy dude.
His cell mate was like Gilligan, I'm surprise the 'SP's didn't detect that prior to prospecting him.
“Maybe the fruit cocktail but not the chicken patty “ 😂😂😂
You are the GOAT! You giving people out here that have no idea what prisons like. It ain’t no county jail. Keep on keeping on brother!
I've been in and out of the criminal justice system since I was 18. I'm 31 now and just finally got off paper (probation). You don't have to be a fighter you just have to fight even if you get your ass beat at least you got down! And being scared doesn't make you a punk fear is actually a good thing makes you more focused aware. I still get butterflies but I can sense when something is about to go down. This guy should of took off on the dude the second he got sucker punched and he shouldn't of called the guy in his cell he should of waited until they tried to punk him for his shit and then made a stand right there. It would of been the end of the story.
you know these men in these situations need to stop being punk's marks which made you know whatever you want to call it okay I think there's many consulting names but they just need to get down and handle their business or stay away from that life in that lifestyle if you live in an Indian neighborhood and there's nothing you can do about the people that you intermingway for you have to pass by everyday or you feel the need to speak to them in a cordial manner I mean if she's going to get ugly I mean get ugly with it and get down with it and then rise up and keep going forward and not to look back and stay out of the dirt if you can from that point on but sometimes people only understand violence and filth and you got to bring it to him then the s*** stops for the most part there's only going to be one winner and only one walk away
Exactly. It's about making a stand and men will always primal respect that.
You curl up in a ball crying and you're a punk who's gonna be targeted now nonstop
Never show weakness in prison or out of prison, I learned that shit in highschool the place where you expect to go get educated I ended up being surrounded by brain dead bullies that kept pushing my bottons everyday until one day I snapped and beat the living shit out of one dude and all of sudden he wanted to become friends it always ends that ways with me and bullies lol smh, so always remember whenever you feel disrespected Stand up for yourself and fight!
Samething happened to me. It stopped once I snapped and told one of them to meet me right outside after class with the rest of them. I didn't care if I was gonna get jumped or what, I was so mad that I felt I could take a 5 of them at once After that day it's like they were new people lol.
I went ballistic verbally on everyone in our circle of fake friends / bullies and they never messed with me since. They only attack those when they know they can get away with it and test your boundaries like cowards. Gotta end it real fast or they'll never stop.
Being scared to show weakness makes you look weak. Think about it. If you were literally Superman, you wouldn't care if people saw you as weak, because they couldn't do shit about it anyway
lol...great advice till the other guy pulls out his Glock and blows you away.
@@SlickCat So do you just bow down to every dude who disrespects you simply because he 'might' have a gun? That's pretty sad bro
i wish i woulda had a celly like this when i first went in. coulda saved me some broken ribs and a broken orbital lmfao. but i was 17. and fresh as a noodle.. i mean i was SO fkn fresh that when the judge sentenced me.. the entire courtroom said "AWWWW" dead serious lmao. i was cryin and shit. man that first jail visit was roughhh. but i learned ALLOT. and the next time i went in. i had no issues. well i had issues... but no issues like this
Obviously didn't learn sh** the first time then.
You got your cheeks clapped
@@satanspit4101 demolished
Guys who talk about jail like it's a night at the Holiday Inn just wanna go back
Great rehabilitation, the guys just come out angry and I can see why.. I couldn't imagine how bad it would be for someone who was bullied in school...x100?
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 I think the guards should protect guys that can't fight, you shouldn't have to take a karate course before jail. They also shouldn't mix guys who have killed people with harmless drug addicts.
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 I got into powerlifting in there and train judo/bjj twice daily. Sounds like me and your friend found a pretty similar outlet.
Yeah they off themselves typically or become a total monster after being preyed on enough
bullying stops once you slide. had his mom crying at the hospital wanting to press charges. funny he never even looked at me after that LOL
@@ChaNnArD-mD thats a pipe dream guards dont give a fk
i did 18 days in LA County jail. Turned down a fight on my 15th day. Those last 3 days felt like an entire year in Hell
Interesting... How so? Can you explain a little more?
Sorry to hear that happened in your 15th birthday. Best policy for prison or jail is to do all you can to stay out. If you go in, you better 1.) put away the tough guy act (that'll get you unwanted attention) and be real easy, 2.) choose some stand up people to hang with, and 3.) resolve to stand up for yourself at all times.
why did they want to fight?
@@snowmanggaming3708
Because im a soft soyboy and they saw a victim soon as i walked in
They wanted to get your time extended Because use of jealousy.
Sometimes it’s hard to mind your own business and ignore what’s going on but that’s what a book is for…just keep the head down
That dude is talking about himself.
Lol
His voice man.....dude thinks he's a rapper
@@Lol_Piganother retarded impersonator.
I doubt it. I think you are just hating tbh. Dude is legit
Great minds think alike.
“ maybe the fruit cocktail but not the damn chicken patty”… 😂💯
Dude was spitting some real knowledge right there. Good vid as always. AZ love from THEEE 🌵 state!
I have rarely seen a straight up, one-on-one fight in prison. In most cases, people get jumped by several attackers. It's true that being known to stand up for yourself brings a degree of respect and failing to invites more of the same but most prison violence are mob handed ambush attacks.
Wow. Terrible.
Don't do the crime, if you can't do the time. No one thinks about that, until it's too late. Before you do something stupid think about the consequences. Once you're locked up you will surely wish you did!
@@Dan-c4j9tfalse accusations happen my guy
So true.....
Underrated comment
Im from Southern California, in association with the crips, however I was no die-hard member who started banging when i still had to be inside by the time street lights turned on. I did square things like work jobs, have girlfriends and hang with non affiliate friends at the beach. But at 27 I catch a case that I spend two years in county over to end up taking a nine-year deal which left me doing seven years in prison. Well the night of me catching the chain i was in a holding cell with a OG gangmember from a well known Compton set who was down from Prison on a family court case (he was also in a wheelchair). We got acquainted over the night and he told me some things that carried me all the way through my prison sentence and I will never forget to this day. He told me the first thing you need to know about prison is that every room you walk into theres somebody in there doesn't like you for some reason. And if you're going to survive you have to be on the lookout for these people and when they present themselves you don't back down or shy away from the issue. That doesn't mean go looking for that problem because the problem will present itself, just be ready when it comes. I ended up doing 7 years out of that 9 never going PC, never being considered a fish, or anything weak all because I had a set mind set of what I know I can't tolerate from any other individual inside that place.
A friend from years ago never understood why he was picked on so bad and i always told him he needed to stand up for himself. He wouldn't listen, absolutely terrified to stand his ground. He believed the bigger man always walks away. And i told him you won't ever be respected if all you every do is run away.
honestly i wish more people thought like that OUTSIDE of prison. it bothers me how our society tells people that staying quiet to abuse, bullies, and "trolls" is the only way handle them. problems don't go away if you ignore them. that's why our society is now filled with passive aggressive people who have slowly started to become afraid to speak up for themselves for fear of social backlash. those of us who are more aggressive or assertive are shamed for all the wrong reasons.
at no point in time is there ever anything absolutely law that says that walking away makes you the bigger person. i feel like people are trying to apply "gentlemanly" social rules of centuries past to a present-day society and it's not working.
sure, sometimes walking away can keep you or someone safe, and sometimes you do gotta pick and choose your battles.
but picking and choosing your battles is not the same thing as feigning moral high ground and refusing to stand up for yourself.
@@Supported32320 very well said. And truly, passive aggressive people need to get straightened out. They have a thing with being so disrespectful, deliberately, in a pleasing tone. It's in need of being changed
Unfortunately thats the way it is. People need to be taught Eye for an Eye is the only way to live life.
There’s a difference in fighting and sticking up and defending yourself. If you with your family and someone comes up and slaps your kid..what you gonna do? Stick up and defend your family..do the same for yourself!Even if it means you getting your ass kicked.
If the slap is over, you aren't actually defending anyone. You're getting revenge.
I will never forget when I was 18 in 93. I went to CoCo jail in Ca for some auto theft. I made to minimum security and had this job in the kitchen so I was helping smuggle shit from visiting and what have you. 1 day I was makin some hobo coffee playing cards and this dude obviously didn't like me for some reason and we started arguing. He told me to shut up so I told him to come shut me up. His 1st punch was an uppercut to my chin that knocked me cold. I recovered hella quick and got back to my feet. I remember my homies tellin me to just stay down (they already knew this guy). I got back up, squared up to keep boxing and he 1-2'd me right above the eye. Think he knocked me out again. I got up still talkin shit. We squared up again, this time I realized I couldn't throw hands with this guy so I rushed him and got a take down. We threw some short punches back and forth and mutually realized this wasn't going anywhere and that the cops will be rollin in any second. We hopped up, went to the cop shack and said he elbowed me going for a rebound on the court. If you looked like U got beat up they would roll you up the next morning and send U to PC in Martinez. Cop said cool, documented it and he gave me a band aid for my eye. We were cool after that. The point tho, is that not 1 person referred to me as the guy that got KO'd 2x, but the kid with hella heart who kept getting back up to fight.
Have any dreams dawg? Better give em up 💯 glad I stumbled across ya’ll man, yall spittin’ knowledge on these boys. Well done!!! Even God cant help those who can’t help themselves. He got a good stretch……. He better get right!!! Thank y’all again!!! 🇨🇱🤘🏻🤠🤘🏻
None of these losers are men. When you get, "You have to fight or I'm going to steal your chicken patty," that's 5th grade boys, not men. Never heard any woman worth anything say, "I'm really turned on by the guys who hit and bully weaker people and steal their food." Those kinds need to stay behind bars because they can't make it on the outside with the real men.
They may not say that specifically,but most of the women I've been around my entire life have always liked these type of men..."f*ckboys". Maybe I've just known shitty people 🤷...maybe I'm shitty also...just saying...the women I've known like danger it seems.
this is pretty backwards.
you expect prepubescent boys to be violent and to extort each other, but you're disappointed convicted felons locked in a cage aren't more civil?
even if you're theory of women not being turned on by violent bullies was true, prison fights aren't about impressing women.
prisons are coed.
All these “men” are bums
@@diegodonjuan You missed the point entirely, but probably not the first time. No one expects children to be violent and extort, but we know children are immature with not yet expanded conflict resolution skills, as we see some chronological "adults" seem to be as well.
I won't say anything about the right or wrong of your statement. I'll just say, be careful of being sure that your way of thinking and your statements are correct. New information, time, or a different perspective may have you seeing things differently down the line. Also, be especially careful that your thought processes don't lead you to belittling people, ESPECIALLY people with more physical power than yourself.
It may be easy to disregard someone's strength because they're not physically in front of you, but thinking this way makes it easier to say the wrong thing, at the wrong time, to the wrong person. Generally, it's safer to not train yourself into getting used to it...if you don't have the required physical strength to get through any "issues" your words may cause.
Man I need to get my stuff together. Driving an hour to the south side of chi every few days on a suspended is gonna get me being on these what not to do videos. Can’t box, use to wrestle but out of shape. Fuck all dat. Almost back on the suboxne legally. Two more days of feeling like shit and I can be back to somewhat normal. Wish me luck fam. Best of luck to those out there struggling
Themselves.
Good luck man
Soon as you feel better hit up a boxing gym, never know when you'll need that shit but every man gotta throw haymakers at least once in his life. Peace bro
Get your life together. You cant be a dummy your whole life
How you doing bud?
One day at a time bro. Stop the spiral and one foot in front of the other. Keep busy.
You should grab that dude, who’s an amazing storyteller and become partners. Then you can sort of interview him, but also add more context to the visual. They would be the perfect podcast and you both could interview plenty of folks that did time + great stories that YOU drive (not everyone can tell a story, so you guide it).
Awesome job man
Have a 23 & 1 network 😂🤣😂 sponsored by cops 😂🤣😂
There are a couple of youtubers doing that.
only if he changes the batteries in his smoke detector.
I did eight yrs … got out 2010… aint been back… but I remember the fights and i remember the blood… God bless the men on those front lines
I can not say this enough...I am NOT built for prison.
He was like Bobby. Just standing there to be beaten😂
Yup, that’s what it is!! It’s Soap checkin in from the 505 burque at central y atrisco!! Just remember; no matter what happens to you, you can always keep your respect with people by standing up for yourself..... and it’s the same reason people extort and bang on you if you don’t! So keep your respect, and show respect to other people!!
Burque what’s good I’m over here on Columbia and Cesar Chavez💯💯
"Maybe the fruit cocktail, but not the damn chicken patty." LOL Facts
Someone i knew who went to jail over here in Australia. He ended up in the mental health pod. And every lunch time they would bang on the doors and once the doors open they would just beat the fuck out of each other with the food trays.
Lmao
Did like he lying or they guards just built different lol
You cant let folks walk on you .. and the way it sounds in his area, everybody was runnin one on one fades .. no bullshit jumps or pokers.. he had a chance to run a straight up 1 on 1 fade an he backed down.. you got to run that shit.. even if you get beat down... You got to do it...
He probably thought he had it coming if he saw something he wasn’t supposed to see and figured that it had been dealt with and would be the end of it.
This guy reminded me when I got that call from my celly. I told my celly the same thing, no man I'm good I don't want to fight. My celly gives me this look and says, no bro you HAVE to go handle your bizness. Those eyes and that look said it all. I didnt say 1 word just went to lacing up my sneakers and handle my bizness.
Did you win or at least do some damage?
Even if you lost that's respect
I like how You kept the four Clips all in one... (Great Job) 👍👍👍👍👍
Much needed dose of loccdown 23&1💯💯💯
I know a dude that was an undercover Fed and went into a State joint in PA on an operation. They found out he was undercover and when we was in the laundry room working, he was jumped by a bunch of dudes. So dude got pulled from the operation. Three days later the joint went into lockdown and a Spec Ops crew came in and took out every dude that was part of the hit that broke dude's arm including the on-duty. Lesson of the story - don't eff with the Feds, especially if that Fed Agency ends in an "A".
Great fucking story
Ends with an A?
could be made up bs, got a source?
@@Blake4014 stories like this don't have sources.
ANOTHER INFORMATIVE VIDEO DEATH. KEEP EM COMING 💪🏾
I’m from Indiana and when people go into a cell to get it in what you don’t do is crowd around the cell 2. Keep staring that way 3.cheer someone on and 4. You better fight if you can’t and learn to get them hands right
Same shit applied to my school. You don't fight once, next time they take your shit, next time nobody will stand up for you, and everybody considers you a victim.
I made this mistake when I arrived.
Had to claw my way back by cracking a dude's head open with a chair, got suspended, but when I cam back nobody was taking my shit no more.
yup also learnt the hard way, yeh its basically a life rule. Sadly I was slow to learn, only the last couple years of highschool did I learn that lesson and then they left me the damn hell alone finally.
I went to jail years ago and it was over full so they put us with the ones that were either going to prison or coming from prison and the three I was with that got put with them were all short time like 30 or 60 days, well one young guy messed up bc he took food from a guy coming from prison that offered it to him which was no problem but a week later the young guy had some food come in and the guy from prison his name was Tig, wanted to try some of his chips he got, and the young guy said no which was a mistake, long story short young guy checked out of the cell bc he was afraid of getting his a** beat, I got out shortly after and got sent back to jail over an unpaid fine and I seen that young guy again, he did not look the same he looked like he lost his soul and he had cut marks on his wrists, so wherever he checked out to they gave him hell, I'll never forget how he looked
Accepted an offer and then later tells the guy no??...ya, doesn't seem like he did his prison math right on that one. That's too bad.
@@justingreen6561 he was really young like just turned 18 or 19, but yeah when I heard him say no I knew that was a mistake bc the guy gave him some extra food when he first got there bc he was hungry, he just asked for some chips and that should have been common courtesy to give the man some chips, but whatever all happened to him when I seen him again it was like his soul was gone when I looked at him
@@justingreen6561 Yeah, I agree. He deserved to get beat up and tormented for his entire stay to the point of committing suicide if he wouldn’t give the guy some potato chips. What an *** move. Bullying is always acceptable. People need to just learn to deal with it. It’s their own fault. Suck it up.
@@solidrockofjesuschristmini2423 what happened to that guy?! Damn
@@Huinooauzyxgxhdu I don't know exactly what happened to him from the point of when he checked out of the cell to the point of me getting picked up again over an unpaid fine, I was being moved to a holding cell temporarily bc I was getting right back out and I seen him passing right by me bc they were going to the courthouse, it stuck with me when I seen him bc he had cut marks on both wrists and he looked soulless like nobody was home, best way I can describe is he was a normal person going in and when I seen him again it was like he was possessed looking and not looking good at all like there was just no life in him, so after he checked out that time I'm pretty sure he caught hell and who knows what happened bc other cells find out pretty quick if you checked out somewhere and the reason, whatever happened to him it was bad and it stuck with me the before after of being around the guy for a short time
When dudes wanna get down all we had was the bathroom. As far as I was concerned I was blind. Less I see the less of a witness I would be. The cops can tell if you are lying anyway. One night I was on the shitter in the last stall. The last shower stall was in front of me. I'm sitting there trying to do my business and I hear body shots. Next thing you know dude falls face first into my lap. I had to handle it. Next thing you know I'm fighting both of these dudes. One of them was my homeboy. He was throwing shots at me and the other dude. He blacked out and went crazy. The whole pod rushed in there and stopped it. The captain was coming down the hall to our pod with 4 or 5 COs. Crazy night. Lol!
I remember being in middle school or high school and we’d goto the bathroom lmao n teachers knew what was goin on
@@RjKME Right. In lock up the COs know. They kind of pick their battles. If someone in there they wanna hem up on violations they rush them, but otherwise they would let it go. Better to let it happen so it's over with and you don't have the same dudes beefin constantly.
@@roosterj2599 man facts, I did some juvenile time but luckily I’m from Vegas lol, I did time in Colorado and juvenile is the worst🤦♂️ everyone thought they had to prove something, I was coming down off of Xanax so i didn’t care who I fought lmao but I got some respect from the guard’s I told one of them what I was gonna do, cause this guy just got up and started hitting my friend out of no where so the next I told him hey when he walks out of class ima sock off on em, BOOM knocked him on his pants lol
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 because that was my friend and I wanted a reason to fight… I didn’t have shit on me this was juvenile, but I did find a sharpened peace of the window lining sharpened
@@goudagrishhdoe8925 He hit me first and then I was getting bombed on by both of them. I was pissed so I got back. Didn't have shit on me. I was working on making a deposit. Story makes sense. It's the short version. A lot more to it than that. I won't elaborate as to not hurt any feelings.
6:46 “yo math good, but tht wass the wrong answer” 😂