Not a self-harmer, but this song means so much to me anyway. If I can say one thing to everyone, you are worth loving. You are special to someone, even if you don't realize it. Don't give up, there's something better waiting for you.
sad and beautiful music... somehow it is eerie when songs (or paintings, or other arts) are like mirrors already died inside... in childhood when terrible horrors happened... since then only existing, not living... yearning for salvation, for peace, for being released... know self harm... know self- hate all too well... :( please forgive these sad words
This song sort of reminds me of unrequited love- "I'm not a stranger No I am yours With crippled anger And tears that still drip sore A fragile frame aged With misery And when our eyes meet I know you see" it gives you the same sort of feeling you get, watching the only person you want with someone else, a sort of cold, numbing pain. It's a very moving song and I've become kind of obsessed with it over the past couple days..
I am a cutter, I admit it and for all of those who think some can just stop doing it, your wrong. All those little times in a person's life, can weigh you down, be it a day, a month or a year. Hell several years down the road and even if you haven't thought of it in a moment any other time, one little thing can make you go back to self harming youself, because its a escape from everything else that makes you feel small and pathetic, and rather then turning to those thing's you hurt yourself because you just don't know what else to do. Just like me, I had three years in, and it all went down the drain the instant that I couldn't handle it anymore before I was to tired of putting a smile on my face and saying I was okay and that I was happy, and I realized that its an addiction, not matter what you say or do, it will always be there behind you. But please remember that there are people who care, and that there are people who want to listen if given a chance to. They may even surprise you by just how much they want to help. Three years down the drain, several minutes back with not doing it....it bites to have all that hard work go up in flames..but I will get there again one day.
My heart aches as I read some of the comments below. I am praying that each of you find the love of a Savior who cares for you no matter what. I have my own means of escape which cuts my soul. I am finding healing in community with other men who understand my struggle and love me through it.
This song. I have such a deep connection to this song... because everything in this was me. I was that girl. I use to self harm really bad, And I thought and felt exactly that way.i can't even describe the memories.. I'm seriously crying right now. I thought I forgot.
I love the song... Though this is very sad to listen to... It reminds me of me & my old friend who I had to move away from, 1 year ago. D: I could cry...
Legit me for the past few days. I even have gotten to the point where I was emotionless and I felt myself slipping away from the will to live but there's one person in my life who has kept me from reaching death. That's the part which says "I'm not alone" because I'm not alone.
this is me...i deal with the wanting to cut 24/7 but i cant or i will be sent away. living with PTSD and Depression has already left several scars. love the song and hadnt heard it in a while
I am using this song for a tribute vid for the 2011-12 Lokomotiv Yaroslavl Russian hockey team. Almost all of the players died in a horrific plane crash. Tiffany's voice is so beautifully tragic, meaning it fits the topic of my video, and the piano makes it even more beautifully tragic. Rest in peace, Pavol Demitra and 42 others...
Cut earlier today. I couldn't take the pain anymore. The shattered and dispersing aspects of myself floating away from my inner child that needs protection. Too much pain from memories rush in when I am like that. cutting seems to ground me. I know it's not an appropriate way to deal with things, but it works, has worked since childhood and I am old now. and I do want to die, it's all I can do to stay here. I beg God to take me home. I don't want to take my own life as it would be devestating to my loved ones. But I am tired, so tired. I am homesick for my home in Heaven and all my loved ones that are there too. To be with Jesus. But I have said too much. Forgive me ya'll. I needed to say it I guess.
i had a very horrible childhood.. i lost myself to a monster in me, eating me up slowly.... so many have tried to help me get through it, but I'm only pushing them away... not wanting to be helped.. I'm scared of trusting anyone, I'm scared of being loved again.. I'm scared of showing my emotions... I'm slowly destroying myself... i don't think I will ever find myself again..
you will find yourself again, trust me, it'll take time but you will, you just have to keep hanging in there. I know this because I've been through it. started cutting when I was 12 and I'm 21. it takes time to let it go and stop and I'll be honest, it's hard as hell, but it's worth the fight you put up in order to stop it and get yourself back. I don't know you and I don't know what you've been through or going through but what I do know is that it gets better over time. maybe not right away like you want it but it does. I've had a really tough time trusting people but eventually I did again. it's just hard to do anything when you're used to being hurt all the time. I was molested at 7yrs old and to this day I have a tough time trusting my fiancé but I still try and fight my way through the struggles. you're beautiful and amazing in your own way, don't let anyone tell you differently. Just keep fighting, even if you want to give up and you feel like you can't go much longer, you can. "God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers" it's what a close friend of mine used to say, never believed it until I realized it was true. you'll get through it, trust me, you will. it's just taking time but things will get better. I promise you
This is an incredibly beautiful song and should be viewed as such on it's own. Those who actually listen to the lyrics will realise that "Cut" and the scene in Vampire Diaries it was used in actually go together quite terribly. Personally, I'm sickened by how many people associate this deeply sad song with mere carnality.
You're partially wrong, at least from my view and a few friends of mine (ex cutters/cutters.) It isn't that they think pain is better than "not feeling anything at all." But it's more like, "Physical pain is easier to deal with than emotional pain." We still feel, it just dulls out the emotional pain while we focus on the pain of the cut, deciding where it goes, how deep it will be, how many we'll put... Not not everyone, but from my own personal experience and several friends, that's how it is.
God the Father, Jesus His Son, and Our Holy Spirit will NEVER hurt you, Maggie, I promise~ Christ holds us while we cry and cares so deeply for his children that His own life was given to save ours by Grace... All we need to do is reach out our hand to God, open our hearts much as possible, and even enough Faith as a tiny, little mustard seed:) HE knows, HE sees, HE cares, and HE loves!!! Reach out for support and fellowship to other Christians that can listen, guide, encourage, laugh with, praise Him together, and just simply be there:) All we can do is try our best, keep getting back up for more grace, plus forgiveness, grab Jesus' hand all over again, and HE will take care of us!!!
this song should be banned its encouraging self harming which can lead to suicide. never self harm its not a release of pain it just adds to it. if your ever that low get counciling and talk to anyone who cares about you, family a friend even online samaritans will talk you out of hurting yourself. you can cry this pain out and better days will come never ever hurt yourself please. you are loved by more people than u realise.
It's even worse when people do realize, and can't do anything to help it. I had a few friends I would talk to about my personal life, and while they did try to help, there's only so much an "outsider" can do.
I reminder when I got cut... I dropped some chicken broth on the floor and I got cut, mom ran to the spilled broth. Lol it was very mean of her but still now in days I think of it, I just laugh
coming back from the ice cream van I fall with 2 bottles of pop, they smash and I fall on the glass, I got beating because I broke her bottles, then she picked the glass out,
nope. its about people who have to cut themselves to feel. they think pain is better than not feeling anything at all. i feel bad for them tho, i have friends like that... poor dears.
***** you're English is great but please don't end up like me I hate people but I will try to help with what you're going through I am a terrible person tho you've been warned....You are an amazing person no matter what anybody says, keep fighting keep working to be the best you can because what they say doesn't matter. You're beautiful, ugly, fat, skinny, amazing, terrible, nice, mean secure, insecure, safe, unsafe you are you and you'll stay you so keep fighting to be you.
I cut...I'm ashamed of it...I feel alone, worthless, weak, and like I wasn't meant to be alive. I feel ashamed of who I am. And tbh death would help me.
Oh hun! I used to feel the same way, but it is so not true. You may be ashamed of yourself, but what you're really saying is that God is imperfect. He made something so perfect and beautiful and you are destroying it by hurting yourself. You were made for a reason. God knows who you are and loves you just the same as anyone and everyone else. You are special in His eyes and you can overcome anything with Him. I want you to listen to Overcomer by Mandisa and He Knows My Name by Francesca Battesteli ok? Keep in mind God loves you and so do I! Let me know if you need anything. Stay strong.
im cuts over cuts over scars, my arms are so wrinkles with scar tissue and yet I still cut, I have to feel the blood run, I used to cur chunks out my skin, ive had so many blood tranfusions, and I feel guilt as someone needs it more than me, so now I get iron infusions that boost my hemagloben
I just want to die and leave everything my pain misery my love my family im tired of this life help me to get on contact with the real me. I know He has plans for me.
when I finally told my. mom that I was cutting my arms she didn't realize that I was hurt really badly when my dad letfed me so that's when I got depression / anxiety and then suidal thoughts but my mom still don't care about me and I have a sister that don't care about me just puts me down .. when I cut I fell batter but it doesn't lasted so I keep cutting into have 8 cuttes on my arm I just wanted to die I wish I would of just killed myself that one nigth and got it over with but I didn't. . I wish I did tho
+Kayla Barrett that´s because a part of you (no matter how small he seems) wants to live. Focus on that, find something you can concentrate on. Something worth living for. For me it´s Music and writing. Songs. Moments. stories. Feelings. believe me, you´ll find a Thing.
+Kayla Barrett like I sad. Even if the brain wants to, you can´t. I think it´s some Kind of destiny (even if it sounds weird) - your Story is not finished.maybe you will do great things some day, maybe you´ll just be a "normal" Person - but either way, your path may seem like a blind alley, but it´s not. sometimes, when it seems you can´t get deeper, that´s true. You´ve reached the bottom. But the goods news ist: After that, you just can climb back to the top again. step by step
+Kayla Barrett It´s not gonna be easy. and some days you feel like there´s nothing worth living for. That´s why I started to write stories. Take all your Feelings and Emotions and imagine a glass you can put them into. And then create a Story, you want to tell. about a Girl finding a way out or about the pain a human Person can feel. about all the things that are important to you. it doesn´t matter. Just write it down.first I tried a diary, but it sounded the same every day and it did not help at all. But then I tried to tell stories. And well - that was nine years ago and I´m here.
Not a self-harmer, but this song means so much to me anyway. If I can say one thing to everyone, you are worth loving. You are special to someone, even if you don't realize it. Don't give up, there's something better waiting for you.
the number of likes makes me sad...and what makes me even sadder is that I liked it...i'm so sorry we can relate to this. stay strong all of you
This song is very calming and emotional. It's great to listen to while studying or drawing.
this song is so powerful
sad and beautiful music... somehow it is eerie when songs (or paintings, or other arts) are like mirrors
already died inside... in childhood when terrible horrors happened... since then only existing, not living... yearning for salvation, for peace, for being released...
know self harm... know self- hate all too well... :(
please forgive these sad words
You don't need to be forgiven. You will always be forgiven.
Don't apologize ❤ God will help you if you become a Christian
This song sort of reminds me of unrequited love-
"I'm not a stranger
No I am yours
With crippled anger
And tears that still drip sore
A fragile frame aged
With misery
And when our eyes meet
I know you see"
it gives you the same sort of feeling you get, watching the only person you want with someone else, a sort of cold, numbing pain. It's a very moving song and I've become kind of obsessed with it over the past couple days..
I am a cutter, I admit it and for all of those who think some can just stop doing it, your wrong.
All those little times in a person's life, can weigh you down, be it a day, a month or a year. Hell several years down the road and even if you haven't thought of it in a moment any other time, one little thing can make you go back to self harming youself, because its a escape from everything else that makes you feel small and pathetic, and rather then turning to those thing's you hurt yourself because you just don't know what else to do.
Just like me, I had three years in, and it all went down the drain the instant that I couldn't handle it anymore before I was to tired of putting a smile on my face and saying I was okay and that I was happy, and I realized that its an addiction, not matter what you say or do, it will always be there behind you. But please remember that there are people who care, and that there are people who want to listen if given a chance to. They may even surprise you by just how much they want to help.
Three years down the drain, several minutes back with not doing it....it bites to have all that hard work go up in flames..but I will get there again one day.
Hey I know it‘s 6 years ago Bit are you okay?
My heart aches as I read some of the comments below. I am praying that each of you find the love of a Savior who cares for you no matter what. I have my own means of escape which cuts my soul. I am finding healing in community with other men who understand my struggle and love me through it.
I love this song.. Although I cut to feel numb.. Instead of all this pain
This song. I have such a deep connection to this song... because everything in this was me. I was that girl. I use to self harm really bad, And I thought and felt exactly that way.i can't even describe the memories.. I'm seriously crying right now. I thought I forgot.
Ashley Snyder If you need someone to talk to hit me up anytime and I'll reply back as fast as I can and do my best to help anyway that I can.
Thanks that means a lot...
Np :)
I love the song... Though this is very sad to listen to... It reminds me of me & my old friend who I had to move away from, 1 year ago. D: I could cry...
I cut. I am not proud of it but its become part of who I am. For people who can relate to this song remember you are not alone.
if you ever need someone to talk to im here. Email at MelSummers64@outlook.com
I know it’s been three years since you commented, but are you doing ok now?
I hope so much she is okay but now it‘s 6 years ago…
Dear angel, who has been cut before, you’re not alone. I’m always here for you
An amazing song. Brings back bad memories though. I stumbled into it by accident and wow... this meant so much to me
ELENA- STEFAN....LOVE, LOVE, LOVE
Legit me for the past few days. I even have gotten to the point where I was emotionless and I felt myself slipping away from the will to live but there's one person in my life who has kept me from reaching death. That's the part which says "I'm not alone" because I'm not alone.
This song is summed up in one amazing word. This song is Epic.
love this song!!
it is very powerfull even in 2015!
2021 as well
Stefan and Elena kissing brought me here
this song cut by plumb I love this song I also like the vampire diaries with this song in it 😇
this is me...i deal with the wanting to cut 24/7 but i cant or i will be sent away. living with PTSD and Depression has already left several scars. love the song and hadnt heard it in a while
Your not alone. Jesus loves you! I know it's been a while since you posted this but i'm praying for you
r u okay now? x
Plumb is always amazing at showing the way out.
I am using this song for a tribute vid for the 2011-12 Lokomotiv Yaroslavl Russian hockey team. Almost all of the players died in a horrific plane crash. Tiffany's voice is so beautifully tragic, meaning it fits the topic of my video, and the piano makes it even more beautifully tragic. Rest in peace, Pavol Demitra and 42 others...
This song is so powerful.
i dont remember how it is to sleep without scars on wrists and tears on face
Beautiful and sad song!!
Cut earlier today. I couldn't take the pain anymore. The shattered and dispersing aspects of myself floating away from my inner child that needs protection. Too much pain from memories rush in when I am like that. cutting seems to ground me. I know it's not an appropriate way to deal with things, but it works, has worked since childhood and I am old now. and I do want to die, it's all I can do to stay here. I beg God to take me home. I don't want to take my own life as it would be devestating to my loved ones. But I am tired, so tired. I am homesick for my home in Heaven and all my loved ones that are there too. To be with Jesus. But I have said too much. Forgive me ya'll. I needed to say it I guess.
I luv this song L:) God is with you all just look for him
i had a very horrible childhood.. i lost myself to a monster in me, eating me up slowly.... so many have tried to help me get through it, but I'm only pushing them away... not wanting to be helped.. I'm scared of trusting anyone, I'm scared of being loved again.. I'm scared of showing my emotions... I'm slowly destroying myself... i don't think I will ever find myself again..
you will find yourself again, trust me, it'll take time but you will, you just have to keep hanging in there. I know this because I've been through it. started cutting when I was 12 and I'm 21. it takes time to let it go and stop and I'll be honest, it's hard as hell, but it's worth the fight you put up in order to stop it and get yourself back. I don't know you and I don't know what you've been through or going through but what I do know is that it gets better over time. maybe not right away like you want it but it does. I've had a really tough time trusting people but eventually I did again. it's just hard to do anything when you're used to being hurt all the time. I was molested at 7yrs old and to this day I have a tough time trusting my fiancé but I still try and fight my way through the struggles. you're beautiful and amazing in your own way, don't let anyone tell you differently. Just keep fighting, even if you want to give up and you feel like you can't go much longer, you can. "God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers" it's what a close friend of mine used to say, never believed it until I realized it was true. you'll get through it, trust me, you will. it's just taking time but things will get better. I promise you
+Lisa Bloodhound i feel it too
It is soooooooo relatable!
Finnaly i found this song in High quality. Thank you...
I miss the vampire diaries especially stefan and elena.
Beautiful
this is me exactly... and im ashamed to admit it
Don't be ashamed, I feel exactly this way as well. Know you're not alone. If you ever need to talk, message me
Don't be. My scars are a reminder of who I am.
there is nothing to be ashamed of.
This is an incredibly beautiful song and should be viewed as such on it's own. Those who actually listen to the lyrics will realise that "Cut" and the scene in Vampire Diaries it was used in actually go together quite terribly. Personally, I'm sickened by how many people associate this deeply sad song with mere carnality.
i love this song
You're partially wrong, at least from my view and a few friends of mine (ex cutters/cutters.)
It isn't that they think pain is better than "not feeling anything at all." But it's more like, "Physical pain is easier to deal with than emotional pain." We still feel, it just dulls out the emotional pain while we focus on the pain of the cut, deciding where it goes, how deep it will be, how many we'll put...
Not not everyone, but from my own personal experience and several friends, that's how it is.
That's exactly what happens to us who feel that way
beautiful..
If I only had you.. i would be the happiest girl alive. i swear..
What an amazing song.....
Can someone find me just one word that describes the magic and perfection of this song?? I payy if you will ;)
I've been touched . called names . yelled at . Blamed. bullied . and abused. I hate it . And every single day I think of my past.
it weakens my heart and saddens my soul . I just wish that things were different .
God the Father, Jesus His Son, and Our Holy Spirit will NEVER hurt you, Maggie, I promise~
Christ holds us while we cry and cares so deeply for his children that His own life was given to save ours by Grace...
All we need to do is reach out our hand to God, open our hearts much as possible, and even enough Faith as a tiny, little mustard seed:) HE knows, HE sees, HE cares, and HE loves!!!
Reach out for support and fellowship to other Christians that can listen, guide, encourage, laugh with, praise Him together, and just simply be there:)
All we can do is try our best, keep getting back up for more grace, plus forgiveness, grab Jesus' hand all over again, and HE will take care of us!!!
My past makes me cut, as much as I need to I cannot let go of it. It's what defines me. Without cutting or my past I can't hold on to reality.
Same. My life exactly. You aren't alone.
God of glory
i feel so invisiable....... i feel cut.
Beautiful Much .. ♥
Lisa I am sending a prayer to you God will heal you L:)
Nice voice and really good song, but only over 8,000 views?! WTF is up with that?!
esta súper hermosa la canción 💘
i have had a ruff child hood but i am going to change
this song should be banned its encouraging self harming which can lead to suicide.
never self harm its not a release of pain it just adds to it.
if your ever that low get counciling and talk to anyone who cares about you, family a friend even online
samaritans will talk you out of hurting yourself.
you can cry this pain out and better days will come never ever hurt yourself please.
you are loved by more people than u realise.
I don't know why but this song makes me wanna cry
It's even worse when people do realize, and can't do anything to help it. I had a few friends I would talk to about my personal life, and while they did try to help, there's only so much an "outsider" can do.
True song🙏
Stop cutting God has all of you :)
I reminder when I got cut... I dropped some chicken broth on the floor and I got cut, mom ran to the spilled broth. Lol it was very mean of her but still now in days I think of it, I just laugh
coming back from the ice cream van I fall with 2 bottles of pop, they smash and I fall on the glass, I got beating because I broke her bottles, then she picked the glass out,
nope. its about people who have to cut themselves to feel. they think pain is better than not feeling anything at all. i feel bad for them tho, i have friends like that... poor dears.
Sure I am not alone
made me feel sleepy
For some reason i relate to this
me too.. the physical pain distracts me from the emotional pain...
this makes me sad
This song is amazing and the vid is great...
Which program did you used?
I do not wana be afraid.. I'm tired of feeling so numb.
Relief exists I find it when... I am cuy
do you guys know how much it hurts to drive your nail into your wrist and do you know how hard it is to hide it
***** you're English is great but please don't end up like me I hate people but I will try to help with what you're going through I am a terrible person tho you've been warned....You are an amazing person no matter what anybody says, keep fighting keep working to be the best you can because what they say doesn't matter. You're beautiful, ugly, fat, skinny, amazing, terrible, nice, mean secure, insecure, safe, unsafe you are you and you'll stay you so keep fighting to be you.
I'm tempted to cut, but I can't.
I cut...I'm ashamed of it...I feel alone, worthless, weak, and like I wasn't meant to be alive. I feel ashamed of who I am. And tbh death would help me.
Oh hun! I used to feel the same way, but it is so not true. You may be ashamed of yourself, but what you're really saying is that God is imperfect. He made something so perfect and beautiful and you are destroying it by hurting yourself. You were made for a reason. God knows who you are and loves you just the same as anyone and everyone else. You are special in His eyes and you can overcome anything with Him. I want you to listen to Overcomer by Mandisa and He Knows My Name by Francesca Battesteli ok? Keep in mind God loves you and so do I! Let me know if you need anything. Stay strong.
snap me andrewsimmo26 if you need someone to talk to I'm always here to support everyone
I can't believe I just did it.. I thought I was stronger.. I'm tired of being weak.
stelena
im cuts over cuts over scars, my arms are so wrinkles with scar tissue and yet I still cut, I have to feel the blood run, I used to cur chunks out my skin, ive had so many blood tranfusions, and I feel guilt as someone needs it more than me, so now I get iron infusions that boost my hemagloben
Wow... this song is so beautiful, I cut my self like two or three times and belive I am... so sorry about that.
PLEASE DON'T DO THAT! !!
all you sad children are now my children I swear
this song was made 8 years ago after I was born
Your all children of God he has you all :)
Im in love with a man i can never have ... i so relate to damon :/
I can relate to this song does anyone agree?
God will heal all of you :) trust him L
for me is just... real...
I just want to die and leave everything my pain misery my love my family im tired of this life help me to get on contact with the real me. I know He has plans for me.
creó que soy la única que llore cuando la escuche
Yo también
Yo no solo lloré.
yo, lloré por dentro
Yo entiendo eso.
..
You've got Some misstaken in you lyrics
weird, I cut to make me feel numb, not to alleviate nubmness.
For me its both
Is this song about bullying? :l
It's about self-harming so in essence it's about people being bullied by their own mind
*_:(_*
Stefan and Elena are a cute couple in vampire diaries but when Elena kissed Damon that part they looked like a cute couple too ❤💕😭
Dude, there are mistakes straight away... bad.
when I finally told my. mom that I was cutting my arms she didn't realize that I was hurt really badly when my dad letfed me so that's when I got depression / anxiety and then suidal thoughts but my mom still don't care about me and I have a sister that don't care about me just puts me down .. when I cut I fell batter but it doesn't lasted so I keep cutting into have 8 cuttes on my arm I just wanted to die I wish I would of just killed myself that one nigth and got it over with but I didn't. . I wish I did tho
+Kayla Barrett that´s because a part of you (no matter how small he seems) wants to live. Focus on that, find something you can concentrate on. Something worth living for. For me it´s Music and writing. Songs. Moments. stories. Feelings. believe me, you´ll find a Thing.
+yOuRsOuLmAtE17 all I find in this world is pian :/ why can't I just die
+Kayla Barrett like I sad. Even if the brain wants to, you can´t. I think it´s some Kind of destiny (even if it sounds weird) - your Story is not finished.maybe you will do great things some day, maybe you´ll just be a "normal" Person - but either way, your path may seem like a blind alley, but it´s not. sometimes, when it seems you can´t get deeper, that´s true. You´ve reached the bottom. But the goods news ist: After that, you just can climb back to the top again. step by step
+yOuRsOuLmAtE17 okey .. so I need to kill myself to stop my pain just keep trying is that what u mean
+Kayla Barrett It´s not gonna be easy. and some days you feel like there´s nothing worth living for. That´s why I started to write stories. Take all your Feelings and Emotions and imagine a glass you can put them into. And then create a Story, you want to tell. about a Girl finding a way out or about the pain a human Person can feel. about all the things that are important to you. it doesn´t matter. Just write it down.first I tried a diary, but it sounded the same every day and it did not help at all. But then I tried to tell stories. And well - that was nine years ago and I´m here.