First Silk Press And Cut On My Daughter's Relaxed 4C Hair!!
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- Hello Everyone. Welcome back and happy firat day of fall. Today is the day Sydney gets a ailk press done for the firsr time. Hwe hair is recently relaxed. So I made the decision to cut her hair as well. This flat iron was the best to cut her hair. Please like, share, comment and subscribe!! ❤️❤️
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Hey! Your daughters hair is gorgeous. However I would highly recommend you to not leave conditioner on your baby’s hair for a week or even overnight. Please follow the directions on the bottle. Scientifically, conditioner will not add any extra benefits to your hair if you leave it in for long periods, instead, it could leave to hair weathering and moisture overload. Coming from a place of love. I want your baby’s hair to continue to thrive ❤️. Also, detangling her hair dry with a lightweight oil prior to shampooing will significantly reduce tangles post shampoo.
Thank you. ❤
YES, leaving the conditioner for too long is bad. It can do more harm than good to the hair. Moisture overload equals dryness, equals breakage.
@@SupaNatural her hair grew in so healthy
Her hair is beautiful. I was told yesterday that leaving conditioner in too long can cause dandruff on the scalp. Not sure if it's true just sharing what I heard
@@twokidsmom5309 yes, if the conditioner gets in the scalp it can cause dandruff.
Okay I'm gonna say it because I have followed this channel for a long while n watched this journey. We CANNOT skip past the condition of the child's head in the beginning. Few years now the baby has been blamed for this due to "tender headedness". Actually it's a lack of proper care. Applying a relaxer is not a solution to this problem. Natural hair is actually more resilient so without a proper regime it's just gonna come out .
If you're a licensed cosmetology, leaving deep conditioner in the hair overnight WILL CAUSE DAMAGE over time. This method of "over conditioning" can cause HYGRAL FATIGUE overtime. If you don't believe it, do the research.
This!!! Guuurrrlll IF, is the key word. The way this baby head stay looking she shouldn't tell nobody that
@@mrsyoung3209 her hair stays looking thick and healthy to me….
Awwww Sydney's hair is flourishing! Maybe bantu knot out next?? ❤️
Good idea! ❤️
I was thinking a roller set? Less pulling on her poor scalp but sleek stretched results?
Sydney looks so pretty 😍. Great job. I love that you left her hair with texture and density because everything doesn't have to be bone straight. The silkening cane out great.
Thanks so much! I couldn't live with myself if it was bone straight. 😂❤❤
Why do you feel like wrapping the hair is not good for the edges,l?
I'm sorry I'm a cosmetologist and that's not true, it actually helps protect the hair from rubbing on the sheet and certain fabrics that causes breakage on the hair.
I say it from experience. It happened to me and I don't want it to happen to her. ❤️
Love her thick, beautiful hair!! A top knot or messy bun would look super cute on her plus it's really easy.
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Yes Toot, the confidence of my virtual niece is everything
Yess!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful hair! Coming from a tender headed 4c perspective, I always felt like people were angry because they had to do my thick coarse hair. They would yank my head around and over process my hair and it always burned my scalp but still never get straight enough to their satisfaction. Damaged at that! I shaved my head for a while but learned how to deal with my hair myself. I learned how to not hurt myself obviously but there are times when my scalp is sore from detangling. All this straightening isn't for me. It really is torture and other people can't feel your pain
Nic nacAttack, u have my Story! Thanks sharing that I really appreciate it that's all I was the only one grace to you and all GH
Girl, I did the same with my daughter. Things are so much better now. She did say she didn’t want a relaxer, that she loves her natural hair, but like your daughter, she’s super tender headed, so she changed her mind. She misses her natural hair, but is happy that hair days are so much easier now for her. Baby girl’s hair is so pretty and healthy. I’m glad I found your channel so that I had someone who was going through the same as me. ❤
I'm happy we found each other. Syd loved her natural hair as well. Also she can always grow her hair out whenever she's ready!! ❤️❤️❤️
what the hell.
Yasssss her hair still looks so healthy and beautiful!!!
Thank you!❤
I think you are traumatizing her with her hair.!! She will remember all this focusing on her hair and she WILL HATE!!
Very beautiful healthy hair especially after the trim. Kudos to you for knowing what was needed and not trying to save length.Too many ppl think length=health. Great job mom. Thanks Sydney for letting us watch. BTW I love your name 🥰
Thanks so much Leah. Health over anything! ❤️❤️
I knew her hair was super long… Yesss mother you did an awesome job. Her hair will be fine because you know how to take care of it.💝
Thank you! ❤️
Yes her hair is beautiful. Just make sure you keep her ends protected. Maybe do some pin curls at night, since you don't wrap her hair. That way her ends won't dry out. Love, love her hair. You are doing an amazing job
Thank you. I use a bonnet or a silk scarf at night just not in the traditional wrap. Thanks so much!❤️
someone needs to teach you to comb hair. Why do you keep fluffing it up and tangling it? And why are you moving so fast and rough?
What's crazy is I almost certain she has said she is a licensed cosmetologist. Definitely does YT hair videos and keep hers laid. Are we supposed to act like we don't see the tears..?? This poor baby! I said what I said....
Sydney got hair hair to spare😂😂😂🥰 It’s beautiful and so full.
Yes she definitely does! 😂 ❤️
Her hair is absolutely beautiful…so healthy thick and shiny . You did an excellent job..
Thank you! ❤️
Try a blow dry brush! (NOT the round brush one.) Sometimes a reg blow dryer and brush can be harsh and painful and tangle and snag the hair easily. With a blow dry brush it’s just a brush that blows air. Start at the ends and go towards the root. Very easy and painless if you detangle before hand like you did in this video. Her hair is always beautiful in every stage!
Also I don’t understand the need for hot combs honestly. They are just extra damage for no reason LOL. Especially if you sweat in your scalp anyway. Just a regular flat iron does just fine and gets at the roots just fine lol. You just have to do small enough parts. I am a new flatiron natural and have VERY kinky pattern in the back of my head.
Why didn't you go to a professional to get your daughters hair done.
Omg Syd's hair is so beautiful 😍... I absolutely love it ❤... it looks really good on her!! It's so healthy!!! Some styles you can do would be braids of course. Maybe two ponytails with spiral curls. Top knot bun would be cute too. Half up style..
Thanks!!! ❤️
@@SupaNatural Welcome!!
Ok, sorry I could be wrong but from this video, it looks like you don’t handle detangling her hair with care. You’re combing from the ends and not holding sections with your hand at the root then detangling. It just looks like you’re raking thru her hair from the ends. If she sweats and her roots “puff up”, more care is needed in detangling by working from the root out to the ends, but grasping sections so you can detangle less aggressively 😮. From my experience and from watching other moms who have daughters with thick/curly/tangle-prone hair, this is what I’ve seen work well. Now, it might be that the pace of the video being sped up contributes to my perception that you’re being a bit too aggressive. All that said, I certainly must leave your detangling to your discretion 🤷🏾♀️. Apologies if I’m all wrong.
Hello My Sweethearts 💜💜💜🥰🥰🥰SYD Is Still BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER What Kind OF hair Style 🎊🎊
Exactly, and most of all Thank You! ❤
She has a very beautiful hair. However, she is feeling pain but you don't seem to care much. Next time as you focus on making the video please consider also that she is feeling pain
I am not a license cosmetologist, nor do I claim to be one. But I have done a lot of heads in my days.
I have done french braiding, french braiding with beads. I have done relaxers, extentions, curly perms, and just hair in general.
I can so relate to your daughter being tender headed. At 57 years of age, I am still tender headed.
But, I think your daughter would have benefited more, if you would have left the relaxer on longer. I understand that YOU wanted the fullness, and you got what you wanted, but how did Sydney benefit from it? She's still crying.
Now you just gave her a bad experience with a relaxer. When it was suppose to be a bonding moment between the both of you. But I think your baby girl got the raw end of the deal.
I didn't like watching her cry. I know, I could have scrolled on by. But I wanted to see her enjoy this experience, and I wanted to see her hair silk pressed.
Exactly. She said the opposite of this. And exactly how u explained the bonding and benefits is how she said it. So it just wasted the point of what it was supposedly for. So basically she has a tender headed daughter that needs new helpful techniques to make it easier to comb...without chemicals. 😭
Sydney is enjoying her hair. This process has helped our relationship tremendously. I'm not going to over process and ruin her hair to satisfy YOU!
Yasss Sydney, whip that hair… it came out beautifully
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Funny how much your relationship with her reminds me of my mom and I growing up. I was so tender headed and hated touching my hair. I would have my curls in a bun for weeks just to avoid styling. My mom always wanted to have hair days together and wanted to style my hair. Relaxing it was the best compromise for us too! That was the only way I could handle brushing it and taking care of my hair. Although now I embrace my natural curls and only straighten my hair once a year.
Bless my momma, you and any other guardians for caring and doing what is needed ❤️
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️
I would have recommended taking her to a professional hair salon. She would have loved the experience!
She looks gorgeous as always. I remember when she wanted to cut all her hair off and instead y'all agreed on the side and back Does Sydney still desire to cut all her hair off or is she comfortable with the relaxer?
She enjoys the relaxed but she NEVER wants to get a flat iron again. She wants to grow her hair "like yours" mine.
Damn this is Sad
🥰 she feeling herself you can tell she really loves the new look
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I love love love the fact you emphasize the importance of that mother daughter relationship and how the time spent on doing hair can be very stressful without doing the to make it easier. ❤Great job Mom, you did that! 👏
Thanks for recognizing it!! ❤️❤️
I have a feeling that when she gets the option she will cut all her hair OFF .😭 that scalp is super sensitive. I know I cut mine off as soon as my parents allowed me too & I’m 23 now . Never going back
DAMI AM MEXICAN AND I WAS LOOKING AT IT WAS HURTING ME
I remember 100 yrs ago 🤣 I had Shirley temple curls. It was age appropriate back then. She has a beautiful head of hair. Good luck to you and your daughter. 🥰
I wore Shirley Temple curls as well! ❤️❤️Thank you.
Sydney has beautiful hair and she looks cute to good job mom.
Thank you! ❤
Her ends weren’t behaving because you didn’t relax her hair properly! Or prep her hair before the relaxer. You should’ve fully deranged then relaxed the day after. It would cause you less issues today
My dear lady, please do yourself and you daughter a favor and go to a professional. The last 3 videos will generate you a lot of comments but other than that it is a bad idea, poorly executed. It is intelligent for anyone, even a loving mother, to acknowledge their limits and delegate.
pushing and pulling her head--ouch!! Can't watch it.
The only problem with leaving texture in the hair (which I completely agree with) is that its hard to get a consistant level of relaxation. Its going to be difficult to manage with the mix of textures. I would suggest on her next touch up to run the relxer through the entire hair shaft after youve done the roots. Just to smooth it out a little bit more and that will help with managability and it will not compromise the integrity of her hair.
I've done this with my sister and her hair density remained in tact while allowing for better managability. Overall its all about making wash day a better day for both of you.💜
Nothing wrong with a relaxer except the long term health effects it has on the body
She’s going to break her neck swinging her pretty hair 😂😂😂😂 she is so happy
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When u were hot combing it....and she was wincing....I thing it's because ur heavy handed, and the section was too think, so you pressed harder against the scalp. 😬
Her hair looks really beautiful . HOWEVER ! Be VERY CAREFUL about relaxers on a child her age. I know numerous adult women who had had relaxers from childhood & started losing hair from scalp damage as they approached menopause. Some are now shiny head bald. I have seen former students now in their 20s & 30s with scalp damage from relaxers since elementary school. I had gorgeous curly perms for years & quit years ago & am now a retiree & being treated by a dermatologist for alopecia. Back when I was a kid I didn’t see any black women with that condition; they just had normal hair thinning. Too many harsh chemicals in relaxers that cause scalp damage even if you don’t feel it. Hair follicles are being affected .
2nd Biggest mistake I made w my relaxed hair was over conditioning 😌 ending up going natural after that disaster
Then her ha8r isn't 4c either, cause it's relaxed.
The cut is terrible. This whole situation is a disaster.
Exactly🤣🤣🤣 the haircut is horrible and the straightening hairstyle is awfull. The girl looks like an grandma because of her mother. It isn't a hairstyle for a young girl. Omg....🤣🤣🤣 im 36 years old and even for me the hairstyle is way too grandma🤣
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Her hair has grown significantly since I last saw it. It it thick and so healthy looking. What a transformation from almost 2+ years ago. Sydney is too tenderheaded. I’m still that way! To this day I won’t allow anyone to touch my head. I do understand completely her struggle and pain. You’ve done a outstanding job with the upkeep and health of her hair. I hate to admit this, but I think her hair thrives more when it’s relaxed because it’s so thick in its natural state.😅
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Aww baby girl I know the pain, them hot comb ain't no joke. I appreciate you sharing your and her hair journey. Much love from PA💜
No joke!! Thanks ❤️
I know she has the relaxer, and it looks great, but have you thought about locs? They’re low maintenance, don’t require heat, and can still be styled. 😊
My daughter cries EVERY TIME I do her hair and people tell me I'm mean.. there's nothing I can do. She is tender headed and doesn't even have a fraction of your little girls hair. It just gets tangles easy because it's so fine... I struggle with hairstyles for her but I feel better knowing I'm not the only mama struggling with a tender headed baby.
Her hair look so healthy and beautiful!!❤ I’m tender headed too, I feel her pain.😢
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Beautiful. She can wear it in one to two ponytails.
Love 2 ponytails. ❤❤
OMG 😍 Yes ma'am mom. Syds hair looks amazing ❤
Thank you!! ❤
U wasnt playing at all u....u was just chopping off dem endz!!....love that beautiful healthy hair!!
Your hair is beautiful Sydney I love it
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Two-strand twist should do well and doesn't have to be blow dried.🤩 Also, you'll probably have to cut the ends again soon because now that you've cut it will grow faster and those ends will be a problem.🤷🏾♀️
Mom don't be upset when she grow up and cut off her hair. It's nothing you doing wrong. You are awesome but being tender headed had my sisters and I going straight for the scissor.
Hi. Her hair looks so thick and beautiful still. It looks nice and full.
Maybe try a cute high messy bun and the two pieces of bang pulled out on each side of her face.🥰Have a Blessed Day!!🙏🏾
She’s feeling real good about herself!!! It won’t hurt to comb it🥰🥰🥰 beautiful healthy hair!!
It still hurts but not as much! ❤️❤️
@@SupaNatural You did a great job!!! What setting do you use when using a flat iron? I can’t get my daughter hair straight. She’s 7
Why was she crying?
Please!! When she is in the shower and with lots of conditioner on, try to pre-detangle with your fingers not with a comb, after the shower, use the comb and you will find almost with none knobs. If she cries getting her hair silk. Will that be a need? God bless both of you, by the way, your voice is beautiful.
She's crying..
Wow you weren't kidding. She's still struggling with the relaxer. It had to be even worse with her natural hair. Poor baby 😥
She looks Khoisan it’s a race in South Africa, very beautiful
Her hair is beautiful 😍
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Dang I thought the relaxer wohave made her less tinder headed but it dnt seem that way…. It just breaks my heart to see those tears
No revair today? I would cry too. Do you have a blow dryer with comb? Anyway came out beautiful and she's beautiful. I wanted to get the revair but u didn't use it today makes me feel it doesn't work good enough to you when you're getting a flat iron.
I'll be using the RevAir forever lol. I wanted to blow dry her hair with the babyliss bc I never really tried it out on her hair. But the RevAir would have saved me so much time and energy.
@@SupaNatural ohhhhhhhhhhhh ok then I get it when I get the money for it lol. I also noticed baby girl cried through whole process so she would have ended upm8n tears no matter what. Awwww bless her heart. I have a 9 year old boy and he's very tender headed as well and has long hair.
Make sure you teach her to handle her hair. This will be the only problem down the line. She need ti learn how to maintain also. Part of growing up.
I used heat daily when I was relaxed and my hair was beautiful. I miss it lol. It's all about how you care for it. I went to a professional at least 2x a month who kept up with my treatments and made sure it stayed healthy. That's what I think is the trick with relaxed hair. Going to a professional often and keeping it healthy is a must.
She reminds me of me when I was little and my oldest daughter,don’t like her hair comb at all but wants her hair done and she mix with tailbone length hair and it’s thick
You sure wrapping isn't good for edges? I go to a master stylist and she encourages it, does my hair well I think but I guess it doesn't work for everyone. Her hair is beautiful.
My hair stayed wrapped and I never had issues. It actually protected my hair and made it last longer.
She's so beautiful the hair is gorgeous and thick. How about putting big volume satin rollers in her hair at night to save this style. Be careful little boys going to like her with that hairstyle.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
She's a. Cutie we the a beautiful, healthy head of hair. I am so glad that you are being mindful of protecting her hair and not over processing and damaging it. Don't cry Baby Cakes.
She feeling herself!!!! Awwwwe.shes just growing up into a beautiful lil young lady! God bless u both
Thanks and God Bless you as well! ❤️❤️
How did you apply the relaxer because it seems like there are relaxed pieced and relaxed pieces all over?
Hi Supa Natural & Sydney! Sydney's hair is so healthy & thick! You don an awesome job! Great video!
Thanks Berniece!! ❤️
Thank you very much!
@@SupaNatural You're welcome!
She is such a beautiful girl! I love watching her journey ❤
Thank you! ❤
Hi Syd N Mom Syd your hair is beautiful and you have some one taking good care of it you are BLESSED!!!!!
Thank you!❤❤
Heat OMG 🤬 Bye Felicia I cannot I'm done
I overnight condition and my hair is down to my butt. It's fine. I doubt it you're doing it every week. In fact for me, the longer i leave it in the better. I admire your patience with Sydney. She is so lucky to have a mom that wants her to be as least traumatized as possible. She's still in so much pain. 😩 I hope you go bone straight just so she can experience painlessness at least once in her life.
Her hair looks great!!
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It’s the thickness for me. Great job! 🙂
She is really tender headed her hair is beautiful lol 😂😂😂 🥰
Maybe try a flexi rod set which will help with putting her under a dryer instead of having to use flat irons or hot combs
she was crying aww poor her its alriht liltte girl😉😘😘🥲
Her hair looks great but let me ask if you don’t wrap your hair what do you do
I gather her hair to the back of her head (like a ponytail) then wrap it like a bun. Then put a silk scarf or bonnet over it.
Your hair is so beautiful Sydney and mom you did a great job!!!! I like her hair either way also.
Thank you! ❤
SiMply Beautiful, try pin curling Sydneys hair and tying it down with a scarf you might like that
During wash days - maybe try parting off into smaller sections while wet and maybe banding method or even trying plaits w/banding and let air dry and few days then after that blow it out to help it dry and stretch before blow out so it probably won't be so painful cause the hair will relax a little and not be so "knotty" or get knocked on ends as much possibly. Then heat protect and blow out nay be quicker and easier
I don't have 4c or any 4 type hair but when I plait and band and let it air dry before applying heat it is easier and quicker to manage
Her hair is pretty but some of us can do without all that crying she be doing
you can click off and gon on to another video. that’s a child.
@@imParisthoee you too clown
Great job Mom!!!
Thank you!❤
This girlie!!@ What a confidence booster!!!❤🥰 She was already beautiful and you've just elevated her! Look at her swinging that hair! I think we all want hair we can shake.
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She is so cute and the hair looks great 👍🏽
Her hair is beautiful! It grew out very nice ! I remember when you cut it ! 4c hair !!
Thank you!❤️
If she has such a problem with her hair being combed, maybe it would be better of you gave it a full Relaxer, bone straight. I think that would be a lot easier for her. Just saying...and a good relaxer will not necessarily thin out her hair, you just have to use the right products and take good care of it.
Hey, I know people swear by flat irons, but I find that hair straightens just as well with just a large curling iron, especially if you plan to curl the hair anyway. Also, how does your daughter handle an old fashioned hooded dryer? I also have very thick hair and much prefer to roll my hair when wet and sit under the dryer for bounce, shine and overall health without so much manipulation.
This would be my suggestion also. Rollers and hair dryer then pin curl to sleep. A roller set would give it a lot of body with less manipulation to her head.
Her hair turned out beautiful just like her 😁! Girrrl, Remember you've got that Rev-Air dryer. Please try not to leave the conditioner in her long for too long because you don't want her to develop any fungus build up on her healthy scalp or hair. Looking forward to see her growth progress 🤩. Great job mom.
I’m relaxed too and I love it! My original hair texture is 4c too! If your thinking about it just do it as long as you do your research and educate yourself well and get a professional to relax it for you, you should be good!