Learn the ART of being ALONE and loving your own self! You don't NEED family or friends. You need people that are your equals if not superior (to motivate you to higher heights!). There is BEAUTY in solitude!!!!!!!!!!!!
Omg, me too. One friend told me I must not know what envy is and tried to educate me on the difference between friendship and evil eyes. It was like she was at the point of taunting me with her jealousy because for years I was not “getting it”. I always saw it but I thought if I helped her see her own qualities and encouraged her to see I didn’t think my life was so ‘perfect’ and she felt like I was being fake. I had to do that with family members so much I just thought some people just need to see what beauty I see in them but some don’t care about what they have to offer, they want what you have. I even had one friend who married a super millionaire but her husband admitted he had his eyes on me and she started shading me because he was richer than my man but my man was her celebrity crush and I didn’t even know she ran one of his fan pages. I was always so happy for her but she had his secret all on her shoulder. It got so toxic, it went from matching shoes to Rolex’s to her getting surgery to look like she was my twin and that is where it got scary. I would post pictures of my photoshoot on my fan pages and she would copy them with her photographer and post on her personal page and say things like “ I’m the upgraded version with a bigger ring.” I was like huh? And she used to make comments about his ex being An exotical and I used to wonder why that mattered and she with her new face and bleach reveal I was like omg, she envied me for the things I could do nothing about. All that to say, I 💯% agree. It is so toxic and we will not ever get to the root of the heart to understand.
I think Kelly would benefit from going overseas like Tina Turner did and become a star . That’s what Tina did she said America didn’t give her the support she felt she deserved and moved to Europe and died the queen of rock n roll.
@@AdayBB231 l honestly think the problem is Kelly. She could have been a model in Europe for a well known campaign but l don't think she has the drive!
People saying Beyonce is only successful because she's LS are being intentionally obtuse. When she went solo, she was scrutinized her from her body type to every feature she had by the mainstream. They called her dumb & country because of her drawl and everything in the book...what'd she do? Perfected her craft.
Continue to be unapologetic. These are experiences so many of us have gone through and were gaslit into not believing what we were literally living. Thanks for all your hard work for the MLS community!
This is my safe space. Thank you so much for giving me a different perspective on life. When you are beautiful, have a personality and be financially stable and intelligent!!! Oh be prepared because A LOT of people want to see your downfall.
Yup happened to me! They will enjoy your downfall with immense immense pleasure. Us being very picky and strategic is for our survival but others see it as us being better than them and uppity. No one is entitled to our presence, space, beauty, knowledge, energy, work or bodies. If you allow the wrong people in your life you are going to be Yolanda-dified just like what happened to the famous artist Selena.
Thank you! I was definitely the Beyoncé in my group. I had a friend who was from Sudan and was dark skin. She was only friends with me because when she was with me she felt empowered. Like “look I have a pretty friend so that means I’m pretty”. She would always say she wished she had my skin tone. And would always make jealous comments towards me. I also realized that she started dressing up more when she started hanging out with me. The self hatred is real and sad.
Her own sisters hate on her. Khloe hated for years and finally switched now that Kourtney is hating on Kim now. I believe Kourtney hates on Kim because I believe it was rumored that her now husband wanted to screw her secretly and he told her that 😩😂
I am the Beyoncé and I had to eliminate all the Kelly’s and Michelle’s. I love your channel. Amazing channel. You speak about important topics that other women usually don’t speak about. You speak about many taboo topics that many women can’t open up to speak about. We all know people gave Beyoncé the spotlight. The been the main character. She stands out. Because of her energy and her passion that the others lacked. There can only be one star out of a group.
For yrs I’ve known I’m the Beyonce in groups-family, friends -society as a whole…I have ppl who love me to death and others who hate my guts-I’m an overall good person and I know it…I won’t change for anyone…I love me and always will no matter how it makes others feel. Great videos here for sure ❤
I've always found people who elicit such polar reactions from others (extreme love or hate) so interesting because I feel like it exposes a shadow side of human nature that's hardly discussed.
Yes girl! It’s either they love you or they can’t stand the sight of you. I feel bad for the haters because they are missing out on amazing friendships with women like us 😂💁🏽♀
@@BlessedByHisGrace7you’re so right!…all the unhinged hate blocked their chance to build a solid friendship then I think wow they could never really be a friend bc they’ll be low key despising me…at 46 I love the person I was and am through all the wishy washy interactions with women.
Thank you so much for all the life changing videos you have created here. Your talking points have helped restored my sanity in ways you would never imagine. Stumbling on your channel and binge watching your videos plus your nuances gave me that final permission to begin sharing my journey here on TH-cam as well... unapologetically. Thank you for being a source of inspiration, thank you for the safety you have provided for us here. Thank you so much from a grateful heart. Much love from a lifetime subscriber somewhere in Africa ❤❤
Oh Damn, we are for sure getting to 20k subscribers by or before June!!!! And yes, people love to claim they love UABW but never support their endeavors - Kelly Rowland, Normani, Flo Milli (she should be topping charts), Doechii etc! They only bring up UA artists when they want to talk about Exoticals with less talent (no shade) - Ice Spice, Cardi B, Latto, Coi Leray, Mariah the Scientist etc. (All artists listed are ones I listen to so I'm not saying I hate them by any means). Oh and then monoracial people claim MLS artist as their representation whenever they feel like it - Beyonce, Aaliyah, Nicki Minaj, Rihanna, Mariah Carey, Alicia Keys, Ashanti, Eartha Kitt, Jhene Aiko, etc etc etc.!!!
I am a caramel-skinned (I'm not sure if this channel is about me but the more watch the more I realise why I was mistreated) South African who has Scottish DNA from my fathers side and one indian ancestor along the line from my moms side. Both parents have Eurocentric noses according to our standards. As a 17 year old I can very much say that ur channel has opened my eyes to many things😭I remember these girls would make fun of how brown my hair was and claimed it was dirty. And it wasn't even that brown😭its just not pitch black that's it! Looking back they were jealous asf! And it's weird how I'm forced to identify as brown skin when I have identified with being a lighter shade my entire life😭I am the beyonce of my family as I realised that people hated me as a kid but I never understood why? I would get called spoilt for just getting toys! I also attended a private school my entire life and I can confirm that people were threatened by me.😭I have also gotten hate for saying I prefer brown/lights but they allowed to prefer dark skin kings over the lighter ones which is weird. My male bsf also tells me that I'm not light but my female baf says I'm way to light to talk about colourism so what is it? Thank u so much🎀
Spot on about the dark feminine. Beyonce does really know how to activate and validate her dark feminine, she gets hate too, and actually she is also put in second towards other women like Adele or Taylor swift, or others. Yet she just keeps going with the same main character energy. As far as both Kelly and Michelle, they come off as nice girls. And that's always boring. If they embraced their dark feminine we would at least have more respect for them.
I love your page soo much. Something you said recently that really helped me was you mentioning being pretty is a part of our identity. I feel even more confident & less guilty being beautiful & just own it even more now. Thank you xo
I definitely am lol 😂😂 my maternal aunt tries but she doesn’t hold a candle to me. lol she’s a beautiful cocoa brown woman but she has very low self esteem and when you tell her she’s beautiful she don’t know how to respond. My mom said her sister has always had a complex about her skin tone. I fluctuate between 350, 360, 370 in Fenty beauty foundation. Because of this im always being questioned if I’m bleaching. Ive never bleached and my whole body it a beautiful palette of tan brown colors. She’s been In competition with me since my birth back in the summer of 1977. To me I’ve never tried to compete with anyone but people have always tried to out me every chance they could. In my baby book she had the nerve to write “ this book could not be published without the star Sheri herself. Then she had the nerve to also tell me in my early 30’s in front of my mom , “I hated you because you were born and you took my place”. I just looked at her and laughed saying I’m sorry you feel that way but you’ve got to be kidding me. I’ve been intimidating people since birth. It’s just weird. I’ve also been at the forefront of my friend group’s since junior high and even then people were mean spirited, jealous and vindictive to me for no reason at all. I would give the shirt off my back and shoes off my feet to anyone. 😢 The most important thing I’ve learned my 47 years on this earth is that I’m not responsible for how others feel nor am I responsible for how the feel about themselves.
Your story is a “key sign” that you’re beautiful. My story is similar. Yes since a birth people are intimidated. My own mom was jealous of me all my life. It hurt me so bad cause I love my mommy. She’s nicer now and she’s 73.. but it hurts that due to my phenotype my own mom was jealous 😢
@@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT exactly and I totally understand. It’s a sad situation that we all had similar experiences. My aunt even treats her daughter bad and she’s also has the same skin tone as I do. I feel bad for her because she has to deal with a jealous mother. I think some moms resent their daughters because either they are more beautiful, smarter or more talented they ever were. About a month ago, my cousin and I got together for a cooking session. I was teaching her how to cook. Her mother invites herself over once she found out we’re cooking. She shows up when the food is done and her daughter asks how’s the food mom? Can you guess what she responds? She says, “oh it’s ok” my cousin looked away so sad and disappointed. My aunt can’t cook herself and goes to show her jealousy. I’ve been trying to help my cousin to further grow her exotical tax so that she will not only beautiful, smart but also great in the kitchen. 💜
@@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT also when she told me she hated me since birth I looked over at my mom expecting her to tell her to not talk to me that way in my own home. My mom didn’t anything. Right then and there I knew I was online in the world. Not even my mom would take up for me. It’s crazy 😞😢
@Exoticals United You should consider having a podcast where it's just audio coz I'd literally listen to you on default in the shower, on the road, working out e.t.c just press play and I'm in my safe place❤. Thank you for creating this channel.
Oooh you should join the patreon because I have about 100 extra audios on there and I take custom content requests where I can talk about anything you guys want and personally respond to comments
I feel like this channel about me cause my skin tone is like brown like caramel cus i get light and dark depending on the seasons. I have like long hair and wear it straight. I got small lips, button nose, asian eyes. On my mother side I am, I am native american (cherokee and creek indian), black with puerto rican and german ancestry, on my dad side im bajan and trinidadian with asian and indian ancestry . Im a 15 right now and need to talk to somebody about this cause I always felt like outsider and girls don't like me for real or just jealous of me
I have always been the Beyoncé in my life. I have always used her ambitious energy to help me get through obstacles and complete accomplishments. My ex friends (exes for good reason) would joke and call me the Beyoncé of the group. Little did I know they would attempt to sabotage me.
OMG IS THIS A THING? people used to call me the beyonce of my friend group as well! i used to be like wow they're trying to insult me 😂 but yes. i feel like whenever someone is talented and consistent theres no way she can also be beautiful. everything gets swept under the rug and "she only got to where she is because of her skin tone" smh
Beyonce is the number one social climber - she married a gatekeeper! To do collabs, you have to sleep with execs...... so by being with a gatekeeper, she is in control 100% without having to lie on her back
Its facts same as her dad picked other girls for her to stand out and he claimed he believed his whole life that light women are superior. I’m mixed and very light these are just facts
I remember seeing something about Beyoncé saying she wished she was Latina. I think that had to do with why she collaborated with Shakira and she showed Shakira had nothing on her in that Beautiful Liar video.
I watched her interview and i could see that she was triggered by the bey questions....But the women in the comments were trying to pour all the fake love toward Kelly by saying they are glad shes " taking her power back" and she "looks better" than bey or has "more talent" than bey🙄
7:30 the today show situation is a great example of both parties being right. Kelly has a right to want superstar treatment AND the today show has a right to humble her and not give it to her. She didn’t have to come on the show and hence she walked off. I think this was a great example of everyone treating everyone else how they want to be treated. And I don’t think that was a bad thing. I think Kelly is a big enough star to want the big dressing room and I don’t think she wrong for walking off. But the today show didn’t think of her as a big enough star to offer the big dressing room. This might have more to do with her team. Mariah Carey for instance is known for diva treatment and makes all kinds of crazy requests and won’t appear if they aren’t met.
It would be wonderful if black people (especially women) not only to stop living through entertainers but cease and desist with trying to bring back the otherwise dead Motown era; Beyonce is no more of the (despised) Diana Ross than Janet Jackson was. That being said: spot on.
I’m the Beyoncé of my family and my friends. I have family members that make snide comments til this day and it’s been like that since I was a child. I was always compared to one of my cousins when we were little and they would say she would look better than me when we got older. Let’s just say I’m STILL Beyoncé 😂
For sure I’ve been the Beyoncé my whole life since Kindergarten and still am respectfully 🙏.One time I’ll never forget was when I went to Beyonce’s Renaissance tour in Boston and decided to stay for a while to explore the city. I was supposed to meet for a tour and ended up missing my way and so I asked for help from this older man who was sitting in his big bus.. he got out and helped me with the meeting point..he asked me why I was here in Boston and I told him it was for the Beyoncé concert and he said.. “you look just like Beyoncé”😂ik that was a lie cuz ain’t no way I’m gonna look as good as her but it felt good that at least someone thought like that abt me. It felt nice.. lol
Listen I ran into your channel by accident and I feel every word you are saying And this is coming from a young Black man born and raised in Miami I've been through this my whole life because I talk different dress different sing different listen to different music and don't follow crowds It be the older black generation I.E toxic people in my life and the guys be the most jealous of me I'm tall athletic body type and 6"3 they think because I wouldn't look like the type to fight or not defend myself so they get a rude awakening when I match they energy and back up like a coward I've been through it my whole life with my mom always been jealous of me and my siblings because I am private they barely know me and I take the different lead path in life without any validation.....So yes I've been through it and I know exactly what your coming from and people be projecting mighty hard and because you don't play they game I've always knew I was MAIN CHARACTER ENERGY BECAUSE WHEN I STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH THEM PEOPLE ASK THEM WHERE I'M AT BECAUSE THEY ARE A AFTERTHOUGHT THEY GET FAMOUS OFF OF ME OT BE LIKE THAT WHEN YOUR THE BEYONCE/ MICHAEL JACKSON OF THE GROUP
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I have a saying "Only compete with your potential".
Omg yes that’s such a good way to look at it !
I love that!
I like that 😊
This is my safe place. You speak life into our experiences. Thanks so much for all you do.
I appreciate that !
Learn the ART of being ALONE and loving your own self! You don't NEED family or friends. You need people that are your equals if not superior (to motivate you to higher heights!). There is BEAUTY in solitude!!!!!!!!!!!!
exactly!!!!!
I'm definitely the Beyonce of my family and a few friends of mine. Some have even said they envied me and l was shocked !
Right! People will be in a whole competition with you and you didn’t even know 😂
It's so crazy finding that out especially after being gaslighted... Blows my mind everyday
@@lapeaches8006Everyday!
@@ExoticalsUnited😅😊
Omg, me too. One friend told me I must not know what envy is and tried to educate me on the difference between friendship and evil eyes. It was like she was at the point of taunting me with her jealousy because for years I was not “getting it”. I always saw it but I thought if I helped her see her own qualities and encouraged her to see I didn’t think my life was so ‘perfect’ and she felt like I was being fake. I had to do that with family members so much I just thought some people just need to see what beauty I see in them but some don’t care about what they have to offer, they want what you have. I even had one friend who married a super millionaire but her husband admitted he had his eyes on me and she started shading me because he was richer than my man but my man was her celebrity crush and I didn’t even know she ran one of his fan pages. I was always so happy for her but she had his secret all on her shoulder. It got so toxic, it went from matching shoes to Rolex’s to her getting surgery to look like she was my twin and that is where it got scary. I would post pictures of my photoshoot on my fan pages and she would copy them with her photographer and post on her personal page and say things like “ I’m the upgraded version with a bigger ring.” I was like huh? And she used to make comments about his ex being An exotical and I used to wonder why that mattered and she with her new face and bleach reveal I was like omg, she envied me for the things I could do nothing about. All that to say, I 💯% agree. It is so toxic and we will not ever get to the root of the heart to understand.
This is the channel and content I never knew I needed.
Yay! I’m glad you like it !
I think Kelly would benefit from going overseas like Tina Turner did and become a star . That’s what Tina did she said America didn’t give her the support she felt she deserved and moved to Europe and died the queen of rock n roll.
Exactly 💯 I always felt Kelly should've moved to Europe when her music was getting on the charts, her life could've been wayyyy different.
Kelly actually does do better outside of the US 💯
She did, Kelly was in Europe after Destiny's Child..... so what happened?
@@uniquelyme3581 maybe she stopped putting out music that catered to that fan base
@@AdayBB231 l honestly think the problem is Kelly. She could have been a model in Europe for a well known campaign but l don't think she has the drive!
People saying Beyonce is only successful because she's LS are being intentionally obtuse. When she went solo, she was scrutinized her from her body type to every feature she had by the mainstream. They called her dumb & country because of her drawl and everything in the book...what'd she do? Perfected her craft.
When they made fun off her accent, that's when she said fuck it I'm not doing interviews anymore. She has let her music do the talking.
Continue to be unapologetic. These are experiences so many of us have gone through and were gaslit into not believing what we were literally living. Thanks for all your hard work for the MLS community!
Well said!
Yassssss baby!! Exoticals United is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤
This is my safe space. Thank you so much for giving me a different perspective on life. When you are beautiful, have a personality and be financially stable and intelligent!!! Oh be prepared because A LOT of people want to see your downfall.
Yup happened to me! They will enjoy your downfall with immense immense pleasure. Us being very picky and strategic is for our survival but others see it as us being better than them and uppity. No one is entitled to our presence, space, beauty, knowledge, energy, work or bodies. If you allow the wrong people in your life you are going to be Yolanda-dified just like what happened to the famous artist Selena.
@@diamondheart11 ‼️‼️
Thank you! I was definitely the Beyoncé in my group. I had a friend who was from Sudan and was dark skin. She was only friends with me because when she was with me she felt empowered. Like “look I have a pretty friend so that means I’m pretty”. She would always say she wished she had my skin tone. And would always make jealous comments towards me. I also realized that she started dressing up more when she started hanging out with me. The self hatred is real and sad.
It’s like Kim kardashians everyone shamed her she doesn’t care at the end of the day she is successful with no singing or acting talent
Exactly , she doesn’t care 😂
Her own sisters hate on her. Khloe hated for years and finally switched now that Kourtney is hating on Kim now. I believe Kourtney hates on Kim because I believe it was rumored that her now husband wanted to screw her secretly and he told her that 😩😂
I am the Beyoncé and I had to eliminate all the Kelly’s and Michelle’s. I love your channel. Amazing channel. You speak about important topics that other women usually don’t speak about. You speak about many taboo topics that many women can’t open up to speak about. We all know people gave Beyoncé the spotlight. The been the main character. She stands out. Because of her energy and her passion that the others lacked. There can only be one star out of a group.
OMG I SCREAMED WHEN YOU SAID I HAD TO ELIMINATE THE KELLYS AND MICHELLES 😂😂😂
For yrs I’ve known I’m the Beyonce in groups-family, friends -society as a whole…I have ppl who love me to death and others who hate my guts-I’m an overall good person and I know it…I won’t change for anyone…I love me and always will no matter how it makes others feel. Great videos here for sure ❤
I've always found people who elicit such polar reactions from others (extreme love or hate) so interesting because I feel like it exposes a shadow side of human nature that's hardly discussed.
exactly!
Yes don’t change hun. Some will love us and some will hate us. But be careful cuz most will pretend like they like us but really don’t
Yes girl! It’s either they love you or they can’t stand the sight of you. I feel bad for the haters because they are missing out on amazing friendships with women like us 😂💁🏽♀
@@BlessedByHisGrace7you’re so right!…all the unhinged hate blocked their chance to build a solid friendship then I think wow they could never really be a friend bc they’ll be low key despising me…at 46 I love the person I was and am through all the wishy washy interactions with women.
Thank you so much for all the life changing videos you have created here. Your talking points have helped restored my sanity in ways you would never imagine. Stumbling on your channel and binge watching your videos plus your nuances gave me that final permission to begin sharing my journey here on TH-cam as well... unapologetically. Thank you for being a source of inspiration, thank you for the safety you have provided for us here. Thank you so much from a grateful heart. Much love from a lifetime subscriber somewhere in Africa ❤❤
Omg that’s amazing! and yes- you’re not crazy! Lol
Oh Damn, we are for sure getting to 20k subscribers by or before June!!!! And yes, people love to claim they love UABW but never support their endeavors - Kelly Rowland, Normani, Flo Milli (she should be topping charts), Doechii etc! They only bring up UA artists when they want to talk about Exoticals with less talent (no shade) - Ice Spice, Cardi B, Latto, Coi Leray, Mariah the Scientist etc. (All artists listed are ones I listen to so I'm not saying I hate them by any means). Oh and then monoracial people claim MLS artist as their representation whenever they feel like it - Beyonce, Aaliyah, Nicki Minaj, Rihanna, Mariah Carey, Alicia Keys, Ashanti, Eartha Kitt, Jhene Aiko, etc etc etc.!!!
Exactly omg! Which one is it ?! 😂
I am a caramel-skinned (I'm not sure if this channel is about me but the more watch the more I realise why I was mistreated) South African who has Scottish DNA from my fathers side and one indian ancestor along the line from my moms side. Both parents have Eurocentric noses according to our standards. As a 17 year old I can very much say that ur channel has opened my eyes to many things😭I remember these girls would make fun of how brown my hair was and claimed it was dirty. And it wasn't even that brown😭its just not pitch black that's it! Looking back they were jealous asf! And it's weird how I'm forced to identify as brown skin when I have identified with being a lighter shade my entire life😭I am the beyonce of my family as I realised that people hated me as a kid but I never understood why? I would get called spoilt for just getting toys! I also attended a private school my entire life and I can confirm that people were threatened by me.😭I have also gotten hate for saying I prefer brown/lights but they allowed to prefer dark skin kings over the lighter ones which is weird. My male bsf also tells me that I'm not light but my female baf says I'm way to light to talk about colourism so what is it? Thank u so much🎀
this channel is for you. welcome!
@@ExoticalsUnited Thank you so much I love you and carry on with ur lovely work❤️🫂🎀
I feel your struggle. Not white(light ) enough , not black(dark) enough. I dealt with this all my life.
@@GioMero4Eva Bums asf😭Don’t get me started with the coconut debate💀Tf
(maybe consider your friendships please... 🧐I'm smelling passive aggressiveness and envy)
I can proudly say that I am the Beyoncé of my life! No apologies! 🌟💃🏻👑🔥
I am so happy I found this channel🙏🏾
Spot on about the dark feminine. Beyonce does really know how to activate and validate her dark feminine, she gets hate too, and actually she is also put in second towards other women like Adele or Taylor swift, or others. Yet she just keeps going with the same main character energy.
As far as both Kelly and Michelle, they come off as nice girls. And that's always boring. If they embraced their dark feminine we would at least have more respect for them.
I love your page soo much. Something you said recently that really helped me was you mentioning being pretty is a part of our identity. I feel even more confident & less guilty being beautiful & just own it even more now. Thank you xo
I definitely am lol 😂😂 my maternal aunt tries but she doesn’t hold a candle to me. lol she’s a beautiful cocoa brown woman but she has very low self esteem and when you tell her she’s beautiful she don’t know how to respond. My mom said her sister has always had a complex about her skin tone. I fluctuate between 350, 360, 370 in Fenty beauty foundation. Because of this im always being questioned if I’m bleaching. Ive never bleached and my whole body it a beautiful palette of tan brown colors. She’s been In competition with me since my birth back in the summer of 1977. To me I’ve never tried to compete with anyone but people have always tried to out me every chance they could. In my baby book she had the nerve to write “ this book could not be published without the star Sheri herself. Then she had the nerve to also tell me in my early 30’s in front of my mom , “I hated you because you were born and you took my place”. I just looked at her and laughed saying I’m sorry you feel that way but you’ve got to be kidding me. I’ve been intimidating people since birth. It’s just weird. I’ve also been at the forefront of my friend group’s since junior high and even then people were mean spirited, jealous and vindictive to me for no reason at all. I would give the shirt off my back and shoes off my feet to anyone. 😢
The most important thing I’ve learned my 47 years on this earth is that I’m not responsible for how others feel nor am I responsible for how the feel about themselves.
Your story is a “key sign” that you’re beautiful. My story is similar. Yes since a birth people are intimidated. My own mom was jealous of me all my life. It hurt me so bad cause I love my mommy. She’s nicer now and she’s 73.. but it hurts that due to my phenotype my own mom was jealous 😢
I'm sorry your aunt is such a hater. that's so sad
@@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT exactly and I totally understand. It’s a sad situation that we all had similar experiences. My aunt even treats her daughter bad and she’s also has the same skin tone as I do. I feel bad for her because she has to deal with a jealous mother. I think some moms resent their daughters because either they are more beautiful, smarter or more talented they ever were. About a month ago, my cousin and I got together for a cooking session. I was teaching her how to cook. Her mother invites herself over once she found out we’re cooking. She shows up when the food is done and her daughter asks how’s the food mom? Can you guess what she responds? She says, “oh it’s ok” my cousin looked away so sad and disappointed. My aunt can’t cook herself and goes to show her jealousy. I’ve been trying to help my cousin to further grow her exotical tax so that she will not only beautiful, smart but also great in the kitchen. 💜
@@IndigenousExotical thank you it’s a shame we can’t just exist without people being they way they are to us.
@@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT also when she told me she hated me since birth I looked over at my mom expecting her to tell her to not talk to me that way in my own home. My mom didn’t anything. Right then and there I knew I was online in the world. Not even my mom would take up for me. It’s crazy 😞😢
Yeah…keep hitting nerves. Truth is truth 💋
I definitely am lol! I use to say it as a joke when I was younger but as I got older I started to realize I really am💗
I am the Beyonce of my life 😊
Definitely Beyoncé. Everyone hates me for no reason. It’s really depressing
The content that you post make me feel loved, understood and supported! 🫶🏼
Yay! You’re not delusional! We can’t ALL be lying about our experiences . Our feelings are valid too!
Yes, Beyonce represents for many of us Exoticals. We Basicly experience the same type of treatment in real life.. we are the Beyoncé’s of our world!!
@Exoticals United You should consider having a podcast where it's just audio coz I'd literally listen to you on default in the shower, on the road, working out e.t.c just press play and I'm in my safe place❤. Thank you for creating this channel.
Oooh you should join the patreon because I have about 100 extra audios on there and I take custom content requests where I can talk about anything you guys want and personally respond to comments
I feel like this channel about me cause my skin tone is like brown like caramel cus i get light and dark depending on the seasons. I have like long hair and wear it straight. I got small lips, button nose, asian eyes. On my mother side I am, I am native american (cherokee and creek indian), black with puerto rican and german ancestry, on my dad side im bajan and trinidadian with asian and indian ancestry . Im a 15 right now and need to talk to somebody about this cause I always felt like outsider and girls don't like me for real or just jealous of me
I have always been the Beyoncé in my life. I have always used her ambitious energy to help me get through obstacles and complete accomplishments. My ex friends (exes for good reason) would joke and call me the Beyoncé of the group. Little did I know they would attempt to sabotage me.
OMG IS THIS A THING? people used to call me the beyonce of my friend group as well! i used to be like wow they're trying to insult me 😂 but yes. i feel like whenever someone is talented and consistent theres no way she can also be beautiful. everything gets swept under the rug and "she only got to where she is because of her skin tone" smh
Beyonce is the number one social climber - she married a gatekeeper! To do collabs, you have to sleep with execs...... so by being with a gatekeeper, she is in control 100% without having to lie on her back
Its facts same as her dad picked other girls for her to stand out and he claimed he believed his whole life that light women are superior. I’m mixed and very light these are just facts
Keep lying
I remember seeing something about Beyoncé saying she wished she was Latina. I think that had to do with why she collaborated with Shakira and she showed Shakira had nothing on her in that Beautiful Liar video.
I like Kelly but let's be honest and call a thing a thing. Nobody would know who Kelly was if it weren't for Beyonce.
I watched her interview and i could see that she was triggered by the bey questions....But the women in the comments were trying to pour all the fake love toward Kelly by saying they are glad shes " taking her power back" and she "looks better" than bey or has "more talent" than bey🙄
I feel like Beyoncé has to pander to Kelly just to avoid blacklash from UADSBW.
You were in kindergarten when Beyoncé came out as a solo artist in 2003 or when she came out with Destiny's Child In 1997???
Destiny’s child. I’m 32.
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7:30 the today show situation is a great example of both parties being right. Kelly has a right to want superstar treatment AND the today show has a right to humble her and not give it to her. She didn’t have to come on the show and hence she walked off. I think this was a great example of everyone treating everyone else how they want to be treated. And I don’t think that was a bad thing. I think Kelly is a big enough star to want the big dressing room and I don’t think she wrong for walking off. But the today show didn’t think of her as a big enough star to offer the big dressing room. This might have more to do with her team. Mariah Carey for instance is known for diva treatment and makes all kinds of crazy requests and won’t appear if they aren’t met.
l’analyse est excellente, merci 👏🏽
It would be wonderful if black people (especially women) not only to stop living through entertainers but cease and desist with trying to bring back the otherwise dead Motown era; Beyonce is no more of the (despised) Diana Ross than Janet Jackson was. That being said: spot on.
Lies .beyonce is A star vocalist
This gave me even More Confidence and I'm a Black man and I always knew I Was Main Character Energy
I’m the Beyoncé of my family and my friends. I have family members that make snide comments til this day and it’s been like that since I was a child. I was always compared to one of my cousins when we were little and they would say she would look better than me when we got older. Let’s just say I’m STILL Beyoncé 😂
For sure I’ve been the Beyoncé my whole life since Kindergarten and still am respectfully 🙏.One time I’ll never forget was when I went to Beyonce’s Renaissance tour in Boston and decided to stay for a while to explore the city. I was supposed to meet for a tour and ended up missing my way and so I asked for help from this older man who was sitting in his big bus.. he got out and helped me with the meeting point..he asked me why I was here in Boston and I told him it was for the Beyoncé concert and he said.. “you look just like Beyoncé”😂ik that was a lie cuz ain’t no way I’m gonna look as good as her but it felt good that at least someone thought like that abt me. It felt nice.. lol
For sure the Beyonce 😩👑🎉
I’m not even the solange of my own life 😂
This is my safe space❤
you are so spot on!
Beyoncé. Not sad about it no more and getting better at it daily. Thanks for speaking on it.🎉❤
Art does imitate life, that is so real
I don't agree. You are definitely black women empowerment. I've felt more empowered and seen since I found you ❤❤❤❤
Thanks!
Omg thank you!
Can you talk about mixed and light skinned black women privilege
Wrong channel sis
Prince was also a mls men that had people trying to bring him down you should def talk abt him !
You better preach!!!
I honestly got that a lot, youre like the Beyonce of this event, group etc. Lol finals someone eho gets it
I’m not but I which I was the Beyonce of my environment 😅
Yes!
I am the Beyonce of my family ❤I feel so validated
Can you talk about the difference between biracial children from Black mothers and White mothers
She already have a video about that
@@Juliemaeblack what's the title?
I forgot the title, go through her videos @@advocatebusybee
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😂😂😂😂 oh my!
Definitely the Bey in my life 😂 all good tho 🤷🏽♀️
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Listen I ran into your channel by accident and I feel every word you are saying And this is coming from a young Black man born and raised in Miami I've been through this my whole life because I talk different dress different sing different listen to different music and don't follow crowds It be the older black generation I.E toxic people in my life and the guys be the most jealous of me I'm tall athletic body type and 6"3 they think because I wouldn't look like the type to fight or not defend myself so they get a rude awakening when I match they energy and back up like a coward I've been through it my whole life with my mom always been jealous of me and my siblings because I am private they barely know me and I take the different lead path in life without any validation.....So yes I've been through it and I know exactly what your coming from and people be projecting mighty hard and because you don't play they game I've always knew I was MAIN CHARACTER ENERGY BECAUSE WHEN I STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH THEM PEOPLE ASK THEM WHERE I'M AT BECAUSE THEY ARE A AFTERTHOUGHT THEY GET FAMOUS OFF OF ME OT BE LIKE THAT WHEN YOUR THE BEYONCE/ MICHAEL JACKSON OF THE GROUP