The Dougherty Dozen VS Just The Bells 10: Heather Puts The Kids FIRST Alicia Can't Relate

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  • @ileneglenn845
    @ileneglenn845 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Her kids also aren’t crude and rude and crass…they are polite and appropriate when speaking to their adult parent. They’re also cooperative, helpful, thankful and grateful.

    • @Lauras-Cozy-Grotto
      @Lauras-Cozy-Grotto ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That can come a lot from the child’s prior home and trauma that they experienced and when not addressed properly in the new home, that’s what you get. It’s the parents fault for not setting appropriate guidelines and working towards them by Being involved in a appropriate way. lushy just worries about the content so the kids just fend for themselves. Doesn’t seem to be any time for healthy healing for those kids. I really like seeing the kids proud and happy to be involved in the creation. ❤

  • @AbsurdExistentialist
    @AbsurdExistentialist ปีที่แล้ว +29

    For that birth-mother, having Heather in the room with her, probably solidified her decision. She probably went to bed that night at peace, knowing she chose the right person and did the right thing for the baby.

    • @troy7070
      @troy7070 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's exactly what I was thinking.

  • @nancymjo
    @nancymjo ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I also placed a baby up for adoption a decade ago. The parents that adopted my son where both in the room while I gave birth. Neither of them left my side and where amazing. We also have an open adoption and has been wonderful from the start.

  • @kellybeaulieu4723
    @kellybeaulieu4723 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Even if she doesn’t believe that her children are going to go to college…what about their future? If it’s not college why not a fund for future😅

  • @justadragonryu
    @justadragonryu ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Reminds me of that family that “returned” their adopted child. They were absolutely distraught they couldn’t film him when he first adopted him.

  • @Lauras-Cozy-Grotto
    @Lauras-Cozy-Grotto ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kids don’t need a perfect mom but they do need a mom that puts them first and tries damn hard to be involved and helps the kids, guides them etc. the Bells are a family, Lushy’s fam are supporting actors in a B movie.

  • @AnnaMDurrance
    @AnnaMDurrance ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Before I was a nurse, I worked in a hospital as a "patient sitter". I worked with a lot of females that tried to unalive themselves. I would tell them, you can talk about anything you want but I won't ask you, your story. That is your story and it is yours to tell or not tell. A lot of them were in the foster system and their pain was usually over having to go back home.

    • @randomphil8666
      @randomphil8666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wonder if that’s why older male “unalive” statistics are on the increase. When they are kids , males generally bottle up there issues more which then comes out during adulthood. Compared to females who seem to be able to talk a lot more in general. (Obviously there are outliers on each side).

    • @AnnaMDurrance
      @AnnaMDurrance ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @RandomPhil86 my half brother was 13yrs older than me and unalived himself just before his son was born because he had a messed up childhood.

  • @Beetroot_dard
    @Beetroot_dard ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh god, her talking about the hospital had me weeping.
    Birthing a baby is one of the most intense experiences you can have and then to give them up for adoption straight away. I couldn't imagine how emotional that would be. She is a true mum to be so kind and sensitive to the birth mother of her adopted child. 😢

  • @pass4pets434
    @pass4pets434 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That thing that slushie says at the beginning and the end makes my skin crawl 😩

  • @gigilou
    @gigilou ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I couldn't love Heather any more. Just the way she talks about her kids is incredibly heart warming. So empathetic and respectful to what her kids have been through before they got to her family. She's in a totally different league to Lushy. I'm really enjoying this content ❤️

  • @nojuanuknow
    @nojuanuknow ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is fun, I'm enjoying the new family--added bonus is it makes Chantal mad 😂😅🤣

  • @cakes789
    @cakes789 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm obsessed with Heather and the whole family now because of you Frenchie!!

  • @odinsvalkyrie7769
    @odinsvalkyrie7769 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    After seeing this one Tiktok, my family and I call charcuterie boards “carcoochie boards” lmao! I love making them! I make them for holidays and all major family events. I have a lot of beautiful big & small wooden boards just for that. It’s my fav ❤

  • @saranoh9979
    @saranoh9979 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I imagine FFG going all Garfield on their charcuterie board, lol. It looked soo good!

  • @KindVisionary
    @KindVisionary ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The world needs more loving and very kind people like Mrs Bell. She is angelic and gives me hope.

  • @FavaBeans_13
    @FavaBeans_13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Heather Bell and her family. ❤

  • @squidgy2595
    @squidgy2595 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Total opposites between the two moms , also 😮that food looked amazing 😂😋😋😋

  • @kp-ue3xn
    @kp-ue3xn ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes, yes, yes!! I have been waiting patiently. Thank you!! Love this new content..

  • @maryjayneslate902
    @maryjayneslate902 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    D even asked for time with family for Christmas.

  • @LittleRed770
    @LittleRed770 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think it just shows what a strong hold that social media can on a person.

  • @kerricollins3838
    @kerricollins3838 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mrs bell is the best mom Alicia is the short mom don't care about her kids only money she lives she don't what love is

  • @JamesNYCGuy3
    @JamesNYCGuy3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Feta.
    I choose VIOLENCE!
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aliengreeneyes0727
    @aliengreeneyes0727 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my god I love Heather. And she has the best name!

  • @designereyebags
    @designereyebags ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i think the best thing i’ve heard about adoption is that it’s for children who NEED families, not parents who WANT children

  • @matchbox420.
    @matchbox420. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She definitely seems better than Lushy, but there is something I can’t put my finger on that rubs me the wrong way. I haven’t been able to figure out what it is yet.

    • @FrenchFriedGorl
      @FrenchFriedGorl  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same tbh. BUT when it comes to respecting her kids on YT, I have nothing negative to say

    • @matchbox420.
      @matchbox420. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FrenchFriedGorl true!!

    • @troy7070
      @troy7070 ปีที่แล้ว

      THIS 💯💯

  • @nae_folk810
    @nae_folk810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @French Fried Gorl I Swear Alicia Took Down Her CLOCK 🕠 In The Kitchen Cause Of Your Video.... IM DYIN 🤣

  • @jaimereynolds258
    @jaimereynolds258 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've always wanted to foster children. I think it is such a loving thing to do. Just to give them a place to feel safe and cared for.

  • @animalsarelove82
    @animalsarelove82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Heather. She reminds me of my childhood foster mother. So caring and kind putting the kids first. Alicia needs to take some pointers. Thanks for introducing Heather to us 🍟❤️

    • @ssjess2504
      @ssjess2504 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry you had to go through foster care but so glad to hear you had a good family

    • @animalsarelove82
      @animalsarelove82 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ssjess2504 thanks. Me and my sister were fortunate to have a kind Foster family. They had 6 kids of their own living there as well. Again thanks for the comment

  • @missingmimic
    @missingmimic ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk where is Heather's *husband* where is the man of the house 🤣

  • @misssnobooty
    @misssnobooty ปีที่แล้ว

    33:29 I JUST LOVE HER

  • @kerricollins3838
    @kerricollins3838 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heather should Pope her own catering business it's great team work

  • @bengalaa
    @bengalaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FFG ilu and i and i'm loving th is content, so glad we're stepping away from chantal. let her fade away

  • @TracyLeaBeauty
    @TracyLeaBeauty ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It looks like she needs someone who takes care of ethnic hair for one of her daughters. My daughter has super curly hair and I had no idea what to do with her hair!!! I had to find someone who knew how to cut curly hair or they will eff their hair up!!!! Her daughter looks like she needs some hair products!🌺🌺🌺

  • @mudslicker3122
    @mudslicker3122 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t know if I can embrace non-trainwreck content. I come out sweating after an aLUSHa video. Heather gives me the impression all is fine in the Midwest, so my services are not needed there. 😬

  • @Markelee729
    @Markelee729 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the DCP who said take the kids off and see how well these FV will survive. Look at Mya Knight… she took her kids off and lost a TON of followers…

  • @susanelliott6586
    @susanelliott6586 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats a frigging full on buffet.

  • @jaimereynolds258
    @jaimereynolds258 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think if she does have a bit of an anger issue, and quick to snap, at least she is able to point out what pushes those buttons, and adjust her sh*t. I think that is a good ability to have.

  • @theresacross
    @theresacross ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just absolutely respect Heather! Love her! She is the example we all should live up to!,,,,

  • @brooklyn_716
    @brooklyn_716 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    FFG I have to agree by the last video the Bell's definitely seem like a better family. But for 1 1/2 hours of watching I was hoping to see more videos of the family instead of the mother just biatching on video honestly. I've been following since you've been reacting. I thought this video was going to be a side by side comparison about the two families or mother's.

  • @teresarutherford9580
    @teresarutherford9580 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a new subscriber! I love this content! 💯 time to get minty 😻

  • @MegaBreloom
    @MegaBreloom ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow Heather is the complete opposite of Uhlishuh. Also that charcuterie plate looks so amazing omg. I would make myself sick on that 🤤

    • @ssjess2504
      @ssjess2504 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uhlishuh 🤣🤣🤣 that's the first time I've seen it spelled that way. I'm dying lmao

  • @D.VA_00
    @D.VA_00 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s not HillBilly talk that’s Midwest Suburb talk

  • @irenek2k20
    @irenek2k20 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hot Roast with Frenchie!🍟❤🍟❤

  • @jordiflower
    @jordiflower ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it was Ocean City!

  • @KonKan25
    @KonKan25 ปีที่แล้ว

    and what is she (ALicia) makes locals - such as Biological Parents of the kids, or even like plumbers, etc, to force them to sign a NDA - non disclosure agreement - like saying in a stipulation - they CAN NOT talk about her Vlogs to others. and her Lawyers make sure she does this. this could be dangerous, right?? I am STILL Baffled about the issue with Josh driving a track team student LATE at night at 1130pm. to his house (while ALicia is in a different room) and driving the Student back home at 1130pm - this is a BIG NO NO. well i think. but they have Lawyers so they perhaps can get away with anything perhaps. I dunno. disgusting.

  • @kerricollins3838
    @kerricollins3838 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Alicia stole heather idea of charm broad she using it now

  • @MissBrittany86
    @MissBrittany86 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the bells they are so much better than the Dockerty dozen

  • @AndrewJones816
    @AndrewJones816 ปีที่แล้ว

    WORSH YER SISTER SAUCE XD!!!! :O!!!! YOU SAID IT RIGHT AT THE END!!! SEE

  • @octaviaavbrown
    @octaviaavbrown ปีที่แล้ว

    for the new intro you should do white claws wegmans white claws wegmans 1:11

  • @trippin6118
    @trippin6118 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this.

  • @heleenzuidhof8780
    @heleenzuidhof8780 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey girl, i keep missing these lives. I am not feeling so well. I got an ear infection which will not go away. I need these laughs, but have no energy to stay awake for it. (different time zones). Replay gang.

  • @oneofmanykats
    @oneofmanykats ปีที่แล้ว

    Well this might be my first Frenchy vid to make me cry. She absolutely did the right thing by making sure the kids aren't surprised by their adoption. I wish every adoptive parent did that as adoptees are already incredibly sensitive and much more vulnerable to mental health issues. My parents did the same thing and I'm grateful I don't remember finding out I was adopted and that I somehow always knew.
    I found my bio Mom a few years ago from 23and me and she recently ODed at the end of December. This sounds silly and dramatic but if my Mom that raised me had been in the room with her, spent time with her, and if we had an open adoption it's more likely she would still be alive. Adoption is so hard on the Mom and the child but a closed adoption is even more devistating. My bios grandfather forced her into a closed adoption and while I am incredibly grateful his decision lead me to my amazing family, it definitely ruined her life. I hate that I had to cut her out of my life because her addiction was unsafe for my sobriety, but I am really grateful I got to know her and my siblings before she left us.
    Despite the tragedy of loosing their mother that my siblings are going through... the good news is we are all now sober and extremely close. I have watched them get sober over the last few years and I am the proudest big sister on the planet!
    Anyway, adoption just causes so much pain and it is really wonderful to see someone going above and beyond to make it easier. ❤️

  • @westcoastgorl2266
    @westcoastgorl2266 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wus ter.. sure ..

  • @sarahjaye4117
    @sarahjaye4117 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks delish unlike the junk food

  • @traciworrick8124
    @traciworrick8124 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dockerty lushy should give her kids a allowance if she wants to have her kids on camera all the time

  • @carolynpagano659
    @carolynpagano659 ปีที่แล้ว

    if you are tired. take a break

  • @lynnkeller251
    @lynnkeller251 ปีที่แล้ว

    Frenchie, speaking as someone from Michigan, why are you questioning our butchering of the French language? You’re a hockey fan. You know what we did to “Detroit.”

  • @vegheadcat2260
    @vegheadcat2260 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you say worcestershire kills me especially the worcester part because I'm from worcester MA. Wister is usually the pronunciation. Some here say Wooster but my area we say wister.

  • @AndrewJones816
    @AndrewJones816 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have to have your core be able to self reflect... I don't see lushy as having one.... the manipulation is so huge, and extensive... She'd have to loose everything... get all the kids taken away... the money to dwindle... n for JASH to leave... i feel only then... at rock bottom... there would be a slight possibility... even then i truly don't think she values the kids or JASH... i think they're just pawns... to her.. little cash cows -shrug- my opinion...

  • @wheeliemum6253
    @wheeliemum6253 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't watch either of them other than through you but this obsession from Heather of the parents be healthy is gross! For the majority of my kids childhood (6 through to over 20) there was genuine question as to my survival. I was a single parent and did a lot of parenting from bed. I was still absolutely the right person to raise them. They are 24 now and thriving. My daughter will qualify as a doctor this year, Son has flown and having a blast in his life.
    Being sick, being a wheelchair user, needing daily living assistance does not a bad parent make!

  • @rlstark09
    @rlstark09 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hear me out… I know you’re trying to get away from the foodie beauty drama and that’s probably a good thing but I don’t find this content. Very entertaining. I’m sorry, I’m just being honest. I love your content otherwise , I’m just saying lol

  • @maryjayneslate902
    @maryjayneslate902 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please check out the Ballinger Family. It is a mom, dad and 6 kids. They have been online for years and they encourage their kids to follow their dreams like their oldest son is 13 and into engineering and legos, their daughter is the oldest and 15 and she likes reading and music theater, their 9 year old likes gymnastics and is mini Miranda Sings. I think they are a good family vlogging channel. Their oldest son even has his own channel that he does like recipes and engineering. Just a thought for another family to consider as a good family.

  • @AnneIglesias
    @AnneIglesias ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for introducing us to the Bells, Frenchie. I took a look at her pantry video and I subbed right away. Her organization and responsible shopping had me dropping my jaw, I loved almost all of it (except after a rewatch, I noticed that she consumes Young Living and that culty stuff freaks me out. Biggest negative about her so far other than the virtue signaling). Foodie’s trainwrecks are fun to watch on your lives, but I do need some doses of sanity in my sub box.

    • @coraline1503
      @coraline1503 ปีที่แล้ว

      u need a life!

    • @AnneIglesias
      @AnneIglesias ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coraline1503 I have one, thanks. I don’t watch television after finishing my work and getting my little one to bed, I just listen to TH-cam while I do house chores.

  • @finni-h2x
    @finni-h2x ปีที่แล้ว

    Frenchie! Worcestershire is pronounced WU-STUH -SHR
    If you google it - you get a recording of it in American and British..

  • @SusieQinNewOrleansLA504
    @SusieQinNewOrleansLA504 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did Heather put out these videos before or after the criticism of Alicia blew up? Heather is hitting point by point all of the major of criticisms of Alicia's channel. Seems she is trying to distance herself from Alicia's channel so people won't go after her next. Heather is guilty of doing some of the same things Alicia does and she knows it. Heather is attempting to save face here.

  • @indy1972
    @indy1972 ปีที่แล้ว

    Replay Gang Gang! ❤🍟

  • @tinkthestrange
    @tinkthestrange ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m dying at you complaining about her mispronouncing charcuterie. We don’t have a lot of French down here, and many Americans can barely speak English as it is. Plus we think it’s cute and quirky to mispronounce things. 😂

  • @laurscrayz1
    @laurscrayz1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You had me until this. Pitting large family moms against each other and saying one is better than the other.. just no. At the end of the day, everything we see on the internet by any creator is planned and purposefully projects the image they want us to see. Until these people start live streaming 24/7 like Chantal, there’s no way to know what is really happening in either “big family” house. Just the bells is in all likelihood the same type of weirdo that Alicia is. I have a lot of friends who are moms, and exactly zero of them film their children’s lives and upload it onto the internet for strangers to watch

  • @elizascarlet3654
    @elizascarlet3654 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Different strokes for different folks. I cannot stand The Bell 10 content. They are religious and Conservative…hard pass. They cater to a certain crowd and that’s why they’ll never get close to the number of subs The DD has.
    By contrast, Alicia wears Pride gear, celebrates Juneteenth, proudly displays Nevaeh’s pan flags, and lets each kid be their true selves. Yeah, I’ll take the DD any day. ❤

    • @keski-ika
      @keski-ika ปีที่แล้ว

      Heather makes better food than Alicia and her kids are on videos if they want. But I’m not sure if kids feel safe to tell their thoughts to so conservative mom. I hate the fact that she is a Trump supporter.
      Alicia is awful mom, she exploits her kids, tells all their secrets in TH-cam, cooks awful food, drinks, doesn’t clean the house etc. still I think she isn’t that conservative.

    • @heatherrae4126
      @heatherrae4126 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t think the Bells care about subs. She has great cooking content and is more relatable than the Dougherty’s that spend thousands on Christmas gifts and food.

    • @citydweller99
      @citydweller99 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alicia virtue signaling doesn't make one a good person

    • @jaimereynolds258
      @jaimereynolds258 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@citydweller99 Exactly.

    • @Cutieexorcist
      @Cutieexorcist ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for saying this I got The Vibes and then she pulled out her bible... obviously she still has at least the mental health issues that could come from fostering handled but there might still be some issues from a prejudiced upbringing. So both ladies get a point. But the overall Score says take your children off the internet entirely.

  • @coraline1503
    @coraline1503 ปีที่แล้ว

    why hyping JTB? they arnt perfect neither? driving while recording, amazon wishlist, promoring their 'special' child J. they arnt so much better than alusha!