When I Was Afraid of Girls

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  • @T-Jex
    @T-Jex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8655

    "She's just standing there...
    *MENACINGLY* "

    • @7OwlsWithALaptop
      @7OwlsWithALaptop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      NANI?

    • @wolfm8097
      @wolfm8097 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      “GET OUTTA THERE SPONGEBOB!!!” Haha love that quote

    • @DashFlashTheLife
      @DashFlashTheLife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOVELIVESERVE

    • @matiss2218
      @matiss2218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Is that jojo reference

    • @kinginrags1202
      @kinginrags1202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      ゴゴゴゴ

  • @yami6256
    @yami6256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16723

    "I'm coming to your school tomorrow."
    " *h a h a* , no you're *N O T* "

    • @wittyname3599
      @wittyname3599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

      Invasion 100

    • @jovantosic2119
      @jovantosic2119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      I wanna like but it's at the devils number and I wanna keep it that way

    • @yami6256
      @yami6256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@jovantosic2119 thank you I love you

    • @jovantosic2119
      @jovantosic2119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@yami6256 fck, it reached 667 already. Goddammit... LoL

    • @no-wd5nk
      @no-wd5nk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Its 998 now

  • @elflux888
    @elflux888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18751

    Girl: Oh, you're approaching me? Instead of running awa...
    Mattias: *runs away*

    • @nkyiem
      @nkyiem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      Nah its the other was around lmao

    • @neyney1664
      @neyney1664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

      nigerundayo!

    • @tarpulin8179
      @tarpulin8179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

      Mattias is a joestar confirmed

    • @hibosmo
      @hibosmo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@tarpulin8179 LOL

    • @cheez4233
      @cheez4233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      joestar secret technique

  • @Heidegaff
    @Heidegaff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8129

    So the moral is, *you were perfectly justified being afraid of girls since one was effectively stalking you, knowing where you went to school and where you lived despite never telling her.*

    • @ilililil490
      @ilililil490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

      There is a public registry in sweden where theres information about every citizen there. Idk about minors doe.

    • @pop5705
      @pop5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +777

      @@ilililil490 They also meet because of a friend in common, she could've just asked that friend.

    • @animeuniverse5586
      @animeuniverse5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      @@pop5705but still its creepy since house address is something only the person who lives in it should know.

    • @braziliantsar
      @braziliantsar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@animeuniverse5586 What?

    • @animeuniverse5586
      @animeuniverse5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      @@braziliantsar idk what i was thinking while typing such a great sentence.

  • @user-zi8lg5qu1h
    @user-zi8lg5qu1h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3528

    "Some girl is asking for you"
    "We both know it's a lie, what are you up to dad"

    • @Nayhan123
      @Nayhan123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You got likes thought I’d tell you

    • @hazzesanimations8212
      @hazzesanimations8212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol true

    • @byeheaven
      @byeheaven 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      1,4k likes and only 3 comments??

    • @Josh-pn5wg
      @Josh-pn5wg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Best comment in this section for sure

    • @shinchanthebest
      @shinchanthebest 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@byeheaven let's not reply to it- oh well did

  • @colagesicht
    @colagesicht 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4240

    2:33 Are you winning son?

    • @Snas2430
      @Snas2430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Lol

    • @alivesalad4064
      @alivesalad4064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Fons van der Linden bruh, same

    • @ibakedyouapie5341
      @ibakedyouapie5341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS LMAOOO

    • @kayyola5594
      @kayyola5594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ooooh i get it

    • @descar.G
      @descar.G 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ctrl v same

  • @tesculeanuandrei6744
    @tesculeanuandrei6744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8772

    Dudes say things like: ''Girls give mixed signals and I don't get them''
    Also dudes: this video

  • @crispyybaconx
    @crispyybaconx ปีที่แล้ว +152

    "All women are agents of the state. Any and all contact must be avoided"

    • @lizythewizzmeow2621
      @lizythewizzmeow2621 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And we avoid you.

    • @crispyybaconx
      @crispyybaconx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lizythewizzmeow2621 !ky5

    • @crispyybaconx
      @crispyybaconx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lizythewizzmeow2621 go back to the kitchen

    • @crispyybaconx
      @crispyybaconx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@lizythewizzmeow2621 ☕️

    • @Ujulahipobaka121
      @Ujulahipobaka121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@lizythewizzmeow2621 Mah maan Just got Roasted

  • @roloboog
    @roloboog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11363

    That girl is definitely the antagonist of a horror movie.

    • @joditiarsutrisno5556
      @joditiarsutrisno5556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +200

      You mean yandere ?

    • @EnDeRBeaT
      @EnDeRBeaT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

      @@joditiarsutrisno5556 he means the fucking monster

    • @abhishekpadhye4337
      @abhishekpadhye4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Haha

    • @drakesayshi3321
      @drakesayshi3321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

      Mostly because they found his school+ house wtf

    • @mikz4782
      @mikz4782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@EnDeRBeaT LMFAO

  • @AutismoCentral
    @AutismoCentral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2407

    "Someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." -> important lesson

  • @raseruuu3742
    @raseruuu3742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2309

    Me, a virgin:
    "I love you too, pretty stalker girl who i totally did not give my address to!"

    • @subscribetopewdiepie5259
      @subscribetopewdiepie5259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Will be a waste not to

    • @datpoyo4900
      @datpoyo4900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      You Wont Be A Virgin If She Goes To Your Bedroom The Second Date

    • @gbm6882
      @gbm6882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      honestly yandere works for me, I’d die for a solicitor given time

    • @AnnaHans88
      @AnnaHans88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is why I sometimes wish I was a dude

    • @thalassaer4137
      @thalassaer4137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@AnnaHans88 Get in my van

  • @hazzesanimations8212
    @hazzesanimations8212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    1:32 "and she's standing there..."
    *"M E N A C I N G L Y"*

  • @star-manrainbowstar336
    @star-manrainbowstar336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4347

    Mattias: Doesn't remember literal first date
    Also Mattias: Remembers the price of said date
    I think I could be Mattias

    • @zipity2782
      @zipity2782 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I think he meant more of a general feel of the price, and how it was more expensive than expected.

    • @kingyouki5904
      @kingyouki5904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Star-Man RainbowStar as my mother would say “Just like a man”

    • @kalamitoRUS
      @kalamitoRUS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zipity2782 Hmmm money is to me more important than social relationships. Lol my dear money i love you!

    • @ReadToasts
      @ReadToasts 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alright, you're allowed to be A Mathias, but not THE Mathias

  • @de132
    @de132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15169

    I'm coming to your school tomorrow.

    • @markmcculfor6113
      @markmcculfor6113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +703

      You better not buddy

    • @lakamokolaka
      @lakamokolaka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +397

      @@markmcculfor6113 Why? He will take me to a cafe if I do and will run because I exist.
      What do I have to lose?

    • @NA-rz2qf
      @NA-rz2qf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +486

      hahaha you’re kidding; right?

    • @anasxo1
      @anasxo1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      no god please no no

    • @seanseanston
      @seanseanston 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Maybe it's the alternate universe version of the classic threat...
      "Some of you guys aren't alright; I'm not coming to your school tomorrow."

  • @dystrophic
    @dystrophic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23083

    Dude... didn't you ask her how she found your school and your house? You didn't find that creepy and weird?

    • @MattiasPilhede
      @MattiasPilhede  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10461

      I didn't at the time, but I think she contacted one of my friends and asked them. Even now I haven't asked her.

    • @OufTarek
      @OufTarek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5090

      @@MattiasPilhede She's a hacker!
      *anime plot intensifies*

    • @nathanhollow0
      @nathanhollow0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2917

      @@MattiasPilhede This anime is deeper than i thought

    • @racvv
      @racvv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +915

      Do it and then tell us. It's a perfect OVA... kind of

    • @eggblade4191
      @eggblade4191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +677

      NEED SEASON 2 ASAP!

  • @gabrielemilani9066
    @gabrielemilani9066 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "And then it stopped. It's raining now" BRO WTF I'VE ALMOST CRYED

  • @felixyoung1482
    @felixyoung1482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5061

    Mathias anime TAGs: romantic, psicologic, yandere, comedy, slice of life.

    • @pairez1041
      @pairez1041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Im coming to your home tomorrow

    • @fideldog1
      @fideldog1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Pairez I’m coming to your room tomarrow

    • @howtyplcal350
      @howtyplcal350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      The grammar police are coming to this comment section.

    • @Unit-sg1wc
      @Unit-sg1wc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It's nhentai lol

    • @g00tard
      @g00tard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What about going to srekx

  • @thisguyispeculiar
    @thisguyispeculiar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2308

    He was around 14 when all of this happened.
    *_laughs in single_*

    • @PanzerMan332
      @PanzerMan332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      *laughs in not ever having a girlfriend in all 20 years of life*

    • @scoundrel7011
      @scoundrel7011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@PanzerMan332 Same

    • @nikosgreekman8812
      @nikosgreekman8812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@PanzerMan332All 21 years here

    • @gum307
      @gum307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      guys, i had no girlfriend until i was 28. and i had similar cringe moments with girls. when i decided to not give a fuck about them (not in an ignorant childish way) and enjoy my life, they started to approche ME. also please don't think you are worth less because you have no girlfriend...thats bullshit and kills your confidence

    • @theburgersystem126
      @theburgersystem126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I didn’t have moments like this until I was 15/16 ish

  • @Awesomepedia
    @Awesomepedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5256

    Hey Mattias I have a pamphlet for you to read about stalking

    • @fendelt838
      @fendelt838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Wait is this actually going to happen

    • @isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343
      @isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      456 like and heart 2 comments

    • @jdawg9722
      @jdawg9722 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The Reynolds Pamphlet

    • @RoseOnFire
      @RoseOnFire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@jdawg9722 Alexander Hamilton had a torrent affair, and he wrote it down right there

    • @weirdguywithamouth5105
      @weirdguywithamouth5105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Highlights!

  • @simelstre-512
    @simelstre-512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +582

    There was a girl who I had a crush on for my entire 8th grade year. I was lucky enough to actually become friends with her, to an extent. Friends enough that we ended up working on a poster-making project, I don’t remember exactly what it was. Together. Just the two of us. I spent almost the whole time being scared and awkward, staying at a distance from her even though we couldn’t work on the poster at the same time that way. God, I felt like such a fool. I was making myself look both awkward AND lazy because I wasn’t helping as much with the poster. I still remember that day every now and then. It’s just something that stays with you, I guess.
    I was also too scared to ask her to sign my yearbook at the end of the year, even though I spent the entire earlier part of the day psyching myself up for it. She went to a different high school than me, so those were my last memories with her. Even if I wanted to, I’ll never forget these things. They’re as precious to me as they are cringey and painful, I cared about that girl so much. That‘s my experience being scared of girls, I hope it means something to someone reading this.

    • @myftpuqtsm
      @myftpuqtsm ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Kinda had the same experience but i moved countries instead of high schools

    • @ThatLandonSmith
      @ThatLandonSmith ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It meant something to me.

    • @Shadow-ew3je
      @Shadow-ew3je ปีที่แล้ว +6

      awww

    • @-_deploy_-
      @-_deploy_- ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn bro

    • @rileyowen7245
      @rileyowen7245 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro your not alone I had similar experiences 😢 I had a crush too but never could tell her. I hated myself for being so afraid. Next time please don't be afraid to tell her

  • @tatago580
    @tatago580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12068

    The real lesson: "Life is not an anime."

    • @joditiarsutrisno5556
      @joditiarsutrisno5556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

      *me looking at Promised Neverland
      "Sure it is"

    • @surmminthcv0895
      @surmminthcv0895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Only empty people think it is

    • @hussein7517
      @hussein7517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I sure wish it was. I'm 22 and have never been with a girl and i don't think I'll ever be with one. Being in an anime could change that

    • @hilton_chloe.e
      @hilton_chloe.e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@joditiarsutrisno5556 umm ok sure ... 😤

    • @Michael-zg4ig
      @Michael-zg4ig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      @@hussein7517 I dont think so, with that mentality you would probably be a side character

  • @RigbyWilde
    @RigbyWilde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7505

    Actually I believe that girl never existed and was only his imagination. That would be a good example of fighting shyness

    • @lavascopersecondaccount3099
      @lavascopersecondaccount3099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Kkkk mds Rigby

    • @enderwigin7976
      @enderwigin7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I really wish that that could happen to me..

    • @nayan7398
      @nayan7398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      that's what i was thinking the whole time

    • @Ocer.
      @Ocer. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's dumb

    • @sinoidal5683
      @sinoidal5683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats the correct assumption of what happen and why this vídeo is calles shyness boy with girl when he gets a girl un love with him

  • @cliffworsfold1994
    @cliffworsfold1994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9257

    WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW SHE ROCKED UP TO BOTH HIS SCHOOL AND HIS HOUSE WITHOUT HIM TELLING HER WHERE THEY WERE?

    • @sulpherbratigh7936
      @sulpherbratigh7936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1254

      Well she's a friend of his friend, perhaps she just asked the friend where he lives

    • @sulpherbratigh7936
      @sulpherbratigh7936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +531

      @EZO EZ Both of them are around 14, Pedophilla is out of the question even if they switched genders, Creep stalker is possible but it would only start to seem suspicious if they stays around after being given no answer to their confession, in this case she backed off and likely never sees him again because she was hurt

    • @Dragiux
      @Dragiux 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      If you know someone's name and last name, you can find where they live in sweden, because it's public information.

    • @yb0805hw
      @yb0805hw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Well she’s not gonna kill or rape him like men do

    • @basegod442
      @basegod442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      @@yb0805hw Huh?

  • @jd7634
    @jd7634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    My man had a girl simping for him and his reaction was *"I don't know what to do with my hands."*

    • @wiseboi_1149
      @wiseboi_1149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      More like "Stan"ing

  • @aliberkozderya3112
    @aliberkozderya3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4120

    A very personal and emotional video is about to end,
    Mattias: And I could finally say...
    Me: Oh he is just about to say something very profound and meaningful about life
    Mattias: Thank god life is not anime
    He does this in every video and it still catches me off guard

    • @jevonbatti
      @jevonbatti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I feel ya buddy

    • @fallenangel9614
      @fallenangel9614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ali Berk ÖZDERYA chough chough this story is very close to a something that happened to me just didn’t meet her on the internet

    • @aliberkozderya3112
      @aliberkozderya3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@fallenangel9614 how did you meet her then?

    • @fallenangel9614
      @fallenangel9614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ali Berk ÖZDERYA school

    • @aliberkozderya3112
      @aliberkozderya3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@fallenangel9614 lol of course the school, for some reason I was expecting something very unusual. I was like scratching my head thinking "what can it possibly be if it is not the internet?". Anyway, hope it is a good memory for you. Take care

  • @nietlars5563
    @nietlars5563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11171

    And my dad comes in and says...
    Are ya winning son?

    • @nicoldiaz9579
      @nicoldiaz9579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +286

      HAHAHAHA I THOUGHT THE SAME

    • @millionchic18
      @millionchic18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      I want to join "I thought the same" gang

    • @Σκιά-γ2ι
      @Σκιά-γ2ι 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Made the likes 69

    • @user-su6js9po4l
      @user-su6js9po4l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      no dad i will be forever alone

    • @bodiller9422
      @bodiller9422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      This is what I want more than girls

  • @agnel47
    @agnel47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2401

    I can relate.
    I'm 28.

    • @ein8539
      @ein8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Lol. Listen to After Hours by Velvet Underground

    • @mh4624
      @mh4624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @I’m Okay Are you really okay?

    • @blinkcatmeowmeow8484
      @blinkcatmeowmeow8484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      M H his name says he is

    • @decay2__
      @decay2__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 so he's not 28?

    • @blinkcatmeowmeow8484
      @blinkcatmeowmeow8484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      D. Khulu Nkabinde hes both 28 and Okay.

  • @gmalecastro9976
    @gmalecastro9976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +746

    Loved your illustrations, Matthias. They almost tell a story all their own. You should consider animating them as children’s stories (which, by the way, work excellently for adults, too). Best wishes!

    • @Cellulolytic
      @Cellulolytic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I read that as illusions and I thought you were saying he was like schizo or something. I'm way too sleep deprived for this

    • @ahmedwael3971
      @ahmedwael3971 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro get some sleep😭
      @@Cellulolytic

  • @thatonepersonthatwritesess7157
    @thatonepersonthatwritesess7157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1250

    “I just talked to a girl!”
    *Didn’t actually talk*

    • @ginoyesano5649
      @ginoyesano5649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Haha, is that a My Hero Academia reference?!?

    • @yipp-7841
      @yipp-7841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ginoyesano5649 yep

    • @Madness_intheotherworld
      @Madness_intheotherworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love whoever wrote this comment.

    • @amosp9411
      @amosp9411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MHA xD

  • @pointynoodle
    @pointynoodle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1620

    "She confessed that she actually liked me."
    Bro no way

    • @AC-mp7cx
      @AC-mp7cx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      i wish they lived happily ever after

    • @jersonryan9269
      @jersonryan9269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@AC-mp7cx 6:35

    • @vens1337
      @vens1337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      If a girl would look in my general direction for more than 10 seconds I'd be happy for the day.

    • @pointynoodle
      @pointynoodle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@vens1337 Trust me, you really don't. I've been in your position and you really don't want that.

    • @vens1337
      @vens1337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@pointynoodle Man, Ive rarely talked to a girl aside from a few words here and there for the past, like, 6-7 months. I want female interaction, and its not like im nervous or anything, i just dont have anything to say in the same way i do with dudes. Then again, i also rarely talk to people i dont know unless they approach me, so whatev for me.

  • @janbertguerrero6988
    @janbertguerrero6988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2504

    Other title: "A Stalker Cured My Anxiety"

  • @aramisortsbottcher8201
    @aramisortsbottcher8201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Can relate. In kindergarten and primary school I had some female friends, that changed in secondary school. In the last years I even had a reputation of being a mysogenist or something as I was rude? I simply did not know how to deal with girls, the "sit as far away as possible"-scenario happened to me aswell. Then, in December 2019 I was invited to a friend and he had a girl invited aswell, we did not know each other - the first time in 5 years or so I meat a girl outside of school. It went ok and as we had the same friends we saw each other here and there. She once said we would be friends, but honestly I don't think so, I mean... if only we two are together somewhere we can talk for an hour and then there is just akward silence... not what I would call a friend. Yet she is the closest I was to a girl in a long time. So I still don't know how to handle them, but it got better. And now there is Corona - problem solved XD
    Also I have a female penfriend in Canada, it works. Luckily I live in Europe, so chances are I'll never see her.
    It is wierd, isn't it? I can write to a girl, but as soon as there is one physically present my brain is in "girl-mode" and I don't know how to behave. I'm glad I don't miss it, so I don't "suffer".

  • @kargovroom7701
    @kargovroom7701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7165

    Dude same, im also afraid of girls...
    And boys.
    I have social anxiety
    Y'all, I appreciate the advice and sympathy, but I don't have social anxiety. I didn't know what social anxiety was when I wrote this. At the time, I thought I had social anxiety, but no, I was just really awkward.✌

    • @espiritodasinceridade7848
      @espiritodasinceridade7848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      Do meditation, It will help a lot

    • @lightsfeed9541
      @lightsfeed9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      Yeah....It's sweating like sweating about talking to guys ...and having a full blown fever and wicked adrenaline rush for talking to girls.

    • @espiritodasinceridade7848
      @espiritodasinceridade7848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@lightsfeed9541 I understand, I was like that but I'm good now, and my life is much better.

    • @spooderdan9127
      @spooderdan9127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I also have social anxiety but thats from dealing with assholes a lot. Thats why I hate people in general

    • @notacaml8303
      @notacaml8303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Then don’t have social anxiety

  • @chopin65
    @chopin65 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1619

    Your Dad has a villain mustache? Does he twirl it and make demands about paying the rent?

    • @thelyricguy2497
      @thelyricguy2497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Vladimir Lenin 😂

    • @chopin65
      @chopin65 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Vladimir Lenin Oh. Okay.

    • @KrazyProductions
      @KrazyProductions 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      it's a me WARIOOOO

    • @MrFram
      @MrFram 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Vladimir Lenin What kind of parties..? **mushroom party intensifies**

    • @jekesan4221
      @jekesan4221 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Does he ask if his son is winning tho?

  • @Nyangamer-nk8ri
    @Nyangamer-nk8ri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    Anime brought them together...but anime also broke them apart...

    • @pavelvolya5366
      @pavelvolya5366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Who is the Anime.

    • @abeke5523
      @abeke5523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      God giveth, god taketh away

    • @duckduckbobo5208
      @duckduckbobo5208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@abeke5523 Therefore, anime is God

    • @Sudask555
      @Sudask555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Anime only hurts you. And make you cringe when you look back

    • @therockcims4166
      @therockcims4166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Anime is shit

  • @danielawesome36
    @danielawesome36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    The stuff they did feels low-key like an actual date.

  • @hyerikalee6688
    @hyerikalee6688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1564

    Homer: Marge, I'm confused, is this a happy ending or a sad ending?
    Marge: It's an ending, that's enough.

    • @Nayhan123
      @Nayhan123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You got likes thought I’d tell you

    • @mooganify
      @mooganify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Oh man I can hear that

    • @sibro4747
      @sibro4747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I remember that episode

    • @tlotro625
      @tlotro625 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eh, I mean, good experience comes from bad experiences, it's learning that makes it good.

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@tlotro625good lessons from bad experiences. F me and my life if I was enjoying the bad experiences that taught me.

  • @boats_r_cool
    @boats_r_cool 5 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    *girl shows up at home uninvited, without being told where home is*
    Welcome inside

    • @nemudere
      @nemudere 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      me at my crush's bday be like:

  • @El-bq9rk
    @El-bq9rk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2876

    It’s hilarious how guys always say that girls are “difficult to understand”
    But guys in their teens apparently show feelings by moving their chair very far away from you and/or running away on the first meeting!

    • @thedarkship8035
      @thedarkship8035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +312

      Yeah and some guys say that maybe, we should just not make huge generalisation about large groups of people.

    • @benryangarcia
      @benryangarcia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      He never said he liked the girl. He was uncomfortable so he behaved uncomfortably. Logic checks out.

    • @DanTKD87
      @DanTKD87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Seems like those tactics worked put pretty good lol
      Oh wait I saw the ending

    • @El-bq9rk
      @El-bq9rk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      TheDarkShip True but my comment was supposed a joke about about generalizations

    • @El-bq9rk
      @El-bq9rk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Benjamin Garcia Might’ve been true with the second girl (even though he did say that they were at least friends white texting eachother before she came to his school)
      But with the first girl he also specifically said that bc he got nervous around girls he moved his chair far away from her making her think he’s mad at her even though he wasn’t.

  • @tamro9701
    @tamro9701 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I let anxiety control my life, I avoided all social interactions and anything that could possibly make me uncomfortable. Now at age 23, my reward is no friends, no social skills, and worse anxiety. The path of least resistance is a path to nowhere.

    • @Sun-God2
      @Sun-God2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm going through the same situation, and I'm only 17

    • @tamro9701
      @tamro9701 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Sun-God2 I wish I could go back and fucking beg my 17 year old self to just try reaching out to people no matter how awkward and painful it feels.

    • @Monica_Leigh
      @Monica_Leigh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When I was 23 I was exactly like you, but guess what? Now I'm 40 and I'm still the same. Surprise!

    • @man.i.literally.failed6772
      @man.i.literally.failed6772 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same spot at 43😥life suck's

  • @nadri3335
    @nadri3335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4079

    The most infuriating love history that I ever heard.

    • @heyhoe168
      @heyhoe168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      You mean "never had"?

    • @pureconlimon4317
      @pureconlimon4317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ever?

    • @adriatical9016
      @adriatical9016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I’m banging my head against the wall... but at the same time I would’ve probably done the same

    • @NilesBlackX
      @NilesBlackX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      If you like this I've got like ten of these
      But I didn't pick up on the signals until like literally years later, so it's even worse 🤦

    • @shrooman768
      @shrooman768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      your profile picture is FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNG amazing
      I FUCKING LOVE IT
      I L-O-V-E IT
      I LOVE IT

  • @user-nz4dr1sy5g
    @user-nz4dr1sy5g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +977

    This could have easily ended in "it was my imagination all along"

    • @Crazyapple16
      @Crazyapple16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      ""I was so horny and alone I imagined a girl""

    • @bingletoncoochiesmith.
      @bingletoncoochiesmith. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Crazyapple16 😂😂😂

    • @Impoopinus
      @Impoopinus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Abdul Rahman Mohammed eyyyy

    • @wiseboi_1149
      @wiseboi_1149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For most of us

    • @FonchoVidal
      @FonchoVidal ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Then a doctor wake me up and told me 'you were in a coma, i'm afraid its been 9 years' 💀"

  • @user-hy3vi5wk5m
    @user-hy3vi5wk5m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1127

    This guy draws with crayola to make 10/10 quality vids

    • @blueslime5855
      @blueslime5855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your drawing isn't better shut up

    • @user-hy3vi5wk5m
      @user-hy3vi5wk5m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Whelp. I tried to be humorous...

    • @adamromero
      @adamromero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@user-hy3vi5wk5m Well I thought that was funny! 😊

    • @pannacottafugo2311
      @pannacottafugo2311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@adamromero :)

    • @ponponpatapon9670
      @ponponpatapon9670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@blueslime5855 r/woosh

  • @rishik7665
    @rishik7665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thanks! This was really helpful. I feel comfort knowing that there are kids like me and that I can be okay someday. This definitely wasn't "cringey" mattias. I'm really grateful to you for making this video. Cheers!

  • @jagaimo3484
    @jagaimo3484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10741

    Ok jeez we get it, you talked to a girl once stop bragging not everyone is that lucky

  • @faisal.5347
    @faisal.5347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3652

    She did all that just for you?! She must really like you

    • @gabicci5210
      @gabicci5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Your comment specialy make me feel wierd, because I was very like that whit EVERY person as like to me, and they in the box comments are leaving me lik a huge, ridiculous stalker, except may yours and a couple more :')
      (I'speak spanish, sorry)

    • @reese8050
      @reese8050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +341

      @@gabicci5210 Damn i didnt understood a single thing, sad

    • @Lucas_Nuts
      @Lucas_Nuts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      @@reese8050 I think he means that he acted just the way the girl on the video does, thus making this comment in particular make him feel weird about it.
      And now everyone in the comment section makes him feel weird and like a stalker too.

    • @Lucas_Nuts
      @Lucas_Nuts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@gabicci5210 Hi!
      Would you mind if I tried to "fix" your 5 day old comment?

    • @marcoslightspeed5517
      @marcoslightspeed5517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@Lucas_Nuts bold of you to assume its a he

  • @lori9885
    @lori9885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    Afraid of girls? Damn you almost became an anime harem protagonist.

    • @ew8381
      @ew8381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lori *mayo chiki! Intensifies*

    • @Lg-xt5eh
      @Lg-xt5eh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Whats a harem

    • @imcool2931
      @imcool2931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@Lg-xt5eh oh you sweet innocent child

    • @Lg-xt5eh
      @Lg-xt5eh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@imcool2931 ok lol

    • @Lg-xt5eh
      @Lg-xt5eh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@imcool2931 Is it hent*i?

  • @samuelolwero
    @samuelolwero ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “...and my dad asked me, Are you winning Son?” 2:34

  • @polish_filipino
    @polish_filipino 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1600

    It's only been a minute and I already relate so much
    Although, she never came to my school :/

    • @yarie9210
      @yarie9210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      bruh, i want your pfp

    • @yarie9210
      @yarie9210 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      pls

    • @luzfrnd
      @luzfrnd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Azerbaijani Mexican

    • @goodluckmati
      @goodluckmati 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ur really polish Filipino ? :0 that's very interesting !

    • @stevanthewise7240
      @stevanthewise7240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol same

  • @KruCorn
    @KruCorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    "you sit far away from her and she thinks she did something wrong"
    Me : "OH NO-"
    *sudden bad memories came rushing in*

    • @glitterkiitty
      @glitterkiitty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I naturally sit far away from everyone who I’m not comfortable with um-

    • @elmothewise3915
      @elmothewise3915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@glitterkiitty ok who asked

    • @sirarthur9698
      @sirarthur9698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@elmothewise3915 Me

    • @elmothewise3915
      @elmothewise3915 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sirarthur9698 link?

    • @Raph575
      @Raph575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@elmothewise3915 why be an asshole?

  • @callancaustic9355
    @callancaustic9355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    "Literally means fear of heights" what a scary name, thank God here in Australia we have domestic names for rides like *KAMIKAZE.* Definitely not going on that thing.

    • @M3I0n_Me
      @M3I0n_Me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh yeah. We have kamikaze at my local fair

    • @callancaustic9355
      @callancaustic9355 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@M3I0n_Me yeah its at the yearly carnival here

    • @ultima2399
      @ultima2399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm scared shitless of heights. I've never gone on those rides

    • @adrih8694
      @adrih8694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      American carnival rides are a while other league. They have names like "Super Mega Assfucker Toesucker Tilt-a-Whirl".

    • @callancaustic9355
      @callancaustic9355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@adrih8694 I really want that to become a real ride name. I mean at my local carnival the names are pretty basic, with "the cha-cha" being on the not at all scary side, and "The space roller" on the end of being totally over the top in design, size, and scare factor.

  • @Prototype037
    @Prototype037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Thank you Mattias for sharing, being from Gothenburg myself it was extra wonderful to be able to relate to the scenes.
    Hope you have a great time.
    -Leonard

  • @venko7933
    @venko7933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4471

    "And my dad comes into my room and says..."
    *"Are ya winnin' son?"*
    Edit: HOLY- THAT'S A LOTTA LIKES! Thanks! :)

    • @RareSquid
      @RareSquid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      th-cam.com/video/-1yzoiUIGGs/w-d-xo.html

    • @pdph-kk4ut
      @pdph-kk4ut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@RareSquid 😐😐

    • @a.i.m.f8567
      @a.i.m.f8567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I saw your comment at the exact time when he said this

    • @olomarcakes
      @olomarcakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@a.i.m.f8567 really original reply

    • @pumpiron1657
      @pumpiron1657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Credits roll

  • @ridhoaffandi5644
    @ridhoaffandi5644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1069

    Bad Protagonist + Manic Pixie Dreamy Girl... wait up... isn't that Evangelion?

    • @rampantmutt9119
      @rampantmutt9119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I wouldn't call Asuka or Rei "manic" or "dreamy".

    • @wasjagrach5621
      @wasjagrach5621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      It's "Scott Pilgrim against The World" actually.

    • @faisaalkamara4181
      @faisaalkamara4181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Rampant Mutt askua is definitely manic lol

    • @MegaDudon
      @MegaDudon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      "Get in the damn robot, Matthias!"

    • @acookie1410
      @acookie1410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ridho Affandi
      And your goddamn profile is her in the video
      AAAAHHHH

  • @bobbyzeitgeist1842
    @bobbyzeitgeist1842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3245

    I consider myself awkward around girls but holy shit this man is on another level

    • @xydez
      @xydez ปีที่แล้ว +178

      Hah, wait till you see me

    • @sheepy8602
      @sheepy8602 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Oh, I thought this is how everyone behaves...

    • @kyleag86
      @kyleag86 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I'm awkward around everyone regardless of gender so I'm like this to everyone lol

    • @StinkyKiwiSeth
      @StinkyKiwiSeth ปีที่แล้ว

      she stalked him dumbass

    • @Afreshio
      @Afreshio ปีที่แล้ว +19

      this level of cringiness is similar to hollywood tropes. I didn't think anyone behave like this in real life to be honest!

  • @ZiroWatt
    @ZiroWatt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    the most unbelievable thing about this story is that not only did she consistently reach out to you, but she actually opened up to you about liking you instead of the other way around. This breaks all laws of physics

    • @jeremyhodge6216
      @jeremyhodge6216 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought this was a interesting video 😁

    • @titandarknight2698
      @titandarknight2698 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      How? its normal for people to have crushes and then tell them about it.

    • @Mr.Goodkat
      @Mr.Goodkat ปีที่แล้ว

      @@titandarknight2698 It's because girls are never the ones consistently reaching out and having to open up, it's always the other way around.

    • @_mosesb
      @_mosesb ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's believable since he said they were kids or teens 🤷, it's more innocent, less games.

    • @greatman5885
      @greatman5885 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@titandarknight2698 yeah it's normal when a boy confesses his love... you don't see the reverse often

  • @funneman7034
    @funneman7034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +636

    *"I'm coming to your school tomarrow"*
    But first, a sponser from Nord VPN

    • @icaropereira3218
      @icaropereira3218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Now we know why Nords made their VPN.

    • @Shadow77999
      @Shadow77999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao.
      Its a word from our sponsor btw

    • @ly.9037
      @ly.9037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      XDDD

    • @Desperajoe
      @Desperajoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao

    • @imreallyslimy
      @imreallyslimy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me lose my shit

  • @killer1gamer1
    @killer1gamer1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    "I'm coming to your school tomorrow"
    take that out of context for a bit

    • @bait5257
      @bait5257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Unity wtf

    • @swarajkanr
      @swarajkanr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's even weirder with context.

  • @지유-z4d
    @지유-z4d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2368

    아니 이 그림?동화? 알고리즘 왜자꾸 뜨는건데.....심지어 제목은 한국어고 들어가보면 영어로 말하고 영어댓글밖에 없음...ㅋㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋ

    • @user-il9id9bt6m
      @user-il9id9bt6m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      그니까요ㅋㅋㄱㅋ진짜 넘뜬금없게 이런영상뜸...

    • @숭-t5e
      @숭-t5e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      제목이 한국어가 아니라 한국인한테 자동으로 번역돼서 보이는거임. 미국인한테는 영어로 보이고

    • @김도엽-f3b
      @김도엽-f3b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      유튜브 자막기능 키시면 한글 자막 나와요

    • @Nmarri415
      @Nmarri415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ㅇㅈ

    • @rabbinyang
      @rabbinyang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ㅇㅈ요....

  • @forrest7186
    @forrest7186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1632

    When I was younger, I was that one loud kid in class who was friends with everyone in class. I could easily talk to girls, I even had 2 girls a crush on me(Im actually not sure tho, I only found out from my friends). Then middle school came hit me like a fucking bus, my personality did a 180, I became that one quiet kid who doesnt talk at all. I lost a majority of my friends because I felt like a bother to them, and couldn't fit in to their group of friend. I became self consious and kept putting myself down, and thinking that everyone is looking at me, laughing at me. Soon one of the girls that liked me went to another school, the other one lost interest in me (I actually dont know), but was still good friends with them. I then all of a sudden became nervous around girls, and it was extremelly hard to make friends with them. It was literally impossible for me to make friends in class. I could only make friends next to me and what was worse was that I was in Honor classes so everyone kept to themsleves and only talked when we were grouped together on projects, and what was even worse was that the majority of those classmates is girls, so it was even more harder to try to make friends. In the end I never changed, Im still that self concious, anxiety filled, lonely person.

    • @Robot257onlinehue
      @Robot257onlinehue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Same dude, same.

    • @Maxithicc
      @Maxithicc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      Hey, Girls And boys are both Humans who all go through what most humans go through, its ok to be anxious around girls, But you should try talking to girls the same way you talk to boys, With trust and Honesty

    • @uhoh5501
      @uhoh5501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      we the same person 😔

    • @bebetter6403
      @bebetter6403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Aw man, I’m sorry :c I have anxiety too and I’m always self conscious and things. I believe in you though! Everyone has good qualities and stuff to offer other ppl

    • @forrest7186
      @forrest7186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@bebetter6403 Thank you, I believe in you too!

  • @alicesshelter9719
    @alicesshelter9719 5 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    You know. You're good at this. You're very very very good at this

    • @MattiasPilhede
      @MattiasPilhede  5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Thank you!

    • @plokijum
      @plokijum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Good enough to fuck up my sleeping schedule. I’m currently on a marathon watching all his videos. Please stop

    • @9k111
      @9k111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@plokijum no

  • @hyunaslollipop372
    @hyunaslollipop372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    “Okay what? Just get a deodorant.”
    😂😂

    • @datpoyo4900
      @datpoyo4900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She Aint Taking a No

  • @meanyapickles
    @meanyapickles ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I used to get so nervous around boys, particularly boys I liked. You know that natural filter you have over your speech that takes all the mishmash coffee grounds pouring through your brain and filters it into a steady stream of coherent speech? Every time I was around certain boys, I was spitting straight grounds. I had no filter. I made a fool of myself every time and I'd look back on each moment wondering what had come over me. I didn't even _feel_ like myself.
    I had a similarly awkward situation where a boy I had liked asked me out on a date. I had to sit myself down and tell myself "He's not interested in you. Stop melting and act like you do around your friends." And just like that, I let all my feelings and anxieties for him go all at once. I was way more relaxed, I felt more like myself, and we had a perfectly lovely time.
    And I never had feelings for anyone ever again :)

  • @pirateswiggity5278
    @pirateswiggity5278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    Girl: *talks to me.
    Me: ...[Loading Bar...]

    • @savary5050
      @savary5050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      If only you could somehow have a ten minute thoughts cutscene that lasts for one second (LIKE IN FUCKING ANIME!)

    • @pirateswiggity5278
      @pirateswiggity5278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@moriarty756
      Friends: *talk to me
      Me: ...[Loading Bar...]

    • @sel_ine
      @sel_ine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just say yes and shake your head while smiling. Thats what i do to guys.

    • @Discaptured
      @Discaptured 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pirateswiggity5278 same bRuH

    • @lapr4z153
      @lapr4z153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 😭

  • @yubiori2936
    @yubiori2936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    "When I was afraid of girls, I was a spider"
    - Widowmaker 2016

    • @apollon181
      @apollon181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Isnt that an Overwatch character

    • @quantum_leap786
      @quantum_leap786 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good one

    • @bonechovah
      @bonechovah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mmmmh yes the shot gun that needs metal talks

  • @seeyoutomorrow3320
    @seeyoutomorrow3320 5 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    I didn't know guys were like this too! My friend (girl) is terrified of boys.
    I always found it weird, though. Since Im comfortable with both guys and gals.

    • @pablobarrios7681
      @pablobarrios7681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Yeah, it is a very common fear to have, I used to run like if I was chased by death when I saw the girl I liked, my friends tried everything to help but it didn't work. I was so depressed when I was like 17, then I finally decided to take therapy, and it was the best thing I could've done, I learned that it was just my complete lack of self confidence, then, I entered the gym, started hanging out with people, not to dance at a club( I hate it) and I even had my first girlfriend then! Now I feel so bad when I see you get guys or even the same age like me or older when they can communicate to girls, but, I can't do anything, since only themself can get out of it

    • @ArkRiley
      @ArkRiley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's very, very common, and it leads to a lot of poor communication.

    • @DZrache
      @DZrache 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm a girl (well...enby AFAB) who's also scared of girls that I find attractive

    • @pablobarrios7681
      @pablobarrios7681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@DZrache yeah, it is common for guys to have fear of handsome guys too, like we think, damn, that dude is so awesome! am i even in his legue of awesomeness or some shit like that

    • @tuvau7263
      @tuvau7263 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thats true im comfortable with gals too

  • @excus5762
    @excus5762 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the “are ya winnin son?” reference, great videos man :)

  • @kapybara8079
    @kapybara8079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    Mattias: "Thank God life is not anime"
    Godly words were spoken

    • @clems_first
      @clems_first 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is time for you to look inward and start asking yourself the big questions.
      If life were likep anime, then would we call life, as it right now, anime ?

    • @teoman_acikgoz
      @teoman_acikgoz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Clems First Yes.

  • @uyaratful
    @uyaratful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Very good story, insecurity and awkwardness of being adolescent captured perfectly. This was not cringy for me, maybe because I have many similar ones from my youth and thinking about them from a perspective of an adult make me honestly happy.

    • @uyaratful
      @uyaratful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ultraxred Alcohol.

  • @lightbrand_
    @lightbrand_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1530

    Actually it’s creepy that she came to your school, then to your house, like I would be creeped out if that were to happen to me

    • @laikaperraespacial6025
      @laikaperraespacial6025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hahaaha ikr

    • @ravaloulicheyo
      @ravaloulicheyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      yea but if shes really really cute then you would still be her friend.

    • @alanvx9272
      @alanvx9272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ip grab

    • @tt-qq4xq
      @tt-qq4xq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@ravaloulicheyo still creepy

    • @ravaloulicheyo
      @ravaloulicheyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@tt-qq4xq They are not exclusive to each other, with enough cuteness, it can overwhelm your brain that it produces enough dopamine for you to overcome the creepiness. Of course, its just an opinion of mine. More case studies are required.

  • @tylereclement
    @tylereclement ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m glad you were able to learn lessons like this when you’re young, I never talked to people much before senior year of highschool cause I was scared, but it made me so depressed that I broke out and for the next three years after I came out of my shell, I’ve felt like I had to emotionally mature and learn lessons fast cause I was so socially behind all my college friends. Now thankfully I feel like I’m at the level of emotionally maturity that I should be in at 22 but boy was it a hard few years getting to this point

    • @exoticbomber137
      @exoticbomber137 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What was your experience with catching up in maturity? Is there anything you did to help mentally grow?

    • @tylereclement
      @tylereclement ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@exoticbomber137 I fucked up a whole lot, like a whole lot more than anyone should, and I learned from my mistakes slowly. Wish I could have gone about this better but I didn’t even understand the things I was doing was wrong or anything until things blew up in my face enough

  • @wayneyu4870
    @wayneyu4870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    "The time I was afraid of boys...
    *and I am one-"*

    • @IAm-zo1bo
      @IAm-zo1bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ah cmon we will just talk back normally

    • @savary5050
      @savary5050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm straight so maybe I shouldn't be saying this, but a boy will always see you as just another bro and won't think anything of it unless you start acting awkward. I have always thought that this was the reason gay boys talk to girls so much, its because they don't feel awkward around them at all and they share the same attractions etc. Anyways I don't really know because I am not gay and I think it would personally be very hard to figure out if someone is gay or not just so you don't have your feelings crushed if you ask them out.

    • @vp3841
      @vp3841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@savary5050 we get that you're straight, bro. No need to repeat 3 times, bro.

    • @sel_ine
      @sel_ine 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude at least guys werent afraid of you-

    • @mammutbrot9230
      @mammutbrot9230 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vp3841 like im not gay, but i just wanna say that i am not a homosexual. Not that id know what that would be like tho cuz im not gay.

  • @inserthahafunniusername9656
    @inserthahafunniusername9656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +726

    This actually reminds me of my old crush. We were friends, I confessed, and he just kinda sorta ignored me for 3 months until I found out that he actually liked me too. Its just that he was really shy about it and didn't want people to make fun of him for liking me and he didn't like it when people shipped us together. I then tried to make the friendship work out again but its still kinda awkward
    Man I hate how I lived an anime romance for like a year smh

    • @aidenorpington4637
      @aidenorpington4637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      be like that tho

    • @davidolinger3948
      @davidolinger3948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Anime used to seem outlandish, but some of these love triangle stuffs make more sense as I get older lol. Like of course my crush who lived a 3 blocks away from me and went to my same school all my life is now dating my best friend, and now that it's been like that for a couple years I'm over her and of course now we talk all the time and are great friends.
      So basically romance is stupid and I hope yours works out lol

    • @inserthahafunniusername9656
      @inserthahafunniusername9656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@davidolinger3948 I forgot to mention in my comment that I now have a boyfriend who isn't the og guy. I just moved on finally. I'm happy with my boyfriend and I hope romance will work out for you soon (even if it is a little stupid)
      And I know you moved on but I'm still sorry about your crush

    • @jeremybrown7470
      @jeremybrown7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bruh

    • @animeuniverse5586
      @animeuniverse5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well i completely understand your crush since same thing happend with me but my friends teased me so much i completely avoided the girl i liked for 2 years

  • @MaddyBlu9724
    @MaddyBlu9724 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Kind of crazy how many pubescent boys start off scared of girls and then grow out of it over time, while women more often become increasingly cautious of men and jaded about their intentions as they gain life experience.

    • @AJTONYX
      @AJTONYX 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It seems a bit sad

  • @ivanljujic4128
    @ivanljujic4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3254

    How on Earth did she find you?

    • @dooplon5083
      @dooplon5083 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      @Angel Aniki They meant find their school and house. Having a common friend doesn't necessarily mean that common friend knows either pieces of info (and it's implied they didn't considering his confusion)

    • @hamizannaruto
      @hamizannaruto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@dooplon5083 Dont know how, but if i have to guess, that common friend tell her the address and everything.

    • @wanghajowang
      @wanghajowang 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      hitta.se

    • @isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343
      @isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      王家晧 wtf

    • @cipher5893
      @cipher5893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Any pictures can contain subtle clues. Landmarks, shops, school uniforms, etc. Pin down general area, then school, follow him home, boom. She worked up the courage then visites.

  • @helloworld7818
    @helloworld7818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3602

    Being a shy guy is really cute.
    Only when you're handsome.

  • @lechungus1832
    @lechungus1832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    "A girl that changes school to spend more time with you"
    Not relatable

  • @Shbeeve
    @Shbeeve ปีที่แล้ว +3

    im actually a master at hiding it

  • @KnightSlasher
    @KnightSlasher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    "The first time I met someone on the internet"
    *_Tinder and Grinder intensify_*

  • @vak.o
    @vak.o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    I’m 14, and I hate being socially awkward, but quarantine makes being socially awkward much easier in school since classes are literally in my computer, much less interaction with people who I barely talk to! Much less awkward conversations! Genius!
    Edit: I think I found my problem, I realized that around friends, I always have this vibe of high self-esteem, and generally an extroverted guy, with only some conversations being awkward and.. unpleasant, but when I’m around strangers, or facing serious questions or situations that will affect me somehow, or a girl I like, I guess that’s where I’m rather shy, and nervous, it took me a few hours to confess to a girl I liked a few years ago, and even then, I had stuttered, and quite literally was the most shy kid in the room. I guess it means that I’m socially awkward when it comes to other people or serious circumstances or problems, while in a friendly or casual conversation, I’m confident, and bold?? I don’t understand myself at all..

    • @ShawnSmoove
      @ShawnSmoove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      RIP

    • @amaansiddiqui6262
      @amaansiddiqui6262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Dude.. fix this or you gonna regret why you did not listen to that random youtube reply... or if you are a girl then it's a little less.. painful..

    • @vak.o
      @vak.o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@amaansiddiqui6262 dude I’m fine im not lonely i have friends okay?

    • @EduardoSalamanca1960
      @EduardoSalamanca1960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@vak.o I had friends until online school started one year ago and I haven’t seen any of them since except for every once and while when they turn their cameras on.

    • @bumpycat3698
      @bumpycat3698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Youll never be not socially awkward if you continue to not talk to anyone

  • @messwithgame17
    @messwithgame17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    Girl : hi..how are you
    Me : im 14...
    Girl : *BRUH*

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *Understanding that fear is a common experience can really help others feel less isolated.*

  • @sassyytea
    @sassyytea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    2:33
    "my dad comes into my room and says
    are you winning son?"

    • @kasaneteto4904
      @kasaneteto4904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @Mitsuki1607
      @Mitsuki1607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's exactly what i thought the first time i saw that

    • @gremlinfifty2308
      @gremlinfifty2308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They got us in the first half not gonna lie.

  • @aleandrew
    @aleandrew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    You Should've loaded a save mate, increase her relationshipoint, bc if you collect all the ending there's a secret ending that will give you the answer of "The meaning of life"

    • @ArkRiley
      @ArkRiley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nah, that requires Matthias to go through all the possible routes of his life to unlock. Doesn't sound worth it.

    • @aleandrew
      @aleandrew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed, some people doesn't have motivation to get all the possibilities. As long I doesn't get to beastiality ending I'm fine

    • @pladselsker8340
      @pladselsker8340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you sound like you know a lot about the many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics

    • @Aadhitiya_Murali
      @Aadhitiya_Murali 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aleandrew fuck! i got the beastiality and necrophilia ending, should i be worried?

  • @juliah688
    @juliah688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    What I’ve learned from PewDiePie, Roomie, and Matthias:
    Swedes have American accents???

    • @eljestLiv
      @eljestLiv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      there’s a lot of american influence in our culture, so i think thats why ^^

    • @lukeduale1403
      @lukeduale1403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      A lot of countries that don't speak english as the first language use American culture to learn

    • @GhostSamaritan
      @GhostSamaritan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      At school we're taught British English but then we go home and consume American media.

    • @Eunostos
      @Eunostos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      The US has had some pretty solid cultural domination going on (at least in the English speaking sphere) for decades by this point, a ~lot~ of English accents are Americanising.
      It's a little depressing to me seeing Australians talk like American landmarks and history have more emotional meaning to them than Australian ones, but it's pretty hard to miss.

    • @leakekse2768
      @leakekse2768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      nah, lots of swedes can barely speak english. Generalising that based off the internet is not a bright thing to do.

  • @CoolMaisa
    @CoolMaisa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE MESSENGER SOUND EFFECTS!!! 😍😍😍😍

  • @laella
    @laella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    For times like this, TH-cam should have some kind of translator for comments. Or I should just learn every language in the world lmfao

    • @MB-vb7nq
      @MB-vb7nq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      use fooview

    • @moongi852
      @moongi852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr-

    • @moongi852
      @moongi852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But there is probably an app for ot i donna

    • @Im_doing_fine_thank_you
      @Im_doing_fine_thank_you 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      да я согласен))

    • @Jensenrobinb
      @Jensenrobinb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Google translate.

  • @aliberkozderya3112
    @aliberkozderya3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    Are those actual msn notification sounds? I'm getting feelings

    • @skyewinnd
      @skyewinnd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Burda türk bulucagimi hic dusunmezdim

    • @aliberkozderya3112
      @aliberkozderya3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skyewinnd :D

    • @applewithsword616
      @applewithsword616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vay anasını

    • @9k111
      @9k111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cockroaches confirmed 😰

  • @darelh1348
    @darelh1348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    We've all experienced cringey moments... Well, more than moments. As someone with social anxiety disorder I could relate so hard. It's nice to know we're not alone with our clumsy, anxiety-driven mistakes, there are other people stumbling along as they learn how to do social stuff too.

    • @epicfromepicgames8222
      @epicfromepicgames8222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Y E S

    • @notmo.
      @notmo. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Feels good to not be alone

    • @pixy3266
      @pixy3266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is social phobia? I just learn that this is a mentally disorder...

  • @bgsbrokenboneafterfighting726
    @bgsbrokenboneafterfighting726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    2:45 Well I’m a girl. I saw this. I’m confused. And scared.

  • @polish_filipino
    @polish_filipino 5 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    2:22 Wait..? But... how?
    Must be a yandere? I guess
    3:00 Yeah... we'll just go with that
    (Yeah just finished the vid, that's definetly an anime plot. Someone is gonna make an anime bases off this)

    • @Thegreyman42
      @Thegreyman42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im with you on that

    • @thiagoareias76
      @thiagoareias76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Polish Filipino "friend of a friend"

    • @polish_filipino
      @polish_filipino 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thiagoareias76 Oh, I guess that could be true. But for real your location? Seems a bit... weird (But this never happened to me so idk)

    • @thiagoareias76
      @thiagoareias76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@polish_filipino once again, could have asked the common friend for his address. It still feels pretty weird regardless.

    • @Ahmed-qg7rp
      @Ahmed-qg7rp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      there was definitely a lack of story and explanation in this video but i wont blame him as he was an awkward 14 year old back then. But even so, he could've atleast told us who that friend of his is and how they knew her or something.

  • @awesomeperson7236
    @awesomeperson7236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1131

    “I’m coming to your school tomorrow”
    *-She forgot to mention she was bringing her AR-15-*

    • @w04h
      @w04h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I thought that was obligatory in America

    • @johnwhite7700
      @johnwhite7700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Herself

    • @Nick-lx4fo
      @Nick-lx4fo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck breaking into my school, non-enrolled students are not allowed in. That's a good thing about America, randos on the internet can't just walk into your school

    • @tyrstone3539
      @tyrstone3539 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nick Right yeah. I was comfused

    • @nikitaastakhov9252
      @nikitaastakhov9252 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Nick-lx4fo yet the enrolled students exist and...

  • @moistfarticles6211
    @moistfarticles6211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I’m 24 and still get terrible anxiety when in proximity to women I don’t know. I honestly think I needd to get help at this point lol

    • @aninhagamez
      @aninhagamez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      You need to talk to a psychologist, it helped me too

    • @abutate8696
      @abutate8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Denmo social

    • @emmabinns6335
      @emmabinns6335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Make friends with a lesbian.

    • @cocopus
      @cocopus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      the future seems really bleak for me. don't mean to sound edgy or anything but i'm already in my mid 20s and i spent most of my life alone and not talking to anyone. and i doubt i'll get out of it by talking to psychologist or any of that.

    • @emeraldeye5664
      @emeraldeye5664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@cocopus get a hobby that involves talking and being with other people, go out a lot and exercise or something just get out of the house honestly thats what helped me the most

  • @supertroopa
    @supertroopa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    when 4:46 hit i slammed my desk and said "you let it slip you goddamn idiot!" and then i laughed for a while lmao

  • @bladox971
    @bladox971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    3:40 Goteberg? Wait... That's where Pewdiepie used to live!
    World is so small

    • @GivenFailure
      @GivenFailure 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Wait... Roomie is also from there...

    • @xWood4000
      @xWood4000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It's a city with a lot of people.

    • @GivenFailure
      @GivenFailure 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@xWood4000 So is Karachi, but I don't know a single TH-camr from there

    • @JohnLemonsFilms
      @JohnLemonsFilms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Small is so world

    • @baandersson2737
      @baandersson2737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Göteborg is the second largest city in Sweden, so it's not that weird.

  • @bunnybro5977
    @bunnybro5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I went through something similar through my teen years,something that grew into a rather toxic gender bias that I had to work quite a bit to get rid of,and I actually vividly remember the start of it all. It was before I even hit puberty,probably seven years old,and was at the house of my mom's friend and while they were chatting,I noticed her teenage daughter playing with legos and I was like "hell yeah,legos,I never had a set,lemme ask how how it all works" and as I walked over to her she sorta froze when she saw me approaching, and before I knew what was happening the mother quickly scooped her up and ushered her to her room,while also giving me the glare of a mother tigress who noticed a dog near her cubs. I would find out later that she was abused by a younger boy and both mother and daughter were pretty traumatised by it,but that didn't resonate with me until later. What really hit me at the time was the fact that I had to be sensitive to someone just because of their gender, and that shit was profound to me because upto that point I'd treated pretty much everyone the same. It wasn't a truth for all girls or women that if I got within a few feet of them they'd murder me,but the fact that there were people who would be made me very paranoid of interaction with the opposite sex,which as you can imagine,didn't translate well when puberty did come by

    • @animeuniverse5586
      @animeuniverse5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      well thats a complex situation you got there.

    • @abdoonyt9049
      @abdoonyt9049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn

    • @InterDylan
      @InterDylan ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That right there is why adults have a responsibility to address their trauma. The consequences of untreated trauma can end up hurting other people like you for example.

    • @shhhyourtooloud257
      @shhhyourtooloud257 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dang this is lowkey sad, you seem to have an actual scenario which started it all. I'm just simply scared of guys cuz I never grew up talking to any 😂 let's hope that this issue dissipates with time

    • @wilburwilliams36
      @wilburwilliams36 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shhhyourtooloud257 It will. Like most things, it takes practice.

  • @sdg1
    @sdg1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That life lesson made me spit out my water I wasn't expecting it

  • @FonchoVidal
    @FonchoVidal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SHE'S STANDING HERE, MANACINGLY!

  • @둥둥-u3p
    @둥둥-u3p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +845

    분명 내가 왜 들어왔지라고 생각하고 보고있는 한국인 있을거야

    • @nhhnopkp
      @nhhnopkp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      알고리즘

    • @황태건-s3l
      @황태건-s3l 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    • @jammin5359
      @jammin5359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      우유보고 들어옴
      물론 알고리즘으로

    • @jiiy4123
      @jiiy4123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@jammin5359 헐 저도 우유로 시작ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

    • @dujsbdx
      @dujsbdx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jammin5359 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 개공감

  • @강찬-p5d
    @강찬-p5d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    아니 우유도 그렇고 왜 알고리즘은 나에게 이 유튜버의 영상을 뜨워주는거지