When I Was Afraid of Girls
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- Please don't stalk me.
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(I asked the girl for permission before making this video)
Music:
E's Jammy Jams - Present Day
Metal Gear Solid - Alert Theme
Kevin MacLeod - Dream Culture
#animation
"She's just standing there...
*MENACINGLY* "
NANI?
“GET OUTTA THERE SPONGEBOB!!!” Haha love that quote
LOVELIVESERVE
Is that jojo reference
ゴゴゴゴ
"I'm coming to your school tomorrow."
" *h a h a* , no you're *N O T* "
Invasion 100
I wanna like but it's at the devils number and I wanna keep it that way
@@jovantosic2119 thank you I love you
@@yami6256 fck, it reached 667 already. Goddammit... LoL
Its 998 now
That girl is definitely the antagonist of a horror movie.
You mean yandere ?
@@joditiarsutrisno5556 he means the fucking monster
Haha
Mostly because they found his school+ house wtf
@@EnDeRBeaT LMFAO
So the moral is, *you were perfectly justified being afraid of girls since one was effectively stalking you, knowing where you went to school and where you lived despite never telling her.*
There is a public registry in sweden where theres information about every citizen there. Idk about minors doe.
@@ilililil490 They also meet because of a friend in common, she could've just asked that friend.
@@pop5705but still its creepy since house address is something only the person who lives in it should know.
@@animeuniverse5586 What?
@@braziliantsar idk what i was thinking while typing such a great sentence.
Girl: Oh, you're approaching me? Instead of running awa...
Mattias: *runs away*
Nah its the other was around lmao
nigerundayo!
Mattias is a joestar confirmed
@@tarpulin8179 LOL
joestar secret technique
"Some girl is asking for you"
"We both know it's a lie, what are you up to dad"
You got likes thought I’d tell you
Lol true
1,4k likes and only 3 comments??
Best comment in this section for sure
@@byeheaven let's not reply to it- oh well did
2:33 Are you winning son?
Lol
@Fons van der Linden bruh, same
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS LMAOOO
Ooooh i get it
ctrl v same
"All women are agents of the state. Any and all contact must be avoided"
And we avoid you.
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 !ky5
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 go back to the kitchen
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 ☕️
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 Mah maan Just got Roasted
I'm coming to your school tomorrow.
You better not buddy
@@markmcculfor6113 Why? He will take me to a cafe if I do and will run because I exist.
What do I have to lose?
hahaha you’re kidding; right?
no god please no no
Maybe it's the alternate universe version of the classic threat...
"Some of you guys aren't alright; I'm not coming to your school tomorrow."
"Someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." -> important lesson
@Chileno fds
@Chileno final
@@-_Confessor-_ quanto Br aqui wtf
@@celo__4088 sim
@Chileno chill, dude
Hey Mattias I have a pamphlet for you to read about stalking
Wait is this actually going to happen
456 like and heart 2 comments
The Reynolds Pamphlet
@@jdawg9722 Alexander Hamilton had a torrent affair, and he wrote it down right there
Highlights!
1:32 "and she's standing there..."
*"M E N A C I N G L Y"*
Dudes say things like: ''Girls give mixed signals and I don't get them''
Also dudes: this video
Multumim Andrei. Forta.
Exactly
this.. 😔
They do sometimes though.
Blana tesculeane
Me, a virgin:
"I love you too, pretty stalker girl who i totally did not give my address to!"
Will be a waste not to
You Wont Be A Virgin If She Goes To Your Bedroom The Second Date
honestly yandere works for me, I’d die for a solicitor given time
This is why I sometimes wish I was a dude
@@AnnaHans88 Get in my van
I can relate.
I'm 28.
Lol. Listen to After Hours by Velvet Underground
@I’m Okay Are you really okay?
M H his name says he is
@@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 so he's not 28?
D. Khulu Nkabinde hes both 28 and Okay.
There was a girl who I had a crush on for my entire 8th grade year. I was lucky enough to actually become friends with her, to an extent. Friends enough that we ended up working on a poster-making project, I don’t remember exactly what it was. Together. Just the two of us. I spent almost the whole time being scared and awkward, staying at a distance from her even though we couldn’t work on the poster at the same time that way. God, I felt like such a fool. I was making myself look both awkward AND lazy because I wasn’t helping as much with the poster. I still remember that day every now and then. It’s just something that stays with you, I guess.
I was also too scared to ask her to sign my yearbook at the end of the year, even though I spent the entire earlier part of the day psyching myself up for it. She went to a different high school than me, so those were my last memories with her. Even if I wanted to, I’ll never forget these things. They’re as precious to me as they are cringey and painful, I cared about that girl so much. That‘s my experience being scared of girls, I hope it means something to someone reading this.
Kinda had the same experience but i moved countries instead of high schools
It meant something to me.
awww
Damn bro
Bro your not alone I had similar experiences 😢 I had a crush too but never could tell her. I hated myself for being so afraid. Next time please don't be afraid to tell her
Mathias anime TAGs: romantic, psicologic, yandere, comedy, slice of life.
Im coming to your home tomorrow
Pairez I’m coming to your room tomarrow
The grammar police are coming to this comment section.
It's nhentai lol
What about going to srekx
The real lesson: "Life is not an anime."
*me looking at Promised Neverland
"Sure it is"
Only empty people think it is
I sure wish it was. I'm 22 and have never been with a girl and i don't think I'll ever be with one. Being in an anime could change that
@@joditiarsutrisno5556 umm ok sure ... 😤
@@hussein7517 I dont think so, with that mentality you would probably be a side character
He was around 14 when all of this happened.
*_laughs in single_*
*laughs in not ever having a girlfriend in all 20 years of life*
@@PanzerMan332 Same
@@PanzerMan332All 21 years here
guys, i had no girlfriend until i was 28. and i had similar cringe moments with girls. when i decided to not give a fuck about them (not in an ignorant childish way) and enjoy my life, they started to approche ME. also please don't think you are worth less because you have no girlfriend...thats bullshit and kills your confidence
I didn’t have moments like this until I was 15/16 ish
"And then it stopped. It's raining now" BRO WTF I'VE ALMOST CRYED
Actually I believe that girl never existed and was only his imagination. That would be a good example of fighting shyness
Kkkk mds Rigby
I really wish that that could happen to me..
that's what i was thinking the whole time
That's dumb
Thats the correct assumption of what happen and why this vídeo is calles shyness boy with girl when he gets a girl un love with him
Other title: "A Stalker Cured My Anxiety"
Get me a stalker, asap.
I need one too
Janbert Guerrero mee too
Y’all called for my help?
@@Weirdguy6 Yess
Anime brought them together...but anime also broke them apart...
Who is the Anime.
God giveth, god taketh away
@@abeke5523 Therefore, anime is God
Anime only hurts you. And make you cringe when you look back
Anime is shit
Loved your illustrations, Matthias. They almost tell a story all their own. You should consider animating them as children’s stories (which, by the way, work excellently for adults, too). Best wishes!
I read that as illusions and I thought you were saying he was like schizo or something. I'm way too sleep deprived for this
Bro get some sleep😭
@@Cellulolytic
“I just talked to a girl!”
*Didn’t actually talk*
Haha, is that a My Hero Academia reference?!?
@@ginoyesano5649 yep
I love whoever wrote this comment.
MHA xD
Dude... didn't you ask her how she found your school and your house? You didn't find that creepy and weird?
I didn't at the time, but I think she contacted one of my friends and asked them. Even now I haven't asked her.
@@MattiasPilhede She's a hacker!
*anime plot intensifies*
@@MattiasPilhede This anime is deeper than i thought
Do it and then tell us. It's a perfect OVA... kind of
NEED SEASON 2 ASAP!
"She confessed that she actually liked me."
Bro no way
i wish they lived happily ever after
@@AC-mp7cx 6:35
If a girl would look in my general direction for more than 10 seconds I'd be happy for the day.
@@vens1337 Trust me, you really don't. I've been in your position and you really don't want that.
@@pointynoodle Man, Ive rarely talked to a girl aside from a few words here and there for the past, like, 6-7 months. I want female interaction, and its not like im nervous or anything, i just dont have anything to say in the same way i do with dudes. Then again, i also rarely talk to people i dont know unless they approach me, so whatev for me.
My man had a girl simping for him and his reaction was *"I don't know what to do with my hands."*
More like "Stan"ing
Mattias: Doesn't remember literal first date
Also Mattias: Remembers the price of said date
I think I could be Mattias
I think he meant more of a general feel of the price, and how it was more expensive than expected.
Star-Man RainbowStar as my mother would say “Just like a man”
@@zipity2782 Hmmm money is to me more important than social relationships. Lol my dear money i love you!
Alright, you're allowed to be A Mathias, but not THE Mathias
And my dad comes in and says...
Are ya winning son?
HAHAHAHA I THOUGHT THE SAME
I want to join "I thought the same" gang
Made the likes 69
no dad i will be forever alone
This is what I want more than girls
WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW SHE ROCKED UP TO BOTH HIS SCHOOL AND HIS HOUSE WITHOUT HIM TELLING HER WHERE THEY WERE?
Well she's a friend of his friend, perhaps she just asked the friend where he lives
@EZO EZ Both of them are around 14, Pedophilla is out of the question even if they switched genders, Creep stalker is possible but it would only start to seem suspicious if they stays around after being given no answer to their confession, in this case she backed off and likely never sees him again because she was hurt
If you know someone's name and last name, you can find where they live in sweden, because it's public information.
Well she’s not gonna kill or rape him like men do
@@yb0805hw Huh?
Can relate. In kindergarten and primary school I had some female friends, that changed in secondary school. In the last years I even had a reputation of being a mysogenist or something as I was rude? I simply did not know how to deal with girls, the "sit as far away as possible"-scenario happened to me aswell. Then, in December 2019 I was invited to a friend and he had a girl invited aswell, we did not know each other - the first time in 5 years or so I meat a girl outside of school. It went ok and as we had the same friends we saw each other here and there. She once said we would be friends, but honestly I don't think so, I mean... if only we two are together somewhere we can talk for an hour and then there is just akward silence... not what I would call a friend. Yet she is the closest I was to a girl in a long time. So I still don't know how to handle them, but it got better. And now there is Corona - problem solved XD
Also I have a female penfriend in Canada, it works. Luckily I live in Europe, so chances are I'll never see her.
It is wierd, isn't it? I can write to a girl, but as soon as there is one physically present my brain is in "girl-mode" and I don't know how to behave. I'm glad I don't miss it, so I don't "suffer".
Dude same, im also afraid of girls...
And boys.
I have social anxiety
Y'all, I appreciate the advice and sympathy, but I don't have social anxiety. I didn't know what social anxiety was when I wrote this. At the time, I thought I had social anxiety, but no, I was just really awkward.✌
Do meditation, It will help a lot
Yeah....It's sweating like sweating about talking to guys ...and having a full blown fever and wicked adrenaline rush for talking to girls.
@@lightsfeed9541 I understand, I was like that but I'm good now, and my life is much better.
I also have social anxiety but thats from dealing with assholes a lot. Thats why I hate people in general
Then don’t have social anxiety
A very personal and emotional video is about to end,
Mattias: And I could finally say...
Me: Oh he is just about to say something very profound and meaningful about life
Mattias: Thank god life is not anime
He does this in every video and it still catches me off guard
I feel ya buddy
Ali Berk ÖZDERYA chough chough this story is very close to a something that happened to me just didn’t meet her on the internet
@@fallenangel9614 how did you meet her then?
Ali Berk ÖZDERYA school
@@fallenangel9614 lol of course the school, for some reason I was expecting something very unusual. I was like scratching my head thinking "what can it possibly be if it is not the internet?". Anyway, hope it is a good memory for you. Take care
It's only been a minute and I already relate so much
Although, she never came to my school :/
bruh, i want your pfp
pls
Azerbaijani Mexican
Ur really polish Filipino ? :0 that's very interesting !
Lol same
the most unbelievable thing about this story is that not only did she consistently reach out to you, but she actually opened up to you about liking you instead of the other way around. This breaks all laws of physics
I thought this was a interesting video 😁
How? its normal for people to have crushes and then tell them about it.
@@titandarknight2698 It's because girls are never the ones consistently reaching out and having to open up, it's always the other way around.
It's believable since he said they were kids or teens 🤷, it's more innocent, less games.
@@titandarknight2698 yeah it's normal when a boy confesses his love... you don't see the reverse often
Your Dad has a villain mustache? Does he twirl it and make demands about paying the rent?
@Vladimir Lenin 😂
@Vladimir Lenin Oh. Okay.
it's a me WARIOOOO
@Vladimir Lenin What kind of parties..? **mushroom party intensifies**
Does he ask if his son is winning tho?
*girl shows up at home uninvited, without being told where home is*
Welcome inside
me at my crush's bday be like:
She did all that just for you?! She must really like you
Your comment specialy make me feel wierd, because I was very like that whit EVERY person as like to me, and they in the box comments are leaving me lik a huge, ridiculous stalker, except may yours and a couple more :')
(I'speak spanish, sorry)
@@gabicci5210 Damn i didnt understood a single thing, sad
@@reese8050 I think he means that he acted just the way the girl on the video does, thus making this comment in particular make him feel weird about it.
And now everyone in the comment section makes him feel weird and like a stalker too.
@@gabicci5210 Hi!
Would you mind if I tried to "fix" your 5 day old comment?
@@Lucas_Nuts bold of you to assume its a he
The stuff they did feels low-key like an actual date.
This guy draws with crayola to make 10/10 quality vids
Your drawing isn't better shut up
Whelp. I tried to be humorous...
@@user-hy3vi5wk5m Well I thought that was funny! 😊
@@adamromero :)
@@blueslime5855 r/woosh
The most infuriating love history that I ever heard.
You mean "never had"?
Ever?
I’m banging my head against the wall... but at the same time I would’ve probably done the same
If you like this I've got like ten of these
But I didn't pick up on the signals until like literally years later, so it's even worse 🤦
your profile picture is FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNG amazing
I FUCKING LOVE IT
I L-O-V-E IT
I LOVE IT
It’s hilarious how guys always say that girls are “difficult to understand”
But guys in their teens apparently show feelings by moving their chair very far away from you and/or running away on the first meeting!
Yeah and some guys say that maybe, we should just not make huge generalisation about large groups of people.
He never said he liked the girl. He was uncomfortable so he behaved uncomfortably. Logic checks out.
Seems like those tactics worked put pretty good lol
Oh wait I saw the ending
TheDarkShip True but my comment was supposed a joke about about generalizations
Benjamin Garcia Might’ve been true with the second girl (even though he did say that they were at least friends white texting eachother before she came to his school)
But with the first girl he also specifically said that bc he got nervous around girls he moved his chair far away from her making her think he’s mad at her even though he wasn’t.
Thank you Mattias for sharing, being from Gothenburg myself it was extra wonderful to be able to relate to the scenes.
Hope you have a great time.
-Leonard
This could have easily ended in "it was my imagination all along"
""I was so horny and alone I imagined a girl""
@@Crazyapple16 😂😂😂
@Abdul Rahman Mohammed eyyyy
For most of us
"Then a doctor wake me up and told me 'you were in a coma, i'm afraid its been 9 years' 💀"
Ok jeez we get it, you talked to a girl once stop bragging not everyone is that lucky
Lol
dude wtf??
true
@@uhhhi7573 Issa joke
i haven't talked to a girl in 8 months
Afraid of girls? Damn you almost became an anime harem protagonist.
Lori *mayo chiki! Intensifies*
Whats a harem
@@Lg-xt5eh oh you sweet innocent child
@@imcool2931 ok lol
@@imcool2931 Is it hent*i?
Thanks! This was really helpful. I feel comfort knowing that there are kids like me and that I can be okay someday. This definitely wasn't "cringey" mattias. I'm really grateful to you for making this video. Cheers!
아니 이 그림?동화? 알고리즘 왜자꾸 뜨는건데.....심지어 제목은 한국어고 들어가보면 영어로 말하고 영어댓글밖에 없음...ㅋㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋ
그니까요ㅋㅋㄱㅋ진짜 넘뜬금없게 이런영상뜸...
제목이 한국어가 아니라 한국인한테 자동으로 번역돼서 보이는거임. 미국인한테는 영어로 보이고
유튜브 자막기능 키시면 한글 자막 나와요
ㅇㅈ
ㅇㅈ요....
Homer: Marge, I'm confused, is this a happy ending or a sad ending?
Marge: It's an ending, that's enough.
You got likes thought I’d tell you
Oh man I can hear that
I remember that episode
Eh, I mean, good experience comes from bad experiences, it's learning that makes it good.
@@tlotro625good lessons from bad experiences. F me and my life if I was enjoying the bad experiences that taught me.
Bad Protagonist + Manic Pixie Dreamy Girl... wait up... isn't that Evangelion?
I wouldn't call Asuka or Rei "manic" or "dreamy".
It's "Scott Pilgrim against The World" actually.
Rampant Mutt askua is definitely manic lol
"Get in the damn robot, Matthias!"
Ridho Affandi
And your goddamn profile is her in the video
AAAAHHHH
I’m glad you were able to learn lessons like this when you’re young, I never talked to people much before senior year of highschool cause I was scared, but it made me so depressed that I broke out and for the next three years after I came out of my shell, I’ve felt like I had to emotionally mature and learn lessons fast cause I was so socially behind all my college friends. Now thankfully I feel like I’m at the level of emotionally maturity that I should be in at 22 but boy was it a hard few years getting to this point
What was your experience with catching up in maturity? Is there anything you did to help mentally grow?
@@exoticbomber137 I fucked up a whole lot, like a whole lot more than anyone should, and I learned from my mistakes slowly. Wish I could have gone about this better but I didn’t even understand the things I was doing was wrong or anything until things blew up in my face enough
I didn't know guys were like this too! My friend (girl) is terrified of boys.
I always found it weird, though. Since Im comfortable with both guys and gals.
Yeah, it is a very common fear to have, I used to run like if I was chased by death when I saw the girl I liked, my friends tried everything to help but it didn't work. I was so depressed when I was like 17, then I finally decided to take therapy, and it was the best thing I could've done, I learned that it was just my complete lack of self confidence, then, I entered the gym, started hanging out with people, not to dance at a club( I hate it) and I even had my first girlfriend then! Now I feel so bad when I see you get guys or even the same age like me or older when they can communicate to girls, but, I can't do anything, since only themself can get out of it
It's very, very common, and it leads to a lot of poor communication.
I'm a girl (well...enby AFAB) who's also scared of girls that I find attractive
@@DZrache yeah, it is common for guys to have fear of handsome guys too, like we think, damn, that dude is so awesome! am i even in his legue of awesomeness or some shit like that
thats true im comfortable with gals too
I consider myself awkward around girls but holy shit this man is on another level
Hah, wait till you see me
Oh, I thought this is how everyone behaves...
I'm awkward around everyone regardless of gender so I'm like this to everyone lol
she stalked him dumbass
this level of cringiness is similar to hollywood tropes. I didn't think anyone behave like this in real life to be honest!
Actually it’s creepy that she came to your school, then to your house, like I would be creeped out if that were to happen to me
Hahaaha ikr
yea but if shes really really cute then you would still be her friend.
ip grab
@@ravaloulicheyo still creepy
@@tt-qq4xq They are not exclusive to each other, with enough cuteness, it can overwhelm your brain that it produces enough dopamine for you to overcome the creepiness. Of course, its just an opinion of mine. More case studies are required.
I used to get so nervous around boys, particularly boys I liked. You know that natural filter you have over your speech that takes all the mishmash coffee grounds pouring through your brain and filters it into a steady stream of coherent speech? Every time I was around certain boys, I was spitting straight grounds. I had no filter. I made a fool of myself every time and I'd look back on each moment wondering what had come over me. I didn't even _feel_ like myself.
I had a similarly awkward situation where a boy I had liked asked me out on a date. I had to sit myself down and tell myself "He's not interested in you. Stop melting and act like you do around your friends." And just like that, I let all my feelings and anxieties for him go all at once. I was way more relaxed, I felt more like myself, and we had a perfectly lovely time.
And I never had feelings for anyone ever again :)
@randall-flagg huh?
@randall-flagg huh?
"Literally means fear of heights" what a scary name, thank God here in Australia we have domestic names for rides like *KAMIKAZE.* Definitely not going on that thing.
Oh yeah. We have kamikaze at my local fair
@@M3I0n_Me yeah its at the yearly carnival here
I'm scared shitless of heights. I've never gone on those rides
American carnival rides are a while other league. They have names like "Super Mega Assfucker Toesucker Tilt-a-Whirl".
@@adrih8694 I really want that to become a real ride name. I mean at my local carnival the names are pretty basic, with "the cha-cha" being on the not at all scary side, and "The space roller" on the end of being totally over the top in design, size, and scare factor.
You know. You're good at this. You're very very very good at this
Thank you!
Good enough to fuck up my sleeping schedule. I’m currently on a marathon watching all his videos. Please stop
@@plokijum no
When I was younger, I was that one loud kid in class who was friends with everyone in class. I could easily talk to girls, I even had 2 girls a crush on me(Im actually not sure tho, I only found out from my friends). Then middle school came hit me like a fucking bus, my personality did a 180, I became that one quiet kid who doesnt talk at all. I lost a majority of my friends because I felt like a bother to them, and couldn't fit in to their group of friend. I became self consious and kept putting myself down, and thinking that everyone is looking at me, laughing at me. Soon one of the girls that liked me went to another school, the other one lost interest in me (I actually dont know), but was still good friends with them. I then all of a sudden became nervous around girls, and it was extremelly hard to make friends with them. It was literally impossible for me to make friends in class. I could only make friends next to me and what was worse was that I was in Honor classes so everyone kept to themsleves and only talked when we were grouped together on projects, and what was even worse was that the majority of those classmates is girls, so it was even more harder to try to make friends. In the end I never changed, Im still that self concious, anxiety filled, lonely person.
Same dude, same.
Hey, Girls And boys are both Humans who all go through what most humans go through, its ok to be anxious around girls, But you should try talking to girls the same way you talk to boys, With trust and Honesty
we the same person 😔
Aw man, I’m sorry :c I have anxiety too and I’m always self conscious and things. I believe in you though! Everyone has good qualities and stuff to offer other ppl
@@bebetter6403 Thank you, I believe in you too!
I let anxiety control my life, I avoided all social interactions and anything that could possibly make me uncomfortable. Now at age 23, my reward is no friends, no social skills, and worse anxiety. The path of least resistance is a path to nowhere.
I'm going through the same situation, and I'm only 17
@@Sun-God2 I wish I could go back and fucking beg my 17 year old self to just try reaching out to people no matter how awkward and painful it feels.
When I was 23 I was exactly like you, but guess what? Now I'm 40 and I'm still the same. Surprise!
same spot at 43😥life suck's
"you sit far away from her and she thinks she did something wrong"
Me : "OH NO-"
*sudden bad memories came rushing in*
I naturally sit far away from everyone who I’m not comfortable with um-
@@glitterkiitty ok who asked
@@elmothewise3915 Me
@@sirarthur9698 link?
@@elmothewise3915 why be an asshole?
*"I'm coming to your school tomarrow"*
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This made me lose my shit
"And my dad comes into my room and says..."
*"Are ya winnin' son?"*
Edit: HOLY- THAT'S A LOTTA LIKES! Thanks! :)
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@@RareSquid 😐😐
I saw your comment at the exact time when he said this
@@a.i.m.f8567 really original reply
Credits roll
"I'm coming to your school tomorrow"
take that out of context for a bit
@Unity wtf
It's even weirder with context.
This actually reminds me of my old crush. We were friends, I confessed, and he just kinda sorta ignored me for 3 months until I found out that he actually liked me too. Its just that he was really shy about it and didn't want people to make fun of him for liking me and he didn't like it when people shipped us together. I then tried to make the friendship work out again but its still kinda awkward
Man I hate how I lived an anime romance for like a year smh
be like that tho
Anime used to seem outlandish, but some of these love triangle stuffs make more sense as I get older lol. Like of course my crush who lived a 3 blocks away from me and went to my same school all my life is now dating my best friend, and now that it's been like that for a couple years I'm over her and of course now we talk all the time and are great friends.
So basically romance is stupid and I hope yours works out lol
@@davidolinger3948 I forgot to mention in my comment that I now have a boyfriend who isn't the og guy. I just moved on finally. I'm happy with my boyfriend and I hope romance will work out for you soon (even if it is a little stupid)
And I know you moved on but I'm still sorry about your crush
Bruh
well i completely understand your crush since same thing happend with me but my friends teased me so much i completely avoided the girl i liked for 2 years
THE MESSENGER SOUND EFFECTS!!! 😍😍😍😍
How on Earth did she find you?
@Angel Aniki They meant find their school and house. Having a common friend doesn't necessarily mean that common friend knows either pieces of info (and it's implied they didn't considering his confusion)
@@dooplon5083 Dont know how, but if i have to guess, that common friend tell her the address and everything.
hitta.se
王家晧 wtf
Any pictures can contain subtle clues. Landmarks, shops, school uniforms, etc. Pin down general area, then school, follow him home, boom. She worked up the courage then visites.
Girl: *talks to me.
Me: ...[Loading Bar...]
If only you could somehow have a ten minute thoughts cutscene that lasts for one second (LIKE IN FUCKING ANIME!)
@@moriarty756
Friends: *talk to me
Me: ...[Loading Bar...]
Just say yes and shake your head while smiling. Thats what i do to guys.
@@pirateswiggity5278 same bRuH
Same 😭
“Okay what? Just get a deodorant.”
😂😂
She Aint Taking a No
“...and my dad asked me, Are you winning Son?” 2:34
"The time I was afraid of boys...
*and I am one-"*
Ah cmon we will just talk back normally
I'm straight so maybe I shouldn't be saying this, but a boy will always see you as just another bro and won't think anything of it unless you start acting awkward. I have always thought that this was the reason gay boys talk to girls so much, its because they don't feel awkward around them at all and they share the same attractions etc. Anyways I don't really know because I am not gay and I think it would personally be very hard to figure out if someone is gay or not just so you don't have your feelings crushed if you ask them out.
@@savary5050 we get that you're straight, bro. No need to repeat 3 times, bro.
Dude at least guys werent afraid of you-
@@vp3841 like im not gay, but i just wanna say that i am not a homosexual. Not that id know what that would be like tho cuz im not gay.
Being a shy guy is really cute.
Only when you're handsome.
Hm what
A Lot of things works this way
HA HA
ha...
Hmmm, I'm shy, and not a handsome. Still enjoying my life.
@@milindsahoo4752 same here
Very good story, insecurity and awkwardness of being adolescent captured perfectly. This was not cringy for me, maybe because I have many similar ones from my youth and thinking about them from a perspective of an adult make me honestly happy.
@@ultraxred Alcohol.
I like the “are ya winnin son?” reference, great videos man :)
Mattias: "Thank God life is not anime"
Godly words were spoken
It is time for you to look inward and start asking yourself the big questions.
If life were likep anime, then would we call life, as it right now, anime ?
Clems First Yes.
"When I was afraid of girls, I was a spider"
- Widowmaker 2016
Isnt that an Overwatch character
Good one
Mmmmh yes the shot gun that needs metal talks
I’m 14, and I hate being socially awkward, but quarantine makes being socially awkward much easier in school since classes are literally in my computer, much less interaction with people who I barely talk to! Much less awkward conversations! Genius!
Edit: I think I found my problem, I realized that around friends, I always have this vibe of high self-esteem, and generally an extroverted guy, with only some conversations being awkward and.. unpleasant, but when I’m around strangers, or facing serious questions or situations that will affect me somehow, or a girl I like, I guess that’s where I’m rather shy, and nervous, it took me a few hours to confess to a girl I liked a few years ago, and even then, I had stuttered, and quite literally was the most shy kid in the room. I guess it means that I’m socially awkward when it comes to other people or serious circumstances or problems, while in a friendly or casual conversation, I’m confident, and bold?? I don’t understand myself at all..
RIP
Dude.. fix this or you gonna regret why you did not listen to that random youtube reply... or if you are a girl then it's a little less.. painful..
@@amaansiddiqui6262 dude I’m fine im not lonely i have friends okay?
@@vak.o I had friends until online school started one year ago and I haven’t seen any of them since except for every once and while when they turn their cameras on.
Youll never be not socially awkward if you continue to not talk to anyone
pretty similar to what i had, i had a crush on this girl that was and still is way out of my league.
we were 13 and she kept hugging me randomly and drawing on my hands in class and i was completely oblivious to this because i thought she would never want to go out with me, but now years later, she obviously had a crush on me.
for 3 years in school i wanted to ask her out but never got the courage to do so, she eventually asked me out but i was also really awkward, we met twice(she had changed schools for the last year) and it was the most awkward "dates" both of us have ever had, i was completely silent for the majority of it and even asked how she was doing at school, like grade wise, yea that's gonna get her going lol
then she met someone else and we have had stuff here and there yada yada
but good thing, we are now both single at 23 and going out on friday lol
Maybe you still got a chance with her!!
Update us bro
아니 우유도 그렇고 왜 알고리즘은 나에게 이 유튜버의 영상을 뜨워주는거지
wtf
ㅇㅈ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
재미써
나돈데
3:40 Goteberg? Wait... That's where Pewdiepie used to live!
World is so small
Wait... Roomie is also from there...
It's a city with a lot of people.
@@xWood4000 So is Karachi, but I don't know a single TH-camr from there
Small is so world
Göteborg is the second largest city in Sweden, so it's not that weird.
이사람....뭐 우유어쩌고를 본 이후로 자꾸 떠 ..
정신차리고보면 이미 영상 다 보고 있네...
ㄹㅇ
엇 나 잖아?
보다보면 개재밋음..
why yall talking korean?
Im sorry i cant speak rectangles
Kind of crazy how many pubescent boys start off scared of girls and then grow out of it over time, while women more often become increasingly cautious of men and jaded about their intentions as they gain life experience.
It seems a bit sad
"A girl that changes school to spend more time with you"
Not relatable
What I’ve learned from PewDiePie, Roomie, and Matthias:
Swedes have American accents???
there’s a lot of american influence in our culture, so i think thats why ^^
A lot of countries that don't speak english as the first language use American culture to learn
At school we're taught British English but then we go home and consume American media.
The US has had some pretty solid cultural domination going on (at least in the English speaking sphere) for decades by this point, a ~lot~ of English accents are Americanising.
It's a little depressing to me seeing Australians talk like American landmarks and history have more emotional meaning to them than Australian ones, but it's pretty hard to miss.
nah, lots of swedes can barely speak english. Generalising that based off the internet is not a bright thing to do.
We've all experienced cringey moments... Well, more than moments. As someone with social anxiety disorder I could relate so hard. It's nice to know we're not alone with our clumsy, anxiety-driven mistakes, there are other people stumbling along as they learn how to do social stuff too.
Y E S
Feels good to not be alone
It is social phobia? I just learn that this is a mentally disorder...
2:45 Well I’m a girl. I saw this. I’m confused. And scared.
For times like this, TH-cam should have some kind of translator for comments. Or I should just learn every language in the world lmfao
use fooview
Fr-
But there is probably an app for ot i donna
да я согласен))
Google translate.
2:22 Wait..? But... how?
Must be a yandere? I guess
3:00 Yeah... we'll just go with that
(Yeah just finished the vid, that's definetly an anime plot. Someone is gonna make an anime bases off this)
Im with you on that
Polish Filipino "friend of a friend"
@@thiagoareias76 Oh, I guess that could be true. But for real your location? Seems a bit... weird (But this never happened to me so idk)
@@polish_filipino once again, could have asked the common friend for his address. It still feels pretty weird regardless.
there was definitely a lack of story and explanation in this video but i wont blame him as he was an awkward 14 year old back then. But even so, he could've atleast told us who that friend of his is and how they knew her or something.
"The first time I met someone on the internet"
*_Tinder and Grinder intensify_*
"and"?
Steven Matthews
STD’s
It's Grindr there's no er it's just an r.
Stop stalking me pls
im actually a master at hiding it
I’m 24 and still get terrible anxiety when in proximity to women I don’t know. I honestly think I needd to get help at this point lol
You need to talk to a psychologist, it helped me too
Denmo social
Make friends with a lesbian.
the future seems really bleak for me. don't mean to sound edgy or anything but i'm already in my mid 20s and i spent most of my life alone and not talking to anyone. and i doubt i'll get out of it by talking to psychologist or any of that.
@@cocopus get a hobby that involves talking and being with other people, go out a lot and exercise or something just get out of the house honestly thats what helped me the most
알고리즘이 또.. 왜 이 채널은 제목만 한국어인 영상이 이렇게 있는건가
Girl : hi..how are you
Me : im 14...
Girl : *BRUH*
That's so me
Me:
.
actually a really mature video told by a person who seemed like my big brother sharing his relationship advice with me. I really enjored!!! Thanks for sharing
분명 내가 왜 들어왔지라고 생각하고 보고있는 한국인 있을거야
알고리즘
엌
우유보고 들어옴
물론 알고리즘으로
@@jammin5359 헐 저도 우유로 시작ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@jammin5359 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 개공감
I’m a 14 year old girl, and I’m afraid of boys for literally the same reason.
Small world, am I right?
Edit: A year later, turns out I actually just have anxiety. Nice 👍
so guys and girls are afraid of each other
No
@@iGhostr no to what?
@Kejriwal Jindabaad im 32 and im still afraid of girls too
When I was 12/14, I was afraid of boys too cause I've always been very shy, but it is a thing that you need to face, otherwise nothing will really change. It will be hard, and things will get awkward sometimes but it's normal, you're gonna be alright and learn through your experiences. Also, talking to a psychologist can help, I did that and It helped me a lot
I'm 14 and I'm afraid someone will confess to me (like that's ever gonna happen lol), i don't know how to react to it, but at the same time i don't wanna hurt someone's feelings
Wait, are you afraid of hurting you own feelings u.u? Just kidding, don't worry, just be honest to the people that confesses to you and everything will be ok
i always had that fear as well and just like you, i never thought i would experience it anyways, but i did. when i was 15, there was a boy who i've known since i was 11. we used to hang out all the time and i remember when my other friends would gives hints that he liked me but i didn't think much about it. i did think that he only saw me as a friend after all. one day while we were hanging out before class, he suddenly confessed that he liked me out of the blue... in front of my other friends. my stomach started doing flips not because i liked him too, but because my worst fear at the time had manifested. so you know what my dumb self did? i didn't say that i wanted to go out with him and i didn't say that i didn't want to go out with him. instead, i just said one single word: "okay." both he and my friends just all looked at me with the most confused faces. ultimately, they did take that as a "yes" but deep down inside i was screaming "no."
we went out for like a day before i told him that i wasn't ready to date and the only reason why i agreed to dating him was because we had an audience. :*)
Just say.
“Oh.” And do a 180 turn around to walk away
It will hurt them so much they will die on the spot and you don’t have to deal with the anxiety
It’s really nerve wracking man!
@@mightypurplelicious3209 did exactly that when I was a teenager. God, the funeral was awful :(
2:34 Arrrre you winning son?
I need the confidence the girl has in this story 🙂
“I’m coming to your school tomorrow”
*-She forgot to mention she was bringing her AR-15-*
I thought that was obligatory in America
Herself
Good luck breaking into my school, non-enrolled students are not allowed in. That's a good thing about America, randos on the internet can't just walk into your school
Nick Right yeah. I was comfused
@@Nick-lx4fo yet the enrolled students exist and...