Amen! I’m 42 & a virgin, I’ve never been married before, honestly I’ve dealing with Lust that I want to stay away from it. Please keep me in prayer & I want to save myself until marriage.
That's awesome. I was a virgin until 20 and I wish i would of waited until marriage. I beg of you to wait. Don't hurt God like that 😢. That's the only regret in life that I have, and I try to live a life without regrets. I always say I'm grateful for my mistakes because it made me who I am... but God!!!!!
Im 15 years old and have decided to wait until marriage. Ive never been in a relationship and havent even held hands woth a boy but im excited to see what God has in store for me!
Oh Deborah the reason why your channel is one of my fav Christian TH-cams channel is because you are so pure and sincere, I can feel and identify myself in each testimony you have and for sure God has been using you to touch one of us here, I can see from the comments. I do did a lot of the things I really regret as well. As you said, if at least I have someone to show me the light like you do now, but thanks the Lord his love save us whenever and his mercy is unconditional. I praise the Lord for your life and may him continuously blessing you ❤🎉
I am 28 and I have never been in a relationship. People think I am weird because of it. I was hurt and I made mistakes, sleeping with men that left me the day after. I was broken, looking for love and losing my values in Christ. Now I regret some of my choices, sometimes we when look for love we kind of lose our minds. Please, never feel ashamed of who you are, a DAUGHTER OF GOD.
Your husband is out there, Deborah. Me and Fiance have also been practicing abstinence been about 2 years. 2 months until we get married :) we are so excited it feels good to obey God & save myself for marriage not long to go now!♡
Congrats Deborah! I’m glad to see God is always doing a work in you. I’m a 36 y/o male virgin, only by the grace and strength of God. I even had a 4 year relationship that eventually became an engagement. We didn’t marry so we didn’t have sex, although, that relationship wasn’t free of sexual impurity. Tbh it’s only earlier this year after being born-again have I committed to staying pure from all forms of sexual immorality. Lustful thoughts come up in my mind every now and then but God is always transforming me.
I’m a 31yo virgin who deals with same sex attraction and also have never been in a relationship by the grace of God. It is a struggle for sure but I’m praying for you and I hope you’d pray for me as well.
Whew Deb !!!!!!! I have been following you since the beginning. From the apartment, to me having Big Faith and me getting my own brand new one. To me going through the same struggles. Especially this one. 32 next month and never been in a relationship. I’m telling you, you are God sent to my life and together we will defeat the enemy. You don’t even understand how much you have helped me on my walk with God.
And with me never being in a relationship ever, but I desire MARRIAGE so much. I still have faith God is soon sending me my earthly husband ! 2025 prayerfully ! With big faith, it is already done !
Congratulations Deborah God bless you sister. It was so refreshing to hear you talking about your journey. You are so right about how the world encourages sexual impurity it’s all over the place, but doesn’t care about the consequences that follow how we are so broken afterwards. It makes it seems as if God is boring and he just doesn’t want me to enjoy myself when all he’s trying to do is protect me from the heartache and preserve me for the good things he has for me. I’m grateful for the mistakes not proud though. I believe he shows his love even in the consequences.
This video is so timely❤️. Just yesterday I got so emotional when I was reminded about my past mistakes🥹, I really wish I knew better too. God tried to protect my heart from my last relationship 5 years ago. He gave me that verse ‘do not awaken love until it pleases’ and I did not listen. I think being in that relationship scared me so much because there was abuse involved and it could have gotten worse had I stayed in it. I grew up with a step dad that abused my mom, she’s no longer with him and just seeing that I always told myself that I would never stay with a guy that will lift his hands at me, I realised how willing my flesh was because I craved to be seen and loved, I never had that growing up. Thank God he saved me from the biggest mistake of my life. I now know my worth, I still have my struggles but thank God I’m not where I use to be 🙌🏼
I'll be two years celibate in April 2025, I thank you for your transparency and allowing God to use you, its been such a blessing please remain encouraged to share :)
I can so relate to never being in an actual relationship and still crossing that line, BUT GOD. You are such an inspiration and blessing! I pray I get to meet you someday, on this side of heaven! 🤍✝️
Deborah!!! I'm already crying because we have a similar story. 21, never been in a proper relationship but crossed that line BUT GOD! thank you for sharing your testimony and we praise the Most High for how far you've come!🥹❤️
Oh wow, congratulations Debs! 🤍 As a teen girl, hormones do really kicking in haha. Thank you, sis, for this video! It also reminds me to wait until it is the right time (but there were times I get tempted to be distracted on boys and allowing my emotions to take over, pls pray for me y'all. may God help me 🥹). And if it's okay everyone, please pray for my little brother bcs he’s sick at the moment. Also, for me bcs I’m dealing with rashes (it's frustrating 😢). Thank you and may God bless us all 🫶🏻
I like how you mentioned the false sense of empowerment. It's very concerning the amount of promotion the world has towards empowerment through sabotage. I'm proud of you for turning your life around, and running this beautiful social campaign to enlighten and encourage us. You consistently hit home with your words. God must be pleased. 8 years celibate, myself. Would absolutely not be possible without God. Went to him in vulnerability, and he immediately lifted a burden. So proud of myself, and thankful for God.
Congratulations on your two year celibacy journey and for being obedient and trusting the most high.I started my own celibacy journey on 07/2018 and is definitely not easy but it's rewarding.
Lil sis, I can relate! I too am two years abstinent. It breaks my heart that i accepted those things. Praise to The Most High that I have been delivered
God bless you Deborah. Thank you for your transparency, it is not in vain you are speaking to and encouraging many. I understand that you feel exposed and vulnerable at times with the amount of information that you share but it is unto the glory of God, helping others of all ages and setting yourself free at the same time. Be encouraged little sister. Hugs !
Congratulations on 2 years 🎉 I’m currently 6th months abstinence. Thank you for your content, it’s helping me on my relationship with God. I’m a college student in Colorado and I love watching your channel! ❤
God bless you sis! You are speaking TRUTH! Thank you for being so open and vulnerable!! You are helping so many people and are a beautiful blessing to the body of Christ! I know the Lord has a special young man for you that will come along side of you (when the time is right) and you both will be a powerful weapon for the Kingdome of God!! Have a blessed day and keep speaking what God gives you for his glory🙏❤️
Amazing amazing wisdom in this video … thank you so much for being brave and sharing this ❤ I have sent this to two of my loved ones !!!! I was celibate for 4 years and waited for my Godly husband ! It was so worth the wait ! 🎉🎉🎉❤
I am starting my journey completely in January 2025. I've been on and off this journey since June and I have slipped many times. I spend more time fantasizing about it then doing it. Which is my down fall. I had to stop listening to certain music, watching movies, reading books etc. I even have to stop social media sometimes because often I would scroll from one videos that's doesn't have any connections to lust and boom, there is a video that is showing something I try to avoid. It's a working process for sure.
I experience this too, especially in my thoughts and oh how the Lord had to work on me in order for me to stop reading the wrong kinda books . He has bought me far, though . Praise God ❤, praying for u too love 🩵.
Trust me, I feel the SAME. I cannot believe what I allowed and man, it breaks my heart for my younger self but I can move on w the lessons learnt and help other people along the way. :(
I see the goodness of the LORD in your story sis ♥️✨ none of us is perfect yet the LORD chooses us, equips us, loves us. You are admired and loved sis ✨♥️
You made me cry sis, but in a good way! Congrats by the way :) I really needed to hear this and I’ve been struggling a lot lately in general but what you brought up about submission is key. It made me think of the two verses in James: “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.” James 4:7-8 KJV ❤🎉 By the way, have you ever thought about creating a book club?
I love you, D. Thank you for being the big sis I've never had. It's so beautiful to hear that I'm not alone and that I can overcome it. God bless you, sis 💕
Congratulations love 🎉🎉 Thank you for being transparent. The walk is NOT easy. You were deff talking to me, my past is not great I felt empowered when sleeping around and like you said nothing to show for it. God set boundaries in place for a reason and I am happy to know the truth. I am almost a year in to celibacy and it has been peaceful not having to worry about a man that’s not leading me to closer to God. I am patiently waiting though 🫣
I would like to ask for prayer for myself and someone very dear to me. We recently went through a breakup that was rooted in our differing spiritual foundations. While we both love and care for each other deeply, I realized that I had to prioritize my relationship with God above all else, and that led to a difficult decision to let go of the relationship. She is on her own faith journey, and I pray that she continues to grow closer to Jesus and finds her identity fully in Him. I’m also praying for wisdom and discernment for myself, as this has been an emotional and challenging time. I want to trust God’s plan, whether that means reconciliation or moving forward separately. Please pray that God’s will would be made clear to both of us, that we would fully surrender to Him, and that we would find peace in His love and guidance. Thank you.
Lisa Bevere has spoken about that… being the woman that we needed or wished we’d had when we were young, for others. You’re doing that so beautifully. 💜
Thank you so much for your encouragement Deborah ❤, we appreciate you sharing and being so vulnerable with your experiences to help us in our own personal lives and may God bless you.
I had to rush as soon as I saw the notification. Thank God for your progress & I pray that God will keep you in his way and will for your life. Thank you for using your life to be a blessing to us all. May the Lord reward you. Lots of love from me sis❤️!
Deborah, thank you for being so real in this video. I can relate to so much of what you went through! God bless you, and thank you for reminding me to give my feelings to God always! 🙏
Have you heard of the young lady (she is 23yrs) who slept with 100 men and regret it after. Its sad that we live in a time in which purity is seen shameful. Being a virgin in your teen's is seen wrong. Also if I can add, to those who have children, it is very important to tell your children who important is to wait for the right one. Sex isn't for pleasure its a physical action to be done with the one you love. As I was growing up my parents never told me how important is purity and one's virginity and to wait for the right one. You see movies and TV shows show you sex to be something so normal and I grew up with that mindset. So sisters and brothers in Christ lets not let the media teach our children how important is this topic we got to teach them the truth of these subjects even if its very uncomfortable for us to share.
Deborah you hit every thing u said on the nail , YES THE CHURCH DOESNT SPEAK ON ANYTHING ABOUT OUR SEXUALITY OR SODOM AND GOMORRAH TIMES VICE VERSA US NOW IN 2024 I LOVE TO LISTEN TO YOU SPEAK ON THE BIBLE AND THE TRUTH 😊❤KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO AND BY THE WAY IVE BEEN celibate FOR 5 years now going strong 💪 ❤❤
It feels so difficult now. I have acted on my fleshly desires with my partner in the past and now the Holy Spirit is leading me on this path of purity which seems to be the opposite of what my partner wants. I'm tempted sometimes to give in to him but it's either him or God. I'm choosing to stick with God, but that decision does not feel good now at all. I know I'm giving him up by doing this.
It's so true that the world is constantly urging people to let go be wild and free do what you want but the world is not there to pick up the broken pieces and put people back together again and that's okay because Jesus is there to do just that and no one does a thing the way that Jesus does a thing. ♥️
Hi Love Can you clarify what celibacy is versus abstinence? I feel as though being celibate is more of a permanent thing (avoid relationships, not marriage) compared to abstaining which is more no sexual interaction until marriage - like temporarily. Thanks for sharing
I was starting to see like indeed it's boring to be celibate and the mind od engaging myself sexual had started to be louder but thanks for you.... And also I'm going through heartache because I thought I could give myself a chance to be in a relationship but it didn't work but I'm hoping to heal Thanks Deborah ❤
The Lord is with you in this sis. There is no heartache he can’t heal. You’re safe in the father’s arms 🤍🫂 he loves you so so much, he’s your hubby, partner & first love before anything so let him love you!!! Love you sis :)
I love this topic and wish it was easier to speak to women in Christ who have fallen into the trap of “I feel empowered by having sex.” The comparisons you’ve made are so good - how do you know healthy food is better for you than fast food if all you know is all you know?
The desire is not there for MANY reasons but most of all ,if and when it is Gods desire for me to know a man, HE WILL SEND A REAL MAN...not an imposter. Continue to look to YAWHEH....
Deborah, you are "the seed of the blessed of the Lord". You "wear a new garment" and is called "Saint", Righteousness of God, "a joint-heir with Jesus". Jesus never remind us of our past it is satan.
Hey sis, no point to what? 🥺🤍 The Lord loves us so much and he has such an incredible plan for us! As our creator he does know what’s better for us than we do ourselves….
Amen! I’m 42 & a virgin, I’ve never been married before, honestly I’ve dealing with Lust that I want to stay away from it. Please keep me in prayer & I want to save myself until marriage.
That's awesome. I was a virgin until 20 and I wish i would of waited until marriage. I beg of you to wait. Don't hurt God like that 😢. That's the only regret in life that I have, and I try to live a life without regrets. I always say I'm grateful for my mistakes because it made me who I am... but God!!!!!
@@Sonja-sy2eo Amen! ❤
Im 15 years old and have decided to wait until marriage. Ive never been in a relationship and havent even held hands woth a boy but im excited to see what God has in store for me!
Oh Deborah the reason why your channel is one of my fav Christian TH-cams channel is because you are so pure and sincere, I can feel and identify myself in each testimony you have and for sure God has been using you to touch one of us here, I can see from the comments. I do did a lot of the things I really regret as well. As you said, if at least I have someone to show me the light like you do now, but thanks the Lord his love save us whenever and his mercy is unconditional. I praise the Lord for your life and may him continuously blessing you ❤🎉
He has made everything beautiful in its time. Keep walking, holding on Jesus tightly.
Amen 🥹🤍
Amen 🙏🏻
I am 28 and I have never been in a relationship. People think I am weird because of it. I was hurt and I made mistakes, sleeping with men that left me the day after. I was broken, looking for love and losing my values in Christ. Now I regret some of my choices, sometimes we when look for love we kind of lose our minds. Please, never feel ashamed of who you are, a DAUGHTER OF GOD.
Your husband is out there, Deborah. Me and Fiance have also been practicing abstinence been about 2 years. 2 months until we get married :) we are so excited it feels good to obey God & save myself for marriage not long to go now!♡
Congrats Deborah! I’m glad to see God is always doing a work in you. I’m a 36 y/o male virgin, only by the grace and strength of God. I even had a 4 year relationship that eventually became an engagement. We didn’t marry so we didn’t have sex, although, that relationship wasn’t free of sexual impurity. Tbh it’s only earlier this year after being born-again have I committed to staying pure from all forms of sexual immorality. Lustful thoughts come up in my mind every now and then but God is always transforming me.
That's so beautiful. May God God continuously working in you and I pray that you find the love, the one aligned with the plans of God. Amen
@@meucontodefalhas9085 Thank you! I pray that God blesses you in all the areas that advances His kingdom and brings Him glory. 🙏🏾
I’m a 31yo virgin who deals with same sex attraction and also have never been in a relationship by the grace of God. It is a struggle for sure but I’m praying for you and I hope you’d pray for me as well.
MAY GOD PROTECT YOU FROM ANY TEMPTATION 🙏🏼
“The world does not care what happens in the spirtitual” 🎯
Whew Deb !!!!!!! I have been following you since the beginning. From the apartment, to me having Big Faith and me getting my own brand new one. To me going through the same struggles. Especially this one. 32 next month and never been in a relationship. I’m telling you, you are God sent to my life and together we will defeat the enemy. You don’t even understand how much you have helped me on my walk with God.
And with me never being in a relationship ever, but I desire MARRIAGE so much. I still have faith God is soon sending me my earthly husband ! 2025 prayerfully ! With big faith, it is already done !
Congratulations Deborah God bless you sister. It was so refreshing to hear you talking about your journey. You are so right about how the world encourages sexual impurity it’s all over the place, but doesn’t care about the consequences that follow how we are so broken afterwards. It makes it seems as if God is boring and he just doesn’t want me to enjoy myself when all he’s trying to do is protect me from the heartache and preserve me for the good things he has for me. I’m grateful for the mistakes not proud though. I believe he shows his love even in the consequences.
This video is so timely❤️. Just yesterday I got so emotional when I was reminded about my past mistakes🥹, I really wish I knew better too. God tried to protect my heart from my last relationship 5 years ago. He gave me that verse ‘do not awaken love until it pleases’ and I did not listen. I think being in that relationship scared me so much because there was abuse involved and it could have gotten worse had I stayed in it. I grew up with a step dad that abused my mom, she’s no longer with him and just seeing that I always told myself that I would never stay with a guy that will lift his hands at me, I realised how willing my flesh was because I craved to be seen and loved, I never had that growing up. Thank God he saved me from the biggest mistake of my life. I now know my worth, I still have my struggles but thank God I’m not where I use to be 🙌🏼
I'll be two years celibate in April 2025, I thank you for your transparency and allowing God to use you, its been such a blessing please remain encouraged to share :)
I can so relate to never being in an actual relationship and still crossing that line, BUT GOD. You are such an inspiration and blessing! I pray I get to meet you someday, on this side of heaven! 🤍✝️
Amennnn!! The Lord is so so kind 😭🤍 He’s our rescuer and redeemer! Much love sis, and by the grace of God we will get to meet someday 🥹
I'm a 27 year old virgin but I struggle with pornography and masturbation😭💔. Please pray for me as I pray for you🙏✝️
With you in prayer Ntsako ❤🥺
Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty sis 🥹🩷
Deborah!!! I'm already crying because we have a similar story. 21, never been in a proper relationship but crossed that line BUT GOD! thank you for sharing your testimony and we praise the Most High for how far you've come!🥹❤️
Oh wow, congratulations Debs! 🤍 As a teen girl, hormones do really kicking in haha. Thank you, sis, for this video! It also reminds me to wait until it is the right time (but there were times I get tempted to be distracted on boys and allowing my emotions to take over, pls pray for me y'all. may God help me 🥹). And if it's okay everyone, please pray for my little brother bcs he’s sick at the moment. Also, for me bcs I’m dealing with rashes (it's frustrating 😢). Thank you and may God bless us all 🫶🏻
I like how you mentioned the false sense of empowerment. It's very concerning the amount of promotion the world has towards empowerment through sabotage.
I'm proud of you for turning your life around, and running this beautiful social campaign to enlighten and encourage us. You consistently hit home with your words. God must be pleased.
8 years celibate, myself. Would absolutely not be possible without God. Went to him in vulnerability, and he immediately lifted a burden. So proud of myself, and thankful for God.
Congratulations on your two year celibacy journey and for being obedient and trusting the most high.I started my own celibacy journey on 07/2018 and is definitely not easy but it's rewarding.
Lil sis, I can relate! I too am two years abstinent. It breaks my heart that i accepted those things. Praise to The Most High that I have been delivered
Amennn the Lord has set us free 😭🤍All by his grace!
You don’t even know how much I really needed this. This was so timely.
You look incredible in this video! Super beautiful and polished!❤
Oh thank you so much sis 🥹🤍
My first time commenting and I just want to let you know that you have really been a big help ❤ you 😊
God bless you Deborah.
Thank you for your transparency, it is not in vain you are speaking to and encouraging many. I understand that you feel exposed and vulnerable at times with the amount of information that you share but it is unto the glory of God, helping others of all ages and setting yourself free at the same time. Be encouraged little sister.
Hugs !
Congratulations on 2 years 🎉 I’m currently 6th months abstinence. Thank you for your content, it’s helping me on my relationship with God. I’m a college student in Colorado and I love watching your channel! ❤
God bless you sis! You are speaking TRUTH! Thank you for being so open and vulnerable!! You are helping so many people and are a beautiful blessing to the body of Christ! I know the Lord has a special young man for you that will come along side of you (when the time is right) and you both will be a powerful weapon for the Kingdome of God!! Have a blessed day and keep speaking what God gives you for his glory🙏❤️
Amazing amazing wisdom in this video … thank you so much for being brave and sharing this ❤ I have sent this to two of my loved ones !!!! I was celibate for 4 years and waited for my Godly husband ! It was so worth the wait ! 🎉🎉🎉❤
I am starting my journey completely in January 2025. I've been on and off this journey since June and I have slipped many times. I spend more time fantasizing about it then doing it. Which is my down fall. I had to stop listening to certain music, watching movies, reading books etc. I even have to stop social media sometimes because often I would scroll from one videos that's doesn't have any connections to lust and boom, there is a video that is showing something I try to avoid. It's a working process for sure.
It’s best to start the journey now, tomorrow isn’t promised🤍
I experience this too, especially in my thoughts and oh how the Lord had to work on me in order for me to stop reading the wrong kinda books . He has bought me far, though . Praise God ❤, praying for u too love 🩵.
I like your word for word intro! I say it along with you in my head 😊
YEESSSS, the mental clarity and sobreity of mind is the best part ❤
You're such an amazing woman of God
...thank you watching from kenya 🇰🇪
9:26 if God is "keeping" some thing away from you,it Means that you are not ready for it yet
You are so relatable! 🥺 thank you so much for allowing God to use you ❤️ you’ve helped me so much on my faith walk 🙏🏽 keep going 🫶🏽
Totally nailed it sis! God bless you Deborah❤
Trust me, I feel the SAME. I cannot believe what I allowed and man, it breaks my heart for my younger self but I can move on w the lessons learnt and help other people along the way. :(
I see the goodness of the LORD in your story sis ♥️✨ none of us is perfect yet the LORD chooses us, equips us, loves us. You are admired and loved sis ✨♥️
Deborah Congratulations! That is huge! 🤍🥺 Thank you for being my big sister in Christ. I can’t express my gratitude for these faith talks!
thank you so much sis!!!!!❤ you have no idea how much i needed to hear this message...
Thank you Deborah. This is very powerful, sharing and talking about this will help girls and boys to know that waiting is better 🙏🏼
You made me cry sis, but in a good way! Congrats by the way :) I really needed to hear this and I’ve been struggling a lot lately in general but what you brought up about submission is key. It made me think of the two verses in James: “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.”
James 4:7-8 KJV ❤🎉
By the way, have you ever thought about creating a book club?
I love you, D. Thank you for being the big sis I've never had. It's so beautiful to hear that I'm not alone and that I can overcome it. God bless you, sis 💕
Congratulations love 🎉🎉 Thank you for being transparent. The walk is NOT easy.
You were deff talking to me, my past is not great I felt empowered when sleeping around and like you said nothing to show for it. God set boundaries in place for a reason and I am happy to know the truth. I am almost a year in to celibacy and it has been peaceful not having to worry about a man that’s not leading me to closer to God.
I am patiently waiting though 🫣
Bless you Debs, God is so good. God bless family 🙏
I would like to ask for prayer for myself and someone very dear to me. We recently went through a breakup that was rooted in our differing spiritual foundations. While we both love and care for each other deeply, I realized that I had to prioritize my relationship with God above all else, and that led to a difficult decision to let go of the relationship.
She is on her own faith journey, and I pray that she continues to grow closer to Jesus and finds her identity fully in Him. I’m also praying for wisdom and discernment for myself, as this has been an emotional and challenging time. I want to trust God’s plan, whether that means reconciliation or moving forward separately.
Please pray that God’s will would be made clear to both of us, that we would fully surrender to Him, and that we would find peace in His love and guidance. Thank you.
Lisa Bevere has spoken about that… being the woman that we needed or wished we’d had when we were young, for others. You’re doing that so beautifully. 💜
Congratulations 🎉❤❤
Keep going ❤❤
Thank you so much for your encouragement Deborah ❤, we appreciate you sharing and being so vulnerable with your experiences to help us in our own personal lives and may God bless you.
I had to rush as soon as I saw the notification.
Thank God for your progress & I pray that God will keep you in his way and will for your life.
Thank you for using your life to be a blessing to us all.
May the Lord reward you.
Lots of love from me sis❤️!
Deborah, thank you for being so real in this video. I can relate to so much of what you went through! God bless you, and thank you for reminding me to give my feelings to God always! 🙏
Congratulations sis! Lots of love ❤🎉
Love you sis ❤
Love you too!! 🥹🫂
U are not alone we in this together. What happens in the past does not define our future . Our heavenly father is enough 🙏
Amennn!!
Dear Deborah, your innocence and pure heart shine beautifully. I pray that God fulfills the desires of your heart that align with His will.❤
Good thoughts today and so very true.
Also, you look beautiful (as always)-Love your hair that way!
Thank you so much sis 😭🤍
Hey sis,thankyou for sharing this and for truly being our sis in christ.....As always love from Kenya 🇰🇪.
I am 27 as well and relate so much to this video, thank you so much sister in Christ ❤❤
Have you heard of the young lady (she is 23yrs) who slept with 100 men and regret it after. Its sad that we live in a time in which purity is seen shameful. Being a virgin in your teen's is seen wrong. Also if I can add, to those who have children, it is very important to tell your children who important is to wait for the right one. Sex isn't for pleasure its a physical action to be done with the one you love. As I was growing up my parents never told me how important is purity and one's virginity and to wait for the right one. You see movies and TV shows show you sex to be something so normal and I grew up with that mindset. So sisters and brothers in Christ lets not let the media teach our children how important is this topic we got to teach them the truth of these subjects even if its very uncomfortable for us to share.
Deborah you hit every thing u said on the nail , YES THE CHURCH DOESNT SPEAK ON ANYTHING ABOUT OUR SEXUALITY OR SODOM AND GOMORRAH TIMES VICE VERSA US NOW IN 2024 I LOVE TO LISTEN TO YOU SPEAK ON THE BIBLE AND THE TRUTH 😊❤KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO AND BY THE WAY IVE BEEN celibate FOR 5 years now going strong 💪 ❤❤
It feels so difficult now. I have acted on my fleshly desires with my partner in the past and now the Holy Spirit is leading me on this path of purity which seems to be the opposite of what my partner wants. I'm tempted sometimes to give in to him but it's either him or God. I'm choosing to stick with God, but that decision does not feel good now at all. I know I'm giving him up by doing this.
Congratulations ☺️✨ I’m two years abstinent too! It’s such an amazing journey!
I'm also from London! I've been trying to find more Christian friends and I would love to connect x
God bless all my brothers and sisters. I love you all.
Thank you so much for sharing Deborah❤
This is a much needed conversation, thank you❤
Bless you for your encouragement and openness ❤
thank you for being so vulnerable, I don't think you understand how many people you are helping being set free rn 💖💖 stay blessed dear sister
I needed to hear this, thank you so much
Congratulations!
It's so true that the world is constantly urging people to let go be wild and free do what you want but the world is not there to pick up the broken pieces and put people back together again and that's okay because Jesus is there to do just that and no one does a thing the way that Jesus does a thing. ♥️
Love you so much ❤
Love you too sis 😭🤍
Thank you for sharing 🤍 I really enjoy your videos you are like a big sister I never had
Congratulations ❤
congratulations ❤ , i’ve been struggling but i’m so happy to see you doing so well
Congrats 🎉 & you look well moisturized 😊❤
Hi Love
Can you clarify what celibacy is versus abstinence? I feel as though being celibate is more of a permanent thing (avoid relationships, not marriage) compared to abstaining which is more no sexual interaction until marriage - like temporarily.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks Deb❤
Amen!!!! Thank you for sharing Deborah ❤❤❤❤
I was starting to see like indeed it's boring to be celibate and the mind od engaging myself sexual had started to be louder but thanks for you....
And also I'm going through heartache because I thought I could give myself a chance to be in a relationship but it didn't work but I'm hoping to heal
Thanks Deborah ❤
The Lord is with you in this sis. There is no heartache he can’t heal. You’re safe in the father’s arms 🤍🫂 he loves you so so much, he’s your hubby, partner & first love before anything so let him love you!!! Love you sis :)
I used to have lustful thoughts and romanticize but Yahuah really helped me overcome that. Praise Yahushua ❤
I get unrequited crushes. Im 50 and the Lord has helped me as its to do with wanting to be validated by people ❤
I love you sis Deborah ❤
Well done Sis❤❤❤
I love this topic and wish it was easier to speak to women in Christ who have fallen into the trap of “I feel empowered by having sex.” The comparisons you’ve made are so good - how do you know healthy food is better for you than fast food if all you know is all you know?
Hi sis thank you for sharing this video I needed to hear this
So what are your thoughts about purity rings❤
Ohhh weee this video is sooo relatable!
Powerful message, could you please make a video about abortion how it is not just a procedure but a murder of an unborn child?
I lowkey want this situationship storytime tea
😭 who knows maybe I’ll share one day…
Thank you for the example girl 💌
It has been 10+ years for me...all is well
Praise the Lord!! Blessed are those who walk closely with the Lord 🥹🤍
The desire is not there for MANY reasons but most of all ,if and when it is Gods desire for me to know a man, HE WILL SEND A REAL MAN...not an imposter. Continue to look to YAWHEH....
Im a young christian and i would like to know how to dress can you please make a video about modesty sending lots of love 🫶
Beautiful.🍕🥤 congratulations🥰 Love you Deb Deb's. Hi fam😊👋
Much love Deb ❤️
So good 🙏🙌
Beautiful ❤️
Deborah, you are "the seed of the blessed of the Lord". You "wear a new garment" and is called "Saint", Righteousness of God, "a joint-heir with Jesus". Jesus never remind us of our past it is satan.
I’m at 4 years in June 😭😩
Girllll congrats 🥹🤍 The Lord has such special things set aside for you!! This is not in vain!!
So true
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I’m confused I seen a video few months ago saying you’re a virgin still
you’re to be celibate 2 years now 😅
still love ya content tho
Different content creator 😬🤣
I never said that so that wasn’t me 😭
There is no point😢
Hey sis, no point to what? 🥺🤍 The Lord loves us so much and he has such an incredible plan for us! As our creator he does know what’s better for us than we do ourselves….