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  • Introducing drumroll please
    Alastor Moody aka Moodalicious aka Mr. Moods!
    I’m so excited to continue to get to know this ball of floof, and I hope you are too!
    He’s about a year old, I adopted him at the beginning of December, and he’s quickly made himself at home 😻 He was found as a stray in October, so we don't know his history unfortunately! His eye was removed at the shelter due to a previous injury that caused it to rupture, he wasn't able to see out of it when they found him.
    It’s taken me longer than I anticipated to be able to put this post together and take the plunge in sharing him. Grief is weird, and complicated, and has so many emotions mixed together it can be hard to separate them out. Did I cry multiple times while editing? Yes. Did I have to take more breaks than I expected to get it done? Definitely. But I also laughed, smiled, and got to remember ‪@BilliSpeaks‬ while doing it. This has been a consistent rollercoaster of feels over the last two months, notably when I cried playing fan toy with him because “he wasn’t doing it like Billi did” 🤦🏼‍♀️
    I like Squirrel’s take, that Billi had a paw in our meeting, and that while she’d be big mad to have to have to share me she’d also have incredibly high standards if it had to happen 😹
    Credit to Auntie for the handle 🙌🏻



    Billi was a female domestic shorthair. We said goodbye in June 2024 after her kidney disease progressed when she was two months shy of 16 years old. Her favorite word was (and probably always will be) mad. She was the first cat to pick up speech buttons, and she paved the way for so many feline friends. I miss her every day.
    Inspiration for learning to “speak” with buttons from Hunger4Words (check her out on IG).
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    ✨merchandise
    ✨website with FAQs and getting started resources
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    ✨food puzzles
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  • @GeekChicPolitiq
    @GeekChicPolitiq 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +45

    Shelter worker here. I always tell adopters who have lost their previous cat and feel guilty loving on a new one that they're not replacing their previous cat, they're bringing in a new family member. Be gentle with yourself 💞

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kathyjohnson2043
    @kathyjohnson2043 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +19

    Something for all of us to remember: Loving a creature that needs your love is never something to feel guilty about.

  • @TimothySmiths
    @TimothySmiths 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +26

    Lol forever known as Squirrel now thanks to Billi.

  • @junipercats2472
    @junipercats2472 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +54

    Billie loved you too much to begrudge you a new cat companion in her absence. If there's any one wish our pets can make when they cross over, it would be that we're not left without a companion to watch over us.

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +15

      I sure hope so ❤️

  • @Ido013
    @Ido013 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +25

    Now we'll have to stay mad AND moody!! Welcome back, Kendra

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

      It’s good to be back!

  • @lisahamrick4061
    @lisahamrick4061 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +21

    A very wise woman once told me that the best way to honor the life of a deceased pet is to save the life of another pet. I'm so glad Alister found you! And his name is perfect!

  • @originalismisacrock166
    @originalismisacrock166 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +41

    Alastor likes trips and actively seeks training? Yup - Billi not only sent him, she carefully screened every candidate.

    • @venomousspecifics45
      @venomousspecifics45 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      And she’s still mad about the whole process! There were way too many unqualified candidates that had to be weeded out!

  • @gingw7333
    @gingw7333 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +13

    I understand the mixed emotions about getting a new cat. When my diabetic boy, Spirit, finally got too tired to fight through his second bout of pancreatitis and let me know it was OK to allow him to cross the rainbow bridge, I couldn't think of getting another cat. However, his littermate was grieving himself to death. Would hardly eat, play at all or show interest in anything. I got a feral rescue female who had been adopted and returned twice. She was for my male, not me, so her liking me wasn't a requirement. She brought dear Bootsie out of his depression by sheer pestering until he submitted to her play and cuddles. She hated people so I left her alone except vet visits. 3 years later we lost 18 1/2 yr old Bootsie. A week after that Miss Angel jumped up beside me and has been the biggest cuddle bug ever since. She understood her assignment and who needed her when. She's truly my Angel. I found out love doesn't transfer, it multiplies.

  • @dmckim3174
    @dmckim3174 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +20

    I think Billi would be thrilled that you are giving another kitty a home. It would be one thing if it was taking something away from her, but now that she doesn’t need a physical home anymore I think she would be very happy to see you give another animal a loving home. ❤

  • @r.d.stratford106
    @r.d.stratford106 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +13

    Welcome, Alastor! He's lovely and such a sweetheart. I agree with Squirrel, I think Billi had a paw in sending him your way.

  • @randidorrenbacher5433
    @randidorrenbacher5433 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +18

    PLEASE, don't feel guilty for loving a new cat.

  • @Eddie42023
    @Eddie42023 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +18

    I think I hear Billi: 'Mom - Happy'.

  • @angelapruitt
    @angelapruitt 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +13

    None of us will ever forget Billi, and no one will ever replace her. Please don’t ever feel guilty for giving your love and home to a cat in need. Surely Billi would want you to help as many kitties as you can. I am so excited to watch this little floof come into his own. I can honestly say I don’t care one bit what direction you go with this channel, as long as you take us with you.

  • @alisonmcbrier1534
    @alisonmcbrier1534 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +14

    I've teared up watching this. So glad to meet Alastor. I've thought of you and Billi often.

  • @celestialstar6450
    @celestialstar6450 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +14

    Alastor, thank you for adopting Kendra and Dad! Who knows WHAT trouble they could get up to if left unsupervised??? They can be a handful and may take some time to train, but you’ve got this!!!
    Big hugs, 🫂 Kendra! Billi wouldn’t want you to mourn forever! Just because you love Alastor doesn’t mean you stop loving Billi. 💖💖💖

  • @AlfredSpangler
    @AlfredSpangler วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    Sir Moody already has 7k followers and no videos out yet. That's Billi's legacy.

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

      It was so unexpected 😭🥰❤️

    • @Moonfeather40
      @Moonfeather40 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Actually it’s 9k now

  • @jalasd
    @jalasd 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +14

    No need to feel guilt -- you did not just train Billi, Billi put a lot into training you too! She would not want you to waste her efforts. She made you and dad into great cat parents, and she MUST know how many kitties in need can use help from people like you! She was one of them, after all. What you do, you do for her, on her behalf. Do it happily! She's got your back!

  • @mercywalschek2695
    @mercywalschek2695 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    I'm so glad you have welcomed Alastor into your family. Billi is not mad. I have no doubt. ❤

  • @ferretyluv
    @ferretyluv 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    I’m glad that she’s still called Squirrel.

  • @lizard3755
    @lizard3755 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +77

    If Alastor isn't interested in buttons, I'd love getting to see him spend time outside or going on adventures!

  • @untbunny
    @untbunny 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +15

    Kendra, your openness about grieving Billi I something we all need to understand. Too often, we grief I silence and alone. Thank you for being open and loving.

  • @CrepuscularChaot
    @CrepuscularChaot 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +185

    You asked for suggestions. It was the buttons that drew me to your account, so BUTTONS! Of course Alistair might not be as interested in them, if a cat’s too content they don’t have as much to say! Now for silly suggestions,I like watching people put together homemade cat toys from loo rolls etc, especially with the participation of the cat! I saw Alistair had a harness on, I enjoy seeing walks, and especially interactions with new animals and people. It is starting to look like dogs might just be able to read (this is from Bastiens and from Parker’s channels) it would probably be too time consuming, but it would be awesome if you could investigate that, with flash cards written the same way. Also using buttons to investigate a cat’s preferences in food, music, friends. TBH I think that the people who have been entranced by the journey you and Billi took will just be grateful for whatever you can manage. The start of last year was devastating for me and I honestly had days where it felt like the only thing preventing me swallowing a pile of pills was being entranced by Billis progress and your relationship. I am lucky that that time is over now but I still rewatch many of your videos and my fascination with the things we may come to discover adds a lot of joy to my life. I once said that although Stella was the original, the work that you’ve done with Billi (and that she did with you) will help many animals who are more likely to be given a way to advocate for themselves. Thankyou.

    • @estibon3872
      @estibon3872 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

      Yes! It was the buttons for me too! The buttons allowed us to learn "cat". Watching Billie's body language and seeing what button she pushed allowed me to translate when my cat is acting like that! The fact that Billie could answer just about any question but, it took time, taught me patience when dealing with my cats. All this has enhanced the bond i have with my cats. Thank you, Billie for giving me that!

    • @Pittykittymomma4ever
      @Pittykittymomma4ever 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

      Glad you're still here! 💜

    • @rdklkje13
      @rdklkje13 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

      The reading thing is sooo fascinating. Even if it’s just memorising images, the way Parker uses Bastian’s extensive board with zero problems always blows my mind.
      And then there’s the time Parker reminded Sasha to go remove her soaking sweaters from the bucket after she’d ignored the alarm she’d set for about a minute. The cognitive processing which went into that action is the kind of thing we all need to learn to take seriously about the beings that share this habitat of ours before we’ve messed it up to the point of no return.

  • @sanguinelynx
    @sanguinelynx 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Mr. Moody is adorable! Billi is forever in our hearts, but hearts are made to share love, and Alastor will have a new life to share with you. I don't think our little friends would have it any other way.

  • @SewingBoxDesigns
    @SewingBoxDesigns 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Getting sideswiped by a car can shatter a cats eye. Thank you so much for taking him in. His serious naps show he's loving his new home. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Just-Nikki
    @Just-Nikki 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    It’s so odd that we feel guilty moving forward when we experience loss but we wouldn’t want our loved ones ( 2 or 4 legged ) to stop moving forward. Let’s normalize giving ourselves the compassion and desire for happiness that we give our loved ones.
    Also, his sleep smile stole my heart 💜

  • @catc8927
    @catc8927 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    So glad Squirrel is there to support Kendra through the grieving process. ❤

  • @FantaLain
    @FantaLain 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    We got our current kitty somewhat soon after our boy Arthur passed. I cant say how soon exactly because grief turned my brain into pudding but soon enough that myself and my mom went through the same complicated mix of emotions.
    One day my mom voiced the thing that had been weighing on me most - how quiet our house was. Arthur was not a noisy cat but he brought so much colour into our lives, running around playing, spying, napping - and we'd both talk to him ALL the time. It felt like we had both fallen silent waiting for him. I was so relieved to know I wasnt the only one feeling that way.
    I very cautiously and with no pressure started checking out local cats in need of adoption. Older cats and cats struggling to find a home. I put together a short list and only sent it to my mom when she was ready. It was in no particular order but it felt like fate (or Arthur helping) when my mom immediately focused on the very first kitty who caught my eye. She was looking over her shoulder at the camera like a model who knew she looked good. They warned us she wasnt super friendly, that she'd gained a lot of weight since the picture, and she was BIG (like Moody). Covid was still a thing so we couldnt go do visits with the foster. We trusted our gut and 4 years later Gigi has officially settled in as supreme ruler of the house. She cuddles with us, has a love affair with her diet food, and still takes lovely photos. We love both our kitties and I swear I still see Arthur scoot across the room out of the corner of my eye, checking in on us.
    But you're absolutely right - loving Moody doesnt mean you love Billi any less. Instead youve made room in your heart and home to help another kitty in need live a safe, happy, and good life. Your heart just gets bigger everytime 😊
    Besides buttons, Id love to see if Alastor likes puzzles. Our kitty is a bit food obsessed so we got her into puzzles and when food is the motivation she becomes a genius level solver 😂

  • @irregularassassin6380
    @irregularassassin6380 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Looks like he's got a lot of character! Definitely one to keep an ... eye ... on.
    I'll show myself out.

  • @juliefalkenstein
    @juliefalkenstein 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Me Alastor Moody has the BEST name!
    I can’t imagine how you are managing all of this. Grief, hope, joy. A space that was for you and Billie and now sharing it with Alastor. I’m frankly glad to see you and know that you are ok. Parasocial relationships are odd. I grieved Billies passing and I grieved for you. Probably more for you since I’ve also had fear cats die and have an idea of the pain.
    Do what you need to do and what is respectful of you, dad, and Mr Moody. I am here for whatever you choose to share. ❤

  • @bunny7741
    @bunny7741 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    Alastor definitely seems like he was handpicked for your family. Such a sweet little angel.

  • @pushindaisies5327
    @pushindaisies5327 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Thank you Kendra, for sharing Mr. Moody. Thank you Billi, for sending Mr. Moody.

  • @stormraven4183
    @stormraven4183 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Besides buttons (of course) I think we all want to see more Dad and more Squirrel.

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

      They will definitely be featured!

  • @Soma81
    @Soma81 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    He is too cute i wonder what his favorite button will be. Billi is proud of you Kendra

  • @lloydhlavac6807
    @lloydhlavac6807 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    I went 16 years without a cat because I never wanted to again go through the pain and heartache of loss I felt when each of my first 3 cats died, but then another wonderful cat showed up in my neighborhood, and made it known she was going to live with me whether or not I wanted another cat. I had my sweet Abby for 8 years, until she too died in 2021, and I was so happy she came into my life. Sometimes you just have to let your heart open up again. Alastor looks like a fantastic cat, and with him being special needs, I think he has found the right home with you! Billi, the world's maddest cat, will never be forgotten, but now you can make new memories with Alastor, who might be the world's happiest cat!

  • @yurintroubl
    @yurintroubl วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    Fastest I've ever subscribed to a new channel upon hearing about it! Nice to have you back and feel that sharing this new chapter is a fantastic way to honor Billi's legacy. Cheers!

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Thanks for the support! ❤️

  • @mmoretti
    @mmoretti 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    I fell in love with your Billi, was heartbroken by your loss, and am glad the cat distribution system brought you and Alastor Moody together. I believe Billi is as pleased as punch and not mad at all. You take your time and decide what is best for you and your new, dear little friend.

  • @pwessie4pwesident941
    @pwessie4pwesident941 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    He's so cute and floofy! He couldn't ask for better cat parents. Don't feel guilty, either. Billi had the best life possible, with the best cat parents possible. I'm sure Billi understands it's Mr. Moody's time, now. She's probably looking down from Kitty Heaven right now, watching you giving love to another cat who needs it, all the while enthusiastically pressing the "HAPPY!" button! God bless you and Mr. Moody and Foxy, too!🙏❤

  • @Cloxxki
    @Cloxxki 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +14

    Guilt is pointless and indeed exhausting, it's unnatural. Forgive yourself of any imagined sins. You're allowed to love and it's encouraged.

  • @terrilyman2930
    @terrilyman2930 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I love Alastair! Billi is watching with approval. While she is too dignified to play with the young king, she loves that your heart has grown to include more…everything. No guilt, just love and joy. It will come -your heart won’t shrink to squeeze out anyone. It just keeps growing.

  • @artistchristos
    @artistchristos 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    It’s the missing that still hurts when you think of the loving best friend you no longer have with you. A year and a half ago my 15 y/o girl Toto died suddenly from fluid on the lung. Sitting in her private garden she and I had here at home still causes heartache. It doesn’t go away, Kendra, even so. This pretty boy, Alistor, will charm your heart. He knows love, and also has a wonderful tail! 🩵

  • @CynAnne1
    @CynAnne1 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Alastor is one photogenic fella, and decided in his opinions...no wonder Billi sent him to you, Kendra. ❤
    "Staying Moody" *is* my plan for the foreseeable future...

  • @Dana-xv9lu
    @Dana-xv9lu 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    I mourned Billie with you. It is pure joy to hear you happy again. Thank you for this! He is adorable, congratulations!

  • @erinbernstein6843
    @erinbernstein6843 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    I would not put it past Her Royal Madjesty to guide Moody in spirit to smash the all important Mad button just like Obi One Catobi

  • @luna3120
    @luna3120 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    Long live her MADjetsy. And a warm welcome to Mr. Moody!

  • @amierikke6225
    @amierikke6225 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    His ear floof is ridiculous. He’s adorable. I’m glad you’re back.

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      It’s good to be back!

  • @Vasha118
    @Vasha118 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    I didn't want to open my heart up to another cat after my last two cats had seizures in my arms as they passed. But then my Eowyn came into my life. She is like Alastor, nothing like my last two babies. I'm thankful for her everyday and she is the absolute best emotional support babu I could ask for. 😊
    Never feel guilty for sharing your love with another. You have so much of it and Alastor seems to really love you

  • @missnaomi613
    @missnaomi613 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    You don't owe us *anything!* That said, it's nice to see you've found a new boss. I think Squirrel is right, this little guy is Billi-approved! 🙏💚

  • @redfailhawk
    @redfailhawk 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Billie was my favorite internet cat. I’m glad to see Alastor mending parts of you, in the way only a cat can. It’s been a little over ten years since I lost my 23yo Russian Blue Tom that was the light of my life for eleven years (senior rescue). I still remember him daily. It’s now been 2 years since Sparta passed. Alex is 14 and Ellie is 9 and Risa is 4. They’re all great. But that Russian Blue had a special place in my life. Different, but equally loved.

  • @belindaluna2067
    @belindaluna2067 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    It can be a conflicting experience, caring for a new cat after losing one you've had for so long and who was such a big part of your life. But try to remind yourself that Alastor has a loving home because you took him in. He's going to have such a happy life because of you.

  • @catherinebelmont3742
    @catherinebelmont3742 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +13

    I loved your interactions with Billi so much, but we never forget them...Our beloved cats always leave too fast, their lives are always too short, but to welcome another furball in our life is always a nice way to heal....I’ve never have to wonder if I would adopt another one, for the second, I did for my 3 years old daughter who was so sad, and the next I got have always been two, so they were lost when one died....or somatised heavily to be alone... So bittersweet to have a funny baby running everywhere, with sometimes tears for the loss, mixing with laughters...life!
    So welcome to your adorable new babies, they will have the best life with you, you know how to speak with a cat, And Billi will never be forgotten ! We miss Billi, but we have been missing you too!

  • @Marketsolo
    @Marketsolo 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Billie will be missed forever. But we know she's in a better place!

  • @itsme-nt2lj
    @itsme-nt2lj 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    I miss Billi too.
    But Billi would be happy you can save another cat

  • @sweets4mimi
    @sweets4mimi 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    Don’t you know the love you have in your heart was meant to be shared. Billie would understand this and sent you this young kitten to be loved on. She knows you love her and she ain’t mad about it 😘🙏♥️♥️♥️

  • @feynthefallen
    @feynthefallen 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    I have a one-eyed cat too. He had been eating with us for over two years when one day he came in with a horrible eye injury. He was a wild one, so I had to rush to the local pet sanctuary, get a trap and once I got him into the trap (the second try), I rushed him to the pet hospital at 1am in the morning. Most stressful two days I ever had. I named him Odin for obvious reasons. I'm still in the process of taming him, but on good days he'll let me scratch his head in exchange for some whipped cream.

    • @alicewonders9291
      @alicewonders9291 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@feynthefallen You are a super kitty 🐾 heroine.♥️

  • @LadyDanger420
    @LadyDanger420 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    The love you feel for people and pets who have passed on never diminishes, your heart just grows bigger around it to let more in. I think finding Alastor might have been a sign from the universe, and I'm sure Billi had a paw in it too. Someone has to keep you in line after all!

  • @shari5982
    @shari5982 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    Absolutely Billi sent him. She didn’t want to you be without feline love and companionship. What a little sweetheart!

  • @lesliemcmillan2971
    @lesliemcmillan2971 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Billi would want you to be as happy as possible, and for more cats to benefit from your care. I'm so glad to see you again, with a new cat, or two, to love and care for.

  • @votonavincellette7026
    @votonavincellette7026 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    So happy to have you back! Let Alastor tell you the direction for your channel.

  • @debracubitt6191
    @debracubitt6191 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    This boy needs you. Thank you for risking your hurting heart. ❤

  • @lilytemmer3674
    @lilytemmer3674 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I always think, love isn’t finite like a pie. It’s organic and there is always room for more.

  • @judelally-i7b
    @judelally-i7b 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    I'm so happy for you. You can never replace Billie, but your heart is big enough to love another fur baby. Alastor is absolutely beautiful and perfect ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. And Foxy is a keeper 😊😊😊

  • @pogostix6097
    @pogostix6097 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    There's nothing to feel guilty for! I went through it too, when my brother bought me a new puppy after my dog of 10 years had passed... I said I didn't want a new dog, that went out the window 5 seconds later lol. Your new friend is never a replacement for the one you lost. There will always be a Billi-shaped hole in your heart. But the heart has this amazing ability to grow and get bigger, and make room to love a new animal just as much, for who THEY are. You're not betraying anybody. Billi would want you to be happy, and Alastor is something that makes you happy. And he looks happy too! You both help each other feel happy, and that's a good thing.

  • @benton-benton
    @benton-benton 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    Little Alastor Moody is adorable. Cute as a button.

  • @meinorha9370
    @meinorha9370 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    What a cutie! Love the floofy tail. Def different from Billi, which is quite fitting since there will always be just one Billi. But as far as pet ownership goes, I’m firmly of camp ‘get a new one almost immediately’ (as opposed to ‘one and only/never again’) because I don’t see it as replacing the love, just bringing back the joy. I can’t see Billi begrudging you of this, because at least it’s not Guppy!

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +16

      At least it’s not Guppy will forever be Billi’s thought process 😂

  • @sheilajstorms
    @sheilajstorms 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Lovely to hear your voice again, Kendra!

  • @ShantyIrishman
    @ShantyIrishman 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Can't wait until he meets Guppy.

  • @cosmicbreath
    @cosmicbreath 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    About 7 years ago, I lost my girl of 19 years, she had been my best only consistent friend through every significant part of my life.
    I grieve differently than you, dear, and I don’t know if this might help organize things in your mind, but after she died, in a conversation I remember describing getting a new cat as “a new chamber of your heart opening up,” so it doesn’t negate, change, or touch the love you had for your former baby, because the new baby exists in a new chamber of your heart that you didn’t know you had or grew in after another baby comes along.
    Praying for you, dear. Moody is so lovely and I look forward to following your journey with him as well.❤

  • @robwest6231
    @robwest6231 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    He’s a lovely addition to the family. Congratulations. ❤

  • @stephanieoregan
    @stephanieoregan 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I guarantee, Billi sent him to you. ❤❤❤
    Nice to meet you Mr. Moody 🥰😘

  • @marianalikethetrench
    @marianalikethetrench 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    For anyone who has felt guilt over adopting after the loss of their loved furbaby, I personally think one of the best ways to honor them is to save another life. If I was a cat on the Rainbow Bridge, I think I’d be heartbroken to see my most cherished human unable to share their love again 🥺💙

    • @NotMadJustMoody
      @NotMadJustMoody  14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      I teared up thinking about that, you’re absolutely correct ❤️

  • @jandavis1523
    @jandavis1523 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    No one will ever replace Her MADjesty. But Alastor seems to be quite fun either way his own hilarious quirks! Can’t wait to see where you go with him! ❤️😇

  • @SilverWings733
    @SilverWings733 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    What a sweetheart! I can't wait to see more of his story.

  • @orphangirl
    @orphangirl 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Billie will never be forgotten!! That said it’s so wonderful to hear from you again ! Looking forward to following your new adventures with Alastor. 🧡🧡

  • @katehoganmayka4413
    @katehoganmayka4413 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    He is adorable! Grief is so hard and complicated, and not any less so for our furry family members! Enjoy this little man, I'm sure Billie would want that!❤❤

  • @murasaki9
    @murasaki9 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    Oh how absolutely precious. Alastor is a true angel. He's going to give you so much love you won't even believe it. Thank you for giving a home in your heart like Billi. 💜

  • @DulceLaAlma
    @DulceLaAlma 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    So glad to see you back...we missed you! And, of course, Billie, too...
    I hope you decide to stay with us and continue to share. Alastor Moody is ADORABLE..love his fluffy ears!♥️♥️♥️

  • @j.b.3825
    @j.b.3825 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    You honor Billi’s memory by opening your heart to a new cat who needs you. I’m so happy for both as you can help each other heal and thrive. ❤

  • @lizmnv
    @lizmnv 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    So glad you got a new kitty. I know it’s hard but I don’t think Billie would want you catless we support you

  • @jdc1964
    @jdc1964 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    He is beautiful! The Cat Distribution System comes for most. My family and I have been through the system at least 15 times. I did not like cats at first. I know now it was because I feared them. I am not sure how that fear came to be, but all of the cats we have welcomed into our hearts and homes came to us unexpectedly and with sad stories. Most of them have passed over the years from old age or illnesses, but although we miss them very, very much, we are thankful for the time we had with them. A part of me did feel guilty when the CDS came knocking at our door again, but we opened our arms wide with the slightest hesitation and embraced a new furry friend in need. My little guy now, I truly believe is a combination of all the cats we have had over the years in both appearance and personality. I see all of them in him and it warms my heart. You are doing a wonderful thing with this precious kitty. Bless you for giving Alastor a home and your heart. I wish him a long, happy healthy life with you.
    I look forward to seeing more of your and Alastar's adventures.

  • @lumis5896
    @lumis5896 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Mr Moody is so cute and beautiful, great name too! I understand that you grieve the wonderful Billi but please don't feel guilty for loving and caring for a new cat. He clearly loves you and he needs you.

  • @yoohootube
    @yoohootube 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    A snuggler! What a dream cat! He's perfect!

  • @hannaedwards4723
    @hannaedwards4723 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    We had our duchess Tuxi for only about two years as she was 19 when we adopted her... Went from a zero pet household to being ruled by an old lady under lockdown, and then it was time. I could only take not having a shadow in my home for about three months and then we fostered, mostly young boy cats, for about a year. But then my partner said he was tired of bonding with cats to see them go. Meanwhile i had trouble pulling the trigger on any one of the wonderful cats we fostered, so i said the next foster we got, we would adopt and he agreed. She turned out to be 11 years old, beautiful medium-length British shorthair mix, and we've had her two years now. She doesn't care for buttons or most other people, but she's sweet as pie to us and we love our Princess Mia. And her little brother Owen who the CDS plopped on us just a few months later 😂.

  • @loosilu
    @loosilu 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Hello little guy! I have no doubt you are where you belong. Kendra needs you as much as you need her.

  • @57Strudel
    @57Strudel 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    I am beyond delighted to see you back. He's SO different from Billi and that's great. And no, you shouldn't feel guilty for loving him too. Have a wonderful time with him!

  • @lhmcd5538
    @lhmcd5538 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Kendra, I’m sure Billi would be happy for you to have Alistor in your life. Billi knows your love will and could never be taken away from her. She will be looking at you and encouraging you to train Alistor as she was as he has had such a tough beginning in his life and now you will make it better for him as you did for her. I think you will sort it all out with the help of cat dad and your friend Squirrel and I look forward to see if you do want to and how you want to continue with the channel. Most of all it’s good to see you. Billi will never be forgotten. Alistor looks like a beauty but in a different way to Billi. May you all please take care and stay safe. Louisa. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️🤩🤩🤩

  • @TopGunMaverick-jx6jn
    @TopGunMaverick-jx6jn 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    So sweet! I cried yes
    I love and miss Billi too. She brought so much joy to everyone. And this new kitty is definitely Billli approved!

  • @bellaRe_1
    @bellaRe_1 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    I totally can relate to your loss. Remember, Billi never left you. The gift she leaves behind are the memories you had with her. Nothing can remove that from your heart and mind, thus, she is always with you. To take in another cat is just that, taking in another cat. It's never a replacement nor is it a betrayal or in some way lessen your love for Billi. Taking in another cat is a choice to extend love and compassion to a cat that really needs it. That is what you are doing. You're an amazing person who has a lot of love and compassion to offer to animals and to really help them. As time goes, the memories will bring you comfort and even joy. That's the wonder of what Billi did and what she left with you. I hope this thought comforts you and supports you in the upcoming days. Big Hugs to you

  • @CeliaZA
    @CeliaZA 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    This post brought tears to my eyes, your feelings of loss and missing Billie, the charm of Alastor, and much more in this video.❤

  • @PredictedCyborg
    @PredictedCyborg 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Given how Billi was introduced to the buttons at a later age, it'll be fascinating to see if Moody will pick up buttons as fast as her with all that kitten energy still inside. Maybe if you persist with it for his entire life he might even have a larger vocab than her MADjesty and when they finally meet across the Rainbow Bridge she can use her favourite word to express her displeasure. xD;
    But he's a lovely ball of fluff. The love you have for Billi is contained in a separate and special place in your heart, different from the space you've now made for Moody. So no need for guilt, he's additional not instead of.

    • @Univ3rsalis
      @Univ3rsalis 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Very well said! ❤

  • @vexxervee
    @vexxervee 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    I lost my cat recently, too. I'm so glad Moody has you and that you have support in processing the grief of losing Billi. Sending well wishes from BB, Biscuit, and Rocket (our remaining boys)!

  • @Beruthiel45
    @Beruthiel45 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I'm so glad you have this sweet little boy in your life. I'm not going to make suggestions other than to say I'd really love lots of buttons. 🤗💕
    Due to family circumstances, my husband's prolonged ill health and passing in December 2023, I haven't adopted another kitty since my spicy tuxie boy crossed the bridge in 2019. I plan to adopt a bonded pair once the house has been cleared up and organised, and one of my granddaughters volunteers at a rescue organisation so she will help me find my new twosome.
    I understand the conflict about welcoming a new soul after losing a beloved creature. But, I believe love is a self replenishing well that never runs dry and there's always enough to give to new arrivals from wherever they may come. Hugs xxx🤗👩‍🦳💖

  • @tracyrose4178
    @tracyrose4178 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    He is so adorable. I'm glad you have found a new bond with him. He looks very loving. Its hard to lose a fur-baby, but that does not mean you can't love a new one.

  • @YouthfulOne
    @YouthfulOne 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    So glad you are back Kendra! We have all missed you and Billi so much. You are absolutely correct about grief. You no doubt still have roller coaster memories about your dad as I do about my mom. And losing our pets isn’t necessarily any easier. Btw the beautiful green orb and plant is gorgeous and fitting for her Madjesty indeed. As to Mr Moody and Foxy - looking forward to the fun and frolic! So excited to see that he is already learning buttons. That’s exciting and wonderful. Welcome back Kendra. Big hello to auntie, squirrel, grandma, and yes, dad too. Lol

  • @monas.6839
    @monas.6839 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    #staymad has become my life mantra- thank you, Billi. 💜 And welcome, Alastor. The Cat Distribution System chose well. And the internet already loves you. 😻

  • @RPrice_OG
    @RPrice_OG 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I'm so glad you found each other. I wasn't going to find a new cat after my last passed but a friend pointed out that even though things won't be the same at least a lucky cat will get a happy, well fed life out of the deal. Looks like Mr. Moody is a pretty lucky boy too.

  • @reginaphelange9241
    @reginaphelange9241 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    I’m so glad you decided to share and am excited for the new adventures ❤

  • @LiluBob
    @LiluBob 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    ❤ just seeing Billie's plushy with Alistair choked me up, surprisingly so. Still choked up writing this. Alistair is a doll, and I look forward to getting to know him through you and your interactions with him. Thank thank you for inviting us in. ❤

    • @GenX_files
      @GenX_files 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Beautifully put

    • @LiluBob
      @LiluBob 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@GenX_files thank you, very kind of you.

  • @staycerene9438
    @staycerene9438 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    💞 Oh honey, i can't tell you how happy i was to see this! i have loved and said, "see you again" to so many beloved pets over the years (and i'm old enough to be your mom!). One thing that i know for sure is that the greatest way to honor the one you lost here on earth is to share a similar love with one who desperately needs it now. You've done that with your baby boy here. What an incredible legacy Billi has passed on! And i'm sure Miss Mad had a paw in helping you and Mr. Moody find each other.
    Thank you for taking us along with you on this new adventure. What a wonderful journey we're in for!
    🩵☘️🥀

  • @pirlie
    @pirlie 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    A mad-eye Moody to follow in the footsteps of Mad Billi. Perfect!
    Welcome to youtube, Alastor

  • @fromhgwaii
    @fromhgwaii 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    I’m delighted that you are continuing to share your pets with us - thank you for your generosity of spirit. As with children, I think our hearts must just grow in order to love the new personalities that come along.