Hearing him write his letter to his mom had me giddy. Imagining her emotionally crushed reading that he already has a family and realizing that she’ll never meet her grandchildren made my day.
wtf is wrong with you? do you actually genuinely get off to people experiencing pain or something? do you need to go visit a therapist or is this a decision you consciously made?
@toomuchsauce5599 I hope the pain hurts. She took part in emotionally murdering her son. Had she not been so self-righteous and did minimum investigation, she could've still been in OP's life. But nope. She is there, presumably alone in her house. No husband and no kid.
@@FineWine-v4.0How so? I wonder how many times suicide crossed OPs mind after being betrayed by the people who are always supposed to have your back. Would their apologies have meant anything is OP killed himself, and they had to cry to a headstone that could never reply back? This is something so many people fail to realize, that without support our lives can spiral out of control so fast. That after such events we usually give into alcohol to cope, which is the worst decision you can make in a dark time. Family isn’t just blood ties, family is the bonds you create over a lifetime. And after knowing someone for a lifetime you should know what they’re capable of, someone who is capable of rape is usually very sexist and narcissistic because if you aren’t an act so evil and selfish would eat you alive. So did his parents ever truly know and love him if they think he could do such an unspeakable act.
So, let me get this straight: OP's parents betrayed him in the most egregious of ways by casting him out. So, in return, he rebuilds his life and they finally find out that he didn't do what he was accused of. So, now both are begging for forgiveness, his father's health takes a turn for the worse, prompting him to beg for his son to come see him in the hospital, in which he dies asking for his son. OP not only declined to go see him on his deathbed but declined to go to his funeral as well. Sounds like a guy after my own heart. If I'd met him in real life, I'd buy him a beer. It's refreshing to see fellow men of such strong principles. Because forgiveness is OFTEN overrated...
Buddy, I'd buy YOU a drink after reading that. The mantra I always recite every night before I go to bed is: Cheaters and Traitors are not welcome in the family.
Heck yeah! As a Christian, I hate it when people cherry pick verses to say, "See, you must forgive me! Now let me back into your life!" When in reality, Christians are told to sometimes distance oneself from someone who caused them pain. And there are people in the Bible who died with unforgiveness, and they were still called righteous in God's eye.
"Forgiveness" is NEVER overrated. But OFTEN not comprehended. One can only forgive others in one's own eyes. To tell someone "i forgive you" is no forgiveness, but just a worthless plaster to their ego.
family calling you an SA'er in modern day is akin to being called a witch during the Salem Witch Trials they're too dangerous to keep around you and your family
Yep. Sad but true. Even if they're truly remorseful and they have no sinister motives, they made poor choices on their own. I tell them to move on and live with their past wickedness. But work on being better for someone else.
Crazy how dude didn’t have a history of SA or suspicious behavior. Still the only one time that the accusation was made. It was concluded that he was guilty without any evidence.
I actually had a friend wrongfully accused. It was actually proven beyond doubt. I myself jumped to the wrong conclusion at first. You automatically get arrested for just the accusation itself. So seeing him in the paper at the time. It was like a trigger,besides embarrassment to everyone involved. The cost would be between 50 and 80 thousand dollars today. This was probably closer to 30 years ago.
They don't have an excuse. Maybe if they investigated, then they could gotten some sympathy. But they didn't because that would take time and humility.
Welp. No sympathy for the egg/sperm donors. They failed to find solid proof of any crime. They failed to reach out during the years of OP's exile. They weren't fair to him, so he isn't obligated to be fair to them.
Dad passed away miserable, asking for his son to come to him in his deathbed and knowing how bad he failed in life, an absolute pos that doesn't deserve forgiveness who got cheated and humiliated. And mother, reading the A FREAKING HANDWRITTEN LETTER, telling her how op is thriving without her. He has his own family. Realizing she is losing the experience of being a grandmother. Now she is getting the same treatment, spending the rest of her life alone and miserable knowing what a failure of human being she is, a shitty mom who will not feel the love of his son and his family ever again, not even after passing away and mourn her death in a funeral.
@@RagnarokAvatar I'd think in his last moments despite asking for op he realized " I wasn't there when my son needed me....what right do I have to ask for him when I need him the most?"...
Everytime I hear about a false SA story it reminds me that one story I heard in high school where a dude gets falsely accused of SA but instead of going full blue screen he actually goes after his accuser and really do it. That psychologically breaks the accuser and she leaves a letter apologizing to the dude - saying she deserved that and "deletes" her "save file".
Too many of these stories, were someone's life is ruined by false accusations and the family think a simple sorry is going to make everything better, no punishments, no atonement, just I'm sorry let's sweep this under the rug. Fuck no if I was in a situation like, I'd tell them download some CP, have someone notify the police. Then once they've had their names dragged through the mud, everything taken from them and everyone they know wanting nothing to do with them, we can talk about how I'm sorry doesn't cut it.
@@Superderpynerd no, sadly, they're not. I cannot speak to the veracity of THIS one, but I have been the one person who helped walk a friend through how to take steps to prove his own innocence. Beginning with going to the police and informing them of the accusation, and asking them to have the accuser go through the proper medical channels. All the while, this poor guy is in a hospital room with a broken face because his father hit him so hard it broke his cheek. Still, he submitted to every test and gave his statement to the police. Because proving something is a lot easier that proving something ISN'T, and the girl was smart enough not to ever admit she was lying (to my knowledge, anyway), nothing ever really resolved. The only thing I can say conclusively is that no criminal charges were ever filed against him. And unlike in fiction, most of the time real life doesn't ever really give you closure. He filed a successful restraining order against his parents thanks to his father breaking his face, but then the pandemic hit and I haven't heard from him since.
The only time an apology is worth anything is when someone offers it and they had no intention to harm you. But when a person says something or makes a conscious decision and does something that harms you or your family or your relationship with them. That is unforgivable. When someone make s decision too make you a victim. That is a line that cannot be uncrossed. That person has revealed their true self and it is important to cut those people out of your life. Because they will do it again, and that will be your own fault for allowing them in your life.
People said the opposite of love was not hate, but indifference. What they did cut so deep every love OP had for them bleeding out with little to none left.
Yep. These idiots murdered OP emotionally. The sperm/egg donors shouldn't bother OP anymore since they destroyed the boy they had and he isn't coming back.
When my sibling informed me that my mother had passed I felt nothing that I would not have felt after hearing about the passing of a random stranger with the exception of a sense of relief. If that makes me a bad person I am okay with that as you have no idea what I lived through growing up. In my 60s and struggling with the emotional damage.
OP should have told his mom how much she failed as a mother and should have stopped wasting her time asking for forgiveness as it was never going to happen
So many women pull this bull shit to get rid of a child. The thing is , no Proff, not police. And they usually imploded. A woman like this is so dangerous to any child , even her own.
I can really appreciate OP for not going back to those who basically stabbed him in the back and just taking the step mothers word at face value. Knowing that his parents are probably stewing in regret for their actions. That's punishment right there. Good on OP for building a life and coming out on top!
I’m just going to say this: if you can’t rewrite the past trauma that you put me through, then don’t even bother reaching out to make amends. Situations like these should have never happened in the first place. But since they did, what’s done is done. There will never be any room for forgiveness or anything like it because those painful memories will stay with you no matter how much you “move on”
They disowned him. According to them he wasn’t their son and if he isn’t their son he has no obligation to visit strangers in the hospital. “Stay where you belong, in my memories.” -Cloud Strife
He moved to another country, established a clean slate, got a home, a new job, started dating and got married, but didn't gain any purpose in life until he became a father! Either it's allegorical, or embellished by someone devoid of life experiences!
And time. The sperm/egg donors wasted so much time to reach out. So even though they're sorry and want to make things right, they're so late and everyone has their limits.
Man, stories like these whether they're real or fake always get me. It reminds me that even as a parent, an adult with many years of knowledge and experience, we can still screw up and destroy our kids lives. That mother is going to live the rest of her days knowing that her only son has a family, that she will never even meet. She has a grandchildren who she will never even see. She was lost before, but reading that letter most likely destroyed her. At the very least, always get the other side of the story, no matter how dire the circumstances may be.
100% man. If people just did a little investigating and learn to make careful judgment. That woman knows she deserves this. Her self-righteousness got her here.
I hope OP changed his last name. They wanted you to die alone - let them die alone. Attend the funeral? To whiz on the grave? They were only sorry after you were exonerated. You had always been innocent. They had always been wrong and hateful.
Yeah they are sooooooo sorry now that the truth came out. However if the truth didn't come out they'd still think OP was some abuser. What failures as parents. What I dont understand is why the mother believed it.?
People make all kinds of decisions with misinformation or a lack of information. I am surprised that his bio mom sided with stepmom though, but then again I heard a story where a guy's mom dated and hooked up with her son's high-school bully, and even chose the bully over her son, so........I guess it's probable that there's a woman out there that would chose the stepmom over her own son loke this.
I have seen Moms do the complete opposite down to the point of yelling that their children aren't guilty after having a bunch of proof of the child killing an old woman while she begged for help and then when in custody,escaping by stealing a gun from a detective who was interrogating them,shooting said detective till they died,and then jumping put a window.
While not supporting, I can understand why dad cut off his son against his wife, but why mom chooses to believe her too and cut op off? Yondu says it best "he may be your father, boy.. But he ain't your daddy"
I don't get how people say to forgive those who have wronged you is for yourself but then those who have done wrong only ask for it for themselves, not to have learned from it but not to get to suffer the consequence of their actions and pretend everything is fine again?
We'll never truly know because we aren't evil like them. My parents do this to me all the time and it enrages me. Whenever my mom says I'm being resentful, I shoot back, "you and dad aren't even trying to fix yourself! So why should I keep forgiving you!?" We're also Christian and my parents take Bible verses out of context to brainwash us to forgive them. But I remind them that I am a human being. I can't be loving as God. And stop taking verses to reinterpret because you're making Christianity look bad!
A simple response. "Dear (Father's Fullname & Mother's Fullname), Thank you for mentioning that you now know the truth. However, let me make things crystal clear. There is nothing for you here. Please move on and live the rest of your lives with this. -- your former Child"
Let's all agree that we can't change or tell how anyone should Feel. Whatever they feel, it's a Life Experience that made them who they are. Like the Phrase how Heroes/Villains are Made, not Born. It just takes 1 Bad Day to ruin all of it, creating someone whose work so far to forget about their past.
This is why you ALWAYS take rape accusations with a grain of salt. If even a tiny discrepancy in a rape accusation is found, it should be automatically null and void in the eyes of the law and the accuser permanently shunned from society.
I hear you. Must SA survivors have their minds broken and they behave differently. But from I hear about false accusers is they still act the same. Such as being confident and upbeat. People forget about checking the psychological signs.
You nee family is all you ever need. Leave these people who claim relation behind you. They did the worst think that can happen to any child, requarekes if wgat age.
It's amazing when family and friends will believe a stranger's word over someone they've known for years. The fact the dad didn't see the red flag after she told him to change the will showed how far gone he was. But the biological mom believing the stepmom is something I wouldn't see coming.
Sometimes i wonder as a final fu to them these people(Accusers) say you believed me a stranger over your own flesh and blood who's the real monster here? basically to thrust a knife in and twist......honestly tough call.
So his mother rased him sence his life started and couldnt help but to know him better than that. His dad same thing, plus he knew how she regarded his kid. Neither parent where anything but a relative that wanted an excuse to become a estranged relative. They aint family f um.
I’m all right with everything this person did for the most part. I really wish she talked to his father, but if he wasn’t going to talk to your father, you probably shouldn’t not took the money. I understand how crazy that might’ve been, but you set the tone for what was to come next you made it clear. You didn’t really need nobody I guess to some degree. I understand that you took it because it was the last attempt at your father, trying to be a father, but I just feel you would have been so much more at peace. Had you had just seen your father on his deathbed I just sometimes wonder how would your kids feel at some point in life, knowing that you had a chance to say goodbye at the very least not to just forgive you didn’t have to forgive but to give some end to a horrible situation of someone who did nothing but manipulate and lie I understand you’re not forgiving because at the very least you are right where was the detective work on what she said just believing in somebody with no proof yeah that’s crazy. I’ll give you that.
If OP was so hurt that he could not see his Dad in his death bed, he should have left the inheritance as well. It's looks like OP was wronged but also lacked morals at his end.😂
This story is just weird. Was ops parents married? Why did mom talk about losing the marriage when there was a step-mom in the picture. How did step-mom get in moms mind when she hated op because of his connection to her
Those people that told him to forgive the parents are the same toxic people that would rather condone a Younger brother that slept with the older brothers GF and says to the older brother to forgive him because they are family.
@@Otis56 How does that work? Forgiveness doesn't automatically let someone back in your life if you dont want them to be. You forgive them so You can let go of those burdens and finally move on, so they can stop living rent free in your mind while they live their lives without a care. None of it is for them.
Forgiveness is never to the other party, but to oneself, you can forgive the one that wronged you but that doesn't mean you'll need to keep them in your life or even knew that you've forgiven them it is for you and to live free of them
Im guessing this is not a real reddit post. The facr that there was never an attempt to file a police report and the adults where fine with that is what makes me think this is not a real post.
This story is a rewrite of an AI story from another channel. Nearly everything is the same except in the original the mother had passed away when OP was young, so obviously there was no letter or anything. In the original, the two kids of the step mom were slightly more present.
Anyone know what happened to the stepmom after the truth came out? Mine think that the stepmom have been exile after being divorced by the mc's dad after he discovered the truth and her affair.
Come on, AI, really? "The uncertain future/IDK what the future holds", "Over the moon", constant repetition, ending moral of the story and lesson learned. You used to be the best cause you actually just posted things from the source with no BS. What is this?
Regarding the stepmother, its funny how women state that a man needs to love her children she had with other men, but they don't have to do the same for his children
I would like to know through the video description/title tab whatsongs are used please. It also helps to dodge copy right strikes as well to include as well as credit said songs to original artists. But mainly for me it's too look up the songs too listen to them, the other bit is just a tad bit of OCD moment that hampers more than actually helps sometimes.
@@PolemistisNAYExactly, taking the money had nothing to do with closure since his dad had already passed away. He has his family to think about now, and its not like he has to ever visit his grave.
There needs to be somthing guys or women can do of "hey authorities someone says i r*ped them can i get some help mayne an investigation? I think somthing might have happened and she needs help"
I'm not going to lie this whole entire story makes no sense and I'm not saying it's not capable of happening to anybody or anything like that but you're telling me the whole entire family you're telling me aunts uncles and the grandparents plus the posters mom on top of that we're willing to just take the word of a random woman they barely know over their own family blood maybe that's just me but unless the family is filled with just literal fucking snakes and two-faced motherfukers then I get it but the fact that there was no reason given like let's say the poster being on bad terms with most of the family constantly getting into arguments with them stuff like that and even his mother maybe being a narcissist maybe I could buy while they turned on them
No I agree with you that's why I said it's not impossible that I can't happen but it's just to me I'm like the whole family plus his mother on top of that is the part that is kind of getting to me because look I hate to put it like this I could maybe understand the poster had some backstory detail where details that the family for some reason has just never liked him or gotten along with him and there was already dealing with his mom not being one of the best parents in his life so far besides baby his dad but I just can't get behind the whole entire family plus like I said the Mom it's just like why two-faced people out there and you know terrible family members
It makes even less sense that step mom and regular mom were both involved yet the parents were supposedly divorce yet the very end mom said she was contemplating the end of her marriage. So that assumes dad and mom were married at the time step-mom married dad and added 2 kids
All I can say is that its possible for narcissism to be passed down to descendents.They were all raised in environments which made them narcissists,something which becomes more probable as nor eof them become narcissistic
The only things OP should have done differently, in my opinion: 1) When his parents tried to reach OP, he answered with silence, because he considered them as part of his past, however this decision didn't gave them closure, and they kept trying to reach him. OP was the last thought of his dying father, and his mother tried multiple times to contact him after father's death, this due to the fact that OP did not emphatised enough the closure with them. When they tried to reach him he should have answered "I appreciate you now realized your mistake, but it's too late. I am no more son of yours, leave me alone. For real". OP claimed that the final letter to his mother gave him closure, so answering both his bio parents would have avoided the following struggle. Leaving the parents in silence did not gave them closure, and they kept trying to reach OP. 2) The father included OP back in his will, and OP wonders if this was a final attempt to catch up. No shit, Sherlock, the father tries to contact OP until his last dying breath, but it's the money that gives it away, isn't it? After refusing to meet at the hospital, to attend the funeral, OP stll accepts the money. To me, it's hypocritical
OP should have given them closure for ruining his life?That's the worst advice I've ever heard and i have seen stories where friends told someone's wife that they should cheat on their husbands because life is more exciting that way.I would like to add its not hypocritical to get compensation for all the trauma OP's Step mother and Biological Parents caused him
Fuck those parents. Where was his chance to explain himself when he was accused? Why should his father get his chance at closure when he never got his chance to explain before getting kicked out the family? His father clearly was thinking more with his dick I'm glad he died not getting the closure he want. Why should he get what he wanted when OP never got it. You call it hypocritical? I say his father was far more hypocritical. In fact, he should get majority of the inheritance after all the shit that useless dog put him through. I'm glad he made the decision to never meet them again. The past is the past and their son died when all of them abandoned him. He has a better future and it's much better for him to look towards it rather than the incompetent creatures that identifies themselves as his "parent". Any parent that chose their new partner/stepwive/husband over their own children due to false allegation deserve 0 sympathy for they have clearly chosen to get rid of them in their life and doesn't deserve them back. He has a better family now and his wife's family probably treat him far better than his own family. Hell, it also saves money and you only have 1 set of grandparents to visit and not needing to care about the other one. His peace is all that matters, not the peace of the people that destroyed his life. Forgiveness belongs to him and him alone and no one else can tell him otherwise especially the perpetrators.
I'm questioning the validity of this story. How old was OP when he was accused? OP made it seem like he was still a minor, yet when he was kicked out, wouldn't that be illegal? (Depending on the country) Plus what about OP's mother made her believe Stepmom? A little history about why the parents split up would be helpful, because how would the mom know about the SA? If the Stepmom was an affair partner, why would the mom believe her? If she hated the Ex, why would she listen to him as well? Context helps. Also if OP wasn't a minor then why was he living with his dad? Wouldn't he be living with his mom if Stepmom was showing signs of not liking him? Was there even a custody arrangement if he was a minor? Plus im pretty sure the cops would have gotten involved by someone, as if SA is so big someone would have reported him. In most SA stories the cops are called. This has a lot of questionable variables....also this story seems to follow the same trend that a lot of similar stories does. Op gets accused, have to leave, meets someone starts a new life, the truth comes out and people begs for forgiveness. A family member gets sick and wants to see OP on his deathbed, and OP refusing to see them.
Question is... why do they have your phone number/socials in the fist place after you have moved to another country? A phone number is not that easy to find, just change number and move on, no need to engage in this bullsht.
The op chose his choice and is completely in the right, but in my honest opinion he should have sat down and have a conversation with his parents. Just like how they didnt give him the chance to explain his part of the story he didn't give them that chance either. It was deserved and poetic but its just that when the didn't give him that chance and abandoned him, they had to live with crushing guilt, regret and remorse along with the what ifs. Like what if they let him explain, or what if the just took his side or what if they just took ot to court. Just like how they had to live with thise thoughts so would he. What if i went and talked? What if i just told them what they did to me and how it affected me, would we have reconciled? Maybe or maybe not, hell new know because his father died. I just wouldnt want the op to have to live with the thoughts they will always have with them. Maybe its just me and my im weird but i would want to be the better person, better than they ever were and just give them the chance they never gave me even if it was just hear what they were thinking at that point and what lead to them making that horrible decision or just get full closure so that i wouldnt have to live with the thoughts and feelings on mind and chest. Even if not for any of those reasons id just learn from there mistakes and never fuck up as bad as they did with me. Maybe its just me. Maybe I'm just built different🤷♂️.
I get your point, and you're right that a conversation could've brought closure. But not everyone has the strength to give those who hurt them another chance. It's about how we choose to protect ourselves, and everyone handles betrayal differently. You're not weird for wanting to take the high road-just built differently.
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Hearing him write his letter to his mom had me giddy. Imagining her emotionally crushed reading that he already has a family and realizing that she’ll never meet her grandchildren made my day.
I imagine her breaking down crying after reading the letter due to her failure as a mother for believing an manipulative bitch over own son.
wtf is wrong with you? do you actually genuinely get off to people experiencing pain or something? do you need to go visit a therapist or is this a decision you consciously made?
@toomuchsauce5599 I hope the pain hurts. She took part in emotionally murdering her son. Had she not been so self-righteous and did minimum investigation, she could've still been in OP's life. But nope. She is there, presumably alone in her house. No husband and no kid.
Big deal buddy, this is not the correct punishment
@@FineWine-v4.0How so? I wonder how many times suicide crossed OPs mind after being betrayed by the people who are always supposed to have your back. Would their apologies have meant anything is OP killed himself, and they had to cry to a headstone that could never reply back? This is something so many people fail to realize, that without support our lives can spiral out of control so fast. That after such events we usually give into alcohol to cope, which is the worst decision you can make in a dark time.
Family isn’t just blood ties, family is the bonds you create over a lifetime. And after knowing someone for a lifetime you should know what they’re capable of, someone who is capable of rape is usually very sexist and narcissistic because if you aren’t an act so evil and selfish would eat you alive. So did his parents ever truly know and love him if they think he could do such an unspeakable act.
So, let me get this straight: OP's parents betrayed him in the most egregious of ways by casting him out. So, in return, he rebuilds his life and they finally find out that he didn't do what he was accused of.
So, now both are begging for forgiveness, his father's health takes a turn for the worse, prompting him to beg for his son to come see him in the hospital, in which he dies asking for his son. OP not only declined to go see him on his deathbed but declined to go to his funeral as well.
Sounds like a guy after my own heart.
If I'd met him in real life, I'd buy him a beer. It's refreshing to see fellow men of such strong principles.
Because forgiveness is OFTEN overrated...
indeed brother, indeed
Buddy, I'd buy YOU a drink after reading that. The mantra I always recite every night before I go to bed is: Cheaters and Traitors are not welcome in the family.
Heck yeah! As a Christian, I hate it when people cherry pick verses to say, "See, you must forgive me! Now let me back into your life!" When in reality, Christians are told to sometimes distance oneself from someone who caused them pain. And there are people in the Bible who died with unforgiveness, and they were still called righteous in God's eye.
"Forgiveness" is NEVER overrated. But OFTEN not comprehended.
One can only forgive others in one's own eyes. To tell someone "i forgive you" is no forgiveness, but just a worthless plaster to their ego.
Damn right!!!!
family calling you an SA'er in modern day is akin to being called a witch during the Salem Witch Trials
they're too dangerous to keep around you and your family
Yep. Sad but true. Even if they're truly remorseful and they have no sinister motives, they made poor choices on their own. I tell them to move on and live with their past wickedness. But work on being better for someone else.
Crazy how dude didn’t have a history of SA or suspicious behavior. Still the only one time that the accusation was made. It was concluded that he was guilty without any evidence.
Because "believe all women"
Tale as old as time.
Everyone just assumes all of us males are just sexual predators...
I actually had a friend wrongfully accused. It was actually proven beyond doubt. I myself jumped to the wrong conclusion at first. You automatically get arrested for just the accusation itself. So seeing him in the paper at the time. It was like a trigger,besides embarrassment to everyone involved. The cost would be between 50 and 80 thousand dollars today. This was probably closer to 30 years ago.
The mom is terrible… how can she listen to her ex’s second wife over her own child… the father was p•••y whipped but wats the mom’s excuse?
dad has no excuse either and if it's an excuse its not a very good one. chose a lie over his own son
They don't have an excuse. Maybe if they investigated, then they could gotten some sympathy. But they didn't because that would take time and humility.
Yeah, the mom is worse.
Welp. No sympathy for the egg/sperm donors. They failed to find solid proof of any crime. They failed to reach out during the years of OP's exile. They weren't fair to him, so he isn't obligated to be fair to them.
Dad passed away miserable, asking for his son to come to him in his deathbed and knowing how bad he failed in life, an absolute pos that doesn't deserve forgiveness who got cheated and humiliated.
And mother, reading the A FREAKING HANDWRITTEN LETTER, telling her how op is thriving without her. He has his own family. Realizing she is losing the experience of being a grandmother. Now she is getting the same treatment, spending the rest of her life alone and miserable knowing what a failure of human being she is, a shitty mom who will not feel the love of his son and his family ever again, not even after passing away and mourn her death in a funeral.
OP, your parents failed you, so don't you DARE fail your kids!
I’m sure he won’t
Well I hope
Judging by OP
He’s a hella good father with a good family
The worst feeling ever is to realize your family was never on your side.....
@@willambonney and his father paid for that, by dying alone.
@@RagnarokAvatar I'd think in his last moments despite asking for op he realized " I wasn't there when my son needed me....what right do I have to ask for him when I need him the most?"...
Everytime I hear about a false SA story it reminds me that one story I heard in high school where a dude gets falsely accused of SA but instead of going full blue screen he actually goes after his accuser and really do it. That psychologically breaks the accuser and she leaves a letter apologizing to the dude - saying she deserved that and "deletes" her "save file".
So she unalived her self
Dang. That's extreme. He shouldn't have done that. But it's also tough to sympathize with the liar. What happened to the guy? Did he get caught?
damn lol
@@PolemistisNAY scorched earth I like it
One hand it’s wrong for her to falsely accuse someone, but on the other hand that dude shouldn’t really do it two wrongs doesn’t make a right
Too many of these stories, were someone's life is ruined by false accusations and the family think a simple sorry is going to make everything better, no punishments, no atonement, just I'm sorry let's sweep this under the rug. Fuck no if I was in a situation like, I'd tell them download some CP, have someone notify the police. Then once they've had their names dragged through the mud, everything taken from them and everyone they know wanting nothing to do with them, we can talk about how I'm sorry doesn't cut it.
They’re fake
@@Superderpynerd no, sadly, they're not. I cannot speak to the veracity of THIS one, but I have been the one person who helped walk a friend through how to take steps to prove his own innocence. Beginning with going to the police and informing them of the accusation, and asking them to have the accuser go through the proper medical channels. All the while, this poor guy is in a hospital room with a broken face because his father hit him so hard it broke his cheek. Still, he submitted to every test and gave his statement to the police. Because proving something is a lot easier that proving something ISN'T, and the girl was smart enough not to ever admit she was lying (to my knowledge, anyway), nothing ever really resolved. The only thing I can say conclusively is that no criminal charges were ever filed against him. And unlike in fiction, most of the time real life doesn't ever really give you closure.
He filed a successful restraining order against his parents thanks to his father breaking his face, but then the pandemic hit and I haven't heard from him since.
What's CP?
Inappropriate child photos...
@@wolfehologram3539Dang. I hope that friend is doing well. And no sympathy for that sperm donor for attacking now and question later.
The only time an apology is worth anything is when someone offers it and they had no intention to harm you.
But when a person says something or makes a conscious decision and does something that harms you or your
family or your relationship with them. That is unforgivable. When someone make s decision too make you a
victim. That is a line that cannot be uncrossed. That person has revealed their true self and it is important
to cut those people out of your life. Because they will do it again, and that will be your own fault for allowing
them in your life.
People said the opposite of love was not hate, but indifference. What they did cut so deep every love OP had for them bleeding out with little to none left.
Yep. These idiots murdered OP emotionally. The sperm/egg donors shouldn't bother OP anymore since they destroyed the boy they had and he isn't coming back.
When my sibling informed me that my mother had passed I felt nothing that I would not have felt after hearing about the passing of a random stranger with the exception of a sense of relief. If that makes me a bad person I am okay with that as you have no idea what I lived through growing up. In my 60s and struggling with the emotional damage.
OP should have told his mom how much she failed as a mother and should have stopped wasting her time asking for forgiveness as it was never going to happen
He kinda did. He made it clear to her to never contact him because she emotionally murdered the son she once knew.
So many women pull this bull shit to get rid of a child. The thing is , no Proff, not police. And they usually imploded. A woman like this is so dangerous to any child , even her own.
I can really appreciate OP for not going back to those who basically stabbed him in the back and just taking the step mothers word at face value. Knowing that his parents are probably stewing in regret for their actions. That's punishment right there.
Good on OP for building a life and coming out on top!
This dudes a badass finally a story about how a real man acts and responds to betrayal
I hope someday I will be like him
I’m just going to say this: if you can’t rewrite the past trauma that you put me through, then don’t even bother reaching out to make amends. Situations like these should have never happened in the first place. But since they did, what’s done is done. There will never be any room for forgiveness or anything like it because those painful memories will stay with you no matter how much you “move on”
Rule of thumb: ALWAYS get both sides of the story before doing anything
They disowned him. According to them he wasn’t their son and if he isn’t their son he has no obligation to visit strangers in the hospital.
“Stay where you belong, in my memories.”
-Cloud Strife
I’m surprised OP’s dad didn’t stop to think on why she was so adamant for him to remove his son from the will and have her and her kids on the will
I've been in a similar situation, I told my family that somethings can never be undone, no matter the age or why.
OP i am very happy with your decision.
Finally someone with a spine in these stories
As someone who last saw their dad/father back in 98/99, this one hurt
Dad or father: I don't know.
Sperm donor also works
Is he still alive? What's the deal?
He moved to another country, established a clean slate, got a home, a new job, started dating and got married, but didn't gain any purpose in life until he became a father! Either it's allegorical, or embellished by someone devoid of life experiences!
Why is there so many repeative words surrounding 'Jessica and my son are my family...'
because AI
Chat GPT wrote this mess of a story.
Apologies are only words, actions speak louder and OP's parents did not have faith in their child.
And time. The sperm/egg donors wasted so much time to reach out. So even though they're sorry and want to make things right, they're so late and everyone has their limits.
Finally some happy ending and not the typical doormat stories
Man, stories like these whether they're real or fake always get me. It reminds me that even as a parent, an adult with many years of knowledge and experience, we can still screw up and destroy our kids lives. That mother is going to live the rest of her days knowing that her only son has a family, that she will never even meet. She has a grandchildren who she will never even see. She was lost before, but reading that letter most likely destroyed her.
At the very least, always get the other side of the story, no matter how dire the circumstances may be.
100% man. If people just did a little investigating and learn to make careful judgment. That woman knows she deserves this. Her self-righteousness got her here.
I hope OP changed his last name.
They wanted you to die alone - let them die alone.
Attend the funeral? To whiz on the grave?
They were only sorry after you were exonerated.
You had always been innocent.
They had always been wrong and hateful.
Sick and tired of "believe all women" as if women are these angelic creatures that can do no wrong.
BuT a MaN mUsT hAvE dOnE sOmeThiNg TO mAkE tHeM Do ThIs
Donate that inheritance to charity, that way there’s no ties to your old life
I encourage OP to keep it. Because there's no strings attached. Plus, college fund for his kids.
Yeah they are sooooooo sorry now that the truth came out. However if the truth didn't come out they'd still think OP was some abuser. What failures as parents. What I dont understand is why the mother believed it.?
cuz it was easier. Cowards will aways take the easy way out, regardless of what the truth is or who gets caught in the crossfire...
People make all kinds of decisions with misinformation or a lack of information. I am surprised that his bio mom sided with stepmom though, but then again I heard a story where a guy's mom dated and hooked up with her son's high-school bully, and even chose the bully over her son, so........I guess it's probable that there's a woman out there that would chose the stepmom over her own son loke this.
I have seen Moms do the complete opposite down to the point of yelling that their children aren't guilty after having a bunch of proof of the child killing an old woman while she begged for help and then when in custody,escaping by stealing a gun from a detective who was interrogating them,shooting said detective till they died,and then jumping put a window.
@@Otis56 and then that happens. Reality is often times stranger than fiction i guess.
@@schmalzilla1985 Both happen it's just that mothers doing everything they can to make their children seem innocent is more common
While not supporting, I can understand why dad cut off his son against his wife, but why mom chooses to believe her too and cut op off? Yondu says it best "he may be your father, boy.. But he ain't your daddy"
Maybe she had that stupid "Believe all women" mentally
Or self-righteousness. People want to see themselves on the right side without doing the required work.
Never for forgive people who betray you. They show they're loyalties are not with you.
Well done survivor! May happiness surround you and yours.
I don't get how people say to forgive those who have wronged you is for yourself but then those who have done wrong only ask for it for themselves, not to have learned from it but not to get to suffer the consequence of their actions and pretend everything is fine again?
We'll never truly know because we aren't evil like them. My parents do this to me all the time and it enrages me. Whenever my mom says I'm being resentful, I shoot back, "you and dad aren't even trying to fix yourself! So why should I keep forgiving you!?"
We're also Christian and my parents take Bible verses out of context to brainwash us to forgive them. But I remind them that I am a human being. I can't be loving as God. And stop taking verses to reinterpret because you're making Christianity look bad!
Those who preach that we should forgive are also those constantly asking for forgiveness to escape consequences.
@Scymet Right.
A simple response. "Dear (Father's Fullname & Mother's Fullname), Thank you for mentioning that you now know the truth. However, let me make things crystal clear. There is nothing for you here. Please move on and live the rest of your lives with this. -- your former Child"
Let's all agree that we can't change or tell how anyone should Feel. Whatever they feel, it's a Life Experience that made them who they are. Like the Phrase how Heroes/Villains are Made, not Born. It just takes 1 Bad Day to ruin all of it, creating someone whose work so far to forget about their past.
This is why you ALWAYS take rape accusations with a grain of salt.
If even a tiny discrepancy in a rape accusation is found, it should be automatically null and void in the eyes of the law and the accuser permanently shunned from society.
I hear you. Must SA survivors have their minds broken and they behave differently. But from I hear about false accusers is they still act the same. Such as being confident and upbeat. People forget about checking the psychological signs.
Once Trust is Broken... It can't be healed. Only victims have to make sacrifices for other's redemptions.
Dont let that poison near your family.
Never do anything you'd regret if it turned out you're wrong about the reason why you are doing it.
To jail or hell she must go
He was accused of SA, no one took his side, and just shunned him, only after being cut from the will did he lament that it was the ultimate betrayal!
He should have sued all of them years ago for false accusations but that's a tough situation to be in
You nee family is all you ever need. Leave these people who claim relation behind you. They did the worst think that can happen to any child, requarekes if wgat age.
It's amazing when family and friends will believe a stranger's word over someone they've known for years. The fact the dad didn't see the red flag after she told him to change the will showed how far gone he was. But the biological mom believing the stepmom is something I wouldn't see coming.
Whatever happened to the stepmom after the truth came out?
Probably shunned by the whole town
@@justisolated5621 naw she told her truth still the town hero cause believe all woman
@@bobboringname9021 unless it's a southern state. No one believes a woman in such states
nothing you need to sue
Sometimes i wonder as a final fu to them these people(Accusers) say you believed me a stranger over your own flesh and blood who's the real monster here? basically to thrust a knife in and twist......honestly tough call.
this is why you never be alone with woman or interact with them if there are no cameras watching
My mother tired pinning SA on me luckily my fostcare case worker didn't believe it I was only 13 at that point aswell
So his mother rased him sence his life started and couldnt help but to know him better than that.
His dad same thing, plus he knew how she regarded his kid.
Neither parent where anything but a relative that wanted an excuse to become a estranged relative. They aint family f um.
Never let people like that back into your life. Once they toss you aside so easily, you know where you stand with them.
Best payback ever
Good for OP
"When the world turns their back on you, you turn your back on the world!" - Timon
In just one of these stories i want to hear the kid respond to those emails with a simple No
I’m all right with everything this person did for the most part. I really wish she talked to his father, but if he wasn’t going to talk to your father, you probably shouldn’t not took the money. I understand how crazy that might’ve been, but you set the tone for what was to come next you made it clear. You didn’t really need nobody I guess to some degree. I understand that you took it because it was the last attempt at your father, trying to be a father, but I just feel you would have been so much more at peace. Had you had just seen your father on his deathbed I just sometimes wonder how would your kids feel at some point in life, knowing that you had a chance to say goodbye at the very least not to just forgive you didn’t have to forgive but to give some end to a horrible situation of someone who did nothing but manipulate and lie I understand you’re not forgiving because at the very least you are right where was the detective work on what she said just believing in somebody with no proof yeah that’s crazy. I’ll give you that.
If OP was so hurt that he could not see his Dad in his death bed, he should have left the inheritance as well. It's looks like OP was wronged but also lacked morals at his end.😂
as much as I agree, OP might prbly use it for the kids andfor the good of their family
It's really sad that the mom, of all people, would believe the woman who replaced her. It's actually, in fact, odd that she does.
In the original AI story this one is copying the mother had passed away when OP was young.
This is one of the best AI stories on here.
OP is with a great woman, has a son that he won't hurt and is away from his egg/sperm donor. It seems to have a good ending.
This story is just weird. Was ops parents married? Why did mom talk about losing the marriage when there was a step-mom in the picture. How did step-mom get in moms mind when she hated op because of his connection to her
Those people that told him to forgive the parents are the same toxic people that would rather condone a Younger brother that slept with the older brothers GF and says to the older brother to forgive him because they are family.
Finally something which seems could be real.
You can forgive someone and still want nothing to do with them.
You shouldn't give someone who hurt you horribly the closure that they want so it doesn't change much
@@Otis56 I agree, which is why you dont have to tell someone you forgive them to forgive them.
@@jaynoir8937 But you SHOULDNT forgive them,forgiving someone,even if you don't tell them,allows them to try and get closer to you.
@@Otis56 How does that work? Forgiveness doesn't automatically let someone back in your life if you dont want them to be. You forgive them so You can let go of those burdens and finally move on, so they can stop living rent free in your mind while they live their lives without a care. None of it is for them.
@@jaynoir8937 Forgiveness is forgiving someone for something that's the equivalent of telling them it's okay and that they can do it anytime they want
Forgiveness is never to the other party, but to oneself, you can forgive the one that wronged you but that doesn't mean you'll need to keep them in your life or even knew that you've forgiven them it is for you and to live free of them
Im guessing this is not a real reddit post. The facr that there was never an attempt to file a police report and the adults where fine with that is what makes me think this is not a real post.
This story is a rewrite of an AI story from another channel.
Nearly everything is the same except in the original the mother had passed away when OP was young, so obviously there was no letter or anything. In the original, the two kids of the step mom were slightly more present.
Too many AI stories with false SA accusations within family these days. It makes you wonder...
Anyone know what happened to the stepmom after the truth came out? Mine think that the stepmom have been exile after being divorced by the mc's dad after he discovered the truth and her affair.
The mom tooo?!...f them both...move on
That background "music" is so unnecessary. Literally extra work to make video worse.
This is why you shouldn’t believe all women. Believe solid evidence, believe facts.
Those people telling me that they need your parents are a hole Victoria got back on you over the lie now screw them
Come on, AI, really? "The uncertain future/IDK what the future holds", "Over the moon", constant repetition, ending moral of the story and lesson learned.
You used to be the best cause you actually just posted things from the source with no BS. What is this?
Regarding the stepmother, its funny how women state that a man needs to love her children she had with other men, but they don't have to do the same for his children
I'm sorry if you accuse me of SA, I'm going to make that a reality. I don't care, if you accuse me of that I will make it a reality
Clearly step mum didn't have medical exams
I would like to know through the video description/title tab whatsongs are used please. It also helps to dodge copy right strikes as well to include as well as credit said songs to original artists. But mainly for me it's too look up the songs too listen to them, the other bit is just a tad bit of OCD moment that hampers more than actually helps sometimes.
When they chose to believe those lies they gave up the right to call themselves parents.
Block them
Why the fudge would be assault his own stepmother the fudge
Is the AI stuck in a loop.
Music is too loud.
He was rejected they tossed him out withoyt any discjssion pr hearing his side so f them,
A son can't get defense from his own blood these days. What's the point?
I agree with op's choice but I wouldn't have taken the money.
fair enough
OP should take the money. It's helpful for his kids. And there's no strings attached.
@@PolemistisNAYExactly, taking the money had nothing to do with closure since his dad had already passed away. He has his family to think about now, and its not like he has to ever visit his grave.
@@toomuchsauce5599 Yep. It's money that they owe to OP for failing their duties as parents and human beings.
@@toomuchsauce5599 Yep. It's money he was owned. He can do whatever he wants with it all the while not having to contact any ex-relatives.
There needs to be somthing guys or women can do of "hey authorities someone says i r*ped them can i get some help mayne an investigation? I think somthing might have happened and she needs help"
The family are a bunch of idiots. They don’t deserve forgiveness from OP
Can the music be louder I can still hear what they're saying.
Poached and altered... Cripes
Want forgiveness? Get religion.
YAY! BELIEVE ALL WOMEN FTW
I'm not going to lie this whole entire story makes no sense and I'm not saying it's not capable of happening to anybody or anything like that but you're telling me the whole entire family you're telling me aunts uncles and the grandparents plus the posters mom on top of that we're willing to just take the word of a random woman they barely know over their own family blood maybe that's just me but unless the family is filled with just literal fucking snakes and two-faced motherfukers then I get it but the fact that there was no reason given like let's say the poster being on bad terms with most of the family constantly getting into arguments with them stuff like that and even his mother maybe being a narcissist maybe I could buy while they turned on them
It does happen. And narcissists never make sense. My family members are similar. The way they justified bad things makes me lose my sanity.
No I agree with you that's why I said it's not impossible that I can't happen but it's just to me I'm like the whole family plus his mother on top of that is the part that is kind of getting to me because look I hate to put it like this I could maybe understand the poster had some backstory detail where details that the family for some reason has just never liked him or gotten along with him and there was already dealing with his mom not being one of the best parents in his life so far besides baby his dad but I just can't get behind the whole entire family plus like I said the Mom it's just like why two-faced people out there and you know terrible family members
It makes even less sense that step mom and regular mom were both involved yet the parents were supposedly divorce yet the very end mom said she was contemplating the end of her marriage. So that assumes dad and mom were married at the time step-mom married dad and added 2 kids
All I can say is that its possible for narcissism to be passed down to descendents.They were all raised in environments which made them narcissists,something which becomes more probable as nor eof them become narcissistic
…..YT randomly started to play my step mom accused me of SA my step sister story as it was suffocating
The music sucks !
Undertale
I’m depressed now
Don't be. It's an AI story
The only things OP should have done differently, in my opinion:
1) When his parents tried to reach OP, he answered with silence, because he considered them as part of his past, however this decision didn't gave them closure, and they kept trying to reach him. OP was the last thought of his dying father, and his mother tried multiple times to contact him after father's death, this due to the fact that OP did not emphatised enough the closure with them. When they tried to reach him he should have answered "I appreciate you now realized your mistake, but it's too late. I am no more son of yours, leave me alone. For real". OP claimed that the final letter to his mother gave him closure, so answering both his bio parents would have avoided the following struggle. Leaving the parents in silence did not gave them closure, and they kept trying to reach OP.
2) The father included OP back in his will, and OP wonders if this was a final attempt to catch up. No shit, Sherlock, the father tries to contact OP until his last dying breath, but it's the money that gives it away, isn't it? After refusing to meet at the hospital, to attend the funeral, OP stll accepts the money. To me, it's hypocritical
OP should have given them closure for ruining his life?That's the worst advice I've ever heard and i have seen stories where friends told someone's wife that they should cheat on their husbands because life is more exciting that way.I would like to add its not hypocritical to get compensation for all the trauma OP's Step mother and Biological Parents caused him
Fuck those parents. Where was his chance to explain himself when he was accused? Why should his father get his chance at closure when he never got his chance to explain before getting kicked out the family? His father clearly was thinking more with his dick I'm glad he died not getting the closure he want. Why should he get what he wanted when OP never got it. You call it hypocritical? I say his father was far more hypocritical. In fact, he should get majority of the inheritance after all the shit that useless dog put him through. I'm glad he made the decision to never meet them again. The past is the past and their son died when all of them abandoned him. He has a better future and it's much better for him to look towards it rather than the incompetent creatures that identifies themselves as his "parent".
Any parent that chose their new partner/stepwive/husband over their own children due to false allegation deserve 0 sympathy for they have clearly chosen to get rid of them in their life and doesn't deserve them back. He has a better family now and his wife's family probably treat him far better than his own family. Hell, it also saves money and you only have 1 set of grandparents to visit and not needing to care about the other one. His peace is all that matters, not the peace of the people that destroyed his life. Forgiveness belongs to him and him alone and no one else can tell him otherwise especially the perpetrators.
@@Otis56 I think he meant a closure so the thought of his past dosent live in his head rentfree
whats with the loud background music ? good story but background noise spoils it
I'm questioning the validity of this story. How old was OP when he was accused? OP made it seem like he was still a minor, yet when he was kicked out, wouldn't that be illegal? (Depending on the country) Plus what about OP's mother made her believe Stepmom? A little history about why the parents split up would be helpful, because how would the mom know about the SA? If the Stepmom was an affair partner, why would the mom believe her? If she hated the Ex, why would she listen to him as well? Context helps. Also if OP wasn't a minor then why was he living with his dad? Wouldn't he be living with his mom if Stepmom was showing signs of not liking him? Was there even a custody arrangement if he was a minor? Plus im pretty sure the cops would have gotten involved by someone, as if SA is so big someone would have reported him. In most SA stories the cops are called. This has a lot of questionable variables....also this story seems to follow the same trend that a lot of similar stories does. Op gets accused, have to leave, meets someone starts a new life, the truth comes out and people begs for forgiveness. A family member gets sick and wants to see OP on his deathbed, and OP refusing to see them.
Question is... why do they have your phone number/socials in the fist place after you have moved to another country? A phone number is not that easy to find, just change number and move on, no need to engage in this bullsht.
The op chose his choice and is completely in the right, but in my honest opinion he should have sat down and have a conversation with his parents. Just like how they didnt give him the chance to explain his part of the story he didn't give them that chance either. It was deserved and poetic but its just that when the didn't give him that chance and abandoned him, they had to live with crushing guilt, regret and remorse along with the what ifs. Like what if they let him explain, or what if the just took his side or what if they just took ot to court. Just like how they had to live with thise thoughts so would he. What if i went and talked? What if i just told them what they did to me and how it affected me, would we have reconciled? Maybe or maybe not, hell new know because his father died. I just wouldnt want the op to have to live with the thoughts they will always have with them. Maybe its just me and my im weird but i would want to be the better person, better than they ever were and just give them the chance they never gave me even if it was just hear what they were thinking at that point and what lead to them making that horrible decision or just get full closure so that i wouldnt have to live with the thoughts and feelings on mind and chest. Even if not for any of those reasons id just learn from there mistakes and never fuck up as bad as they did with me. Maybe its just me. Maybe I'm just built different🤷♂️.
All in all i just hope the op wont regret his choice and just live his life happily woth his family, God knows he deserves a happy ever after
I get your point, and you're right that a conversation could've brought closure. But not everyone has the strength to give those who hurt them another chance. It's about how we choose to protect ourselves, and everyone handles betrayal differently. You're not weird for wanting to take the high road-just built differently.
@@StoryLoungeOfficial Thank you. That was well said😃
I wouldn't have felt bad. Period.
Because OP is the victim. Whatever decision he makes is justified, no matter what.