Why Isabelle & Friends Decided to Marry Foreigners Only | Isabella Daza

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  • @zettego4258
    @zettego4258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I used to work for an airline based overseas for 28 years with cultural diversity at the workplace. Yes, I totally agree that most of them are assertive, independent, confident and pragmatic. On the flip side, a lot of them ( not generalising here, ok?) especially Expats are arrogant, spoiled and self- entitled especially if they have been living in Asia for a good number of years. They have this huge superiority complex that they are so much better than the locals and act like they are God's gift to asian women. I do find however that those who are based in their home turf are way nicer. Then there's the common stereotypes, westerners going to Asia for the purpose of seeking brides, girlfriends or purely to indulge their sexual fantasies with more bang for their buck. A white nerdy guy , or an old, bald, overweight, pot -bellied white man with a very young asian girlfriend or wife is a common sight in the Philippines as well as other Southeast asian countries. Some women are barely even out of their teens, hoping this foreigner is their one way ticket out of poverty and a citizenship elsewhere where milk and honey is overflowing, so to speak. I guess this kind of interracial pairing stems from a "practical" mindset for both.

  • @chadlukas
    @chadlukas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    I think for Belle and her click it would be just natural for them to be married to foreigners. It's because they are well connected and well traveled so it's bound to happen that they meet foreigners. Like they say you marry people you meet in your own circle.

    • @miki9531
      @miki9531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @ccyesornocc7989
      @ccyesornocc7989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      either nationalities, if there's no connection and maturity between a couple, relationship will not work. I dated both, big plus in a progressive relationship is your connection with someone.

    • @percivalreynaldo9899
      @percivalreynaldo9899 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *clique.

    • @joemariedeguzman9204
      @joemariedeguzman9204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so true. I've never heard a real-life story of a princess who married a pauper.

  • @annbern1480
    @annbern1480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I’m married to a American I think what attracted me the most is sorry for the Filipinos but they are not mamas boy 🤷🏻‍♀️ ofcourse I still made sure that my husband loves her mom and respects her but I never had the problem or insecurity of if his mom and I will get into a misunderstanding I always know I have his loyalty and that he will support what I think is the best and another big part is when you are married to a western family you will never feel the need to explain yourself! Your life your decision they know when to give their opinion when it’s needed

    • @lovarols5161
      @lovarols5161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes to this! Absolutely true.

    • @MsMssexy
      @MsMssexy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Strongly agreed! Im married to a white guy too! Same what you said

    • @jonalynjuan7689
      @jonalynjuan7689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @gal5402
      @gal5402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hmmm, Italian and Greek men=Mama's boys

    • @a.j.c.t.3904
      @a.j.c.t.3904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      tama yung sa opinion ng mga Westerners. Dito mga Pinoy ang daming opinion na hindi naman kelangan at hindi naman credible ung nagpapayo sayo. nakakagulo lang ng utak at napakatoxic.

  • @kissthunder96
    @kissthunder96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Mga ibang pinoy dito ang bi-bitter. Kapag nakapag-asawa ng foreigner status or pera agad. Hahaha. Yung insecurities nyo itabi nyo nga minsan. :)

    • @hcir5341
      @hcir5341 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is mostly true though. Women are hypergamous.

  • @dreamfairy9208
    @dreamfairy9208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Madrama at may pagka chauvinist kc ang karamihan ng mga pinoy, they usually only think of themselves, want always to lead but cannot fulfill their role, sa una lng magaling pero as time goes bahala ka na sa sarili mo. Thinks that u should be grateful he married u. Thinks too highly of himself that u should always serve and obey him even if he has no job or is super dumb

    • @troopstroops2756
      @troopstroops2756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mapili kamo ang ibang pinoy mahilig sa mapuputing babae kaya hindi nila ako gusto😂😂 tapos lasinggiro😜😂 buti pa ang foreigner hindi perfectionist

    • @prjdghyt
      @prjdghyt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth. Masyado pang mabola tsaka manloloko. Hindi responsable. Bubuntisin lang yung babae tapos iiwan. Mga foreigner pagpplanuhan talaga ang future tsaka walang games.

    • @prjdghyt
      @prjdghyt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@troopstroops2756 agree. Tatanggapin ka nila sa kung sino ka. Tsaka mas maganda naman mix pag filipina beauty tsaka western. Kaya winner ka pa din.

    • @caramelcat6657
      @caramelcat6657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This. Dami ko na alam na pinoy na kulang sa tamang diskarte pero gusto nila sila padin ang above sa mga wives/gfs nila. They hate women who are frank & not afraid to voice their thoughts when they can’t even fulfill their role of being providers and protectors (hindi lahat pero lets get real madaming ganito). Every Asian girl i know married to a Westerner have good careers and family lives kasi their foreign partners aren’t threatened and support them on both fronts

    • @ivy6179
      @ivy6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totoo. Mga spoiled pa. Juts naman

  • @uklifewiththethorpies
    @uklifewiththethorpies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I find foreign men to be mostly faithful, straight forward in a nice way, so loving and supportive, and not too concerned about physical beauty. Unlike some Filipino men who would look more on the outward appearance rather than the beauty within.

    • @badv9319
      @badv9319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes kapag may kamot malaki na tiyan iwan hanap kabet hahaha na panget din haha based on nakikita ko sa tulfo at face to face

    • @kayh-s7726
      @kayh-s7726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly my thoughts and I am married to a Brit man 😊

    • @sagittariusgirl2813
      @sagittariusgirl2813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed…

    • @y2kg356
      @y2kg356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣 now a naaasty asian women are try to hide their insecurity lol. Say who , who concerned about physical beauty lol. no need to shift your naaaasty mentality to other no need to blame asian men. We all know who are more concerned with physical beauty lol.

    • @ElectronicBooks19
      @ElectronicBooks19 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yung mga panget at pandak pa choosy eh. LOL. Mga Pinoy, gusto magaganda, pero andudungis naman tignan, babaero pa.

  • @gabooche
    @gabooche 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I used to date foreign guys before and I have to agree... They don’t sugar coat things and some of us may find it blunt and rude (since were are very culturally non-confrontational type of culture). But what I like about it is you don’t have to play mind games with them. They deal with the present situation as it is... So when the show you a romantic gesture, it’s very priceless since you know they are not wired that way. Filipino men are more affectionate and showy which is also a good thing. But sometimes, since we know that Filipino men are that way, we set the bar high for them in terms of showing affection. Which is unfair on their end since not most of them are. In a nutshell, when In a relationship whether they are foreign or of the same nationality, It’s better not to expect anything. Less expectations means less disappointment. And It’s better to be surprised on what’s in store in a relationship and it makes the experience more refreshing and dynamic. If you don’t expect, you’ll be surprised all the time. Which is better for me in my opinion.:-)

  • @ogie86
    @ogie86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    They dated foreigners for status. Lets be real. Same goes for men. It is what it is.

    • @jhangxina124
      @jhangxina124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Factz

    • @Scout555
      @Scout555 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MarkedThat WTf? Lol

    • @jlv8364
      @jlv8364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seriously, i've met women who after dating 1 white guy would say Pinoys dont get me like a white man gets me. Cue eyeroll

    • @ivy6179
      @ivy6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bat mga lalaki na pinoy ang pinakabitter sa comments? lol.

    • @ivy6179
      @ivy6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MarkedThat Totoo. Yung ibang guy gusto sila yung nililigawan yawa. Gusto maging babae

  • @MelChan30
    @MelChan30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    You can see the hesitation of Will when Belle asked him the question back. 😂 its okay Kuya Will, you can always say you don't know or you're not sure yet ☺ cos "everything" is too vague for an answer. Nobody's perfect.

  • @LA-bq6hf
    @LA-bq6hf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Westerners are more straightforward, like you'd be surprised how asking someone out and going on dates is normal. In the PH, it kinda has to happen naturally like no one will just go asking anyone out on dates that they don't know. You have to be a friend of a friend, a coworker, etc. thats why filipinos date older.

  • @helenaartates4017
    @helenaartates4017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Appreciate that Belle praises both. Feel like we romanticize Filipino/White relationships so much and this def could’ve become another example internalized racism/eurocentrism

    • @sophiepunzalan
      @sophiepunzalan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Trueeee. Nagbabasa ako ng comments ngayon, and parang internalized racism/eurocentrism nga yung ganap 😂

    • @Scout555
      @Scout555 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True, most of the comments are delusional, clearly subconsiously affected by the hundreds of years of historically demeaning treatment of Filipinos by the West and how western women don’t agree at all with these commenter’s romanticized view of “equality “. There’s literally hundreds of videos of how male and female inequality exists in the west. Just look at how the US has never been able to have a female president. It’s like many of these pinays are brainwashed.

    • @dearwins
      @dearwins 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sophiepunzalan ano po ibig sabihin ng eurocentrism? internalized racism?

    • @js.8322
      @js.8322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      oo nga eh... It's pretty sad.... what's worse is the utter obliviousness of their own racism....

    • @js.8322
      @js.8322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@dearwins "Eurocentrism" is having a biased perspective that favours western cultures/standards over non-western ones... "Internalized racism" is basically believing that the people of your own race is inferior... don't necessarily mean that the racist individual think poorly of themselves, but rather, thinks that they are someone who is better than the common folk of his/her own race.

  • @michelB.
    @michelB. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Parang si Isabelle ang mas nagInterview hehe she knows what to ask .. Isabelle wants to learn but Wil questions just want to know lang … sa clip na ito I don’t the rest

    • @ralph_m31
      @ralph_m31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because she's one of his true friends, along with Solenn, Nico & Erwan (according to what I heard on Spotify).

    • @giocalingasan
      @giocalingasan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it’s not an interview, it’s a podcast.

    • @ralph_m31
      @ralph_m31 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@giocalingasan Can you please give me the definition of podcast...dali

    • @dannacadiz8315
      @dannacadiz8315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lumalabas hosting skills that she learned and honed at Eat Bulaga 😁 nice

    • @l.t.6616
      @l.t.6616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ralph_m31 Podcast Posdcasts are usually hosted by one or more people who conduct a conversation and share personal stories😊. so basically its kinda like a series of conversation po.

  • @kaz7962
    @kaz7962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I am engaged with an Australian guy and i totally agree with Belle. I love the practicality, straight to the point and the independent personality of western guys.

    • @alimracgenese9958
      @alimracgenese9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree ako di

    • @jason3291
      @jason3291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im Filipino and im like that, not all are the same

    • @ziggymarley4961
      @ziggymarley4961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatever to each his own, dont generalize it makes you even shallower then the most ignorant Filipinas.

  • @cececola
    @cececola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Belle should have her own podcast. She did the episode exceptionally well. Bravo👏

    • @schneewittchen5253
      @schneewittchen5253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She have, with her sister. Its called sexytime podcast

  • @serenitybeauty
    @serenitybeauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I’m married to a Caucasian and he is actually more romantic than my Filipino ex. He always gives me flowers during special occasions or sometimes even without occasion. So I guess it depends on a person.
    But definitely my husband is way more loving and expresses love with words and actions.♥️

    • @kanyebrazzers9179
      @kanyebrazzers9179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ok sinkit

    • @jonalynjuan7689
      @jonalynjuan7689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here , my bf is very generous and thoughtful

    • @ey1583
      @ey1583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, depends sa nationality and culture nila. Like Italians super romantic nila, emotional and territorial

    • @zarwine7080
      @zarwine7080 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eh 'di maganda 👍

    • @ChiefJeyEf
      @ChiefJeyEf ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ey1583Territorial talaga?

  • @stephenkrus
    @stephenkrus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The lighter skin is a status-thing.

  • @marjorieagustin7963
    @marjorieagustin7963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am married to a Filipino. No hint of western. He is unromantic and practical. Ahah! I love him but sometimes I tell him to give me flowers cause my love language is receiving gifts. AHAH! He will obliged naman.

  • @muchi27ko
    @muchi27ko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Haha Will was caught with that question. His voice becomes low, still emotional.

  • @antoniojosedejesus1233
    @antoniojosedejesus1233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I stayed a few years in the US honestly but most Pinay will not admit especially those who were not born there but came from PI the main reason is to improve their lives opportunities at financial help for their families love is just an after thought -thats why pinays marry a foreigner - pinays never say direct to the point but they are very practical in life and use marriage to improve social and financial status that's why they prefer foreigner that change their future

  • @robertzapata6081
    @robertzapata6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Haha Wil's reaction when Isabelle turns the question :D

    • @enelrahcreivaj
      @enelrahcreivaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Natawa ako... siya na ang ininterview. Panalo talaga itong si Belle.

    • @janzahringendagani4978
      @janzahringendagani4978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She literally turned the table. Hahaha poor Will.

    • @ey1583
      @ey1583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haahhaha oo nga he was hesitant

  • @seandaman6509
    @seandaman6509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Whats the dif? Oh you forgot to mention the D size too! Lol “D’heart”. Hey when I was younger I didnt like drama I didnt even like giving flowers to women. Too much cliche in my book. But when I met “the one”, I found myself doing the things I hated. Over the years I realized people change. And nothing is constant except it. Im still an introvert but here and there I get my feet wet nd let loose. You just haven’t found the one yet. Believe me, i was stubborn as a rock before. Your partner doesn’t need to change you. You’ll find yourself one day doing the things you didnt like because it makes her happy. Regardless the race and upbringing. We feel love the same way, just expressed uniquely.

  • @brownbambi1244
    @brownbambi1244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Tbh this is stereotyping, not all western men are “practical” or whatever, some filipinos are practical too 😆

    • @maed3266
      @maed3266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      exactly, it really depends on person

  • @senoritalee8881
    @senoritalee8881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m married to spanish man and I’m totally agree to what belle said that foreigners are not showy

  • @morningstar3870
    @morningstar3870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Chinese woman: I want to be an entrepreneur
    Japanese woman: I want to be an engineer
    Philippinas: I want to marry a foreigner

  • @PhilipZeplinDK
    @PhilipZeplinDK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    1:13 eh... I quite literally bought my (at the time) girlfriend 80 red roses for Valentines Day, and locked myself into her apartment while she was at work, and placed them all over her apartment.
    I think you're being a bit generalizing here, and without knowing details, to me it sounds like you're explaining not "western" men, but specifically "Guys from the US".
    In Japan, the stereotype is the opposite: western men are super romantic, and Japanese men are not.

    • @rantomori5930
      @rantomori5930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you’re generalizing too.My husband is japanese,he might not show he’s romantic side in action but he definitely shows it in words.like belle said,words of affirmation.we’re married nearly a decade now but he still make sure that i feel secure in every possible way.

    • @PhilipZeplinDK
      @PhilipZeplinDK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@rantomori5930 I'm not pulling what I said out of thin air. Lived in Japan for years. Basing what I said off comments from many Japanese friends and former girlfriends.
      Not to mention that I SPECIFICALLY write that it's a STEREOTYPE, so why are you taking what I write as if it's fact? I specifically write that it's not...

  • @caramelcat6657
    @caramelcat6657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    two of my most recent relationships were from white guys, one from chicago, and the current one who i plan to get married to is from rural canada. di naman sa nilalahat ko but foreigners (specially western men) in general are independent, straight to the point, industrious, practical, and don’t have as much issues with their masculinity unlike a lot of pinoy men. the ones i’ve met normally aren’t threatened by their women being outspoken or having good careers or independent hobbies/passions. both white men i dated are protective and very resourceful too, leagues apart from the pinoys i dated. they walk the talk. of course di naman lahat ng foreigner ganyan at madami din pinoy men na ganyan but based on general observation and experience, this seems to be the norm.

    • @floriankristel
      @floriankristel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      true yan mam.. Sa Pinoy men din kasi they are looking for a perfect woman and perfect maid in one... sa west kasi ano ka, equal ka nila.

    • @melissawebb979
      @melissawebb979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@floriankristel ganyan talaga marami sa mga male peenoise

    • @Scout555
      @Scout555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melissawebb979 why do you demean them with that racist slang?

  • @forthesnowflakes7691
    @forthesnowflakes7691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Let's be honest.. There's a little fetishizing on both sides.
    That's not all the case but regardless make sure you're not perpetuating racist tropes bc I think we all have responsibilities to a greater common good. And if you're not active in that space or passive, then I'm almost sure it's a relationship based on fetishizing.

  • @jhaz7744
    @jhaz7744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Done listening to the podcast. I would say that Isabelle could be a LOVE GURU. She knows what she is talking about, no filters just facts. I like listening to that. I just realized when Wil's guests are also a host/speaker, the podcast turn out to be a barkada talk, a light, fun and no filters talk which is actually GREAT. there is a difference between talking to a barkada and interviewing someone. I find this podcast to be talking to a barkada/tropa. Real, juicy and informative, no filters just straight to the point facts. You can definitely agree to disagree anywhere in the conversation and barkada will definitely understand and respect your opinion. Want more of this! this also led me to listening to Isabelle podcat the sexytime podcast. thanks Wil for introducing Isabelle, she is totaly hot mama.

  • @gingginglacson2701
    @gingginglacson2701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ang foreigner esp Western one woman man nd mn lahat pero mostly.. pg comitted na yon na ...ang pinoy pag labas sa bahay binata hahahha 🤣🤣🤣

    • @floriankristel
      @floriankristel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      true ito..LOL mas polygamous ang Pinoy men kasi madami sila kailangan patunayan..Lol..magtatago pa sa banyo para ang makachat ng ibang chicks sa IG.

  • @paulabianca1701
    @paulabianca1701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Isabelle is such an intelligent woman!

    • @josakura
      @josakura 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      couldn't agree more

  • @marystv2167
    @marystv2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey! Proud pre-school teacher here!!! Hello Ms Isabelle.. I so enjoy listening to this episode that I had to listen to it for few times. LDR is difficult but I agree with Ms Belle. If you love the person time and space should not come in the way. I've been in LDR for 12 years and its just getting stronger. I just realized that I experienced cancel culture for so long I just didn't know it because I'm honest and straight forward in what and how I feel. I'm trying to be low key but always ends up different. I believe in positive affirmation and that's what keeps me going.

  • @gracechan8951
    @gracechan8951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Yes, marrying foreigner is not full of paasa,😁 more straight forward, not into fancy just be yourself, I love it.

    • @alimracgenese9958
      @alimracgenese9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But some pinays are paasa and gold digger kakahiya

    • @gracechan8951
      @gracechan8951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alimracgenese9958 well that's true maybe you're not meant to be 🙂

    • @gracechan8951
      @gracechan8951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alimracgenese9958 gold digger yes true. But it's a choice.

    • @exposed231
      @exposed231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alimracgenese9958 true po kahiya .. pero not all like me and my brother. Dutch yung sa kuya ko ako norweigian naman

    • @alimracgenese9958
      @alimracgenese9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@exposed231 well basta with the heart❤ means love talaga its not about sa meron sila! By the way Congrats sayo and sa sibling mo! Sna all ikakasal ako mag 3years na kmi nong black American ko pag uwi pinas soon!

  • @thepreparedpinoychannel5637
    @thepreparedpinoychannel5637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lol, the mention of airport made Will uneasy. Then i remember he met Alodia in the Airport nga pala for the first time(i think?!)

  • @denskie1969
    @denskie1969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ano ka ngayon tsong, na pusoy ka no? That lady is better than you when it comes to interviewing a person like you. Boom panes ! 🤣

  • @jhaz7744
    @jhaz7744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    P.s. I think Isabelle has a lot of friends who might like to date someone like Wil.. just saying. My heart still ache from the previous loveteam but we gotta move forward... Dating Filipina women or should I say Binibining Filipina ain't easy for jejemons but for sure a pot of gold for many men out there. A Hot tsongo bachelor we have here.

  • @shermainnecubangbang487
    @shermainnecubangbang487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have an italian boyfriend also, he's straight to the point, not a showy type person and he's not into socmed 🙈which is i loved. Very private person.

  • @donjuan2770
    @donjuan2770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    she's better in questioning and expressing than him. she should also start her own podcast.

  • @ontariofirs7347
    @ontariofirs7347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Man, Im a Filipino Canadian but I feel like I want to marry certain nationalities and not just 'cause a person is white/Caucasian. I have my eyes set on Italians, Mexicans, Colombians, Spaniards, Portuguese, Puerto Ricans, Brazilians, Lebanese etc. 🤤 Life without passion is not worth living.

  • @pedrolockup1543
    @pedrolockup1543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It seems a white convict can always get with beautiful Filipina girls as long as she doesn't know about his past.

  • @thegreenlife6095
    @thegreenlife6095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm married to Black American,and you both correct because my husband isn't a romantic type, no sugar-coated on our first Convo in a dating site.What I like about him,he know what he wants,very open-minded and affectionate kind of person which at first I wasn't comfortable but now I'm liking it.He takes care his mom and it doesn't bother me having mother in law living with us because he has his own rules.

  • @denniszenanywhere
    @denniszenanywhere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Interesting perspective of Filipina women who date foreigners. In the states, statistics show Asian men to be the least desirable among all types of men. In general, worldwide, there’s just more preference for Caucasian men who also top the surveys.

  • @ralph_m31
    @ralph_m31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I hope Isabelle can introduce some single girls that she knows who have the same preference to Western guys as her, such as Wil, tutal he's included in their friends' circle (Solenn, Nico, Erwan, etc.)... Someone who can really understand and cope with his monthly Jetsetting activities... 🤞

  • @raphahope1916
    @raphahope1916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thats why i like foreigners coz theyre practical

    • @hersheys24
      @hersheys24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emiiiii1000 nainggit ka naman lol

  • @edithafontanilla2084
    @edithafontanilla2084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wait... Who is the host here? Was it you or Isabel? I'm confused! hehehe!

  • @exposed231
    @exposed231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pinoy kasi kahit matanda na ... umaasa pa rin sa nanay at tatay🤣🤣

    • @ivy6179
      @ivy6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saka mashado close nanay. Kulang nalang magpakasal sa nanay

    • @exposed231
      @exposed231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ivy6179 big check. Sa norway mga pag 18 naghihiwalay na sa Parents

  • @savannahliz
    @savannahliz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I think feminine women are attracted to decisiveness, practicality and ability to protect and lead in difficult situations. At least that's what attracted me to my Canadian hubby.

    • @lovarols5161
      @lovarols5161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! I love the fact they decide for themselves, not waiting until they get the blessing of their parents or input.

    • @georgemcintyre7467
      @georgemcintyre7467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you implying filipino men are not decisive, practical and able to protect in difficult situations?

    • @savannahliz
      @savannahliz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@georgemcintyre7467 nope. My dad was obviously a Filipino man and he was strong, protective and decisive. I am saying as a feminine woman, those characteristics are desirable.

  • @MultiPasswordman
    @MultiPasswordman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When wil was asked the difference between dating a Filipina vs western woman and he answered “it’s different” he NAILED it!

  • @supermodelwannabe
    @supermodelwannabe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    When Belle asked Will how it was to date a pinoy i felt his hesitation. Idk maybe it has something to do with his recent breakup?

  • @stewiemegchris1122
    @stewiemegchris1122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Masipag at responsible kasi mga ibang lahi mas focus sila sa future nila laging may upgrade sa buhay,,mga pinoy hindi lahat pero kontento lang sa anong meron yun lang talaga chaka mahilig sa babae kesa mag upgrade ng career..

  • @walteriglesia9603
    @walteriglesia9603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When all of a sudden there is a role reversal and flood of memories are flowing :)

  • @JW-zd5ry
    @JW-zd5ry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm married to american iba sila kysa mga ex ko na filipino. American they let you do whatever you want and very practical sila.

  • @cjp592
    @cjp592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG. Stop tip toeing around it. Western men can tend to be more good looking, better off financially. Growing up in California I see different ethnicities. So, I have different sensibilities to those born in the Philippines. I don’t always like or agree with how Filipino parents raise their sons. Though I’ve preferred British guys or east coast guys because I find they have values similar to mine especially when it comes to education, less in to materials and more in to experience spending, fiscal values, political values.

  • @Scout555
    @Scout555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is funny because if you listen to most Western women, they seek the opposite - they want the big gesture of romance types. The only problem is that their Western male dominated culture has demeaned and belittled the SE Asian male for hundreds of years. I admire Filipino males who stay confident and are not deterred by any outside obstacles, they know what they are all about despite the negative stereotypes created by the media.

  • @divinemercyisforall6984
    @divinemercyisforall6984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i think filipinos have that inferior mentality. not that you gotta be superior i just wanna be equal. and i really don't understand the love language because i want everything. before i'm demandinh my ex to write me love letter but one time he is concerned with my health he boticed i'm not drinkinh water he just appear out of the blue and force me to drink some water i wannq cry. i also like to receive gifts, i also want tome. i also feel kilig when he cooked for me and wash the dishes i felt so loved and cared so i'm greedy my love language is everythinh but before i really thought that i just want love letters and flowers. at first i'm fine i'm the one doinh the cookinh and "servinh" later i realized i wanna be served too. i suspect men and women have so much alike contrary to what beinh fed to us that we are so different. it's just that the society is putting shame if you don't act on the distinctionS they INVENTED and unfortunately these "inventions" are just out of touch of reality but people are forcinh themselves especially men to fit in. for examplr i saw my father cried and my ex cried many times because of me lol not proud of it thoufh me being the readon and i realized they are just like women so whoever invented this distinction that men shouldn't be cryinh should be put to rest just kiddinh of course please don't report me not following community guidelines.

  • @nerizabuzadher8348
    @nerizabuzadher8348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gosh..bitin!!!! Now I really have to download this episode from the Spotify. Okay, just downloaded it. Thank you, Wil and Isabelle!

  • @wheretherabbitwent
    @wheretherabbitwent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "How do you feel about dating a Filipina vs dating a white person?"
    This is honestly a poorly constructed question. It doesn't have to be specifically white.

    • @wheretherabbitwent
      @wheretherabbitwent 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goodmorningfrommt As a matter of fact, I have.

  • @mimeadinevneub2711
    @mimeadinevneub2711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    More with Isabelle pleasee

  • @anniez3735
    @anniez3735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Filipino men are codependent. I like white men, they are not possessive and obsessive, they give you space, they are not all over your face all the time. They do their own thing, they don't expect to be served as well. Whereas, Filipinos get angry if you don't reply right away. So i haven't dated a Filipino in a looooong time.

    • @marvinsantos6763
      @marvinsantos6763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol, di ba kayo ngagalit pag di nagreply agad si lalake? d ka rin ba binibigyan ng space ng lalake sa isang relasyon? they are not all over your face all the time? weird, d ko alam kung saan mo nakuha yan, codependent? sa economic situation ng bansa natin ngayon, lalake lang ba nakakranas nito? not unless kung dependent ka sa kanya.
      youre right, date a foreigner na lang, instead.

    • @ziggymarley4961
      @ziggymarley4961 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya ok whatever. YOU do realized you just put judgment on all Filipinos in this world. So shallow. It's like me saying all white people don't wash there pwet. Ewww how gross is that.

  • @imjustanalien
    @imjustanalien 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think they interview each other.😂

  • @beathefangurl
    @beathefangurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Foreigners wer u at? charot

  • @basketballerhighlightsph.8718
    @basketballerhighlightsph.8718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ang shakit naman sa part namin mga pinoy kaso walah ehh.. Totoo naman sinasabi nila and may pera kasi mga foreigners. Hehehe bAwi nalang kami next time.. 😁😁😁
    Peace

  • @elguwapo6153
    @elguwapo6153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm a full-blooded filipino Tall (5'11"), Dark, and Handsome( Sabi nila 😂😂😂) pero ang Girlfriend ko Fil-Dutch. Kung icocompare ko lang siya sa mga naging ex ko na full-blooded filipina masyadong malayo talaga when its comes to attitude.
    Kung superficial naman ang usapan mas judgemental ang filipina( Di ko po nilalahat ha. 😂) tulad ng mother ng gf ko na filipina nafefeel ko na di niya ko gusto para sa anak niya kasi nga nag-asawa nga siya ng foreigner para makaahon dba pero yung anak niya magboboyfriend lang ng filipino while my Gf's dad naman ay gusto niya ko kasi di naman sa pagmamayabang masipag din naman ako at medyo angat na sa buhay sa edad na 28 may sarili nakung bahay, sasakyan(Ford ranger) at motor(ducati scrambler), and may mga investment narin kahit papanu take note pinalaki paku niyan ng single-mom. Ngayon 6 years na kami ng gf ko at hanggang ngayon di parin ako tanggap ng mama niya.
    Mahirap talaga pero ang importante masaya kami. 💏💏💏

    • @christinejoygalaragachrist5249
      @christinejoygalaragachrist5249 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sana all kuya 🙏🏻

    • @elguwapo6153
      @elguwapo6153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinejoygalaragachrist5249 🙏🙏🙏

    • @ivy6179
      @ivy6179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      6 years so kelan mo papkasalan? 😂

    • @elguwapo6153
      @elguwapo6153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ivy6179 Next year pag trenta na kami. 🖒🖒🖒

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't know about u bro, but I never really care about others opinions. I think what matters is your relationship with your gf not the mother. I had past relationships with my exes were I'm close with the family and it still didn't work.

  • @exposed231
    @exposed231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Foreigners are more independent at masipag. Thats why I like them. My brother is married to Duth woman and I have a Norweigian boyfriend.

  • @nanayn4629
    @nanayn4629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Looks like will doesn't know his love language and a bit off to talk about it. Same broo hahaha

  • @BisayainHolland
    @BisayainHolland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think the good side of marrying a westerner , is they have these traits that they more practical , straight.
    While filipinos (not all ) are still dependent to their parents specially when making a choices in life .
    But also the downside of the westerner seems like they have this trait of being self center or self entitled, I cant really explain this good. But that's what I noticed.

  • @hbsantiago5217
    @hbsantiago5217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wil you gotta take that Love Language test. The language you give may not be the language that you wanna receive because you give it according to the other person's need and preference. For example, I'm not vocal, I don't like saying I love you daily but I am most comfortable expressing that I love the person through acts of service like cooking, driving, or connecting him to someone that can help his career. That's fine if the other person prefer that BUT what if the other person wants to hear words of affirmation and their day is complete without me doing anything helpful for them? So adjustments and calibrations can be made to make the relationship work, communication-wise.

  • @jlv8364
    @jlv8364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Read the comments and not one have commented about how they simply prefer white men because they find them just physically more attractive. Let's be real people! If it's just about the character all races have the same type of guys, practical, loving whatever but if you aren't attracted to them physically then you won't find the guy for you.

  • @LA-bq6hf
    @LA-bq6hf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Liz Uy not married to a foreigner tho

    • @ralph_m31
      @ralph_m31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But the 4... Anne, Georgina, Isabelle & Solenn are...

  • @miriambayot6195
    @miriambayot6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just here waiting for western guyyy. hahahahahhaha

  • @BelleVentures0711
    @BelleVentures0711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Will having a hard time answering Isabelle about what is his love language. I think now we know a lil bit why they ended.

  • @krakenwindzstorm961
    @krakenwindzstorm961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    #teamforeigner 😀

  • @m.e.tolentino3463
    @m.e.tolentino3463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That picking up at the airport thing is just funny! All this AFAM trend at tiktok, reel etc

  • @bingzheart
    @bingzheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's really true Belle are Western less Romantic than Filipino
    It's Your ❤️ heart decide
    For this Person as Long makes
    😊 happy. And love you unconditionally... It's Acceptance and RESPECT
    It's is Important
    He is NOT rowing in 2 Rivers
    Making ExCuSes lie behind At your back Like saying "
    Busy & TIred"
    Having LDR for 8 yrs.
    😰 Feel Sad I need to Give UP him...
    He is not doing his EFFORT
    For me . while catching he Is Doing effort other's.....
    I DeciDE
    FiNd ANother .... That I know it's ONLY me & NOBODY
    ELse👍

  • @mayog3445
    @mayog3445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    more of isabelle pls. @Wil

  • @PositiveGuide
    @PositiveGuide 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love @Isabelle Daza personality 🤗❤️

  • @jedilady4485
    @jedilady4485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Western guys, like thebone Belle and her friends have (notbthe typical stereotype you see mostly in PH looking for a bride) are more yummier! They are also more loyal!

  • @HiItsMe-ip8cj
    @HiItsMe-ip8cj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s all about 💰💰, c’mon let us be realistic😂...

    • @chellyd.7977
      @chellyd.7977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tf u on about? Not all foreigners earn a lot. It may be a lot in comparison to the normal filipino worker but to be realistic... its not. Only the ignorant ones or the ones who dont know better think like you. So please dont generalize filipinos like me who marry someone thats not filipino. I actually even earn more than my husband. Also, not all filipinos are gold diggers, maybe you are but im not or maybe youre just judgmental.

    • @exposed231
      @exposed231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope. Baka ikaw lang. Magtrabaho ka kasi

    • @HiItsMe-ip8cj
      @HiItsMe-ip8cj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Exposed 2022 totoo naman eh expected ng relatives mo o ibang tao pag nakapag asawa ng amerikano unang impression nakapag asawa ng mayaman as long as the partner are white and Japanese men..

    • @exposed231
      @exposed231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HiItsMe-ip8cj baka sa inyo lang yan. Dito sa amin open minded ang mga tao sa foreigner..alam namin na di lahat mg foreigner mayaman... yung iba pa nga pinay pa nga bumubuhay sa kanila.

    • @HiItsMe-ip8cj
      @HiItsMe-ip8cj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Exposed 2022 average Filipino do know that.. c’mon

  • @rinalynmacalalad4117
    @rinalynmacalalad4117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh sir wil i heard your from mindoro hope someday mabroadcast mo din gano ka ganda ang mindoro

  • @zoinks9309
    @zoinks9309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who cares I can watch filipina with every man they like 💪💙

  • @samidica
    @samidica 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Obviously, mga party girls ito sila. Sa mga mamahaling bars mostly nakakaafford yung mga foreigners na lalaki. You know how they were in the past naman. Foreigners lang makakaaccept sa kanila. Mga lalaking pinoy mas may ego when it comes to ilang lalaki na dumaan sayo

  • @kimfan3511
    @kimfan3511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh please, it's FLES ETAH she setah her self...

  • @jesssc402
    @jesssc402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In reality, everyone’s just different.

  • @oranjelicht
    @oranjelicht 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a western man I experienced Filipina women to be the most materialistic (always want to trick you in giving them money) women in Asia. Also don't like women that only wanted me for my lighter skin color.

  • @dattebayo888
    @dattebayo888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's funny that when a filipina marries a foreigner, we always say "masuerte" cya.

  • @Ama94947
    @Ama94947 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Filipinos are similar with Spanish or Italians in case of being romantic. so what do you exactly mean with western??

  • @gigis.6813
    @gigis.6813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like Isabella, she seems very real.

  • @Atibapavlog
    @Atibapavlog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Depende pa din kaya lng mukhang nagkaron ng mga third parties mga exes nang pinoy at di nag propose. Etong mga foreigners nato baka matitino at mag propose ng marriage. Kung matitino naman naging pinoy bf nila baka yun nakatuluyan nila

    • @anniez3735
      @anniez3735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tama. Hindi mag propose kaya hindi nakatuluyan.

  • @fauzianalwoga
    @fauzianalwoga 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's right about people favoring the light skinned people 😢.

  • @judylalucan4639
    @judylalucan4639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this episode, Wil! ❤

  • @missiesipi8538
    @missiesipi8538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why was will lowkey caught off guard when belle asked him a question 😂

  • @igorotaraki9928
    @igorotaraki9928 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why cant you just post the whole epi video online? im tired of watching cutouts😭

  • @M.Stick11
    @M.Stick11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is Wil married already? I see a ring on his left ring finger.

  • @kristineirishmayo
    @kristineirishmayo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Belle’s podcast hahaa opps it’s wil hahaha.

  • @jackymomwifevibe
    @jackymomwifevibe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to listen to Belle talk more on a podcast, like not as a guest but have her own podcast. I’m married to a American and I can relate a lot. Belle is right, they are very straightforward(not pa bb), sweet but not extra to the point it will make you cringe.

  • @AsianSP
    @AsianSP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im filipino woman but even I really appreciate western natural beauties, I’ve never been attractive to them.. I think I’m more attractive to asian foreigners .. than western its just I like the way filipino humor is, actually filipino that surrounds me are not romantic and showy but they are hell’a funny.. they are also straightforward... to bully you.. but its hard for them to complement you, western might gentle, straightforward, caring, more money, tall and handsome but I still find them boring at the end of the day.. or maybe I’m more comfortable to filipino culture and one thing i find, mostly filipinos that marry caucasian are high class, elegant, open minded, or use to western culture but if the filipino are jolly and spontaneous they’ll end up to filipino as well..

  • @josephisrael7587
    @josephisrael7587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nabaligtad tsong ah hahahha

  • @laurenoutdoorsy5418
    @laurenoutdoorsy5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Labeeet! Will listen later!😹

  • @buonafortuna8698
    @buonafortuna8698 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not accidental Will, sigurado ako sa Pilipinas 100% mga magulang unang gusto foreigner ang mapangasawa, its already in the culture, pangit man pakinggan. Mas matangkad, guapo maganda, matangos ilong, bonus na yun kung mayaman pa..children will be cuter. They can have 2 citizenship and country to go to for vacation. Their really not that different to filipinas who found their foreigners online. It will be like that, until they realise that there is a very big difference in their personalities..

  • @iluvliya
    @iluvliya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I relate so much with Isabelle Daza. She's one of my favorite celebrities. Like her, I'm a preschool teacher and my partner's a foreigner too. (British)
    Keep up the good work Will👍 Happy na na interview mo isa sa mga idol ko ❤️

  • @marim9973
    @marim9973 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes N no lang sa foreigner.. boyfriend ko scottish 101% less romantic. Very honest. Wala kameng roses o dinner pag anniv 🤣 nakakainis minsan pero ganun tlg sila.