What’s funny is that a lot of these women expect a man to romance them, do all the foreplay & then blow they back out. Whole time they just lay there like a dead starfish.
You tell them to get on top so that you can take a breather and they start whining... Ride you for a couple seconds and complain that they knees are giving out🙄🙄
a long time ago I learned.. probably in a college economics or maybe marketing class, that poor people have sex more than rich or wealthy people... the latter group do more traveling and other things that bring satisfaction escape and bond building... poor people limited by lack of funds use sex more to "escape reality" than those who can travel and pursue hobbies etc.
@@amanteheru8572 its still probably less sex overall than their poorest counterparts... for example how many sexual partners does the typical barhopper and clubbier have vs the typical wealthy person the same age etc.. Just looking at child bearing I see poorer less educated people with more children.
“I’m not one of those women from the 1950s”. She said it so emphatic and proud like she’s saying that she’s strong and those women were weak. Our grandmothers had to go through Jim Crow, the kkk, their men being shipped off to real wars, maintaining a home while praying their husbands don’t die, and even made munitions for the men to use to protect the country. They went through the greatest hell this world ever saw yet they still managed to stay fit, feminine and friendly while wearing their REAL hair. Those “weak pick mes” were the strongest and classiest women that ever lived and I’ll be damned if you hair helmets keep disrespecting them so nonchalantly...
The DCGuitar13. Well said, great comment. I agree with every single word, all these Botox riddled, weave wearing, mostly obese, feminazi, tricks should read your comment and bow down to their Grandmothers, thank them and bust their chops to become more like them. They absolutely were the strongest, most classiest women and it’s a disgrace the way this “woman” spoke of them. Cheers.
Sex is a team effort, you learn each other together over time. Unfulfilled sexual experiences are at most times due to a lack of communication & intimacy. Folks need to stop watching porn too, it creates unrealistic expectations.
Bruh this is like anything in life there's a small percentage that are great. Everyone is else is average. You gonna be disappointed when you don't find that small percent.
I was speaking to my 42 year old cousin when I heard she broke with her boyfriend of 2 years. When I asked her what happened, why did she break up with him? “He wasn’t hitting it right!”
I dont know, man. Sex is a normal part of a relationship, i would never want to marry someone and then get stuck with batteries for the rest of my life. If the man doesnt last or is terrible in bed I cannot do it. However, most men can make improvements with time guidance and better nutrition. I can't deal with bad sex for 50 years just because i want a HVM. Average sex is fine, its terrible sex that most women try to avoid.
My mother had a man that made a good living at a blue collar job, had 2 homes, and wanted to marry her and take her and her 4 children from previous (unmarried) relationships out of the hood... She refused his engagement and then cheated on him because he wasn’t good in bed. Found this out from my aunt later in life. Kevin is absolutely right and women are insane to throw away good men over lackluster sex 🤦🏽♀️ We GOTTA do better.
Sometimes that just an excuse and not always true. They just don't want to take accountability of their past and don't want to put in the work meet the needs of her male counterparts
They forgot, specially women that life is about trade off, he will never be fair, is not fair for none of us men or women, each one on us has to sacrifice something for the greater. Modern women use settling like there are the first in the humans kinds to have to sacrifice something🤦🏾♂️
My favourite channel on TH-cam right now, your advice is golden, people don't realise you're saving alot of marriages and saving children from being brought up in single parent homes, love from the UK 🇬🇧
@@kuraido6370 your defo right there lol. I meant with them expecting you to pay all the bills and able to take half your stuff. Much more amplified in usa id say?
Bringing in a high salary is in fact a job. Especially a young professional in IT Engineering like myself. After I’m off work.. I study for another 2-4 hours a day to stay on top and be competitive. When I’m done for the day it’s late evening. Instead of getting a job well done sometimes I’m greeted with you don’t love me or how I’m not there. But when we go look for homes and nice things the world lights up and all is OK!? Whatever man
Nothing is more important than that time with your family that you can never get back. That job is just that. It should be taken seriously but not self-consuming. Being in IT myself I learned that the hard way.
@@ashleybrown3095 I agree. But I have a responsibility Ashley whose not a man.. she doesn’t work at all. I bid you a farewell and a goodnight. * cues American trumpet farewell tune *
@@cocotwins My not being a man means what exactly? Most men on here just come to express bitterness toward women. I'm pretty sure I have far more responsibility than you do and it still does not make me any less responsible for my wifely and motherly duties. Men are doing less and complaining more. YOU chose a woman who doesn't work at all and then come here to complain about YOUR decision. Thanks KS!!!
This how women end up pregnant with a broke dudes kids cause he was laying the pipe right but then expecting a high value man to take care of broke dudes kids and on top of that have to also be good in bed. It’s a crazy world we live in 🤦🏾♂️
Lol. She's just lost. She thinks she's gonna find some identity, but she had her identity as a mother and wife. Just like men have their identity as a father and husband. Unless you're a historic figure, nobody is gonna remember you in 100 years. So the whole narcissistic thing that women are on, it ain't gonna matter. But they're so self important, that they think there's something bigger out there for them.
"Black men have to be superheros to get basic respect". This quote needs to be postered everywhere. On the flipside women can literally come out the womb just live life do no nothing and be celebrated/valued for even menial tasks and coddled in every day issues men just deal with.
Truer words were never spoken. This type of thinking is what shifted my preferences. As much as I love my black sisters, I’m done playing their games. Beckies appreciate my blue collar job, and my laid back nature. Not once has one made me feel bad for not bringing in six figures. They enjoy my short stocky frame and belly. They think it’s cute when I get excited about a new game or movie. I really would love to find a black woman in my area who are good with those things, but almost every date I went on ended after one because they asked how much I made on the first date.
@@mobunagathevoiceofresistan801 I tried talking to a black woman before. Experienced the same thing. She asked me when I was going back to school.. red flag. I could have slept with her but I chose not to cause there was no future with her. She’s in the danger zone ! 🤡. Fast forward three years later I’m making around six figures no degree... guess who tries hitting me up on LinkedIn.. uh huh! No sister. Too little too late!
@@cocotwins Right?! They don’t seem to get it until they lose you as an option. Then they wanna come back. Nah girl! I was lame and broke according to you when we met, but since Becky is cooking my dinner , cleaning my house and giving me the circle, circle gack gack, anytime I want, you’re just a bad memory and a funny story I’m gonna tell my nephews
Why does that matter to you? Why (out of all of the talking points relating to the topic) does the number of dislikes your interest? I could care less about the number of dislikes or likes on a video. It's more about the topic to me.
Anyone and everyone is trainable, when there’s a connection and love the options are limitless. Make him feel like a king and watch his comfortability and openness rise.
I disagree. Must women are not trainable. Must men neither. If he can not sexually satisfy you, better to end things up. Women expect strong órgasms and finantial strength. Men expect wives. Must people can not. Lets face it.
@@okene yup. As a homeowner who’s had women tenants. The ones in lab coats had more dudes in rotation that the one tenant that was a stripper in ybor tampa. Let that sink in. The ones with LinkedIn and professionalism have a greater bodycount than paid strippers at a ratchet strip club. When I say greater I’m not talking let’s go to overtime. I’m talking exponentially
I think you should do a topic about kandi from real house Wives of Atlanta she married her man years ago she came into the relationship with millions back when he only had potential and she treats him like a king defends him and does not let anyone talk down on him making less than her
From the UK and just found this channel, this guy breaks things down perfectly, reality is so hard for people to grasp and he's making people look at themselves likely for the first time separating them from their ego.
but women these days won’t take the time to know the man intimately. they just want the pleasure and don’t want to work towards a great sexual experience
Dude... that is great and all but how can you be in tune with a woman that respects your money not you, loves your money and the things you give her but not you doesn't support you and is ready to leave the shit the moment you encounter a problem and spends hell of a lot more time making up lists with demands and complaining about you not doing things for her than being your friend. She can be in tune with you if she has close or same interests which is almost never the case which is exactly why so many men are having problems finding a partner.
@@frikabg you should find women from different cultures and countries, with more traditional mindsets. these women are more willing to learn how to please a man compared to western girls who believe that doing anything for a man is disgusting and beneath them
@@evolutiondl1492 NOT JUST THAT, A LOT OF FEFAILS WANT THE 14 SIZE D BECAUSE THEIR COOCHIE IS ALREADY BLOWN OUT BEFORE AGE 21. SO THEREFORE, NEVERMIND THE PLENTY OF WOMEN THAT YOU'VE MADE CREAM 😂 THEY'LL STILL SAY THAT YOUR D GAME IS GARBAGE 😤SO SOLUTION,... DON'T GIVE AF ABOUT HER PLEASURES, ONLY YOUR OWN. THESE B*TCHES WALLS BE STRETCHED TO EACH SIDE OF THE UNIVERSE 😂😂💯💯💯🤘🏾
Astonishing that you have to explain to a 44YO woman that she shouldn't expect Prince Charming to come in and rescue her from having to pay the majority of her own living expenses, after she's already been married and had a child 😂😂😂.
@Kimm West men don’t do it everyday, because if that was true, there wouldn’t be women like that still looking for men to do it. So which one is it? Men are either trash and broke, or men with income are out here saving post-wall baby mommas? Can’t have both.
@Iris Webb why are YOU arguing on TH-cam with men who are supposedly beneath you instead of exercising your options like you’re talking about? And models get picked in person; they don’t need to be on POF. We aren’t stupid, we can see through your lies.
@Iris Webb YOU called them old and unattractive, thus making them low value. If you don’t want them, why brag about having them in your DMs trying to make yourself sound like a hot commodity? KS would never say the men in your inbox are high value, because if they were you would be with them. Don’t worry about what’s in my inbox, because I can tell you right now, I don’t have “old and unattractive” people in mine. That’s seems like a problem only YOU know about. Why don’t you have high value men in your inbox? 🤔 Bet you can’t answer that
It’s not just black women who behave like this. I’m 40, and 90% of the women I’ve dealt with, intimately or even just friends, and regardless of race (black, white, Latina, Indian, Asian), all acted and talked this way. They’ve actually behaved this way as far back as I can remember. I recall being 15 in Jr. high and the girls speaking just as trashy sexually and equally on par with any cliche guys locker room smash n’ dash talk.
@@lilmisslegal3018 I don’t understand your comment. To clarify what I’m saying, this perspective that a man needs to be all that an a bag of tricks in the bedroom is actually a modernist feminist notion that has nothing to do with race. Like Kevin says, it’s put women in a masculine position and it’s contributing to the feminization of men across the board.
Yeah I thought so, hearing this video it couldn't be just black women acting this way. American women period act that way and that's why I prefer dealing with women outside the country.
My fiance will tell you she was horrible in bed when we met. But we were willing to get educated (watch educational videos, books, etc) into how to please each other. Now, we both enjoy each other with confidence and knowledge. With all the information out there, why can't either side be understanding and do the work to get better at pleasing each other?
Thank you!!! I think because it's easier for everyone to blame the other person. One thing I've noticed about Kevin's videos is the comment section is nothing but a bunch of cry babies complaining about how bad the other gender is. No one wants to talk to each other. They'd rather talk AT each other. You'll never accomplish anything with that attitude. It's never always the other person's fault. Black people need accountability.
@@iud3110 Communication is key. I hear people bashing their partners, but I"m like "Ummmm do you ever communicate to them what you want?" Now if they don't listen that's another thing. But I feel people don't communicate and expect the other person to just get it and be mind readers. Nope. Everyone has different needs/desires.
I remember Kevin Hart jokingly saying that his wife had to choose between good D and the bag. Ain’t no way I can exhaust myself making all this damn money and still be a porn star when I get home. Unrealistic
It's true. Men & women both change as we go from college to working our tails off over a 20/30 year span. Physically & mentally. Mentally priorities should change during that timeframe. Nothing worse than a 50yr old (man or woman) running around trying to act like 25.
@@kanyeeast1340 True, men too want that "unicorn"...beautiful face, bangin bod, professional chef cooking skills, straight freak in bed & makes $100k+.
If you have a man who takes care of things, the sex is manageable, meaning you both can teach one another. It's like Kevin said in a different chat, back in the day, men and women got married and learned to love one another because they understood what was more important.
As a habitual pookie that's been broke for years but am also 6'3" and fit, I can honestly say a lot of these women only care about looks and sex. I mean I guess they might not marry me but that's also not something I care about
@@Yak.indebox that is in the past parents chose the husband and the parents of the husband would not accept if not a virgin. That is how societies survive thousands of years.This thing we have is leading to poverty in 100yrs from now there just will be war lords society will disintegrates.
Damn, finally someone talking about the real issues of our community. I remember when I lost my virginity at 18 and the woman I thought cared about me talked about me so bad, lol. I used that embarrassment to become a “pornstar” later in the bed. The issue was it got to the point I didn’t want to be with one woman, because so many expressed their disgust towards a man that’s “inexperienced”. I’ve heard many sisters go in on their exes that left because he was “too small” for her and when some mentioned the size the men were still considered average and that also said they climaxed. I was trying g to understand the problem. Black men damn near have to be Superman all around all while being 2Pac in a suit. Meanwhile, the average one can’t bring shit to table. She’d say she’s the table, but all that’s on it is a headache, bills, attitude and another man’s kids.
Feel you bruv, game I got now is after I got so damaged I don't think I see women as people anymore. All I see nowadays is poon wrapped in an attractive package... And it's messed up cause women respond so well to that "toxic" attitude.
Honestly a lot of women sex game is whack these days. I believe sex been to promoted in today culture. It’s to the point many guys are numb to it. Women have over sexualize themselves to the point men are stepping away. I miss the days when women didn’t dress like a harlots and actually had self respect for themselves. Nowadays most women dress the same. I can’t tell the difference between an escort and normal girl.
The Bible said not to have sex before marriage it didn't tell you what would happen if the majority of people went against that principal and we pretty much seeing it now. The average person has several sex partners and is constantly comparing the current sex partner with previous ones
@@ShaunHensley you are assuming that each sexual encounter equals falling in love, which it doesn't. All it usually means is that she was at least attracted to the man, and as the amount of sexual encounters with each patter varies, each encounter has a variable amount of emotional connecting tied to it with some just being casual flings which is not even close to "falling in love".
Think back to the beginning---the deep personal connection was wonderful. As the body count grew it became merely a mechanical performance that could never duplicate the emotional connection causing sexual frustration.
The facts don't lie the more sexual partners a woman has had the more likely her relationship is to end in failure. The value of marrying a virgin can't be over looked for a man that wants a loyal woman.
Exactly think about being with 1 man. Thats the only experience she's ever had only one connection. Then think about her being with like over 10 guys...that's alot of experience
Much respect and admiration to you Mr. Samuels. You articulate these difficult topics in a way most men are unable to. Thank you from myself and on behalf of many other men. I am a 57 yo white man living in rural Australia.
I mean there's like maybe 3 people who were amazing the first time. However in a relationship you take time to learn what he likes and you like and work on it. The first times heck sometimes months it's a work in progress. It's more common for sex to be awkward when the relationship is starting. Don't throw away the entire dude because he didn't blow your mind early in the relationship in bed.
@@BlackPirateKing she is a bitter feminist loner type who has money/time to blow not dealing with her own shortcomings, coming on here projecting and just being a general hating ass
Do not require from others what you can not provide for yourself. You can justifiably set the bar wherever you want as long as you met those standards aswell, anything else is child’s play
So true. It goes beyond the sex as well. Many of these women always start off with what she wants and what she’s looking for in a man and it’s always done with the self presumption that she automatically provides everything she is looking for, for the man. ‘I want a man that is intelligent, and can stimulate me, make me laugh, be interesting, be able to cook, have a secret identity etc.’ meanwhile she’s a cashier at a deli. Society has done a wonderful job deluding women into believing they are the prize and just being them is enough. Reality check; it’s not.
@@silentwitness536 ‘I am the table’ It’s incredible really. The only table these modern women are are the IKEA ones with the instructions missing and having to be put together DYI.
@@davidbuffer4815 Men don't want or need wives to be their leaders or providers, so the high earning PhD woman is in most ways less desirable than the more traditional young lady who hasn't spent the best years of her life in a book or studying for an exam. Men generally want a supportive, warm hearted and feminine woman who shows good instincts and personality for life as a wife and mother to his children.
@@doomguy9049 ok I get you🤔. But during the 'best years' of a young woman's life guyz aren't grown, responsible and haven't man up during her prime time 💁🏾♂️. So while guyz are still growing up in their 20's, what are women supposed to do during that age span where she's at her prime? Books are less stressful than guyz who are still trying to find their feet 🤕
It wouldn't be good, the respect level would be to high on each side. Plus a lot of KS talking points were already pointed out by Mrs.Ali long time ago. I believe they would agree on most topics
One of the best broadcasts ever. So ironic when they say "men are controlled by sex" when it's women who will throw away their entire chance to have lifelong relationship with a man who produces for a few moments of sexual pleasure.
On the flip side: you give them great sex & everything else, you marry them/cohabitate & 6 months to a year in, especially after the 1st child, the sex activity drops like a brick. Go figure. 😒💯
@@l.j.russell902 It's a thing. Google "Why does sex stop after she moves in?" or some variation on that. I sh!+ thee not. You'll learn more during the "Sexless Marriage" broadcast KS will do this week. Dr. T. Hasan Johnson discussed it twice last month.
On another note..u cant really expect a woman to be truly submissive to you if you cant rock her to sleep from time to time bro😂 i wouldnt even wanna be with a woman who i couldnt satisfy sexually thats detrimental to both parties
Right if these men wack in the sack they need to just say that. Just be honest about it. Some so nonchalant about intimacy I bet you money they don't give their woman chills with just a touch or butterflies just by looking at her a certain way. Most of em sound like their in nothing more than a business arrangement with their spouse/partner. Thats sad.
@@lyrical_love AGREED‼️ when a woman is into u it dont take much to get her going, if u cant get her to climax with your other leg gotta learn how to use your tongue, get some toys something🤷🏾♂️
"Ladies, how does that make you look?"... They don't care, thats the point. They want it all without having to DO anything.... And it's not just Black women, its generally the "modern" woman.
Bruh literally, they want you to make the first move , pay for everything , be romantic and give the love. Then after that they want you to make them happy , enjoy + On the only thing they have offer(sex) they want you to do everything and please them too. Like wtf?? They lay down or just wait doggy style and give you oral, then expect every fucking thing too. You can not please them. İf god thought pleasing them was necessary, they would need to come to make a baby but no, Only we need to finish for a baby to happen. Even god didt think pleasing them was necessary why would we?
The book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill talks about “Sexual Transmutation” in that by being disciplined with you urges and not letting them distract you off your purpose, you can use that energy to do some great things and probably smash you goals sooner than you expected.. pumped for Wednesday’s show!
"Honestly I think many women put outrageous expectations on men & relationships as a way to self sabotage, because many of them know that they're not equipped, ready, or willing to do what it takes to do their part in a relationship" 💣💯💥🔥
if these women were honest: "jesus, i'm a drunken mess and i've been miseducated by the college system, i've no idea wtf i am doing, and i have bad habits... dude you are probably better off without me (unless you actually want to help out - it's gonna be a lot of work, and it might not even be salvageable, you sure you want to give it a go???)"
Kevin I absolutely love you and your faithfulness to preach this message! There are us women who value you and what you are doing!!!! I plan to book my session real soon :)
That woman at 34, she said how she got married young, than grew apart, got lost in marriage, having kids and now filing for divorce, trying to find herself!!!!!! Classic bait & switch - shout our to Coach Greg Adams. Unreal! Keep it up ladies!
AMS said it himself... as man the most powerful tool you have in keeping women in line is the ability to walk out. The problem is marriage takes away that option, and even if he walks away from his marriage he's going to get punished for it in divorce court.
Hallelujah! The key word is "humility" and not "fake humility." In order to be truly humble, you have to be wise and very thoughtful. A lot of women don't have wisdom and thoughtfulness
@@okene you know I was gonna say that but I knew the pitch forks and torches would be after me. I kept it like that just in case. She is very westernized and has been sucked in the world of chaos in my opinion (tats on hands, colored hair, etc). She is only going to get what she is putting out. The wrong energy and prob 7 kids of her own. Thanks for your reply
Well the sad part is which I don’t think Kevin understand is that the fathers are just as bad as the mother’s. There aren’t many dominate fathers in control of the household like in the older days. Also reinforcement is very important, when women get off of Kevin’s show they go right back into the jungle with social media and the peer pressure of friends.
This topic always infuriates me....because I remember a teacher in high school tried to shame me in front of others for being celibate. According to her, me marrying someone and having them be bad in bed would make me want to leave them. Completely asinine. A good chunk of women can't even perform proper oral on their husbands (or refuse to) but say they aren't "good in bed". It's not something you're just "good at" (unless you're blessed with the intuition). Some men may have to learn just like women should learn. If a woman pulls the "he's just not good at it" card she's most likely not interested or her interest is elsewhere🤷🏽♀️
Yes. I’ve felt like I had to be a sexual professional while dealing with black women. Ironically I don’t feel like I’m lacking with others. I swear this guy is always on point.
@@lilmisslegal3018 I would say quite a bit more than a few. I do believe it’s a possible issue culturally. At first I blamed myself, maybe I was just choosing wrong. But no. He’s right. I do believe there are black women out there who don’t have this outlook, however, as a whole? Yes. I’ve found this to be very true. I’m not even lacking and still have felt that I wasn’t good enough sexually with them. It just is what it is. Kevin keeps it real and I think many of you have the “well Im not that way” complex instead of looking as a whole.
My thing about bad sex, you can always make it better by communication. So while I understand why the sex is important, imo as well, you can always work to make it better. It’s not a one and done thing.
I absolutely felled in love this this lady when I was 19 and she was 23. Admittedly so my 19 y/o stroke game was weak. She told me she cared about me but I just couldn't please her (honest but devastating). I heal and finish college. I went on to have a pretty successful life while she married a broke dude (I guess his stroke game was great) now they are divorce because he's a bum and she is constantly looking for love and security. My wife doesn't have to work because of my income she just wants to because she enjoys her career.
Most woman seem to don't understand practice leads to perfection but practice takes time is either u getting good at making money ... Or spend most of your time getting good in bed ... A balance is key.
I would prefer she leaves tho than to stay and cheat. I've read reports that there are so many women who will look outside the relationship while inside the marriage. Dualistic mating strategy and hypergamy at their best right here.
Bruh the story about the woman pleasuring herself after sex, it’s more common then he thinks!!! I’ve had to do this before, he thinks he knows us in that department he doesn’t 😂 a lot of woman settle when we’re in love. But turn the tables, a man wouldn’t stay if sex was trash
You'd be surprised how do and tbh, he doesn't have to. If sex is one of The only things the woman can bring to marriage and if she can't do that good then I'mma go marry someone who can
@@Losdayeti4 if you believe “sex is the only thing a woman brings to the marriage” then you’re in for a long life of loneliness. You need to find someone who you value more than just sex🤷🏽♀️
@@Losdayeti4 are you serious🤣 you really think I’m about to try to prove myself to a stranger on the internet? My husband knows what I bring that’s all that matters. And he actually does great in the sex department unlike my past experiences. I’m blessed with my partner hopefully you find the same one day 🙏🏽
🤣 Knowing full well women's clothing manufacturers size their products *down* so big women feel good about themselves. *A size 8 could really be a size 10. I remember that article in WWD.*
Well, it's my personal experience that more then 9 out of 10 women are meh at best in the bedroom. Men rarely judge women on this enough to end a relationship.
To paraphrase comedian Chris Rock the new girl may be a beast in bed. But once out of bed what else does she have to offer? Can she be a good mother to your children or a supportive spouse?
This is really interesting and I never thought we all think like this. I am 38 and have been married for 17 years. My husband and I married when I was 20 and I had a 4 year old at the time. Our sex is what we make it and I wouldn't trade my husband just because of sex. Men have feelings just like women. I appreciate the man that I have because it is very hard to find men like mine who are great providers and always put his wife and children first. Also it's hard to find a man who will take on the role as step-father. I am one lucky woman because we are still winning despite our differences and disagreements. We make it work.
I have not heard any of these things from myself or girlfriends. If the sex is not good then neither partner will enjoy it. I have met couples that are high earners but end up in a marriage that only focuses on work and kids. These couples end staying married and just stay for the kids which is good for the kids but leaves both spouses lonely. So the HVM exercises his options and the wife gains weight due to stress.
when they say sex isn't important it means you suck in bed but she is still staying with you because she loves you. that is reality. be good in bed and i doubt a woman on earth will tell you i have a headache when you want something. but a lot of men just don't bring it.
I agree, even as a man I have to say its really important. Sex is what differentiate your relationship from any other relationship. It's different if you are with someone for many years and there is a decline with illness or age. Kevin got this one wrong.
Best Podcast Out . Hands Down 👏🏾👏🏾 I really hope this man becomes as big as Oprah . This generation needs It BAD !!! I’m damn sure supporting allllll the way through 😎
I think he's conducive to the growth and development of how bm see themselves and encourage themselves and how they will verbally address what they want in a relationship, but his content is not relatable enough at that magnitude. He would have to expand his content and produce more results to be syndicated. He might really blow up if he expounds on his knowledge of polyamory...it's a popular trend, but not as common in the black community in America.
Satisfying women comes from experience. But the experienced man has hit so much skin and loves the variety so much... It'll be impossible to lock him down. That's been my problem - too many (even married) exes hit me up for the hook up that its affected all my serious relationships. Even now with me engaged to an amazing, super attractive 21 year old, as a 38 year old man, I'm praying I don't get bored and tempted to go outside the relationship. Lord, I'm even getting therapy just so I don't mess up with my fiancee 'cause she's that amazing.
Women, including myself, talk a Great deal about SEX whether it’s good or bad when what we REALLY want and are seeking is INTIMACY. Of course, this is only appropriate within the Divine confines of a Marriage where INTIMACY and an emotional bond can be Righteously cultivated 💜
The quality of sex will be determined primarily by how he makes her feel. She will feel the most intense excitement in a new relationship, or a relationship with an unreliable man. Thus in a long term relationship with a reliable man the quality of sex with naturally decline.
She took the longest pause to answer how many partners she slept with at 19. She said 3 which I’m sure is a safe number. Add 2 or 3 more bodies then I’ll believe her
This video is deep to me. I just went through this situation almost 2 months ago. I've been dating a lovely young BW for a year and when I told her that I wanted her to be my girlfriend she told me I am everything she is looking for in a man BUT Sexually I dont scratch her itch so she couldn't ever be serious about someone that can't satisfy her. 😑Okay fine! please tell me Why it took a year of my time and attention for her to figure that out🤬.
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Intro: 00:00
Opening: 13:15
Show starts: 18:47
Topic starts: 24:14
First caller: 58:09
Second caller 1:04:55
Third caller: 1:18:41
Fourth caller: 1:18:45
Fifth caller: 1:36:14
Sixth caller: 1:38:01
Seventh caller: 1:44:23
Eighth caller: 1:46:36
Ninth caller: 1:47:51
Tenth caller: 1:49:45
Eleventh caller 1:50:23
Ending summary: 1:54:25
Thank you
Not all heroes wear capes
Thank you
Thanks 💯
Goat
Many don't realize that *sexual energy* is reciprocal. If you want *Superman,* make sure you're *Wonder woman.*
Exactly
Great point it takes two to tango. She can’t lay the line a sack of potatoes and expect good sex
@@TheOlzee 😂😂😂👌👌🔥🔥🔥
Exactly
I'm a woman and I approve this statement
What’s funny is that a lot of these women expect a man to romance them, do all the foreplay & then blow they back out. Whole time they just lay there like a dead starfish.
So damn frustrating!!!! FOH
You tell them to get on top so that you can take a breather and they start whining... Ride you for a couple seconds and complain that they knees are giving out🙄🙄
Facts.
Amen amen amen.. preach Samuel..
@@michaeldasilva1752 yep yep
a long time ago I learned.. probably in a college economics or maybe marketing class, that poor people have sex more than rich or wealthy people... the latter group do more traveling and other things that bring satisfaction escape and bond building... poor people limited by lack of funds use sex more to "escape reality" than those who can travel and pursue hobbies etc.
This makes some sense
Hmm, great insight
Wow, this is interesting. 🤔
Wealthy people have more sex with other people lol especially when they travel to certain countries.
@@amanteheru8572 its still probably less sex overall than their poorest counterparts... for example how many sexual partners does the typical barhopper and clubbier have vs the typical wealthy person the same age etc.. Just looking at child bearing I see poorer less educated people with more children.
“I’m not one of those women from the 1950s”. She said it so emphatic and proud like she’s saying that she’s strong and those women were weak. Our grandmothers had to go through Jim Crow, the kkk, their men being shipped off to real wars, maintaining a home while praying their husbands don’t die, and even made munitions for the men to use to protect the country. They went through the greatest hell this world ever saw yet they still managed to stay fit, feminine and friendly while wearing their REAL hair. Those “weak pick mes” were the strongest and classiest women that ever lived and I’ll be damned if you hair helmets keep disrespecting them so nonchalantly...
Well said 👏
You won comment of the decade. I felt every word you typed. I did. I salute you sir or ma'am . You earned my utmost respect!
I haven’t even pressed play yet and I felt that in my chest lol. Well said
The DCGuitar13. Well said, great comment. I agree with every single word, all these Botox riddled, weave wearing, mostly obese, feminazi, tricks should read your comment and bow down to their Grandmothers, thank them and bust their chops to become more like them. They absolutely were the strongest, most classiest women and it’s a disgrace the way this “woman” spoke of them. Cheers.
that comment JUMPED out to me as well.
Sex is a team effort, you learn each other together over time. Unfulfilled sexual experiences are at most times due to a lack of communication & intimacy. Folks need to stop watching porn too, it creates unrealistic expectations.
Amen, @Peace4102.
I agree, people watch too much porn, even women
Porn does a lot more damage then that.
@coolin dee explain 🤔
Bruh this is like anything in life there's a small percentage that are great. Everyone is else is average. You gonna be disappointed when you don't find that small percent.
I was speaking to my 42 year old cousin when I heard she broke with her boyfriend of 2 years. When I asked her what happened, why did she break up with him? “He wasn’t hitting it right!”
So.after 2 years she stated he wasn't hitting it right. She's delusional
I bet you anything she lied! She literally stayed 2 whole years smh she used the sex as the reason she left most likely.
I dont know, man. Sex is a normal part of a relationship, i would never want to marry someone and then get stuck with batteries for the rest of my life. If the man doesnt last or is terrible in bed I cannot do it. However, most men can make improvements with time guidance and better nutrition. I can't deal with bad sex for 50 years just because i want a HVM. Average sex is fine, its terrible sex that most women try to avoid.
@@missmolasses5111 and thats why u only have one man ur whole life in nature.
She will find her soul mate dont worry he's Azrael a fine a$$ soul mate
My mother had a man that made a good living at a blue collar job, had 2 homes, and wanted to marry her and take her and her 4 children from previous (unmarried) relationships out of the hood... She refused his engagement and then cheated on him because he wasn’t good in bed. Found this out from my aunt later in life. Kevin is absolutely right and women are insane to throw away good men over lackluster sex 🤦🏽♀️ We GOTTA do better.
WTF?!?! She could have been set for life and just threw it away for something so silly! She clearly didn’t realise how rare of a situation she was in!
Sometimes that just an excuse and not always true. They just don't want to take accountability of their past and don't want to put in the work meet the needs of her male counterparts
They forgot, specially women that life is about trade off, he will never be fair, is not fair for none of us men or women, each one on us has to sacrifice something for the greater. Modern women use settling like there are the first in the humans kinds to have to sacrifice something🤦🏾♂️
My favourite channel on TH-cam right now, your advice is golden, people don't realise you're saving alot of marriages and saving children from being brought up in single parent homes, love from the UK 🇬🇧
It's much worse over in US than here ain't it 🤣 thank god
@@autoblipper3546 Hmmm no. 50% of households are single moms. It's just as bad LOL
@@kuraido6370 your defo right there lol. I meant with them expecting you to pay all the bills and able to take half your stuff. Much more amplified in usa id say?
@Kimm West you’re in all the replies hating why don’t you join the smoke shows...
@@kuraido6370Facts single mother rate is still going up.
Bringing in a high salary is in fact a job. Especially a young professional in IT Engineering like myself. After I’m off work.. I study for another 2-4 hours a day to stay on top and be competitive. When I’m done for the day it’s late evening. Instead of getting a job well done sometimes I’m greeted with you don’t love me or how I’m not there. But when we go look for homes and nice things the world lights up and all is OK!? Whatever man
Lol..mann
Nothing is more important than that time with your family that you can never get back. That job is just that. It should be taken seriously but not self-consuming. Being in IT myself I learned that the hard way.
@@ashleybrown3095 I agree. But I have a responsibility Ashley whose not a man.. she doesn’t work at all. I bid you a farewell and a goodnight.
* cues American trumpet farewell tune *
@@cocotwins My not being a man means what exactly? Most men on here just come to express bitterness toward women. I'm pretty sure I have far more responsibility than you do and it still does not make me any less responsible for my wifely and motherly duties. Men are doing less and complaining more. YOU chose a woman who doesn't work at all and then come here to complain about YOUR decision. Thanks KS!!!
She doesn't value you bro leave her stay single never cohabitate and never marry till your 40s hopefully late 40s...
I think Kevin should talk to more women ages 18 to 23. Get these women right before their too far gone.
Do you think women ages 18 to 23 are not allowed to watch Kevin's videos?
@@mj7335 I know they are but from videos I’ve seen, the women are usually late 20’s and up.
@@mj7335 I’m 23 and have full access to the internet wtf lol
@@burningwolf5805 And if it comes from Jesus?
@@burningwolf5805 Older women should be ordered to teach young women to love their husband and love their children. Does that ever happen anywhere?
This how women end up pregnant with a broke dudes kids cause he was laying the pipe right but then expecting a high value man to take care of broke dudes kids and on top of that have to also be good in bed. It’s a crazy world we live in 🤦🏾♂️
Define " high value man". Because to a woman, a man who sucks in bed is not high value.
She got married and then got lost with being a mother and a wife .She's now divorcing for herself...
Things are really getting scary in the west .
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Lol. She's just lost. She thinks she's gonna find some identity, but she had her identity as a mother and wife. Just like men have their identity as a father and husband.
Unless you're a historic figure, nobody is gonna remember you in 100 years. So the whole narcissistic thing that women are on, it ain't gonna matter. But they're so self important, that they think there's something bigger out there for them.
@@S2pidMedia Truth
I wanted him to get more into this with her
Buy a passport 😎
"Black men have to be superheros to get basic respect". This quote needs to be postered everywhere. On the flipside women can literally come out the womb just live life do no nothing and be celebrated/valued for even menial tasks and coddled in every day issues men just deal with.
You are probably in the us so this makes sense
@Kimm West black women too. This is why we are having these discussions on this channel. We’re not saying it’s a bad thing. Perks of being a woman.
Truer words were never spoken. This type of thinking is what shifted my preferences. As much as I love my black sisters, I’m done playing their games.
Beckies appreciate my blue collar job, and my laid back nature. Not once has one made me feel bad for not bringing in six figures. They enjoy my short stocky frame and belly. They think it’s cute when I get excited about a new game or movie. I really would love to find a black woman in my area who are good with those things, but almost every date I went on ended after one because they asked how much I made on the first date.
@@mobunagathevoiceofresistan801
I tried talking to a black woman before. Experienced the same thing. She asked me when I was going back to school.. red flag. I could have slept with her but I chose not to cause there was no future with her. She’s in the danger zone ! 🤡. Fast forward three years later I’m making around six figures no degree... guess who tries hitting me up on LinkedIn.. uh huh! No sister. Too little too late!
@@cocotwins Right?! They don’t seem to get it until they lose you as an option. Then they wanna come back.
Nah girl! I was lame and broke according to you when we met, but since Becky is cooking my dinner , cleaning my house and giving me the circle, circle gack gack, anytime I want, you’re just a bad memory and a funny story I’m gonna tell my nephews
People stay up past midnight just to dislike a livestream lol, you can’t make this stuff up
Why does that matter to you? Why (out of all of the talking points relating to the topic) does the number of dislikes your interest? I could care less about the number of dislikes or likes on a video. It's more about the topic to me.
People love to hate it is what is
You know they grade A losers if they ain't got nothing better to do than that.
they hate watch, losers got to lose
Lol
Anyone and everyone is trainable, when there’s a connection and love the options are limitless. Make him feel like a king and watch his comfortability and openness rise.
For investment hit me up on WhatsApp let's trade together
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Yeah we are really trainable
sounds like manipulation, better for a man to go to SE asia etc and just find a low or zero notch count woman
I disagree. Must women are not trainable. Must men neither. If he can not sexually satisfy you, better to end things up. Women expect strong órgasms and finantial strength. Men expect wives. Must people can not. Lets face it.
My mother once told me that this is a promiscuous woman's issue
Bars! Always looking for the next best thing predicated off sex.
Big facts. Let's stay away from sluts in 2021 and beyond, gentlemen.
Your mother has the infinity gauntlet
Your mom was right
Yeah she a trip, but wise. She would tale my sisters virgins can give a damn about size or performance because it dont take much with them.
Im 19 and i can tell you straight up most women my age have been passed around alot. Chances are you’re friends with 5 of her sexual partners
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Yup that 19 year old definitely lied about how many partners she had.
Yeah it's sad to say but the truth. I'm 28 and people stay sleeping around at my age. Which is crazy.
@@okene yup. As a homeowner who’s had women tenants. The ones in lab coats had more dudes in rotation that the one tenant that was a stripper in ybor tampa.
Let that sink in. The ones with LinkedIn and professionalism have a greater bodycount than paid strippers at a ratchet strip club.
When I say greater I’m not talking let’s go to overtime. I’m talking exponentially
Kevin can you please ban the bot impersonating you spamming your comment section with cryptocurrency bs thanks brother
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I kind of thought that 🤦🏿♂️ it responded to my comment on another video.
*Report* as spam; the more people that do the better...
I experienced the same thing
I got that too.
I think you should do a topic about kandi from real house Wives of Atlanta she married her man years ago she came into the relationship with millions back when he only had potential and she treats him like a king defends him and does not let anyone talk down on him making less than her
From the UK and just found this channel, this guy breaks things down perfectly, reality is so hard for people to grasp and he's making people look at themselves likely for the first time separating them from their ego.
That's why I keep coming back☺
@Micky D A Greek here...i found this channel few weeks ago..this guy is a diamond for men,especially for a millenian like me..
@Kimm West well just like you. We are here as well. If you didnt care you would not be here.
@Kimm West Why you care so much fam 🤣😂😂😂
To me, sex is great with a person you are in tune with. Such as respect, luv, friendship, support and care for one another.
but women these days won’t take the time to know the man intimately. they just want the pleasure and don’t want to work towards a great sexual experience
@@getbuckets9116Your right! Not all, but the majority.
Dude... that is great and all but how can you be in tune with a woman that respects your money not you, loves your money and the things you give her but not you doesn't support you and is ready to leave the shit the moment you encounter a problem and spends hell of a lot more time making up lists with demands and complaining about you not doing things for her than being your friend.
She can be in tune with you if she has close or same interests which is almost never the case which is exactly why so many men are having problems finding a partner.
@@frikabg you should find women from different cultures and countries, with more traditional mindsets. these women are more willing to learn how to please a man compared to western girls who believe that doing anything for a man is disgusting and beneath them
Facts.
This is why I'm comfortable asking women about their pasts.
Why? Most are just going to lie.
@SOUL SEEKER I learned that a LONG time ago. Lol
They talk so much, they gonna tell you anyway.
@@kevinlee9929 If you let a woman talk long enough she will eventually tell on herself.
@@evolutiondl1492 NOT JUST THAT, A LOT OF FEFAILS WANT THE 14 SIZE D BECAUSE THEIR COOCHIE IS ALREADY BLOWN OUT BEFORE AGE 21. SO THEREFORE, NEVERMIND THE PLENTY OF WOMEN THAT YOU'VE MADE CREAM 😂 THEY'LL STILL SAY THAT YOUR D GAME IS GARBAGE 😤SO SOLUTION,... DON'T GIVE AF ABOUT HER PLEASURES, ONLY YOUR OWN. THESE B*TCHES WALLS BE STRETCHED TO EACH SIDE OF THE UNIVERSE 😂😂💯💯💯🤘🏾
I appreciate how KS put on the "kid gloves" for the 19yr old caller. At 19, you have all the answers and don't even know the questions.
you dont even know what class you are in at 19
Astonishing that you have to explain to a 44YO woman that she shouldn't expect Prince Charming to come in and rescue her from having to pay the majority of her own living expenses, after she's already been married and had a child 😂😂😂.
@Iris Webb you basing the entire world of men based on your DMs? Can you not see that *you* are the problem because *you* attract those men.
@Iris Webb imagine bragging about having low value men in your inbox lol
@Kimm West men don’t do it everyday, because if that was true, there wouldn’t be women like that still looking for men to do it.
So which one is it? Men are either trash and broke, or men with income are out here saving post-wall baby mommas?
Can’t have both.
@Iris Webb why are YOU arguing on TH-cam with men who are supposedly beneath you instead of exercising your options like you’re talking about?
And models get picked in person; they don’t need to be on POF. We aren’t stupid, we can see through your lies.
@Iris Webb YOU called them old and unattractive, thus making them low value.
If you don’t want them, why brag about having them in your DMs trying to make yourself sound like a hot commodity? KS would never say the men in your inbox are high value, because if they were you would be with them.
Don’t worry about what’s in my inbox, because I can tell you right now, I don’t have “old and unattractive” people in mine. That’s seems like a problem only YOU know about.
Why don’t you have high value men in your inbox? 🤔 Bet you can’t answer that
“hey handsome” is the new I wanna finally take you out of the friend zone and give you a chance, even though they no longer have options lol
As women get closer to 30 they're energy pulls a complete 180. Reality starts setting in.
Lol No 🧢
You hit the nail on the head. They’ll put all that on side when they put a million miles on a 30 year old coochie!!!😂
💯💯💯
Hey hansome, means no thanks old used up women. I'll go get a young woman that is actually interesting.
It’s not just black women who behave like this. I’m 40, and 90% of the women I’ve dealt with, intimately or even just friends, and regardless of race (black, white, Latina, Indian, Asian), all acted and talked this way. They’ve actually behaved this way as far back as I can remember. I recall being 15 in Jr. high and the girls speaking just as trashy sexually and equally on par with any cliche guys locker room smash n’ dash talk.
They don't want to hear this, if it's not blaming black women, they don't want to hear it
@@lilmisslegal3018 I don’t understand your comment. To clarify what I’m saying, this perspective that a man needs to be all that an a bag of tricks in the bedroom is actually a modernist feminist notion that has nothing to do with race. Like Kevin says, it’s put women in a masculine position and it’s contributing to the feminization of men across the board.
All Facts
Yeah I thought so, hearing this video it couldn't be just black women acting this way. American women period act that way and that's why I prefer dealing with women outside the country.
Amen, @JaredMichael. 100% true
My fiance will tell you she was horrible in bed when we met. But we were willing to get educated (watch educational videos, books, etc) into how to please each other. Now, we both enjoy each other with confidence and knowledge. With all the information out there, why can't either side be understanding and do the work to get better at pleasing each other?
Thank you!!! I think because it's easier for everyone to blame the other person. One thing I've noticed about Kevin's videos is the comment section is nothing but a bunch of cry babies complaining about how bad the other gender is. No one wants to talk to each other. They'd rather talk AT each other. You'll never accomplish anything with that attitude. It's never always the other person's fault. Black people need accountability.
I belive good sex requires learning and unlearning new and old things to make it the bomb.
@@iud3110 Communication is key. I hear people bashing their partners, but I"m like "Ummmm do you ever communicate to them what you want?"
Now if they don't listen that's another thing. But I feel people don't communicate and expect the other person to just get it and be mind readers. Nope. Everyone has different needs/desires.
The only way I could see it being bad is if a girl can't figure out how to take off her panties......if you have a vagina the sex is good.
@@quickpstuts412 Spot on, great comment. Cheers.
I remember Kevin Hart jokingly saying that his wife had to choose between good D and the bag. Ain’t no way I can exhaust myself making all this damn money and still be a porn star when I get home. Unrealistic
It's true. Men & women both change as we go from college to working our tails off over a 20/30 year span. Physically & mentally. Mentally priorities should change during that timeframe. Nothing worse than a 50yr old (man or woman) running around trying to act like 25.
@@antoniotula262 well put..
@@antoniotula262 just further substantiates how unrealistic modern women expectations are
@@kanyeeast1340 True, men too want that "unicorn"...beautiful face, bangin bod, professional chef cooking skills, straight freak in bed & makes $100k+.
@@antoniotula262 just cause you blew it why should people get old and boring when they get older
If you have a man who takes care of things, the sex is manageable, meaning you both can teach one another. It's like Kevin said in a different chat, back in the day, men and women got married and learned to love one another because they understood what was more important.
As a habitual pookie that's been broke for years but am also 6'3" and fit, I can honestly say a lot of these women only care about looks and sex. I mean I guess they might not marry me but that's also not something I care about
Truth. That’s why I encourage young men to obtain as much power as they can. Shallow minded women are the death of a nation
@@Yak.indebox facts once you have money it's like choosing from a catalogue
@@Yak.indebox that is in the past parents chose the husband and the parents of the husband would not accept if not a virgin. That is how societies survive thousands of years.This thing we have is leading to poverty in 100yrs from now there just will be war lords society will disintegrates.
I'm sure Big Shirley feels the same way.
What is a Pookie lol...never herd of it . I’m from the UK lol
Damn, finally someone talking about the real issues of our community. I remember when I lost my virginity at 18 and the woman I thought cared about me talked about me so bad, lol. I used that embarrassment to become a “pornstar” later in the bed. The issue was it got to the point I didn’t want to be with one woman, because so many expressed their disgust towards a man that’s “inexperienced”. I’ve heard many sisters go in on their exes that left because he was “too small” for her and when some mentioned the size the men were still considered average and that also said they climaxed. I was trying g to understand the problem. Black men damn near have to be Superman all around all while being 2Pac in a suit. Meanwhile, the average one can’t bring shit to table. She’d say she’s the table, but all that’s on it is a headache, bills, attitude and another man’s kids.
Feel you bruv, game I got now is after I got so damaged I don't think I see women as people anymore. All I see nowadays is poon wrapped in an attractive package... And it's messed up cause women respond so well to that "toxic" attitude.
Most people don't communicate their sexual desires. If a man has everything else, you can make the bedroom work with time and communication.
sexual skill is just like every other skill is learned. and communication is important, it only has to be honesty and caring, not criticism.
Agreed sir🤓
@LaToyia Mackey I think it’s easier to say that in your older years when sex drive goes down also I doubt many men say this.
Very true
@LaToyia Mackey nope
Honestly a lot of women sex game is whack these days. I believe sex been to promoted in today culture. It’s to the point many guys are numb to it. Women have over sexualize themselves to the point men are stepping away. I miss the days when women didn’t dress like a harlots and actually had self respect for themselves. Nowadays most women dress the same. I can’t tell the difference between an escort and normal girl.
Word up
"I cant tell the difference between a escort and a normal girl"
you are absolutely right.
"dress how you want to be addressed"
Thus reminds me of Dave Chappelle, if you dress like a cop then forgive me for thinking you are a cop. 🤣🤣🤣🤣, Cop is replaced by OP's harlot reference
Sir, you said an accurate mouthful!
This thottery is so overplayed it’s getting old
The Bible said not to have sex before marriage it didn't tell you what would happen if the majority of people went against that principal and we pretty much seeing it now. The average person has several sex partners and is constantly comparing the current sex partner with previous ones
@JaCorey Lewis I'd say it's ~5-10 partners but I get what you are saying bro
@@ShaunHensley you are assuming that each sexual encounter equals falling in love, which it doesn't. All it usually means is that she was at least attracted to the man, and as the amount of sexual encounters with each patter varies, each encounter has a variable amount of emotional connecting tied to it with some just being casual flings which is not even close to "falling in love".
Amen
Which explains all the masculinity.
@@ShaunHensley that pair bonding shit is a myth
I can’t stop looking at the moving hypnotizing thing!😳
🤣😂🤣Me too!! I always do it..
I'm rooting/waiting for it to hit a perfect "K." 😄
😂😂😂everytime
Get high then watch it
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Think back to the beginning---the deep personal connection was wonderful. As the body count grew it became merely a mechanical performance that could never duplicate the emotional connection causing sexual frustration.
@JaCorey Lewis You guys just spoke real deal.
The facts don't lie the more sexual partners a woman has had the more likely her relationship is to end in failure. The value of marrying a virgin can't be over looked for a man that wants a loyal woman.
Probably the most profoundly true statement that I've ever read on TH-cam.
They want that nut just like men do. Only difference is what women would do for it.
Exactly think about being with 1 man. Thats the only experience she's ever had only one connection. Then think about her being with like over 10 guys...that's alot of experience
Kevin be breaking it down question by question an the average woman will answer the question but still don't get it. Defiant to the end.
In the words of the late great Patrice O'Neil "They are sick"
Men you know our women just enjoy talking blah blah. Ignorant mediocrity
Defiant till the end 😭😭😭😭 well said
They talk with their ears plugged
They reject ALL unfavorable criticism and critique.
“An overweight, average looking, school teacher with all that attitude”😂
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He pulled out the shot gun, loaded it, and fired it.
Much respect and admiration to you Mr. Samuels.
You articulate these difficult topics in a way most men are unable to. Thank you from myself and on behalf of many other men.
I am a 57 yo white man living in rural Australia.
I mean there's like maybe 3 people who were amazing the first time. However in a relationship you take time to learn what he likes and you like and work on it. The first times heck sometimes months it's a work in progress. It's more common for sex to be awkward when the relationship is starting. Don't throw away the entire dude because he didn't blow your mind early in the relationship in bed.
Nope If she likes you its great since day 0. I do It on First date and fine
I agree . It’s kinda of like the first pancake
This much needed in the black community. Relationship education 101
@Kimm West so you saying this is not helping people out?? If not why listen then?
@Kimm West *education* = e dukar a =
to pull or eject out
Opposite to indoctrination
@@BlackPirateKing she is a bitter feminist loner type who has money/time to blow not dealing with her own shortcomings, coming on here projecting and just being a general hating ass
@Kimm West no this is harsh truth you females can’t handle and can’t disprove
@ Kim West dress size?
HVM or financially broke, it’s hard for a woman to leave a man with great sexual prowess.
Yup. Women have stayed with alot of men that had nothing going for themselves. And alot of kids have been born simply because the D was good.
@@kevinlee9929 I'm not gonna lie I was that guy back in college 😂
@@DeezNutzMMA Its cheaper to be that guy 😂
@@silentwitness536 boy slayin em 🤣
When he ain’t shit but the D was good
This is universal. It may be more common in the black community but we all hear ya Kevin and we are listening.
Do not require from others what you can not provide for yourself. You can justifiably set the bar wherever you want as long as you met those standards aswell, anything else is child’s play
Stated well. Know yourself.
Excellent point.
So true. It goes beyond the sex as well. Many of these women always start off with what she wants and what she’s looking for in a man and it’s always done with the self presumption that she automatically provides everything she is looking for, for the man. ‘I want a man that is intelligent, and can stimulate me, make me laugh, be interesting, be able to cook, have a secret identity etc.’ meanwhile she’s a cashier at a deli.
Society has done a wonderful job deluding women into believing they are the prize and just being them is enough. Reality check; it’s not.
@@silentwitness536 ‘I am the table’
It’s incredible really. The only table these modern women are are the IKEA ones with the instructions missing and having to be put together DYI.
But if women have PhD's and earn a high salary guyz STILL feel she's not worth it🤨. What do yall want on the table 😒!???
🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@@davidbuffer4815 Men don't want or need wives to be their leaders or providers, so the high earning PhD woman is in most ways less desirable than the more traditional young lady who hasn't spent the best years of her life in a book or studying for an exam. Men generally want a supportive, warm hearted and feminine woman who shows good instincts and personality for life as a wife and mother to his children.
@@doomguy9049 ok I get you🤔. But during the 'best years' of a young woman's life guyz aren't grown, responsible and haven't man up during her prime time 💁🏾♂️. So while guyz are still growing up in their 20's, what are women supposed to do during that age span where she's at her prime? Books are less stressful than guyz who are still trying to find their feet 🤕
Kevin you gotta bring Shahrazad Ali onto the show. It would be great a great discussion for all to see!
I agree
Why they will just agree. She will say nothing that KEVIN or any man who is conservative leaning has never heard before.
I believe she died.
It wouldn't be good, the respect level would be to high on each side. Plus a lot of KS talking points were already pointed out by Mrs.Ali long time ago. I believe they would agree on most topics
@Rasul Samad Thanks,
your very informative! i wish i heard of you years ago but R.I.P!! HUMBLE THY SELF!!!
I love his honesty. I find it very refreshing.
He's not being honest (honesty involves a opinion) hes being TRUTHFUL (fact based honesty void of opinion)
@@douchebaggio2349 I agree wholeheartedly. Thanks for the corrections.
@Kimm West
Hes not. But that's your opinion/feelings.
But understand statements like yours require proof.
@@douchebaggio2349 exactly
@@douchebaggio2349 facts
One of the best broadcasts ever. So ironic when they say "men are controlled by sex" when it's women who will throw away their entire chance to have lifelong relationship with a man who produces for a few moments of sexual pleasure.
LOST SOULS 💥💯
Great thought
On the flip side: you give them great sex & everything else, you marry them/cohabitate & 6 months to a year in, especially after the 1st child, the sex activity drops like a brick. Go figure. 😒💯
Forreal??
Birth control might be a reason. I'm serious.
My lady ran out of her birth control and she's just as horny as me now. Crazy shit.
@@l.j.russell902 It's a thing. Google "Why does sex stop after she moves in?" or some variation on that. I sh!+ thee not. You'll learn more during the "Sexless Marriage" broadcast KS will do this week. Dr. T. Hasan Johnson discussed it twice last month.
@@MrTekKnowledge She's the exception to the rule especially after having children. A keeper. 👍🏼
Cant win King 💥💯
On another note..u cant really expect a woman to be truly submissive to you if you cant rock her to sleep from time to time bro😂 i wouldnt even wanna be with a woman who i couldnt satisfy sexually thats detrimental to both parties
Right if these men wack in the sack they need to just say that. Just be honest about it. Some so nonchalant about intimacy I bet you money they don't give their woman chills with just a touch or butterflies just by looking at her a certain way. Most of em sound like their in nothing more than a business arrangement with their spouse/partner. Thats sad.
@@lyrical_love AGREED‼️ when a woman is into u it dont take much to get her going, if u cant get her to climax with your other leg gotta learn how to use your tongue, get some toys something🤷🏾♂️
@@smartandstreet 🤣🤣
@@p.s.workfromhome3415 forreal though😩
"Ladies, how does that make you look?"... They don't care, thats the point. They want it all without having to DO anything.... And it's not just Black women, its generally the "modern" woman.
@Kimm West turn*
@Kimm West ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@Kimm West Had your turn? most men here are in their 20s and 30s. you blaming these guys for the centuries past?
@@MAli-os2yj don't waste your time.
Modern Woman don’t complain about performance 🙄😱
Most woman I know “ complain “ about him going soft too soon 🤔🤷🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️💆🏾♀️
Smh modern women expect you to be the provider and the pleasurer. They expect you to get up and go to work...and get it up and go to work.
and after that. They will find ANOTHER requirement 💥💯
Bruh literally, they want you to make the first move , pay for everything , be romantic and give the love.
Then after that they want you to make them happy , enjoy
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On the only thing they have offer(sex) they want you to do everything and please them too. Like wtf?? They lay down or just wait doggy style and give you oral, then expect every fucking thing too.
You can not please them.
İf god thought pleasing them was necessary, they would need to come to make a baby but no, Only we need to finish for a baby to happen.
Even god didt think pleasing them was necessary why would we?
"High value men want Low calorie women"
😂😂😂 poetry
Lol
True so true
HVM prefer the hourly rate listings bro - no taxes
Gold!
We need Brothers like you in every city and state teaching the community about life.
He is already in every state and community. He's on the net.
I really like this guy, he brings up some of the best controversial topics that need to be discussed💯
A very important conversation. It's tragic that there are so few platforms for real talk like this. Thanks KS
Unrelated, but, you sir are handsome 🥰
@@LibertysPrice Thank you 😉
The book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill talks about “Sexual Transmutation” in that by being disciplined with you urges and not letting them distract you off your purpose, you can use that energy to do some great things and probably smash you goals sooner than you expected.. pumped for Wednesday’s show!
"Honestly I think many women put outrageous expectations on men & relationships as a way to self sabotage, because many of them know that they're not equipped, ready, or willing to do what it takes to do their part in a relationship" 💣💯💥🔥
if these women were honest:
"jesus, i'm a drunken mess and i've been miseducated by the college system, i've no idea wtf i am doing, and i have bad habits... dude you are probably better off without me (unless you actually want to help out - it's gonna be a lot of work, and it might not even be salvageable, you sure you want to give it a go???)"
Kevin I absolutely love you and your faithfulness to preach this message! There are us women who value you and what you are doing!!!! I plan to book my session real soon :)
Be *blessed,* sister!
That woman at 34, she said how she got married young, than grew apart, got lost in marriage, having kids and now filing for divorce, trying to find herself!!!!!! Classic bait & switch - shout our to Coach Greg Adams. Unreal! Keep it up ladies!
AMS said it himself... as man the most powerful tool you have in keeping women in line is the ability to walk out. The problem is marriage takes away that option, and even if he walks away from his marriage he's going to get punished for it in divorce court.
The best channel on TH-cam!
Hands down!
I can't stop watching it's so good!!
@@AdamTopCommenter I agree. seriously!!
Social media got these women screwed up,I knew it was bad but I didn’t know it was bad bad
😂
The best show on TH-cam! Godfather... You're about to be a star! Don't change the message.... Go harder!
Yes he does need to.
Talk about it Kevin, self discipline on all aspects is the key to success.
So, they'll leave for bad sex, but don't want to entertain a man who is focused on sex. Interesting...
You have to be attractive.
@@zak6093 even that shine will get old to her eventually.
@@zak6093 you'll be surprised how quickly attraction fades
🤣🤣 Makes no sense to me. When u work on sex in a long term relationship. Like I don't get it
It's probably not the sex, per say. It's probably the size.
Hallelujah! The key word is "humility" and not "fake humility." In order to be truly humble, you have to be wise and very thoughtful. A lot of women don't have wisdom and thoughtfulness
Thank you Kevin for speaking on a topic of a conversation that needed to be had. Godfather!
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He gave that 19 year old some 💎 Just fixing her thinking on this along could have a massive impact on her life I hope she took it to heart
The 19yr old definitely has some issues going on, stems from her home life.
Hope she takes Kevin's advice.
Definitely gave her some gems and you could hear the guidance in the way he was talking
He gave her father like knowledge. She is one of 14. From Kenya may have different mindstates or teaching. I hope she gets it right.
@@okene you know I was gonna say that but I knew the pitch forks and torches would be after me. I kept it like that just in case. She is very westernized and has been sucked in the world of chaos in my opinion (tats on hands, colored hair, etc). She is only going to get what she is putting out. The wrong energy and prob 7 kids of her own. Thanks for your reply
Well the sad part is which I don’t think Kevin understand is that the fathers are just as bad as the mother’s. There aren’t many dominate fathers in control of the household like in the older days. Also reinforcement is very important, when women get off of Kevin’s show they go right back into the jungle with social media and the peer pressure of friends.
I heard a relationship Councelor say ...Sex is 20% important in the relationship if the sex is good. If the sex is bad its 80% important !
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This was a post-Easter show, it’s 2023 now and I am watching it on Easter RIP✊🏾
This topic always infuriates me....because I remember a teacher in high school tried to shame me in front of others for being celibate. According to her, me marrying someone and having them be bad in bed would make me want to leave them. Completely asinine.
A good chunk of women can't even perform proper oral on their husbands (or refuse to) but say they aren't "good in bed". It's not something you're just "good at" (unless you're blessed with the intuition). Some men may have to learn just like women should learn.
If a woman pulls the "he's just not good at it" card she's most likely not interested or her interest is elsewhere🤷🏽♀️
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Dropping that truth bomb!! 🔥🔥🔥
that's real
Yes. I’ve felt like I had to be a sexual professional while dealing with black women. Ironically I don’t feel like I’m lacking with others. I swear this guy is always on point.
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How can you base a few experiences that you've had with a black as a generalization?
@@lilmisslegal3018 I would say quite a bit more than a few. I do believe it’s a possible issue culturally. At first I blamed myself, maybe I was just choosing wrong. But no. He’s right. I do believe there are black women out there who don’t have this outlook, however, as a whole? Yes. I’ve found this to be very true. I’m not even lacking and still have felt that I wasn’t good enough sexually with them. It just is what it is. Kevin keeps it real and I think many of you have the “well Im not that way” complex instead of looking as a whole.
@@ShaunHensley exactly
My thing about bad sex, you can always make it better by communication. So while I understand why the sex is important, imo as well, you can always work to make it better. It’s not a one and done thing.
@@ShaunHensley True lolol
Absolutely true.
Agreed. As Kevin said, not every man knows a woman's exact combination unless she reveals it.
One of the good things about watching his videos on TH-cam is that when people don't get their likes up we can just fast forward past the song 😂
I absolutely felled in love this this lady when I was 19 and she was 23. Admittedly so my 19 y/o stroke game was weak. She told me she cared about me but I just couldn't please her (honest but devastating). I heal and finish college. I went on to have a pretty successful life while she married a broke dude (I guess his stroke game was great) now they are divorce because he's a bum and she is constantly looking for love and security. My wife doesn't have to work because of my income she just wants to because she enjoys her career.
what happens when a man finds his own worth after pain and devastation?....HE PREVAILS🤝👏💪
2 industries .....Hip Hop industry and porn industry are what is stacking in the deck against everyday black men
3rd, fast food industry. Heart disease, diabetes, and similar conditions run rampant in our communities.
@@yettiluch1 true. I meant more of just with unrealistic expectations
Even though Kevin was muted I already knew what he was saying lol
Facts 🤣😂🤣😂
Exactly 😭😭😭😭😭
@@cosmicvagrant3980 Fr. I swear this happens a lot too
The way he educate and be able to communicate with women from 18 and up...is a real gift. 🔥🔥🔥
Salute you brother, make sure to share this channel with your fellow peers
@@bandiddid8583 thank you and will do.
This show is starting to help the community black community to think rational I'm glad I'm not the only one trying to do this
All a man wants to know is that you're interested and participating.
Fr tho but that's life
True.
@Kimm West if you give your man head, his balls would be so empty that he wouldn't want it elsewhere.
@Kimm West Evidently someone doesn't know how to please her man lol
@Kimm West *exercising options. ftfy
Damn 122 thousand views in 30 min damn u on fire sir keep it up much love from Dallas tx
Most woman seem to don't understand practice leads to perfection but practice takes time is either u getting good at making money ... Or spend most of your time getting good in bed ... A balance is key.
I would prefer she leaves tho than to stay and cheat. I've read reports that there are so many women who will look outside the relationship while inside the marriage. Dualistic mating strategy and hypergamy at their best right here.
Bruh the story about the woman pleasuring herself after sex, it’s more common then he thinks!!! I’ve had to do this before, he thinks he knows us in that department he doesn’t 😂 a lot of woman settle when we’re in love. But turn the tables, a man wouldn’t stay if sex was trash
You'd be surprised how do and tbh, he doesn't have to. If sex is one of The only things the woman can bring to marriage and if she can't do that good then I'mma go marry someone who can
@@Losdayeti4 if you believe “sex is the only thing a woman brings to the marriage” then you’re in for a long life of loneliness. You need to find someone who you value more than just sex🤷🏽♀️
@@Lovelyparadise1 what can YOU offer a man then?
@@Losdayeti4 are you serious🤣 you really think I’m about to try to prove myself to a stranger on the internet? My husband knows what I bring that’s all that matters. And he actually does great in the sex department unlike my past experiences. I’m blessed with my partner hopefully you find the same one day 🙏🏽
@@Lovelyparadise1 Okay, that's nice. What do you bring to the table besides sex?
"Dress size?"
"Mmm, I can fit into an 8."
And I can fit a hefty bag over my junk. Doesn't mean it's sized right.
Haha 👌🏻😂
😂😂
🤣 Knowing full well women's clothing manufacturers size their products *down* so big women feel good about themselves. *A size 8 could really be a size 10. I remember that article in WWD.*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 absolutely classic
I also can fit into an 8, or 16 or 0 . But I am size 2.
To be honest, thanks to Kevin, I've been able to adjust my journal of manifestation and be realistic lol 🙏🏽 Thank you Mr.Samuel
Well, it's my personal experience that more then 9 out of 10 women are meh at best in the bedroom. Men rarely judge women on this enough to end a relationship.
To paraphrase comedian Chris Rock the new girl may be a beast in bed. But once out of bed what else does she have to offer? Can she be a good mother to your children or a supportive spouse?
@Ron Gosling Amen brother
Wednesday will help me and alot of men, i need and will become a disciplined man. John wick style! Turning 21 on the 14th. Thank you kevin!
Keep watching! And take advantage of your age. As women age, they lose their naïveté
This is really interesting and I never thought we all think like this. I am 38 and have been married for 17 years. My husband and I married when I was 20 and I had a 4 year old at the time. Our sex is what we make it and I wouldn't trade my husband just because of sex. Men have feelings just like women. I appreciate the man that I have because it is very hard to find men like mine who are great providers and always put his wife and children first. Also it's hard to find a man who will take on the role as step-father. I am one lucky woman because we are still winning despite our differences and disagreements. We make it work.
If a woman is lucky enough for a guy to marry her as a single mom, there really should be slim to none disagreements, EVER from the woman.
@@joeam4977 But because we are human there are going to be disagreements. Marriage was our decision together as a whole .
@@camerojudy1189 I understand, but he had a lot more to lose than you did but taking you on as a single mom.
When they say sex isnt that important that means she's gonna have a headache often. At least that's what I think when I hear it
LOOL yep signs of a low-libido woman
Sometimes sex will make a headache disappear
I have not heard any of these things from myself or girlfriends. If the sex is not good then neither partner will enjoy it. I have met couples that are high earners but end up in a marriage that only focuses on work and kids. These couples end staying married and just stay for the kids which is good for the kids but leaves both spouses lonely. So the HVM exercises his options and the wife gains weight due to stress.
Lmaooo🤣🤣
when they say sex isn't important it means you suck in bed but she is still staying with you because she loves you. that is reality. be good in bed and i doubt a woman on earth will tell you i have a headache when you want something. but a lot of men just don't bring it.
A boring sex life is the death of any relationship, especially in the early years.
Cuts both ways
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I agree, even as a man I have to say its really important. Sex is what differentiate your relationship from any other relationship. It's different if you are with someone for many years and there is a decline with illness or age. Kevin got this one wrong.
michael yusuff Kevin didn’t get it wrong you didn’t get the topic ...
He definitely got it wrong here. No woman wants a man who cant please her when she's young.
Just like you learned what you like, you and your man can learn together.
Best Podcast Out . Hands Down 👏🏾👏🏾 I really hope this man becomes as big as Oprah . This generation needs It BAD !!! I’m damn sure supporting allllll the way through 😎
You think the powers that be who want to keep people in the dark will allow it ?
Oprah? Do you understand the damage that witch has caused??
@@Treadvlogs1 lmao i don’t wanna say i understand, but It shows
@@vanhuvanhuvese2738 That’s why it’s up to us who see light , to maintain a strong support system in every aspect
I think he's conducive to the growth and development of how bm see themselves and encourage themselves and how they will verbally address what they want in a relationship, but his content is not relatable enough at that magnitude. He would have to expand his content and produce more results to be syndicated. He might really blow up if he expounds on his knowledge of polyamory...it's a popular trend, but not as common in the black community in America.
Satisfying women comes from experience. But the experienced man has hit so much skin and loves the variety so much... It'll be impossible to lock him down. That's been my problem - too many (even married) exes hit me up for the hook up that its affected all my serious relationships. Even now with me engaged to an amazing, super attractive 21 year old, as a 38 year old man, I'm praying I don't get bored and tempted to go outside the relationship. Lord, I'm even getting therapy just so I don't mess up with my fiancee 'cause she's that amazing.
Thank you for the honesty so many deny.
Just know that if you cheat on your wife, you’re not high value, no matter how much money you have. You’d be disloyal and weak-willed.
Promiscuity destroys one's ability to be faithful, man or women, its not good,
Women, including myself, talk a Great deal about SEX whether it’s good or bad when what we REALLY want and are seeking is INTIMACY. Of course, this is only appropriate within the Divine confines of a Marriage where INTIMACY and an emotional bond can be Righteously cultivated 💜
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💯...Many women confuse sex with intimacy and that’s a huge problem. Good bless sis 👏🏽
Most women I knew several years ago would say they've never even orgasmed but have been having sex for years.
I literally said this when discussing this topic with a friend of mine!
Rene this is the perfect answer 😇
The quality of sex will be determined primarily by how he makes her feel. She will feel the most intense excitement in a new relationship, or a relationship with an unreliable man. Thus in a long term relationship with a reliable man the quality of sex with naturally decline.
Anything long term will have its stages of ups and downs in excitement. That's just life.
Exactly,, if she’s too comfortable she can’t enjoy or appreciate it
True facts
that 19 year old talking about lovemaking had me cracking up!!
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I’m 19 and a male and I was lost and clueless
She took the longest pause to answer how many partners she slept with at 19. She said 3 which I’m sure is a safe number. Add 2 or 3 more bodies then I’ll believe her
This video is deep to me. I just went through this situation almost 2 months ago. I've been dating a lovely young BW for a year and when I told her that I wanted her to be my girlfriend she told me I am everything she is looking for in a man BUT Sexually I dont scratch her itch so she couldn't ever be serious about someone that can't satisfy her. 😑Okay fine! please tell me Why it took a year of my time and attention for her to figure that out🤬.
Damn that's sad..sorry to hear that!!
You are better off without her.
I will tell you: she was basically using you for attention (and possibly resources). Attention is gold for women.