I get tired of black people talking about the system being the reason they haven't made it or they don't even try. I am a black man that did specific work for a law firm that no one else did for them. I learned how to do things better than they did and I realized how much they needed my knowledge. I decided to leave and start my own consulting business doing what I did for them for several different attorneys because I realized my intellectual property was worth more than what I was being paid. I am literally the only black person doing what I do on this level. I know whites and other races of people look down on me due to my race, but I'm never going to let other black people get into my head about things our ancestors dealt with bring me down. Just because people say you are worthless is because you are black doesn't mean you have to accept it. Keep moving forward. I almost fell on my face starting my own business and the law firm I worked for that didn't notice my worth started using me as a private contractor because the replacements they got after I left couldn't do what I did for them and I'm literally the only black person that worked in the office previously. Stop listening to black people leaning on things of the past. Yes I acknowledge some white people and other races don't like us, but stop letting that keep you down.
I 100% agree, but it's not that simple. You got a once in a lifetime opportunity to proof yourself. For many, that opportunity will never come or appears only years down the line. Your situation in this climate is more an exception than the rule. And I understand that having to proof yourself also applies to other races, but what I'm saying is: to reach the same opportunity you had, a black man will have to work 10 times harder as a white man with exactly the same background and the only difference being the color of their skin. For many, working 10 times harder would still not be enough. I'm all for proving your selfworth, but I believe the threshold to achieve results is disproportionally higher for black people.
@@thespector8587, you’re very right with your points but I’ve seen so many black men not even try because they feel the odds are against them, which they are against us, but more of us need to try. Some of us will fail and others will succeed. I’d like to see more of us try so the ones that will have success can help others reach goals. I’m hoping to grow my business to the point that I can get others working with me and for me that will most likely be black employees. Then I can teach them the ropes and they can branch off and do their own thing. Whether it’s in this industry or another industry. We have to lead with encouragement to our people rather than leaning on how whites and other races of people hate us, which is extremely true, but we have to fight past that and have the attitude to say bump what you think, you’re not going to stop me from my success.
@@CaspianCEO, I believe we live in a country that was built by white people plans for white people and anyone that isn’t white is made to feel they don’t belong but I don’t care about that. It’s the white peoples fault for bringing us here as slaves and we’re here to stay. I’m not going to waste my time worrying about whites and people of other races whose minds have been poisoned to think black people are less than valuable. I’m very cautious of dealing with others but I’m not going to go through my life saying the system is against me, which then hinders me from doing business the way I need to do business. If I walk around trying to be pro black about every move I make, I’ll be broke like all those other pro black folks. We can promote black businesses without being antisocial with other races. Get into certain industries and then slowly make our presence known without shouting it from the mountain top. Basically we need to do what Jewish people have done in certain industries by quietly taking over and then we can make business practices and other things more fair for blacks moving forward.
I agree its just that simple and plain! If black women think they finer than they are blackmen think they are more valuable than we are time to step up!
@@lamontscales2645 you hit the nail on the head: "time to step up". That is KS key message for both men and women, so not sure why people are getting mad and calling him names. You only advance in life when you can properly assess yourself.
@@lamontscales2645 I want to ask you a question. Step as in doing what it take to be a true high value man or step up to just have a better job than most women because there is a HUGE difference.
@@silvereyedlionking6680 step up period! I think blackmen walk around in the same bubble black women do. I also think we have not realized what we are up against. My comp is not just black men but all men.
Totally agree with your comment, I think a lot of people are truly missing the point. This has made me look in the mirror and question what I'm doing and how I can better myself. Definitely don't see why people are going against Kevin so much on this.
Exactly bruh! What's a win gonna be worth if you don't get a bunch of losses to really understand from experience that it's totally worth it once you get there!! No complaining, just trial and error as there is no pain without gain my brotha so good luck and let's get this work in!! 💪🏾😈
BIG A MEMPHIS 10 Indeed! I’ve read this somewhere “Error, like Truth, has its own admirers”. Some people just love the status quo, no matter how bad it is. They’ll stand to protect their ego investment. Man, listen, if I can change my life to be able to generate an income of $10k/month, have lots of valuable contacts, and be useful to others, I will do it. And that’s the road I’m on. Kevin is a blessing.
The truth hurts. You have introduced the Black community to a class structure that is not discussed in our community. Hopefully, once everyone gets over the shock of the HVM conversation you will be able to have discussions with people who will appreciate your knowledge and apply it to their lives.
I just said this on someone platform we as people have been conditioned to have that negative mentality about black men and higher values . I want my experienced men as Kevin to give the blinding insight on what has been going on since the beginning of time. Thanks Kevin and the many others who have positive feedback on these topics!
I started to listen your channel four months ago. I was really lazy in my career. Now my income has gone up 40grand because I'm working so much more and I got a better position in new company. Thanks for the motivation.
Getting offended at the concepts of high value is just snowflake behavior. I am so sick of this "everybody gets a trophy" mentality- what is so wrong with challenging yourself? The fear of failure is failure in itself, and as a man thinketh, so he is.
Only 10% of the nation even have the basics to be HVM (the income requirement). Only 5% of black men do. I’ve been watching Kevin’s content for a year and it just occurred to me that I was a HVM. I’ve been making HVM money for over ten years and always took it for granted. I’m in no position to be sick of anybody trying to get where I’ve been. My journey wasn’t very difficult but it wasn’t easy either. A lot of things had to go right for me. And I recognize that. And I also recognize that a lot of people aren’t as fortunate.
When he was taking to the young man about his father, that was some powerful stuff. As a grown man, if your father is in your life it’s now your responsibility to do all you can. Now if he’s a deadbeat, that’s a different story. But if you don’t have respect and reverence for your parents, your gonna have a hell of a time in the real world. I never knew my dad growing up. He took off with his drug habit before I was old enough to remember and I heard my mothers side for 30 years. Long story short, he found me and I made the grown decision to have a relationship with my dad and I couldn’t be happier. We got a long way to go but I’m glad I did.
Good post. KS summed it up when he told the young man: what happened between your Mom and your Dad is none of your business! ..... That came from a man that didn't have his Dad in his life..
I'm not High Value yet but I am well on my way. I'm a Solid HENRY working as a young (Nuclear Engineer) soon to be High Value. Thank you for telling it like it is Uncle Kevin.
Once you get past the sting of being low ranking and "denied" to a degree... it gets exciting to think that there are real benefits to climbing the ladder. That, yes, we are not equal. And you also better your life as you better yourself. That it actually means something to overcome who you were AND that you can do it. What else would the incentive for going through a process as painful as self-realization be? Also I'm transferring to University next year from community college and I find it serendipitous that I stumble on Kevin's content shortly before doing so. I'm gonna put a strong focus on networking with as many people as I can. The school is in a wealthy area so there are sure to be High-Value peers and faculty. Oh and he also inspired me to pledge Kappa once I get there 🤟🏾💯
@@a.j.9727 STATUS REPORT: I'm going to a different University than expected, but things are going well! I just got back to town from a tour of the US with a male revue show (think Magic Mike), but I'm still studying hard and building my networking skills. Been going out every night since I got home and talking to people while sober. My life is WAY WAY better compared to two years ago and it seems like things will continue to get better as I do :)
I'm a elder son of 5 an a father of 3, I absolutely respect Kevin for asking men/women what does yr father says!? Before he could attempt to answer any questions. Thats Man shit.
@1:37:40 Facts! We need to be hungry and aggressive toward achieving our goals! We need to build and create! HVM leave legacies and create strong communities! Keep up the good work Kevin!
As a average people I thank you for defining the meaning of high value. A man who is highly valued by the group of other highly valued men who can be utilized and used.
27:40 listen for one minute and you’ll learn the best lesson Kevin has ever given. This is the absolute truth, race aside, always be a student of the game and adapt to changes accordingly. Oh and my fragrance of the night, Creed Aventus.
You're speaking uncomfortable truths. We, black men collectively and globally, have been shutout of the economic opportunities. We, therefore, try to compensate from an early age by focusing on shit that doesn't matter in the grand scheme but makes us feel good. We, collectively(with many many noteworthy exceptions), know that the competition is tough and many bow out. In the immortal words of Marlo from "The Wire" "you want it to be one way but it's the other. You are absolutely right, high value is ONLY a point of contention among men who have no value and know that if it becomes acceptable widely WITHIN our community they will lose the little they have. Speak on my brother. Glad to have found your channel through a recommendation from my high-value brother. Salutations
As the white son of a Single Mother who had to pay her for my father's sins it is not only a negative on the Black Community it has torn up the White Community too ! Thank you for addressing the Single Mother's raising generally sub standard Men. It has helped me answer some questions that I have had. Thank you Mr. Kevin !
The amount of wisdom dispensed in this video is equivalent to a gold nugget inside your brain. Embracing and overcoming losses, working with people who disagree, 48 laws of power? Kevin was on fire! I wish he would have finished his book. RIP Godfather
Amen! Keep Pushing Kevin. I've beat my head up trying to get people to look at things from this perspective. People want to just feel good instead of dealing with the truth head on. Keep sharing your insight its very much needed.
"lessor men will have to follow greater men" That is still okay because you will be heading some where great, as supposed to lacking vision and going no where.
I think we need to have a second term ... Term 1: High Value Man (HVM) = man of a consistent certain net worth and/or totality of assets (and network of other high income earners/groupings) that places him in the top 1 - 10% of all income earners (edit of course if don't like) .. Term 2: High Quality Man (HQM) = man with a desirable number (and set) of character qualities that place him among the top choices of his peer group (edit of course if you don't like)... I think this would help those who are less than enthused there is a HVM title in the first place. It would mean any man, regardless of demographics and income a man can be HQM but of course has nothing to do with being HVM which is first and foremost based on income
Initially I defined high value as subjective because high earning is a more appropriate objective term but I like the terms you proposed. I will be using this until Kevin’s book comes out.
Two points about a network. If a person has a network of 20,000 low value people, what does he have compared to a person who has a network of 20 high value people? Nothing. What is the ideal size of a network? Having large numbers in a database but no connection with the people is meaningless. I believe a solid network is no greater than 20. Jesus changed the world with 12. I would focus more on the quality of the network and the roles played by those in the network. The concept needs to be fleshed out.
Hey brother Kevin...you see how you bring out truth and what our people do is attack the messenger....they did that too the real Jesus...that"s the nature of our people..I like what you said about not Entertaining the haters
The concept of class has always existed among all cultures and civilizations. Some even had caste systems which were enforced even more strictly than just simply earning a certain amount. So this concept is ancient and thus it makes no sense for people to be offended by it regardless of who’s among such a group.
I totally agree, the funny thing is when you go to "so called third world countries" it very much still exists. Its only in so called civilised first world countries people don't accept or are confused by the caste system.
100% agreement, almost high value VP of mkt software ( 175k, more then 10yrs 6 fig, 500 plus network LinkedIn , visibility, Lacking utilization)56, twice divorced, younger non black international women, no kids , happy searching
1:30:45 Ike a open minded dude and can do his own show if he wanted. From quoting Nietzsche to quoting the Bible. I also never considered using our lives as a type of business plan. 🤯🎊 It’s a good feeling listing to guys that don’t waste their breath. Great conversation, keep them coming Kevin! 🏆
Kevin I don’t think you are arrogant. You just don’t take abuse on your own platform and aren’t afraid to call bullshit when others try to dish it out. That’s just being confident.and a lot of people can’t handle that.
I learned so much in this 2hr video.... many things that happened this last few years in my life make more sense now... I have so much work to do on myself...so much to do, so little time...
Can't understand why so many Fellas are butthurt by The Big Clipper's Concept of High Value. It is General in some aspects and Specific in others. It Cuts to the Chase , which is a good thing. It's the one Concept that gives ALL Men a chance. We should Celebrate Kevin for what he is doing for Men AND Women in all spaces as it pertains to Image/Empowerment/Co-Habitation from this day forward.
Thank you for your advice and straight talk. I wish I was told this cold hard truth when I was younger, but I'm working on improving myself now and making the best of what I've got left. Btw I'm a persian-canadian guy and not black. I think your content applies to all races.
Mannnnn Kevin you are speaking golden nuggets... wow... everything is facts!!! Keep it coming, the hell with these low value losers! I’m dropping the mic now....
The godfather shot all the naysayers down. He truly was a high value man, forged by successes and failures, took risks and kept driving forward. Furthermore, he shared the truth and the knowledge to enlighten us all. The highest valued man of all!
Elegance! Yesssss! Gotta attest that this attribute definitely turns heads of the higher earners (six & seven figures). I'm so glad that part of the femininity movement is taking root with an emphasis on being elegant and lady-like as opposed to just "sexy" all the time.
The amount of haters this man has is almost staggering. Quite a few TH-camrs (men and women) have his name in their titles just to get those clicks. Geeesh!
The women that hate dont like the truth he speaks and alot of them take part in fuckery. The guys on the other hand that hate, which is pretty sad, are dusty dudes that dont want to do the work especially these "woke" cats. I seen one youtuber, that will cosign polygamy then bash black women, and then throw rocks at successful black men
High value men have a good grasp on Human behavior which is why the smartest people don't run the world. The men in power created a grading system with alphabets to allow people to think they are better and smarter Bec you got a certain "letter" on your test. These men know human behavior.
Run from any individual, group, entity or institution that tries to give you excuses for your personal failures. They are preventing you from learning from your mistakes which often are your best teachers.
Truth hurts Gabrielle is a lot of us in the black community what is it that I truly want out of this life you really being honest with yourself you can do better
Killed. Liberals don’t want blacks to level up so they eliminated him. Malcolm X told us to beware of the white liberal. Remember the KKK we’re southern democrats!! We gone all vote Kamala anyway🤦🏽♂️. I dropped the community a LOOOOOONG time ago. Ninjas still sleep in 2024. I got mine ain’t looking back. Peace
I don’t understand how parents get divorced and the son stays with the mom. My brother and I was at my dads hip nonstop we went with him everywhere even simple errands. He took us to Parks, bike riding, etc at least twice a week. if they ever got a divorce us being with our father would have been automatic without discussion no matter what the courts say and my mom knew that. I love my mom and all but I don’t understand these dudes staying with their mom instead of being with their father, I didn’t even know that was a thing and at 14 if my dad was leaving the house and I was the caller I would’ve told my dad “I’m coming with u” and packed my bags. idgaf if he was low value or not, the heck u living with your mom for.
that’s what I’m saying even if my dad tried to leave us I would’ve have voluntarily packed my own bags and told my dad “I’m coming with u”. When I was young I heard my parents get into numerous arguments that got to that point and I already knew what I was going to do. One of the reasons why my mom never divorced my dad and they always worked it out is because she knew me and my brother were going to dip as well to be with our father. Even at 7, 8, or 9 I knew instinctively that I needed to live with a man in the home. We someone to physically protect us, teach us how to use our hands, how to conduct ourselves amongst the presence of other men etc. we would’ve rejected the concept of allowing a women to raise us. But everybody’s father is different. For him to be 14 and sitting at home with his mom and not going with his dad is ludicrous to me. Idc if we were moving into a studio apartment I’m living with my dad and my dad knew this
High value black men should be applauded twice as much because black parents for the most part don't leave inheritances or give success guidance. Guys like Trump had most of the things on this list before they hit the ground running.
Kevin makes a true point. My dad was a poorer black boy growing up in the 70's as the youngest child and got into the Air Force and was there for over 23 years going on 24 (23 years and 10 months and 19 days as he told me exactly lol) and he had bought a house or two and lived life and still had enough to make a life for himself the way he should've and now he works driving the local bus system here in Dallas area. Yet he got up and made something of himself when he was young and had a great job and did things that most black men will never be able to say they had. He went out there and made it happen! No ifs, ands or buts. So all these other black men need to stop playing about how they can't be anything when they aren't even trying to do what they need to do in order to change their lives they way they want!
You can have all the knowledge in the world and still be broke. If you don't have resources and are not business minded, you are bound to not be High Value. I'm 20 yeas old I love this channel.
Whether or not you are a high value man, if you married a Jezebel, you will be put out to pasture when she is done with you, so choose wisely to secure your legacy.
I have 6 of the 7 big 6s checked off: - 6’2 Height - 6 figure income - 6 years of education (Master’s Degree) - 6 figures or more home that I own - V6 engine Car - 6 pack abs (in progress, currently a 4 pack) I guess I’m a High Value Black man 🤷🏾♂️
The role reversal for men and women is the problem. You have so many men that staying home doing with women supposed to do, and women doing what Men supposed to do. The woman saying it's Okay Stay Home. Right on Kevin, keep telling a man to be a man get your weight up
An Order and a Standard has to be set by “Leading By Example”. That’s just Human Nature and that’s always going to be the case. Think about Confucius with the Parent/Child and Teacher/Student relationships. If the Parent/Teacher is not Parenting and Teaching by example then the Child/Student will begin to question the standards and principles that are being taught to them. This is why people are always looking at other peoples’ track record.
57:58 There was a couple on youtube. Millions of subs. They split up. The guy gave the channel to his ex. He started his own channel from scratch. He has now surpassed her, his old channel by a far number.
If you date only a lower class of males as a female, you're need to up your game to be with those brother's with higher value's or resources.!!!! MANY single females choice not to what to put in the needed work, but still want their internment purely because she's a woman, who has nothing positive to add to that kind of exchange with someone who has their game on right and going strong on all levels.!!! WE say " BLACK LIFE'S MATTERS" but refuse to come together and work together to build a better black. Community and up are own business values or how we rate to each other as mens and women's of color .!!!??????? THE fact is everything isn't always green on the other side and all that money doesn't always mean finding true happiness for everyone or enjoying dreams of living in that beautiful house or driving that one of a kind car and not put any kind of work to show their worthy of that kind of lifestyle.!!!-????? BECAUSE you think you're fine and that's all you're need to get by and discover it's not enough to get a man of value attention and able to convince him your able to bring something of value to add to his lifestyle besides that coke and a smile baby.!!!! MANY females today what the benefit's a man of value has to offer them; and believe a man of value should automatically take care of them ; even when she has shown she or he isn't worthy of that kind of lifestyle or relationship's and should stay in their own lane is the best thing to do for everyone's benefit ; unless you're willing to put in the work and show you're true worth as a female.!!!?????
I agree with Kevin this is standard that has been a round in our country and community for years. High value is money, influence and next work. If a Man is follows basic rules and stay focus he will achieve this. 1. Education to Economic key 2. Network fatetnal or career to access growth and development 3. What you do for others you can do for your self build your own business 40 career 20 your business. As community we survived off of a lot high value people who broke down door and set the mark. Do the work we started our own banks and system.
The book "30 Days to a Better Dating Experience" by Logan Tindell is an interesting approach using mindfulness and meditation. Dating can suck...if the person's perspective is off. Mindfulness helps.
“High value men are made by their losses”
These words give me strength and new perspective
I get tired of black people talking about the system being the reason they haven't made it or they don't even try. I am a black man that did specific work for a law firm that no one else did for them. I learned how to do things better than they did and I realized how much they needed my knowledge. I decided to leave and start my own consulting business doing what I did for them for several different attorneys because I realized my intellectual property was worth more than what I was being paid. I am literally the only black person doing what I do on this level. I know whites and other races of people look down on me due to my race, but I'm never going to let other black people get into my head about things our ancestors dealt with bring me down. Just because people say you are worthless is because you are black doesn't mean you have to accept it. Keep moving forward. I almost fell on my face starting my own business and the law firm I worked for that didn't notice my worth started using me as a private contractor because the replacements they got after I left couldn't do what I did for them and I'm literally the only black person that worked in the office previously. Stop listening to black people leaning on things of the past. Yes I acknowledge some white people and other races don't like us, but stop letting that keep you down.
I 100% agree, but it's not that simple. You got a once in a lifetime opportunity to proof yourself. For many, that opportunity will never come or appears only years down the line. Your situation in this climate is more an exception than the rule. And I understand that having to proof yourself also applies to other races, but what I'm saying is: to reach the same opportunity you had, a black man will have to work 10 times harder as a white man with exactly the same background and the only difference being the color of their skin. For many, working 10 times harder would still not be enough. I'm all for proving your selfworth, but I believe the threshold to achieve results is disproportionally higher for black people.
@@thespector8587, you’re very right with your points but I’ve seen so many black men not even try because they feel the odds are against them, which they are against us, but more of us need to try. Some of us will fail and others will succeed. I’d like to see more of us try so the ones that will have success can help others reach goals. I’m hoping to grow my business to the point that I can get others working with me and for me that will most likely be black employees. Then I can teach them the ropes and they can branch off and do their own thing. Whether it’s in this industry or another industry. We have to lead with encouragement to our people rather than leaning on how whites and other races of people hate us, which is extremely true, but we have to fight past that and have the attitude to say bump what you think, you’re not going to stop me from my success.
Do you believe we live in a system of white supremacy?
@@shipjumper6068 I fully agree.
@@CaspianCEO, I believe we live in a country that was built by white people plans for white people and anyone that isn’t white is made to feel they don’t belong but I don’t care about that. It’s the white peoples fault for bringing us here as slaves and we’re here to stay. I’m not going to waste my time worrying about whites and people of other races whose minds have been poisoned to think black people are less than valuable. I’m very cautious of dealing with others but I’m not going to go through my life saying the system is against me, which then hinders me from doing business the way I need to do business. If I walk around trying to be pro black about every move I make, I’ll be broke like all those other pro black folks. We can promote black businesses without being antisocial with other races. Get into certain industries and then slowly make our presence known without shouting it from the mountain top. Basically we need to do what Jewish people have done in certain industries by quietly taking over and then we can make business practices and other things more fair for blacks moving forward.
KS is killing them with truth. Black men need to get our game up and compete.
I agree its just that simple and plain! If black women think they finer than they are blackmen think they are more valuable than we are time to step up!
@@lamontscales2645 you hit the nail on the head: "time to step up". That is KS key message for both men and women, so not sure why people are getting mad and calling him names. You only advance in life when you can properly assess yourself.
Get it! 🤑🤑🤑
@@lamontscales2645 I want to ask you a question. Step as in doing what it take to be a true high value man or step up to just have a better job than most women because there is a HUGE difference.
@@silvereyedlionking6680 step up period! I think blackmen walk around in the same bubble black women do. I also think we have not realized what we are up against. My comp is not just black men but all men.
What a legend, his lessons will live on forever, sadly I caught on to his content late but the pointers are timeless.
I’m willing to become a “High Value Man” and so I don’t oppose it or debate the idea. It’s helping me to grow. Thanks Kevin!!
Get it!!!!!
Totally agree with your comment, I think a lot of people are truly missing the point. This has made me look in the mirror and question what I'm doing and how I can better myself. Definitely don't see why people are going against Kevin so much on this.
Exactly bruh! What's a win gonna be worth if you don't get a bunch of losses to really understand from experience that it's totally worth it once you get there!! No complaining, just trial and error as there is no pain without gain my brotha so good luck and let's get this work in!! 💪🏾😈
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Hi there!!! We soon take over over the world, fellow!! 🤣
BIG A MEMPHIS 10
Indeed! I’ve read this somewhere “Error, like Truth, has its own admirers”. Some people just love the status quo, no matter how bad it is. They’ll stand to protect their ego investment. Man, listen, if I can change my life to be able to generate an income of $10k/month, have lots of valuable contacts, and be useful to others, I will do it. And that’s the road I’m on. Kevin is a blessing.
I’m from Algeria, I’m 53 starting to work on it, never too late thank you Kevin 🙏
The truth hurts. You have introduced the Black community to a class structure that is not discussed in our community. Hopefully, once everyone gets over the shock of the HVM conversation you will be able to have discussions with people who will appreciate your knowledge and apply it to their lives.
Thats why he gets so much hate
Class structure is one thing newer generations or their parents don’t understand.
I just said this on someone platform we as people have been conditioned to have that negative mentality about black men and higher values . I want my experienced men as Kevin to give the blinding insight on what has been going on since the beginning of time. Thanks Kevin and the many others who have positive feedback on these topics!
I started to listen your channel four months ago. I was really lazy in my career. Now my income has gone up 40grand because I'm working so much more and I got a better position in new company. Thanks for the motivation.
Getting offended at the concepts of high value is just snowflake behavior. I am so sick of this "everybody gets a trophy" mentality- what is so wrong with challenging yourself? The fear of failure is failure in itself, and as a man thinketh, so he is.
Only 10% of the nation even have the basics to be HVM (the income requirement). Only 5% of black men do.
I’ve been watching Kevin’s content for a year and it just occurred to me that I was a HVM.
I’ve been making HVM money for over ten years and always took it for granted.
I’m in no position to be sick of anybody trying to get where I’ve been. My journey wasn’t very difficult but it wasn’t easy either. A lot of things had to go right for me. And I recognize that.
And I also recognize that a lot of people aren’t as fortunate.
Kevin bringing High value will motivate black men to enhance our status
When he was taking to the young man about his father, that was some powerful stuff. As a grown man, if your father is in your life it’s now your responsibility to do all you can. Now if he’s a deadbeat, that’s a different story. But if you don’t have respect and reverence for your parents, your gonna have a hell of a time in the real world. I never knew my dad growing up. He took off with his drug habit before I was old enough to remember and I heard my mothers side for 30 years. Long story short, he found me and I made the grown decision to have a relationship with my dad and I couldn’t be happier. We got a long way to go but I’m glad I did.
Good post. KS summed it up when he told the young man: what happened between your Mom and your Dad is none of your business! ..... That came from a man that didn't have his Dad in his life..
That’s really deep. I wish you all the best in your journey.
So...
How has the d ope he has been giving you?
I'm not High Value yet but I am well on my way. I'm a Solid HENRY working as a young (Nuclear Engineer) soon to be High Value. Thank you for telling it like it is Uncle Kevin.
Ayyee. We re waiting for you. Welcome in advance.
@@IkeOg Thank you brother
Once you get past the sting of being low ranking and "denied" to a degree... it gets exciting to think that there are real benefits to climbing the ladder. That, yes, we are not equal. And you also better your life as you better yourself. That it actually means something to overcome who you were AND that you can do it.
What else would the incentive for going through a process as painful as self-realization be?
Also I'm transferring to University next year from community college and I find it serendipitous that I stumble on Kevin's content shortly before doing so. I'm gonna put a strong focus on networking with as many people as I can. The school is in a wealthy area so there are sure to be High-Value peers and faculty.
Oh and he also inspired me to pledge Kappa once I get there 🤟🏾💯
Good luck to you!
It's been two years.
Status report!
Degrees, unless STEM, are worthless...
@@a.j.9727 STATUS REPORT: I'm going to a different University than expected, but things are going well! I just got back to town from a tour of the US with a male revue show (think Magic Mike), but I'm still studying hard and building my networking skills. Been going out every night since I got home and talking to people while sober. My life is WAY WAY better compared to two years ago and it seems like things will continue to get better as I do :)
I'm a elder son of 5 an a father of 3, I absolutely respect Kevin for asking men/women what does yr father says!? Before he could attempt to answer any questions. Thats Man shit.
Kevin your a straight OG! Your doing what you say.. My General!
"the losses are what makes a fkin winner."
I needed this
This man was on his way to changing the world
Still doing that
That Tyrion Lannister analogy was so spot on! Winter is coming!
@1:37:40 Facts! We need to be hungry and aggressive toward achieving our goals! We need to build and create! HVM leave legacies and create strong communities! Keep up the good work Kevin!
As a average people I thank you for defining the meaning of high value. A man who is highly valued by the group of other highly valued men who can be utilized and used.
I honestly liked this setup and the videos back then more. Helped change my life around.
This gives you a defined blueprint for young men to succeed.
27:40 listen for one minute and you’ll learn the best lesson Kevin has ever given. This is the absolute truth, race aside, always be a student of the game and adapt to changes accordingly.
Oh and my fragrance of the night, Creed Aventus.
O my 😆😆😆😆😆😆. Your subscribers tripled overnight Mr. Samuels. It’s a joy to watch you grow.
It was great to finally hear Big Ike!
You're speaking uncomfortable truths. We, black men collectively and globally, have been shutout of the economic opportunities. We, therefore, try to compensate from an early age by focusing on shit that doesn't matter in the grand scheme but makes us feel good. We, collectively(with many many noteworthy exceptions), know that the competition is tough and many bow out. In the immortal words of Marlo from "The Wire" "you want it to be one way but it's the other. You are absolutely right, high value is ONLY a point of contention among men who have no value and know that if it becomes acceptable widely WITHIN our community they will lose the little they have. Speak on my brother. Glad to have found your channel through a recommendation from my high-value brother. Salutations
Kevin , you've hit the nail on the head. Best video I've heard in a long time. Thumbs UP!
This is the hottest channel on TH-cam 😎💪🏾👑
Agreed!!
Agree
As the white son of a Single Mother who had to pay her for my father's sins it is not only a negative on the Black Community it has torn up the White Community too !
Thank you for addressing the Single Mother's raising generally sub standard
Men.
It has helped me answer some questions that I have had. Thank you Mr. Kevin !
Me too mate.
Australian society is rife with the results of 1970 and 1980s single mothers and busted up sons.
The amount of wisdom dispensed in this video is equivalent to a gold nugget inside your brain. Embracing and overcoming losses, working with people who disagree, 48 laws of power? Kevin was on fire! I wish he would have finished his book. RIP Godfather
Amen! Keep Pushing Kevin. I've beat my head up trying to get people to look at things from this perspective. People want to just feel good instead of dealing with the truth head on. Keep sharing your insight its very much needed.
We are a community FILLED with emotional reactors and lacking logical responders. You doing a thankless job my man LMAO Salute
You keep tricking and lead with your wallet when you get woman..
"lessor men will have to follow greater men" That is still okay because you will be heading some where great, as supposed to lacking vision and going no where.
I think we need to have a second term ... Term 1: High Value Man (HVM) = man of a consistent certain net worth and/or totality of assets (and network of other high income earners/groupings) that places him in the top 1 - 10% of all income earners (edit of course if don't like) .. Term 2: High Quality Man (HQM) = man with a desirable number (and set) of character qualities that place him among the top choices of his peer group (edit of course if you don't like)... I think this would help those who are less than enthused there is a HVM title in the first place. It would mean any man, regardless of demographics and income a man can be HQM but of course has nothing to do with being HVM which is first and foremost based on income
Initially I defined high value as subjective because high earning is a more appropriate objective term but I like the terms you proposed. I will be using this until Kevin’s book comes out.
I would like a high quality man over a high value man
No. Why make new rules and this is the mentality that destroyed us. No one cares about high quality. Top 10% will always be 10%.
Two points about a network.
If a person has a network of 20,000 low value people, what does he have compared to a person who has a network of 20 high value people? Nothing.
What is the ideal size of a network? Having large numbers in a database but no connection with the people is meaningless. I believe a solid network is no greater than 20. Jesus changed the world with 12.
I would focus more on the quality of the network and the roles played by those in the network. The concept needs to be fleshed out.
He said Network of other HVM🤦♂️🤦♂️
Hey brother Kevin...you see how you bring out truth and what our people do is attack the messenger....they did that too the real Jesus...that"s the nature of our people..I like what you said about not Entertaining the haters
The concept of class has always existed among all cultures and civilizations. Some even had caste systems which were enforced even more strictly than just simply earning a certain amount. So this concept is ancient and thus it makes no sense for people to be offended by it regardless of who’s among such a group.
People offended by it seem to have sub-90 IQ's.
I totally agree, the funny thing is when you go to "so called third world countries" it very much still exists. Its only in so called civilised first world countries people don't accept or are confused by the caste system.
Caste systems are antiquated and evil. Keep that crap in the third world where you probably came from.
“Some men move like women.” Yep, there it is!
100% agreement, almost high value VP of mkt software ( 175k, more then 10yrs 6 fig, 500 plus network LinkedIn , visibility, Lacking utilization)56, twice divorced, younger non black international women, no kids , happy searching
10 out of 10 kevin anything that you've said regarding this subject you are spot on 👍👍👍👍
FYI: Tesla gave his patents to Westinghouse, they didn't defraud him. He was independently wealthy and didn't care about money.
He just gave it away for free, ok!
@@walterlowe3585 Do you need permission to look it up yourself ...?
1:30:45
Ike a open minded dude and can do his own show if he wanted.
From quoting Nietzsche to quoting the Bible. I also never considered using our lives as a type of business plan. 🤯🎊
It’s a good feeling listing to guys that don’t waste their breath.
Great conversation, keep them coming Kevin! 🏆
Shout out to the Nigerian that called. My brother 🇳🇬
Salute
Kevin I don’t think you are arrogant. You just don’t take abuse on your own platform and aren’t afraid to call bullshit when others try to dish it out. That’s just being confident.and a lot of people can’t handle that.
So true brother . They don't even know you 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Rest well, Godfather.
Nupe, this was a great video. You really said something when you called out men that haven't progressed since college.
Ike is a highly intelligent man.
Don't let them pull you in that bucket
Team of Rivals is a must read. Effective conflict resolution is the key to success.
Black men always want something valuable for free or discount. I’m glad they’re finally being told to STEP IT UP.
Does anyone else want to know who these moderates are? Great show!!!
Yep.
I learned so much in this 2hr video.... many things that happened this last few years in my life make more sense now... I have so much work to do on myself...so much to do, so little time...
Can't understand why so many Fellas are butthurt by The Big Clipper's Concept of High Value. It is General in some aspects and Specific in others. It Cuts to the Chase , which is a good thing. It's the one Concept that gives ALL Men a chance. We should Celebrate Kevin for what he is doing for Men AND Women in all spaces as it pertains to Image/Empowerment/Co-Habitation from this day forward.
racer exile don’t forget being raised by single mothers!!!
Thank you for your advice and straight talk. I wish I was told this cold hard truth when I was younger, but I'm working on improving myself now and making the best of what I've got left.
Btw I'm a persian-canadian guy and not black.
I think your content applies to all races.
Mannnnn Kevin you are speaking golden nuggets... wow... everything is facts!!! Keep it coming, the hell with these low value losers! I’m dropping the mic now....
I have been married 25yrs. I think you're doing a great job. If I'm learning,,,,,,
u get up every day for inequality.. u push yourself everyday to beat competion.. thats just nature so idk why this is such an crazed debate
The godfather shot all the naysayers down. He truly was a high value man, forged by successes and failures, took risks and kept driving forward. Furthermore, he shared the truth and the knowledge to enlighten us all. The highest valued man of all!
Elegance! Yesssss! Gotta attest that this attribute definitely turns heads of the higher earners (six & seven figures). I'm so glad that part of the femininity movement is taking root with an emphasis on being elegant and lady-like as opposed to just "sexy" all the time.
The amount of haters this man has is almost staggering. Quite a few TH-camrs (men and women) have his name in their titles just to get those clicks. Geeesh!
Truth... Having Hater's means you are doing something right!!!!
The women that hate dont like the truth he speaks and alot of them take part in fuckery. The guys on the other hand that hate, which is pretty sad, are dusty dudes that dont want to do the work especially these "woke" cats. I seen one youtuber, that will cosign polygamy then bash black women, and then throw rocks at successful black men
@@coreyceasar5795 I agree. If no one is talking about you, well, you are not doing something right.
@@rodgerelledge4151 I noticed that demographics as well, Rodger.
High value men have a good grasp on Human behavior which is why the smartest people don't run the world. The men in power created a grading system with alphabets to allow people to think they are better and smarter Bec you got a certain "letter" on your test. These men know human behavior.
I'm glad I came across this man's channel. Here I've learned what it means to be a high value man vs. a passive beta male. Thanks, Kevin!
Run from any individual, group, entity or institution that tries to give you excuses for your personal failures. They are preventing you from learning from your mistakes which often are your best teachers.
Truth hurts Gabrielle is a lot of us in the black community what is it that I truly want out of this life you really being honest with yourself you can do better
A great show tonight, the penny is dropping keep tapping into that psyche that has been damaged by our past.
hey Kevin that show you did on lets be friend was needed you should do more and expand on that subject.
I'm glad this got recommended to me today, even though it's 10 months ago.
The godfather was cooking with hot grease tonight!
Good stream Kevin They goona learn one way or another
This recording provides the clearest explanation of Kevin's notion of the high-value man.
Here’s the rip, “A students work for F students.” My Husband says this all the time, but he says C students!
C students run the business. D students own the building. F students own the land
I hate he passed away 😢
Killed. Liberals don’t want blacks to level up so they eliminated him. Malcolm X told us to beware of the white liberal. Remember the KKK we’re southern democrats!! We gone all vote Kamala anyway🤦🏽♂️. I dropped the community a LOOOOOONG time ago. Ninjas still sleep in 2024. I got mine ain’t looking back. Peace
I don’t understand how parents get divorced and the son stays with the mom. My brother and I was at my dads hip nonstop we went with him everywhere even simple errands. He took us to Parks, bike riding, etc at least twice a week. if they ever got a divorce us being with our father would have been automatic without discussion no matter what the courts say and my mom knew that. I love my mom and all but I don’t understand these dudes staying with their mom instead of being with their father, I didn’t even know that was a thing and at 14 if my dad was leaving the house and I was the caller I would’ve told my dad “I’m coming with u” and packed my bags. idgaf if he was low value or not, the heck u living with your mom for.
that’s what I’m saying even if my dad tried to leave us I would’ve have voluntarily packed my own bags and told my dad “I’m coming with u”. When I was young I heard my parents get into numerous arguments that got to that point and I already knew what I was going to do. One of the reasons why my mom never divorced my dad and they always worked it out is because she knew me and my brother were going to dip as well to be with our father. Even at 7, 8, or 9 I knew instinctively that I needed to live with a man in the home. We someone to physically protect us, teach us how to use our hands, how to conduct ourselves amongst the presence of other men etc. we would’ve rejected the concept of allowing a women to raise us. But everybody’s father is different. For him to be 14 and sitting at home with his mom and not going with his dad is ludicrous to me. Idc if we were moving into a studio apartment I’m living with my dad and my dad knew this
High value black men should be applauded twice as much because black parents for the most part don't leave inheritances or give success guidance. Guys like Trump had most of the things on this list before they hit the ground running.
Kevin makes a true point. My dad was a poorer black boy growing up in the 70's as the youngest child and got into the Air Force and was there for over 23 years going on 24 (23 years and 10 months and 19 days as he told me exactly lol) and he had bought a house or two and lived life and still had enough to make a life for himself the way he should've and now he works driving the local bus system here in Dallas area. Yet he got up and made something of himself when he was young and had a great job and did things that most black men will never be able to say they had. He went out there and made it happen! No ifs, ands or buts. So all these other black men need to stop playing about how they can't be anything when they aren't even trying to do what they need to do in order to change their lives they way they want!
Kevin laying some heat 🔥
You can have all the knowledge in the world and still be broke. If you don't have resources and are not business minded, you are bound to not be High Value. I'm 20 yeas old I love this channel.
When keeping it real goes wrong. The black ego.
Whether or not you are a high value man, if you married a Jezebel, you will be put out to pasture when she is done with you, so choose wisely to secure your legacy.
Some of the high value man are born because they come from an influence family but they still have to do the work.
1:36:57 dropping knowledge
I love this man- God Bless. A Realist
I have 6 of the 7 big 6s checked off:
- 6’2 Height
- 6 figure income
- 6 years of education (Master’s Degree)
- 6 figures or more home that I own
- V6 engine Car
- 6 pack abs (in progress, currently a 4 pack)
I guess I’m a High Value Black man 🤷🏾♂️
You all that but here watching this?
The role reversal for men and women is the problem. You have so many men that staying home doing with women supposed to do, and women doing what Men supposed to do. The woman saying it's
Okay Stay Home. Right on Kevin, keep telling a man to be a man get your weight up
If this what it takes to be high value then I’ll do it because I want power and I want to be rich and wealthy
Truth... nothing more...
The power of a Man is Judged by the actions of his Woman. I don’t know who said it but it rings True amongst MEN.
They can't stand a MAN with wisdom
An Order and a Standard has to be set by “Leading By Example”. That’s just Human Nature and that’s always going to be the case. Think about Confucius with the Parent/Child and Teacher/Student relationships. If the Parent/Teacher is not Parenting and Teaching by example then the Child/Student will begin to question the standards and principles that are being taught to them. This is why people are always looking at other peoples’ track record.
Fragile egos get hot and bothered by standards they don’t fit. Men far greater than me inspire me.
Sobering. Exactly what's needed.
57:58
There was a couple on youtube. Millions of subs.
They split up. The guy gave the channel to his ex.
He started his own channel from scratch.
He has now surpassed her, his old channel by a far number.
If you date only a lower class of males as a female, you're need to up your game to be with those brother's with higher value's or resources.!!!!
MANY single females choice not to what to put in the needed work, but still want their internment purely because she's a woman, who has nothing positive to add to that kind of exchange with someone who has their game on right and going strong on all levels.!!!
WE say " BLACK LIFE'S MATTERS" but refuse to come together and work together to build a better black. Community and up are own business values or how we rate to each other as mens and women's of color .!!!???????
THE fact is everything isn't always green on the other side and all that money doesn't always mean finding true happiness for everyone or enjoying dreams of living in that beautiful house or driving that one of a kind car and not put any kind of work to show their worthy of that kind of lifestyle.!!!-?????
BECAUSE you think you're fine and that's all you're need to get by and discover it's not enough to get a man of value attention and able to convince him your able to bring something of value to add to his lifestyle besides that coke and a smile baby.!!!!
MANY females today what the benefit's a man of value has to offer them; and believe a man of value should automatically take care of them ; even when she has shown she or he isn't worthy of that kind of lifestyle or relationship's and should stay in their own lane is the best thing to do for everyone's benefit ; unless you're willing to put in the work and show you're true worth as a female.!!!?????
My humble immigrant opinion: Economics over politics. Money talks. Simple.
How can add value to any situation or in my focus area? Thanks Mr Samuels for reminding us to keep striving, competing and fighting!
Uplifting music, I got to get to working on my purpose.
crack
I agree with Kevin this is standard that has been a round in our country and community for years. High value is money, influence and next work. If a Man is follows basic rules and stay focus he will achieve this. 1. Education to Economic key 2. Network fatetnal or career to access growth and development 3. What you do for others you can do for your self build your own business 40 career 20 your business. As community we survived off of a lot high value people who broke down door and set the mark. Do the work we started our own banks and system.
Damn what is that music in the intro 👑💪🏿 rip to The Godfather
Just Cool Down by Fox Morrow
The book "30 Days to a Better Dating Experience" by Logan Tindell is an interesting approach using mindfulness and meditation. Dating can suck...if the person's perspective is off. Mindfulness helps.
I here it. I’m don’t have all these thing’s in my life and that’s fine. But if I want I’ll get it!