This is actually true. I can usually tell if people genuinely like me or not. The small gestures they make tells alot about them. If theres nothing I can tolerate with in a friendship or relationship, it is the lack of pure intentions which explains why I know a lot of people but my circle is small.
@@chopin7572 Seleti Fotu didn't remember if I said anything about being "special" but points were taken 🤔 That is just the perks of being an observant on top of the INFJ personality type I guess. However I do not jump into conclusions without taking any considerations. One can't simply assume what they think of people, for it could be true or false. Have a good day sir
My you are handsome. @3:56 "INFJs will get to know you quickly, but best of luck trying to get them to open up"-YESSS definitely true for me! I think we're open books, but no one ever asks the right questions!
I think some INFJs are like you😊, but personally I'm like the vid said, I rarely open up, and only if I truly trust the people. It might depend on what level you open up on. I open up some things, but almost never others (apart from online, with strangers, because it allows me to relieve some stress as at least someone knows what I'm going through, even if they don't know me) (for example now) I had extreme depression and had been contemplating suicide. But only 1 person knows about that. And maybe its because I've been betrayed before. Maybe you haven't been through something like that, and so don't worry about it as much, therefore you open up easier. Just something to think about😊👍💗
yes yes yes! i am totally open with people if they ask about me or the right questions but i never bring up my deeper side unless it is brought up first. if you ask the right questions i will tell you anything, but no one ever does
@@plushbabyyoda1787 duuuude I relate to this so much!! It always feel like I'm try a get to know people but hardly anyone tries to know me. It can be very frustrating
Lol! Total INFJ here. Over the years (in a work environment) I've had so many people tell me that I'm hard to figure out, or that I'm a tough nut to crack. I just laugh on the inside. I generally won't talk to people that are drama queens, gossipers, two faced or too needy. They are energy vampires and I just can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I'd rather keep to myself and have peace. I also dislike when work people try to get me to go to lunch with them. Lol. Like I don't want too be their friend. Lol. Its to exhausting 😂
Yes! I know, people create drama and I run for the life of me. Needy people although I’m super duper nice to them, I do get warn out quick! I’m trying to teach someone I know right now to be less needy because I feel bad for him.
This video just freaked me out. I have been watching videos on INFJs. So many do them are just talking about dark side of being an INFJs, their weaknesses, their bad side. I am a mature INFJ-A and I was looking for some better content. This one is great. I am literally doing everything, that this video mentions as best career paths of INFJs. Spiritual teacher, counselor, nurturer, writer, artist, painter, aspiring psychologist. Me doing it all together, I left my 9 to 5 around new year. In this lockdown, I have been able to grow so much. And now Looking at this video I am sure I made the right career decision.
Excellent quick tutorial on INFJ's. Just a quick comment as an INFJ who is a scientist and inventor. The profession is not the key thing here, but how the person approaches whatever profession they are in. In my case, my approach to science and technology is very intuition based, and I'm only interested in creating things that help humanity. My social work type activities are an avocation.
I look at my company as selling widgets. It’s the business model I have a passion for. Of course, I majored in economics back in the day. But, I do love strategizing and learning, becoming more efficient and evolving.
I’m an “INFJ-T Advocate, My whole life I knew I was different. Never really had friends but always made friends quickly but none but maybe 3 that are true real friends if you know what I mean. I’m a teacher for social and emotional children for 15 years changed my career idk why but did I was also a home health nurse for V.A. While I was nursing I’m going back to school to get my bachelors degree in science health care management I’m in my second year and graduate 🎓 in February of 2020 I’m working 54 hours a week as a property manager at a hotel. single mom of two kids. But I only found out 6 months ago when my teacher asked me to take the Myers Briggs test I thought it was silly and he said just enlighten me. So I took the test and turn it in. Went on about my day came back to school he shook my hand and said I knew it. I replied you knew what? You are in the 1% tile of the rarest personality types I’m 40 years old and thinking to myself wow what is an INFJ-T more research lol j/k I like puzzles in life I’m still learning about it.
@@amarovforce9107 yes will cry if someone is sad 😥. I call feel there emotions if I walk into a room I can tell you what's going on just by walking into a room
@JJ G yes right on the money. JJ it's so hard I live in a homeless shelter now. Not because of my own circumstance it was bad ppl taking money from my client and I stood up for them and lost my job by then taking away the client. Living in a homeless shelter is very tuff for me and me being a infj t I realized I can't save every one. Even though I would love to. Alot of the people will ask me how I knew what was going to happen. I just tell them my gut. Because alot of people will not understand me and think crazy about me. Also seeing number now like 3:33 11:11 idk what they all mean do you see numbers JJ on a clock or signs? Every where
Those first two sentences describe my social life so far lol. (I’m in highschool.) It’s pretty tricky to find people that don’t do small talk and genuinely enjoy spending time with you.
I've taken the Myers-Briggs personality test and the results showed I am an INFJ-A ("Advocate"). The in-depth description I received after the test of this personality type and within this video is pretty spot on with how I'd describe myself.
Great video I am an INFJ. I'm an Architect. I draw single family custom homes. I listen to the sales people tell me what their customer wants and I draw it up on autocad. I am also a mechanic and work on cars for a hobbie. My mind never stops I am always thinking.
i think that i'm different from other people, i think i have some mental problem why my mind is so complicated, i love thinking about why the human are created, i always like topics about deep or meaningfull about life, i want to live in the other worlds that full of nature and beautifullnes not party or smt like that, but no one know and can understand about that. I'm so glad that i am "special" and blessed by god for how worth i am in this world and that's not a mental problem for my ages(im 16) sorry my english is so bad bcs i'm still learning english.
It's probably not a mental problem, I'm like that too! And yeah, you're blessed! We are all different in our own ways, and it's ok to look at things on a deeper level. 💗😊
It's not a mental problems, We tend to think about what we enjoy, And we are the type that like harmonies and a place which have a more private places? I can't say much because I just found out I am an infj like a few hours earlier. So I am still learning :) I am also 14 and I am happy to learn this earlier in life because I am trying to improve myself more It's been 4 months since I started it :)
My 12 yo Daughter is a unicorn. She went to finals at invention convention in...5th grade. She is in all honors classes, athletics, wants band.... She(y'all ISFJ'S) ARE THE PEACE IN THE WORLD. She and y'all are a blessing. I love you all. And the intuitiveness... TRUST IT. "no, don't do it if you have doubts" has saved her from many wrong turns. hope that helps. Jason enfj-t
I took the test and I’m INFJ apparently. It resembles me but I’m also very chatty. I love being with myself and I’m an introverted house mouse haha. But I’m very good in social situations with having meaningful conversations, but I hate small talk. I’m very chatty, very, but it’s usually because I am nervous when I’m talking to others, although I disguise it . I also can talk about a lot of things but it is pretty hard to get to know me on a personal level as I don’t like to show weakness or things like that unless I really trust that person. I feel estranged to the world most times and I don’t like fake people or superficial people and conversations. They bore me. I don’t know if I believe in these tests but this one does feel accurate sometimes
Same and it makes me feel so much better. Like before I genuinely thought I had something wrong with me but learning about this just makes it all make so much sense
I'm an infj who literally had selective mutism. I am now more social and people always say i should be a therapist. I also hate being mean to people, this video is so accurate.😮
I’m an INFJ.... I didn’t understand myself for sooooo long but since I took the personality test, it’s good to know it’s information out there that helps people realize unlocked parts of themselves.
I tested to be an INFJ-T so now I'm researching it. Good video! "No, I do not have multiple personalities. Just one that's very, very complicated" - SPOT ON.
28 tests say I'm INFJ and yet.... I wouldn't describe myself as warm, calm, gentle, soothing or avoid confrontation. I also don't change myself depending on who I'm dealing with (no social chameleon or multiple persona's here). And this is exactly why I keep taking tests. I keep thinking I'm being mistyped.
Any other INFJ’s completely obsessed with learning and/or reading? I can’t stop learning a little bit of every single topic in existence. lol I would rather stay in and learn than go out with friends. 😐
Thats trueee. My classmates always think that i don't like them just because im quiet around them. And they always asks me if im angry/mad beacause i don't smile that often.
Im Infj-t.... I cant stare at people eyes because i think all the powers i got cant be seen by them and always have neon sunglasses on to be covered and protected... Its extremely difficult 4 people to reach to me... Even my husband I still dont know how I got one..
I have a lot of video describing the infj personality. This one that highlighted it the best to me. I very thankful that someone too the time to make this video.
This is me. Everything apply to me. I am in college. I am pre med student. Pursing my career as doctor. I am so happy that my personality is so rarest of all.
I am an INFJ yes. I am awesome. Not many people can appreciate how deep i am. i operate on an extremely deep and meaningful level. makes life challenging but also so beautiful. I am driven to create a business to help poeple one on one.
adolf hitler was also an infj. when i took the test, three different times, got the same results. as an infj-a as well as an empath. it FINALLY put a title on my life as to why i am wire the way i am wired. thank you for these videos, videos like these, as well as the books written by Dr. Orloff as well as others. explains alot.
This kind of explains a lot, on the Myers-Briggs personality test, I score as an INFJ. I had no clue that this was rare, and it helps me in understanding why I’m so odd/unique
I am a proud INFJ! This isn't totally new to me, but it explains so much. BTW, I think you do a really great job of speaking, and carrying on when you stumble in your narration. I just started my youtube channel, and it is SO hard to just talk without saying "uh" or messing up. Nice video, thanks!
I chose healthcare as a career path, it always felt like a natural choice to me even as a kid, not a long time ago I took this test and discovered that I have this personality type, it describes me so well at first I got shivers
I was designated this personality type in the test while studying...you guessed it...mental health Counselling lol. I feel like I have never had my essence described so accurately before. I suspect many INFJs are HSPs, at least that's been my personal experience with others of my type. It seems to help with that empathic connection
I learnt about MBTI & Enneagram when I was in medical school... 10+ years ago I remember I loved and still love PORTISHEAD... since I was in high school all the grudge in their lyrics all the melancholy all the nostalgia my life was is will always be PORTISHEAD the feelings of saudade grudge melancholy nostalgia
INFJs are not necessarily quiet. Since we are ambiverts. But yes we are reserved. In a way that we do not talk about our emotions and deep thoughts. We however, are very quick and open to sharing our opinions about other things and issues.
I've watched loads of videos about infjs and i can relate to all of them so i think i am an infj.. Im a perfectionist, im soooo compassionate that i feel the pain of people i don't even know. That can actually affect negatively it's not always good... Im soooo sensitive my heart is just like a bubble you know.... Im surely no doubt introverted... Im very deep and private i think too much like seriously too much my brain doesn't stop at all.. I have anxiety 😩... I can understand people pretty well ironically though they don't... Im pretty intuitive.. I am judgemental not to lie... I can read and know a person well just by his action... Sometimes i can sense something about someone or know what they are thinking about me or about anything... Im usually honest and sincere... Okay i know so many people they are close to me but i don't see them as friends so if i counted those whom im deeply connected with so i can call them friends they might be 1 or 2 🙁... Im in love with helping others i can sometimes even care for a person more than myself... I listen and listen, I can listen for a person talking for hours... Im so emotional very deep i get overwhelmed by beauty of nature and i can see things way differently .. All this makes me feel like im a stranger 😩😭😟 in my own land... I don't think i need to take a test to know im an infj because i guess now im certain i am 🙁
I got INFJ on the test, but I have some doubts about the results, because evidently every INFJ has to post a comment about how insightful and unique they are.
The word "popular" means well-liked and admired. That is not connected to how rare the type is or is not. I think you may be thinking of the word "populous" which means heavily populated or crowded. The words sound similar, but have different meanings. I hope that helps.
It IS the rarest. He says that at the beginning of the video, then corrects himself a few minutes later. I thought the same thing when I first started watching and then he said rarest. Confusing.
I feel like that one drug from "Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas". (paraphrasing, of course) "-funny thing is, you're aware of what you're doing, you just can't control it."
INFJ's also can be manipulative in 2 ways... The bad way to convince people to do stuff... And the way where we let you tell things about yourself... And we don't even realize it. The first one is less common btw
INFJs are not manipulative in that way. They have a high sense of integrity. They may try to influence another if they feel a course of action is the right thing for the other person, but they will not do it for personal gain.
Me to the dot, thank you for bring this out, in the past month I’ve come across many you tube vlogs, about this personality type I’ve now gained some peace
I resulted INFJ-T and since I like math, even if not the very advanced one, I'm shocked about how "i" is treated here... no no, not good, "i" is very cool...
Just did the MBTI. My result is INFJ-A/INFJ-T ADVOCATE. Just here to find out more. Maybe this explains well why I look so strange in many people or I've never found a person who has same personality like me.
ive done the 16personalities test like 8 times, and i got advocate alot, mediator, and architect different times. what does this mean when i sometimes get different answers? im trying to answer them as honest as possible, but i wouldnt say i always look out to not hurt peoples feelings, and i wouldnt say im the most gentle person in the world, im young, so does this just mean my personality needs to develop more? someone please help o-o
This is really true and i even like art and psychology....and like I can tell what ppl r feeling even with their small gestures and am always like can't they understand what the person is saying it's so clear...written on his face can't everyone else understand....and now I understood why only I am like this why no one understands me and why is like me...
One thing that I do is I’ll always think about ways where I could help people and in my head make up situations where I have to help people and then after we’ll get really close. It’s kinda like wishful thinking cuz I only have a few good friends and they all live 1-6 hours away from me
Yeah, I’m an INFP but i was like 4% off of getting the J. so i can kinda relate to these descriptions, one thing I notticed is that idk if i’m being paranoid or if the people around me were actually being genuine or not, thats something that confuses me a lot.
Watching these videos about me makes me feel not so alone. I'm glad i can be explained. And I'm being patient. I know if i become successful i can use my scusses to help the world.
:) thank you. The Number one thing people need right now is trust in a world built on lies. Being a positive example for people to reflect is all that i can ask for. You can in turn allways trust me. I have no friends Because i treat everyone with the same passion on a 1 to 1 basis. This is my purpose i made for my self and i will stand by it until i die. Thanks again 💗
I'm not alone externally. The world is filled with people 😁. I have mastered the perceptions of others and i can easily see beyond my own gratification. I don't need anything to be grateful. I make good choices that i konw the outcome of the Future. A type of Karma and influence.
@@Zutang777 but internally you yearn... you want to strive to be an ideal. You may hurt yourself because noone is perfect and you will fall short of your perception of the ideal. Externally gratification is good.. but now and again your soul, your mind requires a release.
I want to become a psychologist before to try and understand people and make them feel accepted but I feel like people are afraid to approach a psychologist because they don't wanna get accused of being crazy or have mental illness so I didn't try persuing it.
I can see clearly non verbal communication while people to to be played by this type of communication, i just see through it and feel weird that they can't
I did the test and got INFJ-T but i feel like it's not as rare as everyone thinks? Because mostly people who's in my circle exhibit the same intuition and approach to things the same way that i do
As an INFJ...i am curious as to why more people are curious about this type...than the INTP! They are the MOST intriguing type I have EVER encountered irl. But hey...maybe that's just my infJness lol.
as an infj i felt my ears were aching when i listen...............don't forget we are HSP don't talk so loud and so fast ...............apart from that it's all true!!
This is me 💯 I literally say these things about myself all the time. It’s hard because I believe that anyone can do things if they put in 💯! Now, I do have perfectionist type but I also understand that not everyone is perfect. I also use logic but more or less from a understanding that is emotional.
Probably meant 'popular' in the sense that there are a lot of articles and videos based on the INFJ type due to the unusual behaviours that can correspond with it.
0:23 I dont care about my enemies like that, imagine the exact opposite on an infj-t and that's how I act to ppl I don't care about, if your an ally then welcome to my eden, if your a threat get ready for the apocalypse
*considering how being hellishly mean can effect ppl in different ways and still not caring* did you just kick a dog!? *pulls out my poison dart gun* run
I’ve always felt a bit of a stranger in this world.
Me too
fact
bitch me too the fuck
If you mean by you feel like you don't fit in this world, I agree.
same,.,.,.
This is actually true. I can usually tell if people genuinely like me or not. The small gestures they make tells alot about them. If theres nothing I can tolerate with in a friendship or relationship, it is the lack of pure intentions which explains why I know a lot of people but my circle is small.
@@chopin7572 Seleti Fotu didn't remember if I said anything about being "special" but points were taken 🤔 That is just the perks of being an observant on top of the INFJ personality type I guess. However I do not jump into conclusions without taking any considerations. One can't simply assume what they think of people, for it could be true or false. Have a good day sir
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My you are handsome.
@3:56 "INFJs will get to know you quickly, but best of luck trying to get them to open up"-YESSS definitely true for me! I think we're open books, but no one ever asks the right questions!
You said it so well. We definitely are willing if people are willing to ask the right questions, but almost nobody is.
I think some INFJs are like you😊, but personally I'm like the vid said, I rarely open up, and only if I truly trust the people. It might depend on what level you open up on. I open up some things, but almost never others (apart from online, with strangers, because it allows me to relieve some stress as at least someone knows what I'm going through, even if they don't know me) (for example now) I had extreme depression and had been contemplating suicide. But only 1 person knows about that. And maybe its because I've been betrayed before. Maybe you haven't been through something like that, and so don't worry about it as much, therefore you open up easier. Just something to think about😊👍💗
yes yes yes! i am totally open with people if they ask about me or the right questions but i never bring up my deeper side unless it is brought up first. if you ask the right questions i will tell you anything, but no one ever does
BSJ We just let people talk... I’m always surprised at how much I can get a person to open up about themselves.
@@plushbabyyoda1787 duuuude I relate to this so much!! It always feel like I'm try a get to know people but hardly anyone tries to know me. It can be very frustrating
Lol! Total INFJ here. Over the years (in a work environment) I've had so many people tell me that I'm hard to figure out, or that I'm a tough nut to crack. I just laugh on the inside.
I generally won't talk to people that are drama queens, gossipers, two faced or too needy. They are energy vampires and I just can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I'd rather keep to myself and have peace. I also dislike when work people try to get me to go to lunch with them. Lol. Like I don't want too be their friend. Lol. Its to exhausting 😂
Yes! I know, people create drama and I run for the life of me. Needy people although I’m super duper nice to them, I do get warn out quick! I’m trying to teach someone I know right now to be less needy because I feel bad for him.
Me too some of my friends saying I'm weird
me too people get confius with me......when they ask somethin....i answer....then they look at me for a second because tryin to understand hahahaah
This is a perfect display of the people most of the INFJ’s like and dislike.
This video just freaked me out. I have been watching videos on INFJs. So many do them are just talking about dark side of being an INFJs, their weaknesses, their bad side. I am a mature INFJ-A and I was looking for some better content. This one is great. I am literally doing everything, that this video mentions as best career paths of INFJs.
Spiritual teacher, counselor, nurturer, writer, artist, painter, aspiring psychologist. Me doing it all together, I left my 9 to 5 around new year. In this lockdown, I have been able to grow so much. And now Looking at this video I am sure I made the right career decision.
I’m sooo happy for you! 😊
Yeah! I feel like although lockdown and Corona has been terrible it has also been a goldmine for personal development!
Excellent quick tutorial on INFJ's. Just a quick comment as an INFJ who is a scientist and inventor. The profession is not the key thing here, but how the person approaches whatever profession they are in. In my case, my approach to science and technology is very intuition based, and I'm only interested in creating things that help humanity.
My social work type activities are an avocation.
I look at my company as selling widgets. It’s the business model I have a passion for. Of course, I majored in economics back in the day. But, I do love strategizing and learning, becoming more efficient and evolving.
Infj can invent but usually takes a role as a lab technician where as the intj are more the research scientist
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rock on bro
I’m an “INFJ-T Advocate, My whole life I knew I was different. Never really had friends but always made friends quickly but none but maybe 3 that are true real friends if you know what I mean. I’m a teacher for social and emotional children for 15 years changed my career idk why but did I was also a home health nurse for V.A. While I was nursing I’m going back to school to get my bachelors degree in science health care management I’m in my second year and graduate 🎓 in February of 2020 I’m working 54 hours a week as a property manager at a hotel. single mom of two kids. But I only found out 6 months ago when my teacher asked me to take the Myers Briggs test I thought it was silly and he said just enlighten me. So I took the test and turn it in. Went on about my day came back to school he shook my hand and said I knew it. I replied you knew what? You are in the 1% tile of the rarest personality types I’m 40 years old and thinking to myself wow what is an INFJ-T more research lol j/k I like puzzles in life I’m still learning about it.
Tiki Simonds question: are you also highly sensitive person?
@@amarovforce9107 yes will cry if someone is sad 😥. I call feel there emotions if I walk into a room I can tell you what's going on just by walking into a room
@JJ G yes right on the money. JJ it's so hard I live in a homeless shelter now. Not because of my own circumstance it was bad ppl taking money from my client and I stood up for them and lost my job by then taking away the client. Living in a homeless shelter is very tuff for me and me being a infj t I realized I can't save every one. Even though I would love to. Alot of the people will ask me how I knew what was going to happen. I just tell them my gut. Because alot of people will not understand me and think crazy about me. Also seeing number now like 3:33 11:11 idk what they all mean do you see numbers JJ on a clock or signs? Every where
im 41 enfj-t.
my 12 yo is infj.
Thanks for the post, this (your testimony)will be shown to her.
Those first two sentences describe my social life so far lol.
(I’m in highschool.) It’s pretty tricky to find people that don’t do small talk and genuinely enjoy spending time with you.
" I can't tell if he's lying let's strap him up to the INFJ" 💀💀 I CANT that's so funny😂😂
darn, girl that IS funny
I've taken the Myers-Briggs personality test and the results showed I am an INFJ-A ("Advocate"). The in-depth description I received after the test of this personality type and within this video is pretty spot on with how I'd describe myself.
Same, I got Advocate INFJ-A / INFJ-T (im not sure if they are the same thing or i got both?) I didnt think it would be this accurate!
Please where and how did you take the test?
Great video I am an INFJ. I'm an Architect. I draw single family custom homes. I listen to the sales people tell me what their customer wants and I draw it up on autocad. I am also a mechanic and work on cars for a hobbie. My mind never stops I am always thinking.
You are living my alternate universe life.
B you are goals! I appreciate you even more bc you make people’s visions come true through their homes. That’s awesome!
i think that i'm different from other people, i think i have some mental problem why my mind is so complicated, i love thinking about why the human are created, i always like topics about deep or meaningfull about life, i want to live in the other worlds that full of nature and beautifullnes not party or smt like that, but no one know and can understand about that. I'm so glad that i am "special" and blessed by god for how worth i am in this world and that's not a mental problem for my ages(im 16)
sorry my english is so bad bcs i'm still learning english.
It's probably not a mental problem, I'm like that too! And yeah, you're blessed! We are all different in our own ways, and it's ok to look at things on a deeper level. 💗😊
It's not a mental problems,
We tend to think about what we enjoy,
And we are the type that like harmonies and a place which have a more private places?
I can't say much because I just found out I am an infj like a few hours earlier.
So I am still learning :)
I am also 14 and I am happy to learn this earlier in life because I am trying to improve myself more
It's been 4 months since I started it :)
Omg, I feel the same way!
For ur questions, why did human created , u can study about Islam..
@@tinkerjourney5334 hello my fellow Islam brother
INFJs just sound perfect. Wish I could meet some! No one seems to understand me... But I always feel like I understand them, life can be unfair.
Just took the 16 personality test and I'm an advocate. This helps put alot of things in perspective for me.
Meaningful career...explains why I want to be attorney. I want to be the advocate for the powerless.
My 12 yo Daughter is a unicorn. She went to finals at invention convention in...5th grade.
She is in all honors classes, athletics, wants band....
She(y'all ISFJ'S)
ARE THE PEACE IN THE WORLD.
She and y'all are a blessing. I love you all. And the intuitiveness...
TRUST IT.
"no, don't do it if you have doubts" has saved her from many wrong turns. hope that helps. Jason enfj-t
im truly in awe, i am learning so much about myself after learning i am INFJ-T
Same got an INFJ-T result too, apparently we are quite rare!
I took the test and I’m INFJ apparently. It resembles me but I’m also very chatty. I love being with myself and I’m an introverted house mouse haha. But I’m very good in social situations with having meaningful conversations, but I hate small talk. I’m very chatty, very, but it’s usually because I am nervous when I’m talking to others, although I disguise it . I also can talk about a lot of things but it is pretty hard to get to know me on a personal level as I don’t like to show weakness or things like that unless I really trust that person.
I feel estranged to the world most times and I don’t like fake people or superficial people and conversations. They bore me.
I don’t know if I believe in these tests but this one does feel accurate sometimes
Omg, i would so like to add you to fb. But i have social phobia and am a single guy with no family or future at almost 39 y. of age.
I am a INFJ-A type, and nothing made more sense until I started studying and researching this stuff lol
Same and it makes me feel so much better. Like before I genuinely thought I had something wrong with me but learning about this just makes it all make so much sense
I'm an infj who literally had selective mutism. I am now more social and people always say i should be a therapist. I also hate being mean to people, this video is so accurate.😮
Shoot I didn't know my personality type was so rare; guess it wasn't just teen angst telling me there weren't people like me at school... Huh.
Yes I am. I love to reach out to my friends. But I only share with few people. I love to write and paint.
I’m an INFJ.... I didn’t understand myself for sooooo long but since I took the personality test, it’s good to know it’s information out there that helps people realize unlocked parts of themselves.
I tested to be an INFJ-T so now I'm researching it. Good video! "No, I do not have multiple personalities. Just one that's very, very complicated" - SPOT ON.
I'm an INFJ-T, and this perfectly describes me!
28 tests say I'm INFJ and yet.... I wouldn't describe myself as warm, calm, gentle, soothing or avoid confrontation. I also don't change myself depending on who I'm dealing with (no social chameleon or multiple persona's here). And this is exactly why I keep taking tests. I keep thinking I'm being mistyped.
Any other INFJ’s completely obsessed with learning and/or reading? I can’t stop learning a little bit of every single topic in existence. lol I would rather stay in and learn than go out with friends. 😐
This is me now for sure!
me, at home on a sunny day at 2pm, researching everything that crosses my mind, and taking notes LOL
I'm a INFJ and I'm misunderstood alot.
Thats trueee. My classmates always think that i don't like them just because im quiet around them. And they always asks me if im angry/mad beacause i don't smile that often.
@@paulenbombita8783 Yeah lol. I’ll keep my eyes open to look kinda happy but I am
*not* smiling 24/7. Lmao
I finally feel understood. I’ve always felt like I didn’t belong in this world, with society. That everything I did was different from everyone else.
Im Infj-t.... I cant stare at people eyes because i think all the powers i got cant be seen by them and always have neon sunglasses on to be covered and protected... Its extremely difficult 4 people to reach to me... Even my husband I still dont know how I got one..
you said this 'popular personality type' but it says its the rarest personality
I am trying so hard to debunk the facts that paint me in this personality spectrum.
I'm INFJ and work in IT.
I have a lot of video describing the infj personality. This one that highlighted it the best to me. I very thankful that someone too the time to make this video.
The career part is SO ACCURATE Omg
This is me. Everything apply to me. I am in college. I am pre med student. Pursing my career as doctor. I am so happy that my personality is so rarest of all.
I am an INFJ yes. I am awesome. Not many people can appreciate how deep i am. i operate on an extremely deep and meaningful level. makes life challenging but also so beautiful. I am driven to create a business to help poeple one on one.
adolf hitler was also an infj. when i took the test, three different times, got the same results. as an infj-a as well as an empath. it FINALLY put a title on my life as to why i am wire the way i am wired. thank you for these videos, videos like these, as well as the books written by Dr. Orloff as well as others. explains alot.
This kind of explains a lot, on the Myers-Briggs personality test, I score as an INFJ. I had no clue that this was rare, and it helps me in understanding why I’m so odd/unique
INFJ whos’s favorite author is emily bronte. Even though she only wrote one book, it resonates with me deeply.
Thank you for the video
I just thought everyone was like this
I am a proud INFJ! This isn't totally new to me, but it explains so much. BTW, I think you do a really great job of speaking, and carrying on when you stumble in your narration. I just started my youtube channel, and it is SO hard to just talk without saying "uh" or messing up. Nice video, thanks!
I chose healthcare as a career path, it always felt like a natural choice to me even as a kid, not a long time ago I took this test and discovered that I have this personality type, it describes me so well at first I got shivers
When your an INFJ and people say your way too sensitive…
They just don't understand...
Great description! Fittingly, I'm a social worker who's hobby is creative writing. :)
Love the list of well known INFJs. We're in good company!
As an INFJ I appreciate this video
I was designated this personality type in the test while studying...you guessed it...mental health Counselling lol. I feel like I have never had my essence described so accurately before. I suspect many INFJs are HSPs, at least that's been my personal experience with others of my type. It seems to help with that empathic connection
I learnt about MBTI & Enneagram when I was in medical school... 10+ years ago
I remember I loved and still love PORTISHEAD... since I was in high school
all the grudge in their lyrics
all the melancholy
all the nostalgia
my life was is will always be PORTISHEAD
the feelings of saudade grudge melancholy nostalgia
Also one of my favourite albums since I was 15. A 34 yo infj;)
The Comma is a useful tool in sentence structure.
This is weird, this is actually me. And I actually working in healthcare 😂😂
INFJs are not necessarily quiet. Since we are ambiverts. But yes we are reserved. In a way that we do not talk about our emotions and deep thoughts. We however, are very quick and open to sharing our opinions about other things and issues.
I've watched loads of videos about infjs and i can relate to all of them so i think i am an infj.. Im a perfectionist, im soooo compassionate that i feel the pain of people i don't even know. That can actually affect negatively it's not always good... Im soooo sensitive my heart is just like a bubble you know.... Im surely no doubt introverted... Im very deep and private i think too much like seriously too much my brain doesn't stop at all.. I have anxiety 😩... I can understand people pretty well ironically though they don't... Im pretty intuitive.. I am judgemental not to lie... I can read and know a person well just by his action... Sometimes i can sense something about someone or know what they are thinking about me or about anything... Im usually honest and sincere... Okay i know so many people they are close to me but i don't see them as friends so if i counted those whom im deeply connected with so i can call them friends they might be 1 or 2 🙁... Im in love with helping others i can sometimes even care for a person more than myself... I listen and listen, I can listen for a person talking for hours... Im so emotional very deep i get overwhelmed by beauty of nature and i can see things way differently
.. All this makes me feel like im a stranger 😩😭😟 in my own land... I don't think i need to take a test to know im an infj because i guess now im certain i am 🙁
I got INFJ on the test, but I have some doubts about the results, because evidently every INFJ has to post a comment about how insightful and unique they are.
This was so good, thank you!!
0:35 popular personality type? I thought it was the rarest hah
The word "popular" means well-liked and admired. That is not connected to how rare the type is or is not. I think you may be thinking of the word "populous" which means heavily populated or crowded. The words sound similar, but have different meanings. I hope that helps.
Sage ohhh okay I get it now. Right it does have few meanings ^^
It IS the rarest. He says that at the beginning of the video, then corrects himself a few minutes later. I thought the same thing when I first started watching and then he said rarest. Confusing.
I like how he repeats some of his lines again when he makes a mistake reading the guide. It makes the video feel more authentic. Haha
I feel like that one drug from "Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas".
(paraphrasing, of course)
"-funny thing is, you're aware of what you're doing, you just can't control it."
I just love my personality trait:intuition.
INFJ's also can be manipulative in 2 ways... The bad way to convince people to do stuff... And the way where we let you tell things about yourself... And we don't even realize it. The first one is less common btw
@@chopin7572 Yes. Lmao, I'm not an INFJ. I was mistyped
I'm ISFJ
INFJs are not manipulative in that way. They have a high sense of integrity. They may try to influence another if they feel a course of action is the right thing for the other person, but they will not do it for personal gain.
@@c.9231 Yeah I think you're right, so therefore my comment is useless
..i always feel im different and took the personality test and i got this result...
Yep. That’s me, through and through.
Hello, it’s me! Not many people can understand me.
Nice to meet you ☺️ I've that personality too
vimal tirkey 👋🏾❤️
Me to the dot, thank you for bring this out, in the past month I’ve come across many you tube vlogs, about this personality type I’ve now gained some peace
I resulted INFJ-T and since I like math, even if not the very advanced one, I'm shocked about how "i" is treated here... no no, not good, "i" is very cool...
lol
Galadriel from Lord of the rings... seriously??!!! Hahahaha does that mean I'm turning into an op dark elf when I'm upset as INFJ.
Just did the MBTI. My result is INFJ-A/INFJ-T ADVOCATE. Just here to find out more. Maybe this explains well why I look so strange in many people or I've never found a person who has same personality like me.
I feel you
Karel Sint Jago
I feel you both.
I agreed with every question and ended up here ..an advocate 😂😂
ive done the 16personalities test like 8 times, and i got advocate alot, mediator, and architect different times. what does this mean when i sometimes get different answers? im trying to answer them as honest as possible, but i wouldnt say i always look out to not hurt peoples feelings, and i wouldnt say im the most gentle person in the world, im young, so does this just mean my personality needs to develop more? someone please help o-o
Yes! You missed out the grandest of all INFJs, JESUS.
It's hard to see the differences between the INFJ and INFP personality types in what you say...
This is really true and i even like art and psychology....and like I can tell what ppl r feeling even with their small gestures and am always like can't they understand what the person is saying it's so clear...written on his face can't everyone else understand....and now I understood why only I am like this why no one understands me and why is like me...
That's me. Referring to initial statement.
One thing that I do is I’ll always think about ways where I could help people and in my head make up situations where I have to help people and then after we’ll get really close. It’s kinda like wishful thinking cuz I only have a few good friends and they all live 1-6 hours away from me
Yeah, I’m an INFP but i was like 4% off of getting the J. so i can kinda relate to these descriptions, one thing I notticed is that idk if i’m being paranoid or if the people around me were actually being genuine or not, thats something that confuses me a lot.
Watching these videos about me makes me feel not so alone. I'm glad i can be explained. And I'm being patient. I know if i become successful i can use my scusses to help the world.
You're not alone sweetie. We're here. Signed a fellow INFJ
:) thank you. The Number one thing people need right now is trust in a world built on lies. Being a positive example for people to reflect is all that i can ask for. You can in turn allways trust me. I have no friends Because i treat everyone with the same passion on a 1 to 1 basis.
This is my purpose i made for my self and i will stand by it until i die. Thanks again 💗
@@Zutang777 I keep the word friend kinda reserved too. But the way u said it sounds so lonely. I just want to pick you up and hug you 😢
I'm not alone externally. The world is filled with people 😁. I have mastered the perceptions of others and i can easily see beyond my own gratification. I don't need anything to be grateful. I make good choices that i konw the outcome of the Future. A type of Karma and influence.
@@Zutang777 but internally you yearn... you want to strive to be an ideal. You may hurt yourself because noone is perfect and you will fall short of your perception of the ideal. Externally gratification is good.. but now and again your soul, your mind requires a release.
Surprisingly I just found out I'm a INFJ
I want to become a psychologist before to try and understand people and make them feel accepted but I feel like people are afraid to approach a psychologist because they don't wanna get accused of being crazy or have mental illness so I didn't try persuing it.
I can see clearly non verbal communication while people to to be played by this type of communication, i just see through it and feel weird that they can't
When they are happy, do they want other people to be happy? Can they in the past be blind to others true intentions?
I did the test and got INFJ-T but i feel like it's not as rare as everyone thinks? Because mostly people who's in my circle exhibit the same intuition and approach to things the same way that i do
As an INFJ...i am curious as to why more people are curious about this type...than the INTP!
They are the MOST intriguing type I have EVER encountered irl. But hey...maybe that's just my infJness lol.
as an infj i felt my ears were aching when i listen...............don't forget we are HSP don't talk so loud and so fast ...............apart from that it's all true!!
I’m an INFJ, 31 years old attractive and handsome Taurus Mexican male, I wish I had more friends 😢
I just found out this was my personality type and it is me to a T!
This is me 💯 I literally say these things about myself all the time. It’s hard because I believe that anyone can do things if they put in 💯! Now, I do have perfectionist type but I also understand that not everyone is perfect. I also use logic but more or less from a understanding that is emotional.
"I'll share how you can effectively communicate with this popular personality type"
No no no my brother
lol!! 😂🤣
Sunshine bringers! x
Someone help me Idk if I'm an INFP, ENFP, INTP, ENTP, INTJ OR INFJ
absolutely true
Yeah, Jon Snow is def an infj
Love him!
Yeah 100% me
Welcome on board ;)
My brain is overactive! Is that part of being INFJ also? Or am I just crazy?
Was kind of confused about the description in the beggining with the "popular" adjective describing this personality. Can you expand on this?
Probably meant 'popular' in the sense that there are a lot of articles and videos based on the INFJ type due to the unusual behaviours that can correspond with it.
Is pilot good option for Infjs?
I love having alone time to recharge my batteries.
0:23 I dont care about my enemies like that, imagine the exact opposite on an infj-t and that's how I act to ppl I don't care about, if your an ally then welcome to my eden, if your a threat get ready for the apocalypse
*considering how being hellishly mean can effect ppl in different ways and still not caring* did you just kick a dog!? *pulls out my poison dart gun* run
Hey brothers and sisters,se are from same personality..haha like to see if we are rare or nah.😄
You also described me to a T.
I just took a a test and found out that I'm an INFJ
It seems that I have all characters of both INFJ and INTJ(except arrogance).So what is my actual personality type?
What is your dominant cognitive function?
What about car mechanics?
I’m an INFJ turned INFP. Anyone else?
One cannot simply turn because main cognitive functions are innate.