Khalid and Salama are DIVORCED? What Can We Learn & How To Divorce-Proof Your Marriage!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 เม.ย. 2024
- After reports of an alleged divorce between popular Muslim content creators Salama and Khalid, a lot of speculation and commentary has been made. BUT this is NOT what this video is about! Instead, I talk about what we as a community need to learn and how we should react to such news and what we individually can do to strengthen our marriage.
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So much amazing points , I was scared when I first clicked as the content around the simple speculation of these two Muslim couple has been so telling of how we really are affected by social media couples.
Exactly 💯.... I really don't understand people these days.... wallah I hate social media. Why be on there unless you got a business you're trying to promote? There are some things that should be left for private. Real life traumatic problems like divorce should be left to for experts to help people -- Not commentators or content creators. I even regret clicking on this video. Experts with years of higher education and consultation should give khutbahs about this... not content creators.
I think Muslim relationships should be kept private to themselves not on social media
Agreed
Yeah and not exposing beauty and expecting why are guys messaging me everday
@@Omar_-5
That’s not an excuse to harass someone. When you go out in public, do you harass a pretty woman whenever you see one? I would assume not. Have self control. Not a hard concept.
@@amatulfulani6390 excuse me,I don't know what you're thinking but where in the sentence I was harrasing someone
He was talking about Gheerah @@amatulfulani6390
NEVER put your private life online! (Evil eyes, jealous people, negative people, etc.) I never put my kids or my wife online i nany way shape or form! I don't even like using profile photos of myself.
Allahumma Barik....you are a good husband and father. May Allah bless your family,Ameen
I understand evil eye however, allah swt is greater than evil eye so their marriage just wasn’t gismet
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Very respectable - what we can learn, vs what we can gossip about. Huge respect to you!
Thank you for sharing this. Khalid and Salama are in my prayers and rather they share this information or not, I hope they both find healing 🙏
Hana, thank you for approaching this matter in this way.❤️❤️
Love you ❤
I love how you said marriage needs a vision and intentional effort to be put and investing in the marriage for it to be successful like anything else in life.
It’s really nobody business if they divorced or not
😊 yes in that the details and privacy of their divorce aren’t our business. It’s only our business insofar as their marriage shaped the values of our community and, by extension, so does their divorce. Instead of prying into their private lives, we should be having discussions on how our deen and our view of marriage is impacted when such news is shared (and more importantly, how to protect it and gain Allahs blessings through it).
@@alasryh good unswer my lovely sister, As alykm hope you are doing well,
Omg just made the same comment😊
Great video mashallah! To the people telling her to delete the video, she’s not speaking about them, but rather she’s still speaking about how marriages have become publicized and how we can protect ourselves. There’s a different between backbiting and learning from our mistakes!
JAK! I love that my audience is so vigilant about backbiting. But, I wish they also knew the quran says "in some assumption is sin" ie. watch the video BEFORE assuming it's talking about them! They're missing out on the best part of the video (aka the Quranic system for a blessed marriage)!
I felt this divorce was coming. I stopped watching their videos months ago due to feeling that their “jokes” to one another are often disrespectful to one another. I made a comment on one of their videos addressed to khalid saying “please don’t disrespect your wife for the sake of making a joke or trying to entertain us”. I could see the jokes were going wayyy too far and sorry to say I’m not subscribed to them anymore.
So true. When they started making jokes dissing each other, it felt so disrespectful to me
This! I didn’t find it funny at all. Distasteful humor!
Of course I thought I was the only one who felt like that. The jokes were so disrespectful and humiliating and I can see that from their eyes, sometimes they really mean it.
Shukraan for your good videos sister as a 35 year old man finally thinking of taking my deen to the next step and getting married, I whole heartedly appreciate your content.
Where r u from
@@Treats15 South Africa
The marriage and divorce of our brothers and sisters shouldn’t be discussed yes they were popular but it feels wrong as discussing this may Allah swt guide us
The ppl show everything on social media should be discussed so others may learn from their mistakes .
MashAllah Sister! I am very impressed by your generosity. This is the first time I came across your content. Your beauty glows and I agree with what you’ve shared 💯. May Allah reward you for guiding all! Continue the great work and you definitely have my support ❤️
Alhamdulilah, I am so grateful that I found your channel, you are really wise and the way you present your point is so simple and humble, also easy to understand and digest, mashaAllah. Binging your videos right now, may Allah SWT reward you!
JAK dear! Happy to have you here!
Very interesting and informative video
Mashallah very eloquently put. May Allah increase u in goodness sis.
Ameen!
Bro what.. i dont follow them but sometimes they appear in shorts or reels, rarely.. but this news is the last thing i would ever think of or expecting to happen 🤯
I loved their content ❤
There has been absolutely no talk that they have divorced. This is speculation only from a podcast that Salaama did talking about her childhood trauma. Salaama opened her own beauty business and became too busy to continue with the skits. Khalid went on to to vlogs. Both are still putting up videos of each other and their kids on their channels from time to time
Salam aleykom Hana, can you make more videos about the topic nikah/islamic wedding 🩷🤲🏽✨
Your message is true.
I wish them both the best May Allah guide them, and provide ease Ameen . I can’t imagine what divorce feels like, but I do know what a fallout with friends feel like and its heartbreaking. Makes me want to protect my private life even more.
Thanks for making this video Hana, I love how eloquently you speak and put everything into words! Love all your videos. May Allah bless you in this life and the hereafter!
JAK & ameen sweetheart! Same to you!
This was a very goof video. Have seen oyher videos abouy K and S and they were so inappropriate. Thank you for pointing that out and pivoting to a productive discussion.
Jazakallah Khair. ❤
Wa iyakum! Thanks for the respectful comment 🙏🏽
You are so right when you said that every successful person didn't get success by accident. It was via a series of intentional efforts/actions.
Even outside the context of marriage, this is 100% true!
Yes! Intention is HUGE SubhanAllah
Social media is becoming poison
Why are you guys surprised so what in Islam divorce is acceptable you guys need to learn Islam the definition of it study it the facts people divorce remarry all the time it's normal and it is Allah's will you cannot ever escape Allah's will you should know this!
I am very shocked 😮😮😮😢😢😢
It is always sad that people divorce, but the children are always forgotten, they are the victims.🤲
I tried listening to your video, but it was too much fast forward that I was unable to keep it going.If you can reduce the speed a bit, it would be amazing.thanks.
Salam! I talk fast so it’s hard to slow down, but there is a way too slow down the video! If you click the little gear ⚙️ icon, it shows an option called “playback speed” then you can slow it down ❤️
Its nothing to do with their religion or culture, who knows why they are divorced, if divorced even, BOTH are beautiful people and it's their private life and noones business, though sad
Beware of the evil eye. Its real man 🙌
Can I ask you a question in private it's about my personal life?
Edy. Mbarack. Salama. ❤. Love. You❤
That's so sad.
No I don’t think it was scripted… it was just difficult for them in real life, life is not easy. It is sad but sometimes it happened, don’t say it is delusional. I think both of them were not being themselves, . I did feel the difference which others didn’t see.. but what to do it’s life.
I know you’ll delete my comment. But here we go.
Inviting the world to your house will certainly destroy your marriage and life.
To Muslims that still follow Deen: Prophet’s Mohammed wives did not share their daily activities with the world.
Marrying TikTok women is a HUGE gamble and costly.
I don’t delete comments also they contain sin or are intended to be rude/insulting. You’re ok.
Men and women have different roles here in this world. They are not equal, only equal in the eyes of Allah. Women is supposed to be submissive to her husband.
I kinda saw it coming. They both changed after they became more successful 🤷♀️. Salama is not the same woman and Khalid seems very different than he was at first. ☹️
There was not a talk and update about divorce or relationship from either side, so I’d like to reserve my judgment. Their lack of interaction and lack of content together on social media leads me to think they have separated ways however this is just my hypothesis and not fact.
Also thank you for the video. I like listening to you. You’ve got good things to say!
They were not compatible. Salama is a stubborn earthy person while Khalid is a fiery, spontaneous and passionate guy.
None of them confirmed it
Have they officially confirmed they got divorced or is this just gossip?
I thought I've seen a most recent video of them.
This couple is clear cut example of Difference between social media vs reality.
No they are not just because someone is coming on social media that does not mean they are perfect… it is life and marriages can be like that… life is like that.
@@self-sufficient9315You just proved the point of the commentator but ok.
Such couples owe their audience an explanation. They put their whole life on social media, if they divorced they have to announce it.
So sad to hear this 😞
From the beginning, I noticed the difference between them on camera, she didn’t really like him like that
Please kindly pin this comment as Salama and Khalid are not divorced and we have a duty to not spread misinformation. May Allah bless their marriage and protect them from evil eye.
Have they confirmed their divorce?
No not that I know of…it’s speculation!
Maybe Salamah thinks the grass in greener on the other side. BTW is it true that 70% of divorces are initiated by women?
I'm curious, why do you guys care about their divorce? Its ramadan. We got important things to worry about and NO, they were NOT couple goals. What you see on social media is not always real life.
It's normal in their culture. Marriage and divorce.
I have never heard anything about Muslims getting divorced how is that possible?
Muslims do get divorced. It’s not ideal, but it definitely happens.
They love to much duna. They should pray more and practice there islam.
I have always idealized this couple .I wish it's not true😢
Marriage is the most fragile relationship as it's not linked by blood. If anyone is blessed in a good marital relationship then protect it. Don't advertise it to make money. Envy, Jelousy and Evil Eye is real. Why invite it through over exposure of the relationship? If anyone has helpful individual experiances or useful practical skills for example in art or finances then use that to create social media content. Atleast you're parting with beneficial knowledge that could help others to better themselves. Parting with current relationship experiences and knowledge is always risky. Never know when someone might hate the relationship advise or example. If someone hates a person's financial advise then fine, just ignore, nothing personal. However, marital relationships are personal so better to keep it private and away from the limelight. I think.
I truly believe that in many Muslim relationships (or Muslim communities in general) greed is becoming more and more common. People claim to be religious, taking Ramadan very seriously but then become more greedy. In my opinion Allah wants us to be humble and not being proud of whatever, but people these days are proud of being successful, proud of their looks, proud of what they accomplished. Instead of being humble they are reckless, greedy and too proud of material things. Let’s slow down. Let us turn back to what really matters: being kind, not being selfish. Being empathetic, not rude. Being loving, not trying to be loved by strangers. Being faithful (to our loved ones, family and God), not cheating ourselves and others while being so egoistic. Learning again how much we were given by God and not destroying his gives (we are killing our environment, Mother Earth was given us by Allah and he trusted us to treat his gift kindly). Even in the Muslim community people become more and more selfish while claiming we are better than the rest. We are not. We are doing the same mistakes as everyone else. I pray that one day we will understand. And I pray that it won’t be too late 😔.
Wow, you spoke my mind 💯
People are mad!!! Dont suspect!
As Influencers/Content-Creators, their marriage was/is also a "business" relationship.
Them being married and showing their "lifes" is what's curating their livelihood.
The interesting and scary thing is (as you mentioned) that many fans of influencer-couples/families do not realize that those people and their life's are not "real".
They are nothing more than a company creating entertainment for a specific audience.
It's cold saying that, but them (allegedly) divorcing is to me the same as a TV show being canceled.
Those two will be fine (financiall). And their fans will soon find a new couple to follow and obsess over.
I hope it’s not true
Nooooooooo why did they divorce 😭 I mean they are sweeetttt together
Why don't you mind your business and focus on yourself and your life why do you messy gossipy people care about other couples relationships your business should be yourself and your life
Salam all! Be sure to watch the entire video! It contains a lot of value for the general Muslim!
We can and should take lessons from big cultural events in our community without entering the dangerous territory of backbiting or speculating ✨
They are not divorced
I'm still in disbelief. If this is true, it's pretty shocking. I thought they had a generally good marriage since they practice Islam. I hope all will be well with them, but it will be devastating for their kids. I hope those boys receive good therapy. I guess it was really bad behind the scenes since divorce is the very last resort.
What to do if none of this exists? Even after years? Even after kids? Should one keep on trying or should one just accept? Should one leave years of investment behind and try to save oneself from more pain? It's so confusing? I pray and pray for guidance and feel I have lost capability to understand the guidance? Or is it one very long test?
Istikhara, seek wise counsel from good people, scholars. Many marriages have been rebuilt from the ground up sA. There are marriage coaches who are really helpful for these things. And may Allah make it easy.
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Its not 100%, confirmed divorce.all she said is change the people (person) this could her friend circle. The Internet is carzy nowadays, what did you not realise? Women they are content creators this is their full time job 😅lol
she seemed flustrated to me on each video if i might be honest
What u guys are doing is not islamic n not sunnah
Social media couples are so fake 😭
Keep your relationship private.... stop allowing negative energy and outsiders into your relationship
So what this normal 4them..what is the big deal normal....divorce, talla...so what normal 4muslim why so much bla bla bla
Too much exposure on socmed will lead to jealousy, fitnah and more. Keep it low 😊
When you broadcast your life on social media , what will you expect. Those stupid people. Every couple who broadcast their relashioship online are fake mariage ! I am speaking with 100%. A respectfull couple that love each other will never waste their time for like and comments but do everyrhing in private for their religion and their children. I happy that they are divorse, hope that will teach a leçon to others. Masha Allah
Whoa. What you just did in this comment is a major sin. 1) you should never be happy for someone’s misfortune, even if you don’t like their decision, lest Allah turns and tests you with the same thing. 2) it is never halal to insult a Muslim publicly in the way you just did, that is backbiting. 3) And you also slandered by making a claim without proof which is one of the major sins. How do you call anyone’s marriage fake? Even if you don’t like their posting. I’m very disappointed in such a comment, if you express concern about the religion, then remember our prophet said “I fear for you this” and he grabbed his tongue. Our words, we sin with them without even realizing especially when we are angry. Do not be proud, Allah shields our mistakes from others, but others’ hardships are for us to learn from, not rejoice in. AstughfirAllah.
@@alasryh woww ma'am how gracefully you corrected him ❤. I don't have words to appreciate you. Hope allah grant me with such kindness. Allah bless you 🤲🤲🤲
You are 1000 % right all this is fake money chasers
Never respected her husband. Reacted to one of their videos calling them out on the roasting eachother.
Lost all respect for them as soon as I saw the roasting each other. Both very disrespectful of each other.
Goodluck to them on their single journey.
THIS ALWAYS HAPPENS!! When you let your wife constantly post on social media, it starts to inflate her ego and she also gets attention from other men. When the husband confronts her regarding this, she'll start saying things like: "you're being abusive, oppressive, traumatizing...", and then leads to divorce. This is why Islam says dont do "tabarrug" for women (EVEN IF you're dressed "modestly"), but modern feminism is getting in the way and leading to divorce. WOMEN STOP POSTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA