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  • The decision to opt for home caregiving for a loved one with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia can take a toll on the caregiver. While each situation may be unique, patience, compassion, and a community can make the journey worthwhile.
    Produced by Amin Muhammed and Cecil Egbele, Homebound takes us on a ride into the lives of the Salingers.

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  • @dsalnorcal1434
    @dsalnorcal1434 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    you guys magically captured the essence of our Journey.....thanks for such a beautiful piece

    • @TheCecil3333
      @TheCecil3333  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Thanks for opening your home to Amin and I. We wouldn't have achieved this much with you, Danielle, and of course, Dr Ed.

  • @jankolomalu5851
    @jankolomalu5851 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    In Hawaii, we expect that we will care for our elderly parents, blood related aunties and/or uncles and special need siblings. It is our culture, part of what makes Hawai special and sets us apart from the rest of our country.

  • @swhite9086
    @swhite9086 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    God bless all of you. Special blessings to Ed. Very beautiful family. Continue the love ❤️ that’s what all that matters. Amen 🙏

  • @Dyannamaree1
    @Dyannamaree1 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think you guys are awesome. Very loving to that lovely man. Pop is hilarious at times.
    Thank you for setting this example to the world.
    We all love your family.

  • @faithclifford5893
    @faithclifford5893 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    What a son...it just brings me to tears. You guys did it! It's so hard...I failed my mom. I just could not do it all. I will always regret not trying harder. Did the best I could for awhile. Then I watch you and Danielle. You have my utmost respect.

    • @bcatblues725
      @bcatblues725 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Not everybody can do this. Not everyone set up financially or with aid to do something like this. Please don’t have regrets you did the best you could do.

  • @sandystevens7046
    @sandystevens7046 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Your helping so many

  • @sherrib422
    @sherrib422 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    really beautiful how hard this family tries to make it nice for their dad. I'm really touched & impressed. The Dad seems like he must have been a very kind man.

  • @dianafowler791
    @dianafowler791 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Danielle your doing a fantastic job with Grandpa.You and Dan are AWESOME. The Best.❤😊

  • @32000voisine
    @32000voisine 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are both doing a fabulous job with Ed. You care enough to keep him with you until you can't. He would already be gone if he was in a facility. I have seen that kind of decline. God bless you all!

  • @lindapouncey8234
    @lindapouncey8234 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your family is so exceptional! I commend you for your patience and care!

  • @wendybagley5963
    @wendybagley5963 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wish my mom did this good we stayed in denial then had to accept my moms biggest fears were nursing home and dementia. She got to stay home had a live in caretaker after a couple years. Worst she forgot us never my dad she passed at 92 day before she past she said goodbye sweetie so she knew me for a minute. I love how you all pitch in and he’s really blessed to have all of you and he never forgets Danielle I’m always amazed he sure loves you❤

  • @sandystevens7046
    @sandystevens7046 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for explaining this for people

  • @darlapremeaux7006
    @darlapremeaux7006 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Hey Danielle and Dan and Ed hope yall have a great day today love ❤️ yall

  • @cleonard2977
    @cleonard2977 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    God bless ya'll for taking care of Granpa.You are both wonderful and loving even through this very difficult trial. God will use this to help others,for His glory. Love hugs ,prayers. CeCe ❤❤❤🙏

  • @stephenr115
    @stephenr115 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good stuff! So much more than you had time for as Dan and Danielle have shown yes it is possible to help a family member through their journey. Good job producing this piece

  • @sandystevens7046
    @sandystevens7046 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Not everyone can do what your doing.So glad Ed has such a great life

  • @user-bo8ez1qd6t
    @user-bo8ez1qd6t หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Every household is different, every person is different. You have to find what works for you. That doesn't mean you can't try new things but it does mean you don't have to listen to criticism from someone that isn't living in your household. My journey caring for my mother was very different than yours. You are doing the best you can in a very hard situation and you are doing a great job.

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      one hundred percent....each person is different...each day, month and year are different....it takes adjustment and modification on an ongoing basis....you do the best you can ...im so sorry for your loss...

    • @user-mc8di2ch9d
      @user-mc8di2ch9d 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It would be nice to take him somewhere far, far secluded...and let him drive.

    • @breezycovergirl
      @breezycovergirl 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      People don't realize how hard it is to be a caregiver. If you post what you are doing it is always open to criticism
      by people that don't understand.

  • @almorris0424
    @almorris0424 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thank you for shedding light on the caregiver and for showcasing this amazing family. I also was the caregiver for my Dad who passed away from Lewy Body Dementia. It was the hardest job I ever had to do but it was also rewarding because we were able to keep him out of a hospital during his final weeks. ❤

  • @ianlewis2813
    @ianlewis2813 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Just an amazing family, God bless you all.👍🇬🇧

  • @loribecchi8819
    @loribecchi8819 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The more time you spend with someone with dementia, the harder it is..if you make brief visits, it's ok but live with them..whole different story. You guys have a LOT of patience!

  • @jenniferquackenbush7458
    @jenniferquackenbush7458 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Cecil, Grandpa totally was crushing on you in Dan’s video of him tying your shoe. So sweet! I love this short documentary. They are an amazing family. 🫶

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      yes he was...every day she was there ... it was the cutest thing

  • @percheronlove888
    @percheronlove888 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It is the hardest act of love and care I have ever done.
    Bless you Family.
    Bellavalerie

  • @RH-jd3ft
    @RH-jd3ft 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It really takes the whole family to help out. Not everyone has that support.You will cherish these videos. Miss my Pop every day,he was sweet like Ed ❤

  • @terid2401
    @terid2401 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The students did an excellent job with the video...real life diplayed!

  • @elainerobertson7329
    @elainerobertson7329 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hardest thing I ever did for 12 years. It was solely on me. Three times I took my mom to stay with my sister. It was a brief reprieve. The repeating is a killer...it is so stressful you wouldnt believe it. I never lost my patience

  • @tormapea1987
    @tormapea1987 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You both are such wonderful people your love shows. Danielle you are such a beautiful wife a kind wonderful loving person. Dan we are dealing with a similar situation and thanks for sharing. What a good man you are to help your dad and not send him into a home.You dad is soo sweet love him.

  • @jackieday5845
    @jackieday5845 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Absolutely heartwarming!!! Brought me to tears! America’s favorite family! Love you all to the moon!💜💜💜XoXo

  • @user-lk4pn9cy6v
    @user-lk4pn9cy6v วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love and prayers for you all. You do great with him. I remember the first few times my mom didn't recognize me. It hurt me really bad. It's a terrible feeling I think.

  • @elainerobertson7329
    @elainerobertson7329 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My husband was so good to my mother just like Danielle is to your Dad. Sometimes, its a thankless task.

  • @ritahemmerly4224
    @ritahemmerly4224 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I think these videos will be a blessing for you when he's no longer here. I wish I could be doing this for my mom, she is a very different person than your dad so memory care is best for her. Most people don't realise its not just a loss of memories. Your whole life gets turned upside down when this happens. I can't count how often I was told be the bigger man and I just can't anymore. Good to see you can,God bless!

  • @paulastafford1642
    @paulastafford1642 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This was good. You guys should make a documentary on "Ed" aka Dr. Salinger and dementia. Danielle's video this morning and this video is a great foundation to start. It's time.

  • @user-kv4ig2bx6e
    @user-kv4ig2bx6e 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Y'all do great with him keep being normal

  • @janblack4021
    @janblack4021 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Prayers for you Danielle and Dan as you take care of Ed.

  • @user-cm6ko7tp1l
    @user-cm6ko7tp1l วันที่ผ่านมา

    Definitely need respite care. I tried to put myself in my mom's place raising us and all the ignorant stuff we pulled that she had to endure. It's a hard job.

  • @clairephillips4688
    @clairephillips4688 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Power to you.

  • @jenni48.32
    @jenni48.32 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's wonderful to be present with your father with your family.There is nothing more precious in the world.Yes there are the good and bad days that rip you to the bone but the outcome is seeing and holding onto a father that you love.As carers understand the ins and outs of every part of the person they care for.Its mind blowing to say the least but when small moments of responsive joy come it's a fantastic feeling and makes one realize how fortunate we all are to live the present day.God bless you all and thank you all for sharing family life to all people's in the persistence to live life for the good.🤗💛🍀

  • @rolandraaijmakers3699
    @rolandraaijmakers3699 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing! Respect for the love, patience and kindness shown by this family to their dad.

  • @arlene9405
    @arlene9405 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    ❤see pops getting really bad now.❤

  • @LindaFoyle
    @LindaFoyle 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bless you all, I understand this is tough❤

  • @user-xk2ig4tc3f
    @user-xk2ig4tc3f 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wonder if its wrong to ask Pop to tell us about his childhood and why he became a doctor. He has a lot to teach us.

  • @gloriaford2221
    @gloriaford2221 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Danielle, I know it's f***ing hard but you will be very happy you did it....trust me.

  • @vesnatofilovski6504
    @vesnatofilovski6504 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Диван и син и отац!

  • @Ginseng14
    @Ginseng14 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You guys rocked it! I love the Salinger’s journey and showing the world what humility is. ❤

  • @JoyceCalvillo
    @JoyceCalvillo 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful film. Thank you so much for all that you do. Faithful fan

  • @lornazancai8910
    @lornazancai8910 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I loved that video ..one of the best

  • @aking1914
    @aking1914 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    @Dan: It takes having a woman like DANIELLE, who not only loves her man, put also embraced Dan's parents & siblings as "kin". Few wives would never consider what Danielle is doing. DANIELLE, you have raised the bar for other women to emulate! If only the women realized how much MORE their men will love them, when they see their wives do such a selfless act as loving their parent! 💞

    • @2make1
      @2make1 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I totally agree, Danielle is doing more than many others ever would, including those who get pleasure out of insulting her.I hope Dan appreciates what she is doing, he doesn't always seem to,Ed always seems to remember her.

  • @candace289
    @candace289 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    They don’t have him every day Mark has him half the time

    • @amandalee2457
      @amandalee2457 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Ed strays with Dan and Danielle full time now.

  • @dawnmulvaney6949
    @dawnmulvaney6949 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you guys are doing great. your doing a fantastic job 👏 xx

  • @kiaiow
    @kiaiow 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing I hear ya not that my mother is anywhere near your dads stage yet but it is very hard and I thank you again ❤

  • @kelseyjowest9974
    @kelseyjowest9974 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God bless you guys. I took care of my mom as long as I could but the system isn’t set up for a single person to be able to afford it

  • @jenniferquackenbush7458
    @jenniferquackenbush7458 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had to take a double take at Dan & Danielle’s wedding photo. Dan & Ed look exactly alike at that age! 🫶

  • @thatcatboab
    @thatcatboab 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Poor soul 💔x

  • @GalaxyTheSnailTurd
    @GalaxyTheSnailTurd 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dan is a wonderful son❤never complains. Love to grampa ❤

  • @noahlegendjames2569
    @noahlegendjames2569 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just love Grandpa Ed❤️

  • @mariadejesusabigail
    @mariadejesusabigail 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank yoi cecil nice video ❤

  • @chelsealaine2550
    @chelsealaine2550 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nice job❤

  • @annhutcheson5770
    @annhutcheson5770 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Did the Salinger Family give Cecil Egbele permission to repost their content? Lets find out.

    • @Amy-oj6lu
      @Amy-oj6lu 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Yes!!! This is part of a documentary that was done by the Cecile on the Salinger Family with Dan, Danielle, and Ed. If you look up Dan's Channel there in their home video's from when she was there.

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      absolutely....they had permission for everything....

  • @karinadiaz6467
    @karinadiaz6467 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Salinger Family ❤❤❤

  • @KathyMarcum-sn1bw
    @KathyMarcum-sn1bw 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good job

  • @estelleduplessis2900
    @estelleduplessis2900 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What type of dementia does your dad have?

  • @sharonbrewster3986
    @sharonbrewster3986 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Where's his glasses?

  • @user-pp9yc7ke2z
    @user-pp9yc7ke2z 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry l see now that it wasn't stealing.

  • @user-pp9yc7ke2z
    @user-pp9yc7ke2z 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why r u posting other peoples content?

  • @Beautifulday2320
    @Beautifulday2320 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Put the camera away. It will help.

  • @user-cw1cp6sd9k
    @user-cw1cp6sd9k 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Why you cussing at him

    • @Ginseng14
      @Ginseng14 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Age doesn’t define the relationship with your children of how you speak or converse with them. That panic was a son concerned about his father trying to operate a vehicle at his age.

    • @trixiegirlism
      @trixiegirlism 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Ginseng14 There are many seniors in their 90s that still drive and safely. The difference is that Ed has dementia. Not all 90 yr olds have dementia.

    • @Ginseng14
      @Ginseng14 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@trixiegirlism
      Omg… you are from TT, huh? 🤣
      Lady, you are like one month late. ⏰

    • @2make1
      @2make1 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Dan has explained that video(car) was at the start of this journey when he himself had no real idea what he had taken on or how to deal with it.

  • @neale.kaufman5168
    @neale.kaufman5168 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why don't you shave Ed's head he looks better with buzz cut..

  • @tans6207
    @tans6207 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Guys you can’t do any better than you are doing. 🇦🇺🦘 Love and best wishes from Aus