Great video. Takes courage to be as honest like that publicly and I admire and respect you for that👍. I started typing a long winded response but deleted it, I am now conscious though of trying to create more "ME" time, also want two foreign holidays per year but that creates the vicious circle. WTF??? Hope things get better for you. You're one of the good guys👍
Hope things improve for you mate, totally agree with you with things building up and workload getting on top of you etc. It's easy to say life is short enjoy every day but in reality its hard. I'm in a low place currently and trying to get out of it, funny how we put on a performance around people tho to cover it. Take care mate👍
Yes spot on Nathan agree mate. I hope you manage to bring some normality back .Running a business keeping everyone happy is hard sometimes we forget a out ourselves and it's important not to get to drawn into work and all that goes with it .A ballance is required and that's hard to maintain .You do it with out realising aswell so it's important to no when you've plunged in to far it's really hard .I wish you well mate nees a chat give me a ring 👍🙌
No you hit the nail on head mate i been there had few bad years not long ago its so easy for people to say get on with it but hard to snap out of it but people need to start talking to each other more than using phones ect no one more talks anymore all bou emails and stuff just talk on phone or to face tell you from my experience panic attacks and anxiety is real there horrible i was walking for hours a day even know i was so tired and couldn't sleep or lay down send my love to you all and am a very outgoing person to
Danny I think the world is to fast to demanding really. Ive visited other countries that are way more reserved than ours .phones email Internet chat sites all diminish the things we are .I understand mate and I wish you and family awra best mate 👍
Good wise words Justin mate. My stress and mental health is normally from how well work is going ! Had a stressful job recently, but managed to get through it, have an amazing wife who supports me and very lucky in that respect. Good days and bad days mate, awesome that you’re now a grandad ! Can’t wait to be one myself one day !
Definitely the work that causes a lot of the stress Mark .Good you have a nice wife like me .yep being a grandfather is amazing baby is amazing. Thanks Mark and take care mate 👍
Hitting the nail on the head again there Justin. We do live in a fast, materialistic world which sometimes seems to be getting away from our control. And I think in a lot of cases that's the issue right there - we get ourselves into situations that we can't control, and then panic is just an accident waiting to happen. And as for answering the phone to potential customers, my fall-back response to job requests would be along the lines of - "I'd love to able to do that for you Mrs Smith, but unfortunately I can't, well, not for several months anyway. However, what I can do is....." and normal customers would accept that. And, you have something on your side that helps enormously in those situations - your reputation of quality work, delivered as it should be, to the best possible standard. And your potential customers will wait for you because they trust your work. Keep smiling my man, best wishes to you and your growing family, keep safe.
Grandad nice one mate .thats definitely something to look forward too .yere plenty off stress with family my god though it would be easier when my kids hit there teens its bloody twice as had lol .this think this weather is getting every one down this year.so bloody hard to earn and pay the bills this year with this crap
Mark being a bampy is brilliant mate baby is lush.yea the weather since October has been shit hasn't it mate your spot on with that totally agree. Teenagers are a nightmare mate 🤣🤣👍
Great honest helpful vlog there Justin. First congratulations on joining the grandparent club 🙌🏽. 2 nd I hope things are improving for you. Third I can relate to everything you said . I’m really struggling lately my core issue is my never ending hip saga , it’s really making me miserable which affects the rest of my family. Fortunately they are there for me and help me out so much. I have real trouble concentrating and have severe brain fog so I procrastinate which means nothing gets done. We’ve had a few days away in Yorkshire in a caravan which was a real tonic , just a bit of editing . Enjoyed it so much me and Chris are going away again next month for our 30 th anniversary. Can’t wait 😍😍🧱👍🏼
It happens to all of us we all make videos and wack it on TH-cam but nobody talks about what's real in work and at home . Work and customers and constantly getting things right puts a huge toll on us because we care Steve .Then normal life things happen as well .At some point we all reach overload and it's how we deal with that that defines our mental well being. Take a step out when things get tough and talk about it that's what us men struggle with we just pod along and that's not right is it mate . My grandson is lovely we love him to bits as you do with your granddaughter mate. Enjoy the 30th anniversary definitely something to look forward to mate .Just got to keep on at em for the hip nhs is under so much pressure. Said before ever need a chat steve with someone very similar to you and your business just give me a ring anytime mate 👍 ♥️🙌
If you could only charge for your thinking time pal. If you are anything like me you'll do a job in your head a few times before you even start. It's exhausting sometimes which impacts the rest of your life.
Great video. Takes courage to be as honest like that publicly and I admire and respect you for that👍.
I started typing a long winded response but deleted it, I am now conscious though of trying to create more "ME" time, also want two foreign holidays per year but that creates the vicious circle. WTF??? Hope things get better for you. You're one of the good guys👍
Thanks JC appreciate that mate .I try to have a few hols a year gives you something to look forward to we all need that .
Take care JC cheers mate 👍
Hope things improve for you mate, totally agree with you with things building up and workload getting on top of you etc. It's easy to say life is short enjoy every day but in reality its hard. I'm in a low place currently and trying to get out of it, funny how we put on a performance around people tho to cover it. Take care mate👍
Yes spot on Nathan agree mate.
I hope you manage to bring some normality back .Running a business keeping everyone happy is hard sometimes we forget a out ourselves and it's important not to get to drawn into work and all that goes with it .A ballance is required and that's hard to maintain .You do it with out realising aswell so it's important to no when you've plunged in to far it's really hard .I wish you well mate nees a chat give me a ring 👍🙌
@@brickrightbuildinglandscaping thanks mate, taking a week off in a few weeks so I'm sure that'll help. Take care
@LewisgardenservicesLtd
Refresh turn the phone off don't talk shop and enjoy the break has to be done Nathan .Wish you well mate 👌
No you hit the nail on head mate i been there had few bad years not long ago its so easy for people to say get on with it but hard to snap out of it but people need to start talking to each other more than using phones ect no one more talks anymore all bou emails and stuff just talk on phone or to face tell you from my experience panic attacks and anxiety is real there horrible i was walking for hours a day even know i was so tired and couldn't sleep or lay down send my love to you all and am a very outgoing person to
Danny I think the world is to fast to demanding really. Ive visited other countries that are way more reserved than ours .phones email Internet chat sites all diminish the things we are .I understand mate and I wish you and family awra best mate 👍
@@brickrightbuildinglandscaping yep mate thanks good family day yesterday has it was my little girl christening
Nice love stuff like that 👌
@@brickrightbuildinglandscaping 👍yep mate lovely day all the best have a good week pal
@dannyhogi4953
Same to you danny 👍
Thank you for sharing Justin, really enjoyed and learnt from this because you are a fine example of a hard working family fella.
Thanks dwayne 👍
Making the first call is a step in the right direction. Admitting you need support.
Spot on sue cx
Good wise words Justin mate. My stress and mental health is normally from how well work is going ! Had a stressful job recently, but managed to get through it, have an amazing wife who supports me and very lucky in that respect. Good days and bad days mate, awesome that you’re now a grandad ! Can’t wait to be one myself one day !
Definitely the work that causes a lot of the stress Mark .Good you have a nice wife like me .yep being a grandfather is amazing baby is amazing.
Thanks Mark and take care mate 👍
Hitting the nail on the head again there Justin. We do live in a fast, materialistic world which sometimes seems to be getting away from our control. And I think in a lot of cases that's the issue right there - we get ourselves into situations that we can't control, and then panic is just an accident waiting to happen. And as for answering the phone to potential customers, my fall-back response to job requests would be along the lines of - "I'd love to able to do that for you Mrs Smith, but unfortunately I can't, well, not for several months anyway. However, what I can do is....." and normal customers would accept that. And, you have something on your side that helps enormously in those situations - your reputation of quality work, delivered as it should be, to the best possible standard. And your potential customers will wait for you because they trust your work. Keep smiling my man, best wishes to you and your growing family, keep safe.
Hi Dave
Hope you are well mate.some sound advice there mate appreciate it take care dave mate 👍
Congratulations on the new member of your family
Yea he's lush im blessed to be honest thanks very much 👍
Completely with you with all that mate 💯
Relates to all us men Richard doesn't it 👍
Grandad nice one mate .thats definitely something to look forward too .yere plenty off stress with family my god though it would be easier when my kids hit there teens its bloody twice as had lol .this think this weather is getting every one down this year.so bloody hard to earn and pay the bills this year with this crap
Mark being a bampy is brilliant mate baby is lush.yea the weather since October has been shit hasn't it mate your spot on with that totally agree. Teenagers are a nightmare mate 🤣🤣👍
@@brickrightbuildinglandscaping 😂.👍👍👍
Great honest helpful vlog there Justin. First congratulations on joining the grandparent club 🙌🏽. 2 nd I hope things are improving for you.
Third I can relate to everything you said . I’m really struggling lately my core issue is my never ending hip saga , it’s really making me miserable which affects the rest of my family. Fortunately they are there for me and help me out so much.
I have real trouble concentrating and have severe brain fog so I procrastinate which means nothing gets done.
We’ve had a few days away in Yorkshire in a caravan which was a real tonic , just a bit of editing .
Enjoyed it so much me and Chris are going away again next month for our 30 th anniversary. Can’t wait 😍😍🧱👍🏼
It happens to all of us we all make videos and wack it on TH-cam but nobody talks about what's real in work and at home .
Work and customers and constantly getting things right puts a huge toll on us because we care Steve .Then normal life things happen as well .At some point we all reach overload and it's how we deal with that that defines our mental well being.
Take a step out when things get tough and talk about it that's what us men struggle with we just pod along and that's not right is it mate .
My grandson is lovely we love him to bits as you do with your granddaughter mate.
Enjoy the 30th anniversary definitely something to look forward to mate .Just got to keep on at em for the hip nhs is under so much pressure. Said before ever need a chat steve with someone very similar to you and your business just give me a ring anytime mate 👍 ♥️🙌
If you could only charge for your thinking time pal. If you are anything like me you'll do a job in your head a few times before you even start.
It's exhausting sometimes which impacts the rest of your life.
Spot on Tony even stops you sleeping can't get it out your head 👍
Staying Safe website for suicidal thoughts.
Appreciate you sharing 🙌xx
I can’t be assed talking to people everyday
Try it hopefully it can help 👍🙌
Nah I do mate haha I’d just prefer not to
@dragginmedown
I wish you well mate 👍
@@brickrightbuildinglandscaping you too mate. Good video